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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about SERRITI Life with
your hosts me Gia Judice.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.
So today I have a very special guest. Well, she's
very special, and she's also very special to me. You
guys may actually know her, But I have some guy
named Annie Sharp, and you may recognize the name and
or the face from a very popular radio show to
say the least, called Jeff Lewis Live. By the way,
(00:34):
you guys were broadcasting this from Vail, Colorado, where I
am spending a week with my family, And yeah it is.
It's really beautiful here, really fun. I don't ski, so
probably wasn't the vacation for me necessarily. But anyway, we
are taking a break from the break because I am
so obsessed with my little miss Annie.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
No, I literally am obsessed. Every time you come on
the show and they mention you on like I love
that bitch. They always make fun of me. Do we're
like kindred spirits?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Well, I feel like Andy, like you're kind of me
at that, like at your age, I feel like I
was a lot like you. And it's so funny because
having you on dirty Rush, because I also I was
a sorority girl at a southern school, University of Texas.
You were at full Miss, right, and I was a
Texas I was an Aphi. But I think I was
(01:26):
the least sorority girls sorority girl ever at least that's
kind of how I felt and how I feel now,
even though I'm obsessed with everything you know sorority but
like you do not. I don't think you give sorority girl.
I don't exactly what I mean by that.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I was very defiant of the like sorority things, but
I'm like a girly girl. I like to party. I
want to put on.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Cost early girl right, but like.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
The sorority girl aspect of it, like where we had
to like show up to things and like be sober
and like be a community. I just was like not
down in college. Like the blue lipstick, I couldn't. So, yeah,
what does it mean the blue lipstick?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh. I was at Kappa Kapagamma, so everything was our
colors were blue on blue, okay, and so everything was blue,
so everyone would like spray their hair blue. Do the
blue lips blue eyeshadow, and every time I did it
like it was so ugly.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Well, well, you could never be ugly.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
But I also feel like maybe also conformity is not
necessarily your thing. No, right, at least start, I'm getting
way ahead of myself. First of all, tell the people
where you went to school and what sorority were in,
even though we just mentioned it, because Okay, I.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Went to the University of Mississippi also known as ole
Miss and I was a Kappa, Kapa Gamma, and it's
it's a good house there, but there's very like a deep,
deep rooted like sororities that are like KD and tried out.
They're like all Mississippi girls. And then there's so those
are the tip top houses, and then there's like other
(03:00):
top houses, but they're not full of Mississippi girls, which
I would say are find you, DG and Kappa. And
so we're all on one street. Did you have sorority houses? Yeah, okay,
so we're only on one section of campus, and then
there's all the other ones that are on like another
section that it is like Kyo eighty pi whatever, it
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doesn't matter. So I was a Kappa and I only got.
I did not want to rush. I didn't even want
to go to college. And then my sister was a
year ahead of me, and she went. And she's like
type A to a T, like she was getting into
a good sorority, like her life dependent on it.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
But she went. She went to Ole Miss.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah, yeah, a year before me.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Just a quick a fie.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Why did you guys wild miss them? You were living
in Texas at the time.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, So she found it and she loved it, and
we're eighteen months apart. And then I didn't want to
go to college. I was like, I'm gonna move to
la and be a star.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And my parents were like, no, you did do that then,
But okay, well.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
They were like college first. They always believed in. But
they were like, chill, like let's do college. Let's be
a little bit traditional. So then I didn't apply anywhere
for school because I didn't want to go. And then
it came out like exceptan sunder started coming out and
I think my sister had applied me to ole Miss
herself in ways like the only place, so I was accepted.
(04:23):
So then was my parents were like, you're going I.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Got to meet your sister. She sounds like the best.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
No, she's the best. She's a hardcore bitch, but like
in the best way. One of us, no, literally one
of us.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Okay, So you go to the quintessential Southern like Greek
life school, right, and were you going with the intent
to rush, like you went in because your sister knowing
that that was going to be part of this experience
for you.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Yeah, I was. If I was going to ole Miss,
which I was, I was going to rush, Like there
was no way I wasn't going to rush, right, But yeah,
I'd like and I was very intern the rush process,
like I'd always say, like I've an open mind. I
really wanted to be a fine U because I'm obsessed
with pink. I want to be a fine mean so bad.
(05:09):
And I met like three five mews and I got
cut like the first round I think, and then after that.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
But your sister was president of Kapa and you still
don't be in Kappa.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Well, because I wanted to be different. I was like
I'm already going to her school, I know, but then
I got there and like during rush. I don't know
how your rush experience was, but like you go to
each house and they pull the girl and talk to you.
I would go into Kappa and everyone would be like
catering to me, so excited to see me because I
was a sister of an active so I was like,
(05:43):
got a legacy, right, and so the attention I got there,
I mean like I'm flattered, right, Kapa.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Yeah, that was always how it was. I mean I
remember the swordy I ended up in as well. Well,
there were two Jewish sorties and I wanted to be
in one, but it was Yeah, it was a different feeling,
certainly than going into the other stories where they didn't
know who I was and didn't really care. But anyway, okay,
so do it any like crazy wild rush stories from from
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the week.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Do you remember my rush wasn't was very obvious from
the start, like my sister was an act of Kapa.
There was no way any other house was going to
take me. So I kind of got screwed so and
I thought I was like, oh, I have an open mind,
and then like I just started getting caught by everyone cool,
and then I had like the two loser houses left
in Kapa, and I was like, okay, like.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I can't with you.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I'm sorry, I don't mean to, but we all know
there's Luther houses.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
This show is called Dirty Rush. We're all on the
same page.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Go, okay, good, good, But then what was so sick
is my junior year, they were redoing the Kappa House
and the worst sorority on our campus got kicked off
campus because they were so bad and no one wanted
to pledge them, and so that we had to live
in that in the loser house for a year.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
What is that? What do you mean? Wait, no one
wanted to They had an empty house.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You hadn't have an empty house. The chapter got kicked
off our campus because they had such a bad repeta
okay from my understanding, Okay, I thought that house was vacant.
So then they're like, oh, we can stay in that house.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
But then we like, did you like living in there?
Living there?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
In the end, I didn't end up living in the
house because they made us live in the other house.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I didn't want to, Okay, Okay, Well, all right, so
I'm abread to so tell me a little bit about
how all miss the greek life and specifically the sorority
system is different than other schools.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
It's very okay. So there's this thing during rush on
what I wasn't like on the side where I was
like getting sordid whatever it's called, when I was on
the side of like deciding it's so crazy, Like we
go through every single girl. We have like slide shows.
We all like vote and like say what we know
(08:03):
about them, and it's like a chapter of over four
hundred women and we're like looking at the slideshow. Oh,
I know her. I went to high school with her.
She's does this, this, and this. I dated her brother
one time. She yelled at her mom like the craziest,
Like the craziest.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Do you think, like, obviously you're conscious in the fact
that that this is so like Ole Miss is just
so known for this right, for being so intense in
terms of Greek life, but so a picture not I
don't know, obviously not everyone at Old Miss is involved
in Greek life, but I just picture it as, you know,
so intense, specifically the rush process, but also like we
(08:44):
see the videos on TikTok and you know it is
it's like these choreographed dances that look like it's you know, profet,
Like was it.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Always like that? Was it that intense when you were there?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
You wouldn't believe the drama like we go to the
house for work week the week before Rush starts, our
school starts. I think Russian also, And there's one girl
that's like Rush chairman, the themes, the way she yells
at us, like the friendships that are falling apart, the tears,
it's insane. I'll never forget it. Like we had a
(09:17):
rehearsal yes, and we're like jumping and clapping and we're
getting screamed up by our peers. It was insane. But
one time we went home and they were so mad
at us because we whatever. I don't remember why they
were so mad at us. I think we didn't like
dress up enough for the themes and we weren't taking
it seriously enough, so they sent us home. And then
they had an optional practice that night, but they threatened us,
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you have to come, but it was an optional practice,
and I'll never forget. I was like sitting at my
apartment and my friend two of my friends came over
and they're like, are you coming, And I was like, no,
like it's option, I'm not going. And they literally looked
at me tears in their eyes. You're not going to
support me?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Oh, come on, are you kidding me now? I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
The girl literally was like if you didn't dress up.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
And you're like laughing at her, You're like like dudella.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
No, when I would dress like like one time, our
theme I think was like rock and roll and I
dressed up was Kesha, but not even just like it's
like really ugly. Just I did not plan ahead. Neither
did my whole friend group. None of us planned ahead.
We just all looked like we put on a pile
of like we looked terribly. I love that.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I mean I feel like that's I would want to
be in that sorority like that. Roorty would actually call
me and Kapa were like that.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
No, most of the girls like were picture perfect, cute,
like put together right. No, my like one of my
my last week of school, this girl that was like
the perfect twint essential Kappa I'm still friends with there.
She was in San Diego Now. She came up to
me and she was like, are you guys are alcoholics?
Like you guys have problems? Like, well, love my reputation.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Let me ask you this. It's just another like quick aside.
But does if you guys who's over listening, don't listen
to the Jeff Lewis Show. I just did they all
know there that you may not get this? But did
they all know there that you were at Old miss
and authority?
Speaker 1 (11:28):
They know, but they don't get it. Like it's the
kind of thing that like if you know, like southern schools,
you get it, or I don't think they get it,
Like I just say, oh, I went to a party school.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
I just love that your career path is so fabulous
and it just is so doesn't follow.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You know, the beaten trail. What's that? Expecially in my
mind your aide off the beaten path?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And but being a sorority feels it's so structured, right,
and I feel like you're such not a structured woman,
and so it's like I kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Enjoy picturing you.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
And so having said that, you told me that your
sister was constantly having to get you out of shit, right, Like, yeah,
she trouble, which doesn't surprise me.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
So like I told her I was doing this podcast
and she was literally like any please want and blair
us our chapter. I'm like, you're twenty eight years old,
why do you like? But I didn't care when I
was in it, But like we had functions all the time.
So one night we had like a date party. I
cannot remember the Oh it was my tie. Have you
(12:39):
heard of my tie?
Speaker 2 (12:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
So my tie. We always had themes. So my tie
was you pick a date for your friends, and the
way you do it is you get your the dates
tie and the girls are wearing it at the pregame,
and then the guys show up and they find the
girl wearing their tie, then that's your day. And so
it was that day party and I kind of miss
those kind of things, like those were so fun. But
(13:02):
we go to the bar and I'm pretty sure I
used the fake to get into the bar. I think
I was underage, and me and my friend were like
walking around, we're already absolutely wasted. I drank out of
a baby bottle in college, a straight fireball, like a psychopath,
and I brought it to the bar with me. We
get there, we go into this like closet that we
(13:23):
thought was the bathroom, and it turns out it was
the liquor closet, and we're like hell yeah. So we're
doing like full photo shoot, like climbing up the ladder
like in these tiny little dresses, like acting insane, and
then we walk out and we're both wearing our dates jackets.
So we both put bottles in the pockets of the
jackets and we're absolutely belated, and we get the hats
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and we put them on backwards because there were like
some employees left their hats in there. And we walk out.
We're both wearing hats that say Swag and these jacket
coats or whatever, and then we're walking around. Then they
grab us in immediately and they like take the stuff
and they're like, what the heck you guys whatever, and
we're just like who whatever, like move on party. And
(14:08):
then all of a sudden, I hear that they called
the cops, and so I called my fate.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
So arety sisters called the cops? Or that bar?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
The bar okay because we rated a liquor closet even
though we gave everything back, and we're just like being dumb,
like whatever, probably shouldn't have done that, but whatever. So
I called my friend and he comes and drives to
the front and he picks us up literally as the
police are pulling up. We're like jumping in the getaway
car and like getting away.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Oh my god, you cam from the cops. I cannot
I cannot with you.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
They brought the footage to my now brother in law,
who was my sister's boyfriend, and they were like, because
they knew he was the boyfriend of the president, and
they were like, do you know who these girls are?
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah? And the king why was he a cop? No?
Speaker 1 (14:52):
No, no, he just was like my sister's boyfriend. So
they knew, like the president would know everyone.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
The boyfriend probably okay, okay, And.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
They couldn't find Ellie. I think Ellie was my sister
was dealing with whatever, a drunk girl throwing up somewhere.
And so they asked Ethan and He's like, I have
no idea who they are.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
How many times has he said that about you?
Speaker 1 (15:11):
My love? He was a king, like the amount of
times I called him like can you come pick me up?
Can you come pick me up?
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Well, tell me that. But then, so, did you get
in trouble, you just have to get you out of it.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Yes, So we got called to standards, me and my
friend Anna and I worked for the school newspaper and so,
and I am terrified of confrontation, like really yeah, yeah,
Like if I'm gonna be in trouble and I know
I did something wrong, I cannot stand there and hear
my punishment like I just get so it's bad. I
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need to learn to work through that. But anyway, so
I had a job, so I was like, I have work,
I can't come to standards. And so my friend had
to go to standards by herself and she got yelled
at and then by like a girl in our sorority
like I'm just like it's so dune, yeah, and yeah,
we just got in trouble. And then I don't I
(16:04):
don't think anything really happened. It's like a slap on
the wrist and then nothing.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Was your sister.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
There was your sister like always saved you or other
the other girls like oh yes.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
And my sister was the reason I didn't get in
trouble because she's like it's Annie, Like you guys know Annie,
and they're like, yeah, she's crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
They is to get pissed at you for it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Oh oh yeah. My mom's phone would just be like
blowing up both of us, like Ellie did this and
and Annie did this. Annie's so embarrassing. She gets so
drunk and blah blah blah. And then my sister like
didn't drink till she was didn't have a sip aboutcol
till she was twenty one, and even once she turned
twenty one, she's.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Like, come on, are you serious. Yes, she's by the books.
That's why she probably made president ever of Kapa.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh yeah. And people in the sorority so like whenever
there was like a functions you had to go to,
you had to like check in for attendance, and so
Ellie would have to like mark everyone so and me
and her look so similar and there's four hundred girls
until people would come up to me and be like, Ellie,
I'm here, and I'd be like, gotcha, literally no clue
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that they are not writing them.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Any I wish i'd ask Ellie to come on too.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I know her version of this. You have to like
we have to bring her on. So all right, so
poor little Ellie, no or Ellie, because I say I
was going to say to you before that like usually
be saved to people, to the guests that come on.
If you don't want to say the name of your
sorority or even where you went to school, or you
want a fake name. And I didn't even say that
(17:36):
to you, shame on me. But like exactly, that's the
thing I knew you would be, like, the.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Best thing they ever did was give me a bit
they regret it probably, Well, no.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
They don't regret it. There's no way they do.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
But do you, because I think like your sister's also
must be so proud of you. Do you keep in
touch with a lot of them? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I actually do. It's interesting because when I was in college,
I had a friend group and I still am friends
with them, but and we're close. But now since I've
left college, I've expanded. There's like five girls from Ole
Miss Kappa's that live in LA and San Diego, and
I just I text them all the time, we hang out.
One girl's gonna be my stylist for like the upcoming year,
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which is so fun. I know, it was just like
fun and interesting how I've connected with these girls like
postgrad that I literally never spoke to in the sorority
when we were there together, but like they just feel
like home because I mean really yes, oh yeah, any
girl in my sorority if I called them, absolutely they're
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like crying, like or if I needed something and I
was in towent, like they would absolutely drop anything to
have dinner or really well.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Oh for sure, I didn't feel like that.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
I definitely and and because I moved out of Texas
so quickly after I graduated, I didn't keep in touch
with as many. I mean, I'd to keep in touch
with with some of them close friends, but like I
didn't have that feeling of camaraderie and like sisterhood as
much as it sounds like that, you did, like somebody
that would even if they were a Kapa period, they
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would drop everything. Would you drop anything for any Kappa
or just Kappas that went to ole miss.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Oh oh miss Kappas not. It's just I feel I mean,
whenever people are like, oh, I'm a Kapa, I feel
like it's cool. Like some of my friend's moms are Kappas,
and I'm like, oh my gosh, like it just makes
me like them more. I don't know why, because Kappas
are different. Every sorority is different at every school, right,
there's just something about it where I'm like, Okay.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
Like what do you feel like Kapas are known for?
Like you know, if you had to sort of characterize
them as something.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
At my school, we were really fun and like we
didn't really take things that seriously.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Were they party girls?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
We were absolutely party girls. Oh yeah, but we weren't.
There was like party girls sluts, and then there was
party girls and we were just party girls.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
There had to be some sluts in it. I could
be great.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Oh for sure. HER's slut's everywhere.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Yeah exactly. I was one of them.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Yes, okay, yeah, so that's really I love that you
could just you guys would just even if you weren't
great friends.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Just no, I'm telling you. So, I just you know,
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm like,
oh my god, like I want to reach out to
girls and whatever and make more friends and form deeper friendships.
And there's this girl name's Kelly. She was an active
KAPA with me, and she's a year older than me,
and I just damned her on Instagram. I said, let's
hang send her my number and she was like, oh
my god, yes, I can't wait. So we're making plans since,
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like we haven't spoken since maybe rush in college.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
That's crazy. Yeah, I love that. So I'm going to
ask you this, but I know the answer. I mean,
would you do it again?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
A million percent? Yeah? Yeah, I mean how are you were saying? Like,
I'm not like I don't really like to be conformed to.
They had this I don't know, you didn't have social
media whenever you were in your surporty, but they were
crazy about what you posted and you weren't allowed to
be on elevated surfaces, right, I know that nows like
(21:18):
bad words, and so they had this account and they
would comment. It was like an anonymous account and they
would comment like blue hearts, and you would have to
take it down.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
No, I've heard about this a lot of We've talked
to a lot of girls that talk about this, Like
they would leave a little whatever emoji and that means
you're in trouble.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Take it down.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
So one time they called me and they're like, can
you be in charge of this anonymous account monitoring your
pledge class on Snapchat? If you ever see anything, just
respond blue hearts. I was like okay, and I just like, I.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Don't have to be on a narc They know you
at all. Why did they never ask you to do that?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
You like, you love social media?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Really would give ah someone was doing you can go,
You like go girl.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Queen Sligh, Literally you're eating You're eating exactly wait, so
I asked you before. But also like how do you
explain it? I'm not gonna say like Jeff Lewis, but like,
I don't know. I'm sure it doesn't come up that
often on the radio, but in general, like when people
meet you, is it you try to explain that that
(22:23):
experience because it does. See it feels so far kind
of from who you are.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It does, and I feel like it almost it dumbs
me down a little bit. People that don't get it, like, oh,
you went to a southern party school and you're a sorority.
I mean honestly, John, Like really yeah, they are like,
oh your degree.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Doesn't anyone that meets you knows You're not dumb?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
But okay, you'd be surprised though, like people just immediately
like serrat, Like if I say I went to n
y U and I was in a sorority, I feel
like it's a completely different picture someone would paint of
me and all myths has that attached to it, that's
so interesting, Well because it's also Ssissippi, and I don't know,
it's interesting. Yeah, So I don't really love the like
(23:06):
stereotype of it, but I'm not. I mean, I don't
really care. Like that's why I love Paris Hilton so
much because I think she has such like a stereotype
of being a dumb bitch.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
And she's not all right, just brilliant and so like I.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Really respect that and I love that type of lifestyle
because like then no one takes you too seriously and
you're always impressing people.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Yeah, yeah, said that about you.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Like he was talking one morning about your parents, meeting
your parents, and like he was just saying to them
like I'm so impressed with her, or like even to me,
He's like, like I admire Annie.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
That's so sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Yeah, I means I didn't say it. He did.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
Yeah, Like thanks Jen, true.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Yeah, So I mean anything else you want to add
here about your would you say, would you go to
Old Michigan.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
I've thought about that a lot, and I think I would.
I loved it, like I really and I don't feel
like it held me back from anything, but it was
a cool experience, like it's a small town and we
would I'd be wasted on the side of the street,
like it's a party school. I cannot like emphasize that enough,
Like I would just be underage wasted on the side
(24:16):
of the street, like getting myself into trouble and the
cop would be like, give me your phone, I'm calling
you an uber, like you're okay, and they would like
it was like a no fails, Like they would kind
of give you a billion chances before you got in trouble.
Like one time I was at a bar and I
was so upset something happened with some random guy and
I was so drunk and I just fell all the
way down the stairs and I'd get to the bottom,
(24:37):
so humiliating, and a cop called me an uber and
I get home.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I cannot.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I would go there again because it was just a
safe place to like grow grow like as a person.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
And also I could be wrong, but I feel like
with you, if you guys ever have the pleasure of
meeting Annie, it's like it's I don't feel like you
could anyone could ever really get mad at you, like
you just pish all. If anyone gets mad, I picture
you just crying.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I do not what I'm saying. I can't kill a confrontation.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Right, so then you just like which reminds me of
my daughter Rachel, who I mean, she got a driver's license.
She like the first week she hit someone not a tree.
Oh my god, person okay, Like, no, she hit a person, okay,
and she it was some man. He was pissed. He
got out of his car because it was a crosswalk.
(25:27):
And she became so hysterical and the cops came that.
They were all comforting Rachel, like I'm like talking to her.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
She can't breathe.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
She puts me on the phone with the cops. The
cops are like, she's gonna be okay. I'm like, well, yeah,
but it's the man that she hitit go to me, okay,
but you remind me of that, Like you're like, there's
just it'd be hard to ever really be mad at you.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
No, my parents when I was a kid, they'd be like,
we're not going to punish you because you punish yourself enough,
because I would just be like crying. I feel so bad.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
I just well listen.
Speaker 3 (25:59):
I mean, just last question, But do you feel like
ole Miss is though the stereotype that people think that
it is and the soorty life there, Like I mean
I picture it in such a I went to a
southern school and I was in a storty but like
ole Miss is like the ultimate do you think it
lives up to that?
Speaker 1 (26:17):
I do I mean it's it's so sick and like
the people you meet and like the Mississippi legacy, I
mean a Katie and a Tradale, and like the fraternities
and like parties, like it really is crazy and like
thinking back on it, I'm so like thankful I got
to experience it. It was just like being in it, you
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don't realize like what you're in because rush TikTok didn't
blow up until I think I was like a senior
in college, and so I didn't realize like what I
was a part of. And it's just so cool, Like
I love it. I love all the people I met,
what I learned, Like all the parties were so fun,
the fraternity parties, like the bars, and I was sick.
(27:03):
I would go again in two seconds. The game day
of it all good good And what's cool about the
South is like everyone is like sees you as family
like and so it was very welcoming and like home.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Immediately you recommend it, like there are to our listeners.
There are I'm sure there are girls listening that are
still in high school and you know, thinking about which
school go to and about Greek life. Would you recommend
it to let's say girls here on the East Coast.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
I would recommend it to anyone that ask me why
this should go to college, Like it is so fun, okay,
and I learned so much And I'm very much mentality
because I was a broadcast journalism major, and you get
out what you put in, so like you don't necessarily
need to get a's, but you need to know, like
what your in goal at the end of colleges and
you're going to be successful. So my goal was networking
(27:55):
and like social media and reality TV and pretty and whatever,
and so I did internships that could get me there.
So then I didn't necessarily need to take my classes
as serious. So I did like the school news station,
and then my sororities. I was able to have fun
and like not worry about getting all aas. I didn't
need all aays. Do you think Jeff Lewis knows my GPA?
Speaker 2 (28:17):
It doesn't matter, don't I don't.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
But to those high school girls listening, get all a's
if you go.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
You don't have to spend on what you want to do.
If you want to be an accounting you want to
be a doctor, yeah you do, yes, well, like I
think that's we're also a thing like with people that
because I'm like, oh, I partied a lot in college, Like, well,
what did you learn? I'm like, I worked my ass off.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
You do learn a lot being a story also.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
I mean, I think it's so much of not all,
not every career choice, but so many careers are about being.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
Able to connect with people, right.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
And I feel like every job I ever had, and
I had a lot of them when I was your age,
I was always switching jobs, but I was very easy
for me to get jobs because I'm I like that
process of interviewing, Like it was like rush, Like I
like having my personality on and like connecting with people.
And then you know, being in the jobs I was,
(29:09):
I always had friends whatever job it was, and I
always was like kind of I don't mean this in
an obnoxious way, but but but kind of loved and
I was really never good at my job.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
But you're a personality higher.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
It was a personality higher, and I feel like that's
something maybe that when you're in a sorority, that's a
great you know, to be able to learn how to
get along specifically with you know, other women, And I
feel like those are those are lessons that you take
with you.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Now. I think networking is the secret to success, like.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Just yeah yeah, but also.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Nurturing those relationships, like, oh, you're in college and your
dad knows someone that does what you want to do.
You email them once and you move on. No, like
you have to call them, get to know them, let
them in on your life, and like become their friend,
have them see you as their own kid. Like, you
need to really invest in relationships and then people want
to help you and see you. And it's not just
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using people like you're growing. That's how you enhance your life.
You learn about people that are successful and they teach
you things and you teach them and whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
You are very wise, my girl, it's fun. Yeah, I
love you. I love you for coming on. We're gonna
have you one again. Please maybe with your sister?
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Yeah, actually she would, she so should.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Oh wait, can I shout out my new YouTube channel?
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I dropped my first vlog today because I broke up
with my boyfriend like a week ago and I had
my first like single girl weekend and so I went
shopping and parties and just trying to get my bring
out things. So I was dating him for like four years.
So it's been pretty dark, but it was so fun.
I yeah, I'm trying to stay sober, but then I
(30:52):
ended up getting drunk because Jeff and Shane were like,
you should numb it, and I'm like, it didn't numb it.
I sobbed and so anyways, run a journey and I'm
trying to vlog about it and make it fun so
I can distract myself. So subscribe Annie. My YouTube is
Annie Sharp Sleigh, and my instagram and TikTok is just
(31:14):
Annie Sharp Underscore.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
Okay, all right, you guys, so please subscribe. You will
love it, every second of it YouTube. Bye honey, bye,
Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about SERRITI Life with
your hosts me Gia Judice.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.
So today I have a very special guest. Well, she's
very special, and she's also very special to me. You
guys may actually know her, But I have some guy
named Annie Sharp, and you may recognize the name and
or the face from a very popular radio show to
say the least, called Jeff Lewis Live. By the way,
(00:34):
you guys were broadcasting this from Vail, Colorado, where I
am spending a week with my family, And yeah it is.
It's really beautiful here, really fun. I don't ski, so
probably wasn't the vacation for me necessarily. But anyway, we
are taking a break from the break because I am
so obsessed with my little miss Annie.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
No, I literally am obsessed. Every time you come on
the show and they mention you on like I love
that bitch. They always make fun of me. Do we're
like kindred spirits?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Well, I feel like Andy, like you're kind of me
at that, like at your age, I feel like I
was a lot like you. And it's so funny because
having you on dirty Rush, because I also I was
a sorority girl at a southern school, University of Texas.
You were at full Miss, right, and I was a
Texas I was an Aphi. But I think I was
(01:26):
the least sorority girls sorority girl ever at least that's
kind of how I felt and how I feel now,
even though I'm obsessed with everything you know sorority but
like you do not. I don't think you give sorority girl.
I don't exactly what I mean by that.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
I was very defiant of the like sorority things, but
I'm like a girly girl. I like to party. I
want to put on.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Cost early girl right, but like.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
The sorority girl aspect of it, like where we had
to like show up to things and like be sober
and like be a community. I just was like not
down in college. Like the blue lipstick, I couldn't. So, yeah,
what does it mean the blue lipstick?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Oh. I was at Kappa Kapagamma, so everything was our
colors were blue on blue, okay, and so everything was blue,
so everyone would like spray their hair blue. Do the
blue lips blue eyeshadow, and every time I did it
like it was so ugly.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Well, well, you could never be ugly.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
But I also feel like maybe also conformity is not
necessarily your thing. No, right, at least start, I'm getting
way ahead of myself. First of all, tell the people
where you went to school and what sorority were in,
even though we just mentioned it, because Okay, I.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Went to the University of Mississippi also known as ole
Miss and I was a Kappa, Kapa Gamma, and it's
it's a good house there, but there's very like a deep,
deep rooted like sororities that are like KD and tried out.
They're like all Mississippi girls. And then there's so those
are the tip top houses, and then there's like other
(03:00):
top houses, but they're not full of Mississippi girls, which
I would say are find you, DG and Kappa. And
so we're all on one street. Did you have sorority houses? Yeah, okay,
so we're only on one section of campus, and then
there's all the other ones that are on like another
section that it is like Kyo eighty pi whatever, it
(03:21):
doesn't matter. So I was a Kappa and I only got.
I did not want to rush. I didn't even want
to go to college. And then my sister was a
year ahead of me, and she went. And she's like
type A to a T, like she was getting into
a good sorority, like her life dependent on it.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
But she went. She went to Ole Miss.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah, yeah, a year before me.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Just a quick a fie.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Why did you guys wild miss them? You were living
in Texas at the time.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Yeah, So she found it and she loved it, and
we're eighteen months apart. And then I didn't want to
go to college. I was like, I'm gonna move to
la and be a star.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And my parents were like, no, you did do that then,
But okay, well.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
They were like college first. They always believed in. But
they were like, chill, like let's do college. Let's be
a little bit traditional. So then I didn't apply anywhere
for school because I didn't want to go. And then
it came out like exceptan sunder started coming out and
I think my sister had applied me to ole Miss
herself in ways like the only place, so I was accepted.
(04:23):
So then was my parents were like, you're going I.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Got to meet your sister. She sounds like the best.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
No, she's the best. She's a hardcore bitch, but like
in the best way. One of us, no, literally one
of us.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Okay, So you go to the quintessential Southern like Greek
life school, right, and were you going with the intent
to rush, like you went in because your sister knowing
that that was going to be part of this experience
for you.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Yeah, I was. If I was going to ole Miss,
which I was, I was going to rush, Like there
was no way I wasn't going to rush, right, But yeah,
I'd like and I was very intern the rush process,
like I'd always say, like I've an open mind. I
really wanted to be a fine U because I'm obsessed
with pink. I want to be a fine mean so bad.
(05:09):
And I met like three five mews and I got
cut like the first round I think, and then after that.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
But your sister was president of Kapa and you still
don't be in Kappa.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Well, because I wanted to be different. I was like
I'm already going to her school, I know, but then
I got there and like during rush. I don't know
how your rush experience was, but like you go to
each house and they pull the girl and talk to you.
I would go into Kappa and everyone would be like
catering to me, so excited to see me because I
was a sister of an active so I was like,
(05:43):
got a legacy, right, and so the attention I got there,
I mean like I'm flattered, right, Kapa.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
Yeah, that was always how it was. I mean I
remember the swordy I ended up in as well. Well,
there were two Jewish sorties and I wanted to be
in one, but it was Yeah, it was a different feeling,
certainly than going into the other stories where they didn't
know who I was and didn't really care. But anyway, okay,
so do it any like crazy wild rush stories from from
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the week.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Do you remember my rush wasn't was very obvious from
the start, like my sister was an act of Kapa.
There was no way any other house was going to
take me. So I kind of got screwed so and
I thought I was like, oh, I have an open mind,
and then like I just started getting caught by everyone cool,
and then I had like the two loser houses left
in Kapa, and I was like, okay, like.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I can't with you.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I'm sorry, I don't mean to, but we all know
there's Luther houses.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
This show is called Dirty Rush. We're all on the
same page.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Go, okay, good, good, But then what was so sick
is my junior year, they were redoing the Kappa House
and the worst sorority on our campus got kicked off
campus because they were so bad and no one wanted
to pledge them, and so that we had to live
in that in the loser house for a year.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
What is that? What do you mean? Wait, no one
wanted to They had an empty house.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
You hadn't have an empty house. The chapter got kicked
off our campus because they had such a bad repeta
okay from my understanding, Okay, I thought that house was vacant.
So then they're like, oh, we can stay in that house.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
But then we like, did you like living in there?
Living there?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
In the end, I didn't end up living in the
house because they made us live in the other house.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I didn't want to, Okay, Okay, Well, all right, so
I'm abread to so tell me a little bit about
how all miss the greek life and specifically the sorority
system is different than other schools.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
It's very okay. So there's this thing during rush on
what I wasn't like on the side where I was
like getting sordid whatever it's called, when I was on
the side of like deciding it's so crazy, Like we
go through every single girl. We have like slide shows.
We all like vote and like say what we know
(08:03):
about them, and it's like a chapter of over four
hundred women and we're like looking at the slideshow. Oh,
I know her. I went to high school with her.
She's does this, this, and this. I dated her brother
one time. She yelled at her mom like the craziest,
Like the craziest.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Do you think, like, obviously you're conscious in the fact
that that this is so like Ole Miss is just
so known for this right, for being so intense in
terms of Greek life, but so a picture not I
don't know, obviously not everyone at Old Miss is involved
in Greek life, but I just picture it as, you know,
so intense, specifically the rush process, but also like we
(08:44):
see the videos on TikTok and you know it is
it's like these choreographed dances that look like it's you know, profet,
Like was it.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Always like that? Was it that intense when you were there?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
You wouldn't believe the drama like we go to the
house for work week the week before Rush starts, our
school starts. I think Russian also, And there's one girl
that's like Rush chairman, the themes, the way she yells
at us, like the friendships that are falling apart, the tears,
it's insane. I'll never forget it. Like we had a
(09:17):
rehearsal yes, and we're like jumping and clapping and we're
getting screamed up by our peers. It was insane. But
one time we went home and they were so mad
at us because we whatever. I don't remember why they
were so mad at us. I think we didn't like
dress up enough for the themes and we weren't taking
it seriously enough, so they sent us home. And then
they had an optional practice that night, but they threatened us,
(09:39):
you have to come, but it was an optional practice,
and I'll never forget. I was like sitting at my
apartment and my friend two of my friends came over
and they're like, are you coming, And I was like, no,
like it's option, I'm not going. And they literally looked
at me tears in their eyes. You're not going to
support me?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Oh, come on, are you kidding me now? I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
The girl literally was like if you didn't dress up.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
And you're like laughing at her, You're like like dudella.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
No, when I would dress like like one time, our
theme I think was like rock and roll and I
dressed up was Kesha, but not even just like it's
like really ugly. Just I did not plan ahead. Neither
did my whole friend group. None of us planned ahead.
We just all looked like we put on a pile
of like we looked terribly. I love that.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
I mean I feel like that's I would want to
be in that sorority like that. Roorty would actually call
me and Kapa were like that.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
No, most of the girls like were picture perfect, cute,
like put together right. No, my like one of my
my last week of school, this girl that was like
the perfect twint essential Kappa I'm still friends with there.
She was in San Diego Now. She came up to
me and she was like, are you guys are alcoholics?
Like you guys have problems? Like, well, love my reputation.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Let me ask you this. It's just another like quick aside.
But does if you guys who's over listening, don't listen
to the Jeff Lewis Show. I just did they all
know there that you may not get this? But did
they all know there that you were at Old miss
and authority?
Speaker 1 (11:28):
They know, but they don't get it. Like it's the
kind of thing that like if you know, like southern schools,
you get it, or I don't think they get it,
Like I just say, oh, I went to a party school.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
I just love that your career path is so fabulous
and it just is so doesn't follow.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
You know, the beaten trail. What's that? Expecially in my
mind your aide off the beaten path?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Thank you?
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And but being a sorority feels it's so structured, right,
and I feel like you're such not a structured woman,
and so it's like I kind of.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Enjoy picturing you.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
And so having said that, you told me that your
sister was constantly having to get you out of shit, right, Like, yeah,
she trouble, which doesn't surprise me.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
So like I told her I was doing this podcast
and she was literally like any please want and blair
us our chapter. I'm like, you're twenty eight years old,
why do you like? But I didn't care when I
was in it, But like we had functions all the time.
So one night we had like a date party. I
cannot remember the Oh it was my tie. Have you
(12:39):
heard of my tie?
Speaker 2 (12:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (12:41):
So my tie. We always had themes. So my tie
was you pick a date for your friends, and the
way you do it is you get your the dates
tie and the girls are wearing it at the pregame,
and then the guys show up and they find the
girl wearing their tie, then that's your day. And so
it was that day party and I kind of miss
those kind of things, like those were so fun. But
(13:02):
we go to the bar and I'm pretty sure I
used the fake to get into the bar. I think
I was underage, and me and my friend were like
walking around, we're already absolutely wasted. I drank out of
a baby bottle in college, a straight fireball, like a psychopath,
and I brought it to the bar with me. We
get there, we go into this like closet that we
(13:23):
thought was the bathroom, and it turns out it was
the liquor closet, and we're like hell yeah. So we're
doing like full photo shoot, like climbing up the ladder
like in these tiny little dresses, like acting insane, and
then we walk out and we're both wearing our dates jackets.
So we both put bottles in the pockets of the
jackets and we're absolutely belated, and we get the hats
(13:46):
and we put them on backwards because there were like
some employees left their hats in there. And we walk out.
We're both wearing hats that say Swag and these jacket
coats or whatever, and then we're walking around. Then they
grab us in immediately and they like take the stuff
and they're like, what the heck you guys whatever, and
we're just like who whatever, like move on party. And
(14:08):
then all of a sudden, I hear that they called
the cops, and so I called my fate.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
So arety sisters called the cops? Or that bar?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
The bar okay because we rated a liquor closet even
though we gave everything back, and we're just like being dumb,
like whatever, probably shouldn't have done that, but whatever. So
I called my friend and he comes and drives to
the front and he picks us up literally as the
police are pulling up. We're like jumping in the getaway
car and like getting away.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Oh my god, you cam from the cops. I cannot
I cannot with you.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
They brought the footage to my now brother in law,
who was my sister's boyfriend, and they were like, because
they knew he was the boyfriend of the president, and
they were like, do you know who these girls are?
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah? And the king why was he a cop? No?
Speaker 1 (14:52):
No, no, he just was like my sister's boyfriend. So
they knew, like the president would know everyone.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
The boyfriend probably okay, okay, And.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
They couldn't find Ellie. I think Ellie was my sister
was dealing with whatever, a drunk girl throwing up somewhere.
And so they asked Ethan and He's like, I have
no idea who they are.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
How many times has he said that about you?
Speaker 1 (15:11):
My love? He was a king, like the amount of
times I called him like can you come pick me up?
Can you come pick me up?
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Well, tell me that. But then, so, did you get
in trouble, you just have to get you out of it.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Yes, So we got called to standards, me and my
friend Anna and I worked for the school newspaper and so,
and I am terrified of confrontation, like really yeah, yeah,
Like if I'm gonna be in trouble and I know
I did something wrong, I cannot stand there and hear
my punishment like I just get so it's bad. I
(15:42):
need to learn to work through that. But anyway, so
I had a job, so I was like, I have work,
I can't come to standards. And so my friend had
to go to standards by herself and she got yelled
at and then by like a girl in our sorority
like I'm just like it's so dune, yeah, and yeah,
we just got in trouble. And then I don't I
(16:04):
don't think anything really happened. It's like a slap on
the wrist and then nothing.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
Was your sister.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
There was your sister like always saved you or other
the other girls like oh yes.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
And my sister was the reason I didn't get in
trouble because she's like it's Annie, Like you guys know Annie,
and they're like, yeah, she's crazy.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
They is to get pissed at you for it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Oh oh yeah. My mom's phone would just be like
blowing up both of us, like Ellie did this and
and Annie did this. Annie's so embarrassing. She gets so
drunk and blah blah blah. And then my sister like
didn't drink till she was didn't have a sip aboutcol
till she was twenty one, and even once she turned
twenty one, she's.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Like, come on, are you serious. Yes, she's by the books.
That's why she probably made president ever of Kapa.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh yeah. And people in the sorority so like whenever
there was like a functions you had to go to,
you had to like check in for attendance, and so
Ellie would have to like mark everyone so and me
and her look so similar and there's four hundred girls
until people would come up to me and be like, Ellie,
I'm here, and I'd be like, gotcha, literally no clue
(17:09):
that they are not writing them.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Any I wish i'd ask Ellie to come on too.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
I know her version of this. You have to like
we have to bring her on. So all right, so
poor little Ellie, no or Ellie, because I say I
was going to say to you before that like usually
be saved to people, to the guests that come on.
If you don't want to say the name of your
sorority or even where you went to school, or you
want a fake name. And I didn't even say that
(17:36):
to you, shame on me. But like exactly, that's the
thing I knew you would be, like, the.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
Best thing they ever did was give me a bit
they regret it probably, Well, no.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
They don't regret it. There's no way they do.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
But do you, because I think like your sister's also
must be so proud of you. Do you keep in
touch with a lot of them? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I actually do. It's interesting because when I was in college,
I had a friend group and I still am friends
with them, but and we're close. But now since I've
left college, I've expanded. There's like five girls from Ole
Miss Kappa's that live in LA and San Diego, and
I just I text them all the time, we hang out.
One girl's gonna be my stylist for like the upcoming year,
(18:19):
which is so fun. I know, it was just like
fun and interesting how I've connected with these girls like
postgrad that I literally never spoke to in the sorority
when we were there together, but like they just feel
like home because I mean really yes, oh yeah, any
girl in my sorority if I called them, absolutely they're
(18:40):
like crying, like or if I needed something and I
was in towent, like they would absolutely drop anything to
have dinner or really well.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Oh for sure, I didn't feel like that.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
I definitely and and because I moved out of Texas
so quickly after I graduated, I didn't keep in touch
with as many. I mean, I'd to keep in touch
with with some of them close friends, but like I
didn't have that feeling of camaraderie and like sisterhood as
much as it sounds like that, you did, like somebody
that would even if they were a Kapa period, they
(19:10):
would drop everything. Would you drop anything for any Kappa
or just Kappas that went to ole miss.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Oh oh miss Kappas not. It's just I feel I mean,
whenever people are like, oh, I'm a Kapa, I feel
like it's cool. Like some of my friend's moms are Kappas,
and I'm like, oh my gosh, like it just makes
me like them more. I don't know why, because Kappas
are different. Every sorority is different at every school, right,
there's just something about it where I'm like, Okay.
Speaker 3 (19:36):
Like what do you feel like Kapas are known for?
Like you know, if you had to sort of characterize
them as something.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
At my school, we were really fun and like we
didn't really take things that seriously.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
Were they party girls?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
We were absolutely party girls. Oh yeah, but we weren't.
There was like party girls sluts, and then there was
party girls and we were just party girls.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
There had to be some sluts in it. I could
be great.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Oh for sure. HER's slut's everywhere.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Yeah exactly. I was one of them.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Yes, okay, yeah, so that's really I love that you
could just you guys would just even if you weren't
great friends.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Just no, I'm telling you. So, I just you know,
I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm like,
oh my god, like I want to reach out to
girls and whatever and make more friends and form deeper friendships.
And there's this girl name's Kelly. She was an active
KAPA with me, and she's a year older than me,
and I just damned her on Instagram. I said, let's
hang send her my number and she was like, oh
my god, yes, I can't wait. So we're making plans since,
(20:31):
like we haven't spoken since maybe rush in college.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
That's crazy. Yeah, I love that. So I'm going to
ask you this, but I know the answer. I mean,
would you do it again?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
A million percent? Yeah? Yeah, I mean how are you were saying? Like,
I'm not like I don't really like to be conformed to.
They had this I don't know, you didn't have social
media whenever you were in your surporty, but they were
crazy about what you posted and you weren't allowed to
be on elevated surfaces, right, I know that nows like
(21:18):
bad words, and so they had this account and they
would comment. It was like an anonymous account and they
would comment like blue hearts, and you would have to
take it down.
Speaker 3 (21:27):
No, I've heard about this a lot of We've talked
to a lot of girls that talk about this, Like
they would leave a little whatever emoji and that means
you're in trouble.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Take it down.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
So one time they called me and they're like, can
you be in charge of this anonymous account monitoring your
pledge class on Snapchat? If you ever see anything, just
respond blue hearts. I was like okay, and I just like, I.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Don't have to be on a narc They know you
at all. Why did they never ask you to do that?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
You like, you love social media?
Speaker 2 (22:00):
Really would give ah someone was doing you can go,
You like go girl.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Queen Sligh, Literally you're eating You're eating exactly wait, so
I asked you before. But also like how do you
explain it? I'm not gonna say like Jeff Lewis, but like,
I don't know. I'm sure it doesn't come up that
often on the radio, but in general, like when people
meet you, is it you try to explain that that
(22:23):
experience because it does. See it feels so far kind
of from who you are.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It does, and I feel like it almost it dumbs
me down a little bit. People that don't get it, like, oh,
you went to a southern party school and you're a sorority.
I mean honestly, John, Like really yeah, they are like,
oh your degree.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Doesn't anyone that meets you knows You're not dumb?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
But okay, you'd be surprised though, like people just immediately
like serrat, Like if I say I went to n
y U and I was in a sorority, I feel
like it's a completely different picture someone would paint of
me and all myths has that attached to it, that's
so interesting, Well because it's also Ssissippi, and I don't know,
it's interesting. Yeah, So I don't really love the like
(23:06):
stereotype of it, but I'm not. I mean, I don't
really care. Like that's why I love Paris Hilton so
much because I think she has such like a stereotype
of being a dumb bitch.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
And she's not all right, just brilliant and so like I.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Really respect that and I love that type of lifestyle
because like then no one takes you too seriously and
you're always impressing people.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Yeah, yeah, said that about you.
Speaker 3 (23:28):
Like he was talking one morning about your parents, meeting
your parents, and like he was just saying to them
like I'm so impressed with her, or like even to me,
He's like, like I admire Annie.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
That's so sweet.
Speaker 2 (23:41):
Yeah, I means I didn't say it. He did.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
Yeah, Like thanks Jen, true.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Yeah, So I mean anything else you want to add
here about your would you say, would you go to
Old Michigan.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
I've thought about that a lot, and I think I would.
I loved it, like I really and I don't feel
like it held me back from anything, but it was
a cool experience, like it's a small town and we
would I'd be wasted on the side of the street,
like it's a party school. I cannot like emphasize that enough,
Like I would just be underage wasted on the side
(24:16):
of the street, like getting myself into trouble and the
cop would be like, give me your phone, I'm calling
you an uber, like you're okay, and they would like
it was like a no fails, Like they would kind
of give you a billion chances before you got in trouble.
Like one time I was at a bar and I
was so upset something happened with some random guy and
I was so drunk and I just fell all the
way down the stairs and I'd get to the bottom,
(24:37):
so humiliating, and a cop called me an uber and
I get home.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I cannot.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I would go there again because it was just a
safe place to like grow grow like as a person.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
And also I could be wrong, but I feel like
with you, if you guys ever have the pleasure of
meeting Annie, it's like it's I don't feel like you
could anyone could ever really get mad at you, like
you just pish all. If anyone gets mad, I picture
you just crying.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I do not what I'm saying. I can't kill a confrontation.
Speaker 3 (25:06):
Right, so then you just like which reminds me of
my daughter Rachel, who I mean, she got a driver's license.
She like the first week she hit someone not a tree.
Oh my god, person okay, Like, no, she hit a person, okay,
and she it was some man. He was pissed. He
got out of his car because it was a crosswalk.
(25:27):
And she became so hysterical and the cops came that.
They were all comforting Rachel, like I'm like talking to her.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
She can't breathe.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
She puts me on the phone with the cops. The
cops are like, she's gonna be okay. I'm like, well, yeah,
but it's the man that she hitit go to me, okay,
but you remind me of that, Like you're like, there's
just it'd be hard to ever really be mad at you.
Speaker 1 (25:49):
No, my parents when I was a kid, they'd be like,
we're not going to punish you because you punish yourself enough,
because I would just be like crying. I feel so bad.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
I just well listen.
Speaker 3 (25:59):
I mean, just last question, But do you feel like
ole Miss is though the stereotype that people think that
it is and the soorty life there, Like I mean
I picture it in such a I went to a
southern school and I was in a storty but like
ole Miss is like the ultimate do you think it
lives up to that?
Speaker 1 (26:17):
I do I mean it's it's so sick and like
the people you meet and like the Mississippi legacy, I
mean a Katie and a Tradale, and like the fraternities
and like parties, like it really is crazy and like
thinking back on it, I'm so like thankful I got
to experience it. It was just like being in it, you
(26:39):
don't realize like what you're in because rush TikTok didn't
blow up until I think I was like a senior
in college, and so I didn't realize like what I
was a part of. And it's just so cool, Like
I love it. I love all the people I met,
what I learned, Like all the parties were so fun,
the fraternity parties, like the bars, and I was sick.
(27:03):
I would go again in two seconds. The game day
of it all good good And what's cool about the
South is like everyone is like sees you as family
like and so it was very welcoming and like home.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
Immediately you recommend it, like there are to our listeners.
There are I'm sure there are girls listening that are
still in high school and you know, thinking about which
school go to and about Greek life. Would you recommend
it to let's say girls here on the East Coast.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
I would recommend it to anyone that ask me why
this should go to college, Like it is so fun, okay,
and I learned so much And I'm very much mentality
because I was a broadcast journalism major, and you get
out what you put in, so like you don't necessarily
need to get a's, but you need to know, like
what your in goal at the end of colleges and
you're going to be successful. So my goal was networking
(27:55):
and like social media and reality TV and pretty and whatever,
and so I did internships that could get me there.
So then I didn't necessarily need to take my classes
as serious. So I did like the school news station,
and then my sororities. I was able to have fun
and like not worry about getting all aas. I didn't
need all aays. Do you think Jeff Lewis knows my GPA?
Speaker 2 (28:17):
It doesn't matter, don't I don't.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
But to those high school girls listening, get all a's
if you go.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
You don't have to spend on what you want to do.
If you want to be an accounting you want to
be a doctor, yeah you do, yes, well, like I
think that's we're also a thing like with people that
because I'm like, oh, I partied a lot in college, Like, well,
what did you learn? I'm like, I worked my ass off.
Speaker 2 (28:39):
You do learn a lot being a story also.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
I mean, I think it's so much of not all,
not every career choice, but so many careers are about being.
Speaker 2 (28:46):
Able to connect with people, right.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
And I feel like every job I ever had, and
I had a lot of them when I was your age,
I was always switching jobs, but I was very easy
for me to get jobs because I'm I like that
process of interviewing, Like it was like rush, Like I
like having my personality on and like connecting with people.
And then you know, being in the jobs I was,
(29:09):
I always had friends whatever job it was, and I
always was like kind of I don't mean this in
an obnoxious way, but but but kind of loved and
I was really never good at my job.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
But you're a personality higher.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
It was a personality higher, and I feel like that's
something maybe that when you're in a sorority, that's a
great you know, to be able to learn how to
get along specifically with you know, other women, And I
feel like those are those are lessons that you take
with you.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Now. I think networking is the secret to success, like.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Just yeah yeah, but also.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
Nurturing those relationships, like, oh, you're in college and your
dad knows someone that does what you want to do.
You email them once and you move on. No, like
you have to call them, get to know them, let
them in on your life, and like become their friend,
have them see you as their own kid. Like, you
need to really invest in relationships and then people want
to help you and see you. And it's not just
(30:07):
using people like you're growing. That's how you enhance your life.
You learn about people that are successful and they teach
you things and you teach them and whatever.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
You are very wise, my girl, it's fun. Yeah, I
love you. I love you for coming on. We're gonna
have you one again. Please maybe with your sister?
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Yeah, actually she would, she so should.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
Oh wait, can I shout out my new YouTube channel?
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:30):
I dropped my first vlog today because I broke up
with my boyfriend like a week ago and I had
my first like single girl weekend and so I went
shopping and parties and just trying to get my bring
out things. So I was dating him for like four years.
So it's been pretty dark, but it was so fun.
I yeah, I'm trying to stay sober, but then I
(30:52):
ended up getting drunk because Jeff and Shane were like,
you should numb it, and I'm like, it didn't numb it.
I sobbed and so anyways, run a journey and I'm
trying to vlog about it and make it fun so
I can distract myself. So subscribe Annie. My YouTube is
Annie Sharp Sleigh, and my instagram and TikTok is just
(31:14):
Annie Sharp Underscore.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
Okay, all right, you guys, so please subscribe. You will
love it, every second of it YouTube. Bye honey, bye,
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