May 8, 2023 • 42 mins
Becca is still dealing with Hayley’s abscence while on tour, but she says the reason she’s getting her mojo back makes her a total “Tanya”!
Tanya shares the emotional story of visiting her childhood home one last time.
Plus, we find out if Becca or Tanya has ever sucked a toe… you won’t believe why we have to ask!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Scrub dub dub mah.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
We're actually recording this early because by the time this
comes out, it will not be a surprising Moore. But
I'm surprising Haley in Denver.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Oh you're surprising and you were surprising her.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, to do just text her and say something.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
No, okay, no, no, no, but I'm just gonna make
sure Robbie doesn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah please.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah, that's one thing you got to realize. When you
have a best friend and they have a partner, news
get spread quickly.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah, it does. And like he does things, not like
in a sweet way. He comments. He always is like
commenting on maybe text him right now, always commenting on
people's stories, you know, like just.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
You may have already said something. Who knows you're gonna say?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Becca going to see Haley is a surprise FYI.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, so yeah, I'm flying.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So Originally when she left for the US tour, it
was like, Okay, around the two week mark, will be
Denver and she has a day off, so that was
like our plan. But then I was like, you know,
what let's make this fun. So I was like, I
have an event that is like a work. I'm getting
paid to go, so like I can't say no for
(01:21):
real or you told her.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
This, that's why I told her.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh, I said I.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Had an industry event, industry event, and I it was
like good, I was getting paid to go, so I
couldn't say no. So I wasn't gonna be able to go.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
And then like.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Realistically, with her schedule and how it's lined up, we
wouldn't see each other basically till she comes to LA
for her show here, which would be like another two weeks.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, So she was like what.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Like, how are we supposed to go that long? And
I'm like, we can do it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Like I I think she's like triggered from how I
was when she was in Europe. But I'm like, I
feel good, like we're good. You know, I can do it.
I know it's gonna be hard, but we've got this.
But I'm flying around, I'm flying out. And then she
was saying the.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Other day, prize like that, like right now, I feel
like it's very intricate because I feel like, at this point,
you guys have been together for five years. You know
each other's lives, so well you know each other, you
know what I mean, Like, you know what you it's
good that you made up the industry event because.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, you always got a thoroughly industry I can't say
no to those.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
But then the last week she was just saying, She's like,
I miss you so much, but I also just like
really miss my friends. So I'm flying out one of
her best friends with me, so that her friend Monica,
so we're both gonna show up. Wow, so it's gonna
be really fun. And then my youngest sister, Henk, lives
in Denver, so we get to hang out with her.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
But I leave Saturday, okay, buy in Saturday she arrives.
I think their buscuits there like Sunday morning. So I'm
gonna just like figure out how I want to surprise her,
like or do I just send like Monica First, I
don't know, no, because how if she thinks i'mbout the
industry of it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
And then I'm like, no, you know you need to do,
but you just need to somehow somehow get her off
the bus. Okay, get off the bus. Yeah, Okay, get
her off the bus. You sneak into the bus and
just get in her bed and then have somebody get
her back in and be like, oh, can you grab
something from your bathroom or have them I don't know.
You have to figure this. I'm I'm just falling here. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I think when she's off the bus, she's off the bus.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
And then be like, oh my gosh, wait, can you
go grab something? I left something in your bathroom or something,
so she has to go back in and she just
like sees you laying in bed.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Well, I was thinking, oh on the bus.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Vulnerable, great idea, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
I was thinking about messaging her tour manager and getting
her to put my name on her room reservation so
that I could get the key and being in her
room when she comes.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, not even better surprise or anything, just like to
be in there in shocker.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I feel like the crotches fannies just add to the vibe.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah for you, I think your vibe. Share your location.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
No, we don't share our location because because her reasoning
has always been like, what if we want to surprise
each other? And I've always been like, okay, I don't check.
I'm not like Tanya, like I'm not checking your location.
Twenty Tanya uses Fine my Friends as like a social
media app.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh, I use it.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
When I tell you, I probably look at Fine my
Friends a dozen times a day. I'm not even joking.
I look at it constantly.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's such a that's so strange to me.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
First of all, it's really great when you're waiting for somebody,
let's say, at dinner, and they say they're gonna be late,
so it's nice to see like how late they're gonna be.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Never use that.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
You always go what like how long will you, like,
how much longer until you're here? You never just check
it first, and then you'll be like, oh wait, wait, yeah,
but you always ask first.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I forget to have it at my fingertips.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
And it's it's nice on the daily, like when I'm
trying to see when Robbie's gonna get home so I
can like make sure I I mean, I don't really
have I don't really much, but when I am the
off chance I am making dinner, so I can make
sure that, like dinner's ready.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
That feels like an excuse of having someone's uh location,
but not really having a good reason of needing it.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I think that's a great reason you just said. I
don't like to just like at random points the day.
I just like to see where people are.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Okay, Yeah, I don't feel that. I The only.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Time I like, really used it consistently is when my
both my younger sisters lived with me, and it would
be like two am, and I'm like.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Where there are? Do you never look at see where
I am?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I know where you are most of the time. You're
pretty consistent with your routine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Oh that's so sad.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, well, you're you're in a routine wisely a what.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
You're in a very committed routine in your life.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Where I know where your spots are?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Yeah, you're a home.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Yeah, you're either work at the Higheart studio or at
your choice of Why do I call that where you
live but don't live?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, my like temporary housing, her temporary housing. Although I
would like to say that we made no no, no, no, no,
nothing crazy. We made May goals for like the month
of May, and one of my goals was to finally
finish cleaning out that front room that I can move
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my studio into.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
That's a big deal.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
It's a big deal, and I've kind of just been like, yes,
I've been waiting on certain things to happen, but also
like I should there's so much stuff in there that
I need to organize still, so I've just been kind
of like dragging my feet and having having bigger priorities.
But I decided in the month of May that I'm
gonna clean it out so it's clean and I'm going
to paint the walls. What color white? Oh, it's like
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blue in there.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Oh yeah, just going first standard.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
It's really just gonna like clean it out, make it
nice and fresh and clean.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Great.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, I'm proud of you. I feel like that's the
big move for you. Yeah, it's been like in the
works for a while now.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
It's been in the works for a while now. Tis
But I will say if, oh, I went to my parents'
house last weekend, because yeah, they're moved out of my
childhood home, and watching them go through that has not
made me, let me tell you, has not made me
excited about the idea of moving and doing all that
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kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
It's very laborious. It's very laborious and tedious.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No matter how much help like you have, whether you
hire movers, packers, whatever, it is still laborious.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Right, and even when you hire movers, you still have
to unpack and somehow organize your stuff. Like I can't
just unpack and just go rogue, you know what I mean,
Like I have to have a system in place.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
You could just like hire Life in General to just
like come in and be like, here's where everything is.
They just do it for you in the most like
efficient way.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I'm kind of in like the purging era of my life.
So right now, I think for the next like year
and a half, I want to like purge and then
when I end up in my like final destination home,
then I want to hire. Then I want to hired
Life in General to come and like set me up.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Okay, so stay tuned for a year and a half.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah, yeah, that's kind of my timeline. I'm looking at
year and a half two years my final destiny.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
So you have things planned out so far in advance.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
That's how I roll, baby, Okay, So, but I wanted
to talk about, uh, moving out of going to see
my childhood home for the last time. Yeah, what's that.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
I didn't have a.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I didn't really have a child like I had my
childhood home, but I was young when we moved out
of it, so I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Have like attachment to it, right, I'm not gonna lie.
I did not expect to be like crying all weekend.
And the minute we drove up to the house and
I saw the Soul sign in the front, I just started,
like I lost it. I just lost it. And then
walking in seeing like my old bedroom completely empty with
nothing in it, and I just started having like all
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these memories of like and I was telling Robbie, like
this is the I had like this little shh like
I'm not a shed because it wasn't a shed. It
was like this like random little like drawer outside the
outside of my bedroom. And I kept all my like
secret stuff in there, like I didn't want my parents
to find. Like I always used to steal razors when
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my sister and my mom would be like done with them,
they threw them in the trash. I would take them
out of the trash and like shave my legs because
my parents wound let me shave my legs when like
everybody else started shaving their legs. So I'd steal their
razors and I had like dry shave, but I would
like hide them and say, I know, I will let
my children shave whenever they want.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah, I've always that was always such an interesting conversation,
the learning to shape.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Yeah, but that's besides the point. But anyways, I was
like showing him and then I went through kind of
all the places that I used to eat, and I
went back to my high school, and like every step
along the way, I'm just crying. So how long?
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Like what age did you move into the house?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
I was born? There?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Are you serious?
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Uh huh? I was born?
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Why did they sell it?
Speaker 1 (10:26):
I know, because it just didn't make sense because I'm
in La and my siblings are in San Diego, so
they're kind of in the middle, and they don't get
to see any of us that often because they're too
far away to just like go to lunch, you know
what I mean. But they're not close enough to no
I mean on the regular, like multiple times, you know
what I mean, Like they don't live down the street,
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and so they kind of were just like, why are
we in this house when like our kids are so
not so conveniced. So basically what they did is they
moved their walking distance from like my siblings. Basically that's great.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
So you get the shop because technically they're further from you.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Know, correct, which I know it kind of sucks, but
they are going to eventually get a place in la
like an apartment or something, so they can kind of
live in both places and the time comes that I
need need them closer. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like that. I didn't realize that
was your like literally birthplace.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, like all my birthdays I had in the backyard.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
That's crazy, Every.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Like childhood memory I had was like in this house,
we should have bought it.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
We should have all just pitched in and bought it
to keep it.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
To keep it in the family. Yeah, I know, it's
really like it was really really hard for me. And
then also seeing like my parents having to deal with
that was really emotional and like hard too. And yeah,
it was very emotional. I was not expecting.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
That. Well, I'm glad you got to go and like
like share that with Robbie and like experience that, because
you know, if they lived in like a different state
or something, it'd be like, oh no, like I don't
know if I can go back and have that moment
in that space, you know.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Yeah, So it's nice that you got to have that.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Yeah, it was fun because like, all they moved a
bunch of stuff already, so like we're trying to he
was trying to like make drinks and my parents didn't
have any of their like shakers or anything, so we
were just like making do with what we had and
it was fun.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
That's really cool.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, showing Sonny around, I was like, Sonny, this is
where your mom went to high school.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
To get it.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, oh yeah, of course she's really smart.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I need to talk about her jumping at the TV
like with animals on the TV, and it is.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Hilarious, but like what do you what do you do
for that?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
It's can I tell you something?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
So?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
And I'm probably gonna get a lot of mean messages
about this. I might have to get her a shot caller,
because we've tried are you looking at are you judging me? Oh,
we've tried everything to get her to stop doing this,
and like uh, I reached to a trainer and they said,
anytime she barks the TV, to just put her outside
the room, close the door and then make her like sit, stay,
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be calm, and then like let her back in. We've
done that hundreds of times and she just goes right
back to barking at the TV. And you didn't realize
how many animals are on the TV until your dog
barks at it because it is constant. So that was
one thing we tried. It didn't work. Tried it for
several months. Then I also got a recommendation from another
trainer to just leave like, do you know the channel
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Lucky Dog that's just like dogs on the TV twenty
four to seven. No, so we leave Lucky Dog on
the TV all day long when she's home so that
she just gets used to it and she'll just like
become numb, I guess. Yeah, So we would leave it
on all day every day, Lucky Dog, Dogs on the
TV all day long. Nothing did nothing, but she jumps
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the whole day, the whole time. No, she would like
take breaks, like if there's commercials and stuff, and then
she just keep going. She jumps so high it's like
it's kind of concerning.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah, well, I think the shot collar they have like
a setting that's just vibration buzz.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Yeah, we're just like the thought of doing that to her, Like,
I don't think I can actually do it, but at
this point I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know I've I've never dealt with
that issue, so it's so funny when you post. But
I'm also like, oh my gosh, this is driv means
I imagine at.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
The end of the day too, when you're in bed,
you're so tired and you're just like just put TV
on to just plea and she's just a maniac.
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Yeah, she's wild.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I watched the Ed Cheran documentary. It's on Disney Plus.
I I've always loved Ed cheering. I love him.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Really, I just need to watch it. Yes, it's so
good and he's just gonna make me cry.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
It's emotional, but it's not like I mean, you know,
documentaries get you in your fields.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
But his wife is so cool.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Like I didn't know anything about his wife and like
what I pictured because they don't talk. I mean that's
they've kept their relationship private. But in the documentary, he's like,
I can't remember how he words it, but it was
so sweet along the lines of like my wife, Cherry's
like the best thing. Take away everything I've accomplished in
my work. She's the best thing that's ever happened in
my life. Like just the sweetest and they're they were
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high school. They knew each other from like a really
young age. Yeah, but yeah, he's just so sweet and
humble and talented and like confident, Like he has this
like confidence where like he was at this festival thing.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
You always gotta take it there, huh.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I just quite confident, like he's at he's at like
this festival and he's like, I'm just gonna go ask
if I can go on stage and sing, and like
the confidence to just like know that they're probably gonna
be like, yeah, of course, but I think what festival?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
So I'm like it was like a I want to say,
like Irish or Scottish type futile okay, and yeah, I
just really I have two more episodes.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
There's four. They're like thirty minutes each.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
Oh, it's like a it's a series like the docuseries
cocky series.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
But you know what I realized is that, you know
how I can't get into any shows. Like I tried
to watch Jerry Duty, and I was just like this,
what what am I missing?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
That concerns me because I love Jerry Duty. But I
feel the same way. This whole week, I've been trying
to get into different shows and I just like can't do.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
It interesting because you typically don't have that problem.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Yeah, and I was watching stuff that's like way at
my Alley, like Perfect Match hosted by Nick Lache. It's
like all these stresses. I get it. It's like all
these former what would you reality stars coming back to
find love.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Yeah, I know. I tried to watch it myself.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
I thought I was gonna love it. I was like,
and then I know all these people from the mole
Love is blind, like too hot to handle. I knew
all the people there. I was like, this is gonna
be my show. And I was watching it and I was like,
this is very bad.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
So then I went back to Shrinking, which everybody raves about.
I don't know that one Shrinking. It's on Apple TV
Plus with Jason Siegel and Harrison Ford.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
I have no idea.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Okay, well, everybody's like raving about that show, so I
go check that out, not feeling into it. So then
I leave that started watching The Diplomat that everybody's raving
about with what's her name Felicity? What's really Carrie Russell
was not into that. I went back to Shrinking to
give that another shot. Kept not in the game. That
then I watched the Lewis Capaldi documentary.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
You didn't like it.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
It wasn't into that back to shrinking.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, well maybe you're just having like hard to focusing. Yeah, yeah,
because I love a documentary, Like I can really get.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
The Lewis Capaldi documentary. I think I was not paying
attention to it. I don't think.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Yeah, I mean documentaries, especially it's about a singer.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
It's easy to kind of like get distracted if you
let yourself, you.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Know, Yeah, because like there's only so like you're they're.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Just following their lives, so it's not like it's gonna
be like mind blowing action.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:03):
But have you watched Firefly Lane? Because everyone talks about that.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
So that was recommended to me the most out of
any TV show. But everybody says they cry every week,
and I'm just like not in the place where I
can be crying a lot right now, you know, I'm
like emotionally fragile, So I don't think it's the time
for me to start.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
That, Okay, but in due time.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
In due time.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Yeah, everybody loves it. Yeah, everyone raves about it. I've
gotten a lot of messages about it too, Like have
you watched it.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Yeah, no, no, but that cheering documentary. Okay, that's good.
I'll watch it this weekend.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
I loved it. Let's take a break.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
And we'll be back with more where this came from.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
All right, we're back. Okay.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
So the Gala happened last well earlier this week, whatever
day this last week. And do you know what it
is about the met galat that someone posted about that
said the mech like, have you seen the comparisons of
like the met Gala to like the Hunger Games. No,
it's so freaky, because someone was saying, like, we're in
like a crisis in America. People can't afford to eat,
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can't afford housing. And then it's like this like rich,
like elite group of people that are like dressed in
these like crazy outfits at this event.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Oh that's right.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
I know. I was like, it's kind of think about it.
I know, it's scary. And then the guy that was
like part one of the leaders in the AI world left.
Did you see that?
Speaker 1 (19:45):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
It freaks me out. Can't talk about it too much.
And I'm also not like informed enough to like have
an educational like.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
A I got into all the AI stuff I don't
want the Snapchat AI friend. I don't want chat GPT.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Yeah, well it's happening, like whether we want or not.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I think that's the scary part is like even the
guy who was like part of the like leaders in
creating it is like stepped away from it.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I'm like terrified that people aren't even gonna want to
be in like relationships with other humans anymore, because if
you think about it, I was actually reading this article
about sex robots. Have you heard about sex robots?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
No?
Speaker 1 (20:20):
I think that there are some people that are so
plagued by the idea of like getting on a dating
app and like meeting people. You know that people have
a lot of anxiety around especially I think the pandemic
made it even worse where people are more fearful to
like meet, And I think that it's going to get
to a place where people just have relationships with these
like sex robots, because they're going.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
To make them so lifelike now where they have like
intimate relate like connections.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
With you, Yeah, have dinner with you.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
I just don't know that I want to be around
for this, Like no, seriously, I was thinking about this
because you know, there's like sists and people who are
like are preparing for like an apocalypse or whatever, and
they like they have like bunkers and stuff or like
to survive. Yeah, I don't want to be like I'm
not trying to fight to be here. Yeah, like I'm
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not trying to fight apocalypse apocalypse.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yeah, I don't know this stuff or that whatever you're
talking about. Robot revolution is really scared freaking me out.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
You feeling like you're gonna get replaced.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
No, I'm safe, but I'm worried for the younger generation.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
No, Seriously, it's like, are people gonna be able to
form like genuine real connections to people?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Like relationships are hard? Man.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Yeah, But I.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
Mean that's if you went to that route, you could
just be like why dates why to anyone?
Speaker 1 (21:48):
That's what I'm saying. That's why things gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
And that they're just gonna get their fulfilled, like.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
They're robots, their physical needs, their emotional connection needs, like
what else this robot not gonna have an opinion?
Speaker 4 (22:02):
You know?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
Oh yeah, they're not gonna be able to argue.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
They're not going to tell you how to spend your Saturday.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Well that's what you think until have you seen the
Disney movie Smart House? No, well, she turned on her owners.
It's so freaky, like genuinely scares me. And I can't
think about it too much. But wait, I was gonna say, oh,
you know what I've had like this shift in my
(22:27):
mind about compared to how I was a couple of
weeks ago. Yeah, and I don't know what this where
the shift happened, but I have never Okay, can I
be honest what I think it is?
Speaker 1 (22:38):
What you got your mojo back?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
I'm working on it.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
My nails did get done, that's not Unfortunately, it wasn't
that easy. I've been eating healthier and exercising every day
and I think it's helped with my like mental clarity
like everything.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Yeah, it's amazing.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
It's crazy, and like I'm not I'm not like, oh,
I'll never eat the things that I like again, but
it is shocking to see how different I feel. And
I've found that very interesting. But so I think that
was a big part of it. But someone I posted
a TikTok that said it was something about like it
(23:23):
was a sound, and I just posted, like when you
accidentally manifest a long distance relationship because you like your
alone time and now you're dating. And people were like,
it's it's more like split custody beca like we'll give
her back, and I'm like, yeah, it is, that's so true.
They were like sharing our parent or a child. I
(23:47):
don't know, split custody way. So I've had that mindset,
happy to happy to let her go and entertain the masses.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, and you do your thing.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I do my thing. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Wow. It does really like impact a lot. I do
find that I generally eat clean and I eat like
from the earth, and I try to work out. But
I did like there were moments where like a lot
of time would go by and I hadn't worked out
in a really long time. When I'm on a routine
and a schedule, i do feel I'm sleeping good, I'm
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drinking a lot of water. I feel like I'm firing
at all cylinders.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I'm not sleeping great. Well, I'm like falling asleep and
then I'm not. I'm like up all throughout the night.
So I haven't cracked that code yet.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Yeah, but baby steps, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Yeah, one thing at a time at a time, I.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Will say, though, too, I'm on another mission because I
asked I wanted to have James Marson because we're obsessed
with Jerry Duty. So I really wanted to have James
Marsin on the podcast, and we gotta know, we.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Gotta yeah, we got denied. We got to people from
Jerry Duty.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So I went on the Morning Show with Ryan. I
went Honor with Ryan Seacrest, and I told Ryan I
wanted James Marson on my podcast. He said no, can
we have him on the Morning Show? And He's like, sure,
So James Marson comes on. But it was a couple
of days in between. And I also like, when it's
on the morning show, I don't want it. I don't
want to like take over and like say anything inappropriate
(25:16):
in an interview. So I didn't know if I should
go there. And I think at that point everybody else
kind of just like forgot, and I'm really upset. I
did not take the opportunity to be like, hey, James Marson,
because we had like kind of a fun exchange. I
really want to have you on my podcast, but he
said no, can you please come on my podcast?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
That would have been so epic. I know that felt
like a beckon may of that you didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
I was thinking about it, but I didn't want to
be like inappropriate. But I'm not giving up because I
think his publicist knows Robbie because she messaged him and
was like, you were just brought up in this interview
with Ryan and Tanya and Da da da da, and
he goes, yeah, he nagged her on her podcast and
she was, oh, sorry, I think that was me. So
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I'm like, maybe if we have enough scrubbers, reach out
to James Marsden or I don't know how we're going
to go about this, but I'm not just hanging my
hat up on this.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Yeah, well that's you. Don't You're not a hat hanger.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
No, no, So Patrick Dempsey and James Marsden are still
in the twenty twenty three bucket list.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I gotta say, James Marston is like such a beautiful man.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
You know What's interesting. I feel like he does not
get the credit that he deserves as he's a major
mega star. He's been in so many movies, but I
feel like he's not a name, Like.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Yeah, he's not. He's not like a broad note Because.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
We've been talking about Jury Duty and I'm like, yeah,
it's got James Marsden and people like who's James Marsden.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
I know, it's kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Weird, Yeah, because he's been in so many big movies,
like big movies, name Some Notebook, Yes, Enchanted, Yes, Guardians
of the Galaxy.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
I'm just kidding, but he's in a.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Movie yeah, yeah, no song, He's in Sonic, Oh, son
Sonic Favorite, Disenchanted. He was Dead to Me, he was
in twenty seven Dresses.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
Yeah, he's been in a lot of movies that like
are big movies.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Yeah, and Dead to Me was a massive show a
couple of years ago.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
Yeah, I know, it's it is weird.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
I was just thinking that because I just watched the
first episode and I was like, he's so handsome, Like
he's like so classically handsome.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Okay, switching gears. Did you have anything else said to that?
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah, So any if anybody knows James Marsen or knows
somebody that knows James Marsden, and.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
You do you know his publicist.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Or Robbie to get on it.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
That's that's the only that's.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
The biggest connect that we're probably gonna have, unless someone's
married to James Marsden.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Yeah, if he has a secret wife out there, actually
know nothing about his personal life, like truly, like he
could have a lot of kids and a wife. I
have no idea, but if anybody, yeah, I'm gonna I'm
gonna put I'm gonna get Rob back on the job.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Yeah, you need to assign that to him.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
Yeah that does feel like our key, but I'm saying
that's the publicist. If anybody knows James mars day, okay,
a personal relationship.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
And listen to this podcast with these two girls, I
love you they weren't.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Yeah, yeah, but then you have to watch Jerry Duty
and like really.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Kind I know I heard it.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
It takes a couple episodes before like you gotta like
set the scene or whatever.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
I haven't laughed that hard in a very long time.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
That makes me nervous because lasso, yeah, and other things.
But so yesterday I went to hot pilates and it's
so freaking hot in there that like you don't want
to be too close to anybody because it's already just
hot and stuffy, so you're like try to set your space.
So I got there early enough where I had like
I was against the wall and the next person closest
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to me was like a good distance. Well, as this
class starts to get fuller, this guy comes and puts
his mat in between us, and so we're like it's close,
and I'm like no, but like I get it, you know,
you have to just find the space. But then I
couldn't see the instructor because his legs were blocking her,
so like I kept having to sit up to see.
(29:11):
So I was just like he did nothing to me,
but like he did everything to me, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
You know, workout classes are so funny because so I
do berries a lot, and in the pandemic, they spaced
everything out. So like normally what you do is you
share a treadmill and you share a floor and you
just like flip flop and how they kind of pack
everybody in. But because of the pandemic, they spaced everything out.
They did them in parking lots, and you had your
own treadmill and your own thing, and it was like
(29:38):
an oasis. It was just luxury right in a parking lot.
But now that we're out of it, like everything's back
indoors now and I'm sharing my space with like these sweaty,
sweaty men and like it's fine if you sweat. I
sweat too, and I drip on the floor and I
take the wipes and I clean my thing. I don't
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know what it is about. I'm not going to generalize
and say all men, but the men that the two
men that I've shared stations with, it's like they are
Niagara falls and they're not even touching it. They're not
even wiping it down. They're not even using their towel
to wipe it. I'm like, I'm gonna put my hands
and my like body on top of this. This is
so gross. So I'm sitting there like spending two minutes
(30:22):
wiping down each round. There's they're sweat off the mirror,
off the floor.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Okay, so you get it.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Well. Then so you do hot plates barefoot or I
guess all plates.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Barefoot all or like yoga everything kind of like yeah, And.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
I'm already just annoyed because like I've I've had to
like sit up because he's blocking the teacher, and like
if you miss what she's saying, it goes so fast
that if you miss like what she's telling you to do,
you kind of like miss that exercise.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
Then I look over towards the.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
End and we're like doing abs and his toes are
like tense and like spread, and I.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Was just like, ugh, I got like the ick.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
But it like I wonder if, like I just need
to know from two Hanna's in here too, two straight women.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Who are like fully straight. Yeah, do men's feet give
you the ick?
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Or like yes, I don't want to see a man's foot,
like the sandals are meant for the beach and quite
frankly not even there if you can avoid it and
like throw on some toms or something. I hate sandals
on men's feet. I cannot stand them. And Hannah is
shaking her head in a greance, so.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
You understand that like seeing a man, because I'm.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Sure all of our feet looked like that, like your
tents and like trying to hold the apposition, but like
his feet specifically, I was like, no, like you need
to have socks on, Like I even think that if
Jesus was walking amongst.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Me, I'd be like, you gotta clean those up.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
No, well, you gotta get some closed toe shoes on
those bad boys.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
And I love Robbie's feet. I think he's gorgeous feet.
They're very Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
This kind was like like he was like a good
looking guy. I felt like he was clean his.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
Feet or an extension of his hands. You know, they're
pretty great, Okay, and I still don't see them like, wow, yeah,
speaks some volumes I don't want. I don't like him
flipping around and flip flops.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
I was talking about this on my Instagram live last night,
and I was like, like, imagine you get home from
a long day and like your husband or boyfriend just
like throws his feet on your lap.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
What are you doing? And one girl was like, I.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
Mean, I love my husband, so like, I wouldn't mind
if you put him on there, but I'm not trying
to touch.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Yeah, that's the thing. Like it, I wouldn't mind. I
do like his feet.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
You'd give him like a little massage.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Yeah, Oh have you sucked his toes before? No?
Speaker 3 (32:53):
Okay, but I would like.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Sure, why not? You know?
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
On that note, we're going to take a break and
we'll be back with emails. All right, we are back.
This is back to old times me reading the emails. Yeah, okay,
(33:26):
this is from anonymous guys. I'm devastated. My dad just
admitted he had a sexual relationship with someone for the
last few months. My mom and him have been married
for forty years. I am completely shocked and I don't
know where to go from here.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Well, that's a lot in two sentences.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
That's really horrible, horrible situation.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
And I'm so sorry that you're navigating this, and I'm
so sad and sorry for your mom that she's having
to navigate this. I genuinely cannot imagine being with someone for.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
That long and having that type of betrayal.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
No, I would be if I were your mom, I
would be very not Well.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Yes, yeah, I think that obviously this is a horrible
time for your family in general, but I think that
you and your mom need to just, you know, lean
into each other. And I don't know if you have siblings,
but like really just like be there for each other.
But you know, I think maybe you need to find
(34:35):
comfort and support from your friends and people close to
you and have something so you can give to your
mom because this is going to be just like a
horrible time for her.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
And I don't know what the situation is.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I don't know if she's gonna stay forgive him and
stay with him, but she's gonna need a lot of
support and strength, and that not saying that's all on you,
but just saying like where you can give to her,
like give to her because it's very I can't e
I genuinely I can't imagine because I've been with Haley
for five years and if she betrayed me like that,
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it would be horrible.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
This would be Yeah, I can't I'm so so sorry.
I would try and if your mom is trying to
stay with him, I would try and encourage her to
not stay with him, because I really I'm a firm
believer in character, and to me, somebody that's going to
do that after forty years of marriage does not have character.
Speaker 3 (35:32):
And we don't know the whole situation.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Like I know, you know Lauren Kennedy, her parent, Jason's wife, Yeah,
they have. Her parents went through a divorce. I think
there was an affair or something and they got back together.
They were able to heal their marriage. So I don't
think it's impossible, but I think you should encourage your
mom to maybe go I don't know if she's in therapy,
but like talk to someone and they obviously will need
(35:58):
to go through a lot together, I think. But I
think you just need to support her. If your dad
is like not.
Speaker 1 (36:05):
If he's just like, I can't tell you how we
don't know. I can't tell if he's sorry and he's
like feels bad, or if he's.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Just saying like I'm bagging with this person.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
Yeah, but either way, I really don't like him honestly.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Sorry, Yeah, he sucks for that.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
So I wish you the best, and I hope that
you and your mom are able to find like peace
and healing and honestly forgiveness eventually, because I think that's
that's really how you heal from things and you're able
to move on. This is also anonymous engagement advice. I
(36:43):
have been with my boyfriend for over a year and
a half. In the conversations we have had about our
relationship moving forward, we have been vague with the timeline,
but he has indicated that an engagement would likely happen
this year. I love him and would say yes if
he proposed today. Here's the thing I can just tell.
He is the type to not ask what type of
ring i'd want. He knows I want yellow gold. He
(37:04):
bought me a nice necklace for Christmas that was yellow
gold and said he had noticed I really only wear
yellow gold, and I told him, Yes, I strongly prefer it.
I also feel very strongly that I do not want
a halo. Those are so popular right now that I'm
scared he'd go for something like that. I also have
a few cuts I highly prefer to others. My sister
and I share a note on our phone that has
(37:24):
our ring side slash what we want for our ring.
Should I mention to him that we share that so
that when he is thinking about buying a ring, he
can go to her and not ruin the surprise. Should
I even bring up anything at all? I don't want
him to think I'm trying to pressure him into proposing sooner.
I wish I could say I'm one of those girls
that would be happy with anything, but if I have
to wear it for the rest of my life, I
want to like it. I'm so scared he will just
(37:46):
pick something random out.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
This is so funny, been there. I think you can
express things that you like to your significant other without
telling them exactly what to get, and also encourage them
(38:12):
to like. Run it by friends of yours.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
I was gonna say, maybe your sister reaches out to
him and says, hey, just to give.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Your heads up. She's so picky about what she wants.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
I wanted to like, I want you to just like
know what she's liking, just so you can go off
of an idea.
Speaker 1 (38:30):
I don't like the thought of somebody reaching out to him.
I think he should reach out to I don't.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
I think she's worried he's not going on I know.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
But if he doesn't, then he doesn't. We have to
figure out different ways. So I don't know if you
vision board anonymous, but putting Vivian photos of the rings
that you like on different several vision boards might stick
with him. When you guys are like window shopping and
stuff you can express like I really don't like it. Hey,
I feel like there's ways to drop hints about stuff
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that maybe he'll pick up on. And I do think
you just have to trust him at the end of
the day, because also he's not gonna just pick something
random out, you think.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
So I think, yeah, I think that could go wrong
if she just trusts that he's gonna do Yes.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Here's what I think.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Why not just be direct and say, hey, I am
so ready to say yes to you whenever you're ready.
I don't want there to be any pressure, but I
do want I have rings in mind that I've dreamed
of my whole life. And my sister and I share
a notes file, so if you have any questions about
what I want, you can text her and ask her.
And I also want it to be from you, but
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just so you have an idea of what I like.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Yeah, I feel like I've done that in various ways.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Yeah, I feel like like expressed what I like what
I don't like, but I've never said exactly what i want.
I've just like showed pictures.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
He's seen photos, just like give him an idea of
what you're leaning towards. Yeah, And I think that sometimes
we feel so scared to be direct, But why not
be direct?
Speaker 3 (40:01):
You know what you want? What a what a gift that.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
You know what you want or don't want, and you
can just share it with him without saying like I
need this like tomorrow. You're just saying, like, hey, when
the time comes right, this is what I'm looking for. Yeah,
Or you can ask my sister what I'm looking for
because she knows if you want it to be a
full sup.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Yes, I don't think having other parties reach out to
him is the move.
Speaker 2 (40:24):
Yeah, so but exciting congratulations, very exciting for your future
engagement proposal. Well, folks, that'll be all By the time
this comes out. I will be in Denver, Colorado.
Speaker 3 (40:41):
Oh yes, Haley Kyoko show.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Also yeah, and if you see Becca there, give her
a shout out, send give her some loves, Give her
some loves. Today. Actually, May sixth is the most romantic
day of the year.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
No, that's Saturday. I don't think we're going to be out.
I don't think this podcast.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
Oh wait what no Saturday. No, then that's wrong. It's
not May sixth, it's the eighth. So yeah, yeah, it's
the eighth. Eighth.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Oh, it's the most romantic day of the year.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
I Robbie brought it up to me. He goes, So
May eighth is the most romantic day of the year
on the calendar, And I'm like, this definitely came from
me at some point, Like I probably talked about this
on the morning show. It's like some zodiac thing. It
had to have been because it was like in his calendar. Yeah,
so he's like planning a date night.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
That is so cute. I know. But regardless of where
he heard that from, that sure.
Speaker 1 (41:32):
Was something I had said to him and he put
in his calendar because there's no he that's so not him.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Yeah, so he's planning a date. Yeah, actually ready at
six fifteen.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Well, I can't wait to hear about it.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
And I'm gonna be ready if you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
Oh yeah, right, yeah that's right, hair done all right?
Speaker 4 (41:53):
You know.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
No, I'm gonna go like chill girl these days. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:58):
Well, thanks changed day to day.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Yeah, we gotta really tune in and see what's happening
because things change like the wind.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
Well, I hope you all have a super romantic day,
even if you treat yourself.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
Yeah, that's the best type of love, right, oh, self
soothing is so love?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
Yes, all right, we love you all, and we love
you back next week.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
Yes, we will love you bye, love you bye,
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Scrub dub dub mah.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
We're actually recording this early because by the time this
comes out, it will not be a surprising Moore. But
I'm surprising Haley in Denver.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Oh you're surprising and you were surprising her.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, to do just text her and say something.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
No, okay, no, no, no, but I'm just gonna make
sure Robbie doesn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah please.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah, that's one thing you got to realize. When you
have a best friend and they have a partner, news
get spread quickly.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah, it does. And like he does things, not like
in a sweet way. He comments. He always is like
commenting on maybe text him right now, always commenting on
people's stories, you know, like just.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
You may have already said something. Who knows you're gonna say?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Becca going to see Haley is a surprise FYI.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, so yeah, I'm flying.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
So Originally when she left for the US tour, it
was like, Okay, around the two week mark, will be
Denver and she has a day off, so that was
like our plan. But then I was like, you know,
what let's make this fun. So I was like, I
have an event that is like a work. I'm getting
paid to go, so like I can't say no for
(01:21):
real or you told her.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
This, that's why I told her.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh, I said I.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Had an industry event, industry event, and I it was
like good, I was getting paid to go, so I
couldn't say no. So I wasn't gonna be able to go.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
And then like.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Realistically, with her schedule and how it's lined up, we
wouldn't see each other basically till she comes to LA
for her show here, which would be like another two weeks.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah, So she was like what.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Like, how are we supposed to go that long? And
I'm like, we can do it.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Like I I think she's like triggered from how I
was when she was in Europe. But I'm like, I
feel good, like we're good. You know, I can do it.
I know it's gonna be hard, but we've got this.
But I'm flying around, I'm flying out. And then she
was saying the.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Other day, prize like that, like right now, I feel
like it's very intricate because I feel like, at this point,
you guys have been together for five years. You know
each other's lives, so well you know each other, you
know what I mean, Like, you know what you it's
good that you made up the industry event because.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah, you always got a thoroughly industry I can't say
no to those.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
But then the last week she was just saying, She's like,
I miss you so much, but I also just like
really miss my friends. So I'm flying out one of
her best friends with me, so that her friend Monica,
so we're both gonna show up. Wow, so it's gonna
be really fun. And then my youngest sister, Henk, lives
in Denver, so we get to hang out with her.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
So it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
But I leave Saturday, okay, buy in Saturday she arrives.
I think their buscuits there like Sunday morning. So I'm
gonna just like figure out how I want to surprise her,
like or do I just send like Monica First, I
don't know, no, because how if she thinks i'mbout the
industry of it?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
And then I'm like, no, you know you need to do,
but you just need to somehow somehow get her off
the bus. Okay, get off the bus. Yeah, Okay, get
her off the bus. You sneak into the bus and
just get in her bed and then have somebody get
her back in and be like, oh, can you grab
something from your bathroom or have them I don't know.
You have to figure this. I'm I'm just falling here. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I think when she's off the bus, she's off the bus.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
And then be like, oh my gosh, wait, can you
go grab something? I left something in your bathroom or something,
so she has to go back in and she just
like sees you laying in bed.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Well, I was thinking, oh on the bus.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Vulnerable, great idea, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
I was thinking about messaging her tour manager and getting
her to put my name on her room reservation so
that I could get the key and being in her
room when she comes.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, not even better surprise or anything, just like to
be in there in shocker.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I feel like the crotches fannies just add to the vibe.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah for you, I think your vibe. Share your location.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
No, we don't share our location because because her reasoning
has always been like, what if we want to surprise
each other? And I've always been like, okay, I don't check.
I'm not like Tanya, like I'm not checking your location.
Twenty Tanya uses Fine my Friends as like a social
media app.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Oh, I use it.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
When I tell you, I probably look at Fine my
Friends a dozen times a day. I'm not even joking.
I look at it constantly.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's such a that's so strange to me.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
First of all, it's really great when you're waiting for somebody,
let's say, at dinner, and they say they're gonna be late,
so it's nice to see like how late they're gonna be.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Never use that.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
You always go what like how long will you, like,
how much longer until you're here? You never just check
it first, and then you'll be like, oh wait, wait, yeah,
but you always ask first.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I forget to have it at my fingertips.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
And it's it's nice on the daily, like when I'm
trying to see when Robbie's gonna get home so I
can like make sure I I mean, I don't really
have I don't really much, but when I am the
off chance I am making dinner, so I can make
sure that, like dinner's ready.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
That feels like an excuse of having someone's uh location,
but not really having a good reason of needing it.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I think that's a great reason you just said. I
don't like to just like at random points the day.
I just like to see where people are.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Okay, Yeah, I don't feel that. I The only.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Time I like, really used it consistently is when my
both my younger sisters lived with me, and it would
be like two am, and I'm like.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Where there are? Do you never look at see where
I am?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I know where you are most of the time. You're
pretty consistent with your routine.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Oh that's so sad.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yeah, well, you're you're in a routine wisely a what.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
You're in a very committed routine in your life.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (05:56):
Where I know where your spots are?
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Yeah, you're a home.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Yeah, you're either work at the Higheart studio or at
your choice of Why do I call that where you
live but don't live?
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Yeah, my like temporary housing, her temporary housing. Although I
would like to say that we made no no, no, no, no,
nothing crazy. We made May goals for like the month
of May, and one of my goals was to finally
finish cleaning out that front room that I can move
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my studio into.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
That's a big deal.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
It's a big deal, and I've kind of just been like, yes,
I've been waiting on certain things to happen, but also
like I should there's so much stuff in there that
I need to organize still, so I've just been kind
of like dragging my feet and having having bigger priorities.
But I decided in the month of May that I'm
gonna clean it out so it's clean and I'm going
to paint the walls. What color white? Oh, it's like
(06:57):
blue in there.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Oh yeah, just going first standard.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
It's really just gonna like clean it out, make it
nice and fresh and clean.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Great.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
Yeah, I'm proud of you. I feel like that's the
big move for you. Yeah, it's been like in the
works for a while now.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
It's been in the works for a while now. Tis
But I will say if, oh, I went to my parents'
house last weekend, because yeah, they're moved out of my
childhood home, and watching them go through that has not
made me, let me tell you, has not made me
excited about the idea of moving and doing all that
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kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
It's very laborious. It's very laborious and tedious.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
No matter how much help like you have, whether you
hire movers, packers, whatever, it is still laborious.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Right, and even when you hire movers, you still have
to unpack and somehow organize your stuff. Like I can't
just unpack and just go rogue, you know what I mean,
Like I have to have a system in place.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
You could just like hire Life in General to just
like come in and be like, here's where everything is.
They just do it for you in the most like
efficient way.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I'm kind of in like the purging era of my life.
So right now, I think for the next like year
and a half, I want to like purge and then
when I end up in my like final destination home,
then I want to hire. Then I want to hired
Life in General to come and like set me up.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Okay, so stay tuned for a year and a half.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah, yeah, that's kind of my timeline. I'm looking at
year and a half two years my final destiny.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
So you have things planned out so far in advance.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
That's how I roll, baby, Okay, So, but I wanted
to talk about, uh, moving out of going to see
my childhood home for the last time. Yeah, what's that.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
I didn't have a.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I didn't really have a child like I had my
childhood home, but I was young when we moved out
of it, so I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Have like attachment to it, right, I'm not gonna lie.
I did not expect to be like crying all weekend.
And the minute we drove up to the house and
I saw the Soul sign in the front, I just started,
like I lost it. I just lost it. And then
walking in seeing like my old bedroom completely empty with
nothing in it, and I just started having like all
(09:17):
these memories of like and I was telling Robbie, like
this is the I had like this little shh like
I'm not a shed because it wasn't a shed. It
was like this like random little like drawer outside the
outside of my bedroom. And I kept all my like
secret stuff in there, like I didn't want my parents
to find. Like I always used to steal razors when
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my sister and my mom would be like done with them,
they threw them in the trash. I would take them
out of the trash and like shave my legs because
my parents wound let me shave my legs when like
everybody else started shaving their legs. So I'd steal their
razors and I had like dry shave, but I would
like hide them and say, I know, I will let
my children shave whenever they want.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah, I've always that was always such an interesting conversation,
the learning to shape.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Yeah, but that's besides the point. But anyways, I was
like showing him and then I went through kind of
all the places that I used to eat, and I
went back to my high school, and like every step
along the way, I'm just crying. So how long?
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Like what age did you move into the house?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
I was born? There?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Are you serious?
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Uh huh? I was born?
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Why did they sell it?
Speaker 1 (10:26):
I know, because it just didn't make sense because I'm
in La and my siblings are in San Diego, so
they're kind of in the middle, and they don't get
to see any of us that often because they're too
far away to just like go to lunch, you know
what I mean. But they're not close enough to no
I mean on the regular, like multiple times, you know
what I mean, Like they don't live down the street,
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and so they kind of were just like, why are
we in this house when like our kids are so
not so conveniced. So basically what they did is they
moved their walking distance from like my siblings. Basically that's great.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
So you get the shop because technically they're further from you.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Know, correct, which I know it kind of sucks, but
they are going to eventually get a place in la
like an apartment or something, so they can kind of
live in both places and the time comes that I
need need them closer. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like that. I didn't realize that
was your like literally birthplace.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, like all my birthdays I had in the backyard.
Speaker 3 (11:26):
That's crazy, Every.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Like childhood memory I had was like in this house,
we should have bought it.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
We should have all just pitched in and bought it
to keep it.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
To keep it in the family. Yeah, I know, it's
really like it was really really hard for me. And
then also seeing like my parents having to deal with
that was really emotional and like hard too. And yeah,
it was very emotional. I was not expecting.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
That. Well, I'm glad you got to go and like
like share that with Robbie and like experience that, because
you know, if they lived in like a different state
or something, it'd be like, oh no, like I don't
know if I can go back and have that moment
in that space, you know.
Speaker 3 (12:08):
Yeah, So it's nice that you got to have that.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Yeah, it was fun because like, all they moved a
bunch of stuff already, so like we're trying to he
was trying to like make drinks and my parents didn't
have any of their like shakers or anything, so we
were just like making do with what we had and
it was fun.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
That's really cool.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah, showing Sonny around, I was like, Sonny, this is
where your mom went to high school.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
To get it.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah, oh yeah, of course she's really smart.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I need to talk about her jumping at the TV
like with animals on the TV, and it is.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Hilarious, but like what do you what do you do
for that?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
It's can I tell you something?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
So?
Speaker 1 (12:44):
And I'm probably gonna get a lot of mean messages
about this. I might have to get her a shot caller,
because we've tried are you looking at are you judging me? Oh,
we've tried everything to get her to stop doing this,
and like uh, I reached to a trainer and they said,
anytime she barks the TV, to just put her outside
the room, close the door and then make her like sit, stay,
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be calm, and then like let her back in. We've
done that hundreds of times and she just goes right
back to barking at the TV. And you didn't realize
how many animals are on the TV until your dog
barks at it because it is constant. So that was
one thing we tried. It didn't work. Tried it for
several months. Then I also got a recommendation from another
trainer to just leave like, do you know the channel
(13:28):
Lucky Dog that's just like dogs on the TV twenty
four to seven. No, so we leave Lucky Dog on
the TV all day long when she's home so that
she just gets used to it and she'll just like
become numb, I guess. Yeah, So we would leave it
on all day every day, Lucky Dog, Dogs on the
TV all day long. Nothing did nothing, but she jumps
(13:48):
the whole day, the whole time. No, she would like
take breaks, like if there's commercials and stuff, and then
she just keep going. She jumps so high it's like
it's kind of concerning.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah, well, I think the shot collar they have like
a setting that's just vibration buzz.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Yeah, we're just like the thought of doing that to her, Like,
I don't think I can actually do it, but at
this point I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know I've I've never dealt with
that issue, so it's so funny when you post. But
I'm also like, oh my gosh, this is driv means
I imagine at.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
The end of the day too, when you're in bed,
you're so tired and you're just like just put TV
on to just plea and she's just a maniac.
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Yeah, she's wild.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I watched the Ed Cheran documentary. It's on Disney Plus.
I I've always loved Ed cheering. I love him.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Really, I just need to watch it. Yes, it's so
good and he's just gonna make me cry.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
It's emotional, but it's not like I mean, you know,
documentaries get you in your fields.
Speaker 3 (14:56):
But his wife is so cool.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Like I didn't know anything about his wife and like
what I pictured because they don't talk. I mean that's
they've kept their relationship private. But in the documentary, he's like,
I can't remember how he words it, but it was
so sweet along the lines of like my wife, Cherry's
like the best thing. Take away everything I've accomplished in
my work. She's the best thing that's ever happened in
my life. Like just the sweetest and they're they were
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high school. They knew each other from like a really
young age. Yeah, but yeah, he's just so sweet and
humble and talented and like confident, Like he has this
like confidence where like he was at this festival thing.
Speaker 3 (15:37):
You always gotta take it there, huh.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
I just quite confident, like he's at he's at like
this festival and he's like, I'm just gonna go ask
if I can go on stage and sing, and like
the confidence to just like know that they're probably gonna
be like, yeah, of course, but I think what festival?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
So I'm like it was like a I want to say,
like Irish or Scottish type futile okay, and yeah, I
just really I have two more episodes.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
There's four. They're like thirty minutes each.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
Oh, it's like a it's a series like the docuseries
cocky series.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
But you know what I realized is that, you know
how I can't get into any shows. Like I tried
to watch Jerry Duty, and I was just like this,
what what am I missing?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
That concerns me because I love Jerry Duty. But I
feel the same way. This whole week, I've been trying
to get into different shows and I just like can't do.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
It interesting because you typically don't have that problem.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Yeah, and I was watching stuff that's like way at
my Alley, like Perfect Match hosted by Nick Lache. It's
like all these stresses. I get it. It's like all
these former what would you reality stars coming back to
find love.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Yeah, I know. I tried to watch it myself.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
I thought I was gonna love it. I was like,
and then I know all these people from the mole
Love is blind, like too hot to handle. I knew
all the people there. I was like, this is gonna
be my show. And I was watching it and I was like,
this is very bad.
Speaker 3 (17:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
So then I went back to Shrinking, which everybody raves about.
I don't know that one Shrinking. It's on Apple TV
Plus with Jason Siegel and Harrison Ford.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
I have no idea.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Okay, well, everybody's like raving about that show, so I
go check that out, not feeling into it. So then
I leave that started watching The Diplomat that everybody's raving
about with what's her name Felicity? What's really Carrie Russell
was not into that. I went back to Shrinking to
give that another shot. Kept not in the game. That
then I watched the Lewis Capaldi documentary.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
You didn't like it.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
It wasn't into that back to shrinking.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yeah, well maybe you're just having like hard to focusing. Yeah, yeah,
because I love a documentary, Like I can really get.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
The Lewis Capaldi documentary. I think I was not paying
attention to it. I don't think.
Speaker 3 (17:50):
Yeah, I mean documentaries, especially it's about a singer.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
It's easy to kind of like get distracted if you
let yourself, you.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Know, Yeah, because like there's only so like you're they're.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Just following their lives, so it's not like it's gonna
be like mind blowing action.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (18:03):
But have you watched Firefly Lane? Because everyone talks about that.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
So that was recommended to me the most out of
any TV show. But everybody says they cry every week,
and I'm just like not in the place where I
can be crying a lot right now, you know, I'm
like emotionally fragile, So I don't think it's the time
for me to start.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
That, Okay, but in due time.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
In due time.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
Yeah, everybody loves it. Yeah, everyone raves about it. I've
gotten a lot of messages about it too, Like have
you watched it.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
Yeah, no, no, but that cheering documentary. Okay, that's good.
I'll watch it this weekend.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
I loved it. Let's take a break.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
And we'll be back with more where this came from.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
All right, we're back. Okay.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
So the Gala happened last well earlier this week, whatever
day this last week. And do you know what it
is about the met galat that someone posted about that
said the mech like, have you seen the comparisons of
like the met Gala to like the Hunger Games. No,
it's so freaky, because someone was saying, like, we're in
like a crisis in America. People can't afford to eat,
(19:22):
can't afford housing. And then it's like this like rich,
like elite group of people that are like dressed in
these like crazy outfits at this event.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Oh that's right.
Speaker 3 (19:31):
I know. I was like, it's kind of think about it.
I know, it's scary. And then the guy that was
like part one of the leaders in the AI world left.
Did you see that?
Speaker 1 (19:45):
No?
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
It freaks me out. Can't talk about it too much.
And I'm also not like informed enough to like have
an educational like.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
A I got into all the AI stuff I don't
want the Snapchat AI friend. I don't want chat GPT.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Yeah, well it's happening, like whether we want or not.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I think that's the scary part is like even the
guy who was like part of the like leaders in
creating it is like stepped away from it.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I'm like terrified that people aren't even gonna want to
be in like relationships with other humans anymore, because if
you think about it, I was actually reading this article
about sex robots. Have you heard about sex robots?
Speaker 3 (20:18):
No?
Speaker 1 (20:20):
I think that there are some people that are so
plagued by the idea of like getting on a dating
app and like meeting people. You know that people have
a lot of anxiety around especially I think the pandemic
made it even worse where people are more fearful to
like meet, And I think that it's going to get
to a place where people just have relationships with these
like sex robots, because they're going.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
To make them so lifelike now where they have like
intimate relate like connections.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
With you, Yeah, have dinner with you.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
I just don't know that I want to be around
for this, Like no, seriously, I was thinking about this
because you know, there's like sists and people who are
like are preparing for like an apocalypse or whatever, and
they like they have like bunkers and stuff or like
to survive. Yeah, I don't want to be like I'm
not trying to fight to be here. Yeah, like I'm
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not trying to fight apocalypse apocalypse.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yeah, I don't know this stuff or that whatever you're
talking about. Robot revolution is really scared freaking me out.
Speaker 3 (21:25):
You feeling like you're gonna get replaced.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
No, I'm safe, but I'm worried for the younger generation.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
No, Seriously, it's like, are people gonna be able to
form like genuine real connections to people?
Speaker 1 (21:38):
Like relationships are hard? Man.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Yeah, But I.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
Mean that's if you went to that route, you could
just be like why dates why to anyone?
Speaker 1 (21:48):
That's what I'm saying. That's why things gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
And that they're just gonna get their fulfilled, like.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
They're robots, their physical needs, their emotional connection needs, like
what else this robot not gonna have an opinion?
Speaker 4 (22:02):
You know?
Speaker 3 (22:02):
Oh yeah, they're not gonna be able to argue.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
They're not going to tell you how to spend your Saturday.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Well that's what you think until have you seen the
Disney movie Smart House? No, well, she turned on her owners.
It's so freaky, like genuinely scares me. And I can't
think about it too much. But wait, I was gonna say, oh,
you know what I've had like this shift in my
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mind about compared to how I was a couple of
weeks ago. Yeah, and I don't know what this where
the shift happened, but I have never Okay, can I
be honest what I think it is?
Speaker 1 (22:38):
What you got your mojo back?
Speaker 3 (22:41):
I'm working on it.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
My nails did get done, that's not Unfortunately, it wasn't
that easy. I've been eating healthier and exercising every day
and I think it's helped with my like mental clarity
like everything.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Yeah, it's amazing.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
It's crazy, and like I'm not I'm not like, oh,
I'll never eat the things that I like again, but
it is shocking to see how different I feel. And
I've found that very interesting. But so I think that
was a big part of it. But someone I posted
a TikTok that said it was something about like it
(23:23):
was a sound, and I just posted, like when you
accidentally manifest a long distance relationship because you like your
alone time and now you're dating. And people were like,
it's it's more like split custody beca like we'll give
her back, and I'm like, yeah, it is, that's so true.
They were like sharing our parent or a child. I
(23:47):
don't know, split custody way. So I've had that mindset,
happy to happy to let her go and entertain the masses.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
Yeah, and you do your thing.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
I do my thing. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Wow. It does really like impact a lot. I do
find that I generally eat clean and I eat like
from the earth, and I try to work out. But
I did like there were moments where like a lot
of time would go by and I hadn't worked out
in a really long time. When I'm on a routine
and a schedule, i do feel I'm sleeping good, I'm
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drinking a lot of water. I feel like I'm firing
at all cylinders.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I'm not sleeping great. Well, I'm like falling asleep and
then I'm not. I'm like up all throughout the night.
So I haven't cracked that code yet.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Yeah, but baby steps, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Yeah, one thing at a time at a time, I.
Speaker 1 (24:39):
Will say, though, too, I'm on another mission because I
asked I wanted to have James Marson because we're obsessed
with Jerry Duty. So I really wanted to have James
Marsin on the podcast, and we gotta know, we.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Gotta yeah, we got denied. We got to people from
Jerry Duty.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
So I went on the Morning Show with Ryan. I
went Honor with Ryan Seacrest, and I told Ryan I
wanted James Marson on my podcast. He said no, can
we have him on the Morning Show? And He's like, sure,
So James Marson comes on. But it was a couple
of days in between. And I also like, when it's
on the morning show, I don't want it. I don't
want to like take over and like say anything inappropriate
(25:16):
in an interview. So I didn't know if I should
go there. And I think at that point everybody else
kind of just like forgot, and I'm really upset. I
did not take the opportunity to be like, hey, James Marson,
because we had like kind of a fun exchange. I
really want to have you on my podcast, but he
said no, can you please come on my podcast?
Speaker 3 (25:34):
That would have been so epic. I know that felt
like a beckon may of that you didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
I was thinking about it, but I didn't want to
be like inappropriate. But I'm not giving up because I
think his publicist knows Robbie because she messaged him and
was like, you were just brought up in this interview
with Ryan and Tanya and Da da da da, and
he goes, yeah, he nagged her on her podcast and
she was, oh, sorry, I think that was me. So
(26:03):
I'm like, maybe if we have enough scrubbers, reach out
to James Marsden or I don't know how we're going
to go about this, but I'm not just hanging my
hat up on this.
Speaker 3 (26:14):
Yeah, well that's you. Don't You're not a hat hanger.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
No, no, So Patrick Dempsey and James Marsden are still
in the twenty twenty three bucket list.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I gotta say, James Marston is like such a beautiful man.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
You know What's interesting. I feel like he does not
get the credit that he deserves as he's a major
mega star. He's been in so many movies, but I
feel like he's not a name, Like.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Yeah, he's not. He's not like a broad note Because.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
We've been talking about Jury Duty and I'm like, yeah,
it's got James Marsden and people like who's James Marsden.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
I know, it's kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Weird, Yeah, because he's been in so many big movies,
like big movies, name Some Notebook, Yes, Enchanted, Yes, Guardians
of the Galaxy.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
I'm just kidding, but he's in a.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Movie yeah, yeah, no song, He's in Sonic, Oh, son
Sonic Favorite, Disenchanted. He was Dead to Me, he was
in twenty seven Dresses.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
Yeah, he's been in a lot of movies that like
are big movies.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
Yeah, and Dead to Me was a massive show a
couple of years ago.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
Yeah, I know, it's it is weird.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
I was just thinking that because I just watched the
first episode and I was like, he's so handsome, Like
he's like so classically handsome.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Okay, switching gears. Did you have anything else said to that?
Speaker 1 (27:33):
Yeah, So any if anybody knows James Marsen or knows
somebody that knows James Marsden, and.
Speaker 3 (27:37):
You do you know his publicist.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Or Robbie to get on it.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
That's that's the only that's.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
The biggest connect that we're probably gonna have, unless someone's
married to James Marsden.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Yeah, if he has a secret wife out there, actually
know nothing about his personal life, like truly, like he
could have a lot of kids and a wife. I
have no idea, but if anybody, yeah, I'm gonna I'm
gonna put I'm gonna get Rob back on the job.
Speaker 3 (28:01):
Yeah, you need to assign that to him.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
Yeah that does feel like our key, but I'm saying
that's the publicist. If anybody knows James mars day, okay,
a personal relationship.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
And listen to this podcast with these two girls, I
love you they weren't.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Yeah, yeah, but then you have to watch Jerry Duty
and like really.
Speaker 3 (28:18):
Kind I know I heard it.
Speaker 2 (28:20):
It takes a couple episodes before like you gotta like
set the scene or whatever.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
I haven't laughed that hard in a very long time.
Speaker 3 (28:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:27):
That makes me nervous because lasso, yeah, and other things.
But so yesterday I went to hot pilates and it's
so freaking hot in there that like you don't want
to be too close to anybody because it's already just
hot and stuffy, so you're like try to set your space.
So I got there early enough where I had like
I was against the wall and the next person closest
(28:49):
to me was like a good distance. Well, as this
class starts to get fuller, this guy comes and puts
his mat in between us, and so we're like it's close,
and I'm like no, but like I get it, you know,
you have to just find the space. But then I
couldn't see the instructor because his legs were blocking her,
so like I kept having to sit up to see.
(29:11):
So I was just like he did nothing to me,
but like he did everything to me, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
You know, workout classes are so funny because so I
do berries a lot, and in the pandemic, they spaced
everything out. So like normally what you do is you
share a treadmill and you share a floor and you
just like flip flop and how they kind of pack
everybody in. But because of the pandemic, they spaced everything out.
They did them in parking lots, and you had your
own treadmill and your own thing, and it was like
(29:38):
an oasis. It was just luxury right in a parking lot.
But now that we're out of it, like everything's back
indoors now and I'm sharing my space with like these sweaty,
sweaty men and like it's fine if you sweat. I
sweat too, and I drip on the floor and I
take the wipes and I clean my thing. I don't
(29:59):
know what it is about. I'm not going to generalize
and say all men, but the men that the two
men that I've shared stations with, it's like they are
Niagara falls and they're not even touching it. They're not
even wiping it down. They're not even using their towel
to wipe it. I'm like, I'm gonna put my hands
and my like body on top of this. This is
so gross. So I'm sitting there like spending two minutes
(30:22):
wiping down each round. There's they're sweat off the mirror,
off the floor.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Okay, so you get it.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I get it.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Well. Then so you do hot plates barefoot or I
guess all plates.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
Barefoot all or like yoga everything kind of like yeah, And.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
I'm already just annoyed because like I've I've had to
like sit up because he's blocking the teacher, and like
if you miss what she's saying, it goes so fast
that if you miss like what she's telling you to do,
you kind of like miss that exercise.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
Then I look over towards the.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
End and we're like doing abs and his toes are
like tense and like spread, and I.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
Was just like, ugh, I got like the ick.
Speaker 2 (31:02):
But it like I wonder if, like I just need
to know from two Hanna's in here too, two straight women.
Speaker 3 (31:10):
Who are like fully straight. Yeah, do men's feet give
you the ick?
Speaker 1 (31:16):
Or like yes, I don't want to see a man's foot,
like the sandals are meant for the beach and quite
frankly not even there if you can avoid it and
like throw on some toms or something. I hate sandals
on men's feet. I cannot stand them. And Hannah is
shaking her head in a greance, so.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
You understand that like seeing a man, because I'm.
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Sure all of our feet looked like that, like your
tents and like trying to hold the apposition, but like
his feet specifically, I was like, no, like you need
to have socks on, Like I even think that if
Jesus was walking amongst.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Me, I'd be like, you gotta clean those up.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
No, well, you gotta get some closed toe shoes on
those bad boys.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
And I love Robbie's feet. I think he's gorgeous feet.
They're very Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
This kind was like like he was like a good
looking guy. I felt like he was clean his.
Speaker 1 (32:14):
Feet or an extension of his hands. You know, they're
pretty great, Okay, and I still don't see them like, wow, yeah,
speaks some volumes I don't want. I don't like him
flipping around and flip flops.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
I was talking about this on my Instagram live last night,
and I was like, like, imagine you get home from
a long day and like your husband or boyfriend just
like throws his feet on your lap.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
What are you doing? And one girl was like, I.
Speaker 2 (32:37):
Mean, I love my husband, so like, I wouldn't mind
if you put him on there, but I'm not trying
to touch.
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Yeah, that's the thing. Like it, I wouldn't mind. I
do like his feet.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
You'd give him like a little massage.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
Yeah, Oh have you sucked his toes before? No?
Speaker 3 (32:53):
Okay, but I would like.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Sure, why not? You know?
Speaker 3 (33:02):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
On that note, we're going to take a break and
we'll be back with emails. All right, we are back.
This is back to old times me reading the emails. Yeah, okay,
(33:26):
this is from anonymous guys. I'm devastated. My dad just
admitted he had a sexual relationship with someone for the
last few months. My mom and him have been married
for forty years. I am completely shocked and I don't
know where to go from here.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Well, that's a lot in two sentences.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
That's really horrible, horrible situation.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
And I'm so sorry that you're navigating this, and I'm
so sad and sorry for your mom that she's having
to navigate this. I genuinely cannot imagine being with someone for.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
That long and having that type of betrayal.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
No, I would be if I were your mom, I
would be very not Well.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Yes, yeah, I think that obviously this is a horrible
time for your family in general, but I think that
you and your mom need to just, you know, lean
into each other. And I don't know if you have siblings,
but like really just like be there for each other.
But you know, I think maybe you need to find
(34:35):
comfort and support from your friends and people close to
you and have something so you can give to your
mom because this is going to be just like a
horrible time for her.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
And I don't know what the situation is.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I don't know if she's gonna stay forgive him and
stay with him, but she's gonna need a lot of
support and strength, and that not saying that's all on you,
but just saying like where you can give to her,
like give to her because it's very I can't e
I genuinely I can't imagine because I've been with Haley
for five years and if she betrayed me like that,
(35:07):
it would be horrible.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
This would be Yeah, I can't I'm so so sorry.
I would try and if your mom is trying to
stay with him, I would try and encourage her to
not stay with him, because I really I'm a firm
believer in character, and to me, somebody that's going to
do that after forty years of marriage does not have character.
Speaker 3 (35:32):
And we don't know the whole situation.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Like I know, you know Lauren Kennedy, her parent, Jason's wife, Yeah,
they have. Her parents went through a divorce. I think
there was an affair or something and they got back together.
They were able to heal their marriage. So I don't
think it's impossible, but I think you should encourage your
mom to maybe go I don't know if she's in therapy,
but like talk to someone and they obviously will need
(35:58):
to go through a lot together, I think. But I
think you just need to support her. If your dad
is like not.
Speaker 1 (36:05):
If he's just like, I can't tell you how we
don't know. I can't tell if he's sorry and he's
like feels bad, or if he's.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Just saying like I'm bagging with this person.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
Yeah, but either way, I really don't like him honestly.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Sorry, Yeah, he sucks for that.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
So I wish you the best, and I hope that
you and your mom are able to find like peace
and healing and honestly forgiveness eventually, because I think that's
that's really how you heal from things and you're able
to move on. This is also anonymous engagement advice. I
(36:43):
have been with my boyfriend for over a year and
a half. In the conversations we have had about our
relationship moving forward, we have been vague with the timeline,
but he has indicated that an engagement would likely happen
this year. I love him and would say yes if
he proposed today. Here's the thing I can just tell.
He is the type to not ask what type of
ring i'd want. He knows I want yellow gold. He
(37:04):
bought me a nice necklace for Christmas that was yellow
gold and said he had noticed I really only wear
yellow gold, and I told him, Yes, I strongly prefer it.
I also feel very strongly that I do not want
a halo. Those are so popular right now that I'm
scared he'd go for something like that. I also have
a few cuts I highly prefer to others. My sister
and I share a note on our phone that has
(37:24):
our ring side slash what we want for our ring.
Should I mention to him that we share that so
that when he is thinking about buying a ring, he
can go to her and not ruin the surprise. Should
I even bring up anything at all? I don't want
him to think I'm trying to pressure him into proposing sooner.
I wish I could say I'm one of those girls
that would be happy with anything, but if I have
to wear it for the rest of my life, I
want to like it. I'm so scared he will just
(37:46):
pick something random out.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
This is so funny, been there. I think you can
express things that you like to your significant other without
telling them exactly what to get, and also encourage them
(38:12):
to like. Run it by friends of yours.
Speaker 2 (38:15):
I was gonna say, maybe your sister reaches out to
him and says, hey, just to give.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Your heads up. She's so picky about what she wants.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
I wanted to like, I want you to just like
know what she's liking, just so you can go off
of an idea.
Speaker 1 (38:30):
I don't like the thought of somebody reaching out to him.
I think he should reach out to I don't.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
I think she's worried he's not going on I know.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
But if he doesn't, then he doesn't. We have to
figure out different ways. So I don't know if you
vision board anonymous, but putting Vivian photos of the rings
that you like on different several vision boards might stick
with him. When you guys are like window shopping and
stuff you can express like I really don't like it. Hey,
I feel like there's ways to drop hints about stuff
(38:58):
that maybe he'll pick up on. And I do think
you just have to trust him at the end of
the day, because also he's not gonna just pick something
random out, you think.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
So I think, yeah, I think that could go wrong
if she just trusts that he's gonna do Yes.
Speaker 3 (39:12):
Here's what I think.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
Why not just be direct and say, hey, I am
so ready to say yes to you whenever you're ready.
I don't want there to be any pressure, but I
do want I have rings in mind that I've dreamed
of my whole life. And my sister and I share
a notes file, so if you have any questions about
what I want, you can text her and ask her.
And I also want it to be from you, but
(39:33):
just so you have an idea of what I like.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Yeah, I feel like I've done that in various ways.
Speaker 3 (39:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Yeah, I feel like like expressed what I like what
I don't like, but I've never said exactly what i want.
I've just like showed pictures.
Speaker 2 (39:51):
He's seen photos, just like give him an idea of
what you're leaning towards. Yeah, And I think that sometimes
we feel so scared to be direct, But why not
be direct?
Speaker 3 (40:01):
You know what you want? What a what a gift that.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
You know what you want or don't want, and you
can just share it with him without saying like I
need this like tomorrow. You're just saying, like, hey, when
the time comes right, this is what I'm looking for. Yeah,
Or you can ask my sister what I'm looking for
because she knows if you want it to be a
full sup.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
Yes, I don't think having other parties reach out to
him is the move.
Speaker 2 (40:24):
Yeah, so but exciting congratulations, very exciting for your future
engagement proposal. Well, folks, that'll be all By the time
this comes out. I will be in Denver, Colorado.
Speaker 3 (40:41):
Oh yes, Haley Kyoko show.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Also yeah, and if you see Becca there, give her
a shout out, send give her some loves, Give her
some loves. Today. Actually, May sixth is the most romantic
day of the year.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
No, that's Saturday. I don't think we're going to be out.
I don't think this podcast.
Speaker 1 (41:00):
Oh wait what no Saturday. No, then that's wrong. It's
not May sixth, it's the eighth. So yeah, yeah, it's
the eighth. Eighth.
Speaker 3 (41:06):
Oh, it's the most romantic day of the year.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
I Robbie brought it up to me. He goes, So
May eighth is the most romantic day of the year
on the calendar, And I'm like, this definitely came from
me at some point, Like I probably talked about this
on the morning show. It's like some zodiac thing. It
had to have been because it was like in his calendar. Yeah,
so he's like planning a date night.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
That is so cute. I know. But regardless of where
he heard that from, that sure.
Speaker 1 (41:32):
Was something I had said to him and he put
in his calendar because there's no he that's so not him.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
I love that.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Yeah, so he's planning a date. Yeah, actually ready at
six fifteen.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Well, I can't wait to hear about it.
Speaker 1 (41:45):
And I'm gonna be ready if you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
Oh yeah, right, yeah that's right, hair done all right?
Speaker 4 (41:53):
You know.
Speaker 1 (41:54):
No, I'm gonna go like chill girl these days. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (41:58):
Well, thanks changed day to day.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Yeah, we gotta really tune in and see what's happening
because things change like the wind.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
Well, I hope you all have a super romantic day,
even if you treat yourself.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
Yeah, that's the best type of love, right, oh, self
soothing is so love?
Speaker 2 (42:17):
Yes, all right, we love you all, and we love
you back next week.
Speaker 1 (42:23):
Yes, we will love you bye, love you bye,
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