August 29, 2025 • 17 mins
After today’s Second Date Update you might agree with us that dating apps can be used for WAY more than just dates! See what we mean in the podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date. Update on a first date.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
If you're a woman, where's the safest place to meet
a guy for the first time?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Public? A lot of people in.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Public, it's too general.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Anywhere a rest I've crossed.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Off a few suggestions jose gave earlier. Dark web. No,
although it does provide good anonymity on the web, not
a full dark Maybe a children in a place Okay,
children's toy store where the security guard can see you.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Safe fun.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I think they're all closed, aren't they?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Like?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Maybe I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartments,
so she always gives them the address to Brooks House.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, there's.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Nobody wants to steal anything from me to have that
gutter guy ended.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Up in my house salesman.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
One of our listeners, Davis, said he met his date
at a place that he never expected he would. So
let's learn more about it, Davis, Welcome to the show.
What's this girl's name?
Speaker 4 (01:08):
First of all, Hey, so her name is Ashley Ashley, and.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Did Ashley want to meet you?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
So we were going to go out and she asked
me to give her a ride, which I thought was
really interesting. That doesn't usually.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Happen step to not safest things to do on a date.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
And had you met in person before? Or is this
meet up off the apps?
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Uh? No, this is off an app.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah, getting in a car just never do that ever. Yeah,
I mean, honestly.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Davis, I trust you immediately, so you can come to
the radio station wherever you want. How long were you
guys talking before the date happened?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
So we only talked once and it was on the phone,
but it was for like three.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Hours, So I mean you obviously were vibing and you
were clicking.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Like for three hours. You got to have a good
connection with somebody.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
But it was there a reason why she wanted you
to pick her up?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
You know, she didn't. She just asked if I could
pick her up, and I thought, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
So she gave you an address and this turned out
to be the actual place that she really lived.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yeah, why wouldn't it be.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Gotcha? You could get a different That's what I would do.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
But what was it like when you showed up at
her house and.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
You got her Yeah, I mean it was great.
Speaker 6 (02:28):
So it was a house and she has a roommate,
but her roommate was out for the night, so you know,
I said, hey, yeah, let's why don't we you know,
head out, we'll go and she said, well, first you
want a drink, like I can give you a tour And.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I was like, oh okay, oh wow, she's inviting you
inside immediately, and.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Yeah, how can I say no? So after the tour,
we just sat on the porch and uh just started
talking and that turned into like longer and longer and
didn't even end up going out.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
It's just it's just like your phone call from the
first time we met, Like you just get lost in
conversation together.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
That's such a great sign. What'd you guys like connect over?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
We connected over a lot of stuff. We have like
a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot
of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things
like that.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Did anything weird happen?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Well, okay not. I don't know if it was weird, Like, okay,
so we were on the front porch. We had a
few drinks throughout the time that we were there, so
I kept going in and out to get the drinks
and come back out with them. And she has a
dog named Nugget.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Ahugget really cute.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Yeah, yeah, but she kept warning me, you know, hey,
like just make sure you're mindful of shutting the door
because you know he'll run away if he gets out. Yeah.
So after a few drinks, kind of forgot that she
had a dog for a little bit, so I did
leave the door crack while I was handing her drink,
and Nugget almost got out. He was like half way
(04:05):
out the door, and I had this sort of yeah,
I had to dive to grab it. But you got him,
I did. I got him.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But then after that it was getting dark. I said,
why don't we put on the light. Do you have
a light out here? And she said, well, I would,
but it's sort of broken and it's too high for
me to change. And I said, oh, well that's not
that high. I can reach that. So I reached up
and I changed the light. And she said, oh, you know,
there's really nice for you to do. I appreciate that.
And I said, oh, yeah, I'm a little handy a
(04:34):
little sometimes it was.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
A little handy. By changing the light bulb.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's handy. Change a light bulb. That's something that's useful
that you do around the house.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
That is handy. Anybody can change a light bulbs.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
You get your hands like skill, and you know how did.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
You have to twist it one way and then twist
it back the other and then sometimes it's a dog.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You got to do it.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
I understand it's handy where you grew.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Up, Davis. She doesn't consider you handy man.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Not for that.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
You know what I did? Fixture her burner too?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Oh what burn Wait a minute, that is and her
burner phone threw it?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
I hope not the burner on her kitchen stove.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Wow, Okay, that's handy.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
You spread in a gas pipe this time, which is
way more different.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's romantic.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
It does sound like you help her stuff. We talk
for a few hours. You may just be a really
best friend.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Now.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Maybe she's not getting back to you because there's CO
two poisoning in her house.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
You didn't I didn't.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Do it right, I hope not.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Was there any romance like any kissing action?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Or we did kiss a little bit at the end
of the night before I left you?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
So okay, she's romantically indie.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh, she's romantically into me? Why is it she answering
my text?
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Now?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Rude?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
She should be excited to text you if anything should
be like, oh my god, Okay, wait thirty minutes before
you text him back.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Totally, it's so good, all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I thought it was something's wrong with her, bro No way,
it's you. We'll find out what her problem. Too handy
even we don't know the word.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Maybe it's handsy.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Well Brook would consider that a perk.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Everybody has a different opinion, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Let's figure this out.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
We're gonna call Ashley for you, get you a second
date update right after this hold.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
On second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Most other radio shows try to lift up their listeners,
praise them for doing nice things and good deeds on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yeah, that's not really our style.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
We let to downplay your positive traits and good deeds
and will even insult your handy skills because we're trying
to help you to realize your own flaws.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Why are you so stuck? A miss change in the
light bulb is not handy, Jeff, and.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Double down his manhood caring. Real love isn't about support,
It's about flaw finding, and our listener Davis appreciates that.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Right, David, I guess so yes now.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Brooke wrote down fifteen other shortcomings that she noticed during
the day.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
She's super nice and helped her out too nice.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
You are so impossible some days, Davis, she's calling you impossible.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Oh it's hard to tell something exhausting.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Yeah, well it's possible that he did exhaust her because
Davis was with her at her house for many, many
hours drinking out on her front porch.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
So cute though, Like, I can't believe she's not calling
you back.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Same.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you
back is that her dog just got loose and she's
been out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs
your help to track him down.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Alternative. That's your positivity, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
We're here to help her in her time of need.
That's a good thing.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Let's dollar and see where she's at and if she
needs a little assistance, here we go.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Hopefully she picks up.
Speaker 8 (08:06):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Hey, is this Ashley?
Speaker 7 (08:09):
Yes it is, who says.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Hey, we're a radio show. We just wanted to know
is Nugget there.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Is Nugget? Safe? What your dog?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Your dog?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Nugget that has the cutest name ever. Good job of
naming your dog.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Thanks. I don't know how you know my dog's name, but.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
We heard it from a listener to our show that
you met up with for a date recently.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
His name is Davis.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Oh okay, I don't really I don't really remember.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
You remember Davis?
Speaker 7 (08:46):
I yeah, I don't know. I just I kind of
hang out with a lot of people, so.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Talk came to your house. Yeah, I think you just
like a we ago.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
A week ago.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
According to him, you guys met on a dating app.
You asked him to come pick you up for a date,
and then he ended up just staying there drinking with
you on your front porch, which.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
You know, we were actually shocked that you were so
trusting of him so quickly.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I mean, because it's just a guy you met on
the internet.
Speaker 7 (09:18):
Yeah. Does he have dark hair? I think he was
wearing a gray shirt.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
We've never seen him, but that does sound like him.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah, good old gray shirty. He sounded very gray shirt
and dark hair over here.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
So many dates, I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that
many in a week.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
How could you not remember someone like that you spent
hours with?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
To be honest, I mean that's kind of like just
how I use the dating apps. I've been doing this
for a.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
While doing what wait, what you invite people over and
talk to them and then let them leave.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
That's hat called a date app. You're drinking anyone.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
But it feels like he didn't even know his name
while he was at your house.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
I've been using dating apps for over a year now,
and when I started, I was looking for a relationship.
But wait, I don't I don't really know if that's
where I'm at anymore.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
What do you mean, like you you just you don't
want to see anybody seriously, or like why go out
on the date to begin with?
Speaker 7 (10:24):
If that, I just I saw like too many people
just want to mess around, you know, And after a
while it just really kind of, I don't know, mess
with my head. So I just decided, screw it. I'm
just gonna be in my free handyman phase.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Your free handyman, So you do admit he's handy.
Speaker 8 (10:52):
Well, so I'll set up a meeting with the guy
and they will end up fixing stuff from it.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
You don't like him, How do you even.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Know they're handy when you meet him on the app?
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Stuff?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy,
whether they really are not.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
So much time, Jeffrey did think that he was handed
with the light bulb, so I'll.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Any light bulb in this studio, watch me.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
That's so messed up. You're just using these people, You
spend hours with them and kiss them off for Yeah,
that sucks.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
Sad, guys, chill out. I mean, look, I'll have him
back over if something else goes wrong in the house.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He he thought that he was going over there to
have like a genuine connection with you.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just
put on the apps just looking for a handyman, and
guys would still volunteer to do that.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
A landlord exactly.
Speaker 7 (11:59):
Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things. And look,
if I put just looking for a handyman on an app,
people are going to show up thinking that it's like
an X rated request.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That's sure, just looking for a pizza guy.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
That's so messed up. He's going to be hurt.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Is he going to be her? We don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
The only way to find out is if we actually
just talked to him, because he just happens to be
on the other line right now waiting to jump in
on this conversation.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Oh god, he heard everything?
Speaker 7 (12:34):
Is he there? Listen before he jumps in. I'm just
I'm still trying to figure out which guy he is
because I had to do come over in the same weekend.
Did he I just did he recall the bathtub.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Or anything about any recall unless we missed that part
of the Davis are remembered that word?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, Hey, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Why.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Actually, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date for love,
and I'm looking for someone who wants the same.
Speaker 7 (13:14):
Well, I really love that he fixed my stove.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just
jaded from being hurt, you know.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
I mean, that's true, and I'm sorry you feel bad.
I mean, I you were nice to talk to. I mean,
I'm happy to hang out again with you at my place.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
If he fixes something else for you, like only if
he wants to.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
That's good.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Wow, what an offer?
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Anyone pass that up?
Speaker 7 (13:50):
I mean, the good news is I've already got a
guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask
you to do any plumbing.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Oh there's a different guy issues.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
Well, it's hard to find a good plumber.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I just feel so taken advantage of right now. I
really thought we had a real connection and it looks
like you have this kind of connection with a lot
of people.
Speaker 7 (14:11):
Oh, David, I'm really sorry you feel that way.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
It's with an as Davis.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Oh my god, you kissed him still? Or is that
the tip?
Speaker 7 (14:28):
You know? He did a nice thing for me. What's
wrong with a little harmless kissing everything?
Speaker 5 (14:34):
When he thinks, yeah, bye Ryan wherever.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Your name was?
Speaker 8 (14:41):
Again?
Speaker 7 (14:42):
Like, I'm sorry if he was confused about things, but
I just know where I am at in my life.
I'm in this handyman phase.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
You didn't tell him that.
Speaker 8 (14:53):
Well, now he knows.
Speaker 7 (14:55):
If he'd like to come over again, I'd be open
to it.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
There is no way David still wants to I got
with her.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Gone by some wood and go build her a deck. Bro,
If you'll love her, go.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
Get Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy. You never
know what he's gonna say if it means scoring another
date with a cute girl. So that's true, Davis. Remember
how pretty Ashley was?
Speaker 7 (15:14):
And I think I hear a noise in my ceiling fan.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
She just pays you and kisses.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
What do you think, Davis?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
My handiness is deserved for someone who loves me.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
That that should be a bumber sticker.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David,
and good luck, good.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Love with all your handy dating life stuff in the future.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
And Ashley.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
I know a couple guys on our textport at seven
eighty five nine two say they will be available at
a moment's notice to come and fix your ceiling fan
or whatever you got going on.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Have no dignity left, she kisses.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
At the end of the day, Yeah, I kiss somebody
Jeffrey in the morning. I wasn't kidding.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
We really were getting text at seventy five to nine
to two from many gentlemen who would not mind helping
Ashley with her household problems.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Dude, but we're man.
Speaker 5 (16:16):
We want to feel useful, women, have some respect, get paid.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
For it, at least, that's the thing you have to
think about. Like, I know, we were saying earlier that
having a stranger who you just meant on the internet
come over to your house for a date is kind
of sketchy, But how is that any different than finding
a random handyman on the internet and hiring him to
come out to your house.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Yeah, Jeff, I don't.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
I don't have those guys come to my house when
I'm home alone.
Speaker 7 (16:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:41):
Well, you literally make sure that someone else is there.
That's what women do, and like make sure you know
their name.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Maybe just saying either way, it's a random dude that
you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley's
plan was economical because she got free work done.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
I don't know she can't change her own light bulb,
but I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Just off.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Don't know how many people I've paid to come out
and change my light bulbs for me, and I pay them.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
She's just given all the women of the world a
great life.
Speaker 7 (17:08):
Happen.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Have you just out a house and you're paying people
to change your life? Pay me next time?
Speaker 4 (17:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
I don't know if you guys are handymen certified again,
it doesn't I need to see the check mark next
to your name if I'm gonna believe you're gonna fix
my stuff. But uh, if you ever want help with
your dating life, we're not certified at all for that
will help. We'll step in and give it our best try.
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Second date. Update on a first date.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
If you're a woman, where's the safest place to meet
a guy for the first time?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Public? A lot of people in.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Public, it's too general.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Anywhere a rest I've crossed.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Off a few suggestions jose gave earlier. Dark web. No,
although it does provide good anonymity on the web, not
a full dark Maybe a children in a place Okay,
children's toy store where the security guard can see you.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Safe fun.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I think they're all closed, aren't they?
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Like?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Maybe I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartments,
so she always gives them the address to Brooks House.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Yeah, there's.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Nobody wants to steal anything from me to have that
gutter guy ended.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Up in my house salesman.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
One of our listeners, Davis, said he met his date
at a place that he never expected he would. So
let's learn more about it, Davis, Welcome to the show.
What's this girl's name?
Speaker 4 (01:08):
First of all, Hey, so her name is Ashley Ashley, and.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Did Ashley want to meet you?
Speaker 4 (01:14):
So we were going to go out and she asked
me to give her a ride, which I thought was
really interesting. That doesn't usually.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Happen step to not safest things to do on a date.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
And had you met in person before? Or is this
meet up off the apps?
Speaker 4 (01:28):
Uh? No, this is off an app.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yeah, getting in a car just never do that ever. Yeah,
I mean, honestly.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Davis, I trust you immediately, so you can come to
the radio station wherever you want. How long were you
guys talking before the date happened?
Speaker 4 (01:45):
So we only talked once and it was on the phone,
but it was for like three.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Hours, So I mean you obviously were vibing and you
were clicking.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Like for three hours. You got to have a good
connection with somebody.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
But it was there a reason why she wanted you
to pick her up?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
You know, she didn't. She just asked if I could
pick her up, and I thought, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
So she gave you an address and this turned out
to be the actual place that she really lived.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Yeah, why wouldn't it be.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Gotcha? You could get a different That's what I would do.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
But what was it like when you showed up at
her house and.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
You got her Yeah, I mean it was great.
Speaker 6 (02:28):
So it was a house and she has a roommate,
but her roommate was out for the night, so you know,
I said, hey, yeah, let's why don't we you know,
head out, we'll go and she said, well, first you
want a drink, like I can give you a tour And.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I was like, oh okay, oh wow, she's inviting you
inside immediately, and.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Yeah, how can I say no? So after the tour,
we just sat on the porch and uh just started
talking and that turned into like longer and longer and
didn't even end up going out.
Speaker 5 (02:59):
It's just it's just like your phone call from the
first time we met, Like you just get lost in
conversation together.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
That's such a great sign. What'd you guys like connect over?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
We connected over a lot of stuff. We have like
a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot
of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things
like that.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Did anything weird happen?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Well, okay not. I don't know if it was weird, Like, okay,
so we were on the front porch. We had a
few drinks throughout the time that we were there, so
I kept going in and out to get the drinks
and come back out with them. And she has a
dog named Nugget.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Ahugget really cute.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Yeah, yeah, but she kept warning me, you know, hey,
like just make sure you're mindful of shutting the door
because you know he'll run away if he gets out. Yeah.
So after a few drinks, kind of forgot that she
had a dog for a little bit, so I did
leave the door crack while I was handing her drink,
and Nugget almost got out. He was like half way
(04:05):
out the door, and I had this sort of yeah,
I had to dive to grab it. But you got him,
I did. I got him.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
But then after that it was getting dark. I said,
why don't we put on the light. Do you have
a light out here? And she said, well, I would,
but it's sort of broken and it's too high for
me to change. And I said, oh, well that's not
that high. I can reach that. So I reached up
and I changed the light. And she said, oh, you know,
there's really nice for you to do. I appreciate that.
And I said, oh, yeah, I'm a little handy a
(04:34):
little sometimes it was.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
A little handy. By changing the light bulb.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
That's handy. Change a light bulb. That's something that's useful
that you do around the house.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
That is handy. Anybody can change a light bulbs.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
You get your hands like skill, and you know how did.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
You have to twist it one way and then twist
it back the other and then sometimes it's a dog.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
You got to do it.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
I understand it's handy where you grew.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Up, Davis. She doesn't consider you handy man.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Not for that.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
You know what I did? Fixture her burner too?
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Oh what burn Wait a minute, that is and her
burner phone threw it?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
I hope not the burner on her kitchen stove.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Wow, Okay, that's handy.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
You spread in a gas pipe this time, which is
way more different.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's romantic.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
It does sound like you help her stuff. We talk
for a few hours. You may just be a really
best friend.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Now.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Maybe she's not getting back to you because there's CO
two poisoning in her house.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
You didn't I didn't.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Do it right, I hope not.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Was there any romance like any kissing action?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Or we did kiss a little bit at the end
of the night before I left you?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
So okay, she's romantically indie.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Oh, she's romantically into me? Why is it she answering
my text?
Speaker 7 (05:45):
Now?
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Rude?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
She should be excited to text you if anything should
be like, oh my god, Okay, wait thirty minutes before
you text him back.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Totally, it's so good, all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I thought it was something's wrong with her, bro No way,
it's you. We'll find out what her problem. Too handy
even we don't know the word.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Maybe it's handsy.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Well Brook would consider that a perk.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Everybody has a different opinion, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Let's figure this out.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
We're gonna call Ashley for you, get you a second
date update right after this hold.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
On second date update.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Most other radio shows try to lift up their listeners,
praise them for doing nice things and good deeds on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Yeah, that's not really our style.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
We let to downplay your positive traits and good deeds
and will even insult your handy skills because we're trying
to help you to realize your own flaws.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Why are you so stuck? A miss change in the
light bulb is not handy, Jeff, and.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Double down his manhood caring. Real love isn't about support,
It's about flaw finding, and our listener Davis appreciates that.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Right, David, I guess so yes now.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Brooke wrote down fifteen other shortcomings that she noticed during
the day.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
She's super nice and helped her out too nice.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
You are so impossible some days, Davis, she's calling you impossible.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Oh it's hard to tell something exhausting.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Yeah, well it's possible that he did exhaust her because
Davis was with her at her house for many, many
hours drinking out on her front porch.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
So cute though, Like, I can't believe she's not calling
you back.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Same.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you
back is that her dog just got loose and she's
been out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs
your help to track him down.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Alternative. That's your positivity, Jeff.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
We're here to help her in her time of need.
That's a good thing.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Let's dollar and see where she's at and if she
needs a little assistance, here we go.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Hopefully she picks up.
Speaker 8 (08:06):
Hello.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Hey, is this Ashley?
Speaker 7 (08:09):
Yes it is, who says.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Hey, we're a radio show. We just wanted to know
is Nugget there.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
Is Nugget? Safe? What your dog?
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Your dog?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Nugget that has the cutest name ever. Good job of
naming your dog.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Thanks. I don't know how you know my dog's name, but.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
We heard it from a listener to our show that
you met up with for a date recently.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
His name is Davis.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
Oh okay, I don't really I don't really remember.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
You remember Davis?
Speaker 7 (08:46):
I yeah, I don't know. I just I kind of
hang out with a lot of people, so.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Talk came to your house. Yeah, I think you just
like a we ago.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
A week ago.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
According to him, you guys met on a dating app.
You asked him to come pick you up for a date,
and then he ended up just staying there drinking with
you on your front porch, which.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
You know, we were actually shocked that you were so
trusting of him so quickly.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I mean, because it's just a guy you met on
the internet.
Speaker 7 (09:18):
Yeah. Does he have dark hair? I think he was
wearing a gray shirt.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
We've never seen him, but that does sound like him.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Yeah, good old gray shirty. He sounded very gray shirt
and dark hair over here.
Speaker 5 (09:35):
So many dates, I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that
many in a week.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
How could you not remember someone like that you spent
hours with?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
To be honest, I mean that's kind of like just
how I use the dating apps. I've been doing this
for a.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
While doing what wait, what you invite people over and
talk to them and then let them leave.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
That's hat called a date app. You're drinking anyone.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
But it feels like he didn't even know his name
while he was at your house.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (10:05):
I've been using dating apps for over a year now,
and when I started, I was looking for a relationship.
But wait, I don't I don't really know if that's
where I'm at anymore.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
What do you mean, like you you just you don't
want to see anybody seriously, or like why go out
on the date to begin with?
Speaker 7 (10:24):
If that, I just I saw like too many people
just want to mess around, you know, And after a
while it just really kind of, I don't know, mess
with my head. So I just decided, screw it. I'm
just gonna be in my free handyman phase.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Your free handyman, So you do admit he's handy.
Speaker 8 (10:52):
Well, so I'll set up a meeting with the guy
and they will end up fixing stuff from it.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
You don't like him, How do you even.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Know they're handy when you meet him on the app?
Speaker 4 (11:09):
Stuff?
Speaker 7 (11:12):
I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy,
whether they really are not.
Speaker 5 (11:18):
So much time, Jeffrey did think that he was handed
with the light bulb, so I'll.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
Any light bulb in this studio, watch me.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
That's so messed up. You're just using these people, You
spend hours with them and kiss them off for Yeah,
that sucks.
Speaker 7 (11:34):
Sad, guys, chill out. I mean, look, I'll have him
back over if something else goes wrong in the house.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
He he thought that he was going over there to
have like a genuine connection with you.
Speaker 5 (11:47):
And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just
put on the apps just looking for a handyman, and
guys would still volunteer to do that.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
A landlord exactly.
Speaker 7 (11:59):
Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things. And look,
if I put just looking for a handyman on an app,
people are going to show up thinking that it's like
an X rated request.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That's sure, just looking for a pizza guy.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
That's so messed up. He's going to be hurt.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Is he going to be her? We don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
The only way to find out is if we actually
just talked to him, because he just happens to be
on the other line right now waiting to jump in
on this conversation.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
Oh god, he heard everything?
Speaker 7 (12:34):
Is he there? Listen before he jumps in. I'm just
I'm still trying to figure out which guy he is
because I had to do come over in the same weekend.
Did he I just did he recall the bathtub.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Or anything about any recall unless we missed that part
of the Davis are remembered that word?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Yeah, Hey, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Why.
Speaker 4 (13:03):
Actually, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date for love,
and I'm looking for someone who wants the same.
Speaker 7 (13:14):
Well, I really love that he fixed my stove.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just
jaded from being hurt, you know.
Speaker 7 (13:26):
I mean, that's true, and I'm sorry you feel bad.
I mean, I you were nice to talk to. I mean,
I'm happy to hang out again with you at my place.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
If he fixes something else for you, like only if
he wants to.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
That's good.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
Wow, what an offer?
Speaker 1 (13:48):
Anyone pass that up?
Speaker 7 (13:50):
I mean, the good news is I've already got a
guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask
you to do any plumbing.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Oh there's a different guy issues.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
Well, it's hard to find a good plumber.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
I just feel so taken advantage of right now. I
really thought we had a real connection and it looks
like you have this kind of connection with a lot
of people.
Speaker 7 (14:11):
Oh, David, I'm really sorry you feel that way.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
It's with an as Davis.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Oh my god, you kissed him still? Or is that
the tip?
Speaker 7 (14:28):
You know? He did a nice thing for me. What's
wrong with a little harmless kissing everything?
Speaker 5 (14:34):
When he thinks, yeah, bye Ryan wherever.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Your name was?
Speaker 8 (14:41):
Again?
Speaker 7 (14:42):
Like, I'm sorry if he was confused about things, but
I just know where I am at in my life.
I'm in this handyman phase.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
You didn't tell him that.
Speaker 8 (14:53):
Well, now he knows.
Speaker 7 (14:55):
If he'd like to come over again, I'd be open
to it.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
There is no way David still wants to I got
with her.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Gone by some wood and go build her a deck. Bro,
If you'll love her, go.
Speaker 2 (15:03):
Get Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy. You never
know what he's gonna say if it means scoring another
date with a cute girl. So that's true, Davis. Remember
how pretty Ashley was?
Speaker 7 (15:14):
And I think I hear a noise in my ceiling fan.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
She just pays you and kisses.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
What do you think, Davis?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
My handiness is deserved for someone who loves me.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
That that should be a bumber sticker.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David,
and good luck, good.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Love with all your handy dating life stuff in the future.
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
And Ashley.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
I know a couple guys on our textport at seven
eighty five nine two say they will be available at
a moment's notice to come and fix your ceiling fan
or whatever you got going on.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Have no dignity left, she kisses.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
At the end of the day, Yeah, I kiss somebody
Jeffrey in the morning. I wasn't kidding.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
We really were getting text at seventy five to nine
to two from many gentlemen who would not mind helping
Ashley with her household problems.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Dude, but we're man.
Speaker 5 (16:16):
We want to feel useful, women, have some respect, get paid.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
For it, at least, that's the thing you have to
think about. Like, I know, we were saying earlier that
having a stranger who you just meant on the internet
come over to your house for a date is kind
of sketchy, But how is that any different than finding
a random handyman on the internet and hiring him to
come out to your house.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
Yeah, Jeff, I don't.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
I don't have those guys come to my house when
I'm home alone.
Speaker 7 (16:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:41):
Well, you literally make sure that someone else is there.
That's what women do, and like make sure you know
their name.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Maybe just saying either way, it's a random dude that
you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley's
plan was economical because she got free work done.
Speaker 5 (16:54):
I don't know she can't change her own light bulb,
but I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human.
Speaker 3 (17:00):
Just off.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Don't know how many people I've paid to come out
and change my light bulbs for me, and I pay them.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
She's just given all the women of the world a
great life.
Speaker 7 (17:08):
Happen.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Have you just out a house and you're paying people
to change your life? Pay me next time?
Speaker 4 (17:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
I don't know if you guys are handymen certified again,
it doesn't I need to see the check mark next
to your name if I'm gonna believe you're gonna fix
my stuff. But uh, if you ever want help with
your dating life, we're not certified at all for that
will help. We'll step in and give it our best try.
It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Hosts And Creators
Brooke Fox
Jeffrey "Young Jeffrey" Dubow
Alexis Fuller
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