LS Episode 480: Girls Girls (Feat. Lira Galore & Khloe Summer)

Lira Galore & Khloe Summer joins the ladies of Lip Service this week to promote their new vlog/lifestyle brand 'Girls Girls.' The crew discusses going through friendship breakups, moving to new cities for their partner, and much more. Enjoy!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up? It is Lift Service at Mantila. Yee.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
I'm Gigi Maguire, I'm Jordie Jor, I am Chloe Summer.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm lyric A Lore.

Speaker 4 (00:09):
Welcome, Lady Chloe Summer and lyric Lord. We are definitely
excited to have you here. I've been enjoying watching your
blog girls girls, you know, because that's.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
What we are.

Speaker 1 (00:18):
Yeah, I feel like we love girls girls.

Speaker 5 (00:21):
Mm hm.

Speaker 4 (00:22):
And so, who's idea was it to do this blog?
I felt like it was yours?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Chloe.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Why do you feel like it was fine?

Speaker 3 (00:27):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (00:28):
I just feel like I could see like it's given,
like you know, you'd have your whole travel situation.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
So I'll say we definitely came up with it together.
So me and Lee we were like Instagram friends, Instagram besties,
talking all the time. And I told her I'm going
to Italy. She's like, I'm coming.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
It was my birthday.

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Yeah, and she was like, I'm my girl, You're not coming.
You're not coming. She literally her money said, girl, I'm coming.

Speaker 1 (00:52):
So y'all only know each other from Instagram? Yes, Okay.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
Before we went to Italy together, we met one other time.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
That's risque.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Because it's like javeline with people you don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:02):
You.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
I feel like sometimes you can feel a person's like
spirit and vibe through the conversation. So it's just kind
of like it was my birthday. I was like, I
want to go somewhere that I've never been, but I
want to go somewhere far and she's like, I'm going
to Italy. I was like, well, let's make it a
birthday trip. Let's make it a thing. And was it
just as y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Was it like a girl's trip one of your friends,
one of my friends.

Speaker 5 (01:23):
She can because I feel like Larry could be very like,
you know, very private, let me you know, I'd like, yeah,
maybe you pulled her out to be like, come on.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
Let's do this like show people.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah, she definitely did that because you know, even the
first time I met you, I came on it was
I was like.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
But I get it.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
You know, it's not easy because sometimes I think what
can happen is like people talk shit and make you
be like I don't even want to say nothing.

Speaker 5 (01:49):
Yeah, mind my business and stay in my little it
take the little clips, and it'd be like I cannot
say that.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
But yeah, So from Italy. We literally were is drunk,
having a ball, talking and just talking about being a
girl's girl. I am a true girl's girl, up and down.
I went to all girl high school, I went to
fashion school in New York. I'm just a girl's girl.
And from there, literally, I don't.

Speaker 5 (02:12):
Know, I kept getting it was it was the Italian wine.
We kept getting drunk on wine, like when we get back,
we're gonna do this. It was like when we got
back to Houston, it was like, hey, we didn't find
a video I prefer we're gonna start filming a SAP.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
And it was like we just kind of made jump
half first into it.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Because it feels like y'all give best friend vibes.

Speaker 2 (02:34):
This is my girl. I always tell her, I'm new
to Houston, only been here for one year, and I'm like,
I finally feel like Houston's like home because I have
like a real friend. Basic Before it was just me
and me and my man, Me and my man. But
I'm a girl's girl. I need my friends. So we
could be like, hey, girl, like he getting on my nerves,
Let's go get honey eat, Let's go do something.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
You know.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
So that's me. Do I need to pull up.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
It's definitely that girl.

Speaker 4 (03:00):
As newer friends, because you know how people will act like,
oh I don't want to make no new friends and
da da da da da. Like Jordan is newer to
the show, and we met with her like guests hosting
on Way Up and everything, and we've seen her like
a reality TV you don't know what you're gonna get
in real life, but it's been amazing and now she's
permanently on.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Love each other.

Speaker 5 (03:21):
I think our Detroit trip kind of solidified our bond.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
You can travel travel together.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
During that day that everything shut down, remember and we
were together.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Were the same flight. Remember funeral could not get out
of Atlanta.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
We all were going to Detroit for one year anniversary
four Way Up and me and Jordan was on the
same flight, so we had that experience together. We stayed
in the same room, and it's just like we're like
okay with you, right, so consimilarly.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
Situation really give that like when you travel with somebody,
you really see the real, the good and ugly. And
we just thought it immediately with each other, like Okay,
I see how.

Speaker 4 (04:03):
You Yeah, Like okay, yeah, Because sometimes you do have
to like find your friends It don't have to be
my day ones.

Speaker 5 (04:12):
You know, sometimes your day ones be your day nuns.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
As I always say, I'm the girl, I'm not scared
to me. I actually love meeting new girls. Now it's
up to you if you rub me the wrong way
and cool scratch that is whatever. But I love meeting
new friends. I love meeting new girls. I'm always welcoming
girls with like open arms. You know, it costs nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
It's like, hey, yeah, I want to go out to
sea too.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
You probably be like, you know, cool.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
A lot of times we get, you know, put in
that category of since you look a certain way, people
proceeding to be a certain way. And then they get
to know your neighbor like oh I thought you were
going to be and you're really cool as how and
then it's like reason but.

Speaker 2 (04:54):
No reason to poke a hole and a caprice sogn okay,
given my girl.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
Never, I guess because some of us just naturally just
have like this like blank or like rest. I'm hungry
right now. Listen.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
You know I already got some food from me.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
I'm like, look, I got to eat something today because
I've been working all day, you know. But so let's
talk about a little bit because it's also not so
great experiences. I saw one of the blogs you were
talking about like many people and you're like, they just
kind of want to like copy and paste my life.
And we've all had some bad experiences with people who
we thought was cool and then come to find out

(05:33):
it didn't work out.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, they like, you do have to be careful because
girls will come in your life. Definitely try to copy
and paste. Definitely try to be you or steal your personality.
One thing I love about Lirit is like we're girls, girls,
we're friends, but we're so different even like you can
look at our look at it's just like it's two
different persons. I was the same same message with two
different personality.

Speaker 3 (05:55):
I'd be like, which one do I wear? Just she
liked that one. I'd be like, I'm awares you pick
the one that you would wear.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
You're like, okay, that's it's the opposite. I even tell her,
I'm like, girl, you you know which one. I'm a pig.
She's like, you know what, You're right that way. So
we're not afraid to be who we are. We're not
trying to copy and paste each other, which is hard
these days.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Yes, it is a lot of people haven't found themselves,
so I feel like they they try to attach themselves
to people and lock onto people and like try to
just like you know, just now you're naturally gonna steal
certain like or not even still just like pick up
certain mannerisms or sayings around certain people. But like once
it comes down to like you're just like, are you me.

Speaker 5 (06:37):
It?

Speaker 3 (06:38):
Just but you can identify it, it'd be like I've
experienced that.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
Yeah, yeah, it's given very much, single black female, very much,
and it's being very much we are no longer friends.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Yeah, Like you gotta cut that off quick because it
becomes weird and then it becomes then once they can't
hold it anymore, the jealousy and the weirdness comes. It
comes over time. You cannot be friends with anybody that
wants to be your I want your life, yes, or
your man.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
On it.

Speaker 5 (07:11):
I feel like I'm gon start saying it that's tea now,
Dallas is tea.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
And that's what happens that when you're around somebody, you
end up like you do, end up picking up certain things.
But also but I think it's also telling about friendships
is when you can be like genuinely happy for somebody
when something great happens. You know what's a red flag
if you have good things happening but you don't want
to tell them because you don't want them.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
To feel away.

Speaker 4 (07:33):
You know, there's been times when you're like, damn, I
want to tell my good news because they might start
getting funny or you ever seen.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Them stories where it'd be like girls will get text
messages from their friends like I want you to come,
but don't wear make up or don't dress up, don't
dress don't wear this, don't wear that, and it's like, actually,
I'll be one of my friends to show out that
don't wear makeup is crazy.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
There was a viral story when this girl cursed was
like cursing out her friend because she said she showed
out too much on her birthday.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
That's what made me think.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
I was like, is that real? Because your birthday, everybody,
your whole team could just be like yes, like the
whole team lit, yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
It's your birthday. How are you getting out?

Speaker 1 (08:16):
Done right?

Speaker 4 (08:18):
And I'm won't tell tell somebody if they're at my
house and I'm like, oh that outfit, why don't you
try this? Like I would be like where my bag
were this, Like, yeah, if I feel like the outfit
is not looking right, I will be like you know what,
And I feel.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
Like that's when we lost recipes. I remember my mom
and her friends used to all come and get ready
to go out and stuff like that. And if my
mom would be like this, and it'd be like but
in this day and age, it's too much. If somebody
peeped like you got on her homegirl bag and just
be like, oh, she wearing girlfriends, I can't help her

(08:53):
a bag that might look better with my outfit, Like
what's wrong with that? I don't see nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
Listen, I agree with you.

Speaker 4 (09:00):
I want my friends to come out and look like
go ahead, because you know me, I might come out
and sweat suit anyway, that might be my fit and
GG going listen, G and Jordan always I'm out way
more done up than I am, and I'm gonna come
out like damn you going to the gym.

Speaker 1 (09:17):
But you know, I know how uncomfortable and I know
what it is.

Speaker 4 (09:21):
But yeah, so friend breakups, that's and I think there's
rules for friend breakups like a even if we don't
get along anymore, don't tell the other person's business. That's
the big one that whatever secrets you shared, keep it
Like those need to go to the grade.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
You know, what are some other friend breakup rules?

Speaker 2 (09:40):
I feel heavy on what you said, like don't tell
my business. I feel like if you told my tell
my business after we break up, I feel like you
already had animosity, like you were hated from the beginning
because getting hold that down, Like hold that down, I'm
not telling your business and I still love you. We
just don't work anymore. It's like a breakup, like I
still it's like a literal breakup. I still I will
love you, but we don't work anymore. But you're not

(10:01):
gonna go tell your ex boyfriend all his business and
the things he's done. You're not gonna do that.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
So why was.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
Friends that have been there probably for years, helped you
down for years, was always there for you.

Speaker 5 (10:10):
I feel like coming in between opportunities for that person too,
Like it's because we not cool nomore. I ain't gonna
block your coin, yeah, or I ain't gonna not prefer
you when I know you good for this position. You
know you're not might be good for me, but I
know you'll be able to hold that down. So if
it come across something where I feel like it might
be okay for you, then I'm still gonna send it
your way blindly. Right.

Speaker 4 (10:29):
You know what about if you are not a friend
break up but they still want to be cool with
some of the friends that they met through you.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
No, I don't want that. I don't like that.

Speaker 2 (10:39):
That's because now we all got to hang out. Like
I had a big friend breakup a few years ago.
Somebody was friends with for twelve years, and I literally
was like, if you with her, like you cannot be
around me. I'm sorry because now you're around my business,
and I just know how girls are. Now you're talking
to my business. Now they still in my life.

Speaker 3 (10:58):
Couple drinks, business starts feeling, you know.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
Like you can't be too sure. So it just had
to be me or her and you met her through me, Sophick, I.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
Had a friend breakup too, and it just gave like
my friends. Was like I had to stop hanging with
her because every time I would come around and bring
you up. Yeah, And she was like, if we're gonna
still hang and me, I don't personally care if you
want to hang with her, cool whatever, But she was
like she kept bringing you up, or she would get
drunk and be.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Like call her.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
I just wanted to say I'm sorry. She'd be like no,
she and we're gonna hang out, get her up. If
she's gonna come around, she's gonna come around her own.
It's nothing that I could do for you, like, right.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
So I had a situation where I stayed friends with
a friend of a friend after they stopped being friends,
and then I regretted it when me and that person
stopped being friends, like I should have cut you off
way back then when she cuts you off because you
was the problem. But since we had our report, I
felt like that situation had nothing to do with me,
and I still continue to be friends with that person.
But then in the long run, it's like, damn, I
should have been cut you off, like I was.

Speaker 6 (11:55):
The friend that stayed friends with or I was introduced
through somebody. Okay, neither of us are friends with that person.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
Each other.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
You know sometimes the divorce, you're gonna take the kids.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
With me? You know that was your friends.

Speaker 4 (12:17):
So made sorry, But I mean as we get older,
it does happen, you know what I mean, we end
up not being cool, but it is weird sometimes when
you're like, man, if I'm friends with somebody, you met
them through me, why are y'all still you know, like
that can feel weird too, like because.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
They're the problem.

Speaker 3 (12:33):
Yeah, saying the hard way.

Speaker 5 (12:37):
That what made y'all both moved to Houston initially or
initially so I'm from Philly.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Mm hmm my mom again again, you know from Philly too.
I don't know that everywhere people from from people from Philly.
So my mom moved us down south. I have an
older brother, and you know, he just Philly is just
like a when young man at a certain age, it's
either two ways they're gonna go. My brother was teetering

(13:08):
the wrong way. And she knew about Texas through my auntie.
She was in the Navy base. That's where she was stationed.
So she moved us down south, and she moved us
to like Katie and grade school district, great everything, and
that's where I graduated from. That's where I went to college. Everything,

(13:28):
and then yeah the rest is history, right, So you
love it?

Speaker 1 (13:33):
I love it, okay. And then you moved there last year?

Speaker 2 (13:36):
Yeah, last year. So I had moved from Miami and
literally my boyfriend was like, you know, kind of Houston,
coming Houston and from there, I was like, okay, cool,
I'm coming.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
You love him.

Speaker 5 (13:48):
You just left my man, my man over Miami originally
from I am Miaaltimore, from Baltimore.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
I'm from Baltimore. Originally I lived in Atlanta.

Speaker 5 (14:00):
Y'all definitely get along because Baltimore is Philly's cousin. Atlanta
to Atlanta twice at as well. I'm on my second
time living in Atlanta, and you love Gigi loves Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
I feel like Atlanta so much me.

Speaker 3 (14:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like a love hate thing. It'd
be like I gotta get in and I gotta get out.
For me, I have.

Speaker 5 (14:30):
Only had good experiences. I haven't had anything that made
me feel like I don't like it here. And when
I moved there, it was I ran for my life
literally and ended up there and was able to hit
the reset button and start over. And at the time,
my daughter was eight, so it's like she is from there,
you know, she.

Speaker 3 (14:52):
That's what she knows.

Speaker 5 (14:53):
Like she'll say, I was born in Philly, but I'm
from Atlanta, and that's because she don't remember nothing about Philly.
She was eight when we left, so it's like I
feel more grounded, I feel more rooted in there, partially
because of her, but again because I've had nothing but
great experiences both times I'm to Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Did you move there?

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Two thousand and five?

Speaker 5 (15:14):
I literally got there to day of Hurricane Katrina, And
of course, of course I was coming from Philly, so
it had nothing to do with the storm. But it
just was a good coincidence that the day of Hurricane
Katrina is when I got there.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Chloe, how long you've been with your man?

Speaker 2 (15:30):
I've been with him. We've been living together for a year.
Oh okay, we've been living together for a year. Year
and a half.

Speaker 5 (15:35):
Moving to Houston was moving in with him together? Okay, yes,
moving together. So that's what I call like the official start.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
So it was June twenty twenty three and I were
about to be in December, so a year and a half.
That's yes, I love him.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Is that the first person you live with?

Speaker 5 (15:50):
Like?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
First guy?

Speaker 2 (15:52):
No? No, first guy? Yes?

Speaker 1 (15:53):
Okay, yes, all right, So I did tell tell us
the tea? Yeah? Yeah, what was the tea that?

Speaker 2 (16:02):
No? Team?

Speaker 5 (16:04):
So, were y'all having a long distance relationship before you
moved to Houston? Or was he already living there, and
you moved there for him or did y'all move there collectively?

Speaker 2 (16:12):
He was already living there, right, and he was like,
it's lip. You're gonna like it, You're gonna enjoy it.
I already wanted to move out of Miami, so once
I moved out of my I didn't know where I
wanted to go. I was just like, I want to
get out of Miami. I feel like it's a circle.
You're the same thing every night, like Miami is just like, yeah,
that's exactly what it is. So he was like, come,

(16:33):
you'll like it, You'll enjoy it. I was a little
nervous because I'm like Houston, like it's so country, but.

Speaker 3 (16:44):
Time we can be ratchet. You want to go now, Litera.

Speaker 4 (16:51):
I got to ask you, when you did a long
time ago fix my life, you feel like that helped you,
like in general other things? You still using that or
do you feel like I don't know if I should like?
What do you think about that experience?

Speaker 3 (17:05):
Do you have to be politically correct?

Speaker 1 (17:09):
Do you feel like it was because I felt like it.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
Was just a what was that doing? I was just
doing something. I was young. I was young, I was heartbroken.
I just was doing something they presented me with an opportunity,
and it was just like a.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Whatever, did a picture of life at all? Did it
any Now?

Speaker 3 (17:29):
I don't even remember what they were talking about. Yeah,
I just was on you know, it wasn't what they
explained to me. I guess like what it was going
to be.

Speaker 2 (17:40):
It's a little harsh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I didn't even
know you did that.

Speaker 3 (17:45):
So I love that. I love it for our.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
Friendship because I wonder what people's experiences are like going
on there, because it is like a very thing that
it can be like very very intense and sometimes it's
not easy, like to have to deal with people publicly
having things to say and weigh in on your life.

Speaker 3 (18:07):
And I felt like they called me at a very
vulnerable time. That was when I had left what's the
name right, moved away from my family, just picked up
and moved away from my family and moved to La right.
So I was just like vulnerable. I was just like
going through my own you know what I'm saying, and
someone they approached me about it and they made it
seem like it was a good.

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Thing for me and like therapy on your TV, yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:30):
Or something and it just was just nothing that.

Speaker 5 (18:32):
It was sensationalized because it is going to be like,
let's get those moments.

Speaker 3 (18:37):
Now, Missyla. I liked her. I like her as a
person and a very nice lady. But I think that
the show is just like very in a whole showy right, Very.
It is very hyeah producing, very used. They're right there
feeding you lines.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
So shit, okay, I didn't know that. So what do
you look for now?

Speaker 4 (18:59):
Like you've been through a you know, and you have
two beautiful children, So what are you looking for in
a partner now?

Speaker 5 (19:06):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (19:06):
Do you have one?

Speaker 5 (19:09):
Yes, I'm still involved with my baby daddy, my second
my son.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
So yeah, we're just go together. Okay, we will live well,
I live in Houston, he lives in Atlanta. He just
kind of comes to you our son. But it's like
a current thing.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
Okay, so you're happy.

Speaker 5 (19:27):
Yeah, she's like yeah, okay, because we'll be like.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
Girl those clips I was talking about.

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Yes, So what made you decide like doing this vlog?
Because like I said, it does feel like you've been
like okay, let me just mind my business, get out,
you know whatever, what made you decide Okay, it's time
for us to like go and let me let people
see me cooking. You even showed yourself getting surgery plastic surgery.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
So I feel like I was okay because you know,
I started out young. I was like one of the
first first. So it's just like just living through the
whole height of social media and then everybody being in
my business and everything being on display. I will say
that once I had kids, I wanted to protect them

(20:19):
and I wanted to protect myself because I can't operate
at one hundred percent for my kids if I'm mentally
every day being attacks and I don't care what nobody
says it. Yes, definitely can definitely be like I'm not
reading you're online.

Speaker 4 (20:38):
Like that's hard though because people ask you and you
don't even tend to see it, and then you should
pop up and.

Speaker 3 (20:46):
That's what I'm saying, or be like you know those
friends who are like kind of friends, they gonna send
it to you. So, like I said, I do give
a lot of what's happening right now, know to Chloe,
because she was just like girl, you gotta you know.

Speaker 5 (21:05):
She she's she comes to my house and she's like.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
You gotta show you a couple. Mom, you gotta they
need to see this sort of people need to see like,
you know, because I worked. I also worked hard to
erase the vixen things. It's there to erase, you know,
everything that I just feel like doesn't represent the person
I am today, Like I'm a full time mom and
like that's what I do.

Speaker 4 (21:24):
But to be honest, like I think and even if
we all in here have done things in our past
and have right, but you know that part is what
makes you, like learn lessons and make you who you are.
I don't think ever like erasing things, but more just
like this is what I've evolved.

Speaker 3 (21:40):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah, I just feel like that's
what And then a lot of it my kids.

Speaker 5 (21:47):
Motivate me to just do something. Step into the light
of motherhood. Yeah, like the light of lightihood and moving
onward and upward within yourself as a woman.

Speaker 3 (21:57):
Like I can cook like nobody knew.

Speaker 5 (21:58):
That, but here we are. We'll let her come over
and cook for us.

Speaker 2 (22:04):
Okay about can.

Speaker 3 (22:07):
We can do a little listener?

Speaker 1 (22:14):
You can't cut, so what can.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
I'm working, She's I'm working on my girl.

Speaker 5 (22:18):
Okay, good see this is what it's all about. This
is what it's about to be a girl's girl.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
I can't cook.

Speaker 5 (22:23):
She could cook. Teach me how to cook. You're pulling
you out of your shelf, and like.

Speaker 4 (22:27):
People need to see this, and sometimes you need somebody
that you could trust to actually say that.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
Or else I probably would have still been like watching everybody.

Speaker 4 (22:35):
Like, but even the journey for you, like going to
get plastic surgery, that was something that you documented to.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yes, And I did that because again I'm a mom.
Now I had these I got to be up at
the school and stuff, and I had these like you know,
big old boobs, and I just was like, you know,
it's some to tone it down a little bit, like
I'm not again, like I'm so far removed from being
a vixen and all that, and I just wanted a

(23:07):
more subtle look.

Speaker 5 (23:09):
I wanted to look just better in my clothes.

Speaker 3 (23:11):
I just felt like it was just like they were
sitting on my neck, Like I just didn't like to
look anymore.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
But you look great, look amazing, Like I like, this
friendship is working for us.

Speaker 3 (23:22):
For us, working for the girl.

Speaker 5 (23:26):
So one are some more things that that we're gonna
end up seeing on the on the Blood Girls, girls
and make.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
Sure y'all subscribe.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
Yes, subscribe, But I would say, we're having a girl's
girls walk every first Friday of the month. So it's
pretty much Houston is a food desert. Like everybody there
is pretty like pretty pretty large overside and well nourished everything,
everything bigger in text. But coming from a place like Miami,

(23:54):
you really noticed.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
Because everybody's so skinnier, everybody.

Speaker 2 (23:58):
Working health near in Miami literally, So I was just like,
I feel like we need to do something to push
the girls to like work out when I work out
and stuff like, I wish I had a workout partner.
I wish I had somebody to do this with. Every
first you.

Speaker 3 (24:11):
Heard it, I wish I had a workout partner. That
was so shady.

Speaker 4 (24:15):
She's trying to say, trying to say, you're working partner
right here.

Speaker 5 (24:20):
She's she's saying, girls approach her.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
She isn't working out from the day.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
Out there far. No, you know, I go to my
workouse on my own, pilates everything. But a lot of
girls don't have the confidence to do that on their own.
So I'm like, Okay, let's at least do this walk.
It's three miles first Friday, every month and all the
girls can come. So so far we have a lot
of sign ups, like the girlies are coming and it's
just like where you're pink and come.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
I had this run Club. I got to restart it again.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
But the wh point of it was that it's for
people who don't normally wouldn't Like some people it would
come and they really do run. But then it was
for everybody, like some people who normally wouldn't get out
and move and you know.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
You just go out.

Speaker 4 (25:07):
You can run, jocks, get walk, crawl whatever, just hang out. Yeah,
And it was like three and a quarter of miles
and people ended up doing their own little spin offs
and like forming their own groups, going on trips together.
Just a meeting at the run Club. So I like that,
like to get out and move and encourage people no
matter what space that you're in, whether you're an expert

(25:27):
runner and do marathons or you've never done this at all,
you know, just to know that we're all welcome.

Speaker 1 (25:33):
I like that we need to go to Houston and walk.

Speaker 3 (25:37):
It's December.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
I feel like we need to go out there.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
Friday. Friday, So y'all don't come December, maybe January you
never know or we're going to keep having it. But
girls always say it's hard to make friends. So I'm like,
this is your trial. These are the girls are going
to wake up at eight o'clock in the morning and
come do a walk.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
Do you think it's hard to make friends.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
For me personally? Because I'm really am a girl's girl
and I'm just so nice to everyone. But I feel
like if you are like more stand offish like litera,
she's more like stand offs just to herself. I think
it is harder because people think you're a b I TC.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
But I'm not. I'm just I'm more shy, like timid,
like shy, That's what it really is. I'm more just
like a hie until you talk to me and I'm
like oh and then I did this and look at
my kids, and you know, it's like that right, just
like she got to warm up. She's like hi, and

(26:37):
this is my friendlier and I'm like hi.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
And some people can misinterpret that, like you said, as
being you know, standoffish, or maybe she's.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
But it's not like very much very friendly.

Speaker 2 (26:51):
To be very fair to you. I feel like you
probably don't know why people are trying to come to
your space. You know, so probably and you probably have
way worse situation than me, So I give you grace
with that versus like I've had weird situations but it
comes off so quick versus like you know.

Speaker 3 (27:06):
People will just kind of like lay on you and
just you just never know what what the motive is
or you know, they're trying.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
To get the little guys up. And you know you
on the blogs, shit you said.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
You're writing from fake page, spilling my tea.

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Oh I know it is.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
A real gossip girl.

Speaker 4 (27:26):
So tell us a little bit more about your whole situation,
like with your with your man. Okay, okay, So this
is your first guy that you're living with and you've
been together for.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
Officially a year, especially a.

Speaker 2 (27:42):
Year and a half. So he's African. He's going in
so very different culture, very very different culture. But I'm learning.
I'm learning because African culture is very different than African
American culture.

Speaker 5 (27:53):
So I feel like it takes patience, it takes love.
But did y'all see this story. You got a lot
of cooking to learn. You got to learn American food,
and don't.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
Like he don't get American fool, so he can be
grace because he knows like it's hard, so I teach
me how.

Speaker 4 (28:09):
To get Did you see this story about this guy
who was like a leader He said there was like
four hundred, yes, and he leveled on the.

Speaker 5 (28:16):
People and they found it on his hard drive. It
was and they were all like married women, yes, brothers
and everybody's wife.

Speaker 1 (28:32):
You know, the tapes are out.

Speaker 4 (28:33):
Yes, they leaked those sex tapes, so they're like actually
on you can see them.

Speaker 1 (28:39):
You know how awful that is. People are like, why
are they giving him such a hard time?

Speaker 4 (28:44):
They were consensual situations and they both knew the camera
was there, so you can see them, like looking in
the camera when it's happening.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
Why would a person do that?

Speaker 4 (28:53):
Like, but people were also saying I could see why
because he was well in death out. Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
He must have been a fool out here sagon lord four.

Speaker 5 (29:09):
Four hundred and I think everybody was married and yeah,
pretty much married and and and not just married but
married to people that he were friends and family, pastor.

Speaker 3 (29:22):
Anybody can.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Do that on tape?

Speaker 2 (29:26):
Why do that? I don't know. Maybe I'm still old
school with marriage, but I'll.

Speaker 5 (29:30):
Just like you sit in front row, come on there
like just smiling every sing, like the.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
First after charge.

Speaker 4 (29:42):
So I gotta ask you, how much does it matter
to you if a guy is well and down? I
feel like I had this conversation.

Speaker 3 (29:52):
There isn't such thing as too much?

Speaker 1 (29:54):
Does it matter?

Speaker 5 (29:55):
There is such thing as too much? And also you
can have all of that and I know to do
with it, and then it's a waste. Yeah, then it's
a waste.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
But that's my opinion.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
How much how much the sis matter to you? Could
you be with somebody that was like.

Speaker 2 (30:10):
I have to be with somebody I'm in love with.
We can work through anything with love.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
Okay, even if it was like this.

Speaker 5 (30:16):
I tried that, we want to work through that far.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
You won't get that far.

Speaker 3 (30:23):
I tried to work through the little one.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
What's t I tried.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
It didn't last, it didn't.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
You're not gonna get that far.

Speaker 3 (30:32):
I was.

Speaker 1 (30:33):
I was in love, and that's not going to get
that far.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
You're in love.

Speaker 5 (30:35):
I was. I was in love before we did it,
and I knew going in what I was working with
and I just was like, I love him, and I tried,
but after a while, I was like, I.

Speaker 2 (30:46):
Need to get right.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
It makes it very easy.

Speaker 5 (30:49):
I need I need a back blown situational effort. I
need a whole and he wasn't able to hit that,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
So it definitely matters, but it's not means yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
Yeah, so you could be with somebody that was like
this or no.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
That's a little extreaming extreme.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
That's a matter of extreme that like you know, you
have a month like a.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Like this, but this like this.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
Need to know the other.

Speaker 3 (31:24):
Actually we need all we need, we need to all.

Speaker 5 (31:26):
We need to make a listen of pros and the
cons and see where here.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
Okay, everything amazing. It's just this.

Speaker 2 (31:36):
Everything, everything amazing.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
Fifty You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (31:40):
You're chilling good personality, because how could he not generous?
That's fair? How could you know? I just don't even
feel like we would get that far, just be like,
oh okay, maybe not.

Speaker 5 (31:54):
And I waited, y'all too. I waited like four or
five months, maybe six months.

Speaker 4 (31:58):
He waited because he was like, I gotta get at first.
I got to make sure she ain't love that's what
they do. He was like, we ain't gonna do it
till you love me. Knowing I can that little thing
first time. Do y'all think they'd be knowing because.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
They gotta know they never watched porn. They know you
do look like that.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
They know you know it could be absolutely know.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
They're out there measuring and telling their friends and the
whole day.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Especially when they're young, and like if they play.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Sports, they've known for a very long time.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
Ship that.

Speaker 5 (32:38):
Put on your magnifying all right, so we got this
walk going on.

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Now.

Speaker 4 (32:45):
Another thing that you guys talk about is this stay
at home girlfriend lifestyle. So give us that tea because
I would love to be able to stay at home
for just even a little while.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
I don't know if I could do it for too
long though.

Speaker 2 (32:58):
I mean I've been to stay at home girl firm
for a long time. So it's just you know, you
can have your hustles, you can make your money, you
can do your one too. For me, I've been doing
social media for about five years through traveling, and I've
just been technically a stay a home girlfriend. I don't
go to a job every day.

Speaker 4 (33:16):
Yeah, but that's not really you still work, You're doing
your thing like you entrepreneur, entrepreneur.

Speaker 2 (33:21):
Yeah, I say stay at home girlfriend because it's like
you're not going to work. And a lot of people
from the outside looking in. I know for sure because
even girls have gone back and forth to me, They're like,
you don't work. I'm like, yes, I do, but I
work at home the things I do on my phone
and you enjoy yourself.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
People be mad about that.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
They hate it like they hate their.

Speaker 1 (33:42):
Everything.

Speaker 3 (33:43):
You have every going on.

Speaker 5 (33:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (33:47):
I literally just said to somebody like, I do work.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Yeah, yes you do.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
I do.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
From Atlanta to do this show every other week. And
she fights to it. She'd be like, I'm on the
train right now.

Speaker 5 (33:59):
Com on election Day this morning and then got on
to Wilana flew in the JFK.

Speaker 4 (34:07):
And it's flying right back to go do an episode
of lip service.

Speaker 3 (34:11):
South Yeah, South Yeah. I just started it.

Speaker 5 (34:15):
Okay, So when you in Atlanta whenever that may be
in Houston, remember we can do service, yes indeed, and
then go walk you know, gotta be go get a
little hookah after thank you. That's but people do invalidate

(34:36):
you when they feel like you don't do what they do,
but they feel like they don't physically see you putting
in the work. It doesn't matter if you see it
or not. Bitch, I'm doing it.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
I get up every day and do what I do
and it's smart and make what I may happen.

Speaker 5 (34:50):
And just because you don't see it, or just because
it isn't what you perceive as me, still I'm still
and I feel like that's what you were getting.

Speaker 4 (34:58):
At both of How would your man feel if you
got like a regular day job but they hate that
for you?

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Mon would kill me. He would kill me.

Speaker 3 (35:07):
Because it takes away from his time.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Yeah, it takes away from his time. And once again,
he's African, so he already is like, you know, he
respects the things that I do. But he's already like
all right, by five, pack it up, like it's time
to any time. Yeah yeah, Like no, he would. I
literally like, you could not date a woman. You would
lose your mind. He's like, that's why that's why we work.

Speaker 1 (35:30):
What about you?

Speaker 4 (35:30):
What if you got like you were like, look, I
just need to get it. I just want to get
a job. I want to, like you don't want to.

Speaker 5 (35:36):
I'm not going to say that anyway, I wouldn't say that.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
But what when when you were younger, what did you
think you were going to be?

Speaker 2 (35:46):
Like?

Speaker 4 (35:47):
Were there things that you were Like when I grow up,
I'm what, did you go to school for?

Speaker 3 (35:51):
Forensics? Terminology?

Speaker 1 (35:54):
So I need your help?

Speaker 5 (35:58):
Give me don't get me your phone in five minutes,
so criminology.

Speaker 3 (36:05):
I want to do forensic pathology. That's what I was
going to school for.

Speaker 5 (36:08):
But listen, you can't get away with ship especially now.
Oh my god, I bet that comes in handy.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
It's like just being able to like think fast, critical thinking,
know one that a person is lying being to what
are the tells.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Tips?

Speaker 3 (36:29):
You just kind of like it's like body language. If
you ask a person a question and it's like they automatically.

Speaker 5 (36:34):
Like just like shifting, Like that's just like a breathing, breathing.

Speaker 3 (36:40):
It's like starting the you know, I think you got
to ask a question, asks a question in a different way,
same question, but a different way, and you'll get a
different answer. And if you get a different answer, boom right, okay, cheat.

Speaker 5 (37:00):
You.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Heard the boys a different way.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
That's a different way. I feel like men are a
work in progress.

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Always there you go. That's with you to say I'm
a work in progress.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
I feel like, okay, I do feel like maybe some
men just aren't like that. But I do also feel
like some men are just wired different, and I feel
like this is something that is just like you gotta
work with them work well, it's up to you if
you want to work with with with that or with them.

Speaker 1 (37:48):
You have the information, do with.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
It what you will there, because which works for you
won't work for somebody else. But at the end of
the day, it's no real way to tell what your
man is doing when you're not with him. So I
feel like there are ways, well, there are ways. It
depends on home. You want to stress yourself.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
Like my man, he goes to the forensic pathologist.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
I'm not going to I'm not going through it.

Speaker 2 (38:09):
I'm not going through a phone.

Speaker 3 (38:10):
You can't pay me, it's illegal now anyway, I'm not losing.

Speaker 2 (38:14):
And stressed over stuff I can't control.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
Fifteen pounds or two days gone, the stressed guy out.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
I feel like when you're in a relationship, you just
got to trust each other and go from there. You
never went through a phone, no, no, Okay, when I
was like seventeen and I never went through one again
because he was sleeping with his homegirl. Then he used
to bring me around all the time.

Speaker 3 (38:33):
The best friend's always.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
And I was seventeen. I will never forget that. I
will never go through a phone.

Speaker 3 (38:39):
That gain's the word I want that she is.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
I was throwing your face, like y'all just both smiling
in my face and then like everybody.

Speaker 3 (38:46):
Else knows, you the only one that don't know. I'll
never go through a phone.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
She was not a girl.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Girl, I never did it.

Speaker 5 (38:51):
Ever you do.

Speaker 3 (38:52):
I'm saying that I won't do it now now, Okay,
she was so cold. I used to go through phones
and I would go right to the to the drama.
So if you go to the message and you go
in your message, I type in my name or I
type in girls names that I were familiar with or whatever,
and I would just like read the all the messages
that came up with you know it just.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
A word like love.

Speaker 3 (39:18):
Address.

Speaker 2 (39:19):
I'm doing it. I'm not doing it. If it meant
to happen, it'll come. The besties that hit me up
in the DM, whatever the case. They be like, hey,
that's what they used to do.

Speaker 3 (39:28):
Girl. When I say girl, they used to record videos
and send them to me and my day.

Speaker 2 (39:33):
The girlies a help. The girlies like Besie. I just
be like they definitely tell me when they see my
men in Houston.

Speaker 5 (39:41):
And they see and they said video head shots proof.

Speaker 2 (39:44):
Okay, so it'll come out.

Speaker 4 (39:47):
And is that something that you would bring to him,
like somebody sent me this or do you not?

Speaker 3 (39:52):
So I'm the type of person I feel like I'm
not I'm not gonna cry and stay. So if I'm no,
I'm not ready to leave you or whatever, like that's
something that's Those are just things that I keep under
my hat, okay. And I just feel like sometimes I
just be like, okay, whatever, but it's like there's no
reason to fuss and fuss and fuss about.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
It unless you're not gonna les.

Speaker 3 (40:13):
Yeah, just cry, put in your pocket and then I'm
back over there two days. I love.

Speaker 1 (40:25):
Listen, what do you think doing an alement? Cheat? Not
all right?

Speaker 3 (40:34):
I feel like there's like, you know the outline a
little few people, but.

Speaker 1 (40:40):
Have you ever cheated?

Speaker 3 (40:44):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (40:46):
I love that pause.

Speaker 2 (40:47):
No shift.

Speaker 3 (40:52):
I have and I feel and I was, I was
a lot younger, and I feel like I don't know
it's something. Maybe it's like still guilt guilt in me
about it. I always feel like things that happened like
in my love life, like I'm still paying for it
because I broke it. I broke somebody's heart that I
feel like wasn't cheating on me, like at that time,

(41:14):
you know, I feel like I broke his heart, but
I feel like I'm still paying for it. I don't
know why. Maybe it's I still feel guilty about.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
Tell me I want to hear this though.

Speaker 3 (41:22):
I feel that too. Though. It was like I don't know,
I just I was younger. I was eating a guy,
I was dancing, you know, like being in a club,
you used to meet a bunch of people, and it
was like once you get introduced to like the glitz
and the glam and like other people can show you
a different type of lifestyle and then like you have
this like regular Joe here, and it was just like

(41:44):
I just kind of started doing my own thing. And
then what happened was he went through my phone and
then it was just like a thing and it was
just like he's crying and like but I love you,
I love you. I'm like I just don't want to
be with you no more. I don't I can't do
this no more. It was just like an every time
something bad happens in my life, like my love life,
about karma.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
That's do you know where he is now?

Speaker 3 (42:07):
We're friends now?

Speaker 5 (42:08):
Okay, yeah, so that's not bad karma because at least
you guys are cool.

Speaker 3 (42:14):
Yeah, it's like married.

Speaker 5 (42:15):
Now and look you might have did him my favorite.
It's canceled. It's canceled.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
This is the world.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
Does the wife know y'all still cool?

Speaker 3 (42:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (42:30):
I don't know if she I don't know how that
step back with you if he could. I don't do
me Like, that's not my problem.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
I don't do marry man.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
Have you ever cheated?

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Yes? No, No, I wouldn't do it again, though, just
because I do feel like similar to you, Like I
feel like you really hurt the person and you think
cheating could be so small, but you can cheat and

(43:08):
find the love of your life, and now you're just
in a whole situation. So I just be like, look,
I'm just gonna be my person and things don't work,
we're gonna move on. I'm not about to get into it,
especially now these days too. You can't even if even
if I wanted to cheat, I couldn't shoat in peace.
You can't go nowhere, especially not in huh. People taking
pictures telling people building.

Speaker 3 (43:29):
Exactly imagine this scenario. Imagine cheating on the person that
you're with, because this is kind of what happened to
me in that instance, cheated on and thinking you're about
to be with this person, and the person kind of
like dubs you, and then you're left alone and just

(43:52):
a girl.

Speaker 2 (43:56):
That's crazy hands and feet after that, because.

Speaker 3 (44:00):
Now I can't show a face in the whole town.

Speaker 2 (44:04):
Damn Levele homicide.

Speaker 1 (44:08):
And then you probably went back like I'm sorry, you know,
I was real sorry.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
But it's hard for guys to get past that. I
think women forgive that more than men do.

Speaker 5 (44:20):
Because making dish it, but they can't say that hurts
them to they that she was giving up that mouth
or whatever. That's why I said, I am not like
staying and crying, like I've seen stuff before and I
just be like, all.

Speaker 7 (44:37):
Right, carry on, but yeah, I'll just be like, Jordy,
have you cheated?

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Yeah, I'm cheated. I felt really bad about too.

Speaker 6 (44:51):
I felt like there was a karmic thing following me.
I feel like I still low key feeling that way. Yeah,
I feel like, you know, he's over married.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
I've cheated, but I never I don't feel bad.

Speaker 5 (45:02):
The same cheat it and I never felt did you
really like them?

Speaker 1 (45:08):
Because the only reason I've.

Speaker 3 (45:09):
Ever cheated was because cheat back.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Yeah, you guy cheats on me.

Speaker 4 (45:14):
And I also anytime I've ever cheated has been because
I knew the relationship was over. And so sometimes I
think we do that because we've already kind of moved on.
We just haven't like officially ended it, if that makes sense.

Speaker 5 (45:27):
Like, yes, we ended in our minds, right, we already know,
like you don't get this, you out here doing whatever,
So let me build them the strength.

Speaker 3 (45:37):
That was how I was when I went and got
my back blown out.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Because it was.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
You and I was already out of there.

Speaker 5 (45:45):
Mentally, and I just went on it and then with you,
and then I broke up with him after I did it.
I cheated and then I was like, Okay, it's not
gonna work.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
That'll do it. You were like I just.

Speaker 3 (45:57):
Because I wanted to keep getting and let me just
can't go.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
From this at home? Yeah, bigger because they're gonna know,
are not.

Speaker 3 (46:06):
Really gonna know.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
They don't know. Why can they know?

Speaker 5 (46:08):
Because they're gonna be because it's not it's gonna be
a little more stressed out.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
You know that's okay, especially if it is like this,
like it was never hit in the wall anyway.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
I just feel like, I don't know, I just feel
like a guy will know.

Speaker 4 (46:33):
I don't know why, but you know how sometimes like
you with somebody they're big and then you feel like damn.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
You know, stressing me.

Speaker 5 (46:40):
Maybe if it's too soon, let it get back right
then you got it or you can just go get
you can go get wet, get layers of rejuvenation like
I did, because that was when.

Speaker 3 (46:59):
I did it. Was that. It's great? Still what did
it feel like? Nothing? But it was better?

Speaker 1 (47:06):
Yeah, hasn't nobody else has laser rejuvenation.

Speaker 3 (47:09):
I've done it. I did it what twice? Three times?

Speaker 2 (47:12):
What?

Speaker 3 (47:12):
Three time?

Speaker 5 (47:13):
Well, I'm gonna tell you why because the first time
I did it was five six years ago.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
That's the lost teen all the time.

Speaker 5 (47:21):
So yeah, the first time I did is because I
was suffering from incontinence and when I saw it, it
was a thing I got to be. I couldn't hold
my pee, so I saw that that helps with that, right,
and then so it's like a you do it like
two to three times to reach the full potential. So
I did that round of it and then you get
it touched up like two years later. So then I
got to touch up. And then I was working doing

(47:44):
promo for a Goals. I had got some light box
and they're like, any other procedure you want, you could
do for free. We offer laser videw and I was like, oh, yeah,
I've done it before, should I do it again? So
but listen when I did at that time, the lady
was like, you don't need it.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
She was like, much tighter.

Speaker 5 (47:58):
It makes you tighter, But like, what is it? It's
it's like a probe. It's like a it's like a probe,
like almost like a dial though, and they put it
in you and it turns around in a circle and
it just hits everything with a laser in it.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
Yeah, and it really really works.

Speaker 5 (48:13):
Like I can't comfortably wear a super Plus tampon.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
Oh wow, I can. I can't.

Speaker 3 (48:20):
I can wear it, but.

Speaker 5 (48:25):
Yeah, it it bothers me and it makes my because
you know, tampons already make your cramps worse. But like
with super Plus, I'm like, no, take this out of me,
but I can't take it.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
What about you think that could work in your butt. Like,
let's just say you do a lot of anal probably.

Speaker 3 (48:41):
I mean, tissue is tissue, you know the ana feel like.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
I'm just saying for the game.

Speaker 5 (48:52):
Bottom and that thing back up, because you know, the
vagina is a is a muscle, so it's fun a contract.

Speaker 3 (49:06):
But you know, with age and and we're in terror, I.

Speaker 5 (49:10):
Hate to say it like that, with age and usage, right, usage,
With age and usage, you know, we lose elasticity, our
muscles get weak. And this is what the nurse practitioner
the very first time, this is what she explained to
me as the you know, the health benefits and everything
and why it works.

Speaker 3 (49:31):
And it really did work, she said.

Speaker 5 (49:32):
And now because of that, it's it's it's tighter, it's better,
it's wetter, and life's great. Yeah, that's still.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
All right, Choe.

Speaker 4 (49:47):
What's something that you haven't done that you want to
do in the bedroom? I don't know you had a
first thought. No, I don't because I feel like we've
like I've done thing like that. I want to do that.

Speaker 2 (50:02):
I want to do Like I'm super against the butt
play and all that stuff. So yeah, like we sprinkles, yeah,
like not not into that, but everything that I have
wanted to do. We definitely do, We've done, like I
feel like that's the key to a bomb relationship is
like your sex life has to be top tier. Okay,
if it's not, it's just like, especially for a man,

(50:24):
myn is physical beings.

Speaker 4 (50:25):
So yeah, you're right about that's when they go to
try to feel that boy exactly.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
And we ain't gonna feel well, we're gonna tryna try it.

Speaker 1 (50:33):
Boy, Lara, what about you? Is there anything you haven't
done that you want to do? H nothing.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
I don't do butt play either. That's not my thing.
I just don't even let's not even talk about that.
I don't bring don't bring it up, not even a finger.
I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Okay, I'm not mad at that. I don't do that either.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
I told you a lot of guys we warning it,
but we're not doing it in my house.

Speaker 4 (51:00):
He said that in my house, I feel like I
always hard to stick a finger in there.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
Oh see, I was talking about the other way, like
gods we wanted that too. Oh oh yeah, and yeah.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
That doesn't even ask that.

Speaker 2 (51:15):
I was just saying, how do you get there? I
don't know, but that's just like, yeah, and I have
friends that like they like Mammy and love it and
even like Gabriel and the way. Wait, they said that's

(51:35):
their thing.

Speaker 3 (51:36):
That is cool.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
Good, they opened up, talked about it. That's their thing.

Speaker 1 (51:40):
I know they regret saying that to like we were
too honest, you know what.

Speaker 4 (51:49):
I know a lie earlier, we were talking about the
guy who had the sex with like the four hundred
different people. Do you notice that if you see the tapes,
he keeps playing with his nipples while he's having sex.
But he was playing with his own nipples. He was
like hitting it and then he was like playing with that.
I don't know if I haven't seen it, but he

(52:10):
kept on seeing that.

Speaker 3 (52:11):
I just keep seeing the little the professional picture of him.

Speaker 4 (52:14):
Oh yeah, yeah, like this guy did x y Z.
That's so funny to me. Is there anything that what's
a turn off for you in the bedroom?

Speaker 3 (52:25):
Absolutely? No, absolute, Dry you up and show you this too.
I don't like, do not put your tongue on my ear?
I will literally I hate that too.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I hate that too, is.

Speaker 3 (52:38):
Why would you do that? That was disgusting. I want
to wipe my ear out right now. I'm just thinking
about it.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
Yeah, I don't just like that.

Speaker 5 (52:47):
I'm just like, yeah, I don't like, don't put your
tongue in my ear, ruin the whole thing to make
me some little don't really that.

Speaker 1 (52:54):
I don't mind. Well, like your way, don't. It depends.
I feel like things like that.

Speaker 4 (53:00):
Anything can feel good if it's done in the like
right time, or if you are an edible or something.

Speaker 3 (53:07):
No, no, no, no no, not in feet don't.

Speaker 2 (53:10):
I don't like. Oh I don't like feet. I like
you like feet, like, okay, my person mean I don't
want to feed you know, And.

Speaker 3 (53:21):
Are you licking them?

Speaker 5 (53:22):
No?

Speaker 2 (53:23):
Okay, that's because okay.

Speaker 3 (53:26):
We're trying it. Didn't like it?

Speaker 1 (53:28):
Wait, you did what ones?

Speaker 3 (53:30):
I tried it?

Speaker 1 (53:31):
Lik a toe? I never tried whatever?

Speaker 2 (53:38):
And what moment are you licking the tight?

Speaker 3 (53:40):
And are they clean? He actually asked me to do it.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
He asked me to lick his toes.

Speaker 5 (53:44):
Yeah, And I was like, I never did it before.
He's like, try it, you might like it, And I
was like, don't like it?

Speaker 2 (53:56):
Everybody, Yeah, it was very much. I couldn't like guys, no,
I can't. But I could rub you. I could rub you,
but I can't.

Speaker 3 (54:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (54:06):
I didn't once you said a few She said a
few tones, not a few times, right, person, one person,
A couple of toes.

Speaker 1 (54:17):
You must have been on with that night like I was.

Speaker 3 (54:21):
I was, I was willing to go down and flames about.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
It maybe that night. And he'll never forget that either.

Speaker 3 (54:31):
I have a son.

Speaker 1 (54:35):
That got me was that night I was sucking his
toes and next thing I remember, and then he didn't
pull out.

Speaker 4 (54:46):
And now we're here, And how did you say, like,
come in me, because you know that's how it happens
when you say it, and then guys can't stop.

Speaker 3 (54:54):
You know what my eyes said, what I said the
words give me a sign?

Speaker 5 (54:59):
Mhm really, oh it's got real, talk about a manifestation,
give me a son?

Speaker 1 (55:07):
And God said, grant it.

Speaker 3 (55:10):
I wish granted looks just like.

Speaker 1 (55:14):
That's cute. Did you mean it when? And you meant
it when you said it?

Speaker 3 (55:17):
Like clearly? I mean she was.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
Heat of the moment, you saying heat.

Speaker 3 (55:23):
Of the moment. It was very true. But then you know,
like posts, you know clarity, It was like.

Speaker 1 (55:30):
That just like it happens, it happens, yeah, and then
it happened.

Speaker 5 (55:35):
So when you found out that not just that you
were pregnant, but that you were pregnant with the boy.
Did you refer back to that moment with him? Like yo,
I really did say.

Speaker 3 (55:43):
We both did. It was it's like still an ongoing thing. Okay,
I still get picked on about it. I'd be like,
that's cute.

Speaker 1 (55:49):
When you're ready for another when you can suck some
toades and say.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
That's how it works. Yeah, right, I got a kid.
But yeah, my son he looks just like me. He's
so cute. He's one. He's shoving my son.

Speaker 2 (56:10):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
Wow, that's so cute.

Speaker 2 (56:13):
He's so cute.

Speaker 3 (56:15):
You got your boy and you girl, are you done?

Speaker 1 (56:17):
So a year old and uh, seventeen month old?

Speaker 5 (56:21):
Seventeen month old one?

Speaker 3 (56:24):
You're done? Or you want more kids? People like he's
twenty eight. No, he's true.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
You feel like you got more kids though, Yeah, you do.

Speaker 3 (56:33):
More, But I don't have any more kids until like
I'm literally walked down somebody's house.

Speaker 1 (56:40):
Yeah I'm not doing that as a conversation.

Speaker 3 (56:43):
Like I'm just not doing it no more. It's like
somebody gotta or it's gonna be me and my two period.

Speaker 1 (56:50):
But somebody because you're in a relationship.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
So yeah, that's somebody. Well, you can see you.

Speaker 2 (56:56):
Hear her what I say, he hear her?

Speaker 5 (56:59):
You know, have you discussed that, like, are you getting
married and you feel like it's gonna happen.

Speaker 3 (57:05):
I don't know. I know I'm gonna get married, but
or not, one way or another. I'm gonna be a
bride walking on somebody. I'll jump in somebody period.

Speaker 4 (57:18):
Do you what if he's like, I don't ever want
to get married, does that mean that you're gonna be like, okay,
we can't do this anymore?

Speaker 3 (57:24):
Or well, that means that we don't share the same
values in life. Okay, So how can you be with
somebody that you don't Yeah.

Speaker 4 (57:30):
Because sometimes as women we also feel like he might
change his mind.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
Oh no, we don't have all day right, especially wanted
more kids.

Speaker 5 (57:38):
You already have a kid, Like you're already tied to
each other for I want another one. So I mean
I'm saying, if you're with this person that you already
have a child with, then you guys are tied together
for life.

Speaker 3 (57:49):
Then getting married shouldn't be that far off from right,
But neither should having a baby either. And I feel
like a marriage and I never understand this people. I
feel like when marriages walk away from them. But that's
what I'm saying, so to deal with you years and
years to come. So it's like commitments you feel like

(58:10):
we can have.

Speaker 5 (58:10):
I don't understand how people don't realize that. People don't
realize like, oh, that's just my mama. No, that lady
is in your life for the rest of your life
at least.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
Eighteen years maybe, I.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Mean, but you know, because you don't.

Speaker 5 (58:28):
You still have a child with this person, have to
have some type of respect everything.

Speaker 4 (58:35):
But you know, what it is is that a lot
of people do have kids and don't get married.

Speaker 3 (58:38):
It's too many people don't Yah.

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Okay looking from it's not okay with me though, yeah
for you.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
And I think even with K is that I only
had K because I was engaged to be married, right.

Speaker 5 (58:51):
It just didn't work out, but that was the goal,
that was.

Speaker 3 (58:54):
What was here.

Speaker 2 (58:55):
Yeah, these days people think it's judges to say I
want to get married, Like even on our blog. I
don't know if I told you about this comment. Somebody
was like, oh, Chloe's being shady because I had said
in Hawaii, I was like, when I got there, I
was like, yo, if I was married, I would say
another child is on the way, and they were like,
that's so shady to say that when you know your
friend has two kids not married.

Speaker 3 (59:17):
Those choices that I made, But yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:19):
It's just I hate that people make it.

Speaker 5 (59:23):
That's the choice, that's her standard, and she's standing on it.

Speaker 3 (59:26):
These are the dumb choices I made, you know.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
But I think people just do it all the time.
I just use it as an example, like people are.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
Like, I don't ever feel that way when you say that,
You're like, girl, like I should have said, I mean
you should. I should have stuck to my guns too,
But you.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
Know, but I feel like girls feel like get fell away,
Like oh, like what you mean you gotta get married,
or you feel like it's better, or you feel like
it's going to last. It's not that, it's just that's
my personal.

Speaker 3 (59:52):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (59:52):
And I don't knock you for your not you per se,
but other girls for personal mors. But it becomes like
very like heated conversation.

Speaker 1 (59:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (59:59):
I had to heat it co versation like that with
one of my friends before, but it was because see,
like you speak in a for you type of thing,
and I felt like she spoke in a way of
like bashing.

Speaker 5 (01:00:10):
She was like, yeah, because I could ever be a
baby mam. And I'd be telling her, telling her you
can because I was a fiance bride to be and
now I'm baby mama. I had no control over that.
It just didn't work out.

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
And like I tell her, you could be a single
mom in your marriage, right absolutely literally.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
Lonely.

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
Yeah, if it doesn't work out. Let's say you got
married to the man and you it doesn't work out,
Boom baby mama, boom single mom. It happened. So it's
like Chloe doesn't speak in that way. She don't speak
in a way of like like kind of like attacking me.
It's just like her own world. And I completely support it.

(01:00:55):
And I'd be like what I tell you. I told Coy,
I said, wait as long as you can, because Chloe
has no When Chloe first started like really coming around
some being around my kids, it was one day like
when she was leaving she I think she like pulled
me to the side. I would never forget that. She
was like.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
She was.

Speaker 5 (01:01:17):
One of the days when like my kids were just
like on this and Chloe is just like standing back.

Speaker 2 (01:01:24):
How you do it?

Speaker 3 (01:01:26):
So I'm not be telling her. I would tell anybody
that ever comes in contact with me, young girls, my friends, andybody,
I'll be like, wait as long as you can, because
it's fun, it's wonderful, it's beautiful. I love being a mom,
but it's no like at all.

Speaker 5 (01:01:39):
It's like you were looking at half step at all. Right,
unless you're a bad mom, then you can yember your life.
These kids once everything their scheduled, every kid kids and
then but you know, I.

Speaker 4 (01:01:56):
Think for women it's also a time thing too, because
sometimes us I don't want to wait too long.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
Yeah, you know, and that's unfortunate. Like man can wait
and be and.

Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
You gotta stand on business. I'm standing on business, like
I know what's coming ten tons down. But he knows,
like he already knows. He was like, I won't even
get you pregnant. Don't want to deal with that because
you're gonna be like frands tic going crazy, Like no, we're.

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Gonna do How does he prevent that from happening.

Speaker 2 (01:02:21):
We use we use protection, We do what we need
to do to make sure. But like like he already
knows it's gonna be a mess.

Speaker 3 (01:02:33):
So just like like we already know it's gonna be
as a child.

Speaker 2 (01:02:38):
He has a child already. He knows like literally what
it takes, what it all comes with.

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
How is your child his child's mother with you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:46):
So we don't have a strong relationship. But she just
got married so like literally like last year, won't yes like.

Speaker 3 (01:02:54):
That she never was like somebody is happy with that person.

Speaker 2 (01:02:59):
Yeah, so you're not to worry about it. But no,
So I hope to build a relationship with her. I
always tell him that I love his daughter down like
she's eight, about to be nine. He's from the Bronx,
like so literally up the street and like it's it's
it's good guys, it's cool. But he knows, like I
don't want the drama that comes with the back and forth.

(01:03:19):
When can the kid, you know, say it's too much?

Speaker 5 (01:03:22):
You know?

Speaker 2 (01:03:23):
And like I said, you know he's from the Bronx,
so his daughter is here, we're in Houston. It's a
lot on the child as well, just you know. So
I just want to just do it, not the right way,
but the way I feel.

Speaker 3 (01:03:33):
Like it's right for your way exactly exactly. And I'm
very much the friend of advocate. Hey, I'm so supportiate
and please wait, Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
The birthday. It's a lot of.

Speaker 3 (01:03:54):
I told you.

Speaker 4 (01:03:55):
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you know, and just to kind of uplift each other
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in person and are like, you know, I watch your
show all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:04:15):
I learned so much.

Speaker 4 (01:04:16):
Thank you come through the show and they have a
better understanding of each other, and so you know, what
you guys are doing is definitely something that we support,
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You know that's important.

Speaker 2 (01:04:51):
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