February 12, 2024 • 17 mins
The listener on the phone today wasn’t afraid to show off his sensitive side on his date, but the way he did it sent up some red flags in studio! Hear what happened in your Second Date podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Second date update. How do we feel about people bringing
gifts for the first date? Is there an inside joke
or are you talking about just ji?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I have friends who love it.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I actually went out with the dentist ones who tried
to gift me a BMW on the first date. I
told you, but I said, you.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Wait talking about cars.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It was only a three series though, and the leather
seats weren't even in the right color. Oh so, Mamma
didn't raise no fool, I know my worst okay, and
I dismissed them.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Are you driving a Kia like I am right.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Now, that's just one of the cars that I'm driving.
To choose which car on which day? Same but from
the email we received, I heard gifts were exchanged on
this first date, which is a little bit unique. And
so let's talk to the guy, Enrique. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Hey, what's happening? Guys? Thanks for having me thinking about.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Rique going I wasn't actually, I was just thinking about
this guy.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
And Henrique, this is your first time on the show.
It's kind of like our first date. Do we get
a gift? Maybe?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Sure? I love you do?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Is that like that's your thing? Is you're the gift
guy to love language.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Okay, but if it's anything less than a three series,
then we're not interested. I'm talking. You just bought a
new car.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
So did you warn the person you were going out
with the gifts were going to be on the table? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we met online, so
that's okay, okay, And what's her name?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Josie?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
I like how you say it all right, you're talking
to Josie online.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
All language just came up and we found out that
cars and gifts are number one loved language.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
The gift givers.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Okay, So we decided to bring Schather a gift on
our first date.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Both of you were going to bring gifts, so this
was not a surprise.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay. Did you set a price limit?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
No, we just said something very simple. Okay, Okay, sometimes
to be reminded later on, you know, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Think it makes it better.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
It's good. Take us to the date. How did it go,
what happened?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And what you bring?
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But tell you something before that, we lived kind of
far away, like I drove like two hours to get
to her.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
So she brought you gas money.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Not so much.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
But anyway, we met at this Mexican restaurant for dinner
and sat down.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
And so she gives me her gifts first. Okay, so
since we had some conversations. I'm a big Spider Man fan.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
She got you some spiders. That's cool, dude, right.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
No, No, but she gave me some little Spider Man
action figure.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Awesome, she's paying attention, she's remembering.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Put it on a shelf. You'll always know, like, yeah,
we give her a check mark for her gift? What
did you get her?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
So it might sound a little crazy, Okay, but let
me flink. What it's called a long distance love lamp?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
A long long distance love?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
What is that?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
That's a little bit what is a little overwhelmed? Already
explain tell Jeffrey what it is.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I know what they are, something like you know, work
far away? Right?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
If I touched mine, hers will glow, you see, like,
oh you know?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Okay. It's a way of touching each other and turning
each other on.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I'm faking, not exactly. It doesn't have to be like couples.
I get it. It's like family.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Feel doesn't say love lamp on the box when you
hand it to it, because that I think is gonna
be key.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
No, no, no, no, no. If I had the lamp out
of the box, you know, I had to like, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Up good, Okay, So it's just the lamp that she.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Gets, So you're just handing her a lamp.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
What was her reaction at first?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
She was like a little confused, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
She didn't know what it was.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Yeah, you know, he gave me a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
It's not a typical first day gift gift.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
I like lamp, okay, right right right, So then I
had to explain to her the same thing I just
told you guys right now too.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You know she was like, oh wow, that's so sweet,
and she's like, nobody never gave me a lamp before.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Oh she liked it.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Alexis if a guy gave you a love lamp on
your first meet up? I see, I didn't get to
finish asking the question, order shouted, I.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Don't really not a pan. It's just what if you
have another guy over when it's going off, Like that's
my fear. Like she's like, you can't even think about that.
You have to be exclusive, Like I don't want a
guy over.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
And this lamp was flashing in the corner and he's.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
Like you had a lot of long conversations, like I'm
getting so open, you know, it's like I'm not seeing
nobody else.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I really really dig this girl. I mean she was
Oh my gosh, she's so hot, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
And you're putting all your cards on the table with
this well.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Yeah, man, And you know I give her a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
You're putting all those lamps on the table. Whatever you're
doing the rest of the date.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
All right, So the day was awesome. Okay, we talked
for hours and even we kept having some drinks and
I went to her house.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Her house, it into the lamp, you.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Know, I make sure the lamp was on.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, okay, have you used the lamp since your last date?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah, every single day, especially night time.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Okay, have you gotten the light back or is it
just you lighting her up?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Well, this is the thing. At first, mine was glowing
all the time.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Now it's not really lighting up that much anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
The lights have gone out on love Jess.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah. But then I text her and she doesn't really respond.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Or to ask about the texting because the lamps aside,
you're not texting. That's a big.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Lampless and loveless.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
It's tough doing a long distance relationship thing. Your date
does sound pretty lit to me. But we're gonna come
back and we'll call it Josie for you and try
and get you a second date update. Get that light
glowing again right after this.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
All right, all right, thanks guys, all right, man, hold
on second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Brooks said something pretty profound in the first part of
the second date call. Kind of hit it right on
the nose when she said, and now their love.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
Light has gone dark, sinking deep into the abyss of
eternal loneliness, like the lost ship in the middle of
the Atlantic Ocean that's lost all power, and as the
crew is jumping overboard into the icy waters, the boat
takes on more water and all hope and have is
(06:44):
lost forever and always.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
I'm just paraphrasing what she said. It was something along
along those lines.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
I'm actually hopeful that this love story doesn't end as
tragically as the one you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
But yeah, your love story that you painted in the
first part, I'm just trying to paraphrase. Because Enrique and
his date Josie agreed to exchange gifts when they had
their first meet up, and she got him a spider
Man toy because he's into Spider Man. He got her
a long distance love lamp, which is where if you
touch yours, their lamp lights up on their end to
(07:17):
show that you're thinking of them.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
And apparently they were using it back and forth for
a little while.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
At least in the first few days, it was going
off like a strobe light at a Tiesto concert. Lately,
not only is the lamp dimming, so are in Rique's
hopes for a second date. Enrique, any thoughts that you'd
like to share over some sad depressing music. Now's your chance.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
It's a little sad right now where you're playing.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Well, I'm sorry, but that's it's just the image that
Broke paints with her words.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Me.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
It's always me.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I'm just bringing them to light. Yeah, okay, the light
that's happening in your Yes. So again, I'm just or
I'll here for you.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Yeah, were together, man.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Okay, I'm hole just like those sailors were when they
left the dog dial Josie for you right now here
we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Josie. Hey, Josie.
(08:22):
I don't know if you know us. We're a radio
show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Hey Josie, Hey, Hi, we.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Got a lot that we'd like to talk to you about.
One of our listeners says that he went on a
date with you not too long ago and had an
amazing time.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Okay, am I on the radio right now?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Yeah? Pretty cool.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
You're the star of the hour, and your co star,
hopefully is the guy that you were with named Enrique.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh yeah, I know Enrique.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Okay, Okay, Well we know a little bit about Enrique
and your guys' date because he told us some details
from it. It sounded pretty good on our end.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Yeah, it sounded flirty, fun. You guys had maybe.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
A lot of margarita's, which is always a positive.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
That we thought. It was interesting that you guys decided
to exchange gifts before you even met each other.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yeah, that was fun.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Actually, Okay, how'd you feel about the lamp that he
gave you?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I I actually loved the lamp gift. I thought it
was so thoughtful. I thought it was a really sweet
gesture from him.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Wow, you didn't think it was.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
People were thinking it may have been too much, too soon.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Well, we are kind of long distance, so it meant more.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Wait, still, you still consider yourself currently long distance with him.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
No, not currently, but we were long dist him.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Oh okay, you were still thinking it.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
So but you said that you liked the lamp gift,
and we heard that you guys were using it at
least for a little while after the date. Yeah, we're
not sure what's changed since then.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Well, I I think he's a cheater.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
What a cheater? What?
Speaker 3 (10:14):
What?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Why do you think he's a cheater?
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Oh? I know he's a cheater. Well, we share locations
on our phone, so we can see where each other
are already.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
You guys are a relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
That's very close with each other.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Okay, it's kind strong and like we knew like when
to call each other and all that stuff. And then
a few times my lamp will light up and I
will look at his location, and he was out somewhere.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Else, not at his house the lamp exactly.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I would side piece touch a lamp.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yeah, if that was true, he would be out with
the side piece most likely not leaving her at his
place to touch and mess around and cluster lamp exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
That's why I think he's either married.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Or have a living girlfriend there.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
And you're the side piece in that.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Case he bought himself.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
I think you're misreading something here, because he wouldn't call
a radio show and ask us to publicly ask you
out again. If he was cheating, that would be I mean,
unless he's really dumb, that.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Would be real. It's really really big to jump to
conclusions like that. And look, the love lamp that he
gave us for our studio is lighting up, which I
think means that he wants to talk to you right now,
because he's actually on the other line listening.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Yeah, so we don't really have a love lamp. I
made that up, but he is on the other line.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
I don't think.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
No, I don't want to talk to a cheater.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
What, well, just give him a chance. Hear him out.
There might be some misunderstanding.
Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yeah yeah, Josie, Josie, I'm not cheating on you, Okay,
I swear I'm on you.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
No, No, dude, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
God, it's so hard.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
It's so hard to stay your case when someone says
you're a cheater, because when you say you're not a cheater,
it sounds more like yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
It's like I'm innocent. That's what's going on with your lamp?
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Dude, And I don't hear any excuses like, oh, your
dog is touching the lamp, or it's all by mistake,
it's faulty, or whatever it is, because I'm not going
to buy it.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
It is a dog, oh girl joking?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I am the one touching the lamp. I am the one.
I take it with me everywhere I go. If I
go to a cafe.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Wa, go to a bar? Are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Bro?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
I'm going to guys, I like this girl so much
that I carry this lamp with me everywhere I go.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Wait, you go to a wait, hold on, you go
to a shop and plug the lamp in just to
touch it?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yeah, the same level somehow.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Brook, How are you feeling right now accusing him such
horrible things? Early?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
All with me?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Just the visual of him walking down the street with.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
A lamp, Imrika, you don't have to take that from her.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
It's really cute, Rikae. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
No, well all right, but wait, wait, you guys know
how you want to go with your phone here trying
to plug your phone somewhere?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Right's the thing at the airport with a big old lamp.
You asked the bartender if you can unplug the jukebox
for just a second so I can touch my girlfriend
two hours away.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Yeah, well or something like that.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Okay, Josie, what do you think.
Speaker 5 (13:33):
I'm not behind this dude.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
No man would ever say something that embarrassing unless it
was true.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
And we're giving him a really hard time, and he's
doing a great job like defending himself. I'm actually kind
of believing him on this Listen.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
I swear my grandmother's grave. I take that lamp everywhere
I go. I wanted to show this girl that how
much I like her, and I want to take her.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
There is a love lamp in his grandmother's grave too,
so that he can show some love to his dead.
It's going off. She's right, it's going on. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
But Josie, it feels like you two are like meant
for each other.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
I mean, you would just trust him.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
Oh you guys really think I should believe him? Yes?
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yes, and we get if you carry the lamp with
you everywhere? Do you have it with you right now?
Could you turn it on?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I mean I could just go in the trunk of
my car and get her right now, and I can
plug it.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I don't think we have time for that.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
I don't know my highlander has a plugin for.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Okay, Brook will drive her Highlander over to where you
are and you can plug in.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Your lamp car like that.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
The lamp on. While this was a terrible idea, I'm
just saying I believe him, Josie. I think the whole
room believes him. That he carries this lamp around to
prove that he's that into you.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
And he's not a cheater. He wouldn't call in and
do this over the radio.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Well.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
I do disagree with Brook on that point, but everything
else that we said, I think it's true. And we'd
like to sends you two out on another date that
we would pay for if you're up.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
For a Josie, what if he took you to his
house to prove that he doesn't live with anybody else.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Yeah, look, come over to my house and you could
see the lamp and I'll definitely have the light on again,
you know, with your lamp and everything.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
We'll make something fun out of this.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Come on, Josie, Philip winning you over a little bit here, Josie,
one more chance. Come on?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Now, that's actually pretty sweet. I have to say, he's
just you are quite the charmer, Enrique. I have to
wow with that. Yeah. Well, oh my god, he's busting
out the Spanish. Now okay, so is.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That a yes, Josie, Yes, that's my leg.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
What do you do freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Uh spoiler alert, not to ruin the surprise, but Jose
just bought all of us love lamps for Christmas. Yeah,
you're welcome, because gift giving is my love language.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I'll tap for you, broken Alexis.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
If you guys decide to go on vacation in Europe again,
make sure you have the right adapters so that you
could plug that baby and get some Papa Bear love
across the scene. I think As already has like seven
love lambs.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I don't think they're in a room. I think they're
in the garbage again.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
I know there's a lot of judgment about the love lambs,
but it was actually perfect for this couple. I'm really
happy for that. They seem like they might actually be
a good bit.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
This is the type of thing. It gives you hope
that there's someone for everyone.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah. Serious, No matter if you're the guy walking down
the street holding a lamb, you found love.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
And that could be you. If you want to email
the show, we'll call that person not calling you back.
Make sure to listen to all our second date updates
on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get
your podcast and Jeffrey in the morning
Second date update. How do we feel about people bringing
gifts for the first date? Is there an inside joke
or are you talking about just ji?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I have friends who love it.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I actually went out with the dentist ones who tried
to gift me a BMW on the first date. I
told you, but I said, you.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Wait talking about cars.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
It was only a three series though, and the leather
seats weren't even in the right color. Oh so, Mamma
didn't raise no fool, I know my worst okay, and
I dismissed them.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Are you driving a Kia like I am right.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Now, that's just one of the cars that I'm driving.
To choose which car on which day? Same but from
the email we received, I heard gifts were exchanged on
this first date, which is a little bit unique. And
so let's talk to the guy, Enrique. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Hey, what's happening? Guys? Thanks for having me thinking about.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Rique going I wasn't actually, I was just thinking about
this guy.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
And Henrique, this is your first time on the show.
It's kind of like our first date. Do we get
a gift? Maybe?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Sure? I love you do?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Is that like that's your thing? Is you're the gift
guy to love language.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
Okay, but if it's anything less than a three series,
then we're not interested. I'm talking. You just bought a
new car.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
So did you warn the person you were going out
with the gifts were going to be on the table? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah, yeah, I mean you know, we met online, so
that's okay, okay, And what's her name?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Josie?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
I like how you say it all right, you're talking
to Josie online.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
All language just came up and we found out that
cars and gifts are number one loved language.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
The gift givers.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Okay, So we decided to bring Schather a gift on
our first date.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Nothing too crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Both of you were going to bring gifts, so this
was not a surprise.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Okay. Did you set a price limit?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
No, we just said something very simple. Okay, Okay, sometimes
to be reminded later on, you know, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Think it makes it better.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
It's good. Take us to the date. How did it go,
what happened?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And what you bring?
Speaker 3 (02:17):
But tell you something before that, we lived kind of
far away, like I drove like two hours to get
to her.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
So she brought you gas money.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Not so much.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
But anyway, we met at this Mexican restaurant for dinner
and sat down.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
And so she gives me her gifts first. Okay, so
since we had some conversations. I'm a big Spider Man fan.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
She got you some spiders. That's cool, dude, right.
Speaker 3 (02:46):
No, No, but she gave me some little Spider Man
action figure.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Awesome, she's paying attention, she's remembering.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Put it on a shelf. You'll always know, like, yeah,
we give her a check mark for her gift? What
did you get her?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
So it might sound a little crazy, Okay, but let
me flink. What it's called a long distance love lamp?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
A long long distance love?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
What is that?
Speaker 2 (03:11):
That's a little bit what is a little overwhelmed? Already
explain tell Jeffrey what it is.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I know what they are, something like you know, work
far away? Right?
Speaker 5 (03:19):
If I touched mine, hers will glow, you see, like,
oh you know?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Okay. It's a way of touching each other and turning
each other on.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I'm faking, not exactly. It doesn't have to be like couples.
I get it. It's like family.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Feel doesn't say love lamp on the box when you
hand it to it, because that I think is gonna
be key.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
No, no, no, no, no. If I had the lamp out
of the box, you know, I had to like, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Up good, Okay, So it's just the lamp that she.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Gets, So you're just handing her a lamp.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
What was her reaction at first?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
She was like a little confused, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
She didn't know what it was.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Yeah, you know, he gave me a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
It's not a typical first day gift gift.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
I like lamp, okay, right right right, So then I
had to explain to her the same thing I just
told you guys right now too.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
You know she was like, oh wow, that's so sweet,
and she's like, nobody never gave me a lamp before.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Oh she liked it.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Alexis if a guy gave you a love lamp on
your first meet up? I see, I didn't get to
finish asking the question, order shouted, I.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Don't really not a pan. It's just what if you
have another guy over when it's going off, Like that's
my fear. Like she's like, you can't even think about that.
You have to be exclusive, Like I don't want a
guy over.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
And this lamp was flashing in the corner and he's.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
Like you had a lot of long conversations, like I'm
getting so open, you know, it's like I'm not seeing
nobody else.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
I really really dig this girl. I mean she was
Oh my gosh, she's so hot, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
And you're putting all your cards on the table with
this well.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Yeah, man, And you know I give her a lamp.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
You're putting all those lamps on the table. Whatever you're
doing the rest of the date.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
All right, So the day was awesome. Okay, we talked
for hours and even we kept having some drinks and
I went to her house.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Her house, it into the lamp, you.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Know, I make sure the lamp was on.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, okay, have you used the lamp since your last date?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah, every single day, especially night time.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Okay, have you gotten the light back or is it
just you lighting her up?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Well, this is the thing. At first, mine was glowing
all the time.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Now it's not really lighting up that much anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
The lights have gone out on love Jess.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah. But then I text her and she doesn't really respond.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Or to ask about the texting because the lamps aside,
you're not texting. That's a big.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Lampless and loveless.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
It's tough doing a long distance relationship thing. Your date
does sound pretty lit to me. But we're gonna come
back and we'll call it Josie for you and try
and get you a second date update. Get that light
glowing again right after this.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
All right, all right, thanks guys, all right, man, hold
on second date update.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Brooks said something pretty profound in the first part of
the second date call. Kind of hit it right on
the nose when she said, and now their love.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
Light has gone dark, sinking deep into the abyss of
eternal loneliness, like the lost ship in the middle of
the Atlantic Ocean that's lost all power, and as the
crew is jumping overboard into the icy waters, the boat
takes on more water and all hope and have is
(06:44):
lost forever and always.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
I'm just paraphrasing what she said. It was something along
along those lines.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
I'm actually hopeful that this love story doesn't end as
tragically as the one you're talking about.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
But yeah, your love story that you painted in the
first part, I'm just trying to paraphrase. Because Enrique and
his date Josie agreed to exchange gifts when they had
their first meet up, and she got him a spider
Man toy because he's into Spider Man. He got her
a long distance love lamp, which is where if you
touch yours, their lamp lights up on their end to
(07:17):
show that you're thinking of them.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
And apparently they were using it back and forth for
a little while.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
At least in the first few days, it was going
off like a strobe light at a Tiesto concert. Lately,
not only is the lamp dimming, so are in Rique's
hopes for a second date. Enrique, any thoughts that you'd
like to share over some sad depressing music. Now's your chance.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
It's a little sad right now where you're playing.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Well, I'm sorry, but that's it's just the image that
Broke paints with her words.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Me.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
It's always me.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I'm just bringing them to light. Yeah, okay, the light
that's happening in your Yes. So again, I'm just or
I'll here for you.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Yeah, were together, man.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Okay, I'm hole just like those sailors were when they
left the dog dial Josie for you right now here
we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Josie. Hey, Josie.
(08:22):
I don't know if you know us. We're a radio
show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Hey Josie, Hey, Hi, we.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
Got a lot that we'd like to talk to you about.
One of our listeners says that he went on a
date with you not too long ago and had an
amazing time.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Okay, am I on the radio right now?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Yeah? Pretty cool.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
You're the star of the hour, and your co star,
hopefully is the guy that you were with named Enrique.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
Oh yeah, I know Enrique.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
Okay, Okay, Well we know a little bit about Enrique
and your guys' date because he told us some details
from it. It sounded pretty good on our end.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Yeah, it sounded flirty, fun. You guys had maybe.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
A lot of margarita's, which is always a positive.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
That we thought. It was interesting that you guys decided
to exchange gifts before you even met each other.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Yeah, that was fun.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Actually, Okay, how'd you feel about the lamp that he
gave you?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I I actually loved the lamp gift. I thought it
was so thoughtful. I thought it was a really sweet
gesture from him.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Wow, you didn't think it was.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
People were thinking it may have been too much, too soon.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Well, we are kind of long distance, so it meant more.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
Wait, still, you still consider yourself currently long distance with him.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
No, not currently, but we were long dist him.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Oh okay, you were still thinking it.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
So but you said that you liked the lamp gift,
and we heard that you guys were using it at
least for a little while after the date. Yeah, we're
not sure what's changed since then.
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Well, I I think he's a cheater.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
What a cheater? What?
Speaker 3 (10:14):
What?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Why do you think he's a cheater?
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Oh? I know he's a cheater. Well, we share locations
on our phone, so we can see where each other
are already.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
You guys are a relationship.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
That's very close with each other.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Okay, it's kind strong and like we knew like when
to call each other and all that stuff. And then
a few times my lamp will light up and I
will look at his location, and he was out somewhere.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
Else, not at his house the lamp exactly.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
I would side piece touch a lamp.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Yeah, if that was true, he would be out with
the side piece most likely not leaving her at his
place to touch and mess around and cluster lamp exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
That's why I think he's either married.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Or have a living girlfriend there.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
And you're the side piece in that.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
Case he bought himself.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
I think you're misreading something here, because he wouldn't call
a radio show and ask us to publicly ask you
out again. If he was cheating, that would be I mean,
unless he's really dumb, that.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Would be real. It's really really big to jump to
conclusions like that. And look, the love lamp that he
gave us for our studio is lighting up, which I
think means that he wants to talk to you right now,
because he's actually on the other line listening.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Yeah, so we don't really have a love lamp. I
made that up, but he is on the other line.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
I don't think.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
No, I don't want to talk to a cheater.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
What, well, just give him a chance. Hear him out.
There might be some misunderstanding.
Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yeah yeah, Josie, Josie, I'm not cheating on you, Okay,
I swear I'm on you.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
No, No, dude, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
God, it's so hard.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
It's so hard to stay your case when someone says
you're a cheater, because when you say you're not a cheater,
it sounds more like yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
It's like I'm innocent. That's what's going on with your lamp?
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Dude, And I don't hear any excuses like, oh, your
dog is touching the lamp, or it's all by mistake,
it's faulty, or whatever it is, because I'm not going
to buy it.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
It is a dog, oh girl joking?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
I am the one touching the lamp. I am the one.
I take it with me everywhere I go. If I
go to a cafe.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Wa, go to a bar? Are you kidding?
Speaker 3 (12:35):
Bro?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
I'm going to guys, I like this girl so much
that I carry this lamp with me everywhere I go.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Wait, you go to a wait, hold on, you go
to a shop and plug the lamp in just to
touch it?
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Yeah, the same level somehow.
Speaker 1 (12:54):
Brook, How are you feeling right now accusing him such
horrible things? Early?
Speaker 4 (13:00):
All with me?
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Just the visual of him walking down the street with.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
A lamp, Imrika, you don't have to take that from her.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
It's really cute, Rikae. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
No, well all right, but wait, wait, you guys know
how you want to go with your phone here trying
to plug your phone somewhere?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Right's the thing at the airport with a big old lamp.
You asked the bartender if you can unplug the jukebox
for just a second so I can touch my girlfriend
two hours away.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Yeah, well or something like that.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Okay, Josie, what do you think.
Speaker 5 (13:33):
I'm not behind this dude.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
No man would ever say something that embarrassing unless it
was true.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
And we're giving him a really hard time, and he's
doing a great job like defending himself. I'm actually kind
of believing him on this Listen.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
I swear my grandmother's grave. I take that lamp everywhere
I go. I wanted to show this girl that how
much I like her, and I want to take her.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
There is a love lamp in his grandmother's grave too,
so that he can show some love to his dead.
It's going off. She's right, it's going on. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
But Josie, it feels like you two are like meant
for each other.
Speaker 1 (14:07):
I mean, you would just trust him.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
Oh you guys really think I should believe him? Yes?
Speaker 1 (14:13):
Yes, and we get if you carry the lamp with
you everywhere? Do you have it with you right now?
Could you turn it on?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:19):
I mean I could just go in the trunk of
my car and get her right now, and I can
plug it.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I don't think we have time for that.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
I don't know my highlander has a plugin for.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Okay, Brook will drive her Highlander over to where you
are and you can plug in.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Your lamp car like that.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
The lamp on. While this was a terrible idea, I'm
just saying I believe him, Josie. I think the whole
room believes him. That he carries this lamp around to
prove that he's that into you.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
And he's not a cheater. He wouldn't call in and
do this over the radio.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Well.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
I do disagree with Brook on that point, but everything
else that we said, I think it's true. And we'd
like to sends you two out on another date that
we would pay for if you're up.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
For a Josie, what if he took you to his
house to prove that he doesn't live with anybody else.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
Yeah, look, come over to my house and you could
see the lamp and I'll definitely have the light on again,
you know, with your lamp and everything.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
We'll make something fun out of this.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Come on, Josie, Philip winning you over a little bit here, Josie,
one more chance. Come on?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
Now, that's actually pretty sweet. I have to say, he's
just you are quite the charmer, Enrique. I have to
wow with that. Yeah. Well, oh my god, he's busting
out the Spanish. Now okay, so is.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That a yes, Josie, Yes, that's my leg.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
What do you do freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Uh spoiler alert, not to ruin the surprise, but Jose
just bought all of us love lamps for Christmas. Yeah,
you're welcome, because gift giving is my love language.
Speaker 2 (16:10):
I'll tap for you, broken Alexis.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
If you guys decide to go on vacation in Europe again,
make sure you have the right adapters so that you
could plug that baby and get some Papa Bear love
across the scene. I think As already has like seven
love lambs.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I don't think they're in a room. I think they're
in the garbage again.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
I know there's a lot of judgment about the love lambs,
but it was actually perfect for this couple. I'm really
happy for that. They seem like they might actually be
a good bit.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
This is the type of thing. It gives you hope
that there's someone for everyone.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah. Serious, No matter if you're the guy walking down
the street holding a lamb, you found love.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
And that could be you. If you want to email
the show, we'll call that person not calling you back.
Make sure to listen to all our second date updates
on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get
your podcast and Jeffrey in the morning
Hosts And Creators
Brooke Fox
Jeffrey "Young Jeffrey" Dubow
Alexis Fuller
Jose Bolanos
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