July 11, 2025 • 17 mins
When the woman on the phone today described her job to us we were SHOCKED… but is it something that would keep her from a happy dating life? Find out in a brand new Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date of date. An important part of any blossoming
relationship is the first time a woman corrects her man
and tells him he messed up. You need to do better.
All right, Well, this has to happen. It's such a
special moment because we need that as guys. If left
(00:21):
to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons of axe
body spray and think it smells good. We'll wash our
cashmere sweaters in hot water. Are we not supposed to?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Every man?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Thank goodness for women being there to correct us so
we can learn and go. Oh, that's how it works.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You have to use your own brain.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates
to correct their men, but not our listener, Monica. She
told the guy he messed up on night oneikes for
his benefit? Broke it is. That's what happened, Monica, Welcome
to the show. Was that intro to your liking? Or
could I have done better?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
No? You you hit it?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah? Wow, it's not just made my day, Monica, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes
up and then still wants to call him for another day.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
All that, you know, we'll get into that, but let's
start with what's this guy's name? Who did you go
out with?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Okay, so I met Isaac online and it seemed really cool.
I like his personality. I like his looks definitely.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
So there's a lot of potential there.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of
guys on this app that there will catch you forever.
I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing,
but he came right down with it. He was like,
I want to take you.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Out all the action, living in this weird world of
like what are we doing?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Exactly right. That's a good note for men, because the
more you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to
say so things stupid and we will do that.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yes I'm talking.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, good for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say
much more. Just keep going. What happened?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yes, he says, come pick me up and take me
to the nice restaurant. So you know, I got up
in my nice little dress, thinking yeah hey, and then
he came close up, he got out, he opened my door. Okay, Yeah,
he was a very nice lie. He was nice.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, okay, so everything's working in his favor right.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Now, I'm wondering where things start to turn and you
have to step in.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
And as soon as we got off the highway, and
I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo Wow Wings.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yeah, Okay, are you excited about that or not excited?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo
Wowe too much with my whole girls excited for now.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Okay, So he's taking you there for a date and
you're not feeling that.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You expect Okay, a lot better, not a little get.
He puts it in park. He gets out of a car,
comes around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman
he is. And I said, please close my door.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You said close. You said close the door while you're
still in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I said, please close my door.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Well, it's nice to reply close my door.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And I think that he thought I was kidding because
he was like, bean in there.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Hello, So you're going to force him to take you
somewhere else.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I don't force anybody to do anything. I'm letting him
know please close my door because I don't do Buffalow
Wild Wings as a date.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
That's that messy food.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It's a terrible first date.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
It sucks your address and stuff together. Especially uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Women don't want to like sit and drink beers and
watch sports and scream and spill beers.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do
on a date. I don't want to watch the whole
grown man lick his fingers.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
I'm gonna write that down sexy. When we sucked on
the bone.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yes? He did. He shut the door. I said, I
got three choices for you, and he picked a nice
cocktail bar and I said, okay, cool thought. Okay, he
didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him let's
go also.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
And he adapted and he would offended by the way, like.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
He'd seemed more confused than offended.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
That's a standard, you know, mental headspace for men, just constant.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Right.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
How was it though, when you got to the cocktail bar?
Were you able to still keep a good energy together?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened.
I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real. I want silverware.
I don't want plastic utensils. So he was like, okay,
I never thought of that. Stop teasing him what a
real lady like.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to
properly woo a woman.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling
you back.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh yeah, oh that's a good question. Appreciate it, And
that's what I'm calling you.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
See, I would be insulted.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second
dates before, and now he's got it down.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
She taught him too well.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset
when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,
just for the next one to come and like swipe
him up.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I
want to know, because I think I did everything right
and I taught him how to do everything right, and.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I want you deserve a medal and definitely a second
date here.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance,
then screw that cat.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
He doesn't a real woman. Then you'll lay into him,
go fullhard against him, right, bro, that's where you come in.
You do your thing.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
No, I just think that if you have some boundaries
like that.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
They should be established before the date, not when you're
in the middle of it.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
But look, he's to want to ask me out and
I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on
the date, and that's what he did. If he didn't
like what he learned, responded, you haven't pull on the
whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No,
I can't wait to hear this.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he
picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac
for you and figure out why in the world he
would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That's right. Let's get some answers when we do your
second date update right after this hold on second Date update.
If you're just joining us, we've been speaking to a
true hero. Her name is Monica, who heroically swooped in
and save her date Isaac from pulling a total rookie
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move when he tried to bring her to Buffalo Wild
Wings for her and that wasn't gonna fly with her,
so Monica refused to get out of his car in
order to show him this is not where you take
a lady of substance.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Yeah, they definitely have a miscommunication of what a dinner
date looks like.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
But instead they ended up at a nice cocktail bar
and they did it the proper way, where she actually
discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some gentlemanly qualities
something to work with. So the question is why is
he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two? Monica? Is
it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense a
(07:29):
teaching abilities as a little bit condescending.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed
that to me personally.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism construction.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
If I could did it, I definitely could take it. Yeah. Yeah,
that's right.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
That's a good attitude to have. It doesn't happen often
on this.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we
do this call? Is that where you're going?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Okay, she knows who she is, she knows what she wants,
and she wants to go out with Isaac.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're
afraid to say anything.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I think Isaac will be scared and it will be
afraid to say no.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
So I think you're getting a date about one. I
also like to scare men.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
She seems like you broke. We're going to intimidate this
guy and say yes to a date. But let's see
what he asked the safe he picks up the phone.
But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah,
(08:31):
hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now.
It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Welcome to the show, Isaac.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Hey, good morning.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
Why is a radio show calling me?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Uh well, it's kind of a good reason. We do
a segment on this show. It's called a second Date Update.
It sounds like you haven't heard it, but this is
a segment where we help out our listeners who've been
on a date with someone and afterwards they're not getting
a call back to go on a second one.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think I have heard of it. I think I've
seen this online somewhere or something.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Sure on there. You can follow us at Brooke and
Jeffery if you want to. No pressure. But basically the
reason that we're calling you is there's a woman named
Monica who asked us to get a hold of you.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
Hey, yeah, I met Monica.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Yeah right, we know sounds like you guys could have
had a great date.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
What did she What did she tell you? What did
you tell you? Question?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Okay, well, I guess the general recap of what we
heard from her is you picked her up, then you
took her to Buffalo Wild Wings, which she uh politely
redirected over to a cocktail bar.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Well politely redirected. It would be.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Wrong say it. She's our friend, so you know we're
not going to be rude.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply
kind of barked closed my door?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Did you?
Speaker 6 (10:01):
At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean?
Are you like there there's a bug about to get
inside my car. I was like okay, So I close
the door and I go back to my side of
the car. I get in and she explains to me like, hey,
I don't do Buffalo Wild Wings and I was like, yeah,
all right. I mean the reason why I chose the
(10:23):
Buffalo Wild Wings because in these new dating apps, it's
better to start out something very casual. Another date, we
graduate to something a little better.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
But wait, did you explain all of that to her?
What you just told us? Why you chose it?
Speaker 6 (10:36):
No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and
also didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
You own it a franchisee.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
You're gonna take her to your own job, though.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Civil except you get free food.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, guys, he's a business owner who cares.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest. I'm
still a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a little
bit better her, so we made our way to this
great cocktail lounge that I know.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
So what changed your mind to where now you're not
reaching out to her for a second date?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,
it's the cocktail bar, I started asking you a little
bit more about her life, and of course we get
to like, what do we do for a living?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
She kind of skated around it for a while till
she came to an answer I've never heard in my
entire life.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
What is it?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
She says, she's a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
A stay at home daughter, She's got to be joking.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Not a joke.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me.
Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's
a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yes, I'm supposed to be a stay home girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
That is a real fancy way to say. You're unemployed
and live with mom and dad.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Yeah, okay, So you were turned off because she doesn't
have enough ambition or drive.
Speaker 6 (11:56):
Or drop of ambition.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay.
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
All right. I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac,
that's Monica on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Clearly, it's Monica.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,
So go ahead and talk to Isaac.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Hello, Isaac, how are you hi, Monica from your mom's couch.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
How you doing?
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, Let me tell you something, Isaac.
I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we
got along pretty well on our date. We had a
good time. I didn't know you had a problem with
my daily occupation. What is the problem?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and
take care of them? Is that what's going on?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care
of me there, baby girl, and I always will be.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Okay, Monica. Guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are?
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Get a job? You know what? Let me tell you something.
I am perfectly healthy. Yes, I am, as you can see.
And if I had to get a job, I would,
But guess what, I don't have to.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
Don't you want a job? Don't you want your own career?
Don't you have your own dreams and ambitions?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sit it
at home, playing on my day, going into what I
have to do, and finding a man. I don't take
care of me, so my parents could stop.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
So that's your goal.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Brook. It sounds like you're judging her there, and she
explicitly asked you not to do.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
So it's really hard not to because you would never
date a guy who is doing what you do.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
You are definitely right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't
do what I do. My bro is to be taking
care of. That's my love language. I love to be
taken care of. And if it works, it works.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
It into the old school chivalry and stuff.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting
your parents for the first time.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
That sounds like you have.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
A present for all of them.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Ala, what's your dowry?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little
bit more, you're probably more receptive to going out with
them more time.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Look, look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not
the best with me. Oh you have great life, Monica.
I hope you find a guy slash simp it will
take care.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
What I don't think so, Isaac, You're going to take
me out, and that's just the way it's going to be.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
I love how you.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Want to be the boss, but you don't want to
do any of the work to a boss.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
A boss doesn't work. No idea of a boss you
don't want to make, and that is the problem. Y'all
just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being a
whole business owner and want to take me to his
little budget wings stop.
Speaker 6 (15:07):
I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.
There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're
not a leader.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
I never said I was a leader. I never said that.
Speaker 6 (15:18):
I am a leader. I'm a leader.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Okay, But you could have been a man and leave
my act. You could have told me that why you
dog didn't running?
Speaker 6 (15:32):
No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Oh okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
And I don't need him. I don't need him anyway,
a job you don't.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
You know what you need to do is you need
to go to Buffalo Wild Wings and spend your parents'
money over there.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Now, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going
to the top.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
I feel like you're going to be on the phone
a lot with your expectations for dating.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Well that's okay, Look I got a lot of time.
Boo boom.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
And are your parents hiring for any open roles in
your family? Because I would love to be a party.
Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning, Well, hey, we
all learned a new job. Today's stay at home daughter,
A job I left.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
Flying right now texting my mom.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
You would last I give you two days back home
with your parents?
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (16:36):
Isaac?
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect
it either. But okay, Brook, let me ask you this, Okay,
would it have changed how you felt if Monica was
twenty one years old compared to thirty one, would you
give her more grace?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
If she's not going to school, she should be working.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
No, that's right. Brook believes you should start working at
a six in one of her overseas factories. So, parents,
if you're lazy, first grader is still mooching off of
you as a stay at home child, Yeah, and then
text in seven nine two, Brook'll whip them into shit.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Let me give you some parenting tips, yes, and if
not parenting tips, we can hopefully at least give you
a little bit of dating help.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
You can email the show. We can call that person
who's not calling you back and go check out all
of our second date podcasts wherever you get yours, they're
up a Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning
Second date of date. An important part of any blossoming
relationship is the first time a woman corrects her man
and tells him he messed up. You need to do better.
All right, Well, this has to happen. It's such a
special moment because we need that as guys. If left
(00:21):
to our own devices, we'll wear four gallons of axe
body spray and think it smells good. We'll wash our
cashmere sweaters in hot water. Are we not supposed to?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Every man?
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Thank goodness for women being there to correct us so
we can learn and go. Oh, that's how it works.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You have to use your own brain.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Well, a lot of women will wait a few dates
to correct their men, but not our listener, Monica. She
told the guy he messed up on night oneikes for
his benefit? Broke it is. That's what happened, Monica, Welcome
to the show. Was that intro to your liking? Or
could I have done better?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
No? You you hit it?
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah? Wow, it's not just made my day, Monica, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
I'm always so curious why someone says a guy messes
up and then still wants to call him for another day.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
All that, you know, we'll get into that, but let's
start with what's this guy's name? Who did you go
out with?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Okay, so I met Isaac online and it seemed really cool.
I like his personality. I like his looks definitely.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
So there's a lot of potential there.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah. I really liked him because there's a lot of
guys on this app that there will catch you forever.
I don't do the back and forth, back and forth thing,
but he came right down with it. He was like,
I want to take you.
Speaker 4 (01:45):
Out all the action, living in this weird world of
like what are we doing?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Exactly right. That's a good note for men, because the
more you talk, the more opportunities you're giving yourself to
say so things stupid and we will do that.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Yes I'm talking.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, good for Isaac. Now I'm not going to say
much more. Just keep going. What happened?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yes, he says, come pick me up and take me
to the nice restaurant. So you know, I got up
in my nice little dress, thinking yeah hey, and then
he came close up, he got out, he opened my door. Okay, Yeah,
he was a very nice lie. He was nice.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, okay, so everything's working in his favor right.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Now, I'm wondering where things start to turn and you
have to step in.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
And as soon as we got off the highway, and
I'm like, oh no, because I see Buffalo Wow Wings.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Yeah, Okay, are you excited about that or not excited?
Speaker 3 (02:45):
I'm not excited at all. I'm just paying from Buffalo
Wowe too much with my whole girls excited for now.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Okay, So he's taking you there for a date and
you're not feeling that.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You expect Okay, a lot better, not a little get.
He puts it in park. He gets out of a car,
comes around and opens my door like a perfect gentleman
he is. And I said, please close my door.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You said close. You said close the door while you're
still in the car.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I said, please close my door.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Well, it's nice to reply close my door.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And I think that he thought I was kidding because
he was like, bean in there.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Hello, So you're going to force him to take you
somewhere else.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I don't force anybody to do anything. I'm letting him
know please close my door because I don't do Buffalow
Wild Wings as a date.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
That's that messy food.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
It's a terrible first date.
Speaker 5 (03:44):
It sucks your address and stuff together. Especially uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Women don't want to like sit and drink beers and
watch sports and scream and spill beers.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
I'm gonna tell you what I don't want to do
on a date. I don't want to watch the whole
grown man lick his fingers.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
I'm gonna write that down sexy. When we sucked on
the bone.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
So did he finally listen to you and shut the door?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yes? He did. He shut the door. I said, I
got three choices for you, and he picked a nice
cocktail bar and I said, okay, cool thought. Okay, he
didn't know, right, he didn't know. I told him let's
go also.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
And he adapted and he would offended by the way, like.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
He'd seemed more confused than offended.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
That's a standard, you know, mental headspace for men, just constant.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Right.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
How was it though, when you got to the cocktail bar?
Were you able to still keep a good energy together?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yes? He asked me questions about what had just happened.
I'm like, yo, I'm a lady for real. I want silverware.
I don't want plastic utensils. So he was like, okay,
I never thought of that. Stop teasing him what a
real lady like.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I'm sure he actually appreciated the education on how to
properly woo a woman.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
I don't know he appreciated it because he's not calling
you back.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh yeah, oh that's a good question. Appreciate it, And
that's what I'm calling you.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
See, I would be insulted.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
See, I'm thinking that's the reason he wasn't getting second
dates before, and now he's got it down.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
She taught him too well.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, yeah, that's what a lot of women get upset
when they're like, oh great, I cleaned up my guy,
just for the next one to come and like swipe
him up.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
He's taking ten girls of that cocktail bar.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
We gotta get down to the nitty gritty because I
want to know, because I think I did everything right
and I taught him how to do everything right, and.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
I want you deserve a medal and definitely a second
date here.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
But what if he feels like you're too high maintenance,
then screw that cat.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
He doesn't a real woman. Then you'll lay into him,
go fullhard against him, right, bro, that's where you come in.
You do your thing.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
No, I just think that if you have some boundaries
like that.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
They should be established before the date, not when you're
in the middle of it.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
But look, he's to want to ask me out and
I accepted, right, Yeah, so you're gonna learn me on
the date, and that's what he did. If he didn't
like what he learned, responded, you haven't pull on the
whole radio show to find out what's ram with you. No,
I can't wait to hear this.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I don't want to hear it too, So hopefully he
picks up. But we're gonna come back. We'll call Isaac
for you and figure out why in the world he
would not be calling back a classy woman like yourself, Monica.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, she's a cloth napkin type of lady.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
That's right. Let's get some answers when we do your
second date update right after this hold on second Date update.
If you're just joining us, we've been speaking to a
true hero. Her name is Monica, who heroically swooped in
and save her date Isaac from pulling a total rookie
(06:46):
move when he tried to bring her to Buffalo Wild
Wings for her and that wasn't gonna fly with her,
so Monica refused to get out of his car in
order to show him this is not where you take
a lady of substance.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Yeah, they definitely have a miscommunication of what a dinner
date looks like.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
But instead they ended up at a nice cocktail bar
and they did it the proper way, where she actually
discovered Isaac's a pretty good guy as some gentlemanly qualities
something to work with. So the question is why is
he not reaching out for cocktails? Round two? Monica? Is
it possible that maybe he saw your helpful sense a
(07:29):
teaching abilities as a little bit condescending.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
That's a possibility. I just wish he would have expressed
that to me personally.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yeah, you seem like a person who can take criticism construction.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
If I could did it, I definitely could take it. Yeah. Yeah,
that's right.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
That's a good attitude to have. It doesn't happen often
on this.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah, would you like to criticize her constructively before we
do this call? Is that where you're going?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
Okay, she knows who she is, she knows what she wants,
and she wants to go out with Isaac.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
So okay, So Brooke, you're scared of her and you're
afraid to say anything.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I think Isaac will be scared and it will be
afraid to say no.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
So I think you're getting a date about one. I
also like to scare men.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
She seems like you broke. We're going to intimidate this
guy and say yes to a date. But let's see
what he asked the safe he picks up the phone.
But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Isaac? Yeah,
(08:31):
hey man, we're a radio show. You're on it right now.
It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Welcome to the show, Isaac.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Hey, good morning.
Speaker 6 (08:39):
Why is a radio show calling me?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Uh well, it's kind of a good reason. We do
a segment on this show. It's called a second Date Update.
It sounds like you haven't heard it, but this is
a segment where we help out our listeners who've been
on a date with someone and afterwards they're not getting
a call back to go on a second one.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think I have heard of it. I think I've
seen this online somewhere or something.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Yeah, a lot of them are viral on TikTok.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Sure on there. You can follow us at Brooke and
Jeffery if you want to. No pressure. But basically the
reason that we're calling you is there's a woman named
Monica who asked us to get a hold of you.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
Hey, yeah, I met Monica.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Yeah right, we know sounds like you guys could have
had a great date.
Speaker 6 (09:28):
What did she What did she tell you? What did
you tell you? Question?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Okay, well, I guess the general recap of what we
heard from her is you picked her up, then you
took her to Buffalo Wild Wings, which she uh politely
redirected over to a cocktail bar.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Well politely redirected. It would be.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Wrong say it. She's our friend, so you know we're
not going to be rude.
Speaker 6 (09:56):
Well, I mean I wasn't rude either. She just simply
kind of barked closed my door?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Did you?
Speaker 6 (10:01):
At first? I just stood there like, what do you mean?
Are you like there there's a bug about to get
inside my car. I was like okay, So I close
the door and I go back to my side of
the car. I get in and she explains to me like, hey,
I don't do Buffalo Wild Wings and I was like, yeah,
all right. I mean the reason why I chose the
(10:23):
Buffalo Wild Wings because in these new dating apps, it's
better to start out something very casual. Another date, we
graduate to something a little better.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
But wait, did you explain all of that to her?
What you just told us? Why you chose it?
Speaker 6 (10:36):
No, I didn't explain any of that to her, and
also didn't tell her this. I own that Buffalo Wild Wings.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
You own it a franchisee.
Speaker 5 (10:45):
You're gonna take her to your own job, though.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Civil except you get free food.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
Yeah, guys, he's a business owner who cares.
Speaker 6 (10:54):
Okay, So look, so look, I'm gonna be honest. I'm
still a gentleman. She wanted to go somewhere a little
bit better her, so we made our way to this
great cocktail lounge that I know.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
So what changed your mind to where now you're not
reaching out to her for a second date?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Okay, So, while we're kind of enjoying each other's company,
it's the cocktail bar, I started asking you a little
bit more about her life, and of course we get
to like, what do we do for a living?
Speaker 3 (11:18):
Uh huh.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
She kind of skated around it for a while till
she came to an answer I've never heard in my
entire life.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
What is it?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
She says, she's a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
A stay at home daughter, She's got to be joking.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Not a joke.
Speaker 6 (11:37):
No, it's not a joke. That's what she told me.
Her occupation at thirty one years old is that she's
a stay at home daughter.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Yes, I'm supposed to be a stay home girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
That is a real fancy way to say. You're unemployed
and live with mom and dad.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Yeah, okay, So you were turned off because she doesn't
have enough ambition or drive.
Speaker 6 (11:56):
Or drop of ambition.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
All right, we got we gotta cut this right here. Okay.
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
All right. I don't want to make her mad. But Isaac,
that's Monica on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Clearly, it's Monica.
Speaker 2 (12:13):
Clearly, maybe she's on her parents' landline.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You better watch yourself. You're supposed to be with me here.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Okay, Monica, clearly you want to jump in and say something,
So go ahead and talk to Isaac.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Hello, Isaac, how are you hi, Monica from your mom's couch.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
How you doing?
Speaker 3 (12:33):
Oh no, no, no, no, no, Let me tell you something, Isaac.
I don't know what's the disrespect about. I thought we
got along pretty well on our date. We had a
good time. I didn't know you had a problem with
my daily occupation. What is the problem?
Speaker 2 (12:50):
But we're parents, like elderly. Do you stay home and
take care of them? Is that what's going on?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
We're just no, they're perfectly healthy. They just take care
of me there, baby girl, and I always will be.
Speaker 6 (13:01):
Okay, Monica. Guess who else is perfectly healthy? You are?
Speaker 3 (13:05):
Get a job? You know what? Let me tell you something.
I am perfectly healthy. Yes, I am, as you can see.
And if I had to get a job, I would,
But guess what, I don't have to.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (13:22):
Don't you want a job? Don't you want your own career?
Don't you have your own dreams and ambitions?
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Like yes, my dream and my ambition is sit it
at home, playing on my day, going into what I
have to do, and finding a man. I don't take
care of me, so my parents could stop.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
So that's your goal.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Brook. It sounds like you're judging her there, and she
explicitly asked you not to do.
Speaker 4 (13:45):
So it's really hard not to because you would never
date a guy who is doing what you do.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
You are definitely right, and they shouldn't. A man shouldn't
do what I do. My bro is to be taking
care of. That's my love language. I love to be
taken care of. And if it works, it works.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
It into the old school chivalry and stuff.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
I cannot imagine imagine being a man going and meeting
your parents for the first time.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
That sounds like you have.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
A present for all of them.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
Ala, what's your dowry?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Sir?
Speaker 1 (14:19):
Okay, Well, Isaac, now that she's explained this a little
bit more, you're probably more receptive to going out with
them more time.
Speaker 6 (14:27):
Look, look, I wish Monica the best. It's just not
the best with me. Oh you have great life, Monica.
I hope you find a guy slash simp it will
take care.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
What I don't think so, Isaac, You're going to take
me out, and that's just the way it's going to be.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
I love how you.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Want to be the boss, but you don't want to
do any of the work to a boss.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
A boss doesn't work. No idea of a boss you
don't want to make, and that is the problem. Y'all
just don't understand, and clearly I don't understand being a
whole business owner and want to take me to his
little budget wings stop.
Speaker 6 (15:07):
I'm gonna be honest with you, Monica. See, there's a difference.
There's a difference between a boss and a leader. You're
not a leader.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
I never said I was a leader. I never said that.
Speaker 6 (15:18):
I am a leader. I'm a leader.
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Okay, But you could have been a man and leave
my act. You could have told me that why you
dog didn't running?
Speaker 6 (15:32):
No one's dodging or running. What I'm doing is ghosting.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Oh okay, okay.
Speaker 3 (15:45):
And I don't need him. I don't need him anyway,
a job you don't.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
You know what you need to do is you need
to go to Buffalo Wild Wings and spend your parents'
money over there.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Now, I'm not going in no more. Look, I'm going
to the top.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
I feel like you're going to be on the phone
a lot with your expectations for dating.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Well that's okay, Look I got a lot of time.
Boo boom.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
And are your parents hiring for any open roles in
your family? Because I would love to be a party.
Oh that good, Jeffrey in the morning, Well, hey, we
all learned a new job. Today's stay at home daughter,
A job I left.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
Flying right now texting my mom.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
You would last I give you two days back home
with your parents?
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (16:36):
Isaac?
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Isaac did not like it. Obviously Brooke does not respect
it either. But okay, Brook, let me ask you this, Okay,
would it have changed how you felt if Monica was
twenty one years old compared to thirty one, would you
give her more grace?
Speaker 2 (16:52):
If she's not going to school, she should be working.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
No, that's right. Brook believes you should start working at
a six in one of her overseas factories. So, parents,
if you're lazy, first grader is still mooching off of
you as a stay at home child, Yeah, and then
text in seven nine two, Brook'll whip them into shit.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Let me give you some parenting tips, yes, and if
not parenting tips, we can hopefully at least give you
a little bit of dating help.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
You can email the show. We can call that person
who's not calling you back and go check out all
of our second date podcasts wherever you get yours, they're
up a Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 2 (17:22):
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