Episode 424: Love Bombed (Feat. Alexis Texas & Jessica Dime)

Pornstar, Alexis Texas & rapper, Jessica Dime join the ladies of Lip Service this week and things get wild! Alexis Texas demonstrates how to perform oral while standing, gives some bedroom tips, meanwhile Jessica Dimes hilariously breaks down why she's scared to open the backdoor...Enjoy! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's Up's lip service? I'm Angela Yee, I'm Jiji.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Maguire, I'm Stephanie Santiago. You guys got to jump in.
I already know where I am. Jessicada, I'm checking in.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
I'm Alexis Texas baby.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
All right, this is going to be a fun episode.
I already could tell today just by the de vice
from everybody, but Jessica dime. First of all, this is
your first time doing lif service. Yeah yeah, And you
have a new show called The Mint I do yes?

Speaker 2 (00:28):
And what episode is it up to? Seven? Episode seven?
That's the one that's like everybody was waiting now all.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Right, But I feel like people know you from King
of Diamonds, but then they also know you from love
and hip Hop and then Marriage Book him a lot
of different things, and now you have your own show.
So congratulations, thank you, thank you. We'd love to see it. Yes,
Alexis Texas, welcome.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
Thank you for having me.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
A lot of people were very excited when we told
them that you were going to be up here.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
A lot of.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Guys I could see I know why.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
I know you have a lot of accolades. I do.

Speaker 4 (01:03):
I do have a lot of ass a lot of
people like a lot of things. But yes, I appreciate
you having me on. I'm a fan of your show.
I feel like there's a lot of fun things that
we can talk about that I'm excited too.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
And you have your own podcast to private talk private talk. Yes,
all right, so congratulations on that.

Speaker 5 (01:19):
Yea.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
Like everybody's an entrepreneur, you know, and I think that's
important for us to get into. But first of all,
I was asking GG a question when we were downstairs
and we were like, we'll talk about it on the show.
And I said to Gg, because GG has a daughter
who is a.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Little grown up.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
You know, we still look at her as a little girl.
I can't help it, that's your daughter. I'm still look
at her as a little girl.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
She's grown. But how did she know she'll be twenty
seven in a couple of days.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Right, I think we've known her since she was like,
you know, a little baby girl. But anyway, I was like,
would you be upset if she had an only fans?

Speaker 2 (01:54):
And was?

Speaker 1 (01:55):
You know, because while everybody has them, it's different when
it's your daughter.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Well what's your thought? So I had to think about
it because you know, I have one and I also
think about what my content is like, and there's no
porn because I've never been a porn star. I continue
to stay in my lane of just giving my sexy,
so everybody knows me as being an exotic entertainer. So that's,

(02:21):
you know, how I became popular, and so I still
give that on my only fans. However, this reminds me
of when years ago I did a documentary and I
was asked, would I will let my daughter strip? Because
I feel like I do things so that she doesn't
have to, like, let me take this role and let

(02:42):
me go through the struggle so that I can make
your life easier.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
But what if she wants to, because sometimes people do
it just because right.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
So on a personal level with my daughter, she's just
not that girl. Like my daughter is very tomboyish, and
she's very artsy, and she doesn't she's like hoodies and
hats and and you know, the most she gonna do
is is crop her top and show her stomach. Like
she's not like into heels and make up and like
the whole sexy you know thing. So she's not that
type of girl. But I also have nieces. One of

(03:10):
my nieces shout out to Ivy. She works at Cheetah
in Atlanta, r Ping Pony in Atlanta. So she's, you know,
in the life. If she wanted to start the only fans,
I would help her right the same way I helped
her to start dancing. You know, she wanted to dance,
and she wanted to dance like right after the pandemic.
And we're from Philly and the money is better in Atlanta.

(03:31):
So when she told me she wanted to dance right
after the pandemic up in Philly, I'm like, no, girl, now,
if you want to do it right, to live with me,
and I'll help you with these Gigi jewels. I'm gonna
drop them all over you. And she was able to
succeed and become, you know, a top girl in her
club and she's, you know, living her best little stripper
life right now. I don't know if that's a yes
or no answer, but.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
No, I can't circumstantial Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
Yeah, it's like if she wanted to do I think
that you don't think he would straight her away, but
you would give her the right thing to do it,
I think.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
But if it's not there, then might push.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Up one thing that and Jessic, I'm sure you both
can relate to is that when we are in the
adult nightlife, in the entertainment industry, when it comes to
the adult side of things and the rated R to
rad it X side of things, we could judge for that.
And it's like, we all have our own stories. We
all have our own reasons why we chose this path.
We all have our own reasons why we chose the

(04:23):
sex industry versus being a nurse or being a bank teller.
You know, we all have our own reasons for doing
what we do, although you could do both, because there's
definitely sat Yeah, But my point is that, you know,
I was always judged for my choices, and I would
never judge someone for theirs because I know how that

(04:45):
feels right right. You know, I was a nineteen year
old homeless mother of a two year old when I
decided to start dancing, so I kind of didn't have
a choice. I was a double convicted felon at nineteen.
There wasn't a lot of job options for me, so
I did what I had to do to make sure
that she never had to go down that path. Now.
But again with my nieces, you know, they are like

(05:05):
my kids and I'm stand beside them and justs a
good time.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Your show the men, it's actually about women who are
trying to get out of the club, correct, right, And
they have talent.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah I got some that wraps some they're saying that
some it's even when they could draw.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
They want they have businesses.

Speaker 5 (05:23):
Some of them sell like hair clothing, and they have
more like they want to build up their talent, like
they want to do more.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
I see it in them.

Speaker 5 (05:33):
But it's like certain things they do in certain ways
they move. I feel like I wish somebody would have
told me or put me to the side and.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Let me know a little game, dropped a few jewels.
I mean, like you said, jug jewels, you know, and
just put me up on stuff. You know.

Speaker 5 (05:47):
I guess when we was kind of come well, you
know with the King of Diamonds era, with me coming up,
it was like a competition type thing. Nobody was really
trying to help nobody or put nobody up on nothing.
Then when we started getting into wrapping up, they're like, oh,
these mere just trying to step.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
They are.

Speaker 5 (06:04):
So it's kind of like with the I want to
do it where I want to help you do it
because I have been there, Like I've been at the
help yeah, and I've been at the decision making time
where it's like flow, like you're gonna sign your record
deal or you're gonna keep dancing.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
You gotta piek because you're sign right up. Yeah, So
I had to peak one.

Speaker 5 (06:23):
So it was like I had to just step out
on it and and figure it out. But I'm here
with the girls to try to help them figure it out.
And whatever they go on to do sign record deals,
do deals or whatever.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
I'm proud of them. I want them to do that
cause it's gonna be a transition period.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
I don't want people to think just because they get
on the men you automatically at the club.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
No, I'm just the work. Yeah, And I make a.

Speaker 5 (06:48):
Lot of money work dancing in the club. So they
got to be able to live their same lifestyle and
be comfortable.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
But listen, sometimes you do got to take some steps
backwards financially in order to Yeah, and that's the fact
you may not make that money you was making at
the club.

Speaker 5 (07:02):
Might not, but you're gonna be so much more. It's
not really some girls like dancing. Some girls enjoy it.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
There was a girl in the audition who was like,
I don't want to stop. Yeah, And I'm like, and you're, well, yeah,
that's not here.

Speaker 6 (07:17):
A little bit of the time that I was a
stripper was like the best time in my life. I
had a great time in a stripper, But I got
a sas stripper.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
I feel bad.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
But it's like it's like doing it every night back
to bed, and it's not the same anymore.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
No, let me tell you something. And I know I've
said this before, but is the Michael one. If the
money was still the same back in my day, if
the money was still the same when I went back
to Atlanta in twenty nineteen, I might have went back
to the club in twenty nineteen, right.

Speaker 4 (07:43):
But that's why I think hustling now it is just differently,
not like with only fans. I feel like there's so
many different avenues where there's not just porn. There could
be just pretty girls. There's people that are just doing
the same thing as ig but something reported from it.
So it's like to me, it's like, make your money.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Well, Alexis, Alexis, Texas is here. Let me ask you this.
Did you have any guidance for many women who might
have took you under their wing, because for you, you
started when.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
You were twenty one.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
I wh when I was twenty one.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah, and the porn industry and you were just discovered.
You were working at a restaurant.

Speaker 4 (08:09):
I was at a bar in a college town I
was going to and there was this a company called
Shane's World, which was the first reality type porn that
they were looking for girls to do scenes that had
never done them before. So it was like it was
kind of the prodigy of that movie or whatever. They
didn't really I just kind of hit it off really
well with the guy, and I was like, I could
make a lot of money. I would have probably had

(08:29):
sex with up anyways, and yeah, it was all it.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
So for me, I never thought I would do it
ever again.

Speaker 4 (08:36):
It was one of those things that that time too,
you know, internet porn wasn't a really big thing, so
it was like finding a needle in a hate stack.
But with me, I had so much fun that they
flew me out to Miami to do Bangros and I
had a great time. And I loved the attention, the glitz,
the glory, and the you know, just the actual Like
I like sex and to me, a sex is kind

(08:57):
of a form of art. So I was in a
safe space. People are tested, you have dues and don'ts
that you don't want to do, So it's a really
safe space to be in to kind of let my
twenties go wild.

Speaker 1 (09:07):
But did any women take you under their wing and
like give you some guidance, like this is what you
should do, this is what you shouldn't do. Let me
help you get to the money the best way.

Speaker 4 (09:15):
So just how you said, like in the strip club
is very competitive, the industry was just very competitive too,
so a lot of people didn't want to want to
give you gems. But I was fortunate enough to, like
I have people like Bella Donna who are big names
in the industry that kind of took a liking to
me and kind of not necessarily told me exactly what
to do, but to kind of watch out for. And
then I just kind of figured it out on my own. Yeah,
nobody really was kind of giving me any jewels of

(09:36):
any sorts, but I've made my own.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
And one thing about her, she has a famous ass.
That's one thing that they always say.

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Everything's bigger and taxos.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
This is this girl be saying it's true.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Please but no, I like it. But I like NI too.
Was in the jumping situation so bad jump and said
I can't wait till the next episode. There was too much.
I can't wait to these mics. Turns ever, get some
more tea from.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
People and people can catch up on the previous episodes too.

Speaker 2 (10:07):
They just thinking the subscription, Yeah, on now that's TV.

Speaker 5 (10:10):
The show is on. Now, this TV, you subscribe. It's
just like it's a guilty pleasure for me. Even before
I got a show on there, I used to still
like look at the shows, okay, and I was like, oh,
it's a lie, I'm watching it.

Speaker 6 (10:25):
I've actually had a subscription to that and not worked
for like a year because it's a guilty project.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
Yes you like what and though it's really good. So
I was just like just part and then it's a
black own network, you know. I like to like deal
with people and just like be like beat there in
the beginning and just like see things grow and I
just see where it's going.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Now. This TV is like hot.

Speaker 5 (10:52):
Everybody like watching it talking about it. Everybody's on there,
and there's like different kinds of shows that you've never
seen before.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
So watching your show, the girls shout out season one
a lot like like that, they say, yeah, are there
more seasons to come? Would you do it again? I
would do a lot differently, but I would do it again.
I would change. I would change so much. It's a

(11:20):
learning experience though, when you do thirteen girls and.

Speaker 5 (11:24):
Thirteen girls, I would change, Like some of the challenges,
I would make it even harder, Okay, I would make
it even harder. I would get more people like you,
other people to come in and kind of help me,
help with you know, give them a little game, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (11:39):
Like I would, I would give me a girl. You know,
I'm always down. I gotta yeah because I'm gonna need
some and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
Angel and alexis what made you decide to start a podcast?

Speaker 3 (11:53):
I was. I wanted to people to hear my voice.

Speaker 4 (11:55):
I feel like, you know, so much of my work
is like my image and when people perceive me to
be but don't know anything about me. And I feel
like it was a good platform that I wasn't you know, censored.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
I wasn't this, I wasn't that.

Speaker 4 (12:06):
So it gave me really a good chance to kind
of really connect with my fan base and also become
vulnerable along the way to see a different side of
me that I haven't really kind of showcased before.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
And you were also married for a period of time.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
Unfortunately, I was.

Speaker 1 (12:21):
Okay, I was going to say, so, what what made
you decide to even like, did you feel like did
you really believe you were in love at the time
or was it for others? Sometimes people get married for
stability purposes.

Speaker 4 (12:36):
It was I was definitely in love with the person,
but I think the person I think marriage changed until
like an ownership type thing afterwards, and I think it
was just difference of communications and insecurities and a lot
of things that that I didn't really see or want.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
To see prior to being married.

Speaker 4 (12:54):
So it just it was a toxic environment that I
kind of just chose me first and had to get out.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
How hard was it to get out?

Speaker 1 (13:00):
I keep hearing right now, a lot of people that
know are getting divorced unfortunately, and for some people it
is really really difficult, especially when one person doesn't want
to do it or make it easy for you.

Speaker 4 (13:10):
For sure, Definitely, I will say, even though it's my decision,
it was one of the hardest things I've ever had
to go through, even though, like I said, it was
my choice and my well being because I did love
this person and I only wanted to be married once,
and I do believe in marriage. I just married to
the wrong person and then unwinding people's lives and financials and.

Speaker 3 (13:26):
Things like that. So it definitely took a toll on
those things.

Speaker 4 (13:29):
But I feel like staying true in like your path
and just knowing what my message was at the end
that I wanted, you know, safety, security and just the
peace of mind that I was doing the right thing.

Speaker 3 (13:39):
But it was definitely not easy. And I think up until.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
Just recently have I really dealt with all like the
trauma from it, because you like kind of just push
it to side of a divorced for almost eight years,
nine years, but just recently you've done yeah, because I
feel like at the pandemic kind of like all gave
us the time to sit down and kind of deal
with our problems. When I was just like I was
always on work mode that I just kind of pushed
every thing to the side, and then I just started
to recognize patterns of how I chose men that I

(14:04):
was dating and things like that. That kind of related
to why I chose my husband or ex husband at
the time. So just kind of refocusing on myself and
figuring out what I really wanted from a partner and
in life and things like that. I really kind of
made me get over that completely.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
Wow, were doing poorn? Where you were?

Speaker 6 (14:22):
Mayri?

Speaker 3 (14:23):
I was he was important as well.

Speaker 5 (14:24):
Oh so ye'ah. Did y'all always do it together or
did y'all do it with different people?

Speaker 2 (14:28):
Why? I was mad?

Speaker 3 (14:29):
Yes we did, But there you go.

Speaker 4 (14:31):
For me, I don't think porn was ever our our
problem because we were really good at communicating in that
part about what we liked.

Speaker 6 (14:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
Yeah, well there's I stopped and boundaries that you guys
had said we did, and that's why he was already
established prior to me and then so me coming into it,
I kind of was a sounding ground to ask questions
and stuff like that. But we were very vocal about
what we wanted and liked and didn't like. But there
wasn't also a lot of a lot of rules, because
I feel like that's kind of inhibits what you really
want to do either. So it's kind of like it

(15:01):
was aligned in a lot of ways. I think at
home was the mora of the issues of how I
became Alexis Texas, and nobody knew how big that was
going to really be, and how that his ego and
how that makes you feel, and all those things kind
of planned to you know, plan.

Speaker 3 (15:16):
I'm just like, I'm just doing me. I'm just church
very cool. We were married for three years, together for five.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
When did you realize how big you were getting?

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Because obviously you went into this you were like, Okay,
the Internet wasn't you know, as accessible or big as
it became. But at first, like you said, it was
like a noodle in a haystack type of thing. When
did you realize like the first time somebody recognized you
and then people were like, oh my god.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
I think like when I started to go out to
other places other than LA and like people were like
doing weird things, looking at their phone when they were
like looking at my porn and like being like showing
the person, and I'm like, what're talking about? So I'm
very like alpham very in your like Okay, what are
you looking at and say that's meet a couple of
times and then I'm like, oh, yeah, that's me. Hi,
Say hi, I don't know what you to say, just

(16:07):
a lot of those situations that people ask me, like
for the first picture and like really recognizing you outside
of that, and for me is you know, in the
time of important I'm not the tiniest girl. I'm not
usually like it's a blonde, blonde girl, skinny girl with
like big fake tits in that whole image where I
was one of the first people to be like a
curvy girl with a big booty and I didn't really
have to worry those things. So that stigma of body

(16:29):
shaming and stuff definitely came in the beginning, but I
was welcomed. And what I love the most is wo
women would come up to me and be like, you know,
thank you so much for allowing me to be beautiful
in my own skin, because you kind of let that
be okay in the world. So I feel like those
things kind of really made me feel like, oh, like
this is how I express myself in art and that's
my sexual encounters.

Speaker 1 (16:50):
And what about working with black men too, what has
that been like? Because I know there can be a
taboo in the beginning. I've heard women say that for
doing poran, for if you do porn with black men,
then it kind of decreases your value.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
But is that changing.

Speaker 4 (17:06):
I feel like I wouldn't say the decreasing of value.
I just think times have changed. I feel like, you know,
in the beginning of when I started, we know we
have agencies and you know, we have contracts and all
these things in place where they kind of tell you
when to do things or like how to do things
in your career. When that's gonna, you know, be the
height of certain things to blow up. So I definitely
think nowadays things have definitely changed, and you know, it's

(17:27):
not as stigmatized as it once before was, but I
feel like it definitely doesn't devalue you at all. I
think the times have definitely changed and just in the world,
so I feel like it's you know, kind of catching
up with all those things as well.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
Yeah, because I could see with the curvy women you
already know, like to what because that interracial porn is
a thing too.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
Yeah, it's definitely.

Speaker 4 (17:49):
It's a big, big seller. Definitely, people all want to
talk about it. I want to see it, and I
definitely that's kind of one of my things of where
it's like I feel like I never literally left the
industry in a way that I do. I didn't really
that's why I didn't have a say, But I didn't
have a really say on my how I ran things
and how my brand was. So for me, it's now
it's like me wanting to rebrand and coming back into

(18:10):
the business and kind of making it my own way
and owning my own stuff and kind of building on
my brand that I already have and making it a
bigger thing.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
I feel like there has been something that we heard
a lot from different women important that we have on
the show, where they say, like I'm taking over my
career and I'm making my own decisions and I'm directing
and producing.

Speaker 4 (18:27):
Well that's why with like the things like OnlyFans kind
of really gave us the gateway to kind of do
those things where before it's like, even as big as
my name was is like I also not again that
it's my body, but I didn't really all have the say,
you know, and management wise of what I truly always did.
So it's like now it's like that I am my
own owner of my company and I am can do
those things where now I have my own platform like

(18:48):
and only Fans, that I can make my own productions
and I can do it my way and not a
way that people wanted me to do it or in
those senses. So I definitely feel like platforms like OnlyFans
and those types of content creator like situations. I've really
helped the industry kind of everyone do their own thing.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
Right because in you're at home, you have your setup,
you know how to do things, you start learning how
to edit. Especially during the pandemic, for sure, everybody was like, Okay,
I got to figure out how can I do this
without a team of people to do it on my own.
What made you decide to leave the business.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
I think it's just where I was in my life.

Speaker 4 (19:19):
You know, I was with somebody that you know, I
was in a contract first with and then so we
did with contracts, you kind of do limited kind of
scenes and so you're not doing so much. And then
I ended up being in a relationship that kind of
didn't really want me to be in the industry anymore.
And I was kind of already on my way out,
and then the pandemic happened, so it was kind of
all full circle. So it just kind of again. At

(19:39):
that time, I was working so much and so many
different things from dancing to you know, movies and you know,
appearances and stuff that you don't really have a time
to focus.

Speaker 3 (19:49):
On one thing.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
So I think that, you know, now, it's kind of
like I enjoyed doing my podcasts, you know, I love
you know, talking to people, getting to know people, and
that's been a lot of fun. But also now with
these girls coming up on my podcast and getting to
know more how they're doing the business, I see things
that I definitely can capitalize on my own and things
that I've wanted to do my own self as well.
And then before me doing the podcast, I felt like

(20:11):
I had to have a selftis separation between the two.
Where now I'm in this place where.

Speaker 3 (20:16):
I can do both. I have no reason to choose.
You know, if you want to do it all, we
can do it all.

Speaker 2 (20:20):
That's kind of why I do it all.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
That's kind of why I started lip service. Back in
the day, a lot of women were like in the
music videos and in the magazines, but nobody got to
hear their personalities or hear them talk. So I was like,
why not give a platform that's not about that but
about your personality for sure, you know, and people are interested,
and since we're talking relationships, Jessica, dime, do you think

(20:42):
marriage but can't help your relationship? Because we watched the show.
It's entertaining and at that point you weren't.

Speaker 2 (20:50):
Married and you were. I was, oh you were? I
thought you were saying, when are we getting married?

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Okay okay, okay, okay, okay. So do think it did help?
Like did you take anything but the actual.

Speaker 5 (21:03):
The actual working with doctor is and what was the
lady name, doctor b. It actually did help us, like
they actually were trying to like give us pointers, help us.
They'll tell us the truth, you know, no telling my
husband no you knew you're wrong, or telling me no, Dime,
you couldn't handle it a different way. And it did help,

(21:23):
But I feel like they still play games TV wise,
you know what I'm saying, like to get a show,
but just all in allay to just being counseling with
the couples.

Speaker 2 (21:37):
Wise, Yes, it did help.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
Like what are some things that are lessons that have
helped you in your relationship that you would say you
didn't know before the show?

Speaker 2 (21:45):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (21:46):
It was it was like more so the communication, like
they were just trying to show us like more so
like how you talk to your partner more so you
can say what you want to say. It's more so
like how you're saying delivery. They said you're a man.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
They say, you're not supposed to use the words never
always like you never do this?

Speaker 2 (22:06):
Are you be positive? Always?

Speaker 5 (22:09):
Like a positive instead of negative words, you know, just
like and they were telling him certain stuff like.

Speaker 2 (22:15):
Stop trying to be so bossy. We know you the man.
You don't have to do that, you know.

Speaker 5 (22:20):
Like, So it was it was a learning experience for
both of us because we were both open and willing
to take it in and it was fun.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
We went in to l A.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
We was we walking timmy soldier. We were still having
fun in the house, so it was like that.

Speaker 2 (22:32):
Was a wild house. I think that what ever?

Speaker 1 (22:43):
And I know we didn't discuss this yet because we
talked about this in Vegas, but Gig is no longer engaged.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
I am not whoa, Yeah, we haven't really discussed this.
We have not Can we discuss? Did you?

Speaker 3 (22:59):
Like you say I'm dark for text us without the PhD.

Speaker 2 (23:03):
So first of all, you needed a little background. It
was a real quick situation and you got engaged. First
day was third third day together we was engaged, his
name tattooed on me everything, and yeah, and sixty days later,
approximately give or take sixty days later, I just decided
that he in fact was not the one. Why what

(23:27):
what what? What?

Speaker 5 (23:28):
So?

Speaker 2 (23:28):
I was so I was not getting what I needed
and you actually, I just feel like that the relationship
wasn't priority. I spent thirty days with him, and once
I couldn't like I was up under him for thirty
whole days. I stayed at his house with him thirty
whole days. And then I gotta work, I gotta hustle,
I gotta get up, I gotta travel, I got a grind.

Speaker 1 (23:49):
I got you to do so A Lexus Texas just
wanted to know sexually, were you're getting with sexually?

Speaker 2 (23:55):
I mean the sex was sex was good, but it
wasn't a lot of sex was The sex was good.
It wasn't a but no, we didn't have a whole
lot of sex. But when we did have sex, it
was it was. It was actually good. Once I had
to like move around and I wasn't up under him,
it things changed and then I kind of felt like
he wasn't putting forth the effort to make things happen.
It was kind of like out of sight, out of mind,
and yeah, and I am very voistous, like I expressed

(24:18):
myself very well. I have no problems communicating my feelings,
my thoughts. And I spoke on it to him a
couple of times, and you know, he would say like, oh, baby,
I'm busy this or you know, my business dad, or
whatever the case may be. And then it was like
the actions in the words wasn't and the math wasn't
math then, and I'm only going to say my piece
two or three times before I say peace. And that's
basically whatever didn't you like ghost or.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
Were you like like this isn't working out? Like he
was like, baby, please don't.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
I gave him a basically, I gave him like a warning. Notice.
I gave him a warning. And when things change, I
was like, Okay, this is me letting you know. But
good for you. I mean, that's a big moment. Did
he like he's still like reaching out and I'm just
now like, just you were gay? Yeah, and guess what

(25:02):
I would just have I would have married him. I
would have married him the next day.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
But yeah, that's just a lot because look, if you
would have gone, and you would have to alter thirty
days and then after this, you know, thirty one or
thirty two.

Speaker 2 (25:18):
They really knows. Listen, it's a great story. Come yesterday.
I'm I can't wait, definitely want so, you know, at
the end of the day, right, everybody has what they
had to say about the situation, especially about the tattoo.
But y'all want me want to know, I already got
to cover. You already got to cover after the tattoo us, Yeah,

(25:40):
I already got to cover. Shout out the side. I
already gotta cover.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
But how many name have you had on you? Is
that the first one?

Speaker 2 (25:46):
No, I'm to get a tattoo?

Speaker 3 (25:49):
How many have you gotten covered up?

Speaker 2 (25:50):
I've gotten as not a big deal. I don't know
the whole body tell my head that would be my
body said I had to tell I was with the
same man for eleven years, that had him three times
so and they're all covered. So, I mean, you know,
maybe it's a pattern, but the tattoo wasn't that big
of a deal to me. And I just honestly feel

(26:11):
like I called his bluff because it was him selling
himself to me with I'm this kind of man, and
God sent it to me, and I want to marry
all he loves my life because I love and I
call his bluff because you're not playing my face. That's
really how you feel and stand on it. Let's do
it now.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
But that's why I said I'm proudly because because it was.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Okay, just because he like we was gonna get married
right away, but the engagement heaving right away because don't
play with me. If this really would you want to
prove it? The gauld have been a year later.

Speaker 6 (26:47):
If he wants if all the exactly a God for
you that said right here, right.

Speaker 2 (26:52):
Now it because if that's how you feel, you're not
about to play in my face. So that's how you feel.
I'm calling your bluff. That's you. I want to be with.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
Someone, call my bluff and I'm like, yeah, just kidding.

Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (27:17):
On Tuesday, and I gotta do lip service on ones
that part on Thursday exactly, and that if.

Speaker 7 (27:24):
Not, we're gonna break up on Friday.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
So you said you guys didn't have sex a lot
to that bother you because you're a very sexual person.

Speaker 2 (27:34):
Yeah, we would have had we could have had more sets.
One thing, I'm glad I didn't do I was gonna
give him three some and I'm glad I didn't do that.
I'm not for you. I didn't do it, but but
he wanted it though.

Speaker 3 (27:45):
Okay, but don't they all want it?

Speaker 2 (27:47):
Yeah? I mean I want to want to. I want to.

Speaker 3 (27:50):
She likes girls.

Speaker 2 (27:51):
Yeah, so that would have just been a special be Yeah,
it would have been. But he didn't. Look, he didn't.

Speaker 5 (27:59):
Ring. She hearn it.

Speaker 2 (28:01):
No ring.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Now, if there's no ring, there's no.

Speaker 2 (28:06):
Exactly that's.

Speaker 1 (28:15):
So wait, all right, so if you wouldn't, let's just
say you would have had a threesome with him.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
What would the rules have been? Like? Can the other
girl like toss his salad? God, he didn't, he didn't.
I'm just asking.

Speaker 7 (28:30):
Man asked.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
That wasn't his thing. But that says that allowed. Like
we've had a threesome before when the girl decided that
she wanted to eat some ass, and you know the
guy liked it. Man, stop her. Yeah, okay, I mean
at least I don't have to do it. I mean
she already I already told her that that was something
that he liked. So when she felt like she wanted

(28:52):
to do it, she did it. I wasn't gonna stop her.
I couldn't stop her.

Speaker 6 (28:56):
Right.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
She Man, you didn't want to have three some of him?
I would. I would not have gave it to him.
I was going to save that for after the wedding.
He was gonna have to wait until the wedding. Have
you done that in you in your marriage? No, that's
one thing like we haven't done.

Speaker 5 (29:16):
But we talked about it and stuff. He don't pressure
me about it, but I noticed something.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
He cool, He will be cool. Well, yeah, not now.
I don't like girls.

Speaker 5 (29:26):
Like when I was a little younger, I was more
into girls than I am Now I don't. Yeah, it's
kind of like yeah, and a woman that I've ever
been with, I could never see myself in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
I've never taken it that far. I just you know,
it's fun. It's like three but I want to do
the three some. Like when we go out of town
far far away.

Speaker 8 (29:59):
From the country, definitely the country with a snap and
we like getting drunk everything, having about and then we
might see some fine girl there.

Speaker 6 (30:13):
Is in another country again, talk to the girls. She's
she looks good and let's do what we do and
what you do when you get on the plane and
we never.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Were trying to come social media. Now worry about reaching
out period.

Speaker 6 (30:35):
It's kind of like a little fantasy even Okay, what
she don't even got an iPhone.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
We're never going to see her. Guy, she doesn't speak English.

Speaker 5 (30:46):
We enjoyed your servant.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
Alexis, did you and your relationships? Right?

Speaker 1 (30:53):
There's probably a high expectation of sex in a relationship
with you.

Speaker 3 (30:57):
This is why dating is hard.

Speaker 1 (30:59):
Okay, that's that I was going to ask, So how
are you when it's outside, not on camera, but like
when you're in a relationship, do you do all the
same things or are you like all right.

Speaker 4 (31:12):
I'm definitely in no where, shape orform approved by what
any means. I don't think I could be a Lexis
Texas by any.

Speaker 3 (31:16):
Shape reform if I was.

Speaker 4 (31:17):
For me, I'm just I'm a highly sexual person, so
I do like to fuck a lot, but I don't know,
like in my in my personal life, I think that
the main problem is is they.

Speaker 3 (31:31):
They want to fuck.

Speaker 4 (31:31):
Alexis Texas at all times. But Alexis Texas is also
a human that I like, have everyday things and whatever,
so it's not always that. And then once they start
catching feelings and they don't want to fuck Alexis Texas.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
They want to like fuck the other part of you.
So it's kind of a tough step.

Speaker 4 (31:44):
So for me at that point when I was really
going like that, it was like a lot of me
not knowing what I really wanted in men, and just
it was more of them picking me.

Speaker 3 (31:53):
At this point in my life, it's I'm picking them.
So it's like it's like who likes you, but like
no scraps allowed, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
It's not just because for the validation of being liked
for me, and now it's about like what do I need,
what standards, what boundaries, you know, what kind of fits
into my life now? And so I kind of that
helps weeding out the kind of bullshit because I can't
hide being a Lexa Texas. I've been being doing porn
for over fifteen plus years, so it's like it's never
gonna go away.

Speaker 6 (32:18):
What do you do when someone falls in when you
fall in love, After you fall in love and they
don't want to fuck you anymore?

Speaker 2 (32:24):
Then I like, who feels alive?

Speaker 6 (32:27):
I was with somebody on and off for a long time,
and when we first got together, we used to have
the nastiest most discussed in sex. We used to fight
and like hide so toxic love sex, like he would
just hurt me, hurt my body, and then after he's
fell in love with me, like if I even like

(32:49):
shook my ass a certain way, I couldn't work around
them if I said fuck me while we were having sex.
There would be times I he'pe be like what, like
that's it, We're not having sex, and more like why
are you talking to me like that?

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Like it's funny, like a horror and I'm like we
were a horse together, right.

Speaker 4 (33:09):
See, That's why it's funny because I feel like in
those senses, like people like again if it's subtling or
not because of the fighting and whatever was great, but
obviously old me and somewhere that relationship wouldn't work because
if it did, he would have let you be fully
you the horror, not the horror or whatever you want
to do. That's why he goes and stuff out elsewhere
because he wants to be nice to you, but he
wants to disrespect the horror, which doesn't make any sense, no,

(33:29):
And I get it, but.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
It's like I want the kisses on the forehead and
all the time. But why do you have to choose?
But slapped around a little bit.

Speaker 3 (33:39):
But that's but there is a man out there that
will do that. You just have to find the right one.
He wasn't it? He wasn't it? You think I haven't
found that because I'm still single.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
You think you can train a man to be the
way that you want him to be?

Speaker 3 (33:51):
How and sexually or just in a relationship both like
do you.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Think you can, like yes, sexually, like kind of train
him because they say you want to be.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
I think that both.

Speaker 4 (34:03):
I think it's just you have to have a willing
partner to want to like grow with you, because it's
like no one wants to be told what to do.
Like nobody is like you know, a mom or dad situation.
But it's like if you're a partnership, it's like it's work.
Relationships take work, and.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
Any relationship, you know, partnership say what you say, just
going back to how the doctors were in the house
that she was in for marriage boot camp is like
your delivery to accept me actually telling him something like
style reciprecation because I'm gonna take your advice what you
say to I want you to tell me teach me

(34:38):
how to please you. So, now, what type of standards
have you said for yourself?

Speaker 4 (34:44):
You know, I think for me, the biggest one was integrity.
I don't think I even really knew what that meant
in a man because I just felt like I dealt
with a lot of fuck boys. So I feel like
that you know, someone who's honest, someone who's you know,
who's going to treat me right and not make me
feel bad for my past, my future and my present.
Someone that is a leader, someone that can help me.

(35:05):
I feel like I just need a partner to kind
of uplifting the growth part of things. So it's someone
who's you know, in leadership.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Growth.

Speaker 4 (35:12):
Spirituality is really big for me. Yeah, I think that
those are my top ones.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Trust is important to even be able to trust somebody
where you can go to them and have a conversation
about something that happened that day and they know that
maybe I just need you to just listen and not
say anything, or maybe I need you to if I
ask for some you know, I like solution oriented people
and so not to just be like, oh my god,
you know, I can't believe you did this, but like

(35:40):
let's come up with some ideas like, well, you know
what you could do, well, why don't you try this?

Speaker 2 (35:45):
Like, I think that's.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
Important, but only when I need it, because sometimes you
don't want to write. Sometimes you just want.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
To talk and just just listen. Okay, don't to me
right now. Yeah, but I'm my husband and I we
best friends. Like we gossip, I get advice.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
Yeah, I think that's important to.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
I know when that guy could bring you some guy
and be like what he tells me a couple. But yeah,
we really are best friends.

Speaker 5 (36:18):
But one thing about him that I have to recommend
he does he is willing to like even though he
might not initially want to take what I say, he
is willing to like come back later on and be like,
you know what I was wrong? Yeah? Accountability. He always
want to encourage me to believe. I think that's what
you probably feel like you missed to somebody like encourage you,

(36:40):
you know, like believe in you don't even worry about
what I Because she.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
Grew up in Memphis with me, he knows what I'm
about it, you know, so.

Speaker 5 (36:49):
It wasn't hard for him to say, oh I know
what she Indeed, I know she's been a strip my
own feel like wife and it and a wife. You know,
he could have easily said that, but I feel like
everybody pain, like if you're gonna do that, you ain't gonna.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Mare it or be with not that. And these guys
sneaky like them be the ones with the long age
people than me.

Speaker 3 (37:12):
And and the thing with me is, you know, there's
only so many porn stars, so it's not only that
many people. Just how many times, right.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Have you ever gone and was supposed to film the
scene and said I'm not working with this person?

Speaker 2 (37:26):
I have what would be a reason for that?

Speaker 4 (37:30):
You know, for me, I'm a big energy person. So
anything if I feel disrespected, if I feel like I'm
just not vibing like what's going on, then you know,
it's my pussy, my right and I'm gonna walk away.
And so I've done it. Definitely, I hadn't. It wasn't
even the performer was the director.

Speaker 3 (37:46):
He called me stupid because I was.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
Wearing this outfit and I was like, it doesn't fit me.
And he's like, I don't pay you to think. I say,
you don't pay me enough not to so and so
I left. But most times I've been really And then
there was another time that I actually it was like
it wasn't even a porn.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
It was a like a what is it most movies?
The softcore movies?

Speaker 4 (38:05):
It was something wanted me to make out with this
guy that I didn't was on my no list for scenes,
And I was like, how do you want me to
not fuck him but make out with him?

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (38:12):
No, I'm good.

Speaker 2 (38:12):
Why would somebody be on your know list?

Speaker 4 (38:15):
It could be from anything from it him like his haircut,
he's got bad breath, he's got a dick that I
don't like.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
He could be whatever, Like that's that's.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
A good thing. I do. Have you ever like a
stanky girl I have.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
And you go to the bathroom and you sit, yes,
because the good thing is like before the movie, like
you do pictures, so you do like pretty girls whatever.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
So like I definitely want't occasion how to be like,
let's go to the bathroom, let's talk about this.

Speaker 4 (38:38):
And then you know, because you don't want to like
blow up. He respond from everybody, but any be on
the meat.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
I was like, oh my god, sometimes it wipes. Can't
help that.

Speaker 4 (38:53):
It's like this he's my best friend, I know, what
she smells like if you don't know how some people
don't know, but you know, some people need to be told,
you know.

Speaker 3 (39:00):
But yeah, that has happened. We're not going to work today.

Speaker 2 (39:03):
Like I'm always like.

Speaker 3 (39:06):
Exactly whatever, you know, I need to know.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
I'm good. Let's get back to this scene on the
Mint where there's two scenes that I want to talk about.
You know it's too so first being the body check scene. Okay.
And they went to the strip club and they had
some can we say that wasn'tenough? Okay, So they were

(39:31):
a kod and and it was literally like their first
day in the house. She's like, come on, we're going
straight to the club. So it's like if you stay ready,
you ain't got to get ready, you know, before we
went out, before they went out, and look at me,
it's like it's like when the guys watched their sports
teams and they like the god his hot feel. So

(39:55):
they went to the strip club and they had to
get on stage, they had to dance. But before they
went out, queen shout out the queen. I love the queen.
She's the house. So she gave them body checks, arms up,
turn around, bend over, sniff test, and there was two
girls that did not pass and the one girl. The
one girl was like, all right, do you get we've

(40:18):
been We've been out all day. You know I'm saying,
I like, I might have been cool, but I'm gonna
a handle my hand. The other girl was like iron stick.

Speaker 7 (40:26):
Girl.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
She kept saying her pussy down, stinking, but Queen said
that a pussy baby. It was there.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
That's I don't know what's worth.

Speaker 2 (40:40):
We don't need any whatsoever because guess what while you
clapping that back. So was like and not like you
like a all day. So the swampy, yeah, swamp booty

(41:12):
to get it together. She was like, okay, cool, let
me go handle that. She she took it very well,
but she had security every She was like this to
the security like that's what I was thinking. I was
thinking the security didn't want to be the bad she
should have. In my opinion, as an entertainer and as

(41:36):
a person a viewer, I felt like as an entertainer,
I felt like, when you stay ready, you ain't got
to get ready. Even even that even I ain't danced
in twelve years, but I still follow my same hygienic
practices every day. As if I'm meant to get on
the flow point plain period, I don't. I don't. I
have not changed any of that in twelve thirteen years
in County. But black Girl as a as a as

(41:58):
a viewer say I never dance before. That is going
to tie into the stereotypical ship that people think about us.
They think we nasty, they think we're dirty, they think
we don't have good hygiene. They think all strip clubs think.
You ever go down to comments and you see a
bunch of people talking and it'd be girls like I
wonder you don't notice it now? And when I see that,

(42:19):
I always think that's a reflection of what you smell like,
because because the first place you ever gonna smell your
own right. And I've never I've been to a couple
I've danced with girls that I had to pull to
the tide like baby, maybe you need to frush up right,
But I've never been to a strip club, thank god,
where I had to tell the girl no, thank you
because she smelled that a.

Speaker 1 (42:36):
Gym I used to go to, though they have whole
dancing classes and I am not gonna lie. One day
I was walking past it and it smelled terrible.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
But that was in the gym. Sometimes people, Yeah, sometimes.

Speaker 1 (42:46):
People be in the gym and they think they could
just go to the gym without going home and showering first.
I can't stand with people and hot yoga too. I've
been in hot yoga classes where I'm like, Lord.

Speaker 2 (42:58):
Now. The second thing I want to about is when
this girl and no shame in her game? So Key
who again talking about Key? She is like the main
character to me. She's always in the mix. She's always
in the good or bad. She in the mix. Like
every every episode you talking about her, You're looking at her,

(43:21):
you're talking to her. I gotta do every She's like
the problem. She's like, but that's what makes it show,
Like exactly, that's part of what that's part of the show.
So on the first day they got the fighting and
literally the girl beat ship out of her literally like
she was like is that ship on my floor?

Speaker 5 (43:45):
It was like it was like I shoot it on
the floor, almost like saying.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
And this was the first day, this is the first fight?
Was it was the first know this, Yeah, this is
the second fight.

Speaker 5 (44:03):
Yes, but it was already been arguing yes from the
first day, and I didn't understand why, Like I didn't.
Y'all don't know each other, y'all never met, so what
was it? And it was just like Key went up
there and put that mask on. I thought she was
gonna come handle.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
I was like, yeah I did. I mean, you know,
like I'm not sure for nobody, but if you want
to fight. She came you know, business and got beat there.

Speaker 5 (44:28):
I shouldn't be out of her though, like it was
she smurred on the floor, Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Then you had to kay take a shower, like how
you ship on yourself? And then don't did she have
to clean I told her, you're gonna have to clean
it up. Yeah, she cleaned it up. We were sick.
Was she even embarrassed about it? Because she she was
a good sport about it, like everybody was joking. It

(44:56):
was because did you hear what she's Yeah? Yeah, so
she she said it was because she hadn't had it.
I ain't know before she came in.

Speaker 1 (45:03):
I was going to bring that up next because I
don't believe that and it would make that ship come smooth.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
Yeah neither am I but I know for a fact,
I mean, okay.

Speaker 6 (45:15):
I agree with Angel makes the booty hole look, how
many people guys.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Even a day before, guys would have analoman.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
What hold on?

Speaker 1 (45:27):
There's girls who have shipped on guys dicks. It definitely happens.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
But this whole day later she came to Memphis.

Speaker 4 (45:35):
I heard it happening. I haven't seen it happening. But
it's one of my biggest fears. It's definitely definitely happens,
for sure, but I've never seen it happen.

Speaker 2 (45:44):
Yeah, the guys up here that have said that's happened
to them, that they because.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
That was one thing I was very selective with in
the industry. That was one thing at the time when
I was married to my ex husband, I would only
do it with him.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
Okay, did you enjoy it?

Speaker 4 (45:58):
Or that was that was the I have to be
like very like horny to be into it. So like
doing a scene whatever, Like it's a lot of like
build up that there's a lot of prepping, there's a
lot of things. So it's kind of like I would say,
I'm like a sexual athlete, like you know, I'm going.

Speaker 3 (46:15):
Yeah, So it's you know, it's one of those things.
So you're going you're going for war, sexual war, so
you make sure you're clean.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
Really like ya in the background.

Speaker 4 (46:23):
So with the times that I have done it, I've
definitely enjoyed myself. But again it's very select few. There's
probably like a handful of times that I've done it.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
But you like fingers and you're I'm not really a
big finger.

Speaker 4 (46:37):
I could look at yes, all those things, but finger yeah, yeah,
but I don't not really big in the fingers.

Speaker 2 (46:44):
And see I'm not big on that either.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Man's hands are really big.

Speaker 4 (46:48):
Sometimes they don't take care of their fingers and all
kinds of things and just stay away.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
Just stay away. I heard some stories because people are
like prep for anal.

Speaker 4 (46:59):
Yeah, there's like especially girls in the industry who do
it like they're because they're taking very large things and
so they're making they're like not eating before they're like
eating gummy bears or drinking pedia like they're doing all kinds.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
Of stuffy gummy bears because it's with the digestion thing.
I don't really know.

Speaker 4 (47:15):
I'm not a big girl because like the sugar, because
they're not like they don't eat all day, so like
they'll stop eating like the night before faint.

Speaker 2 (47:24):
They have a gummy bear.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
So now when you see somebody buying gummy bears. She's like,
you're having you know, yeah, you know.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Because as much as I eat them, damn them gummy
bears that you got them every day y'all know those
Albanies gummy bears thet He's like, okay, mommy, I see you.
Good time. You haven't had any with your husband. You

(47:54):
go in together and my husband is a big man. Yeah,
so that's probably all together it We be.

Speaker 5 (48:03):
Married October nineteenth. It will be six years mayried.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
Oh congratulations and we've been together set.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Yeah, so that's a long time to not even try.

Speaker 2 (48:14):
Did he ever try it?

Speaker 6 (48:15):
Though?

Speaker 2 (48:16):
No? Have you tried it?

Speaker 3 (48:17):
Have you ever tried it ever?

Speaker 5 (48:18):
You're like I told him to see we married, but
we never had an actual ceremony.

Speaker 2 (48:22):
We get married in the courthouse. So I tell him
when I get myself, when I do when we do
the ceremony, I do it. I'm ready after this ceremony.
I'm still thinking about it, Like what you gotta do
like that to get ready up? Yeah about maybe it

(48:45):
might make it feel like there's plus to listen it out.
I don't want to hurt.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
The thing is is like you just have to if
you overthink it.

Speaker 4 (48:53):
It's gonna hurt. You have to like be sexually stimulate yourself.
So like if you're gonna play with yourself and like
you know, I can.

Speaker 2 (49:02):
Makes a lesson, just offer. She says, she can make girls.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
I've been known to make girl script, but I don't
want I want to learn how to do.

Speaker 2 (49:13):
It to yourself.

Speaker 5 (49:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:16):
Yeah, have you ever scored it in your life? She
said no, because you can store it from fingers or
from a dick. So the dick is obviously your husband
being there whatever, but it's a g spot that you're
hitting and you just have again. But a lot of
times you may feel that you're like the sensation if
you want to pee and yourself.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
So that's just go and like release you. You seem
like I can't I'm scared to let it go.

Speaker 4 (49:43):
You seem like you're gonna be like, don't do it
and then it can stop. But if you don't do it,
then it's gonna just because it's like a little splash
a thing.

Speaker 3 (49:51):
It's not like you're pissing.

Speaker 6 (49:52):
Everyone, Like when I scored with from dick, when that
when the dick hits that water spot is like splashes.

Speaker 4 (50:01):
It's not like a stream, Like it's like if you
were gonna ejaculate like a man does, but it's like that,
but it's just like, you know, it's.

Speaker 2 (50:10):
It's a lot more than everybody's different.

Speaker 4 (50:12):
It's like someone's like female ejaculate and it's like, you know,
it's you know, it's a little mixture, but it's not
like spring. But then there's girls that are known to squirt,
and it's like, but that's a mixture of pists. They're
drinking water and they're drinking but yeah, because they're drinking
pa like they're drinking stuff to make them flush themselves out.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
So it's definitely okay. So I'm hearing pedia light and
gummy bears. But the text, well, while you're at it,
this is the perfect time for us to actual you
for some some pro tips.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
Yes, be honest, Before you came here, there's a couple
of guys. I'm not gonna look at none of them,
but they were ask her for tips that we can
give our girlfriends of things that they could do for
us in the bedroom. And then I said, you know
what else, y'all could use some tips and what you
could do for us too, So we went for you

(51:04):
to give tips to the women on things they can
do in the bedroom, maybe to spice it up or
excite their man.

Speaker 3 (51:11):
Always start with the blowjob. You don't just stop with
the tip.

Speaker 4 (51:15):
Go all the way down, use both hands, gag on
it a little bit, you know, even make the noise,
even if it's not gaggable, you know, just protect you.

Speaker 5 (51:24):
Know.

Speaker 4 (51:24):
I feel like the more attention that you bring to
you know, the head of the dick is always the
best part of it because it's the most similar thing,
especially when you're doing it right behind the bottom and
you just keep going and you look in them in
the eyes and you're like, but I know you want
to fucking come and you're gonna cut mare.

Speaker 2 (51:39):
So we should say that, Okay, say that. I think
eye contact is a really big ada, you know what
I mean.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Eye contact is really big while you're stroking the dick.

Speaker 2 (51:48):
You said, do I eye contact? Okay? Eye contact?

Speaker 4 (51:50):
You know, because if I'm looking at it, seeing I'm
staring at you and this is your dick, Angela, we're
talking to you.

Speaker 3 (51:57):
You know you don't yet you and then I like toporate,
you know.

Speaker 4 (52:05):
The big body things is standing up and shaking the
ass while you're sucking the deck, so you have two
different visuals.

Speaker 2 (52:10):
Wait you see me up?

Speaker 9 (52:14):
So that's my favorite way, Like, yeah, Texas over do
you normally have here? It's fun for the whole family.

Speaker 2 (52:26):
Music playing, like you ever play music? I'm I do.

Speaker 4 (52:32):
I'm a big music person, but I don't need to
have it. I feel like I have my own soundtrack
in my head. I feel like, but I'm more of
like an R and B if I'm going to be
like sexy times, you know, start the moonlist, playlist things interesting?

Speaker 2 (52:45):
And now for men, what are some things that you
love that men are men?

Speaker 3 (52:49):
I feel like not enough men eat pussy? Okay, I
feel like they need to, you know, really.

Speaker 4 (52:54):
Learn what the clid is and pay attention to that
very well. And your girl will probably do anything for
you if you can make her come at least two
to three times, eating her pussy and then sucking her
How two to three times?

Speaker 5 (53:06):
Don't?

Speaker 2 (53:13):
Yeah, okay, because I'm about to fall to sleep to
put it in right after.

Speaker 4 (53:24):
I'm pretty I like to come multiple times. So it
was just like a two to three thing, you know,
and then it's like a game.

Speaker 2 (53:29):
How long did it take you to come from oral.

Speaker 4 (53:32):
I mean, it depends on who's doing it, but not
very long if they're good, okay, because I can come
really quickly.

Speaker 2 (53:41):
Yes and no.

Speaker 3 (53:42):
Like it depends again the person.

Speaker 4 (53:44):
But like I feel like sometimes they don't let me
edge and they make me come and then it's a game.

Speaker 2 (53:51):
Do you like the women doing it with the women
or to me, women eat pussy or me?

Speaker 4 (53:58):
Well, I feel like for me and Poorn, I started
working with women because women knew how to eat pussy better.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
Okay, men hate when we say that. I feel the same.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
So that's why I learned a lot of pussy eating
things from a lot of women that were really good
at it. So that's why it's like for me, it's
like you have to be very special for me to
eat your pussy.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
I don't know. For me, it's always been men that
eat pussy better.

Speaker 6 (54:21):
Like I've never had a girl make me forget about
the guy who ate my pussy the best, Okay, And
I've had girls.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
It's probably just the attraction to the man too. For
you and I have no wait, wait, oh, it's coming
back to you.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
Okay. I'm looking for.

Speaker 6 (54:42):
There's one girl, the one girl that I have threesomes
with Yeah. She she knows how to eat my pussy
really good practice, though, Yeah, you know who it is,
you know who it is.

Speaker 2 (54:56):
But she know.

Speaker 6 (54:57):
She's the only person that I've had thre I've had
two threesomes with her with two different guys.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
Okay, yeah, so you're comfortable with her.

Speaker 6 (55:08):
Yeah, I'm comfortable with her, like she's the only girl
that I've had sex and we share the guy. I've
had other moments with girls eating my pussy but not
having sex with the guy. They don't want the guy,
They only want it to be with me, So I
don't think it's the same thing, right, It's not the
same thing.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
So amazing.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
Let me ask you this, if you have another woman,
would would your husband with Shane mad Or?

Speaker 2 (55:33):
Is that cheating? I feel like, okay, you're exchanging fluids.

Speaker 5 (55:38):
Yeah, so even if you ask you as you just
don't even well, I don't even I ain't no right
to float in my boat. But if I felt like that,
I would probably tell him, Well, I think I saw
somebody I like, and I think he'll be happy.

Speaker 2 (55:58):
What's your Instagram?

Speaker 5 (56:02):
I think he would be definitely Okay, if I did
like a girl as long as I bring it to him,
because guys don't.

Speaker 2 (56:10):
Be like intimidated by some people do.

Speaker 4 (56:13):
Though it depends because I think again, like you said,
it's it's it's cheating if you're in a relationship or
whatever to tell the person. Maybe not with some people's
different situations difference. Maybe they asked him like, hey, would
you mind, because some guys don't. But if you just
fuck the girl and you're.

Speaker 2 (56:26):
Like were like, I just say the beach. I don't
think that used to want to. I used to want
I used to want me and my my ex to
have a girlfriend. She did. She wanted to have a
girlfriend because I just wanted to have a regular girl
that we can have sex with, because weeople having sex
with the like strangers in different countries. And even though

(56:48):
you just said that it was your fantasy, but to
do it all the time, he was doing it all
the time.

Speaker 3 (56:51):
Would you only want to that would getting some type
of feeling.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Well, I'm glad I never did it because when all
of his skeletons fell out the closet, I was almost there.
He didn't deserve that.

Speaker 6 (57:03):
I don't think he deserved it, But I think you
would have been fine with it like you would have
had like a sister that you could have like told
to get water and wash cloth.

Speaker 2 (57:15):
I look at it more of me saying my josh, because.

Speaker 7 (57:19):
Right exactly, be like all right, I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (57:22):
Get in the shower. Yeah, I'm in shower. You probably
don't like him that much anymore. That's the thing, the
threesome thing.

Speaker 5 (57:34):
I just think, I don't I don't mind doing She
suck his dig she e my pussy and me and
him fuck. But now just watching him funk another bach.
I'm not doing anything. I didn't agree to.

Speaker 2 (57:47):
That yet, but she.

Speaker 7 (57:53):
Care about you, And yeah, man that you love having
a girl rolling her like yeah, tell you.

Speaker 2 (58:07):
Gotta be here, like I'm just one of the It's
like one of the first times I ever had a
three some with a couple. That happened. The girl got
the wife or girlfriend whatever they were, she stopped it.
She stopped him misstroke like joining me way too much

(58:27):
and she was just like, no, stop, she cann take you,
Y'A don't want to be embarrassed like this. Well, listen
you guys, I appreciate this very fun conversation.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
I knew this was open a conversation yes, you gotta
make sure you come back and congratulations on everything and
the season.

Speaker 5 (58:48):
Oh yes, y'all telling that it's TV. Shout out to
t LO, you know, the CEO.

Speaker 2 (58:53):
And how many episodes are they going to be?

Speaker 5 (58:55):
The twelve you said, I'm thinking it's gonna be ten
to twelve. I can't say that ten to twelve and reunion.
They already on the internet fighting about the reunion.

Speaker 2 (59:05):
So wait, so just so that the viewers are clear,
because I already know this. When so the endpoint is
or the purpose of them being in this house is
that they get support from you.

Speaker 5 (59:16):
They Yeah, I'm helping them transition out of the club
and they win ten thousand dollars in the winner wins
ten thousand in the train. But even with after winner,
like the people that don't win, I'm still thinking about
things for them, lining up things.

Speaker 2 (59:31):
I'm putting together moves tour, We're gonna do a tour
and dropping that platform for them. It's an opportunity.

Speaker 5 (59:37):
Yeah, I'm dropping the Mint soundtrack with the music from
the show, and I'm putting some of the girls on
there and putting some of their music on there.

Speaker 2 (59:44):
And your music is on there too, Yes, so I'm
back in the I'm a fan of all that CV.

Speaker 3 (59:52):
I watched almost every show.

Speaker 2 (59:55):
Thank you so much. You know, I'm just a newcomer,
but I love it. There private talk with the Letus.
You guys can check out her podcast.

Speaker 1 (01:00:05):
And so you're back right, So now you're also gonna
be I've been preparing some.

Speaker 3 (01:00:09):
Things, been working on some stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:00:11):
At the end of this month, I'm dropping some stuff
on my only Fans page that I think people are
really excited to see that I haven't done before.

Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
And that you have done before. I haven't done y'all
know what I'm trying to get me to drop all
the fans. I'm scared. I'm gonna talk to you.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
I got you girl.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
Wait, what what are some things you haven't done before?
You just have to stay. We're gonna I want to know.

Speaker 3 (01:00:34):
We need a little glimpse, you know, maybe I'll give
you a little taste.

Speaker 2 (01:00:38):
Oh right there, guess all squared? Okay, Okay, now it's
a lift servers orgy.

Speaker 3 (01:00:55):
What happens when Texas comes.

Speaker 2 (01:00:58):
But thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Again,
Alexis Texas, Jessica Dome.

Speaker 1 (01:01:03):
We had a good time with y'all, thank you, thank you,
all right McGuire Stephanie Santiago at slip service period