BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

"The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.

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May 14, 2024 82 mins

This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only CeCe Telfer to talk about what we all can do to help trans athletes get to the olympics. We also talk about being uppity and why so many people hate leftovers. 

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This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only Keah Brown, creator of the hashtag #DisabledandCute to celebrate the episode you've all been asking us for - a deep dive into our favorite white people sh*t (an ode to Jade & XD if you will). 

We talk tv, music and pop culture moments - and give Hilary Duff her flowers for ending homophobia, in that order. 

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April 30, 2024 82 mins

This week your BFF's discuss the definition of "pretty" and what how conventions of attraction shape friendship, relationships and how you feel about yourself. We also discuss the historical importance of buffets & why the world hasn't been the same since Sweet Tomatoes went out of business. 

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April 23, 2024 66 mins

Adulting is hard - so this week your BFF's clue you in to how they have navigated their financial wins (and losses), all while taking pride in having a big back. 

We promise it will all make sense when you're done listening. 

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April 16, 2024 83 mins

The sad but true fact is that people often judge you on likability. This week, we dive into a conversation around what we are coining as, "The Likability Factor" and why so much of it is rooted in misogynoir and femmephobia. 

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April 9, 2024 66 mins

Y'all know we had to do it! This week we say "howdy" to Cowboy Carter and talk all about the album, its significance, and its impact. Yeehaw!

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This week your BFF's sit down with the one & only Bunny McKensie Mack to dish around why we should be paying more attention to A.I, where to get the best food in Cali & Chicago and how (and why) liberation doesn't start with a pride flag. 

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This week we are replaying an episode that had us on the FLOOR. We talk with Laci Mosley about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's. 

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March 19, 2024 65 mins

This week your bffs discuss the difference between anger & rage and how we navigate both emotions in a time where everything feels heavy while also asking the same question we are all asking - WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THESE PLANES?

Article we referenced: 

On James Baldwin and Black Rage by Myisha Cherry

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This week we joined by the dopest Black girl on the internet to talk about tech of yesteryear, what we are doing to disconnect and the importance of being well while in digital spaces. 

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March 5, 2024 87 mins

This week your bffs discuss some of their favorite words and do a bit of a break down around the word "queer" and what it means to you, the listener! 

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This week we chat with the incomparable Angelica Ross and expound on the obsession that cis-gender people have with queer people, while also exploring activism, allyship and advocacy. 

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February 20, 2024 84 mins

This week your bffs discuss what it means to be the "gay cousin", what you need to look out for when seeking a therapist and why we should ALL be apart of the yeehaw agenda.  

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February 13, 2024 68 mins

This week we talk Seasonal Affective Disorder, #FFFFFF mediocrity and what it means to hold ourselves accountable.   

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February 6, 2024 76 mins

This week we begin Black History Month by talking about the USA Today article about the importance of Aunties and Othermothers to LGBTQ+ people, along with a pop culture moment (per a listener request) centered on Drag Race S16.  

You know how DoctorJonPaul feels.  

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January 30, 2024 64 mins

This week Jon & Joho chat about the magic that lives in queer spaces (and the fear of them disappearing) along with why every city should have a Hamburger Mary's. 

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January 23, 2024 76 mins

We're back! This week Jon and Joho discuss intentional weight loss, the difference between “health” and “desirability,” and what prioritizing wellness really looks like for Black, fat, femmes. 

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Originally recording January 2023.

This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram.

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December 19, 2023 65 mins

This week we give 2023 the yes ma'am/no ma'am treatment. Special shout out to those who sent letters and offered their own YM & NMP for the show.

Thank you for listening and we see at the top of 2024. 

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December 12, 2023 83 mins

This week we talk about community, adulting and how so much has changed for Black, fat, femmes since gas was a $1.

Yes girl, you read that right.  

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