June 13, 2025 • 18 mins
The woman on the phone today says her date decided to switch booths HALFWAY through their dinner… And all of us were stunned when we finally learned the actual reason he demanded to move locations...Hear for yourself in a brand new Second Date Update!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The second date of date.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
If you go out on a really good first date,
it might end in a little kiss. It could end
in a tender hug, or, if you're lucky, a three
way chicken fight with your parents.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
And I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Sitting on top of each other's shoulders inside of the
pool well. One of our listeners says she got something
else at the end of her night, a two word
whisper in her ear, and she's not sure really what
it meant, if anything.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
So let's talk to her.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I just cringe.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Think it could be something really nice and romantic. Baby Angie,
Welcome to the show. I'm very curious about this whisperer.
But before we get to that, first tell us the
guy's name and how you met him.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Whisper it to us.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Nikola, no more whispery, No.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
More whispery until the actual whisper happened. How about that?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
It's easy the heat, I know, their car.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Their radios down or out there.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
I don't know, Cholas, how I.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Mean, it's kind of embarrassing, but we met on plenty
of fish, which I know people don't even use anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
But yeah, there's actual only fish on their question what
drove you to plenty of fish?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
It's just one of those that, like I said, up
a profile I don't even know how long ago, and
then I'll get in a relationship and I'll get off it.
But like I can just go reactivate it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Okay, some question. Does it even have an app? Or
you have to use a browser? I don't even know.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Honest, it only operates over facts.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now, okay, got me.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I thought it still was printed out on the back
of the weeklies.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
That could be, I want to But the important thing
is that you matched with this Nicholas guy.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So tell us what did you do for your date?
Speaker 6 (01:54):
We went to dinner. We went to a tie place,
which is one of my faves, So that was good.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Did you remember that it was one of your favorites
because that's always like really nice too.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Well, I picked it, so that made that.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
He deserves credit a little bit for going along thing.
So let's get it.
Speaker 6 (02:11):
And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and
it's pad Ti awesome.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So what did you think when you first saw each other?
Speaker 6 (02:21):
I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean,
I will say, dating kind of sucks, and I feel
like a lot of times they get like flirty to
the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down,
Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You've even met.
Speaker 6 (02:35):
And he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more
like a like a nerdy type.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But it was.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Cute and he was respectful of your boundries.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Wow. So a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm
surprised you didn't unmatch him immediate.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Right, Yeah, that's really funny. Okay, was there any like know,
moments of real flirtation that happened.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day
for the most part, but like, I don't know, they'd
be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be
like a five seconds delay and then he would go
and the answer and it wasn't weird at all.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
But like just staring at you for the five seconds.
You know, though, some people are just bad at timing
in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who
like takes really long pauses and you're like, wait, do
I go? Do we not go? Like maybe his timing
is just a little off.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Maybe what are you talking about me.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Sorry he waited to answer.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
So I like to think of it as I'm just
a good listener.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Yeah, but I was done talking. I mean, he was
checking his phone a lot, So I wonder if maybe,
like maybe I thought I was boring. I don't know,
you know what, I think.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
This is mind blowing to me. He does something that
I could never do, and that is think before he speaks.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I'm thinking Google, before he speaks Google, I know that
he's having a I listen in.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
The thing was one point, like early on, after we
sat down, like before we had ordered anything, he was like,
oh man, it's really loud over here, and he was like,
do you mind if we moved to like the back
where it's choire And I was like, no, that's fine,
and they moved us.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Maybe I don't know. I think I honestly think we're
over thinking it.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if
this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to
come off like he really cares, he might take a
second to try and come up with a really good
answer to your questions, I mean blurting stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right,
I know, I.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Wouldn't say they bothered me. I just it was weird.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It was noticeable because they probably didn't bother him. That's
how he communicated to him.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
He was like, that was a normal back and.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Forth totally, so overall pretty solid date.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I'm really really interested though in the end here when
he whispers something in the two words wait, I want to.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Know if he waited five seconds before he did the
run us.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Through what happened there?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Okay, So end of the day, we are like outside
of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I
give him a hug, and when I hug him, he
whispers in my ear, good.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Job, good job, good job.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Yeah, like sums up good job.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
It's so bizarre.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Maybe he just doesn't know how to end a date.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Like maybe it was a new dialogue that came out.
Maybe he was talking to him.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to
be like hey, good date, or like in two words
that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
It could be the whole reason he's not calling you back,
because he's like, God, what did I say that?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I mean maybe, but like even after he said it,
I was like, wait, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
What did he say?
Speaker 6 (05:48):
He just he put his finger to his mouth, like
like it's our secret. But I have no idea what
he was talking about.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
What is happening?
Speaker 4 (05:56):
That romantic?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
But anytime a man puts his finger to his I
don't like it. It's creepy anybody, nobody?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
So have you texted him since the date ended?
Speaker 5 (06:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
So we were, you know, we were. We had like
a cute little back and forth before the day, you know,
we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like
I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Okay, something's up. We're gonna come back rate that's not okay.
We're gonna call this plenty of Fisher and we're gonna
see what he has to say when we come back
and get you your second date update right after. It's
(06:39):
the two words that every little boy is dying to
hear from his unapproving father.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Good job, Yeah, proud of your son.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
We're proud of you, Jeff.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
That's not exactly what a woman wants to have whispered
into her ear at the end of a first game.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I thought we were going to go into Jeff's therapy session.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened
to her listener Angie after she hung out with a
guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a
hug and then softly said, good job.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
In girls are not happy about this. Well, she wasn't either, right.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
I don't think any woman would be happy about that.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
But we've got a lot of questions about the good job,
about some of the other weird stuff that was happening
during the day. Angie said she's willing to look past
it if she can get another chance with him, because
he seemed like a great guy.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
He said that he was like a little reserved, a
little nerdy, Like those are some of the quirks that
come with nerdy, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard
to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just
feel like he was And I'm assuming I mess up,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
You think you messed up, and that's why.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
You like literally it's the person who calls in that
messed up. And like I said, maybe thought I was boring,
I don't.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Know, yeah, probably was.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
She becoming self aware.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
No, I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Are you cool?
Speaker 4 (08:02):
If Nicholas has an unapproving father? Is that okay?
Speaker 6 (08:06):
I think I can deal with that.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yeah, okay, it's good.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Yes, also, good about it. So let's call him. I'm
a Dallas number right now.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Let's see if he picks up. Hello, Hey, is this
Nicholas listen? Nick hey man, thanks for answering. You are
on a radio show right now called Brooke and Jeffrey
in the Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Welcome to the show, Nicholas, how.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Are you man?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Why am I on a radio show?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Great question?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yeah, so I don't know. Have you ever heard of
something called a second date update before?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah? I think so. I think so.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh you have okay, congrats.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Yeah, you almost know who we are. Now you get
to be a part of one.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
So the way that it works is one of our
our listeners has reached out to us hoping that we
could get a hold of you.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
A girl named Angie.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Angie's trying to get a hold of me.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Yeah, do you remember her?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You guys went to ty food the other night.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
She's hoping that she could maybe get another chance to
hang out with you again.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to
work out.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Really, Okay, it sounded like such a good date.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Well, yeah, before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm just
gonna let you know. She said that she really liked
you and that you two shared a good vibe.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, no, I thought Angie was nice.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, she didn't mention that, actually, Nicholas, she mentioned a
few odd things that happened on the date, and she
wasn't sure if maybe those were early signs that you
weren't interested in her.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Which actually turns out could be true. At this point,
at first we thought she was.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Nuts, But well, well, what what did she what did.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in
your responses a little bit during the normal conversation.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Almost like you're intently thinking of what you're going to say.
A delay, okay, almost happened again.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
I think he doesn't notice that that is part of
your conversation. That's fine, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And also she said that you had to move to
a quieter area. And I'm just going to let you
know what the room thought when we heard everything. The
room was wondering if maybe you had a I listening
in on your conversation to help you respond to your date,
because you were checking your phone a lot too.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Yeah, so I don't know who the room is, Who's
who's the room?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
It was mostly Alexis.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Okay because when.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
We talked to her, you know, we all give our
ideas like, oh, maybe it could be this, maybe it
could be that.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
These are just theories.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
So could you just be honest with us and tell
us did you do that? Were you using AI to
assist you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
I was having some help on the date, but I
wasn't using the AI some help on.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
The date, help from your phone.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
I was on the line with my ex and she was.
She was on the line with us the.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Whole time, your ex.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Yeah, well, I mean sometimes I just need help. So
she's kind of like a security blanket for me.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
She wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in
and you were listening to your ex at the same
time you were listening to her?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
No? No, she was just on mute, like she couldn't
say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her
to hear everything.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
So she's kind of taking notes. And then later you
will call her and she will go over the notes here.
That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Your volunteers to listen to hours of your dates?
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Yeah, what, what.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
A kind woman.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Well, it's part of our post breakup growth.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Agreement, post breakup agreement.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
In that Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened
to her dates too on occasion. It's just we help
each other get through our past breakup and move into
a new one. So it's healthy and very healthy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah, I mean it's a very conscious uncoupling like.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Your new dates. Oh yeah, well that is a good point,
because he said sabotage.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
You know, he was not a fan of Angie.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Okay, well, but how did you feel about her?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed
like a try hard, and then when I was thinking
about it, I think that she might be kind of
a try hard.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Whoa wait, wait, don't you want people to try hard
on a first day?
Speaker 6 (12:51):
Excuse me? How was I a try hard?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
That's coming in hard?
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Oh my god, Nicholas, I'm my find this funny. But
your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in common
because she's actually been on the phone listening in on
this conversation.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't
know that. I didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Well, yeah, and Angie didn't know your ex was listening
to her either.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Yeah, it pays to be judging. But say hi to Angie.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But she was Hi, Angie, there you go Hi.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
I mean you're saying this is a healthy thing. But
you also said your ex is your security blankets. So
it does feel like you're ready to be dating other people.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
No, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the right closure,
and then they hold on to the past, and so
this is a way to move on to my future. Yeah,
you're not moving on.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
You're literally still relying on your ex to make your
decisions down there, we're dating, well, we.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Spent a lot of time together, so she knows me
really well, and she sees things from opposite X that
I might not see.
Speaker 6 (14:01):
Then maybe you guys should be together.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not
romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left
in our post breakup growth agreement.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Yeah, it's a long time.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
We're kind of each other's life.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Coaches, really, can't you just recap the date with your
ex instead of having the whole time.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say, like, well,
that's the red flag that I don't typically see.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
This does make sense now why he whispered good job
at the very end of the date. He wasn't saying
it to Angie. He was saying it to his ex
girlfriend who was listening.
Speaker 6 (14:37):
That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper good
job because I thought that we were going to get
to go on another date because I enjoyed myself and
I didn't want my ex to hear her.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
Oh, Nicol, so you're.
Speaker 6 (14:55):
Not to go out with me again? And you listen me.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I mean, here's the thing. I actually think Nicholas is
over his ex. I think your ex, Nicholas is not
over and I don't think you're seeing that correctly.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
I mean that's the possibility and and I kind of
agree with that. But we still have our agreement and
I have.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Rip it up.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Okay, what are we talking about?
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Yeah? And if all she could come up with is
she's a try hard as the biggest red flag.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Oh man, that's a weak red flag.
Speaker 6 (15:29):
And I didn't try that hard I didn't even shave
my legs for that day.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
There must be some clause in your contract with her.
They'll let you get out of it when you find
an amazing new girl like Angie here.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
Because I have a question. What if I had put
out on the first date which you have been listening.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Oh my god, that.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Our date where it's supposed to go over an hour
and a half. I know we were already pushing it
at an hour forty.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Wanted to agreement.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
She was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah,
so the band aid's starting to come off, or he's.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey, can
I sleep with this?
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Angie, just real quick, first, are you still interested in
meeting up with Nicholas again after what you know?
Speaker 6 (16:16):
Are you insane?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
There's no way.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Oh I thought you were Okay?
Speaker 5 (16:21):
No, Jeff, that would have been wild if she said, yeah,
lets she breaks the thing. Yeah, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas,
we're not obviously going to give you another date with
Angie here.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
But funny if his girlfriend has been on the line
this whole time too, Oh yeah, wait is she is?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
She?
Speaker 6 (16:37):
On the third line. What's her name, let's say hi,
brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening
to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes,
taking notes, and she said no.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I mean that's shocking. I really thought that that was
going to walk out too.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
I tried to call my X over and over and
she's gonna answer.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
What's wrong with her?
Speaker 5 (17:04):
I don't get it, Jack.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I guess the fascinating thing to me is if she
would have said yes. Could you imagine that conversation where
Nicholas is really excited and he calls you, like.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Hey, great news, we get to go out again.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in
six months.
Speaker 4 (17:20):
Congrabs, she prooves.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
It really did sound like Nicholas was over his ex
and his ex isn't.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Overham Yeah, like girl or something. Yeah, whatever it is,
it is a messy situation.
Speaker 5 (17:32):
Did she give him away at the wedding?
Speaker 3 (17:36):
She's still hoping that she is the one?
Speaker 4 (17:38):
Yeahless no, fine out.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
But speaking of messy situations, our social media YouTube TikTok
Instagram mess you could see all of our second.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Dates on there, and those are messy for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Make sure to comment, like, subscribe at Brook and Jeffrey.
We appreciate all of our listeners, and if you ever
need help in your dating life, email the show. We'll
call that person who's not calling you back.
The second date of date.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
If you go out on a really good first date,
it might end in a little kiss. It could end
in a tender hug, or, if you're lucky, a three
way chicken fight with your parents.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
And I don't even know what that is.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Sitting on top of each other's shoulders inside of the
pool well. One of our listeners says she got something
else at the end of her night, a two word
whisper in her ear, and she's not sure really what
it meant, if anything.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
So let's talk to her.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I just cringe.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Think it could be something really nice and romantic. Baby Angie,
Welcome to the show. I'm very curious about this whisperer.
But before we get to that, first tell us the
guy's name and how you met him.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Whisper it to us.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Nikola, no more whispery, No.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
More whispery until the actual whisper happened. How about that?
Speaker 3 (01:05):
It's easy the heat, I know, their car.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Their radios down or out there.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
I don't know, Cholas, how I.
Speaker 6 (01:13):
Mean, it's kind of embarrassing, but we met on plenty
of fish, which I know people don't even use anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
But yeah, there's actual only fish on their question what
drove you to plenty of fish?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
It's just one of those that, like I said, up
a profile I don't even know how long ago, and
then I'll get in a relationship and I'll get off it.
But like I can just go reactivate it.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Okay, some question. Does it even have an app? Or
you have to use a browser? I don't even know.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Honest, it only operates over facts.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now, okay, got me.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
I thought it still was printed out on the back
of the weeklies.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
That could be, I want to But the important thing
is that you matched with this Nicholas guy.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So tell us what did you do for your date?
Speaker 6 (01:54):
We went to dinner. We went to a tie place,
which is one of my faves, So that was good.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Did you remember that it was one of your favorites
because that's always like really nice too.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Well, I picked it, so that made that.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
He deserves credit a little bit for going along thing.
So let's get it.
Speaker 6 (02:11):
And I'm a lady who knows what she likes and
it's pad Ti awesome.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So what did you think when you first saw each other?
Speaker 6 (02:21):
I mean, I feel like we hit it off. I mean,
I will say, dating kind of sucks, and I feel
like a lot of times they get like flirty to
the point that you're like, all right, dude, calm down,
Like they'll ask you for sexy pictures before.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
You've even met.
Speaker 6 (02:35):
And he didn't. He was more like soft spoken, more
like a like a nerdy type.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But it was.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Cute and he was respectful of your boundries.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Wow. So a nice guy. That's sweet and considerate. I'm
surprised you didn't unmatch him immediate.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Right, Yeah, that's really funny. Okay, was there any like know,
moments of real flirtation that happened.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
Yeah, I mean it felt like a good first day
for the most part, but like, I don't know, they'd
be like I'd ask him a question and there'd be
like a five seconds delay and then he would go
and the answer and it wasn't weird at all.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
But like just staring at you for the five seconds.
You know, though, some people are just bad at timing
in a conversation. Have you ever talked to somebody who
like takes really long pauses and you're like, wait, do
I go? Do we not go? Like maybe his timing
is just a little off.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Maybe what are you talking about me.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Sorry he waited to answer.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
So I like to think of it as I'm just
a good listener.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Yeah, but I was done talking. I mean, he was
checking his phone a lot, So I wonder if maybe,
like maybe I thought I was boring. I don't know,
you know what, I think.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
This is mind blowing to me. He does something that
I could never do, and that is think before he speaks.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I'm thinking Google, before he speaks Google, I know that
he's having a I listen in.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
The thing was one point, like early on, after we
sat down, like before we had ordered anything, he was like,
oh man, it's really loud over here, and he was like,
do you mind if we moved to like the back
where it's choire And I was like, no, that's fine,
and they moved us.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Maybe I don't know. I think I honestly think we're
over thinking it.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
I was just thinking what jose was thinking, like, if
this is a really sweet, nice guy who's trying to
come off like he really cares, he might take a
second to try and come up with a really good
answer to your questions, I mean blurting stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
The whole point is that the awkward pauses didn't bother you, right,
I know, I.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
Wouldn't say they bothered me. I just it was weird.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
It was noticeable because they probably didn't bother him. That's
how he communicated to him.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
He was like, that was a normal back and.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Forth totally, so overall pretty solid date.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I'm really really interested though in the end here when
he whispers something in the two words wait, I want to.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Know if he waited five seconds before he did the
run us.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Through what happened there?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
Okay, So end of the day, we are like outside
of the restaurant about to go our separate ways. I
give him a hug, and when I hug him, he
whispers in my ear, good.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Job, good job, good job.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Yeah, like sums up good job.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Well, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
It's so bizarre.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Maybe he just doesn't know how to end a date.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Like maybe it was a new dialogue that came out.
Maybe he was talking to him.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Is it like the thing where you're you're wanting to
be like hey, good date, or like in two words
that you mix two things together and accidentally say something awkward.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
It could be the whole reason he's not calling you back,
because he's like, God, what did I say that?
Speaker 6 (05:41):
I mean maybe, but like even after he said it,
I was like, wait, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
What did he say?
Speaker 6 (05:48):
He just he put his finger to his mouth, like
like it's our secret. But I have no idea what
he was talking about.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
What is happening?
Speaker 4 (05:56):
That romantic?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
But anytime a man puts his finger to his I
don't like it. It's creepy anybody, nobody?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
So have you texted him since the date ended?
Speaker 5 (06:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
So we were, you know, we were. We had like
a cute little back and forth before the day, you know,
we'd like send each other memes or whatever, so like
I did that, but no, I have not gotten any response.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Okay, something's up. We're gonna come back rate that's not okay.
We're gonna call this plenty of Fisher and we're gonna
see what he has to say when we come back
and get you your second date update right after. It's
(06:39):
the two words that every little boy is dying to
hear from his unapproving father.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Good job, Yeah, proud of your son.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
We're proud of you, Jeff.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
That's not exactly what a woman wants to have whispered
into her ear at the end of a first game.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I thought we were going to go into Jeff's therapy session.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
We do nearly enough time, okay, But it's what happened
to her listener Angie after she hung out with a
guy named Nicholas the other night. He gave her a
hug and then softly said, good job.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
In girls are not happy about this. Well, she wasn't either, right.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
I don't think any woman would be happy about that.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
But we've got a lot of questions about the good job,
about some of the other weird stuff that was happening
during the day. Angie said she's willing to look past
it if she can get another chance with him, because
he seemed like a great guy.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
He said that he was like a little reserved, a
little nerdy, Like those are some of the quirks that
come with nerdy, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
I mean that's the thing though, Like it's so hard
to meet an actual, nice, respectful guy, and I just
feel like he was And I'm assuming I mess up,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:47):
You think you messed up, and that's why.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
You like literally it's the person who calls in that
messed up. And like I said, maybe thought I was boring,
I don't.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Know, yeah, probably was.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
She becoming self aware.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
No, I don't like that.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Are you cool?
Speaker 4 (08:02):
If Nicholas has an unapproving father? Is that okay?
Speaker 6 (08:06):
I think I can deal with that.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yeah, okay, it's good.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
It'll be something Jeffrey and he can bond.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Yes, also, good about it. So let's call him. I'm
a Dallas number right now.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Let's see if he picks up. Hello, Hey, is this
Nicholas listen? Nick hey man, thanks for answering. You are
on a radio show right now called Brooke and Jeffrey
in the Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Welcome to the show, Nicholas, how.
Speaker 5 (08:35):
Are you man?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Why am I on a radio show?
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Great question?
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yeah, so I don't know. Have you ever heard of
something called a second date update before?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah? I think so. I think so.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
Oh you have okay, congrats.
Speaker 4 (08:53):
Yeah, you almost know who we are. Now you get
to be a part of one.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
So the way that it works is one of our
our listeners has reached out to us hoping that we
could get a hold of you.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
A girl named Angie.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
Angie's trying to get a hold of me.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Yeah, do you remember her?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
You guys went to ty food the other night.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
She's hoping that she could maybe get another chance to
hang out with you again.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think that's going to
work out.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
Really, Okay, it sounded like such a good date.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Well, yeah, before you even go there, Nicholas, I'm just
gonna let you know. She said that she really liked
you and that you two shared a good vibe.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Yeah, no, I thought Angie was nice.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, she didn't mention that, actually, Nicholas, she mentioned a
few odd things that happened on the date, and she
wasn't sure if maybe those were early signs that you
weren't interested in her.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Which actually turns out could be true. At this point,
at first we thought she was.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
Nuts, But well, well, what what did she what did.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Well, like we just mentioned, there's like a delay in
your responses a little bit during the normal conversation.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
Almost like you're intently thinking of what you're going to say.
A delay, okay, almost happened again.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
I think he doesn't notice that that is part of
your conversation. That's fine, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And also she said that you had to move to
a quieter area. And I'm just going to let you
know what the room thought when we heard everything. The
room was wondering if maybe you had a I listening
in on your conversation to help you respond to your date,
because you were checking your phone a lot too.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Yeah, so I don't know who the room is, Who's
who's the room?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
It was mostly Alexis.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Okay because when.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
We talked to her, you know, we all give our
ideas like, oh, maybe it could be this, maybe it
could be that.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
These are just theories.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
So could you just be honest with us and tell
us did you do that? Were you using AI to
assist you?
Speaker 1 (11:02):
I was having some help on the date, but I
wasn't using the AI some help on.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
The date, help from your phone.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
I was on the line with my ex and she was.
She was on the line with us the.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
Whole time, your ex.
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Yeah, well, I mean sometimes I just need help. So
she's kind of like a security blanket for me.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
She wait, you date, did you have like earbuds in
and you were listening to your ex at the same
time you were listening to her?
Speaker 1 (11:34):
No? No, she was just on mute, like she couldn't
say anything. She wasn't coaching me. I just wanted her
to hear everything.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
So she's kind of taking notes. And then later you
will call her and she will go over the notes here.
That's what I'm thinking.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Your volunteers to listen to hours of your dates?
Speaker 5 (11:49):
Yeah, what, what.
Speaker 4 (11:50):
A kind woman.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Well, it's part of our post breakup growth.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Agreement, post breakup agreement.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
In that Yeah, we mutually agreed upon and I listened
to her dates too on occasion. It's just we help
each other get through our past breakup and move into
a new one. So it's healthy and very healthy.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Yeah, I mean it's a very conscious uncoupling like.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Your new dates. Oh yeah, well that is a good point,
because he said sabotage.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
You know, he was not a fan of Angie.
Speaker 4 (12:31):
Okay, well, but how did you feel about her?
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I was enjoying myself, but she mentioned that she seemed
like a try hard, and then when I was thinking
about it, I think that she might be kind of
a try hard.
Speaker 3 (12:44):
Whoa wait, wait, don't you want people to try hard
on a first day?
Speaker 6 (12:51):
Excuse me? How was I a try hard?
Speaker 3 (12:55):
That's coming in hard?
Speaker 4 (12:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
Oh my god, Nicholas, I'm my find this funny. But
your ex girlfriend and Angie have a lot in common
because she's actually been on the phone listening in on
this conversation.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Okay, that's not that's not fair. I didn't I didn't
know that. I didn't.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Well, yeah, and Angie didn't know your ex was listening
to her either.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Yeah, it pays to be judging. But say hi to Angie.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But she was Hi, Angie, there you go Hi.
Speaker 6 (13:25):
I mean you're saying this is a healthy thing. But
you also said your ex is your security blankets. So
it does feel like you're ready to be dating other people.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
No, Well, in most relationships, people don't have the right closure,
and then they hold on to the past, and so
this is a way to move on to my future. Yeah,
you're not moving on.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
You're literally still relying on your ex to make your
decisions down there, we're dating, well, we.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Spent a lot of time together, so she knows me
really well, and she sees things from opposite X that
I might not see.
Speaker 6 (14:01):
Then maybe you guys should be together.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Yeah, no, it's not. It's not like that. We're not
romantically involved whatsoever. It's just we have a year left
in our post breakup growth agreement.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Yeah, it's a long time.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
We're kind of each other's life.
Speaker 3 (14:15):
Coaches, really, can't you just recap the date with your
ex instead of having the whole time.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Well, see, there's trigger words and things that she'll say, like, well,
that's the red flag that I don't typically see.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
This does make sense now why he whispered good job
at the very end of the date. He wasn't saying
it to Angie. He was saying it to his ex
girlfriend who was listening.
Speaker 6 (14:37):
That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
No, I was talking to Angie. I did whisper good
job because I thought that we were going to get
to go on another date because I enjoyed myself and
I didn't want my ex to hear her.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
Oh, Nicol, so you're.
Speaker 6 (14:55):
Not to go out with me again? And you listen me.
Speaker 3 (15:00):
I mean, here's the thing. I actually think Nicholas is
over his ex. I think your ex, Nicholas is not
over and I don't think you're seeing that correctly.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
I mean that's the possibility and and I kind of
agree with that. But we still have our agreement and
I have.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Rip it up.
Speaker 6 (15:17):
Okay, what are we talking about?
Speaker 3 (15:20):
Yeah? And if all she could come up with is
she's a try hard as the biggest red flag.
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Oh man, that's a weak red flag.
Speaker 6 (15:29):
And I didn't try that hard I didn't even shave
my legs for that day.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
There must be some clause in your contract with her.
They'll let you get out of it when you find
an amazing new girl like Angie here.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
Because I have a question. What if I had put
out on the first date which you have been listening.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Oh my god, that.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Our date where it's supposed to go over an hour
and a half. I know we were already pushing it
at an hour forty.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Wanted to agreement.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
She was already breaking the rules a little bit. Yeah,
so the band aid's starting to come off, or he's.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Like, hold on, let me ask my ex, Hey, can
I sleep with this?
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Angie, just real quick, first, are you still interested in
meeting up with Nicholas again after what you know?
Speaker 6 (16:16):
Are you insane?
Speaker 1 (16:18):
There's no way.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Oh I thought you were Okay?
Speaker 5 (16:21):
No, Jeff, that would have been wild if she said, yeah,
lets she breaks the thing. Yeah, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
Angie doesn't want to extend the offer anymore. So Nicholas,
we're not obviously going to give you another date with
Angie here.
Speaker 5 (16:33):
But funny if his girlfriend has been on the line
this whole time too, Oh yeah, wait is she is?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
She?
Speaker 6 (16:37):
On the third line. What's her name, let's say hi,
brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So his ex was on the phone on mute, listening
to the entire date for an hour and forty minutes,
taking notes, and she said no.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
I mean that's shocking. I really thought that that was
going to walk out too.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
I tried to call my X over and over and
she's gonna answer.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
What's wrong with her?
Speaker 5 (17:04):
I don't get it, Jack.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I guess the fascinating thing to me is if she
would have said yes. Could you imagine that conversation where
Nicholas is really excited and he calls you, like.
Speaker 4 (17:14):
Hey, great news, we get to go out again.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
My ex gave you the thumbs up, first one in
six months.
Speaker 4 (17:20):
Congrabs, she prooves.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
It really did sound like Nicholas was over his ex
and his ex isn't.
Speaker 4 (17:26):
Overham Yeah, like girl or something. Yeah, whatever it is,
it is a messy situation.
Speaker 5 (17:32):
Did she give him away at the wedding?
Speaker 3 (17:36):
She's still hoping that she is the one?
Speaker 4 (17:38):
Yeahless no, fine out.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
But speaking of messy situations, our social media YouTube TikTok
Instagram mess you could see all of our second.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Dates on there, and those are messy for sure.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
Make sure to comment, like, subscribe at Brook and Jeffrey.
We appreciate all of our listeners, and if you ever
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Jeffrey "Young Jeffrey" Dubow
Alexis Fuller
Jose Bolanos
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