Episode 374: Measure These...(Feat. Spice)

The "Queen of Dancehall," Spice, joins the ladies of Lip Service this week to promote her latest album 'Emancipated.' The ladies discuss a range topics including sex demons and their relationship with masturbating, how many times per week should one have sex, whether or not a**eating is overrated, and much more. Spice even brings out the tape measure and two model men to show the ladies how to properly know if he's packing without having to see him naked. Enjoy! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
What's up this slip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm g
G Maguire, I'm Laura Maura. And you don't know the
queen of Dan saw Spice. I know that's right, the
Queen of dance Hall, the Grammar nominated queen. That's nothing
like that. Definitely Dan saying that, no matter what, Spice
is the queen of dance hall. Big up, step Landa.

(00:22):
You know with song number one, we you know, we're
rocking the song hot and I love it. You know,
we're just a clockwork. So you like a car, you
like A and R two because you got a song
with Carlie Red and people are like, Carlie Red got
a hit. I know, right. So the funny thing is
Carlie red song is called Work, and then Steph land
the song is called Clockwork. And carl Read is so
spoiled because when I was telling her I already have

(00:44):
a song with stepheandon call work. Can we change the name.
She's like, oh, but he's were still saying work, And
I'm like, okay, so I'm gonna have two songs called work.
But you are like, you know, even with Carlie Red teeen,
you're working with her and just making sure you kind
of like molded her to be able to out a
hit song. Yeah, and it was a hard moldings. There

(01:06):
was a long process. But the thing with Carly is
you know, she wasn't doing music for a long time.
She kind of stopped. So when she approached me to
do a song, I'm like, you know, not because we're
best friend, where you get it right, but to make
sure say, I'm not just gonna do a song with
you because you know me because we're a friend, It's
still got to be you know, I take my craft
seriously and I'm very meticular, particularly like meticulous. And you

(01:28):
wasn't playing with her. Yeah, you get it around right,
and you have some gifts for us today I saw
so and this peeped it and this is a song.
By the way, they had some people in their feelings,
a lot of people. Yeah, because you could tell them. Man,
you could tell women have little dicks by who got
mad serious because if it is big, you like, break

(01:51):
out the tape measure. But if it's not, you like lady,
you care about that. So I expected to get more
bastion from it when I did it, because when I
when I put on the Oncot version. Did you see
the on conversion? Now? I only saw that. You never
saw the version? What happened to stop? I'm going to
watch the version. We can't talk about wanting a seat.

(02:13):
It was all over on my Twitter, Spicy Official. You
know I'm gonna take that right down. So that's why
I never posted over Instagram at this. Right now, right now,
go on my Twitter Bicey official and watch the video
the official and see are there real dicks in there?

(02:36):
Can't believe someone? I never see it anything. That's like
my Twitter as much. That's the problem. That's true. When
I was posting this video, I was like, they're gonna
take my Twitter. I can't Twitter anything goes and say
that right now? So I went over Twitter and I
posted it and I was like, oh my god, but
it works because it fits with the song. Now let
me oh, you're find it? Yes, depending only in your Twitter?

(03:01):
Why is my wife? I not working? Girl? Oh it's
swinging in every case? Ok? Here it is is on
my album Emancipated. The song is called a shorter Real Thing.
So how was the casting for that? How was the
casting for that video? Let me see, it's just there, honey,

(03:25):
it's just existing. Is that intimidating? Yes, it's huge and
it's not hard. It's just slinging. It's slinging huge. Wow.
Somebody look after that and the balls is wow. Oh

(03:46):
my gosh, he looks like he knows it. Yeah, he's
just sitting just there. He knows it. Wow, I'm hot.
So you're never with something like that, right? No? Um,
I've ran I have from itself Fast show did I

(04:10):
was like, the guy told me, you're making me uncomfortable,
So no, you're making me uncomfortable like this hurt. I
don't think they know it hurts, and I think they
like to push it first. Yeah, yeah, you did not
walk like it too. Yes, you know what, because you
need like a dig that you need two hands for

(04:31):
not one. You know what I mean. You're on and
you have some people they're okay with like a small
dick or a regular size. So with that being said,
what number is good for you? Oh? I brought gifts
for you. Where's my bag? And we need to have
it's in that corner. I have a lot of gifts
that let me see yourself. If you could say, like,

(04:51):
what's a good size, because it's not just the length.
The girls skinny's not good either. The way don't feel good. Yeah,
stuff a funt. Yeah we need like and pudge my
little something pudgy for you. We needed I would say
about what's this that's huge, Laura. Yeah, it's just I
don't mind it being big, but you can't just ram

(05:12):
it up in me. You have to slowly get me right.
And you know what I'm saying. I have to be
a little tips you say, I know the size that
they're going at, the effectut the bullets period, meaning it
doesn't matter what size you have, you for using, make
the something you understand, roll upon, don't look at you know.
You gotta eat the pussy first two When you do that, Yeah,

(05:32):
like you have to. It's like a whole process to it.
You gotta get me ready and build met me and
that jamaicing. They don't, let's be clear, definitely them clem
them to do it. But all of the girl the drummer,
get them thing eating something, eat it. They just don't

(05:54):
talk about it. They eat it, but they don't talk
about it. I'm trying to think. I don't know the
first guy who in my pussy was making stop it
my Yeah, she says that all the time. I don't
think he was like we have his parents are leaving
go to Jamaica for like months at a time. Ship.

(06:14):
It's true. Listen, Noah happened. He was Jamaican. Good. The
guy lost my virginity too, was Jamaican too. But he
back Yorkland. So you know we gotta put Yeah, they'd
be lying. Girl, there's gotta see okay, where here's my
little gift. You gotta keep it in your purse. This

(06:36):
is good. That's how I walked up to you. Your number,
what's your number? And he thinks you want a phone
number and you're like, no, not that number. Yes, it
is too though, because you never want to be shocked
like you always like, before you have sex with the guy,

(06:57):
you want to kind of feel his lump to get
an idea. You want to feel it because it's not
that but wait, so there's a lot of things that
you can do before you have sex with a guy,
because you don't want to waste your time. You know
you're getting a guy, you want to wait like a
little six months and you try feeling mode and then
you're gonna have sex with him, and you kind of
disappointed there's a lot of things you can do to
figure it out before you even go there. Show us,

(07:17):
Professor Spice. Sure, right, can I have these beautiful gentlemen?
No way, yes, all the way I got there, we
didn't know what was going on right here on either side. Everybody, alright, alright,

(07:44):
let's say how do we go? He was doing over
there looking too hard? Okay, so what are you doing?
Can you just look a perfect I'm looking straight at
I mean, we need to get you can sent first
you have consent to look okay? Are you guys comfortable?

(08:05):
You're okay with this? Okay? Confident? But like mamma confident.
Everybody who have a problem with major song them just
not confident. They're not have that. So show us how
this works? All right, how this works? Now? First thing
you want to do. A guy come up to you.
You gotta look at his hands because the size of
the shape of his hands, the size of his hands,

(08:26):
it also tell you the size. And they said, I
think if they said, if the ring finger is longer
the right point. So let's let's start right here. So
he has a big hand. If you put your hand
in it, I already have something working with you. Notice
how this finger is extremely long. Yeah, see that's what

(08:47):
I was saying. And his hands is thick, but something
with their thumb, it gotta be fat because remember when
you were talking about like the size. It can't be
too slim. We need girl, that little girl, so we
gotta check it thumb, all right. So let's see his dumb. Okay,
you gotta thick them. That's one way. Another way to

(09:09):
you got to look at this part of his hand.
Come right here, okay, let's see she's studies his forearm
right here from okay, to the elbow. Because this is
also the size of his shoe size. Okay, And when
I might have a big foot, then saying a big
big foot without going on side shoes. Where you look
at right here from his wrist to his elbow, this

(09:29):
is the size of his shoes, the size of the baby.
The size of his shoes is from here to here
anywhere dropping with it. So he is wearing like a
size and left nor twelve. So you know him that
a big thing. Okay, So we know that anybody ever
seen a big foot man with a small dick? Have
you ever had that? Nah? Because it's also about proportion, right,
because if you know. Okay, so proportion right, So that's

(09:54):
how we can tell. Okay, let's see your hand, let
me see, let me see check how you examine him. Okay,
let's see how I got to see this part first
of all, that form as long as that's a long arm,
so he's okay. Yeah, so okay, So that's how you
check it out. But how do we know, like for sure,

(10:15):
because I'm sure there's exceptions to the rule. Another thing
is bow legs. Okay, the shape of ye can't is
another thing. So there's a lot of cute legs got
open up. It's a lot of things. You gotta watch them.
You have to look aside shoes. Watch yah, so a
size them working. We look at their fingers and if

(10:35):
they're a bow leg, it's gone. It's so yes, So
we're not gonna measure. You gotta look at your mouth
too if you can't. If they're yes, you can't measure.
Of course, here, Laura, you're not gonna imaguine Now she
wants I'm like, I want to see this. Now, what

(10:55):
about if he's not What about if he's a grower
and not a shower, because you know that happens too
sometimes it appears small, but then you know, how can
you You can't really Okay, I'm not supposed to call
a name. Sorry, no, you caught yourself. We got your girl. Interesting.

(11:20):
She's saying, Yeah, it can't. It can't work like that. Yeah,
because those um sometimes it's very deceptive, like it's cold out.
He just he took a cold shower and it's tiny.
But then all of a sudden, he's like, damn, where
that came from? What about circumcision? I like when they're circumcised. Okay,
have you ever had somebody who wasn't? I think not.

(11:43):
I don't know. I don't know. I think so. Now
let me ask you, because the rumor is that you're
making men don't go down? But what about women? Do you? Guys?
Get them do it? But do you say you don't?
You about about everybody? I mean everybody? They do it
and some will say they don't. It's just a true thing. Okay,

(12:04):
you know what I'm saying. But it's just such a
makeun thing when it comes down to oral sex. Everybody
you can't admit it here, Yeah, they can't admit it.
So I said, you can't see that's the thing. It's
not a part of my upbringing, right, so yes, so no,
I don't. It's not a part of my my outbringing

(12:24):
that we know, really if the mind, they're not wanting
to do it, especially they want to do it to
me because they know what my artists they feel like
I might tell everybody. So I'm gonna growing into the lifestyle,
you know. So it's not something that I'm really into
because I wasn't raised that way. Wow. I remember the
first time in Atlanta. I know people said that all
the time, but I remember the first time I come
to Atlanta and the girls and might go to the

(12:45):
strip club. That was like the first time I went
to a trip club. Just recently, like two or three
years ago. Jes, you need to take her out, take
her out. You need to get you a good tung lashing,
you know what. But I have a lot of fantasty though.

(13:05):
Oh yeah, like like what's your fantasy good? Yeah, you
know that's one of my fantasy too, to be tongue down,
real good, okay, with ice cream and a lot of
things racolate, little candles. Yeah, but that's only because you

(13:27):
know what, something you watch blues and see sort of
things and they're like, yeah, that's nice. Them open at
the ear right, I'm like I want to feel Yeah,
that's nice. You know what we're talking about women? How
can men tell if a woman is has good pussy?
Is there any way to tell? Can you look at
our hands? Because you know, so he's got to be like,

(13:50):
how do you know? When you don't know? You don't
it's a straight game. Just go buy a physical but
when you get make it good and make it good
because she's so hot to turn to warm, but in
terms of her interaction, she's what turns up to the
next level her sensuality. Yeah, like what makes good? True

(14:11):
that all pussy feel the same. You can't be They're like, no,
absolutely not. And it's and it's not just the actual vagina,
but it's everything. It's the body, it's the chemistry, it's
the movements, it's the moans and the yeah, even your scent.
Like I know they say about space teat, I have
space tet. They say, when you have space teet, it good. Okay,

(14:41):
what's your feet? What got you in your pet? That
is some keys? Okay? Thank god? Like wait what you now?
All right? Well, thank you guys. I appreciate you for
coming in here, whoever trying to take it? Do you

(15:03):
need to go in the corner ahead. I'm lying, I'm playing,
I'm playing, And he said, go right ahead. He said,
master that print, he said from listen, so I want
to touch it. Dog on its down here too. You're

(15:26):
a circumcice. We know that's real because I see the No, no,
it's it's the leading right like the end of it
is right here. So it's like eight's a big thing
that you can't see the head. The head right there.
You see the little curb and it goes a second.
Let me see. Okay, it's almost because you know it's

(15:49):
his jeans kind of type and it's a little bit. Okay,
I see it. I see that banging on your leg.
You need to do this casting right in Atlanta. So
big up to Molly Um. You know Caucasian girl. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

(16:09):
she's the one that did the caston Molly do all
the case. Let me tell you something. When she did
the cast in this is like I wasn't supposed to
talk about this when I was wat in my bed
to night when she was sending me all those pictures,
How did you choose? Oh my god, I chose the
guy that I used just based on him being dead
and how big and was already already already. I love

(16:32):
how y'all say dead, yeah, when he's dead like it was. Yeah,
it was, but that's a funny way saying, Oh, your
dick is dead. Let me bring that thing in the
life real, let's have a guy in that unchor it
was dead and big. Yeah, that's what she's talking about.
Tape major video like, yeah, it went viral the first
couple of minutes I put it out. And the guys

(16:52):
be so mad about stuff like that, you know, they
all the time, the dish it, but I can't take it.
That's is doing extremely good. My whole album Mantipated, it's
doing good. Alright, Let's talk about what my favorite song
is on there. Was playing that for them before you
came in here. What would you think it is? Clop Top?

(17:16):
I like that song too, but is it crop Top?
I like that, but that's not the favorite. Really, My
favorite song on there is Baker Man, baker Man. Yeah.
My favorite favorite songs some Money, yeah, Baker too. Definitely. Listen.
We always say that like I wish I could create

(17:36):
and I don't think that the guys really understand, Like
for me, I'm dating someone, but it's always just a
little thing. And you're like, I don't know if you've
ever been this puns like you think, could I take
that from my exes? Put it on? I think I
think the women have had that at one point, like
he would be so perfect and he did. I like him,

(17:58):
he's got money, he's he ain't got I think that's
what made me write the song. Like when I was
pinning it, I was like, if I could really just
make a perfect man, how happy we would be. Man,
he'd be like he's great in bed, but he's you know,
lacking something exactly. But if you could put all of
those things together, then sometimes I don't know if you've

(18:20):
ever had like a friend or or maybe like a
best friend, what he's your man or you know, and
you have such a good personality and my best friend
and you wish you had that in your mind. So
it's like it's always something that he'd be like he's ugly,
but he's nice. I know, it's always something were missing.
So I do like that. So you name some things
in that song that would be ingredients. So if you

(18:41):
had to put them in order, right, if you talk
about money, you talk about dick size, you talk about personality,
you talk about you know, let's say, sense of humor, success.
But what order would you put like as far as
what's the most important thing, the most important ingredients to
bake the perfect man. I would start with person nality
first because I'm big on chemistry, and I feel like

(19:05):
if you and him don't have that chemistry, something's gonna
be off. So I first have to feel you. You
gotta I've got to feel like, yeah, I'm a friend
who have the company and ship there. So the personality
is very important because I'm big on energy, So I
go off of that first the personality, and after the personality.
It may sound kind of fuck up, but I would

(19:26):
have to go with it's financial status. For the reason
being is because I have dated in the past where
a guy has less than me. But then it becomes
a problem. I feel like a lot of men are
intimidated by strong women. Are a successful woman. It is
just the truth. So it brings in a lot of
ego into the relationship. It makes them lots feel good
about themselves, and then they treat you a certain ways

(19:48):
or they might feel insecure and then they cheat because
of their own insecurities because everyone tell me about it.
I'm like, you know what, I'm not going to date
and a guy again where you know less than me. Okay,
that's because you had an experience, about the experience before
and after tried. But it's too much. Eagle comes with it,
you know, not every month can be a stronger personality

(20:10):
then financial financial? Um, he got to be god fearing
because I'm a god fearing woman as well. Say that's
been for size yes, okay, because you know, because I'm
so good in the bedroom, I know that if you
can't work, I still can't work with it. You said eight,
like that's really small, So it's been eight is not?

(20:32):
Is every every big eight is? Let me show you guys,
isn't aver like this is six? This is eight right here?
Every is? Like that's what I said. I could work
with the eight. Okay, can you work with three? No? Three?

(20:53):
But if he's god fearing no no? No? The money
a great personality and a nice personality, ain't got and
two more to that? At least that's work with five? Five?

(21:15):
Okay you could work with five. No, you can't work
with five. I wouldn't worked with work with five, I
could work. It's gonna be a lot of tickling, A
lot of ticklings, you know how, and if you tell
him it tickles when he's trying to have Wait, I
want to know what the real averages, the real averages
seven and a half for eight, right, we WoT the

(21:35):
kind out, you know? I think it's a six. I
think six, yeah, because you gotta think it's not just
oh six dead it's so sick. No, no, no standings. Yes,
that's the average in red penis it's six inches. You.
I think it's all cultures too, you know it is six,
right to look. I think six is not bad. I
could do that. I mean, let me tell you something

(21:56):
and see it five once se fi point half, No,
five point one. They're doing that because you know, men
have been very emotional about their side, so they're just
trying to make men feel good. But I think six.
Wait till they started doing pbls, the average between five

(22:19):
and five point five. When I actually when I tweeted
the tape Major song, I think it was Dr Miami.
No it wasn't. She hit me up actually, because I
think I talked about it the Breakfast Club and she
hit me up, like, thank you so much because she
was talking about the work that she does to help
increase the penis side. Okay, yeah, a lot of doctor
was DM in me too, every saying hey can we collab?

(22:40):
I got a solution they can do? You do you
know how many UM authorizations are approved for penis enlargements
because I worked in an insurance company, so there, because
they have to send like the progress notes, they have
to send a pick because you know, you have to
take pictures of it, and Jesus Christ, it was so
interesting because I just I didn't have to look at

(23:00):
all of that. But yeah, that's like metal f is
a mental Yeah, some man is a mental I was kidding.
But some men also other illness can cause them to
not you know, especially old men. Yeah, oh yes, what
about what about testicle size? Does that matter? Oh my god,

(23:22):
I can't. That man in that video testicles was huge.
I mean they had it mets this huge penis though, right,
it's all relative. It had a balance that didn't do
that to him. I mean, I'm thinking when he going
in there, how hard is smacking there? Yeah? But it
feels good. I like the smack. So do you so?

(23:46):
Do you suck it too, do you you're interested in
or that you asked me before you come up with it,
because I mean, that's a difficult thing to suck, don't.
That's why you like big dicks, because everybody knows if
you suck there, don't nobody went to suck something that big.
You know what I mean. I mean it's too much.
It's a lot. You gotta you gotta use your hand

(24:08):
and then only just do the top of it, and
you gotta pretend. Yeah, just put a whole bunch of
spin and go like that while you're on the top,
and go up with it and down that much. I know.
This is what my friend to talk about. Yeah, the
fact some guys tell me that, some guys tell me

(24:29):
they're not really with all that putting it down your throat, Like,
just make sure the heads you suck that right, and
you suck that. That's really where most of the nerving
things are the same as you know with our claturists,
all our nerves, most of our nerving in and around
the claturist, most of the nerve endings, and the male
penis is at the tips. So forget the most pleasure,
I mean, for novelty and ships and giggle. Was a
lot of guys like that. But for real, if you

(24:50):
really make it into it, you really don't have to
go there. I was like, thank god, that's why you
gotta when you're right, and you gotta stay at the top. Yeah,
so your quintus, Yes, but don't go up too high
and then down somebody yourself. Now, last time we talked
about your favorite position. If you recall, now, I gotta
ask you this. So have you done a no? No,

(25:13):
I haven't. That's how you like big dicks? Again, She
don't have no time, She don't have no plans on
trying it either. I tell myself that I'm old school.
My friends and I talked about that all the time.
I said, I guess that's what I'm That's why I'm
single now because I'm so old school. But you are
dating someone. I'm single, but you're you're not dating anybody.
You're not going out on dates. You know. I just

(25:34):
came out of a relationship. I was in a serious relationship, um,
and I just came out of it. So how do
you feel like you feel like a burden is off
of you? Are you still like? How does it feel?
The truth is I because I was in love with him,
but he wanted me to do a lot of changes,
and then I just felt overwhelmed, like he's not accepting

(25:54):
me for me. He didn't like the way home a
dance on stage because you know Jamaican culture with dance
with a man very you know, very kind of sex swell,
and the way I dressed on stage and stuff like that.
He wasn't comfortable with, like a little things that I
had to choose, you know, Michael finish this ego, this
is me met Queen of Dance, says like, you have
to accept me for who I am and I don't
want to work, And then I am, yeah, I don't

(26:15):
want to work, and then I have to argue with you.
Didn't he like to tape measure video? Now some performing
everything went together with him. I couldn't do that video. No, No,
you could have never done none. Did he hit you
up afterwards? Like what he Yeah he was, he's not
liking it at all. Well, it's not up for him
to like. And he's an X, right, he's my Ex's

(26:40):
that like the sole reason really that you guys broke
up just because you don't want to come from my
I mean if you probably do an interview, he's gonna say,
I don't listen, I'm stubborn or whatever. But I've been
doing this all my life for twenty years by myself.
So when you're go into a serious relationship for like
two years and somebody is telling you about wait, you
gotta stop doing this and you got to do that,
then it's going to be a problem. It's a single,

(27:01):
you know what I'm saying. I have my two kids,
this is all my money. I'm bequeen a dance house.
So Nanga can't say, oh wait, I'm a lot of
women do this though, and then then end up getting
the mon can't get up on leave anytime. So because
I said, oh I'm in love, I'm gonna stop wearing
my blue wigs and I'm going to stop dancing like
this on stage, and then the next year and left
me and gone crazy, I feel like you gotta take

(27:24):
me for who I am, you know, and for me.
First of all, you've been doing this for such a
long time. It's hard to believe that your debut album
came out, like when was it last year? Yes? Yes,
that's already hard to believe that you really hit a stride,
you know, and I just feel like this would be
a terrible time for you to be to stop and
to compromise that would be career. Yeah, that's compromised the dream.

(27:47):
Those are the words, because you gotta understand, I've been
fighting for this kind in the business for twenty years.
I spoke about, you know, being in my contract with
you for the past ten years, and I couldn't get
out to my deal with my past record label, being
my own manager, doing everything by myself, taking things into
my own hands, fighting for survival, fighting for my kids,
making sacrifice, leaving my kids behind in Jamaica to come

(28:10):
here in America to hustle and you know, create this
dream life. When I meet you, you can't say, well,
hold up everything that you've worked for, let's kind of rearrange.
It took a bit. It's like meeting I'm not tell
them for change you with him fry the chicken, right.
That was big for you to come from Jamaica like
that and then like to go to Atlanta and then

(28:32):
I'm pretty sure that was everything have helped you. For
some people that doesn't. But I don't feel like bashing
me when I was going on and then I said,
ye know, the queenpop that, but I feel like it
helped to cataport my career. So I was great and
made a wider audience. And I love that they added

(28:52):
you to the cast anyway, because I think that representation
is important, you know, because I'm a big fan of
dance hall and reggae, so you know, I am at
everything and so but for me to see you on there,
I was happy for you. Thank you. So what we're
gonna say about your breakup? No, I was. I was
gonna say, you know, even though everything, it was hard

(29:12):
for me because I did love him. So when you
are put in a position where you have to choose
between love and what you love, it's hard, right because
my career is my everything, it's what I love. But
I can't you know. When I was put in that
position and I made that decision that night, I was like,
you know, it's hard. Wow, So you made that decision.

(29:33):
And when he said it's either that or me, No,
he didn't say that, I kind of said it. There
was a lot of moving parts. You think there's any
going back, Like if he was like, look I miss
you so much, Like do your thing um, Like I said,
I did love him, but we both would have to
change a lot of things. What about him bothered you?
What about him? Yeah, like if you said things bothered him,

(29:57):
that's what bothered. It all comes down to you. I
mean a lot of a a lot of the the things that
bother And I was like, that's nothing like I just
I'm a fun person. I want to be able to
do you know whatever. Just just little things that bothers
him that bothered me. And I was and you know,
he should be celebrating, like the success that you have,
even seeing you a fashion week here in New York.

(30:19):
You did the I was on the concert top. So
I was like a boy the selectible different because they
flowing hard. Was there to us well and turn it
up and showed them. So listen, met queen. Now made
in at the club. This is what we do period.
I kind of party with you because you know, Laura
be going crazy. Now I got nervous, Like are you

(30:41):
want to go and stay? I said, When I did
jumped up flip, I was like, wait, never mind, I
just back here, my angela. I do year. Mr Killer
performed and I told Laura, I said, when he up
a song with him, I mean if I spoke a song.
I can't wait listen and I can't wait to perform
on stage with him because you annoy you all too together.
He is a top For the two of you together,

(31:01):
It's gonna be crazy. I can see it. I'm putting
in my plug now when you have a perform here,
I'm going on stage. But before all the professionals on stage,
let me go first. She got I was like, I
got to get up here with Mr. Killer and she
was like she's seen. She's like, nah, the girl had
them crazy little slits. I was like, I used to

(31:23):
be able to do this getting some time ago, but
now can I just want on you real quick, you know,
going back on you real quick? Anything anything ever too
much for you? Like has it ever been a situation
where you've been performing and you're like, okay, that's just
like because you know, like you said, it is very
um physical, But has anybody ever taken it too far?

(31:43):
Um a lot of times because even when I perform,
I jump in the crowd, I dump in the audience
and go dance with my you know, best is in
the stay in front of the stage, but sometimes I
go there the monday, my grab you there but I
mean it's taking it too far. But I never turn
around and snap anybody. I call them with the mic
even when I feel it because I know, I know that,

(32:07):
you know, every month I have that little crush there
on me. Sometimes you get them calling myna like yeah,
but if I took it too far, I'm stopping at
the audience. Everybody know what to box because even when
I go in to the audience, girls that try wine
pump into life everybody. So but your artists, so you
have funds that their dream is to they come to

(32:27):
your show. I want Spice to call me on stage.
When you call somebody, I'm going up. So people do that,
you know, so I don't want to. It's gonna get
Spice to come to the club to rain right in
Atlanta and do something. I mean, I think that would
be amazing because that is a professional train dancer. But
get on that pole to exotic entertainer. I didn't know

(32:54):
that you have forgot teach me. If you've ever seen
p Valley, a lot of that is fashioned after her.
Really yeah, yeah, I feel like you know a little one.
Not only with my song Clop Clop, I'm actually I'm
planning to do a promotion in the strip clubs, you know,
face a Magic City. Really, yeah, I said, were you

(33:18):
coming back to live there? Oh? You do? So about video? No,
I'm serious videos where we going? Now, let's know about
the song right, same mouth, because you know, I felt
like she's been a lot of ship where people that

(33:39):
you thought was cool with you have, you know, talk ship,
and so let's talk about that song a little bit
because I feel like, you know, it comes up for
you a lot where you've been deceived by people who
you thought were close to you, people that same mouth,
where people be you know, same um for me um.
I just feel like you gotta be careful off people's mouths.

(34:02):
Like you will have friends that literally will tell you
that them love you, what they will be the same
one that will betray you and your friends and even
your lover. You know, anybody will come and say oh
I love you so much at this and that, and
by the time you turn your back, they're the same
one that's say that bitch. So it's it's always just
the same mouth. So when I was writing that song,

(34:23):
I got a little emotional too, because I've been through
so many betrayals with people that have helped the most
and done so much too. And Yeah, I kept singing
that song when I wrote it that day, the same
mode say yes that, the same modes and no, same
mode say that the same mode. You know, It's like
the words are just so powerful in that song. I
think we all can relate to that. Yeah, having people
that we all have, you know people, and it is

(34:47):
really always the people you help the most. And that's
always the people that you love sometimes the most, but
people who it's the ones you love that will hurt you.
Because if you don't love someone and you don't really
care about them, they can't care. It's always the one
you love that hurts you. So that's why I said
the same mount are you forgiving? Like, if somebody's like
that's my that's my hardest thing to forgive. I pray

(35:10):
about it a lot, but I can't seem to get
to that place where I'm easily forgiving if somebody's like
I was, and I know, so you know, when you
know what your fault is, My fault is forgiving. I'm
hard to forgive, and I think it comes from me
being who I am. So if i'm your friend, I'm
a writer, I'm a straight up right. I want to
love you, like genuinely, so if you do something to me,

(35:33):
I feel like, why would you do that? I never
do that to you, So it's hard for me. But
I feel like over the years, as I tried to think,
everybody's not me, everybody's not like me, everybody's not gonna
give the same reaction, and that's what I use sometimes
to try to get over it. But me just feel
like people they're adults, then it mustn't be where you're

(35:54):
gonna betrayed me and didn't come say sorry because you
know exactly what you were doing. And you know, Spice
a lot of times, IMA seely publicly you're having a
good time, your the life of the party, but I
know you go through things like in social media all
the time. And then I remember when I was talking
to Shaggy, he used to tell me about being vocal
and too open and too emotional, because I'm very emotional.

(36:16):
If I go on my phone right now, something somebody said,
so for me, I won't go alive. I said, first
of all, you're too big. You don't need to do that.
I'm not I'm not big, I'm small. But he tried
to coach me into not being so emotional and to
realize that everybody go through their own little things in
their unique way. Has been through so many things in

(36:39):
this business that I've never heard about. And when he's
telling me, I'm like, wait what and you keep that
me couldn't do that. We never talkt about it, and
so you know, I think that's something that I have
to learn, but I don't think i'll ever learn it.
It's hard to be quiet, but you know what, you
kind of sometimes and area where everybody knows you, you
kind of have to for your own peace to just

(37:01):
be like that's that's the word, the peace. I can't sleep.
I remember one time I went on Live late in
the night. I was trying to go to bed, and
it's writing me, writing me, I'm like that I let
it out and then you feel better after you let
it better. Okay, try about it. Yeah, you worrying about it?

(37:22):
And I checked. And I always like in situations, I
always look at myself like, Okay, what can you learn
from this experience or why do you think it happened?
Or what did you do for it to lead up
to that? Because sometimes people hurt you because they're hurt.
So sometimes I try to look at that as well,
like I know, I didn't do nothing to deserve me.
And some of those people that hurt you that they

(37:43):
truly do love you, but they're so hurt inside themselves
that they don't know how to navigate, you know, or
they never experienced love, you know, to know the right
way to love a person. And I'm talking about family, friends,
even men, you know. Sometimes so that's like I'm too
figurt and I'm not gonna st forgiving. Yeah, I always
feel like if you hurt you more than exactly, I

(38:08):
look at it like God, at the end of the day,
I feel like I know how I am, and so
I know it takes a lot for me to get
to the point where I don't sunk with you. But
I know once I get to that, Yes, what month
are you or you don't believe January, I'm the cap
I'm very stubborn, but I also I'm super nice. They're
like very generous and very nice. You have to be
really fucked up for me to not work with you, right,

(38:29):
you know. And then but once I get there, it's
really kind of no going back, going back. Yeah, you
just don't exist and the way that I am. I'm
not gonna be with you. I'm not I'm just you
just don't exist to me. I'm doing something of me
vix as my friend name. I don't know, but I'm
working on it. But I'm trying. But in the road
for you in my head and okay, liked three is

(38:53):
I'm used. I'm a no nonsense type a person. I'm
getting there because I had to for my sanity, because
it's like you said, I wouldn't be able to sleep
just thinking like what what like what went wrong? But
now it's like it's easier for me. There's a lot
of toxic friendships I had that used to treat me
like crap. I love this so much, but it got

(39:15):
some point where any people like you know, Angel will
talk to me. And I have good friends that you
know really so like, come on, Laura, like enough, being
nice is one thing and forgiven, but right so like
I slowly has been have been able to like and
it feels better because it feels like a weight off
your shoulder, like I don't have to deal with anybody
I don't want. How intimidating is it now for a

(39:37):
guy to talk to you knowing that his did got
to be big, you know, because like I think it's
very intimidating. It's good for me because if you are
not packing it just you're not gonna You're not gonna
waste my time time. But I like it. Like what
if the guy said to you, look, I really like you. Now,
I know you, you know, but I'm only five inches.

(40:00):
I just got completely but I'll lift you up over
my face. I mean, it depends on his personality and
who you know, ain't gonna give you that with green fantasy.
But perfect money. God fair to have money. And let's

(40:22):
talk about takes care of his kids, if you children,
and the relationship with his mom, the relationship with his
mom and not every relationship with his mom. But listen
how he talks about his ex girlfriend. A lot of
times we asked women we get out of him saying,
oh that bit she did she that that That is
the same thing he's gonna do with you. That tells
who he is. A guy that caused women bitches, Right,

(40:45):
So if you have a deer toime of mine, I
name my dogs, next girl, he's gonna do the same
thing to you. That's just his personality. So a lot
of us get to kick out of when he's doing
a certain girl a certain way. But no, I mean
not made that mistake that two times. Let us do
that with our friends like that. I know one way

(41:05):
I talk. Next girl, are they don't have you know that?
Are you okay with getting your pussy eating? Yes? Absolutely right? No, right, no,
it's because I just told you it's a fantasy of mine.
But somebody it happens because you said that I've seen
it before. Because you just say it's happened, it real
like tone lift me on? Yes, okay, and what about

(41:33):
your ass eating and everything to you know, go to
ospot there, don't ask I think overrated orated? Oh you've
had it before, yeah, I think it's overrated money yes
absolutely yeah, but if you mean that's normal. So when

(42:00):
you're having it, you don't feel to fart know, I'm
luck what it feels like. It don't feel as good
as people make it seem. That's why I said it's overrated.
And it wasn't like your personal money. You want him
kiss you up after like or it's just a flirt

(42:22):
and then that's it. I can't ask my personal mine.
I've had it happen in both scenarios where it was
just like a fling and I was like, not kissing me.
But I've also had it happened with my man and
I definitely went in the freaky botty. I trust my
all wartstuff it at all times of the day. What
about a finger, and that's like having sex. No one's

(42:42):
ever trying a girl in my ass. You said, well,
I would prefer a man to put his thumb in
my ass over his tongue in my bowling. I'm going
to get a better sensation out of him using his
thumb the bowling ball, because you know how you put
you hold the bowling ball with your That's why I

(43:05):
never seen girls because I'm looking because I told my friend,
I said, to be there all the time. We know
of the mind because their money, the girls, they do
the things them, these are the things that tried that with.
No one's ever tried to put their mean I've not
been in our latter relationship, to be honest, I've no.
I've not had a lot of you know, sexual things,

(43:27):
experience experiences. I'm not experienced, you know when it comes out. Boyfriend,
one of my ex boyfriend, he brought it up there
and I was like, yeah, yeah, but I said, first
of all, actually it was my sister who had made
me realize. And I thought about it, and I was like,
she's right. I've been coming to America for almost twenty
years and my ex boyfriend that I broke up with,

(43:49):
he was from Philly and big, and he was like
the first man ever did in the entire America from Philly.
Like for the past twenty years, I've been coming here
and doing shows and meeting how many people and promoters.
I'm a very cocky and ipan classic like metals, fisty

(44:11):
and like course people. I don't feel like I don't go.
You know, he's the first relationship and the first man
I've ever had sex with in the entire America for
the past twenty years. Remember the first time you ever
had an orgasm? Of course? Yeah? Um was it from intercourse?

(44:31):
I would say so yeah, you would say so yeah, okay, yeah,
but I've I've had multiple orgasm before. He used to
take me there, he takes me to a place. On
the next I won, Next Guy, Secret guy. He said,
he takes me TOI he takes me, takes me to

(44:53):
a place, ma'am. He's thinking about it right now now?
Was it taboo to masturbate for you? Like growing up?
You know, like to play with yourself? Was that ever issue? So?
I used to play with myself, but when I got
older and I found out what comes with it? I stopped?
What comes with it? Yeah? Crazy? Yeah? What is there?

(45:14):
You know, when you masturbate, you're having sex with sex demon?
Like you know, really I never heard that. Put it
up on your phone. It's a it's a it's a
sex demon called both and zucabos. So you have a
male sex demon and a female sex demon. So when
you masturbate, you're having sex with a male sex demon

(45:36):
and it also will be in a relationship with you
and cause problem in your actual relationship. Demon masturbation problem.
But don't masturbate a lot and masturbation. It's sex demons,
its satan and sex. I think you can find anything
you want to find on the internet, though, because we

(45:56):
can find the exact after nobody. If you google and
say about a sex angel, well I read upon it's
a lot, So I think gonna reader read it's called
incubus and zuckerble sorrow something like. Interested in this now?
I got seen some incubus and subus porn suckers. Yeah,
it's a sex demon that really literally will have sex
with you, fall in love with you, everything, and it

(46:17):
will mash up your relationship. So when your mom have
sex with you, it causes uh, jealousy, really open and
your money and gets along and stuff like that. You know,
because you're not I'm supposed to do so your master.
So I ain't got to my boyfriend spend a lot
of time apart because I triedl for work, he to work,

(46:37):
So we don't really get to see each other as
much as we should. And I've massed debate a lot,
like thinking about my love adop have sex with forgetting
about the interview, it's saying it's superstitious, and they said
they there's a rather juicy description of a woman masturbating
and song of songs in the Bible. She does not

(46:58):
get into each other for it, they said, as the
person who told you that to provide book, chapter and verse.
If they can't do it, call him a Pharisee's going
to masurvate. It's fine, No, I'm not doing this because
I'm interested in now. I do know that, like I
guess because I haven't been in a relationship in a minute,
like after masturbating, going to my single after I thought

(47:21):
it was because the same thing, because I'm not as
sexually experienced as I would like to be. And I
feel like because I don't do certain things like you said,
like I'm like, no, I don't do that, and my
friends you said you suck and not I suck, but
I don't. She suck. You don't suck, but I ain't
doing it. Like if I gotta do what, I ain't

(47:42):
going to do it I want to do. I can't
do it sexually in the relationship. If you're not doing
oral sex, there's so many other things you can do,
suspiceep the relationship. You can't have sex with your man,
like you have a change up the lifestyle. Instead of
having sex on the bed, you have sex under the bed.
I have sexing out the tree under that. I think
she did that, you know, but I do like even

(48:06):
being on the show, I've learned so much. I've learned
so many things, you know that I can't wait to
find the right the one that I want to go
ahead and start having these experiences with. But my friends
do tell me that they're like girl you're gonna be
single forever. You don't know what. That's why you ain't
got a math And I'm like, what, but now, what
if you're dating somebody it's a long distance relations you're

(48:28):
on the road all the time. You can't get on
FaceTime and masturbate. I don't know, it's not together. What
if he masturbates on like while he's talking to you,
is that okay? Or is that a demon for him
to it's a demon for him too. But I mean,
it's not something that I like. It doesn't I'm not
fond of that. I feel like it's all about being
able to not want to have sex when you're not

(48:50):
there is important because that will also lead them to
straight Because a long dame, I go visit Anni Palma
one day, them I'm gonna get fun up on wanting
the real things. So if they're not able to have
self control, it's a big thing for me. So if
I leave you like a week or two weeks and
you're acting like, oh, let's masturbate over the phone, you
have that urge, but a huge what you masturbate on

(49:12):
the phone with you? This is me. You gotta wait
for me, you know you wanting to do all of that.
You're gonna it's gonna lead you one day you're gonna
want to have sex with a girl. So yeah, that
self control they do. We need to stop doing that
with your man. So he waits for you, girl camera.

(49:35):
Do you fall asleep after sex? Like? Are you exhausted?
Are you more energized? No, I'm more energized energy. But
he falls asleep. I feel like that too. Guys be
passed out afterward and I feel like me, I want
to get up and clean the house. Me. That's me,
that's all me. Yeah, why is that? I don't know,
something wrong with us? It depends the night though. At night, right,

(50:00):
But do you think it's a good amount of times
to have sex a week, like in a relationship? Oh? Baby,
that's our next problem with much of my relationship because
I don't like a lot of sex for the week.
I don't know if it's because I'm so exhausted. Sometimes
you work, always working. I work a lot, but sometimes
he wants and I'm like, we just did it. So
that's also a problem for me too. I feel like

(50:22):
two times three a week, Yes, I mean if you
want every day, if you're traveling, a lot, and you
already don't want him masturbating him. You better give him
that pussy every day. And that's what he said, he
ever watches this, he gonna club. Yeah, if you're working

(50:43):
anything you're doing, he deserves it every day. I know
it's hard for my name big every big. Yeah, it
doesn't do you feel like when you haven't had sex
with him for a while because you've been on the
road and then you come back that it's like snap
back and you gotta stretch it back out. You know

(51:03):
how a guy can tell what happens is when you
have When we have sex, then it becomes like tender.
So it's like, I feel like I need to cool
it down a little bit because I have a song
called cool Dumb, Like you don't want to wait, you
want to go back into the same tender feeling that
I'm having. There's a pleasure for you now not Yeah,

(51:24):
we sacrifices together. Yeah, we make sacrifices sometimes, Like I
might not feel like having sex, but you know you're
like okay, and then I'll get in the mood for it.
Just in my head, I don't want to do it.
But then once we start, because guys have to learn
how to do that too, Like, don't just try to
have sex. You gotta yeah, yeah, you gotta make want.
It's like you trying to ram it in and you're

(51:45):
trying to spit no, maybe trying to like yeah, I
don't like that either, Yes, play with it if you
correct them to see that's lazy that you gotta get
it wet on you. You don't want, no man spit
by me? Yeah what ye broken off? But I'm not

(52:09):
gonna laugh. A lot of things, I'm like, I've stopped, Like, baby,
just stop, it's not there, like it's not happening, Like
I can't you've done that? Yes this baby stop. It's
not like you because it's like, you know, I don't
want to. But I'm like, okay, let's just go. But
then after a while and it's just I'm like, okay,
I'm just a lot of men, get the point turn
us on a lot of men they don't know when

(52:32):
they come to you to have sex, you just got
to be ready. They don't know how to touch you.
And a lot of you know what I hate sometimes
when a man is probably coming on and you're like no,
stop and he stopped. Nigga yeah, you know what I mean?
Do do more? Like? No, but I'm telling you, yes,

(52:53):
keep going and you don't play with me? Are you
sure you don't want this? Dude? Didn't want it? You
know what? I love when i'm n knows you're about
to come and heat, like when they know. Some men can't,
you know, but when they know, like you're about to come,
and then they just do something too. I'm like, oh
my god, I'll switch up the rhythm when i'm yes,

(53:15):
just made me squirts and it's once never squared it.
You never squirt it? What about yes? Oh but you
know what a tr two? Yes? Your square in spice?
Not yet? Okay, huh so we're here together, okay, but
you know what. Hearing all of this and watching your performance,

(53:38):
a lot of people, a lot of people think that advertise,
if you she like I have sex, she's a sex maniac,
not a sex maniac. But I wouldn't say that, but
we would think that you're very like you would when
with your man have sex every day? You know that.
How can that guy talk to you now if he

(53:59):
wants to approach you, like, what's the best way to
get your attention? Well? See, that's another thing to a
lot of guys that's trying to get my attention. They
go big and they're trying to have that big is good,
you know, big meaning that ego thing like spicy me
for air Day. And I got like, I don't look
out for that. If I go into the room and
all the guys they're doing a lot and they're acting up,

(54:19):
I'm going to look for the quiet one that's not talking.
We like that cool, he's used to quiet, that's the
confident one. What about other artists, like a lot of
I've never dated an artist before. Do they try? Though?
A lot of times like, yeah, why do you think
you haven't? I think so. I've been in the business
since I was about fifteen years old, and you know

(54:40):
I've always been with like artists, guys promoting, performing and
stuff like that. So I think become a new artist
day and they always wanna have multiple girls. I mean,
you know that's something I don't want to date an
artists because not that every artist cheats and every artists
have multiple women, but I feel like it's a lifestyle
that goes with them that I'm not happy to be

(55:02):
a part of. Okay, I completely understand it, right, and
then they'll probably be well. They either it could go
one of two ways. They're either more understanding of what
it is that you do when you perform, or they
don't like it. They don't like it. And yeah, and guys,
but I've never dated an artist before. If you send
a guy artist and he was doing what you do
on stage, did you have a problem with it? No,

(55:25):
because you understand, because I understand it's entertainment. Okay, fair enough,
But Spice, I know you have It is New York
Fashion Week. I know you are out and about and
they said that you had a limited amount of time
and they're telling me that you have to go. But
you know, we love you, Thank you, thank you you.
Mantipated to this. The name of the album is out.
No keep streaming buying support. You know it went number one,

(55:47):
but I want to keep it up there and so
keep buying the montipated. What happened me? And next time
she's gonna have done some of these things that she
says he doesn't do. You abrout me. You're gonna I'm
gonna take you to club range out to my guys
that rain I'm bringing Spicy. We're saying it now we're
bringing it. We're bringing it. We're gonna college jumping off

(56:08):
that rain Atlanta. Say they're gonna measure the dick, you'll
get a free lag. Yes, but if it's more than
two thirty millimeter, if you're wanting dynamim cent, do you

(56:30):
need a big road long like? Yeah, look at the number,
it's the average right here, guys, that's close with the number.
I'm closing with nine. Okay, yours is nine? Is that's
the perfect size? Yeah, let's close with a number. Oh
my god, I'm gonna go with eight. I'm gonna care

(56:53):
for what you asked for because you said you're ok
want that, but I can do it. I'm going with nine.
What you close well with seven and a half. I'll
go to eight and a half. But you gotta be gentle.
You just gotta you can't just ram love. Go with nine.
I'll go with seven. Okay, what are you going with?
I'm going with eight? Okay, Yeah, guys, we don't have

(57:13):
so many big pigs. Good takes big pigs. That's about
to come to our m Remember pretty dick swag at Gmail,
want to pick your bedroom, takes out and sending y'all
big pigs. If we see any nice ones before it
to you, all right, but they gotta be at least

(57:33):
nine yeah, okay, guys, gotta be above seven and a half. No, Smegma,
no dried up skin or nothing like that. Smell good.
People wash gold on the balls, y'all so off, she
made her face like she could smell it. All right,
thank you, s