December 10, 2025 • 24 mins
Before they tried to find love on television, they pledged, they partied, and now they reveal the truth about Sorority Life.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority life with
your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys,
welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. From pregaming
rituals to legendary pre party moments, we are diving deep
into the chaos, laughs, and memories that make sorority and
(00:22):
fraternity life unforgettable. Today we are pre partying with Bachelor
Nation before jingle Ball. They are here to spill all
the stories from the good old college days and give
us the inside scoop on the ultimate pre party scene.
So we have with us now the drum roll please,
the beautiful Trista Sutter. Hello, my gorgeous friend.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Hi, I'm so sad I'm not seeing you in person.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Yeah, I know, so am. I you should be here
with us? Doesn't feel right?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I would love that.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Well, listen, you can't party with us at jingle Ball,
but we're going to talk about partying and you and college. Trista,
where did you go to school?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Indiana University, India undergrad and I went to Miami for
graduate school.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
And what sorority were you in?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I was in Alpha ky Omega.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, did you ever, or I'm sure you did do
a lot of pregaming in your day.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Well I could so for football games. We couldn't because
I or I couldn't because I was a red stepper,
I you know, danced at the halftime at the football games.
So I could never go to like tailgating or anything
for football games. But you know, if there was any
other pregaming, Yeah, did they call it?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Like, I don't know, because you're younger than me, A
lot younger than me.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Not a lot. That's not true. I am not a
lot younger on you. I'm fifty. I'm fifty three.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
You are I am. Bob Guiney just told me he
was fifty four, is like, are you sure you're fifty three? Wow,
I'm fifty seven, so you still baby.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
See see No, But yeah, you're right, we're right around
the same age. I mean, if I was a freshman,
we could have been at the same school if at
the same time.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Four fifty five. Yes, that's very true. And they did
not call it pregaming when I was in college. They
call it that.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's what they call it now.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
That's what they call it now. You don't know that term, No,
I don't know what, Triusta, that's gonna be hard since
that's what this podcast is about. So let me define it.
And by the way, I'm sure I'm not going to
define it well, but whatever. Well, okay, So it's when
you party first, it's the party before the party. So
and you're going to find out more about that very
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soon when your kids go to college, is my guest. Yes,
although I think my kids started saying it in high school,
so before a football game, but even before a party.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I feel like, I mean, don't we do that.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Like I was just going to a dinner, a big dinner,
and a friend of mine invited a bunch of us
to have like contail hour before we went to the
So it's like pregaming.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Yes, right, that is that is in essence, I think
that is what pregaming is. And but in college I
feel like it has for these guys, it has just
this whole, this meaning to it. It's like so exciting
to go to the pregame and you want to go
because you want to have a couple drinks and maybe
take the edge off. Yeah, it's like a you know,
it's kind of like a ritual there. So well for
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our sake, and anyone who's listening, who is around our age.
Did you have parties before the parties listen?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't remember a lot because I'm fifty three, But
what I do remember is that, yes, if there was,
if there was a party, then we were there, my
friends and I, you know, and I feel like we
did go to like the late night parties, especially when
I lived in Miami. We went and you know, I
of course wasn't in strorety life at that point, but
(03:43):
I feel like you went out so late when you
were in college or after that. Yes, if you get
together and there's something else going on, you'd have, you know,
a quick drink or a roadie or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah. Yeah, well yeah us too. So did you ever
start out the night in college? And I'm sure the
answer is yes, like it is for all of us,
all good intentions and not make it to the actual party,
because I think that's right, right right.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
I mean it's I'm kind of thinking that maybe I
shouldn't be saying all this because maybe my kids will
listen and then they're going to.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Be like, oh, well, mom, mom did pregaming.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Guess what they're going to know you did pregaming pretty quickly,
so you're not gonna be able to hide.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yeah, that's true, but you know, in college I was
old enough. In high school not so much. But yeah,
I feel like you definitely have good intentions of maybe
having a drink or two and then if you're having
lots of fun and you just keep the pregame gaming.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yeah why not. Yeah, Well that's what we talked about
with some of these kids that and they're actually the
kids from the Bachelor and the Bachelorette that I've been
talking to, So like, who so talk to, Well, Bob
Guinea certainly not a kid, but we just talked to Jonathan,
Charity Mercedes. It's interesting because they have so many specifics
(05:09):
right about this, so stories of them going to the
pregame and somebody was telling me just now about who
was it. No, it was Charity. How she had twelve
vodka shots at one particular pregame and then got on
the back of a pickup truck to go to the
actual party and clearly didn't make it and then had
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to use the brassy hook where they she got so
sick she had to put her that's what they call it,
the fingers down the throat. I don't know, Trista, I
don't know what to tell you. They got the Brassi hook,
they got names for everything.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I had no clue.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, okay, so listen. I didn't ever
do twelve vodka shots in pregame, but we did have
a tradition at Indiana on your twenty first birthday to
do twenty one shots. And I think I got to
nineteen oh, and I was so froom stuff because my
friends were like, you guys have to you have to
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go home. You are not going to do two more shots.
And I was like, what, it's it's my twenty first time.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
I want to end up in the hospital.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Right, It's not a birthday. It's not a twenty first
if I don't end up hospitalized, right, right.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
And actually, my sorority sister on her twenty first birthday,
same thing, she tried to do twenty one. I don't
know if she made it or not, but we get
back to the sorority house.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And she gets up.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I think someone had laid her down, just said go
to sleep. She gets up and tries to go to
the bathroom and walks right into the doorframe and broke
her nose.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Oh well, yeah, definitely wake you up if you're in
a you know, a drug up. Yeah, right up. My
son was actually we were in South Carolina and he
was out for twenty first and he projectile vomited I guess,
across like a whole bar of people. Yeah, it was
(07:01):
not a good scene. So right, beware of the twenty
first young Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Stay far away, yeah, stay far far away.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah. Did you ever do anything like a little torrid
like you know right before? Did you ever drink too much?
And I know you did because we all did hook
up with the wrong guy? Yeah, well yeah, I mean,
of course. Yeah. I'm trying to come up with questions
because the truth is, we didn't really officially pregame.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
We didn't officially pregame. It's not like a it's me.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
It was a thing like we would have when we
lived not in our sority house, but when we lived
in like a house on campus or off campus, we
would have like what did we call them? It wasn't
pregame drinks, but it was gosh, I wish I knew
the term. We would have cocktails like just before as
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we were getting ready, right, you know what I mean.
So if that's considered gaming, then yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Well one of these kids, they were adults. I shouldn't
really say that, but one of them said that his
pregaming started in the shower. He would get like, I
don't even know what he was talking about. He was
somebody was handing him drinks as he was like bathing,
getting like, well, that's the way to pregame.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Well, I feel like we did that, like my girlfriends
and I would if we were on girls trips. Even
to this day, I feel like if we're on a
girls trip and we would just have a cocktail, like
we would have someone like maybe if we're staying at
a hotel, have them bring it up to our room
while we're getting ready in the bathroom waiting.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Half the people here that I'm talking to have come
in with cocktails before jingle Ball.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Exactly right.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
They're parading them.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
In front of me.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
It's actually not very nice because I have gotten nothing.
I know. The walking was Scotch and mimosa and everything else.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Not very nice.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
They should ask you what you want.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Rude, or you should require it. Hey, if you're going
to walk in this room, you better bring me.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Don't you worry. Somebody was talking about how they try
to pregame with asso Martini's because just to kind of
know that it's gonna it'll keep you awake.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
So I don't drink coffee or really caffeine for that matter,
So I yeah, I can't do one of those drinks.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Do you survive without caffeine? Do they give you to
give you headaches or something?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Good, I don't.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
I'm it does not go well with my body and
my head or anything. Yeah, so I don't. But but yeah,
bring me a Moscow mule or a glass of wine
or something. Although wine tends to like if I'm tired red,
which is my drink, it maaves me tired. Right, Yeah,
so I want to start with a cocktail.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
But what is that saying? Liquor before beer?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Never fear something beer before liquor, never sicker. Yeah, yeah,
we also talked about that. See, look we are vibing
with the young EN's. That's yeah, we know, we know,
we know, we know better than they do. I mean
we've we've lived too, I know a lot longer, lived
a lot longer. I tell my kids that all the time.
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I know you think that I don't know anything, and
then I'm just like a big door. But believe me
when I tell you I'm laughing at you.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Okay, exactly, I know I know these things. Yeah, yeah,
I'm a little scared because of what I know. Like
like for my twenty first birthday, when I did the
nineteen shots, I actually I remember this.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
There was a pay phone.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
If that doesn't age you, what does Oh there was
a payphone in the bathroom of this like bar.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
That we were at killed a drunk dialing, didn't jayler Bar.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
I called my mom on my twenty first birthday and
I was like, Mom.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
I did nineteen shots. You'd be so proud of me.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
And she was like, what, Oh my god, Well, I
can't sleep tonight, Trista. I have to tell you something.
It tracks so beautifully that you drunk dial your mom
like you are that sweet, adorable all American girl, Like
I was drunk dialing any guy that would pick up
the phone. It didn't matter. Please tell me you love me,
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And you're like drunk dialing your mother. It's just per Yeah,
lucky mom.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That is so funny. I've never thought of it.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And I'll bet your daughter. I'll bet your the mother
your daughter will be doing the same. My daughter wouldn't
drunk dial me if I was the last person on her.
She's not stupid, because I would handle it like your mother,
you get yours to give.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
You really well.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Oh yeah, I would be like what, I'm coming there
right now, tell me where you are the hair?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
No, my mom was great.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
She was great and didn't well, at least I don't
remember what she said.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
But how could you? How could you? All right, lady,
thank you for coming on. We miss you here.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
I know.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I tell everyone high, I give everyone a hug.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
I certainly will be there. I certainly will. Okay, talk
soon than yeah, okay, by So next we have the
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beautiful Gabby l Nikki, thank you so much for coming on.
And you, if I read my notes correctly, went to
the University of Mississippi. I did.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
I went to Ole Miss Hatty Toddy.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Wow, what sorority were you in? I was a py
fi Okay, yeah, so I'm sure that most of our
listeners know, like that is the place I think to go.
I went to University of Texas. So like those southern
schools and their greek life, it's huge.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Oh yeah, it's huge.
Speaker 5 (12:38):
So Ole miss It's insane, right, It's like so intimidating.
And I'm from Vermont, so like, we don't have sororities
where I'm from. And when I got to Ole Miss,
I was like, oh my gosh, is there like a
group shot I'm not a part of. Like I didn't
have the recommendation letters.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I didn't have anything. It was the most intimidating thing
of my.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Life, the whole process.
Speaker 5 (12:57):
Yes, yeah, and my gamma Kai is the one who
wrote my recommendation letter and got me into PI five.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
But I didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Be a five ft We have to do this, we
honestly like, because I love these stories. This is part
of what is so wonderful and fascinating to me about
Dirty Rush, about our podcast. It's just that journey is
so different for everyone. But we are talking about something
a little different today. We are talking about pregaming. I
love it so and I've had only a couple of guests.
(13:25):
Well too, I want to say, uh, Trista and Bob,
who are both a little older than you, and the
three of us were kind of commiserating. Never heard of
that term when we were younger, right, so it's new
for us. But clearly you went to college and you
did a lot of that. Oh we did, right, Oh,
we pregamed hard, all right, So tell me a little
bit about what that looked like.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
Okay, Well, first of all, in Oxford, Mississippi, when I
went to school there, the bars closed at midnight, so
you had to start pregaming at like five pm. So
you like got out of class and then you like
started your pregaming. Okay, So it's a marathon, not a sprint.
That's what we always said, is it's a marathon, not
a sprint. And we never lost a party because we
were terrible at football that season or all the seasons
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that I went there.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
Actually, and I mean.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
We had a party house. We used to call it
like a frat house. It was a gorgeous s frat house.
I mean, very nicely decorated, and we kept it clean.
But we always through the big pregames. I was in
charge of the music.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So you can actually have alcohol at the house. Well
I didn't live in the sorority house, but we but
you still had, oh your house. I'm sorry, I thought
you made the sorority house leinkally.
Speaker 5 (14:30):
I maybe it wasn't of age every year, but we
did not alone. We have the alcohol there, not in
the sorority house. That is, we couldn't even have men
in the sorority house and Miss Sippy it's considered a brothel. Actually,
if you have men in your sorority house. It was crazy,
but prebaming. I mean some of the videos I have
are probably incriminating. We would be on our countertop. I
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mean it was crazy because you couldn't be on elevated surfaces,
as you know, in a sorority.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
I don't know that. I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
We would get sent to standard.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Even yes, I'm gonna get to believe why we've been
doing this podcast for a minute, everyone talks about this stuff. No,
we would get I'll get you thrown out of well,
I guess you're out of you anyway.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Am I no longer an alumni? Like they're gonna kick
me out of the alumni? No, no, but we would
get sent to standards. If you are on elevated surfaces,
if you were swearing on social media, they would like
comment like a little like angel emoji or like a heart,
and it would be like.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
We're watching you.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, okay, And then.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
You get sent to standards and you have the whole
panel there I did get sent to standards, yes, not
for like dancing on elevated surfaces. I swore on my
Snapchat story once and I got sent to.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Standards for that, But it was you lived to tell
the story.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Yeah, I mean, it's we're here now, it's fun.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I mean I think that pregaming from what I've been hearing,
is like kind of like the time to get wild
and maybe like.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
It's more fun than the party.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Yeah that's you're not alone and saying that because you
choose the music.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
We used to have a karaoke machine. I mean we
would go so hard. We had guitar hero, we had
just I mean we were.
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Going so hard at the pregame, like no one wanted
to leave, right, So we go to the bars and
then we have the post game. So then everyone come
over after the bars because they closed at midnight. So
we would just party at our house after the bars too.
Speaker 4 (16:16):
It was so fun. I mean, do you have to
go back?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Did you have like a signature drink? I look at
that look on your face. You totally had a signature drink.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
So it depends on what mood I wanted to spring out,
Like what alter you go? Do I want to be
tonight I am. People think I'm a psycho. I love Gin.
I loved gin and I loved it in college. Like truly,
I might be crazy. So like if I was feeling
really wild, I would do a gen Tonic. Otherwise my
drink was Vodka Rebel sugar free, always, Vodka Rebel Game days,
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Vodka Rebel.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Well. A lot of a lot of our guests have
said that, like an espresso martini is the way to
go because then you get some stamina from that, right,
But I guess a red Bull too.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
We didn't have that really like back I don't know.
I guess it was like eight years ago.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Now, right, they didn't really do that.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
We didn't really do that. So like you weren't going
to the bar and asking for an espresso martini. I
was like vodka red Bull sugar free because I can't
have that much sugar, right, And it gives you wings,
it really does.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
That's their like it gives you wings. Yeah, there's slogans
like Redbell gives you wings. It truly does.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
I got to have one before jingle Ball tonight.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
You should, and I mean you forget red Bull exists,
I think, and then you try one you're.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Like, this is actually exactly what I needed. Vodka in there.
You're so good.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Did you ever not make it to the game game
because the pregame got too.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Absolutely out of control the marathon on sprint? Wow, girls,
get there. You just have to rally.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Now, give us a little bit of the specifics of that.
So you did you pace yourself? Did you know going
in only have one an hour only?
Speaker 5 (17:48):
It's more just like just you can like sleep when
you're dead, like just get with it. Like really, it's
just like you have your girls and it's like okay,
you're like a little okay, it's fine, just like have
a water or just have the Red Bull, maybe no vodka,
and then you're like good.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
I mean, I always made it to the event.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I feel proud of you. Strangely, I don't know what
that's about much, but like I don't know, I'm proud
of you that you could just keep drinking for hours.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
Well, I think you just become so conditioned when you're
at an SEC school from like game days because they
start at seven am, So right, you start pregaming at
seven am. You have your Chick fil A and you've
got a mimosa, and you start and then you just.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
I don't know, you just kind of figure it out.
I mean, I guess you learn your liv I want to.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Go to miss Ole, miss was actually the most fun
time you talk about a pregame, like you should go
to a pregame there actually like the growth.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I'm trying to think how I'm gonna justify that to
just show up at a pregame somewhere.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Let's just please please, No, it's so it's so fun.
Speaker 5 (18:49):
If there's one college town you should go to, it
is Oxford.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
They call it the Velvet Ditch because.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
It's in the middle of Mississippi and like, Mississippi is
not really that gorgeous. Maybe the coast, but it's this
beautiful town in the middle of like nothing.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Wow, And it's so great. And I love textas I
loved Austin.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
My fiance's brother played football Texas.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Yeah, but you're engaged. Sorry, guys, we're gonna go back
to pre Look we sort of have the same ring.
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Wait really yeah, I love it gorgeous. Okay, sorry, let's
focus all right, So pregaming. Was there any particular music
that you guys loved during pregaming?
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I bring up my Spotify.
Speaker 5 (19:42):
Yeah, I mean I was listening to my college pregame playlist.
Speaker 4 (19:46):
On the way.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
Okay, guys, drove up from Newport this morning and I
actually was listening to my college pregame.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Please tell us And what's on it?
Speaker 5 (19:54):
A lot of rap but like also ed M my friends.
I'm sorry, like just India? Is that the elect rick
electric dance music?
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Got it? Okay? Okay, okay, I.
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Mean that's just what rolled off the tongue. I think
that right is what it is.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Right, but like not like aggressive, like not like scrillus
like wow, like not too much right, but like fun remixes.
We love this song called Big Booty Mix. There was
one version of Big Booty Mix we would listen to,
and it's basically a mashup of every banger song that
you love and they put it into this mix that's
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like the best mix ever. And honestly, that's what we'll
keep you going.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
Could you send it to music? Yeah, well, they have
so many volumes of it.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
I mean, I don't know what you listen to, but
I feel cool just having it.
Speaker 4 (20:39):
Yeah, it's on SoundCloud.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
It is not a big deal, Okay, I could just
get it.
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Yeah, I mean SoundCloud's like I feel like kind of
under the radar.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
I don't know SoundCloud.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
SoundCloud was big when we were in college. It was
like where you could find like remixes that weren't actually released,
but people really thought it was like so good on
ox but really.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Was big booty mix. All right, what about I'm a fraud,
I'm actually a fraud.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Again and all of this way over way over my
hat about this, maybe I'll be able to relate this.
Did you eat it pregaming? Was there always food just
to make sure you were coating your stomach or no?
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Okay, we had girl dinner, which was obviously buttered noodles
with a little bit of palm.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Not obviously really, I don't know, I never okay. So
he just wanted to get the carbs in.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
So Fridays at the sorority house we're called fried Fridays, okay.
So we would go and get fried Fridays and we
would load up like to got boxes with like fried
mac and cheese bites, curly fries, like the most disgusting
stuff ever. But like when you came home from the bars,
it was not disgusting. I mean we were like cooking
it up I also used to make this stuff called
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drunk pasta. I call it my drunk pasta. I mean
it was fire when I made it. I made it
for my parents once.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
What is it think? So honestly, I couldn't even tell you.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
It was some sort of like fettishchine alfredo nonsense. But
I made it from scratch, like I was like like
cooking up a roo. Wow, And then like it was
it was ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Did you was it all for afterwards or were you
trying to coat your stomach before? Was all after? Okay?
Speaker 5 (22:01):
Before we would just do buttered noodles, something light but
some carbs. Right, so you feel a little bit full,
but like you're not actually full.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Were you pregaming? Were you always pregaming with the guys?
Was it ever just girls? No?
Speaker 4 (22:14):
It was usually just girls. It was really Yeah, we
were like girl gang.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
That's so interesting because I know for my daughter it
was always like pregaming. Well maybe it wasn't. Maybe she
was going over to friends apartments and stuff.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Yeah, just like always the girls.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
Unless it was a formal or like a mixer or
something like that, then we would pregame with the guys.
But or like if somebody had like a boyfriend, they
would come, sure, but it was always the girls and
then the guys would meet us at the bar, and
then afterwards we would collectively go to like one person's
house or the other.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Do you think it was to talk to Okay, I'm
getting there's been a lot of talking about pregaming today.
Do you think that part of the pregame the purpose
of it is to take the edge off because you
are going to go hang out with the guys and
just to sort of like loosen up a little.
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Yeah, I mean definitely, yeah, right, Like you don't want
to go somewhere stone cold sober. I mean if I
had to go to a bar sober, oh my god, no,
I would here today and I wouldn't have done it then.
I mean, I guess I would have if I was
like sick or something.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
I'm not going to miss the party. But it's just
not as fun. It's so loud, people are bumping into you,
and well.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I think you give this is These tips are invaluable,
I need. I think I've actually gotten unbelievable tips. Unfortunately,
I'm fifty seven years old and probably not getting invited
to a pregame anytime soon. Thank you. But I feel
like you guys need to write a manual.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
I know it's true, right, yeah, like what going to
do one?
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Right? What to do for the pre pregame?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
The masterclass starts now?
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Amen?
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Okay, I love it. I'm going to make a ted talk.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Actually, I think it's brilliant. I think it's the most
interesting subject I've ever heard.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
It's true. I feel like people don't know.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
They don't any need to. It's not right.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
And also like even just mixology in general. Yes, like
you can have a nice drink and it can be cheap. Yeah,
really loud kids, Yeah, like what voka rebel m. Yeah,
it's not that expensive.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
It's not.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
No.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Well, I gotta go now, I got things to do.
I gotta I gotta get over. I gotta go to seven.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
Lego mix it up.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Yes, baby, thank you for coming in. Thanks for having
the best I have a feeling you are going to
have the best time at jingle Ball. I hope.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
So I'm not worry about your game.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
But it's my girl, all right. We'll talk soon. Thank you.
Thanks Gabby.
Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority life with
your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. Hi, guys,
welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush. From pregaming
rituals to legendary pre party moments, we are diving deep
into the chaos, laughs, and memories that make sorority and
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fraternity life unforgettable. Today we are pre partying with Bachelor
Nation before jingle Ball. They are here to spill all
the stories from the good old college days and give
us the inside scoop on the ultimate pre party scene.
So we have with us now the drum roll please,
the beautiful Trista Sutter. Hello, my gorgeous friend.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Hi, I'm so sad I'm not seeing you in person.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Yeah, I know, so am. I you should be here
with us? Doesn't feel right?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
I would love that.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Well, listen, you can't party with us at jingle Ball,
but we're going to talk about partying and you and college. Trista,
where did you go to school?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Indiana University, India undergrad and I went to Miami for
graduate school.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
And what sorority were you in?
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I was in Alpha ky Omega.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Okay, did you ever, or I'm sure you did do
a lot of pregaming in your day.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Well I could so for football games. We couldn't because
I or I couldn't because I was a red stepper,
I you know, danced at the halftime at the football games.
So I could never go to like tailgating or anything
for football games. But you know, if there was any
other pregaming, Yeah, did they call it?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Like, I don't know, because you're younger than me, A
lot younger than me.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Not a lot. That's not true. I am not a
lot younger on you. I'm fifty. I'm fifty three.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
You are I am. Bob Guiney just told me he
was fifty four, is like, are you sure you're fifty three? Wow,
I'm fifty seven, so you still baby.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
See see No, But yeah, you're right, we're right around
the same age. I mean, if I was a freshman,
we could have been at the same school if at
the same time.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Four fifty five. Yes, that's very true. And they did
not call it pregaming when I was in college. They
call it that.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That's what they call it now.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
That's what they call it now. You don't know that term, No,
I don't know what, Triusta, that's gonna be hard since
that's what this podcast is about. So let me define it.
And by the way, I'm sure I'm not going to
define it well, but whatever. Well, okay, So it's when
you party first, it's the party before the party. So
and you're going to find out more about that very
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soon when your kids go to college, is my guest. Yes,
although I think my kids started saying it in high school,
so before a football game, but even before a party.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I feel like, I mean, don't we do that.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Like I was just going to a dinner, a big dinner,
and a friend of mine invited a bunch of us
to have like contail hour before we went to the
So it's like pregaming.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Yes, right, that is that is in essence, I think
that is what pregaming is. And but in college I
feel like it has for these guys, it has just
this whole, this meaning to it. It's like so exciting
to go to the pregame and you want to go
because you want to have a couple drinks and maybe
take the edge off. Yeah, it's like a you know,
it's kind of like a ritual there. So well for
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our sake, and anyone who's listening, who is around our age.
Did you have parties before the parties listen?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
I don't remember a lot because I'm fifty three, But
what I do remember is that, yes, if there was,
if there was a party, then we were there, my
friends and I, you know, and I feel like we
did go to like the late night parties, especially when
I lived in Miami. We went and you know, I
of course wasn't in strorety life at that point, but
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I feel like you went out so late when you
were in college or after that. Yes, if you get
together and there's something else going on, you'd have, you know,
a quick drink or a roadie or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah. Yeah, well yeah us too. So did you ever
start out the night in college? And I'm sure the
answer is yes, like it is for all of us,
all good intentions and not make it to the actual party,
because I think that's right, right right.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
I mean it's I'm kind of thinking that maybe I
shouldn't be saying all this because maybe my kids will
listen and then they're going to.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Be like, oh, well, mom, mom did pregaming.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Guess what they're going to know you did pregaming pretty quickly,
so you're not gonna be able to hide.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
Yeah, that's true, but you know, in college I was
old enough. In high school not so much. But yeah,
I feel like you definitely have good intentions of maybe
having a drink or two and then if you're having
lots of fun and you just keep the pregame gaming.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yeah why not. Yeah, Well that's what we talked about
with some of these kids that and they're actually the
kids from the Bachelor and the Bachelorette that I've been
talking to, So like, who so talk to, Well, Bob
Guinea certainly not a kid, but we just talked to Jonathan,
Charity Mercedes. It's interesting because they have so many specifics
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right about this, so stories of them going to the
pregame and somebody was telling me just now about who
was it. No, it was Charity. How she had twelve
vodka shots at one particular pregame and then got on
the back of a pickup truck to go to the
actual party and clearly didn't make it and then had
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to use the brassy hook where they she got so
sick she had to put her that's what they call it,
the fingers down the throat. I don't know, Trista, I
don't know what to tell you. They got the Brassi hook,
they got names for everything.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
I had no clue.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, yeah, I mean, okay, so listen. I didn't ever
do twelve vodka shots in pregame, but we did have
a tradition at Indiana on your twenty first birthday to
do twenty one shots. And I think I got to
nineteen oh, and I was so froom stuff because my
friends were like, you guys have to you have to
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go home. You are not going to do two more shots.
And I was like, what, it's it's my twenty first time.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
I want to end up in the hospital.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Right, It's not a birthday. It's not a twenty first
if I don't end up hospitalized, right, right.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
And actually, my sorority sister on her twenty first birthday,
same thing, she tried to do twenty one. I don't
know if she made it or not, but we get
back to the sorority house.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And she gets up.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
I think someone had laid her down, just said go
to sleep. She gets up and tries to go to
the bathroom and walks right into the doorframe and broke
her nose.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Oh well, yeah, definitely wake you up if you're in
a you know, a drug up. Yeah, right up. My
son was actually we were in South Carolina and he
was out for twenty first and he projectile vomited I guess,
across like a whole bar of people. Yeah, it was
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not a good scene. So right, beware of the twenty
first young Oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Stay far away, yeah, stay far far away.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Yeah. Did you ever do anything like a little torrid
like you know right before? Did you ever drink too much?
And I know you did because we all did hook
up with the wrong guy? Yeah, well yeah, I mean,
of course. Yeah. I'm trying to come up with questions
because the truth is, we didn't really officially pregame.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
We didn't officially pregame. It's not like a it's me.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
It was a thing like we would have when we
lived not in our sority house, but when we lived
in like a house on campus or off campus, we
would have like what did we call them? It wasn't
pregame drinks, but it was gosh, I wish I knew
the term. We would have cocktails like just before as
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we were getting ready, right, you know what I mean.
So if that's considered gaming, then yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Well one of these kids, they were adults. I shouldn't
really say that, but one of them said that his
pregaming started in the shower. He would get like, I
don't even know what he was talking about. He was
somebody was handing him drinks as he was like bathing,
getting like, well, that's the way to pregame.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
Well, I feel like we did that, like my girlfriends
and I would if we were on girls trips. Even
to this day, I feel like if we're on a
girls trip and we would just have a cocktail, like
we would have someone like maybe if we're staying at
a hotel, have them bring it up to our room
while we're getting ready in the bathroom waiting.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Half the people here that I'm talking to have come
in with cocktails before jingle Ball.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Exactly right.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
They're parading them.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
In front of me.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
It's actually not very nice because I have gotten nothing.
I know. The walking was Scotch and mimosa and everything else.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
Not very nice.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
They should ask you what you want.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Rude, or you should require it. Hey, if you're going
to walk in this room, you better bring me.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Don't you worry. Somebody was talking about how they try
to pregame with asso Martini's because just to kind of
know that it's gonna it'll keep you awake.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
So I don't drink coffee or really caffeine for that matter,
So I yeah, I can't do one of those drinks.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Do you survive without caffeine? Do they give you to
give you headaches or something?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Good, I don't.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
I'm it does not go well with my body and
my head or anything. Yeah, so I don't. But but yeah,
bring me a Moscow mule or a glass of wine
or something. Although wine tends to like if I'm tired red,
which is my drink, it maaves me tired. Right, Yeah,
so I want to start with a cocktail.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
But what is that saying? Liquor before beer?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Never fear something beer before liquor, never sicker. Yeah, yeah,
we also talked about that. See, look we are vibing
with the young EN's. That's yeah, we know, we know,
we know, we know better than they do. I mean
we've we've lived too, I know a lot longer, lived
a lot longer. I tell my kids that all the time.
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I know you think that I don't know anything, and
then I'm just like a big door. But believe me
when I tell you I'm laughing at you.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Okay, exactly, I know I know these things. Yeah, yeah,
I'm a little scared because of what I know. Like
like for my twenty first birthday, when I did the
nineteen shots, I actually I remember this.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
There was a pay phone.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
If that doesn't age you, what does Oh there was
a payphone in the bathroom of this like bar.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
That we were at killed a drunk dialing, didn't jayler Bar.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
I called my mom on my twenty first birthday and
I was like, Mom.
Speaker 2 (10:36):
I did nineteen shots. You'd be so proud of me.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
And she was like, what, Oh my god, Well, I
can't sleep tonight, Trista. I have to tell you something.
It tracks so beautifully that you drunk dial your mom
like you are that sweet, adorable all American girl, Like
I was drunk dialing any guy that would pick up
the phone. It didn't matter. Please tell me you love me,
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And you're like drunk dialing your mother. It's just per Yeah,
lucky mom.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
That is so funny. I've never thought of it.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
And I'll bet your daughter. I'll bet your the mother
your daughter will be doing the same. My daughter wouldn't
drunk dial me if I was the last person on her.
She's not stupid, because I would handle it like your mother,
you get yours to give.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
You really well.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Oh yeah, I would be like what, I'm coming there
right now, tell me where you are the hair?
Speaker 2 (11:36):
No, my mom was great.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
She was great and didn't well, at least I don't
remember what she said.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
But how could you? How could you? All right, lady,
thank you for coming on. We miss you here.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
I know.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I tell everyone high, I give everyone a hug.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
I certainly will be there. I certainly will. Okay, talk
soon than yeah, okay, by So next we have the
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beautiful Gabby l Nikki, thank you so much for coming on.
And you, if I read my notes correctly, went to
the University of Mississippi. I did.
Speaker 4 (12:21):
I went to Ole Miss Hatty Toddy.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Wow, what sorority were you in? I was a py
fi Okay, yeah, so I'm sure that most of our
listeners know, like that is the place I think to go.
I went to University of Texas. So like those southern
schools and their greek life, it's huge.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
Oh yeah, it's huge.
Speaker 5 (12:38):
So Ole miss It's insane, right, It's like so intimidating.
And I'm from Vermont, so like, we don't have sororities
where I'm from. And when I got to Ole Miss,
I was like, oh my gosh, is there like a
group shot I'm not a part of. Like I didn't
have the recommendation letters.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
I didn't have anything. It was the most intimidating thing
of my.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
Life, the whole process.
Speaker 5 (12:57):
Yes, yeah, and my gamma Kai is the one who
wrote my recommendation letter and got me into PI five.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
But I didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Be a five ft We have to do this, we
honestly like, because I love these stories. This is part
of what is so wonderful and fascinating to me about
Dirty Rush, about our podcast. It's just that journey is
so different for everyone. But we are talking about something
a little different today. We are talking about pregaming. I
love it so and I've had only a couple of guests.
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Well too, I want to say, uh, Trista and Bob,
who are both a little older than you, and the
three of us were kind of commiserating. Never heard of
that term when we were younger, right, so it's new
for us. But clearly you went to college and you
did a lot of that. Oh we did, right, Oh,
we pregamed hard, all right, So tell me a little
bit about what that looked like.
Speaker 5 (13:45):
Okay, Well, first of all, in Oxford, Mississippi, when I
went to school there, the bars closed at midnight, so
you had to start pregaming at like five pm. So
you like got out of class and then you like
started your pregaming. Okay, So it's a marathon, not a sprint.
That's what we always said, is it's a marathon, not
a sprint. And we never lost a party because we
were terrible at football that season or all the seasons
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that I went there.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
Actually, and I mean.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
We had a party house. We used to call it
like a frat house. It was a gorgeous s frat house.
I mean, very nicely decorated, and we kept it clean.
But we always through the big pregames. I was in
charge of the music.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So you can actually have alcohol at the house. Well
I didn't live in the sorority house, but we but
you still had, oh your house. I'm sorry, I thought
you made the sorority house leinkally.
Speaker 5 (14:30):
I maybe it wasn't of age every year, but we
did not alone. We have the alcohol there, not in
the sorority house. That is, we couldn't even have men
in the sorority house and Miss Sippy it's considered a brothel. Actually,
if you have men in your sorority house. It was crazy,
but prebaming. I mean some of the videos I have
are probably incriminating. We would be on our countertop. I
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mean it was crazy because you couldn't be on elevated surfaces,
as you know, in a sorority.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
I don't know that. I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (14:57):
We would get sent to standard.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Even yes, I'm gonna get to believe why we've been
doing this podcast for a minute, everyone talks about this stuff. No,
we would get I'll get you thrown out of well,
I guess you're out of you anyway.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Am I no longer an alumni? Like they're gonna kick
me out of the alumni? No, no, but we would
get sent to standards. If you are on elevated surfaces,
if you were swearing on social media, they would like
comment like a little like angel emoji or like a heart,
and it would be like.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
We're watching you.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, okay, And then.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
You get sent to standards and you have the whole
panel there I did get sent to standards, yes, not
for like dancing on elevated surfaces. I swore on my
Snapchat story once and I got sent to.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Standards for that, But it was you lived to tell
the story.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Yeah, I mean, it's we're here now, it's fun.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I mean I think that pregaming from what I've been hearing,
is like kind of like the time to get wild
and maybe like.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
It's more fun than the party.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Yeah that's you're not alone and saying that because you
choose the music.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
We used to have a karaoke machine. I mean we
would go so hard. We had guitar hero, we had
just I mean we were.
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Going so hard at the pregame, like no one wanted
to leave, right, So we go to the bars and
then we have the post game. So then everyone come
over after the bars because they closed at midnight. So
we would just party at our house after the bars too.
Speaker 4 (16:16):
It was so fun. I mean, do you have to
go back?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Did you have like a signature drink? I look at
that look on your face. You totally had a signature drink.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
So it depends on what mood I wanted to spring out,
Like what alter you go? Do I want to be
tonight I am. People think I'm a psycho. I love Gin.
I loved gin and I loved it in college. Like truly,
I might be crazy. So like if I was feeling
really wild, I would do a gen Tonic. Otherwise my
drink was Vodka Rebel sugar free, always, Vodka Rebel Game days,
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Vodka Rebel.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Well. A lot of a lot of our guests have
said that, like an espresso martini is the way to
go because then you get some stamina from that, right,
But I guess a red Bull too.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
We didn't have that really like back I don't know.
I guess it was like eight years ago.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Now, right, they didn't really do that.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
We didn't really do that. So like you weren't going
to the bar and asking for an espresso martini. I
was like vodka red Bull sugar free because I can't
have that much sugar, right, And it gives you wings,
it really does.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
That's their like it gives you wings. Yeah, there's slogans
like Redbell gives you wings. It truly does.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
I got to have one before jingle Ball tonight.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
You should, and I mean you forget red Bull exists,
I think, and then you try one you're.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Like, this is actually exactly what I needed. Vodka in there.
You're so good.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Did you ever not make it to the game game
because the pregame got too.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Absolutely out of control the marathon on sprint? Wow, girls,
get there. You just have to rally.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Now, give us a little bit of the specifics of that.
So you did you pace yourself? Did you know going
in only have one an hour only?
Speaker 5 (17:48):
It's more just like just you can like sleep when
you're dead, like just get with it. Like really, it's
just like you have your girls and it's like okay,
you're like a little okay, it's fine, just like have
a water or just have the Red Bull, maybe no vodka,
and then you're like good.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
I mean, I always made it to the event.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I feel proud of you. Strangely, I don't know what
that's about much, but like I don't know, I'm proud
of you that you could just keep drinking for hours.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
Well, I think you just become so conditioned when you're
at an SEC school from like game days because they
start at seven am, So right, you start pregaming at
seven am. You have your Chick fil A and you've
got a mimosa, and you start and then you just.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
I don't know, you just kind of figure it out.
I mean, I guess you learn your liv I want to.
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Go to miss Ole, miss was actually the most fun
time you talk about a pregame, like you should go
to a pregame there actually like the growth.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
I'm trying to think how I'm gonna justify that to
just show up at a pregame somewhere.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Let's just please please, No, it's so it's so fun.
Speaker 5 (18:49):
If there's one college town you should go to, it
is Oxford.
Speaker 4 (18:53):
They call it the Velvet Ditch because.
Speaker 5 (18:55):
It's in the middle of Mississippi and like, Mississippi is
not really that gorgeous. Maybe the coast, but it's this
beautiful town in the middle of like nothing.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Wow, And it's so great. And I love textas I
loved Austin.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
My fiance's brother played football Texas.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Yeah, but you're engaged. Sorry, guys, we're gonna go back
to pre Look we sort of have the same ring.
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Wait really yeah, I love it gorgeous. Okay, sorry, let's
focus all right, So pregaming. Was there any particular music
that you guys loved during pregaming?
Speaker 4 (19:41):
I bring up my Spotify.
Speaker 5 (19:42):
Yeah, I mean I was listening to my college pregame playlist.
Speaker 4 (19:46):
On the way.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
Okay, guys, drove up from Newport this morning and I
actually was listening to my college pregame.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Please tell us And what's on it?
Speaker 5 (19:54):
A lot of rap but like also ed M my friends.
I'm sorry, like just India? Is that the elect rick
electric dance music?
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Got it? Okay? Okay, okay, I.
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Mean that's just what rolled off the tongue. I think
that right is what it is.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Right, but like not like aggressive, like not like scrillus
like wow, like not too much right, but like fun remixes.
We love this song called Big Booty Mix. There was
one version of Big Booty Mix we would listen to,
and it's basically a mashup of every banger song that
you love and they put it into this mix that's
(20:29):
like the best mix ever. And honestly, that's what we'll
keep you going.
Speaker 4 (20:32):
Could you send it to music? Yeah, well, they have
so many volumes of it.
Speaker 1 (20:36):
I mean, I don't know what you listen to, but
I feel cool just having it.
Speaker 4 (20:39):
Yeah, it's on SoundCloud.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
It is not a big deal, Okay, I could just
get it.
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Yeah, I mean SoundCloud's like I feel like kind of
under the radar.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
I don't know SoundCloud.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
SoundCloud was big when we were in college. It was
like where you could find like remixes that weren't actually released,
but people really thought it was like so good on
ox but really.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
Was big booty mix. All right, what about I'm a fraud,
I'm actually a fraud.
Speaker 1 (20:59):
Again and all of this way over way over my
hat about this, maybe I'll be able to relate this.
Did you eat it pregaming? Was there always food just
to make sure you were coating your stomach or no?
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Okay, we had girl dinner, which was obviously buttered noodles
with a little bit of palm.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Not obviously really, I don't know, I never okay. So
he just wanted to get the carbs in.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
So Fridays at the sorority house we're called fried Fridays, okay.
So we would go and get fried Fridays and we
would load up like to got boxes with like fried
mac and cheese bites, curly fries, like the most disgusting
stuff ever. But like when you came home from the bars,
it was not disgusting. I mean we were like cooking
it up I also used to make this stuff called
(21:38):
drunk pasta. I call it my drunk pasta. I mean
it was fire when I made it. I made it
for my parents once.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
What is it think? So honestly, I couldn't even tell you.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
It was some sort of like fettishchine alfredo nonsense. But
I made it from scratch, like I was like like
cooking up a roo. Wow, And then like it was
it was ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
Did you was it all for afterwards or were you
trying to coat your stomach before? Was all after? Okay?
Speaker 5 (22:01):
Before we would just do buttered noodles, something light but
some carbs. Right, so you feel a little bit full,
but like you're not actually full.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Were you pregaming? Were you always pregaming with the guys?
Was it ever just girls? No?
Speaker 4 (22:14):
It was usually just girls. It was really Yeah, we
were like girl gang.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
That's so interesting because I know for my daughter it
was always like pregaming. Well maybe it wasn't. Maybe she
was going over to friends apartments and stuff.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Yeah, just like always the girls.
Speaker 5 (22:26):
Unless it was a formal or like a mixer or
something like that, then we would pregame with the guys.
But or like if somebody had like a boyfriend, they
would come, sure, but it was always the girls and
then the guys would meet us at the bar, and
then afterwards we would collectively go to like one person's
house or the other.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
Do you think it was to talk to Okay, I'm
getting there's been a lot of talking about pregaming today.
Do you think that part of the pregame the purpose
of it is to take the edge off because you
are going to go hang out with the guys and
just to sort of like loosen up a little.
Speaker 5 (22:57):
Yeah, I mean definitely, yeah, right, Like you don't want
to go somewhere stone cold sober. I mean if I
had to go to a bar sober, oh my god, no,
I would here today and I wouldn't have done it then.
I mean, I guess I would have if I was
like sick or something.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
I'm not going to miss the party. But it's just
not as fun. It's so loud, people are bumping into you,
and well.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
I think you give this is These tips are invaluable,
I need. I think I've actually gotten unbelievable tips. Unfortunately,
I'm fifty seven years old and probably not getting invited
to a pregame anytime soon. Thank you. But I feel
like you guys need to write a manual.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
I know it's true, right, yeah, like what going to
do one?
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Right? What to do for the pre pregame?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
The masterclass starts now?
Speaker 1 (23:39):
Amen?
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Okay, I love it. I'm going to make a ted talk.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Actually, I think it's brilliant. I think it's the most
interesting subject I've ever heard.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
It's true. I feel like people don't know.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
They don't any need to. It's not right.
Speaker 5 (23:49):
And also like even just mixology in general. Yes, like
you can have a nice drink and it can be cheap. Yeah,
really loud kids, Yeah, like what voka rebel m. Yeah,
it's not that expensive.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
It's not.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
No.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Well, I gotta go now, I got things to do.
I gotta I gotta get over. I gotta go to seven.
Speaker 4 (24:06):
Lego mix it up.
Speaker 1 (24:07):
Yes, baby, thank you for coming in. Thanks for having
the best I have a feeling you are going to
have the best time at jingle Ball. I hope.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
So I'm not worry about your game.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
But it's my girl, all right. We'll talk soon. Thank you.
Thanks Gabby.
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