November 15, 2024 • 17 mins
The guy in today’s Second Date Update accidentally blurted out something so DUMB, it might have become the cringiest moment of his life. Relive his embarrassing moment right now in the podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update. If you're a guy, you go out
on a good date with a lady and then at
the end of the night you're too nervous or just
forget to ask her about a second one. What's your
next course of action?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
There?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You send her a simp text like, Hey, I like you?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Why is that.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
We should talk again? Sometimes you text that's super simp,
it's not. Do you call her a year ago and beautiful?
Do you call her fifteen times at her work and
demand she pick up the phone because you two have
unfinished business. Now we're talking, and this is the business
you have to answer.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Is that the real man in you talking right now?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I mean I personally I would say both those options
are cringe. Oh thank god, but maybe not as cringe
as what our listener Daily did.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Oh you're just already beating and it.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding
him lately. So Daily, before we get to what you did,
you need to set the scene for us. Tell us
how you met this woman and what her name is.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
Well, her name's Crewdett.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
That's cool.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
We met on a bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
What did you just say, bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
It's a thing, and I sign up.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
There's one in my city that there's like a big
bicycle factory, but it's like right next to a brewery,
so you can like go have some drinks, go look
at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So you get to go do stuff but observe how
all the stuff you're doing was made.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yeah, that's so fun. And beers and bikes just go together.
A lot of bike and beer bars.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Shouldn't be because you shouldn't. Those probably aren't hobbies that
go together very well. But it's fun.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Helmet on.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
There you go. You were already taking a tour there
and met her.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery
and then we were doing the tour, and then in
the group of the tour, Crudette was with her mom,
so we all kind of just like started joking around
with each other, like joking with her mom, joking with her.
We were like became like a group of friends. Basically,
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I bet her mom is eating this up. Oh yeah,
did if a guy ever hit on me with my
mom present? My mom's like, Oh, my mom's vacation is
with a group of young guys around. She immediately texted
me she.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Would swoop in on the guys.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
She doesn't give me details.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So at any point are you able to just be
alone with just Crudette?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
It gets to that. So like at the end of
the tour, I didn't want to like stop hanging out,
so I was like, hey, let's go back over to
the brewery, you know what I mean. And we were
all there for probably like a half hour, and then
her mom had like an appointment or something, and I
didn't want to just like ask her in front of
her mom and my friends. So like as they were leaving,
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it kind of like down to me, like I have
to do something right now.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, you never see her pop the tires on, mom
can't leave?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Well, I didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
What was your genius idea?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
So I actually just ran out to the parking lot
and I basically asked her mom if her daughter could stay,
because I really liked.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I can't ask you for a playdate.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Because it's still bold, yes, that of the parents respectful
an old school. What did mom say?
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,
so she came back inside. We were hanging out and
my friends kind of got the vibe that me and
her were really hitting it off, so like one by
one they started to leave to as we continued to
hang out.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
They had to figure it out, like, come on, here's
my wingman.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
You you got to stay for a little in case
it goes bad. This is actually really adorable.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
So this is super cute. What happened next?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Or was so like it was just us for the
rest of the time. We had a kiss at the
end of the night.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Wow. We started this by saying that there was a
big embarrassing moment. None of this sounds embarrassing to the Oh, I'm.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Getting to that because I got her number, so I
called her. She didn't answer, and I I should have
never left a voicemail because I just started rambling, oh God,
basically that I think I love you in the voice.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
How did that come out of your mouth?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
It just slipped.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I don't know you were you drunk from the brewery?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
No, this is like the next day.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh God, I love drunk from the brewery.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
You use it like a man. I love you, you
know that.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Sometimes I could just be.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
More like like, no, I said it like I had
such a great time. We just have so much in common.
I think I love you, and then wow.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I didn't even go on the date, and that's like she.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Liked you and had a great time. That's intimidating for
anyone to hear.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I would have called back immediately and left another voice
because I'm terrible at this stuff, and been like, I
didn't mean that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Alexis if a guy does this to you, says I
love you, is it over?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
You can't even call after a first date. That's weird
in the first time the same day, that is so strange.
Next day so she knows all this. I feel sad
for him.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
She hasn't responded at all since that voicemail.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but
like I thought, like I would just make it worse.
So I've just been like waiting and it just the
longer that goes on when she hasn't call me back,
the worst I feel about it.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Here's a question, when we get her on the phone,
do we even bring it up? Do you know what
I mean? Is it better to just ignore it and
pretend like it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
You know what, some people never check their voicemails.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You always read I always read the transcript, I don't listen,
but maybe the transcript didn't say love I don't get.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
The transcript every time, so she could have just literally
never listened to. Let Yeah, we're all hoping for that
that maybe she never even knew this ever happened. We're
gonna find out when we call Crew Debt for you
and try and get you your second date update coming
up right after this second date update. Welcome back to
(06:20):
your second date updates Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,
and we've been discussing off the air and on the
air previously. Should we bring up the voicemail that our
listener Daily left for Crew Debt after their first meet
up because he dropped in I love you in the
middle of the message, or did he I don't know, Daily,
(06:41):
did you mean to I.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Don't think so. I don't know, it just kind of
slipped out. Maybe I subconsciously meant it. I'm not sure.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
That's even sweeter response.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
But feel for him. If she feels the same way,
it's creepy.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I know nobody feels the same way.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So we're trying to figure out what the reason is
and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention
it unless I.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Mean she'll bring it up. If it's yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not
make excuses for him.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
What do we do.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Let's just lean in and tell her daily only said
that because you got drunk at the brewery and said
it to him first. It's happen.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
That's exactly what that is.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
That's gaslighting her doing. It's not super popular with women.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't fan, but if at the end of the
day you fall in love, then it's worth it.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I mean, there's better than nothing.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I guess that's the response.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all and
it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail. Maybe she hasn't
even heard it.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
She's not that drunk at the brewery.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Well, let's find out. I'm gonna dial her number right now.
We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey
is this crudette?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Hi. You know your name means tiny Italian sushi?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Does it? I just say I crudeo it was.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Bugging me so on the break, I was like, her
name isn't crude crudette, So a crude crudette would be
a small piece of Italian.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Okay, that's cool. We're not just calling to tell you
what your name means, though we have, We do have
another purpose. I got into it because one of our
listeners reached out saying he's been trying to get a
hold of you and has not been able to arrange
a second meetup after you two hung out at a
(09:03):
brewery together.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, his name is Daily.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Oh wow, okay, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called the second
date update?
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Oh my god, has your mom been bugging you to
call him? My mom would be so invested.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Yes, we just we want to know less about your
mom and more about you and how you fell. We'll
get to your mom and her feelings later. We want
to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
I mean the hang out it was cool and you know,
like we had we had a good time.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yes, those feelings.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, what did you think when he came to the
car and like, you're in the car with your mom
and he like chased.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
You guys down to get you to stay.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I mean I was a little a little intense, but honestly,
like six feet but it did get a crazy.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
The night did No, the night was fine. But did
he tell you guys about the voicemail you left me?
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Not voicemail?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
What's that?
Speaker 3 (10:13):
What about the voicemail? Is maybe a good question?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail? Explain this to me.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
It's the thing where you call somebody and they don't
answer and they leave them a message.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why would anybody do that?
Speaker 5 (10:28):
Yeah, you really tell him something?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Huh?
Speaker 5 (10:32):
And like, honestly, I was not expecting it at all.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
You were expecting him to call you or you weren't
expecting to hear what he said?
Speaker 5 (10:40):
No, no, no, I figured he'd call me like we had
a good time, Like, why would he call me? He
actually told me he loved me?
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said
something else, I love you? Yes, yeah, because there's gloves
at the bike factory. I love food.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Maybe that was it?
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, I love food?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
You know?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Is that possible?
Speaker 5 (11:04):
I'm pretty sure he said I love you?
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Okay, how did you receive.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
That, So it was super intense, but not for the
reason you think, Like, I don't know even know how
to describe this. But the crazy thing is is that
I I kind of feel the same way.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
What how did I not expect that you reciprocate those feelings?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Shut up?
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Yeah, I mean I know it's crazy and like what
you call him?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Then?
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Look, the guy called me yesterday.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yes, that happened yesterday.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how to
say it back.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
I mean, this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Oh god, you known percent.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
Of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know, like,
you don't just tell us many love them after one hangout.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
This is so cute. Okay, we're forgetting that it hasn't
been that long. Already up on the same page. Oh
my god, your mom is going to take credit for
all of this.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
I honestly haven't told her any of this.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Are the first people that you're telling this to.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
I mean, I you know, I do have a best
friend that I tell everything to.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
But you, well, I know, you think that you've only
told a couple people that, but you've actually told a
third person and it's daily because he is on the
other line right now listening to this conversation, Oh.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
My god, are you serious?
Speaker 4 (12:33):
Daily? Bye?
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Hie?
Speaker 4 (12:40):
So are you saying you feel strongly about me? Also?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
She didn't it feels strongly?
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I
know it is, but I I you know you sometimes
you just get a feeling and honestly, like I I
think I love you too so fast? I guess that
is a lot.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Huh what? Yeah, Daily? How does it feel to hear
her say that to you? I don't know.
Speaker 4 (13:17):
It just it kind of feels off. It feels just
different from when I said it.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Is it?
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Like?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Is it kind of freaky to you? It's too much?
Speaker 5 (13:28):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (13:30):
I don't know. It just it just felt better when
I said it, But then hearing it, it just it
hit my ear just differently than I thought it would.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she
wants to get married to you.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
She's just trying to say what you said.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a
lot for me to take in right now, honestly.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Okay, started it? Is it? Maybe because it was said
on the radio? Is that why? Like? Maybe the setting
wasn't perfect for it, for this a little forced Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I didn't want to use that word. But yeah, I
guess on the radio is kind of like different because
again I just built this moment up to something. Yeah,
I think bigger than it ever could have been.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
No matter what she said, I mean, no matter what,
you guys have an amazing connection.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
I think that's what you should concentrate on.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Like the L word is a lot like and maybe
you just need to say it again one more time
because now the shock has worn off. Now it'll really
soak in and he'll feel it good.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
I think I'm good on the L word for now.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Are do I feel good? This time?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
It was a smart call. Yeah, alets was gonna have
to leave the room. It said too many times usually
has an allergic reaction.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when
you see each other in person again. And we'd love
to arrange that meeting and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
I mean, I am, and you are.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Well, I'm not going out with you.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
It's gonna be daily. You have to go out again.
You guys are so cute.
Speaker 4 (15:07):
I'd be cool with it. I don't know, it just
might be weird now that we set all this on
the radio, but like we could totally hang out again.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Nor that part. I need some love in my life
right now.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Okay, I guess I can understand, like you kind of
romanticize it in your head, build up what the moment
is gonna be like, and then it's just a total letdown.
And that's kind of what true love is. What Brook
you're living it right now, the total letdown, that's true love.
That's why you're so desperate for it. Literally said, I
(15:42):
need this that the world shut up, give me another
bump of love. So we'd like to facilitate that again. Daily,
You're you're up for it.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
Yeah, oh absolutely, Okay, okay, that's really sweet.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
All right, congratulations you. I love you both.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
It was not reciprocated brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
It's the classic story. Guy meets girl, guy likes girl.
Guy leaves a voicemail for girls saying I love you.
Girl ruins it by saying it back to him. Then
desperate married radio host gets disappointed because she doesn't have
enough love in her home life. Oh, as old as
(16:31):
time money Jack, but mostly for yourself. Oh.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I think they were so cute, and I totally get
why it would be overwhelming.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
All of it was way overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is
going to be.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I guarantee you they're going to handshake.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Yeah, it's so good. This is why I respect Alexis
because she would never say I love you back, not
even to her husband of twenty years.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Keep weigh in.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
That's the way you win the dating.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Maybe I'll text to l U vow you like him
real emotionally unavailable.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That's right during the vows. It's like my heart handy.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
That's really healthy.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Jeff close to the chess ladies.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
We better get an update from.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Them, so we'll find out if they email us back.
But you can always email the show if you want
some help with your love life, and we'll call that
person who's not calling you back. Go check out all
of our Second Date podcast wherever you get yours Abrook
and Jeffrey
Speaker 3 (17:34):
Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning
Second date update. If you're a guy, you go out
on a good date with a lady and then at
the end of the night you're too nervous or just
forget to ask her about a second one. What's your
next course of action?
Speaker 2 (00:15):
There?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You send her a simp text like, Hey, I like you?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Why is that.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
We should talk again? Sometimes you text that's super simp,
it's not. Do you call her a year ago and beautiful?
Do you call her fifteen times at her work and
demand she pick up the phone because you two have
unfinished business. Now we're talking, and this is the business
you have to answer.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Is that the real man in you talking right now?
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I mean I personally I would say both those options
are cringe. Oh thank god, but maybe not as cringe
as what our listener Daily did.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Oh you're just already beating and it.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Could be contributing to why this girl has been avoiding
him lately. So Daily, before we get to what you did,
you need to set the scene for us. Tell us
how you met this woman and what her name is.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
Well, her name's Crewdett.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
That's cool.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
We met on a bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
What did you just say, bicycle factory tour.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
It's a thing, and I sign up.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
There's one in my city that there's like a big
bicycle factory, but it's like right next to a brewery,
so you can like go have some drinks, go look
at bikes drunk, and then basically go back and have drinks.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So you get to go do stuff but observe how
all the stuff you're doing was made.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Yeah, that's so fun. And beers and bikes just go together.
A lot of bike and beer bars.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Shouldn't be because you shouldn't. Those probably aren't hobbies that
go together very well. But it's fun.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Helmet on.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
There you go. You were already taking a tour there
and met her.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Yeah, my friends and I kind of hit the brewery
and then we were doing the tour, and then in
the group of the tour, Crudette was with her mom,
so we all kind of just like started joking around
with each other, like joking with her mom, joking with her.
We were like became like a group of friends. Basically,
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I bet her mom is eating this up. Oh yeah,
did if a guy ever hit on me with my
mom present? My mom's like, Oh, my mom's vacation is
with a group of young guys around. She immediately texted
me she.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Would swoop in on the guys.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
She doesn't give me details.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So at any point are you able to just be
alone with just Crudette?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
It gets to that. So like at the end of
the tour, I didn't want to like stop hanging out,
so I was like, hey, let's go back over to
the brewery, you know what I mean. And we were
all there for probably like a half hour, and then
her mom had like an appointment or something, and I
didn't want to just like ask her in front of
her mom and my friends. So like as they were leaving,
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it kind of like down to me, like I have
to do something right now.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, you never see her pop the tires on, mom
can't leave?
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Well, I didn't do that.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
What was your genius idea?
Speaker 4 (03:11):
So I actually just ran out to the parking lot
and I basically asked her mom if her daughter could stay,
because I really liked.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I can't ask you for a playdate.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Because it's still bold, yes, that of the parents respectful
an old school. What did mom say?
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Her mom was cool with it. She was cool with it,
so she came back inside. We were hanging out and
my friends kind of got the vibe that me and
her were really hitting it off, so like one by
one they started to leave to as we continued to
hang out.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
They had to figure it out, like, come on, here's
my wingman.
Speaker 3 (03:50):
You you got to stay for a little in case
it goes bad. This is actually really adorable.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
So this is super cute. What happened next?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Or was so like it was just us for the
rest of the time. We had a kiss at the
end of the night.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Wow. We started this by saying that there was a
big embarrassing moment. None of this sounds embarrassing to the Oh, I'm.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Getting to that because I got her number, so I
called her. She didn't answer, and I I should have
never left a voicemail because I just started rambling, oh God,
basically that I think I love you in the voice.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
How did that come out of your mouth?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
It just slipped.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I don't know you were you drunk from the brewery?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
No, this is like the next day.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh God, I love drunk from the brewery.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
You use it like a man. I love you, you
know that.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Sometimes I could just be.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
More like like, no, I said it like I had
such a great time. We just have so much in common.
I think I love you, and then wow.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I didn't even go on the date, and that's like she.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Liked you and had a great time. That's intimidating for
anyone to hear.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
I would have called back immediately and left another voice
because I'm terrible at this stuff, and been like, I
didn't mean that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Alexis if a guy does this to you, says I
love you, is it over?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
You can't even call after a first date. That's weird
in the first time the same day, that is so strange.
Next day so she knows all this. I feel sad
for him.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
She hasn't responded at all since that voicemail.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
No, and I'm and I wanted to call again, but
like I thought, like I would just make it worse.
So I've just been like waiting and it just the
longer that goes on when she hasn't call me back,
the worst I feel about it.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Here's a question, when we get her on the phone,
do we even bring it up? Do you know what
I mean? Is it better to just ignore it and
pretend like it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
You know what, some people never check their voicemails.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You always read I always read the transcript, I don't listen,
but maybe the transcript didn't say love I don't get.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
The transcript every time, so she could have just literally
never listened to. Let Yeah, we're all hoping for that
that maybe she never even knew this ever happened. We're
gonna find out when we call Crew Debt for you
and try and get you your second date update coming
up right after this second date update. Welcome back to
(06:20):
your second date updates Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,
and we've been discussing off the air and on the
air previously. Should we bring up the voicemail that our
listener Daily left for Crew Debt after their first meet
up because he dropped in I love you in the
middle of the message, or did he I don't know, Daily,
(06:41):
did you mean to I.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Don't think so. I don't know, it just kind of
slipped out. Maybe I subconsciously meant it. I'm not sure.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
That's even sweeter response.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
But feel for him. If she feels the same way,
it's creepy.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I know nobody feels the same way.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So we're trying to figure out what the reason is
and decided our best game plan is probably don't mention
it unless I.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Mean she'll bring it up. If it's yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Let's say that she does bring it up. Let's not
make excuses for him.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
What do we do.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Let's just lean in and tell her daily only said
that because you got drunk at the brewery and said
it to him first. It's happen.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
That's exactly what that is.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
That's gaslighting her doing. It's not super popular with women.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I don't fan, but if at the end of the
day you fall in love, then it's worth it.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Just a whole lifetime of gaslighting.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I mean, there's better than nothing.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
I guess that's the response.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Let's just hope it doesn't come up at all and
it's something totally unrelated to the voicemail. Maybe she hasn't
even heard it.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
She's not that drunk at the brewery.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Well, let's find out. I'm gonna dial her number right now.
We'll see if she picks up. Here we go, Hey
is this crudette?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Hey, we're a morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Hi. You know your name means tiny Italian sushi?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Does it? I just say I crudeo it was.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Bugging me so on the break, I was like, her
name isn't crude crudette, So a crude crudette would be
a small piece of Italian.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Okay, that's cool. We're not just calling to tell you
what your name means, though we have, We do have
another purpose. I got into it because one of our
listeners reached out saying he's been trying to get a
hold of you and has not been able to arrange
a second meetup after you two hung out at a
(09:03):
brewery together.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
Yeah, it sounded like such a fun night.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Yeah, his name is Daily.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Oh wow, okay, wow.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Sorry, that's what this is about. What's called the second
date update?
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Oh my god, has your mom been bugging you to
call him? My mom would be so invested.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Yes, we just we want to know less about your
mom and more about you and how you fell. We'll
get to your mom and her feelings later. We want
to know what you thought about your hangout with Daily.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
I mean the hang out it was cool and you know,
like we had we had a good time.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yes, those feelings.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Yeah, what did you think when he came to the
car and like, you're in the car with your mom
and he like chased.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
You guys down to get you to stay.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
I mean I was a little a little intense, but honestly,
like six feet but it did get a crazy.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
The night did No, the night was fine. But did
he tell you guys about the voicemail you left me?
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Not voicemail?
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (10:12):
What's that?
Speaker 3 (10:13):
What about the voicemail? Is maybe a good question?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Sorry, I don't know what is voicemail? Explain this to me.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
It's the thing where you call somebody and they don't
answer and they leave them a message.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Why would anybody do that?
Speaker 5 (10:28):
Yeah, you really tell him something?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Huh?
Speaker 5 (10:32):
And like, honestly, I was not expecting it at all.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
You were expecting him to call you or you weren't
expecting to hear what he said?
Speaker 5 (10:40):
No, no, no, I figured he'd call me like we had
a good time, Like, why would he call me? He
actually told me he loved me?
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Are you sure? Maybe you misheard that. Maybe he said
something else, I love you? Yes, yeah, because there's gloves
at the bike factory. I love food.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Maybe that was it?
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, I love food?
Speaker 4 (11:02):
You know?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Is that possible?
Speaker 5 (11:04):
I'm pretty sure he said I love you?
Speaker 1 (11:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:07):
Okay, how did you receive.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
That, So it was super intense, but not for the
reason you think, Like, I don't know even know how
to describe this. But the crazy thing is is that
I I kind of feel the same way.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
What how did I not expect that you reciprocate those feelings?
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Shut up?
Speaker 5 (11:31):
Yeah, I mean I know it's crazy and like what
you call him?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Then?
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Look, the guy called me yesterday.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yes, that happened yesterday.
Speaker 5 (11:42):
Yeah, and I've been trying to figure out how to
say it back.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
I mean, this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Oh god, you known percent.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
Of the time I would be totally creeped out, you know, like,
you don't just tell us many love them after one hangout.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
This is so cute. Okay, we're forgetting that it hasn't
been that long. Already up on the same page. Oh
my god, your mom is going to take credit for
all of this.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
I honestly haven't told her any of this.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
Are the first people that you're telling this to.
Speaker 5 (12:12):
I mean, I you know, I do have a best
friend that I tell everything to.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
But you, well, I know, you think that you've only
told a couple people that, but you've actually told a
third person and it's daily because he is on the
other line right now listening to this conversation, Oh.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
My god, are you serious?
Speaker 4 (12:33):
Daily? Bye?
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Hie?
Speaker 4 (12:40):
So are you saying you feel strongly about me? Also?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
She didn't it feels strongly?
Speaker 5 (12:53):
Yeah, I I I I know this is insane. I
know it is, but I I you know you sometimes
you just get a feeling and honestly, like I I
think I love you too so fast? I guess that
is a lot.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Huh what? Yeah, Daily? How does it feel to hear
her say that to you? I don't know.
Speaker 4 (13:17):
It just it kind of feels off. It feels just
different from when I said it.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Is it?
Speaker 4 (13:24):
Like?
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Is it kind of freaky to you? It's too much?
Speaker 5 (13:28):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 4 (13:30):
I don't know. It just it just felt better when
I said it, But then hearing it, it just it
hit my ear just differently than I thought it would.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Maybe it's because she said it fast, saying that she
wants to get married to you.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
She's just trying to say what you said.
Speaker 4 (13:49):
Yeah, I know, I know, I know. It's just a
lot for me to take in right now, honestly.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Okay, started it? Is it? Maybe because it was said
on the radio? Is that why? Like? Maybe the setting
wasn't perfect for it, for this a little forced Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I didn't want to use that word. But yeah, I
guess on the radio is kind of like different because
again I just built this moment up to something. Yeah,
I think bigger than it ever could have been.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
No matter what she said, I mean, no matter what,
you guys have an amazing connection.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
I think that's what you should concentrate on.
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Like the L word is a lot like and maybe
you just need to say it again one more time
because now the shock has worn off. Now it'll really
soak in and he'll feel it good.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
I think I'm good on the L word for now.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Are do I feel good? This time?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
It was a smart call. Yeah, alets was gonna have
to leave the room. It said too many times usually
has an allergic reaction.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
All right, Well, maybe you guys save it for when
you see each other in person again. And we'd love
to arrange that meeting and we'll pay for it.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
I mean, I am, and you are.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
Well, I'm not going out with you.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
It's gonna be daily. You have to go out again.
You guys are so cute.
Speaker 4 (15:07):
I'd be cool with it. I don't know, it just
might be weird now that we set all this on
the radio, but like we could totally hang out again.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
Sure, it doesn't feel as as heartwarming anymore from Daily's part.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
Nor that part. I need some love in my life
right now.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Okay, I guess I can understand, like you kind of
romanticize it in your head, build up what the moment
is gonna be like, and then it's just a total letdown.
And that's kind of what true love is. What Brook
you're living it right now, the total letdown, that's true love.
That's why you're so desperate for it. Literally said, I
(15:42):
need this that the world shut up, give me another
bump of love. So we'd like to facilitate that again. Daily,
You're you're up for it.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
Yeah, oh absolutely, Okay, okay, that's really sweet.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
All right, congratulations you. I love you both.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 3 (16:05):
It was not reciprocated brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
It's the classic story. Guy meets girl, guy likes girl.
Guy leaves a voicemail for girls saying I love you.
Girl ruins it by saying it back to him. Then
desperate married radio host gets disappointed because she doesn't have
enough love in her home life. Oh, as old as
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time money Jack, but mostly for yourself. Oh.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I think they were so cute, and I totally get
why it would be overwhelming.
Speaker 3 (16:38):
All of it was way overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
They're even overwhelmed the feelings are happening.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Totally imagine how awkward that next meetup in person is
going to be.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I guarantee you they're going to handshake.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Yeah, it's so good. This is why I respect Alexis
because she would never say I love you back, not
even to her husband of twenty years.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Keep weigh in.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
That's the way you win the dating.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Maybe I'll text to l U vow you like him
real emotionally unavailable.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That's right during the vows. It's like my heart handy.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
That's really healthy.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Jeff close to the chess ladies.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
We better get an update from.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Them, so we'll find out if they email us back.
But you can always email the show if you want
some help with your love life, and we'll call that
person who's not calling you back. Go check out all
of our Second Date podcast wherever you get yours Abrook
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