Second Date Update: Lifetimes of Love

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date of date? Does it change your mentality if
you're going out on a date with someone and you
find out they went to Harvard versus like a community
college or something or school, I gotta tell a whole
different set of jokes on it.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
I imagine immediately trust fund kid? Is that that I
was smart? But I I see.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Where you're coming from. Like if I match with a
woman who is a Harvard grad, I know what I'm thinking?
What she can do my Texas? I got to bring
my Quicken to the restaurant so that she can take
care of that for me while she handles our bills.
Here's my one line nine form? Can you help? How
many jobs?

Speaker 3 (00:43):
You know?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
They still have communications majors there?

Speaker 4 (00:46):
Right?

Speaker 1 (00:47):
I don't believe it, but now, seriously, it is possible
to get a little intimidated before the date even happens.
And apparently that was the case for one of our listeners, Vincent.
But it had nothing to do with the school that
she attends. Vincent, what did you get intimidated by?

Speaker 4 (01:03):
Hi?

Speaker 5 (01:04):
Y'all? So, uh, I met this girl on an app
Blair and she texted me beforehand that she was gonna
be running late because she had a therapy session that
was going long.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay, oh that's actually a good thing.

Speaker 5 (01:18):
So well, so I replied, are you in therapy? And
she said no, she's the therapist.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Oh I am so with you.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Oh boy, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
I have friends that are therapists, and every time I
leave a conversation, I'm like they were judging me.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
I remember, I just know it.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
We're talking to a girl on tender ones and she's like, yeah,
I'm a therapist, but don't worry, I won't analyze you.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
And I'm like, yeah, right, you will. Is that how
you felt? Vincent?

Speaker 4 (01:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:46):
I mean you guys hit the nail on the head
I was. I was immediately nervous because she was going
to be, you know, smart and analytical. And I actually
changed the location. I texted her a different address to
like a nicer, more upscale boar.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
She knows she's not just breaking down you as a person.
She's breaking down all of the choices that you make too.
So probably good call.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
So did it make you more nervous?

Speaker 5 (02:14):
Oh for sure.

Speaker 4 (02:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
I mean I actually started to feel hyper aware, and
I think I just like fixated and everything I was saying,
and I just think I came off weird.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Okay, you were uncomfortable, so you still did go out
on the date.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
Then, uh, yeah, we met in person and she was
really beautiful and nice and like very warm.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Okay, And did you get an invoice for your session?

Speaker 4 (02:37):
Well?

Speaker 5 (02:37):
She actually made it joke, just like that. She said
I was listening a lot and she was talking and
maybe she should pay me.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
That's a big compliment.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
Were you like trying to be really listening and attentive
to her? Was that an accident an accident.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Or it could be just how he is as a person.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
I feel like it's out of fear that she'll notice
any red comes out of.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
His Sometimes I go and like wanting to be super confident,
and then I say nothing, and I'm like, oops, is
that the case?

Speaker 5 (03:06):
I did try to listen more than I spoke, but
then as soon as she called it out and I
opened up a little bit more. And then, if I'm
being honest, and then I started to like talk about
my own childhood. I had no idea how I got
into it.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
Oh no, I mean, okay, but childhood can be a
common topic on a first date.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Right where you grew up and or if you were
bothing like self deprecating, and I go was the vibe?

Speaker 5 (03:28):
Yeah, although I would say something that I think was
like self deprecating and she'd inquire more about it.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Oh he wanted to laugh there.

Speaker 4 (03:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
So anyway, I just sort of feel like maybe if
I had been less worried and just more relaxed, and.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
If you're so intimidated by or do you want to
go out with her again, like you think you can
get rid of those nerves.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
Or maybe maybe after one date the nerves are gone
and now you feel like you're comfortable.

Speaker 5 (03:55):
I honestly wish I could do a redo, because I
really think that if I just took myself out of
the equation, we would have a nice time.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Okay, if I wasn't there, it would So I don't
want to think this for you, But is it possible
that maybe you said too much about your childhood and
the things you were into and the animals you used
to cut up and sew back.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
Together as long as they were already dead.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, well, my uncle put a zipper on a squirrel
was serial killer?

Speaker 1 (04:27):
Not the right person her uncle would have got A second,
I'm saying, do you think you you delved too deep
into your own childhood with her.

Speaker 5 (04:35):
I don't think so. There's no squirrels with zippers in
my past.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Okay, well it could be a totally different reason. How
long has it been since you.

Speaker 5 (04:45):
Talked to her about a week ago?

Speaker 2 (04:49):
I mean, honestly, she's a career woman. Maybe she's just
too busy. She's not even no one's too.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Busy to text them when they like sorry.

Speaker 5 (04:59):
Yeah, it's sort of what I'm thinking too, because I've
asked her if she wants to go out again and
shook it back to me, but she won't actually answer
the going out part. Uh.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Oh, she's so good at mine tricks. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Well, I'm excited to go mano imano with her on
the phone and maybe get myself some free therapy. If
she's up for you, put about honor and break her
down live on the air. She's gonna cry.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
I wonder she takes our company's insurance.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
Okay, we're gonna ask her. I hope you're cool with that, Vincent.
We're gonna take care of ourselves first and then try
and get you a second date update right after this.

Speaker 5 (05:33):
Thanks, guys, whatever works, I'm up for it.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Man hold on second date update. If you're just joining us.
Our listener, Vincent thinks he may have psyched himself out
right before his first date started.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Definite sounds like it.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Because earlier that day he learned that Blair is a
professional therapist, and that made him feel anxious, a little hesitant,
worried that she might be super analytical of him. He
should have felt excited, though, Really, I think everybody agreed
that it was a little I've never had a therapy
session end with my pants still on, although.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Oh my god, that's not a good sign.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
I do pay extra for it. So anyway, there's a
word therapy somewhere in there is though his date ended
fully clothed, with a little bit of oversharing into his
childhood past, so she wishes that he could get a
redo on the whole thing.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
I think we've all been there where your mouth is
just spewing out words and your head is like.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
No, don't say that now, Vincent. If Blair does pick
up here, we're not going to mention that her job
like affected your mindset for the date. We don't want
her to know that.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Oh really, I don't think it'd be good to be honest.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
With a therapist used to everybody it seems like she'd
understands well, at least.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
We don't want to offer that up right off the bat.
I'll give you that. Let's see how she felt about
the date first. Are you cool with that? Vince?

Speaker 4 (07:01):
Yeah? Whatever the play is, okay, we're going to let.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
It play out.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
I mean, the thing is, are you ready to be cool?
Because eventually you will be on the phone with We
don't need any more childhood stories.

Speaker 5 (07:17):
I'll try my best.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
Okay, save an embarrassing one and toss it in there
for us.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
We're down for a little bit of juice. So we're
gonna dial Blair right now. We'll see if she picks up.
Good luck to us all. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
we're looking to speak with Blair.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
Yes, this is her.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Hey Blair, how you doing today?

Speaker 4 (07:44):
I'm doing well? How are you?

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Thanks? Morning?

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Hey Blair, Welcome to the show show.

Speaker 4 (07:51):
Who is this?

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Yeah? This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
Ah, okay, what can I help you with?

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Well, we have a lot of problems and we're hoping
that you could work through them with us. You's got
to pick one of us because it's going to be
a long time, but there is actually a really big
issue that we're looking to fix today right now on
the phone with one of our listeners, that you went
on a date with named Vincent.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Uh, oh, okay, this is very fascinating. Why would he
contact you?

Speaker 1 (08:23):
Well, because he really had a good time with you
and he was hoping to see you again for another date,
but that hasn't materialized yet, so he isn't sure if
there's a reason why.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
Yeah, how can I help?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
Well, maybe we could just start with what was your
take on the date with Vincent? How did you feel
about it?

Speaker 4 (08:43):
Oh? It was fine? It fine seems like a good
word for it. He's being like a pleasant guy.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Oh it was fine. Isn't usually a good word when
we hear it. Well, that's why was there anything bad
that happened?

Speaker 5 (08:54):
That's a good question.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I mean he was a little nervous, but are we
all when we're first meeting some and.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
That can actually be kind of endearing because it means
that he cares.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
Right, it's you get nervous when you meet people too.
Sometimes she never gets nervous.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
Bro have any issues?

Speaker 1 (09:15):
Tell us you have no issues?

Speaker 4 (09:18):
I see, So he told you what I do for.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
A living Yeah is that?

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (09:23):
Yeah, of course he knows I'm a therapist, but he
probably doesn't know I'm a past life regression therapist.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
What's that.

Speaker 4 (09:34):
I help individuals access memories or experienced from previous lifetimes
to address current emotional and psychological, spiritual She's unlocked.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
No, because I've heard of people when they have breakthroughs,
they'll be like I unlocked his memory for she's talking
about life. You were a king in the sixteen hundred
waits is therapy for other lives?

Speaker 4 (09:58):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (10:00):
How that affects who you are in this new life?
She almost got my money. I would have signed up immediately. Okay, well,
let's be polite. This is her career. Sorry I didn't
understand fully. Okay, so that's my apologies. We did not
know that.

Speaker 4 (10:14):
Some people don't understand it. But it is something I've
been practicing for over a decade.

Speaker 1 (10:18):
Okay, we did not know that specific We just heard therapist.

Speaker 3 (10:23):
Yes, okay, wait, so what does that have to do though,
with why you aren't calling him back?

Speaker 4 (10:29):
Well?

Speaker 2 (10:29):
Or you just explaining that to us?

Speaker 4 (10:31):
I usually don't have a personal connection to people that
I date, but in this case I did. I was
home and really thought about it. And I know this
is going to sound silly. I believe in a past
life he was my dog.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
Was he your dog in a previous lifetime? I know,
I know, how did you come to that realization? Walk
us through the steps?

Speaker 4 (11:04):
I had many memories of rubbing his belly, him licking
me like a dog. And I know it sounds silly,
but what a coincidence. I mean, this is I've been
doing this a long time and I knew I felt
some sort of connection and I couldn't figure it out.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
He's such a good boy. He found you timelines, he
found you again.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
So he's dating your past dog off.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
Off the table. That's encouraged.

Speaker 4 (11:36):
I know you're having fun with it and it seems weird.
But what do I say, Like, how do I tell
him I can't date him? He was once my dog?

Speaker 3 (11:45):
I will say, to your credit, you have been a
really good sport with us.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah, yeah, and messing with us. The good news is
you don't have to figure out how to tell him,
because you already have. He's actually on the other line
listening to this conversation. Good's been very well behaved during
this entire thing. Vincent are you there.

Speaker 5 (12:08):
This is truly not where I thought.

Speaker 4 (12:10):
This was.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
None of us. Okay, talk to your previous owner, say hi.

Speaker 5 (12:20):
Hi'm Blair. So you're saying that you had like visions
that I was your dog in another life.

Speaker 4 (12:29):
Yes, there's been multiple visions of me walking you around
on a farm. Yeah you didn't feel the connection either.
I mean I didn't.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
I didn't put two and two together with a dog, Blair.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
Do you have like a century or a decade when
this previous life happened.

Speaker 4 (12:49):
Yes, this is way back. This is the eighteen hundred eighteen.

Speaker 1 (12:53):
Oh look at that.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
So yeah, a working dog at that point.

Speaker 5 (12:57):
You know, how come I'm a dog and you're a
uman and these visions it was not a human before.

Speaker 4 (13:03):
There's nothing wrong with being a dog. I mean, animals
are such a sacred part of our living. And it's
just it's not something that you were once my dog.
It's not something I now I will feel like I'm
walking the fields with you every time I see you.
It's not something I want to have in my romantic relationships.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
It's not that he was a dog in a past life.
It's that he was your dog.

Speaker 5 (13:30):
Okay, because you already had that connection.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
Trying to figure out where we go from. Vincent, this
all makes sense to you, right, Really, that's the question, Brook,
I need to see where his head is at, tail
is wagged. Yeah, are you understanding what she's saying?

Speaker 5 (13:50):
I'm hearing it. I don't know if I'm understanding that.

Speaker 2 (13:54):
Your first question not what type of dog?

Speaker 3 (13:56):
But you can I mean, I've been thinking about that too,
But I don't.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
Know what was popular back in the eighteen hundreds.

Speaker 3 (14:01):
Maybe espaniel, cattle dog, cat dog cattle.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
Okay, yeah, I mean energy those dogs.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Vincent, you can understand where she's coming from. If you
were in her position, you wouldn't want to date a
woman who had previously been your fish or your cat
or something, right, That'd be weird.

Speaker 5 (14:20):
This whole thing is weird. It's hard to believe.

Speaker 1 (14:23):
Yeah, yeah, what do you want to say? I don't know,
I want to date in my old cat.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
Come on, I mean, if you look at it from
the other perspective, right, Like dog is man's best friend,
he's loyal, like these are all good qualities in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (14:38):
This is Brook advocating for a human dog.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Got trying, oh God, for her to give him a chance.

Speaker 4 (14:44):
Thank you Brook.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Okay, so Vincent, you're still interested in dating Blair even
though previously you used to be her pet.

Speaker 5 (14:52):
I mean allegedly if I was her pet, I have
no memory of it.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
Well until you go through a session with her.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
Yeah, that's job.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
I can absolutely help you with that. We can book
a session right now.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
Well, yeah, that's great, But what we're interested in booking
is a date if you're willing to give Vincent another shot.

Speaker 5 (15:12):
Listen, you said we had a pleasant time. You really
don't think we can get past this.

Speaker 4 (15:17):
I would love to have a connection, but I don't
think it's best that we date.

Speaker 1 (15:23):
But maybe she'd be willing to play fetch in the
park with you one time.

Speaker 2 (15:27):
I won't know what we all wear in a pass
like I want to know.

Speaker 1 (15:30):
I bet no. I think you were probably a parrot.
Jose Yeah, rooking Jeffrey in the morning.