January 8, 2025 • 30 mins
Today on “Golden Hour,” Kathy and Susan sit down with Joan’s fiancé, Chock, as they catch us up on all things house hunting in NYC, meeting for the first time, and how the Golden lovebirds are doing since the show ended! Then, Chock weighs in on a fan question: How do you know you’re ready to get married? Plus, Bachelor Nation gets to know Chock a little better with some fun questions! From the worst advice he’s ever received to his favorite memory as a teen, we’re getting into it all. Tune in now, and be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode.
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We are so excited to be back. It's
a new year, it's a new Kathy and a new Susan.
How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hey, We're doing pretty good. We're so happy to be back,
and you need to check out our latest episodes because
we've been having so much fun answering questions and chatting
with your bachelor NAIs and favorite boy.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Do we have one today? We have so the special
guest today from Jones season of The Golden Bachelorette. Please
welcome Chalk Water Chalk to Joan. How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Hello, ladies. I'm doing okay, except for the cold that
Susan gave me.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I didn't. She gave it to me to Chalk. We
even getting fine, getting fine.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Other son, I just say really quick. It was so
much fun, ladies and gentlemen listening. We just spent time
with him and Joan and we had so much fun
getting to know him. But he hung with four or
five women for four days and never complained, never complained.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I wouldn't say he didn't complain. I would say he
fit right in. He didn't that he didn't complain about
he's now one of the girls, one of the girl.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I've got a little little bit of real man left.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So so I want I have I have so many
burning questions. The first one is which I have not believed.
Have not asked you this before. When Joan was on
our show, she was so quiet at the At the
Talent Show, Joan said, I'm so shy. I'm out of
my comfort zone. I don't talk very much. That girl
is vaccinated with a phonograph needle. She talks. Are you
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surprised out of the bubble, how outgoing and talkingive she
is and not the shy demeanor that she initially comes
at you with.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Well, as I mentioned before, Kathy, I never watched it
previous episodes, so I really other than what I read,
I really didn't know. Yeah, so she does talk. I
talk a little bit once I get going, but she
does talk. But we're a great couple. We enjoy each other.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yes, well that was obvious. And the other thing that
we Susan and I were just talking to about, we
want to know, uh, your your You were smartly brought
those keys to the finale, to those like still the
deal mode. We interviewed Guy and we were like his
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mistake was not bringing the mountains a beach house. So
have you guys found a place? Tell us what's going
on with that?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Well, we did find one that we really liked, Kathy,
and it was in Soho. That's where Joan really really
likes the area. And I wonder if it's because of
shopping Gucci and all these other places. I really don't
know if that has.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I don't think Joan likes high end items at all,
So that's probably.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
We're going to talk about that a little bit because
I have a couple of questions for you too late.
But Soho and we've found a place. It was what
we really liked. We put a soft offer in on it,
and then we just turned back around noon, just a
couple hours ago, that the owner is going to take
it off the market. So we'll continue to look. We'll
find something.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wow. Well, and you've got your family coming. It's just
how's that going with the melding of the families?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Oh, it's perfect. You know. I saw one of the
headings on social media going, kids are having a problem.
We can't keep the kids away from each other. And
my daughter talks to her daughters the boys. I'm going
to bring them to a basketball game at KU Kansas University.
Go Hawks. We're going to do that in the latter
part of January. So we all get along great. We
had a big dinner with all the kids when I
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was back for Thanksgiving and it's actually gone smooth. The
positive of the easy thing about this, Kathy, though, is
they're young adults. They're really not kids. There are kids,
but they're young adults and they're leading their own lives.
So they've been trained, they know how to act, and
they're all supportive of Joe.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
All your children, we know how well they are.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Well except except one night I think Susan had to
help Tyler that was hotel after a party, but.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
He shouldn't find that key, Yeah, he couldn't find Speaking
of keys, you you brought a set and he couldn't
find his. But your kids are Your kids are great,
So that's the question. And then Susan, all I want
to know about the weekend that you had recently with
your guy friends from this show. How did that tell
us all about?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Tell us about Well, uh, we had talked about this
because a couple of guys said they hey wanted to
go to a Chiefs game. But what a weekend. And
I got to tell you there with you excuse me?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Who was with you?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Well it was Keith, Jordan, Uh, Dan was there and
then uh that was it? How can I forget?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or perspiring minds want to know? Is is Dan dating Edith?
And is Jordan dating Leslie?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
You know, as a gentleman, I won't answer that question.
I'll let them. I'll let you answer that question, I
asked them. But fairness to them. I think if anything
that it needs to come from either one of those two.
All right, But if I can't tell you, Keith has
the most outdoing personality of anyone I met in my life,
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and he is the glue to keep so much of
these guys together. He was very helpful putting this weekend together.
But I mean the guy would talk to anybody. He
had bracelets for the fans. Jordan, and you know, Jordan,
I've talked about this ten times.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I want to get to know him. He wasn't there
at the finale. Now, Gary's such a lover, just a
warm and affectionate guy, and but Jordan wasn't there, so
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Well, and with Jordan's he and he and I talked
about this, Susan. He has one of the most funniest,
the funniest personality you'll have to be. He had us
going the whole time, and the fans didn't really get
to see all that on the show, but he just
I mean, I was extitched the whole week yet and
it was like we had dinner, drinks, and they treated
the fans with a lot of respect too. We never
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turned down photographed, you know, with anyone, and Keith was
hating out Bracelet's. It was a lot of fun. The
Chiefs won, So it's really a perfect weekend.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
When you ever went on and there's so many questions,
you know, do you think you would get engaged? Did
you think you would make such great friends? I mean,
I know you've been on other podcasts and you've talked
about these things, but really, for you, you hit the bonanza.
You know, you found this beautiful woman, you made these
great guy friends. How was it being in the in
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the mansion? Susan and I feel like, because we know Joan,
we surmised pretty quickly that you were the guy. You
were the guy. I mean, it was pretty clear to
us that you were the guy. But it was tell
me what it was like on the show. Did did
you feel it quickly with Joan? Did she feel it quickly?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Well, and I'll reiterate this too. So I had no idea, Kathy.
I had no idea what I was, what I was
getting into, you know, because I hadn't watched anything, So
I had no idea. And it was Disneyland that changed
the whole journey for me. Is just you know, when
she got off the train, we held hands, we walked around,
and we talked, and it was almost an entire day
of just talking and we got along great, and we
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talked about some private things that were on camera, which
really made me feel good. And then that was just
the start of a budding relationship and it just got
better and better every day since. Other than these times
she was kissing these other seven or eight times.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I was just going to say, how did you feel
when it came up to not Dan, excuse me, guy?
And you were you confident in that moment and those
hours prior to the very last part.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Well, let me say this guy, guy is a great guy,
and he and I were friends and we still are friends.
He said, we were our beds were right next to
each other and we and a considerable amount of time
just talking, and Guy made a prediction. He goes, It's
going to be you and me at the end, and
I just felt very the hometowns really, I knew the
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connection was there. I knew Joan was my lady, you know,
the lady I wanted to be with. But the hometowns
really really got me the confidence I really did. This
is kind of my personality. I don't really care about
the other people. I mean I do from an interpersonal standpoint,
but from a competitive standpoint, that just wasn't a concern
about it. I knew Joan and I were getting along
great in Tahiti, on one of the islands. When we
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met up. I mean, it was just it was like
we were meant to be together.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I want to know what is the because you know,
we've all been married, we've all had that aha moment,
We've all had disappointments in our lives. When you met Joan,
clearly she's beautiful, and you came on the show knowing
that that you know she's beautiful. But what was when
you met her? What was the thing the thing that
(09:04):
you went, WHOA, this really is my woman? What is
the thing that drew you to her. Besides her looks,
which are fabulous, yea, let's let's.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Let's not even talk about that. It was her boys,
her frankly, her honesty, some of those conversations that we had,
and at the dinner at Disneyland where we both talked
about our significant others that had passed, and it was
like I was talking to an old friend that I go, ah,
I could be in a relationship with this person, and
that there was a commonality there. And like I've said,
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and I do mean this is I'm in no way,
especially when the kids competing with John. I've heard great things.
One of his good friends told me, he goes you
guys would have if he was still alive. You guys
met each other and be very good friends. So just
complimentary on that. But it was, you know that all
haul moment happened three or four times, but really the hometowns.
When Joe came back to Wichita and I introduced her
(09:54):
to my family and friends, I go, this is this
is the person that I want.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
It feels you know it.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Okay, So Susan and I are both touchy, pheelly people,
and I gotta I got to put you on the
hot seat for a minute, and I hug everyone. We're
touchy feeling people. Joan, if she never touches someone again
in her life out in public, that girl is a
no PDA. We want to know. We were dying laughing
chalk that we.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Were surprised because I've always hugged her. She'd probably has
been going the whole time.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Oh God, here she comes. When you guys were at
the bowling alley and your arm is around her, everyone
else thought that she was like uncomfortable with her arm
around here, and Susan and I are like, no, that's
just Joan. She you know that. We knew that. But
but that's our nation. The world didn't know that. They're thinking, oh,
Chock's making her feel uncomfortable. No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
That's guys were uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
So yeah, on that topic, it's very interesting, joanahknife joke.
Is it a Midwestern thing? Is it an East Coast west?
Speaker 1 (10:57):
No, it is not an East coast thing. We're here
to defend them.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
That's what you ladies taught me. But I am. I'm
getting Joan to open up a little bit because I
do want it, and I think she's getting more comfortable
with it. But I have a friend of mine that
I see him in the gym five times a week.
He gives me a hug and before we leave, he's like,
I love you, brother, And you know some people would
have a problem with that, but I mean, he is
a big professional rugby player giving me a hug, and
(11:23):
it makes you feel good. He has taught me that
it feels good. It does, and hopefully Joan, hopefully she
sees it this way, we all have our first.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Between the three of us kissing and hugging her. She's
going to get to definitely get used to it. Yes, okay,
So what we do here is people submit questions and
we give them our advice. Would you join us on this?
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Absolutely my plasure.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Thank you. Okay, this one's from Lily. Hi, ladies and Jock,
I need your help. How do you know if you're
ready to get married. I've been with my boyfriend for
four years now, and we both comfortably talked about one
day getting married. I know he's the one, but the
thought of actually planning a wedding and getting married kind
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of makes me freak out. When I think about marrying him.
I'm really happy and excited, but when I think about
actually planning it, or just the idea of a wedding
being soon gets me really anxious. What is that for content?
I'm twenty six, thank you?
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Okay, wait wait wait, I just have to say to talk.
I know that you're very nervous and not wanting a
wedding with Joan very soon. So we're going to be
very interested in our opinions.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Well, I was going to have two questions, how old
is this person? Twenty lady? And then is this our
first or second marriage?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Sounds like that first.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
When my mother taught me is the person you want
to be with is somebody that makes your life better?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
If they don't make your life better, walk away. And
I do believe that. So that's just my personal opinion
as people look at their relationships.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I think she's more nervous about planning the things a lot.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Well, I was going to go to me to the
anxiety of it, because a lot of times the mothers
get involved, and a lot of weddings are for the
mothers where they want a big wedding.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
My daughter did that, do what you want?
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Mom?
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I said, black eyes? She said, whatever you want.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Mom. When I got married, it was small. We limited
to fifty people, and we did it on top of
Steamboat Springs and it was absolutely gorgeous and it was perfect.
But there is anxiety and you have the issues where
you don't invite enough people. Write people. I was at
a wedding where they had a friend do the efficient
officiating and they had no brides grooms or brides men.
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Just say it was a big wedding.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Wait a second. Two things I want to say. One
is if you and Joan when you get married. I
was kidding. Of course, anyone who has listened to you
more than five seconds knows you would marry Joan yesterday.
Am I correct?
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Yes, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So that's that's number one. I want to straighten that
out in case anyone thought I was being serious on
that line. The second one is if you have a wedding,
and it's could I please, please like have some role
in the wedding. I've never been in a wedding ever.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Well, well, and you have my vote. But as every
guy says, the lady's going to make the rule.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
This guy, I am sating smart and I don't know
when I got married Chalk. I was twenty years old
and my father true story married four daughters in eighteen months,
four big wedding celebrations at country clubs, you know, the
whole nine yards. Four in eighteen months. And I'm the
only one, by the way, who's still married. Well, I mean,
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my husband passed away, but I'm the other one whose
marriage lasted. But I didn't really plan my wedding my mom.
I was young, My mom, did you know it was?
I mean, now, I would like to plan a wedding,
but I think that weddings are stressful.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Oh absolutely, they just are. And then you have the
economic part of it, where a lot of times the
parents will go, well, we'll give you X amount. If
you don't spend it, you can use it on a
down a house. Yes, that adds to the anxiety as well,
so good luck.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Let us know you do this, and if not, you can, Elope,
I mean you can.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
And by the way, you've known this guy since you
were twenty two years old, so you know, give it
some time.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Make sure you come over and I'll officiate. Nobody has there.
I mean, we can do that.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
So Chuck, I want to know because Jon's not here,
So whatever you say is what's going to happen. Would
you want a big wedding, a small wedding, a TV wedding,
a not a TV wedding. What do you want? A lope,
Susan to marry you, Kathy to be your best man?
What do you want?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
I want?
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Oh, Susan, I'm going to cry.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I'm on, well, you're too good to be through well.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
And I want her to do what she really wants
to do. Like I told her, I had a little
thing as I said, what to where, where to be?
And uh what time to show up?
Speaker 1 (16:10):
A Bachelor Nation. If you think this guy is slinging it,
he's not. He's spent a weekend with him recently. In Joan,
this guy is you are the common I'm talking third
person here, Chuck, you were so kind to all of us.
You Is Joan match your outfit? You want shopping? This
guy actually likes to go shopping. I mean it's craziness.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
He likes to be He's got style. I watched shoes.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yes, I know everything you let Joan dress you in
the actual taste good. I mean, how have you been
on the market for more than ten minutes?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
I will tell you that I can shop with a
lady with Joan as long as there's a dude.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Chair, yes, probably in front of a bar and a
foot ball game. Yes, so before we.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Have a fun little game now, okay, and we want
to do it before we have to wrap on today's episode.
It's fun. They're easy questions and this way Bachelor Nation
can know you even a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Are you ready?
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Right?
Speaker 1 (17:17):
So I want to take the first question here and
just give us the real truth. Okay, if you were
stranded on a deserted island and you could only bring
three guys from the mansion, who would you bring?
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Keith because he'd entertain me, okay, Jordan because he would
be funny, and then Jack because he could cook.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
See, this is a guy. This is a strategic guy,
I think strategically. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Well, I will tell you when we asked Guy that question,
you were one of the people that he chose. Okay,
what's one piece of advice you wish you could give
your younger self?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Well, I've always worked hard, but don't take everything so personal.
And this show has taught me this, and social media
has taught me that as well.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Don't listen to social media. Okay, I'm I'm going off
script here because I have a question for you. Susan
and I had lunch or breakfast or something with a
producer while we were in California recently, and she gave
us this question. And you are the first person I've
asked it to. If you would never see Joan again,
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what the last time you saw her? What is the
one thing that you would want her to know if
you were never going to see each other again?
Speaker 2 (18:45):
About you?
Speaker 3 (18:46):
That I truly loved her.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I knew that's what.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
He's a hard one to ask that. That was for
somebody on a date.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Really, No, I think you could ask it anybody. Yeah,
I love that. But aside from the obvious that you
truly love her, I mean because I would have guessed
that's what you would say, is there something else that
you would want her to know if you were never
going to see her again?
Speaker 3 (19:07):
That I was honest and everything that I told her?
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Oh even better? Wow. And the next question, Susan I
have for him is where do we get him cloned?
Speaker 2 (19:19):
What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't done yet.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
You know, I've had a very blessed life, ladies. I've
been able to do a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
I feel that's a hard question if you asked me,
I really don't.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Yeah, and you know it would probably you know at first,
and I got some criticism on this when the show said, hey,
we're going to give you a trip to Disney World,
you know as originally because I thought Joan and I
would go do something very exotic, and some people said
they could just see it on my face. I'm actually
looking forward to doing that and with her kids, my
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families and the thing that I haven't done yet. My
life is to get my kids married or to have grandkids.
So everything else been pretty much on cute.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah, well there you go.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I break it. I like it. Okay, I have a question.
What is one of your favorite memories as a teenager?
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Favorite memories of a teenager was fishing in Hawaii and
I caught a large tuna, thought it for six hours
and I never landed. I still remember that. I had
the picture, uh, sitting in the back of this boat
and I got so sick because I get seasick, and
it was just one of those memories that I just always,
you know, just thought this canas you do get.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Sick, you do get six hours out in the ocean.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I get seasick. I get carsick.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
You me, so, you and I I have to tell
you we were both in carsick in that in that
Dale Chuck. When we were in California, my husband we
went on a deep sea fishing trip once and I
never just like I've just started recently getting carsick, I
never got seasick either until this time, going out deep
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sea fishing off the coast of Mexico somewhere and literally
it was like a cartoon, the waves coming up over
the boat. I've never been so sick in my life.
And do you know that is my first and last
time ever ever, So darling, if you and I were together,
I would say you just go and enjoy that deep
sea fishing. I'll be sitting on the lamb getting my.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
All right, one more question for you. What's the worst
piece of advice you've ever been given?
Speaker 3 (21:44):
That work is probably one of the more important things
in life.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Work is or is not?
Speaker 3 (21:51):
It is that it is?
Speaker 2 (21:53):
That's the worst reason of advice.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
That's the worst piece Oh yeah, because work isn't important.
That's I'm sorry that I mean really it's I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
You may mind a job if you're willing to work.
You know, it depends on if you want to make
money if you want to be happy. There was I
read a or I was watching AH and I don't
tell me the guy's name, but he's very famous. It's
an AI chat guy that development and he makes seventy
eight thousand dollars a year. He has no stock in
the company and it's a non for profit and he goes,
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this is what I've always wanted to do. And looking back,
I've made some decent money in my life. Has really
made me happy. It's enabled me to do some things.
But I probably would say, you know, like with my kids,
I've told him they didn't they didn't really want to
live in witch Talk, and I'm like, then go someplace
you want to live. My son wanted to work in London,
but he couldn't get a work visa, and that might happen,
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but go live your life and don't let a job,
you know, really control you. My mother pushed me to
go to medical school because she goes, you'll always have
a job, and she was a specialist, so she would
work someplace for two years, two years, two years, travel
around the world, and when she was getting ready to
pass you because I've had this most incredible life I've
got to see everything I've raised my kids. So you know,
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it's tough when you're younger to look at it philosophically
because you want that new car, you want the house.
But as you get older, I go, I worked in
my thirties and forties. I worked a lot of hours
I did, and I look back at it and go,
you know, it's tough on a marriage, it's tough on relationships,
and look back that probably would have done that different.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
All Right, Well this, since this is uh, you know,
going to be airing in the new year, I have
another question for you. And but we've got to wrap
this up, which I hate to do because you know,
we love chatting with you. What are some things that
you'd like to accomplish in the new year? Besides getting
a place in Soho, what else?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Well, I need your lady's help. This is my segue, hereto.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
I was going to say go, because it's.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Just what do I get you?
Speaker 1 (23:57):
You want?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Already told me what she wants?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
A Chanel bagel bagg.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Do they because we've got a Walmart right down the
shoe and because I'll get her too if they have
them on highway?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Wait, I got to tell everybody you brought this up
Chalk when we were girl, when we were in California.
You looked at me quietly and you said, does she
understand you don't know this, by the way, what I'm
about to tell you. She said. You said to me this, Joan,
understand that this apartment in New York is like birthday
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and Christmas and anniversary and everything else for the next
three years. And so I took Joan aside and I said, hey, Joan,
what do you think you're getting for Christmas? Because I
just talked with Chalk and it looks like this apartment
in Soho. She looked at me. She said, absolutely not.
And I said, well, tell me now, because I will
be chatting with him. What would you like? She said,
(24:54):
a chanel bag. I said, I'll make sure he gets
the message. So you were going to get it, I mean,
I'm going to get it. You weren't. I get it
on a national podcast. But now everyone knows that Joan
is getting a chanel handba because you can't disupport now
I've seen, by the way, Susan and I would like
one too.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
My daughter can tell me where to go get one,
but help me because now.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
And Marcus you to.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Sack. You can do what I want. You could do it.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Well, you want us to pick it out, We'll just
pick it out for you.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
For her birthday, which is January.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Land another channel bag.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
No, I take her away, Take her away somewhere.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
They're going away. No, you know what she likes. I'm serious,
she loves. Get her a nice but not overdone piece
of jewelry.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
She likes Seriously Chanel jewelry.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
By the way, Susan Chanel. If you're listening to Susan
and I would each like a bag for this app
free advertising, Thank you so much. No, seriously, get her
you're done area. It'll mean something to her. Do it,
you know what. Okay, I'm getting creative here. Do something
with your children's burstunts, your combined children's burst stunts, or
(26:12):
you're in her burst dowe. Do something that will be
symbog that will have some meaning to her.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
Have you seen her jewelry collection?
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Yeah, she and I rival each other. I'm just going
to tell you you talk.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
She doesn't need much.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I'm a practical guy. I don't think she needs anything else.
I told her yesterday.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
It's not a matter of needing. It's not a matter
of need. I mean, if you didn't let let me
just say to you, chalk, if when you looked at
her you didn't understand that she was high falutin high
end girl. You missed the boat on that you spent
way too much time in the Midwest. If you didn't
(26:50):
pick up on that one, I have no something screaming scared.
You're good.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
I did pick up on it. I know. I'm just
having fun.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Yes, I can't wait to see the snell bag. Okay, chuck, here,
we got another question for you. Yes, if you could
bring back any fashion trend or old slang, what would
it be.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Well, I'm not saying this is the best decision, but
I used to have sideburns, and I saw sideburns and
I that kind of looks cool. But I don't think
I'm going to be the first to do that.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
How about that would the title? What would the title
of your autobiography be?
Speaker 3 (27:34):
He did it his way?
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Okay, it all right? Well, I wanted to ask you,
but we've got to end here in a second or so.
But I really wanted to ask you what your real
first name is, because I thought I read somewhere that
it's Charles.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
That is correct, Charles. It is Charles. My real name
is Charles. And going through the casting process right before
I went out to lays are chopp and I go
my entire life it's been chopped. I just it is,
and I'm not trying to be different. That's just what
I've always no. I like it, Charles. Was when my
(28:12):
mother was mad at Yes.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Yeah, that's me, Catherine, when my mother's angry, was angry.
It's that's why I go by Kathy. So I will
I will tell you chalk When I text you, it
always comes up the writing implement C H A L K.
So I'm gonna have to teach Siri how to really
spell your name.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Just don't lose the H, right.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
Right, I got that. I'm quick. All right, Well on
that happy note. That does it for this episode.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
One quick question is Chanel with three ends?
Speaker 1 (28:49):
No, it's with ten dollars signs though, yes, major, All right,
that does it. For this episode of.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Second she's always cold like you a Chanelle scarf?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Oh please, that could be. She's not a scarf girl,
not a scarf. No scarfs do not. I'm giving you
good advice, Sarah. And for the tenth and final time trying.
I hate this, I hate this party, but this is
going to do it for this episode of Batchelor Happy
(29:25):
Hours Golden Hour. Thank you so much, Chalk for joining us.
You truly are a gem and I hope the Bachelor
nation gets to see now once and for all that
you are a wonderful guy. You and Joan are worthy
of each other, and we are so delighted that you
two have found love.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
I am Kathy and Susan. Thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
You're welcome. You haven't seen the last of us.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You know that.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
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in your company, and thank you all for tuning in
and listening and getting to know Chocolate. We do make
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to your podcast
Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for
joining us. We are so excited to be back. It's
a new year, it's a new Kathy and a new Susan.
How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hey, We're doing pretty good. We're so happy to be back,
and you need to check out our latest episodes because
we've been having so much fun answering questions and chatting
with your bachelor NAIs and favorite boy.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Do we have one today? We have so the special
guest today from Jones season of The Golden Bachelorette. Please
welcome Chalk Water Chalk to Joan. How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Hello, ladies. I'm doing okay, except for the cold that
Susan gave me.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I didn't. She gave it to me to Chalk. We
even getting fine, getting fine.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Other son, I just say really quick. It was so
much fun, ladies and gentlemen listening. We just spent time
with him and Joan and we had so much fun
getting to know him. But he hung with four or
five women for four days and never complained, never complained.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I wouldn't say he didn't complain. I would say he
fit right in. He didn't that he didn't complain about
he's now one of the girls, one of the girl.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I've got a little little bit of real man left.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So so I want I have I have so many
burning questions. The first one is which I have not believed.
Have not asked you this before. When Joan was on
our show, she was so quiet at the At the
Talent Show, Joan said, I'm so shy. I'm out of
my comfort zone. I don't talk very much. That girl
is vaccinated with a phonograph needle. She talks. Are you
(01:48):
surprised out of the bubble, how outgoing and talkingive she
is and not the shy demeanor that she initially comes
at you with.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Well, as I mentioned before, Kathy, I never watched it
previous episodes, so I really other than what I read,
I really didn't know. Yeah, so she does talk. I
talk a little bit once I get going, but she
does talk. But we're a great couple. We enjoy each other.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Yes, well that was obvious. And the other thing that
we Susan and I were just talking to about, we
want to know, uh, your your You were smartly brought
those keys to the finale, to those like still the
deal mode. We interviewed Guy and we were like his
(02:34):
mistake was not bringing the mountains a beach house. So
have you guys found a place? Tell us what's going
on with that?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Well, we did find one that we really liked, Kathy,
and it was in Soho. That's where Joan really really
likes the area. And I wonder if it's because of
shopping Gucci and all these other places. I really don't
know if that has.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I don't think Joan likes high end items at all,
So that's probably.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
We're going to talk about that a little bit because
I have a couple of questions for you too late.
But Soho and we've found a place. It was what
we really liked. We put a soft offer in on it,
and then we just turned back around noon, just a
couple hours ago, that the owner is going to take
it off the market. So we'll continue to look. We'll
find something.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wow. Well, and you've got your family coming. It's just
how's that going with the melding of the families?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Oh, it's perfect. You know. I saw one of the
headings on social media going, kids are having a problem.
We can't keep the kids away from each other. And
my daughter talks to her daughters the boys. I'm going
to bring them to a basketball game at KU Kansas University.
Go Hawks. We're going to do that in the latter
part of January. So we all get along great. We
had a big dinner with all the kids when I
(03:42):
was back for Thanksgiving and it's actually gone smooth. The
positive of the easy thing about this, Kathy, though, is
they're young adults. They're really not kids. There are kids,
but they're young adults and they're leading their own lives.
So they've been trained, they know how to act, and
they're all supportive of Joe.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
All your children, we know how well they are.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
Well except except one night I think Susan had to
help Tyler that was hotel after a party, but.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
He shouldn't find that key, Yeah, he couldn't find Speaking
of keys, you you brought a set and he couldn't
find his. But your kids are Your kids are great,
So that's the question. And then Susan, all I want
to know about the weekend that you had recently with
your guy friends from this show. How did that tell
us all about?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Tell us about Well, uh, we had talked about this
because a couple of guys said they hey wanted to
go to a Chiefs game. But what a weekend. And
I got to tell you there with you excuse me?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Who was with you?
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Well it was Keith, Jordan, Uh, Dan was there and
then uh that was it? How can I forget?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or perspiring minds want to know? Is is Dan dating Edith?
And is Jordan dating Leslie?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
You know, as a gentleman, I won't answer that question.
I'll let them. I'll let you answer that question, I
asked them. But fairness to them. I think if anything
that it needs to come from either one of those two.
All right, But if I can't tell you, Keith has
the most outdoing personality of anyone I met in my life,
(05:22):
and he is the glue to keep so much of
these guys together. He was very helpful putting this weekend together.
But I mean the guy would talk to anybody. He
had bracelets for the fans. Jordan, and you know, Jordan,
I've talked about this ten times.
Speaker 2 (05:35):
I want to get to know him. He wasn't there
at the finale. Now, Gary's such a lover, just a
warm and affectionate guy, and but Jordan wasn't there, so
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Well, and with Jordan's he and he and I talked
about this, Susan. He has one of the most funniest,
the funniest personality you'll have to be. He had us
going the whole time, and the fans didn't really get
to see all that on the show, but he just
I mean, I was extitched the whole week yet and
it was like we had dinner, drinks, and they treated
the fans with a lot of respect too. We never
(06:10):
turned down photographed, you know, with anyone, and Keith was
hating out Bracelet's. It was a lot of fun. The
Chiefs won, So it's really a perfect weekend.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
When you ever went on and there's so many questions,
you know, do you think you would get engaged? Did
you think you would make such great friends? I mean,
I know you've been on other podcasts and you've talked
about these things, but really, for you, you hit the bonanza.
You know, you found this beautiful woman, you made these
great guy friends. How was it being in the in
(06:42):
the mansion? Susan and I feel like, because we know Joan,
we surmised pretty quickly that you were the guy. You
were the guy. I mean, it was pretty clear to
us that you were the guy. But it was tell
me what it was like on the show. Did did
you feel it quickly with Joan? Did she feel it quickly?
Speaker 3 (07:01):
Well, and I'll reiterate this too. So I had no idea, Kathy.
I had no idea what I was, what I was
getting into, you know, because I hadn't watched anything, So
I had no idea. And it was Disneyland that changed
the whole journey for me. Is just you know, when
she got off the train, we held hands, we walked around,
and we talked, and it was almost an entire day
of just talking and we got along great, and we
(07:22):
talked about some private things that were on camera, which
really made me feel good. And then that was just
the start of a budding relationship and it just got
better and better every day since. Other than these times
she was kissing these other seven or eight times.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I was just going to say, how did you feel
when it came up to not Dan, excuse me, guy?
And you were you confident in that moment and those
hours prior to the very last part.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Well, let me say this guy, guy is a great guy,
and he and I were friends and we still are friends.
He said, we were our beds were right next to
each other and we and a considerable amount of time
just talking, and Guy made a prediction. He goes, It's
going to be you and me at the end, and
I just felt very the hometowns really, I knew the
(08:11):
connection was there. I knew Joan was my lady, you know,
the lady I wanted to be with. But the hometowns
really really got me the confidence I really did. This
is kind of my personality. I don't really care about
the other people. I mean I do from an interpersonal standpoint,
but from a competitive standpoint, that just wasn't a concern
about it. I knew Joan and I were getting along
great in Tahiti, on one of the islands. When we
(08:33):
met up. I mean, it was just it was like
we were meant to be together.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I want to know what is the because you know,
we've all been married, we've all had that aha moment,
We've all had disappointments in our lives. When you met Joan,
clearly she's beautiful, and you came on the show knowing
that that you know she's beautiful. But what was when
you met her? What was the thing the thing that
(09:04):
you went, WHOA, this really is my woman? What is
the thing that drew you to her. Besides her looks,
which are fabulous, yea, let's let's.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Let's not even talk about that. It was her boys,
her frankly, her honesty, some of those conversations that we had,
and at the dinner at Disneyland where we both talked
about our significant others that had passed, and it was
like I was talking to an old friend that I go, ah,
I could be in a relationship with this person, and
that there was a commonality there. And like I've said,
(09:33):
and I do mean this is I'm in no way,
especially when the kids competing with John. I've heard great things.
One of his good friends told me, he goes you
guys would have if he was still alive. You guys
met each other and be very good friends. So just
complimentary on that. But it was, you know that all
haul moment happened three or four times, but really the hometowns.
When Joe came back to Wichita and I introduced her
(09:54):
to my family and friends, I go, this is this
is the person that I want.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
It feels you know it.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Okay, So Susan and I are both touchy, pheelly people,
and I gotta I got to put you on the
hot seat for a minute, and I hug everyone. We're
touchy feeling people. Joan, if she never touches someone again
in her life out in public, that girl is a
no PDA. We want to know. We were dying laughing
chalk that we.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Were surprised because I've always hugged her. She'd probably has
been going the whole time.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Oh God, here she comes. When you guys were at
the bowling alley and your arm is around her, everyone
else thought that she was like uncomfortable with her arm
around here, and Susan and I are like, no, that's
just Joan. She you know that. We knew that. But
but that's our nation. The world didn't know that. They're thinking, oh,
Chock's making her feel uncomfortable. No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
That's guys were uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
So yeah, on that topic, it's very interesting, joanahknife joke.
Is it a Midwestern thing? Is it an East Coast west?
Speaker 1 (10:57):
No, it is not an East coast thing. We're here
to defend them.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
That's what you ladies taught me. But I am. I'm
getting Joan to open up a little bit because I
do want it, and I think she's getting more comfortable
with it. But I have a friend of mine that
I see him in the gym five times a week.
He gives me a hug and before we leave, he's like,
I love you, brother, And you know some people would
have a problem with that, but I mean, he is
a big professional rugby player giving me a hug, and
(11:23):
it makes you feel good. He has taught me that
it feels good. It does, and hopefully Joan, hopefully she
sees it this way, we all have our first.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Between the three of us kissing and hugging her. She's
going to get to definitely get used to it. Yes, okay,
So what we do here is people submit questions and
we give them our advice. Would you join us on this?
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Absolutely my plasure.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Thank you. Okay, this one's from Lily. Hi, ladies and Jock,
I need your help. How do you know if you're
ready to get married. I've been with my boyfriend for
four years now, and we both comfortably talked about one
day getting married. I know he's the one, but the
thought of actually planning a wedding and getting married kind
(12:10):
of makes me freak out. When I think about marrying him.
I'm really happy and excited, but when I think about
actually planning it, or just the idea of a wedding
being soon gets me really anxious. What is that for content?
I'm twenty six, thank you?
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Okay, wait wait wait, I just have to say to talk.
I know that you're very nervous and not wanting a
wedding with Joan very soon. So we're going to be
very interested in our opinions.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
Well, I was going to have two questions, how old
is this person? Twenty lady? And then is this our
first or second marriage?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Sounds like that first.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
When my mother taught me is the person you want
to be with is somebody that makes your life better?
Speaker 1 (12:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
If they don't make your life better, walk away. And
I do believe that. So that's just my personal opinion
as people look at their relationships.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
I think she's more nervous about planning the things a lot.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Well, I was going to go to me to the
anxiety of it, because a lot of times the mothers
get involved, and a lot of weddings are for the
mothers where they want a big wedding.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
My daughter did that, do what you want?
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Mom?
Speaker 2 (13:22):
I said, black eyes? She said, whatever you want.
Speaker 3 (13:25):
Mom. When I got married, it was small. We limited
to fifty people, and we did it on top of
Steamboat Springs and it was absolutely gorgeous and it was perfect.
But there is anxiety and you have the issues where
you don't invite enough people. Write people. I was at
a wedding where they had a friend do the efficient
officiating and they had no brides grooms or brides men.
(13:48):
Just say it was a big wedding.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Wait a second. Two things I want to say. One
is if you and Joan when you get married. I
was kidding. Of course, anyone who has listened to you
more than five seconds knows you would marry Joan yesterday.
Am I correct?
Speaker 3 (14:02):
Yes, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
So that's that's number one. I want to straighten that
out in case anyone thought I was being serious on
that line. The second one is if you have a wedding,
and it's could I please, please like have some role
in the wedding. I've never been in a wedding ever.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
Well, well, and you have my vote. But as every
guy says, the lady's going to make the rule.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
This guy, I am sating smart and I don't know
when I got married Chalk. I was twenty years old
and my father true story married four daughters in eighteen months,
four big wedding celebrations at country clubs, you know, the
whole nine yards. Four in eighteen months. And I'm the
only one, by the way, who's still married. Well, I mean,
(14:48):
my husband passed away, but I'm the other one whose
marriage lasted. But I didn't really plan my wedding my mom.
I was young, My mom, did you know it was?
I mean, now, I would like to plan a wedding,
but I think that weddings are stressful.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Oh absolutely, they just are. And then you have the
economic part of it, where a lot of times the
parents will go, well, we'll give you X amount. If
you don't spend it, you can use it on a
down a house. Yes, that adds to the anxiety as well,
so good luck.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Let us know you do this, and if not, you can, Elope,
I mean you can.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
And by the way, you've known this guy since you
were twenty two years old, so you know, give it
some time.
Speaker 2 (15:34):
Make sure you come over and I'll officiate. Nobody has there.
I mean, we can do that.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
So Chuck, I want to know because Jon's not here,
So whatever you say is what's going to happen. Would
you want a big wedding, a small wedding, a TV wedding,
a not a TV wedding. What do you want? A lope,
Susan to marry you, Kathy to be your best man?
What do you want?
Speaker 3 (15:56):
I want?
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Oh, Susan, I'm going to cry.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
I'm on, well, you're too good to be through well.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
And I want her to do what she really wants
to do. Like I told her, I had a little
thing as I said, what to where, where to be?
And uh what time to show up?
Speaker 1 (16:10):
A Bachelor Nation. If you think this guy is slinging it,
he's not. He's spent a weekend with him recently. In Joan,
this guy is you are the common I'm talking third
person here, Chuck, you were so kind to all of us.
You Is Joan match your outfit? You want shopping? This
guy actually likes to go shopping. I mean it's craziness.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
He likes to be He's got style. I watched shoes.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yes, I know everything you let Joan dress you in
the actual taste good. I mean, how have you been
on the market for more than ten minutes?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
I will tell you that I can shop with a
lady with Joan as long as there's a dude.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Chair, yes, probably in front of a bar and a
foot ball game. Yes, so before we.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Have a fun little game now, okay, and we want
to do it before we have to wrap on today's episode.
It's fun. They're easy questions and this way Bachelor Nation
can know you even a little bit more.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
Are you ready?
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Right?
Speaker 1 (17:17):
So I want to take the first question here and
just give us the real truth. Okay, if you were
stranded on a deserted island and you could only bring
three guys from the mansion, who would you bring?
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Keith because he'd entertain me, okay, Jordan because he would
be funny, and then Jack because he could cook.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
See, this is a guy. This is a strategic guy,
I think strategically. Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
Well, I will tell you when we asked Guy that question,
you were one of the people that he chose. Okay,
what's one piece of advice you wish you could give
your younger self?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
Well, I've always worked hard, but don't take everything so personal.
And this show has taught me this, and social media
has taught me that as well.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Don't listen to social media. Okay, I'm I'm going off
script here because I have a question for you. Susan
and I had lunch or breakfast or something with a
producer while we were in California recently, and she gave
us this question. And you are the first person I've
asked it to. If you would never see Joan again,
(18:37):
what the last time you saw her? What is the
one thing that you would want her to know if
you were never going to see each other again?
Speaker 2 (18:45):
About you?
Speaker 3 (18:46):
That I truly loved her.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
I knew that's what.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
He's a hard one to ask that. That was for
somebody on a date.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Really, No, I think you could ask it anybody. Yeah,
I love that. But aside from the obvious that you
truly love her, I mean because I would have guessed
that's what you would say, is there something else that
you would want her to know if you were never
going to see her again?
Speaker 3 (19:07):
That I was honest and everything that I told her?
Speaker 1 (19:10):
Oh even better? Wow. And the next question, Susan I
have for him is where do we get him cloned?
Speaker 2 (19:19):
What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't done yet.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
You know, I've had a very blessed life, ladies. I've
been able to do a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:31):
I feel that's a hard question if you asked me,
I really don't.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Yeah, and you know it would probably you know at first,
and I got some criticism on this when the show said, hey,
we're going to give you a trip to Disney World,
you know as originally because I thought Joan and I
would go do something very exotic, and some people said
they could just see it on my face. I'm actually
looking forward to doing that and with her kids, my
(19:55):
families and the thing that I haven't done yet. My
life is to get my kids married or to have grandkids.
So everything else been pretty much on cute.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Yeah, well there you go.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
I break it. I like it. Okay, I have a question.
What is one of your favorite memories as a teenager?
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Favorite memories of a teenager was fishing in Hawaii and
I caught a large tuna, thought it for six hours
and I never landed. I still remember that. I had
the picture, uh, sitting in the back of this boat
and I got so sick because I get seasick, and
it was just one of those memories that I just always,
you know, just thought this canas you do get.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Sick, you do get six hours out in the ocean.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
I get seasick. I get carsick.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
You me, so, you and I I have to tell
you we were both in carsick in that in that
Dale Chuck. When we were in California, my husband we
went on a deep sea fishing trip once and I
never just like I've just started recently getting carsick, I
never got seasick either until this time, going out deep
(21:12):
sea fishing off the coast of Mexico somewhere and literally
it was like a cartoon, the waves coming up over
the boat. I've never been so sick in my life.
And do you know that is my first and last
time ever ever, So darling, if you and I were together,
I would say you just go and enjoy that deep
sea fishing. I'll be sitting on the lamb getting my.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
All right, one more question for you. What's the worst
piece of advice you've ever been given?
Speaker 3 (21:44):
That work is probably one of the more important things
in life.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Work is or is not?
Speaker 3 (21:51):
It is that it is?
Speaker 2 (21:53):
That's the worst reason of advice.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
That's the worst piece Oh yeah, because work isn't important.
That's I'm sorry that I mean really it's I mean.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
You may mind a job if you're willing to work.
You know, it depends on if you want to make
money if you want to be happy. There was I
read a or I was watching AH and I don't
tell me the guy's name, but he's very famous. It's
an AI chat guy that development and he makes seventy
eight thousand dollars a year. He has no stock in
the company and it's a non for profit and he goes,
(22:22):
this is what I've always wanted to do. And looking back,
I've made some decent money in my life. Has really
made me happy. It's enabled me to do some things.
But I probably would say, you know, like with my kids,
I've told him they didn't they didn't really want to
live in witch Talk, and I'm like, then go someplace
you want to live. My son wanted to work in London,
but he couldn't get a work visa, and that might happen,
(22:44):
but go live your life and don't let a job,
you know, really control you. My mother pushed me to
go to medical school because she goes, you'll always have
a job, and she was a specialist, so she would
work someplace for two years, two years, two years, travel
around the world, and when she was getting ready to
pass you because I've had this most incredible life I've
got to see everything I've raised my kids. So you know,
(23:06):
it's tough when you're younger to look at it philosophically
because you want that new car, you want the house.
But as you get older, I go, I worked in
my thirties and forties. I worked a lot of hours
I did, and I look back at it and go,
you know, it's tough on a marriage, it's tough on relationships,
and look back that probably would have done that different.
Speaker 1 (23:25):
All Right, Well this, since this is uh, you know,
going to be airing in the new year, I have
another question for you. And but we've got to wrap
this up, which I hate to do because you know,
we love chatting with you. What are some things that
you'd like to accomplish in the new year? Besides getting
a place in Soho, what else?
Speaker 3 (23:47):
Well, I need your lady's help. This is my segue, hereto.
Speaker 1 (23:50):
I was going to say go, because it's.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Just what do I get you?
Speaker 1 (23:57):
You want?
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Already told me what she wants?
Speaker 1 (24:00):
A Chanel bagel bagg.
Speaker 3 (24:03):
Do they because we've got a Walmart right down the
shoe and because I'll get her too if they have
them on highway?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Wait, I got to tell everybody you brought this up
Chalk when we were girl, when we were in California.
You looked at me quietly and you said, does she
understand you don't know this, by the way, what I'm
about to tell you. She said. You said to me this, Joan,
understand that this apartment in New York is like birthday
(24:33):
and Christmas and anniversary and everything else for the next
three years. And so I took Joan aside and I said, hey, Joan,
what do you think you're getting for Christmas? Because I
just talked with Chalk and it looks like this apartment
in Soho. She looked at me. She said, absolutely not.
And I said, well, tell me now, because I will
be chatting with him. What would you like? She said,
(24:54):
a chanel bag. I said, I'll make sure he gets
the message. So you were going to get it, I mean,
I'm going to get it. You weren't. I get it
on a national podcast. But now everyone knows that Joan
is getting a chanel handba because you can't disupport now
I've seen, by the way, Susan and I would like
one too.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
My daughter can tell me where to go get one,
but help me because now.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
And Marcus you to.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
Sack. You can do what I want. You could do it.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Well, you want us to pick it out, We'll just
pick it out for you.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
For her birthday, which is January.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Land another channel bag.
Speaker 2 (25:33):
No, I take her away, Take her away somewhere.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
They're going away. No, you know what she likes. I'm serious,
she loves. Get her a nice but not overdone piece
of jewelry.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
She likes Seriously Chanel jewelry.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
By the way, Susan Chanel. If you're listening to Susan
and I would each like a bag for this app
free advertising, Thank you so much. No, seriously, get her
you're done area. It'll mean something to her. Do it,
you know what. Okay, I'm getting creative here. Do something
with your children's burstunts, your combined children's burst stunts, or
(26:12):
you're in her burst dowe. Do something that will be
symbog that will have some meaning to her.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
Have you seen her jewelry collection?
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Yeah, she and I rival each other. I'm just going
to tell you you talk.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
She doesn't need much.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
I'm a practical guy. I don't think she needs anything else.
I told her yesterday.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
It's not a matter of needing. It's not a matter
of need. I mean, if you didn't let let me
just say to you, chalk, if when you looked at
her you didn't understand that she was high falutin high
end girl. You missed the boat on that you spent
way too much time in the Midwest. If you didn't
(26:50):
pick up on that one, I have no something screaming scared.
You're good.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
I did pick up on it. I know. I'm just
having fun.
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Yes, I can't wait to see the snell bag. Okay, chuck, here,
we got another question for you. Yes, if you could
bring back any fashion trend or old slang, what would
it be.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Well, I'm not saying this is the best decision, but
I used to have sideburns, and I saw sideburns and
I that kind of looks cool. But I don't think
I'm going to be the first to do that.
Speaker 2 (27:27):
How about that would the title? What would the title
of your autobiography be?
Speaker 3 (27:34):
He did it his way?
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Okay, it all right? Well, I wanted to ask you,
but we've got to end here in a second or so.
But I really wanted to ask you what your real
first name is, because I thought I read somewhere that
it's Charles.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
That is correct, Charles. It is Charles. My real name
is Charles. And going through the casting process right before
I went out to lays are chopp and I go
my entire life it's been chopped. I just it is,
and I'm not trying to be different. That's just what
I've always no. I like it, Charles. Was when my
(28:12):
mother was mad at Yes.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Yeah, that's me, Catherine, when my mother's angry, was angry.
It's that's why I go by Kathy. So I will
I will tell you chalk When I text you, it
always comes up the writing implement C H A L K.
So I'm gonna have to teach Siri how to really
spell your name.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Just don't lose the H, right.
Speaker 1 (28:36):
Right, I got that. I'm quick. All right, Well on
that happy note. That does it for this episode.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
One quick question is Chanel with three ends?
Speaker 1 (28:49):
No, it's with ten dollars signs though, yes, major, All right,
that does it. For this episode of.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
Second she's always cold like you a Chanelle scarf?
Speaker 1 (29:04):
Oh please, that could be. She's not a scarf girl,
not a scarf. No scarfs do not. I'm giving you
good advice, Sarah. And for the tenth and final time trying.
I hate this, I hate this party, but this is
going to do it for this episode of Batchelor Happy
(29:25):
Hours Golden Hour. Thank you so much, Chalk for joining us.
You truly are a gem and I hope the Bachelor
nation gets to see now once and for all that
you are a wonderful guy. You and Joan are worthy
of each other, and we are so delighted that you
two have found love.
Speaker 3 (29:43):
I am Kathy and Susan. Thank you very much.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
You're welcome. You haven't seen the last of us.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You know that.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
We love getting the chat with you, We love being
in your company, and thank you all for tuning in
and listening and getting to know Chocolate. We do make
sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new
episodes coming out every week and you don't want to miss.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
And for any of you who still don't know the
roadmap to finding us, make sure you submit your questions.
All you have to do is go to bachelornation dot com,
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Speaker 2 (30:29):
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