July 26, 2022 • 44 mins
Tanya went to Selena Gomez’s 30th birthday party and has some stories to share! Did she run into Jennifer Aniston?? Which celebrities did she hang out with?? We get a full recap on Sel’s big night!
Becca shares some advice for a Scrubber going through a long distance relationship.
And we get down and dirty about water parks.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are scrubbing in. It is a Monday. And you know,
I told Becca I had a very frantic morning, and
I decided that I'm gonna switch it around today right now,
and it's not gonna be frantic. It's gonna be pleasant,
and we're gonna have fun on the podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
That's right, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
You know what they say, you know what they say,
what goes down must come up?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yes, yeah, and you may have heard in your life
what goes up must come down. But Tanya says, today
today what is down must come up correct, And that
has many different connotations depending on where your mind is
that today.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Oh you mean like a wiener.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Yeah, when it goes down, it can always come back up.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
God.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Willing Mark is in a what looks to be a
garage or basement. It's hard to say.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
It's a basement. It's my father in law's work bench.
I am in Franklin, Wisconsin with the famine me. They're
up in the Wisconsin. Dell's at a water park, the
biggest water park in North America. It's called Noah's Ark.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Wait is it really called Noah's Ark?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Is it? Is it religious based or yes.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
It's what happened if we didn't escape on the arc,
like you endure the flood at this water park?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Water parks I have Like when I was young, water
park was like the ultimate destination. I couldn't think of
anything I'd rather do than go to a water park.
But as an adult, I have I have changed from that.
Did you like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I thrived at water parks.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I would like count my lucky stars if I got
I loved water parks.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Were you just like trapsing around like flirting with boys? Yeah,
flopping around to do like fake a drowning or something.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Now, but like the wave pools, like where everything went down?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Do you all picture Tanya kind of like in the
sandlot the guy who like sees the lifeguard and tries
to get her attention, Like Tanya doing that with a
cute lifeguard boy.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
This is like when Glenn Powell was on the Morning
Show and we had a whole scheme concocted that one
will pretend her microphone doesn't work so she has to
share his or his didn't work, so she had this
whatever to try to get them both on the same microphone.
It's the same concept.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
It's a damsel in distress.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
We we went and we saw Top Gun Maverick and
I was telling Robbie about how I'm friends with Glenn.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
He's like, how are you friends with this guy? And
I was like, funny you ask because it all started.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Out with the listeners thinking he'd be a good match
for me. So I told him the whole story and
he was like, you faked that your microphone. I was like,
Tubs was involved with it. Everybody was like involved with this.
So we had to share a chair with me. It
didn't work out, but we are. We became fast friends.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
He's great and Top gun Man he's really good.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You remind me of Matthew McConaughey in that movie.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah. But I'm like, we're trying to get him on
the podcast because I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Just love him. He'd be good.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
We're trying.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
We're trying, but you know what, we will wait for
Glenn Powell, because you know, things come to those who wait.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
That's so true.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Good things are a little higher.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
I have mixed emotions about the water park because I
missed my family and they're all having a great time
and it be fun to be with them. But also,
water parks are kind of gross. That's kind of where
I'm I think they are. There's not it's a feat
thing for me. It's a lot of bare feet sharing
the same areas.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
There's also something about like like the not knowing if
these people have showered recently.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
But then but they're already in the water, so it's fine.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
No, their germs, they're no, there are just scattering amongst us.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
This makes no sense because the oceans are just as dirty.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
This is Tanya. I'm gonna warn you before we get
into this debate that you're not gonna win this one.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
They're just as dirty. And there's no chlorine in the oceans.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
It's salt. It's so acidic with salt, and it's like cleansing.
And the ocean's never standing still, it's not stagnate, it's
always moving, so they're always getting into new water.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah, that's what they're doing at the water parks too,
like they're flushing it out like a giant toilet.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I don't think there's a whole lot of flushing out.
I think they're repurposing it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But I also think that water parks are being frowned
upon now because I think they're a waste of water.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Well, certainly in southern California. I don't know how you
justify having a water park unless they have some sort
of plan for, you know, using reclaimed water or something.
But here they have no problem with water.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
In Wisconsin, yeah, there's no water shortage in Wisconsin.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Plenty of it.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I Yeah, the feet thing really resonates with me, Mark,
I really appreciate you bringing that up, because.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
It's like a rubber matt and that guy over there
had his bear feet on it, and now I have
my bear feet on it and it's all bad.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
And also like other parts of the body. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Yeah, a big potential for swimming in urine at the
what I think about.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Absolutely haven't swim in a little urine.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Does Tanya have a raging waters endorsement? We don't know if.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Tanya has a deal with Hurricane Harbor.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right, So Tanya, maybe maybe you and Robbie and
the kids can go to a water.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Reports a summer bucket list, but I think we could
squeeze it in.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
When was the last time you went to a water
park long time.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yeah, yeah, long time, So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
I'd also because it's the same feeling for me as
getting in a pool in Vegas. I'm just not doing it. Yeah.
And I've been really hot and drunk and had to
like stumble. I like, I hate, I hate to even
say stumbled. I slithered into the pool because I thought
I was gonna pass out. I literally got so hot
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and tipsy. I only had one drink, but I thought
I was gonna faint. So it was like so crowdy
you could barely even find a spot to stand, and
I like slithered into the pool.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Speaking of drinking.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, oh, you're never doing anything. We've heard this before.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I can't do it anymore. My body is shutting down
on me. I just had a rager of a week.
I feel like it was I just had birthday after
birthday after birthday, and it was a lot, and so
I realized I need to detox. So I quitting drinking.
How long do you think I'm gonna last?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I bet Friday you'll drink again. Okay, yeah, I'll give
you till Friday. All right, I'm sorry, I'll give you
till Thursday.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I was gonna say taco Tuesdays tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
But you said you weren't going to drink that. I
think you can last at least a day and a half. Okay,
I'm giving you enough credit that I think you can
go a day and a half. I had the opposite
this week, where I drank Tuesday through I didn't drink
last night. Tuesday through Saturday. I went out to like
dinners and stuff, and I drank every night and I
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didn't feel hung over one time. So I don't know
if I I also ate so much carbs this week
that maybe I was just like really balancing it out.
I felt great.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I was like, man, oh, I feel the opposite. I
feel like a slug. I feel.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Uh, you know, like uh, I can't really describe the
but you know, like if beer goggles on.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I've never worn them, but I know what it's like
to feel like I was like.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
A layer of like film.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I feel like there's like a layer of like film,
not in my actual eyes, but just like in my
like life right now because of the hungoveress.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
So as a non drinker, this may be a silly suggestion,
but wouldn't it make more sense rather than going cold
turkey for I don't know, three days or something to
just decide to drink in moderation moving forward.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
So it's not that what I really like, I don't have.
I don't know, I don't I can go a day
without drinking. It's when i'm social. And it's so interesting.
I was talking to this woman who was pregnant over
the weekend and she was like, I didn't realize how
much I drank until I got pregnant, because she's like,
you just do it at social function, so like you
can have a glass of wine, then another glass of wine.
They started six o'clock beer out till ten, Like it
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just adds up. You don't like, you know, intentionally getting
like wasted. I except on Saturday night, I got really wasted.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Why not just be intentionally moderate about it. Yeah, I'll
have a glass of wine and then stop.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Right. Yeah, I think that's what I did. I think
I kept I never felt Saturday was the only night
where I was like, like kind of remember feeling like uh,
But every other night I just like felt good, I
felt fun, loose.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
But even one two glasses of wine makes me feel
bad the next day.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Well that's a tolerance issue.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
It's not like aside from Saturday. It wasn't like I
was popping back, you know, shots and stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah I would. I just what I've gathered about myself
is I'd much rather take an edible than drink. It's
way more fun. I'm relaxed. I don't have any night like,
I don't feel bad at all the next day.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Yeah, maybe I'll try that someday.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Please let me be with you. I gotta check.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I gotta figure yeah, I gotta figure something out because
I'm just a little a little sluggish.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
But I will say so on uh.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
What day?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Uh so whatever, I guess it's a Saturday. Saturday was
Selena's thirtieth birthday party, and I haven't seen some of
these people in like pre pandemic, so you.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Know me, no Tanya like in her Tanya mode.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I was just having this like serle reaction. Yes, and
poor Robbie do no. But I mean he knew, like
obviously our close friends that were there. But I was
just like having this. I was having like a you know,
you're so excited and you're like so high on life
that you just want to keep like I don't know,
I just was so wanting to keep going and going
and going, and then I was just so drunk.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
You know, Robbie's really good for you in that way
that like he can hold his own liked, because when
you get excited and you see people, you don't forget
about the people you're with, but you put so much.
You know, this is my first impression of you. So
I've been on both sides of the coin in this regard,
but I feel like he's good in the sense like
he can hold his own and like he could talk
(10:44):
to literally a poll in the middle. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Like I saw this guy one of my friends, Jordan,
who I haven't seen in years, and I've known this
guy since we were back at E Days because he's
one of Jason Kennedy's best friends. And I was like,
oh my gosh, I'm talking and Robbie just comes right
on it.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
He's like, whoa, what do you know? Like, where are
you from?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Like how do you guys know each other? And then
then they're having their own private little conversation. I was like,
all right, I'll go over here and you know, say
how to my other friend.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
You know, I know it's this is casual for you
and you do things like this all the time. But
going to something like I know, there's not like I
don't I don't even know what you can or will
talk about. But going to Selena Gomez's thirtieth birthday party
is a pretty big deal.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
It really is.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
That's on of everyday thing that people like. The way
her and her friends are talking about it her birthday dinner,
They're like, you know, on Cells Cells party on Saturday.
I know, like, who's this sell person I haven't met?
And then I realize, oh, Selena Gomez.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
So that's a big deal.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Her thirty the thirtieth is a big deal. Ye.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Then it was like a big party.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
It was a bash.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
It was it was a birthday bash.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Enjoying her on season two of Only Murders in the Building.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Yeah, it's so I'm this. So we are.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
We haven't finished season one and yet, but we're in
the thick of season one. I think we're on episode
nine and we're really really loving it.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
People's very it's it's very light. You know, when you
get when you finish a Stranger Things or a Barrie
or something like that, you can really cleanse the palette
with some only murders.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Yeah, but it's like a murder mystery.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
But it's like I actually told her that we were
we were watching it, and she's, I guess what did
they She said, It's like can't cotton candy murderer mystery
or something like that.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
It's a good way to describe.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Yeah, I like that in Candy Murder because it still
has that murder mystery aspect, which I don't even likely.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I'm not a big you know, murder mystery gal, but
I'm really really liking it.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I find you're so charming and cute on the show.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
I just absolutely And it's a crime that she was
nominated for an Emmy and Steve and Martin were nominated
for Emmys.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
That is bull crap criminal.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah what they both were, right, Stephen Martin? What happened?
Speaker 4 (12:57):
I cannot speak for the Academy.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Let's start a petition like that's messed up.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
I would also, you know who else? And I've only
seen clips of this because I haven't watched it a
long time, but the fact that Mandy Moore didn't get
an Emmy for this is us like clips of Primes.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
She's amazing and she has been on that show from
the beginning, and.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
She played three different generations of the same character.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
More than that, but definitely teenager, mom, grandma.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Yeah, but yeah, that's a that's.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Not easy to pull off playing one character as a
teenager and as a grandmother.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
But we got to talk to these Emmys people. I
gotta call up these Emmys people. We'll start with Selena,
then we'll do Mandy next.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Okay, yeah, but that yeah, like, what the heck, what
the heck? What the heck? Justice for Selena Gomez is Emmy?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, justice for all the Emmys that should have been
I mean, nominations that should have been. Okay. So the
(14:14):
other day, I see that Chelsea Handler is on Glennon
Doyle's podcast and they just posted a clip and.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Did Glennon Doyle on this podcast too?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Glennon and Abby, Like I want both of Abby Wombach
and Glennon Doyle. They're amazing. Anyways, Chelsea, Glennon says, how
are you doing? And Chelsea goes to answer, and she
like her voice cracks, and you know, we're like, we're
I feel like all of us are not used to
seeing Chelsea have like emotion and being like soft and vulnerable.
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But I felt like her relationship with Joe Coy like
really like softened her. And so she starts saying, She's like,
I'm okay, like I think I'm doing okay, and he
like that he blew my basically, like he opened my
heart to love like I've never experienced. So I text
Tanya and I'm like, I don't know much about them,
(15:09):
but I'm sad because she seems so happy and like
so in love. And I was thinking, you know of
people who I mean even I for some reason thought
about Tanya and how like when she fell in love
with Robbie and that love story and then like to
hear it it ended. I was like.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Devastated that my emotional attachment to this Chelsea Handler.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Really I'm like, who are you who hardened your heart?
You don't believe in true love?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
To be honest, I wasn't like a big stam of
their relationship, like I love I liked him because she
liked him so much, But I never loved him.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Well, I don't know. I just know them as like
a couple. I don't know anything about him separate from her.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Exactly, So what is it about? That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I just that's the the thing I think she needs
to be with somebody that's like.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
A partner to her.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Oh, you didn't feel like he was a partner.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I didn't feel that.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
No, you felt like she was. It was a one
sided romance.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
No, not one sided. I think they obviously both were
in love.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
But like, all I'm saying is they just felt like
he wasn't our partner, if you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (16:27):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Like a partner in life.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
You know what I mean, because he's younger.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
No, I just.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Need a little clarity because he's not a partner. But
he's not. He's a partner, but he's not a partner. No.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Like I'm saying, because you said that you didn't feel
like they love each other, like it was a one
side of relationship. No, I don't think it was one sided.
But I just don't feel like he was a good partner.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
You can say it as slowly and deliberately as you want,
it's not going to help us understand what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
But she posted this really sweet message basically announcing their breakup,
but also being like we love each other so much,
Like he has a new movie coming out, like go
support him, and I'm just like.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I wonder not her peer like, is that he's not
like at her level?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
No, because I don't think you need to be on
someone's level. He's just not like a partner.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
For some reason, I thought he was younger than her.
He is like five years older than Chelsea, So I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Oh yeah, I was like, I don't I don't know
his age. I don't know his age.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
But yeah, but like what it comes down to is
he's just not a partner, part of a partner. Yeah, okay,
all right, maybe you can have Chelsea back on and
see if she agrees, Like what.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Like a partner, you know, a partner helps you when
you're down. A partner helps you.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Probably know that he didn't do these things, but I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
I just had a feeling. I know the girl.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
So we're basic, this whole breakup and you having like
not being connected to it on the fact that you
think that he did not.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
That's what celebrity culture is. None of us know any
of these people, and we just have these like you
don't know that.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
I've always had strong opinions, like, look, I was teamed
Joelsey from the beginning. I was all in on that relationship.
But you like when Justin and Selena broke up for
the first time, you were horrified by that, and that
was like I don't know if that was before you
guys were friends or whatever. I think it was, but
I just remember you being the only one that was surprised.
Most of the times when celebrities break up, you're the
one that takes it hard, where everybody else was like yeah,
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figured yeah, but for.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Some reason, like because I just felt like they were
never partner us, right, I got it too clear the air.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Nothing has been cleared in case.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
You guys were wondering. I just was never Yeah, it
was just like not partnership.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I just know. I just know one hundred percent that
if Tanya had a conversation with him, she would be
like I changed. He is amazing, that's true.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Maybe I didn't know enough. Maybe I didn't know enough
about him.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
That's intruesting.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Okay, Okay, I didn't know much about him.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
He was the first celebrity I ever met working in radio.
He was performing at the San Jose improv in two
thousand and nine and came by KSCO Radio and Santa
crist to do an interview. Came in studio. It's not
a not a short drive and he was so cool
and we talked about Jordan's and he was the nicest
guy in the world to a bright eyed and bushy
tailed Easton Allen. So therefore, Joe Coy and I are
close friends, and I was always excited for him to
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get to enter this relationship and I'm sad to see
it ends he's a partner.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I tried. I trust Easton in this one's the partner.
But oh, you know what else is really devastating, Like
you talk about Selena and Justin Brad Pitton, Jennifer Aniston
is like such a vivid memory in my lifetime of
that breakup.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Becca's biggest thing was, oh, if you see jen Anison
Selena's birthday, I.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Have envy like I don't, and She's just.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Like going on, I didn't. I texted it and that's
not the tone I was saying it, but those are
the words I use. I was just like, at first
I saw Taylor s posted or Selene. Someone posted a
photo of Taylor Slifton Selena celebrating her thirtieth and I
was like, Tanya, if Taylor's there tomorrow, like you know,
we need stories, and She's like I don't think she's coming,
Like that's why they went to dinner tonight. And I
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was like cool. And then I started remembering that like
Jennifer Anderson Selena are somehow connected. Yeah, there's like a
connection there, And I was like, Jennifer Aniston, I feel like,
all of a sudden, I'm jealous about this party because
like what if Jennifer Andison's there? And she was like, oh,
I don't know she's gonna be there or whatever. But
(20:48):
I was like, I have envy because like I don't
get a ton of fomo or like jealousy. I mean,
I just I think it's That's why I think it's
cool that Tanya goes to these things, but I feel
like intimidated by like that party level scares me a
little bit. But I was like, Jennifer Anderson, is there
a movie? So jealous? My whole point of the jeniferres
the thing was to bring up how bleeping good Brad
(21:12):
Pitt looked on the press tour for his new movie.
I think it's called Bullet Train.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Looks really good.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Have you seen the pics?
Speaker 3 (21:20):
Uh No?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
The man has aged like the finest of wines.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
But you like him. I love him, even though he
screwed gen for over.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
It's complicated. I think they've healed their relationships, so I
think I get to feel this way again.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
All right, yeah, but do you like Angelina Jolie? Oh fine, okay, alright,
alright forever.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I hate that because I feel like a lot of
people were like, I hate Angelina Jolie, and I'm like,
but you still like Brad Pitt.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Oh No, I actually like all three of them. Jen's
my girl, gat, Brad's my god, and then I mean
not my god, but like, my god, he's so hot.
I was not really forgot confusing, and then Angelina is
just like a stunning human and seems to be a
good person.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
So Jennifer was not at the party.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
No, Jennifer was not there, but I did spend a
lot of time with Becky g who is just the
cutes literally the nicest thing ever.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
She is really sweet.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Yeah, yeah, she's the cutest thing.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
There were some big names there. I'm not saying like
it wasn't star studded. It's just the people who I
felt jealous.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Over, the Jennifer Andison's of the world exactly. Yeah, she
was not there, but I am trying to get her
manager on the podcast because I'm obsessed with her.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I would love that.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
She's like so so badass. She's literally like modern woman energy.
I heard her speech Selena did something for International Women's
Day for her Rare Beauty did like an event and
Eleen was her manager, spoke at it, and I literally
pulled out my phone and was taking notes because she
was just so inspiring and like not trying to be inspiring,
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just like telling stories about being a woman in the industry.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
And it was so moving and so powerful, do you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Like you know some people, you know, like they're getting
to like a crescendo and they're making a point and
they you know, that was not her. She was just
literally like talking about stories and sharing her insights, and
I was just like, I'm obsessed with you.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
The memory I have of Eileen Eileen, Eleen Eleen. Tanya
was following her around the whole party, being like, Eleen,
we have to get a photo together, and she's like, Tanya,
I really don't feel like we'll do it another time.
I don't feel like cute. I don't want to do it, Tanya.
Multiple times I heard Tanya trying to convince her to
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take a photo. I was like, Tanya, she doesn't want
to take a photo.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Yes, okay, but I was trying to get her on
the podcast, which I think she will.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Well, you know what's sad is that these days, like
your GIP, they're giving a speech and the audience is watching.
There's no difference in while this speech is so inspiring,
I have to take notes in my phone and I'm
so bored, I'm texting my friends, like the speaker has
no idea if people are so into it or if
they're just bored. Because if I were up there on
stage and I saw people on their phones, I'd be like, well,
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I lost them.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
You know what's interesting, I think she knew because I
was raising my hand and like asking questions.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
So it wasn't like, you know, sure.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Raising your hand and asking questions. No you war? Yes
I was, Yes, I was. I'm with you, Mark. I
never thought about that. I would also think the same thing.
But also, I guess you have to get people. Yeah,
but Church like everyone, I mean, I guess.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
Well, Church is another good example. I think people would
be annoyed by someone texting, or so they.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Think, But now you have the Bible app on your phone,
like I use it often.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
If you see someone with like a notepad going like this, oh,
like oh they're taking notes, but they could just be
doing a mad liver.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
That true. I used to do a lot lot of
doodling on my in my church days, in my youth,
on the envelopes for the offering. But I was gonna
say something about, Oh I saw an it was an
old concert and it was the Goo Goo Dolls, and
it was like this really cool mind the one in
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the rain of them singing iris.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
I was obsessed with the Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Yeah, they were like aicnic. It was a TikTok and
it was like at just go and watch old concerts.
Speaker 3 (25:33):
They were performing.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
The Google Dolls performed on Live with Kelly and Ryan
one day when I was there, and I was like,
it's taking everything in me not to go up to
this guy and say that I'm like wildly obsessed with you.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
But the video it's pouring rain, they're on stage singing
iris and it pans to the crowd and not I
mean there were no phone there were no cell phones,
and everyone's just like zoned in, dancing, passionately singing, and
I was like, man, I know that like having a phone,
there's a great a lot of great things, but wow,
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like we were were so desensitized to just being black balloon.
It is black balloon.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Makes her fly.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
It was like, in my opinion, yes, well not underrated.
I think they had their time.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I don't think they had the time they deserved.
Speaker 5 (26:25):
Yeah, they had a song on the chart like two
years ago, the.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
Cold Play and Trade and.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Some of the yeah man goo dolls were my Oh man, have.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
You ever been to a cold Play concert? Yes, that's
on my bucket list.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Many envy, there's the envy again, envy.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
They did a really intimate iHeart performance when you're oh.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
No, I want like a stadium where I can see
all the phone like.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
And they did.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I remember it was they did the Rose Bowl and
it was Alessia Carl was opening for them, and I
went with like a Lessio Kara's team, so I'd have
to go backstage and I was watching like Chris Martin
playing like Hacky Sack back there and like just being
so cool with every person I was working backstage.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
I was just like this.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
Guy, Tanya doesn't even know what she's.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Yeah, no, no, I knew that.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I was like, did Chris Martin just he's just like
kicking it with people right now backstage it's like early,
like he probably don't even need to be at the
venue at that point.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Wow. He got emotional recently at a concert, like they
were seeing sky full of Stars and he had to
stop singing, or like he just let the crowd sing
because he got emotional.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
God, I love him so much.
Speaker 5 (27:37):
I love it.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
He comes in and he's so nice to everybody that
you feel like, is it almost an act? But then
it's clear it's not.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
It's not.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I just just and it's like so genuine.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
That's that's amazing because at his level he could be
he honestly could be horrible.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
He guess hast an American Top forty last year, and
he like was so nice, and then halfway through he stopped.
He's like, Eastern, I just want you to know this script,
which is brilliant. This is these jokes are so funny.
And I was like, ooh, oh my god. I listened
to that clip over and over for myself. He's the best.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
If you ever need a boost, a morale boost, oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Frequent speaking of the holding up your phone light, I
got to explain to my kids the other day what
we used to do before we had phones and everyone
the lighters out there. They were very surprised that that
many people had lighters at a concert, Like, why, well,
there's plenty of smoking back then, and that's the only
reason I can think of.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah, that is fascinating though, like that that many people smoked.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah, if you had a twenty thousand people concert, there
were twenty thousand lighters out there, which seems.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Dangerous, I was gonna say. And also that they were
just allowed. Is that Can you still bring lighters into
a venue now?
Speaker 4 (28:46):
I think so?
Speaker 2 (28:47):
I don't know whoa crazy? Okay, I don't think we've
taken a single break.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
So we're gonna take a break, and you know, just
like when the flow's flow and you just got to
go with the flow.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
All right, we're back and we have some emails, so Mark,
take it away from the basement.
Speaker 4 (29:19):
All right, Becka, thank you very much. Apologies for the
hum in the background. That's a water heater. Here we
go from Anonymous. I have a cousin that I'm super
close with. He has a girlfriend and he has had
her since January. And this girlfriend has a five year
old son. We see them every single time we go
over there. She's very sweet. He's really into her, and
he told me he wants to ask her and her
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son to move in with him. Here's the dilemma. I
also recently found out from a friend who bartends that
he knows her and that she has an OnlyFans account.
He showed me your page and said he knows people
that subscribe to it. She's been doing it for about
a year, very active on the account, uses a fake name,
and films herself having sex with other men OnlyFans. I
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know for a fact what I know for a fact,
my cousin would not be okay with this. He has
no clue and wants to ask her to move in.
I'm looking for advice. I can't bring myself to tell him.
I even have a friendship with her and sometimes we
text and make plans to hang out. How do I
look at her now? I'm so uncomfortable. Help give me
some guidance. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
She has to tell the girl that she saw her
account and that I think.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
I think that's the way to do it, too.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, I think you take her aside and say, look,
I do you know this bartender Gus. Yeah, I met
Gus and he showed me your account, and I know
that cousin is not going to be happy with this.
I think you got to tell him because if you.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Don't, I will, Yeah, but then what does she do
If she doesn't tell him, then you.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Got to tell your cousin. You can't let him walk
into this trap.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
Like it's like you do you girl, like, get get
the money, do what you gotta do. But you gotta
be upfront about what you're doing. Because there's someone like
someone that I love and and I just know that
knowing him, we're really close. I know he wouldn't be
okay with this, So I wanted to come to you first.
Make it seem like you're just like like you're not
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trying to go against her, You're just you're you're looking
out for your cousin who you love.
Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yeah, I mean that is still cheating on him. If
you're having sex with other men, even if it's not
only fans, that is cheating and dangerous.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
You're right. I sorry, in my mind, I was thinking
only fans being more like photos, she's cheating on himself.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
I think it's like there's not many jobs where like
you can get chlamydia from another person.
Speaker 4 (31:41):
At a water park.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
Hey, exactly, if you kept that a secret, that would
be a bad sign.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
Yeah, yeah, I think I agree, though, I think going
to her first and giving her the chance, and then
if she doesn't, then I do. I mean, I would
look out for your cousin because it's already it's already
not great that this is happening and he doesn't know,
so I would do it as soon as possible.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Yeah, I mean, the having like having an OnlyFans account
would not bother me, honestly.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
But he still should know about that.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
So you wouldn't care if Robbie hood of OnlyFans account, well.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Yeah, if yeah, I would care, but I would less
care if he was not having sex with people.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I think you would care around, but.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
The sex really throws it to another level because you're cheating, right.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I didn't know only fans with that graphic.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I also didn't I didn't know that either.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
So if Robbie had an only fans and all he
was doing was kind of a puppet show with his genitalia,
that's it.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
A puppet show, like just like making sushi or something,
And so matter from any sort of reality that like,
I can't even put myself on the situation.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
That's good though, he's cutting fish nude.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Yeah, as someone who knows what triggers your jealousy, I
can guarantee you not be okay with them. You would
not be okay with any of it.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
Yeah, it would stress me out for sure. But I'm
saying I probably wouldn't like break up with them over it.
But then again, if it's been years and I didn't know,
that's like super sect.
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Yeah. Yeah, if he didn't tell you, that's the betrayal
that ste Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Yeah, all right, man, that's tough.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
This is from Shaney. Shaney says, my wife and I
have been married for six years and together for eight.
We spent a healthy amount of time apart trip with friends,
work retreats, so forth. However, I may be traveling for
work starting next year in Israel or Ireland. I live
in Portland, Oregon for up to a year. I'll be
able to come home every once in a while, and
she'll be able to visit me. But I know Becca
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has experience in long distance and time apart from Haley
when she's on tour. I'm very secure in my relationship
and there are no trust issues or anything like that.
I'm just worried about being homesick and being about being homesick, sorry, homesick,
and being away from her and the dogs for so long.
We have two huskies named Elbus and Fox. And do
you have any advice on what I can do to
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make it a little easier? Those are both Harry Potter references.
By the way, those dogs.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Oh, I've never seen or read Harry Potter, but no,
that's a red flag for Haley and for me, honestly.
I actually so when Haley and I first started dating,
she basically immediately went on tour. So that was their
first year of our relationship basically, and we didn't know
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anything else. So that first year was pretty I mean,
it was hard, but we just adjusted to it because
there was no other option, and I would go out
and visit when I could. But Haley's actually about to
leave on tour again in August for eight weeks. It's
gonna be so different because like we had the whole
pandemic together, We've spent so much time together and she's
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gonna be gone and I, obviously I'm the same way.
I'm very secure in our relationship. I trust it's more
about me feeling alone, you know, and being by myself
and her not being there, and like our normal routine.
But we've like just mad made it clear of like
making sure that we have a time at some point
to at least FaceTime or talk on the phone at
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some point during the day. I mean being in a
different country makes it way harder because I remember when
she was in Europe, like that was really challenging finding
times that worked for both of us to talk. But
that was the one thing, was like making sure we
have time to like catch up on our day that
feels like something that we'd normally do, and then like
once a week checking in, like you know, like something
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we appreciate about each other, you know, just like validating
and making sure that both feelings are heard and needs
are heard. Because even I'm like I always sell Haley
like I don't need a ton of attention in the
sense of like phone calls and face times, but just
like a text here and there, like hey, thinking about you,
just so in the middle of her routine and like
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work schedule, knowing that she's thinking about me. Because we've
been together for four years, so it'll be different compared
to like our first year together. Crazy, but like our
first year together, we were like so obsessed, like we
were just like waiting for the text like any time
we could get it. And obviously I'll be more that
way when she's gone, but I just told her like,
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you know, I'll communicate what I need as I needed,
but I'm not, like, I'm not unrealistic. So I think
it's just figuring out times to talk and like catch
up on your day and have face times and maybe
some like letters that's cute and roman or postcard nudes,
nudes like whatever you need, but dud to make anybody's day,
(36:49):
you know they do. Yeah, And I'm going to travel
a lot. I think I'm just gonna like try and
pack my schedule and I'm also going to go on
tour for like different stops.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
So it is weird thing I was actually having.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
I don't know if I was having this conversation with you,
but I was having with one of my friends and
I was like when I was in my like singledom
of those years of just like super single, I was
sleeping home by myself every night, like thriving, like fine,
you know, I don't need anybody to sleep with that
my vibrator like chilling now that I'm in my relationship,
(37:22):
Like I don't want to spend a night away from him,
Like I don't ever, Like I don't can't tell you
the last time I spent the night without him, but
I can't. I'm like people that are married for however
many years, Like that's such a crazy because you get
so used to it, Like I'm just so used to
having him and I've never had that before, you know
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what I mean. It's like a weird thing to think about.
That happened in a matter of like a year and
a half.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
I think.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
I feel like you would struggle long distance Tanya.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Oh yeah, I'd struggle real bad.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
But wait, this is so funny because like, for a
long time, Tanya only sought out men that were like distance. Yes,
like there was like some sort of protection.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Mechalist guy, another New York guy.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
But like thinking about your relationship with Robbie, like if
if you felt that way about any of these guys,
it would have never worked.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
I know, but I think.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Okay, So when I was doing calling in the one,
I realized that was my pattern, and I was going
for men that were like either emotionally or physically unavailable,
so I couldn't attach myself to them so that I
couldn't get hurt.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I get it. I mean I think a lot of
people probably do that without even realizing they do it.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
It's very like psychologically messed up.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
I also think there's podcast episodes where I talked about
like wanting to have separate beds from the person I
ended up with. Like I was like, I love sleeping alone,
Like I can't imagine like always having someone, like like
getting used to sleeping with someone in the bed with
me back, I was like, eh, oh, like another body
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and things really change.
Speaker 4 (38:55):
I know.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Well, we were saying before the podcast, like there's I
was saying, how they're There was this guy that he's
now married with a child, and he had DMed me
like way before he met his wife. But I was
and we were just laughing saying like how funny it
is now he's married with a baby and all the
other things that have changed since that time.
Speaker 1 (39:14):
Yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, probably half
of Los Angeles has DMS for me, at.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
Least at least half of La Tanyan Beck. I saw
hot guy in Trader Joe's. I only saw his profile,
but I noticed he had an earring and he had
slight facial hair. He's probably about five ten. Let's try
and find him.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
He had Nike's on I did, and then sometimes I
found them.
Speaker 2 (39:40):
We did. We Yeah, there was some good investigation.
Speaker 3 (39:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Well, did I give any good advice on that?
Speaker 4 (39:46):
Yes, I think you did. I don't feel any dad
to it.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I think I have nothing to add to it because
I would be horrible. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I hope you never have to go through that. Yeah,
it sucks, It really does, and I will be honest.
When Haley went to she went to like Europe and
Portugal recently, and I was not. It wasn't like my
best portrayal of myself, you know, because it was our
first time basically since before the pandemic, that we had
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been long distance for that amount of time, and she
was the time difference was challenging for me.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
Struggled because, like in the beginning of our relationship, I
only spent half of my nights with him because I
didn't meet the kids, you know, I didn't meet his
kids until a year in and so I was kind
of used to like the fifty to fifty of it,
like I didn't sleep with him every night. I slept
with him some nights, and then once I met the
kids and was around when I was around them more,
now I just am I always sleep there. But it's
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so crazy, how like now I can't even I can't
imagine it.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
I remember actually when you were fifty to fifty that
you would say, like you still slept really well in
your bed by yourself.
Speaker 3 (40:56):
Yeah, I was like totally fine, And now if I
had I.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Would be like, oh, it's like a full We gotta like,
really take care of Tanya if she ever has to
sleep alone at her apartment. Tragic, tragic, truly, Okay, Tanya,
we gotta address first of all, we gotta get you
back in the Facebook scrubbing, ya.
Speaker 1 (41:15):
I know, I just keep trying it, telling me to
double authenticate myself, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Just like, oh my gosh, I can't.
Speaker 2 (41:22):
Anyways, hadn't share what a scrubber has done.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
No problem, because a lot of people DMed it to me.
That that's how I saw it.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
But her name's Jenna, and we were talking about j
Loo's newsletter on the podcast last week, and I was like,
should I get a newsletter? She literally mocked up a
Tanya newsletter, real cute The Tanya Times, How to Start
Living Sonny woke Up, cute Butterfly sightings this week felt
be significant. I mean notable stories this week, how to
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get hands, like Robbie getting through, getting through a phase
of songs, have your own Taco Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
I mean, this is a little what's her name. I'm gonna
hire her as a graphic designer.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Yeah, it's so cute and like her drawing of Sonny
is like perfect, perfect, and I mean she's like a
model Jenna.
Speaker 2 (42:08):
Is it door Dora on Dorion? I don't know, Doron Jenna.
I'm reaching out to you because you are so talented,
so talented.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
It's so cute, and it made me kind of want
to do a newsletter, you know what.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
It made me want for you to get back into
the scrubbing anger.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
I know I'm gonna try because I think so I
had like scan something. I think if I have my
computer and my phone, I can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (42:35):
Who gets kicked out of Facebook.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
I was talking to Crystal and I was saying, like,
we I'm gonna start. I'm gonna make a scrubbing in
TikTok and like upload you know, the clips and stuff
that she puts together, and then also just like you know,
weird or funny things Tanya and I do. Once she
starts doing tiktoks with me soon and she was like,
you know, I'm so protective because TikTok, like it goes
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out to so many people that aren't even maybe listeners
of the podcast or know our personalities are who we are.
And she's like, I just don't want them to be mean,
and I was like, yeah, I get that. I was like,
but at least if they're not listeners or they're like
stranger danger to us and don't know us, it doesn't
sting as bad as it does when someone who's like
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a scrubber and like knows our personality says something you agree.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
I don't know about that.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Do you fear negative?
Speaker 1 (43:26):
No, but no I don't fear bring it on, bring
it on, the comments off, just leave it.
Speaker 3 (43:30):
No, I have a shield. I have a force shield.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
Okay, well she has a four shield, so I think thirty.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
Five can't get past this. That's right.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
And shout out to Allison, who had a birthday yesterday.
Happy birthday bird, Alison Allen. Such a cute alliteration name.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
That's why she married me. She wanted the name. Yes,
says that, thank you very much. That will be very
special when she listens to this later.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
In the month.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
A yeah, all right, hope you all have a great week.
We'll be back Thursday with Carine Fox, so check that out.
And we love you, love you. Bye.
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are scrubbing in. It is a Monday. And you know,
I told Becca I had a very frantic morning, and
I decided that I'm gonna switch it around today right now,
and it's not gonna be frantic. It's gonna be pleasant,
and we're gonna have fun on the podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
That's right, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
You know what they say, you know what they say,
what goes down must come up?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Yes, yeah, and you may have heard in your life
what goes up must come down. But Tanya says, today
today what is down must come up correct, And that
has many different connotations depending on where your mind is
that today.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Oh you mean like a wiener.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Yeah, when it goes down, it can always come back up.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
God.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Willing Mark is in a what looks to be a
garage or basement. It's hard to say.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
It's a basement. It's my father in law's work bench.
I am in Franklin, Wisconsin with the famine me. They're
up in the Wisconsin. Dell's at a water park, the
biggest water park in North America. It's called Noah's Ark.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Wait is it really called Noah's Ark?
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Is it? Is it religious based or yes.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
It's what happened if we didn't escape on the arc,
like you endure the flood at this water park?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Water parks I have Like when I was young, water
park was like the ultimate destination. I couldn't think of
anything I'd rather do than go to a water park.
But as an adult, I have I have changed from that.
Did you like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
I thrived at water parks.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
I would like count my lucky stars if I got
I loved water parks.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Were you just like trapsing around like flirting with boys? Yeah,
flopping around to do like fake a drowning or something.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Now, but like the wave pools, like where everything went down?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Do you all picture Tanya kind of like in the
sandlot the guy who like sees the lifeguard and tries
to get her attention, Like Tanya doing that with a
cute lifeguard boy.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
This is like when Glenn Powell was on the Morning
Show and we had a whole scheme concocted that one
will pretend her microphone doesn't work so she has to
share his or his didn't work, so she had this
whatever to try to get them both on the same microphone.
It's the same concept.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
It's a damsel in distress.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
We we went and we saw Top Gun Maverick and
I was telling Robbie about how I'm friends with Glenn.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
He's like, how are you friends with this guy? And
I was like, funny you ask because it all started.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Out with the listeners thinking he'd be a good match
for me. So I told him the whole story and
he was like, you faked that your microphone. I was like,
Tubs was involved with it. Everybody was like involved with this.
So we had to share a chair with me. It
didn't work out, but we are. We became fast friends.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
He's great and Top gun Man he's really good.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You remind me of Matthew McConaughey in that movie.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah. But I'm like, we're trying to get him on
the podcast because I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Just love him. He'd be good.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
We're trying.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
We're trying, but you know what, we will wait for
Glenn Powell, because you know, things come to those who wait.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
That's so true.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Good things are a little higher.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
I have mixed emotions about the water park because I
missed my family and they're all having a great time
and it be fun to be with them. But also,
water parks are kind of gross. That's kind of where
I'm I think they are. There's not it's a feat
thing for me. It's a lot of bare feet sharing
the same areas.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
There's also something about like like the not knowing if
these people have showered recently.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
But then but they're already in the water, so it's fine.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
No, their germs, they're no, there are just scattering amongst us.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
This makes no sense because the oceans are just as dirty.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
This is Tanya. I'm gonna warn you before we get
into this debate that you're not gonna win this one.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
They're just as dirty. And there's no chlorine in the oceans.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
It's salt. It's so acidic with salt, and it's like cleansing.
And the ocean's never standing still, it's not stagnate, it's
always moving, so they're always getting into new water.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah, that's what they're doing at the water parks too,
like they're flushing it out like a giant toilet.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I don't think there's a whole lot of flushing out.
I think they're repurposing it.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But I also think that water parks are being frowned
upon now because I think they're a waste of water.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Well, certainly in southern California. I don't know how you
justify having a water park unless they have some sort
of plan for, you know, using reclaimed water or something.
But here they have no problem with water.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
In Wisconsin, yeah, there's no water shortage in Wisconsin.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Plenty of it.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
I Yeah, the feet thing really resonates with me, Mark,
I really appreciate you bringing that up, because.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
It's like a rubber matt and that guy over there
had his bear feet on it, and now I have
my bear feet on it and it's all bad.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
And also like other parts of the body. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
Yeah, a big potential for swimming in urine at the
what I think about.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Absolutely haven't swim in a little urine.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Does Tanya have a raging waters endorsement? We don't know if.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Tanya has a deal with Hurricane Harbor.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
All right, So Tanya, maybe maybe you and Robbie and
the kids can go to a water.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Reports a summer bucket list, but I think we could
squeeze it in.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
When was the last time you went to a water
park long time.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Yeah, yeah, long time, So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
I'd also because it's the same feeling for me as
getting in a pool in Vegas. I'm just not doing it. Yeah.
And I've been really hot and drunk and had to
like stumble. I like, I hate, I hate to even
say stumbled. I slithered into the pool because I thought
I was gonna pass out. I literally got so hot
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and tipsy. I only had one drink, but I thought
I was gonna faint. So it was like so crowdy
you could barely even find a spot to stand, and
I like slithered into the pool.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Speaking of drinking.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, oh, you're never doing anything. We've heard this before.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I can't do it anymore. My body is shutting down
on me. I just had a rager of a week.
I feel like it was I just had birthday after
birthday after birthday, and it was a lot, and so
I realized I need to detox. So I quitting drinking.
How long do you think I'm gonna last?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I bet Friday you'll drink again. Okay, yeah, I'll give
you till Friday. All right, I'm sorry, I'll give you
till Thursday.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
I was gonna say taco Tuesdays tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
But you said you weren't going to drink that. I
think you can last at least a day and a half. Okay,
I'm giving you enough credit that I think you can
go a day and a half. I had the opposite
this week, where I drank Tuesday through I didn't drink
last night. Tuesday through Saturday. I went out to like
dinners and stuff, and I drank every night and I
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didn't feel hung over one time. So I don't know
if I I also ate so much carbs this week
that maybe I was just like really balancing it out.
I felt great.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I was like, man, oh, I feel the opposite. I
feel like a slug. I feel.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Uh, you know, like uh, I can't really describe the
but you know, like if beer goggles on.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
I've never worn them, but I know what it's like
to feel like I was like.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
A layer of like film.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I feel like there's like a layer of like film,
not in my actual eyes, but just like in my
like life right now because of the hungoveress.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
So as a non drinker, this may be a silly suggestion,
but wouldn't it make more sense rather than going cold
turkey for I don't know, three days or something to
just decide to drink in moderation moving forward.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
So it's not that what I really like, I don't have.
I don't know, I don't I can go a day
without drinking. It's when i'm social. And it's so interesting.
I was talking to this woman who was pregnant over
the weekend and she was like, I didn't realize how
much I drank until I got pregnant, because she's like,
you just do it at social function, so like you
can have a glass of wine, then another glass of wine.
They started six o'clock beer out till ten, Like it
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just adds up. You don't like, you know, intentionally getting
like wasted. I except on Saturday night, I got really wasted.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Why not just be intentionally moderate about it. Yeah, I'll
have a glass of wine and then stop.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Right. Yeah, I think that's what I did. I think
I kept I never felt Saturday was the only night
where I was like, like kind of remember feeling like uh,
But every other night I just like felt good, I
felt fun, loose.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
But even one two glasses of wine makes me feel
bad the next day.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Well that's a tolerance issue.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
It's not like aside from Saturday. It wasn't like I
was popping back, you know, shots and stuff.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah I would. I just what I've gathered about myself
is I'd much rather take an edible than drink. It's
way more fun. I'm relaxed. I don't have any night like,
I don't feel bad at all the next day.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Yeah, maybe I'll try that someday.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Please let me be with you. I gotta check.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I gotta figure yeah, I gotta figure something out because
I'm just a little a little sluggish.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
But I will say so on uh.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
What day?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Uh so whatever, I guess it's a Saturday. Saturday was
Selena's thirtieth birthday party, and I haven't seen some of
these people in like pre pandemic, so you.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
Know me, no Tanya like in her Tanya mode.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
I was just having this like serle reaction. Yes, and
poor Robbie do no. But I mean he knew, like
obviously our close friends that were there. But I was
just like having this. I was having like a you know,
you're so excited and you're like so high on life
that you just want to keep like I don't know,
I just was so wanting to keep going and going
and going, and then I was just so drunk.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
You know, Robbie's really good for you in that way
that like he can hold his own liked, because when
you get excited and you see people, you don't forget
about the people you're with, but you put so much.
You know, this is my first impression of you. So
I've been on both sides of the coin in this regard,
but I feel like he's good in the sense like
he can hold his own and like he could talk
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to literally a poll in the middle. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Like I saw this guy one of my friends, Jordan,
who I haven't seen in years, and I've known this
guy since we were back at E Days because he's
one of Jason Kennedy's best friends. And I was like,
oh my gosh, I'm talking and Robbie just comes right
on it.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
He's like, whoa, what do you know? Like, where are
you from?
Speaker 2 (11:01):
What do you do?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Like how do you guys know each other? And then
then they're having their own private little conversation. I was like,
all right, I'll go over here and you know, say
how to my other friend.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
You know, I know it's this is casual for you
and you do things like this all the time. But
going to something like I know, there's not like I
don't I don't even know what you can or will
talk about. But going to Selena Gomez's thirtieth birthday party
is a pretty big deal.
Speaker 4 (11:22):
It really is.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
That's on of everyday thing that people like. The way
her and her friends are talking about it her birthday dinner,
They're like, you know, on Cells Cells party on Saturday.
I know, like, who's this sell person I haven't met?
And then I realize, oh, Selena Gomez.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
So that's a big deal.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Her thirty the thirtieth is a big deal. Ye.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
Then it was like a big party.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
It was a bash.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
It was it was a birthday bash.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Enjoying her on season two of Only Murders in the Building.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Yeah, it's so I'm this. So we are.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
We haven't finished season one and yet, but we're in
the thick of season one. I think we're on episode
nine and we're really really loving it.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
People's very it's it's very light. You know, when you
get when you finish a Stranger Things or a Barrie
or something like that, you can really cleanse the palette
with some only murders.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
Yeah, but it's like a murder mystery.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
But it's like I actually told her that we were
we were watching it, and she's, I guess what did
they She said, It's like can't cotton candy murderer mystery
or something like that.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
It's a good way to describe.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Yeah, I like that in Candy Murder because it still
has that murder mystery aspect, which I don't even likely.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I'm not a big you know, murder mystery gal, but
I'm really really liking it.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I find you're so charming and cute on the show.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
I just absolutely And it's a crime that she was
nominated for an Emmy and Steve and Martin were nominated
for Emmys.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
That is bull crap criminal.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah what they both were, right, Stephen Martin? What happened?
Speaker 4 (12:57):
I cannot speak for the Academy.
Speaker 3 (13:03):
Let's start a petition like that's messed up.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
I would also, you know who else? And I've only
seen clips of this because I haven't watched it a
long time, but the fact that Mandy Moore didn't get
an Emmy for this is us like clips of Primes.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
She's amazing and she has been on that show from
the beginning, and.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
She played three different generations of the same character.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
More than that, but definitely teenager, mom, grandma.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Yeah, but yeah, that's a that's.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Not easy to pull off playing one character as a
teenager and as a grandmother.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
But we got to talk to these Emmys people. I
gotta call up these Emmys people. We'll start with Selena,
then we'll do Mandy next.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Okay, yeah, but that yeah, like, what the heck, what
the heck? What the heck? Justice for Selena Gomez is Emmy?
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, justice for all the Emmys that should have been
I mean, nominations that should have been. Okay. So the
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other day, I see that Chelsea Handler is on Glennon
Doyle's podcast and they just posted a clip and.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Did Glennon Doyle on this podcast too?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Glennon and Abby, Like I want both of Abby Wombach
and Glennon Doyle. They're amazing. Anyways, Chelsea, Glennon says, how
are you doing? And Chelsea goes to answer, and she
like her voice cracks, and you know, we're like, we're
I feel like all of us are not used to
seeing Chelsea have like emotion and being like soft and vulnerable.
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But I felt like her relationship with Joe Coy like
really like softened her. And so she starts saying, She's like,
I'm okay, like I think I'm doing okay, and he
like that he blew my basically, like he opened my
heart to love like I've never experienced. So I text
Tanya and I'm like, I don't know much about them,
(15:09):
but I'm sad because she seems so happy and like
so in love. And I was thinking, you know of
people who I mean even I for some reason thought
about Tanya and how like when she fell in love
with Robbie and that love story and then like to
hear it it ended. I was like.
Speaker 1 (15:28):
Devastated that my emotional attachment to this Chelsea Handler.
Speaker 2 (15:33):
Really I'm like, who are you who hardened your heart?
You don't believe in true love?
Speaker 1 (15:42):
To be honest, I wasn't like a big stam of
their relationship, like I love I liked him because she
liked him so much, But I never loved him.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Well, I don't know. I just know them as like
a couple. I don't know anything about him separate from her.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Exactly, So what is it about? That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
I just that's the the thing I think she needs
to be with somebody that's like.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
A partner to her.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Oh, you didn't feel like he was a partner.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I didn't feel that.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
No, you felt like she was. It was a one
sided romance.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
No, not one sided. I think they obviously both were
in love.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
But like, all I'm saying is they just felt like
he wasn't our partner, if you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (16:27):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Like a partner in life.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
You know what I mean, because he's younger.
Speaker 3 (16:37):
No, I just.
Speaker 2 (16:39):
Need a little clarity because he's not a partner. But
he's not. He's a partner, but he's not a partner. No.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Like I'm saying, because you said that you didn't feel
like they love each other, like it was a one
side of relationship. No, I don't think it was one sided.
But I just don't feel like he was a good partner.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
You can say it as slowly and deliberately as you want,
it's not going to help us understand what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (17:00):
But she posted this really sweet message basically announcing their breakup,
but also being like we love each other so much,
Like he has a new movie coming out, like go
support him, and I'm just like.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I wonder not her peer like, is that he's not
like at her level?
Speaker 1 (17:15):
No, because I don't think you need to be on
someone's level. He's just not like a partner.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
For some reason, I thought he was younger than her.
He is like five years older than Chelsea, So I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (17:28):
Oh yeah, I was like, I don't I don't know
his age. I don't know his age.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
But yeah, but like what it comes down to is
he's just not a partner, part of a partner. Yeah, okay,
all right, maybe you can have Chelsea back on and
see if she agrees, Like what.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Like a partner, you know, a partner helps you when
you're down. A partner helps you.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
Probably know that he didn't do these things, but I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (17:53):
I just had a feeling. I know the girl.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
So we're basic, this whole breakup and you having like
not being connected to it on the fact that you
think that he did not.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
That's what celebrity culture is. None of us know any
of these people, and we just have these like you
don't know that.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
I've always had strong opinions, like, look, I was teamed
Joelsey from the beginning. I was all in on that relationship.
But you like when Justin and Selena broke up for
the first time, you were horrified by that, and that
was like I don't know if that was before you
guys were friends or whatever. I think it was, but
I just remember you being the only one that was surprised.
Most of the times when celebrities break up, you're the
one that takes it hard, where everybody else was like yeah,
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figured yeah, but for.
Speaker 3 (18:36):
Some reason, like because I just felt like they were
never partner us, right, I got it too clear the air.
Speaker 2 (18:43):
Nothing has been cleared in case.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
You guys were wondering. I just was never Yeah, it
was just like not partnership.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
I just know. I just know one hundred percent that
if Tanya had a conversation with him, she would be
like I changed. He is amazing, that's true.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Maybe I didn't know enough. Maybe I didn't know enough
about him.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
That's intruesting.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Okay, Okay, I didn't know much about him.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
He was the first celebrity I ever met working in radio.
He was performing at the San Jose improv in two
thousand and nine and came by KSCO Radio and Santa
crist to do an interview. Came in studio. It's not
a not a short drive and he was so cool
and we talked about Jordan's and he was the nicest
guy in the world to a bright eyed and bushy
tailed Easton Allen. So therefore, Joe Coy and I are
close friends, and I was always excited for him to
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get to enter this relationship and I'm sad to see
it ends he's a partner.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
I tried. I trust Easton in this one's the partner.
But oh, you know what else is really devastating, Like
you talk about Selena and Justin Brad Pitton, Jennifer Aniston
is like such a vivid memory in my lifetime of
that breakup.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Becca's biggest thing was, oh, if you see jen Anison
Selena's birthday, I.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
Have envy like I don't, and She's just.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Like going on, I didn't. I texted it and that's
not the tone I was saying it, but those are
the words I use. I was just like, at first
I saw Taylor s posted or Selene. Someone posted a
photo of Taylor Slifton Selena celebrating her thirtieth and I
was like, Tanya, if Taylor's there tomorrow, like you know,
we need stories, and She's like I don't think she's coming,
Like that's why they went to dinner tonight. And I
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was like cool. And then I started remembering that like
Jennifer Anderson Selena are somehow connected. Yeah, there's like a
connection there, And I was like, Jennifer Aniston, I feel like,
all of a sudden, I'm jealous about this party because
like what if Jennifer Andison's there? And she was like, oh,
I don't know she's gonna be there or whatever. But
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I was like, I have envy because like I don't
get a ton of fomo or like jealousy. I mean,
I just I think it's That's why I think it's
cool that Tanya goes to these things, but I feel
like intimidated by like that party level scares me a
little bit. But I was like, Jennifer Anderson, is there
a movie? So jealous? My whole point of the jeniferres
the thing was to bring up how bleeping good Brad
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Pitt looked on the press tour for his new movie.
I think it's called Bullet Train.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Looks really good.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Have you seen the pics?
Speaker 3 (21:20):
Uh No?
Speaker 2 (21:23):
The man has aged like the finest of wines.
Speaker 3 (21:28):
But you like him. I love him, even though he
screwed gen for over.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
It's complicated. I think they've healed their relationships, so I
think I get to feel this way again.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
All right, yeah, but do you like Angelina Jolie? Oh fine, okay, alright,
alright forever.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I hate that because I feel like a lot of
people were like, I hate Angelina Jolie, and I'm like,
but you still like Brad Pitt.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Oh No, I actually like all three of them. Jen's
my girl, gat, Brad's my god, and then I mean
not my god, but like, my god, he's so hot.
I was not really forgot confusing, and then Angelina is
just like a stunning human and seems to be a
good person.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:10):
So Jennifer was not at the party.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
No, Jennifer was not there, but I did spend a
lot of time with Becky g who is just the
cutes literally the nicest thing ever.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
She is really sweet.
Speaker 1 (22:20):
Yeah, yeah, she's the cutest thing.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
There were some big names there. I'm not saying like
it wasn't star studded. It's just the people who I
felt jealous.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Over, the Jennifer Andison's of the world exactly. Yeah, she
was not there, but I am trying to get her
manager on the podcast because I'm obsessed with her.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I would love that.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
She's like so so badass. She's literally like modern woman energy.
I heard her speech Selena did something for International Women's
Day for her Rare Beauty did like an event and
Eleen was her manager, spoke at it, and I literally
pulled out my phone and was taking notes because she
was just so inspiring and like not trying to be inspiring,
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just like telling stories about being a woman in the industry.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
And it was so moving and so powerful, do you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (23:09):
Like you know some people, you know, like they're getting
to like a crescendo and they're making a point and
they you know, that was not her. She was just
literally like talking about stories and sharing her insights, and
I was just like, I'm obsessed with you.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
The memory I have of Eileen Eileen, Eleen Eleen. Tanya
was following her around the whole party, being like, Eleen,
we have to get a photo together, and she's like, Tanya,
I really don't feel like we'll do it another time.
I don't feel like cute. I don't want to do it, Tanya.
Multiple times I heard Tanya trying to convince her to
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take a photo. I was like, Tanya, she doesn't want
to take a photo.
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Yes, okay, but I was trying to get her on
the podcast, which I think she will.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Well, you know what's sad is that these days, like
your GIP, they're giving a speech and the audience is watching.
There's no difference in while this speech is so inspiring,
I have to take notes in my phone and I'm
so bored, I'm texting my friends, like the speaker has
no idea if people are so into it or if
they're just bored. Because if I were up there on
stage and I saw people on their phones, I'd be like, well,
(24:15):
I lost them.
Speaker 1 (24:16):
You know what's interesting, I think she knew because I
was raising my hand and like asking questions.
Speaker 3 (24:20):
So it wasn't like, you know, sure.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Raising your hand and asking questions. No you war? Yes
I was, Yes, I was. I'm with you, Mark. I
never thought about that. I would also think the same thing.
But also, I guess you have to get people. Yeah,
but Church like everyone, I mean, I guess.
Speaker 4 (24:41):
Well, Church is another good example. I think people would
be annoyed by someone texting, or so they.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Think, But now you have the Bible app on your phone,
like I use it often.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
If you see someone with like a notepad going like this, oh,
like oh they're taking notes, but they could just be
doing a mad liver.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
That true. I used to do a lot lot of
doodling on my in my church days, in my youth,
on the envelopes for the offering. But I was gonna
say something about, Oh I saw an it was an
old concert and it was the Goo Goo Dolls, and
it was like this really cool mind the one in
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the rain of them singing iris.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
I was obsessed with the Goo Goo Dolls.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Yeah, they were like aicnic. It was a TikTok and
it was like at just go and watch old concerts.
Speaker 3 (25:33):
They were performing.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
The Google Dolls performed on Live with Kelly and Ryan
one day when I was there, and I was like,
it's taking everything in me not to go up to
this guy and say that I'm like wildly obsessed with you.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
But the video it's pouring rain, they're on stage singing
iris and it pans to the crowd and not I
mean there were no phone there were no cell phones,
and everyone's just like zoned in, dancing, passionately singing, and
I was like, man, I know that like having a phone,
there's a great a lot of great things, but wow,
(26:07):
like we were were so desensitized to just being black balloon.
It is black balloon.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Makes her fly.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
It was like, in my opinion, yes, well not underrated.
I think they had their time.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
I don't think they had the time they deserved.
Speaker 5 (26:25):
Yeah, they had a song on the chart like two
years ago, the.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
Cold Play and Trade and.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Some of the yeah man goo dolls were my Oh man, have.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
You ever been to a cold Play concert? Yes, that's
on my bucket list.
Speaker 4 (26:42):
Many envy, there's the envy again, envy.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
They did a really intimate iHeart performance when you're oh.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
No, I want like a stadium where I can see
all the phone like.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
And they did.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I remember it was they did the Rose Bowl and
it was Alessia Carl was opening for them, and I
went with like a Lessio Kara's team, so I'd have
to go backstage and I was watching like Chris Martin
playing like Hacky Sack back there and like just being
so cool with every person I was working backstage.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
I was just like this.
Speaker 2 (27:12):
Guy, Tanya doesn't even know what she's.
Speaker 3 (27:15):
Yeah, no, no, I knew that.
Speaker 1 (27:17):
I was like, did Chris Martin just he's just like
kicking it with people right now backstage it's like early,
like he probably don't even need to be at the
venue at that point.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
Wow. He got emotional recently at a concert, like they
were seeing sky full of Stars and he had to
stop singing, or like he just let the crowd sing
because he got emotional.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
God, I love him so much.
Speaker 5 (27:37):
I love it.
Speaker 4 (27:38):
He comes in and he's so nice to everybody that
you feel like, is it almost an act? But then
it's clear it's not.
Speaker 2 (27:43):
It's not.
Speaker 3 (27:44):
I just just and it's like so genuine.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
That's that's amazing because at his level he could be
he honestly could be horrible.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
He guess hast an American Top forty last year, and
he like was so nice, and then halfway through he stopped.
He's like, Eastern, I just want you to know this script,
which is brilliant. This is these jokes are so funny.
And I was like, ooh, oh my god. I listened
to that clip over and over for myself. He's the best.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
If you ever need a boost, a morale boost, oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:12):
Frequent speaking of the holding up your phone light, I
got to explain to my kids the other day what
we used to do before we had phones and everyone
the lighters out there. They were very surprised that that
many people had lighters at a concert, Like, why, well,
there's plenty of smoking back then, and that's the only
reason I can think of.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah, that is fascinating though, like that that many people smoked.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah, if you had a twenty thousand people concert, there
were twenty thousand lighters out there, which seems.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Dangerous, I was gonna say. And also that they were
just allowed. Is that Can you still bring lighters into
a venue now?
Speaker 4 (28:46):
I think so?
Speaker 2 (28:47):
I don't know whoa crazy? Okay, I don't think we've
taken a single break.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
So we're gonna take a break, and you know, just
like when the flow's flow and you just got to
go with the flow.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
All right, we're back and we have some emails, so Mark,
take it away from the basement.
Speaker 4 (29:19):
All right, Becka, thank you very much. Apologies for the
hum in the background. That's a water heater. Here we
go from Anonymous. I have a cousin that I'm super
close with. He has a girlfriend and he has had
her since January. And this girlfriend has a five year
old son. We see them every single time we go
over there. She's very sweet. He's really into her, and
he told me he wants to ask her and her
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son to move in with him. Here's the dilemma. I
also recently found out from a friend who bartends that
he knows her and that she has an OnlyFans account.
He showed me your page and said he knows people
that subscribe to it. She's been doing it for about
a year, very active on the account, uses a fake name,
and films herself having sex with other men OnlyFans. I
(30:02):
know for a fact what I know for a fact,
my cousin would not be okay with this. He has
no clue and wants to ask her to move in.
I'm looking for advice. I can't bring myself to tell him.
I even have a friendship with her and sometimes we
text and make plans to hang out. How do I
look at her now? I'm so uncomfortable. Help give me
some guidance. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
She has to tell the girl that she saw her
account and that I think.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
I think that's the way to do it, too.
Speaker 4 (30:28):
Yeah, I think you take her aside and say, look,
I do you know this bartender Gus. Yeah, I met
Gus and he showed me your account, and I know
that cousin is not going to be happy with this.
I think you got to tell him because if you.
Speaker 1 (30:41):
Don't, I will, Yeah, but then what does she do
If she doesn't tell him, then you.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Got to tell your cousin. You can't let him walk
into this trap.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
Like it's like you do you girl, like, get get
the money, do what you gotta do. But you gotta
be upfront about what you're doing. Because there's someone like
someone that I love and and I just know that
knowing him, we're really close. I know he wouldn't be
okay with this, So I wanted to come to you first.
Make it seem like you're just like like you're not
(31:11):
trying to go against her, You're just you're you're looking
out for your cousin who you love.
Speaker 4 (31:17):
Yeah, I mean that is still cheating on him. If
you're having sex with other men, even if it's not
only fans, that is cheating and dangerous.
Speaker 2 (31:24):
You're right. I sorry, in my mind, I was thinking
only fans being more like photos, she's cheating on himself.
Speaker 5 (31:32):
I think it's like there's not many jobs where like
you can get chlamydia from another person.
Speaker 4 (31:41):
At a water park.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
Hey, exactly, if you kept that a secret, that would
be a bad sign.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
Yeah, yeah, I think I agree, though, I think going
to her first and giving her the chance, and then
if she doesn't, then I do. I mean, I would
look out for your cousin because it's already it's already
not great that this is happening and he doesn't know,
so I would do it as soon as possible.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Yeah, I mean, the having like having an OnlyFans account
would not bother me, honestly.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
But he still should know about that.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
So you wouldn't care if Robbie hood of OnlyFans account, well.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Yeah, if yeah, I would care, but I would less
care if he was not having sex with people.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I think you would care around, but.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
The sex really throws it to another level because you're cheating, right.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
I didn't know only fans with that graphic.
Speaker 2 (32:36):
I also didn't I didn't know that either.
Speaker 4 (32:39):
So if Robbie had an only fans and all he
was doing was kind of a puppet show with his genitalia,
that's it.
Speaker 6 (32:44):
A puppet show, like just like making sushi or something,
And so matter from any sort of reality that like,
I can't even put myself on the situation.
Speaker 4 (32:56):
That's good though, he's cutting fish nude.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Yeah, as someone who knows what triggers your jealousy, I
can guarantee you not be okay with them. You would
not be okay with any of it.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
Yeah, it would stress me out for sure. But I'm
saying I probably wouldn't like break up with them over it.
But then again, if it's been years and I didn't know,
that's like super sect.
Speaker 4 (33:19):
Yeah. Yeah, if he didn't tell you, that's the betrayal
that ste Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
Yeah, all right, man, that's tough.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
This is from Shaney. Shaney says, my wife and I
have been married for six years and together for eight.
We spent a healthy amount of time apart trip with friends,
work retreats, so forth. However, I may be traveling for
work starting next year in Israel or Ireland. I live
in Portland, Oregon for up to a year. I'll be
able to come home every once in a while, and
she'll be able to visit me. But I know Becca
(33:46):
has experience in long distance and time apart from Haley
when she's on tour. I'm very secure in my relationship
and there are no trust issues or anything like that.
I'm just worried about being homesick and being about being homesick, sorry, homesick,
and being away from her and the dogs for so long.
We have two huskies named Elbus and Fox. And do
you have any advice on what I can do to
(34:07):
make it a little easier? Those are both Harry Potter references.
By the way, those dogs.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Oh, I've never seen or read Harry Potter, but no,
that's a red flag for Haley and for me, honestly.
I actually so when Haley and I first started dating,
she basically immediately went on tour. So that was their
first year of our relationship basically, and we didn't know
(34:32):
anything else. So that first year was pretty I mean,
it was hard, but we just adjusted to it because
there was no other option, and I would go out
and visit when I could. But Haley's actually about to
leave on tour again in August for eight weeks. It's
gonna be so different because like we had the whole
pandemic together, We've spent so much time together and she's
(34:54):
gonna be gone and I, obviously I'm the same way.
I'm very secure in our relationship. I trust it's more
about me feeling alone, you know, and being by myself
and her not being there, and like our normal routine.
But we've like just mad made it clear of like
making sure that we have a time at some point
to at least FaceTime or talk on the phone at
(35:17):
some point during the day. I mean being in a
different country makes it way harder because I remember when
she was in Europe, like that was really challenging finding
times that worked for both of us to talk. But
that was the one thing, was like making sure we
have time to like catch up on our day that
feels like something that we'd normally do, and then like
once a week checking in, like you know, like something
(35:38):
we appreciate about each other, you know, just like validating
and making sure that both feelings are heard and needs
are heard. Because even I'm like I always sell Haley
like I don't need a ton of attention in the
sense of like phone calls and face times, but just
like a text here and there, like hey, thinking about you,
just so in the middle of her routine and like
(36:00):
work schedule, knowing that she's thinking about me. Because we've
been together for four years, so it'll be different compared
to like our first year together. Crazy, but like our
first year together, we were like so obsessed, like we
were just like waiting for the text like any time
we could get it. And obviously I'll be more that
way when she's gone, but I just told her like,
(36:21):
you know, I'll communicate what I need as I needed,
but I'm not, like, I'm not unrealistic. So I think
it's just figuring out times to talk and like catch
up on your day and have face times and maybe
some like letters that's cute and roman or postcard nudes,
nudes like whatever you need, but dud to make anybody's day,
(36:49):
you know they do. Yeah, And I'm going to travel
a lot. I think I'm just gonna like try and
pack my schedule and I'm also going to go on
tour for like different stops.
Speaker 3 (36:58):
So it is weird thing I was actually having.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
I don't know if I was having this conversation with you,
but I was having with one of my friends and
I was like when I was in my like singledom
of those years of just like super single, I was
sleeping home by myself every night, like thriving, like fine,
you know, I don't need anybody to sleep with that
my vibrator like chilling now that I'm in my relationship,
(37:22):
Like I don't want to spend a night away from him,
Like I don't ever, Like I don't can't tell you
the last time I spent the night without him, but
I can't. I'm like people that are married for however
many years, Like that's such a crazy because you get
so used to it, Like I'm just so used to
having him and I've never had that before, you know
(37:42):
what I mean. It's like a weird thing to think about.
That happened in a matter of like a year and
a half.
Speaker 2 (37:47):
I think.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
I feel like you would struggle long distance Tanya.
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Oh yeah, I'd struggle real bad.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
But wait, this is so funny because like, for a
long time, Tanya only sought out men that were like distance. Yes,
like there was like some sort of protection.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Mechalist guy, another New York guy.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
But like thinking about your relationship with Robbie, like if
if you felt that way about any of these guys,
it would have never worked.
Speaker 3 (38:13):
I know, but I think.
Speaker 1 (38:15):
Okay, So when I was doing calling in the one,
I realized that was my pattern, and I was going
for men that were like either emotionally or physically unavailable,
so I couldn't attach myself to them so that I
couldn't get hurt.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
I get it. I mean I think a lot of
people probably do that without even realizing they do it.
Speaker 3 (38:30):
It's very like psychologically messed up.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
I also think there's podcast episodes where I talked about
like wanting to have separate beds from the person I
ended up with. Like I was like, I love sleeping alone,
Like I can't imagine like always having someone, like like
getting used to sleeping with someone in the bed with
me back, I was like, eh, oh, like another body
(38:54):
and things really change.
Speaker 4 (38:55):
I know.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Well, we were saying before the podcast, like there's I
was saying, how they're There was this guy that he's
now married with a child, and he had DMed me
like way before he met his wife. But I was
and we were just laughing saying like how funny it
is now he's married with a baby and all the
other things that have changed since that time.
Speaker 1 (39:14):
Yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, probably half
of Los Angeles has DMS for me, at.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
Least at least half of La Tanyan Beck. I saw
hot guy in Trader Joe's. I only saw his profile,
but I noticed he had an earring and he had
slight facial hair. He's probably about five ten. Let's try
and find him.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
He had Nike's on I did, and then sometimes I
found them.
Speaker 2 (39:40):
We did. We Yeah, there was some good investigation.
Speaker 3 (39:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Well, did I give any good advice on that?
Speaker 4 (39:46):
Yes, I think you did. I don't feel any dad
to it.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I think I have nothing to add to it because
I would be horrible. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I hope you never have to go through that. Yeah,
it sucks, It really does, and I will be honest.
When Haley went to she went to like Europe and
Portugal recently, and I was not. It wasn't like my
best portrayal of myself, you know, because it was our
first time basically since before the pandemic, that we had
(40:15):
been long distance for that amount of time, and she
was the time difference was challenging for me.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
Struggled because, like in the beginning of our relationship, I
only spent half of my nights with him because I
didn't meet the kids, you know, I didn't meet his
kids until a year in and so I was kind
of used to like the fifty to fifty of it,
like I didn't sleep with him every night. I slept
with him some nights, and then once I met the
kids and was around when I was around them more,
now I just am I always sleep there. But it's
(40:46):
so crazy, how like now I can't even I can't
imagine it.
Speaker 2 (40:50):
I remember actually when you were fifty to fifty that
you would say, like you still slept really well in
your bed by yourself.
Speaker 3 (40:56):
Yeah, I was like totally fine, And now if I
had I.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
Would be like, oh, it's like a full We gotta like,
really take care of Tanya if she ever has to
sleep alone at her apartment. Tragic, tragic, truly, Okay, Tanya,
we gotta address first of all, we gotta get you
back in the Facebook scrubbing, ya.
Speaker 1 (41:15):
I know, I just keep trying it, telling me to
double authenticate myself, and I'm.
Speaker 3 (41:18):
Just like, oh my gosh, I can't.
Speaker 2 (41:22):
Anyways, hadn't share what a scrubber has done.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
No problem, because a lot of people DMed it to me.
That that's how I saw it.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
But her name's Jenna, and we were talking about j
Loo's newsletter on the podcast last week, and I was like,
should I get a newsletter? She literally mocked up a
Tanya newsletter, real cute The Tanya Times, How to Start
Living Sonny woke Up, cute Butterfly sightings this week felt
be significant. I mean notable stories this week, how to
(41:50):
get hands, like Robbie getting through, getting through a phase
of songs, have your own Taco Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
I mean, this is a little what's her name. I'm gonna
hire her as a graphic designer.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
Yeah, it's so cute and like her drawing of Sonny
is like perfect, perfect, and I mean she's like a
model Jenna.
Speaker 2 (42:08):
Is it door Dora on Dorion? I don't know, Doron Jenna.
I'm reaching out to you because you are so talented,
so talented.
Speaker 1 (42:20):
It's so cute, and it made me kind of want
to do a newsletter, you know what.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
It made me want for you to get back into
the scrubbing anger.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
I know I'm gonna try because I think so I
had like scan something. I think if I have my
computer and my phone, I can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (42:35):
Who gets kicked out of Facebook.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
I was talking to Crystal and I was saying, like,
we I'm gonna start. I'm gonna make a scrubbing in
TikTok and like upload you know, the clips and stuff
that she puts together, and then also just like you know,
weird or funny things Tanya and I do. Once she
starts doing tiktoks with me soon and she was like,
you know, I'm so protective because TikTok, like it goes
(42:57):
out to so many people that aren't even maybe listeners
of the podcast or know our personalities are who we are.
And she's like, I just don't want them to be mean,
and I was like, yeah, I get that. I was like,
but at least if they're not listeners or they're like
stranger danger to us and don't know us, it doesn't
sting as bad as it does when someone who's like
(43:19):
a scrubber and like knows our personality says something you agree.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
I don't know about that.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Do you fear negative?
Speaker 1 (43:26):
No, but no I don't fear bring it on, bring
it on, the comments off, just leave it.
Speaker 3 (43:30):
No, I have a shield. I have a force shield.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
Okay, well she has a four shield, so I think thirty.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
Five can't get past this. That's right.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
And shout out to Allison, who had a birthday yesterday.
Happy birthday bird, Alison Allen. Such a cute alliteration name.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
That's why she married me. She wanted the name. Yes,
says that, thank you very much. That will be very
special when she listens to this later.
Speaker 4 (44:02):
In the month.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
A yeah, all right, hope you all have a great week.
We'll be back Thursday with Carine Fox, so check that out.
And we love you, love you. Bye.
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Rebecca Tilley
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