November 29, 2024 • 16 mins
The woman in today’s Second Date was in shock once she ended up back at a guy’s place. There was no question she wants to see him again, but the real question is why doesn’t he want to see her?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second day.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I think a lot of us have gone out on
a first date with low expectations and before you know what,
things happen and you end up spending the night.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
But not very often does it happen the opposite way,
where your whole plan is to stay the night, but
you decide, actually, you know what, I'm gonna play the long.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Game on this one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis right now.
We're not here to talk about them today. The grossest.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Protest too much?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah, protest too much.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
You guys can pretend.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
I am not pretending.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
We're not here to talk about the situation happening between
you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs
our help today, Welcome to the show, Sydney.
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Thanks guys, oh man.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Thank god you're on the phony. Cut the tension in this.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Yeah, So, tell us about the guy that you went
out with recently.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
What's his name?
Speaker 5 (01:07):
His name is Kurt, And I met him on Tinder?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Okay, okay, And I mean what struck him about you
on Tinder?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
On Tinder, he was just cute, Like I was originally
into it, for like a meaningless which is it?
Speaker 6 (01:22):
You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios
strikes you, but you still want to have like a
good like chemistry on your like messages together you know
some some liked shared interest.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I'll give you that, I'll give you. So how did
things play out with you and Kurt?
Speaker 5 (01:38):
Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing,
Like I met him at this bar and he was
just so put together and had this beautiful smile.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Wow, well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it
takes just a little smile, Like, Wow, this guy really
knows what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Do you have your expectations so low it doesn't take much.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
That should be tenders catch for you?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Expectations so low that it doesn't take much.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the
date because you're realizing this I.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from wind
to hook up to like wanting to play like the
long game.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You know, Okay, you suddenly felt like this was going
to be more than just a one night thing. You
wanted to actually maybe start a relationship this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I was like, oh, okay, so how do you go
about doing that?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
The shift? How did the shift happen?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
How do you sleep?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
This is interesting to me.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Pivot When was your pivot?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
So?
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I mean we hung out at the bar for a
little bit and then it's kind of early and it's
a really hot day.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you
go put on some real underwear. Now like this could
relationship situation? Get rid of the edible.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Stuff was melting?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
So anyway, it was super hot out and he he
said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah
what I know. So I was like, you know, this
could be shady, but the fact is I've been hanging
out with him for a while and he's just so
easy and we just get along, you know. So I
was like why not?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
So wait, was your plan then to skinny dip? Because
I assume he didn't come with a swimsuit?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Well I didn't want to see it, but like, I
just want my T shirt and my undies.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Oh you I think it's a strong move.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That's all you got I mean heck right as well.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook
up with him. I'm just gonna go get naked and wet.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
That's the long game.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Broke Okay is an expert in the art of seduction.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
So did it work?
Speaker 5 (04:01):
I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let
me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, oh really?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Oh this guy's rich, Oh.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches,
like a floaty staircase. Who not only does he have
a pool, but he's got a hot tub. So we
did go.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I didn't think a guy with a bed like not
on the ground.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Alexis is trying to graduate from a futon.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So there's there's hot tub action happening now.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
Well not yeah, but not even like action. It was
totally just like hanging out. I mean, super good chemistry though,
but I didn't want to like mess it up by
just cheapening it. You know, girl, it's not cheapening it.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I mean, you're he's inviting you at his house, you're
in his hot tub, Like you're telling me nothing happened.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
No, I will say we did kiss where where where?
I'm like, well, kind of like after the so it
didn't get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
You maybe get you a towel, and then he pulled
you in.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
You know what happened after after the nice kiss.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
He asked, I want to hang out a little more,
but I thought, maybe, you know, it was time to
call it, just to keep it super high point.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If
I was him, I would be like.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Oh my god, right because you have the kiss, you
have the moment, you heart righting, and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'd be thinking about you every day after that.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
If I was him, i'd feel like I just blew it.
She just left, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
So she said it was a romantic kid depend Yeah,
okay on paper, yeah, I can see.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So what happened?
Speaker 5 (05:37):
So when I left, he said that he was going
to be out of town for about two weeks, okay,
But then like he got back and it's just been
like he texted me one time and he wanted to
hang out, but now he keeps saying that he's like busy.
So I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he, like,
you know, meet somebody who was out of.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Town or I mean, two weeks is a long time
to go between seeing someone in the dating world. Were
you able to keep a conversation going with him while
he was away?
Speaker 5 (06:07):
Yeah, we did text a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Okay, it.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Was kind of flirty. It was it was nice. It
makes it even weirder when he gets back, like the
text aren't at flirty?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum. Yeah, a week without
even talking to somebody or a lot, I mean, it
definitely changes the moments.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Well, maybe we can change it again.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Maybe maybe. Okay, let's give this a shot.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
We're going to play a song, we'll come back, We're
gonna call Kurt for you, and we'll try and get
you a second date.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Update.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Okay, this is a challenge that we've never had before
on this morning show. Okay, that challenge is find the
only catch on tin and then reel them in without
any favors. And the reason that he's a catch is
(07:00):
because Kurt not only has good hair and a nice
smile and he's put together.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
On top of all that, he owns a great house with.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
A swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,
and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as
a pot of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized
water dance to a BTS song.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
And after all that, Sidney still turned down the invitation
to spend the night just to try to play the
long game with this guy.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the
dolphins apparently.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Like he literally was like, hey, I have millions of
dollars if you'd like it, and he was like, no,
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
The reason why she might have some regrets is because
it's been two weeks and now their conversation has cooled
off a lot, so she's hoping that we can turn
the heat.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Back up with this second date.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Update.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
How you feeling right now.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Sydney, I'm a nervous as heck. I really am.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Perfect guy pretty much.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the
long I'm cool game and now you have a radio
station calling for you.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Seem very cool.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
It kind of turned She's like, now I'm having a
panic attack.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Yeah, thank you for that.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know,
we're like rich, powerful people too. I just think we'll
impress him.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
No, we better hurry up and just make this call
before this gets any worse than it already is.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Okay, so broke, we might pay the phone bill. Yeah,
let's just check make sure it works.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
But I think if we've learned anything from Sydney, it's
start with low expectations, so.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Then it can only go up from there.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
That's good, all right, So I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone
number right now, and we're gonna try and get your
second date up.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Dore You ready, Sydney?
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Okay, I'm ready.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
We'll try not to screw it up.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
No promises though.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Hey, is this Kurt.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
It's Kurt.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff? That awkward?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
It was awkward, though.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I'm sorry for my awkwardness.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Kurt.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Hi, What what's going on?
Speaker 2 (09:26):
This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show
team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
You're not very good at small talk, including just saying your.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Name is I'm Jeff. What's up?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Currently?
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Had a great reason for calling you, though, right now.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, is that okay?
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Okay, it's just weird cool something. What happened?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one
of our listeners has been trying to get a hold
of you and she's been having a hard time lately.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Her name is Sidney.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
She was just so excited about your date.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date
happened two weeks ago over at your house and she
had a lot of great things to say about you
and your place, and she's a little bit confused. Why
now two weeks later things have cooled off between you?
Speaker 4 (10:30):
This is really awkward?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Is it Brooke again?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
It is?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
I apologize.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
I mean, the thing is Kurt, Like, she really felt like.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
There was a true connection between you two, and it
was something that she wasn't expecting at all, and it
really surprised her.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
I agree, I did think there was potential to be
honest with you.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Okay, that's good.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I just I feel like I honestly, I think I
kind of screwed up a little bit.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Okay, so you're like, she really liked the pool. People
enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,
but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,
you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I
made this comment, and then I went away for a
couple of weeks for business and then I found out
when I was away that she used the pool multiple
times with her friends.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Well you weren't there, Yeah, she just kept.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Over and over coming over with her friend glab security.
You know my security footage. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
I thought I was gonna say, like security guards.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Yeah, my security dog, my security dog.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
But you told her she could use it whenever.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you, No, she.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
Didn't mention it. And then like the motion sensor triggers,
like I know people were in there, so I know
multiple times I got an alert people were in the
backyard or whatever. And when I checked the footage, it was.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have
one that's the same. You can see it from your phone.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Honestly, my brother uses michool all the time, so I
kind of figured it was him. And then when I
got back. I was curious to see, like who had
been using the pool, and then it was her over
and over, like it was like the YMCA.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Okay, so you come home and you check your security
cams and you see that it's actually Sydney and her
friends using your pool, and that's why you've kind of
cooled off towards her.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Yeah, I mean, I just feel that she took advantage.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside
your We just had this conversation like not too long
ago where you said, if anybody comes over to your house,
you need to warn them that you have cameras.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Don't die if you invite someone to your home. She
was never invited. Like that's the thing, like when you
give an open invitation to somebody saying, oh, use the pool,
you know everyone knows that you ask before you do it.
You don't just show up that.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
It sounded to me like he told her you can
come over at any time, and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
If that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney Sidney, is
that what he said?
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
It's not like, yeah, sorry, I should have let you
know Kurt that Sydney's been on the other line listening
this entire time.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
She wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (13:16):
After all that, Now you didn't wet me?
Speaker 1 (13:18):
No, yeah, well I guess my calls are right.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I'm not very good at this job, so I apologize,
but go ahead, Sydney.
Speaker 5 (13:25):
Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so
horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was
just so excited about like the time we had. I
just kind of was like showing off your place to
my friends. I don't know, but now I just feel
like I messed up so bad, and I just that's
not respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I
(13:46):
feel really bad.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know.
It's just a little weird.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Sidney. How did you even get into his pool?
Speaker 5 (13:56):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Did you have to scale a fence or something?
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
No, there's like a a door that isn't kept.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
One of those ones you just reach over.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
My parents have that too. I'm like, why do you
have a door that could come in?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Sidney?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
What were you thinking?
Speaker 5 (14:11):
What do you mean?
Speaker 6 (14:12):
Was she's thinking?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Broke pool?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Pardon? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him? Why wouldn't you say, hey,
do you mind if my friends and I come over
while you're out get away with it.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to
be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he
would actually know, and I was so excited to show
my friends where he lived.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes
that she made a mistake and she's really sorry about
what she did.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It was just like everything was just thrown around too,
Like she didn't even clean up after it was just
like it was just a disaster.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
I really, well, she just figured that she would come
back the next day.
Speaker 5 (14:51):
I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super
horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly,
this unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just take
my word that I'm not a tool and that like,
I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it
a second chance.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to
show off your pad to her friends.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Yeah, and with that being said, we want to send
you out on another date and we'll pay for it. Kurt,
if you're willing to give Sidney one more chance public pool.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
I mean, to be fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't
think she's like a gold digger. I don't think she's
trying to use you.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool,
but she liked.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But she liked you for you before she knew about
the pool.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Yeah that was.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
She seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in
her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
You're not help.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
I don't have to think about it. I've seen the
video already.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I'll just visualize it and then let us know. What
do you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like, you know,
she blew it.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
She guy, and she blew it.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
I blew it.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
Oh, this is why you hook up the first night.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Everybody's wife right on, Kurt, hurry having a good tinder guy.
Speaker 4 (16:21):
The rest of you, guys, you're all welcome. Used to
poo anytime you want.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Sorry, use you lose. We've moved on
Speaker 4 (16:32):
Brooking Jeffrey in the morning
Second day.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I think a lot of us have gone out on
a first date with low expectations and before you know what,
things happen and you end up spending the night.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Oh yeah, you're lucky, I know.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
But not very often does it happen the opposite way,
where your whole plan is to stay the night, but
you decide, actually, you know what, I'm gonna play the long.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Game on this one.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That's exactly what's happening with Jose and Alexis right now.
We're not here to talk about them today. The grossest.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Protest too much?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Yeah, protest too much.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
You guys can pretend.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
I am not pretending.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
We're not here to talk about the situation happening between
you two. For one of our listeners, Sydney, who needs
our help today, Welcome to the show, Sydney.
Speaker 5 (00:57):
Thanks guys, oh man.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Thank god you're on the phony. Cut the tension in this.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Yeah, So, tell us about the guy that you went
out with recently.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
What's his name?
Speaker 5 (01:07):
His name is Kurt, And I met him on Tinder?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Okay, okay, And I mean what struck him about you
on Tinder?
Speaker 5 (01:14):
On Tinder, he was just cute, Like I was originally
into it, for like a meaningless which is it?
Speaker 6 (01:22):
You don't go to Tinder to like read the bios
strikes you, but you still want to have like a
good like chemistry on your like messages together you know
some some liked shared interest.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I'll give you that, I'll give you. So how did
things play out with you and Kurt?
Speaker 5 (01:38):
Oh my gosh, So it turned out he was pretty amazing,
Like I met him at this bar and he was
just so put together and had this beautiful smile.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Wow, well hello, Kurt, I mean, yes, that's all it
takes just a little smile, Like, Wow, this guy really
knows what he's doing.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Do you have your expectations so low it doesn't take much.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
That should be tenders catch for you?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Expectations so low that it doesn't take much.
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Did you feel yourself like growing more nervous during the
date because you're realizing this I.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Wouldn't say nervous, but just shifting like away from wind
to hook up to like wanting to play like the
long game.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
You know, Okay, you suddenly felt like this was going
to be more than just a one night thing. You
wanted to actually maybe start a relationship this guy.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
I mean, that's that seems pretty deep, but yeah kind of.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
I was like, oh, okay, so how do you go
about doing that?
Speaker 3 (02:37):
The shift? How did the shift happen?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
How do you sleep?
Speaker 5 (02:42):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
This is interesting to me.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Pivot When was your pivot?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
So?
Speaker 5 (02:47):
I mean we hung out at the bar for a
little bit and then it's kind of early and it's
a really hot day.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Okay, so you excuse yourself to the bathroom and you
go put on some real underwear. Now like this could
relationship situation? Get rid of the edible.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Stuff was melting?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I see where you're at Sydney. Keep going.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
So anyway, it was super hot out and he he
said that he had a pool at his house. Yeah
what I know. So I was like, you know, this
could be shady, but the fact is I've been hanging
out with him for a while and he's just so
easy and we just get along, you know. So I
was like why not?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:32):
So wait, was your plan then to skinny dip? Because
I assume he didn't come with a swimsuit?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Well I didn't want to see it, but like, I
just want my T shirt and my undies.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Oh you I think it's a strong move.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
That's all you got I mean heck right as well.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Yeah, but it's also like I didn't want to hook
up with him. I'm just gonna go get naked and wet.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
That's the long game.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Broke Okay is an expert in the art of seduction.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
So did it work?
Speaker 5 (04:01):
I mean I think so. Like, first of all, let
me just tell you his house. Holy Molly, oh really?
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Oh this guy's rich, Oh.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
My god, like brand new, like all the finishing touches,
like a floaty staircase. Who not only does he have
a pool, but he's got a hot tub. So we
did go.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I didn't think a guy with a bed like not
on the ground.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Alexis is trying to graduate from a futon.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
So there's there's hot tub action happening now.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
Well not yeah, but not even like action. It was
totally just like hanging out. I mean, super good chemistry though,
but I didn't want to like mess it up by
just cheapening it. You know, girl, it's not cheapening it.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I mean, you're he's inviting you at his house, you're
in his hot tub, Like you're telling me nothing happened.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
No, I will say we did kiss where where where?
I'm like, well, kind of like after the so it
didn't get too steamy, like it was almost more romantic.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
You maybe get you a towel, and then he pulled
you in.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
You know what happened after after the nice kiss.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
He asked, I want to hang out a little more,
but I thought, maybe, you know, it was time to
call it, just to keep it super high point.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, yeah, keep him wanting more. Oh my gosh. If
I was him, I would be like.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Oh my god, right because you have the kiss, you
have the moment, you heart righting, and.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'd be thinking about you every day after that.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
If I was him, i'd feel like I just blew it.
She just left, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
So she said it was a romantic kid depend Yeah,
okay on paper, yeah, I can see.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So what happened?
Speaker 5 (05:37):
So when I left, he said that he was going
to be out of town for about two weeks, okay,
But then like he got back and it's just been
like he texted me one time and he wanted to
hang out, but now he keeps saying that he's like busy.
So I'm like, oh no, what happened. I mean, did he, like,
you know, meet somebody who was out of.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Town or I mean, two weeks is a long time
to go between seeing someone in the dating world. Were
you able to keep a conversation going with him while
he was away?
Speaker 5 (06:07):
Yeah, we did text a little bit.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Okay, it.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Was kind of flirty. It was it was nice. It
makes it even weirder when he gets back, like the
text aren't at flirty?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Experience, I mean, anybody, the momentum. Yeah, a week without
even talking to somebody or a lot, I mean, it
definitely changes the moments.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Well, maybe we can change it again.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Maybe maybe. Okay, let's give this a shot.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
We're going to play a song, we'll come back, We're
gonna call Kurt for you, and we'll try and get
you a second date.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Update.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Okay, Sidney sounds great. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Okay, this is a challenge that we've never had before
on this morning show. Okay, that challenge is find the
only catch on tin and then reel them in without
any favors. And the reason that he's a catch is
(07:00):
because Kurt not only has good hair and a nice
smile and he's put together.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
On top of all that, he owns a great house with.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
A swimming pool, a floaty staircase, an expensive hot tub,
and they even shared a passionate kiss during sunset as
a pot of dolphins swam by and did a synchronized
water dance to a BTS song.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
And after all that, Sidney still turned down the invitation
to spend the night just to try to play the
long game with this guy.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I feel like Sidney's having regrets after hearing about the
dolphins apparently.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Like he literally was like, hey, I have millions of
dollars if you'd like it, and he was like, no,
I'm good.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
The reason why she might have some regrets is because
it's been two weeks and now their conversation has cooled
off a lot, so she's hoping that we can turn
the heat.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Back up with this second date.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Update.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
How you feeling right now.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Sydney, I'm a nervous as heck. I really am.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Perfect guy pretty much.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
I mean it's interesting because you wanted to play the
long I'm cool game and now you have a radio
station calling for you.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
Seem very cool.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
It kind of turned She's like, now I'm having a
panic attack.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Yeah, thank you for that.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
I think we can do it, though. I mean, you know,
we're like rich, powerful people too. I just think we'll
impress him.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
No, we better hurry up and just make this call
before this gets any worse than it already is.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Okay, so broke, we might pay the phone bill. Yeah,
let's just check make sure it works.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
But I think if we've learned anything from Sydney, it's
start with low expectations, so.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Then it can only go up from there.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
That's good, all right, So I'm gonna dial Kurt's phone
number right now, and we're gonna try and get your
second date up.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Dore You ready, Sydney?
Speaker 5 (08:55):
Okay, I'm ready.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
We'll try not to screw it up.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
No promises though.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
Here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Hey, is this Kurt.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
It's Kurt.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Hey, Kurt, how you doing? My name is Jeff? That awkward?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
It was awkward, though.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
I'm sorry for my awkwardness.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Kurt.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Hi, What what's going on?
Speaker 2 (09:26):
This is a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey
in the Morning, and this is the morning radio show
team that apparently doesn't like the job I'm doing.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
You're not very good at small talk, including just saying your.
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Name is I'm Jeff. What's up?
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Currently?
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Had a great reason for calling you, though, right now.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, is that okay?
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Okay, it's just weird cool something. What happened?
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Well, the reason that we're calling you is because one
of our listeners has been trying to get a hold
of you and she's been having a hard time lately.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Her name is Sidney.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Oh yeah, yeah, okay, you remember Sydney.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yeah, I do remember. So she had you guys call me.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
She was just so excited about your date.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I mean, now you guys want to talk about the date?
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Well, yeah, sort of, because we know that a date
happened two weeks ago over at your house and she
had a lot of great things to say about you
and your place, and she's a little bit confused. Why
now two weeks later things have cooled off between you?
Speaker 4 (10:30):
This is really awkward?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Is it Brooke again?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
It is?
Speaker 2 (10:38):
I apologize.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
I mean, the thing is Kurt, Like, she really felt like.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
There was a true connection between you two, and it
was something that she wasn't expecting at all, and it
really surprised her.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
I agree, I did think there was potential to be
honest with you.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
Okay, that's good.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I just I feel like I honestly, I think I
kind of screwed up a little bit.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
Why do you say that?
Speaker 4 (11:04):
Okay, so you're like, she really liked the pool. People
enjoy it when they come to visit. I get that,
but I kind of messed up. I was like, well,
you know, you're welcome to use it anytime, Like I
made this comment, and then I went away for a
couple of weeks for business and then I found out
when I was away that she used the pool multiple
times with her friends.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Well you weren't there, Yeah, she just kept.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Over and over coming over with her friend glab security.
You know my security footage. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
I thought I was gonna say, like security guards.
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Yeah, my security dog, my security dog.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
But you told her she could use it whenever.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
No, wait, hold up, she didn't ask you, No, she.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
Didn't mention it. And then like the motion sensor triggers,
like I know people were in there, so I know
multiple times I got an alert people were in the
backyard or whatever. And when I checked the footage, it was.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Like, yeah, there's apps now, yeah, yeah, yeah, we have
one that's the same. You can see it from your phone.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Honestly, my brother uses michool all the time, so I
kind of figured it was him. And then when I
got back. I was curious to see, like who had
been using the pool, and then it was her over
and over, like it was like the YMCA.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Okay, so you come home and you check your security
cams and you see that it's actually Sydney and her
friends using your pool, and that's why you've kind of
cooled off towards her.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Yeah, I mean, I just feel that she took advantage.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Did you warn her that you have security cameras outside
your We just had this conversation like not too long
ago where you said, if anybody comes over to your house,
you need to warn them that you have cameras.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Don't die if you invite someone to your home. She
was never invited. Like that's the thing, like when you
give an open invitation to somebody saying, oh, use the pool,
you know everyone knows that you ask before you do it.
You don't just show up that.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
It sounded to me like he told her you can
come over at any time, and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
If that's true. Maybe we should ask Sydney Sidney, is
that what he said?
Speaker 3 (13:06):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
It's not like, yeah, sorry, I should have let you
know Kurt that Sydney's been on the other line listening
this entire time.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
She wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (13:16):
After all that, Now you didn't wet me?
Speaker 1 (13:18):
No, yeah, well I guess my calls are right.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I'm not very good at this job, so I apologize,
but go ahead, Sydney.
Speaker 5 (13:25):
Oh my gosh, I can barely even stand. I'm so
horrified right now. I feel so bad. Maybe I was
just so excited about like the time we had. I
just kind of was like showing off your place to
my friends. I don't know, but now I just feel
like I messed up so bad, and I just that's
not respectful in my part, and I'm so sorry. I
(13:46):
feel really bad.
Speaker 4 (13:48):
I mean, yeah, I appreciate that. I just I don't know.
It's just a little weird.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
Sidney. How did you even get into his pool?
Speaker 5 (13:56):
Like?
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Did you have to scale a fence or something?
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (13:58):
No, there's like a a door that isn't kept.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
One of those ones you just reach over.
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
My parents have that too. I'm like, why do you
have a door that could come in?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
Sidney?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
What were you thinking?
Speaker 5 (14:11):
What do you mean?
Speaker 6 (14:12):
Was she's thinking?
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Broke pool?
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Pardon? Why? Why wouldn't you ask him? Why wouldn't you say, hey,
do you mind if my friends and I come over
while you're out get away with it.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
I'm asking her, I mean, if you want me to
be completely honest here, You're right. I didn't think he
would actually know, and I was so excited to show
my friends where he lived.
Speaker 2 (14:32):
I mean, it sounds to me, Kurt, like Sydney realizes
that she made a mistake and she's really sorry about
what she did.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It was just like everything was just thrown around too,
Like she didn't even clean up after it was just
like it was just a disaster.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
I really, well, she just figured that she would come
back the next day.
Speaker 5 (14:51):
I don't recall that. Pardon if that's true. I'm super
horrified in every way right now. I I mean, honestly,
this unforgivable. But I really hope that you'll just take
my word that I'm not a tool and that like,
I'm so sorry, and I hope we can give it
a second chance.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
As all, she's impressed by you, bro, she's trying to
show off your pad to her friends.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Yeah, and with that being said, we want to send
you out on another date and we'll pay for it. Kurt,
if you're willing to give Sidney one more chance public pool.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
I mean, to be fair, Kurt, she didn't. I don't
think she's like a gold digger. I don't think she's
trying to use you.
Speaker 6 (15:26):
I mean, it's hard to find a guy with a pool,
but she liked.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
But she liked you for you before she knew about
the pool.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Yeah that was.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
She seemed sincere when she told us about it. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I mean, before you answer, just think about Sydney in
her shirt and her no pants swimming around in your pool.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
You're not help.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
I don't have to think about it. I've seen the
video already.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
I'll just visualize it and then let us know. What
do you think? One more shot with Sidney on our bill.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
I'm sorry, I don't think so. I feel like, you know,
she blew it.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
She guy, and she blew it.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
I blew it.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
Oh, this is why you hook up the first night.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Everybody's wife right on, Kurt, hurry having a good tinder guy.
Speaker 4 (16:21):
The rest of you, guys, you're all welcome. Used to
poo anytime you want.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
Sorry, use you lose. We've moved on
Speaker 4 (16:32):
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