July 31, 2023 • 38 mins
We’re in the final month before Dean and Caelynn’s wedding… but Dean is missing a CRUCIAL detail. Will the whole day be ruined??
We get a front row seat to a major disagreement Dean and Caelynn have about the big day, and we hear the long & short of the issue 😉
Plus, Dean opens up about the challenges of planning a bachelor party without a best man!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Help We Suck At Being Newlywed?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
W Dean Hungler, Kaylen Lurkey, and Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
What is going on? Everyone? Welcome to an all new
special edition episode of Help We Suck At Being Newly Weds?
And you might be asking yourself why is this episode special? Dean,
It's a good question, and you know why. I love
these episodes so much and I relish them every single
time we get the chance to do them. Jared's not
here today, so me and Kaylen has got free range
(00:31):
to talk about whatever we want to talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Ka Wait, yeah, what do you.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Want to talk about? So little disclaimer, I'm on my phone.
I can't see the list of topics that our talented
producers have laid out for us. So, Kaitlyn, if you
could just be so kind as to guide this episode
and I'll simply be the touch of color if you will.
But I want you to be the leader this time,
if that's okay with you.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, Well, we can just reach out our weekend and
you're climbing expeditions. You're done with the Southwest, so we
can kind of talk about all that.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
How do you know it's the Southwest that I'm done
with because we talked about it. Oh now, I thought
you were studying up on a map of Colorado. I
was impressed.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
No, no, no, we've chatted about it. I guess you
forgot we have chatted about it.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
But I feel like typically those types of things, when
I talk to you about them, it's just kind of
like one in one ear out the other.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Usually Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah, So that's why I'm impressed. It's very well done.
Southwest Colorado. Tick that off the list.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah, So where are you now?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I'm in southern Colorado now, real big change where I
was in southwestern Colorado. I'm in Westcliffe, Colorado. I've never
been here before. It's this tiny, tiny little town. I'm
trying to think of the tiniest town I've ever brought
you to, but this must be the smallest town you've
ever been to in Colorado. It's like I got here
last night at like seven. Every restaurant was closed. There's
(01:56):
one that was open. It's just kind of how it
goes in Colorado. Everything's closed Mondays and time these days,
and you're just kind of on your own, but found
a good restaurant, slept in a okay hotel, no air conditioning,
which is a bummer, but it is what it is.
But how are you tell me about Tell me about Dillard's.
I want to hear all about Dillards.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Dillart's was great. So Dillards came by yesterday. I'm doing
a collection with them, and they gave me free range
to design whatever I wanted. And I've tried to do
this with brands before and that we always kind of
hit an in pass. They're like, well, our client looks this,
and this is what our customer typically gravitates towards, so
we're not going to invest in the pieces you want.
(02:35):
And Dillards was like, one hundred percent, whatever you want
is what we're going to move forward with. And it
was fun. I've never experienced that with a brand. And
I got to create swim clothes and shoes. They brought
over all of the pieces we created and then we
had to narrow it down to like sixteen pieces of clothing,
I think, twelve pairs of shoes and six pieces of
(02:57):
swim so it was like an eight hour meeting. Took
a lot of time, but it was so much fun.
And then we styled each piece together, made sure every
piece had an outfit and it'll be hitting every Dillard store,
all two hundred stores in March.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
That's crazy. So you have twenty four pieces of product
out there.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, we did go a little bit over, so we
kind of have to see. These were first rounds of samples,
and I was super impressed because when my friends it's
a clothing company, and she talks about like the headache
of samples and how you have to go through several rounds.
These were the first rounds and there were like minor
adjustments that needed to be made on one or two pieces.
It's like bigger adjustments. But for the first round of samples,
(03:35):
for them to be really, really good was impressive. So
we went over and then with the next round of samples,
then hopefully we can narrow it down further.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
And do you like all of your stuff, everything that
you guys came up with.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, I do. It was just so hard to narrow
everything down, and so I asked for all the reject
samples because I loved them so much, and they were like,
maybe we can send them to you because there were
some that would be great for the wedding too, So
we'll see. But yeah, I love all the pieces. I
wish we could have had a larger collection, though.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
What about like for men, do I get to get
anything from the Kaylen Miller Keys? What is the name
of the collection? I guess let's start there.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Well, we actually talked about this yesterday. I told them
I'm changing my last name in September and they were like, well,
everyone knows you as Kaylan Miller Keys. I don't know
if we want to put Kaylen Bell on the clothes,
so it's going to be Kaylen Bell for Gianny Beanie
is the brand of Dillard's. And they were like, you've
changed your name in September. The collection launches in March,
(04:34):
so we'll kind of feel it out. But I want
it to be Kalen Bell because that's my name.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Gotcha. That is a concern that I have too with
changing our names is I guess it's not really a concern,
but like you know, everyone knows us as Dean Aunglert
and Kaylen Miller Keys. Who's going to know us as
Dean Bell and Kylen Bell?
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Everyone? It's better will be married same last name.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
That's true. But you see these like big big celebrit Breeze,
which is basically what we are. I mean, come on
and they'll get and they'll get married, and they'll you know,
keep their last name through the marriage. Like even Ashley,
for instance, Jared's wife. I believe she's kept Eye Kennedi.
She might be like legally Ashley Haben, but like publicly
she's still Ashley I.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Kennetti, right, I yes, but we both have unique class
name or unique first names. I don't think there's been
another Kalin or another Dean.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
On the show on the show, sure, right, but I'm
talking I'm talking broader strokes. And it's it's funny too,
because I don't know if you've ever heard of the
website called howmany of me dot com? Have you ever
heard of that?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, I was with you when you found out this
news that crushed you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Gotcha, right. I wasn't sure if you were processing that
information or just letting that go out the other side either.
But yeah, So for the listeners out there, there's a
website called how many of me dot com and you
can put in your first name and your last name
and it'll tell you how many of you, how many
people in the world have your name? And there I'm
the only Dean Unglert in the entire world. What an
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honor it is to be one of one. But Dean Bell,
I think there's like there might be I can't remember.
It might be like two hundred or something like that
in the US. So I'm losing the uniqueness of my name,
which is a bit of a letdown. But I think
it's for the best.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's for the best. It's we're doing something special to
honor your mom. Also, people know it as Kaylin and
d Dean and Kaylan. You know, we don't need the
last names.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
That's true. So maybe your Dylartz collection should be called
Kaylin and d No.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
No, no, no, yeah no, you had no saying this.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I'm just trying to help, just trying to provide some
creative solutions.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I mean, I could just drop the last name entirely,
just be Kaylin for Gianni Beanie, who knows, who knows.
But Dillard's is great, and I'm super excited.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Nice, that's awesome. I'm so proud of you. You're killing it.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Thank you. It is my dream day. This is what
I want to do. Just got to figure out a
way to do it long term and not be scared
of the money aspect. You know, it's nice to do
it on another brand's time.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
What's like the average price point going to be for
a piece of clothing from you?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Well, it's going to be pretty affordable and accessible, which
I'm excited about because I feel like I think the
most expensive piece will be about two hundred to two
hundred and twenty dollars. Everything else will be around the
hundred range. And everything's so expensive these days, I feel
like that's a good price.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
I'm going to be honest with you. That sounds expensive.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
One hundred dollars for a dress.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Oh, I guess I'm not really familiar with the pricing
of dresses, but like two hundred dollars for any article
of clothing that's not like a winter chan that's.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
The most expensive. That's only one dress will be two
hundred dollars and the rest will be in the hundreds,
probably like around one hundred dollars. I don't know. We
haven't said about the pricing yet.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
What about like shoes, How much is a pair of
shoes going to cost me?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
It depends on the shoe, but I would say like
seventy to one hundred something.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
It's not bad. It's not bad. Okay, cool, I can
I can work with that.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, you're gonna buy it my whole collection.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I hey, I gotta get the sales. Not that the
sales aren't gonna be up, but I will gladly buy
one piece of every article to help bolster sales a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
It's very kind and very expensive.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, maybe I should take that back. And I don't
really have any where to play either, so.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I'll think of something. I think of something. But
also we can recap our weekend. So I was in
Catalina all weekend and you were in La hanging with
the guys. You guys all went to the movies together.
It sounded like a fun weekend.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, it was a fun weekend. We saw Oppenheimer. It
was pretty good.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
That's your review. It's not what you told me.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
It's very long, it's very dialogue driven to there's like
a couple accents in the movie. I have such a
hard time understanding accents in shows and movies, so it
was like a bit of a challenge for me to
overcome that. And it wasn't like bad. You know, there
(09:16):
was like a couple of English people. But it was good.
It was good. It was long, like I said, three hours.
I fell asleep for like twenty minutes somewhere in the middle,
but I don't think I missed anything. I woke up
and I still feel like I was falling along pretty well.
Some of my other friends fell asleep too. The movie
theater we went to, Oh my gosh, we went to
the Galleria in Los Angeles and yeah, I'm gonna call
(09:37):
them out by name. We went to this movie theater.
We spent twenty dollars on tickets each. Not bad. But
what really got frustrating was I lost golf to my
friend and so I had to buy snacks for everyone.
And I go to the snack Yeah, well it was
only for the one friend, but I was like whatever,
I'm here, I'm just gonna buy them. And everyone was
(09:58):
like alady in the seats because we were like right time,
and so we ordered. I order like two sodas, two
large popcorns. I look around for like reces no receas,
blah blah, Like I look around for a bunch of stuff,
and they're like, yeah, we're out of this, We're out
of that. I was like, Oh, it sucks, but okay,
find no big deal. I was like, can I get
two sodas please? And they're like yeah, we don't have
any ice, though I was like, okay, that's probably okay,
(10:19):
Like I bet you, the soda will still be cold.
And we get the two sodas and they're both like
room temperature warm. So the sodas were awful and the
popcorn was good, but like I didn't get my reces PC,
so it's kind of sad. And it was just like
not the best movie going experience. I just don't understand
how it's the biggest movie weekend of the year. I
would assume between Oppenheimer and Barbie and these movie theaters
(10:42):
are this movie theater specifically was sold out of so
many essential goods that are like necessary to having a
pleasant moviegoing experience.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
That's exactly why. Because Barbie and Oppenheimer, how could they
you know, they stucked up the best they could.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
I would hope they did. We saw it on a Saturday.
It's not like we saw it Sunday night. It was
still like early to the middle of the weekend. You
should plan ahead for these things, like how do you
run out of ice? Of all things, that was my
biggest restoration. I was so excited to drink my diet coke.
I got a large diet coke, which I was like, ooh,
I'm gonna be a bad boy and get a large
because that just seems like a lot of soda to me.
(11:21):
I took two STIPs of it and I like literally
just put it back on the snack counter and I
was like, I don't want this, you can throw it
away and he was like okay. He was like okay.
I was like, wait a second, no, can I get
like my money back or something? But we didn't have time.
I didn't have time to ask for my money back,
so we just went into the movie and I was
eating popcorn and sour gummy worms all movie long, and
I didn't have anything to drink. So yeah, it just
(11:43):
wasn't wasn't gosh, it was a rough life. Thank you
so much for commenting on that.
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Speaker 1 (13:04):
Tell us about the bachelorette party.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Bachelorette party was fun. So a lot of my girlfriends
are their husbands or boyfriends are friends with Dean. So
while the girls were out at the bachelorette the boys
went to the movies and we're hanging out. Even though
you left out one boy in particular Allie's boyfriend. But
it's okay. The movie stole now. You guys did the
(13:26):
best you could. But the Bachelorette was fun.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Wait wait, I want to stop. I want to stop
on that for a second. I'm sorry to interrupt, but
I don't want you to say I left someone out.
What happened was there was four of us that got
tickets together, and then a fifth friend was like, hey,
I kind of want to see that movie too, and
I was like, great, there's one seat next to us.
We already got it for you. Just venmo our other friend,
and you're in. And then like three days later. This
(13:49):
was like on a Monday, and then three days later
Kaylen text No, it's like five days later, on Friday
or something. The day before the movie, Kaylen texted me
and said, Hey, my friend's boyfriend once they come see
the movie with you guys, can you do anything about it?
And at that point the movie was already sold out,
so there was nothing we could. We left him out.
He just simply couldn't go.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
I know it was more Ali's saying, you know, she
wanted him to go, so I don't think it really mattered.
But the bachelorette was fun. I feel like I've talked
about this on the podcast before, but I'm not really
into alcohol, so it's kind of hard to like go
to a bachelorette that's heavy on drinking and be one
of the few sober ones. Not that it's bad at all,
(14:30):
but it's like, you know, everyone around you's drunk, and
you're just kind of like, Okay, what's next? You know
that makes sense?
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Yeah, but I thought you were I thought you were
the wild child of the group. I thought you were
a party heart.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Are you freaking kidding me? Do you know me at all?
I drank a little bit, but everything was just making
me so sick and nauseous. So it was fun. We
like hung out by the pool all day. I've never
been to Catalina before, and it's beautiful. It's like a
really cute little town, so we could walk around or
golf cart everywhere. But yeah, great, great couple of days.
(15:04):
We went in on Friday, took the boat in, and
then left on Sunday, so quick. Fun bachelorette chip and
it was fun celebrating Haley one of her friends flew
in from Ohio and did led a yoga class and
a meditation and it was great. We did karaoke. I
didn't sing personally, but most of the others did.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Why didn't you sing?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Because the list was so long and everyone who went
up was so good, I was like, is there going
to be one person that sucks? And then the sucky
people started to come on and there were like three
consecutive not great singers in a row, and everyone was
just so uncomfortable. Everyone was like, vibe in with the
good singers, and I was like, uh, I don't really
(15:49):
want to bring the vibes down with my singing, you know.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
No, I disagree with you. I feel like you would
have brought the vibes up. But what song would you
have sung given the opportunity.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Skater Boy by Averlae. I feel like that's a good one.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Yeah. Everyone knows all the words that can sing along
even if you are bad. They're singing loud enough to
like press out your bad singing.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Yeah, And that's the thing too with some of the
really bad singers, people were like singing, you know, louder
than them to kind of like, you know, encourage them.
And make them feel better. And then some of the
bad singers picked a song that nobody knew, so everyone's
just sitting there in silence. It was it was interesting.
Karaoke is like, it's just an interesting time. I like
the karaoke where you're in your own room with your
(16:31):
friends versus like a bunch of random strangers judging you.
You know.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Yeah, I don't think I've heard on karaoke in a
room with my friends before, but I could try it
sometime and let you know how it goes.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
I haven't either, but I've seen people do it and
it looks fun.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Looks fun. Yeah, it looks fun. So there were no
male strippers, nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
No, I don't. I'm not sure if they have strippers
on the tiny island of Catalina, maybe.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Well, you could bust them over from Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Do you know how expensive those faery tickets are? We
spent like one hundred and thirty or forty dollars just part.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Of the price of a pen a bachelorette where they're
like penis shaped gummies or anything crazy like that.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Not there, well, not penis shaped gummies, but penis shaped straws.
And Haley brought her penis shaped straw to every single restaurant,
put it in every single drink, so she she had it. Yeah,
she had it covered.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
That's exciting.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Yeah, little penises does that?
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Does that get you excited for your bachelorette party?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
It does. Mine's going to be very different, just like
different personalities, different people. Mine's going to be very minimal drinking.
And I have a lot of surprises for the girls
because I'm planning my own which is weird to a
lot of people. I guess a lot of people have
been like, no, you're made of honor supposed to plan it.
But I love planning so much and I've been having
(17:51):
so much fun with it, so I like have all
the goodie bags together together for the girls. I have
a lot of surprises over the weekend for them. We're
going to play pickleball. We are suppos to go horseback riding,
but that got canceled, and yeah, it'll be fun. I'm
really looking forward to it.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Probably for the best. Horseback riding got canceled. Anyways.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Yeah, I'm a little scared of horses after Spain and
going on a rescued race horse who wanted to just
take me off into the wild, you know.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah, well, just horses in general, just the liability.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
They're not that bad. Rescue horses are a little scary
because they don't really understand how their lives have just
drastically changed. But you know, I still like horses. I
know you hate them, but I still like them.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I don't hate them, I just fear them. There's a
big difference. Yeah, big difference.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Fear and hate go hand in hand.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
No, that's not true at all. I think it's maybe national.
They hate the things that you fear, but that's not me.
I don't hate them at all. I am just terrified
of them, and in fact, I think it might even
be like a little bit of respect, too much respect
for them, to degrade them by sitting on them and
saying mush.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Okay, those are sled dogs.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
I mean, courses probably know what the word mush means.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
You just give them a little a light tap with
your heel on their belly and they know it to go.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Yeah. No, see that just seems rude.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yeah it does. I don't love it. But that's my weekend.
That's my bachelorette recap.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
That's awesome. Sounds like your great weekend.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
So two weeks from today, I will be going to
a Taylor Swift concert. I am super excited with my
friend Ali. She's a huge Taylor Swift fan, so I
was like, I have to bring her. And then the
next day we leave for my bachelorette So we're super close,
super close to what our wedding. And I was going
to say that you still haven't gotten your tucks, which
is stressing me up a little bit.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Yeah, I was thinking about that. How far in advanced
do need to get that figured out?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
You probably should have had it done already. We're like
sixty days away, so yeah, you don't have much time left.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Yeah, I'll figure it out. But also, like, you had
to get refitted for your dress because you've lost so
much weight since the last time you're measured, and I
am planning on the same thing. I'm going to lose
five more pounds before I get married.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
So okay, but they at least have my dress made
and now they just have to take it in an inch.
They took six months to get it made. You got
to get it made and then you can get it fitted.
You're not just gonna like it's not going to magically
fit you for the.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Record, a tuxedo is not being made for me. They
have a warehouse of rental tuxedos that are close enough
to my size, and then they'll taper in certain parts
of it. That takes an hour or two. I don't know.
I'm not a seamstress. But it's a much quicker process.
It's a much quicker process for a tuxedo than it
is for a wedding dress.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is you thinking that they just have a penguin
tuxedo and stock. They might not and you might not.
You might have to get it customly made, custom made.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, I I disagree. I think that I'm going to
pull up into the tuxedo place and they're going to
be like, when's your wedding. I have to say September,
and they're going to be like, oh, you're here way
too early. Come back to like or September third, and
we'll get it all squared away for you.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
No zero percent chance. The next time you're in Vegas
or we're all, you're in Colorado and have some downtime,
you should go find a tucks.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
I don't have any downtime though.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
No. I also texted our officient and he's also working
on it as well, because I'm a little stressed that
you're not going to have anything to worry.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
What is he working on.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
The custom suits that he told me about?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Oh oh, because he has that Italian friend that can
get us custom suits.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Yeah, so I think you should get on that. But
let us know in the comments when is the groom's
supposed to get his tucks, because you're really pushing it.
It's almost August. We're a month and a half away.
That's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Well, I just think that you have a very strong
grasp on women's fashion and the legit sticks of what
it takes to be fashionable for the type of dress
that you like. But you don't have as good of
an understanding as someone like me for men's fashion, whereas like,
it's a lot more off the rack and it's a
(22:15):
lot quicker to customize things because I'm not getting something made,
I'm simply getting something altered. Like how long did it
take them to alter your dress? Probably they probably did
it on the spot for you when you were there, no.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Like a week And I was just going to tell you,
I'm getting a pair two pairs of pants pemmed and
I got the like n seam brought up a little bit.
It's taken over two weeks, they're still not done with it.
Those are just a pair of random pants, so I
don't think you realize I'm wearing pants.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
So two weeks that's great. So I got two weeks
before the wedding to start figuring out.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Okay, but also what if they don't have a pegment text?
You know what if no one carries them, because that's
pretty rare.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Well, my hope is that they are so rare that
they've got like one in the back that's just covered
dust and they're like, oh, you want the penguin tuxedo.
And they all like look at each other and I
kind of smirk, and they're like, this guy wants a
penguin tuxedo. Go dust it off from the back for
us real quick. Like, you know, not many people are
wearing a penguin tux or a long tail coats, and
maybe is the more formal way to put it. So
(23:17):
because of that, I think that I can just strut
in and say, hey, give me that, give me that
longest tail you got. I want to be dragging down
the aisle and they'll be like, oh, okay, that's a
weirder quest, but we got you. Don't worry about it.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I don't know, you just kind of like always fly
by the seat of your pants. But this is the
one thing I wish you would just maybe get it together.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
On well, I ask you, I always fly by the
seat of my pants. That's true. Has it ever bit
me in the butt?
Speaker 2 (23:43):
You're right? And you know what, if you wait too long,
they're not gonna have a penguin texedo and you're going
to have to have a normal, boring tuxedo or suit.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Nice reverse psychology. That's a really good way to do it.
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Speaker 2 (24:35):
People are wondering if you're going to keep your hair
long for the wedding or.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Short keep it along. Obviously, I didn't spend the last
two years of my life growing it out to just
cut it for this event.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
Has it been two years, it's been a year.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
I think it's been. I cut it on New Year's Eve,
a couple days before in New Year's Eve, Yeah, like
eighteen months ago. So yeah, a year and a half. Yeah,
I cut it right before Columbia, and I was thinking
about that the other My hair's going pretty fast.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
It's because of neutrafol No.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
It's not because of Neutral. Don't give free promotions to
a company that hasn't sponsored.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Me, but they have sponsored the podcast and they are
literally next to your bed.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
I should take them more often. I take them occasionally. Yeah,
you're right, it's partly because of Neutral, But I want
to give more credit to my body. I want to
give more credit to my body for growing hair faster
than no, faster than I can even think.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I'm going to give more credit to neutrafil because your
hair was like stagnant for a while and you started
taking them. You're not super consistent, but it has gotten longer.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
Yeah, it's got longer since we started recording this podcast.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh my gosh, you love to say that. So you're
going to keep it long, is the answer.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah, I am going to keep it long. And it's
my body, so it's my choice. I I retain the
right to make that decision. I know you want it short.
You want it short so we can take cuter pictures,
and I don't just you know, I just don't think
that's a good enough reason to cut it. So but
we're we're still six weeks or whatever way, so things
(26:03):
could change over time, but.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I don't care either way. I'm fine with both.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That's great.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I think you would be really sad if you cut
it just for the wedding, so I don't want you
to cut it for that reason.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
I agree, And then after the wedding, I'm can be like, oh, man,
I missed my long hair. But then I do like
hate my long hair at times it's just so inconvenient.
But then like I hate the properness of like a
short haircut. You know, I want people to like look
at me and be like, oh, that guy's a dirt back.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Yeah. If I saw you with your short hair climbing
a mount and I'd be like, oh, what's he doing
up here?
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Yeah, that guy doesn't belong out here. Let's get rescue
services out on standby, just in case this guy falls
off a mountain with that short hair because he has
no idea what he's doing. So we'll see.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
It's all making sense now.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, Well, what else do you want to talk about
before we wrap this first segment?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Well, our producer Hanna last night said to us a
TikTok of Rachel Kirknell and Matt James, and they were
talking about the difference between love you and I love
you or love you too and I love you too.
And this is something Dane and I talk about a lot.
And you've been saying love you too a lot without
the eye, gotcha.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
So you're personally victimized by the same situation.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I am, because we've talked about this a bunch. Saying
love you too is just like blase. It's just like blah.
I don't know. It just doesn't mean anything. Putting the
eye in there means something. I'll say. If my friends
like love you, like Ali always says love you, I'll
be like, love you too. I wouldn't say I love
you too to Ali. It's like more of a friend thing,
(27:42):
you know.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I see okay, Yeah, well so I guess. I guess
guys just don't know how to communicate as well as
women do.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
No, but we've had this conversation, and you were the
one who brought it up. You were like, don't say
love you, don't say love you too. You said something
along those lines. And now when I kiss you goodbye,
drop you off the airport, you're like, I love you,
have a safe flight. You're I disagree. I disagree with you.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
I think you were just getting up in arms about
something that isn't even really happening. I mean, sure, I'm
not saying I don't say it. I say it. I
say it occasionally. Sure I'm being lazy or something, But
you act like that's all I say every single time.
It's not true at all.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Lazy. It's one syllable, it's one letters, one way.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
That's why I'm saying, I'm shocked that you're saying. You're
acting as if I'm like being lazy about it. I
don't know. I think that they both mean the same thing.
Agree to disagree, I suppose.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
Huh. But that's funny because we've talked about this before.
It's it's probably been months or even a year since
we talked about it, and you had completely different feelings
last time we talked about.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
It, and you're saying that I was getting mad at
you for not saying I. Yes, I was probably just
trying to stir the pod a little bit, just trying
to find something to get angry about.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
No, we had a whole discussion about it, and now
you've turned into a love you too.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Oh my gosh. You say love you too to me
all the time too, but you don't hear me putting
you on blast.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
I make an effort to always put the I in there.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I feel like you're gaslighting me a little bit right now.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
I really do make an effort because that conversation we
had forever again.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Well, I definitely make an effort, and.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
I don't think you do. I think you're just saying that.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
I think that you're saying all this to have some
controversy in the podcast. I just blatantly disagree with what
you're saying, and it is what it is. I guess
there's no convincing you when you've already got your mind
made up. But I just think you're wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
You just disagree that it's the same I'm.
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Saying that I say both. I say I love you
and I say love you too. It just depends what
kind of mood I'm in or what kind of like
send off it is.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
You know, So you do agree that they're different.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
I guess, yeah, I guess maybe a little bit. Sure.
It's a really good way to twist my tist my words. Gala,
that's really really well done. I don't think they're different.
I think that obviously, Like, of course, objectively, they're different,
different sentences, but I think they mean the same thing.
I wouldn't say I love you too if I didn't
(30:01):
love you.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
I don't know. It's just more meaningful with the eye.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Yeah, that's true. I guess. Like I don't say I
love you to my brothers, you say love me. Maybe
I do say I love you to my brothers. I
don't know. It's just like I said, it just really
it's mood dependent and it's situational. It's like just really,
I'm just like gauging this flow of the conversation and
like I said, the salutations and just just going by
(30:27):
the seat of my pants, just like you said, I
always like to do.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
So.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I don't know, but you obviously have pretty strong opinions
of it, But it sounds like your opinions come from
my opinions a year ago. So what were your opinions
of it before that.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I think I've always thought that, and it just goes
back to like the friend thing, and I'm trying to
think of family too, just being like love you versus
I love you. It's a minor thing, I know, but
I just wanted to have a discussion about it.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Yeah, no, I appreciate the discussion. That's why we're here.
We're literally on this podcast to have discussions. So I
can't fault you for that. I don't know what to say.
I believe that I say I love you just as often,
if not more often, than you do. Maybe just as often,
maybe not more often. But I say love you all
(31:10):
the time. Love you mean it, okay?
Speaker 2 (31:13):
And that last time you just said it was without
the eye, right, that it feel different. So sometimes I
can't tell. I can't tell if you throw in the
eye and you're just like mumbling, you know.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yeah, I'm a mumbler.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
You're a big mumbler, big mumbler.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Yeah, I'm a big mumbler. I feel like I this
podcast has helped a little bit but I have regressed
quite a bit. I feel like whenever I'm saying something,
I have to get it out so fast because if
I don't finish my thought before the next person has
a chance to talk, that I'm not going to get
to finish my thought. And so that's why I'm a mumbler.
(31:47):
I just try and spit it out as fast as
I can. That way, no one else has to worry
about coming in over the top of me, and I
can freely get my point across without being interrupted.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Interesting. I don't feel like that's why you do it, but.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Interesting takes So why do you think I do it?
Speaker 2 (32:05):
I feel like I'm a really fast speaker because I
feel like I'm going to get cut off.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
You can't just take my story and then turn it
into your own story. That's like, literally, that's exactly what
I just said. You can just coin that as your own.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
No, because I feel like people don't listen to me.
I feel like people listen to you, and you know
when you have an engaged audience, and I feel like
you're about to cut you off right now. So now
I'm speaking faster because I know I'm losing my chance to.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
See the fact that you're even trying to flip this
around and make it a soft story for you, and
I'm making it a sob story for me is maddening.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
Well yeah, that's what I'm here for, to madden me. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, Well you're succeeding. You can't you do it all
the time. You can't just take exactly what I just
said and a fly it to yourself, like can I say, well,
can you say I'm curious? What can you say?
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Whatever you say?
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Gosh, there's no freaking winning over here. Well, so we
covered the weekends. We covered that.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Love you?
Speaker 1 (33:08):
I love you? What else? Is there anything else you
want to cover before we say goodbye and move on
to our guest?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Yeah? There is. I've got my bachelor fully planned. I've
been planning it for several months, probably since January. How
is your bachelor party coming?
Speaker 1 (33:23):
That's going really well, it's going really well.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Do you have a date, Do you have a location?
Do you have any plans?
Speaker 1 (33:30):
I have a date, tentative date. I have shifted my
plans multiple times to help make sure everyone isn't as
included as possible. An ease of access is important to
me because I don't want anyone have to fly across country.
It can be challenging for some of my friends. So yeah, tentatively,
(33:50):
Now it just thinks because what I really want to
do is rent a houseboat on Lake Palell for like
a week, well halfway like five days, I guess. But
all of the houseboats that all of the houseboats out
of the marina that I want to put out in
are booked for the weekend that I've already told everyone
the bachelor party is going to be. So it's just
(34:11):
like it's kind of a bit of a dilemma that
I'm faced with.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
So you had to pivot for the fourth or fifth time.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Yeah, but it's like, do I want to have a
golf trip, but you know half my friends don't golf,
and then they're just going to be there and we're
going to be golfing, and what are they going to
be doing. They're not going to be having fun. I mean,
they're probably going to be having fun too, but I
would still but I would like feel guilty about it, like, hey,
come come celebrate my love with me. I'll see you
in four hours, you know, like just.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Okay, I disagree, and I think this is why you
won't have a bachelor party because you want to accommodate
everyone you. You went on Ben Higgins's bachelor party, and
I feel like a lot of people weren't golfers, but
they golfed. Anyways, I think the important thing to do
for your bachelorette or bachelor is prioritize yourself what you
want to do, and everyone will come because they love you.
They'll figure out if they don't want to golf, they'll
(35:01):
figure out something to do.
Speaker 1 (35:03):
They'll still have Yeah, but then it's like my friend
from Basalt, my friend from la and my friend from Montana,
who don't really know each other who don't golf, are
all going to be having to figure out what to
do for themselves together.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
No, Jackson, Sarah Finn. There's people that know each other.
Everyone's going to get along.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Yeah, you're right, I'm probably overthinking it. But then I like,
you know, I invited your I invited your uncle and
he's not a golfer, And then like, what's he going
to be doing just sitting on the couch hanging out
with them all we're out golfing.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
I don't know, but that's the thing. You tell everyone
the plans and then they decide if they want to come,
they're like, Golf's not for me. I don't think I
want to spend money.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Okay, that's also a fear. Then I don't want to
tell anyone plans that aren't exciting enough for them to
want to come and hang out with me for you know.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
But that's totally fair if you have non golfer friends
and they're like, if he's going to be golfing every
day all day, I think I could sit this one out.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, I suppose I should probably start getting on that.
I also wanted it to be free for everyone, or
at least like mitigate the US as much as possible,
so I've been reaching out to like rental companies. I
wanted to do it in Cordelaine, but the house rental
market up there is like strictly no bachelor parties, which
is silly, So that kind of fell through, and then
there's a couple other options. I'm just like, I want
(36:16):
it to be as like the least amount of expensive
for everyone that comes, So it's just it's just a challenge.
But then my friends, I put like five of my
friends in a group chat, and there's gonna be I'm
gonna invite like twenty people at a bachelor party, and
I was like, what, like this is the kind of
the update on what's going on, and they're like, doan,
just book it, Like all of us want to take
(36:37):
the weekend off and hang out with you and party
and like do all these things, Like we're dying to
get out and do this, So just like book it
and then like figure out what you want to do
and we'll make do with what you decide. So I
don't know, you're right, it's just it's just it's challenging.
I should have had a best man. I blew it.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
Yeah, I'll be your best man. I'll plan it for
you and it's to be a great weekend.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
I appreciate that, just like it was a great podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
This is a great episode. Like I said, my favorite
episode so are the ones where it's just you and
me bickering about love you versus I love you and
how you steal all my SOB stories for yourself. Greatest
episodes on Earth. I think, in my opinion, that's gonna
do it, though, And Caylin, I appreciate your running this episode.
You did a fantastic job.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
Thank you. You did as.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
Well, that's very kind of you to say thank you
so much. All right, Well we're going to say goodbye now,
so be sure to tune in on I would imagine
Thursday when we have our great guests joining us. You're
not gonna want to miss that, and maybe we'll suck
just a little bit less love you. Thanks for listening.
Follow us on Instagram at help we Suck at being.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
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Speaker 1 (37:53):
We'll see you next time.
Help We Suck At Being Newlywed?
Speaker 2 (00:02):
W Dean Hungler, Kaylen Lurkey, and Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
What is going on? Everyone? Welcome to an all new
special edition episode of Help We Suck At Being Newly Weds?
And you might be asking yourself why is this episode special? Dean,
It's a good question, and you know why. I love
these episodes so much and I relish them every single
time we get the chance to do them. Jared's not
here today, so me and Kaylen has got free range
(00:31):
to talk about whatever we want to talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Ka Wait, yeah, what do you.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Want to talk about? So little disclaimer, I'm on my phone.
I can't see the list of topics that our talented
producers have laid out for us. So, Kaitlyn, if you
could just be so kind as to guide this episode
and I'll simply be the touch of color if you will.
But I want you to be the leader this time,
if that's okay with you.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, Well, we can just reach out our weekend and
you're climbing expeditions. You're done with the Southwest, so we
can kind of talk about all that.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
How do you know it's the Southwest that I'm done
with because we talked about it. Oh now, I thought
you were studying up on a map of Colorado. I
was impressed.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
No, no, no, we've chatted about it. I guess you
forgot we have chatted about it.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
But I feel like typically those types of things, when
I talk to you about them, it's just kind of
like one in one ear out the other.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Usually Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
Yeah, So that's why I'm impressed. It's very well done.
Southwest Colorado. Tick that off the list.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah, So where are you now?
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I'm in southern Colorado now, real big change where I
was in southwestern Colorado. I'm in Westcliffe, Colorado. I've never
been here before. It's this tiny, tiny little town. I'm
trying to think of the tiniest town I've ever brought
you to, but this must be the smallest town you've
ever been to in Colorado. It's like I got here
last night at like seven. Every restaurant was closed. There's
(01:56):
one that was open. It's just kind of how it
goes in Colorado. Everything's closed Mondays and time these days,
and you're just kind of on your own, but found
a good restaurant, slept in a okay hotel, no air conditioning,
which is a bummer, but it is what it is.
But how are you tell me about Tell me about Dillard's.
I want to hear all about Dillards.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Dillart's was great. So Dillards came by yesterday. I'm doing
a collection with them, and they gave me free range
to design whatever I wanted. And I've tried to do
this with brands before and that we always kind of
hit an in pass. They're like, well, our client looks this,
and this is what our customer typically gravitates towards, so
we're not going to invest in the pieces you want.
(02:35):
And Dillards was like, one hundred percent, whatever you want
is what we're going to move forward with. And it
was fun. I've never experienced that with a brand. And
I got to create swim clothes and shoes. They brought
over all of the pieces we created and then we
had to narrow it down to like sixteen pieces of clothing,
I think, twelve pairs of shoes and six pieces of
(02:57):
swim so it was like an eight hour meeting. Took
a lot of time, but it was so much fun.
And then we styled each piece together, made sure every
piece had an outfit and it'll be hitting every Dillard store,
all two hundred stores in March.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
That's crazy. So you have twenty four pieces of product
out there.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, we did go a little bit over, so we
kind of have to see. These were first rounds of samples,
and I was super impressed because when my friends it's
a clothing company, and she talks about like the headache
of samples and how you have to go through several rounds.
These were the first rounds and there were like minor
adjustments that needed to be made on one or two pieces.
It's like bigger adjustments. But for the first round of samples,
(03:35):
for them to be really, really good was impressive. So
we went over and then with the next round of samples,
then hopefully we can narrow it down further.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
And do you like all of your stuff, everything that
you guys came up with.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, I do. It was just so hard to narrow
everything down, and so I asked for all the reject
samples because I loved them so much, and they were like,
maybe we can send them to you because there were
some that would be great for the wedding too, So
we'll see. But yeah, I love all the pieces. I
wish we could have had a larger collection, though.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
What about like for men, do I get to get
anything from the Kaylen Miller Keys? What is the name
of the collection? I guess let's start there.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Well, we actually talked about this yesterday. I told them
I'm changing my last name in September and they were like, well,
everyone knows you as Kaylan Miller Keys. I don't know
if we want to put Kaylen Bell on the clothes,
so it's going to be Kaylen Bell for Gianny Beanie
is the brand of Dillard's. And they were like, you've
changed your name in September. The collection launches in March,
(04:34):
so we'll kind of feel it out. But I want
it to be Kalen Bell because that's my name.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Gotcha. That is a concern that I have too with
changing our names is I guess it's not really a concern,
but like you know, everyone knows us as Dean Aunglert
and Kaylen Miller Keys. Who's going to know us as
Dean Bell and Kylen Bell?
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Everyone? It's better will be married same last name.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
That's true. But you see these like big big celebrit Breeze,
which is basically what we are. I mean, come on
and they'll get and they'll get married, and they'll you know,
keep their last name through the marriage. Like even Ashley,
for instance, Jared's wife. I believe she's kept Eye Kennedi.
She might be like legally Ashley Haben, but like publicly
she's still Ashley I.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Kennetti, right, I yes, but we both have unique class
name or unique first names. I don't think there's been
another Kalin or another Dean.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
On the show on the show, sure, right, but I'm
talking I'm talking broader strokes. And it's it's funny too,
because I don't know if you've ever heard of the
website called howmany of me dot com? Have you ever
heard of that?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, I was with you when you found out this
news that crushed you.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Gotcha, right. I wasn't sure if you were processing that
information or just letting that go out the other side either.
But yeah, So for the listeners out there, there's a
website called how many of me dot com and you
can put in your first name and your last name
and it'll tell you how many of you, how many
people in the world have your name? And there I'm
the only Dean Unglert in the entire world. What an
(06:06):
honor it is to be one of one. But Dean Bell,
I think there's like there might be I can't remember.
It might be like two hundred or something like that
in the US. So I'm losing the uniqueness of my name,
which is a bit of a letdown. But I think
it's for the best.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's for the best. It's we're doing something special to
honor your mom. Also, people know it as Kaylin and
d Dean and Kaylan. You know, we don't need the
last names.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
That's true. So maybe your Dylartz collection should be called
Kaylin and d No.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
No, no, no, yeah no, you had no saying this.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I'm just trying to help, just trying to provide some
creative solutions.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
I mean, I could just drop the last name entirely,
just be Kaylin for Gianni Beanie, who knows, who knows.
But Dillard's is great, and I'm super excited.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Nice, that's awesome. I'm so proud of you. You're killing it.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Thank you. It is my dream day. This is what
I want to do. Just got to figure out a
way to do it long term and not be scared
of the money aspect. You know, it's nice to do
it on another brand's time.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
What's like the average price point going to be for
a piece of clothing from you?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Well, it's going to be pretty affordable and accessible, which
I'm excited about because I feel like I think the
most expensive piece will be about two hundred to two
hundred and twenty dollars. Everything else will be around the
hundred range. And everything's so expensive these days, I feel
like that's a good price.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
I'm going to be honest with you. That sounds expensive.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
One hundred dollars for a dress.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Oh, I guess I'm not really familiar with the pricing
of dresses, but like two hundred dollars for any article
of clothing that's not like a winter chan that's.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
The most expensive. That's only one dress will be two
hundred dollars and the rest will be in the hundreds,
probably like around one hundred dollars. I don't know. We
haven't said about the pricing yet.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
What about like shoes, How much is a pair of
shoes going to cost me?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
It depends on the shoe, but I would say like
seventy to one hundred something.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
It's not bad. It's not bad. Okay, cool, I can
I can work with that.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yeah, you're gonna buy it my whole collection.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
I hey, I gotta get the sales. Not that the
sales aren't gonna be up, but I will gladly buy
one piece of every article to help bolster sales a
little bit.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
It's very kind and very expensive.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, maybe I should take that back. And I don't
really have any where to play either, so.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I'll think of something. I think of something. But
also we can recap our weekend. So I was in
Catalina all weekend and you were in La hanging with
the guys. You guys all went to the movies together.
It sounded like a fun weekend.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Yeah, it was a fun weekend. We saw Oppenheimer. It
was pretty good.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
That's your review. It's not what you told me.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
It's very long, it's very dialogue driven to there's like
a couple accents in the movie. I have such a
hard time understanding accents in shows and movies, so it
was like a bit of a challenge for me to
overcome that. And it wasn't like bad. You know, there
(09:16):
was like a couple of English people. But it was good.
It was good. It was long, like I said, three hours.
I fell asleep for like twenty minutes somewhere in the middle,
but I don't think I missed anything. I woke up
and I still feel like I was falling along pretty well.
Some of my other friends fell asleep too. The movie
theater we went to, Oh my gosh, we went to
the Galleria in Los Angeles and yeah, I'm gonna call
(09:37):
them out by name. We went to this movie theater.
We spent twenty dollars on tickets each. Not bad. But
what really got frustrating was I lost golf to my
friend and so I had to buy snacks for everyone.
And I go to the snack Yeah, well it was
only for the one friend, but I was like whatever,
I'm here, I'm just gonna buy them. And everyone was
(09:58):
like alady in the seats because we were like right time,
and so we ordered. I order like two sodas, two
large popcorns. I look around for like reces no receas,
blah blah, Like I look around for a bunch of stuff,
and they're like, yeah, we're out of this, We're out
of that. I was like, Oh, it sucks, but okay,
find no big deal. I was like, can I get
two sodas please? And they're like yeah, we don't have
any ice, though I was like, okay, that's probably okay,
(10:19):
Like I bet you, the soda will still be cold.
And we get the two sodas and they're both like
room temperature warm. So the sodas were awful and the
popcorn was good, but like I didn't get my reces PC,
so it's kind of sad. And it was just like
not the best movie going experience. I just don't understand
how it's the biggest movie weekend of the year. I
would assume between Oppenheimer and Barbie and these movie theaters
(10:42):
are this movie theater specifically was sold out of so
many essential goods that are like necessary to having a
pleasant moviegoing experience.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
That's exactly why. Because Barbie and Oppenheimer, how could they
you know, they stucked up the best they could.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
I would hope they did. We saw it on a Saturday.
It's not like we saw it Sunday night. It was
still like early to the middle of the weekend. You
should plan ahead for these things, like how do you
run out of ice? Of all things, that was my
biggest restoration. I was so excited to drink my diet coke.
I got a large diet coke, which I was like, ooh,
I'm gonna be a bad boy and get a large
because that just seems like a lot of soda to me.
(11:21):
I took two STIPs of it and I like literally
just put it back on the snack counter and I
was like, I don't want this, you can throw it
away and he was like okay. He was like okay.
I was like, wait a second, no, can I get
like my money back or something? But we didn't have time.
I didn't have time to ask for my money back,
so we just went into the movie and I was
eating popcorn and sour gummy worms all movie long, and
I didn't have anything to drink. So yeah, it just
(11:43):
wasn't wasn't gosh, it was a rough life. Thank you
so much for commenting on that.
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Speaker 1 (13:04):
Tell us about the bachelorette party.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Bachelorette party was fun. So a lot of my girlfriends
are their husbands or boyfriends are friends with Dean. So
while the girls were out at the bachelorette the boys
went to the movies and we're hanging out. Even though
you left out one boy in particular Allie's boyfriend. But
it's okay. The movie stole now. You guys did the
(13:26):
best you could. But the Bachelorette was fun.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Wait wait, I want to stop. I want to stop
on that for a second. I'm sorry to interrupt, but
I don't want you to say I left someone out.
What happened was there was four of us that got
tickets together, and then a fifth friend was like, hey,
I kind of want to see that movie too, and
I was like, great, there's one seat next to us.
We already got it for you. Just venmo our other friend,
and you're in. And then like three days later. This
(13:49):
was like on a Monday, and then three days later
Kaylen text No, it's like five days later, on Friday
or something. The day before the movie, Kaylen texted me
and said, Hey, my friend's boyfriend once they come see
the movie with you guys, can you do anything about it?
And at that point the movie was already sold out,
so there was nothing we could. We left him out.
He just simply couldn't go.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
I know it was more Ali's saying, you know, she
wanted him to go, so I don't think it really mattered.
But the bachelorette was fun. I feel like I've talked
about this on the podcast before, but I'm not really
into alcohol, so it's kind of hard to like go
to a bachelorette that's heavy on drinking and be one
of the few sober ones. Not that it's bad at all,
(14:30):
but it's like, you know, everyone around you's drunk, and
you're just kind of like, Okay, what's next? You know
that makes sense?
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Yeah, but I thought you were I thought you were
the wild child of the group. I thought you were
a party heart.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Are you freaking kidding me? Do you know me at all?
I drank a little bit, but everything was just making
me so sick and nauseous. So it was fun. We
like hung out by the pool all day. I've never
been to Catalina before, and it's beautiful. It's like a
really cute little town, so we could walk around or
golf cart everywhere. But yeah, great, great couple of days.
(15:04):
We went in on Friday, took the boat in, and
then left on Sunday, so quick. Fun bachelorette chip and
it was fun celebrating Haley one of her friends flew
in from Ohio and did led a yoga class and
a meditation and it was great. We did karaoke. I
didn't sing personally, but most of the others did.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Why didn't you sing?
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Because the list was so long and everyone who went
up was so good, I was like, is there going
to be one person that sucks? And then the sucky
people started to come on and there were like three
consecutive not great singers in a row, and everyone was
just so uncomfortable. Everyone was like, vibe in with the
good singers, and I was like, uh, I don't really
(15:49):
want to bring the vibes down with my singing, you know.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
No, I disagree with you. I feel like you would
have brought the vibes up. But what song would you
have sung given the opportunity.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Skater Boy by Averlae. I feel like that's a good one.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Yeah. Everyone knows all the words that can sing along
even if you are bad. They're singing loud enough to
like press out your bad singing.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Yeah, And that's the thing too with some of the
really bad singers, people were like singing, you know, louder
than them to kind of like, you know, encourage them.
And make them feel better. And then some of the
bad singers picked a song that nobody knew, so everyone's
just sitting there in silence. It was it was interesting.
Karaoke is like, it's just an interesting time. I like
the karaoke where you're in your own room with your
(16:31):
friends versus like a bunch of random strangers judging you.
You know.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Yeah, I don't think I've heard on karaoke in a
room with my friends before, but I could try it
sometime and let you know how it goes.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
I haven't either, but I've seen people do it and
it looks fun.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Looks fun. Yeah, it looks fun. So there were no
male strippers, nothing like that.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
No, I don't. I'm not sure if they have strippers
on the tiny island of Catalina, maybe.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Well, you could bust them over from Los Angeles.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Do you know how expensive those faery tickets are? We
spent like one hundred and thirty or forty dollars just part.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Of the price of a pen a bachelorette where they're
like penis shaped gummies or anything crazy like that.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Not there, well, not penis shaped gummies, but penis shaped straws.
And Haley brought her penis shaped straw to every single restaurant,
put it in every single drink, so she she had it. Yeah,
she had it covered.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
That's exciting.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Yeah, little penises does that?
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Does that get you excited for your bachelorette party?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
It does. Mine's going to be very different, just like
different personalities, different people. Mine's going to be very minimal drinking.
And I have a lot of surprises for the girls
because I'm planning my own which is weird to a
lot of people. I guess a lot of people have
been like, no, you're made of honor supposed to plan it.
But I love planning so much and I've been having
(17:51):
so much fun with it, so I like have all
the goodie bags together together for the girls. I have
a lot of surprises over the weekend for them. We're
going to play pickleball. We are suppos to go horseback riding,
but that got canceled, and yeah, it'll be fun. I'm
really looking forward to it.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Probably for the best. Horseback riding got canceled. Anyways.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Yeah, I'm a little scared of horses after Spain and
going on a rescued race horse who wanted to just
take me off into the wild, you know.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Yeah, well, just horses in general, just the liability.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
They're not that bad. Rescue horses are a little scary
because they don't really understand how their lives have just
drastically changed. But you know, I still like horses. I
know you hate them, but I still like them.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
I don't hate them, I just fear them. There's a
big difference. Yeah, big difference.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Fear and hate go hand in hand.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
No, that's not true at all. I think it's maybe national.
They hate the things that you fear, but that's not me.
I don't hate them at all. I am just terrified
of them, and in fact, I think it might even
be like a little bit of respect, too much respect
for them, to degrade them by sitting on them and
saying mush.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Okay, those are sled dogs.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
I mean, courses probably know what the word mush means.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
You just give them a little a light tap with
your heel on their belly and they know it to go.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Yeah. No, see that just seems rude.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yeah it does. I don't love it. But that's my weekend.
That's my bachelorette recap.
Speaker 1 (19:27):
That's awesome. Sounds like your great weekend.
Speaker 2 (19:29):
So two weeks from today, I will be going to
a Taylor Swift concert. I am super excited with my
friend Ali. She's a huge Taylor Swift fan, so I
was like, I have to bring her. And then the
next day we leave for my bachelorette So we're super close,
super close to what our wedding. And I was going
to say that you still haven't gotten your tucks, which
is stressing me up a little bit.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Yeah, I was thinking about that. How far in advanced
do need to get that figured out?
Speaker 2 (19:52):
You probably should have had it done already. We're like
sixty days away, so yeah, you don't have much time left.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Yeah, I'll figure it out. But also, like, you had
to get refitted for your dress because you've lost so
much weight since the last time you're measured, and I
am planning on the same thing. I'm going to lose
five more pounds before I get married.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
So okay, but they at least have my dress made
and now they just have to take it in an inch.
They took six months to get it made. You got
to get it made and then you can get it fitted.
You're not just gonna like it's not going to magically
fit you for the.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Record, a tuxedo is not being made for me. They
have a warehouse of rental tuxedos that are close enough
to my size, and then they'll taper in certain parts
of it. That takes an hour or two. I don't know.
I'm not a seamstress. But it's a much quicker process.
It's a much quicker process for a tuxedo than it
is for a wedding dress.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is you thinking that they just have a penguin
tuxedo and stock. They might not and you might not.
You might have to get it customly made, custom made.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Yeah, I I disagree. I think that I'm going to
pull up into the tuxedo place and they're going to
be like, when's your wedding. I have to say September,
and they're going to be like, oh, you're here way
too early. Come back to like or September third, and
we'll get it all squared away for you.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
No zero percent chance. The next time you're in Vegas
or we're all, you're in Colorado and have some downtime,
you should go find a tucks.
Speaker 1 (21:17):
I don't have any downtime though.
Speaker 2 (21:19):
No. I also texted our officient and he's also working
on it as well, because I'm a little stressed that
you're not going to have anything to worry.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
What is he working on.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
The custom suits that he told me about?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Oh oh, because he has that Italian friend that can
get us custom suits.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Yeah, so I think you should get on that. But
let us know in the comments when is the groom's
supposed to get his tucks, because you're really pushing it.
It's almost August. We're a month and a half away.
That's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
Well, I just think that you have a very strong
grasp on women's fashion and the legit sticks of what
it takes to be fashionable for the type of dress
that you like. But you don't have as good of
an understanding as someone like me for men's fashion, whereas like,
it's a lot more off the rack and it's a
(22:15):
lot quicker to customize things because I'm not getting something made,
I'm simply getting something altered. Like how long did it
take them to alter your dress? Probably they probably did
it on the spot for you when you were there, no.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Like a week And I was just going to tell you,
I'm getting a pair two pairs of pants pemmed and
I got the like n seam brought up a little bit.
It's taken over two weeks, they're still not done with it.
Those are just a pair of random pants, so I
don't think you realize I'm wearing pants.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
So two weeks that's great. So I got two weeks
before the wedding to start figuring out.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Okay, but also what if they don't have a pegment text?
You know what if no one carries them, because that's
pretty rare.
Speaker 1 (22:55):
Well, my hope is that they are so rare that
they've got like one in the back that's just covered
dust and they're like, oh, you want the penguin tuxedo.
And they all like look at each other and I
kind of smirk, and they're like, this guy wants a
penguin tuxedo. Go dust it off from the back for
us real quick. Like, you know, not many people are
wearing a penguin tux or a long tail coats, and
maybe is the more formal way to put it. So
(23:17):
because of that, I think that I can just strut
in and say, hey, give me that, give me that
longest tail you got. I want to be dragging down
the aisle and they'll be like, oh, okay, that's a
weirder quest, but we got you. Don't worry about it.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I don't know, you just kind of like always fly
by the seat of your pants. But this is the
one thing I wish you would just maybe get it together.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
On well, I ask you, I always fly by the
seat of my pants. That's true. Has it ever bit
me in the butt?
Speaker 2 (23:43):
You're right? And you know what, if you wait too long,
they're not gonna have a penguin texedo and you're going
to have to have a normal, boring tuxedo or suit.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Nice reverse psychology. That's a really good way to do it.
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Speaker 2 (24:35):
People are wondering if you're going to keep your hair
long for the wedding or.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Short keep it along. Obviously, I didn't spend the last
two years of my life growing it out to just
cut it for this event.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
Has it been two years, it's been a year.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
I think it's been. I cut it on New Year's Eve,
a couple days before in New Year's Eve, Yeah, like
eighteen months ago. So yeah, a year and a half. Yeah,
I cut it right before Columbia, and I was thinking
about that the other My hair's going pretty fast.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
It's because of neutrafol No.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
It's not because of Neutral. Don't give free promotions to
a company that hasn't sponsored.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
Me, but they have sponsored the podcast and they are
literally next to your bed.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
I should take them more often. I take them occasionally. Yeah,
you're right, it's partly because of Neutral, But I want
to give more credit to my body. I want to
give more credit to my body for growing hair faster
than no, faster than I can even think.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I'm going to give more credit to neutrafil because your
hair was like stagnant for a while and you started
taking them. You're not super consistent, but it has gotten longer.
Speaker 1 (25:34):
Yeah, it's got longer since we started recording this podcast.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh my gosh, you love to say that. So you're
going to keep it long, is the answer.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah, I am going to keep it long. And it's
my body, so it's my choice. I I retain the
right to make that decision. I know you want it short.
You want it short so we can take cuter pictures,
and I don't just you know, I just don't think
that's a good enough reason to cut it. So but
we're we're still six weeks or whatever way, so things
(26:03):
could change over time, but.
Speaker 2 (26:06):
I don't care either way. I'm fine with both.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
That's great.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I think you would be really sad if you cut
it just for the wedding, so I don't want you
to cut it for that reason.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
I agree, And then after the wedding, I'm can be like, oh, man,
I missed my long hair. But then I do like
hate my long hair at times it's just so inconvenient.
But then like I hate the properness of like a
short haircut. You know, I want people to like look
at me and be like, oh, that guy's a dirt back.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
Yeah. If I saw you with your short hair climbing
a mount and I'd be like, oh, what's he doing
up here?
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Yeah, that guy doesn't belong out here. Let's get rescue
services out on standby, just in case this guy falls
off a mountain with that short hair because he has
no idea what he's doing. So we'll see.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
It's all making sense now.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
Yeah, Well, what else do you want to talk about
before we wrap this first segment?
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Well, our producer Hanna last night said to us a
TikTok of Rachel Kirknell and Matt James, and they were
talking about the difference between love you and I love
you or love you too and I love you too.
And this is something Dane and I talk about a lot.
And you've been saying love you too a lot without
the eye, gotcha.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
So you're personally victimized by the same situation.
Speaker 2 (27:19):
I am, because we've talked about this a bunch. Saying
love you too is just like blase. It's just like blah.
I don't know. It just doesn't mean anything. Putting the
eye in there means something. I'll say. If my friends
like love you, like Ali always says love you, I'll
be like, love you too. I wouldn't say I love
you too to Ali. It's like more of a friend thing,
(27:42):
you know.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
I see okay, Yeah, well so I guess. I guess
guys just don't know how to communicate as well as
women do.
Speaker 2 (27:49):
No, but we've had this conversation, and you were the
one who brought it up. You were like, don't say
love you, don't say love you too. You said something
along those lines. And now when I kiss you goodbye,
drop you off the airport, you're like, I love you,
have a safe flight. You're I disagree. I disagree with you.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
I think you were just getting up in arms about
something that isn't even really happening. I mean, sure, I'm
not saying I don't say it. I say it. I
say it occasionally. Sure I'm being lazy or something, But
you act like that's all I say every single time.
It's not true at all.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Lazy. It's one syllable, it's one letters, one way.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
That's why I'm saying, I'm shocked that you're saying. You're
acting as if I'm like being lazy about it. I
don't know. I think that they both mean the same thing.
Agree to disagree, I suppose.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
Huh. But that's funny because we've talked about this before.
It's it's probably been months or even a year since
we talked about it, and you had completely different feelings
last time we talked about.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
It, and you're saying that I was getting mad at
you for not saying I. Yes, I was probably just
trying to stir the pod a little bit, just trying
to find something to get angry about.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
No, we had a whole discussion about it, and now
you've turned into a love you too.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Oh my gosh. You say love you too to me
all the time too, but you don't hear me putting
you on blast.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
I make an effort to always put the I in there.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
I feel like you're gaslighting me a little bit right now.
Speaker 2 (29:05):
I really do make an effort because that conversation we
had forever again.
Speaker 1 (29:09):
Well, I definitely make an effort, and.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
I don't think you do. I think you're just saying that.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
I think that you're saying all this to have some
controversy in the podcast. I just blatantly disagree with what
you're saying, and it is what it is. I guess
there's no convincing you when you've already got your mind
made up. But I just think you're wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
You just disagree that it's the same I'm.
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Saying that I say both. I say I love you
and I say love you too. It just depends what
kind of mood I'm in or what kind of like
send off it is.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
You know, So you do agree that they're different.
Speaker 1 (29:41):
I guess, yeah, I guess maybe a little bit. Sure.
It's a really good way to twist my tist my words. Gala,
that's really really well done. I don't think they're different.
I think that obviously, Like, of course, objectively, they're different,
different sentences, but I think they mean the same thing.
I wouldn't say I love you too if I didn't
(30:01):
love you.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
I don't know. It's just more meaningful with the eye.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Yeah, that's true. I guess. Like I don't say I
love you to my brothers, you say love me. Maybe
I do say I love you to my brothers. I
don't know. It's just like I said, it just really
it's mood dependent and it's situational. It's like just really,
I'm just like gauging this flow of the conversation and
like I said, the salutations and just just going by
(30:27):
the seat of my pants, just like you said, I
always like to do.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
So.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I don't know, but you obviously have pretty strong opinions
of it, But it sounds like your opinions come from
my opinions a year ago. So what were your opinions
of it before that.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I think I've always thought that, and it just goes
back to like the friend thing, and I'm trying to
think of family too, just being like love you versus
I love you. It's a minor thing, I know, but
I just wanted to have a discussion about it.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Yeah, no, I appreciate the discussion. That's why we're here.
We're literally on this podcast to have discussions. So I
can't fault you for that. I don't know what to say.
I believe that I say I love you just as often,
if not more often, than you do. Maybe just as often,
maybe not more often. But I say love you all
(31:10):
the time. Love you mean it, okay?
Speaker 2 (31:13):
And that last time you just said it was without
the eye, right, that it feel different. So sometimes I
can't tell. I can't tell if you throw in the
eye and you're just like mumbling, you know.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yeah, I'm a mumbler.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
You're a big mumbler, big mumbler.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Yeah, I'm a big mumbler. I feel like I this
podcast has helped a little bit but I have regressed
quite a bit. I feel like whenever I'm saying something,
I have to get it out so fast because if
I don't finish my thought before the next person has
a chance to talk, that I'm not going to get
to finish my thought. And so that's why I'm a mumbler.
(31:47):
I just try and spit it out as fast as
I can. That way, no one else has to worry
about coming in over the top of me, and I
can freely get my point across without being interrupted.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Interesting. I don't feel like that's why you do it, but.
Speaker 1 (32:03):
Interesting takes So why do you think I do it?
Speaker 2 (32:05):
I feel like I'm a really fast speaker because I
feel like I'm going to get cut off.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
You can't just take my story and then turn it
into your own story. That's like, literally, that's exactly what
I just said. You can just coin that as your own.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
No, because I feel like people don't listen to me.
I feel like people listen to you, and you know
when you have an engaged audience, and I feel like
you're about to cut you off right now. So now
I'm speaking faster because I know I'm losing my chance to.
Speaker 1 (32:32):
See the fact that you're even trying to flip this
around and make it a soft story for you, and
I'm making it a sob story for me is maddening.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
Well yeah, that's what I'm here for, to madden me. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Yeah, Well you're succeeding. You can't you do it all
the time. You can't just take exactly what I just
said and a fly it to yourself, like can I say, well,
can you say I'm curious? What can you say?
Speaker 2 (32:58):
Whatever you say?
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Gosh, there's no freaking winning over here. Well, so we
covered the weekends. We covered that.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Love you?
Speaker 1 (33:08):
I love you? What else? Is there anything else you
want to cover before we say goodbye and move on
to our guest?
Speaker 2 (33:15):
Yeah? There is. I've got my bachelor fully planned. I've
been planning it for several months, probably since January. How
is your bachelor party coming?
Speaker 1 (33:23):
That's going really well, it's going really well.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Do you have a date, Do you have a location?
Do you have any plans?
Speaker 1 (33:30):
I have a date, tentative date. I have shifted my
plans multiple times to help make sure everyone isn't as
included as possible. An ease of access is important to
me because I don't want anyone have to fly across country.
It can be challenging for some of my friends. So yeah, tentatively,
(33:50):
Now it just thinks because what I really want to
do is rent a houseboat on Lake Palell for like
a week, well halfway like five days, I guess. But
all of the houseboats that all of the houseboats out
of the marina that I want to put out in
are booked for the weekend that I've already told everyone
the bachelor party is going to be. So it's just
(34:11):
like it's kind of a bit of a dilemma that
I'm faced with.
Speaker 2 (34:16):
So you had to pivot for the fourth or fifth time.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Yeah, but it's like, do I want to have a
golf trip, but you know half my friends don't golf,
and then they're just going to be there and we're
going to be golfing, and what are they going to
be doing. They're not going to be having fun. I mean,
they're probably going to be having fun too, but I
would still but I would like feel guilty about it, like, hey,
come come celebrate my love with me. I'll see you
in four hours, you know, like just.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Okay, I disagree, and I think this is why you
won't have a bachelor party because you want to accommodate
everyone you. You went on Ben Higgins's bachelor party, and
I feel like a lot of people weren't golfers, but
they golfed. Anyways, I think the important thing to do
for your bachelorette or bachelor is prioritize yourself what you
want to do, and everyone will come because they love you.
They'll figure out if they don't want to golf, they'll
(35:01):
figure out something to do.
Speaker 1 (35:03):
They'll still have Yeah, but then it's like my friend
from Basalt, my friend from la and my friend from Montana,
who don't really know each other who don't golf, are
all going to be having to figure out what to
do for themselves together.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
No, Jackson, Sarah Finn. There's people that know each other.
Everyone's going to get along.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Yeah, you're right, I'm probably overthinking it. But then I like,
you know, I invited your I invited your uncle and
he's not a golfer, And then like, what's he going
to be doing just sitting on the couch hanging out
with them all we're out golfing.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
I don't know, but that's the thing. You tell everyone
the plans and then they decide if they want to come,
they're like, Golf's not for me. I don't think I
want to spend money.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
Okay, that's also a fear. Then I don't want to
tell anyone plans that aren't exciting enough for them to
want to come and hang out with me for you know.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
But that's totally fair if you have non golfer friends
and they're like, if he's going to be golfing every
day all day, I think I could sit this one out.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, I suppose I should probably start getting on that.
I also wanted it to be free for everyone, or
at least like mitigate the US as much as possible,
so I've been reaching out to like rental companies. I
wanted to do it in Cordelaine, but the house rental
market up there is like strictly no bachelor parties, which
is silly, So that kind of fell through, and then
there's a couple other options. I'm just like, I want
(36:16):
it to be as like the least amount of expensive
for everyone that comes, So it's just it's just a challenge.
But then my friends, I put like five of my
friends in a group chat, and there's gonna be I'm
gonna invite like twenty people at a bachelor party, and
I was like, what, like this is the kind of
the update on what's going on, and they're like, doan,
just book it, Like all of us want to take
(36:37):
the weekend off and hang out with you and party
and like do all these things, Like we're dying to
get out and do this, So just like book it
and then like figure out what you want to do
and we'll make do with what you decide. So I
don't know, you're right, it's just it's just it's challenging.
I should have had a best man. I blew it.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
Yeah, I'll be your best man. I'll plan it for
you and it's to be a great weekend.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
I appreciate that, just like it was a great podcast.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
This is a great episode. Like I said, my favorite
episode so are the ones where it's just you and
me bickering about love you versus I love you and
how you steal all my SOB stories for yourself. Greatest
episodes on Earth. I think, in my opinion, that's gonna
do it, though, And Caylin, I appreciate your running this episode.
You did a fantastic job.
Speaker 2 (37:24):
Thank you. You did as.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
Well, that's very kind of you to say thank you
so much. All right, Well we're going to say goodbye now,
so be sure to tune in on I would imagine
Thursday when we have our great guests joining us. You're
not gonna want to miss that, and maybe we'll suck
just a little bit less love you. Thanks for listening.
Follow us on Instagram at help we Suck at being.
Speaker 2 (37:46):
Newlyweds, and email us at Newlyweds at iHeartRadio dot com.
Make sure to write us a review and leave us
five stars.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
We'll see you next time.
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