January 10, 2025 • 17 mins
One of our listeners took a weird piece of romantic advice and was SHOCKED when it worked! He says it could work for anyone, and we’ll talk to him in the Second Date Update podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, you're here.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
You found the Second Day podcast and we love that.
Thank you so much you're here. You know what, if
you want us to.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Invade more of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah, with
Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come
to your house and give you hugs.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
You give me food, uh huh.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb
content that apparently you life, which.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We're really grateful for.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You can go over the main feed for the full
show Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Second date up date.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Alexis, say, is there one sentence a random guy could
say to you that would make you instantly want to
kiss him? Write the gentlemen rather than ma'am, Can I
get your license and registration?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Please?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Oh he's gonna get you.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
What about asking for like my Starbucks order?
Speaker 6 (00:50):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You know that's simple, buying me a coffee that changes
my oday. I thought you had a higher price than that.
Can you try to.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Express over ice?
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I'm wow. I don't know about that move.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
But one of our listeners says he was taught something
that he claims can get any member of the opposite
sex to go in for the kiss right after you
meet them.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I'm sorry, after you meet them.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Right when you meet them.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
That's wild. I don't believe this.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I'm curious to find out what it is. So let's
talk to Joseph.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Now, Joseph, you gotta be careful because we all might
try to kiss you once we hear it.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
But tell us about this move that you learned.
Speaker 7 (01:27):
Okay, well, I want to make this a parent I
want to make this known right now. I didn't even
develop this. This came from a female friend of mine.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Okay, okay, yeah.
Speaker 7 (01:36):
She said, if you've been making eye contact with the
woman you know at a bar or any man, or
maybe a party, all you have to do is welcome
to her, and you have to be non chalant, look
at him and say, hey, you're pretty. You want to
make out, with the attitude of not really wanting to
and don't care.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Hey you're pretty, want to make out?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah? How do you come off like you don't want
to when you say that?
Speaker 8 (02:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (02:05):
Your entire demeanor, you know, maybe hold a drink, maybe
look away, but like you know what, I find you pretty?
You want to make out?
Speaker 8 (02:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Maybe raise an eyebrow, you like, wink a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
But Jeff, just why are practicing on me?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Bro's gonna I'm gonna tell you it is hard to
imagine this working.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
No, okay, if you're attracted to the personnel works. If
it's not attracted, it's not gonna works.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
How did you feel hearing that word of advice from
your friend?
Speaker 7 (02:31):
It was horrible. I was so comfortable. I'm like, yeah,
I'm like, this would never work. I'm gonna get slapped.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, so despite your better logic, you tried it.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
We did.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
We did because she said nine out of ten times,
they'll go forward. So she was like, you know, we're
going to go to a holiday party or her job,
a work event.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Oh my god, work. It's not his.
Speaker 8 (02:56):
Work, Yeah, it's her. It's hurry.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But still, you girl that brought the guns.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I wish this happened at our holiday party.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
How many people work at her Yeah, at her office
or wherever she.
Speaker 9 (03:09):
Is, Man, it's like hundreds, hundreds.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
They throw actually cool parties.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah oh yeah, yeah, I've been to those with other friends.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
Yeah, so it was like an open bar and she said,
you know a lot of two girls.
Speaker 8 (03:24):
Work with her at her company.
Speaker 7 (03:26):
So I was like, okay, you know with the skepticism,
you know. And she also told me that, you know,
we didn't have to hang hang around each other, just
get out there mingle, and that's what we did.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh yeah, because I was worried that you were going
to look like the boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
You know everyone, how are you there?
Speaker 10 (03:43):
People?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
With hundreds when you go to those big ones and
nobody asked? You don't know what department do you work in?
Speaker 10 (03:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
So you you just went to the party and first
cute girl you saw, you just walked right up to
her and used the line.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Oh no, that is.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Not how that happened.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
I was.
Speaker 7 (04:02):
I was standing around for at least an hour and
a half, just I was nervous, think.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
About this, meeting someone for the first time who's attractive
as a little nerve wrecking.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
The first kiss is always nerve wrecking. Doing them at
the same time.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Like a public event. You can't just go to your bedroom.
You're in and you better not have eaten any of
the appetizers because you want to have good breath.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Yeah, So, like, at what point did you actually try
it or did you get.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
There when the drinks came and this is an open bar.
The courage juice came in and I spotted this really
really cute girl and I went up to her and
I gave the line and she was like, you know what,
it's the holidays, why not shut And she grabbed me
by the hand led me to a quiet corner and
(04:48):
we made out.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
No, oh my god, it wasn't even just like a
quick kiss or anything.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
We made another location to kiss. That's kind of cool.
Speaker 8 (05:00):
Did work?
Speaker 9 (05:00):
It was crazy?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
You did even take out?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
At what point did you learn her name.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
In the middle of it? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Did you get the name?
Speaker 7 (05:15):
She did give me the name.
Speaker 9 (05:16):
Her name was Katrina.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
We talked like ten to fifteen minutes after our makeout.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Oh wow, so you made a connection.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Get all the all the hard stuff out of the wood.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
But then what the night?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Answered like, do you how many other women?
Speaker 10 (05:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:31):
How many other women do you use this on at
the work party?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
No?
Speaker 7 (05:34):
No, it was it was just her and she gave
me her number and it was like wow.
Speaker 9 (05:38):
I was like, I can't believe that actually worked.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Bro, So did you stop? Did you because you felt
chemistry with her? Or what?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
No?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
I feel like I was betting one for one.
Speaker 9 (05:45):
I wanted to get out of it.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I want to be I like that, did you guys
get to connect? Did you talk after? Have you texted
or anything?
Speaker 7 (05:55):
It was like here and there? You know, so some okay, yeah,
just a little bit.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Maybe she feels awkward for making out with somebody at
her own work party.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
A woman who leads a man into a corner is
not embarrassed.
Speaker 8 (06:10):
She doesn't remember.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Yeah after an hour and a half of drinking. I mean,
what about what about your friend? What does your friend
say about her co worker? Like, did you tell her
what happened?
Speaker 7 (06:21):
Kind of? I told my friend at the move work
and she was.
Speaker 9 (06:23):
Like, oh my god, who was it?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
But I didn't want to say because, you know, I
didn't want to like have it weird for her, like
at her company, what.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
She brought you and told you to do it?
Speaker 8 (06:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I mean, honestly, there's so many people that work there.
She may not even know her. She could be a
plus one of somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, that's a good point.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
There's a lot of Okay, so your friend doesn't know
who it is, and you've been trying to reach Katrina
for how long?
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Poor a little second, Now a little second, Well, actually
have a date and see if there's like a real
connection there.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, a sober date, are starting sober man?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
That doesn't sound very funny.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Okay, maybe not somewher, but a date.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Yeah, Well, we'll try and arrange something for you with
you and Katrina when we come back. Get you your
second date update Right after this hold on second date update,
today we learned about a hot dating hack.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Yeah, we kind of.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Yeah, short of where apparently if you go up to
any woman with a nonchalant attitude and casually say, hey,
you're cute, you want to make out a lot of
times if they're single, they'll say yes to that wow,
and maybe even if they're not single, if you deliver
it the right way.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Appurarently Jeff isn't nonchalant enough, because nobody in this room
is making out with them yet.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yeah, I'm saying I did not do it right.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
But the thing is, we never asked what do you
do if the response back is no.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Or what?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Or just something besides yes?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You were embarrassed and you shy away?
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well that's not a good look.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
You hope that you never see them again.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Let's ask our listener, Joseph, if any of our listeners
want to try this move for themselves, what are you
supposed to say to a rejection?
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Well, if they say no, yeah, problem, just find me
when you're ready.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Oh, no problem, just find me when you're.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Oh my god, that's so.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That's because then you really don't care. You're like, okay,
I to change your mind.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I would have said me neither. I don't want to
he asking you.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
The thing is, Joseph liked Katrina, the girl that he
made out with at the holiday party. So let's reach
out to her and see if we can figure out
why she's not going for like an actual date.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
By the way, can we not call him out on
this as a move that he like or that it
was even a bet, like when she picks up like.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
The trick worked on you.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
The thing is is that he really likes her. That's
why we're calling.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
Why are you looking at me for that? Alexis is
the one that usually ruins these constant you are.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
So self aware.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Here, all right, Alexis, pipe down, We're going to call
this girl. Don't ruin this for us.
Speaker 10 (09:03):
Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Katrina?
Speaker 8 (09:15):
Yes, it's Katrina O yay morning.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Hey Katrina, Hello, this is a morning show.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we
are very very eager to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
You want to do a second date or something whatever?
Speaker 8 (09:35):
Wow, Okay, how did you reach me? This is kind
of odd.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
It's hard to answer that because we got an email
from one of our listeners that met you recently at
a holiday party named Joseph.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Oh Joseph. Okay, yep, I remember him.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Would you describe him flat out?
Speaker 8 (09:58):
I guess i'd describe him.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
Is a liar?
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Liar? You mean he lies down a lot.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I'm a liar.
Speaker 8 (10:09):
No, he just completely lied to me. I met him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Wait, yeah, you had such a brief interaction with this guy,
at least.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
According to him what we've heard.
Speaker 8 (10:21):
Oh, so we told you all about it. So I
don't know if this is what Joseph told you. But
we ended up making out. It's not usually the order
in which I do things, but we made out and
none we had a talk.
Speaker 10 (10:36):
You don't normally do it that way, That's how we
do it.
Speaker 8 (10:38):
So no, I do not definitely different from me. But
then he tells me he works at my company. Someone's like,
what are you doing here? I don't recognize you. So
I looked him up and there is no record of
this guy working at my company.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
I don't know why he said that, Okay with me
sometimes my friends, now maybe the bar and you could
just make stuff up and then you don't think you're.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Gonna end up liking them. So you've already made up like, oh, yeah,
I work in whatever.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I mean that makes sense, alexis like, or it's just easier, right, Yeah,
it's easier to say, yeah, I work here too.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
Yeah, maybe you own stock in the company and in
a way that's like financially responsible.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
For our owner of the company.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
What was that CBS show Undercover Boss or something, it's like, oh,
yeah I work here, and it's.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Like, oh no, actually I own the whole thing.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
Maybe it's maybe some maybe some sort of like misunderstanding
situation like that.
Speaker 8 (11:32):
Okay, I highly doubt that was the case.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Okay, so you're just mad because he lied to you
about working Yeah, there was.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
No reason for him too. I mean he specifically said
he worked in finance. So I don't know how to
respond to this guy because I don't know who he is.
He's just in the party. Is he some kind of pervert?
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Oh, why would do you go to perverts? I mean,
why don't you just textim?
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Don't have to text him or do anything like that,
because actually Joseph is on the other line right now
waiting to talk to you. Yeah, in a non pervy way.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
The whole time he's been listening.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Oh god, no, it's because he likes you, Joseph tell.
Speaker 9 (12:19):
Her, Katrina.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
I am so sorry. I just let me just start
out with that.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
I want to apologize.
Speaker 7 (12:27):
I forgot that I did tell you those things, and
I want to tell you where that's coming from.
Speaker 9 (12:31):
I'm not a pervert.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
I'm not a stalker, any creepo, nothing like that.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Do you work there? I don't work there, Okay, I.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Know, No, he just said that.
Speaker 8 (12:41):
All right, I'm going to tell you something.
Speaker 9 (12:42):
I'm going to be transparent.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
This came from a friend of mine who does work there,
and she actually made me kind of like a little bet.
Speaker 9 (12:50):
Thing where it wasn't it wasn't a bed, not really
a bet.
Speaker 7 (12:55):
No, she gave me a move. If I want to
say it like that, as far as if I do
this particular things, if I say, hey, I think you're
pretty do you want to make out? I can make
out with any woman at that party.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It is a female friend that told him to do this.
I think that's very important.
Speaker 10 (13:10):
Thanks.
Speaker 9 (13:11):
Yeah, yeah, And I just want to say this, Christina,
when we did that, you were the only person that
I did that too, and then I wanted to do
that too.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Even afterwards, I just wanted to maybe change to to WI.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Was with you to sans.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
Yeah, I guess that's a release. But seriously, it's like
you just went there specifically to test out your mor.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
When it was not his idea.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
His friend is the one who was encouraging him, because
Joseph did not think saying no to a.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Free holiday party with the open bar. Yes, I mean
my friend worked at a big company.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Like yeah, if you should be mad at anybody, be
mad at Joseph's friend for pressuring him to kiss you.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Female friends, females.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
I do think that's so important.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Okay, I've crashed parties before, that makes sense.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
Invited. Yeah, you didn't crash it, and the only was
I worked there.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
That's it, right.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
You didn't lie about anything else, did you, Joseph?
Speaker 9 (14:16):
No, No, No, that was it. That was it?
Speaker 8 (14:17):
Because why about that Joseph, you could have told me
the truth.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
No, not really.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I came here to try out this line that my
friend you know about where you work, not that part.
Speaker 8 (14:32):
Yes, it works, I guess it works. I gotta admit
it works. Okay, So I'm kind of curious. Would that
line work if a girl tried it on a guy?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Of course, I think it'd work even better.
Speaker 8 (14:47):
I think it would too. Actually, a hard part.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Is going to be finding a guy who you actually
want to make out with.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Why are you asking that?
Speaker 8 (14:54):
To be honest, my boss is recently single, and I
had my.
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Eye on Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
No no no no, no, no, no no, that's not
the way.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
No, what's going to your boss?
Speaker 4 (15:09):
You want to try this on your boss?
Speaker 8 (15:11):
I would like to try it. I mean I'm smart.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Don't do that equivalent.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
I've tried a lot of moves on our bosses and
none of them work. So it's I didn't think it's
a good idea.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Jeffrey hasn't gotten to raise in over five years.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
No, keep getting demoted.
Speaker 8 (15:26):
Listen. I don't even know how you guys are, so
don't tell me what to do.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah, but you got the idea from us from.
Speaker 8 (15:36):
Him, Joseph. Joseph's got some smooth moves and maybe I should.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Well, are you going to kiss Joseph again?
Speaker 5 (15:42):
Because the whole reason that we're doing this call is
because after you guys kissed, he felt like you had
a really great connection and wanted to take it a
little bit farther and go out on a real date.
And we would pay for that date if you're willing
to see him again.
Speaker 8 (15:54):
Yeah, I mean, maybe Joseph could be my wingman.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
No, come on, I'm pouring out my heart here.
Speaker 8 (16:03):
I like you.
Speaker 9 (16:03):
I want to get to know you.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
You guys had a connection.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Give it a chance with Joseph, and once that burns out,
then you can go after your bar.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
There you go.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
You know, I'm willing to go on a friendly date
as friends, friends and friends do.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
We cover friendly dates.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
We can change them dating tricks and tips.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Dude, you went from kissing this woman in the first
five seconds to now you're her friends, absolute friends.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Wingman.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I've never been not this excited about friendship in my life.
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Yeah, it's rook Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I feel
so bad for Joseph in that scenario. He took a risk,
decided he was going to be one hundred percent honest
and transparent, and admitted he didn't really work at her company.
He was just there to do a makeout experiment.
Speaker 5 (16:46):
And what happens, well, he goes from mystery hot guy
to best friend dating coach.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Oh Man, he went too far, He told too much,
like you got to keep your dating secrets to yourself.
Speaker 5 (16:59):
Yes, when is it okay to be fully honest with
your partner, Brooke? How many years into the marriage do
you actually open up if.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
They ask you got to tell them?
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Oh, if you.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
Never tell them anything, I'm hitty good one, Brook, But
if you ever want some dating advice, we'll be honest
with you and try and give you our best piece
of advice and help and whatever we can.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
Just email the show.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
We'll call that person who's not calling you back and
go check out all of our second dates wherever you
get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey Brook
Speaker 4 (17:29):
And Jeffrey in the Morning,
Hey, you're here.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
You found the Second Day podcast and we love that.
Thank you so much you're here. You know what, if
you want us to.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Invade more of your life, we're on YouTube, yeah, with
Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come
to your house and give you hugs.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
You give me food, uh huh.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb
content that apparently you life, which.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We're really grateful for.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
You can go over the main feed for the full
show Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
But right now, let's get into this relationship stuff.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Second date up date.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Alexis, say, is there one sentence a random guy could
say to you that would make you instantly want to
kiss him? Write the gentlemen rather than ma'am, Can I
get your license and registration?
Speaker 4 (00:45):
Please?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Oh he's gonna get you.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
What about asking for like my Starbucks order?
Speaker 6 (00:50):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
You know that's simple, buying me a coffee that changes
my oday. I thought you had a higher price than that.
Can you try to.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Express over ice?
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I'm wow. I don't know about that move.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
But one of our listeners says he was taught something
that he claims can get any member of the opposite
sex to go in for the kiss right after you
meet them.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I'm sorry, after you meet them.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Right when you meet them.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
That's wild. I don't believe this.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I'm curious to find out what it is. So let's
talk to Joseph.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Now, Joseph, you gotta be careful because we all might
try to kiss you once we hear it.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
But tell us about this move that you learned.
Speaker 7 (01:27):
Okay, well, I want to make this a parent I
want to make this known right now. I didn't even
develop this. This came from a female friend of mine.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Okay, okay, yeah.
Speaker 7 (01:36):
She said, if you've been making eye contact with the
woman you know at a bar or any man, or
maybe a party, all you have to do is welcome
to her, and you have to be non chalant, look
at him and say, hey, you're pretty. You want to
make out, with the attitude of not really wanting to
and don't care.
Speaker 5 (01:55):
Hey you're pretty, want to make out?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Yeah? How do you come off like you don't want
to when you say that?
Speaker 8 (02:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (02:05):
Your entire demeanor, you know, maybe hold a drink, maybe
look away, but like you know what, I find you pretty?
You want to make out?
Speaker 8 (02:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Maybe raise an eyebrow, you like, wink a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
But Jeff, just why are practicing on me?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Bro's gonna I'm gonna tell you it is hard to
imagine this working.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
No, okay, if you're attracted to the personnel works. If
it's not attracted, it's not gonna works.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
How did you feel hearing that word of advice from
your friend?
Speaker 7 (02:31):
It was horrible. I was so comfortable. I'm like, yeah,
I'm like, this would never work. I'm gonna get slapped.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, so despite your better logic, you tried it.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
We did.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
We did because she said nine out of ten times,
they'll go forward. So she was like, you know, we're
going to go to a holiday party or her job,
a work event.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Oh my god, work. It's not his.
Speaker 8 (02:56):
Work, Yeah, it's her. It's hurry.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But still, you girl that brought the guns.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
I wish this happened at our holiday party.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
How many people work at her Yeah, at her office
or wherever she.
Speaker 9 (03:09):
Is, Man, it's like hundreds, hundreds.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
They throw actually cool parties.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah oh yeah, yeah, I've been to those with other friends.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
Yeah, so it was like an open bar and she said,
you know a lot of two girls.
Speaker 8 (03:24):
Work with her at her company.
Speaker 7 (03:26):
So I was like, okay, you know with the skepticism,
you know. And she also told me that, you know,
we didn't have to hang hang around each other, just
get out there mingle, and that's what we did.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh yeah, because I was worried that you were going
to look like the boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
You know everyone, how are you there?
Speaker 10 (03:43):
People?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
With hundreds when you go to those big ones and
nobody asked? You don't know what department do you work in?
Speaker 10 (03:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
So you you just went to the party and first
cute girl you saw, you just walked right up to
her and used the line.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Oh no, that is.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Not how that happened.
Speaker 8 (04:02):
I was.
Speaker 7 (04:02):
I was standing around for at least an hour and
a half, just I was nervous, think.
Speaker 5 (04:08):
About this, meeting someone for the first time who's attractive
as a little nerve wrecking.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
The first kiss is always nerve wrecking. Doing them at
the same time.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Like a public event. You can't just go to your bedroom.
You're in and you better not have eaten any of
the appetizers because you want to have good breath.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Yeah, So, like, at what point did you actually try
it or did you get.
Speaker 7 (04:27):
There when the drinks came and this is an open bar.
The courage juice came in and I spotted this really
really cute girl and I went up to her and
I gave the line and she was like, you know what,
it's the holidays, why not shut And she grabbed me
by the hand led me to a quiet corner and
(04:48):
we made out.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
No, oh my god, it wasn't even just like a
quick kiss or anything.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
We made another location to kiss. That's kind of cool.
Speaker 8 (05:00):
Did work?
Speaker 9 (05:00):
It was crazy?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
You did even take out?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
At what point did you learn her name.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
In the middle of it? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Did you get the name?
Speaker 7 (05:15):
She did give me the name.
Speaker 9 (05:16):
Her name was Katrina.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
We talked like ten to fifteen minutes after our makeout.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Oh wow, so you made a connection.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Get all the all the hard stuff out of the wood.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
But then what the night?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
Answered like, do you how many other women?
Speaker 10 (05:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:31):
How many other women do you use this on at
the work party?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
No?
Speaker 7 (05:34):
No, it was it was just her and she gave
me her number and it was like wow.
Speaker 9 (05:38):
I was like, I can't believe that actually worked.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Bro, So did you stop? Did you because you felt
chemistry with her? Or what?
Speaker 6 (05:43):
No?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
I feel like I was betting one for one.
Speaker 9 (05:45):
I wanted to get out of it.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I want to be I like that, did you guys
get to connect? Did you talk after? Have you texted
or anything?
Speaker 7 (05:55):
It was like here and there? You know, so some okay, yeah,
just a little bit.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Maybe she feels awkward for making out with somebody at
her own work party.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
A woman who leads a man into a corner is
not embarrassed.
Speaker 8 (06:10):
She doesn't remember.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Yeah after an hour and a half of drinking. I mean,
what about what about your friend? What does your friend
say about her co worker? Like, did you tell her
what happened?
Speaker 7 (06:21):
Kind of? I told my friend at the move work
and she was.
Speaker 9 (06:23):
Like, oh my god, who was it?
Speaker 7 (06:25):
But I didn't want to say because, you know, I
didn't want to like have it weird for her, like
at her company, what.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
She brought you and told you to do it?
Speaker 8 (06:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I mean, honestly, there's so many people that work there.
She may not even know her. She could be a
plus one of somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
I mean, that's a good point.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
There's a lot of Okay, so your friend doesn't know
who it is, and you've been trying to reach Katrina
for how long?
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Poor a little second, Now a little second, Well, actually
have a date and see if there's like a real
connection there.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Yeah, a sober date, are starting sober man?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
That doesn't sound very funny.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Okay, maybe not somewher, but a date.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Yeah, Well, we'll try and arrange something for you with
you and Katrina when we come back. Get you your
second date update Right after this hold on second date update,
today we learned about a hot dating hack.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Yeah, we kind of.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
Yeah, short of where apparently if you go up to
any woman with a nonchalant attitude and casually say, hey,
you're cute, you want to make out a lot of
times if they're single, they'll say yes to that wow,
and maybe even if they're not single, if you deliver
it the right way.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Appurarently Jeff isn't nonchalant enough, because nobody in this room
is making out with them yet.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Yeah, I'm saying I did not do it right.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
But the thing is, we never asked what do you
do if the response back is no.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Or what?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Or just something besides yes?
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
You were embarrassed and you shy away?
Speaker 4 (07:53):
Well that's not a good look.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
You hope that you never see them again.
Speaker 5 (07:57):
Let's ask our listener, Joseph, if any of our listeners
want to try this move for themselves, what are you
supposed to say to a rejection?
Speaker 7 (08:04):
Well, if they say no, yeah, problem, just find me
when you're ready.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Oh, no problem, just find me when you're.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Oh my god, that's so.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
That's because then you really don't care. You're like, okay,
I to change your mind.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I would have said me neither. I don't want to
he asking you.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
The thing is, Joseph liked Katrina, the girl that he
made out with at the holiday party. So let's reach
out to her and see if we can figure out
why she's not going for like an actual date.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
By the way, can we not call him out on
this as a move that he like or that it
was even a bet, like when she picks up like.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
The trick worked on you.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
You know.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
The thing is is that he really likes her. That's
why we're calling.
Speaker 5 (08:46):
Why are you looking at me for that? Alexis is
the one that usually ruins these constant you are.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
So self aware.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Here, all right, Alexis, pipe down, We're going to call
this girl. Don't ruin this for us.
Speaker 10 (09:03):
Here we go, Hello, Hey, is this Katrina?
Speaker 8 (09:15):
Yes, it's Katrina O yay morning.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Hey Katrina, Hello, this is a morning show.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we
are very very eager to talk to you.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
You want to do a second date or something whatever?
Speaker 8 (09:35):
Wow, Okay, how did you reach me? This is kind
of odd.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
It's hard to answer that because we got an email
from one of our listeners that met you recently at
a holiday party named Joseph.
Speaker 8 (09:49):
Oh Joseph. Okay, yep, I remember him.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
Would you describe him flat out?
Speaker 8 (09:58):
I guess i'd describe him.
Speaker 9 (10:00):
Is a liar?
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Liar? You mean he lies down a lot.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I'm a liar.
Speaker 8 (10:09):
No, he just completely lied to me. I met him. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Wait, yeah, you had such a brief interaction with this guy,
at least.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
According to him what we've heard.
Speaker 8 (10:21):
Oh, so we told you all about it. So I
don't know if this is what Joseph told you. But
we ended up making out. It's not usually the order
in which I do things, but we made out and
none we had a talk.
Speaker 10 (10:36):
You don't normally do it that way, That's how we
do it.
Speaker 8 (10:38):
So no, I do not definitely different from me. But
then he tells me he works at my company. Someone's like,
what are you doing here? I don't recognize you. So
I looked him up and there is no record of
this guy working at my company.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
I don't know why he said that, Okay with me
sometimes my friends, now maybe the bar and you could
just make stuff up and then you don't think you're.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Gonna end up liking them. So you've already made up like, oh, yeah,
I work in whatever.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
I mean that makes sense, alexis like, or it's just easier, right, Yeah,
it's easier to say, yeah, I work here too.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
Yeah, maybe you own stock in the company and in
a way that's like financially responsible.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
For our owner of the company.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
What was that CBS show Undercover Boss or something, it's like, oh,
yeah I work here, and it's.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Like, oh no, actually I own the whole thing.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
Maybe it's maybe some maybe some sort of like misunderstanding
situation like that.
Speaker 8 (11:32):
Okay, I highly doubt that was the case.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
Okay, so you're just mad because he lied to you
about working Yeah, there was.
Speaker 8 (11:39):
No reason for him too. I mean he specifically said
he worked in finance. So I don't know how to
respond to this guy because I don't know who he is.
He's just in the party. Is he some kind of pervert?
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Oh, why would do you go to perverts? I mean,
why don't you just textim?
Speaker 5 (12:00):
Don't have to text him or do anything like that,
because actually Joseph is on the other line right now
waiting to talk to you. Yeah, in a non pervy way.
Speaker 8 (12:14):
The whole time he's been listening.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Oh god, no, it's because he likes you, Joseph tell.
Speaker 9 (12:19):
Her, Katrina.
Speaker 7 (12:20):
I am so sorry. I just let me just start
out with that.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
I want to apologize.
Speaker 7 (12:27):
I forgot that I did tell you those things, and
I want to tell you where that's coming from.
Speaker 9 (12:31):
I'm not a pervert.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
I'm not a stalker, any creepo, nothing like that.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Do you work there? I don't work there, Okay, I.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Know, No, he just said that.
Speaker 8 (12:41):
All right, I'm going to tell you something.
Speaker 9 (12:42):
I'm going to be transparent.
Speaker 7 (12:43):
This came from a friend of mine who does work there,
and she actually made me kind of like a little bet.
Speaker 9 (12:50):
Thing where it wasn't it wasn't a bed, not really
a bet.
Speaker 7 (12:55):
No, she gave me a move. If I want to
say it like that, as far as if I do
this particular things, if I say, hey, I think you're
pretty do you want to make out? I can make
out with any woman at that party.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It is a female friend that told him to do this.
I think that's very important.
Speaker 10 (13:10):
Thanks.
Speaker 9 (13:11):
Yeah, yeah, And I just want to say this, Christina,
when we did that, you were the only person that
I did that too, and then I wanted to do
that too.
Speaker 7 (13:21):
Even afterwards, I just wanted to maybe change to to WI.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Was with you to sans.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
Yeah, I guess that's a release. But seriously, it's like
you just went there specifically to test out your mor.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
When it was not his idea.
Speaker 5 (13:42):
His friend is the one who was encouraging him, because
Joseph did not think saying no to a.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Free holiday party with the open bar. Yes, I mean
my friend worked at a big company.
Speaker 5 (13:52):
Like yeah, if you should be mad at anybody, be
mad at Joseph's friend for pressuring him to kiss you.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
Female friends, females.
Speaker 2 (14:01):
I do think that's so important.
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Okay, I've crashed parties before, that makes sense.
Speaker 4 (14:08):
Invited. Yeah, you didn't crash it, and the only was
I worked there.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
That's it, right.
Speaker 2 (14:13):
You didn't lie about anything else, did you, Joseph?
Speaker 9 (14:16):
No, No, No, that was it. That was it?
Speaker 8 (14:17):
Because why about that Joseph, you could have told me
the truth.
Speaker 9 (14:22):
No, not really.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I came here to try out this line that my
friend you know about where you work, not that part.
Speaker 8 (14:32):
Yes, it works, I guess it works. I gotta admit
it works. Okay, So I'm kind of curious. Would that
line work if a girl tried it on a guy?
Speaker 2 (14:43):
Of course, I think it'd work even better.
Speaker 8 (14:47):
I think it would too. Actually, a hard part.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
Is going to be finding a guy who you actually
want to make out with.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Why are you asking that?
Speaker 8 (14:54):
To be honest, my boss is recently single, and I
had my.
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Eye on Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
No no no no, no, no, no no, that's not
the way.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
No, what's going to your boss?
Speaker 4 (15:09):
You want to try this on your boss?
Speaker 8 (15:11):
I would like to try it. I mean I'm smart.
Speaker 1 (15:15):
Don't do that equivalent.
Speaker 10 (15:17):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (15:17):
I've tried a lot of moves on our bosses and
none of them work. So it's I didn't think it's
a good idea.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Jeffrey hasn't gotten to raise in over five years.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
No, keep getting demoted.
Speaker 8 (15:26):
Listen. I don't even know how you guys are, so
don't tell me what to do.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah, but you got the idea from us from.
Speaker 8 (15:36):
Him, Joseph. Joseph's got some smooth moves and maybe I should.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Well, are you going to kiss Joseph again?
Speaker 5 (15:42):
Because the whole reason that we're doing this call is
because after you guys kissed, he felt like you had
a really great connection and wanted to take it a
little bit farther and go out on a real date.
And we would pay for that date if you're willing
to see him again.
Speaker 8 (15:54):
Yeah, I mean, maybe Joseph could be my wingman.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
No, come on, I'm pouring out my heart here.
Speaker 8 (16:03):
I like you.
Speaker 9 (16:03):
I want to get to know you.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
You guys had a connection.
Speaker 5 (16:05):
Give it a chance with Joseph, and once that burns out,
then you can go after your bar.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
There you go.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
You know, I'm willing to go on a friendly date
as friends, friends and friends do.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
We cover friendly dates.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
We can change them dating tricks and tips.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Dude, you went from kissing this woman in the first
five seconds to now you're her friends, absolute friends.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
Wingman.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I've never been not this excited about friendship in my life.
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Yeah, it's rook Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I feel
so bad for Joseph in that scenario. He took a risk,
decided he was going to be one hundred percent honest
and transparent, and admitted he didn't really work at her company.
He was just there to do a makeout experiment.
Speaker 5 (16:46):
And what happens, well, he goes from mystery hot guy
to best friend dating coach.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Oh Man, he went too far, He told too much,
like you got to keep your dating secrets to yourself.
Speaker 5 (16:59):
Yes, when is it okay to be fully honest with
your partner, Brooke? How many years into the marriage do
you actually open up if.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
They ask you got to tell them?
Speaker 4 (17:08):
Oh, if you.
Speaker 5 (17:11):
Never tell them anything, I'm hitty good one, Brook, But
if you ever want some dating advice, we'll be honest
with you and try and give you our best piece
of advice and help and whatever we can.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
Just email the show.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
We'll call that person who's not calling you back and
go check out all of our second dates wherever you
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Speaker 4 (17:29):
And Jeffrey in the Morning,
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