October 9, 2023 • 38 mins
Tanya is battling the results of a jam packed week, which included a gala (or GALa), and Becca opens up about her challenges with “freaky deaky chicken”.
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And, we go back to find some Scrubbing In “plot twists” that may finally have answers for some longtime questions!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello everybody.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
So before we start the podcast, we wanted to acknowledge
what's going on in Israel right now. It's such a
heavy time, and it feels like even doing a podcast
feels so.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Feels wrong in a way, just because all the videos,
everything that we've been seeing, the coverage this past weekend
has been horrific. Innocent people being dragged out of their homes.
It's just been so horrible to see. I have family
there now that is affected by everything going on, and
I just, you know, we really wanted to take the
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time to just stay to say that we stand with
Israel and support them and everything that's going on right now.
It's just a very heavy time and all of.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
The innocent people who have been attacked or who have
had families, and people all over the world who feel
the weight of what's happening. I don't think we can
even comprehend how severe and tragic and catastrophic this is.
And it feels like very helpless in the sense that
feels like there's nothing we can do. But at the
(01:02):
very least, I feel like we can acknowledge it and
condemn the acts of terrorism and the violence and the
pure evil that's happened and also lift up the people
who are suffering and victims to what's been happening. And
we know that we're not a podcast that people come
to for world news or for political topics.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Butcally quite the opposite. You know, we want to be
a lighthearted place where people can come for joy and comfort.
But we didn't want to go on with our podcast
without acknowledging and just you know, being there for our
Jewish community and saying that we stand with you and
we are praying and praying for love and praying for peace.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah. Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An
iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Scrub a dub dub.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
How you doing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I'm doing if you're doing, Yeah, I'm doing. I feel
like a long week.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
It was a long week.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, I feel like I hadn't seen you in a
very long time, although I just saw you a couple
of days ago Saturday, but like not very long. I
saw you for like ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
It was short because I had told you I was
gonna be there too. You came strolling around three point thirty.
I waited for you, which I did. Yeah, I didn't
leave because I was done for a while.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And then I was like, it's cute.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I know I'm a good friend, even though you try
to make me out to look like I don't care. Sometimes, Okay,
that is not what I do sometimes.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
First of all, sometimes that's just the difference in our personalities.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
No, I definitely I show up when I need to
show up, that's true.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
And I waited for you, so' like that's being knowledge you.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Were waiting for me Becca. I love you.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
You're welcome, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You went to you just were like hanging out with
Selena and stuff this weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Or what I had something every single night this week
so for you. No, I realized that I think I'm
an introverted extrovert because I like being around people, but
I also need some recharge alone time and.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Humans.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Is it have an interesting stat I.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Used to think that I was like pretty unique in
my like I love to be around people, but I
need to recharge. I thought I was so cool and
like special, and then I realized, I think that's how
majority of people feel.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
We're all introverted extroverts or extrovert introverts. We're all a
combination of Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I had to Discovery this week because mama is, uh,
she needs she needs to plug in.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
You think it's happened with age maybe maybe yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Well, I mean, was it an industry event every night?
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Industry? No, industry and personal?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yeah, I know it's a combo, but the industry. The
event that I did go to was the uh so
it was supposed to be. It was initially a gala
and then I saw everybody saying that it was the
first Rare Impact Fund benefit. So I don't know what
the difference between a benefit of gala is, but the
verbiage definitely changed earlier.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You called it a gala, so kala gala.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I thought it was gala and I was like, oh,
it's a gala, and then you just said gallas, So
which is it.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think it's I think it's like tomato, tomato. There's
not really a right or wrong gala. Yeah, galla, right,
so gala apple, I don't know whatever. So it was
the Rare Impact Fund benefit. So that's what kind of
kicked off the week, the festivities, and it was actually
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really cool. I was expecting it to be very kind
of you know, gala galas are little stuffy, you know,
like rubber chicken in a ballroom, and this one was
very opposite. It was very lively. They were like doing
inscriptions in some of the rare beauty products, and so
it did my new initials on one of them.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
What are your new initials? T r y Try Tanya radyad?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
How on brand is the word try?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
For me?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Wow? It's so hopeful, it's so hopeful.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
It's mirror ball coded. What mirror ball?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Taylor Swift Oh the song?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, yeah, crazy Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I was like, where's she going with this?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I mean, obviously we speak in swifty language here exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But Taylor Lanner was there, and I.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Just love Taylor Loner.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I do two you so sweet. He gave Robbie the
biggest hug and congratulated us on our engagement. I was like,
you are just the sweetest man. And his wife. I
love also Tay Taylor Loner.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Hey, she's Tay, He's Taylor.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Yeah. And then we're in the you know how like
I've always wanted. I feel like you always you know,
you made it in life when you can bid at
like a silent auction at those.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Gayla gal Wow. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I was like, I know, I'm going to know that
I've made it when I can like bid, because the
bidding always starts at five thousand dollars. Like, who's been
betting five thousand dollars on anything?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Would you bid?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I didn't. Oh, so I'm not there yet, okay, but
for our future gala gala, I will be there. But
somebody been fifteen thousand dollars for Taylor Swift tickets?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Wow, what city?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I think it said? I think don't quote me because
I don't I don't have a photographic memory, but I
believe it was kind of your choice two tickets to
any Taylor Swift showed your.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Choice fifteen k fifteen row.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
At least didn't say front row.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I would imagine front row.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I imagine it's probably like some sort of hook up.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yeah, yeah, it would, I would hope.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So there was one. There was one auction. Ie though
that it was like a glam day with Selena's like hair,
makeup and stylist, and I was like this could be
good for the watering, and that go through my head
and then I was like should that go for I
don't know, I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But it was up there.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I was like for.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
The fifteen Okay, here's my thing. If you could throw
away fifteen k would you do that for Taylor Swift tickets?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You could throw away what you could throw away?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah yeah, I'm not okay, not throw away, but like
it's not gonna hurt you, but you could use that
for something else.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Well, the thing is it goes to charity. I'm just
saying I know, but that's the big that's the big thing.
It's like it's for charity.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Mark says, no.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Way, I could never ever spend I don't care if
I was a billionaire, I couldn't spend fifteen thousand dollars
on one night, even.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
If it was for charity.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
No, yes, you could, Okay easton a meet and greet
with the whole Avengers cat.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Well, he's like I'll do in character character.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
In yeah, I would do that. I would.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Would you.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
If I was guaranteed like a front row experience? And
I was like, maybe he's.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Gonna spend a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm teetered back and forth on a very pricey ticket.
The last night of her show in La everyone from
near fifteen thousand by was it fifty thousand for two?
So like seventy five hundred for each two Yeah, okay, okay,
so a steal really one hundred.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
I was looking through next years, like seeing her in Milan,
Italy couldn't be pretty amazing, I know, And maybe if
I could introduce her to my kids afterwards. Now we're talking.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
See that's if there's some sort of met mareat edition.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
Yeah yeah, maybe.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, but if it's like a mid range level, right.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Like you don't know what kind of ticket you're getting. Yeah,
I don't know about that, and it has to be
the show of your choice.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Yeah, I mean I would definitely go overseas. How cool
would it be to see her in another country? Yeah,
that'd be really cool. You seem to have Did you
have any hangovers over your weekend? I mean your week.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Of How was your week before we dive into the weekend,
you know, a week weekend?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
What did I had to look back up? I was talking.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You were pretty busy too, was I? Yeah? You were
out in a boat, oot in a boot out in
a boat.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
What did I do though?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Because I don't remember, I don't really have any I
don't think I did much.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Like I think I had a pretty chill.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Week, which I needed because the last week was wild,
I did do so I'm I have another. I have
a campaign with Taco Bell, which I'm so excited about
and so Ali and I yeah, it's my second one.
Thank you so much. I love them and I so
Ali and I filmed a video where she ate like
tried all my favorite Taco Bell items with me.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
That was really fun.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I'm your number one favorite Taco Bell item.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
God, it's so hard, like I just go back and
forth on like what what it is? Because I love
the crunch Trap Supreme, I love a Mexican pizza. I
love the new rolled chicken tacos. Those are insane. It
was so good, and Ali would really loved everything.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I thought, well, I don't know. I feel like you'd
be like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Yeah, well I didn't like it.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Actually.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I like a bean and cheese bruto. You can't go wrong,
and you get a little chip in there, dip.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
The chip in there with a little sacho cheese, the
chip in the beans.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yes, that was my drunken move always that I would
split it up. I'd split it open with like a
knife and I would just chip the dips in there,
dip the chips in there, and just go to town.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
WHOA, Sometimes I wish I got to hang out with
that Tonya.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Yeah, you could have hung out there on Friday things
got pretty wild.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
You hate Taco Bell?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I didn't Taco Bell, but I definitely ate a mozzarella
fried cheese dak. Yeah that sounds so great. Wait till
you hear from where were the Bungalow?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Okay, honestly, the Bungalow has some incredible memories for me
because you know, that's where Haley came to meet up
with us. This the night that we kissed, is it really?
She drove from Hollywood, which, like knowing her now, after rehearsal,
she went home and changed drove all the way from
Hollywood to Santa Monica to the Bungalow.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
We were wasted. It was like one am. She shows up.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
She comes and sits down with our group, and Taylor
Banks is next to me, and then Brittany's on the
other side of me, and Hailey's kind of like squatted
down and she's holding my hand behind Brittany's back, like
Haley and I are holding hands on my Brittany's back.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I did not know.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I lean over to Taylor and I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Like we're holding I remember this story and then she
drove us back to Brittany's place and that's where that's
when we kissed. Wow, I know, so bungalow has great memories,
but it's been a minute since I've been there.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, did you feel old?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Oh my god, I've never feel older in my life.
And the best part is that was our third stop
of the night. No, wait on one shoo, fourth our
fourth stop of the night.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Okay, for those of you who don't know the bungalow is,
it's attached to a hotel in Santa Monica, and it's
very like young college people that go there typically. Yeah,
it's kind of like Freddy. Yeah's so fun though it's
like ping pong table door indoor.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
It's kind of got like a vibe that you're in
the living room house beach. Recently, that one's very different vibe.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Thought more chic or was it the same?
Speaker 5 (12:24):
I mean it's a lot more space.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
What I will say is it's very jam packed the
one in Santa Monica. Yeah, close corners.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
It's like you hit an age going to these places
where you suddenly feel like I've.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Out done Yeah, I definitely felt that. But We came
from the from Shore Bar, which was which is even
younger if you can imagine. Yeah, we romped around town
on Friday. Yeah. I think it's like a.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
College with doing these activities.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Everybody, everybody Selena no no, no, no, I was with
so is Robbie's mom's birthday. So we like started out
at dinner and then I just like went from there.
We just kind of like party hopped. Paulina was involved,
but she can go. She's like energizer bunny.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
She's like twenty one.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Yeah, twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Oh she's twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
I literally thought she was like twenty four.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
No, no, no, elder.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Yeah, that's for great, great skin, great sunny. Truly, she's
one of the most beautiful humans ever.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
But yeah, so we stayed out until I want to say,
three forty five in the morning. I went I know,
I went to bed at four am, and my body
is just used to waking up early, So I was
up at like seven forty five and was just feeling
immense pain.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
When you drink like that, Like my body wakes up
out of just like it's almost like.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I'm going to make you pay for what you've done
to me.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
You know, and it's interesting because I never feel good
after I drink, and yet I continue to do it.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Why is that it's so fun in the moment.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Does the fun outweigh the pain?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
No?
Speaker 3 (14:06):
No, so I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Don't try to act like you're not drinking anymore.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Maybe there are other substances I can do. Yeah, you
like that, we need Yeah, like marijuana.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Okay, No, I gotta say, like it's gotten to where
I don't really drink, and then I'll take an If
I'm like, okay, I don't want to drink, but I
want to feel social and like relax, I'll take an
edible no hangover.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
I might snack a little more than normal.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
But see, that's what everybody tells me. So so well,
I'm not a pot girly. I I've never actually smoked pot.
I think I've taken one edible in my life, and
maybe it was like a quarter of a quarter of
a quarter nibble. I don't even think it would like
affect an ant. But everybody keeps telling me to try edibles,
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and I think I need to give it a whirl.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
I mean, you could just do nothing like I just
speaking as a guy who does nothing it's kind of
cool of doing nothing.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
So when you go out on the town on like
a Friday night, everybody's enjoying a nice glass of some martine.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Week before last, Amy and I went out because a
friend of ours was singing with a band, so we
went to watch her and supporter sing with a band.
Is it a bar in a thousand oaks? Is there
a question?
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Or yeah? So okay, So you're partaking in lively activities
on a Friday night, you don't. How do you kick
back and relax?
Speaker 4 (15:30):
I don't kick back. I'm always kicked either Either I
never kicked back and relax or I'm always kicked back
and relax because I just drink water. That's all I
ever drink. I drink water. I got a sandwich. It
was delicious. I enjoyed the band. I was singing long
dancing with my wife. What had a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
See, I need a glass of something.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
You don't. I don't think you do. I think need
is the wrong word in that sentence. You think you do.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Yeah, it's interesting perspective.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I have a suggestion.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
What if you got some sparkling water and put some
wine in there, and you have the glass and you
danced and did all your things. Do you think maybe
placebo you'd feel like.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I think that's really interesting.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Yeah, I don't know. It's like it's not it's it's
it's all an interesting experiment.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Because you know, I'm asking you to do a social experiment.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I try I'll try it this weekend or like an you.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Can't know about it. If you know about it, then
it's not going to work. It's like somebody has to
surreptitiously trade out your drink for something not alcoholic, you
know what.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Actually, what's so interesting so that.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
That reminds me of this experiment that they did, and
I just learned about it this weekend because I need
to get into the why. But they did this experiment
where they put all these people they like drew on
their faces, whether it was like a big big like
fatty like Mule or Zi or something that was just
like big. It was like a crater on their face.
And they wanted the Social Experiments to have them walk
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down the street and just report back on how people
were like looking at them or how they felt walking
down the street with like a giant like pimple basically
on their on their face. So as the people. So
they put this grotesque like with all the whatever it's called, yeah,
and then do a touch up before they walk out
the door, and they scrape it all off so there's
nothing there, and they send them on their way. And
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the people came back and we're like, people were staring
at me, people were giving me weird looks. I felt
so uncomfortable, And it was all this social experiment about
how we are so obsessed about, like, you know, these
little blemishes or these little things on our faces, and
like we think that everyone's gonna stare and judge and
comment when nobody else sees it. But but you.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Interesting, right, Yes, that is a very interesting thing.
Speaker 6 (17:40):
Mm hm, Because then I do feel like there would
be people who would be like, no, like people stare
like it's I do deal with people staring, you know
that do have like I think that there would be
people who.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Have and for sure, But I think that the moral
of the experiment was that, like we are, we create
all these narratives in our head that not necessarily there.
It's so true. So don't really know how that goes
back to the alcohol thing, but it made me think
of that.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That is interesting. But it's all a social experiment.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
Yeah, I'd be down to try the mocktail approach this
weekend and see if it. Like there's just something about
alcohol that makes me feel like I'm off duty.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
You know, there's one that I like called the Ocho
Cinco and Chatta Jaesinka. The football player doesn't drink and
he would he would do a red bull and cranberry
juice with lime in it.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
And that the red bull, I.
Speaker 5 (18:27):
Mean that gets me going. My head turns into a
giant whistle. I'm running circles around the place.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
That does the trick for me.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Interesting, Yeah, I mean it's worth a shot.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
I went to dinner and at the very end they
brought out the chicken, right, and you know how I'm
about chicken. It's so freaky end Well, she means like
like a shared place, a shared plate situation. So they
just like bring out things as they were ready. And
the last thing was that it was like a chicken
and like a little skillet situation. And it looked appetizing,
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which I don't. You know, I'm pretty finicky about my chicken.
I thought that sounds cozy. I bite into it so
slimy immediately it was like absolutely not get it away
from me. At the end, my friend is eating and
she goes she spits her chicken out, and she goes,
oh my god, that's raw. And we looked out it
is fully pink.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Oh mine wasn't. The bite I got wasn't. But I
was like, no, I'm not eating it. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
I can't do it. It's so freaky. What's the point. Yeah,
you know, so I'm off chicken again.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Man.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
It was short lived. What I do love is what
it was short lived.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
The bravery was very short lived.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
But one thing I do love is my whole TikTok
is filled with people eating chicken fingers like dipped in ranch.
It looks so good and they eat it so bravely.
There's no fear of getting like a freaky deey piece.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
They just go eating chicken. For thirty six years of
my life and I've never had a freaky diky piece.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
That's because all are people who probably clear the bone
and don't consider the cartledge you're eating through.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
I've had some freaky mc nuggets in my chick, you know,
But I keep going back.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I mean, same, Okay, Well, good for you, congrats, because
great great.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
It never tastes like wet dog.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
No, I never ever tastes like wet dog. Never get
a weird, chewy piece. So you have to kind of like.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
No and no. But there I have. I've had some
stinky chicken.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
I hate that whole phrase. I've had some chicken.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Here's the story my daughter has. You know, we've talked
about this before that she deals with some anxiety and
that's gotten way better. But the point is, one night
my wife was out of town with my other dog,
was just the two of us, and we got Trader
Show's chicken parmesan and so I was enjoying that. It
was two pieces. I gave her one. I took one.
I was enjoying, and she's like, it's kind of weird.
I'm like that mine's fine, but if you don't want
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to donate it, it's okay. Eh, it's kind of weird.
And I'm like, oh, well, I mean, then don't need it.
If you don't want to eat it. Then she didn't
like half fun. She goes, yeah, I don't want eat
the same. I'm like, all right, now I'm gonna finish hers.
And I took it. Yeah, it was not good. It
was like crunchy and weird. I'm like, this is weird.
So then, but then I had a decision to make
as a dad, and I ate the rest of it.
And I'll tell you why, because at bedtime tonight, her
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anxiety is going to kick in and she's gonna think,
oh my gosh, did I eat bad meat? Am I
going to throw up? So I ate the rest of
that so that I could say to her, I ate
it too, and I feel fine, You're going to be fine.
And it worked sure enough. Bedtimes she's like, Dad, do
you think I'm gonna throw up? You think that meat
was bad? I'm like, I don't know, hun, but I
ate everything. You wait just to be safe, and I'm okay.
I think my stomach is a little bit it's in
(21:43):
your head because I ate it and I'm fine. And
that is the sacrifice we make as a father, bad
bad meat, just to make sure your daughter is going
to be okay.
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Did you say good night here and then hold your
mouth projectile?
Speaker 4 (21:57):
I really did feel fine, but I didn't feel fine.
We'd be it together.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
That's very sacrificial. I don't know that I could do
the same.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Yeah, I definitely didn't do the same. Once we got
some raw chicken tenders out when we were skiing.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
It was like, literally not right now?
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Actually remember seeing that Robbie posted a picture of it.
Robbie posted a picture of it on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Is yes, I have a visual visual feeling. So we're
going to take a break and we'll be right. Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
I had to cleanse my palate from that previous conversation.
Should have had a trigger warning on there.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yeah, sorry, we're all the.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Chicken freaky chicken dog.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Anyways, during the break, Mark tries an act like he discovered.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
All day you don't even know. During the morning show,
he's been like anybody watched Naked Attraction and he's like
on this high horse, like he found it. And then
he came to the podcast and said the same thing,
And I'm like, you know where you found this show?
Is Becca Tilly?
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Because I remember the next day you came in the
morning show you had Sisney do a week Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
That's rights.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
I was like, that's right, well, yeah, credit.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
We had a recording of this happening, Marks on his
high horse. The joke I made this morning is that
an alternate title for that show could have been Razor
burn I told you it's fascinating.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
So because of my tour day activity, I did not
have TV watching time this weekend.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
What is tour day activity?
Speaker 3 (23:45):
I was trying to come up with like a clever yeah, yeah, yeah,
it didn't really slug up the tongue. But I want
to watch the show. I really want to watch the show.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
My observation is that the people that we see naked
in our lives are our partner and movie stars in
films that are lit and ripped and have personal trainers
and are starving themselves. And everybody's always perfect in movies
and your partner that's pretty much who you see. So
this is like seeing random people on the street with
lopsided everything and all shapes and sizes, and it's fascinating
(24:17):
in that sense. And so it's just kind of like
it's not I don't find it titillating. I don't find
it like erotic in any way. It's fascinating. Yeah, see
what everybody in the world looks like.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
It's not erotic at all.
Speaker 4 (24:32):
Right, that's I think when people hear about a show
called Naked Attraction, that's what they think. It's going to
be some sort of a titillating show.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Well, Mark, if you remembered on the podcast, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
I said.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
That's why it's so it's like almost charming because they're
British and they're very kind about you know, when they
eliminate someone, it's a pretty gentle.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I feel like if we did it here it'd be like, yeah,
I don't works.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
That's what happens in the UK. It's so gentle. They're
so gentle of it.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Yeah, I mean, I just feel like there's something about
it that doesn't It feels like it normalizes the human body.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
Yeah, it's strange.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
It's strange. It's still strange.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
I feel like any day know that we're going to
hear about the that American version is now in production, right,
that's got to happen.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Yeah, it's not going to be as good.
Speaker 4 (25:17):
I think it's going to be very differently made up
and lit. I think there were going to be special
people playing makeup to Genitalia, so we don't see the
razor burn in America. I think I want to.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Watch now you still haven't watched.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
No, I had show me like a whole teaser. Oh yeah,
so I told Robbie there's a show that Beca's really
recommending are you down to watch it? I said, I
don't remember name because I don't want him google it,
and he's like, yeah, I'm downe So I have him
on board.
Speaker 4 (25:42):
Oh good, that's gonna be funny.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
What a tease that happened?
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Literally less than I And he goes, is there a
joke on me? He's like why don't? And I was like,
I was like, why would there be a joke on you?
Speaker 1 (25:51):
Yeah, no joke, there's no joke.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
I just don't want him to look at I just
want him to research.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Did you watch and Love Is Blind?
Has anyone watched?
Speaker 3 (26:00):
I'm deep in this season spoiler alert.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
I'm so irritated that there's only two couples that were
like yeah hoping for.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
It's a bad season and the two couples kind of suck.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Honestly, I don't hate I don't really not.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
Like uh Lydia and Milton.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I don't really hate either of them. Like I'm not like,
oh about any I'm just kind of like, eh, I'm
not like.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
I don't either of them, but I'm not invested in
like imne Izzy, like Izzy.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah, what's the girl's name?
Speaker 3 (26:32):
He's with Stacy.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Okay, is that right?
Speaker 2 (26:35):
And Stacy, yeah, I think they go together. Yes, they
make sense to me, Yeah they do. And then I
feel like Milton, yeah, is very into Lydia, but I
think she's a lot for him, and.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
I think she went on the show to get back
together with her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Ooch.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
I'm so in that conspiracy theory.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
The whole thing. I just was like, this is a disaster, and.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Which actually posted something on his Instagram saying like, you're
only getting one side of the story. Wait till like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah, they all bugged me at that dinner where they
all came back. I was like, this is just a
recipe for disaster.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, this season does feel was.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Like, oh my gosh, this season's crazy. It's amazing, and
I'm like, I don't like it. Oh really, yeah, I
don't like I like to like root for people. I
don't love the drama. That's why I love the Golden Bachelor.
It is so amazing.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah, they really have cast the perfect man to be
the first Golden Bachelor. No.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
I came around on the Golden Bachelor and yeah, I'm
gonna watch it.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Okay, we're just we just got to the point where
you're going to watch it.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Watch no again. It was very busy adventure and I
watched the David Beckham documentary.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
I was just talking to Towny about this.
Speaker 3 (27:56):
Yeah, so I did that. But I am going to
watch The Golden Back because it feels like hopeful and
it's your best Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
It's so emotional. He's precious. Okay, I think we should
take a break and then come back with some emails.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
I could just take it if you want. No one
else is going.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
It was like blocked down. I don't even know what happened.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Mark, and you were just in another world.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Look, I was just looking straight at the paper.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Laura is a newer listener, said I'm a huge fan
of Haley, So I started listening after her and Becca's
relationship became public, and now I'm a bigger fan of
you guys.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Hot take that, Hailey. Wow Hailey.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
First of all, a bit overdue, but so happy for
Becca and Haley and their relationship of launch, and huge
congrats to Tanya on her engagement. So Laura binged this
entire podcast over the past six months, and she was
hoping for some plot twists that could be answered. Number one.
In twenty nineteen, Tanya visited a psychic and was given
two initials of a man she would meet in the
month of May. What were those initials?
Speaker 3 (29:18):
They were not Robbie's okay, yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:20):
And you can't say what they were. You don't remember.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
I do?
Speaker 1 (29:26):
I think? Wait, I feel like it's not Robbie's. Definitely
not Robbie's, right.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
Did you write them down? Are you going through your notes?
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I'm trying to see if I have it enough, did you?
I was trying to look them down to see.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
So we know where they aren't Robbies, but what they
were would be kind of interesting, wouldn't they?
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Okay, do you know what they are?
Speaker 3 (29:54):
No?
Speaker 6 (29:55):
C H?
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Where did you write those?
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I just typed in initials on my text thread and
popped up came.
Speaker 4 (30:01):
Back in a smart smart sleuthing over there. Do you
know anyone named c H? Chris Harrison's Harrison Collette Hubert
works for our morning show.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
No, Chris, it is he's like married guys.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Come on, come on, that's true?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
Is he?
Speaker 1 (30:26):
That wasn't he engaged? He's married but.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Like multiple children and he's the married with Liam is
the one that Yeah, but.
Speaker 4 (30:31):
He's not l h number two. In the podcast Back
Ahead with Jojo, she mentioned going on a date with
a known man at the time she met Haley. Is
there any chance you could reveal the known man you're
on a date with?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
No?
Speaker 3 (30:44):
What I just revealed mine?
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Yeah, the yours didn't reveal anything.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
No, it's way too obvious, Chris. Yeah, I'll give you
the starting letter of the first name.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
Intriguing and.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Do what you want with that. Yeah, but it was.
It was like, it's almost laughable to even call it
a date.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
But then why not say it if it's if it
was just a hangout.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
He's famous and I, like, you know, I don't know.
He was very private, So yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
You should say a show. No, that will absolutely get
a show, a different one.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
They will all obviously give it away.
Speaker 4 (31:32):
We've narrowed it down now, guy with a show.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Everybody sort of them. Anyways, it was crazy and fun
and I couldn't believe it happened.
Speaker 4 (31:46):
I'll just do one guess. Was it Michael Jordan the
greatest basketball player of all time? No, that's not bad, Actually,
good guess? Okay, all right. Brittany says she's been with
her boyfriend for two years and they went really fast.
(32:07):
They got they moved in very quickly. He moved cities,
moved in with me at six months, about a house together.
We've been trying for a baby for over a year now,
but they're not married. But all this has been going on,
he'sn't bringing up combining bank accounts. It's this is an
interesting dilemma because she says, I'm much more financially responsible
and I have virtually no debt, but he makes twice
(32:27):
what I do. He has debt, car payment, credit card, payment,
line of credit, and our agreement is he pays the
mortgage payment because I paid the down payment. I paid
the utility bills, and then we have separate bills and
debts and whatnot. Anyway, I'm a little concerned that if
we put our money together it's going to be a
problem because he always ends up in the negative every month,
(32:47):
where I always contribute to my savings account every month
and he makes double what I do. He thinks by
showing account well and it further ahead. But I'm afraid
he will suck us dry. How and when do you
know if it's time to share finances?
Speaker 3 (32:57):
Damn that is you know, it's such an interesting question.
That I find so fascinating because I've been asking a
lot of married people how they deal with their finances,
because I'm obviously engaged, and I've seen everything from like
married couples venmowing each other for the utilities, splitting stuff
(33:18):
completely down the middle. Some people combine, some people don't
combine but have different responsibilities, like I'll take care of
the kids this, and you take care of the kids this.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
What that al strikes me. It's so odd and only
odd because it's foreign to me.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
Yeah, the venmowing is wild too, Yeah, and.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
The splitting, like you take care of this bill, I'll
pay for the kids soccer, you do this. And now
that's all very strange to me because we we just
compiled everything from day one. So it's all very foreign
to me. I'm not saying it's bad to reach their own,
but it's very foreign to me, and it's hard for
me to understand.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
What are you saying? The separation?
Speaker 4 (33:48):
The separation?
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, like all like you, So that's how it works.
Is that how it works in your marriages? You both
just it's all just one big pot and that you just.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
Yeah, I mean, because the way I look at it
is I make more than Alison does. But she works
on this job whether or not her name is on it.
You know, Like I'm always like complaining about work and
stuff like that, so she's she's contributing that way.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, that's a therapist.
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:14):
It's interesting because like the older you get and like
when there's you know, kids involved kids prior to your
you know, your marriage, there's there's a lot of nuance
to it. And so I've just been I've been asking
a lot of people how they deal with their finances,
and I think the thing that I realized through all
my research is that there really isn't a wrong way
(34:35):
to do it. You know, like I know so many
different couples that do it in so many different ways.
And so it's whatever is comfortable to you. If you
want to be contributing to your savings account and your
partner is not great with money and not good with budgeting,
that's your gut instinct. I would go with your gut instinct.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
One thing we did do before we got married is
I made an effort to get my wife out of debt.
She had a lot of credit card deb when we
were dating, so I just I I took care of
that so that when we got married, we could start fresh.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
Yeah, that's what I.
Speaker 4 (35:04):
Wanted to do. I think maybe you told this guy,
I'm happy to do that, but you got to clear
out the debt you're dealing with, at least your credit
card debt, because that can be really a struggle. If
you can get rid of that. Okay, he's got a
car payment, but get rid of the credit card debt
and then may able to talk about it. And honestly,
I think you should get married first.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
I was gonna say, I won't even think about combining
anything with someone who is just a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (35:25):
Yeah, but I feel like she thinks that they're on
their way, so she wouldn't be asking that, right because like,
these are the conversations that we're having now.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
No, but I think it's worth a conversation of, like, hey,
I'm totally down to like have a joint account that
we both put into it. But I I would feel
more comfortable if you had cleared if you cleared your
debt before we even took that step.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Yeah, I think that's totally fair.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I don't think there should be any pressure for her
to merge their finances as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
And also I think it works best if one of
you handles the finances. Is that weird?
Speaker 2 (36:00):
I mean, it's so my relationship is so different because
I you know, we're both and like we're both like
have our own thing. We're very separate in sense of finances.
But like I like, if if we go to dinner,
one of us will pay, and it's never a thought again, right.
Speaker 3 (36:14):
And that like there's a street store too, like sometimes
he goes sometimes.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
Yeah, we just very much split costs, but like we
each have our own home, so we obviously pay for that,
all the utilities whatever. But yeah, it'd be obviously there
will be a different conversation when we live fully together.
Speaker 1 (36:28):
But I don't even know. We both have our own things, so.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
Yeah, I think it's just easier if one person can
do all that stuff. And it sounds like it should
be her, It should not be him. She should be handled.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Yeah, she definitely needs to be handled, definitely her.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
Yeah, I think that'll make it help.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
But good luck, wish he the best, the best. That's
all for now, but we do have a Thursday episode somehow.
The book called is still Happening.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Well, the feedback I saw it was overwhelmingly positive for
the book club.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Great.
Speaker 4 (36:59):
If people didn't like it, they didn't share that opinion
because I did a.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Few posts that we're not supportive of the book club continuing.
So there was some conflict there. But don't you worry
that people who like it.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
There's the third.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
So we will be doing chapters and if you're not
reading the book, you should still listen because there's fun
stuff in there.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
That's the thing is.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
People were like, I'm not even reading the book. I've
never read the book. I have no desire to read
the book. But I like the conversations that it has
sparked because it's a kind of a deeper look into
some things that we typically don't hear on the podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
So I like that aspect too. But I'm saying as
far as.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
Like like recapping the book, I don't know if people
are like waiting with baited Breath.
Speaker 5 (37:51):
There's no pop quiz or anything. If you don't know
how to read it, you can still listen to the episode.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Yeah, whether it's this kind of a book, if it
was like a narrative. Okay, So then this week Josie
went down to the river and the treasure'd be different.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
It's not. I don't know, sounding like.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
The parts that were read are recapping this week are
burn aches or let it burn, aches and ghosts.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
So we'll be back Thursday. We love you all.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Be kind to each other, love each other kind.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
And we will be back Thursday. Love you bye, Love you,
Hello everybody.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
So before we start the podcast, we wanted to acknowledge
what's going on in Israel right now. It's such a
heavy time, and it feels like even doing a podcast
feels so.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Feels wrong in a way, just because all the videos,
everything that we've been seeing, the coverage this past weekend
has been horrific. Innocent people being dragged out of their homes.
It's just been so horrible to see. I have family
there now that is affected by everything going on, and
I just, you know, we really wanted to take the
(00:30):
time to just stay to say that we stand with
Israel and support them and everything that's going on right now.
It's just a very heavy time and all of.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
The innocent people who have been attacked or who have
had families, and people all over the world who feel
the weight of what's happening. I don't think we can
even comprehend how severe and tragic and catastrophic this is.
And it feels like very helpless in the sense that
feels like there's nothing we can do. But at the
(01:02):
very least, I feel like we can acknowledge it and
condemn the acts of terrorism and the violence and the
pure evil that's happened and also lift up the people
who are suffering and victims to what's been happening. And
we know that we're not a podcast that people come
to for world news or for political topics.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Butcally quite the opposite. You know, we want to be
a lighthearted place where people can come for joy and comfort.
But we didn't want to go on with our podcast
without acknowledging and just you know, being there for our
Jewish community and saying that we stand with you and
we are praying and praying for love and praying for peace.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah. Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An
iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Scrub a dub dub.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
How you doing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I'm doing if you're doing, Yeah, I'm doing. I feel
like a long week.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
It was a long week.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Yeah, I feel like I hadn't seen you in a
very long time, although I just saw you a couple
of days ago Saturday, but like not very long. I
saw you for like ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
It was short because I had told you I was
gonna be there too. You came strolling around three point thirty.
I waited for you, which I did. Yeah, I didn't
leave because I was done for a while.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And then I was like, it's cute.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I know I'm a good friend, even though you try
to make me out to look like I don't care. Sometimes, Okay,
that is not what I do sometimes.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
First of all, sometimes that's just the difference in our personalities.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
No, I definitely I show up when I need to
show up, that's true.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
And I waited for you, so' like that's being knowledge you.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Were waiting for me Becca. I love you.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
You're welcome, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
You went to you just were like hanging out with
Selena and stuff this weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Or what I had something every single night this week
so for you. No, I realized that I think I'm
an introverted extrovert because I like being around people, but
I also need some recharge alone time and.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Humans.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Is it have an interesting stat I.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Used to think that I was like pretty unique in
my like I love to be around people, but I
need to recharge. I thought I was so cool and
like special, and then I realized, I think that's how
majority of people feel.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
We're all introverted extroverts or extrovert introverts. We're all a
combination of Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
I had to Discovery this week because mama is, uh,
she needs she needs to plug in.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
You think it's happened with age maybe maybe yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Maybe?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Well, I mean, was it an industry event every night?
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Industry? No, industry and personal?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Yeah, I know it's a combo, but the industry. The
event that I did go to was the uh so
it was supposed to be. It was initially a gala
and then I saw everybody saying that it was the
first Rare Impact Fund benefit. So I don't know what
the difference between a benefit of gala is, but the
verbiage definitely changed earlier.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You called it a gala, so kala gala.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I thought it was gala and I was like, oh,
it's a gala, and then you just said gallas, So
which is it.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think it's I think it's like tomato, tomato. There's
not really a right or wrong gala. Yeah, galla, right,
so gala apple, I don't know whatever. So it was
the Rare Impact Fund benefit. So that's what kind of
kicked off the week, the festivities, and it was actually
(04:44):
really cool. I was expecting it to be very kind
of you know, gala galas are little stuffy, you know,
like rubber chicken in a ballroom, and this one was
very opposite. It was very lively. They were like doing
inscriptions in some of the rare beauty products, and so
it did my new initials on one of them.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
What are your new initials? T r y Try Tanya radyad?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
How on brand is the word try?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
For me?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Wow? It's so hopeful, it's so hopeful.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
It's mirror ball coded. What mirror ball?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Taylor Swift Oh the song?
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Yeah, yeah, crazy Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I was like, where's she going with this?
Speaker 2 (05:26):
I mean, obviously we speak in swifty language here exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But Taylor Lanner was there, and I.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Just love Taylor Loner.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I do two you so sweet. He gave Robbie the
biggest hug and congratulated us on our engagement. I was like,
you are just the sweetest man. And his wife. I
love also Tay Taylor Loner.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Hey, she's Tay, He's Taylor.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Yeah. And then we're in the you know how like
I've always wanted. I feel like you always you know,
you made it in life when you can bid at
like a silent auction at those.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Gayla gal Wow. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I was like, I know, I'm going to know that
I've made it when I can like bid, because the
bidding always starts at five thousand dollars. Like, who's been
betting five thousand dollars on anything?
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Would you bid?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
I didn't. Oh, so I'm not there yet, okay, but
for our future gala gala, I will be there. But
somebody been fifteen thousand dollars for Taylor Swift tickets?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Wow, what city?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
I think it said? I think don't quote me because
I don't I don't have a photographic memory, but I
believe it was kind of your choice two tickets to
any Taylor Swift showed your.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Choice fifteen k fifteen row.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
At least didn't say front row.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I would imagine front row.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
I imagine it's probably like some sort of hook up.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Yeah, yeah, it would, I would hope.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
So there was one. There was one auction. Ie though
that it was like a glam day with Selena's like hair,
makeup and stylist, and I was like this could be
good for the watering, and that go through my head
and then I was like should that go for I
don't know, I don't remember.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But it was up there.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
I was like for.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
The fifteen Okay, here's my thing. If you could throw
away fifteen k would you do that for Taylor Swift tickets?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
You could throw away what you could throw away?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Yeah yeah, I'm not okay, not throw away, but like
it's not gonna hurt you, but you could use that
for something else.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Well, the thing is it goes to charity. I'm just
saying I know, but that's the big that's the big thing.
It's like it's for charity.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Mark says, no.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Way, I could never ever spend I don't care if
I was a billionaire, I couldn't spend fifteen thousand dollars
on one night, even.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
If it was for charity.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
No, yes, you could, Okay easton a meet and greet
with the whole Avengers cat.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Well, he's like I'll do in character character.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
In yeah, I would do that. I would.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Would you.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
If I was guaranteed like a front row experience? And
I was like, maybe he's.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Gonna spend a lot.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm teetered back and forth on a very pricey ticket.
The last night of her show in La everyone from
near fifteen thousand by was it fifty thousand for two?
So like seventy five hundred for each two Yeah, okay, okay,
so a steal really one hundred.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
I was looking through next years, like seeing her in Milan,
Italy couldn't be pretty amazing, I know, And maybe if
I could introduce her to my kids afterwards. Now we're talking.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
See that's if there's some sort of met mareat edition.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
Yeah yeah, maybe.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, but if it's like a mid range level, right.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Like you don't know what kind of ticket you're getting. Yeah,
I don't know about that, and it has to be
the show of your choice.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Yeah, I mean I would definitely go overseas. How cool
would it be to see her in another country? Yeah,
that'd be really cool. You seem to have Did you
have any hangovers over your weekend? I mean your week.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Of How was your week before we dive into the weekend,
you know, a week weekend?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
What did I had to look back up? I was talking.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You were pretty busy too, was I? Yeah? You were
out in a boat, oot in a boot out in
a boat.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
What did I do though?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Because I don't remember, I don't really have any I
don't think I did much.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Like I think I had a pretty chill.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Week, which I needed because the last week was wild,
I did do so I'm I have another. I have
a campaign with Taco Bell, which I'm so excited about
and so Ali and I yeah, it's my second one.
Thank you so much. I love them and I so
Ali and I filmed a video where she ate like
tried all my favorite Taco Bell items with me.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
That was really fun.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
I'm your number one favorite Taco Bell item.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
God, it's so hard, like I just go back and
forth on like what what it is? Because I love
the crunch Trap Supreme, I love a Mexican pizza. I
love the new rolled chicken tacos. Those are insane. It
was so good, and Ali would really loved everything.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I thought, well, I don't know. I feel like you'd
be like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Yeah, well I didn't like it.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Actually.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I like a bean and cheese bruto. You can't go wrong,
and you get a little chip in there, dip.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
The chip in there with a little sacho cheese, the
chip in the beans.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yes, that was my drunken move always that I would
split it up. I'd split it open with like a
knife and I would just chip the dips in there,
dip the chips in there, and just go to town.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
WHOA, Sometimes I wish I got to hang out with
that Tonya.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
Yeah, you could have hung out there on Friday things
got pretty wild.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
You hate Taco Bell?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
I didn't Taco Bell, but I definitely ate a mozzarella
fried cheese dak. Yeah that sounds so great. Wait till
you hear from where were the Bungalow?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Okay, honestly, the Bungalow has some incredible memories for me
because you know, that's where Haley came to meet up
with us. This the night that we kissed, is it really?
She drove from Hollywood, which, like knowing her now, after rehearsal,
she went home and changed drove all the way from
Hollywood to Santa Monica to the Bungalow.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
We were wasted. It was like one am. She shows up.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
She comes and sits down with our group, and Taylor
Banks is next to me, and then Brittany's on the
other side of me, and Hailey's kind of like squatted
down and she's holding my hand behind Brittany's back, like
Haley and I are holding hands on my Brittany's back.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
I did not know.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I lean over to Taylor and I'm.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Like we're holding I remember this story and then she
drove us back to Brittany's place and that's where that's
when we kissed. Wow, I know, so bungalow has great memories,
but it's been a minute since I've been there.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Yeah, did you feel old?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Oh my god, I've never feel older in my life.
And the best part is that was our third stop
of the night. No, wait on one shoo, fourth our
fourth stop of the night.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Okay, for those of you who don't know the bungalow is,
it's attached to a hotel in Santa Monica, and it's
very like young college people that go there typically. Yeah,
it's kind of like Freddy. Yeah's so fun though it's
like ping pong table door indoor.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
It's kind of got like a vibe that you're in
the living room house beach. Recently, that one's very different vibe.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Thought more chic or was it the same?
Speaker 5 (12:24):
I mean it's a lot more space.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
What I will say is it's very jam packed the
one in Santa Monica. Yeah, close corners.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
It's like you hit an age going to these places
where you suddenly feel like I've.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Out done Yeah, I definitely felt that. But We came
from the from Shore Bar, which was which is even
younger if you can imagine. Yeah, we romped around town
on Friday. Yeah. I think it's like a.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
College with doing these activities.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
Everybody, everybody Selena no no, no, no, I was with
so is Robbie's mom's birthday. So we like started out
at dinner and then I just like went from there.
We just kind of like party hopped. Paulina was involved,
but she can go. She's like energizer bunny.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
She's like twenty one.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Yeah, twenty eight.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Oh she's twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
I literally thought she was like twenty four.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
No, no, no, elder.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Yeah, that's for great, great skin, great sunny. Truly, she's
one of the most beautiful humans ever.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
But yeah, so we stayed out until I want to say,
three forty five in the morning. I went I know,
I went to bed at four am, and my body
is just used to waking up early, So I was
up at like seven forty five and was just feeling
immense pain.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
When you drink like that, Like my body wakes up
out of just like it's almost like.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I'm going to make you pay for what you've done
to me.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
You know, and it's interesting because I never feel good
after I drink, and yet I continue to do it.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Why is that it's so fun in the moment.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
Does the fun outweigh the pain?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
No?
Speaker 3 (14:06):
No, so I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Don't try to act like you're not drinking anymore.
Speaker 3 (14:11):
Maybe there are other substances I can do. Yeah, you
like that, we need Yeah, like marijuana.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
Okay, No, I gotta say, like it's gotten to where
I don't really drink, and then I'll take an If
I'm like, okay, I don't want to drink, but I
want to feel social and like relax, I'll take an
edible no hangover.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
I might snack a little more than normal.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
But see, that's what everybody tells me. So so well,
I'm not a pot girly. I I've never actually smoked pot.
I think I've taken one edible in my life, and
maybe it was like a quarter of a quarter of
a quarter nibble. I don't even think it would like
affect an ant. But everybody keeps telling me to try edibles,
(14:57):
and I think I need to give it a whirl.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
I mean, you could just do nothing like I just
speaking as a guy who does nothing it's kind of
cool of doing nothing.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
So when you go out on the town on like
a Friday night, everybody's enjoying a nice glass of some martine.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Week before last, Amy and I went out because a
friend of ours was singing with a band, so we
went to watch her and supporter sing with a band.
Is it a bar in a thousand oaks? Is there
a question?
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Or yeah? So okay, So you're partaking in lively activities
on a Friday night, you don't. How do you kick
back and relax?
Speaker 4 (15:30):
I don't kick back. I'm always kicked either Either I
never kicked back and relax or I'm always kicked back
and relax because I just drink water. That's all I
ever drink. I drink water. I got a sandwich. It
was delicious. I enjoyed the band. I was singing long
dancing with my wife. What had a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
See, I need a glass of something.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
You don't. I don't think you do. I think need
is the wrong word in that sentence. You think you do.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Yeah, it's interesting perspective.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I have a suggestion.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
What if you got some sparkling water and put some
wine in there, and you have the glass and you
danced and did all your things. Do you think maybe
placebo you'd feel like.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
I think that's really interesting.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Yeah, I don't know. It's like it's not it's it's
it's all an interesting experiment.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
Because you know, I'm asking you to do a social experiment.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I try I'll try it this weekend or like an you.
Speaker 4 (16:19):
Can't know about it. If you know about it, then
it's not going to work. It's like somebody has to
surreptitiously trade out your drink for something not alcoholic, you
know what.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Actually, what's so interesting so that.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
That reminds me of this experiment that they did, and
I just learned about it this weekend because I need
to get into the why. But they did this experiment
where they put all these people they like drew on
their faces, whether it was like a big big like
fatty like Mule or Zi or something that was just
like big. It was like a crater on their face.
And they wanted the Social Experiments to have them walk
(16:54):
down the street and just report back on how people
were like looking at them or how they felt walking
down the street with like a giant like pimple basically
on their on their face. So as the people. So
they put this grotesque like with all the whatever it's called, yeah,
and then do a touch up before they walk out
the door, and they scrape it all off so there's
nothing there, and they send them on their way. And
(17:15):
the people came back and we're like, people were staring
at me, people were giving me weird looks. I felt
so uncomfortable, And it was all this social experiment about
how we are so obsessed about, like, you know, these
little blemishes or these little things on our faces, and
like we think that everyone's gonna stare and judge and
comment when nobody else sees it. But but you.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Interesting, right, Yes, that is a very interesting thing.
Speaker 6 (17:40):
Mm hm, Because then I do feel like there would
be people who would be like, no, like people stare
like it's I do deal with people staring, you know
that do have like I think that there would be
people who.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
Have and for sure, But I think that the moral
of the experiment was that, like we are, we create
all these narratives in our head that not necessarily there.
It's so true. So don't really know how that goes
back to the alcohol thing, but it made me think
of that.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That is interesting. But it's all a social experiment.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
Yeah, I'd be down to try the mocktail approach this
weekend and see if it. Like there's just something about
alcohol that makes me feel like I'm off duty.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
You know, there's one that I like called the Ocho
Cinco and Chatta Jaesinka. The football player doesn't drink and
he would he would do a red bull and cranberry
juice with lime in it.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
And that the red bull, I.
Speaker 5 (18:27):
Mean that gets me going. My head turns into a
giant whistle. I'm running circles around the place.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
That does the trick for me.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Interesting, Yeah, I mean it's worth a shot.
Speaker 3 (18:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
I went to dinner and at the very end they
brought out the chicken, right, and you know how I'm
about chicken. It's so freaky end Well, she means like
like a shared place, a shared plate situation. So they
just like bring out things as they were ready. And
the last thing was that it was like a chicken
and like a little skillet situation. And it looked appetizing,
(19:01):
which I don't. You know, I'm pretty finicky about my chicken.
I thought that sounds cozy. I bite into it so
slimy immediately it was like absolutely not get it away
from me. At the end, my friend is eating and
she goes she spits her chicken out, and she goes,
oh my god, that's raw. And we looked out it
is fully pink.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
Oh mine wasn't. The bite I got wasn't. But I
was like, no, I'm not eating it. I'm not.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
I can't do it. It's so freaky. What's the point. Yeah,
you know, so I'm off chicken again.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Man.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
It was short lived. What I do love is what
it was short lived.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
The bravery was very short lived.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
But one thing I do love is my whole TikTok
is filled with people eating chicken fingers like dipped in ranch.
It looks so good and they eat it so bravely.
There's no fear of getting like a freaky deey piece.
Speaker 3 (19:55):
They just go eating chicken. For thirty six years of
my life and I've never had a freaky diky piece.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
That's because all are people who probably clear the bone
and don't consider the cartledge you're eating through.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
I've had some freaky mc nuggets in my chick, you know,
But I keep going back.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I mean, same, Okay, Well, good for you, congrats, because
great great.
Speaker 1 (20:18):
It never tastes like wet dog.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
No, I never ever tastes like wet dog. Never get
a weird, chewy piece. So you have to kind of like.
Speaker 3 (20:26):
No and no. But there I have. I've had some
stinky chicken.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
I hate that whole phrase. I've had some chicken.
Speaker 4 (20:38):
Here's the story my daughter has. You know, we've talked
about this before that she deals with some anxiety and
that's gotten way better. But the point is, one night
my wife was out of town with my other dog,
was just the two of us, and we got Trader
Show's chicken parmesan and so I was enjoying that. It
was two pieces. I gave her one. I took one.
I was enjoying, and she's like, it's kind of weird.
I'm like that mine's fine, but if you don't want
(21:00):
to donate it, it's okay. Eh, it's kind of weird.
And I'm like, oh, well, I mean, then don't need it.
If you don't want to eat it. Then she didn't
like half fun. She goes, yeah, I don't want eat
the same. I'm like, all right, now I'm gonna finish hers.
And I took it. Yeah, it was not good. It
was like crunchy and weird. I'm like, this is weird.
So then, but then I had a decision to make
as a dad, and I ate the rest of it.
And I'll tell you why, because at bedtime tonight, her
(21:22):
anxiety is going to kick in and she's gonna think,
oh my gosh, did I eat bad meat? Am I
going to throw up? So I ate the rest of
that so that I could say to her, I ate
it too, and I feel fine, You're going to be fine.
And it worked sure enough. Bedtimes she's like, Dad, do
you think I'm gonna throw up? You think that meat
was bad? I'm like, I don't know, hun, but I
ate everything. You wait just to be safe, and I'm okay.
I think my stomach is a little bit it's in
(21:43):
your head because I ate it and I'm fine. And
that is the sacrifice we make as a father, bad
bad meat, just to make sure your daughter is going
to be okay.
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Did you say good night here and then hold your
mouth projectile?
Speaker 4 (21:57):
I really did feel fine, but I didn't feel fine.
We'd be it together.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
That's very sacrificial. I don't know that I could do
the same.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Yeah, I definitely didn't do the same. Once we got
some raw chicken tenders out when we were skiing.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
It was like, literally not right now?
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Actually remember seeing that Robbie posted a picture of it.
Robbie posted a picture of it on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (22:19):
Is yes, I have a visual visual feeling. So we're
going to take a break and we'll be right. Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
I had to cleanse my palate from that previous conversation.
Should have had a trigger warning on there.
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yeah, sorry, we're all the.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Chicken freaky chicken dog.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Anyways, during the break, Mark tries an act like he discovered.
Speaker 3 (22:58):
All day you don't even know. During the morning show,
he's been like anybody watched Naked Attraction and he's like
on this high horse, like he found it. And then
he came to the podcast and said the same thing,
And I'm like, you know where you found this show?
Is Becca Tilly?
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Because I remember the next day you came in the
morning show you had Sisney do a week Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
That's rights.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
I was like, that's right, well, yeah, credit.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
We had a recording of this happening, Marks on his
high horse. The joke I made this morning is that
an alternate title for that show could have been Razor
burn I told you it's fascinating.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
So because of my tour day activity, I did not
have TV watching time this weekend.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
What is tour day activity?
Speaker 3 (23:45):
I was trying to come up with like a clever yeah, yeah, yeah,
it didn't really slug up the tongue. But I want
to watch the show. I really want to watch the show.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
My observation is that the people that we see naked
in our lives are our partner and movie stars in
films that are lit and ripped and have personal trainers
and are starving themselves. And everybody's always perfect in movies
and your partner that's pretty much who you see. So
this is like seeing random people on the street with
lopsided everything and all shapes and sizes, and it's fascinating
(24:17):
in that sense. And so it's just kind of like
it's not I don't find it titillating. I don't find
it like erotic in any way. It's fascinating. Yeah, see
what everybody in the world looks like.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
It's not erotic at all.
Speaker 4 (24:32):
Right, that's I think when people hear about a show
called Naked Attraction, that's what they think. It's going to
be some sort of a titillating show.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Well, Mark, if you remembered on the podcast, Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4 (24:43):
I said.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
That's why it's so it's like almost charming because they're
British and they're very kind about you know, when they
eliminate someone, it's a pretty gentle.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I feel like if we did it here it'd be like, yeah,
I don't works.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
That's what happens in the UK. It's so gentle. They're
so gentle of it.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
Yeah, I mean, I just feel like there's something about
it that doesn't It feels like it normalizes the human body.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
Yeah, it's strange.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
It's strange. It's still strange.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
I feel like any day know that we're going to
hear about the that American version is now in production, right,
that's got to happen.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Yeah, it's not going to be as good.
Speaker 4 (25:17):
I think it's going to be very differently made up
and lit. I think there were going to be special
people playing makeup to Genitalia, so we don't see the
razor burn in America. I think I want to.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Watch now you still haven't watched.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
No, I had show me like a whole teaser. Oh yeah,
so I told Robbie there's a show that Beca's really
recommending are you down to watch it? I said, I
don't remember name because I don't want him google it,
and he's like, yeah, I'm downe So I have him
on board.
Speaker 4 (25:42):
Oh good, that's gonna be funny.
Speaker 1 (25:43):
What a tease that happened?
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Literally less than I And he goes, is there a
joke on me? He's like why don't? And I was like,
I was like, why would there be a joke on you?
Speaker 1 (25:51):
Yeah, no joke, there's no joke.
Speaker 3 (25:53):
I just don't want him to look at I just
want him to research.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Did you watch and Love Is Blind?
Has anyone watched?
Speaker 3 (26:00):
I'm deep in this season spoiler alert.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
I'm so irritated that there's only two couples that were
like yeah hoping for.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
It's a bad season and the two couples kind of suck.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Honestly, I don't hate I don't really not.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
Like uh Lydia and Milton.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I don't really hate either of them. Like I'm not like,
oh about any I'm just kind of like, eh, I'm
not like.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
I don't either of them, but I'm not invested in
like imne Izzy, like Izzy.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Yeah, what's the girl's name?
Speaker 3 (26:32):
He's with Stacy.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Okay, is that right?
Speaker 2 (26:35):
And Stacy, yeah, I think they go together. Yes, they
make sense to me, Yeah they do. And then I
feel like Milton, yeah, is very into Lydia, but I
think she's a lot for him, and.
Speaker 3 (26:50):
I think she went on the show to get back
together with her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
Ooch.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
I'm so in that conspiracy theory.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
The whole thing. I just was like, this is a disaster, and.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Which actually posted something on his Instagram saying like, you're
only getting one side of the story. Wait till like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah, they all bugged me at that dinner where they
all came back. I was like, this is just a
recipe for disaster.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, this season does feel was.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Like, oh my gosh, this season's crazy. It's amazing, and
I'm like, I don't like it. Oh really, yeah, I
don't like I like to like root for people. I
don't love the drama. That's why I love the Golden Bachelor.
It is so amazing.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah, they really have cast the perfect man to be
the first Golden Bachelor. No.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
I came around on the Golden Bachelor and yeah, I'm
gonna watch it.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Okay, we're just we just got to the point where
you're going to watch it.
Speaker 3 (27:45):
Watch no again. It was very busy adventure and I
watched the David Beckham documentary.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
I was just talking to Towny about this.
Speaker 3 (27:56):
Yeah, so I did that. But I am going to
watch The Golden Back because it feels like hopeful and
it's your best Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
It's so emotional. He's precious. Okay, I think we should
take a break and then come back with some emails.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
I could just take it if you want. No one
else is going.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
It was like blocked down. I don't even know what happened.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
Mark, and you were just in another world.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
Look, I was just looking straight at the paper.
Speaker 4 (28:43):
Laura is a newer listener, said I'm a huge fan
of Haley, So I started listening after her and Becca's
relationship became public, and now I'm a bigger fan of
you guys.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Hot take that, Hailey. Wow Hailey.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
First of all, a bit overdue, but so happy for
Becca and Haley and their relationship of launch, and huge
congrats to Tanya on her engagement. So Laura binged this
entire podcast over the past six months, and she was
hoping for some plot twists that could be answered. Number one.
In twenty nineteen, Tanya visited a psychic and was given
two initials of a man she would meet in the
month of May. What were those initials?
Speaker 3 (29:18):
They were not Robbie's okay, yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:20):
And you can't say what they were. You don't remember.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
I do?
Speaker 1 (29:26):
I think? Wait, I feel like it's not Robbie's. Definitely
not Robbie's, right.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
Did you write them down? Are you going through your notes?
Speaker 2 (29:42):
I'm trying to see if I have it enough, did you?
I was trying to look them down to see.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
So we know where they aren't Robbies, but what they
were would be kind of interesting, wouldn't they?
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Okay, do you know what they are?
Speaker 3 (29:54):
No?
Speaker 6 (29:55):
C H?
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Where did you write those?
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I just typed in initials on my text thread and
popped up came.
Speaker 4 (30:01):
Back in a smart smart sleuthing over there. Do you
know anyone named c H? Chris Harrison's Harrison Collette Hubert
works for our morning show.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
No, Chris, it is he's like married guys.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Come on, come on, that's true?
Speaker 6 (30:26):
Is he?
Speaker 1 (30:26):
That wasn't he engaged? He's married but.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Like multiple children and he's the married with Liam is
the one that Yeah, but.
Speaker 4 (30:31):
He's not l h number two. In the podcast Back
Ahead with Jojo, she mentioned going on a date with
a known man at the time she met Haley. Is
there any chance you could reveal the known man you're
on a date with?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
No?
Speaker 3 (30:44):
What I just revealed mine?
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Yeah, the yours didn't reveal anything.
Speaker 2 (30:52):
No, it's way too obvious, Chris. Yeah, I'll give you
the starting letter of the first name.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
Intriguing and.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
Do what you want with that. Yeah, but it was.
It was like, it's almost laughable to even call it
a date.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
But then why not say it if it's if it
was just a hangout.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
He's famous and I, like, you know, I don't know.
He was very private, So yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
You should say a show. No, that will absolutely get
a show, a different one.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
They will all obviously give it away.
Speaker 4 (31:32):
We've narrowed it down now, guy with a show.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Everybody sort of them. Anyways, it was crazy and fun
and I couldn't believe it happened.
Speaker 4 (31:46):
I'll just do one guess. Was it Michael Jordan the
greatest basketball player of all time? No, that's not bad, Actually,
good guess? Okay, all right. Brittany says she's been with
her boyfriend for two years and they went really fast.
(32:07):
They got they moved in very quickly. He moved cities,
moved in with me at six months, about a house together.
We've been trying for a baby for over a year now,
but they're not married. But all this has been going on,
he'sn't bringing up combining bank accounts. It's this is an
interesting dilemma because she says, I'm much more financially responsible
and I have virtually no debt, but he makes twice
(32:27):
what I do. He has debt, car payment, credit card, payment,
line of credit, and our agreement is he pays the
mortgage payment because I paid the down payment. I paid
the utility bills, and then we have separate bills and
debts and whatnot. Anyway, I'm a little concerned that if
we put our money together it's going to be a
problem because he always ends up in the negative every month,
(32:47):
where I always contribute to my savings account every month
and he makes double what I do. He thinks by
showing account well and it further ahead. But I'm afraid
he will suck us dry. How and when do you
know if it's time to share finances?
Speaker 3 (32:57):
Damn that is you know, it's such an interesting question.
That I find so fascinating because I've been asking a
lot of married people how they deal with their finances,
because I'm obviously engaged, and I've seen everything from like
married couples venmowing each other for the utilities, splitting stuff
(33:18):
completely down the middle. Some people combine, some people don't
combine but have different responsibilities, like I'll take care of
the kids this, and you take care of the kids this.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
What that al strikes me. It's so odd and only
odd because it's foreign to me.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
Yeah, the venmowing is wild too, Yeah, and.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
The splitting, like you take care of this bill, I'll
pay for the kids soccer, you do this. And now
that's all very strange to me because we we just
compiled everything from day one. So it's all very foreign
to me. I'm not saying it's bad to reach their own,
but it's very foreign to me, and it's hard for
me to understand.
Speaker 1 (33:47):
What are you saying? The separation?
Speaker 4 (33:48):
The separation?
Speaker 3 (33:49):
Yeah, like all like you, So that's how it works.
Is that how it works in your marriages? You both
just it's all just one big pot and that you just.
Speaker 5 (33:57):
Yeah, I mean, because the way I look at it
is I make more than Alison does. But she works
on this job whether or not her name is on it.
You know, Like I'm always like complaining about work and
stuff like that, so she's she's contributing that way.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Yeah, that's a therapist.
Speaker 4 (34:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:14):
It's interesting because like the older you get and like
when there's you know, kids involved kids prior to your
you know, your marriage, there's there's a lot of nuance
to it. And so I've just been I've been asking
a lot of people how they deal with their finances,
and I think the thing that I realized through all
my research is that there really isn't a wrong way
(34:35):
to do it. You know, like I know so many
different couples that do it in so many different ways.
And so it's whatever is comfortable to you. If you
want to be contributing to your savings account and your
partner is not great with money and not good with budgeting,
that's your gut instinct. I would go with your gut instinct.
Speaker 4 (34:53):
One thing we did do before we got married is
I made an effort to get my wife out of debt.
She had a lot of credit card deb when we
were dating, so I just I I took care of
that so that when we got married, we could start fresh.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
Yeah, that's what I.
Speaker 4 (35:04):
Wanted to do. I think maybe you told this guy,
I'm happy to do that, but you got to clear
out the debt you're dealing with, at least your credit
card debt, because that can be really a struggle. If
you can get rid of that. Okay, he's got a
car payment, but get rid of the credit card debt
and then may able to talk about it. And honestly,
I think you should get married first.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
I was gonna say, I won't even think about combining
anything with someone who is just a boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (35:25):
Yeah, but I feel like she thinks that they're on
their way, so she wouldn't be asking that, right because like,
these are the conversations that we're having now.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
No, but I think it's worth a conversation of, like, hey,
I'm totally down to like have a joint account that
we both put into it. But I I would feel
more comfortable if you had cleared if you cleared your
debt before we even took that step.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
Yeah, I think that's totally fair.
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I don't think there should be any pressure for her
to merge their finances as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 4 (35:52):
And also I think it works best if one of
you handles the finances. Is that weird?
Speaker 2 (36:00):
I mean, it's so my relationship is so different because
I you know, we're both and like we're both like
have our own thing. We're very separate in sense of finances.
But like I like, if if we go to dinner,
one of us will pay, and it's never a thought again, right.
Speaker 3 (36:14):
And that like there's a street store too, like sometimes
he goes sometimes.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
Yeah, we just very much split costs, but like we
each have our own home, so we obviously pay for that,
all the utilities whatever. But yeah, it'd be obviously there
will be a different conversation when we live fully together.
Speaker 1 (36:28):
But I don't even know. We both have our own things, so.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
Yeah, I think it's just easier if one person can
do all that stuff. And it sounds like it should
be her, It should not be him. She should be handled.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Yeah, she definitely needs to be handled, definitely her.
Speaker 4 (36:42):
Yeah, I think that'll make it help.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
But good luck, wish he the best, the best. That's
all for now, but we do have a Thursday episode somehow.
The book called is still Happening.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
Well, the feedback I saw it was overwhelmingly positive for
the book club.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
Great.
Speaker 4 (36:59):
If people didn't like it, they didn't share that opinion
because I did a.
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Few posts that we're not supportive of the book club continuing.
So there was some conflict there. But don't you worry
that people who like it.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
There's the third.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
So we will be doing chapters and if you're not
reading the book, you should still listen because there's fun
stuff in there.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
Yeah, it's not.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
That's the thing is.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
People were like, I'm not even reading the book. I've
never read the book. I have no desire to read
the book. But I like the conversations that it has
sparked because it's a kind of a deeper look into
some things that we typically don't hear on the podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
So I like that aspect too. But I'm saying as
far as.
Speaker 2 (37:43):
Like like recapping the book, I don't know if people
are like waiting with baited Breath.
Speaker 5 (37:51):
There's no pop quiz or anything. If you don't know
how to read it, you can still listen to the episode.
Speaker 4 (37:55):
Yeah, whether it's this kind of a book, if it
was like a narrative. Okay, So then this week Josie
went down to the river and the treasure'd be different.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
It's not. I don't know, sounding like.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
The parts that were read are recapping this week are
burn aches or let it burn, aches and ghosts.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
So we'll be back Thursday. We love you all.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Be kind to each other, love each other kind.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
And we will be back Thursday. Love you bye, Love you,
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