June 2, 2025 • 17 mins
One of our listeners wishes she could take back what she said 11 months ago to a guy she went out with. It took her a year to realize her mistake, and now she wants another chance in a Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Updated in terms of the amount of time it takes
between the first date and the second date.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What do you think is optimal? Like three to four days,
at least a week. You don't want to go back
to back? Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing it too long?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I think?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Okay, because for our listener, unless.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
You're like out of town, Yeah, it's delicate though, because
you don't want to lose the momentum.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, that's the hard part.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her
to move on at this point?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Well, hold on, because she says she has a good
reason for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda,
Thanks for being on with us. Start at the very
beginning here, tell us who is this guy and how
did you meet him?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
And how do you remember his name after eleven months?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yes, if he waited eleven months to get back together with, well,
his name.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
Is Jordan, so you know it reminds me of basketball,
so I cann't forget him.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Wowron, this is eleven months ago.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You went on a date with this guy?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Yeah? I did?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And where did you meet him?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,
like our interactions were kind of funny.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Actually, are you sure you're remembering right since it was
so low.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with
them unless they're funny.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Okay, checks nice and kind of funny.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I know you find out he was funny.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I mean I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
That's actually, yeah, you.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Know, I don't want to be with someone who is boring.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
What did you guys do for a date?
Speaker 5 (01:49):
So what we ended up going on a coffee date?
And yeah, that's my thing. I love you.
Speaker 6 (01:57):
That's good because sometimes if I from a guy perspective,
if a girl says copy date, that means I want
to be very slow.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I just want a quick fifteen.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I'm not away feel like it's I'm not sure if
you're hot from your picture or not.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Let me see you in the daytime.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that,
so okay. We met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,
like I don't know if this guy's in my league,
Like there was something.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
What do you mean, like in a good way or
a bad way?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Yeah, under your league.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
So I know this sounds like maybe stupid, but I
just thought he get dressed better, Like I didn't really
like his styal.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
You know, that's actually really common.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I actually have friends, and I'm sure I'm in the
same boat where like you realize we don't really know
how to dress up than the way we.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Always Here's the thing, clothes are always fixable.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Yeah, I know, but I made a comment about the cross,
and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I don't know. I mean, I don't think it's not
to show up to a coffee dat rugs. Yeah, it's
the same.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
You text.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was
being judgmental because you know, he was so humble and nice.
I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.
I like, I can fix him, but I don't want
to come in like, hey we need new wardrobe.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, second or third day.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So I mean, like the bond that you had with him,
like personality wise, did you feel that?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
So?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,
you know, like the fireworks you know when you meet
someone you're like, ooh.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I thought, you've been pining over this guy for the
last eleven months.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
You didn't even like him the day you hung out
with him.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the
end of the day, we gave each other a hug
and he was following up with me, texting me at
a whole bunch and I just felt like I didn't
want to leave him.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
All Okay, that's actually really kind of you.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well, what did you say before we start praising you,
how kind you are?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I just said I didn't feel it as smart, like
we can be friends, but like no romantic interests.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Okay, okay, and how do you take it?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I think this is why I can't get him out
of my head. I think because he just says I
think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up
with you as a lucky man. And his response is
just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touch
my heart.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
So that he was nice and not mean at the end.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a
guy to be like, oh, you don't like me, but
you know what, I wish the best free you.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That's top three most common responses.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
When I've done it before with other guys, they just
react so like immature, and they honestly like try to
get me harder, they start texting me more. It just
makes it weird and awkward.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Really, No, if it's me, I'm just giving your number
to one of those like scam call centers and having
them spam you better than crying about it. Yeah, I'm
not going to try to fight for Yeah, well you
reject me, then I'm going to get you a million
scam calls.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
It just looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Now, she just said you were There was no spark,
it wasn't even Oh excuse.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Me, you don't have to double down. That hurts, But
it's nice that he was so gracious with you. That's
pretty cool.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
And it should be what expected.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Honestly, So that happened.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
That happened eleven months ago, and now you're reaching out
to us like, I don't understand what's changed.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
I just can't get him out of my head. He's
like looking there like super glue. So I don't know.
It's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm
kind of shy now, and I feel bad for rejecting him.
So I really need some help because I feel like
I was kind of judgmental, that makes sense, and I'd
like to go out with him again.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I mean, it is going to be hard to come
back from saying there's no spark.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yeah, Like it means you're going to have to put
in a little extra eleven months, Like do we know
if you're single?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
It's well, we need to call him to find out.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This is definitely different than what we would normally do
in this segment, but person, yeah, we'll call Jordan and
be like, Amanda has decided to slum it and go
down a level from where she normally would date to
go out with you one more time of those crocs. Yeah, yeah,
we'll see what he has to say when we do
(06:31):
your second date update after this hold on.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Second Date update.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
They say the best things in life take time. That's true,
Like an aged bottle.
Speaker 7 (06:45):
Of wine, medium sized wheel of European cheese, putting together
a dresser from Ikea with just two of the legs missing.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
I don't know, but I still have extra screws.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And of course finding the right person to date, not
just a good one, but the right person. And it's
taken our listener Amanda eleven months to come to the
realization that that guy could have been the one in
the coffee shop the day that she rejected him.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
You know what else, they also say, Jeff, timing is everything. Yes,
maybe they needed a little eleven month break.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
That's true. So it's possible all the things could align,
the timing could be perfect today because she wants us
to help her get a second chance with Jordan.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know, I think it's sweet.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I think it shows that you have a lot of
growth from eleven months ago. You know, like a little
months ago you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
Right, No, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but
I need you to help me work my magic. Like
I'm in a vulnerable say I'm lonely and I just
missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can
help me.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Okay, okay, well we're willing to do that.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm just glad that we're talking to you over the
phone so that you can't see what Brook's wearing and
be able to judge it.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
Like you actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I will say I love the houses where I was like,
this is I've done better.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
We've matured from that immature girl.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
That she was eleven months ago. She can't even see
when she just knows.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
I have zebra pants on.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
You guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe exotic
brook Is I.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Love this bonding time that we're having. But we got
to call Jordan here and hopefully he picks up. I'm
gonna dial his number right now here we go, Hello, Hey,
is this Jordan?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yeah calling?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Yes, you may ask.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Such a dad joke.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Ask you just having normal conversation. He can ask you
this is how bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you
for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're
still there to answer your question, We're a radio show
called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning with high brow comedy.
Speaker 8 (09:31):
Okay, And what is this in regards to?
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Oh, this is actually in regards to a woman who's
been trying to get a hold of you.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, actually she has been trying, Yes she has. It's
the usual.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Not sure if you'll remember, this is a woman named Amanda.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's right.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you
went on a date with eleven months ago, a year.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
Ago, other months ago?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Copy date?
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Uh, I'm probably was it like a hinge date? Yes?
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, oh she did tell us that.
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Okay, yeah I think I yeah, I remember Amanda. Yeah,
we grabbed coffee right, a long time.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Ago, that's right.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
What else do you remember from your time with Amanda?
Speaker 4 (10:23):
It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.
Speaker 8 (10:25):
But honestly, I just remember her ditching me.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
What do you mean, like when she said she didn't
want to see you again?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
Oh that yeah?
Speaker 8 (10:36):
Yeah, Like I mean I've been turned down before, so
you know, I'm kind of used to it.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Oh buddy, definitely was expecting this. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that
really stood out to Amanda about you was how graciously
you handled her rejection over text.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Okay, I know you.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Said something like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends
up with you, he's going to be so lucky, and
you like just wished her well.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
Oh yeah, you know what. I think I wrote that
with Ai. Actually, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
It was a good It was good feedback.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
That's a good idea to put that day.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I first, I had been quick on my feet still
for Amanda, it was a big moment, and you know
how like sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us
men are. The case, she has taken all this time
and realized that it's possible she made a huge mistake
in turning you away.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Which is kind of sweet.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Maybe she said that, yeah, yeah, basically.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yeah, she actually has even said she's really been thinking about.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
You a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (11:49):
I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say. This
is like the third time that's happened this year.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
What what do you mean, what's happened?
Speaker 8 (12:01):
Yeah? You know, I again, I I'm used to rejection,
you know, so weirdly enough, a lot of these girls
they reject me end up calling me back say like, hey,
maybe we should get another shot.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Woah, this isn't the first time.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
No, are you complimented by it? Or is it like
almost kind of a backhanded compliment?
Speaker 8 (12:22):
You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Yeah, Like, how do you take that personally?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Or well, if you want to be the most surprised,
here's a shocker for you, because Amanda is on the
other line right now listening to this entire conversation, hoping
to jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah, Amanda's surprise, surprise, it's to me. Hello, how are.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
You exic I'm good.
Speaker 8 (12:56):
Good to hear from you again.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Yeah, very excited to hear from uh.
Speaker 8 (13:02):
I mean it's been a while, you know. It's definitely
a surprise.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
You know, I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm
stuttering and like I don't know. But yes, I'm very
nervous to do this, and I'm glad that Ai was
able to help you out. But there's no Ai. Yeah,
I mean, you know, thinking about his words before speaking.
So it's not like me, like I just kind of
(13:27):
was impulsive and was superficial. But I hope that we
can maybe see each other again. I'm not sure hearing
to that.
Speaker 8 (13:33):
Why are you like asking me out?
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Or is this is this?
Speaker 8 (13:38):
What this is?
Speaker 5 (13:40):
I mean I needed their help. Yeah, it might be
like a little crazy. It's been like almost a year, right,
and maybe you can have amnesia and dementia about what
happened in the past.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
What a nice.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
So that was a lot, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
I know that she kind of dumped on you there,
But you have anything that you would like to say
back to Amanda or ask your AI what to say
back to be honest.
Speaker 8 (14:11):
A man, it's been a while since I've seen you
or seen your picture.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:18):
One way that I really jogged my memory is do
you still have that nice foot.
Speaker 7 (14:26):
Out?
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Oh? Well, so I was just telling them about these
zebra pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send
you a selfie if he's lying work.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
For do zebra pants make it look bigger?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Like an optical illusion?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Ask you for a friend?
Speaker 5 (14:48):
You know, I messed up, So I'm trying to like,
you know, clean slight here I come.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
The clean slate includes picks, So like, you're a winner
right now, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Yeah, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
She's still got.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
The same features and all the things that you liked
from the first time you met up. So at this point,
we'd like to offer to send you and Amanda out
on another date, and we would.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Pay for it.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date
on the phone right now.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
I know, saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.
Speaker 8 (15:23):
I mean, if she's cooled me seeing the other two
girls they rejected me and her being the third, I'm
open to that.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Okay, the hair and the rejection, Amanda, Now the ball's
in your court.
Speaker 5 (15:35):
Heavens, No, you know this was nice, but now I
cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way I want
you to is going to be a.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Little competition for you, you know.
Speaker 5 (15:44):
If you know a way HO say, I'm not that desperate?
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Are you ditching him now? Twice in one year?
Speaker 5 (15:50):
I was just hoping that we could be at just
one on one monogamous, not you know, a trio.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Oh okay, we're missing it.
Speaker 6 (15:57):
Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to
her and probably call you in.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
N You'll have six leftovers.
Speaker 8 (16:04):
I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it
to you later, Amanda.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Check your text message.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, my god, he's like the rejection king.
Speaker 8 (16:16):
I hope you will have a nice life and a
nice day.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Oh your melting hearts right now, Jordan's hang up so
we can all call him.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
I think the lesson that we all learned from that
is you can let a nice butt in zebra print
walk away and still be gracious about it.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is shocking that
she was so surprised. Yeah, like, I'm worried about her
choice and people to go out with if they're yeah,
so rude, it would.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Be yeah, totally, But it would be funny if she
does text him though, in like a couple of weeks
or in a couple of minutes after that call ended,
just a give him a third chance.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
I mean, she's gonna go on one more date with
a guy that's a jerk and then yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
Yeah, but the.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Way they were flirting on the phone for a minute,
I thought for sure they were going to go out
with it.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
Yeah, I thought it was a yes before we even asked.
I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.
Maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
It was yes, he just said to the team.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
She said no.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
But that's the thing about love. It's weird and unpredictable sometimes.
And you can find lots of weird love by listening
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Second date.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Updated in terms of the amount of time it takes
between the first date and the second date.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
What do you think is optimal? Like three to four days,
at least a week. You don't want to go back
to back? Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing it too long?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
I think?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Okay, because for our listener, unless.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
You're like out of town, Yeah, it's delicate though, because
you don't want to lose the momentum.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Yeah, that's the hard part.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her
to move on at this point?
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Well, hold on, because she says she has a good
reason for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda,
Thanks for being on with us. Start at the very
beginning here, tell us who is this guy and how
did you meet him?
Speaker 4 (00:51):
And how do you remember his name after eleven months?
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yes, if he waited eleven months to get back together with, well,
his name.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
Is Jordan, so you know it reminds me of basketball,
so I cann't forget him.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Wowron, this is eleven months ago.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You went on a date with this guy?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Yeah? I did?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
And where did you meet him?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,
like our interactions were kind of funny.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Actually, are you sure you're remembering right since it was
so low.
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with
them unless they're funny.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Okay, checks nice and kind of funny.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
I know you find out he was funny.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
I mean I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
That's actually, yeah, you.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Know, I don't want to be with someone who is boring.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
What did you guys do for a date?
Speaker 5 (01:49):
So what we ended up going on a coffee date?
And yeah, that's my thing. I love you.
Speaker 6 (01:57):
That's good because sometimes if I from a guy perspective,
if a girl says copy date, that means I want
to be very slow.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
I just want a quick fifteen.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I'm not away feel like it's I'm not sure if
you're hot from your picture or not.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Let me see you in the daytime.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that,
so okay. We met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,
like I don't know if this guy's in my league,
Like there was something.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
What do you mean, like in a good way or
a bad way?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Yeah, under your league.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
So I know this sounds like maybe stupid, but I
just thought he get dressed better, Like I didn't really
like his styal.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
You know, that's actually really common.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I actually have friends, and I'm sure I'm in the
same boat where like you realize we don't really know
how to dress up than the way we.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Always Here's the thing, clothes are always fixable.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
Yeah, I know, but I made a comment about the cross,
and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
I don't know. I mean, I don't think it's not
to show up to a coffee dat rugs. Yeah, it's
the same.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
You text.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was
being judgmental because you know, he was so humble and nice.
I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.
I like, I can fix him, but I don't want
to come in like, hey we need new wardrobe.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, second or third day.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So I mean, like the bond that you had with him,
like personality wise, did you feel that?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
So?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,
you know, like the fireworks you know when you meet
someone you're like, ooh.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I thought, you've been pining over this guy for the
last eleven months.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
You didn't even like him the day you hung out
with him.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the
end of the day, we gave each other a hug
and he was following up with me, texting me at
a whole bunch and I just felt like I didn't
want to leave him.
Speaker 6 (03:59):
All Okay, that's actually really kind of you.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well, what did you say before we start praising you,
how kind you are?
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I just said I didn't feel it as smart, like
we can be friends, but like no romantic interests.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Okay, okay, and how do you take it?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I think this is why I can't get him out
of my head. I think because he just says I
think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up
with you as a lucky man. And his response is
just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touch
my heart.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
So that he was nice and not mean at the end.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a
guy to be like, oh, you don't like me, but
you know what, I wish the best free you.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That's top three most common responses.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
When I've done it before with other guys, they just
react so like immature, and they honestly like try to
get me harder, they start texting me more. It just
makes it weird and awkward.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Really, No, if it's me, I'm just giving your number
to one of those like scam call centers and having
them spam you better than crying about it. Yeah, I'm
not going to try to fight for Yeah, well you
reject me, then I'm going to get you a million
scam calls.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
It just looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Now, she just said you were There was no spark,
it wasn't even Oh excuse.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Me, you don't have to double down. That hurts, But
it's nice that he was so gracious with you. That's
pretty cool.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
And it should be what expected.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Honestly, So that happened.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
That happened eleven months ago, and now you're reaching out
to us like, I don't understand what's changed.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
I just can't get him out of my head. He's
like looking there like super glue. So I don't know.
It's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm
kind of shy now, and I feel bad for rejecting him.
So I really need some help because I feel like
I was kind of judgmental, that makes sense, and I'd
like to go out with him again.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
I mean, it is going to be hard to come
back from saying there's no spark.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Yeah, Like it means you're going to have to put
in a little extra eleven months, Like do we know
if you're single?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
It's well, we need to call him to find out.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This is definitely different than what we would normally do
in this segment, but person, yeah, we'll call Jordan and
be like, Amanda has decided to slum it and go
down a level from where she normally would date to
go out with you one more time of those crocs. Yeah, yeah,
we'll see what he has to say when we do
(06:31):
your second date update after this hold on.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Second Date update.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
They say the best things in life take time. That's true,
Like an aged bottle.
Speaker 7 (06:45):
Of wine, medium sized wheel of European cheese, putting together
a dresser from Ikea with just two of the legs missing.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
I don't know, but I still have extra screws.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And of course finding the right person to date, not
just a good one, but the right person. And it's
taken our listener Amanda eleven months to come to the
realization that that guy could have been the one in
the coffee shop the day that she rejected him.
Speaker 6 (07:20):
You know what else, they also say, Jeff, timing is everything. Yes,
maybe they needed a little eleven month break.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
That's true. So it's possible all the things could align,
the timing could be perfect today because she wants us
to help her get a second chance with Jordan.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You know, I think it's sweet.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I think it shows that you have a lot of
growth from eleven months ago. You know, like a little
months ago you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
Right, No, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but
I need you to help me work my magic. Like
I'm in a vulnerable say I'm lonely and I just
missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can
help me.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Okay, okay, well we're willing to do that.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
I'm just glad that we're talking to you over the
phone so that you can't see what Brook's wearing and
be able to judge it.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
Like you actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
I will say I love the houses where I was like,
this is I've done better.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
We've matured from that immature girl.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
That she was eleven months ago. She can't even see
when she just knows.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
I have zebra pants on.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
You guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe exotic
brook Is I.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Love this bonding time that we're having. But we got
to call Jordan here and hopefully he picks up. I'm
gonna dial his number right now here we go, Hello, Hey,
is this Jordan?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Yeah calling?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Yes, you may ask.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Such a dad joke.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Ask you just having normal conversation. He can ask you
this is how bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you
for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're
still there to answer your question, We're a radio show
called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning with high brow comedy.
Speaker 8 (09:31):
Okay, And what is this in regards to?
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Oh, this is actually in regards to a woman who's
been trying to get a hold of you.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, actually she has been trying, Yes she has. It's
the usual.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Not sure if you'll remember, this is a woman named Amanda.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's right.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you
went on a date with eleven months ago, a year.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
Ago, other months ago?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Copy date?
Speaker 8 (10:04):
Uh, I'm probably was it like a hinge date? Yes?
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, oh she did tell us that.
Speaker 8 (10:12):
Okay, yeah I think I yeah, I remember Amanda. Yeah,
we grabbed coffee right, a long time.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Ago, that's right.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
What else do you remember from your time with Amanda?
Speaker 4 (10:23):
It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.
Speaker 8 (10:25):
But honestly, I just remember her ditching me.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
What do you mean, like when she said she didn't
want to see you again?
Speaker 6 (10:34):
Oh that yeah?
Speaker 8 (10:36):
Yeah, Like I mean I've been turned down before, so
you know, I'm kind of used to it.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Oh buddy, definitely was expecting this. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that
really stood out to Amanda about you was how graciously
you handled her rejection over text.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Okay, I know you.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Said something like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends
up with you, he's going to be so lucky, and
you like just wished her well.
Speaker 8 (11:08):
Oh yeah, you know what. I think I wrote that
with Ai. Actually, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
It was a good It was good feedback.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
That's a good idea to put that day.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I first, I had been quick on my feet still
for Amanda, it was a big moment, and you know
how like sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us
men are. The case, she has taken all this time
and realized that it's possible she made a huge mistake
in turning you away.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Which is kind of sweet.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Maybe she said that, yeah, yeah, basically.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Yeah, she actually has even said she's really been thinking about.
Speaker 4 (11:47):
You a lot.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (11:49):
I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say. This
is like the third time that's happened this year.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
What what do you mean, what's happened?
Speaker 8 (12:01):
Yeah? You know, I again, I I'm used to rejection,
you know, so weirdly enough, a lot of these girls
they reject me end up calling me back say like, hey,
maybe we should get another shot.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Woah, this isn't the first time.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
No, are you complimented by it? Or is it like
almost kind of a backhanded compliment?
Speaker 8 (12:22):
You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
Yeah, Like, how do you take that personally?
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Or well, if you want to be the most surprised,
here's a shocker for you, because Amanda is on the
other line right now listening to this entire conversation, hoping
to jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah, Amanda's surprise, surprise, it's to me. Hello, how are.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
You exic I'm good.
Speaker 8 (12:56):
Good to hear from you again.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Yeah, very excited to hear from uh.
Speaker 8 (13:02):
I mean it's been a while, you know. It's definitely
a surprise.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
You know, I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm
stuttering and like I don't know. But yes, I'm very
nervous to do this, and I'm glad that Ai was
able to help you out. But there's no Ai. Yeah,
I mean, you know, thinking about his words before speaking.
So it's not like me, like I just kind of
(13:27):
was impulsive and was superficial. But I hope that we
can maybe see each other again. I'm not sure hearing
to that.
Speaker 8 (13:33):
Why are you like asking me out?
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Or is this is this?
Speaker 8 (13:38):
What this is?
Speaker 5 (13:40):
I mean I needed their help. Yeah, it might be
like a little crazy. It's been like almost a year, right,
and maybe you can have amnesia and dementia about what
happened in the past.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
What a nice.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
So that was a lot, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
I know that she kind of dumped on you there,
But you have anything that you would like to say
back to Amanda or ask your AI what to say
back to be honest.
Speaker 8 (14:11):
A man, it's been a while since I've seen you
or seen your picture.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (14:18):
One way that I really jogged my memory is do
you still have that nice foot.
Speaker 7 (14:26):
Out?
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Oh? Well, so I was just telling them about these
zebra pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send
you a selfie if he's lying work.
Speaker 4 (14:40):
For do zebra pants make it look bigger?
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Like an optical illusion?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Ask you for a friend?
Speaker 5 (14:48):
You know, I messed up, So I'm trying to like,
you know, clean slight here I come.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
The clean slate includes picks, So like, you're a winner
right now, Jordan.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Yeah, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
She's still got.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
The same features and all the things that you liked
from the first time you met up. So at this point,
we'd like to offer to send you and Amanda out
on another date, and we would.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Pay for it.
Speaker 4 (15:15):
At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date
on the phone right now.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
I know, saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.
Speaker 8 (15:23):
I mean, if she's cooled me seeing the other two
girls they rejected me and her being the third, I'm
open to that.
Speaker 2 (15:29):
Okay, the hair and the rejection, Amanda, Now the ball's
in your court.
Speaker 5 (15:35):
Heavens, No, you know this was nice, but now I
cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way I want
you to is going to be a.
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Little competition for you, you know.
Speaker 5 (15:44):
If you know a way HO say, I'm not that desperate?
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Are you ditching him now? Twice in one year?
Speaker 5 (15:50):
I was just hoping that we could be at just
one on one monogamous, not you know, a trio.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Oh okay, we're missing it.
Speaker 6 (15:57):
Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to
her and probably call you in.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
N You'll have six leftovers.
Speaker 8 (16:04):
I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it
to you later, Amanda.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Check your text message.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, my god, he's like the rejection king.
Speaker 8 (16:16):
I hope you will have a nice life and a
nice day.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Oh your melting hearts right now, Jordan's hang up so
we can all call him.
Speaker 4 (16:26):
Back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
I think the lesson that we all learned from that
is you can let a nice butt in zebra print
walk away and still be gracious about it.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is shocking that
she was so surprised. Yeah, like, I'm worried about her
choice and people to go out with if they're yeah,
so rude, it would.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Be yeah, totally, But it would be funny if she
does text him though, in like a couple of weeks
or in a couple of minutes after that call ended,
just a give him a third chance.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
I mean, she's gonna go on one more date with
a guy that's a jerk and then yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
Yeah, but the.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Way they were flirting on the phone for a minute,
I thought for sure they were going to go out
with it.
Speaker 3 (17:11):
Yeah, I thought it was a yes before we even asked.
I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.
Maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
It was yes, he just said to the team.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
She said no.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
But that's the thing about love. It's weird and unpredictable sometimes.
And you can find lots of weird love by listening
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