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August 8, 2025 17 mins

One of our listeners is worried he gave off a bad vibe and waiting three days before sending his first post-date text… He swears he has a good reason…

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date, up date. You know, we've talked about bringing
a gift to a first date before, and that could
include flowers, maybe a stuffed animal or a real animal.
This baby bear was over by the garbage cans near
my house. It's yours now.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
That's so nice. Welcome God, bring me a raccoon next week, please.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
But what about buying them a gift during your date?
Is that still a strong move?

Speaker 2 (00:34):
I like it better.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
That's what our listener, Isaac did, so, Isaac, clearly you're
one of those generous daters. Congratulations, welcome to the show.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Hey, thank you, guys. But let's not get too caught up,
all right, it wasn't anything that crazy.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Well, we're impressed because Jeff only gives away free wildlife
he finds in his backyard.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Awesome, I've got a whole like cage. You have animals
ready for you, and maybe after this is done, you
could take something home. But let's get to what happened
with this girl you met? What's her name?

Speaker 4 (01:07):
Her name is Elisa, Alisa.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Where'd you meet her?

Speaker 5 (01:11):
So?

Speaker 3 (01:11):
We met on one of the dating apps and we
ended up connecting over stand up comedy?

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Are you a stand up comedian or you just like
to watch.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
I like to watch. I really want to one day.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
Oh you should, you should. That's a good thing to
bond over. Stand up comedy. What did you decide to
do for your date?

Speaker 3 (01:32):
So, like, we talked a bunch and we didn't end
up going to a comedy show.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
You did not? Oh no, we didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
But I did end up sending her some clips because
she wasn't too familiar with Jim Gaffik, one of my favorites.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
So good, we've actually interviewed him.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
He's so nice too, somebody I was just talking about
how I don't love his comedy.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Oh my god, Pockets.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
He talks about being a dubt a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:56):
We don't support that on this show. No fatherhood talk.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
I mean I feel like those are safe though. I
mean I haven't heard anything, you know, offensive. He's a
pretty family friendly, yeah, because that's always a risk too,
Like if you send a joke that maybe you find funny,
that is Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
That's why I felt like, Oh, he's the perfect person
this sen Like I said, I love the guy, and
who doesn't I mean well Brook?

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Now we know, sorry hate him. He's just not my favorite.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
So how did you parlay talking about Jim Gaffigan into
a first date.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
So I think the laughter kind of made it just
was fun. And so I asked her if we could
go out on a date, and we it was simple.

Speaker 4 (02:35):
We went to a chili.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
A chili Oh nice, Okay.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
So once we got to the chili, that's where I
showed her some of the clips, especially my favorite one.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
But wow, even more, Yeah, you'd sent her some and
now we're watching him together.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
Look, it might have been overkilled, but I just love
the dude.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
I mean, I will say watching stand up together is
always funnier than when you watch it by yourself.

Speaker 6 (03:00):
Okay, but if you got a chance to talk about
yourself on the date already first, not just straight into
the cliffs, that's a whole day.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
That's a good point.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Is important there lysis, Yes, and that was the big
thing we watched like a little bit together. But then
I kind of segued that into learning things about each other.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
That's great. So is all that's happening in the parking
lot outside of the chili's or are we sitting down
for dinner yet? No, we're sitting down and we're so
At the start of this, we were talking about how
you bought her a gift during the day. Where does
that come into play?

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Oh yeah, oh okay.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
So we had a great dinner and we've still felt
like hanging out. So there was a mall that was
pretty close. So we go to one of these stores
that just sells a bunch of like cute little.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Nick knapsack store. Oh my god, and they're always like
overloaded with stuff, you know, way too much stuff for
you to take in.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
So many knacks.

Speaker 3 (03:51):
And now the good thing is, though, I got to
see how she reacted when she saw this pair of stops.
They were like little bumblebee socks, but she loved.

Speaker 6 (04:02):
You're literally picturing the same brand of funny socks. I
see every one of those nicky stories. It's the same company, right.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
They're not very comfortable, but sometimes they have cuss words.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, you always Yes, the girls seem to think socks
are a good first date gift idea.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
When I saw how excited she got about him, I said,
I'm going to grab those and she was like, oh
my god, you don't have to do that. I said, hey,
if you love them, I want you to be happy.
I want you to enjoy the fox. You really like them.

Speaker 1 (04:26):
What a nice guy. Now put these on for me,
nice and slow. Let me watch you wear them.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Okay, don't do that because that gives real like feet guys.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
One.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
Yeah, I'm just checking. That did not happen.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
No, that would happened.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
A strong move. Okay, good work. So she liked the socks.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
She did, she liked him. And this is the thing too.
When we were at the Chilis, she took a selfie
with me, and I'm thinking, okay, well, if I was
a girl when I'm out on my first date with
a guy, I'm not taking a selfie with him if
I don't want to see him again.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Oh yeah, you only want the picture if you think
there's potential.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Or we're in the group chat and she's like, guys,
stay away from this one. Yeah. It's just like I
need to make sure I have evidence on my phone
this man, just in case. But I'm sure it's not that.
I'm sure she, like you said, was just enjoying herself,
wanted to have a memory of the night with you.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Well we did kiss at the end of the night.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Okay, how is it that you're not getting a call
back because all of this sounds really good.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
That's the thing too. Like she did say she was
getting ready to go on a girl's trip, so I
was all right, cool. I didn't want to bother her
while she was there. She said, I was only going
to be like a couple of days. It's like a
long weekend. But now it's been like a week and
I'm still not hearing from her. I'd sent her like
one text when she should have been back from the trip,
but left it. Maybe she thought she I just not

(05:51):
thought about it. She might maybe thought I wasn't that
interested because I didn't text her while she was.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
On the trip. As long as your text was let
me see those hoot season those bumblebee socks, girl, then
you're probably gonna be okay. So we'll find out. We'll
call Alisa for you and try and get you your
second date update when we come back right after this
hold on second date update. If you miss part one
of the second date update, let's just hit the highlights

(06:18):
here real quick. Our listener Isaac bonded with his date
Alisa over stand up comedy, specifically the comedian Jim Gaffigan,
which that's great. He's got a big head loft that
took his date to Chili's for dinner. Awesome egg rolls there,
thumbs up. I didn't even know they had, just check

(06:40):
the menu. It's okay. You don't have to believe me.
Bought her some bumblebee socks at the mall that she liked.
Bees are dope. We approve, even got a kiss at
the car.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
Oh it sounds sweet.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Sure did so. The weird part is he hasn't really
heard from her since then, So why on earth would
a Lisa be avoiding him after all that good news?
We may never know the answer.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
No, that's the whole point of this, Jeff. We're gonna
find out right.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
Now, right unless she answers the phone. Yeah, so we'll know.
That's step one.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
Did the egg rolls go to your head?

Speaker 3 (07:10):
Jeff?

Speaker 1 (07:11):
Isaac? Can you confirm that the egg rolls do exist
to Chili's? Honestly, I can.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
They are pretty good.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah, let's give some love to Chili's egg rolls right now.
One of the best egg girls in the city were
at Chili.

Speaker 7 (07:24):
Yeah, Chili, step on that.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
When did you This is about Isaac, you guys, not
about Jeff's dietary.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
Okay, well, we'll make that the second point of conversation
after we hopefully get a Lisa on the phone here.
I'm going to dial her number right now. Let's see
how this goes here we go, Hello, Hi, is this
a Lisa?

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Hi, there's a whole room of people here. I forgot
We are excited to talk to you because you're on
the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Uh okay, all right, and you don't buye.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
No, just kidding. Yeah, we're we're doing a segment from
our show. It's called a second Date Update, Okay, okay,
and that's where we help out listeners who've gone out
with somebody and they're not hearing back after their date.
We try to help that person figure out the reason why.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Okay, I I gotcha.

Speaker 5 (08:49):
I just don't know why you'd be calling.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
Me, because there is a guy that went out with
you recently who really would love to see you again,
a guy named Isaac.

Speaker 8 (09:00):
Oh yeah, Isaac, right?

Speaker 1 (09:03):
How could you forget him?

Speaker 2 (09:04):
You just went out like a week and a half ago.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
I'm sorry, my life has just been crazy lately.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
Oh oh, is that why you're not getting back to him?
You've just been I mean, he did mention you had
like a girl's weekend.

Speaker 7 (09:19):
Yeah, we did go for a girl's weekend down to
Miami and right, yeah, it was a lot of fun.
And yeah, the craziest thing happened.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Wait on your trip?

Speaker 7 (09:32):
Yeah on our trip?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
What well, ending Brooks, Should we be asking her about
the date with Isaac or should we just hear about.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Her wild thing happened on a girl's weekend in Miami?

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Shouldaky get to Isaac? Spill the tea girl? What happened
in Miami? That was so crazy?

Speaker 5 (09:49):
So we met this guy at the pool and he
was like a billionaire or something, and he took us on.

Speaker 8 (09:57):
A thirty thousand dollars shopping free.

Speaker 5 (10:00):
Oh whoa, whoa, Wow.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
He took you and all your girls shopping and I'm
sure he's like, didn't want anything in return, don't.

Speaker 8 (10:09):
Trust No, he didn't, Like he took us to Gucci
and leave return on all these stores shoes purpose and
he just.

Speaker 7 (10:20):
Was, I guess, being really generous.

Speaker 8 (10:22):
I mean, he didn't ask us to do anything weird
or wow.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
But yeah, can we bring it back to Isaac because
the whole reason that we're calling is he thought he'd
be hearing back from you by this point after you
return from your trip, but he hasn't heard anything.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
Well, now that.

Speaker 5 (10:37):
I'm back, things just I don't know, it seemed different.

Speaker 8 (10:40):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (10:41):
I don't know really how to explain it.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
You mean, like you were interested in him until the
Miami trip and now you're not interested in Isaac.

Speaker 7 (10:50):
Well, I guess they didn't realize that there were just
so many generous people out there like that, when.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
You say generous you mean rich, right, Well.

Speaker 5 (11:01):
Yeah, he just made me see that there's a whole
other world out there.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
And oh but that world's a little superficial, like you're
going to be on yachts and in cars, but is
it going to be finding a lot? I mean those
all sound really good to me.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
Told me, wait, are you still talking to the billionaire
dude from Miami? Is that it? Oh?

Speaker 5 (11:24):
No, no, no, I'm not interested in him or anything.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (11:28):
The thing is, my girlfriends and I decided to go
back to Miami for the next few weekends.

Speaker 8 (11:33):
You know, it's just hang at the pool again.

Speaker 3 (11:35):
And is flying you out?

Speaker 4 (11:37):
No, he did not.

Speaker 8 (11:39):
Like offer to fly us out or anything. We're just going,
you know, because we want to go.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
You're hunting for more billionaires and more pools shopping.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
You're not going back for him, You're going back to.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
No, just scout.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
That can't happen that often, Like that has to be
like a once in a blue or you don't have
to do anything back.

Speaker 3 (11:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like you're going down to half
that you're not going to be thrilled with.

Speaker 8 (12:02):
I mean maybe, but you know, we're at the age
now where we just kind of want to have fun
and see what happens.

Speaker 4 (12:09):
And hang and yeah.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
I mean honestly, like, look, that's your life and you're
allowed to do whatever you want to do to have
fun with your girlfriends. That's all great. But we're just
like calling on behalf of Isaac because he has no
idea that this is happening. He feels like he's being
left totally ghosted with no communication.

Speaker 2 (12:26):
I say, who needs a thirty thousand dollars shopping spree
when you got a guy who got your bumblebee socks?

Speaker 1 (12:31):
Yeah, you know that's what I'm.

Speaker 5 (12:35):
No.

Speaker 7 (12:35):
I mean, they were really cute, it was a really
sweeping it was it was awesome, but I just I
don't want to hurt his feelings. And I mean, he
was a really nice guy out.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
Okay, well, instead of telling that to us, you should
probably just tell it directly to Isaac because he's on
the other line right now listening to this conversation. Oh god, Isaac,
are you there?

Speaker 3 (13:01):
Yeah, I mean, at least you like the fucks I
got what were.

Speaker 1 (13:07):
The socks like?

Speaker 3 (13:08):
Gosh, yeah, I mean they're definitely not yacht on Miami
level thought.

Speaker 2 (13:14):
I mean, yeah, you need to tell her, Isaac. Tell
her why you're a better catch, Like why you're better
than some billionaire, like buying people's affection in a pool somewhere.
That guy's lonely. If that guy had real friends, he'd
be buying his friend's stuff.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
You know, he bought some of his friends and he
was buying the thing too.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
So, yeah, we have a group of girls.

Speaker 6 (13:36):
You have to bring your friends, because that's how he
impress this number.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
He has friends I was going for he wasn't. He sucks, Isaac.

Speaker 4 (13:42):
You're better tell her, Yeah, I mean, look, hey, I man,
it was an awesome weekend, Alisa. Look, I really liked you.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
I had a lot of fun.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
But I mean, if you're not interested.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
Because you're focused on wealthier people, I'm not gonna be
able to compete with that. I think I really enjoy
spending time with you.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
He is so stinking cue dude, Lisa, you're gonna be
missing out. Think of how sweet that mall parking lot
kiss was.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
Usually Isaac, you're selling yourself short to her. Remember you
took her to dinner at Chili's.

Speaker 2 (14:26):
Maybe he didn't ors that time.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
Probably what it was, I should have got the egg roll.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
You need to go back, Lisa, you gotta go back
with him.

Speaker 4 (14:36):
I think that's a great idea.

Speaker 3 (14:37):
If you'll let me take you back to Chili this time,
we will get egg rolls.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
With that said, Alisa, we would like to offer to
send you on another date with Isaac that we would
pay for it. And just remember like not all great
things in life come with an expensive price tag. Sometimes
the best stuff is actually really affordable, and right in
front of you, just say, the best things in life
for free. What's the same, Well, he's just never heard. Yeah,
I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
So, but you don't care for moments with your family,
So what do you.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
Think of Lisa? Are you willing to give Isaac a
second chance?

Speaker 8 (15:13):
Come on, well, guys, I'm going to be gone the
next couple of weekends and I'm just going to be
really busy, so she can't really promise that.

Speaker 7 (15:20):
Right now.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
We're going to get a date. Oh my god, you're
gonna think about this three months from now and regret
this moment maybe, but.

Speaker 8 (15:30):
I will probably be in Miami.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
Yeah, you're going to be on that yacht with your
Gucci purse and you're proud of bag and you're just
going to be crying. Yeah, if you get the shower
with gifts, you have.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Gotten shoes or something anything other like your.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Twelve bags you have all right, Well, Isaac, man, I'm
sorry that I can't believe she said no to that.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
You're a real catch. I mean, if it's not Alisa,
you're gonna and somebody who's great for you.

Speaker 5 (16:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
Man, thanks guys, I appreciate it, Okay, and make sure
you call us back when you own a yacht and
it'll be a lot easier on our potato Jeffrey in
the morning. We've definitely had people on this show who've
lost out, Paste's boyfriends or hunky firefighters that showed up
on the scene. Rarely has somebody ever lost out to

(16:23):
an entire state before yeah, and I can officially say
now Isaac has lost his date to Florida, specifically Miami
and all the generous wealthy men who live over there.
But Florida you win.

Speaker 2 (16:36):
Here's the thing. I really predict that she is going
to go to pool after pool and not meet one
more billionaires.

Speaker 1 (16:43):
Oh I disagree. I walked out of my lobby lost
was on Miami and little nas Ex was standing there.
Maybe it won't happen. Maybe it will, or.

Speaker 2 (16:50):
Maybe Miami Tourism Board is going to contact us, as
this is their new campaign.

Speaker 1 (16:54):
It probably should be. The weird part is it sounded
like she really liked him, though he didn't do anything.
She had a great time on the date. She just
decided I'm into Florida more.

Speaker 6 (17:03):
Right now are the top single girls?

Speaker 2 (17:05):
Trip to Miami.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Didn't work out for our friend Isaac, but it could
work for you. If you want to email the show,
we'll call that person who's not calling you back. And
did you know these second date updates are up on YouTube?

Speaker 3 (17:16):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (17:17):
Yeah, Jeff, we knew putting them up there.

Speaker 2 (17:19):
Alexis and Jake are our digital producer, our digital producer.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
Does he have permission to do that?

Speaker 6 (17:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (17:28):
I actually think he has more permissions than you do.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
Go check him out. They're up on YouTube at Brook
and Jeffrey, and make sure you subscribe
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