February 6, 2024 • 50 mins
Ellie and Scott are joined by actress and comedian Alyssa Limperis. Alyssa shares her love of feeding people. We hear all about celebrating Greek Easter, hiding dimes in bread, and her lifelong devotion to Domino's. Plus, Scott shares with Ellie his love of only owning one kind of sock.
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
No, no, no, no no. Boy to Love.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hey Scott, Hey Ellie.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm Ellie Kemper. This is Scott Eckert. This is our
podcast Born to Love. Every week on the show we
have a guest on to talk about something that he
or she loves and we are so excited. Today we
have Alyssa elm Paris on the show. She is a
(00:30):
very funny comedian. We met her back in November of
last year, and she's going to talk about her love
of feeding people, of having people over and feeding.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Them, hosting party, feeding people. I mean, I don't know.
We'll get into it, hash it out with her. I
couldn't be more excited to talk to her. How are
you doing, Ellie, I'm well, how are you?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
How was your week?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It was fun. It's wintertime now and my children did
something that I never did growing up. Over the weekend.
We went skiing and skiing. I don't really want to
talk about skiing because I mostly just sat around in
the lodge because I never went skiing, so I don't
know how to ski, so I suck at it, so
I sit in the lodge. But one of the things
(01:14):
that it made me realize was my love Ellie of socks.
What But I have a very This is the first love.
It's like a yin and yang because it's also a loathe.
I love my socks, but you know what, I loathe
(01:35):
lots of different socks. My mom loves novelty socks. She's
got so many different socks, all different kinds of socks.
I read the best piece of advice This is probably
now ten years ago, the best piece of advice that
I had ever come across, and it's sock related. You
want to know what it was? Yeah, if you are
(01:57):
irritated with pairing your socks, isn't you know you do
the laundry. Pairing the socks is annoying, thankless task, thankless, totally,
nobody enjoys it. Here's a sure fire away, an algorithm, perhaps,
if you want to describe it that way too. To
make the task of pairing socks easier, you take all
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of your socks and you throw them in the garbage,
and then you go to the store and you buy
about thirty to forty pairs of identical socks, and then
you never ever have to worry about pairing them again
because they all match.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Scott, I love that idea in theory. What do I do?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I wear a lot of they're called no show socks,
but they show like their soft like all like, al
I see is my socks when I put these no
show socks on, and they come in packs of different colors.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
So what do I do about that?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Well, that's terrible. You shouldn't buy those socks. You got
a pair of them. You have a whole bunch of
different socks that are for colors. You got to put
the blue in with the pink one. No, I've got
The reason that the scheme reminded me of it is
that my wife was like rooting through a whole house
looking for the kids ski socks. Where are they wear
the ski socks, Bob, because apparently you need special socks
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and you ski.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I'm not a skier, and I don't know. I've never
been so smug in my life. Because I have a
little box where I keep my socks. They still boxes
literally labeled socks, and it is full to the brim
of a bunch of identical black socks. And it's like,
you know what, these are the only socks I wear.
These are the only socks I've worn for years and
years and years. They're they're carefree, utterly and completely care free. Now,
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if you're like you who has to do things like run,
I mean, I suppose you might need a couple of
different socks, but for me, it's really just one kind
of sock. I just I just have the high pull
up flash.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Sure, I have to say a knee high. I don't
think your socks come up to your knees.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
You have dress, yeah, but they're warm, they're not like
fancy at all. You could wear them with jeans, which
I do every day.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Of course. Why I say dress socks to describe the
length more than the occasion. Their socks that come up
what six inches to your up to your shin, up
your shin six inches?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, they go up my ship maybe yeah, yeah, yeah
you could if you pull them up and stretch them
up real high. They might. They might, they're approaching the knee.
They don't make it all the way. I mean, I
don't pull them up that tight. I just love the
fact that they match.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
What does this have to do with skiing at the lotch.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well, the ski Lodch, Because the thing, like I said,
I mean.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
You had taken me on a roller coaster of a.
It was.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
It was my smugness that they were the kids. The kids.
My wife and kids both had to pair bring multiple
pairs of socks. My wife had a hard time finding
the socks, and the whole time I was like, I
love my fick, your Scott.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
You're took so many twists and turns. You're like, you
know what, I love my family and I went skiing
this week.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Anyone listening any obvious answers, Oh, he must love skiing. No,
it's not sking, all right, Okay, okay, Oh he must
love the fire at the lodge. No it's not the
Oh he loves socks. Well, he must love I keep thinking, Oh,
maybe his socks kept him so warm on the ski vacation. No,
it has nothing to do with skiing except that your wife,
your poor wife, Vanessa, Vanessa, couldn't find the socks, and
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that's what you loved.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
You are sick, man.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I just think bullied for my love are fairness. I
didn't do a great job articulating it, but I just
I hope that Alyssa is kinder to me and that
I'm not relentlessly bullying.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
I hope not. I hope nobody makes fun of you
in the conversation.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I hope I don't get I am not treated with
open disdain.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
From my opinion, I really hope that you don't get
in any way mocked or ribbed for some light, little
fun things that you did to entertain people.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
But anyway, Scott, anyway, anyway, guys.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Alissa Alissa len Paris is our guest today. We are
so excited to have Alyssa on the show. She is
an actress and a comedian based in Los Angeles. She
trained at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater. She has her
own comedy special, No Bad Days on Peacock. She stars
as Sydney in the hit Showtime show Flatbush Misdemeanors. Alissa
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is very well known for her viral comedy videos impersonating
her mom.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
They are hilarious.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
They are on canny. I've never met her mom, but
I feel like I know her intimately. Alissa was selected
to be part of the Big Money Player Circle back
in November, so we got to meet her in IRL
in real life.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Then we love her.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
She is a delight.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
She is a very funny woman. She's on the show
today to talk about her love of feeding people.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
So when we come back. We're gonna sit down with Alyssa.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
We are back.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
We are here with Alissa Lecarris, Alyssa.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Hello. I feel like I'm seeing old friends again. It's
a reunion.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
It is such a reunion. Scott, Alyssa and I first
met back in November.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
At the hard Rock Hard Rock.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
So it was at the hard Rock Hotel in the
heart of New York City.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yes, Alyssa was performing as part of the Big Money
Players Circle.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Yes, and we had a time we all met.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
It was a night of laughter and.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Rock and roll.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
It was so much fun. And we are so happy
to be seeing you again. Granted over our computer screens,
but still very happy to.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
See you again. I feel the same way.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, thank you for joining us.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Alyssa is here today to talk to us about her
love of feeding people.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Yes, which I want to have some of this love, Alissa,
Is that right? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Feeding people, having people, over entertaining, the whole all of
it causes me stress.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
So talk to me.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Okay, very interesting, this is great. Yeah, First of all,
how cute is it? Look at all of our setups,
don't we all look like we're gabbing from our from
our like our childhood bedrooms. We all have our little
posters on the wall.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
And we're all I hate to interrupt it. Ellie has
a blank wall behind her, and so does Melissa. The
only person who has anything behind them is me, and
it's my it's my adult bedroom that I share with
my wife, and it's being openly mocked. The posters that
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are over my shoulder, Lissa are pictures of my infant children.
They're also they're also my decent framed puzzles.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I knew there was a yes.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
And Alyssa does have a poster on her wall, Scott,
She's got plenty of posters. And I have a little,
you know, my little sailboat lamp in the background and
like an ikea little desk.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's something the little nights stand kind of that reminded
me of my childhood nights stand.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Yes, you guess what, guess we're this night stand used
to me, not not my own. I wish it were
my own childhood bedroom, my child's bedroom. So I saved
it into this little what do you even call this
a niche a nook.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
It's a recording studio.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
It's my recording studio. It's my recording studio in my home.
In Manhattan Recording studio.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
It is a white for those of you not on video,
it is an undecorated white walled.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Cue Q.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
With I like that share though. That's a it's a
great chair.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
It's from the Pasadena Antique Center anyway. Anyway, Scott, she
was not just talking about your rest.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So you got that all the way from here to there. Yep,
that's a good chat.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Ellie spent money transporting the world's I don't know, most
unremarkable chair. This is tricky, tricky for an audio only format.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
And we will say she's not sitting in it.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
She's not sitting in it, folks. It's just there, sort
of asant decorations directly behind the seat.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
My head blocks it for most of it, except except
when I need a break.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
And it's now I realized that there's there's like a
war in my mind. Would I rather see Ellie or
would I rather look at that empty chair?
Speaker 3 (10:44):
And I disagree with you. It's not an ordinary chair, Scott.
It's made of bamboo.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I agree, it's not. I misspoke. I shouldn't have called
it ordinary.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
It is.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
It's an unusual chair, but I don't know.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
I mean, it's no framed puzzle.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
It's not the kind of chair that you transport across
the country. It's the kind of chair that you throw
on the curb when you're leaving. That's that's sort of
what I was trying.
Speaker 7 (11:05):
Yeah, wow, okay, well I'll step out for a seconds.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Are getting heated?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Yeah, let me step out. Let you guys.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Maybe I'll tell you what it's the kind of chair.
It's the kind of chair you break out when you're
having a dinner.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
There we go.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
That's a total pro. Riding the train, riding the course, Alyssa,
what on earth do you love about having?
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah? What what do you like?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So it's so it's isn't it like we all just
live in our lives. So in my head, I'm like,
everyone loves this because I grew up in just such
a I'm Greek and so I like my grandpa lived
with me. I grew up in a home that was
like big on just hosting, having food all the time.
Like I have strong memories of me. I ran track
Ellie and I runner. I thought I wish you could.
Speaker 4 (11:58):
Do Sorry.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You guys leave me in the dust.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Oh well yeah, well Alyssa would Yeah, well.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
No, not anymore. I am an old I'm an old gal.
These hips are they?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I can't. I can't if I tried, But yeah, I
made a run, but I cannot fast, Okay, go on, No,
I walk exclusively.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
So yeah. Basically I have a memory of, like after
a track meet, calling my mom being like the whole
teen's coming over?
Speaker 4 (12:24):
Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (12:25):
And her being like you got it? So like, I
think I associate having people over having food, feeding people
as home and I love it. I love, love love
the feeling of like people are coming over and I
want to make sure that they have more food than
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they could possibly deal with. I want them to be
I'm like big on, like there should never be an
empty plate. If I see a plate getting low, I'm
refilling it. I kind of am in turbo mode.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Right, yep, yep, yep, I hit a flow state. That's
what I'm wondering.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
Are you taking the time you know at big events
like that you're the host of You're a focus on entertaining,
so do you also have a chance to eat or
are you in turbo mode taking care of your guests?
Speaker 7 (13:12):
Well, it's very funny you say this, Ellie.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I I.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
Feel like I am part of a very long standing
familial tradition in my Greek home of overwhelming others with
food and not eating any of it.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Yes, yep, yep, Well because you can't because you can't
relax or maybe yes, I shouldn't say relaxed, but you're
you're serving.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Them right, yes, yes, and people will be like, did
you have fun? I feel like you had to host,
and I'm like, no, that is what's fun for me.
I find being at a party harder than I then host.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
What you mean, yes, okay, I'm going to step in
because I have to my record, my track wreck track
record of having people over.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
I have maybe them.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
I have. When I say Halloween party, it's one set
of parents and their kid, and then this year there
was another mom and kid case. And that is my
idea of me hosting a party. I was like, I
hosted a Halloween party this year. We ordered pizza.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
It wasn't anything I did put out crud de tay
with hummus.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
But at the end of that, you know, night of celebration,
I was exhausted, and I'm not exaggerating it. I was like,
because the all day anticipation of I'm having people over
is the apartment clean or what is their wine?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Right?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
All of it exhausted me, but I also felt triumphant.
I felt like that was very wholesome and healthy. It
felt good to have people at my home. Do you
feel depleted afterwards? Do you feel like I want to
do that again? Are you hot like on a rush?
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Yea, literally think I'm.
Speaker 7 (15:00):
Like high on a rush slash like said it's over.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yes, Yeah, I think there's something about like deeply wanting
my home to be filled with people at all. Like
I remember the first time because my boyfriend, I moved
into a two bedroom and that's when I felt I
could really start hosting. So this is kind of new.
And so my dad passed away and I grew up
in this one house my whole life. And then a
little over a year ago, my mom finally moved out
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of that house. So I had this like aching goodbye
to this house that it just felt like a real
like second loss of my dad. But then also you
know the house and the that's where he did die
in the house, so there was so much of him
in it. And then I came back to La and
this is kind of the good part of hard things,
as it was like, well, now I have to do that.
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If I want home, this has to be my home, right.
I love that. Yes, if I want traditions, then they
have to be here because there's no longer obviously I'm
still going to go visit my mom at her place.
But it's it was almost like I had this crutch
of I can just go back to this home for
all the like, yes, that.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Stuff, how interesting, yep yep.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
And so I had this big year of just like
I had so many dinners and like I had like
a Greek Easter, yes, And I was like doing all.
Speaker 7 (16:16):
These traditions because I wanted to.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
And I was like doing this tradition of like you
bake a bread and you put a diame in it
and then whoever gets the peace with the dime gets
good luck. And I was at church on New Year's
and the priest was like, and today we're doing the vassilpita.
And I turned to my friend and like, is that
a New Year's thing?
Speaker 4 (16:33):
And she's like, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
So I taught like thirty thirty people that at Greek
Easter you kind of bread with a diamond it literally, yes.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
How nice to experience other cultures. And now they're spreading
the word exponentially. Those thirty people have to hold thirty
people each, and you're okay, and that next thing you go,
you're no.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
Longer welcome at the gree church.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Now the archdiocese has banned me exactly exactly, yes, oh.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Yeah, that I could see myself doing that. Also, I
have to be honest, we all thought it.
Speaker 4 (17:07):
The size.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Why must it be a dime? It's too small, right,
it should be a half a silver dollar.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
It should be something that's difficult to choke on.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Is that right?
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Really?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Got that's it, that's it, that's it now. Yeah, but
it means good luck, and so you know what I
think that means. You can't just get an easy pass
on good luck. You have to risk choking to get
good luck.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I like that.
Speaker 8 (17:30):
You have to risk.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Do you know what the Greeks are doing something right?
Speaker 1 (17:34):
That's right, we invented the marathon.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It's torture for forty.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
For game day.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
So I love you have just set in to motion
the idea in my head, which is that, yes, if you,
because I absolutely do that with my home in Saint Louis,
which my parents moved, but I still feel going home.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
It's not the home I grew up in, but it
still feels like home.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
And I definitely, even though I have children of my own,
I do feel like I haven't established home yet.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
So I love that notion, yes, of doing that and
making that your home.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
And I really think I wouldn't have done that if
I hadn't lost the house. So it was this like
terribly painful thing. And then when I looked back on
this year, I was like, oh, so many wonderful Like
I had a cookie swap because my mom always had
cookie swaps with like her teacher friends, and I did
it for the second time this year, and it's like
now the one of the highlights of my year. And
I'm like, I would have never done that if right, right, right.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Yeah, it's so nice.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yes, I've got a question for you.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Talk to me, Scott.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
I share your enthusiasm for hosting, and I think that
it may not be to the same degree that you do.
I'm certainly not as good at it. But the obstacle
that I used to have, I think I've solved it.
But the obstacle that I used to add is the
cooking piece of it. You mentioned baking bread that that
to me is like the failure point of any sort
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of party, because I've been to parties where the host
is overwhelmed by the cooking and then the food turns
out terrible, and then the hose like I'm so sorry,
I'm so sorry, and everyone's like, oh, it's okay, but
everybody knows that the party's ruined, right, so like, yes,
how do you handle that piece of it?
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I'll say that's a great point, Scott, because I think
I need to covey on this by saying I'm a comedian,
and I trade in a lot of comedians. I'm on
the cusp of like barely an adult, so I think
I have the benefit of I'm rarely being like everyone
sit down and eat a meal. I'm big in like
spread territory, and I think there's less errors that can
(19:36):
be done in a spread. I would be overwhelmed by
having two couples over and having a sit down meal
like that to me, because now that's the focus. Is
the food worse. I'm big on what's the music gonna be.
We're gonna have a movie on with no volume but
with subtitle. There's gonna be a game. I'm gonna have
an event. I'm gonna have like picking food.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
What's the cool movie that? What's a cool movie selection?
Because that the curre. I've heard about the playlist, but
the curated silent movie one hundred percent, it's key.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I'll tell you what. It's not too cool. I just
for the cookie swap. It's elf. For Greek Easter. It
was my big fat Greek wedding. I mean, we're not
reinventing the wheel here, We're just going to people come
in and they go, yes, ah, that old thing. I
gotta sit down. Look and I my boyfriend. I went
to a hotel and they were like playing movies on
a big screen outside in the patio, and they were
(20:27):
like three hour black and white movies. I'm going, no,
you can't get into a black and white movie on
an outdoor patty.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
You gotta go.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
That's miss congeniality. I know it. I'll hop in for
ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Yas exactly right. I don't need sound because I know
the line. I know I'm going in and I'm going out.
I've never ever, it's never occurred to me to put
a movie on mute and to have that in the background.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
I love It's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
I'm thinking Okay, well maybe I'm already brainstoring for my
next Halloween fat I'm gonna put.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
On the Witch's one. What's the Witch's one?
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Yeah? Right, hocus focus, there you go? Is that it?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
I'm putting it on beetlejuice nightmare before Christmas?
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Yes, gosh's really getting in so yeah, that's a little
hack there, Yes, I too, I cannot okay, full confession.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
For my wedding, I registered for China.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I'm talking about the kind of china you eat on
in a sort of in a nicer setting, like for
an event, but.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Taking out the good china. I can hear it in
my head, a good china.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
Exactly your mom's bringing it.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
I have not used it to have other people over once,
of course not, And the idea of it sends me
into a panic having to cook whatever.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
What's a common thing to cook?
Speaker 1 (21:46):
Roast?
Speaker 4 (21:49):
Yeah, pot roast.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Ellie cooks so infrequently that she cannot come on with
the name of a meal.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
I literally, I literally was like, what is something people eat?
And the first thing I came up with was roast beef?
I don't even does anyone eat that? Yeah, roast beef sandwich.
I'm serving everybody roast bean sandwiches, which is on the
china right, You know what I was thinking of, To
(22:19):
be perfectly honest, I was thinking of chicken pacada, because
if I'm having adults over, I'm not gonna feed them
spaghetti and meatballs. I'm gonna feed them chicken pocada, which
I've never caught in my life. The idea of making
that with sides and presenting it and having it be hot.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Yeah, very stressful.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
Okay, I'll say something else.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Another thing I really think is key to your first
Like I started with things I already knew how to make.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
So now I take risks at parties like I'll add
or introduce one new thing.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
But in my first year of hosting, I was just
going with like Trader Joe's and then Greek food that
I grew up knowing how to make. Because yeah, chicken pocata,
I'm like to take a swing to make a new
dash for a dinner party. I think it's too brace you.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I am going to now brag because there is one
thing I make and I used to do this.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
I was on a like sort of I was.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
I hit a good streak when I lived in Los Angeles,
I got a slow cooker.
Speaker 7 (23:15):
You got the chair.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
I got a slow cre say, I got the chair.
I got two things out of my time in Los Angeles.
I got a slow cooker and I got a bamboo chair,
and they're both still with me. And one of the
things that I haven't made in ages, but I used
to make pretty regularly was a turkey passole stew.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Come on, come on, it is.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
Nothing you've ever You don't think. Oh, that's what I'm
in the mood for. I hope I go to someone's
house and have that. Nobody's thinking of it. I found
the recipe and my slow cooker recipe. I tried it
one time again. All ingredients you can get at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Everyone loves it. It's delicious. You inspired me these cold
winter months. Why don't I break that out recipe out?
Speaker 4 (24:01):
You know?
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yes, because that's it. You have something you do well.
Speaker 4 (24:05):
It is tried and true.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
That's it, tried and true. And then you get a
bread you and Scott I said, I make bread. I'll
tell you what. I got a bread machine. I got
a bread machine. You put water, you put a little butter,
you put flour, yeast and salt and coins and two
dollars worth of dimes.
Speaker 8 (24:25):
You call it a day.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
You have to do, that's all. Not when you've had
people over, what do you make?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Well, I mean I think, first of all, I don't
know that I've ever hosted a sit down dinner party, right, So, Melissa,
you are trying to I can't handle that. I hosted
a Thanksgiving once, which is the closest, and I know
how to make Thanksgiving. I'm talking casual, having people over,
serve yourself standing kind of thing. And what I've discovered
is that I want to keep it to like five items, right,
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I want to have an abundance, But the mistake is
when there's too much going on, and the simpler that
you can make it the better. And my hope is
that the clarity that the true, like a bell ringing
clarity of those items and their abundance carries me through.
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So I also hosted. I also hosted a Halloween party.
As a matter of fact, many more people we had,
we like, we had like thirty people, a bunch of kids.
We had a giant pinata. But here's the thing, food wise,
fifteen Domino's pizzas yep. And then two enormous. They weren't
(25:45):
even bulls. What are those big metal trays? Just truly enormous.
One of them was pasta that had been dyed orange.
If you if you boil pasta with food coloring and
the water, it's orange. The other pasta that had been
dyed black, and then uh, clementine oranges and that.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
Now now, okay, okay, you had me at the five items,
the fact that those are your five.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
It is actually I understood the pizzas and I thought
it was going to end there. I thought it was
going to be Domino's and sodas and then the pasta.
Two things first, I'm thinking, why didn't you just put
sauce right prot sauce?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Yes, we'll hold up. I'm being judged from my amazing
orange pasta a little.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
It's fantastic, Scott. Did you what did you mix the pasta?
Speaker 3 (26:54):
Assuming answers, yes, did you mix the pastas together so
they were orange and black?
Speaker 2 (26:58):
No?
Speaker 7 (26:58):
No, no, no, it appeared to be those were two
separate items in his five.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Two giant trays. You could have either orange pasta or
black pasta.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
And that was for all the people who didn't want pizza.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I mean it's a kid's party. It's a kid's party.
Speaker 4 (27:13):
It's a kid's party.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
If I was hosting like a five couples, I wouldn't
just serve them plain or in fasta.
Speaker 4 (27:22):
So there was no sauce.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
There was no sauce, No sauce, no s's what the
pizzas for.
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I love how confidently you're explaining this milk, have no.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Shame, only pride. I was literally like I presented it like, guys,
let me let, I've got the perfect solution. Here's how
you host a dinner party and you're both horrified. It
seems genuine horror in your cleving tines.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
At the end of all that the acid of just
a sort of like you you're begging for a fat
at that point, your body is hoping for a protein,
hoping for a fat.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
It's begging for it.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
And then but you understand, the clementines are orange.
Speaker 6 (28:04):
It fits the.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
Theme, and it's children. They ate those clementines like nobody's business.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
I actually I believe that.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
But Scott, having poked some fun at you, I have
to say, you're honoring of the other. It seems this case,
there were four meals that orange.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Black well, we also had salad.
Speaker 4 (28:25):
We also had a salade. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
That's helpful to see because I would have found myself
getting broccoli, raw broccoli, rock, carrots and putting those out too.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
I like that you had the restraint yes to know Nope,
we're not telling me too much. Just keep it to
the five.
Speaker 8 (28:42):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Can I highlight something that you sort of breezed by
and I think is the saving grace of that hellen party.
My thing I said is you always have to have
an event as well, and then that distress. It's like
a magic trick. The more fun things you have going on,
the food becomes an afterthought. And you had the pinata.
Every kid is leaving there going we had a pinata
for something that wasn't my birthday. Yeah, that was heaven.
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I'm so excited sen that the parents are going. I
do it doesn't feel great, but they're not worried about that.
The kids had a nice time.
Speaker 7 (29:16):
Time and they'll come again because of the pinata.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
So I think you really are so right because at
my Halloween party, consisting of eight guests, I had no
there was no enter what are we calling it entertainment?
Speaker 7 (29:28):
I had an activity, an event, entertainment. I need something.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
I think there was no event. The pizza.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
We had pizza too, that was the event. There was
no game, there was no nothing for I thought, Oh,
the children will play. They're so hopped up on candy
by that point that it's like playing is insane, right,
They're just jumping. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I love the
edition of an event Alyssa, you mentioned or somebody mentioned earlier.
I'll be honest, I heard about this offline. The ten
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minutes before, having left ten minutes before where they right
can be an adrenaline fuel rush like you've never felt before.
Speaker 4 (30:05):
Those are my words. I'm putting my spin on it.
But what do you like about or do you like?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
The people are talking high? You heard that on the streets.
Speaker 6 (30:14):
You heard that onut what I like?
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Yeah, yeah, I've said that. I've said that in interview.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Sure, sure, yeah, rush whatever, Sure I like the rush.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
But it's true. I have stated to you too prior
to this, that there is a a feeling when I
know people are coming I have like fifteen minutes to go.
That feeling if I could bottle it up, that's the
There is no greater feeling in the world to me
than like I got to get the finishing touches in
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pull thing. I like all four burners on the ovens going.
I have like the chips, the.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Chips gotta go.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
I think, I you know now that I'm saying. I
think in many ways, I grew up in a lot
of k at home. I think I grew up with
a pulse of like frenetic energy, and I wonder if
my life doesn't normally have that. And there's a familiar
feeling of like, oh my god, we don't we need
the ice, we need the ice. There's like I'm like
stressing about things that don't really matter. That brings me
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like weirdly.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Calm up completely know what you mean. Yep, I don't
have it with that. But yes, the stress is actually
a comfort. Yes, it's yeah, yes, bringing you home.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
And it's like who's gonna come? I think, just the
feeling of oh gosh, it's about to happen. It's exciting.
It's like before Christmas.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Yes, what is the appropriate time to come to an
Alyssa party? Because I share that exact same sensation in
the ten minutes before the party is scheduled to begin.
But like, let's say that the party's supposed to start
at seven. When the clock strikes seven and no one's there,
a cold terror overwhelms me. That quick glee transforms into
(32:01):
rage because I'm like, where is everyone?
Speaker 1 (32:06):
No?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
Of course I understand you don't show up to a
party like the moment that it starts. My brain understands that,
But my soul is full of fury.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Right, there is something childish about like people aren't coming
to my birthday part. There's some deep seated fear of like,
oh my god, I'm I yeah, but I pushed through,
and I know these people are going to be Yes,
eight o'clock. But yeah, I like gun time. I think
the older we get, the more on time you can be.
Speaker 4 (32:36):
I think. So I think that's right. Yeah, And but
do you want to know what I'm instantly stressed about
in that situation?
Speaker 3 (32:42):
I'm thinking already I already I'm thinking, Okay, now, how
am I going to make sure that people leave?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
Like it's your home? So like, how do you get
people out by a certain time?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Yes, so see, I think there's just different, different sort
of personality traits. There's someone who shall remain unnamed in
my home who might share that same feeling. Yes, I
have the feeling of don't go, please, never leave, stay
as long as you. I have memories of being a
kid and like knowing that it was about time to
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leave and running downstairs with my cousin and being like,
maybe if they don't see us down here, they'll forget
that we have to leave. Like I think, I never
want it to be over, So I'm hoping that people
don't leave, which is sort of a yeah. I wouldn't
say that out loud to the guests, but I think
in my soul of souls, if people are like, Okay,
we're gonna sleep over, I'd be like, I'll make the
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sofa bed.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
That is a feeling I cannot relate to at all.
That's that is lovely.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I don't know if it is.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You know, you want a host, you want to take
care of people.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
I should have a caveat You both have children, is
that correct?
Speaker 4 (33:54):
That's right? So that could be a too.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
I don't have children, so I do wonder also how
much of it is, like, you know, you already have
a lot of activity in the home ority of people
you have to feed and take care of, so it
could be like, oh, now there's more. So I wonder
if that would change if I also had kids that
I was tending to.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
I could see what you mean. I could see what
you mean. But I I think I've always been that way.
I remember having during one of my Turkey pasole stew
that era. But I remember having people over when I
was serving my stews, and and do you know what,
I would often go to bed that was married Michael,
(34:32):
would you know, continue to entertain the guests whatever they
were often playing?
Speaker 4 (34:36):
What's that game?
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Katan?
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Uh? Yeah, no, not katan risk, it's is it any assassin?
Or it's a game where you kill someone werewolf?
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Nah?
Speaker 1 (34:47):
Mean just going through who know what's the word.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Where you have to guess who killed somebody? It's not assassin.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
That one is also called yes yes, Yes, there's there's
a version of that that's whirl for like you close
your eyes, you tap someone there that yeah, okay, it's.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Affia, maybe it's mafia, Maybe it's mafia, And I would
go to bed. So my point is I've always been
that way, even pre children. I just want people to
leave by a certain time, and when they don't, then
I'll go to bed, so you don't have that bone
in your body, which I find it's so gracious.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
I am like a little kid.
Speaker 7 (35:19):
I'm like, please one more game, let's keep playing Mafia.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
I am determined to find something that maybe you think, yeah,
that can be work. What about the cleanup? You love it?
You just love cleaning up?
Speaker 1 (35:31):
No, I don't love cleaning up, but I like the
I think because I have all this adrenaline. It's like
it would be too much if like it just ended.
So I think the cleanup is like it's not that
it's fun, but there's something almost meditative about Okay, now
this is the ending of it.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
This is the Yeah, and you always do it the
night of. I always do it the night of, which
I don't think it's normal. Yeah, you got to get
it done.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
I like to reset the home. Then you wake up
the homes is reset. If I didn't have a dishwasher, hell,
that would be help. That would be help.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
I also I also again I'm speaking as someone who
hosted one party in twenty twenty three, and it was
eight people, four of whom were children, so it wasn't
like a real but I'll say I think you're still
kind of writing on some energy, so you have the
it's not like you're collapsing, you actually have energy. I
go see the meditative, you know. Aspect of cleaning, I
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will say.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Like day, I honestly think the hard part is like
the it being over. Like I do, think it's sort
of a post holiday thing where it's like the next
day feeling kind of sluggish or sad because all that
it's done. It's done.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Yeah, Well, here's what I like to do when I
clean up. If I'm hosting a party, I probably had
a couple of drinks.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Okay, so I may I'm maybe not.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
I don't have all my wits about me. And I
put in my earphones and I turn on a podcast,
and I stumble around my house collecting everything and cleaning
things and listening to my favorite podcast. Guys, what if
there's someone doing that right now? What is there is
(37:09):
someone maybe a little tipsy, who's just had the greatest
party of their life and is cleaning up the dishes
right this moment, and in the way that I used
to listening to us. Wouldn't that be America?
Speaker 4 (37:23):
That comfull circle?
Speaker 7 (37:25):
I mean, I'm speechless. That would be beautiful.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
It would be beautiful to be a part of that
and to know that we were essentially guests at the
dinner as well.
Speaker 4 (37:34):
I only hope that that's happening. Yeah, I only can
hope if it is.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
You threw a great party, You did a great job.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
What if that person's name was Jeff. And what if
Jeff lives? Where does Jeff live?
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Oklahoma?
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Oklahoma, Jeff from Oklahoma? You cleaning up your party? Man,
We just blew your mind.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
Your mind has been absolutely Jeff, if you're out there
from Oklahoma, we'd like to officially invite you to be
a come bey on the pod and talk about your
experience listening to us.
Speaker 4 (38:09):
That would be so trippy.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
Jeff, stop what you're doing. Give us a five star
rating on Apples.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
I definitely thought you were going to say when you
put it in your headphones.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
I for sure thought you were going to say, you
listen to music like that's such a calm down. You're like, oh,
I put I listen to a podcast.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
You know me well enough, Belly, I don't like music.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
Do you know this?
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Alyssa Scott doesn't. He claims not to like music, which
is an absurd statement.
Speaker 1 (38:36):
I mean, this is you know there's something I don't
know what it is, but there's something about not liking
music and the choices that you made for the food.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
Go to get together me. Yeah, are you see? That's
the thing?
Speaker 3 (38:51):
A man who serves his guest food colored pasta and clementines.
You're not surprised, to Lauren.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yeah, that guy. He also doesn't care for music.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Oh yeh, here we were. I thought that we were
landing in such a great place by blowing Jeff's mind,
and then we just right back to non Scott.
Speaker 4 (39:10):
Non Scott.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
We don't want to keep you forever, but you know
I want to stay forever because of what I've just
told you about. This podcast will be.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
Four hours long exact.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
She's like, maybe if I just hide, maybe it'll never end.
But we do want to make sure we have time
to play a game with you. Our game is called
love It or Loath It. If you have a few minutes,
please when we come back. Okay, you'll play it with us?
Speaker 6 (39:32):
Great, Okay, guys, we're back.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
We've been chatting with Alyssa and Paris about all of
the glorious, glorious aspects of feeding people. I feel inspired.
I need to get rid of my hermit ways. I
need to invite people over more. I need to feed
them my turkey basole stew. That mission has been accomplished.
In the meantime, I want to play a game. We
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play a game Alyssa called love It or Loathe It?
And love it or loath it is a rapid fire
game sort of where we throw items at you and
you tell us if you love that thing or you
loathe that thing.
Speaker 4 (40:20):
Great, there's no in between.
Speaker 3 (40:21):
Okay, okay, you can't be like, oh I feel me
about that thing, all right, excellent, Okay.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
First thing, Alyssa, love it or Loathe It? Indoor pools.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
Love Love it came from the depths of my soul
because I think the smell of chlorine, the feeling of
either I'm at a swim meet or I'm in a
hotel or I'm in like the Motel six with my
parents and and there's a pool.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Yeah, yeah, it's the smell of chlorine. It takes you right,
it takes your back. I think, if I had more
time to.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
Think about that, and if you told me, like you
have to go in an indoor pool right now, I
turned to loath. But in my head that my memory
of it is love.
Speaker 4 (41:08):
Yeah, I'm right there with you.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
I agree completely, because the thing is that when you
go in as a kid, especially like the holiday inn
or whatever, it's like the most joyful experience ever. But
it's also like muggy and crappy and thinking back to
our parents just sitting watching their children splash in a hot,
chlorine like saturated room less fun.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
But well, have you guys been you guys live in
Los Angeles. Have you been torn indoor pool recently?
Speaker 1 (41:39):
Honestly, no, it's been so so long.
Speaker 4 (41:42):
Yeah, I'll tell you I have been. That's why I
brought it up.
Speaker 3 (41:45):
And Scott, I have been that parent watching the kids
in the pool. I want to tell you my love
for it hasn't changed.
Speaker 4 (41:51):
I really love it.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
Love it.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
Great.
Speaker 4 (41:55):
Yeah, so don't love it's the smell. It's comforting. And
also you're not a victim of the elements.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
You know that, like the temperatures are going to change,
there's not a frog isn't going to hop in the water.
Speaker 4 (42:07):
True, it's fine, you know. So loves an indoor.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Loves an interpol Alyssa love it or lo that chain
restaurants loveve it, love.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
It, love it I'm very similar to what Ellie just
said about the elements you are. I feel the same
way about a chamber show. You're not at the mercy
of the elements. No chef is going to try something
crazy today. You go, I'm going to get this Subway
sandwich and it's gonna taste the exact.
Speaker 7 (42:33):
Same as it tasted when I was twelve after attract me.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
There is comfort in that. Do I want to eat
it every night?
Speaker 4 (42:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:40):
But there are times when I just.
Speaker 7 (42:42):
Am craving the Cheesecake Factory or Dunkin Donuts because I
know what it is.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
Is there a favorite? Or what's the two questions for you?
Quick knee jerk response, what's your favorite? What's the last
one you've been to?
Speaker 1 (42:57):
Yeah? I think those will be the same. And I
tweeted that recently.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
But do you see it Domino's Pizza and then go
ahead and read or recognizing our most loyal members.
Speaker 6 (43:12):
That's you, Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
I am a loyal Domino's number. So yeah, yeah, it's
gonna be Dominoes, and it's going to be quite recently.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Ah you and Scott.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
Scott, I'm I'm looking up why I didn't get a
email from Domino.
Speaker 3 (43:32):
I mean, I would not say if you thought, if
you put together Domino's loyal customer Scott Eckert, were you
the first person comes to my brain.
Speaker 4 (43:39):
Now, Alyssa, you two, you guys have just discovered something.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
There we go.
Speaker 2 (43:43):
You mocked my pasta, but you would have loved my
Dominoes and back together mutual love.
Speaker 4 (43:49):
Yeah, all right, you've gone to the chain restaurant. But
now you gotta do the work.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Love it or low that hit workouts, that's high intensity
interval training.
Speaker 4 (43:59):
Love it or low it.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
God, this is a tough one. I I'll go loath.
I'll go loath. I used to be very into this
type of thing. Yes, so that's where my hesitation comes from,
because there was a point where I would have loved this.
Speaker 7 (44:16):
But now I'm in a real zen space of I
go on long walks. I don't like dreading. I don't
like the feeling like I'm going to be in a
lot of pain.
Speaker 1 (44:24):
I look forward to a long walk. I'll still feel
good after it, but I don't have to go. Oh,
there's something big is coming.
Speaker 4 (44:31):
I could not be more with you because I'm thinking,
why are we still doing that?
Speaker 3 (44:35):
Right?
Speaker 4 (44:35):
You don't have to. I'm not training for anything, that's right.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
So, yeah, you guys like low intensity, low intensity.
Speaker 3 (44:43):
Lit low intensity, but long interval, right, Li and Ellie's
in New York.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
I mean I think that's the obviously it's not a
new thought, but gosh, the best part of New York
is just you're not even thinking about Like here, I'm like,
when am I getting my steps? New York? You don't
think about it. You just get them.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
And here I'll be like I better run or I
better you know, bike or do something to exercise. I think,
but I walked ten miles already. Okay, I'm good, exactly.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
Yep, all right. Last one, Love it or love it?
Alyssa board games?
Speaker 1 (45:17):
I love it so much. I yeah, I feel uh
probably that goes number two for like happiest and they
go in with each other, like to have people over
to eat food and then be like is it time?
And then we go into the other room when we
play board games. That's a perfect night for me. I
love it. I get very competitive. I get a little
bit aggressive. I don't it's not Luke we were playing
(45:39):
bachi the other day and he was like, I was like,
what are we playing to and he was like, who cares?
And I was like, what, what do you then? What
do you mean who cares?
Speaker 7 (45:47):
That's why we're playing.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
If no point, then this is just recreating.
Speaker 7 (45:53):
That's a very different thing I have to have.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:55):
Oh yeah, I'm very I am not that way. I
will abandon a board game halfway through. I have no
follow through when it comes to board games unless it's
like shoots and Ladders.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
That really gets her going.
Speaker 3 (46:10):
She's that ever goes like no other No, but it
is yeah that I admire that because it's such a
great activity.
Speaker 4 (46:20):
Right.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
Yeah. I also just grew up really playing boorgames, so
I don't know a lot about like politics or the
way the world works, or movies or film or TV
because I just grew up playing borgames. So anytime it
might I'll be like, what happened in the war of
you know, the World War One? My boyfriend's like what,
And I always just like, we played board games.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
That's all we did.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
I don't know unlessa yep, that is with me too,
because my husband, he's a he's a movie buff.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
He loves me and I have never watched any of them.
But my my response isn't. I was playing boor games.
I was like, I had a life.
Speaker 1 (46:58):
Yeah, it's kind of the opposite.
Speaker 7 (46:59):
It's like I didn't have a LIFEA yeah, yeah, yeah
you were.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
You were living.
Speaker 3 (47:02):
Yeah what was I doing? Not avoiding having people over?
I was sleeping, well, exactly, eating my turkey pa soul.
But you know, I think that it's very sweet too,
the fact that you can sleep at a party. That
also means that you're inviting people over that you feel
so comfortable with and that you feel so homey with
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that you're like, yeah, they won't mind, this is okay.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
So I think that's a quite.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
Nice spin, thank you, And with that particula, because I
remember that night and it was a close group of friends.
I'm sorry neither of you were there, but it was
a close group of friends. But yeah, so I think
maybe that's a nice little spin on it.
Speaker 4 (47:36):
But yeah, Scott, where do you land?
Speaker 1 (47:38):
On board games?
Speaker 2 (47:38):
By the way, huge love, absolutely love for all the
same reasons. Like to compete, I like, I like I
like little puzzles, I like solving what the best strategy is.
I prefer like more modern board games like Catan or whatever,
to like old fashioned interminable board games like.
Speaker 7 (47:58):
Candy Candy, the Candy One, Candy Land, Candy Land.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
You don't like candy, I like if the age. If
the age on the box says two plus, then that's
usually not going to be one of my favorites.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
Uh, fair enough, Okay, shall tire?
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Okay, Well it's been it's been just a true delight
talking to you, Alyssa. We agree about board games, maybe
we disagree about my colored pasta, but it's been wonderful
having you. Is there anything that you'd like to plug
before we let you go?
Speaker 5 (48:31):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:31):
No, no, it's been a true delight being here. I
love chatting with you guys and hanging. It's been so fun.
And please invite me to your Halloween party.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
I need to try that on. I will be there.
Speaker 3 (48:42):
I don't care what coast you're on your coming. Maybe
you're talking to Scott. You have to go one Halloween party,
the one night and the other the next night. Scott
and I both host Killer Halloween.
Speaker 1 (48:53):
I want to be both.
Speaker 2 (48:54):
If you fly all the way to Ellie's Halloween party,
you'll get a chance to sit in the chair. And
it's worth it.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
It's worth it, guys.
Speaker 4 (49:03):
Oh, bamboo.
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I promise to serve you my famous turkey pisole stew
next to Halloween and you can eat it in this chair.
Speaker 7 (49:12):
I can't wait for the post a here from now.
It's just me in the chair with the pizzoli.
Speaker 1 (49:16):
And we did it.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
We did it.
Speaker 7 (49:18):
And you know who else is there?
Speaker 2 (49:20):
Gus from Idaho, Jeff from Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (49:23):
Jeff bringing it back, Alissa. That is full circle. Jeff
from Oklahoma.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
We love you.
Speaker 4 (49:32):
We wish you all the best.
Speaker 1 (49:34):
Jeff, we love you. And yes, you can watch No
Bad Days on Peacock of Mine. That's a solo show
about losing my dad. It's funny and it's dark and
it's sweet and yet go watch it.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Yes, everybody, go watch that. Alissa. You are a delight.
You are so funny. Thank you for being on our
show and we can't wait to see you soon.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Feel the same way about you, guys.
Speaker 4 (49:53):
Thank you so much. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Bye this podcast. Love it or loath it?
Speaker 2 (49:58):
Love it?
Speaker 6 (49:59):
Yeah, a right answer.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
Thanks for listening to Born to Love. We'll be back
next week with brand new things that we love.
Speaker 4 (50:09):
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Speaker 3 (50:11):
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Speaker 4 (50:18):
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Speaker 2 (50:19):
Born to Love is hosted and created by Ellie Kemper
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Speaker 3 (50:22):
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Speaker 2 (50:27):
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No, no, no, no no. Boy to Love.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Hey Scott, Hey Ellie.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm Ellie Kemper. This is Scott Eckert. This is our
podcast Born to Love. Every week on the show we
have a guest on to talk about something that he
or she loves and we are so excited. Today we
have Alyssa elm Paris on the show. She is a
(00:30):
very funny comedian. We met her back in November of
last year, and she's going to talk about her love
of feeding people, of having people over and feeding.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Them, hosting party, feeding people. I mean, I don't know.
We'll get into it, hash it out with her. I
couldn't be more excited to talk to her. How are
you doing, Ellie, I'm well, how are you?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
How was your week?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
It was fun. It's wintertime now and my children did
something that I never did growing up. Over the weekend.
We went skiing and skiing. I don't really want to
talk about skiing because I mostly just sat around in
the lodge because I never went skiing, so I don't
know how to ski, so I suck at it, so
I sit in the lodge. But one of the things
(01:14):
that it made me realize was my love Ellie of socks.
What But I have a very This is the first love.
It's like a yin and yang because it's also a loathe.
I love my socks, but you know what, I loathe
(01:35):
lots of different socks. My mom loves novelty socks. She's
got so many different socks, all different kinds of socks.
I read the best piece of advice This is probably
now ten years ago, the best piece of advice that
I had ever come across, and it's sock related. You
want to know what it was? Yeah, if you are
(01:57):
irritated with pairing your socks, isn't you know you do
the laundry. Pairing the socks is annoying, thankless task, thankless, totally,
nobody enjoys it. Here's a sure fire away, an algorithm, perhaps,
if you want to describe it that way too. To
make the task of pairing socks easier, you take all
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of your socks and you throw them in the garbage,
and then you go to the store and you buy
about thirty to forty pairs of identical socks, and then
you never ever have to worry about pairing them again
because they all match.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Scott, I love that idea in theory. What do I do?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I wear a lot of they're called no show socks,
but they show like their soft like all like, al
I see is my socks when I put these no
show socks on, and they come in packs of different colors.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
So what do I do about that?
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Well, that's terrible. You shouldn't buy those socks. You got
a pair of them. You have a whole bunch of
different socks that are for colors. You got to put
the blue in with the pink one. No, I've got
The reason that the scheme reminded me of it is
that my wife was like rooting through a whole house
looking for the kids ski socks. Where are they wear
the ski socks, Bob, because apparently you need special socks
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and you ski.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I'm not a skier, and I don't know. I've never
been so smug in my life. Because I have a
little box where I keep my socks. They still boxes
literally labeled socks, and it is full to the brim
of a bunch of identical black socks. And it's like,
you know what, these are the only socks I wear.
These are the only socks I've worn for years and
years and years. They're they're carefree, utterly and completely care free. Now,
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if you're like you who has to do things like run,
I mean, I suppose you might need a couple of
different socks, but for me, it's really just one kind
of sock. I just I just have the high pull
up flash.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Sure, I have to say a knee high. I don't
think your socks come up to your knees.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
You have dress, yeah, but they're warm, they're not like
fancy at all. You could wear them with jeans, which
I do every day.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Of course. Why I say dress socks to describe the
length more than the occasion. Their socks that come up
what six inches to your up to your shin, up
your shin six inches?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, they go up my ship maybe yeah, yeah, yeah
you could if you pull them up and stretch them
up real high. They might. They might, they're approaching the knee.
They don't make it all the way. I mean, I
don't pull them up that tight. I just love the
fact that they match.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
What does this have to do with skiing at the lotch.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well, the ski Lodch, Because the thing, like I said,
I mean.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
You had taken me on a roller coaster of a.
It was.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
It was my smugness that they were the kids. The kids.
My wife and kids both had to pair bring multiple
pairs of socks. My wife had a hard time finding
the socks, and the whole time I was like, I
love my fick, your Scott.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
You're took so many twists and turns. You're like, you
know what, I love my family and I went skiing
this week.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Anyone listening any obvious answers, Oh, he must love skiing. No,
it's not sking, all right, Okay, okay, Oh he must
love the fire at the lodge. No it's not the
Oh he loves socks. Well, he must love I keep thinking, Oh,
maybe his socks kept him so warm on the ski vacation. No,
it has nothing to do with skiing except that your wife,
your poor wife, Vanessa, Vanessa, couldn't find the socks, and
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that's what you loved.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
You are sick, man.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I just think bullied for my love are fairness. I
didn't do a great job articulating it, but I just
I hope that Alyssa is kinder to me and that
I'm not relentlessly bullying.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
I hope not. I hope nobody makes fun of you
in the conversation.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I hope I don't get I am not treated with
open disdain.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
From my opinion, I really hope that you don't get
in any way mocked or ribbed for some light, little
fun things that you did to entertain people.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
But anyway, Scott, anyway, anyway, guys.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Alissa Alissa len Paris is our guest today. We are
so excited to have Alyssa on the show. She is
an actress and a comedian based in Los Angeles. She
trained at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater. She has her
own comedy special, No Bad Days on Peacock. She stars
as Sydney in the hit Showtime show Flatbush Misdemeanors. Alissa
(06:35):
is very well known for her viral comedy videos impersonating
her mom.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
They are hilarious.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
They are on canny. I've never met her mom, but
I feel like I know her intimately. Alissa was selected
to be part of the Big Money Player Circle back
in November, so we got to meet her in IRL
in real life.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Then we love her.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
She is a delight.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
She is a very funny woman. She's on the show
today to talk about her love of feeding people.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
So when we come back. We're gonna sit down with Alyssa.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
We are back.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
We are here with Alissa Lecarris, Alyssa.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Hello. I feel like I'm seeing old friends again. It's
a reunion.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
It is such a reunion. Scott, Alyssa and I first
met back in November.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
At the hard Rock Hard Rock.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
So it was at the hard Rock Hotel in the
heart of New York City.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yes, Alyssa was performing as part of the Big Money
Players Circle.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
Yes, and we had a time we all met.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
It was a night of laughter and.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Rock and roll.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
It was so much fun. And we are so happy
to be seeing you again. Granted over our computer screens,
but still very happy to.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
See you again. I feel the same way.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well, thank you for joining us.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Alyssa is here today to talk to us about her
love of feeding people.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
Yes, which I want to have some of this love, Alissa,
Is that right? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Feeding people, having people, over entertaining, the whole all of
it causes me stress.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
So talk to me.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Okay, very interesting, this is great. Yeah, First of all,
how cute is it? Look at all of our setups,
don't we all look like we're gabbing from our from
our like our childhood bedrooms. We all have our little
posters on the wall.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
And we're all I hate to interrupt it. Ellie has
a blank wall behind her, and so does Melissa. The
only person who has anything behind them is me, and
it's my it's my adult bedroom that I share with
my wife, and it's being openly mocked. The posters that
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are over my shoulder, Lissa are pictures of my infant children.
They're also they're also my decent framed puzzles.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I knew there was a yes.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
And Alyssa does have a poster on her wall, Scott,
She's got plenty of posters. And I have a little,
you know, my little sailboat lamp in the background and
like an ikea little desk.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
That's something the little nights stand kind of that reminded
me of my childhood nights stand.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Yes, you guess what, guess we're this night stand used
to me, not not my own. I wish it were
my own childhood bedroom, my child's bedroom. So I saved
it into this little what do you even call this
a niche a nook.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
It's a recording studio.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
It's my recording studio. It's my recording studio in my home.
In Manhattan Recording studio.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
It is a white for those of you not on video,
it is an undecorated white walled.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Cue Q.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
With I like that share though. That's a it's a
great chair.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
It's from the Pasadena Antique Center anyway. Anyway, Scott, she
was not just talking about your rest.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
So you got that all the way from here to there. Yep,
that's a good chat.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Ellie spent money transporting the world's I don't know, most
unremarkable chair. This is tricky, tricky for an audio only format.
Speaker 7 (10:17):
And we will say she's not sitting in it.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
She's not sitting in it, folks. It's just there, sort
of asant decorations directly behind the seat.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
My head blocks it for most of it, except except
when I need a break.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
And it's now I realized that there's there's like a
war in my mind. Would I rather see Ellie or
would I rather look at that empty chair?
Speaker 3 (10:44):
And I disagree with you. It's not an ordinary chair, Scott.
It's made of bamboo.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I agree, it's not. I misspoke. I shouldn't have called
it ordinary.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
It is.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
It's an unusual chair, but I don't know.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
I mean, it's no framed puzzle.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
It's not the kind of chair that you transport across
the country. It's the kind of chair that you throw
on the curb when you're leaving. That's that's sort of
what I was trying.
Speaker 7 (11:05):
Yeah, wow, okay, well I'll step out for a seconds.
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Are getting heated?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Yeah, let me step out. Let you guys.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Maybe I'll tell you what it's the kind of chair.
It's the kind of chair you break out when you're
having a dinner.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
There we go.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
That's a total pro. Riding the train, riding the course, Alyssa,
what on earth do you love about having?
Speaker 2 (11:32):
Yeah? What what do you like?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
So it's so it's isn't it like we all just
live in our lives. So in my head, I'm like,
everyone loves this because I grew up in just such
a I'm Greek and so I like my grandpa lived
with me. I grew up in a home that was
like big on just hosting, having food all the time.
Like I have strong memories of me. I ran track
Ellie and I runner. I thought I wish you could.
Speaker 4 (11:58):
Do Sorry.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You guys leave me in the dust.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Oh well yeah, well Alyssa would Yeah, well.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
No, not anymore. I am an old I'm an old gal.
These hips are they?
Speaker 4 (12:13):
I can't. I can't if I tried, But yeah, I
made a run, but I cannot fast, Okay, go on, No,
I walk exclusively.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
So yeah. Basically I have a memory of, like after
a track meet, calling my mom being like the whole
teen's coming over?
Speaker 4 (12:24):
Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (12:25):
And her being like you got it? So like, I
think I associate having people over having food, feeding people
as home and I love it. I love, love love
the feeling of like people are coming over and I
want to make sure that they have more food than
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they could possibly deal with. I want them to be
I'm like big on, like there should never be an
empty plate. If I see a plate getting low, I'm
refilling it. I kind of am in turbo mode.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Right, yep, yep, yep, I hit a flow state. That's
what I'm wondering.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
Are you taking the time you know at big events
like that you're the host of You're a focus on entertaining,
so do you also have a chance to eat or
are you in turbo mode taking care of your guests?
Speaker 7 (13:12):
Well, it's very funny you say this, Ellie.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
I I.
Speaker 8 (13:16):
Feel like I am part of a very long standing
familial tradition in my Greek home of overwhelming others with
food and not eating any of it.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Yes, yep, yep, Well because you can't because you can't
relax or maybe yes, I shouldn't say relaxed, but you're
you're serving.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Them right, yes, yes, and people will be like, did
you have fun? I feel like you had to host,
and I'm like, no, that is what's fun for me.
I find being at a party harder than I then host.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
What you mean, yes, okay, I'm going to step in
because I have to my record, my track wreck track
record of having people over.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
I have maybe them.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
I have. When I say Halloween party, it's one set
of parents and their kid, and then this year there
was another mom and kid case. And that is my
idea of me hosting a party. I was like, I
hosted a Halloween party this year. We ordered pizza.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
It wasn't anything I did put out crud de tay
with hummus.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
But at the end of that, you know, night of celebration,
I was exhausted, and I'm not exaggerating it. I was like,
because the all day anticipation of I'm having people over
is the apartment clean or what is their wine?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Right?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
All of it exhausted me, but I also felt triumphant.
I felt like that was very wholesome and healthy. It
felt good to have people at my home. Do you
feel depleted afterwards? Do you feel like I want to
do that again? Are you hot like on a rush?
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Yea, literally think I'm.
Speaker 7 (15:00):
Like high on a rush slash like said it's over.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yes, Yeah, I think there's something about like deeply wanting
my home to be filled with people at all. Like
I remember the first time because my boyfriend, I moved
into a two bedroom and that's when I felt I
could really start hosting. So this is kind of new.
And so my dad passed away and I grew up
in this one house my whole life. And then a
little over a year ago, my mom finally moved out
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of that house. So I had this like aching goodbye
to this house that it just felt like a real
like second loss of my dad. But then also you
know the house and the that's where he did die
in the house, so there was so much of him
in it. And then I came back to La and
this is kind of the good part of hard things,
as it was like, well, now I have to do that.
(15:48):
If I want home, this has to be my home, right.
I love that. Yes, if I want traditions, then they
have to be here because there's no longer obviously I'm
still going to go visit my mom at her place.
But it's it was almost like I had this crutch
of I can just go back to this home for
all the like, yes, that.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Stuff, how interesting, yep yep.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
And so I had this big year of just like
I had so many dinners and like I had like
a Greek Easter, yes, And I was like doing all.
Speaker 7 (16:16):
These traditions because I wanted to.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
And I was like doing this tradition of like you
bake a bread and you put a diame in it
and then whoever gets the peace with the dime gets
good luck. And I was at church on New Year's
and the priest was like, and today we're doing the vassilpita.
And I turned to my friend and like, is that
a New Year's thing?
Speaker 4 (16:33):
And she's like, oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
So I taught like thirty thirty people that at Greek
Easter you kind of bread with a diamond it literally, yes.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
How nice to experience other cultures. And now they're spreading
the word exponentially. Those thirty people have to hold thirty
people each, and you're okay, and that next thing you go,
you're no.
Speaker 4 (16:55):
Longer welcome at the gree church.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Now the archdiocese has banned me exactly exactly, yes, oh.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Yeah, that I could see myself doing that. Also, I
have to be honest, we all thought it.
Speaker 4 (17:07):
The size.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
Why must it be a dime? It's too small, right,
it should be a half a silver dollar.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
It should be something that's difficult to choke on.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Is that right?
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Really?
Speaker 1 (17:18):
Got that's it, that's it, that's it now. Yeah, but
it means good luck, and so you know what I
think that means. You can't just get an easy pass
on good luck. You have to risk choking to get
good luck.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I like that.
Speaker 8 (17:30):
You have to risk.
Speaker 4 (17:32):
Do you know what the Greeks are doing something right?
Speaker 1 (17:34):
That's right, we invented the marathon.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
It's torture for forty.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
For game day.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
So I love you have just set in to motion
the idea in my head, which is that, yes, if you,
because I absolutely do that with my home in Saint Louis,
which my parents moved, but I still feel going home.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
It's not the home I grew up in, but it
still feels like home.
Speaker 3 (17:57):
And I definitely, even though I have children of my own,
I do feel like I haven't established home yet.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
So I love that notion, yes, of doing that and
making that your home.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
And I really think I wouldn't have done that if
I hadn't lost the house. So it was this like
terribly painful thing. And then when I looked back on
this year, I was like, oh, so many wonderful Like
I had a cookie swap because my mom always had
cookie swaps with like her teacher friends, and I did
it for the second time this year, and it's like
now the one of the highlights of my year. And
I'm like, I would have never done that if right, right, right.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Yeah, it's so nice.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yes, I've got a question for you.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
Talk to me, Scott.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
I share your enthusiasm for hosting, and I think that
it may not be to the same degree that you do.
I'm certainly not as good at it. But the obstacle
that I used to have, I think I've solved it.
But the obstacle that I used to add is the
cooking piece of it. You mentioned baking bread that that
to me is like the failure point of any sort
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of party, because I've been to parties where the host
is overwhelmed by the cooking and then the food turns
out terrible, and then the hose like I'm so sorry,
I'm so sorry, and everyone's like, oh, it's okay, but
everybody knows that the party's ruined, right, so like, yes,
how do you handle that piece of it?
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I'll say that's a great point, Scott, because I think
I need to covey on this by saying I'm a comedian,
and I trade in a lot of comedians. I'm on
the cusp of like barely an adult, so I think
I have the benefit of I'm rarely being like everyone
sit down and eat a meal. I'm big in like
spread territory, and I think there's less errors that can
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be done in a spread. I would be overwhelmed by
having two couples over and having a sit down meal
like that to me, because now that's the focus. Is
the food worse. I'm big on what's the music gonna be.
We're gonna have a movie on with no volume but
with subtitle. There's gonna be a game. I'm gonna have
an event. I'm gonna have like picking food.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
What's the cool movie that? What's a cool movie selection?
Because that the curre. I've heard about the playlist, but
the curated silent movie one hundred percent, it's key.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
I'll tell you what. It's not too cool. I just
for the cookie swap. It's elf. For Greek Easter. It
was my big fat Greek wedding. I mean, we're not
reinventing the wheel here, We're just going to people come
in and they go, yes, ah, that old thing. I
gotta sit down. Look and I my boyfriend. I went
to a hotel and they were like playing movies on
a big screen outside in the patio, and they were
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like three hour black and white movies. I'm going, no,
you can't get into a black and white movie on
an outdoor patty.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
You gotta go.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
That's miss congeniality. I know it. I'll hop in for
ten minutes.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Yas exactly right. I don't need sound because I know
the line. I know I'm going in and I'm going out.
I've never ever, it's never occurred to me to put
a movie on mute and to have that in the background.
Speaker 4 (20:50):
I love It's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
I'm thinking Okay, well maybe I'm already brainstoring for my
next Halloween fat I'm gonna put.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
On the Witch's one. What's the Witch's one?
Speaker 4 (21:00):
Yeah? Right, hocus focus, there you go? Is that it?
Speaker 2 (21:02):
I'm putting it on beetlejuice nightmare before Christmas?
Speaker 3 (21:09):
Yes, gosh's really getting in so yeah, that's a little
hack there, Yes, I too, I cannot okay, full confession.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
For my wedding, I registered for China.
Speaker 3 (21:22):
I'm talking about the kind of china you eat on
in a sort of in a nicer setting, like for
an event, but.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Taking out the good china. I can hear it in
my head, a good china.
Speaker 4 (21:31):
Exactly your mom's bringing it.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
I have not used it to have other people over once,
of course not, And the idea of it sends me
into a panic having to cook whatever.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
What's a common thing to cook?
Speaker 1 (21:46):
Roast?
Speaker 4 (21:49):
Yeah, pot roast.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Ellie cooks so infrequently that she cannot come on with
the name of a meal.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
I literally, I literally was like, what is something people eat?
And the first thing I came up with was roast beef?
I don't even does anyone eat that? Yeah, roast beef sandwich.
I'm serving everybody roast bean sandwiches, which is on the
china right, You know what I was thinking of, To
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be perfectly honest, I was thinking of chicken pacada, because
if I'm having adults over, I'm not gonna feed them
spaghetti and meatballs. I'm gonna feed them chicken pocada, which
I've never caught in my life. The idea of making
that with sides and presenting it and having it be hot.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Yeah, very stressful.
Speaker 7 (22:35):
Okay, I'll say something else.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Another thing I really think is key to your first
Like I started with things I already knew how to make.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
So now I take risks at parties like I'll add
or introduce one new thing.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
But in my first year of hosting, I was just
going with like Trader Joe's and then Greek food that
I grew up knowing how to make. Because yeah, chicken pocata,
I'm like to take a swing to make a new
dash for a dinner party. I think it's too brace you.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I am going to now brag because there is one
thing I make and I used to do this.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
I was on a like sort of I was.
Speaker 3 (23:10):
I hit a good streak when I lived in Los Angeles,
I got a slow cooker.
Speaker 7 (23:15):
You got the chair.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
I got a slow cre say, I got the chair.
I got two things out of my time in Los Angeles.
I got a slow cooker and I got a bamboo chair,
and they're both still with me. And one of the
things that I haven't made in ages, but I used
to make pretty regularly was a turkey passole stew.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
Come on, come on, it is.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
Nothing you've ever You don't think. Oh, that's what I'm
in the mood for. I hope I go to someone's
house and have that. Nobody's thinking of it. I found
the recipe and my slow cooker recipe. I tried it
one time again. All ingredients you can get at Trader Joe's.
Speaker 4 (23:53):
Yes, it is.
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Everyone loves it. It's delicious. You inspired me these cold
winter months. Why don't I break that out recipe out?
Speaker 4 (24:01):
You know?
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Yes, because that's it. You have something you do well.
Speaker 4 (24:05):
It is tried and true.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
That's it, tried and true. And then you get a
bread you and Scott I said, I make bread. I'll
tell you what. I got a bread machine. I got
a bread machine. You put water, you put a little butter,
you put flour, yeast and salt and coins and two
dollars worth of dimes.
Speaker 8 (24:25):
You call it a day.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
You have to do, that's all. Not when you've had
people over, what do you make?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Well, I mean I think, first of all, I don't
know that I've ever hosted a sit down dinner party, right, So, Melissa,
you are trying to I can't handle that. I hosted
a Thanksgiving once, which is the closest, and I know
how to make Thanksgiving. I'm talking casual, having people over,
serve yourself standing kind of thing. And what I've discovered
is that I want to keep it to like five items, right,
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I want to have an abundance, But the mistake is
when there's too much going on, and the simpler that
you can make it the better. And my hope is
that the clarity that the true, like a bell ringing
clarity of those items and their abundance carries me through.
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So I also hosted. I also hosted a Halloween party.
As a matter of fact, many more people we had,
we like, we had like thirty people, a bunch of kids.
We had a giant pinata. But here's the thing, food wise,
fifteen Domino's pizzas yep. And then two enormous. They weren't
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even bulls. What are those big metal trays? Just truly enormous.
One of them was pasta that had been dyed orange.
If you if you boil pasta with food coloring and
the water, it's orange. The other pasta that had been
dyed black, and then uh, clementine oranges and that.
Speaker 5 (26:10):
Now now, okay, okay, you had me at the five items,
the fact that those are your five.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
It is actually I understood the pizzas and I thought
it was going to end there. I thought it was
going to be Domino's and sodas and then the pasta.
Two things first, I'm thinking, why didn't you just put
sauce right prot sauce?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Yes, we'll hold up. I'm being judged from my amazing
orange pasta a little.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
It's fantastic, Scott. Did you what did you mix the pasta?
Speaker 3 (26:54):
Assuming answers, yes, did you mix the pastas together so
they were orange and black?
Speaker 2 (26:58):
No?
Speaker 7 (26:58):
No, no, no, it appeared to be those were two
separate items in his five.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Two giant trays. You could have either orange pasta or
black pasta.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
And that was for all the people who didn't want pizza.
Speaker 2 (27:11):
I mean it's a kid's party. It's a kid's party.
Speaker 4 (27:13):
It's a kid's party.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
If I was hosting like a five couples, I wouldn't
just serve them plain or in fasta.
Speaker 4 (27:22):
So there was no sauce.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
There was no sauce, No sauce, no s's what the
pizzas for.
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I love how confidently you're explaining this milk, have no.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
Shame, only pride. I was literally like I presented it like, guys,
let me let, I've got the perfect solution. Here's how
you host a dinner party and you're both horrified. It
seems genuine horror in your cleving tines.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
At the end of all that the acid of just
a sort of like you you're begging for a fat
at that point, your body is hoping for a protein,
hoping for a fat.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
It's begging for it.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
And then but you understand, the clementines are orange.
Speaker 6 (28:04):
It fits the.
Speaker 2 (28:05):
Theme, and it's children. They ate those clementines like nobody's business.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
I actually I believe that.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
But Scott, having poked some fun at you, I have
to say, you're honoring of the other. It seems this case,
there were four meals that orange.
Speaker 2 (28:23):
Black well, we also had salad.
Speaker 4 (28:25):
We also had a salade. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
That's helpful to see because I would have found myself
getting broccoli, raw broccoli, rock, carrots and putting those out too.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
I like that you had the restraint yes to know Nope,
we're not telling me too much. Just keep it to
the five.
Speaker 8 (28:42):
Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Can I highlight something that you sort of breezed by
and I think is the saving grace of that hellen party.
My thing I said is you always have to have
an event as well, and then that distress. It's like
a magic trick. The more fun things you have going on,
the food becomes an afterthought. And you had the pinata.
Every kid is leaving there going we had a pinata
for something that wasn't my birthday. Yeah, that was heaven.
(29:06):
I'm so excited sen that the parents are going. I
do it doesn't feel great, but they're not worried about that.
The kids had a nice time.
Speaker 7 (29:16):
Time and they'll come again because of the pinata.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
So I think you really are so right because at
my Halloween party, consisting of eight guests, I had no
there was no enter what are we calling it entertainment?
Speaker 7 (29:28):
I had an activity, an event, entertainment. I need something.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
I think there was no event. The pizza.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
We had pizza too, that was the event. There was
no game, there was no nothing for I thought, Oh,
the children will play. They're so hopped up on candy
by that point that it's like playing is insane, right,
They're just jumping. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I love the
edition of an event Alyssa, you mentioned or somebody mentioned earlier.
I'll be honest, I heard about this offline. The ten
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minutes before, having left ten minutes before where they right
can be an adrenaline fuel rush like you've never felt before.
Speaker 4 (30:05):
Those are my words. I'm putting my spin on it.
But what do you like about or do you like?
Speaker 1 (30:11):
The people are talking high? You heard that on the streets.
Speaker 6 (30:14):
You heard that onut what I like?
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Yeah, yeah, I've said that. I've said that in interview.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Sure, sure, yeah, rush whatever, Sure I like the rush.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
But it's true. I have stated to you too prior
to this, that there is a a feeling when I
know people are coming I have like fifteen minutes to go.
That feeling if I could bottle it up, that's the
There is no greater feeling in the world to me
than like I got to get the finishing touches in
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pull thing. I like all four burners on the ovens going.
I have like the chips, the.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
Chips gotta go.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
I think, I you know now that I'm saying. I
think in many ways, I grew up in a lot
of k at home. I think I grew up with
a pulse of like frenetic energy, and I wonder if
my life doesn't normally have that. And there's a familiar
feeling of like, oh my god, we don't we need
the ice, we need the ice. There's like I'm like
stressing about things that don't really matter. That brings me
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like weirdly.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
Calm up completely know what you mean. Yep, I don't
have it with that. But yes, the stress is actually
a comfort. Yes, it's yeah, yes, bringing you home.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
And it's like who's gonna come? I think, just the
feeling of oh gosh, it's about to happen. It's exciting.
It's like before Christmas.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Yes, what is the appropriate time to come to an
Alyssa party? Because I share that exact same sensation in
the ten minutes before the party is scheduled to begin.
But like, let's say that the party's supposed to start
at seven. When the clock strikes seven and no one's there,
a cold terror overwhelms me. That quick glee transforms into
(32:01):
rage because I'm like, where is everyone?
Speaker 1 (32:06):
No?
Speaker 2 (32:08):
Of course I understand you don't show up to a
party like the moment that it starts. My brain understands that,
But my soul is full of fury.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Right, there is something childish about like people aren't coming
to my birthday part. There's some deep seated fear of like,
oh my god, I'm I yeah, but I pushed through,
and I know these people are going to be Yes,
eight o'clock. But yeah, I like gun time. I think
the older we get, the more on time you can be.
Speaker 4 (32:36):
I think. So I think that's right. Yeah, And but
do you want to know what I'm instantly stressed about
in that situation?
Speaker 3 (32:42):
I'm thinking already I already I'm thinking, Okay, now, how
am I going to make sure that people leave?
Speaker 4 (32:50):
Like it's your home? So like, how do you get
people out by a certain time?
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Yes, so see, I think there's just different, different sort
of personality traits. There's someone who shall remain unnamed in
my home who might share that same feeling. Yes, I
have the feeling of don't go, please, never leave, stay
as long as you. I have memories of being a
kid and like knowing that it was about time to
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leave and running downstairs with my cousin and being like,
maybe if they don't see us down here, they'll forget
that we have to leave. Like I think, I never
want it to be over, So I'm hoping that people
don't leave, which is sort of a yeah. I wouldn't
say that out loud to the guests, but I think
in my soul of souls, if people are like, Okay,
we're gonna sleep over, I'd be like, I'll make the
(33:38):
sofa bed.
Speaker 4 (33:39):
That is a feeling I cannot relate to at all.
That's that is lovely.
Speaker 1 (33:44):
Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I don't know if it is.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You know, you want a host, you want to take
care of people.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
I should have a caveat You both have children, is
that correct?
Speaker 4 (33:54):
That's right? So that could be a too.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
I don't have children, so I do wonder also how
much of it is, like, you know, you already have
a lot of activity in the home ority of people
you have to feed and take care of, so it
could be like, oh, now there's more. So I wonder
if that would change if I also had kids that
I was tending to.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
I could see what you mean. I could see what
you mean. But I I think I've always been that way.
I remember having during one of my Turkey pasole stew
that era. But I remember having people over when I
was serving my stews, and and do you know what,
I would often go to bed that was married Michael,
(34:32):
would you know, continue to entertain the guests whatever they
were often playing?
Speaker 4 (34:36):
What's that game?
Speaker 1 (34:37):
Katan?
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Uh? Yeah, no, not katan risk, it's is it any assassin?
Or it's a game where you kill someone werewolf?
Speaker 2 (34:45):
Nah?
Speaker 1 (34:47):
Mean just going through who know what's the word.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Where you have to guess who killed somebody? It's not assassin.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
That one is also called yes yes, Yes, there's there's
a version of that that's whirl for like you close
your eyes, you tap someone there that yeah, okay, it's.
Speaker 3 (35:00):
Affia, maybe it's mafia, Maybe it's mafia, And I would
go to bed. So my point is I've always been
that way, even pre children. I just want people to
leave by a certain time, and when they don't, then
I'll go to bed, so you don't have that bone
in your body, which I find it's so gracious.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
I am like a little kid.
Speaker 7 (35:19):
I'm like, please one more game, let's keep playing Mafia.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
I am determined to find something that maybe you think, yeah,
that can be work. What about the cleanup? You love it?
You just love cleaning up?
Speaker 1 (35:31):
No, I don't love cleaning up, but I like the
I think because I have all this adrenaline. It's like
it would be too much if like it just ended.
So I think the cleanup is like it's not that
it's fun, but there's something almost meditative about Okay, now
this is the ending of it.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
This is the Yeah, and you always do it the
night of. I always do it the night of, which
I don't think it's normal. Yeah, you got to get
it done.
Speaker 1 (35:53):
I like to reset the home. Then you wake up
the homes is reset. If I didn't have a dishwasher, hell,
that would be help. That would be help.
Speaker 4 (36:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
I also I also again I'm speaking as someone who
hosted one party in twenty twenty three, and it was
eight people, four of whom were children, so it wasn't
like a real but I'll say I think you're still
kind of writing on some energy, so you have the
it's not like you're collapsing, you actually have energy. I
go see the meditative, you know. Aspect of cleaning, I
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will say.
Speaker 1 (36:25):
Like day, I honestly think the hard part is like
the it being over. Like I do, think it's sort
of a post holiday thing where it's like the next
day feeling kind of sluggish or sad because all that
it's done. It's done.
Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Yeah, Well, here's what I like to do when I
clean up. If I'm hosting a party, I probably had
a couple of drinks.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Okay, so I may I'm maybe not.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
I don't have all my wits about me. And I
put in my earphones and I turn on a podcast,
and I stumble around my house collecting everything and cleaning
things and listening to my favorite podcast. Guys, what if
there's someone doing that right now? What is there is
(37:09):
someone maybe a little tipsy, who's just had the greatest
party of their life and is cleaning up the dishes
right this moment, and in the way that I used
to listening to us. Wouldn't that be America?
Speaker 4 (37:23):
That comfull circle?
Speaker 7 (37:25):
I mean, I'm speechless. That would be beautiful.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
It would be beautiful to be a part of that
and to know that we were essentially guests at the
dinner as well.
Speaker 4 (37:34):
I only hope that that's happening. Yeah, I only can
hope if it is.
Speaker 1 (37:38):
You threw a great party, You did a great job.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
What if that person's name was Jeff. And what if
Jeff lives? Where does Jeff live?
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Oklahoma?
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (37:50):
Oklahoma, Jeff from Oklahoma? You cleaning up your party? Man,
We just blew your mind.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
Your mind has been absolutely Jeff, if you're out there
from Oklahoma, we'd like to officially invite you to be
a come bey on the pod and talk about your
experience listening to us.
Speaker 4 (38:09):
That would be so trippy.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
Jeff, stop what you're doing. Give us a five star
rating on Apples.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
I definitely thought you were going to say when you
put it in your headphones.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
I for sure thought you were going to say, you
listen to music like that's such a calm down. You're like, oh,
I put I listen to a podcast.
Speaker 2 (38:27):
You know me well enough, Belly, I don't like music.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
Do you know this?
Speaker 3 (38:30):
Alyssa Scott doesn't. He claims not to like music, which
is an absurd statement.
Speaker 1 (38:36):
I mean, this is you know there's something I don't
know what it is, but there's something about not liking
music and the choices that you made for the food.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
Go to get together me. Yeah, are you see? That's
the thing?
Speaker 3 (38:51):
A man who serves his guest food colored pasta and clementines.
You're not surprised, to Lauren.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yeah, that guy. He also doesn't care for music.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
Oh yeh, here we were. I thought that we were
landing in such a great place by blowing Jeff's mind,
and then we just right back to non Scott.
Speaker 4 (39:10):
Non Scott.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
We don't want to keep you forever, but you know
I want to stay forever because of what I've just
told you about. This podcast will be.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
Four hours long exact.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
She's like, maybe if I just hide, maybe it'll never end.
But we do want to make sure we have time
to play a game with you. Our game is called
love It or Loath It. If you have a few minutes,
please when we come back. Okay, you'll play it with us?
Speaker 6 (39:32):
Great, Okay, guys, we're back.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
We've been chatting with Alyssa and Paris about all of
the glorious, glorious aspects of feeding people. I feel inspired.
I need to get rid of my hermit ways. I
need to invite people over more. I need to feed
them my turkey basole stew. That mission has been accomplished.
In the meantime, I want to play a game. We
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play a game Alyssa called love It or Loathe It?
And love it or loath it is a rapid fire
game sort of where we throw items at you and
you tell us if you love that thing or you
loathe that thing.
Speaker 4 (40:20):
Great, there's no in between.
Speaker 3 (40:21):
Okay, okay, you can't be like, oh I feel me
about that thing, all right, excellent, Okay.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
First thing, Alyssa, love it or Loathe It? Indoor pools.
Speaker 1 (40:34):
Love Love it came from the depths of my soul
because I think the smell of chlorine, the feeling of
either I'm at a swim meet or I'm in a
hotel or I'm in like the Motel six with my
parents and and there's a pool.
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Yeah, yeah, it's the smell of chlorine. It takes you right,
it takes your back. I think, if I had more
time to.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
Think about that, and if you told me, like you
have to go in an indoor pool right now, I
turned to loath. But in my head that my memory
of it is love.
Speaker 4 (41:08):
Yeah, I'm right there with you.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
I agree completely, because the thing is that when you
go in as a kid, especially like the holiday inn
or whatever, it's like the most joyful experience ever. But
it's also like muggy and crappy and thinking back to
our parents just sitting watching their children splash in a hot,
chlorine like saturated room less fun.
Speaker 3 (41:33):
But well, have you guys been you guys live in
Los Angeles. Have you been torn indoor pool recently?
Speaker 1 (41:39):
Honestly, no, it's been so so long.
Speaker 4 (41:42):
Yeah, I'll tell you I have been. That's why I
brought it up.
Speaker 3 (41:45):
And Scott, I have been that parent watching the kids
in the pool. I want to tell you my love
for it hasn't changed.
Speaker 4 (41:51):
I really love it.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
Love it.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
Great.
Speaker 4 (41:55):
Yeah, so don't love it's the smell. It's comforting. And
also you're not a victim of the elements.
Speaker 3 (42:01):
You know that, like the temperatures are going to change,
there's not a frog isn't going to hop in the water.
Speaker 4 (42:07):
True, it's fine, you know. So loves an indoor.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Loves an interpol Alyssa love it or lo that chain
restaurants loveve it, love.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
It, love it I'm very similar to what Ellie just
said about the elements you are. I feel the same
way about a chamber show. You're not at the mercy
of the elements. No chef is going to try something
crazy today. You go, I'm going to get this Subway
sandwich and it's gonna taste the exact.
Speaker 7 (42:33):
Same as it tasted when I was twelve after attract me.
Speaker 1 (42:36):
There is comfort in that. Do I want to eat
it every night?
Speaker 4 (42:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:40):
But there are times when I just.
Speaker 7 (42:42):
Am craving the Cheesecake Factory or Dunkin Donuts because I
know what it is.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
Yep.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
Is there a favorite? Or what's the two questions for you?
Quick knee jerk response, what's your favorite? What's the last
one you've been to?
Speaker 1 (42:57):
Yeah? I think those will be the same. And I
tweeted that recently.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
But do you see it Domino's Pizza and then go
ahead and read or recognizing our most loyal members.
Speaker 6 (43:12):
That's you, Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
I am a loyal Domino's number. So yeah, yeah, it's
gonna be Dominoes, and it's going to be quite recently.
Speaker 4 (43:23):
Ah you and Scott.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
Scott, I'm I'm looking up why I didn't get a
email from Domino.
Speaker 3 (43:32):
I mean, I would not say if you thought, if
you put together Domino's loyal customer Scott Eckert, were you
the first person comes to my brain.
Speaker 4 (43:39):
Now, Alyssa, you two, you guys have just discovered something.
Speaker 1 (43:42):
There we go.
Speaker 2 (43:43):
You mocked my pasta, but you would have loved my
Dominoes and back together mutual love.
Speaker 4 (43:49):
Yeah, all right, you've gone to the chain restaurant. But
now you gotta do the work.
Speaker 3 (43:53):
Love it or low that hit workouts, that's high intensity
interval training.
Speaker 4 (43:59):
Love it or low it.
Speaker 1 (44:02):
God, this is a tough one. I I'll go loath.
I'll go loath. I used to be very into this
type of thing. Yes, so that's where my hesitation comes from,
because there was a point where I would have loved this.
Speaker 7 (44:16):
But now I'm in a real zen space of I
go on long walks. I don't like dreading. I don't
like the feeling like I'm going to be in a
lot of pain.
Speaker 1 (44:24):
I look forward to a long walk. I'll still feel
good after it, but I don't have to go. Oh,
there's something big is coming.
Speaker 4 (44:31):
I could not be more with you because I'm thinking,
why are we still doing that?
Speaker 3 (44:35):
Right?
Speaker 4 (44:35):
You don't have to. I'm not training for anything, that's right.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
So, yeah, you guys like low intensity, low intensity.
Speaker 3 (44:43):
Lit low intensity, but long interval, right, Li and Ellie's
in New York.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
I mean I think that's the obviously it's not a
new thought, but gosh, the best part of New York
is just you're not even thinking about Like here, I'm like,
when am I getting my steps? New York? You don't
think about it. You just get them.
Speaker 3 (45:01):
And here I'll be like I better run or I
better you know, bike or do something to exercise. I think,
but I walked ten miles already. Okay, I'm good, exactly.
Speaker 2 (45:10):
Yep, all right. Last one, Love it or love it?
Alyssa board games?
Speaker 1 (45:17):
I love it so much. I yeah, I feel uh
probably that goes number two for like happiest and they
go in with each other, like to have people over
to eat food and then be like is it time?
And then we go into the other room when we
play board games. That's a perfect night for me. I
love it. I get very competitive. I get a little
bit aggressive. I don't it's not Luke we were playing
(45:39):
bachi the other day and he was like, I was like,
what are we playing to and he was like, who cares?
And I was like, what, what do you then? What
do you mean who cares?
Speaker 7 (45:47):
That's why we're playing.
Speaker 1 (45:49):
If no point, then this is just recreating.
Speaker 7 (45:53):
That's a very different thing I have to have.
Speaker 1 (45:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (45:55):
Oh yeah, I'm very I am not that way. I
will abandon a board game halfway through. I have no
follow through when it comes to board games unless it's
like shoots and Ladders.
Speaker 2 (46:08):
That really gets her going.
Speaker 3 (46:10):
She's that ever goes like no other No, but it
is yeah that I admire that because it's such a
great activity.
Speaker 4 (46:20):
Right.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
Yeah. I also just grew up really playing boorgames, so
I don't know a lot about like politics or the
way the world works, or movies or film or TV
because I just grew up playing borgames. So anytime it
might I'll be like, what happened in the war of
you know, the World War One? My boyfriend's like what,
And I always just like, we played board games.
Speaker 2 (46:41):
That's all we did.
Speaker 3 (46:42):
I don't know unlessa yep, that is with me too,
because my husband, he's a he's a movie buff.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
He loves me and I have never watched any of them.
But my my response isn't. I was playing boor games.
I was like, I had a life.
Speaker 1 (46:58):
Yeah, it's kind of the opposite.
Speaker 7 (46:59):
It's like I didn't have a LIFEA yeah, yeah, yeah
you were.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
You were living.
Speaker 3 (47:02):
Yeah what was I doing? Not avoiding having people over?
I was sleeping, well, exactly, eating my turkey pa soul.
But you know, I think that it's very sweet too,
the fact that you can sleep at a party. That
also means that you're inviting people over that you feel
so comfortable with and that you feel so homey with
(47:22):
that you're like, yeah, they won't mind, this is okay.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
So I think that's a quite.
Speaker 3 (47:25):
Nice spin, thank you, And with that particula, because I
remember that night and it was a close group of friends.
I'm sorry neither of you were there, but it was
a close group of friends. But yeah, so I think
maybe that's a nice little spin on it.
Speaker 4 (47:36):
But yeah, Scott, where do you land?
Speaker 1 (47:38):
On board games?
Speaker 2 (47:38):
By the way, huge love, absolutely love for all the
same reasons. Like to compete, I like, I like I
like little puzzles, I like solving what the best strategy is.
I prefer like more modern board games like Catan or whatever,
to like old fashioned interminable board games like.
Speaker 7 (47:58):
Candy Candy, the Candy One, Candy Land, Candy Land.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
You don't like candy, I like if the age. If
the age on the box says two plus, then that's
usually not going to be one of my favorites.
Speaker 1 (48:10):
Uh, fair enough, Okay, shall tire?
Speaker 2 (48:14):
Okay, Well it's been it's been just a true delight
talking to you, Alyssa. We agree about board games, maybe
we disagree about my colored pasta, but it's been wonderful
having you. Is there anything that you'd like to plug
before we let you go?
Speaker 5 (48:31):
No?
Speaker 1 (48:31):
No, no, it's been a true delight being here. I
love chatting with you guys and hanging. It's been so fun.
And please invite me to your Halloween party.
Speaker 2 (48:40):
I need to try that on. I will be there.
Speaker 3 (48:42):
I don't care what coast you're on your coming. Maybe
you're talking to Scott. You have to go one Halloween party,
the one night and the other the next night. Scott
and I both host Killer Halloween.
Speaker 1 (48:53):
I want to be both.
Speaker 2 (48:54):
If you fly all the way to Ellie's Halloween party,
you'll get a chance to sit in the chair. And
it's worth it.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
It's worth it, guys.
Speaker 4 (49:03):
Oh, bamboo.
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I promise to serve you my famous turkey pisole stew
next to Halloween and you can eat it in this chair.
Speaker 7 (49:12):
I can't wait for the post a here from now.
It's just me in the chair with the pizzoli.
Speaker 1 (49:16):
And we did it.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
We did it.
Speaker 7 (49:18):
And you know who else is there?
Speaker 2 (49:20):
Gus from Idaho, Jeff from Oklahoma.
Speaker 4 (49:23):
Jeff bringing it back, Alissa. That is full circle. Jeff
from Oklahoma.
Speaker 2 (49:31):
We love you.
Speaker 4 (49:32):
We wish you all the best.
Speaker 1 (49:34):
Jeff, we love you. And yes, you can watch No
Bad Days on Peacock of Mine. That's a solo show
about losing my dad. It's funny and it's dark and
it's sweet and yet go watch it.
Speaker 4 (49:43):
Yes, everybody, go watch that. Alissa. You are a delight.
You are so funny. Thank you for being on our
show and we can't wait to see you soon.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Feel the same way about you, guys.
Speaker 4 (49:53):
Thank you so much. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (49:55):
Bye this podcast. Love it or loath it?
Speaker 2 (49:58):
Love it?
Speaker 6 (49:59):
Yeah, a right answer.
Speaker 2 (50:05):
Thanks for listening to Born to Love. We'll be back
next week with brand new things that we love.
Speaker 4 (50:09):
We want to hear from you.
Speaker 3 (50:11):
Leave us a review in Apple Podcasts and tell us
what you love. We might even ask one of our
guests in an upcoming.
Speaker 4 (50:18):
Love it or Load It.
Speaker 2 (50:19):
Born to Love is hosted and created by Ellie Kemper
and Scott Ecker.
Speaker 3 (50:22):
Our executive producer is Aaron Coffman. Our producers are Shina
Ozaki and Zoe Danklab.
Speaker 2 (50:27):
Born to Love is part of Will Ferrell's Big Money
Players Network in collaboration with iHeart Podcasts. Special thanks to
Hans Sonny.
Speaker 4 (50:35):
Rachel Kaplan and Adrianna Cassiano
Speaker 2 (50:37):
Michael Fails, Alex Kral and Baheed Frazier.
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