May 2, 2025 • 17 mins
One of our listeners says HIS DATE asked him to do something UNUSUAL shortly after they sat down, and he thinks its part of why he’s not getting a call back.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date, up date. There's certain professions out there that
are just considered sexy. Oh oh yeah, okay, Like who's
not swiping right on a hot firefighter? Right, that's me okay?
Or something I thought you were going to say no?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Or down with the hole.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
That's more like that. That's what Alex is doing. But
she turned her Michael exactly. Or a hunky doctor, yeah
that's the classic. Or a sultry child and family therapist.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I haven't tell you my problem.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed? Did
you just say abandonment issues?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure
of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's
talk to him about it. His name is Nick.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Nick.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
I am so curious about the profession in here because
it's like a milkman.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, who is this person that she met and what
do they do?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Her name is Beca and she's a cop.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh, she is a.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Copy lady.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Cops are sexy.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched,
like it's good.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Cuffs ready to go at the moment.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Honestly just a power that they have.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Yeah, okay, there was like license and registration and I'm
like five ft ten in single.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick,
exactly did you.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Meet her while getting arrested or no?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
We met on the apps?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Oh you okay?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on
the app? Or is that a no?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
No? That was her picture? Okay, of course I made
a dumb joke. I said, are you a real copper
or stripper?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Did she like that?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person
to stay that.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yes, that was a pretty basic joke.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So you're already her Yeah, but she responded, isn't that
just half the battle dating apps?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
How'd you turn it around?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
She did have other pictures on there, and there was
a picture of her having a cup of coffee at
a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I thought for sure you were going to make a
donut joke at that.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I think of this opportunity that would have been.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
No, no, you already took a jab your d bro,
what did you do with the coffee?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I just was like oh, yeah, you know, are you
a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up
and looked like you know, and.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Then you asked her what's your drink?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Right, Like, that's what you have to ask I did,
And then she started going off about how she had
gone recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got
her coffee order wrong and she wasn't mad about it,
but she was just mentioning. And I was like, oh,
I'll put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
And this is a cute connection.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, So this is all the chat leading up to the.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Date, all the chat leading up to the date, and
so I I recovered and I was like, well, let's
hang out, let's go out to dinner.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it
fancy or was it more casual?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Was a coffee?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
No, it wasn't coffee, it was I would say it
was you know, mitt. I didn't want to go like divy,
but I also didn't want to go like high pressure,
super expensive. So it's got into a place that felt comfortable.
Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working
in law enforcement.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, what is it like to go on a date
with a real cop.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Uh did you expect her at any point though?
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I don't know. I know some people get off of
work and then they had just come directly. No, I
wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I get okay.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
It would feel like a very powerful move though, to
sit in a booth right next to a cop.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Even then you cough as a bad boy at that
point to everybody in the restaurant.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
So was she cool though, because like, you're on a
date with a cop, I would be nervous.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Did you only have one?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Can you mention? Are expiring you and get you?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
How does it go?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
That was on my mind. I was like, I can't
tell any stories about my bad boy early days all
that sort of stuff. But there was one point, you know,
we didn't really stick to her working law enforcement too long,
but there was one point where she was like, hey,
do you mind if we could switch seats so I
can like face the door.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
People like that are in law enforce, like they always
want to seize in case they can never be caught
by surprise.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That's what happens in the movies.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her
to be like when I need to escape from this day,
I know exactly where I need to run. I mean
either way, Yeah, so did you switch?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I was down with making that happen. So we did.
You know, she's a really smart person. We had really
good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why
at this point she's not texting me back the night end.
It ended with like a really nice hug or let's
do this again. I didn't go into the kiss because
it didn't feel like we were quite there, but there
(05:06):
was definitely some chemistry. And when I said let's do
this again, there was no hesitation, no let me think
about it, let me look at my schedule, none of
that stuff. I can tell the brush off and like
an actual let's do this again.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the
siren in her cop car and driven around the block
real quick.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Use one's a stick. Never no one's ever asked that before.
I mean, who knows.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she
hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
So wait, Nick, question, is she the one who suggested
that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I throw out a couple of options when we were chatting,
and she selected that one.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Oh was it in like a really shady part of
town for no reason whatsoever?
Speaker 4 (05:52):
A really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white
collar cry. Oh no, like embezzlement or something.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Oh my god, we might actually help solve a c
by doing this second date.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Probably not well.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
And you know how most cops are when you get
them on the phone, they tell you everything. They're like
an open book.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah those cops. Yeah, I don't I've ever had that
long of a conversation.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Well, this is going to be a first in a
lot of different ways for us. Now.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Hoptually they don't run a background check on the show.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Yeah, with the cops, I've never gotten out of a ticket.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
This is going to be interesting when we come back,
call Becca and get you your second date update right
after this second date update. Normally our show is getting
cops called on us. Yeah that's true, But today we're
the ones calling up a cop. That's right, not to
report an emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick,
(06:49):
who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca
the other night.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
So do we just one and ask Rebecca h I
think that's how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Actually, we actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's
probably easier to do that more convenient. The thing is,
Nick's not getting a call back after their romantic dinner.
Is there a reason for it? Or was the whole
dinner affront for a sting operation that she was running
to bring down an Italian mob boss.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,
and now she's not calling him back.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us
for help that this is where the call was going
to go?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.
I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
At least that's what she wants you to think. Sounds
that she has a hit out on her. Her back
was facing she knows that there's a hit man out
there looking for it. It's possible, or maybe there's a
simple reason and you messed up in some way. Let's
figure it out. I'm going to dial her number.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Well, they're gonna be great options.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
We are here for the tea, so let's do it.
I'm dialing it right now.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Speaking.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Hey Becca, how you doing your officer?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
I'm honestly kind of nervous.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
I don't know if we're we should really mention that
it was a little late. We're Brook and Jeffery in
the morning, and you probably heard my co host say
officer Becca because we heard that you're a cop, and
I just want to ask you upfront. Is it okay
for us to mention your profession on the radio.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
I'm okay with that.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
We're allowed to say that.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a
different thing, you know, worse.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Leazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But bottom line is, we wanted to talk to you
about a date you went on recently with a guy
named Nick.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Ah.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Yeah, that sign was not good.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So Nick reached out to us because he said he
really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's
curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him
back and arranging a second meet up.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to
see you again.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
Yeah. So obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been
on the forest for some time now, so I'm gonna
always look up who I'm going on a date with
or who I'm spending time with.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Don't you wish you had that type of access, Alexa?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I know I only have my reverse Google image search.
Speaker 5 (09:34):
Yeah, I mean, but like I did this on my
own time. I don't use like police scanners. I hired
some of myself.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably
better at it than us.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
You got more resources than the average person.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would
be more forthcoming with, and when he wasn't, I it
turned me off. I have no more interest.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Are you saying any light on the date?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't
forthcoming with information, which I feel is a lie.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, you're dating a cop, you have to be honest,
especially if it's about well, what can I ask was
it like a criminal thing?
Speaker 5 (10:15):
Right, that's the only thing you looked up, right, I
don't know if it's appropriate for the radio.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed
to be private, then don't share it.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
But if it's something we could any of us could
find on the internet, spill away.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
We honestly don't have standards. The part the thing that
you don't you might not realize, beck As, that part
of being on this segment is the person agrees to
hear whatever the reason is, no matter how embarrassing or
strange it might be.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll
share it. He was married a year ago to a
Russian woman and she filed for divorce about a month ago. Yeah,
that's a huge part of his life. And to just
withhold that information, that's a lot.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Of first date to bring up though on that, Like,
how do you even start? So listen, I had this
Russian wife.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up?
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (11:20):
I think I was expecting him to tell me if
he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Oh it's not official yet.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
I just feel like he could withhold a lot of
information if he's not forthcoming about the truth.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I can't see that. I mean, I don't know. I
kind of am with her on that.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Like if it's divorce and final and you're done with it,
But if you're in the middle of a separation.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
And I think you can list it on your dating profile,
like specifically your status single divorce, separating what you look for.
Mostly the most traumatized would be yeah, but like, did
you even talk about relationships at all on the date?
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:04):
I mean I hinted about it and I shared about
mine a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private.
But yeah, he said he didn't want to talk about it,
and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead
of just a private person.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Okay, warning, you know, Becca, I think the person who's
actually going to find all of this the most interesting
is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line.
Has tapped into our phone somehow we did consent to it. Now,
so he is there wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry, I mean, you wanted
the truth out of him.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Now's the chance Nicky there?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Yeah, I'm here, So what's up.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Beccha.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You go on dates with people and you look up
their history before you.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
Do so, Yes, Nick, I'm a cup.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
I think, yeah, right, well, we were going to a
public place, and I feel like that's kind of using
your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me?
Speaker 5 (13:10):
I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources.
And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not.
I mean you could have looked that up on some
strange site that has false information.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Is okay.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
I'm actually going to back up on this because I
have a friend who's fiance looked her up when they
were dating and he got all the information wrong.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Nig is a common name.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick
and you mix them up?
Speaker 5 (13:47):
It's one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Really, How do you know that?
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you
your marriage certificate right now.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
No, no, wait, you can do that.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
You got the certificate public record?
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look I know how.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a
photo of.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
It, and there's your wife's name.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Do you have a text?
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Nick?
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Look, here's the deal, if you wait a minute, it
was a mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes
I was married. Yes I'm getting a divorce. It's going
to be done very soon.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Yeah, back at the start. The truth should have been
the first thing you said to her when you greeted her,
inside of the rest of.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would
have been okay with it.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best police. We all
have a past.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Wow, Like, come on.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
What else do you know about me? Do you look
at my record from what college?
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
You're still the one defense. You just got outed as
a liar.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I'm curious what you did in college.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
That sounds fun, a stupid frank with the cow. But
that's not even the.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
It's not her fault now, okay, well I'm not.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Defense. This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,
not to mention like on the radio, but especially on
a first date with someone you're trying to impress.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
He's a one that chose to do the radio part.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Well, I know, I'm just saying this is a lot sweet.
I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird
spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right,
and he's ready to move on hopefully with you. Would
you be willing to give him a chance?
Speaker 5 (15:53):
I'm not interested. Guys, It's just a no brainer for me.
You've got to be honest.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I didn't know she was.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Such a good copy.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Her interrogation skills their next level, dude. So maybe like
a different professional uniform, like a coastguard, they won't look
up your past about.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Just be honest. On the next day, why is this different.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Why do our listeners love
it so much when people get busted in a lie?
On our second day? Calls text into seven eighty five
nine to two says I knew that guy was a
liar the moment I heard him. I think I went
out with him two months ago before he was separating.
Who knows that that's true, But we could ask a
(16:47):
certain officer that we know to go and investigate that
particular text.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
We're friends now with the I don't know that it's
worth her time or our time. Yeah, let that one lie.
He needs to work out his own mess.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
If anything, we call ask for help, she'll probably run
our names and one of us will get arrested.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Yeah, I hope that's a surprised that we're all sitting
here without handcuffs.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, I know, we all enjoy a good pair of
handcuffs around our That's not what I think someone else
conversation anyway. Unfortunately that call turned out to not end
in a second date. We can't win them all, but
we can always try. If you email the show, we'll
call that person who's not calling you back and go.
(17:26):
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Speaker 4 (17:31):
Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning
Second date, up date. There's certain professions out there that
are just considered sexy. Oh oh yeah, okay, Like who's
not swiping right on a hot firefighter? Right, that's me okay?
Or something I thought you were going to say no?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Or down with the hole.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
That's more like that. That's what Alex is doing. But
she turned her Michael exactly. Or a hunky doctor, yeah
that's the classic. Or a sultry child and family therapist.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I haven't tell you my problem.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed? Did
you just say abandonment issues?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist the lure
of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, so let's
talk to him about it. His name is Nick.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Nick.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
I am so curious about the profession in here because
it's like a milkman.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, who is this person that she met and what
do they do?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Her name is Beca and she's a cop.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh, she is a.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Copy lady.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Cops are sexy.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched,
like it's good.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Cuffs ready to go at the moment.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Honestly just a power that they have.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
Yeah, okay, there was like license and registration and I'm
like five ft ten in single.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick,
exactly did you.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Meet her while getting arrested or no?
Speaker 3 (01:38):
We met on the apps?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Oh you okay?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on
the app? Or is that a no?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
No? That was her picture? Okay, of course I made
a dumb joke. I said, are you a real copper
or stripper?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Did she like that?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person
to stay that.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yes, that was a pretty basic joke.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So you're already her Yeah, but she responded, isn't that
just half the battle dating apps?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
How'd you turn it around?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
She did have other pictures on there, and there was
a picture of her having a cup of coffee at
a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I thought for sure you were going to make a
donut joke at that.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I think of this opportunity that would have been.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
No, no, you already took a jab your d bro,
what did you do with the coffee?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I just was like oh, yeah, you know, are you
a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up
and looked like you know, and.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Then you asked her what's your drink?
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Right, Like, that's what you have to ask I did,
And then she started going off about how she had
gone recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got
her coffee order wrong and she wasn't mad about it,
but she was just mentioning. And I was like, oh,
I'll put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
And this is a cute connection.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, So this is all the chat leading up to the.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Date, all the chat leading up to the date, and
so I I recovered and I was like, well, let's
hang out, let's go out to dinner.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Nice.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it
fancy or was it more casual?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Was a coffee?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
No, it wasn't coffee, it was I would say it
was you know, mitt. I didn't want to go like divy,
but I also didn't want to go like high pressure,
super expensive. So it's got into a place that felt comfortable.
Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working
in law enforcement.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, what is it like to go on a date
with a real cop.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Uh did you expect her at any point though?
Speaker 3 (03:35):
I don't know. I know some people get off of
work and then they had just come directly. No, I
wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I get okay.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
It would feel like a very powerful move though, to
sit in a booth right next to a cop.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
And I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Even then you cough as a bad boy at that
point to everybody in the restaurant.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
So was she cool though, because like, you're on a
date with a cop, I would be nervous.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Did you only have one?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Can you mention? Are expiring you and get you?
Speaker 1 (04:06):
How does it go?
Speaker 3 (04:07):
That was on my mind. I was like, I can't
tell any stories about my bad boy early days all
that sort of stuff. But there was one point, you know,
we didn't really stick to her working law enforcement too long,
but there was one point where she was like, hey,
do you mind if we could switch seats so I
can like face the door.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
People like that are in law enforce, like they always
want to seize in case they can never be caught
by surprise.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That's what happens in the movies.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her
to be like when I need to escape from this day,
I know exactly where I need to run. I mean
either way, Yeah, so did you switch?
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I was down with making that happen. So we did.
You know, she's a really smart person. We had really
good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why
at this point she's not texting me back the night end.
It ended with like a really nice hug or let's
do this again. I didn't go into the kiss because
it didn't feel like we were quite there, but there
(05:06):
was definitely some chemistry. And when I said let's do
this again, there was no hesitation, no let me think
about it, let me look at my schedule, none of
that stuff. I can tell the brush off and like
an actual let's do this again.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the
siren in her cop car and driven around the block
real quick.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Use one's a stick. Never no one's ever asked that before.
I mean, who knows.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she
hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
So wait, Nick, question, is she the one who suggested
that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I throw out a couple of options when we were chatting,
and she selected that one.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Oh was it in like a really shady part of
town for no reason whatsoever?
Speaker 4 (05:52):
A really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white
collar cry. Oh no, like embezzlement or something.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Oh my god, we might actually help solve a c
by doing this second date.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Probably not well.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
And you know how most cops are when you get
them on the phone, they tell you everything. They're like
an open book.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Yeah those cops. Yeah, I don't I've ever had that
long of a conversation.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Well, this is going to be a first in a
lot of different ways for us. Now.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Hoptually they don't run a background check on the show.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Yeah, with the cops, I've never gotten out of a ticket.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
This is going to be interesting when we come back,
call Becca and get you your second date update right
after this second date update. Normally our show is getting
cops called on us. Yeah that's true, But today we're
the ones calling up a cop. That's right, not to
report an emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick,
(06:49):
who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca
the other night.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
So do we just one and ask Rebecca h I
think that's how it works.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Actually, we actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's
probably easier to do that more convenient. The thing is,
Nick's not getting a call back after their romantic dinner.
Is there a reason for it? Or was the whole
dinner affront for a sting operation that she was running
to bring down an Italian mob boss.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,
and now she's not calling him back.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us
for help that this is where the call was going
to go?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.
I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
At least that's what she wants you to think. Sounds
that she has a hit out on her. Her back
was facing she knows that there's a hit man out
there looking for it. It's possible, or maybe there's a
simple reason and you messed up in some way. Let's
figure it out. I'm going to dial her number.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Well, they're gonna be great options.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
We are here for the tea, so let's do it.
I'm dialing it right now.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Hi, we're looking to speak with Becca.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
Speaking.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Hey Becca, how you doing your officer?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
I'm honestly kind of nervous.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
I don't know if we're we should really mention that
it was a little late. We're Brook and Jeffery in
the morning, and you probably heard my co host say
officer Becca because we heard that you're a cop, and
I just want to ask you upfront. Is it okay
for us to mention your profession on the radio.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
I'm okay with that.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
We're allowed to say that.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a
different thing, you know, worse.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Leazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
But bottom line is, we wanted to talk to you
about a date you went on recently with a guy
named Nick.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Ah.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Yeah, that sign was not good.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So Nick reached out to us because he said he
really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's
curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him
back and arranging a second meet up.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to
see you again.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
Yeah. So obviously I work in law enforcement. I've been
on the forest for some time now, so I'm gonna
always look up who I'm going on a date with
or who I'm spending time with.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Don't you wish you had that type of access, Alexa?
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I know I only have my reverse Google image search.
Speaker 5 (09:34):
Yeah, I mean, but like I did this on my
own time. I don't use like police scanners. I hired
some of myself.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably
better at it than us.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
You got more resources than the average person.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Yeah. I found some things that I thought he would
be more forthcoming with, and when he wasn't, I it
turned me off. I have no more interest.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Are you saying any light on the date?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't
forthcoming with information, which I feel is a lie.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, you're dating a cop, you have to be honest,
especially if it's about well, what can I ask was
it like a criminal thing?
Speaker 5 (10:15):
Right, that's the only thing you looked up, right, I
don't know if it's appropriate for the radio.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed
to be private, then don't share it.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
But if it's something we could any of us could
find on the internet, spill away.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
We honestly don't have standards. The part the thing that
you don't you might not realize, beck As, that part
of being on this segment is the person agrees to
hear whatever the reason is, no matter how embarrassing or
strange it might be.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll
share it. He was married a year ago to a
Russian woman and she filed for divorce about a month ago. Yeah,
that's a huge part of his life. And to just
withhold that information, that's a lot.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Of first date to bring up though on that, Like,
how do you even start? So listen, I had this
Russian wife.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up?
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (11:20):
I think I was expecting him to tell me if
he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Oh it's not official yet.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
I just feel like he could withhold a lot of
information if he's not forthcoming about the truth.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I can't see that. I mean, I don't know. I
kind of am with her on that.
Speaker 4 (11:39):
Like if it's divorce and final and you're done with it,
But if you're in the middle of a separation.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
And I think you can list it on your dating profile,
like specifically your status single divorce, separating what you look for.
Mostly the most traumatized would be yeah, but like, did
you even talk about relationships at all on the date?
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:04):
I mean I hinted about it and I shared about
mine a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private.
But yeah, he said he didn't want to talk about it,
and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead
of just a private person.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Okay, warning, you know, Becca, I think the person who's
actually going to find all of this the most interesting
is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line.
Has tapped into our phone somehow we did consent to it. Now,
so he is there wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry, I mean, you wanted
the truth out of him.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Now's the chance Nicky there?
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Yeah, I'm here, So what's up.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Beccha.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You go on dates with people and you look up
their history before you.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
Do so, Yes, Nick, I'm a cup.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
I think, yeah, right, well, we were going to a
public place, and I feel like that's kind of using
your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me?
Speaker 5 (13:10):
I didn't use police resources. I use my own personal resources.
And I just think it's really weird you wouldn't say anything.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not.
I mean you could have looked that up on some
strange site that has false information.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Is okay.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
I'm actually going to back up on this because I
have a friend who's fiance looked her up when they
were dating and he got all the information wrong.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.
Speaker 2 (13:41):
Nig is a common name.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick
and you mix them up?
Speaker 5 (13:47):
It's one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Really, How do you know that?
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you
your marriage certificate right now.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
No, no, wait, you can do that.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
You got the certificate public record?
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look I know how.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
It's absolutely public record. And I just texted you a
photo of.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
It, and there's your wife's name.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Do you have a text?
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Nick?
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Look, here's the deal, if you wait a minute, it
was a mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes
I was married. Yes I'm getting a divorce. It's going
to be done very soon.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Yeah, back at the start. The truth should have been
the first thing you said to her when you greeted her,
inside of the rest of.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would
have been okay with it.
Speaker 5 (14:58):
Really, I mean, honestly, it's the best police. We all
have a past.
Speaker 1 (15:02):
Wow, Like, come on.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
What else do you know about me? Do you look
at my record from what college?
Speaker 5 (15:08):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
You're still the one defense. You just got outed as
a liar.
Speaker 1 (15:13):
I'm curious what you did in college.
Speaker 3 (15:15):
That sounds fun, a stupid frank with the cow. But
that's not even the.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
It's not her fault now, okay, well I'm not.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Saying it's her fault. I'm saying it's my past.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
Defense. This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,
not to mention like on the radio, but especially on
a first date with someone you're trying to impress.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
He's a one that chose to do the radio part.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
Well, I know, I'm just saying this is a lot sweet.
I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird
spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right,
and he's ready to move on hopefully with you. Would
you be willing to give him a chance?
Speaker 5 (15:53):
I'm not interested. Guys, It's just a no brainer for me.
You've got to be honest.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
I wasn't dishonest. I am separated. I'm getting a divorce.
Speaker 2 (16:04):
It's just too late you started with it. Probably wasn't me.
Speaker 4 (16:09):
I didn't know she was.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Such a good copy.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Her interrogation skills their next level, dude. So maybe like
a different professional uniform, like a coastguard, they won't look
up your past about.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Just be honest. On the next day, why is this different.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Rook Jeffrey in the morning. Why do our listeners love
it so much when people get busted in a lie?
On our second day? Calls text into seven eighty five
nine to two says I knew that guy was a
liar the moment I heard him. I think I went
out with him two months ago before he was separating.
Who knows that that's true, But we could ask a
(16:47):
certain officer that we know to go and investigate that
particular text.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
We're friends now with the I don't know that it's
worth her time or our time. Yeah, let that one lie.
He needs to work out his own mess.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
If anything, we call ask for help, she'll probably run
our names and one of us will get arrested.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
Yeah, I hope that's a surprised that we're all sitting
here without handcuffs.
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, I know, we all enjoy a good pair of
handcuffs around our That's not what I think someone else
conversation anyway. Unfortunately that call turned out to not end
in a second date. We can't win them all, but
we can always try. If you email the show, we'll
call that person who's not calling you back and go.
(17:26):
Check out all of our second dates wherever you find
your podcast on Apple, Spotify, even on YouTube. A Broke
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Speaker 4 (17:31):
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