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May 24, 2025 15 mins

One of our listeners is FURIOUS after her date left her in the most embarrassing situation of her life… and now she wants not just answers, but REVENGE.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
We got an email from a listener and I'll just
read the subject line. It says, there's a scamming coward
on the dating apps and you need to help me
expose him.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
And his name is Scotty don't. I'm just kidding. It's
an inside joke on the show right now.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
So we're gonna put that aside with the bottle of
peach snaps and everything else that's waiting up in his
hotel room. Let's focus on our caller here, because she
did seem pretty heated in her email. Just on a
subject line alone, you could tell. Let's talk to Lindsey. Lindsey,
welcome to the show.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Hih already coming in hot just with that high. I
love it, Lindsay, Yeah, what's going on?

Speaker 1 (00:52):
I did?

Speaker 4 (00:53):
And I want to call him. I want to call
him right, Let's.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
Take a deep breath.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
We'll get into him. Can we know what's this guy's name?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
His name is Alex and honestly, don't even call him
a guy. He's a boy. Wow, Like yeah, cowardly little Oh.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Oh, what happened?

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Well, okay, Lindsay, we're on the radio.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, we got to watch the language just a little bit.
But I appreciate the passion that you have.

Speaker 4 (01:19):
What happened, Well, we got dinner and it was going great.
I felt like we were really connecting, having a good time.
He seems more into me than I was into him.
And towards the end of the meal he gets up
to go to the bathroom and never comes back.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Oh no, we have taught to people that have done
this or had it done to them.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, that's really extreme.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
I've heard of this happening, Aline. I never thought this
would happen to me, and it was humiliating. I felt
like an idiot.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Oh God, how long did you sit there? Did you
get the waiter to like go check on him or what? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Okay, So after like fifteen twenty minutes, I was like,
maybe we can check the room. Is he okay? I
actually got worried about him and he wasn't even there.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
He was gone, yeah, okay, okay.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
I hate to ask, but usually people who do this
aren't enjoying the date. Do you think maybe you've done before.

Speaker 1 (02:16):
You did something wrong?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Usually did it have a really good reason?

Speaker 1 (02:20):
I come, he isn't like you so much?

Speaker 4 (02:22):
He left right as I said, he seemed more into
me than I was into him. He was so slurty
and funny, and like, who does this? What kind of
garbage piece of craft hymn? And leave their dates at
the end the date all by yourself.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
Yeah, I mean it's going.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
Don't call her.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
You have a lot of reason to be upset. But
I don't know that he is going to hear you
if we're coming in at that level, you know what
I mean, Like, what do you want out of this?
You want to call him out?

Speaker 4 (02:46):
And then what I want to know what made him
do that?

Speaker 2 (02:49):
So you want to know what's good that we're going
to talk and not you because it sounds like you're
just gonna yell. This is definitely different because most of
the people that reach out to us want another date
with the person that we're about to call. Lindsey, you
have no interest whatsoever.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
No, I want you to call him and then I'm
going to come on the phone and lean him out.

Speaker 3 (03:08):
Okay, Okay, I'm here for that. I don't know, like
what if he has a good reason.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
But there isn't there There is no good reason a
man should ever do that to a woman.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
We have heard where people have had like bathroom emergencies,
where they can't go back to the table.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
He could have texted her and said something to her like,
exactly have you reached out to him since then since
that happened.

Speaker 4 (03:32):
Yes, I've texted him a lot. He had plenty of
opportunities to write me back and let me know if
something went wrong in the bathroom, which he didn't.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Well, I'm assuming you called him a bunch of like
mean names in the text message.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
I mean I started off nice and then he didn't answer,
So he doesn't deserve anything nice. He doesn't get that.
He does not get that.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
What's interesting. I mean, as soon as we tell this
guy who we're calling for, he's going to hang up
on us. Why because he knows, he knows how mad
she is. She's already been texting us.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, he won't know that she's on the line until
we surprise her with that.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
I mean, maybe he wants to out her. Maybe this
is his chance, right if it's something he thinks she did,
not that I support.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
That women don't do things wrong in the dating world.
So the only he's.

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Done this, I bet he's done this to like a
hundred women, So he can't get away with it, and
he has to defend himself or say something.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Oh you think he does this like all the time
he gets.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
I bet he does. Okay, because he was acting so
smooth and funny, flurry, I can read these guys.

Speaker 5 (04:35):
Like a book.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Okay, So the only reason that you reached out to
us here is just because the idea of not knowing
why he left that night is probably just killing you
right now.

Speaker 4 (04:48):
And if he's going to humiliate me, I'm going to
humiliate him on the radio.

Speaker 1 (04:51):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
We're not just doing this for Lindsay today. We're doing
this for women everywhere who have gotten stood up and
walked out of in the middle of Let's get him.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
Come on, I don't even know if he's a scammer.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
We are gonna do Claw's merciless when we come back
and do the most brutal second Date, Part two we've
ever done.

Speaker 3 (05:13):
If you're a guy, I would not answer your phone
in the next five minute.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Well, please answer so that we can have something to air.
But we're gonna do it right after this second date update.

Speaker 2 (05:24):
This is a little tense because there's a woman listener
of ours on the phone right now who is out
for blood.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
Yes she is.

Speaker 6 (05:32):
Claws are out because in her mind, and I do
kind of agree with her here, there's no reason for
a guy to get up and leave a table at
the end of the date, sneak out of the restaurant
and stick her with the entire bill.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
And that's a day he ate his dinner. It's not
like he left in the middle and like some emergency.
But that's what that's a good point.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's what happened to Lindsay, or I mean, at least
I think she got stuck with the bill, been with
the bill, Lindsay, did.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
You pay it?

Speaker 4 (06:03):
So that's another thing. He left me to cover the bill.
The waiter saw me sitting there for a half hour
and sawhow up said he was, and he generously covered
my bill, which was so nice.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
Told the manager to take it off.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
The bill paid for you didn't have to pay.

Speaker 4 (06:20):
Yeah, I didn't have to pay. But the humiliation of
being left alone there was the worst part of it.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
Okay, Alexis is humiliated just sitting alone at her desk.
Sometimes even if it up, I can't shameful.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
But Brooke, I think we need a game plan so
we all don't jump on alex and like get angry.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Right off the back.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I mean, I think, first of all, we shouldn't accuse
him of anything. We don't know from his side what happened.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
You liar, you would say that there.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Could be a reason, even if his reason sucks. You
want to hear it. That's the whole point of you
calling in, right, you want to hear it.

Speaker 1 (06:56):
He better be in the hospital when we call him.
I won't forgive it.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
The only way we're going to hear it is if
we come in not accusatory.

Speaker 4 (07:05):
Okay, okay, but like we're all on my side.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yes, well the girls do not see I mean right now. Yeah,
I haven't heard the other side of the story yet.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
I don't care what the other side of the story
is personally, But you know what, I'm gonna dial Alex
and we're going to be on our best behavior.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
Hopefully he picks up.

Speaker 4 (07:22):
Here we go, lets see what he says.

Speaker 3 (07:23):
Okay, okay, make sure.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
I kind of like it. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
we're looking to speak with Alex.

Speaker 5 (07:38):
Let's see, Hey Alex, hope.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
You're having a good day.

Speaker 5 (07:44):
Hello.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
Hello, Sorry Alex.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
I'm just laughing at Jeffrey right now.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Hyas, Jeffrey, that's me. I'm I'm a radio host on
the show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
Hey, Alex, wait, what the.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
Whole show's here?

Speaker 1 (07:57):
Man, Yeah, you're on the radio right now.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
We're just hoping to have a nice, calm, pleasant conversation
with you today about what a date you went on
recently with one of our listeners. Her name is Lindsay.
Please don't hang up.

Speaker 5 (08:11):
Oh my god, Okay.

Speaker 3 (08:16):
Yeah you remember Lindsay.

Speaker 5 (08:17):
Huh oh, yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
So we heard from her that you two went out
to dinner recently, which she.

Speaker 3 (08:26):
Thought was going great. She really was enjoying her time
with you.

Speaker 2 (08:29):
And then there was the bad part of dinner, which
happened when you went missing from the restaurant.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Like yep, yeah, you're just gonna own that. You're not
gonna apologize immediately.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
So you admit that, you admit that happened, you walked out.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
I take full credit for that.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
What credit?

Speaker 3 (08:47):
That's like a pride thing when you take credit or something.

Speaker 5 (08:51):
What do you mean, because she probably didn't share with you,
But I saw her and her little friend before the date.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
What little friend?

Speaker 4 (09:00):
What's a little friend?

Speaker 5 (09:03):
I don't know her little friend's name, her little girlfriend.
They were about a block away from the restaurant. Her
and her friend were involved in something else, so they
didn't notice me.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
What do you see them do? That's so terrible.

Speaker 5 (09:15):
Her friend is like, seems like she's coaching her for something.
So Lindsey says to her friend, oh, my uber app
is not working, can you pay for me? And she
like backs her eyes and and her friend said no,

(09:37):
just say it a little more. Believably, she's coaching her exactly,
exactly so.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
She wouldn't have to pay for an uber home.

Speaker 5 (09:48):
She was like, my uber app's not working, could you
pay for me? It was like sociopathic the way she
did it, so.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
You the way I did it.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Okay, we have to let Alex know that that is
Lindsay on the line.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
What I'm hearing. What I'm hearing Alex is that you're
so so Guys aren't supposed to help a girl get
home safely well.

Speaker 2 (10:20):
After the thing is, Lindsay, you jumped in too soon,
so we couldn't get to what Alex was thinking.

Speaker 1 (10:26):
What was going through your mind? Alex?

Speaker 5 (10:28):
I was thinking, and I feel like I have proof
because I witnessed your friend coaching you in getting me
to like pay for your uber and you playing this
like damsel in distress act just to get free stuff
out of me.

Speaker 3 (10:41):
Do you know what he's talking about, Lindsay, I was.

Speaker 4 (10:45):
I was expecting to be able to get help getting home.
I just said that, and there's nothing wrong with that.
And so you were answer to that was to get
up and just leave dinner at the end and leave
me the bill, like I don't know, like an immature
loser will the help?

Speaker 3 (10:59):
I mean, I want to know, like if you heard
it before the date even started, why did you do
the date?

Speaker 5 (11:07):
Because here's the thing. As soon as I heard her
planning to do that, I already knew she was going
to manipulate me.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
So I was like, I'm going to be manipulate you.
Oh my god, succer. Did a guy helps a girl
get home? You know usually people do that.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
But you were practicing over and over again. You two
wee laughing about it.

Speaker 4 (11:27):
You asked for help, and we think like I was like,
so what do you not laugh with your friends? Like Jesus?
And you see me this evil plan and response to
leave me and like an idiot in the middle of
the restaurant all alone, like.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
One I ordered the most expensive thing on the men.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
Okay, so that's just confirms you are you are just
a little Oh well, if.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
Anything, you guys are both a little bit of manipulators.

Speaker 5 (11:58):
No no, no, no, no, no no, I only scam the scammer.
I was ready to have a genuine date with her.

Speaker 4 (12:04):
Shut up. I get hold after a few drinks safely,
and you decided up on a planet just I don't
know make you just want to make someone feel small.
You want to make women feel small.

Speaker 5 (12:18):
You are not women, You are one person.

Speaker 4 (12:23):
Oh great, so now I'm not a woman who deserves
to be not left an abandoned at a restaurant.

Speaker 3 (12:30):
Why can't you afford your own uber?

Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (12:32):
Fine, you guys are not getting it. She was practicing
that her uber wasn't working. She can totally afford it.
She just wants to take the fool out of somebody.

Speaker 4 (12:42):
Okay, so chivalry is dead, thank you.

Speaker 2 (12:46):
Val is a little bit sus that you're practicing the
line to say to like be like, can you pay
for my broken app own?

Speaker 3 (12:54):
No, it's more than suss. It's like you got caught, girl,
You got caught scamming him for an uber. I was
not scamming you're not scamming, you're lying. You're lying to
get what you need.

Speaker 2 (13:06):
I am just a shamed that Brooke was on Lindsay's
side this entire time.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
This is what happens.

Speaker 4 (13:12):
Yeah, maybe Brook cannot be part of this anymore.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
Yeah, exactly, thank you for taking my side.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
I think it first sounds like a genuine individual who
could totally afford her own over right home.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Yeah, clearly, Brooke.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
There's always two sides to every story, and you're on
the wrong one every time.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
Yeah, I've never heard anyone in that room say that
before that there's two sides. I didn't hear that at all,
so weird.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Look, I mean, at this point, we're running out of time,
so I just have to ask, we would I know.

Speaker 3 (13:43):
There could be a lot of hot passion there, because.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
We always offer to send you guys out on another date,
a date that we would pay for if you're both
willing to agree to it.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
Just don't know.

Speaker 4 (13:52):
I can find a man who doesn't mind getting me
home after a few drinks.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
I don't mind getting you home after a few drinks.
That's why I'm offering to pay.

Speaker 5 (14:00):
I mean, Lindsay, I'm actually kind of down at this point.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
Don't Lindy, He's luring you in for another track.

Speaker 5 (14:09):
What's one? What could I possibly weave this time?

Speaker 1 (14:13):
Dude?

Speaker 3 (14:13):
And in the end, Alex, I don't know if you
know this, but she never even paid for the dinner. Yeah, yeah,
waiter content.

Speaker 4 (14:27):
You know what?

Speaker 5 (14:28):
You know what? That makes me even happier that this
is all happening on the radio.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
What's happening on the radio?

Speaker 5 (14:33):
That she is getting completely exposed for being the liar
manipulator that she is.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
Oh my god, this is funny now, Alex, Oh my god, Sun.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
It around.

Speaker 5 (14:48):
Takes one to know one, babe.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
I think we've gotten pretty far in understanding what happens.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
We finally reached common ground.

Speaker 3 (14:57):
Thank god, you are such a champion of women generally.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
I fixed all the problems in you.

Speaker 5 (15:03):
I knew you would broken Jeffrey in the morning,
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