June 25, 2025 • 31 mins
Ashley is joined by our Bachelor Nation OG Trista Sutter to break down the latest in Bachelor headlines!
We analyze how Grant Ellis is reacting after his split from Juliana Pasquarosa, and what his “I’m not heart broken” post could possibly mean.
Hannah Ann Sluss is pregnant and you HAVE to hear how she told her bestie the good news.
And Zac Clark’s secret nickname for Kaitlyn Bristowe may have been revealed in a casual comment… could there be more going on??
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
with iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Today.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Trista is stepping in for Ben. As we do headlines,
we are continuing. Probably Bachelination's the biggest headline right now.
Grant and Juliana split. We got the announcement about a
week ago and now they have officially unfollowed each other
on Instagram. Grant got on his Instagram live the other
(00:31):
day and he talked about the split. He was asked
if they still talk. He said, no, we don't really
talk like that. I'm assuming it's like maybe like logistical
if anything, Like hey, do you want.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
This sent back?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Somebody asked why did you break up with Juliana, and
he said, I didn't break up with anybody.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
He also noted this was a big thing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
This is what stood out to me, and I sent
our Almost Famous group chat this video the video because
of it. He goes, I'm not heartbroken, and I'm like, ooh,
I don't know. That seems kind of like a bad
taste for me. He also said that he has no
desire to going to like revisiting that one day, or
to revisiting any of the other girls from his season.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
He just says, life goes on. It's all about moving forward.
I am not looking back. He also said during the
live that it was a mutual split. Trista, what is
your take on this?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
And did you find the whole I'm not heartbroken thing
to be a little sassy as I did?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Okay, Well, I didn't know about this live. I wish
I would have seen it.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
No, he just did it two days ago. Yeah, oh oh,
you didn't watch the clip yet.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I didn't watch it. No, no, no, So you're just
you're telling me all these things, and I'm shocked. I'm shocked. Yeah,
the not heartbroken thing, I'm sorry you were engaged? How
how are you not right? Like that's that's shocking to me.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
That's cool?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Broken like this that as very cold.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Yeah, even if it was a mutual split, like you say, heartbroken,
because like you should be sad about the ending of
something that could have ended up in.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
That should have ended up in marriage or you know
that was the attention.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I don't know. That's that's shocking to me. If you're
not heartbroken, was your heart ever in it?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Were you that?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Like? Didn't you didn't you tell her? That you loved
her and you're not heartbroken. That literally is the meaning
of the word heart broken. Your heart is broken. And
if your heart was complete because of this person or
was happy because of this person, shouldn't it be broken
if you broke up. I don't know, that just doesn't
make any sense to me.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, even on this show, like when somebody has to
deny a rose, right, like let's just say it's top
six and you have to deny a rose that person,
you almost feel a little heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Because you're breaking somebody else's heart.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I felt heartbroken on first night because I was breaking
people's hearts. Like not they weren't in love with me
by any means after like just meeting me for a
couple hours. But but yeah, it was heartbreaking because you
felt like they were there. They had given up you know,
part time time of their life, you know, to come
(03:09):
on the show and to meet me. It ended up
being for my season, and so yeah, it is a
little heartbreaking. So I feel maybe his definition of heartbreak
is just different than ours. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Some people were saying in the comments that, like this
seems like the classic like wanted fame is so ready
to like go out there and be the single bachelor
and be able to get girls really easily. I also
think you can interpret it.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Which which I totally say that side.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I'm kind of feeling that side, But you can also
kind of turn it and say that this looks like
a guy that's like on the defense and it didn't
work out, and now he's like, oh, don't care about her,
I'm moving on and it's not going to be a
problem for me to move on, and just trying to
look like he's not affected.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Yeah, I mean, just be honest with people. People like
honesty and authenticity way more than they like somebody who's
like going to be just positive just for positive sake,
you know, like be authentic with the fact that you
were just engaged to someone and you obviously cared about her,
and can you not admit that, you know, it's sad
(04:22):
to be ending a relationship that you thought was your future. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Also there were comments that were like, this doesn't seem
like the bachelor that we knew, Like he was like
very like warm and sweet and emotional, and yeah, this
guy just didn't seem like that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
It seems like a front. You know.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
They stopped following each other on Instagram from what our
producers are telling us. And I find it very interesting
and I've always felt it kind of sad in a
way when relationships and it's not just people in the
public eye. It's you know, teenagers that I know if
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they if they with their boyfriend or girlfriend and they've
shared on Instagram, you know, all these pictures their life together,
however long they were together. You know, like they share
about their life together, and you know, whatever they've done,
they've posted on Instagram in their infeed right, so it's
not just stories, but it lives on their feed. When
(05:20):
they break up, they delete every single picture with that person.
So it's like that relationship in social media land never existed.
And it's so sad to me.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I don't think it's necessary unless there was a cheating involved.
I don't think it's a big deal to keep those
up there.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I agree, it's just like a chapter in your life,
a memory to keep it. Yeah, unless there's like really
harsh feelings, I don't think you.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Have to do that. I will say good.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Yeah, Like if you get involved, you know, you get
move on to a relationship in that person that you're
with doesn't want those pictures up there anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's one thing. But I don't I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah right, it's just sad to me. I don't know.
Why don't you just I see Instagram as kind of
like a public diary in a way, you know, just
sharing the diary of your life, the memories that you
want to remember, the funny times, the whatever, you know,
And it just makes me sad when people are like, oh, Okay,
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we're broken up, let's just delete, you know, the all
of the photo evidence. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
It's just do they do that?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
I don't know. I don't know. I'm just bringing that
up as a I know that they unfollowed each other.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, I bet you they didn't.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Oh no, she has her engagement photo up there from
March twenty seventh, but that looks.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
To be it. I don't know if she had anything
else with him up there.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
He has nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
He has nothing. Crazy. It's like, guys, we have a
whole series. It's on Hulu.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
I know, Like that's the thing he does have. Yeah,
he literally I'm going through there are there are no
I think he got rid of. I'm assuming he had
pictures of them.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yeah, that's why I'm actually not sure.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I wonder if they just like never really posted about
each other, because she has plenty of stuff about him
before March twenty seventh, but nothing after March twenty seventh.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
No, he has nothing. It's all gone. I guarantee you
he had at least one post. Oh yeah, you know
what I mean. Yeah, he must have. No, it's all like,
it's all just it's all just him And listen. If
that's what you want to do it, and that's your
reason for having Instagram, you just want to promote yourself
(07:43):
or you know whatever, then that's fine. That's your life.
It's your it's your page. Do what you want with
your page.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
It makes me really sad that you just erase you know,
what happened in your past. Yeah, yeah, she's she's not
on his feed at all.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
That's okay.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Moving on Bachelor's Star Hannah and Sluice. We know her
from Peter season and she got married to NFL player
Jake Funk last year. They are expecting a baby in November,
So congratulations to Hannah Ann and Jake.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
She said. She told People magazine that it was.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
An unexpected and joyful surprise she got pregnant on a
trip to Dubai. She says it's a moment they will
always treasure finding out together. She said she'll be sharing
Jake's reaction video soon it's so funny. She also said
that for the first trimester, she's stuck to rest and
the basics, work walks, taking care of their dog. She
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said she had food aversions. Almost everything tasted off except
for fruit, which she has consistently loved. And we also
found out that she told her bestie from the Bachelor
of Victoria Fuller, in a very cute way. She said
that she was getting in the car and she was
apologizing for running late.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
She goes, sorry, I'm late.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I got you this. She hands over a bottle of
wine and it says the label says only best friends
get promoted to anti baby funk, and she goes, you know, like,
I can't drink this. I'm forty five minutes late because
I've been sick. All right, so here you go, And
then Victoria.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Said that she immediately burst into tears before giving her
a big hug. So sweet. I love cute.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Idea.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Yeah, that's really cute. It's really cute.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So a couple of questions for you.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Yeah, we all know that I hated being pregnant, especially
with Dawson. It was like the worst. It was really
like the it was a very dark time for me.
I had hyper I'm assist with Dawson. Did not have
it with Hayden, which is very rare and weird, but
like still did not you know, still got plenty sick.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
And did not enjoy being pregnant with Hayden. I think that.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Cravings are such a thing that we talk about with pregnancy.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh my god, what are your cravings? I'm like, guess what.
That is the least of anything that going on in
my life right now.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like cravings is something that they put in rom coms
and like has just infiltrated real life. I can't ever
say that I was like I must have this now.
What I always said was that that it was kind
of like a hmm, what can I stomach? Now that
sounds like I could handle it, And that's what I
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would call a craving.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
What about you, M that's such a good way to
look at it. I have always said that pregnancy just
doesn't agree with me. I feel like I would have
been the kind of person and not the kind of person.
I would have loved to have, like not healthy pregnancies,
(11:10):
but like pregnancies that didn't disagree with my body. Yeah,
because I feel like I would have loved to be
a surrogate. I'm honestly, honestly, I would have loved to
be pregnant for other people to get Ah's so see
and I can't. Like I was like nope. After I
got pregnant, I was like, Okay, well that's not happening
(11:30):
because I was so sick, so sick for four months,
sixteen weeks.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
That's about it.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
It was like six to eighteen weeks. Like once we
got at eighteen weeks with both of them, I was like, okay,
I guess I can live. Like yes, the first eighteen
weeks with Dawson was like I actually can't live a
normal life.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
No, not at all. You lay on the couch, you
don't brush your teeth. Yeah, what like you literally get
up from your bed and you go to the couch
and you lit. At least that's what I did. I
didn't brush my teeth. I didn't like. I just I
feel like I would pop fruit loops because I had
to be eating something and fruit loops were so tiny,
and would just keep me like digesting something. I don't
(12:12):
know why that helped, but I had to be doing that.
I would crave in the way that I feel like
it always made me feel better when I was sick.
French fries and hash browns. Those were the things that
I needed. I had to have French fries and hash browns.
And then I was I was also sick for Blake's
(12:35):
With Blake's Lee not as bad, but I think it
wasn't as bad because I had a sixteen month old
running around and I had to like be a mom
and not just lay on the couch and not brush
my teeth so exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Is it just because like our brain is like nope,
you must power through or is it because I'm convinced
my body was just like, oh okay, I know what
I'm doing this time.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
It's not like as much of like a hormonal shift.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
I don't know, that's so true. And then I also
had gestational diabetes. Oh gosh, I had help syndrome that
I didn't find out until the end, but help syndrome
and pre eclampsia, so I I literally almost died from
giving birth. So I was like Okay, Well, I guess
my body just doesn't like pregnancy. Thank god I got
(13:25):
pregnant because it took us two years to get pregnant.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Okay, and then sixteen months later he did it happened again?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, well I think it was. No, it was actually
sooner than that. It was right when I stopped nursing Max,
and I nursed him for a year, So I got
pregnant right when he was a year. And then I
guess he was late, like nineteen months old when oh
he was twenty months old. Sorry, the brain does not work, neither.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Me neither.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
So he was twenty months old running around and I
was like, yeah, I just I just have to exist.
I remember specifically one day where I think I closed
the door. There was nothing like dangerous around for the
kids to get into, like no tables for them to
hit their heads on or anything. I put. I think
Blakesley was laying in a like a one of those
(14:17):
mobile things on the ground, and I was like, I'm
literally gonna lay down and just lay here, and I'm not.
I was like, I can't even interact with my children
right now because I feel maybe that was no. It
was when I was pregnant. I'm so sorry, It's okay.
I shouldn't even talk. Why am I a podcast host?
(14:38):
Because I can't remember.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
I appreciate this so much because like with Ben, like
I just I'm like, you are so incredibly like with it, Ben,
And I'm like, can I switch brains with you for
a day?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Like I'm truly I'm like gonna be one of.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Those women who gets like late diagnosed as ADHD, because like,
I have never had eighty D symptoms in my entire
life until becoming a mom of two. Same, same, yeah,
Like this morning, I was like, where did my water
bottle go?
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Where my water bottle go?
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Ashley, it's in your effing hand. Like it's petrifying sometimes.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Oh I've done that with my phone, Like where is
my phone? Where did I put my freaking phone? And
it's in my hand?
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Did you watch This is Us? Yes? Okay?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Do you remember how they made Rebecca seem like she
was you know, her first sign of Alzheimer's was losing
her phone all the time.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
If somebody that is.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
The worst example ever, because I lose my phone around
the house five times a day.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
And I have Alzheimer's in my family.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Me too, don't worry about that. Yeah, me too.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Yeah, I'm not not looking good for either of us, Ashley,
or We're just.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Gonna keep going, okay, alrighty, So then my other question
about pregnancy, but yes, I have to agree with you.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Greasy potatoes was always the way to go. Greasy anything cheesy,
totally pizza.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Yeah, pizza. Okay.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
So then how did you tell your best friends you
were pregnant?
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Gosh, I don't even remember. I literally, like, that is
the cutest story of how she gave her like a
wine bottle and stuff. No, the best auntie or what
have That's the cutest thing ever. Why couldn't I have
thought of that? I don't know. I do remember this.
I'll tell you a funny story. So you know, we
tried for two years. Ryan was going to climb a mountain.
(16:34):
It's called yeah, right, so South America. He's going to
South America, right. I was ovulating right before he left,
and and we of course had sex when I was
ovulating because we were trying to have a baby. Not
only because you know we're trying to have a baby,
(16:55):
but we're married and happily and you know he's going
on a trip, so we have sex, right, and I
find out that I'm pregnant while he's on this trip. Okay,
so it was like two weeks. I can't remember. He
was gone for two or three weeks. And so I
find out, like and I had I think probably hundreds
(17:17):
of pregnancy tests in my bathroom and I took them constantly,
constantly taking them. So I constantly am taking the test.
And I remember I took the pregnancy test and I
read it and I had taken at least a couple
hundred at this point. I feel like, so I'm standing
there going, of course it's going to be no, you
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know you're not pregnant. You're not pregnant. And I read
it and it said I was pregnant. And I stood
in the doorway and I felt like my feet were
suddenly in cement blocks, like I couldn't move. I was
paralyzed with like, holy crap, it worked, like what's happening?
And Ryan's not even here, Like what the hell? So
it called my mom and told her I had to
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tell somebody.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, so he was totally out of reach.
Speaker 4 (18:03):
He was out of reach. We could only talk via
satellite phone, and even when we talked on satellite phone.
It was for maybe like three minutes if that. I
didn't even know if the call is this big honkin'
satellite phone. I didn't even know if we would get
cut off at some point. So I couldn't tell him
(18:25):
on the satellite phone, right because I'm like, I can't
tell you and then be cut off and be like,
guess what happened? Is this click? You know? So I
wrote him this sweet poem and he gets home to
the airport. I pick him upt the airport. He can't
smile because his lips are so chapped from being on
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this mountain. Like he's like, he's like, you know, I
like windburn all this stuff, so he can't smile. I
give him the poem and he doesn't really smile, and
I was like, are you excited? Like what finally pregnant
or whatever? And he's like I just can't smile, like
I literally. So fast forward to like I don't know,
(19:08):
maybe months or years later after Max was born, and
he makes some joke about how, oh are you going
to tell me who the real father is? Because I
was were you got pregnant while I was on Ocapola
And I was like.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Dude, that's how it works. I was like, are you
kidding me?
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Like, I'm sorry, but you get pregnant, you find out,
like it's not like you have to wait until you
know whatever. You all know the science, right.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
And by the way, I think I have some pretty
good proof that he is their father.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah, twins, that's hilarious.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
So fun.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Oh, I love that, I am Like, I was so
awkward to tell him. Jared was fun because Jared like
didn't ever bel leave it ever. Like the first time
with Dawson, I just like had a sort of feeling.
And then I took a pregnancy test a couple of
days earlier, and I don't know why. Both the times,
all I had was the line ones, not like the
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pregnant not pregnant ones.
Speaker 4 (20:13):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
So I took the line one and.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
I was like, there is a slight slight second line
and then he.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Was like, ah, nah, it's not.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
And then and then I'm like, oh, I don't know,
and then I don't know, and then he it took
like the third one to say pregnant not pregnant for
him to actually believe it. And then with Hayden, I
had a chemical pregnancy the first month that we were
trying for Hayden. So that means like it's like a
it's like when you say the Lord miscarriages, Like I
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feel like it gives it too much weight. It is
it is a little sad because in my case it
was like it was it's it's basically you miscarry the
week in which you would have found out, do you
know what I mean? So like I took a pregnancy test,
so it would have been like your week four or
five and you like start bleeding like it's your period,
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but like it's probably like three days after you would
have gotten a positive pregnancy test.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
So that's exactly what happened. And it was like sad.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Because with with that, I had done the whole thing
where I took it and then I gave it to
Dawson to give to Jared when he came home, and
like that was actually like the cutest thing where he
was like Dad, look, and that was our cute moment.
And then it was like three days later and I was.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Like, oh no, yeah, it was sad.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
It was, but again, like I don't want to give
it too much weight because I mean it was very
sad in that day and a couple of days afterward,
but like there's women that've gone through so much more emotional.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
And then the next month I text my midwife and
I told her about it and she was like, yeah,
I mean that seems like what it's happening, but she's like,
to make you feel better.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Usually like the next month or two, women's bodies are
just like kind of like prepared for it, and it
like often happens. And I was like, okay, well that
put me like a really good mindset. And then this
second and then I did get pregnant the next month
with Hayden, which was nuts. And then of course that
night I tell Jared. We were at dinner and I
was like, I feel off and he was like, you're fine,
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You're not pregnant, and I was like, you are nuts.
I come home, I take a pregnancy test.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I hate.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I just casually handed over to him on the couch
at night. And then he's like he's like, that is
very faint. That is not pregnant, and I'm like, Jared,
that is what Dawson was. And then he's like, yeah,
I'll believe it in a week. And then oh week
came anyway, So yeah, both very uneventful moments but I
told my friends at like nine weeks, and I FaceTime
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them just like very sick on the couch. I'm not
like the kind of girl who like calls our friends
to catch up. Basically, I see them in person and
that's when we catch up. Yeah, but so I faced
and the second I FaceTime them, they're like, you're pregnant.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
I'm like yeah, yeah, I love it.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Yeah. Okay, Well lots of good girl talk. Now let's
go on to a hot, hot girl.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Did you see Caitlyn Bristows Sports Illustrated shoot for.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
It was a digital shoot.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
It was like in honor of her fortieth birthday, and
I'm like, I'm mine. I mean, I know, forty is
like nothing, but it's just crazy to me because I
remember Caitlyn turning thirty. Caitlyn turned thirty the year that
she was the Bachelorette. She filmed it and then it
started airing the month that she turned thirty.
Speaker 4 (23:35):
Yeah, me doo. I actually had my birthday on the show,
like the guys brought me presents.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Oh really, your thirtieth birthday?
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
No way, Oh my gosh, that funny.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Yes, And I remember being like I was twenty seven
to Kaitlyn and are like two and a half three
years a part. And then I was like, oh my god,
she's turning thirty. Oh my god, she's such an adult.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
And now she turned forty.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
And I had such like a similar response to it.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Yeah, yeah, right, she's like full grown hatty hatty mccotter scene. Yeah,
like she's Yeah. I loved it, I commented. And you know,
I think I said, HATTI, holy HATI.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Holy hot. That's here in the rundown. He said, holy HATTI. Yes, yeah,
she looks so amazing. It's in her backyard. Photo shoot,
Go look at her. She looks great.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
And then she also posted a personal ballad about love
for her fortieth birthday. She she released it the day
of It is so pretty well, it's like a heart
break it there's like it's like heartbreak theme, but it's
beautiful to listen to. Her voice sounds so good. And
she this is her third song, her third song, and
(24:45):
she said that creating this song was out of her
comfort zone, but she's actively learning to become comfortable with discomfort.
And a big thing that happened with this post is
that there's a mister Zach Clark who posted underneath. I
think this is maybe his first comment underneath the photo
of hers says happy birthday Moon. Does that sound like
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a nickname or not? Maybe a Game of Thrones reference
as well, And I'm a little romantic there.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
This is brave, great song, keep going love it.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
I am so proud of her. I saw, you know,
she's she talked to Mel Robbins on her podcast and yew,
you know, she talked about her fears and what she
would love to do, and Mel was like, you know,
just let them, you know, let them her whole tagline,
let them not tagline really, but her whole book, you know,
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is about just let people think what they're going to
think and do what you want to do with your life,
fulfill your dreams if you have the chance. I was
actually texting with Caitlin when she was in the studio
and she sent me a picture of that. She ended
up posting on that on that post of her being
in the studio, and I'm just so proud of her
because I know that there's you know, she's a good
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friend and I know that there's she's really struggled a
lot with sharing, you know, and keeping things private and
writing that line. You know of wanting to share with
people her authenticity and and also wanting to keep things
really private. And I just feel like it is so
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beautifully authentic and relatable to so many people, the lyrics
of the song. So I'm just so proud of her
for sharing it. I think it's beautiful. And yeah, it's
a really.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Nice way of putting it out there. It's kind of
Taylor Swift, like She's like, yeah, I tell you, I'll
tell you things in song and you can interpretize you may.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
That is so so true. Yes, I'm sure she would
love that. I know she would love that. Yeah, Lonely
in Love. Go listen to it, everybody, all right.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Our final headline is Tyler Cameron. Did you see his
house because they got crapped?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Yeah? Okay, I literally I thought that they did it.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
I'm seeing now that it was actually HGTV's Gali Alex,
who kind of turned it into what she calls like
a grown up renovation.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And I thought Tate and him did it together his
girlfriend I did too, Yeah, because he even said like
he made like some joke about like Tate not actually
doing it, that he did it.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Well.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Actually it was a professional decorator and I was like can,
I wrote underneath it. I was like, can, whoever, I
need you guys to come over and do my house.
It is sedunnang, It's gorgeous.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
The whole ceiling, how they took out like that top
level whatever thing, that like falcony thing that was in
the inside of the house.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
I know that, yeah, well was that.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
But then they took away the ceiling and made the
ceiling just giant and put that whole like accent wall.
It's gorgeous.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
It is so nice.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
You guys have to check out the Instagram. I'm very
into like the colors that they used. Remember, you know,
just you know, a couple of years ago, it was
all about the gray whites and blah blash, and now
I just love the color and like a little more
like antique vibe.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
I'm all about color.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Yeah, no, I know, yeah, color color.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
I think that like the really, at the end of
the day, we all like color more. I think like
there was some sort of I think we were trying
to like clean like there. I've seen Instagram reels about
how millennials grew up in these houses that you know,
like my mom, my parents' house, kitchen looks kind of
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like the olive garden, and they joke about how, like,
you know, nineties moms have like olive garden kitchens.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
And I think we were just like all a little
like overwhelmed at that stuff.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
And then we're like, oh, yeah, let's just like do
really clean, clean neutrals and now do they have.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
A border of like an ivy Like.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Oh, oh, my mom had like all the like the
the greenery in the brass in the like brass baskets,
and then like she had grape vines.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
They actually just took down that wallpaper. She had grape wallpaper.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
Yeah, she had the pigs and the cows holding the
little chalkboards.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Of course, oh you chickens. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Yeah. So I think that we were just like, okay,
we want something clean and neutral, and now we're like,
wait a second, we're carving the warmth and they put
the warmth in this house that looks so good.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
And how cute are Tyler and Tate. I can't wait
for this engagement which is bound to happen. They are
They seem perfect together.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
Yeah. I just saw a clip of Nick on his
podcast talking to them, and they are there. I don't
know him. I you know, I've never met him, but
they are adorable together. They're so cute. Yeah, I I
love that. I'm just I love love. So yeah, it
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doesn't matter if they are two people who met on
the show. Like I just I just love love, and
I think they're really cute together.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Yeah, And like I kind of like love the fact
that he was like dating Gigi hadied and like other celebrities,
and then he kind of just is like, no, you
know what, I want to move home, do home renovations
and date one of these girls that I've known, like
for a long time who's always been a friend of mine.
Is really nice and he's like such a sweet guy.
Every time he's on the podcast, I'm like yours. I
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guess I regard him as kind of like a celebrity,
right because like he has like elevated to that level
and he seems so grounded and down to earth.
Speaker 4 (30:45):
Okay, he's good, all right, Well.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Trista, thanks for joining me today. We miss Ben and
he'll be back next episode. And until then, I've been Ashley.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
And I've been Trista Sea.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
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Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast. Today.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Trista is stepping in for Ben. As we do headlines,
we are continuing. Probably Bachelination's the biggest headline right now.
Grant and Juliana split. We got the announcement about a
week ago and now they have officially unfollowed each other
on Instagram. Grant got on his Instagram live the other
(00:31):
day and he talked about the split. He was asked
if they still talk. He said, no, we don't really
talk like that. I'm assuming it's like maybe like logistical
if anything, Like hey, do you want.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
This sent back?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Somebody asked why did you break up with Juliana, and
he said, I didn't break up with anybody.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
He also noted this was a big thing.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
This is what stood out to me, and I sent
our Almost Famous group chat this video the video because
of it. He goes, I'm not heartbroken, and I'm like, ooh,
I don't know. That seems kind of like a bad
taste for me. He also said that he has no
desire to going to like revisiting that one day, or
to revisiting any of the other girls from his season.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
He just says, life goes on. It's all about moving forward.
I am not looking back. He also said during the
live that it was a mutual split. Trista, what is
your take on this?
Speaker 3 (01:26):
And did you find the whole I'm not heartbroken thing
to be a little sassy as I did?
Speaker 4 (01:30):
Okay, Well, I didn't know about this live. I wish
I would have seen it.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
No, he just did it two days ago. Yeah, oh oh,
you didn't watch the clip yet.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
I didn't watch it. No, no, no, So you're just
you're telling me all these things, and I'm shocked. I'm shocked. Yeah,
the not heartbroken thing, I'm sorry you were engaged? How
how are you not right? Like that's that's shocking to me.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
That's cool?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Broken like this that as very cold.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Yeah, even if it was a mutual split, like you say, heartbroken,
because like you should be sad about the ending of
something that could have ended up in.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
That should have ended up in marriage or you know
that was the attention.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I don't know. That's that's shocking to me. If you're
not heartbroken, was your heart ever in it?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Were you that?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Like? Didn't you didn't you tell her? That you loved
her and you're not heartbroken. That literally is the meaning
of the word heart broken. Your heart is broken. And
if your heart was complete because of this person or
was happy because of this person, shouldn't it be broken
if you broke up. I don't know, that just doesn't
make any sense to me.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Yeah, even on this show, like when somebody has to
deny a rose, right, like let's just say it's top
six and you have to deny a rose that person,
you almost feel a little heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Because you're breaking somebody else's heart.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I felt heartbroken on first night because I was breaking
people's hearts. Like not they weren't in love with me
by any means after like just meeting me for a
couple hours. But but yeah, it was heartbreaking because you
felt like they were there. They had given up you know,
part time time of their life, you know, to come
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on the show and to meet me. It ended up
being for my season, and so yeah, it is a
little heartbreaking. So I feel maybe his definition of heartbreak
is just different than ours. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
Some people were saying in the comments that, like this
seems like the classic like wanted fame is so ready
to like go out there and be the single bachelor
and be able to get girls really easily. I also
think you can interpret it.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Which which I totally say that side.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I'm kind of feeling that side, But you can also
kind of turn it and say that this looks like
a guy that's like on the defense and it didn't
work out, and now he's like, oh, don't care about her,
I'm moving on and it's not going to be a
problem for me to move on, and just trying to
look like he's not affected.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Yeah, I mean, just be honest with people. People like
honesty and authenticity way more than they like somebody who's
like going to be just positive just for positive sake,
you know, like be authentic with the fact that you
were just engaged to someone and you obviously cared about her,
and can you not admit that, you know, it's sad
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to be ending a relationship that you thought was your future. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Also there were comments that were like, this doesn't seem
like the bachelor that we knew, Like he was like
very like warm and sweet and emotional, and yeah, this
guy just didn't seem like that.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
It seems like a front. You know.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
They stopped following each other on Instagram from what our
producers are telling us. And I find it very interesting
and I've always felt it kind of sad in a
way when relationships and it's not just people in the
public eye. It's you know, teenagers that I know if
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they if they with their boyfriend or girlfriend and they've
shared on Instagram, you know, all these pictures their life together,
however long they were together. You know, like they share
about their life together, and you know, whatever they've done,
they've posted on Instagram in their infeed right, so it's
not just stories, but it lives on their feed. When
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they break up, they delete every single picture with that person.
So it's like that relationship in social media land never existed.
And it's so sad to me.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I don't think it's necessary unless there was a cheating involved.
I don't think it's a big deal to keep those
up there.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I agree, it's just like a chapter in your life,
a memory to keep it. Yeah, unless there's like really
harsh feelings, I don't think you.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Have to do that. I will say good.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Yeah, Like if you get involved, you know, you get
move on to a relationship in that person that you're
with doesn't want those pictures up there anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's one thing. But I don't I don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah right, it's just sad to me. I don't know.
Why don't you just I see Instagram as kind of
like a public diary in a way, you know, just
sharing the diary of your life, the memories that you
want to remember, the funny times, the whatever, you know,
And it just makes me sad when people are like, oh, Okay,
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we're broken up, let's just delete, you know, the all
of the photo evidence. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
It's just do they do that?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
I don't know. I don't know. I'm just bringing that
up as a I know that they unfollowed each other.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, I bet you they didn't.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Oh no, she has her engagement photo up there from
March twenty seventh, but that looks.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
To be it. I don't know if she had anything
else with him up there.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
He has nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
He has nothing. Crazy. It's like, guys, we have a
whole series. It's on Hulu.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
I know, Like that's the thing he does have. Yeah,
he literally I'm going through there are there are no
I think he got rid of. I'm assuming he had
pictures of them.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yeah, that's why I'm actually not sure.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
I wonder if they just like never really posted about
each other, because she has plenty of stuff about him
before March twenty seventh, but nothing after March twenty seventh.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
No, he has nothing. It's all gone. I guarantee you
he had at least one post. Oh yeah, you know
what I mean. Yeah, he must have. No, it's all like,
it's all just it's all just him And listen. If
that's what you want to do it, and that's your
reason for having Instagram, you just want to promote yourself
(07:43):
or you know whatever, then that's fine. That's your life.
It's your it's your page. Do what you want with
your page.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
I just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
It makes me really sad that you just erase you know,
what happened in your past. Yeah, yeah, she's she's not
on his feed at all.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
That's okay.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Moving on Bachelor's Star Hannah and Sluice. We know her
from Peter season and she got married to NFL player
Jake Funk last year. They are expecting a baby in November,
So congratulations to Hannah Ann and Jake.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
She said. She told People magazine that it was.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
An unexpected and joyful surprise she got pregnant on a
trip to Dubai. She says it's a moment they will
always treasure finding out together. She said she'll be sharing
Jake's reaction video soon it's so funny. She also said
that for the first trimester, she's stuck to rest and
the basics, work walks, taking care of their dog. She
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said she had food aversions. Almost everything tasted off except
for fruit, which she has consistently loved. And we also
found out that she told her bestie from the Bachelor
of Victoria Fuller, in a very cute way. She said
that she was getting in the car and she was
apologizing for running late.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
She goes, sorry, I'm late.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I got you this. She hands over a bottle of
wine and it says the label says only best friends
get promoted to anti baby funk, and she goes, you know, like,
I can't drink this. I'm forty five minutes late because
I've been sick. All right, so here you go, And
then Victoria.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Said that she immediately burst into tears before giving her
a big hug. So sweet. I love cute.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Idea.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
Yeah, that's really cute. It's really cute.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So a couple of questions for you.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Yeah, we all know that I hated being pregnant, especially
with Dawson. It was like the worst. It was really
like the it was a very dark time for me.
I had hyper I'm assist with Dawson. Did not have
it with Hayden, which is very rare and weird, but
like still did not you know, still got plenty sick.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
And did not enjoy being pregnant with Hayden. I think that.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Cravings are such a thing that we talk about with pregnancy.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Oh my god, what are your cravings? I'm like, guess what.
That is the least of anything that going on in
my life right now.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like cravings is something that they put in rom coms
and like has just infiltrated real life. I can't ever
say that I was like I must have this now.
What I always said was that that it was kind
of like a hmm, what can I stomach? Now that
sounds like I could handle it, And that's what I
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would call a craving.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
What about you, M that's such a good way to
look at it. I have always said that pregnancy just
doesn't agree with me. I feel like I would have
been the kind of person and not the kind of person.
I would have loved to have, like not healthy pregnancies,
(11:10):
but like pregnancies that didn't disagree with my body. Yeah,
because I feel like I would have loved to be
a surrogate. I'm honestly, honestly, I would have loved to
be pregnant for other people to get Ah's so see
and I can't. Like I was like nope. After I
got pregnant, I was like, Okay, well that's not happening
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because I was so sick, so sick for four months,
sixteen weeks.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
That's about it.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
It was like six to eighteen weeks. Like once we
got at eighteen weeks with both of them, I was like, okay,
I guess I can live. Like yes, the first eighteen
weeks with Dawson was like I actually can't live a
normal life.
Speaker 4 (11:48):
No, not at all. You lay on the couch, you
don't brush your teeth. Yeah, what like you literally get
up from your bed and you go to the couch
and you lit. At least that's what I did. I
didn't brush my teeth. I didn't like. I just I
feel like I would pop fruit loops because I had
to be eating something and fruit loops were so tiny,
and would just keep me like digesting something. I don't
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know why that helped, but I had to be doing that.
I would crave in the way that I feel like
it always made me feel better when I was sick.
French fries and hash browns. Those were the things that
I needed. I had to have French fries and hash browns.
And then I was I was also sick for Blake's
(12:35):
With Blake's Lee not as bad, but I think it
wasn't as bad because I had a sixteen month old
running around and I had to like be a mom
and not just lay on the couch and not brush
my teeth so exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Is it just because like our brain is like nope,
you must power through or is it because I'm convinced
my body was just like, oh okay, I know what
I'm doing this time.
Speaker 2 (13:02):
It's not like as much of like a hormonal shift.
Speaker 4 (13:05):
I don't know, that's so true. And then I also
had gestational diabetes. Oh gosh, I had help syndrome that
I didn't find out until the end, but help syndrome
and pre eclampsia, so I I literally almost died from
giving birth. So I was like Okay, Well, I guess
my body just doesn't like pregnancy. Thank god I got
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pregnant because it took us two years to get pregnant.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Okay, and then sixteen months later he did it happened again?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, well I think it was. No, it was actually
sooner than that. It was right when I stopped nursing Max,
and I nursed him for a year, So I got
pregnant right when he was a year. And then I
guess he was late, like nineteen months old when oh
he was twenty months old. Sorry, the brain does not work, neither.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
Me neither.
Speaker 4 (13:56):
So he was twenty months old running around and I
was like, yeah, I just I just have to exist.
I remember specifically one day where I think I closed
the door. There was nothing like dangerous around for the
kids to get into, like no tables for them to
hit their heads on or anything. I put. I think
Blakesley was laying in a like a one of those
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mobile things on the ground, and I was like, I'm
literally gonna lay down and just lay here, and I'm not.
I was like, I can't even interact with my children
right now because I feel maybe that was no. It
was when I was pregnant. I'm so sorry, It's okay.
I shouldn't even talk. Why am I a podcast host?
(14:38):
Because I can't remember.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
I appreciate this so much because like with Ben, like
I just I'm like, you are so incredibly like with it, Ben,
And I'm like, can I switch brains with you for
a day?
Speaker 2 (14:50):
Like I'm truly I'm like gonna be one of.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Those women who gets like late diagnosed as ADHD, because like,
I have never had eighty D symptoms in my entire
life until becoming a mom of two. Same, same, yeah,
Like this morning, I was like, where did my water
bottle go?
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Where my water bottle go?
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (15:09):
Ashley, it's in your effing hand. Like it's petrifying sometimes.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
Oh I've done that with my phone, Like where is
my phone? Where did I put my freaking phone? And
it's in my hand?
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Did you watch This is Us? Yes? Okay?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Do you remember how they made Rebecca seem like she
was you know, her first sign of Alzheimer's was losing
her phone all the time.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
If somebody that is.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
The worst example ever, because I lose my phone around
the house five times a day.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
And I have Alzheimer's in my family.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Me too, don't worry about that. Yeah, me too.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
Yeah, I'm not not looking good for either of us, Ashley,
or We're just.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Gonna keep going, okay, alrighty, So then my other question
about pregnancy, but yes, I have to agree with you.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Greasy potatoes was always the way to go. Greasy anything cheesy,
totally pizza.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Yeah, pizza. Okay.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
So then how did you tell your best friends you
were pregnant?
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Gosh, I don't even remember. I literally, like, that is
the cutest story of how she gave her like a
wine bottle and stuff. No, the best auntie or what
have That's the cutest thing ever. Why couldn't I have
thought of that? I don't know. I do remember this.
I'll tell you a funny story. So you know, we
tried for two years. Ryan was going to climb a mountain.
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It's called yeah, right, so South America. He's going to
South America, right. I was ovulating right before he left,
and and we of course had sex when I was
ovulating because we were trying to have a baby. Not
only because you know we're trying to have a baby,
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but we're married and happily and you know he's going
on a trip, so we have sex, right, and I
find out that I'm pregnant while he's on this trip. Okay,
so it was like two weeks. I can't remember. He
was gone for two or three weeks. And so I
find out, like and I had I think probably hundreds
(17:17):
of pregnancy tests in my bathroom and I took them constantly,
constantly taking them. So I constantly am taking the test.
And I remember I took the pregnancy test and I
read it and I had taken at least a couple
hundred at this point. I feel like, so I'm standing
there going, of course it's going to be no, you
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know you're not pregnant. You're not pregnant. And I read
it and it said I was pregnant. And I stood
in the doorway and I felt like my feet were
suddenly in cement blocks, like I couldn't move. I was
paralyzed with like, holy crap, it worked, like what's happening?
And Ryan's not even here, Like what the hell? So
it called my mom and told her I had to
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tell somebody.
Speaker 2 (18:01):
Yeah, so he was totally out of reach.
Speaker 4 (18:03):
He was out of reach. We could only talk via
satellite phone, and even when we talked on satellite phone.
It was for maybe like three minutes if that. I
didn't even know if the call is this big honkin'
satellite phone. I didn't even know if we would get
cut off at some point. So I couldn't tell him
(18:25):
on the satellite phone, right because I'm like, I can't
tell you and then be cut off and be like,
guess what happened? Is this click? You know? So I
wrote him this sweet poem and he gets home to
the airport. I pick him upt the airport. He can't
smile because his lips are so chapped from being on
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this mountain. Like he's like, he's like, you know, I
like windburn all this stuff, so he can't smile. I
give him the poem and he doesn't really smile, and
I was like, are you excited? Like what finally pregnant
or whatever? And he's like I just can't smile, like
I literally. So fast forward to like I don't know,
(19:08):
maybe months or years later after Max was born, and
he makes some joke about how, oh are you going
to tell me who the real father is? Because I
was were you got pregnant while I was on Ocapola
And I was like.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Dude, that's how it works. I was like, are you
kidding me?
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Like, I'm sorry, but you get pregnant, you find out,
like it's not like you have to wait until you
know whatever. You all know the science, right.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (19:35):
And by the way, I think I have some pretty
good proof that he is their father.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah, twins, that's hilarious.
Speaker 4 (19:49):
So fun.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
Oh, I love that, I am Like, I was so
awkward to tell him. Jared was fun because Jared like
didn't ever bel leave it ever. Like the first time
with Dawson, I just like had a sort of feeling.
And then I took a pregnancy test a couple of
days earlier, and I don't know why. Both the times,
all I had was the line ones, not like the
(20:12):
pregnant not pregnant ones.
Speaker 4 (20:13):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
So I took the line one and.
Speaker 3 (20:17):
I was like, there is a slight slight second line
and then he.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Was like, ah, nah, it's not.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
And then and then I'm like, oh, I don't know,
and then I don't know, and then he it took
like the third one to say pregnant not pregnant for
him to actually believe it. And then with Hayden, I
had a chemical pregnancy the first month that we were
trying for Hayden. So that means like it's like a
it's like when you say the Lord miscarriages, Like I
(20:45):
feel like it gives it too much weight. It is
it is a little sad because in my case it
was like it was it's it's basically you miscarry the
week in which you would have found out, do you
know what I mean? So like I took a pregnancy test,
so it would have been like your week four or
five and you like start bleeding like it's your period,
(21:08):
but like it's probably like three days after you would
have gotten a positive pregnancy test.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
So that's exactly what happened. And it was like sad.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Because with with that, I had done the whole thing
where I took it and then I gave it to
Dawson to give to Jared when he came home, and
like that was actually like the cutest thing where he
was like Dad, look, and that was our cute moment.
And then it was like three days later and I was.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Like, oh no, yeah, it was sad.
Speaker 3 (21:38):
It was, but again, like I don't want to give
it too much weight because I mean it was very
sad in that day and a couple of days afterward,
but like there's women that've gone through so much more emotional.
Speaker 2 (21:49):
And then the next month I text my midwife and
I told her about it and she was like, yeah,
I mean that seems like what it's happening, but she's like,
to make you feel better.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
Usually like the next month or two, women's bodies are
just like kind of like prepared for it, and it
like often happens. And I was like, okay, well that
put me like a really good mindset. And then this
second and then I did get pregnant the next month
with Hayden, which was nuts. And then of course that
night I tell Jared. We were at dinner and I
was like, I feel off and he was like, you're fine,
(22:21):
You're not pregnant, and I was like, you are nuts.
I come home, I take a pregnancy test.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
I hate.
Speaker 3 (22:28):
I just casually handed over to him on the couch
at night. And then he's like he's like, that is
very faint. That is not pregnant, and I'm like, Jared,
that is what Dawson was. And then he's like, yeah,
I'll believe it in a week. And then oh week
came anyway, So yeah, both very uneventful moments but I
told my friends at like nine weeks, and I FaceTime
(22:49):
them just like very sick on the couch. I'm not
like the kind of girl who like calls our friends
to catch up. Basically, I see them in person and
that's when we catch up. Yeah, but so I faced
and the second I FaceTime them, they're like, you're pregnant.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
I'm like yeah, yeah, I love it.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Yeah. Okay, Well lots of good girl talk. Now let's
go on to a hot, hot girl.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Did you see Caitlyn Bristows Sports Illustrated shoot for.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
It was a digital shoot.
Speaker 3 (23:17):
It was like in honor of her fortieth birthday, and
I'm like, I'm mine. I mean, I know, forty is
like nothing, but it's just crazy to me because I
remember Caitlyn turning thirty. Caitlyn turned thirty the year that
she was the Bachelorette. She filmed it and then it
started airing the month that she turned thirty.
Speaker 4 (23:35):
Yeah, me doo. I actually had my birthday on the show,
like the guys brought me presents.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
Oh really, your thirtieth birthday?
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (23:42):
No way, Oh my gosh, that funny.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
Yes, And I remember being like I was twenty seven
to Kaitlyn and are like two and a half three
years a part. And then I was like, oh my god,
she's turning thirty. Oh my god, she's such an adult.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
And now she turned forty.
Speaker 3 (23:56):
And I had such like a similar response to it.
Speaker 4 (24:00):
Yeah, yeah, right, she's like full grown hatty hatty mccotter scene. Yeah,
like she's Yeah. I loved it, I commented. And you know,
I think I said, HATTI, holy HATI.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
Holy hot. That's here in the rundown. He said, holy HATTI. Yes, yeah,
she looks so amazing. It's in her backyard. Photo shoot,
Go look at her. She looks great.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
And then she also posted a personal ballad about love
for her fortieth birthday. She she released it the day
of It is so pretty well, it's like a heart
break it there's like it's like heartbreak theme, but it's
beautiful to listen to. Her voice sounds so good. And
she this is her third song, her third song, and
(24:45):
she said that creating this song was out of her
comfort zone, but she's actively learning to become comfortable with discomfort.
And a big thing that happened with this post is
that there's a mister Zach Clark who posted underneath. I
think this is maybe his first comment underneath the photo
of hers says happy birthday Moon. Does that sound like
(25:07):
a nickname or not? Maybe a Game of Thrones reference
as well, And I'm a little romantic there.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
This is brave, great song, keep going love it.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
I am so proud of her. I saw, you know,
she's she talked to Mel Robbins on her podcast and yew,
you know, she talked about her fears and what she
would love to do, and Mel was like, you know,
just let them, you know, let them her whole tagline,
let them not tagline really, but her whole book, you know,
(25:39):
is about just let people think what they're going to
think and do what you want to do with your life,
fulfill your dreams if you have the chance. I was
actually texting with Caitlin when she was in the studio
and she sent me a picture of that. She ended
up posting on that on that post of her being
in the studio, and I'm just so proud of her
because I know that there's you know, she's a good
(26:02):
friend and I know that there's she's really struggled a
lot with sharing, you know, and keeping things private and
writing that line. You know of wanting to share with
people her authenticity and and also wanting to keep things
really private. And I just feel like it is so
(26:22):
beautifully authentic and relatable to so many people, the lyrics
of the song. So I'm just so proud of her
for sharing it. I think it's beautiful. And yeah, it's
a really.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Nice way of putting it out there. It's kind of
Taylor Swift, like She's like, yeah, I tell you, I'll
tell you things in song and you can interpretize you may.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
That is so so true. Yes, I'm sure she would
love that. I know she would love that. Yeah, Lonely
in Love. Go listen to it, everybody, all right.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Our final headline is Tyler Cameron. Did you see his
house because they got crapped?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Yeah? Okay, I literally I thought that they did it.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
I'm seeing now that it was actually HGTV's Gali Alex,
who kind of turned it into what she calls like
a grown up renovation.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
And I thought Tate and him did it together his
girlfriend I did too, Yeah, because he even said like
he made like some joke about like Tate not actually
doing it, that he did it.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
Well.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Actually it was a professional decorator and I was like can,
I wrote underneath it. I was like, can, whoever, I
need you guys to come over and do my house.
It is sedunnang, It's gorgeous.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
The whole ceiling, how they took out like that top
level whatever thing, that like falcony thing that was in
the inside of the house.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
I know that, yeah, well was that.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
But then they took away the ceiling and made the
ceiling just giant and put that whole like accent wall.
It's gorgeous.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
It is so nice.
Speaker 3 (28:05):
You guys have to check out the Instagram. I'm very
into like the colors that they used. Remember, you know,
just you know, a couple of years ago, it was
all about the gray whites and blah blash, and now
I just love the color and like a little more
like antique vibe.
Speaker 4 (28:20):
I'm all about color.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Yeah, no, I know, yeah, color color.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
I think that like the really, at the end of
the day, we all like color more. I think like
there was some sort of I think we were trying
to like clean like there. I've seen Instagram reels about
how millennials grew up in these houses that you know,
like my mom, my parents' house, kitchen looks kind of
(28:45):
like the olive garden, and they joke about how, like,
you know, nineties moms have like olive garden kitchens.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
And I think we were just like all a little
like overwhelmed at that stuff.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
And then we're like, oh, yeah, let's just like do
really clean, clean neutrals and now do they have.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
A border of like an ivy Like.
Speaker 3 (29:02):
Oh, oh, my mom had like all the like the
the greenery in the brass in the like brass baskets,
and then like she had grape vines.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
They actually just took down that wallpaper. She had grape wallpaper.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
Yeah, she had the pigs and the cows holding the
little chalkboards.
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Of course, oh you chickens. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Yeah. So I think that we were just like, okay,
we want something clean and neutral, and now we're like,
wait a second, we're carving the warmth and they put
the warmth in this house that looks so good.
Speaker 3 (29:35):
And how cute are Tyler and Tate. I can't wait
for this engagement which is bound to happen. They are
They seem perfect together.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
Yeah. I just saw a clip of Nick on his
podcast talking to them, and they are there. I don't
know him. I you know, I've never met him, but
they are adorable together. They're so cute. Yeah, I I
love that. I'm just I love love. So yeah, it
(30:04):
doesn't matter if they are two people who met on
the show. Like I just I just love love, and
I think they're really cute together.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Yeah, And like I kind of like love the fact
that he was like dating Gigi hadied and like other celebrities,
and then he kind of just is like, no, you
know what, I want to move home, do home renovations
and date one of these girls that I've known, like
for a long time who's always been a friend of mine.
Is really nice and he's like such a sweet guy.
Every time he's on the podcast, I'm like yours. I
(30:35):
guess I regard him as kind of like a celebrity,
right because like he has like elevated to that level
and he seems so grounded and down to earth.
Speaker 4 (30:45):
Okay, he's good, all right, Well.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
Trista, thanks for joining me today. We miss Ben and
he'll be back next episode. And until then, I've been Ashley.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
And I've been Trista Sea.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
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