Nutcracker Syndrome & Plastic Surgery Hotels w/ Bekah Martinez

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Speaker 1 (00:04):
Let's talk with Heather debro starts now. Oh, there is
so much to catch up on. I just I don't
even know where to start. But I'm very excited because
Beca Martina is here today. She's a mom of three.
She's a host of the awesome new podcast Becca and Friends.
She's a Bachelor Nation alumna Beca Martinez. Hello, Hello, you
never changed your name?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
No, I'm actually not married.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
Oh I knew that. But you have jewelry. Now, didn't
you buy your ring?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:31):
Well a collaboration with that whatever the brand is.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
Seriously, isn't it cute?

Speaker 3 (00:39):
Though I picked it out?

Speaker 2 (00:40):
I mean, I know, though I got it, but I
was like, let's do the engagement, Let's do the collaboration
with this brand. Let's go and pick it out. I'll
pick it out.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
And then did he actually do a proposal or was
that pot he did?

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Do?

Speaker 1 (00:52):
I remember seeing that?

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Sweet?

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Do you just care to get married?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
You know what? Okay, to be honest, I haven't really
talked about this very much, so you'll get the ex clusive.
But you know, at the time when we got engaged,
I don't know, I had this weird feeling where I
felt really self conscious, about getting married and the idea
of a wedding and being like in front of everybody
and doing it. I don't know why I felt so
embarrassed about the idea of it, and I realized through
we've been in couples counseling every week for the last year.

(01:18):
I realized that I felt embarrassed about it because I
was not proud of our relationship at the time, and
it wasn't even necessarily public facing, but it was struggles
we were facing just in our relationship personally. I think
subconsciously I was not ready to like stand up there
and commit my life romantically to him in that way.

(01:41):
And I kind of realized that going through therapy is like, no,
I was not proud of the way that I was
being treated in our relationship at that point in time,
the way that I was treating him, And I think, yeah, subconsciously,
I was like, I don't feel like I can have
a public declaration of like this romantic commitment to each other.
And then now that you've been working on a relationship,
I'm like, oh, no, now I feel so much more

(02:04):
ready to have a wedding.

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, you guys have been together how long?

Speaker 2 (02:07):
Seven years?

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Now and how old is Ruth.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Ruth is six. So I got pregnant three months in deestating, Wow,
the Bachelor was airing.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
Yeah, so I was gonna crazy to see my wife.
And you were so young. How old were you?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
I was, uh, twenty three when I got pregnant with.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Her, right because to me, like, I look at my
two oldest ones or twenty one, the twins, and they're babies. Yeah,
like you were a baby having and raising babies. Like,
there's no judgment on that. Just ye, that was you know,
that was the universe's plan for you. It's all great,
but to try to like, you know, being in a
relationship is so hard. Being in a relationship young is

(02:46):
so hard. Having kids is so hard. Having kids young
so hard. You had like so many things at the
same time. I applaud you for not doing that, because that,
I think would have been a lot of people's knee
jerk reaction was like, well, we have to get married,
we have to have this thing.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah, he proposed to me actually like ten days after
she was born, and I actually said, I mean, I
didn't say it flat out no, but I was just
like not right now, because I was like, I don't
want to make this decision based on us having the baby.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
I want it to be something separate, our commitment.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
To each other.

Speaker 3 (03:16):
Because it was funny my dad always told me.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
My dad has I have two half siblings, and he
always said, like, look, getting married is one thing. You
can get divorced and you can never see that person again.
But when you have kids with someone, it's the rest
of it. You're at piano recitals at their ldding like you,
that's a lifetime commitment. Yeah, different way. So I wanted
those to be two separate commitments. Oh, I totally get that.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
So but now all right, So it took me like
fourteen or fifteen years to change my name.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
Really yeah, I don't know if I hate paperwork honestly,
that's the biggest.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
Thing, paperwork.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
So what's your maiden name?

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Heather Page Kent.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
That has a nice drink too, righte HPK.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
So that's and when we got together. So I we're
like ten and a half years apart. So I was
twenty seven and he was thirty eight because it was
like that time of the year. He hates when I
tell that story because it makes his but to me,
I was in my twenties. I was on TV show,
I was working actress, I was making lots of money. Yeah,
and he was almost forty yeah, and a doctor and
like old, yeah, you know, and established. But anyway, once

(04:16):
we fell in love and all the things, it was okay,
Well I have my own money and my own company
and my name and my career, and so do you
what do you do with that? And I think for
us it took a while. You know, we were going
back and forth between LA and Orange County because his

(04:37):
practice was down there, and I was living in LA
and working there. And then when we started having kids,
then it got real and then we really had to
once the twins became like almost two, we had to
make a decision. And I really wasn't working the way
I was, and I didn't want to because I really
wanted to raise my kids. So that all became a thing.
But still, like I couldn't give up yeah my name.

Speaker 3 (05:00):
Yeah, So what made you change?

Speaker 1 (05:02):
So what like?

Speaker 2 (05:03):
What do you so?

Speaker 4 (05:04):
You homeschool?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
So this isn't really an issue for you, except when
you meet with other homeschool kids.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
What do you introduce yourself as?

Speaker 2 (05:15):
What do you mean like as their mom? No?

Speaker 1 (05:17):
No, no, meaning like teachka, ms Martinez, missus, what's your?

Speaker 3 (05:23):
What's your It's funny because people partners last Leonard.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
So it's funny because people will often it's like I
book everything, I do everything, so they're always like, oh,
mister Martinez, you know at the hotel or whatever. I
was like, oh, they used to mister Kent.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
We used to do that too, that's so funny.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, yeah, I guess I just always introduced my well,
I always say I'm his wife and that he's my husband,
even though we're not technically married. But yeah, just always
as Martinez. I don't I don't feel like, I don't know.
Maybe I'll take time, but I'm like, I'm not a Leonard,
but I'm a Martinez. But what are the kids called Leonard?

Speaker 1 (05:56):
And you're traditional in that?

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yeah, and you know what, But it was recently where
I asked him, I'm like, can we do Martinez Leonard?
And he's like, okay, no, we are and it is
so long, and I always filling out the bubbles on
the scantron, you know, I'm like, no, that's like Martinez
le those are both too long last names. The reason
I did kind of defer to his last name. This
was kind of my reasoning at the time is I
did feel like in my pregnancies and everything, like I

(06:21):
felt like they were so mine, you know what I mean,
Like you're pregnant, like that's my baby. Yeah. Yeah, and
even postpartum was like that's my baby. Like, and it's
different with the third than with the first. Like my
first was just so it was just me and her,
and then I was third, I'm like, okay, here such
like a daddy's boy too. But I was like, okay,
there's so much of like me that's tied to her,

(06:42):
and so I think I kind of wanted to like
be like, no, this is the part of you that
you know I'm giving me. Did he want that? I
don't think we ever. I think we had a brief conversation.
I was like, no, we'll do Leonard and I just
it wasn't ever really a big conversation.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
But yeah, I don't think we ever talked about it either.
It was just sort of assumed, yeah, that they would.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
Be Dubro, which is funny, right, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
And so when they went to school, I think socially
I would use Dubro, even though I never changed my
name for fifteen years, but as they got older, because
I would I wanted them. I wanted us to have
the same last name. It I felt comfortable, appropriate, and
wanted us to be like a family like that. But yeah,
then I think it was my first season on the

(07:22):
show when I changed.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
Oh that makes sense, Yeah, that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
And to be honest with you, I mean there was
a bit of like, there's a branding issue here, what
are we going to do here? This seems like a
good idea. But what was funny to me is that
I didn't really think Terry would care. It was his idea.
He was like, don't you think it's about time? And
now like we're on the show and we're doing I'm like, yeah, okay, whatever,

(07:47):
And what did I care? Because I could still use
Heather Page can if I wanted to, By the way
I threaten him sometimes if we're like arguing, I'll be like,
I could go back to Heather Page, can't.

Speaker 2 (07:54):
I just what you know Heather to pron now is
much more iconic.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Well, now I have very good choice A thing, right,
not the thing now, she's a thing. So when I
did it, I remember, I mean we filmed this, it
was on TV, but I I went to the DMV
and the Social Security and all the things. What a
pain of he has, And then I brought them all
back and I showed it to him and he like,
got Tierry.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
Oh it's special.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Yeah. He was like when he saw Heather du broke
right now, and he was like, oh.

Speaker 2 (08:26):
I like that. That's sweet.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
And I think that's why it's funny. Emily always rags
on me for all my logos everywhere.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
But like I like HD Yeah I did too.

Speaker 4 (08:34):
Yeah, it makes me happy.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah, Oh that's sweet. I like that.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
I'm like, now I'm gonna go change my name.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Yeah, I'm going because it was intentional by the way, Leonard's,
I mean, Martinez is a great name too, but Leonard's lovely,
Leonard's elegant.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
You know. I think I do feel such a tie.
Do you feel this way? Like I do feel a
tie to like my dad's. It's like I'm a Martinez. Yeah,
and like you know, when I talk to my I'm
close with my aunts and cousins, you know, I'm like, oh,
that's a Martinez thing. Yeah, we always talked like that.
That's such a Martinez thing. Martine's true. I think there's
that too. I love her like I love my connection
to my extended family in that way.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
That's so good.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
Like wait, now, how old are the kids now? So there,
Oh my god, So I have a six year old.
I have an almost five year old because they're sixteen
months apart.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Yeah, me and my sister were sixteen months apart.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
It's close.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
It's close. But it's a boy and a girl, so
it's fine.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
Yeah. Although I always think, I'm like, oh my god,
when they're in high school and they're like teenagers, like
you already know, when we're having sleepovers and I'm like,
oh no, this is oh yeah, there's.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
Only gonna be a year apart.

Speaker 2 (09:25):
In grades, it's a lot.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
You're gonna be sleeping with each other's friends.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah, Like, oh my god, I like how you're planning
for the sex compaides you already.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
I'm just thinking of I always think, like, oh my god,
what I was like in high school if I had
a sibling, a boys sibling that was a year apart,
and it.

Speaker 3 (09:39):
Would just be it would be so a mess. It'll
be fun.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
And your baby he's eighteen months.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Oh my gosh, I got a little.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
I know, but he seems like so old. Now like wait,
eighteen months and we're just sitting that age now where
with all three of them, I'm like, wait, this is
like easy.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Like I'm at the beach and they're just like, you know, playing,
and I'm just sitting there tanning.

Speaker 1 (10:00):
And they're doing their thing.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
Yeah, but we're definitely.

Speaker 2 (10:02):
Gonna have another you think, like we say, when he's
like three years old, We've never planned for a baby before,
so this time we want to have the experience of
being like, let's be intentional and like have a baby.
Let's just not have another surprise.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yes, surprise.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
I mean the last couple too, It's like I won't
get into detail, but they were so like really like
that little thread of a point zero five percent chance
and okay, well listen careful.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
My first three were in vitro.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
Yeah, and the last one was totally like O naturale
and it was a dry spell.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
Yeah, I don't even know how it happened.

Speaker 2 (10:38):
So was that total surprise?

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Oh beyond I thought we were done, done, done done done.
Oh yeah, very no king that so wid so wild
four is very interesting. You know, I grew up your siblings.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
I one of five, so you're used to.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
Like a big loud family. So five is five year number, like,
because I.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
Always I used to always say six. I've said that
since probably high school. I don't think Gray's on board,
but we'll get at least four.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
Well seeah, maybe it's a lot.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Well, you know what it is. I mean, I think
whatever you end up with is the Obviously it's the
exact right number. It works for you, the whole thing.
But I grew up with just one sibling, so it
was quiet.

Speaker 2 (11:19):
Were you close with your sister?

Speaker 1 (11:21):
I mean yes and yes, but we were sixteen months apart.
We had no choice, you know, we're we have to
be best friends and do everything together. And my mom
always had us thrown together and activities together, young and
the younger one. But honestly, sixteen months.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Who no, it's almost Irish twins.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yeah, and I skipped kindergarten, so we were one great.

Speaker 4 (11:42):
Apart okay, yeah, which was not great.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
For two girls, to be honest, you really need a
little bit of a separation. But you know, I mean
we I forgot why I launched onto this whole thing.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Number four kids, right, So I was used to two,
and you know, we always wanted a conversational third, right, right,
because that would be nice because especially when you're arguing,
you're like, f you, fuf.

Speaker 4 (12:03):
You, where are going for dinner?

Speaker 2 (12:04):
You know?

Speaker 1 (12:04):
Yeah, like that's how you fight with your siblings, and
you know, we're very close to this day, talk on
the phone whatever. And with four, it's like so different.

Speaker 3 (12:15):
What's the age gap between your third and fourth?

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Okay, so the twins were born and then Kat and
so they I had three under three? Oh wow, yeah,
because I think the twins were like two years nine
months when Kat was born.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
Wow. So you decided to do IVF with your third yeah,
like kind of quickly.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
I wanted the ex I mean I listened, I started.
I had the twins at thirty four. Yeah, so I
was not like in myteria. It was geriatric sister, advanced
maternal age. They remember asking me anything now, advanced maternal age. Yeah,
it was not so cute back then. So, so I
had the twins at thirty four, and then I had

(12:53):
Kat like basically at thirty seven. And then so they
were all little and it was crazy whatever, and then
they got to this great age like just like you're saying,
and I will never forget walking into Trader Joe's, and
I got pregnant with the fourth and I had Kat
in the you know, in the cart in the little seat,
and the twins were hanging off the sides of the cart,

(13:14):
and I'm super pregnant. I'm like Jesus Christ, just what
is about to happen here?

Speaker 2 (13:22):
So? How old? What's the gap?

Speaker 1 (13:23):
So they're four years apart, So it's a seven year
gap from the twins down because I started Housewives when
Ace was nine months old and he's fourteen and a half.

Speaker 4 (13:36):
Is that crazy?

Speaker 2 (13:37):
Okay, I'm gonna wait for my interview with you, but
I have questions about Yeah, yeah, we'll talk about all dynamics.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
But I have to say with the fourth one, and
I'm sure you'll be like this too, because you're such
a chill mom anyway you are, which I love about you.
I love that your kids are always like in the mud.

Speaker 3 (13:56):
They are terrible, they look crazy, they look.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
Right, they look happy, and they look appropriate.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah right right right there.

Speaker 1 (14:04):
It's very very good. But you know, with the fourth one,
you just let him juggle lives like you, just like
I wasn't even sure he could read. At one point,
I was like, can you I'm sure. I'm sure you
will eventually, sure you'll be.

Speaker 2 (14:17):
So I felt like, okay, so what was your hardest transition?

Speaker 3 (14:19):
Did four end up being crazy?

Speaker 2 (14:21):
Three to four?

Speaker 1 (14:22):
No? So what's funny is when I would assume zero
to one and one.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
To two, zero to one is my hardest.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Yeah, because you because you don't know from babies.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
But I would also think one to two because one
you know exactly what the one child is doing, when
they're pooping, when they're peeing, if they ate, you know
everything about them. I started with two, which felt like
ten and I had never even held a baby before.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Oh god, yeah, that's a lot.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
I had no clue. Going from two to three was
absolutely nothing. Yeah, that's it was pretty easy for me.
Nothing and then three to four, who even knew he
was there?

Speaker 2 (14:57):
I mean it was like throw in. Also, the twin
being seven, it's like they're old enough to be like
you could go grab this, you know, get yourself breakfast whatever.

Speaker 3 (15:05):
They were sufficient.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
There's totally self sufficient. And Cat was four.

Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, yeah, it's also was great and.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
They were in school and they were so I could
like drop them off and have time with Ace.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
And zero to one was yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
The hardest.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
I just felt like I wasn't prepared either for like
the hormones and everything. After I was just like, who
am I Like, I just felt so different.

Speaker 1 (15:30):
Because you're not used to it. The fourth is super
easy when it comes to that.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
I don't remember having any baby blues afterwards. I was
just like, I didn't even have a diaper bag.

Speaker 3 (15:38):
Yeah, oh no, you put the diaper like in a
pocket if.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
You even had one. I mean, it would be in
the pocket your regular whatever purse you're carrying. Maybe there's
some extra goes hopefully in your trunk. Like that's it.

Speaker 2 (15:50):
You know. I usually have a donation bag in the
back and I'm like, oh shoot, yeah.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
What do we need through?

Speaker 2 (15:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Nothing easiest thing like having a teddyburg But I told
this it was cracks me up. I had baby nurses
with the first kid, like.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
Night nurses or like nanny's or like a night okay.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
But I got the night nurse from this.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
I feel like you need that for twins.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
By the way, if you think you can still train
to at the same time, forget it a lot. It's
a lot, and you know, I let them do whatever
they were going to do. Until I can't remember what month,
four month, whatever it was, and when they say time
to like slam this shit down right. Everyone needs to sleep.
Everyone needs to nap, including mother. Let's get this yeh.

(16:32):
So I remember Debbie who was by baby nurse. I
had her for so long. Terry called her the mortgage
and she was twenty four hour care and of course
she you know, she'd got breaks and all the fix,
but she was just always there. She lived in with us.
She was lovely. I still talk to her, just fabulous.
So we had her for like ten months. And then
when I had Cat, we had she wasn't available because
she was with so funny. She was with Paul Nassaf

(16:54):
and Adrian Maloof with their twins. Oh no way, okay,
so random, So she was with them. So I got
some else and she was terrific and I had her
for like four months. And then when I had As,
I had Debbie's daughter and she was there for like
a couple of weeks and I was like, yeah, I
got it, We're good. So I had no bedroom for him.
I had a little office off of our bedroom because

(17:15):
when we built this house, we had built the house,
we had three kids, so I built, so I put
a crib in this office exit my bedroom. I remember,
we would like life didn't change, had the baby whatever
went everywhere it did. We'd go out, nanny would be
there watching all the kids, and come home like a
babysitter and go to bed, and like at two o'clock

(17:35):
in the morning, I would like wake up after like
a full night of eating, drinking, cavorting and be like,
what is that? What is that annoying?

Speaker 2 (17:43):
Does that sound?

Speaker 1 (17:43):
I'd be like, oh, that's for me, and I'd go yes,
and I'd go in there and make a bottle feed him,
and I'd be like, oh God, please burn, please please burn,
go back to see please go back to bed. This
was a rough fight for mother.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
And then when would he go back to s Yeah,
I'd be fine.

Speaker 1 (18:03):
He was chill, so easy. I loved it.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
That's the thing with well, my third at least it's
like he's just along for the ride.

Speaker 4 (18:09):
Oh yeah, my third was the most chill ever.

Speaker 3 (18:12):
Granted he is still in bed with us, so there is.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
So you're a co sleep preparent.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
I wasn't with my first two, okay, and I sleep
train the first two. Third, I was like, oh, I
can't do that again, like I can't tart. And then
everyone told me like, oh, around you know, nine months,
around a year, oh, my kids started sleeping through the
night on their own. That didn't happen the last couple
of months. I was just like nursing him all throughout

(18:39):
the night. And in the last couple of months, I'm like, no,
I can't, I can't do that anymore. So now I've
like night weaned him, and.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
So he Isn't it so funny? I've read people talk
about the fact that we force our kids to sleep alone.
You've got to sleep alone, you must sleep blow And
then they go out in the world with the soul
idea I'm meeting someone sleep boy, Like what are we doing?
Get why?

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Now my four and six year old they at some
point in the night come and get in bed with us,
and we've got like a queen bed and a king bed.
So it's like my husband either ends up in their
bed or like someone you have two beds in your room. No,
like in the in the kids, we might just have
a queen bed. Oh, like they don't have it because
they all sleep together. So the two, the big two
sleep together. And then you but then what usually happens
is like my husband ends up sleeping with one of

(19:23):
them and there one ends up you know, so ever.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
That hurt your sex life?

Speaker 2 (19:29):
No, I mean usually they're all in their beds and
we'll even put the baby down in the queen bed
and then they usually come into our bed at like
you know, one or two in the morning. So no,
I mean that's usually what we do. We put them
all to bed in their bed. Then we have a
couple of mid and then eventually throughout the night, Yes,
they find their way in, so we have our own
bed for the start of the night.

Speaker 3 (19:48):
That's very Ye, that's kind of how.

Speaker 2 (19:50):
We do that.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Do you know about the sleep divorce? No, this is
like a big movement.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
Oh is this when people don't sleep in the same bed? Correct?
If we had enough space.

Speaker 3 (19:58):
In our house, I'd probably do that, I'd I probably.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
I'd want my own bedroom. Really yeah, why cuz then okay,
for one thing, I'd be like, no, that's your mess
in your room. See how my room looks like this? Nice?
That's that is my room.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
So funny, that's part of it. Is he messy?

Speaker 2 (20:16):
Oh my?

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Does he like do the drop wherever? Just drops?

Speaker 2 (20:21):
All of the stereotypes. Yes, he's that really, Oh my god,
he's so I'm pretty adhd. He is like to the max,
like he's just like leaving messes in his wake everywhere.
So then I could be like, no, see how my
room looks. See who's the problem here? It's you. And
then also I think it'd be nice to be like,
I don't know, I think it'd be cute to be like, Okay,
come sleep in my room.

Speaker 3 (20:41):
I'll go sleep in your room.

Speaker 2 (20:42):
It's kind of like dating, you know, you go stay
at each other's houses.

Speaker 1 (20:45):
That is funny.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
And then also he could decorate it however he wants,
because he always can.

Speaker 4 (20:49):
Plays because yours is too girly or something.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
I just decorate. I just do the whole house the
way I want it. And I'm like, I spend the
most time here, Yes.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
Exactly, it should be my vibe. Are you like a
decorative pillow person.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
I've had to step away from the pillows because because
you have to take them off everything. Yes, and it's
just not it's just not practical. And then I'm like,
why are all these we don't have a very big house.
And then the pillows are on the side Yeah, no,
I just have had to walk away from that. I can't.
Then he could have his space with no pillows, and
he could do whatever he wants with his space.

Speaker 1 (21:18):
That's so funny. I though Terry and I joke about it.
I think, honestly, if I would allow it, I think
he'd probably want the sleep divorce. First of all, he's snores,
oh yeah, and then he is he doesn't require very
much sleep, and he's up all night on his phone.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
That's the other thing too. Yeah, Gray will stamp and
watch TV and I'll go to bed, and then he'll
come in and sometimes he'll like wake me up when
he's getting to you know, and I don't.

Speaker 1 (21:42):
Yeah, it's disruptive, and he gets worried that he's disrupting
my sleep and whatever. But here's my thing. My thing
is that, you know, like, we don't wake up not
to be tm I, but we don't wake up in
the middle of the night and have sex. We're not.
No one's rolling over at three a m. And being
like I have friends like that.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
I'm like, that could literally never be me.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
Also, if you wake me up and try to have
sex with me, I will be so mad.

Speaker 4 (22:06):
Yeah, don't do did you not see that I was sleeping?

Speaker 1 (22:11):
But I mean, like you know those moments where you
just both happen to be up, yes.

Speaker 2 (22:16):
Like it's just like and someone will reach over maybe
and just see I like touch like person, like you.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
Just get the sense that they're up. So that happens
to us.

Speaker 4 (22:25):
And like he doesn't sleep a lot, so I always know.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
He's usually awake, and so we will have these conversations
in the middle of the night that I would not
trade for.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
All the sleep in the wo Oh, that's sweet.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
That I love. Ye that happened, I mean not infrequently.
And also I like sometimes I'll just stick my foot
on his foot, you know, and it's just like it's
just like a little like yeah, I love you, Okay,
I just want to see that what if?

Speaker 2 (22:51):
What what about the separate bedrooms? But then you're sleeping
in each other's beds, you know, like you're you're having sleepovers.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
But the idea is there are many nights where you're not.

Speaker 3 (22:59):
Oh that's the main idea.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
You're alone. I just I don't know. I like, I
like having the energy of him in the bed.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Next to me.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
I hate that he snores and I do push him right,
and he does have to turnover. But besides that, I
really I just like having him there, and God forbid
something happened in the middle of the night.

Speaker 4 (23:23):
I would be very upset if he wasn't there.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Yeah, that's true. Like you know how you check on
your kids. Yeah, would I go and check on him?

Speaker 2 (23:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Yeah, that's interesting because maybe I wouldn't sleep, maybe i'd
sleep worse.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Yeah, that's true. That's a good point. Also, I don't know.
We're in this little routine now where we like do
bedtime prayers together, like as we're seeing go to bed
with the kids, no, just with each other, and we
usually are just saying, like, you know, and we're not
really religious, but we say, like, you know, thank you
God for this, thank you God for that. And that's
been such just like a sweet way to end the
day together. And it's really like brought us together. You

(23:57):
like that, And then you wake up the next morning
you just feel better having ended your day before like
that and like doing it together. So that's like been
something special that that we've been doing. I don't want
to give up that.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Oh I love that. So we're not getting sleep divorces FYI,
Oh I was going to tell you what's going on
with my body. I know, I want to say, listen
to how crazy this is.

Speaker 3 (24:14):
So we immediately I'm like, do you have breast implants?
Is it implant?

Speaker 1 (24:19):
No, I've never had it. By the way, I know,
I'm married to a plast surgeon. I do not have implants.
I've not had plast surgery. The only thing I've ever had,
and I have talked about this, I had an umbilical hernia.

Speaker 3 (24:30):
Oh yeah, No, I have a friend who had that
years ago.

Speaker 2 (24:32):
That.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah, So I had to get that fixed. They had
a crazy meshion there. So he cleaned up my C
section scar and all that stuff that was going on
down there. Thank you my husband. But other but I
didn't have like my muscles sewn together because he told
me that you you won't have abs, like if you
sow them up. I don't know why. Maybe it's flat.
I have no idea, but I like having apps. So anyway, so,

(24:54):
and I don't think I needed it because they weren't
really separated AnyWho. So that's what I had done. I
haven't had anything else done. I like injections and things.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
Those are my questions.

Speaker 2 (25:02):
I'm like, you'd think you'd kind of you're one step
away from getting plastic surgery.

Speaker 4 (25:05):
Whenever you scared of things.

Speaker 2 (25:07):
Yeah, well, I mean this is plastic surgery is major surgery.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
People don't realize that. But we can dive into that
if you want to dive into that. But so here's
what was going on. So the kids had some time
off and we decided to go to cob Over a
few days. And right before we left for Cobbo, I
had like this pain in my left side, like, oh,
so annoying. And then I started getting pain. Let's call
it like where your diaphragm is, yes, right.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
Under your rest yes, like almost like your solar plexus
like yes.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
And I was like, oh, that's and then I thought
it was my stomach. And I had just gotten these
really fabulous protein cookies. I'm so glad it's not that.
By the way, have you tried that. It's called Mason methodology. No,
oh my god, they're like a French bakery. I'm digressing,
but it's like a French bakery. There's like eighteen grams
of protein. They're the most delicious cookies and there's no
seed oils. There's nothing bad in them. Okay, we need them, Okay,

(25:54):
not sponsored, They're just delicious.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
I'm going to try anyway.

Speaker 1 (25:58):
I was like, maybe it's that because I'm I'm usually
dairy free.

Speaker 2 (26:01):
I'm like, yeah, there's I don't know, I know, and
I can be sensitive just like you know.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
Yeah, I get so I'm like, all right, maybe it's that.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
Whatever.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
So we go to Mexico and you know, I just
didn't feel like drinking that much, and I just kept
getting these pains, and I'm like, I guess it started
to feel like an ulcer, which I've never had before.
But the symptoms just kept imagine right worse and wor
so worce. So we get home from Mexico and I
had this one day. I was so sick and I went.
I was out running errands and it was like so painful, and.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
I'm just pain You're not getting vomiting diarrhea or anything
like that.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
Correct, Okay, so painful, and I am very tough, like
I get up from a sea section. I keep going
like I.

Speaker 2 (26:38):
Am like pain tolerant, yes, and taking you out.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
I went and had my nails done and on my
drive home, I was waiting for a business call and
I couldn't take it and I just started crying in
the bar, and I thought I should just drive to
Cedar sign night. I think I should just go drive
to Cedar Signy.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
But you also if you have like a rupture appendix
or something I knew, wasn't that.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
Here's the good news. I had just had a prenewvosk
the end. Have you ever done that? Now we're young,
probably don't need you.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
Oh, I think my parents have done it.

Speaker 2 (27:04):
It's like they basically scan your whole body, make sure
everything's good, no cancer, all of.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
That, right, and it's a good like preventative care thing.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, So I had one December twenty ninth, so I knew.

Speaker 3 (27:14):
Imagine if insurancecovered that for like everyone.

Speaker 1 (27:16):
When they really eventually, I think they will because if
you get if you obviously early detection and all those things,
it'll make healthcare less expensive later on. But we all
know that. But anyways, So I had had the preneuvoscan,
so I knew December twenty ninth. This was only a
couple months ago. So I know there's no tumorss like
I know there's something like nevarious like that, And I'm going,

(27:37):
what is this? And Terry's like maybe it's you know, gird,
you know, like reflund. Yeah, but I used to have that,
and when I had it, it's like in the throat.

Speaker 3 (27:45):
And you almost have like a ball.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
Yeah, but some people get it lower anyway.

Speaker 4 (27:49):
So I'm like, do I have an ulcer?

Speaker 1 (27:50):
Do I have this? So I thought to myself, should
I go to the hospital? And I thought, I just
need to make it home. You know what I'm talking about.
Do you ever like have that? Like I think, if
I just make it home, I'll be okay. So I
get home, I'm in so much pain. Call my doctor crying.

Speaker 2 (28:04):
Like stabbing pain, Like what kind of pain?

Speaker 1 (28:05):
Dabbing, stabbing, terrible burning.

Speaker 2 (28:09):
And stabbing concentrated yes, air, but I still have this
left sided pain and I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (28:15):
And I feel and I'm feel sick. I feel like shit.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
So we get on the phone with everyone BAH and
immediately they put me on ulcer medication and they give
me like anti gurd type sins and all that for
immediate relief to see, you know, if that's going to help,
and get blood work done. Then my blood work comes
back the next day and my amylaes and light pace
are super elevated, which means I have pancreatitis. So then

(28:43):
the question is why would I have pancreatitis. So you
can get pancreatitis three ways. You can be obese, okay,
that's summy, yah. You can be an alcoholic that's I
do enjoy my alcohol, but I'm not an alcoholic. That's mmy.
Or you can have gulstones. So we're looking at it
and everyone's like just super perplexed because I just had

(29:04):
this preneuvoscan a couple months ago whatever, and they didn't
see any stones and whatnot. Anyway, so they start putting
me on this medicine. I was so sick for like
two or three days, and after taking this medicines and stuff,
it started resolving. Anyway, To make this incredibly long story shorter,
by that was on a Friday, I had the blood
work done, so sick Thursday and Friday. By Monday, all

(29:25):
my levels were down to normal. I had I was
at the doctors for two and a half hours. They
did a full ultrasound and I have gallstones. I had
gallstone pancreatitis. And listen to how crazy this is your
gallbladder and you're Hankreas. Right. I'm going to say this
sort of in a rudimentary ray. So if there's any
doctors listening.

Speaker 2 (29:45):
Just go with me now for a minute.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
So these two organs, they both have ducks that come
off of them and they merge. So what happens is
if you have a gallstone and it comes out. So
my duct was dilated. Obviously, one slipped out, got stuck
in the tube and it backed up. So the pancreas
secretes juices that go to your stomach to break down

(30:08):
your food.

Speaker 4 (30:09):
It gets stuck.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
Because there's a roadblock from the stone there, and it
backs up on itself and it starts to eat itself,
and that's how you get isn't that terrible? And that's
how you get pancreatitis from the gallstone. So when they
looked at it, they said, all right, this is dilated.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
Clearly.

Speaker 1 (30:26):
You know the stone came through and there's another stone
in there, but it's too big to pass. So they
saw all that and that's why it resolved.

Speaker 3 (30:33):
To get surgery for that to get the gallstone out.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
So now they don't take out the gall stone, they
take out the whole gall black.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
I've had both my dad and my sister of other
gall bladder's removed.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Really, did they have it laparscopically or was it a
long time ago?

Speaker 3 (30:47):
I don't know it was. It probably was lapiscott.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
It wasn't major, right, So it sounds like I have
to have it out. We're waiting for the final thing. Yeah,
it seems like everyone's in agreement that I have to
have the gallbladder out. But I still have this recurring,
you know, diaphragm pain, which they were equating to the

(31:10):
pancreas being upset, right, But now that pancreas is fine.
So then I had an MRI on Friday and they
looked at everything. Okay, so everyone agrees, there's there's gallstones,
the gall bladder's a flame, this thing needs to come out.
The pancreas looks great. So she was upset, now she's not.
But they also found this crazy thing that is a

(31:30):
congenital thing that I was born with called nutcracker syndrome,
the front nutcracker. By the way, I don't know if
you know this, but doctors wives get weird stuff. They
don't tell you this when they're courting you, but if
you marry a doctor, you get weird jack.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
Also, to think about it, you have access to medical care,
so they could figure out what weird shait I mean,
you get a whole life without knowing you had nutcracker syndrome.

Speaker 1 (31:51):
Well, the only reason I know is because they did
this MRI and they did it with contrast, and they
do the MRI and it's on the report, and so
I guess again, bear with me. It seems like it's
some artery that can be it's cogeneral, you're born with
it and nothing. You don't really need to do anything
about it. But it can get compressed, which would cause

(32:12):
left side pain.

Speaker 3 (32:13):
So it's all just happening at the same time.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Which is what they couldn't figure out why I have
this left side paint.

Speaker 2 (32:18):
So when unrelated unrelated, I.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
Go, doesn't that seem a little weird right? A little
uh coincidental? But what they think is because these organs
were influent that they were pushing down And it's possible
because the the ulcer medications are working for me and
for this continuous pain that I've been having, that I
either have guestritis, an ulcer or h pylori. Now that

(32:45):
would be super weird. This is like a medical mystery
because H. Pylori've ever heard of that? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (32:49):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (32:50):
It's like, a I think it's a bacteria that.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
You can get what I can try? Yea, yeah, so
kind of.

Speaker 1 (32:54):
Like you would get ecoli, right, Okay, you can get
us from contact from food.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
Now is it probable that I would also have contracted H.
Pylori at the same time. No, but is it possible yes,
So they don't know. So it seems like I'm gonna
have to have my gallbladder out and do an upper.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Endosco page pylori while you're in Cobbo.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
No, because it started before that. So they're going to
do an upper endoscopy at the same time as the gallbladder.
Oh god, but here's.

Speaker 4 (33:24):
What I'm going to do. And tell me what you
think about this.

Speaker 3 (33:26):
You're like, I'm going to get breasted.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
I'm going to get breast implants and to facelip No.
I did say though, the other day, why is it
that everyone I know has fun surgery. I have bunyan surgery.
I have to have my gallbladder out, I have an
umbilical hernie. I never get to have the fun stuff.
It's bullshit. But this is what I've decided. I love
my husband very much, but when it comes to me,

(33:50):
he's not a caretaker. He's so good with his patience, right,
not with me. Maybe this is just like a mars
Venus thing. Is your husband a good caretaker?

Speaker 2 (33:58):
No?

Speaker 4 (33:59):
Not at all when you're sick.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
In fact, it's a conversation where I'm like, with the
fourth baby, I'm like, you need to like get your
shit together with postpart You need to be coming and
asking what kind of tea. I'd like you should just
make it as a snack.

Speaker 1 (34:10):
Why don't you just make a Yeah, you should just
make a manifesto of your.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
Part of manifesto. Yes. And also it's like, yeah, I
could hire someone else to do, but no, I want
him to check in. I want to feel cared for
by him. See that gesture. That's how I.

Speaker 1 (34:26):
Interesting you do you want him doing I just want
the gesture.

Speaker 2 (34:29):
I want the gesture. Yeah, it's not even he has
to be doing it. I want him to say, I
get you some tea, or or even can I have
blah blah blah, get you some tea. It doesn't matter.

Speaker 3 (34:39):
I want him to be checking in on me.

Speaker 1 (34:40):
Okay, I agree with that I want him to do
nice things for me, like I want a nice push pressure.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
I want to know you're thinking of me. That's how
it comes down.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
I wouldn't mind if he hired someone. I'm fine and
he can't.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
Afford a push present. I'd be paying for my own
push present.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
That's a problem. You could get a collab. It's fine.
Let someone else.

Speaker 2 (35:00):
About it, you know, that's the word.

Speaker 1 (35:03):
Well, Terry is not going to be even back in
the day. You know, he just does surgery. Now, he
hasn't done botox or anything for a hundred years. But
when he used to. I remember he used to give
me my bowtox and it's jabbing in there like almost
like while he's walking breath. It's like, just forget that.
I'm in his office one day and I'm walking by
a room and the door is open, and i see
this woman with ice on her forehead and I'm like, well,

(35:25):
what's that for? And they go, oh, we give ice
before bowtoxs. I go, well, that's news to me. No
one ever gave me ice.

Speaker 2 (35:33):
Not getting the same standard of care.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
No, I'm really not. I am not. So this is
what I've decided. Tell me what you think I have
heard that people that get plastic surgery, well I know
this sort they stay in a hotel because in certain
hotels they have a floor that is literally reserved for
after care. I've heard of surgery patients, and from what
I hear, it's like from some of my girlfriends, like

(35:57):
Terry's patients and one of those places too. But so
my girlfriends that have had faceless of stuff, They're like,
you get room service, the nurses there to like change
your rings, your wounds, you get foot massages, like all
the things I want that That's what I've decided I'm doing.
Do it, don't you? They do it?

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Although I don't know, I feel like I would want
to be home.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
No, no, you want to let me kind of set
the stage for Becka Martinez at home after surgery.

Speaker 4 (36:23):
It's the same as your postpartum.

Speaker 3 (36:25):
You're so right, except you.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
Now have stitches. So not only is he not bringing
you tea, but it's hard to go to the bathroom
to get up and walk.

Speaker 2 (36:34):
Also, I'm seeing dust bunnies under the dresser, and then
I'm like, I'm just gonna get that right.

Speaker 1 (36:38):
And then your children, your beloved children.

Speaker 2 (36:42):
They want attention and even with older kids, they're still
gonna be bugging.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
You or they don't, and that's a problem as well.

Speaker 2 (36:49):
Right, there's winning, I understand this.

Speaker 3 (36:52):
Yes that, yeah, there's no winning.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
So my friends and like my mom and my aunt
are all like we could come. I said, absolutely not.
I will be at the Peninsula. You may come visit
me while I'm laying there with my nurse on meds.
That's what I want.

Speaker 2 (37:09):
Honestly, that doesn't sound bad. I guess what I would
like ideal is for everyone to vacate the house and
then have help come to my house.

Speaker 4 (37:16):
Oh, I see what you're saying. When you travel.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
Is there a hotel in the peninsula that doesn't it?

Speaker 1 (37:25):
No, the Peninsula is a hotel.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
Oh you're talking about the like Newport.

Speaker 2 (37:29):
Oh no, no, no, I mean the.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
The Peninsula Hotel.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
I've never heard of it.

Speaker 1 (37:33):
Yeah, the Peninsula Hotel is right in Beverly Hills.

Speaker 4 (37:36):
Okay, it's very nice.

Speaker 1 (37:37):
Where are you living, by the way, you need to
take your daughter there for high tea sometime. That would
be especially around the holidays. You know they do that
in Newport? Like, where do you guys live?

Speaker 2 (37:46):
With a long beach right between both you know y, yeah,
so you like the.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
Rich Carlton does like the cutest you just take your
kids the teddy bear tea, Oh my gosh, cute, the
cutest thing ever. You bring Teddy Bears in for donation
and they do like a magic show and they were
all dressed.

Speaker 4 (38:02):
It's really I love that.

Speaker 1 (38:03):
When you travel, are you are you guys? Because I
know you like very o natural things?

Speaker 2 (38:08):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (38:08):
Are you staying in a hotel? Are you staying in
an r V? Or where are you going?

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Recently we went to Okay, so we were going so
like last September, we were gonna go up. Have you
ever been up the tram in Palm Springs to go
up to the top? Oh?

Speaker 3 (38:23):
No, see here you are with your random I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
Don't marry a doctor.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
Oh god, I won't.

Speaker 3 (38:30):
Don't worry, not.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
Even next time.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
No, I won't. Not for me joking.

Speaker 3 (38:36):
I don't like daughters except for Terry. I love Terry
on TV. So anyway, we.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
Were gonna go. We're going to camp. I never was
grumpy in the car and I was like, I don't
want to do this, Like I was tired. I'm like,
and I think our baby at the time was like
barely a year old. I'm like, let's go stay, let's
see what resorts are available. And it was like one
hundred and fourteen degree weekend. I was like, let's just
go by the pool. So then say it the omnium
Less Palms and I was.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Like, oh, that's the good one with the slides.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
Yeah. So I was like, and we were the only
ones there because it was one hundred and fourteen degrees
in Palm Springs. I didn't care. We were by the pool.
They have the people do it kids. I was like,
so this is why people do this. This is really nice. Yep,
this is really nice. Yep.

Speaker 3 (39:19):
So I do like that.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
I do like an airbnb because we do like to
cook for ourselves. And you know what, when I'm eating
out all the time, I'm always like like I can
only do so much, like caramelized Brussels sprouts, and like.

Speaker 1 (39:31):
It so heavy, it's too rich. Yeah yeah, it's too rich,
too heavy and menus these days. And I think it's
because it's so expensive to eat out that they like
to make a thing. They have to make a thing,
like sometimes they don't want to thing.

Speaker 2 (39:44):
So at home, you know, we'll do like roasted sweet
potatoes in the oven, a bowl of rice, you know,
roasted broccoli, and sometimes that's all I want.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
Vego.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
No, it's just like an easy one that was definitely
not vegan. We literally raise rabbits for meat and all right,
all right, right, you know, so people give.

Speaker 1 (40:00):
You a lot of shit for that.

Speaker 3 (40:01):
It depends on the way I share about it.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
You know, I've gotten so much like I don't enjoy
pissing off people as much as I used to. Yeah,
I used to really like any people ailed up, and then
now I'm like, okay, it takes emotional energy from me
if I'm like going out of my way to piss
people off because I'm interacting with them, and I don't
really do that anymore. But when I share about it,
you know, an authentic way be like, no, I want
to get more connected to like what I'm eating. And

(40:24):
also I'm a little bit weird like apocalyptic prep preppers
sometimes and I'm like, I want to know how to
do this stuff like makes me feel more peace of mind.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
That's why I won't get lasick. I wear contact lenses.

Speaker 2 (40:34):
I add an excit. He isn't the same thig. He's
like I don't know.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
I don't know because the problem is I'm nearsighted, so
I can't see far. Yeah. So when I take my
contact lens, so I have to wear readers when I
have my contacts in, oh yeah, but when I take
them out, I can read. And I'm worried in the
apocalypse that I want to be able to read. I
don't care if this. I don't need to see distance.
I don't need to dry, I don't need to see

(40:58):
if the zombies are coming. I need to know is
this food right?

Speaker 2 (41:01):
Yeah, that's that's what I'm worried about. It, I understand.

Speaker 3 (41:03):
So that's kind of how my brain works.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
I get it. Oh the rabbit.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
So anyway, we like cooking and doing stufft home, So
sometimes I do like it in airbnb just so that
I'm like, we have the full kitchen and then the
kids can kind of like run around the living room, yeah,
and be totally crazy and naked and whatever and doing that.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
And also it's more cost effective. I mean it is
for any family. You go to these resorts and it's
so expensive and then the kids eat one bite of
a thing.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
Oh you have the breakfast buffet.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
That's we were in Puerto Rico and the breakfast bathe
was sixty five dollars and Gray was sitting there having
a coffee and croissant and I was like, no, no,
you go.

Speaker 3 (41:36):
Back and get chili chiles and whatever. You load up. Yeah,
sixty five bucks. Really it's crazy, But I like resort moment.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
I went a little bit of everything.

Speaker 1 (41:45):
So I like a resort. But I've become dary and
I have become picky and bougie. Not as much as
other people, okay, but a little bit. So we always
need fans in.

Speaker 2 (41:57):
The room, okay, like ceiling fans, no like like a.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
Like a like banding fan, okay, because I like white
noise and I like air movement, and I like the
room has to be be able to black out. Yeah,
I do feel that I want it snowing in the
room and blacked out. And then I always bring a
silk pillowcase.

Speaker 2 (42:15):
So that's not really boogie, that's just particular, you know.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
Yeah, but I always bring a silk pillowcase with me.
But like I do know people that have sheets completely
changed in hotels and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (42:26):
Well, I will say we stayed in an airbnb recently
and they had polyester sheets, oh, you know, like the
microfiber kind. But we were in Mexico and the feeling
of like snagging on the and I felt really boogie.
I was liked, are there any other sheets in the house?
Like I can't.

Speaker 4 (42:44):
Did you change them?

Speaker 2 (42:46):
No?

Speaker 1 (42:46):
Because that's all sad. You should have probably gone out
and bought something.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
Literally, right, we were in Mexico and it was like
ninety percent humidity and like, the last thing I want
to do right now is I get into like micro
fibrisine the sand. So I'm a little particular run But.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
Would it be awful since I'm recovering and to your point,
you want to be in your own bed, would it
be awful to bring my sheets and pillows? No?

Speaker 2 (43:11):
Because also think about this, if you're on the surgery floor,
think about all the bodily fluids and stuff.

Speaker 4 (43:16):
It's like a hospital that are they clean that?

Speaker 2 (43:20):
Well? They do, but you know, but do you know
what I mean, it's like putting on a hospital gown.
You're like, you can't help but think, like, think about
all the stuff that's been on.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
Well, now that you mentioned that, what is my vibe
gonna be?

Speaker 2 (43:32):
So you know, I don't know what surgeries people are
getting done when they're staying at this hotel. You know
what I mean? So nobody.

Speaker 1 (43:36):
I mean I need a lovely robe, oh right right,
and I you know, I need clothes to where It's like,
well you dead homebirds, didn't you?

Speaker 2 (43:44):
Yeah? I did, so you didn't.

Speaker 1 (43:45):
Do the hospital thing at all.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
I didn't.

Speaker 1 (43:48):
I had hospital wardrobe.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
Well that makes sense.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
It was fun and a lot of people do that
now they plan, they get their whole little bagpack.

Speaker 1 (43:55):
I wasn't that. It wasn't that cuban.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
You know.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
It's like what's in my house?

Speaker 2 (44:00):
I have my silk burthing gown.

Speaker 1 (44:03):
And my bunnet, yeah exact, my hair.

Speaker 2 (44:06):
Literally, yes, the only thing extra charging course.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Yeah, so funny. Yeah, we weren't that bougie back then.
We didn't have all that stuff. It was an influencer time.
The only thing I did, though, is that because I
always had scheduled see sections, I did my own makeup
because I usually do my own makeup. But I did
my own makeup, but I had like perfect blowout, make
sure my nails were done.

Speaker 2 (44:26):
Going to see section. I do that too, like we're
so gating for it.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
But the last child I had someone because I had
sea sections. So I stayed there for five days. I
enjoyed it thoroughly, especially in Newport Beach. That thing was
like a hotel. The view of the ocean, lovely food,
people taking the baby.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
And also when you have other kids, yes, people are
always like I always see people being like, no, I'm enjoying.
We're enjoying the hospital. We're enjoying and they'll be like
a little minification.

Speaker 1 (44:52):
Yes, and They're like, oh, we can't take the baby,
and I'm like, yes, you can. That's why there's a nursery. Bye,
take the child. I have them the rest of the lives.
You can have them for three nights. I'll see them
in the morning. Let me just go to bed. So
on the last so when I had as, I did
have someone come back in and blow dry my hair.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
At the hospital.

Speaker 1 (45:10):
Good for you, Oh so good. I'm like, why did
I not think of this before took to the fourth
Childish I get here.

Speaker 2 (45:17):
This is soe Orange County, I say, buddy, no, I
love it.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
The bougiest thing, though, ever, was when I had the twins.
So I had the twins in la at Cedar sina
Hu and there was like this high end suite that
like all the celebrities take it whatever, and it's two rooms.
It's actually three rooms. It was a living room. It
had two battles.

Speaker 2 (45:39):
Hell yeah.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
So it had like a room for your partner they
didn't want to stay in the room with you, and
then your own bedroom and then a living room with
sofas and stuff. It was and they came with a
baby nurse. What oh yeah, this is crazy.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
It was, so what do I have to do to
get that?

Speaker 4 (45:58):
You pay?

Speaker 2 (46:00):
You do?

Speaker 1 (46:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (46:01):
You pay?

Speaker 3 (46:02):
Ah, I know how much?

Speaker 2 (46:04):
I don't remember, Like what would you say to be
the ballpark equivalent? Like now, I.

Speaker 1 (46:09):
Don't I if I had to pick, I would probably
say it was, you know, a few thousand dollars a
night back then it's twenty one years ago.

Speaker 3 (46:17):
Damn that is bougie.

Speaker 4 (46:18):
Yeah worth every henny.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
I loved it, Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
Mean while with my last one, it was like, oh
my gosh, I had him at three am and then
all my kids, my other two kids woke up and
then they were in bed with me at five am,
and then my my second child was like melting down.
So then we have like Robin Hood playing on the
iPad at five o'clock in the morning, and I'm just.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
Like, see, whenever I see your home birds, I'm always thinking,
who's cleaning that up?

Speaker 2 (46:47):
The midwife and the and all for assistance they did.
It's just gone, it's gone.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
I've never I've done it, and then I never seen.

Speaker 1 (46:54):
It, like there's a crime scene and it's gone.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Yeah, well I have my third over the toilet, So
there was any Davis did he land in the toilet?
That's good, got him. My wife caught him and my
mom was there and she barely got there in time.
My mom was like, I'm really glad she got there
because I didn't know if I was gonna be able
to catch the slippery baby. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
It was crazy. That is so it was crazy.

Speaker 4 (47:15):
That is so insane, but I love it.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
Oh you know what else? I wanted to ask you
about your April Fools jokes?

Speaker 2 (47:25):
Oh my god, you mean my favorite day of the year,
my personal national holiday.

Speaker 1 (47:30):
You are so funny. And I have to say the
one that I really fell for.

Speaker 2 (47:35):
Which one was the house?

Speaker 3 (47:37):
That was my best one.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
I'll never be able to tap myself with that one.
So for those who don't know, I do an April
Fool's joke on Instagram every year. I look forward to
it every year, and one year and I was so
insulted by the amount of people that thought this one
was real.

Speaker 3 (47:51):
I was like, wow, you guys think okay, fine.

Speaker 2 (47:54):
I set by GoFundMe for a mansion and asked people
to donate to it.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
Have found our for It was like so good. It
was like it was like round our friend.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
It was like yeah, yeah, and this and they're standing
in front of it. This is a vulnerable post for us,
but you know, like I've cultivated this community, and I
hope like that in this time, I can, you know,
call on my community to help us.

Speaker 1 (48:15):
Like there was. I never even knew was there an
actual link for a GoFundMe.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
So there was, and it said April Fools, and it
was actually raising money for Habitat for Humanity, and so
I ended up doing a whole fundraiser for that. But
my thought was if I saw someone make gofund me
for a house, I'd immediately click on the go fund
me and be like, are people donating to this?

Speaker 3 (48:33):
Well a lot of people did not click, because a
lot of it I didn't. It was April fols, so
what shocked me.

Speaker 2 (48:38):
I thought so many people would would go and follow
up and be like, who's donating?

Speaker 1 (48:42):
What's really stupid? Is I know you do an April
fool's joke? Oh and I.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Still fell for our influencer friend who was like, girl, like,
if you're needing money right now, like I can help
set you up with affiliate programs or whatever. And I was like,
oh my god, it's April holes made posts. I'm not.
I looked at it.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
And I was like, that is so unco cool. Oh
my god, what is she thinking? You can't do that?

Speaker 2 (49:05):
A lot of people fell for too. I said I
was sending my three and four year old to boarding school.
Oh I know a lot of people were like. The
hilarious thing to me is when people are commenting like girl,
I get it.

Speaker 3 (49:15):
Like we all need a break.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
Sometimes I'm like, first of all, this doesn't even exist,
Like no, I'm not sad even to boarding school. But yeah,
So this year was my GMO baby where I said
that we did a non invasive treatment to select his
eye and hair color.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
But it's so elaborate.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
They're like meeting with the doctor literally rented a medical
office to like film it in it's so fun.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
So you just do it for pleasure. You're not making
any money.

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Oh no, it's I'm spending money on it. It is
so it brings me so much joy it. I just
I'm already dreaming up next year.

Speaker 1 (49:48):
I was gonna say, how far in advance? Like, do
you have a list of things you want to do
that you haven't done yet?

Speaker 2 (49:52):
No, I'm kind of I'm like, Okay, what can I do?
Like I think something next year will have to do
with like maybe like it's something that's off ran for me,
you know, like maybe I'll be doing like a happy
meal add with the kids and be like there's no
such thing as like junk food in our house or something. Yeah,
I don't know. I'm like, I'm already scheming.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
Oh my god, I love it.

Speaker 3 (50:11):
It's so fun.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
I love it. I love control.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
So how many years has it been since you were
on The Bachelor? Ted?

Speaker 2 (50:16):
Oh my god? Love a film?

Speaker 1 (50:18):
No?

Speaker 3 (50:18):
Eight years ago?

Speaker 2 (50:18):
Eight? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:19):
Eight years ago? And I know that you were doing
you know, a recap? Yeah, great, which I thought was
very ballsy.

Speaker 2 (50:26):
Yeah, oh we recapped my season? Yeah? Yeah he did?
Was that?

Speaker 1 (50:29):
Did that cause fights?

Speaker 2 (50:30):
No?

Speaker 3 (50:30):
You know what was hilarious.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
Is So the season I was on in the Bachelor
was pretty crazy because the guy who who was the Bachelor,
he ended up proposing to his pick, you know, three
months later, dumped her and hit up the runner up
I'm in. But now they're married and.

Speaker 4 (50:46):
They have four kids.

Speaker 2 (50:48):
So it was right. It was And so this is
the thing. When I watched it back with Gray, he
was like, Ari was the bad name of the Bachelor.
Grey's my husband. He's like, I love Ari. You followed
his heart like he didn't care what people thought. And
he's like Ari and Lauren's love story is beautiful and
the funny thing watching it back, I was like, no,
they do, like they do have a pretty special connection.

(51:10):
So he loved it, But then why do you pick
the other one? I think that it was his I think, like,
you know, his perception of what people thought of him.
I think initially he was like, no, she's the right choice,
she's the safe choice, she's you know, where we are
consistent with each other. But I think his heart was
calling to Laurie.

Speaker 1 (51:27):
Interesting that she took him back after that.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
Yeah, I mean I really I will say, now like
you watch him online stuff like I think they're like soulmates.
They're like the two that are like they really like
have a special connection.

Speaker 1 (51:36):
So sweet. Would you ever do reality television again?

Speaker 2 (51:39):
In a literal heartbeat, any show doesn't matter.

Speaker 3 (51:42):
I do the special ops, whatever one.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
You would do special?

Speaker 2 (51:45):
Are you insane?

Speaker 1 (51:46):
Becca? Did you see it?

Speaker 2 (51:48):
No? I didn't. I was okay.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
Teddy's Richards recently she said she thought she was gonna die.

Speaker 2 (51:53):
Well, I will say, okay, that one. That one, I'd
be training like crazy. That one is crazy because I
know that I've always heard people say that they're getting
like heat stroke, like it's really weird, and it's the water.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
I just see it and I'm like, I'm drowning.

Speaker 3 (52:05):
Drowning that one so much.

Speaker 2 (52:07):
Yeah, Traders, Oh my god, that would be so much fun.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
Okay, would you do Traders? No?

Speaker 2 (52:11):
You wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
Don't do anything.

Speaker 3 (52:13):
I do anything so boring?

Speaker 2 (52:15):
I do anything.

Speaker 1 (52:16):
No, I wouldn't do like we did a Trader's like
mini Traders on our show last year because camera was
on it and they fucking picked me. I was so
annoyed and I was like, oh that's right.

Speaker 2 (52:27):
I just hated it. I'm like, wait, have you ever
done girls Trip?

Speaker 1 (52:31):
No?

Speaker 2 (52:32):
Would you do that?

Speaker 1 (52:32):
No?

Speaker 2 (52:33):
Oh my god, I will say the did you watch
No this season with Tameron VICKI.

Speaker 1 (52:38):
Was so good.

Speaker 3 (52:39):
It was so good and what's her name?

Speaker 2 (52:41):
A real crazy one. I can't think of her name anyway,
it was great, loved it all?

Speaker 4 (52:46):
Right, what else would you do?

Speaker 2 (52:48):
Okay? I wouldn't do any Okay, I shouldn't say anything.
We actually arid for Foesday post last year, as we
said we were going to go on this show called
Coupled a threttle.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Oh yeah, that was fun. It was fun.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
A lot of people thought that one was real too,
Like I still get Dams being like when is that season?
Are like you and no, we're not on that show. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (53:03):
I wouldn't do anything like that. Like I wouldn't do
any you know, like.

Speaker 2 (53:06):
Remember they used to do celebrity relations like relationship boot
marriage boot can, marriage boot Camp.

Speaker 3 (53:11):
I wouldn't do that.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
That's what we used the joke about that show if
you were on Housewives, if we would say we TV
where Housewives go to die, because as soon as you
left Housewives, you went on marriage boot Camp and it
was like, no.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
No, I wouldn't do that. I don't think I would
do you know, not that I don't know why we would,
but like super Nanny, Like I wouldn't do a show
that has to do with like, you know, our marriage
or the kids, like our kids, because I think it's
opening up exactly, and you know how reality TV is,
it can kind of spin in any way, and I
know wants people to be able to pick that apart.

Speaker 1 (53:41):
Yeah, and listen, reality TV is based on conflict and resolution.
So if you're filming, and this is where people will
ask me, like, would you ever do a reality show
with just your family, which actually almost happened a few
years ago, And you know, I think at the end
of the day, I don't want the conflict to be
within our family.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
And it's going to be focused on your family.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
Really because it's got to be conflict.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
Yeah, that's so true. Yeah, I don't think I would
want to do that.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
I think any you do a titionship, I do Survivor,
I do Fancy with the Stars.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
You'd be good on Survivor.

Speaker 2 (54:11):
I think I would too. Yeah, you'd kill it.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
But it's been on so many years. Does everyone know
it's all.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
The tricks now and it's not really does anyone watch well.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
Listen, is anyone looking for love on the Bachelor? It's true,
they're looking for TikTok followers at this point.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
I know. That's why did you watch Golden Bachelor? No?

Speaker 3 (54:29):
Oh, that was good.

Speaker 2 (54:30):
I liked that because it was like it was people
that I'm like, you're not here for the Instagram or TikTok,
you really want to find love. Well, I don't know
about that, right, I don't know, but it's that authentic.
But you know, I think I do feel like it's
someone like looking for connection and it's just more authentic.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
They're less filtered.

Speaker 2 (54:45):
Okay what I mean? Where twenty three year old now
goes on The Bachelor, it's a very filtered like.

Speaker 3 (54:48):
The thought is like people are going to be watching this.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
I need to be a character. I need to that crazy.
I need to make my mark quickly. That's why it's
very hard to find people that are willing to show
their authentic lives on reality TV. Well would you ever
do Housewives?

Speaker 2 (55:02):
And no? Ither, I swear I watched when I watched
the Housewives of Orange County, like someday I believe I said. Look,
I said this about the Bachelor. For years, I watched
the Bachelor, and I said, someday, I'm going to be
on that show. And then I went and I went
to an open casting, got cast out of twelve thousand
women to be on the season. And I watched the
house Eives of Orange County and I think, some day
I'm going to be on this show.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
You heard it here first ladies show.

Speaker 3 (55:23):
I would, I would?

Speaker 2 (55:24):
I love it.

Speaker 3 (55:26):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (55:26):
And I think what I like about Housewives is I
don't know that it is it's not quite as vulnerable
as like, what you're talking about is like doing a
reality show with your family.

Speaker 3 (55:37):
Yeah, what are your thoughts on that? Like, well, I
mean the vulnerability.

Speaker 1 (55:41):
Look, I think what's interesting is that each of the
franchises has kind of its own waw and and I
think Orange County, I don't watch the other.

Speaker 2 (55:50):
Let me just also, I'm I'm not rich enough to
be on other franchises, but like Orange County.

Speaker 1 (55:56):
I said, oh the shade, I think play.

Speaker 3 (55:59):
Of those girls filing for bankruptcy and whatnot.

Speaker 1 (56:02):
So I think on every franchise, I am going to
tell you, there are people that have money, people that
pretend to have money, people who don't have money. Life
isn't it, Yes, and that's what makes it authentic.

Speaker 2 (56:12):
At the very least on Beverly Hills, regardless of I
don't know what their actual net worths are, but everyone
is showcasing a certain lifestyle in a particular way on
that franchise. Do you know what I'm Yes, I do.
Orange County is different s not like cities, a little
different where they're not you know, they don't not everybody
has the eight bedroom, twelve bedrooms.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
One hundred, you know what I mean? Yes, Well, I
don't watch other franchises because have you ever I watched
like the first season or two of Beverly Hills because
we were friends with Paul nass if any dream okay, so,
and I was like, I want to see what it's about,
what they're doing. And then after that I didn't I
have genuine friendships with girls on some of the other

(56:51):
franchises that I'd rather just be friends with them and
not see what's going on on the show and have
to like it's okay to just be real friends. And
then the other girls from the other franchises it feels
like sorority sisters. So what we see them at Bravocon
and at other things and it's fun and it's great,
and like you know, from Watch What Happens Life, I've

(57:12):
met a bunch of girls from different from Miami or whatever.
Caroline Stansbury is a great friend of mine. Now we
met a hundred years ago when she was on Ladies
of London. Oh my god, and I love her and Surgery.
So I feel like it's been a really wonderful way
to meet.

Speaker 3 (57:27):
All these And it's also people who get it.

Speaker 2 (57:28):
Like I just went to a influencer retreat with my
management and it's like when I chat, even though we're not,
you know, best friends, kind of like you're saying, we
understand what it's like to be content creators, to be
moms that are coming from the same we do get it.
Even though we might live totally different lives. It's still
like we understand the same kind of struggles that honestly,

(57:49):
other you know, other people, every whatever you want to
call it. People that aren't in that industry just don't
quite understand, you know. And I'm sure that you get
that too. It's like, no, if you're living in an
any kind of Real Housewives franchise, other people or any
Bravo show, they understand there's.

Speaker 1 (58:05):
A common non right.

Speaker 4 (58:06):
That's why I say it's sorority sisters.

Speaker 1 (58:08):
We all get it, and we all know it's all good.

Speaker 3 (58:10):
We've all gone through the same hazing.

Speaker 2 (58:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:12):
Well, I could totally see you on the show one day,
one day.

Speaker 2 (58:15):
I live in Orange County, but you know, one day,
Yeah you are.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
You're close enough.

Speaker 3 (58:19):
I know, literally, I'm like ten minutes away.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
You're fine, you're tiny, miss on the border. You're in.

Speaker 2 (58:22):
I don't want to leave in Huntington, but I'll live
in Long Beach.

Speaker 1 (58:24):
What's next for you?

Speaker 2 (58:25):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (58:26):
You got this great podcast?

Speaker 2 (58:27):
No, you know what? Yeah, this year is I'm kind
of saying this. Oh my god, I'm doing I'm doing
a play right now. I'm actually get this. I used
to do theater in high school. I love this for you.
I was driving past a theater. I was dropping my
kids off at a class or whatever, and drove past
this tiny, little theater and I thought, oh, I'm looking
to see if they're having auditions, and I went on
their website. It's at auditions that night, casting a twenty

(58:48):
five to thirty five year old woman. I said, oh,
I'm going to go to the top. It so I
went they show who I was or anything. I got
a call back and I got cast and it's a
solo performance. So it's gonna be it.

Speaker 1 (58:59):
You're doing like one woman show.

Speaker 2 (59:01):
Stop it. I have like, oh my god, I have
like thirty six pages of dialogue that I have to
memorize and all, Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (59:07):
I love to be authrough made.

Speaker 2 (59:08):
But that's what I'm doing right now, which is so fun. Love.
This is kind of my year of like little dreams
come true. I started the show, which is so fun.
I built out this like crazy podcast. I mean it's
I'll show you pictures, it's so crazy. I built it
out above this like taco shop. I have this little office,
but it's like you walk in, it's like my little
late night show that I created. I'm doing the play.

(59:31):
I'm gonna be building. I'm all into like natural earth
and building. And so my grandma actually just gifted me
five acres of this property that she and my grandpa
used to own. And long story short, my grandpa had
built this beautiful, beautiful house I grew up in up
in the mountains, going to all the time, and then

(59:52):
my grandpa passed away when I was a teenager, really tragically,
and so I always felt so connected to this house. Well,
my grandma sold it in twenty nineteen, which everyone is
kind of like, why would you do that? Yeah, burnt
down in twenty twenty in the fires, which was crazy
and such a lesson to me of like following your
intuition even when it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
Seem to listen.

Speaker 2 (01:00:11):
And she let it go and look what happened. She
retained though five acres of that property. And so I've
always thought about, like, I want to like build somewhere.

Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
What about your siblings? They didn't get any.

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
They just don't well, so listen, so sossed. I've always
wanted to build something there. And this past week I
called her and I'm like, you know, what do I
have to do? Do I have to get a survey
or out, you know, to actually do something, And she's like,
you know what, I was doing my will in trust yesterday.
I was wondering, did you ever want to do a
project there? And I'm like, no, really this year I
want to build something. I want to do something, and
she was like, okay, I'll have it sosh over to

(01:00:40):
your name, and I like, yeah, and.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
Your siblings are going to be picked.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
So she told them and they were like, you know what.
And I've always like had such a special connection. Everyone
was kind of like, no, I get it, Like it
makes sense. My brother was like, I looked up the
value of it. It's not worth it.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
Like it's fine, you take it, you know, use it.

Speaker 1 (01:00:55):
Where is it?

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
Uh, It's it's up by shaver Lake, which is by
fres Now.

Speaker 3 (01:00:58):
It's where I grew up.

Speaker 2 (01:00:59):
I grew up a valleys.

Speaker 3 (01:01:00):
It's like five hours away.

Speaker 2 (01:01:01):
So this summer I'm gonna do a whole project there, kind.

Speaker 1 (01:01:06):
Of like the maybe for all the siblings and the kids.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
Well, that's kind of.

Speaker 2 (01:01:11):
My plan, and for the gotta be prepped for the
apocalypse just in case, make a make a booker if
we make it out of la I mean, you know
that's the thing.

Speaker 4 (01:01:18):
Grab the botox and get a bunker, grab cat.

Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
We can't look.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
Ugly, we can't look old.

Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
In the apocalypse, We're gonna be looking do you filler?

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
No, But I get sculpture.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
Okay, what's up sculpture.

Speaker 4 (01:01:32):
I'll tell you offline.

Speaker 2 (01:01:32):
Okay, tell everyone.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
Okay, thank you so much for being here. We're doing
a podcast, right, So I'm gonna be on your podcast,
at which I'm very excited about. I adore you. I'm
so happy for you. I'm so glad you're doing the play.
It's doing stuff like that. I was telling someone the
other day that I'm taking classes at the Groundlings and
I'm having the.

Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
You're taking Oh my god, have funds. It's the same thing.
It's like, just do it for you. Yes, it's not
have to be for any career pursuit either. It's just
for you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Yeah, it's so great. This was my like easy way
to get my creative yes acting, because I didn't have
time to take an acting class, I know, And so
I thought, you know what, I've never done improv donet
stand up and stuff like that. But I've never done
improv before and I'd love to learn, like really how
to do it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
And it's just fun. It's so fun, Like it's silly,
it's fun, it's creative. Oh. I love that. So it's
the same thing. You gotta just like pour into yourself
just to make yourself happy.

Speaker 1 (01:02:21):
I love it. I adore you. I'm so happy for
your success. Tell everyone how to find the podcast and
how to find you on social You.

Speaker 3 (01:02:27):
Can follow me on Instagram.

Speaker 2 (01:02:28):
At Becca b Ekah. I paid for that so you
can go follow it and Becca and friends. It's the
Patreon only podcast. We do have free previews, so go listen, subscribe, Yeah,
find me there.

Speaker 4 (01:02:41):
Thank you, Bye,

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