BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

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February 20, 2024 84 mins

This week your bffs discuss what it means to be the "gay cousin", what you need to look out for when seeking a therapist and why we should ALL be apart of the yeehaw agenda.  

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This week we talk Seasonal Affective Disorder, #FFFFFF mediocrity and what it means to hold ourselves accountable.   

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February 6, 2024 76 mins

This week we begin Black History Month by talking about the USA Today article about the importance of Aunties and Othermothers to LGBTQ+ people, along with a pop culture moment (per a listener request) centered on Drag Race S16.  

You know how DoctorJonPaul feels.  

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January 30, 2024 64 mins

This week Jon & Joho chat about the magic that lives in queer spaces (and the fear of them disappearing) along with why every city should have a Hamburger Mary's. 

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January 23, 2024 76 mins

We're back! This week Jon and Joho discuss intentional weight loss, the difference between “health” and “desirability,” and what prioritizing wellness really looks like for Black, fat, femmes. 

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Originally recording January 2023.

This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram.

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December 19, 2023 65 mins

This week we give 2023 the yes ma'am/no ma'am treatment. Special shout out to those who sent letters and offered their own YM & NMP for the show.

Thank you for listening and we see at the top of 2024. 

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December 12, 2023 83 mins

This week we talk about community, adulting and how so much has changed for Black, fat, femmes since gas was a $1.

Yes girl, you read that right.  

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We're excited to sit down this week with icon, legend, and activist Ashlee Marie Preston, as we talk about change, engaging in our political cycle for our rights, and the snacks that need comebacks. 

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November 28, 2023 61 mins

This week we discuss how we navigate our emotions (and wallet) during the holiday season and what we like (and hate) about holiday foods. 

The article Jon mentions about navigating family during the holidays

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This week we chat with Dr. Sami Schalk about the impacts that the pandemic has had on our hearts and bodies while also diving in deeper into the hatred the world has for our favorite chains - yes you guessed it: The Cheesecake Factory and Olive Garden. 

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November 14, 2023 90 mins

To celebrate National Trans Awareness week, we (intentionally) chat with Movement Lawyer + Political Commentator Olayemi Olurin about the importance of cisgender people using their platform to uplift the voices of Black trans women - and why Black trans women shouldn't always have to be the ones to speak up for their rights. 

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November 7, 2023 80 mins

This week we celebrate the inaugural "BFF Experience" live show with our friends Shar Jossell, Xavier D'Leau & Tre'vell Anderson. We also celebrate the gift that is fried chicken. 

Thank you to everyone who attended and thank you to the Elysian Theater for making us feel so at home. 

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This week we are joined by the ultra-talented YawnyBlew to discuss how revolutionary it is to create in spaces you often don't see yourself in, the art we love and why we are SICK and TIRED of scammers. 

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This week we chat with the wonderful accidental activist Franchesca Ramsey about her the highs and lows of speaking truth to power on social media, what she would fix about the 2000's and the karma Jon got for laughing at Android users. 

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This week we chat body with the iconic Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you who made it out to our live show! 

THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEARTS FOR ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT!

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This week we chat with Raquel about self affirmations, the risk we all navigate when becoming our authentic selves and how we are sick and tired of getting robbed by Beyoncé. 

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October 3, 2023 73 mins

This week we chat affirmations, why "Kokomo City" should be at the top of your list to watch and why we all should have beef with Delta's new frequent flyer program rules. 

Come and see us live, loud and in color on Wednesday, October 11th for "The BFF Experience" at the Elysian Theater in Los Angeles. Get your tickets here!

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September 26, 2023 77 mins

This week we chat about the ways in which the world is obsessed with Black (and queer) culture without actually being connected to Black (and queer) people.

Also, why we need to uplift those who are out here speaking truth to power. 

Here’s some information about Black queer people's mental health. 

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This week we discuss things we appreciate more now that we are older, how to remain a good person in what can often feel like a very, very, very, VERY terrible world and why we are tired of being nickeled and dimed to death by corporations. 

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