LS Episode 516: Cheating Down, Paying Up (feat. Dyce Payso)

Dyce Payso joins Angela Yee and the Lip Service crew for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation you don’t want to miss. From strip club etiquette (who’s really paying when 50 women show up?) to the heartbreak of being cheated on with a friend, Dyce keeps it 100 the whole way through.

He opens up about building his legacy from a big family, buying his mom a house, and the lessons that came with hustle, heartbreak, and forgiveness. We also dive into karaoke dreams (yes, Keyshia Cole!), his thoughts on male birth control, and how to tell if someone’s really there for him or just the lifestyle.

With his new project Tomorrow I Promise on the way, Dyce shares the song that best represents who he is, why $500 nights are just as real as $10K flexes, and what loyalty and growth mean to him today.

If you want honesty, laughs, and a deeper look at the man behind the music — this is it.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Its slip service men into like ye, I'm g G
maguire JORDI all right, disce pay sales in the building.
Congratulations to you, by the way. I know as we're
here today and this is airing later. But you just
had a listening party. Tell us about that and how
that was for you.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
I was, I was drunk half of the time, but
it was good.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
Drunk and love or just drunk both.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
In love with the moment, have fun. I mean, finally,
I'm about to drop.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
How is how is mixing relationships would work? Like bringing
a woman to a listening party or on the road.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
With math females. So it was like regular, like my untourage,
I probably got like fifteen females.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
I'm not talking about.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm either.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
I'm just oh, not like that.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
I'm just saying I just have math females with me
all the time.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
So it's just part of everyday life.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Why do you think, like, what is it about having
females around you as a female?

Speaker 3 (01:02):
You get you get fly for females, get head cuts
for a female. I don't want to be around God's
all day like you go to army with that females.
Females just they'll tell you small good. I want a
female to tell me stuff like.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
That, you definite don't know guy good.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah for some guys like that just wold niggas all
day together. That's just not ain't my style. Well know
what I'm getting first for and all that to be
around y'all, we spent a lot of money on my outfice,
I mean jewelry or that.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Let me ask you if you were we're fifteen women,
and so that means you gotta pay for all of them.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
Like if y'all go eat and everything.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
Were doing that, okay, good for you rather because you
gotta pay for these niggas too.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
That's what I was going to say that too.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
But me going to club like I mean dykmen and
all that, don't hold your horse like follow five hundred
hoss going to the bathroom, I mean high under the table,
your feel like bill the females.

Speaker 2 (01:59):
That one thing I can never justify to myself. It's
paying five a bottle. I feel like that is so
even with.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
God, don't come to the club. You know that's going
to happen. That's going to happen, right, Girls don't want
to drink. They don't want some hookah. They don't want
to drink all the things, the services like chill on
the block m hm was there every time.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
I was just thinking about a manager way back in
the day. I'm not going to name him, but he
had an artist who was nowhere and that is successful.
And they took me out to eat and he later
on in life told me like, we took you out
to eat.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
But he was like, literally, I had like not and.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
I remember when I was like, oh, they were like
you want another drink and I said yeah, and they
didn't get no drinks. They were drinking water, not really eating.
He was like, we really had no money at that
time when we took you out. We were just trying
to like, you know, kind of didn't take you out
to eat and everything you want.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
To second drink their stomach.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
He was like, he said he had to leave and
call his bank to make sure, yeah, that he could
like even pay pay for the bill the bill. Did
you ever have an experience like that? Because money is
not always flowing like that, and you go outside sometimes and.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Then I'll be sitting here lying if I said I
never had experience like that, I did, even even getting
when you get you you get experience like that, like
he was in the stalls with a little baby. Know
they was going crazy. They're going to keep up. Like
my stomach hurt. I'm like, I'm I don't know what
I ate, but.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
I got it. Keep tapping out what i mean.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
I'm like, nah, you start thinking about we throwing what
you started thinking about the bills like I'm just giving it.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
That's the real ship though.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Imagine like you know you're an artist, but you're not
like little baby Ben making all this money, winning at gambling, the.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
Getting ten out of time, get a little, get a
little seven. They do it. It's round two, now get another team.
You're like, all right, hold on, you know what i mean.
After the third round you like you look at that
like yo, I was installed. That was like in the winter.
I'm like, they going crazy. I'm not spending twenty thousand.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
I need to take it to the crib.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
That's always a good excuse too, because nobody could like
even question that.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
You know you got. You get outside, you start you
tell yourself that I should business at that seven.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
Thousand dollars ago. But you can't just be there and
not doing that. Because I also feel.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Like, I don't think you could be in the strip
club not throwing them.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
Oh my god, they got so mad.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
You may do pre said that you could, said you
could be in the ship club and not throw money.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
If you if you you could do that, if you
were if you're that nigga, like you called the club
every other day. But if you just go over there
doing that, that's that's a little weird.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
But the thing is, when you are artists, especially when
you were in your city, when you rep in your spot,
you know, when the spotlight is on you, you kind
of do feel obligated.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
But when you're not an artist, when you're just a
regular guy.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
And what I meant to clear up when they was
mad about what were they mad about will the strippers,
was like, don't tell them that they can't come in here,
that they can't come in here and not spend money.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Like we need everybody to spend money. I'm not saying
that they don't have to spend money when they go
to strip club. I'm saying you don't have to go
in the strict club as a regular smegular guy and
spend five, ten, fifteen, twenty thousand dollars. You can go
spend five hundred to one thousand dollars and be just
as school. You know what I'm saying, Like that don't happen.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
That's still a lot, exactly, there's still a lot for
the average person. People are actually intimidated by places like
Magic City and Startlelus because they feel like they can't
go because they're not going to s.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
Yeah, the girls a little demanding Atlanta.

Speaker 5 (05:25):
You think, you know, and they little with the security guard.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
If you ain't tipping them, they going to the security
guard on yo. Got you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (05:33):
That's true. Well, it's not if you're not tipping, but
if it's if.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
One time I was in there with them at Magic,
I don't know it was. That wasn't Magic, it was
stript Law was at and I ain't tip her and
she told the even actually did the thing.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
That's the thing was there was a miscommunication.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
She said two songs, so she started.

Speaker 4 (06:00):
She started dancing in front of you and you didn't
stop her. Well, yeah, she strip club edutte a balance. Yeah,
she tricked you into thinking that you asked for a
dance even though you didn't. And then she security was
on her side because of course she's gonna say I
was dancing the security about the glance over and seeing

(06:22):
her dancing, and then when you decided like, oh well,
I ain't even asked for this, but you know that's
what they do, that they'll just walk up to you
and just start dancing. And back back in my day,
that was unacceptable. What if the dances whack? Can you
get a refund?

Speaker 3 (06:37):
Like?

Speaker 4 (06:37):
No, okay, because if you think about it in the
especially I'm talking about in Atlanta specifically, that kind of
dance isn't like you They just get naked in front
of you on two step like it's not like they're
about to do.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Anything for real.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
They just dancing in front of you like they're not
about to spin around on their head and drop into
a split and all of that during like a dance.

Speaker 1 (06:56):
They don't say that.

Speaker 6 (06:58):
They just there to keep you company.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
And it's ten dollars a song I forgot.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
But it was like it was it was a couple of.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
Hundred, Oh it was ten dollars. She was trying.

Speaker 3 (07:05):
She tried game. He told me that she got you.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
They hustling, That's what I said, she she got You know.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
I was bad at him, Like why do you tell me.

Speaker 4 (07:17):
I feel like, pay yes our God country out the
Country's Let.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Me ask you this because you know, just from seeing
your rise to where you are today and we're going
to talk about that in the second.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
What were you doing before music? Like you don't want
to say how you just look at the.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Camera, like trying to be a basketball players.

Speaker 4 (07:46):
Trying but just here, sir, he was not trying to
play ball.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
I mean, I can't. I don't know how to put it.
They called me blanco one of my kids.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
Okay, like tequila, You're not here to what you say.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Music is what it is.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
It's just I feel like music my journal. What I mean,
It's like I don't live my music. So I just
feel like that's no way that expressed myself and all
that I was like, I used to love R and B.
I wanted to be a singer. I mean, I'll be
hormonizing and I'll be trying, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (08:22):
But what was your what's your goal? To karaoke song?

Speaker 3 (08:25):
She's a Cold?

Speaker 6 (08:27):
I love that.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
I love you know what I mean? I had in
the bronx to see the person to keep it holding
the bronx. I mean, I love like it's cool she's
cool like whoever broke her heart? Like the first person
broke up? Like everybody always break her heart because she's
finding the wrongs. Gosh, you mean she's I don't know,

(08:48):
breaking break her heart. She make a hot song.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
I know women hate that girl deserve to get the
heart broke. No, they don't know.

Speaker 3 (08:55):
Girls. Why you just now she forgetting her?

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Have you ever had your are broken?

Speaker 3 (09:00):
Hell? Yeah, I ain't know, like like like O d like.
I mean, of course we all human.

Speaker 6 (09:08):
Do you have any songs some breakup songs?

Speaker 7 (09:11):
Mm hmm than you said, okay, you just the only Yeah,
it's not a lot of love songs on this album.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
It's some outside songs. I want to hear about this
heartbreak though.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Well I got home broke a couple of times. You
want to hear what happened?

Speaker 6 (09:35):
And did you.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
Hm?

Speaker 1 (09:39):
And you wrote a song about it? So I know
that affected you?

Speaker 3 (09:43):
Then what's one? A few times showed she showed your
own the show version of it. She started dealing with
one of my means. Yeah, m you know how you
and I was in the clothing nigga and all that
You're chilling super bottles and all that, like it was like,

(10:05):
but I was so mad because he wasn't on one
type of on my level, Like I'm like, damn, get.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
Down the help. That's the that's the worst.

Speaker 6 (10:15):
If you want to cheat chat.

Speaker 3 (10:16):
Up damn Like a nigga was helping get money too.
Shed you find out she she signed insp one of
my phones. I had three phones. She sounded instrument one
of my phones because my phone was so messed up
and we got drunk and she forgot and I forgot
play like like a week later, I go on that

(10:37):
phone like it was just my Instagram with.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
The damn.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
I think you feel like that's not your friend because
he didn't tell you, because I think guy code is
sometimes guys do that because they think you don't care
about a woman, so they're like, whatever she for everybody,
and they'll do that. But he didn't tell you either,
And it's kind of.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
Just thinking about that retake tell you that was Drake absolutely.

Speaker 6 (11:08):
How long ago was this?

Speaker 3 (11:10):
It was probably like it's like seven years ago.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
Okay, m And he wasn't even She.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
Was writing me man pad with Dave fake pages and
I was the answer, oh the fake pages.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
But did he know?

Speaker 2 (11:23):
Because sometimes guys also don't think it's that serious tragic.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
Initiated it. Who know, we do well.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
We ain't gonna say all names. Yep, oh man, we
ain't gonna say names. Ain't gonna be paid me on
all the blogs right now?

Speaker 2 (11:48):
That was that was seven years ago. Okay, so that
was the first heartbreak? Was that a real heartbreak though?
That was your girl or just somebody you was messing with?
Because you know what, I'm gonna say this about guys too.
Sometimes if your boys know you messed with, most suppose tics,
they don't think.

Speaker 3 (12:01):
About anybody just a cardio and all that he said
about anybody a cardio car ain't doing stuff like that anybody.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
So what would you buy?

Speaker 3 (12:11):
I probably take care of bills, say a couple of bills,
some bread, stuff like that. Find you find us a
way to get some money you investing? Of course?

Speaker 2 (12:24):
Okay, you have you had that situation where like you've
actually helped the girl in.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
Yeah, yeah, what was you.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
About to say?

Speaker 4 (12:34):
I got a couple, got a couple of situations. He
got the money coming in from something he invested.

Speaker 3 (12:39):
I believed in you.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
I mean I believe in you.

Speaker 3 (12:45):
If you give my body, then you're going I'm gonna
do this just to show me a whole business playing
And I jacked like, oh.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
She and she did it. She said, I had a
business plan for you.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Always in the clubs. Get me the me, give me
the balls, saying and give me through this. I'm gonna
do it.

Speaker 1 (13:02):
I'm like, you know what, You're right, Okay, now she
getting too.

Speaker 3 (13:04):
I used to go to the Ship club and blow
twenty and meet up with Shorty and she'd give me
ten backs make me look good, Like.

Speaker 1 (13:15):
What had somebody come?

Speaker 4 (13:16):
I had somebody come to my birthday party and spend
twenty thousand dollars and I gave them ten backs just
to make it look like you really made a whole
lot of money.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
And I'll come and make it look like he spent
a money he has, say little.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
I understand how how how I was hustling? Is she
we have spend twenty, but I'll come with like four
niggas I'm making an actual five thousand because I only
put five.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Yeah, you're doing you're doing a little baby move like
they see you throwing and they feel like to throw
the money, you know what I mean? Where do you
see yourself settling down with like what type of woman
if you package, Yeah, a.

Speaker 6 (13:55):
Bar, she's the bark, she's a bar.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
She's single down to I just want to put that
going to messing up.

Speaker 3 (14:03):
But you just someone like regularly somebody like like.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
Just if it wasn't a celebrity, like what type of
woman like quality.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
Somebody's gonna keep you on your a game. You know
some girls behind feelings, how you feel like, somebody's gonna
tell you about it? So like soon you walk in
the house, she gonna tell you about itself. Somebody like
you could you could feel comfortable with talk to because connections.
Communication is the key. I gotta be able to look
at you and talk to you. I don't want to
be mad about anything. Like I can tell you anything.

(14:30):
I can tell you about females. You can talk about
every single thing. That's a good connection.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
She have to like also mess with other women.

Speaker 3 (14:37):
Too, Nah, I mean, I mean you got have fun.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
But so way you want to come home and tell
her about other women?

Speaker 3 (14:44):
No, like I could just tell you, like just there's anything.
I can just tell you anything. I mean, like I
gotta have.

Speaker 1 (14:50):
Like an of communication.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah, we got to be friends. I want to be
able to chill with you, watch a movie, watch like
I'll be comfortable with you. And you gotta gotta make
get mix some money. We gotta do things you can't
just be. I'm just a nigga doing everything I ain't
gonna work.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
How did you taste the women changed throughout the years,
from like when you were younger to now being an
artist and like having the success that you have.

Speaker 3 (15:14):
Ain'ting about the looks on it. But I gotta be
able to laugh with you, laugh, get to know you
for real, Like I gotta have that type of feeling,
like I mean, if it ain't that, it's like you
just a bad chick. Mm hm, you know what I mean.
I ain't know some ticks be bad chicks with no
type of sense.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Of human subs.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
Never watched Martin before, Jamie Fox. You can't watch nothing.

Speaker 1 (15:39):
Some culture. You need some culture like.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
You coming to the ball tonight? All right?

Speaker 2 (15:44):
But you know what, did you see this letter that
somebody wrote to you regarding your your album?

Speaker 3 (15:53):
Have seen anybody really though?

Speaker 2 (15:55):
I thought it was really nice, a little bit of
We're gonna give you a little bit of that today
because I just thought it was important, you know, because
sometimes you have to understand where.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Dear Dice pays So tomorrowing promise. But your voice is.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
An open letter to the Bronx Sam Sea, giving the
streets something real to believe in. And he said, there's
a weight that comes with growing up where funerals feel
more common than birthdays, where tomorrow is never guaranteed, and
where pain is often passed down like a family heirloom.
When I saw the title of Dice Pacers a coming
album Tomorrow and Promise, I didn't need to beat a

(16:30):
snippet or a view to feel it. I already knew
what it meant. And he talks about how much it
resonated with him. It haunted him. He said, he knows
what it's like to live on the edge of loss
and still find strength to keep moving. I'm writing this
because Dice pay Cel's voice, even before this album drops,
is already serving as a vessel for the ones who

(16:50):
feel forgotten. Can you imagine that somebody would relate to
that much? Like his name is nw O Sparrow. I
mean it goes on. It's like a long thank you letter,
you know, And he said, the fact that you bought
in Jim Jones, Juel Santana Dave East Ryan Browse Pas.

(17:11):
That tells me you're not just chasing a feature. You're
building with men who understand what it means to carry
pain in one hand and purpose in the other.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
That's not cloud, that's a calling. He's poetic, very nice.

Speaker 2 (17:23):
Yeah, so I just thought it was amazing that somebody
could be that like touched. And he also said, you're
seriously one of our last hopes in New York City.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
That's what the sheets me saying. I'm like the last
voice or this type of music I'm making like the
last voice because my music real.

Speaker 1 (17:39):
How do you feel about it?

Speaker 3 (17:41):
I mean, I just feel like there's a lot of responsibility.
It's like, who are you talking like this? Now? Everybody's
making whatever. It's a small, mean promise. Reason why I
came to the title. You know, they call me dice.
You never know what you get sometimes. I don't know
how i'ma feel when I wake up.

Speaker 1 (17:55):
What's your sign o?

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Jesus make second?

Speaker 6 (18:00):
I knew you were an Earth sign.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
Yeah. I don't have any issues with tourists. Ye, yeah,
I don't.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
I don't either, But yeah, y'all be outside, although that's
a bull's.

Speaker 3 (18:11):
But tomorrow I just you gotta take risks. Don't be
scared to take risks. Don't be spared because because they
at the end of the day, we look at it.
We only we live and we die.

Speaker 1 (18:22):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 3 (18:24):
So it's like in thirty seconds everything could changed. And
that really mattered, that fact. So that's why I moved
the way I moved, and I took it. I got
a lot of losses. A lot of people are lost,
you know what I mean. So it's like, I mean,
I feel like it was my angels. I keep all
them with me. That's how I moved. I'm over with
I pray to God and I pray to them.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
You know.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
I think it's fascinating, even how you and Jim Jones
hooked up and linked up.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
Can you talk about that just for a moment.

Speaker 3 (18:51):
I just one time, I was like, I just know
it was afan of the whole Dip said per game
when he when he's when he when he the own
thing with the whole burgame stuff. That's what I was.
Started doing the music, I'm like, nah, I gotta get
a copple And then I had hip Fred for the
for the Guard, and I was like, yo, i'munning. I

(19:12):
started I started doing music for real. I went around
getting all the features. I'm like, I need I need gym,
and he got me gym. I got like three feature.
I never put him up, still got three three features
from just to get the knowledge and I just yeah,
just locked in.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
After that, you be holding on the ship like that broke.
But like, what was it about the two?

Speaker 2 (19:33):
Because you know, sometimes there's a go you know, you
have a lot of features people you work with. What
was it about him when you guys linked up? Because
sometimes it's also hard for people to feel even the connection.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
I mean the connection and I should have turned the loyals.
It just connection. We got money together. It just it
just just connect.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
Right, work works.

Speaker 3 (19:54):
You can't I can't explain. It's just just connect. That's
that's a big broke.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
And as you find things that happening, what is going
on with your circle of people? Because I always hear
the stories of like as more success comes more having
to like tighten things up as far as the people
who's around you tightenment.

Speaker 3 (20:12):
Somebody get locked up, Now you've got to bail them out.
Somebody went out of food stamps, now you gotta pay.

Speaker 6 (20:18):
It becomes your problem.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
Since when I gotta pay for you won't getting cool, bro,
since like you're well, cash up come from just sending
me a request like you already you already send it
before you ask me.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
But people be thinking that, like you said, if you
go to this strip club and throw money, they're like
he's doing.

Speaker 3 (20:40):
All the time.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
But I don't like.

Speaker 6 (20:44):
Sorry, I don't like that because, like you said, it's
an entitlement. That's how I want to spend my money,
and I'm allowed to do that because that's how I
earned my own living and.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
You're not entitled.

Speaker 3 (20:56):
One of my men, one of my men greenshot of
me throwing you he can't give me get ahead of.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
Respect for our grown ass man, I feel like another man.

Speaker 6 (21:09):
That's why he rolls with women.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
Yeah, I'd rather do that females.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
You know I was just thinking about forgiveness, right. You
have a song Can in My Heart where you talk
about just it being hard for you to forgive. Let's
just put it that way. Is that something that you're
working on because we always talk about what forgiveness is
and what it means, and sometimes like not being able
to forgive is more of a burden on you. How

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many so I just want to know your thoughts on that,
because I know that's the oldest song. But I think
as we you know, and we can all talk about
forgiveness and what that means to us. But like, what
is it with you and forgiveness?

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Now?

Speaker 3 (22:01):
It's hard because like it's like once you cross me,
it's like I can't look at you the same, So
why we build it Like they ain't gonna they ain't
going full the same.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
So you cannot feel the same.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
But forgiveness is different, right, Forgiveness isn't like your back,
you know. Forgiveness is more like letting go. I forgive you,
and I understand the flaws that you have. You can't
be around me, but I do it to give you.

Speaker 3 (22:22):
And I'm you know, i'll be doing stuff like that,
but I only only I'm trying to let people get
to me twice. Yeah, once you're in my circle and
you do some snake stuff, I just cut you off.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
I agree, That's something I had to learn too.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
I mean, I'll just cut you off. I mean I
might see you in the club and get you one
of those and that's it. I just I can't can't
be laughing to I mean, I can't trust you.

Speaker 6 (22:46):
Have you ever forgiven someone and they've come back into
the circle or you just.

Speaker 2 (22:50):
I feel member you got a subspect for women only
a family member?

Speaker 3 (22:58):
Yeah, fel like I mean you know how big on that?

Speaker 1 (23:03):
What happened with that?

Speaker 3 (23:05):
Just a little back bite bye? Just talking like family
business to somebody else? That was that was one of
my a nigga, I ain't like.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Okay, I ain't checking right, but I forgive you know
family is different though, yeah, right, isn't it?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
What are your thoughts my forgiveness? Jordie Jore?

Speaker 6 (23:27):
You know, I was just thinking about this is I
feel like I have a lot of not a lot,
but I have a few friends that are really like
family to me, and I was thinking about how we've
gotten into physical altercations and arguments and we've forgiven each
other because they do become family. But other people I'm
quick to block and you'll never see or hear me again.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
Ever, people don't ain't forgive me.

Speaker 1 (23:53):
I was mad about Ah, so you need forgivenessimes.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
Baby, I'm sorry. You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (24:01):
You know what, Let's put it out there right now.
Let's get you some forgiveness.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
I don't care no more that was before.

Speaker 4 (24:09):
Like g on forgiveness, I've had to definitely for give
friends and family, and you know, it just gets to
a point where everybody can't go, you know, and and
you just have to realize that you can't. People are

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here for a reason in the season, and some people stay,
some people here for the long haul. Some people you
cross paths with and then you keep going in your
direction and they keep going in theirs. And it is
what it is. I'm personally going through, I want to say,
a growth spurt in life at this moment, and I
have some friction with family members that I am not

(24:53):
happy about, like literally in this moment, and this is
what makes me. This conversation made me literally think of
particular people and it's just like I'm at a point
with one of these situations where I would love to forgive,
but it's like, if there's no communication and that person
has completely removed themselves, how do you even make that happen?

Speaker 1 (25:13):
You know?

Speaker 4 (25:14):
So there are also times where I had to be
forgiven where things in the past nobody's perfect and like
you said earlier, communication it's all my communication.

Speaker 3 (25:24):
Yea, and broke his heart.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
Yes, I don't know if it's because it's cheating. Have
I cheated on somebody?

Speaker 3 (25:33):
I broke? He cried right there?

Speaker 2 (25:35):
God cry, But I don't know if I'd be believing it.
How many times you fake cried? Yeah you earlier you
said he was about to cry?

Speaker 6 (25:46):
Can you do it on point? Can we see that.

Speaker 1 (25:52):
Beautiful flowers looking at no trouble? I definitely had guys
cry this is so wrong, like that was. I didn't
do nothing wrong.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
Guys crying more because they messed up. You know how
y'all be crying because you messed up?

Speaker 1 (26:05):
And then we supposed I don't.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Think a god's supposed to cry and a girl she
don't know, because that's like damn niggas. You got you
got crying a car.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
But you don't cry on purpose. You cry because you
can't help it. You got to me because he caught
me in the bed with a girl. He cried about it.

Speaker 4 (26:21):
He cried about that he should have He didn't cry
in a moment, but he cried like when I spoke
to him that he.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
Should have got it. I would have gotten to bed.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
Yeah, he was over it. He was so upset. He
was so upset. Do you prefer at three summer or
one on one.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
A fulsome Oh.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
My god, why you had to take it there?

Speaker 3 (26:46):
A fulsome.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
Some men might say that's too much work. That's a
lot of work.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
Yeah, yeah, you got none. It's all day, that's all day.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
Okay, you don't that marathon not a race.

Speaker 3 (26:58):
I mean a few hours afford them, so that means
how many times?

Speaker 1 (27:06):
So you can go like back to back to back.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
You can chill and just watch them.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
I was just it's a lot of things to do,
but it's a lot of things happenings.

Speaker 6 (27:14):
Watching count as a foursome though, because chill entertainment chilling,
it's entertainment better.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
Than better than that.

Speaker 6 (27:22):
I don't know. I feel like afore some you have
to be involved.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
You, but you can also fall back and let them,
you know what I'm saying. While you catch your next win,
you can just watch.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
Have you ever been disappointed in your performance? Like, damn,
I know I didn't really represent myself proper. Was it
because of alcohol?

Speaker 3 (27:40):
No? She was African, that's a different African drinks is different.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
What does that mean?

Speaker 3 (27:47):
She was just a different type of titaness. And she
told me too, she said it. I'm like, what you said,
and she had that whole African accident. All that just
scared me. It was different.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
It's different in a great way.

Speaker 4 (28:02):
Did you redeem yourself? Did you circle back in? It
was just one and done.

Speaker 3 (28:07):
It was one that done. Wow? Ye on Facebook?

Speaker 1 (28:13):
Facebook?

Speaker 3 (28:14):
And I still got on Facebook follow her on Facebook
checking that you sometimes like that.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
She han't gonna heard me better now.

Speaker 3 (28:21):
I mean, I want you to be rid of that.
That was years ago, but you asked me that question.
I just thought about that. Wow, she was African. Every
time I watched.

Speaker 1 (28:31):
Like the Lake, it was like the super Grip.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
So when I watched the Slavey movie, I was looking
at that like there I do that. I was like, Yo,
that's a lot of white niggas going crazy.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
No, no, no, what not the sleeve man, I'm just.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
Saying that, Oh my god, Africans like number one.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
You said that number one.

Speaker 6 (28:54):
Okay, So you've learned from that experience, and now you're
ready to stay away.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
I stay away from that.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
You can't handle it.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
I've seen them walking in the streets. I don't relook.

Speaker 6 (29:04):
What about if you tour in Africa, what are you
gonna do?

Speaker 2 (29:08):
I imagine you would have had three of them, fat
crazy probably would have a heart attack.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
And not be able to handle that.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
Now, how do you know when women like you for
real and not just because because there are women out
here who are going to be like, I'm going out
with him to the club.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
You know, they know you're going to take care of everything.
They know all of that.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Like, how do you differentiate between who you actually let
in your circle?

Speaker 3 (29:37):
It's hard now, it's hard, But if you just got
to see how you act with the actual you.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
Know, I mean, what if they don't ask me anything?

Speaker 3 (29:48):
It's just hard. I don't know. I can't. I'll just
take the risks. I'll take the risks.

Speaker 6 (29:54):
When was the last time you were really with someone,
like real relationship?

Speaker 1 (30:00):
You said yesterday?

Speaker 3 (30:02):
I got answer that you said.

Speaker 6 (30:04):
We were too easy last week.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
The fifth is crazy, he said, y'all ain't gonna get me.

Speaker 2 (30:11):
What's what's the freakest thing you've ever done in the
bedroom that.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Even you were like?

Speaker 2 (30:17):
Ship, I can't believe I just did I tried it?

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Or let a woman do?

Speaker 3 (30:27):
I can't. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
You're thinking of something that way. You're toiling at us.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Because they always gets freaking.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
But what does that mean because you might think it speaking.
We might be like, that's regular.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
Role play.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
You do role play?

Speaker 3 (30:45):
Rod?

Speaker 1 (30:46):
Who are you?

Speaker 3 (30:48):
Who are you? The scene? Like, I don't know, I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
God, I know if I would consider that freaky? But different.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
You got you gotta be on the phone, like who
you gotta get? Try? What that's that's who.

Speaker 2 (31:15):
You have a dressed up like dressed up like in
the midst of role play, like you had to dress up.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
That's the next level. That's what you gotta try. But
if I ever get like the pizza boy.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
That's different.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
What about Have you ever been tied up?

Speaker 3 (31:31):
No? I can't. I got so much jury. You know
that you playing anything?

Speaker 6 (31:37):
Nothing?

Speaker 3 (31:38):
I did? What call cream? But tied up? Hell? That
should get me nervous, dous.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
But you could be tied up where you could get
out like it's not tight.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
I ain't never tied up?

Speaker 1 (31:48):
Okay, what happened to it? Never? What about tie her up?

Speaker 3 (31:53):
We gotta be you gotta be married. I learned from
I learned from. Did you don't play with stuff like that?

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Twist up? You you saw the did the tapes?

Speaker 3 (32:02):
The cake, the cakes? I'm saying time up before?

Speaker 1 (32:06):
How do you feel about sex toys and I mean.

Speaker 3 (32:09):
She going through it.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
Yeah, would you wear like a cochrane? Why not? Why
do you say no that You said you were freaky
a minute ago, and now it's not. You wouldn't wear
a cocky.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
I saw play the.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Running around your dick. It's not even nothing crazy. It vibrates.

Speaker 6 (32:29):
Look, So the belly scene was the freakiest thing you've
ever done?

Speaker 3 (32:33):
I mean probably not, but that's saying like I was
like that.

Speaker 6 (32:36):
I was a fly, you were.

Speaker 3 (32:39):
Let's do no part. I don't want to do.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
You can move to Africa. Hilarious. Have you ever okay, listen,
let me, let me get my drink.

Speaker 2 (32:54):
But have you ever have you ever had your been
had something square on your face?

Speaker 1 (33:00):
Yeah, okay, so that's normal. I sported in somebody's mouth.

Speaker 6 (33:08):
I've never squirted it.

Speaker 1 (33:09):
Had you pour your champagne.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
In your mouth to no pull champagne?

Speaker 1 (33:14):
No, I'm talking about squirting in your mouth like you.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
I mean, nah, it's just happened.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
So yeah, like that, but you said, nah, yes, somebody did.

Speaker 3 (33:25):
I was trying to make sure you say somebody pulled
champagne on my wady, trying to like none of that
you're talking about champagne.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
She was pouring champagne.

Speaker 4 (33:34):
Yeah, I didn't know that I was squirting in his
mouth until I turned around and he was catching it
like he was hitting from the back, and I started
squirting and.

Speaker 3 (33:40):
I turned it again like that, and that he was catching.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
You do that again.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
I was like, oh, okay, it's different, but you would
do it.

Speaker 1 (33:54):
All right.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
I feel like we say that we wouldn't do things,
especially then right say that they would won't do things whatever.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
In the moment. Anything that a woman does to you.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Is she grab my butt while we're doing.

Speaker 2 (34:06):
That first, Grabbing your butt is nothing. What if you're
on tap and she's doing it to pull you in closer,
that's a problem.

Speaker 3 (34:16):
Yeah, what's wrong with that. I don't touch that area
at all.

Speaker 4 (34:21):
I'm going for the butt if i'm if I want
him to come in closer.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
But I don't think that's bad. I don't think that's bad.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
I don't want to grab a man respectful. She grabbed
like this.

Speaker 1 (34:31):
I don't want to grab a man. I don't want to.
But it's in action.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
No, no, that that she takes your whole manhood. She did.
She took the tape grip on it like this.

Speaker 6 (34:40):
You hear it, but that's like.

Speaker 3 (34:44):
Your old man. That's up. You'll be thinking about that
next thing you want? Girl grab ask you a question,
my girl? Grabb my but laughing that?

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Okay? What about if she licks?

Speaker 2 (34:57):
No nobody ever tried it?

Speaker 6 (35:02):
Hmm, what would you do if someone tried? What would
you do if someone tried?

Speaker 3 (35:08):
We want to say I came, But what if you
liked it?

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Because you know what if she's doing it and.

Speaker 2 (35:12):
You're like some people are tickle? What about your nipples.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
That?

Speaker 1 (35:19):
Oh my god, you're not a freak at all.

Speaker 3 (35:22):
I don't know that.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
What about can you just sit on your face?

Speaker 3 (35:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (35:27):
Okay, why you seem nervous?

Speaker 3 (35:31):
I like this, this liquid fire.

Speaker 4 (35:33):
We love this.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
Right now.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
About it?

Speaker 1 (35:41):
He already did about where he's going after this, shout
out to drunk and love.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
I'm scared some more about.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
It's like it's fourth one kidding? Can you talk to
us about tomorrow and promise? And even like craftiness and
putting it together and knowing what's because I know you
do a lot of music being in the studio and
this is a nice full project, but just even figuring
out what songs you were going to put on there
and what type of direction you were going and talk

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to us about that.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
I just wanted I wanted to put that feeling into music,
like I mean, telling my stories at the same time
and be who I am and all that. So so
after my team and on Courneya to Tasha, they work
hard with me with that. I had a lot of
songs that supposed to be on the album that get clear,
like the song with skill a Baby that I really liked.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Oh I saw that that was okay.

Speaker 3 (36:38):
I mean I had that on an album and all that.
So I just it's a lot of stuff that I
ain't get on it that's supposed to be on it.
But I'm jacket. It's a nice body of work.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
But then the Skiller Baby song come out, like it
I'll put it out. Yeah, I was like, I seen it, Okay,
I'll put it out. You were disappointed it couldn't get
cleared for the album or something.

Speaker 3 (36:56):
And put that out.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
I love him for that.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
That that was a dope song. You got a little
Detroit connection.

Speaker 3 (37:03):
Yeah, oh deep shut out the Boy. Yeah, my brother's
out there, pas babyface rape.

Speaker 1 (37:11):
You said we took it too easy on peasy.

Speaker 3 (37:13):
Baby Race said that first they took it.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
First of all, baby Face is not even trying to
come do this until he come out here. He ain't
got no until he pop out here.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
But what would you say, what song on this project
would you say? Listen to this first? Because it's kind
of embodies you know, if you don't know enough about me,
this is a song that would embody like for you
to listen to to kind of represent personal person.

Speaker 1 (37:44):
I knew you were going to say that because it just.

Speaker 2 (37:46):
Felt like, well, first of all, it's called personal, so
we know that, but it does give like more of
a it's like autobiographical.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
Yeah, just like because you know, I grew up without
my pops, I mean, and my papa is like like
you know from that area, that era. He's one of
them big hustlers in the streets for well respected and
he passed away young. So when he passed away, you know,
your life is like this, and when he passed away,
everybody the life go there. He was the bread winner,

(38:15):
so that's when the struggling kicked in. So you know
what I mean, that was a big part of a team.
So I got mad brothers and sisters, right, how many twenty.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
One, twenty one. I have nine brothers in the limo.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
My father was like he was a little thought. He
had ten different daitars. No, he was a leal. He
had babies old run the same area, like off the block,
down the block, same block, down the street, like what
I mean. So we had kids they were were all
from the same area, different mothers. That's was a big
ass mamily.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
But you all knew each other coming out because.

Speaker 3 (38:51):
My grandma and my grandma's kept.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
I remember because you had a song called Dear Mama
previously where you really shout out it start up with
the little Tupac feel obviously, but then you also address
all of that there. What do you think your relationship
with your mom has to do because a lot of
times guys are dating people that are either just like
their mom or the opposite.

Speaker 3 (39:13):
Because my mom she was a caring person, you know
what I mean. So you know, so you got to
care about me because my mom cared about me, you
know what I mean. So you know everything in my
mama name, so you know that thing. Go.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
So yeah, even when you think about relationships and like
just seeing because how was your dad's relationship with your
mom before he passed, Like.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
What was I mean, that's who he was with.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Oh, that's who he was with.

Speaker 3 (39:39):
I mean he he had full kids by my mom's
I mean, so that's who he was with. They was tight.
But he was younger too, my poba do and he
was twenty four. He was young.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Wow, Wow he had you know he had your mom had?

Speaker 1 (39:52):
Okay, y'all you.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
Know what I mean. So they had to go. I
mean I was in there, but I was yeah, but
I don't remember right. She told me they had a
good relationship. He was a player, he was getting money, right,
he was in the streets.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
Was she able like even well after that then I
guess she still was able to.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
Did she marry somebody.

Speaker 3 (40:11):
After that or yeah? Yeah? Yeah, Okay, I had a
step pops. I was there, but ain't nothing like they had.
I had a step pops. I was there. That's that
showed me the way too.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
Do you have kids?

Speaker 3 (40:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (40:23):
How many? Okay? Do you want to have like a
big family?

Speaker 2 (40:27):
Is that something that you're like, I want to have
because you come from a big family.

Speaker 3 (40:31):
Yeah, I want more kids. Yeah, that's that's what we're
living for.

Speaker 1 (40:37):
Mhm.

Speaker 3 (40:38):
Were living and do that you know what I mean.
But but I was, Yeah, that's it's about. It's about
it's like you try to Tupac left that legacy. It's
about leaving a legacy, right, That's what That's what's about.
It's about when you leave here, when.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
You're going, Yeah, could you have anticipated being this successful
with music even when you first got started? You know,
obviously it's a long journey to get here, but just
to see like how many people are co signing you,
stamping you and just having come this fire. Was this
something that you thought, because I know you didn't start
off doing music, Was this something that you were like, this,

(41:12):
you know, this could really be like my career now?

Speaker 3 (41:15):
Yeah, I thought that, But I told myself, I'm an
hustle something, I'm something going. He was going, I'm gonna
have a franchise doing something like if I Haama Donald's going,
you see the Donalds, You're gonna see something like I
just had a hustle. I ain't gonna know how to
mind of getting some money, some tape of money.

Speaker 1 (41:33):
But yeah, all right, we have this little segment go ahead.

Speaker 6 (41:38):
During Oh, I was just saying, that's the tourist bring
you have all the main qualities. Stubborn, I can't stubborn.
Yeah yeah, I heard some bull behavior in there, especially
at the forgiveness peace.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
Oh generous, thanks for the flowers. Yes, all right, so
let's talk about this from the feed.

Speaker 2 (41:59):
We have this segment that we do call from the feed,
and so we're gonna take some things from your feed
and we want you to explain it.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (42:07):
Let them miss you sometimes when you're too available for people,
they take you for granted. Okay, So let's discuss that.
And I want to know, do y'all think that's true
if sometimes, if you're too available, you think people take you.

Speaker 3 (42:18):
For granted, too accessible.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
I think that's a guy thing. Yes, I think men
feel like that. I don't think we as women feel
like you don't understand it. Right here, I'm drinking bo broz.

Speaker 2 (42:36):
Let them miss you sometimes when you're too available for people,
they take you for granted.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
Sometimes I hit teams twice.

Speaker 4 (42:45):
I still feel like that's more from a man's perspective. Now,
I have been taken for granted by family.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
Yeah, so I get it.

Speaker 4 (42:53):
But when it comes to like I'm not saying that
I don't agree, but I'm saying when it comes in
the relationship factor. I feel like men that way over
women versus us women feeling like.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
In general.

Speaker 2 (43:04):
Yeah period, Okay, because sometimes we also think out of sight,
out of mind.

Speaker 3 (43:11):
I just sometimes you have to you just wish could
just cut your phone off and not talk to nobody,
because nobody they don't know what you're going through.

Speaker 2 (43:18):
Right Sometimes it's people call you up about their problems
and nobody asks how you doing.

Speaker 4 (43:23):
Literally, somebody is pulling up my phone right now, and
I have no idea who it is literally right now
on my phone.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
You don't hear my phone. Yeah, I don't know who.

Speaker 6 (43:30):
I'm pretty good at. Like my people know that I
will disappear for a little bit and that means I'm
going through something I don't want to talk about it,
and then we'll come back together and it'll be fine.
And I don't think that they miss me anymore any
less than if I'm super present either. But I will
say that if I disappear from a man's life, they
will hit me up non stop, non stop.

Speaker 3 (43:51):
I just was there for somebody. They're gonna start making
no problems. I know I get just from hiving that,
because I mean, start how much you kicked out they
started making no problem.

Speaker 1 (44:02):
That's not you got I'm about to get kicked out,
you know.

Speaker 2 (44:07):
I mean I just have you ever Lett, somebody stay
with you because they needed to a place to stay.

Speaker 3 (44:12):
Yeah, m hmm.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
It's always tough, let me tell you.

Speaker 3 (44:16):
Or start getting when somebody stayed with you, get yo,
watch like that already.

Speaker 2 (44:26):
Here's another from the Feet all right, So this is
from Love and hip Hop. Little Zane is telling his
wife Ashley not to get her breast done because he
does not want her to.

Speaker 1 (44:38):
She wants to get her breast done.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
You know, she breast she was breastfeeding the kids and everything,
and she just feels like she wants a mommy makeover.
But he's saying, I like your body just the way
that it is. Do you think that a woman needs
to check with you if you're with her? And this
is his wife Litleuisine. Yeah, this is from Love and
hip Hop. Don't worry about who it is.

Speaker 3 (44:55):
Okay, that's Louising that the one twelve back in the day.

Speaker 1 (45:00):
Yeah, I love and hip hop. Yeah, he's gonna love
a hip hop at Lansa.

Speaker 3 (45:02):
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
So if you're with somebody, do you feel like, if
they want to get something.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
Done, they got to like and they're a married couple. Yes,
his wife, they don't get done, and you don't want
that breast and plants, bbo whatever.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
He's saving about safety regions and safety regions.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
And he's saying, you don't need to. I love your
body the way it is. She's like, I could do
what I want. It's my body, Like it's what I
need to do for myself. Let's just say you were
dating somebody and she wanted to go get something done
to her body, and you didn't think she should he
paid for it.

Speaker 3 (45:35):
Yeah, i'na be. You're gonna want to pay be.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
Well as long as the business plan is.

Speaker 3 (45:40):
Attacked or I mean, I'm just gonna make you happy. Cool,
you know what I mean, make you happy once?

Speaker 1 (45:48):
All right, here's another from the fee.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
Now you said if motherfucker was in my shoes, they
would have trust issues too.

Speaker 3 (45:56):
Yeah, who hurt you not trust? It was just it
ain't just about females, It's about everything, you know what
I mean? I got trust issues, Like do.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
You feel like trust is should be given or earned?

Speaker 3 (46:11):
I mean I'm gonna I say both, Yeah, depending situations.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Who's the worst things. You think men are women to you? Like,
who is men? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (46:22):
See that's interesting because people always act like it's a
relationship things. And I do feel like women tend to
be more writer haters girls.

Speaker 3 (46:33):
I mean, I just feel like that. I think I
feel like men more jealous all that.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
What do y'all think, ladies?

Speaker 2 (46:40):
Because maybe it's a gender thing where like women hate
on each other more. Yeah, I was gonna say, and
men hate on each other more because I think it's
not a competition thing, but it's like a projection thing.
If with women on women men on men.

Speaker 6 (46:55):
Situations, it's like whoever's around you that's a guy is
intimidated by your sick sass. And I think the same
thing happens with women on women and women.

Speaker 1 (47:05):
What do you think? I agree?

Speaker 4 (47:07):
Definitely people project People look at you and the criticize
what they see or what they don't see in themselves.
They see they want it for themselves, so they criticized
you for having with them.

Speaker 3 (47:15):
Let me ask you, you real, I think a lot
of menly therapy.

Speaker 1 (47:18):
Though, yeah, oh absolutely.

Speaker 3 (47:20):
You don't even know that that problem come.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
From Absolutely a lot of men therapy. But so you
feel like you need it.

Speaker 3 (47:25):
Though, I mean I'll do it though you would.

Speaker 1 (47:28):
So many men say to learn, just.

Speaker 3 (47:30):
To learn something different about yourself, because sometimes you don't.
You don't even know. Some some guys don't even know
they hate it.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
Like you don't know you, I think you have an
issue called hater.

Speaker 3 (47:44):
You sit here and you explain why they hated. They
still won't get it. Wow, just like you said, like
you ain't supposed to do nothing from another man, like
as men out here that I think you're supposed to.
You're supposed to give them and all that. Like Bro,
like you wasn't mean help you know you ain't help
me do nothing this.

Speaker 1 (48:06):
I think people in general can be very entitled.

Speaker 3 (48:08):
Though they put a therapy in the hood and like
niggas need to go there?

Speaker 1 (48:15):
You think they would.

Speaker 2 (48:16):
There was like a mobile therapy van and people could
go in and have one on one session.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
People really should need that.

Speaker 3 (48:24):
Really, you make up mad? You don't you don't know why,
like you make them mad. Ain't out for you making
them mad? Bro, got a bad day.

Speaker 2 (48:30):
You got to figure out whoever, who have you ever
spoken to? Because sometimes even having somebody that you could
like vent to tell things to that's helpful.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
Right, Is there anybody that you trust enough person not.

Speaker 3 (48:42):
Trusting enough passed away? M h what I mean? So
it's like I ain't that was only one guy I
could say was genuine. That's my main Royce, that's the
only guy that that was real genuine with me. But
he ain't. He ain't want nothing. He was just team
pacil know what I mean? And I ain't got nobody
else like that. My mom too, But that's that's just

(49:05):
guarantee you. I'm just so like a friend like that.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (49:09):
It's also I think your friends understand things differently than
your mom would because you also sometimes need somebody to
check you and tell you when you're wrong.

Speaker 3 (49:18):
My mom checked me.

Speaker 1 (49:20):
How would you?

Speaker 4 (49:20):
How were you at taking constructive criticism from your peers,
Like if you were in a studio when somebody like
you should say this like that?

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Do you know?

Speaker 6 (49:32):
But is that a peer or is that?

Speaker 1 (49:37):
Let me ask you this. Let's just say you were cheating.

Speaker 2 (49:42):
Let's say you introduced your mom to a couple of
different women, right, was she covering for you if you
were cheating?

Speaker 3 (49:50):
Or if I introduced my mom to somebody I gotta.

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Be with with her? How many times have you introduced
your mom and somebody?

Speaker 3 (49:57):
Three?

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Three times? And it was real situation?

Speaker 3 (50:00):
She can and if I'm not if I'm with that
girl and I and I'm with another girl, and I'm like, mam, look,
she gonna be like, I ain't gonna put you.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
Will she still be cool with somebody even after y'all
break up, Like, let's just say you're not she won't.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
Come on, mama blocker.

Speaker 6 (50:23):
But you said, you know your heartbreaking? Three times? Are
those the three girls you introduce your mom to?

Speaker 3 (50:28):
I know a couple of songs? Three, four songs? Four?

Speaker 1 (50:33):
Now on something? Do you take accountability? Take it back
that the bartender officially cut you off? Yeah, you got
no worrying you. She was gonna jump down after this.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Ye, if you have play some right now?

Speaker 2 (50:54):
Do you take accountability though for those heartbreaks? Because sometimes
I do? You think all four of them was your funk?

Speaker 3 (51:03):
Yeah? Because because I was. I was the cause, went
down to school, cause.

Speaker 1 (51:08):
And effect reaction has the reaction.

Speaker 3 (51:11):
Yeah, that was the cause. So I let how to
do this? I got I did something.

Speaker 8 (51:16):
The first come on accountability too much?

Speaker 1 (51:29):
What's the wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (51:30):
Friends?

Speaker 1 (51:33):
Are you feeling like kot karaoke and then have something.
And I needed to think that was.

Speaker 3 (51:48):
Right here over here.

Speaker 2 (51:52):
Yeah, before she was very conservative. Oh my god, but
I feel like it could be different now, you know what.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
It's crazy.

Speaker 2 (51:59):
I have around way up recently and she made me
take some stuff out. Afterwards, she was like, oh, I
feel like I was so I.

Speaker 3 (52:07):
Did so, yeah, you know me, And it was real cousins, right,
we know that.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
That's your real cousin, my cousin. So you get the
fun out of here, you know, yes, I'm asking you know.
He was ready to fight him. Yeah, but little Kim
back in the day, she told a great story about that.

Speaker 6 (52:27):
Did you make me take it out? Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
Man, that's really your cousin. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (52:33):
He's from Brooklyn. I don't know if he related to
nobody from the Bronx.

Speaker 3 (52:36):
He gonna tell you my grandfather, that's his uncle.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
My grandfather is his uncle? Is his last name? Ingerman
made the same time as may now with your cousin.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
Mm hmm. To look at this guy this.

Speaker 9 (53:05):
Period, I got them shrooms period saying you do shrooms?

Speaker 1 (53:17):
Yeah he does.

Speaker 2 (53:19):
He said, Well, he said, are you related to anybody
from the bronx MANO, how are you related?

Speaker 3 (53:30):
It's my uncle's is grandfather?

Speaker 1 (53:33):
Oh my god?

Speaker 2 (53:34):
You really are related? Okay he said that. I was like,
let me know, let me see if this is true.

Speaker 1 (53:42):
We had the fact check real quick. I wonder who's speaking.

Speaker 2 (53:47):
He came up to the studio. I mean to you
day exactly. Oh my god, that okay, your grandfather while
here a wild boy who you think is freaking.

Speaker 1 (54:08):
Run in the family or what? I don't heard some
AMO stories, But.

Speaker 4 (54:14):
It's okay, Jordan's who do you think?

Speaker 1 (54:21):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (54:21):
Baby?

Speaker 6 (54:22):
You miss me?

Speaker 3 (54:24):
Who give me something to miss?

Speaker 1 (54:27):
Okay?

Speaker 9 (54:29):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (54:31):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (54:34):
Do you think he got more game than you?

Speaker 3 (54:39):
Actually?

Speaker 1 (54:40):
Okay? All right, Well we're gonna get back to Dan.
I didn't know y'all I see y'all together. I didn't
know y'all was related for real. Understand my story. Don't
do that. Jim Jones a better rapper than that guy.
You know I'm playing? All right? Buye man? Oh, put

(55:04):
some clothes on? All right. One thing mana will do
is sit around with no shirt on all day. That's crazy.
How so you how long have you known? Like, did
y'all know y'all was cut? Related all the time. Yeah,
that's dope. Yeah, that's crazy. So I know, the whole

(55:24):
family wild. So let's talk about this. Are you planning
to do a tour? All right? So give us some details.

Speaker 2 (55:34):
So people are listening tomorrowing promise, so we got to
make sure we get this out today, period.

Speaker 3 (55:40):
So tell us I'm trying. I'm talking to peas right now.

Speaker 6 (55:47):
That's a wild tour.

Speaker 3 (55:48):
D Okay, I'm nice.

Speaker 2 (55:53):
You know, it's just tomorrowing promise. What are some things
that we want to make sure we do?

Speaker 1 (55:57):
Tell us something that's on your bucket list?

Speaker 2 (55:59):
Yeah, I mean all of us, like tomorrow is not promised.
You're right, So what are some things that you got
to make sure you accomplish.

Speaker 3 (56:05):
I got to get in the studio.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
Make it right, Oh my god, we knew that was coming.

Speaker 3 (56:09):
That's got to happen. I mean, and driving my album.
What's something on my bucket list? I did? Doing the
So and Fast jo was on my bucket list. I
did that.

Speaker 1 (56:19):
And come on, accomplishing goals, we like that.

Speaker 3 (56:23):
Get my mam in this house. I'm already do that.

Speaker 1 (56:25):
That's my next move where she want to live at?

Speaker 2 (56:29):
Okay, are you you know that was another thing that
you posted that you want to make sure you take
care of your finances. You know too, because I spend
a lot of money dumb stuff like strips, right, not
just that.

Speaker 1 (56:46):
But here's the thing.

Speaker 4 (56:47):
We do that every day as long as you enjoy
in the moment, because guess what tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
Promise Giz, you don't do that, the mayor get better
taking care of his finance.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
I'm not saying that.

Speaker 4 (56:57):
I'm not saying take care of your financials, but I'm
saying I don't regret the choices that you've made because
you enjoyed them. Like I feel the same way with
my stripper money. I should have saved a whole lot
more than shit. I didn't, but I enjoyed every dollar
I spent. I enjoyed every moment of it.

Speaker 1 (57:10):
So did my kids come on Monday? It's Monday, you come.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
Don't stop spending the money yet?

Speaker 1 (57:23):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (57:25):
No, But I just back to this money management thing
that I understand what y'all are saying. But there are
things people always ask me, like, if I could go
back in time, what do I regret the most? And
I do regret not having made different investments earlier when
I had it, you know. And so I do want
to say that because I know the earlier you invested better.

Speaker 1 (57:42):
But I also know there were times that I could have.

Speaker 2 (57:44):
Like I had a chunk of money and I like
blew it instead of doing something with it that could
have paid off more for me later. So I do
think that being more financially responsible is a great goal
to be able to have, because yes, let's have some fun,
but let's also separate, like twenty percent of this money
goes for fun and then the eight percent goes to

(58:07):
handling business and invest.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
Investments and saving and all of the things, you know.

Speaker 2 (58:11):
And I do think, and I am about to like
have somebody kind of like deal with looking at my
finances as a whole and like figuring out stay in
the house, No, you don't do that. You can't stay
in the house.

Speaker 3 (58:24):
Almost choke like you to stay in the house a
little bit, or hang with some guys that just got it,
like you were saying, like, you know, I got it today,
bro what I mean? Because if you hang with if
anybody don't got it, you got to average.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
Right, Yeah, that's a fact, ye tell you.

Speaker 2 (58:43):
I went on vacation with some of my friends from
high school and they all like have like good regular jobs,
And I was like it's nice, like everybody paying for
themselves or for you know, like one of my friends
is like, I pay for this, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (58:57):
Old friends like that.

Speaker 2 (58:58):
Yeah, because you're right, because sometimes it's like if I
go out and I'm to pay.

Speaker 3 (59:03):
For imagine being with non guys and eight of them
got it.

Speaker 1 (59:08):
That's like, yeah, that's a lot to deal with. That
is a lot of financial respon.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
Stretch was like this.

Speaker 2 (59:15):
Just tight, like money for y'all to rink or yeah,
or like you'd be like I had to.

Speaker 3 (59:22):
Spent all the money and you drink and you stretched out.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
Drinking everybody the lies and everything they told me.

Speaker 3 (59:30):
The girls they give me, they give them girls cups,
like like right.

Speaker 6 (59:33):
Now, y'all come over here, we got the You know
what that happened to me this week? I was djaying
and I'm trying to deal with the equipment. All my
bottles came. I didn't get a sip, no way took
a picture. I wasn't getting no videos. I'm like, so
what are you here for?

Speaker 3 (59:49):
The drink?

Speaker 1 (59:50):
Your bottles.

Speaker 6 (59:53):
Was a tequila joy.

Speaker 3 (59:55):
Hate when somebody trying to chip in, and they say
some stupid like I got four years.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
Like, bro, you I don't even worry about it.

Speaker 5 (01:00:01):
You make me feel sorry too. At the same time,
record wait, I'm gonna catch out before it is crazy
for about you know what music gonna take that? Assuming
you catch out, I should.

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
Go to a music you like, how do you handle that?
Because I just want to know what is the solution
for that? Because I think you know, but you're still
saying but at least yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
I mean the women.

Speaker 3 (01:00:33):
Yeah, I don't feel less like a sucker than the
fame for grown Ass, But bids and all that's just like.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
You got.

Speaker 6 (01:00:43):
And bells because you like hanging around women brings more value.

Speaker 1 (01:00:47):
Like you said, you like when we say.

Speaker 6 (01:00:49):
You smell good and all these things. And that's what
I think. People don't give us enough credit for us
just being in the space bringing up the energy and
day we drunk.

Speaker 3 (01:00:58):
Making sure you're saying like you got home yet they
were drunk. Yeah I got home.

Speaker 2 (01:01:15):
Here's my last from the feed. A male birth control
pill that is going to be available and they've tested
it already and it's going to be released, you know
in a couple of years after clearing him in safety child,
would you do that?

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
No side effects?

Speaker 3 (01:01:31):
You would?

Speaker 1 (01:01:32):
So do you use condoms?

Speaker 3 (01:01:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:01:34):
Of course all the time.

Speaker 3 (01:01:36):
Yeah, I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
Because you roll the.

Speaker 3 (01:01:44):
Dice and you just scared of out like damn.

Speaker 1 (01:01:50):
Okay, but you would do the you sure?

Speaker 3 (01:01:52):
You know her, bro, you know like you sure?

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
I think control is a brillion you Okay, that's good
for you.

Speaker 4 (01:02:03):
I think it's a great idea. I think it's something
that should have been done. I feel like it's more
of even though the woman is the one that gets
pregnant and holds the responsibility of the baby, I think
it's the men's action that is more on them because
you have the choice to pull out, you have the
choice to wear condom, you have the choice to just
not come in her. But then we're stuck with the

(01:02:24):
burden of the decision of if we do get pregnant
and then you and all of the things, then y'all
be mad about paying child support.

Speaker 3 (01:02:31):
Yeah that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
Ye gods get mad.

Speaker 3 (01:02:36):
I come out, you got drug? Yeah right, let me
know where to get through it from.

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
Imagine you tell your girl, because God's being women to pregnant,
don't get your pregnant I can y'all got the MP.

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
Y'all women to like, let's be clear.

Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
Imagine I imagine a guy being like, y'all, I'm on
the pill, and you'd be like, Okay, it's only one
girl trap.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
We know already now, can we get a little.

Speaker 2 (01:03:26):
Well listen, pay so thank you so much for joining
us tomorrow, promise. So that's why you got to shoot
your shot today, and you did several times. You know,
throughout this interview, I felt like your cousin can maybe
link you and make it happen. Cousin Mayno, you know,
he's a good Listen. I know people that have done
got into relationships that Mano hooked.

Speaker 1 (01:03:44):
Up a match maker. Matchmaker May He.

Speaker 2 (01:03:47):
May not have found his wife, but he can help
you find yours period.

Speaker 3 (01:03:51):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
But I appreciate it, you know, thank you so much
for coming through.

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
I know this is something that we wanted to accomplish
and we really enjoy having you.

Speaker 3 (01:03:58):
I appreciate you, you know what.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
Congratulate for the flowers.

Speaker 3 (01:04:01):
Yeah, don't just don't smell them, don't throw them away.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
On my flight in the morning, like this, take a
picture and send it to us.

Speaker 1 (01:04:17):
That's what he had.

Speaker 2 (01:04:20):
These are really really nice, Like these are not no
regular flowers. You know what I'm saying, Keisha Cole love flower.

Speaker 3 (01:04:25):
Yeah, I can't get a little seven They had seven
hour flowers.

Speaker 1 (01:04:29):
These are beautiful.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
We appreciate that's paid, so thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
We appreciate you