December 15, 2025 • 18 mins
One of our listeners made her date laugh so hard that something embarrassing slipped out and she’s worried it’s the reason he’s not calling back!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The countdown continues.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yeah, our top second dates of the year of twenty
twenty five, all right, and the reception lukewarm? Oh yes,
thank you, jose you saw the positive that. Yeah, No, honestly,
these are the favorites of the year and we're already
at number nine.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
And for your number nine second date update, can we
just level the playing field here for a second and
remind everybody we're all human, of course, despite what you
may hear on the show, and we've all been betrayed
by our bodies before. Yeah, just like last week when
I walked into the break room right after Alexis was
in there and who had to bring in an industrial
(00:40):
fan just to air that?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Baby?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Why condensation on the glass on the fridge?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Is better without you? Okay, Alexis, don't feel bad. I
smoke that too, dude, I know.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
But listen, Alexis, our listeners know and understand your pain.
Because one of them had a date that made her
laugh so hard something embarrassing slipped down. It's much different
than the bomb. Alexis our listener. She's worried if could
be the reason they're not getting a callback.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You're here, your number nine second date update of the.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Year, The second date Update, Brook, Your husband is a
collector of sports cards.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
He loves them. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Does that make you more attracted to him? Or super
more attracted?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
When he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Gosh, if only it wasn't rated a three.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his
initials on it when he was seven years old.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That you just rubbed that card.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
All over because it doesn't matter much as.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I bring it up because one of our listeners says
that the guy that she went out with mentioned that
he is a collector of items, and it stopped.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Her in her track.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We'll find out more about that in just a second,
but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said
in your email that the guy's name is Ethan.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
How did you meet him?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Yeah, we met on a dating app.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, and whatever he collects part of his profile.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
No, oh, it wasn't listed.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Okay, nope, little surprise for you.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
You don't say it with a smile on your face.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
It was revealed like midway to the date.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Oh okay.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Well, let's go chronologically then before we get to the
collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what
attracted you to him.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Yeah, so initially, his one liner joke to me about
he was the world's okayist cook and he had a
picture of grilled cheese.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
The fact that he could cook at all, even if
it is just okay, it's impressive.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Well, I mean it's a cute line, and it's an
easy way to then transition to let me cook you
something mid.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Setting a standard.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Okay. So did your date involve cooking?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
It did not?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like
ten eleven days, like not super long, I mean talking right, Yeah,
we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven days, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Okay, in the in the build up to the actual
first meeting. So what did you guys actually do when
you went out.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we
went to steak and Shake.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
I love.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Is that a fast food?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
It is?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Yeah, shakes over there and shakes and froncause it's like
fast food.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Was that cool with you or was that a disappointment?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I was okay, with it. I mean he burned girl cheese,
so you know, low standards.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Sure, all right, and how was the chemistry between you
and Ethan?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
It was really good. He was super funny, super sweet.
He held a door, he was like pulling out my.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Chair like that. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
No, I'm old school, like I think people.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Being polite is probably is pretty well received.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Well I slam the door in their face. We all
have different styles of Okay, so he.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Does that to me to this studio honestly, like learn
to open the door for someone.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Well, I don't want to like get in the way
of your womanhood and do anything like that. So I'm
just trying to equal. We're equal in the work, that
is all I'm saying. So okay.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
So but you you thought that he was being a
real gentleman on this date with you, Carly.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I did for sure.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Okay, So this is all sounding great. Was there something
like you said the collection thing?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
When did that come into play?
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Well, he just randomly was like, I collect rubbert duck.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Okay, that's the item that.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
He collected owners one of those people.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
That's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Rubber ducks are huge right now. There is every type
of rubber duck.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Ever, Okay, how did you feel about it, Carly?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what,
and then he said he keeps them for emotional support,
which makes.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
It less weird.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I didn't know that you could do that.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Was that a joke?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Yeah, he was like it was a joke. He was
just kidding everyone.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Everyone's trying not to judge.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
We all just a big sigh of relief, all right, Okay,
although just to be clear, there's nothing wrong with having
emotional support ducks.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
If anybody out there rubber ducks, yes, it is totally support.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Okay, but that was a joke, but the rubber ducks
were real.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So why is this a big part of the date?
Like he mentioned it?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:59):
He had some like super funny one liners like that one,
and I laughed so hard that I snored in and
he kind of looked at me like really crazy when
I did, and I was like, but.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
You can't control it.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Yeah, it's just like a what does you think you
think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my
car and like kissed me and everything. The texting is
just not the same, Like I'm just getting those like
little texts here and there, and he's just kind of
putting no effort to little effort into things.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I am obviously biased, but I think snorting is quite endearing.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I'm also a weird last.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
So you're thinking that at the end of the night
the kiss was a pity kiss. Oh no, even though
like he didn't approve of your snort, he was like, okay,
final still, just you know.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
I hope notis.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
You know, people have weird things.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I thought, so I have a.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Guy friend who won't date women depending on their thumb size,
and like he thinks thumbs are really weird.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
They like creep him out for I.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Think that's that is very very personal information to share
about somebody.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
On the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Like some people have weird it.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Don't call it weird, it's maybe yes.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy
for you.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Is it possible that he's not calling you back because
you've got dragon thumbs? Brooks theory A phone with just
your thumb look like it kind of looks like a
big toe.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, long claw.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Let's just okay, enough about the dragon body parts.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Let's call this Ethan guy.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask
him all the questions to figure out why he's not
going out with you one more time. Carly, you're going
to get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Second date update. You're the one.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
If you're.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Sorry, yeah, if you're just joining us.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
I'm playing this song because our listener Carly went out
with a guy named Ethan who told her that he
collects rubber ducks, and he made the joke that he
keeps them as emotional support pets. Again, just a joke,
but he does collect them, which begs the question, how
bad do you feel when even the rubber duck guy
won't call you back?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Say it like that, she's a door.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly?
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I mean, if you're on this show, I think most
people would say that that's the case.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
I feel pretty low, but not as low as you
think I do.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come
so we can.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
All you're supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're
amazing and you deserve a second date.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
We see how much she struggled to get that sent
That was really inspired.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I was going to bring up the snore. Maybe that's
the reason he's not calling back.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
It is a good point.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
She did mention that she laughed so hard during the
date that she snorted, and that could have been a
turn off to Ethan.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
But we don't know. Which reminds me nobody be too
funny during this.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
If she starts snorting and then Brook starts snorting, Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You guys are funny, but as funny as him.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
All Right, well, that's really motivated me to try super
hard for you. It's I can get one hundred percent
effort into this. I'm dialing his number right now. Let's
see if he picks up.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Here we go, Thank you, guys, I really hope you
can get another date for me.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're
looking to talk with Ethan.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Okay, this is Ethan.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Hey, Ethan.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
There's a bunch of us here.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Who's this Hello.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Yeah, there's a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
the Morning, a team, very dysfunctional team, and we're doing Yeah,
we are together, and we're here doing a segment called
a second Date Update.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Oh okay, why are you calling me? What this is?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I love when people ask that. Ye's just such a
natural transition.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've
gone out on a date with somebody but the second
date hasn't materialized yet.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
We try and figure out why if there's a reason.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
So, okay, we're doing that for one of our listeners
that you went out with, named Carly.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?
Speaker 3 (10:41):
She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
No.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like maybe
you were planning on calling Carly back and going out
with her again.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really
on the air talking about this?
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Yeah, segment we have based around dating it.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
You were just going to say, yeah, she still don't
trust us.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
I know this is a weird situation to be in.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had
a great time with you, but she's not seeing the
same amount of effort from you as she was before.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
The date, kind of like an energy shift. We're not
sure if anything's changed.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.
We got a great time.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, that is so cute to hear. So you really
liked her?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great
laugh and we had a great time out.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
She was actually worried about that.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
So it sounds like you do want to go out
with her again.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Well, we were texting about when we were going to
try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just
surprised right now that she saw it that way that
I was blowing her off.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Oh you know how it can be and daty like
God to like actually be positive and read everything in
that way.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
As far, she doesn't know you well enough yet.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up
immediately or if a full day.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Not hearing from you is gonna be a horrible thing.
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
But everything that we're hearing right now sounds like you're
into her.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You want to see her again?
Speaker 6 (12:08):
Yeah, yeah, I think so.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Okay, Actually, uh.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
You know, maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't
tell her this, it's maybe too early. Uh. I kind
of bought her perfume.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
You bought.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
That's interesting.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
That's cute. Like a travel size or full size bottle.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
You have a price tag that you can attach to it.
This needs to know, you know, that's interested?
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Why?
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (12:39):
What made you do that? Is it like a birthday
coming up for something?
Speaker 6 (12:43):
To be honest, my ex used to wear it and
it kind of drove me crazy. Wild who.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You bought it? Because it's the same as your ex'es bro.
Speaker 5 (12:55):
Like, I'm on the phone on the phone, I heard that.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,
that's how this works. We usually call her in.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
That is so weird.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are
you for real?
Speaker 6 (13:11):
I didn't know you were on Carley. I didn't know
you were on.
Speaker 5 (13:15):
Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,
Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought
it because it's what his mom smells.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
Like, Oh, that would have been sweeter.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
My mind did not even do that.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Okay, I think it's a good question.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Why why do you want Carly to be wearing that
same perfume.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yea remind you of your ex?
Speaker 6 (13:39):
I like the sense. I thought she would smell grade
with it on her.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Okay, Okay, okay, maybe maybe there could be a different
set though for Carly. You know, like, yes, like my guy,
My husband is a sent guy. He loves sense like
you just maybe need to explore a different set.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Truck. Stop trying to change men with every sentence I say.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Dude, that is disturbing. You do not want to remind it?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,
you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you
of your ex. You buying it just because you like
the scent itself.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.
She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.
Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I
thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was
a nice gesture, Carly.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
Are you hearing him?
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.
But like I also, I feel like when you smell
a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman, and he'll
start associating it with you instead of her.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Did the sense on your body have different effects too?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Literally, it could have been anybody.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
If his Maleman had been wearing the perfume, it would
have driven him mad. I mean, I say back to
here that like the scent is the number one connection
to memories.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to
tell her that it was the ex's scent.
Speaker 6 (15:00):
Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
I mean, so technically we set them up for this,
you know what I mean? Carly, like you got to
give him a little bit.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
Of I feel you're You're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,
I do think and when you put a cent on
it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough, so.
Speaker 6 (15:18):
You'll wear it then? Because I really like it?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Oh why don't like?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I shouldn't have.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Heard that question.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Is that very very important to you if you're going
to go out with her again?
Speaker 6 (15:31):
Like I said, guys, I really like it.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
You had me up until there. I don't know. Now
I'm getting like creepy.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Again.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That's our fault. We're piling not yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
We are the weirdos in this conversation, he is totally normal.
I would spray another before he sprays that for a few.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
That's a great point. I could wear it so you
could know it on me first.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
I'm starting to like this even more.
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see
how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan
both wearing the same scent.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
She's gonna wear a cologne, now.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Give some Georgia HARMANI, but really.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
Were my ex boyfriend's cologne.
Speaker 6 (16:31):
I'll wear it?
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Sure, Okay, all fair in love and sense.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
And the whole reason that we called you is to
ask if you would see Carly one more time for
a date, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yeah, you need to ask a different set.
Speaker 6 (16:46):
I would love to see her again.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
You are okay?
Speaker 4 (16:49):
And Carly, are you still up for this even despite
what you've heard?
Speaker 5 (16:53):
I guess so I'll give it.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I'm a little bit surprised.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Yeah, I think we did a good job. Yeah, I'm
thrilled for You've been here.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
On this one way better than if he had said
she had dragon thumbs. So that's Yeah, this was actually
a big win for everything.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
You can't come back from that, No, you.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Can't, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Man, I'm just really happy that she didn't overreact when
she jumped in kind of loud.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
At first, I thought like, oh, no, this is it.
It's over. We're not going to come back.
Speaker 7 (17:26):
You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you
buy the perfume and then you just leave it there,
like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that
she was on the phone, but even to us, but
let's just keep it to myself.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
It was, like you said, like it was kind of
our felt because he confessed that he liked her, and
he felt comfortable enough with us to confide that the
perfume thing was supposed to be a gift, and then
the ex girlfriend also used to wear it.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
I will say, I bet he would have told her,
just because in the sixty seconds you talked to him,
he let it out.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
I like to think that it's more about like how
comfortable people are around us, that they're willing to open up,
not that he just has, you know, a blabbermouth.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
And also he didn't think it was a problem.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
He's like, oh yeah, I'm just gonna get her the
same semix referen always work as I love it, then
I'll call her.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Let's be honest, the only reason any guy ever knows
the smell of a perfume is because of some woman dated.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I don't know smell like Michelle.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
So then let's give credit to Carle who was able
to hear him out and separate the X from the
smell and agree to a very very pungent second date.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
I'm worried about.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
How pungent it's gonna be.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Are they both gonna show? Yeah, they're gonna be gas
masks when they meet up.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
But text into seven eighty five nine to two and
email the show. If you ever feel like you need
a little bit of help in your dating life, we
can call that person who's not calling you back and
go check out all of our second dates wherever you
gets your podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey
The countdown continues.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Yeah, our top second dates of the year of twenty
twenty five, all right, and the reception lukewarm? Oh yes,
thank you, jose you saw the positive that. Yeah, No, honestly,
these are the favorites of the year and we're already
at number nine.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
And for your number nine second date update, can we
just level the playing field here for a second and
remind everybody we're all human, of course, despite what you
may hear on the show, and we've all been betrayed
by our bodies before. Yeah, just like last week when
I walked into the break room right after Alexis was
in there and who had to bring in an industrial
(00:40):
fan just to air that?
Speaker 5 (00:41):
Baby?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Why condensation on the glass on the fridge?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Is better without you? Okay, Alexis, don't feel bad. I
smoke that too, dude, I know.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
But listen, Alexis, our listeners know and understand your pain.
Because one of them had a date that made her
laugh so hard something embarrassing slipped down. It's much different
than the bomb. Alexis our listener. She's worried if could
be the reason they're not getting a callback.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You're here, your number nine second date update of the.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Year, The second date Update, Brook, Your husband is a
collector of sports cards.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
He loves them. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Does that make you more attracted to him? Or super
more attracted?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
When he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie card.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Gosh, if only it wasn't rated a three.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Actually, I think it's a one because he wrote his
initials on it when he was seven years old.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
That you just rubbed that card.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
All over because it doesn't matter much as.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I bring it up because one of our listeners says
that the guy that she went out with mentioned that
he is a collector of items, and it stopped.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Her in her track.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
We'll find out more about that in just a second,
but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you said
in your email that the guy's name is Ethan.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
How did you meet him?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Yeah, we met on a dating app.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Okay, and whatever he collects part of his profile.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
No, oh, it wasn't listed.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
Okay, nope, little surprise for you.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
You don't say it with a smile on your face.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
It was revealed like midway to the date.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Oh okay.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Well, let's go chronologically then before we get to the
collecting of stuff, tell us more about Ethan and what
attracted you to him.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Yeah, so initially, his one liner joke to me about
he was the world's okayist cook and he had a
picture of grilled cheese.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
The fact that he could cook at all, even if
it is just okay, it's impressive.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Well, I mean it's a cute line, and it's an
easy way to then transition to let me cook you
something mid.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Setting a standard.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Okay. So did your date involve cooking?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
It did not?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
No, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like
ten eleven days, like not super long, I mean talking right, Yeah,
we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven days, okay.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Okay, in the in the build up to the actual
first meeting. So what did you guys actually do when
you went out.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we
went to steak and Shake.
Speaker 6 (03:39):
I love.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Is that a fast food?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
It is?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Yeah, shakes over there and shakes and froncause it's like
fast food.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Was that cool with you or was that a disappointment?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
No?
Speaker 5 (03:58):
I was okay, with it. I mean he burned girl cheese,
so you know, low standards.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Sure, all right, and how was the chemistry between you
and Ethan?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
It was really good. He was super funny, super sweet.
He held a door, he was like pulling out my.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Chair like that. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
No, I'm old school, like I think people.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Being polite is probably is pretty well received.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Well I slam the door in their face. We all
have different styles of Okay, so he.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Does that to me to this studio honestly, like learn
to open the door for someone.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Well, I don't want to like get in the way
of your womanhood and do anything like that. So I'm
just trying to equal. We're equal in the work, that
is all I'm saying. So okay.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
So but you you thought that he was being a
real gentleman on this date with you, Carly.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I did for sure.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Okay, So this is all sounding great. Was there something
like you said the collection thing?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
When did that come into play?
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Well, he just randomly was like, I collect rubbert duck.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Okay, that's the item that.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
He collected owners one of those people.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
That's a great idea.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Rubber ducks are huge right now. There is every type
of rubber duck.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
Ever, Okay, how did you feel about it, Carly?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I was kind of like weirded out. I was like what,
and then he said he keeps them for emotional support,
which makes.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
It less weird.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I didn't know that you could do that.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Was that a joke?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Yeah, he was like it was a joke. He was
just kidding everyone.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Everyone's trying not to judge.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
We all just a big sigh of relief, all right, Okay,
although just to be clear, there's nothing wrong with having
emotional support ducks.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
If anybody out there rubber ducks, yes, it is totally support.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Okay, but that was a joke, but the rubber ducks
were real.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
So why is this a big part of the date?
Like he mentioned it?
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:59):
He had some like super funny one liners like that one,
and I laughed so hard that I snored in and
he kind of looked at me like really crazy when
I did, and I was like, but.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
You can't control it.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Yeah, it's just like a what does you think you
think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
I don't know. Listen. He still walked me to my
car and like kissed me and everything. The texting is
just not the same, Like I'm just getting those like
little texts here and there, and he's just kind of
putting no effort to little effort into things.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I am obviously biased, but I think snorting is quite endearing.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I'm also a weird last.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
So you're thinking that at the end of the night
the kiss was a pity kiss. Oh no, even though
like he didn't approve of your snort, he was like, okay,
final still, just you know.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
I hope notis.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
You know, people have weird things.
Speaker 6 (06:56):
I thought, so I have a.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Guy friend who won't date women depending on their thumb size,
and like he thinks thumbs are really weird.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
They like creep him out for I.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
Think that's that is very very personal information to share
about somebody.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
On the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Okay, okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Like some people have weird it.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Don't call it weird, it's maybe yes.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy
for you.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
Is it possible that he's not calling you back because
you've got dragon thumbs? Brooks theory A phone with just
your thumb look like it kind of looks like a
big toe.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah, long claw.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Let's just okay, enough about the dragon body parts.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Let's call this Ethan guy.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask
him all the questions to figure out why he's not
going out with you one more time. Carly, you're going
to get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Second date update. You're the one.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
If you're.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Sorry, yeah, if you're just joining us.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
I'm playing this song because our listener Carly went out
with a guy named Ethan who told her that he
collects rubber ducks, and he made the joke that he
keeps them as emotional support pets. Again, just a joke,
but he does collect them, which begs the question, how
bad do you feel when even the rubber duck guy
won't call you back?
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Say it like that, she's a door.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Do you consider this your rock bottom, Carly?
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I mean, if you're on this show, I think most
people would say that that's the case.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
I feel pretty low, but not as low as you
think I do.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come
so we can.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
All you're supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly, you're
amazing and you deserve a second date.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
We see how much she struggled to get that sent
That was really inspired.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I was going to bring up the snore. Maybe that's
the reason he's not calling back.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
It is a good point.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
She did mention that she laughed so hard during the
date that she snorted, and that could have been a
turn off to Ethan.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
But we don't know. Which reminds me nobody be too
funny during this.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
If she starts snorting and then Brook starts snorting, Oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You guys are funny, but as funny as him.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
All Right, well, that's really motivated me to try super
hard for you. It's I can get one hundred percent
effort into this. I'm dialing his number right now. Let's
see if he picks up.
Speaker 5 (09:30):
Here we go, Thank you, guys, I really hope you
can get another date for me.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're
looking to talk with Ethan.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
Okay, this is Ethan.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Hey, Ethan.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
There's a bunch of us here.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Who's this Hello.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Yeah, there's a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
the Morning, a team, very dysfunctional team, and we're doing Yeah,
we are together, and we're here doing a segment called
a second Date Update.
Speaker 6 (10:09):
Oh okay, why are you calling me? What this is?
Speaker 1 (10:15):
I love when people ask that. Ye's just such a
natural transition.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've
gone out on a date with somebody but the second
date hasn't materialized yet.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
We try and figure out why if there's a reason.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
So, okay, we're doing that for one of our listeners
that you went out with, named Carly.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?
Speaker 3 (10:41):
She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
No.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like maybe
you were planning on calling Carly back and going out
with her again.
Speaker 6 (10:50):
Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really
on the air talking about this?
Speaker 4 (10:54):
Yeah, segment we have based around dating it.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
You were just going to say, yeah, she still don't
trust us.
Speaker 3 (11:03):
I know this is a weird situation to be in.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had
a great time with you, but she's not seeing the
same amount of effort from you as she was before.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
The date, kind of like an energy shift. We're not
sure if anything's changed.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.
We got a great time.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, that is so cute to hear. So you really
liked her?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great
laugh and we had a great time out.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
She was actually worried about that.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
So it sounds like you do want to go out
with her again.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Well, we were texting about when we were going to
try to get together again. I mean, I'm really just
surprised right now that she saw it that way that
I was blowing her off.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Oh you know how it can be and daty like
God to like actually be positive and read everything in
that way.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
As far, she doesn't know you well enough yet.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
She doesn't know if you're going to hit her up
immediately or if a full day.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
Not hearing from you is gonna be a horrible thing.
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
But everything that we're hearing right now sounds like you're
into her.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
You want to see her again?
Speaker 6 (12:08):
Yeah, yeah, I think so.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Okay, Actually, uh.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
You know, maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't
tell her this, it's maybe too early. Uh. I kind
of bought her perfume.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
You bought.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
That's interesting.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
That's cute. Like a travel size or full size bottle.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
You have a price tag that you can attach to it.
This needs to know, you know, that's interested?
Speaker 4 (12:39):
Why?
Speaker 5 (12:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (12:39):
What made you do that? Is it like a birthday
coming up for something?
Speaker 6 (12:43):
To be honest, my ex used to wear it and
it kind of drove me crazy. Wild who.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
You bought it? Because it's the same as your ex'es bro.
Speaker 5 (12:55):
Like, I'm on the phone on the phone, I heard that.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,
that's how this works. We usually call her in.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
That is so weird.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are
you for real?
Speaker 6 (13:11):
I didn't know you were on Carley. I didn't know
you were on.
Speaker 5 (13:15):
Yeah, yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,
Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought
it because it's what his mom smells.
Speaker 3 (13:26):
Like, Oh, that would have been sweeter.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
My mind did not even do that.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Okay, I think it's a good question.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Why why do you want Carly to be wearing that
same perfume.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Yea remind you of your ex?
Speaker 6 (13:39):
I like the sense. I thought she would smell grade
with it on her.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Okay, Okay, okay, maybe maybe there could be a different
set though for Carly. You know, like, yes, like my guy,
My husband is a sent guy. He loves sense like
you just maybe need to explore a different set.
Speaker 3 (13:57):
Truck. Stop trying to change men with every sentence I say.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Dude, that is disturbing. You do not want to remind it?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,
you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you
of your ex. You buying it just because you like
the scent itself.
Speaker 6 (14:14):
That's right, And this is not about my ex at all.
She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.
Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I
thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was
a nice gesture, Carly.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
Are you hearing him?
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.
But like I also, I feel like when you smell
a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman, and he'll
start associating it with you instead of her.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Did the sense on your body have different effects too?
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Literally, it could have been anybody.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
If his Maleman had been wearing the perfume, it would
have driven him mad. I mean, I say back to
here that like the scent is the number one connection
to memories.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to
tell her that it was the ex's scent.
Speaker 6 (15:00):
Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
I mean, so technically we set them up for this,
you know what I mean? Carly, like you got to
give him a little bit.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
Of I feel you're You're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,
I do think and when you put a cent on
it does change like different body chemistries so fair enough, so.
Speaker 6 (15:18):
You'll wear it then? Because I really like it?
Speaker 3 (15:21):
Oh why don't like?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I shouldn't have.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
Heard that question.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
Is that very very important to you if you're going
to go out with her again?
Speaker 6 (15:31):
Like I said, guys, I really like it.
Speaker 5 (15:40):
You had me up until there. I don't know. Now
I'm getting like creepy.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Again.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
That's our fault. We're piling not yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
We are the weirdos in this conversation, he is totally normal.
I would spray another before he sprays that for a few.
Speaker 6 (15:56):
That's a great point. I could wear it so you
could know it on me first.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.
Speaker 3 (16:08):
I'm starting to like this even more.
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Yeah, I'm very curious, just as an experiment to see
how the second interaction would go between Carly and Ethan
both wearing the same scent.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
She's gonna wear a cologne, now.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Give some Georgia HARMANI, but really.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
Were my ex boyfriend's cologne.
Speaker 6 (16:31):
I'll wear it?
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Sure, Okay, all fair in love and sense.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
And the whole reason that we called you is to
ask if you would see Carly one more time for
a date, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yeah, you need to ask a different set.
Speaker 6 (16:46):
I would love to see her again.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
You are okay?
Speaker 4 (16:49):
And Carly, are you still up for this even despite
what you've heard?
Speaker 5 (16:53):
I guess so I'll give it.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
I'm a little bit surprised.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Yeah, I think we did a good job. Yeah, I'm
thrilled for You've been here.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
On this one way better than if he had said
she had dragon thumbs. So that's Yeah, this was actually
a big win for everything.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
You can't come back from that, No, you.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Can't, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Man, I'm just really happy that she didn't overreact when
she jumped in kind of loud.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
At first, I thought like, oh, no, this is it.
It's over. We're not going to come back.
Speaker 7 (17:26):
You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you
buy the perfume and then you just leave it there,
like hell yeah. And I understand he didn't know that
she was on the phone, but even to us, but
let's just keep it to myself.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
It was, like you said, like it was kind of
our felt because he confessed that he liked her, and
he felt comfortable enough with us to confide that the
perfume thing was supposed to be a gift, and then
the ex girlfriend also used to wear it.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
I will say, I bet he would have told her,
just because in the sixty seconds you talked to him,
he let it out.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
I like to think that it's more about like how
comfortable people are around us, that they're willing to open up,
not that he just has, you know, a blabbermouth.
Speaker 3 (18:06):
And also he didn't think it was a problem.
Speaker 4 (18:07):
He's like, oh yeah, I'm just gonna get her the
same semix referen always work as I love it, then
I'll call her.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Let's be honest, the only reason any guy ever knows
the smell of a perfume is because of some woman dated.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I don't know smell like Michelle.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
So then let's give credit to Carle who was able
to hear him out and separate the X from the
smell and agree to a very very pungent second date.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
I'm worried about.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
How pungent it's gonna be.
Speaker 3 (18:32):
Are they both gonna show? Yeah, they're gonna be gas
masks when they meet up.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
But text into seven eighty five nine to two and
email the show. If you ever feel like you need
a little bit of help in your dating life, we
can call that person who's not calling you back and
go check out all of our second dates wherever you
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