November 28, 2025 • 17 mins
One of our listeners says he got his inspiration for his dating “MOVE” by watching on video online and gathering the courage to try it himself. Hear what it was in a Second Date podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We know it's never gonna end well. When a listener
gets their dating advice from the internet, it's just it's
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Yeah, although that's our listeners right now listening to our
show on podcasts.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I feel like they're learning more what not to do
instead of what to do. But yeah, he got a
pickup line or a pickup method, I guess, I would say,
from from the worldwide wag and he gave it a try.
You know, listen see if you want to give this
a world too. It's about to start Happy Black Friday. Hey,
do you have any comments, Alexis.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yeah, Vince said, my son and I listened to this
show and we absolutely love it. Ten and every morning
he goes, we need to watch Brooke and Jeffrey in
the morning. That's right, and he'll echo the morning like
it does on the show that goes Brook and Jeffrey
in the morning, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
All Right, Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Episode starts right now.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
The second date up date. What do you do if
you've been single for the last few years, You've been
on over a day dozen dates on a dozen different
dating apps, and absolutely nothing has stuck. God, oh, Jo,
(01:12):
you'd have to actually leave your house in order for
that to count. As you could become a monk and
take a vow of celibacy to make it seem like
it was all your idea the whole time, like.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Some of those places beautiful views.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
All virgins up there. Or you could do the most
frightening thing in the world, like our listener Rob did,
and meet someone in real life. People don't actually do
that anymore. Actually, Rob, you scare me. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
You.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
That's exciting that, you know. I feel like we've heard
a couple of these stories lately. Maybe people are going
back to this trend.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
It's either exciting than a real low moment in your life.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So which was No, I'm like you said, I'm just
completely done with the apps, Like no one ever wants
to meet up. It's just a waste of my time.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Okay, So what'd you do to meet somebody in person?
What was your trick?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Well, normally, how I would try to meet someone, I'd
be like, if you know you were a vegetable, you'd
be a cute cumber. Oh, I'll say that on a
dating app and stuff, And I mean sometimes they'll work,
they'll respond to me, and sometimes it just it just won't.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
It's pretty not just like.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Jokes like bad jokes, it's pretty cheesy. Yeah yeah, Oh,
maybe that was a little bit too high brow that
they don't understand it. Yeah. I mean it's like vegetables
and cute.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
One another one that I've tried before that sometimes works.
Excuse me, you seem to have dropped something. Oh oh,
it's your standards. Can I buy you a drink?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Sounds like that to yourself. Yeah, I mean, I'm starting
to feel like it's not the app's fault that you're
not needing a lot of people. It's the wrong girl.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
You need a girl who's like loves that silly stuff. Brother,
That's what I'm hoping to find here.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Okay, okay, so you said that's what you used to do.
Those were your old strategies. Do you mean that you
have like a new thing that you were trying.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah. So I found this city online and there was
this guy who said that there's just one like super
simple trick that you have to do.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Oh okay, everybody listening right this time.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
So you're at like a bar or something. You walk
like right next to her and then you lean over
to the bartender and you just say I'll have an
old Fashion, She'll have a rainbow lemon drop, and then
just say put it on my tab and then just
walk away.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Wait, what she's like.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
You drink yeah, and a gross free drink, Like you
get a good old fashion and she gets a rainbow
lemon drop.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Well, I think it's just any drink, right, Like you
don't always have.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be Yeah, you don't have to stick with the
The lingo remonds off, just like some sort of free
drink for her. I'm getting something for me, put it
on my tab and then you walk away.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Wait, and you think she wants to date ux you
bought her free drinks. No, but it's a mystery, so
you're gonna follow him to find out who he is.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No, that's the best part, not having to talk to
the guy who you drink.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah. No, the guy in the video said that, I'm
just like you said. It kind of creates a mystery.
You know. She's like, she's just gonna start thinking about
you and thinking about you.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Different than most guys to buy people drinks, because most
guys will do it and then stick around and be like,
all right, I bought you something, Now you owe me
like ten minutes of time. So did you do this
out in the real world?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
So I actually just tried it the other night and
it worked, damn.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Her name was Camilla.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Camilla. How long did it take for Camilla to get
the drink and go find you?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Literally five minutes? Like she had not finished the drink
she had it in her hand when she walked up
to me. Okay, wow, Well, every time she looks down
at the drinks, she's thinking of you.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Well, you must attractive, because she wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Do that if it's not attractive.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Like Jeff said, it's so nice not to owe anybody anything, Yeah,
for something, you know, Like it's such a relief, probably
to her.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
And I don't think it has anything to do with attractiveness.
It's just like the mystery of it. Yeah, it's like
a it's like an ugly guy gave you a drink
and then walked away. You'd probably be.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
Like, huh, I wouldn't go talk to him.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No, yeah I would.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it worked for Rob. So how long did you
guys talk?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
We were talking for like maybe ten minutes or so.
She said she was waiting for a friend. So when
her friend came, she did have to leave.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But oh, okay, so she was just I did give.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Her or if she gave me my number, she gave
me her number.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah scary if she gave you your number.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Number and I text her and she like replied right
then just like got it. So I know she didn't
give me a fake number.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, okay, wait, did you guys go on on a date?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
I have not heard from her. I tried texting her.
They try to cut something up and I've got nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Okay. And so the guy in the video on YouTube
that you watch, he didn't have any phone.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
There was no part too. No.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yes, but a ten minute conversation is basically like a
long term relationship in the modern dat wora, you've been
together for a very long time. Yeah, but I guess
we should ask do we know one hundred percent that
this Camilla girl was single?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Oh that is a risk in this one because you
you buy him a drink before you hit on, you know,
before you talk to us.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
True, I mean that is straight out ask her. But
she was definitely like leaning into it. I feel like
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
But if she if she was in a relationship, she
probably wouldn't have like walked across and tracked you down,
like struck up a conversation.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
And her friend was there.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
How long has it been since that bar interaction?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
About four days now, Okay, not that long.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
How many texts have you sent?
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Uh? Possibly like five or six?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Okay, she's line of maybe too many, but.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Yeah, maybe she's gaming you back. Maybe this is like
a girl's strategy to pick the guy back up after
you pick her up. But we'll find out. We'll come back, He'll.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Call radio stations.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
All going according to plan, and we come back and
call Camilla try and get your second date update right
after this second date update. Welcome my friends to today's
special edition of How to Seduce a Beautiful Woman Without
speaking a word to her. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in
(07:30):
the Bedroom. Today's pick up strategy comes from our listener Rob,
who tried something that he found in an online video
where if you're at a.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Bar with that voice and when you say online it
sounds like something we shouldn't be talking.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
It's not like that, but you just you go up
next to the woman that you like, You don't talk
to her, just order yourself a drink, then without asking,
order her a drink and simply smile and walk away
and let the miss do the work for you. Yes,
And that was different from Rob's previous strategy, which was
to basically use cheesy pickup lines like if you were
(08:09):
a vegetable, I'd say you were a cute cumber.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
We started talking to Rob and he's like, yeah, it
didn't work for twelve years. Yeah, twelve years of the
same thing.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
He decided to try something different and it worked. Yeah,
kind of.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I'll approached him and they talked for ten minutes. She
didn't give her a number, but now she's.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Not calling him back. But overall, I mean after learning
that move, Rob, do you feel like you're more confident
in yourself?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Yeah, I mean I think I do. The fact that
she walked up to me, like, that's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
You think she's a psychopath?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
What you're saying, I think crazy in a good way too, okay, good,
not crazy in a.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Bad way, crazy in love? Like yeah, yeah, okay, we're
gonna call her right now. And remember, Rob, wait till
we call you in in order to jump on. Okay,
We've got a lot of people just springing on the
line without permission, So I have some self control.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Over there.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
I got it.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
He really feels like a wildcard.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Jeff All right, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Camilla?
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Yes? It is Who's.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
We're a radio station called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Camilla.
Speaker 5 (09:25):
Okay, how can I how can I help you guys?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, well, you went out with a guy who listens
to our show.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know if i'd say that, I would say
you met a guy at a bar who listens to
our show.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
His name is Rob, and you guys met like four
nights ago ish.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Yeah remember?
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Oh okay, yeah, no, I I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Okay, okay, Well Rob, he he bought you a drink
and you guys ended up talking for a few minutes
until your friend got there, and he knows.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
It wasn't like a lot of time together, but you know,
he was impressed by who you were.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
We're just wondering what were your thoughts about Rob?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
He was he was nice?
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Uh okay. We always have a bad reaction when the
only thing that they say is nice.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
First. I just want to hear, like when he went
up to the bar and he bought you a drink
without saying anything, what was going through your head?
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Honestly, I've never had something like that happen to me before,
so I was kind of just like, well, he was
a little timid about it at first, so I didn't
honestly know fully if he was talking to me or
about me at first. But then there really was no
one else around us, and he just walked away and
there was a drink there for me, So I was
(10:48):
I was intrigued. I was confused, but I was intrigued.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
So it came how we wanted you to feel.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
That worked.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
But what's crazy is it came across as timid to you,
not as like uber confident of.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
It was like the trick.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Maybe he should have done like the Superman pose when
he ordered it, like I shall have an old fashioned
and she shall have a lemon drop without help.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Uh no, I probably would not have gotten the conversation
out of me from that.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, So it's not bad what he did.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
I mean, we're confused, why you're not responding?
Speaker 5 (11:29):
Well, Okay, So I was there waiting for my friend
and he told us that. Okay, So when she got there,
we left, we went and did our own thing.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Uh huh.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
But you know how I said I had never had
someone do something like that before. I can't say that
anymore obviously because of Rob, But I would also have
like three more Nichols if I said I had a
nickel every time that's happened to me.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Since, what what do you mean you got? I think
she means that other people did that for her.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
The same night, the same exact night, these two other
guys came up and did the exact same thing to us,
both me and my friend.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
They stole Rob's move. They probably saw Rob do that
across the bar, and oh.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Yeah, I think it's a different bar. Did you but
did you go talk to the other two guys? I
mean you only went and talked to Rob right.
Speaker 5 (12:29):
Well, the second guy that did it, I was like,
I got to ask, where is this coming from? Because
obviously I'm not saying that Rob is not possibly a
trendsetter in his own circles of life, but I don't
think I would be giving him credit for it if I.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Had to guess, doesn't seem did the guy answer?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Yeah? What he say?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:54):
He he literally pulled it up on his phone and
showed me this like Instagram reel.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
So another guy ruined it for our guy Because if
you hadn't known that. If that hadn't happened, would you
have contacted Rob?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
I mean maybe, But I was just like, Okay, we
can work with Maybe, And I think Rob can probably
work with Maybe too, because he just might be on
the other line right now, listening and wanting to talk
to you, Camilla, quick, nonchalant bro, Rob.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
You there, Yeah, I'm here, and look, Camilla, I am.
I'm honestly embarrassed. I'm sorry I did. I saw it
on a TikTok video. I was just nervous and like,
you were really pretty. I just kind of wanted to
see if it work.
Speaker 5 (13:50):
Yeah, but like how many girls did you try that on?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
It was just you. You were the first one and
I got your number and I was so happy and
I'm sorry, that's cute.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
I feel like I feel like some red flags are
popping up on.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
My radar here, like what you feel like Rob's a player?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Like that wasn't sincere?
Speaker 4 (14:11):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
At first, you think, Okay, this guy's buying me a
drink and seems nice and seems cool, and then you
find out that it's just some dumb guy on YouTube
or TikTok or instant whatever, being like this is how
you pick up jukes.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
That was a really good impression. And I've never even
seen the video.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I want you to do the videos. I do follow
that guy though, he's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
I did see you across the bar, though, and like
I chose you. I thought you were so cute for
a distance and when I got up to you, like
if you were a vegetable, you'd be a cucumber or something.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Wait did you Oh.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Yeah, no, no, no, that that was funny like that.
That's way more you than then the lemon drop. Wait,
that's how you sh That's how you should have come
up to me.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
It seems like you dropped something just now because oh wait,
it's your standard.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Where was this guy, Rob?
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Where was this guy?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
This is definitely him?
Speaker 4 (15:19):
Wow, I guess I'm just a thief because I'm here
to steal your heart.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
Oh okay, wait, wait a minute, you might be taking
it too far.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
I don't think any of us can take any more
of this conversation. I think we just need to offer
to send you guys out on another date that we
would pay for. If you don't do it, I'm going
to marry this man.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
You can have just become like the cutest couple we've
ever had on the.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Show, A cucumber couple.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
God, that's my that's I'm I'm I'm pattening that.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
By the way, that's all right. We would like to
send you out on another date with Rob or I guess,
on your first official date with Rob.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
If you're up for it, you promise not to just
try to buy me a Womon drop and be all mysterious.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I can't promise that I won't say some more cheesy lines,
but I will. I won't get you a lemon drop.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Okay, he'll be himself. That's so sweet.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
Perfect I am. I am not lactose and tolerant. I
want to all the cheese.
Speaker 6 (16:19):
You love it?
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I love that.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
God, Yeah it was Guda.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Okay. I can't get off the phone with you fast enough.
We're so happy for it. Congratulations. Please keep us updated,
but only through email.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Please freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Oh my god, how weird was that? I thought it
was so cute.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
You thought it was weird?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Well, just that it works?
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh my god. I just thought like it was just
proof that he should have just been himself in the
beginning and it all would have been so much better.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
But the hardest part about the call is like we
couldn't say anything to blow his oh about.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
The one like that he just came up with that
one line on the side.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
Because in part one he said that those are the
cheesy lines about the cucumber. Those used to be his
go to before he tried.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
I mean, why would we call him out on that?
Speaker 3 (17:13):
Well, yeah, there was just no way to bring.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
It in harmless exactly.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Like we were going to blow up his spot. But
it's just crazy that the old stuff worked on this
new girl.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Before the next day, I can tell you right now
he is ferociously googling new pickup lines to come.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Up with as cheesy as they can go because she
loved it. Maybe the key is he was doing them
over text and d MS and those types of things
only work in person.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Okay maybe, And I think I'm going to go back
to just be yourself, but sure, yea yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
And I'm like, don't steal other people's jokes, try and
be as original as you can. I think that's the
lesson that we learned. And another lesson that you learned
is you can always email us for help with your
dating life. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
We know it's never gonna end well. When a listener
gets their dating advice from the internet, it's just it's
how it goes.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Yeah, although that's our listeners right now listening to our
show on podcasts.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I feel like they're learning more what not to do
instead of what to do. But yeah, he got a
pickup line or a pickup method, I guess, I would say,
from from the worldwide wag and he gave it a try.
You know, listen see if you want to give this
a world too. It's about to start Happy Black Friday. Hey,
do you have any comments, Alexis.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Yeah, Vince said, my son and I listened to this
show and we absolutely love it. Ten and every morning
he goes, we need to watch Brooke and Jeffrey in
the morning. That's right, and he'll echo the morning like
it does on the show that goes Brook and Jeffrey
in the morning, Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
All Right, Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Episode starts right now.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
The second date up date. What do you do if
you've been single for the last few years, You've been
on over a day dozen dates on a dozen different
dating apps, and absolutely nothing has stuck. God, oh, Jo,
(01:12):
you'd have to actually leave your house in order for
that to count. As you could become a monk and
take a vow of celibacy to make it seem like
it was all your idea the whole time, like.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Some of those places beautiful views.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
All virgins up there. Or you could do the most
frightening thing in the world, like our listener Rob did,
and meet someone in real life. People don't actually do
that anymore. Actually, Rob, you scare me. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
You.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
That's exciting that, you know. I feel like we've heard
a couple of these stories lately. Maybe people are going
back to this trend.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
It's either exciting than a real low moment in your life.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
So which was No, I'm like you said, I'm just
completely done with the apps, Like no one ever wants
to meet up. It's just a waste of my time.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Okay, So what'd you do to meet somebody in person?
What was your trick?
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Well, normally, how I would try to meet someone, I'd
be like, if you know you were a vegetable, you'd
be a cute cumber. Oh, I'll say that on a
dating app and stuff, And I mean sometimes they'll work,
they'll respond to me, and sometimes it just it just won't.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
It's pretty not just like.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Jokes like bad jokes, it's pretty cheesy. Yeah yeah, Oh,
maybe that was a little bit too high brow that
they don't understand it. Yeah. I mean it's like vegetables
and cute.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
One another one that I've tried before that sometimes works.
Excuse me, you seem to have dropped something. Oh oh,
it's your standards. Can I buy you a drink?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Sounds like that to yourself. Yeah, I mean, I'm starting
to feel like it's not the app's fault that you're
not needing a lot of people. It's the wrong girl.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
You need a girl who's like loves that silly stuff. Brother,
That's what I'm hoping to find here.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Okay, okay, so you said that's what you used to do.
Those were your old strategies. Do you mean that you
have like a new thing that you were trying.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Yeah. So I found this city online and there was
this guy who said that there's just one like super
simple trick that you have to do.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Oh okay, everybody listening right this time.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
So you're at like a bar or something. You walk
like right next to her and then you lean over
to the bartender and you just say I'll have an
old Fashion, She'll have a rainbow lemon drop, and then
just say put it on my tab and then just
walk away.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Wait, what she's like.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
You drink yeah, and a gross free drink, Like you
get a good old fashion and she gets a rainbow
lemon drop.
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Well, I think it's just any drink, right, Like you
don't always have.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
To be Yeah, you don't have to stick with the
The lingo remonds off, just like some sort of free
drink for her. I'm getting something for me, put it
on my tab and then you walk away.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Wait, and you think she wants to date ux you
bought her free drinks. No, but it's a mystery, so
you're gonna follow him to find out who he is.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No, that's the best part, not having to talk to
the guy who you drink.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Yeah. No, the guy in the video said that, I'm
just like you said. It kind of creates a mystery.
You know. She's like, she's just gonna start thinking about
you and thinking about you.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Different than most guys to buy people drinks, because most
guys will do it and then stick around and be like,
all right, I bought you something, Now you owe me
like ten minutes of time. So did you do this
out in the real world?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
So I actually just tried it the other night and
it worked, damn.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Her name was Camilla.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Camilla. How long did it take for Camilla to get
the drink and go find you?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Literally five minutes? Like she had not finished the drink
she had it in her hand when she walked up
to me. Okay, wow, Well, every time she looks down
at the drinks, she's thinking of you.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Well, you must attractive, because she wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Do that if it's not attractive.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Like Jeff said, it's so nice not to owe anybody anything, Yeah,
for something, you know, Like it's such a relief, probably
to her.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
And I don't think it has anything to do with attractiveness.
It's just like the mystery of it. Yeah, it's like
a it's like an ugly guy gave you a drink
and then walked away. You'd probably be.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
Like, huh, I wouldn't go talk to him.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No, yeah I would.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
But it worked for Rob. So how long did you
guys talk?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
We were talking for like maybe ten minutes or so.
She said she was waiting for a friend. So when
her friend came, she did have to leave.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But oh, okay, so she was just I did give.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Her or if she gave me my number, she gave
me her number.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
Yeah scary if she gave you your number.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Number and I text her and she like replied right
then just like got it. So I know she didn't
give me a fake number.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, okay, wait, did you guys go on on a date?
Speaker 4 (05:54):
I have not heard from her. I tried texting her.
They try to cut something up and I've got nothing.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Okay. And so the guy in the video on YouTube
that you watch, he didn't have any phone.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
There was no part too. No.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Yes, but a ten minute conversation is basically like a
long term relationship in the modern dat wora, you've been
together for a very long time. Yeah, but I guess
we should ask do we know one hundred percent that
this Camilla girl was single?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Oh that is a risk in this one because you
you buy him a drink before you hit on, you know,
before you talk to us.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
True, I mean that is straight out ask her. But
she was definitely like leaning into it. I feel like
I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
But if she if she was in a relationship, she
probably wouldn't have like walked across and tracked you down,
like struck up a conversation.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
And her friend was there.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
How long has it been since that bar interaction?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
About four days now, Okay, not that long.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
How many texts have you sent?
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Uh? Possibly like five or six?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Okay, she's line of maybe too many, but.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Yeah, maybe she's gaming you back. Maybe this is like
a girl's strategy to pick the guy back up after
you pick her up. But we'll find out. We'll come back, He'll.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Call radio stations.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
All going according to plan, and we come back and
call Camilla try and get your second date update right
after this second date update. Welcome my friends to today's
special edition of How to Seduce a Beautiful Woman Without
speaking a word to her. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in
(07:30):
the Bedroom. Today's pick up strategy comes from our listener Rob,
who tried something that he found in an online video
where if you're at a.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
Bar with that voice and when you say online it
sounds like something we shouldn't be talking.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
It's not like that, but you just you go up
next to the woman that you like, You don't talk
to her, just order yourself a drink, then without asking,
order her a drink and simply smile and walk away
and let the miss do the work for you. Yes,
And that was different from Rob's previous strategy, which was
to basically use cheesy pickup lines like if you were
(08:09):
a vegetable, I'd say you were a cute cumber.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
We started talking to Rob and he's like, yeah, it
didn't work for twelve years. Yeah, twelve years of the
same thing.
Speaker 3 (08:17):
He decided to try something different and it worked. Yeah,
kind of.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I'll approached him and they talked for ten minutes. She
didn't give her a number, but now she's.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Not calling him back. But overall, I mean after learning
that move, Rob, do you feel like you're more confident
in yourself?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Yeah, I mean I think I do. The fact that
she walked up to me, like, that's just crazy.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
You think she's a psychopath?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
What you're saying, I think crazy in a good way too, okay, good,
not crazy in a.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Bad way, crazy in love? Like yeah, yeah, okay, we're
gonna call her right now. And remember, Rob, wait till
we call you in in order to jump on. Okay,
We've got a lot of people just springing on the
line without permission, So I have some self control.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Over there.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
I got it.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
He really feels like a wildcard.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Jeff All right, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Camilla?
Speaker 5 (09:15):
Yes? It is Who's.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
We're a radio station called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Camilla.
Speaker 5 (09:25):
Okay, how can I how can I help you guys?
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Yeah, well, you went out with a guy who listens
to our show.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know if i'd say that, I would say
you met a guy at a bar who listens to
our show.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
His name is Rob, and you guys met like four
nights ago ish.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Yeah remember?
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Oh okay, yeah, no, I I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
Okay, okay, Well Rob, he he bought you a drink
and you guys ended up talking for a few minutes
until your friend got there, and he knows.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
It wasn't like a lot of time together, but you know,
he was impressed by who you were.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
We're just wondering what were your thoughts about Rob?
Speaker 5 (10:06):
He was he was nice?
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Uh okay. We always have a bad reaction when the
only thing that they say is nice.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
First. I just want to hear, like when he went
up to the bar and he bought you a drink
without saying anything, what was going through your head?
Speaker 5 (10:25):
Honestly, I've never had something like that happen to me before,
so I was kind of just like, well, he was
a little timid about it at first, so I didn't
honestly know fully if he was talking to me or
about me at first. But then there really was no
one else around us, and he just walked away and
there was a drink there for me, So I was
(10:48):
I was intrigued. I was confused, but I was intrigued.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
So it came how we wanted you to feel.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
That worked.
Speaker 1 (10:56):
But what's crazy is it came across as timid to you,
not as like uber confident of.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
It was like the trick.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Maybe he should have done like the Superman pose when
he ordered it, like I shall have an old fashioned
and she shall have a lemon drop without help.
Speaker 5 (11:17):
Uh no, I probably would not have gotten the conversation
out of me from that.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, So it's not bad what he did.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
I mean, we're confused, why you're not responding?
Speaker 5 (11:29):
Well, Okay, So I was there waiting for my friend
and he told us that. Okay, So when she got there,
we left, we went and did our own thing.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Uh huh.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
But you know how I said I had never had
someone do something like that before. I can't say that
anymore obviously because of Rob, But I would also have
like three more Nichols if I said I had a
nickel every time that's happened to me.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Since, what what do you mean you got? I think
she means that other people did that for her.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
The same night, the same exact night, these two other
guys came up and did the exact same thing to us,
both me and my friend.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
They stole Rob's move. They probably saw Rob do that
across the bar, and oh.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Yeah, I think it's a different bar. Did you but
did you go talk to the other two guys? I
mean you only went and talked to Rob right.
Speaker 5 (12:29):
Well, the second guy that did it, I was like,
I got to ask, where is this coming from? Because
obviously I'm not saying that Rob is not possibly a
trendsetter in his own circles of life, but I don't
think I would be giving him credit for it if I.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Had to guess, doesn't seem did the guy answer?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
Yeah? What he say?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:54):
He he literally pulled it up on his phone and
showed me this like Instagram reel.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
So another guy ruined it for our guy Because if
you hadn't known that. If that hadn't happened, would you
have contacted Rob?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
I mean maybe, But I was just like, Okay, we
can work with Maybe, And I think Rob can probably
work with Maybe too, because he just might be on
the other line right now, listening and wanting to talk
to you, Camilla, quick, nonchalant bro, Rob.
Speaker 4 (13:32):
You there, Yeah, I'm here, and look, Camilla, I am.
I'm honestly embarrassed. I'm sorry I did. I saw it
on a TikTok video. I was just nervous and like,
you were really pretty. I just kind of wanted to
see if it work.
Speaker 5 (13:50):
Yeah, but like how many girls did you try that on?
Speaker 4 (13:54):
It was just you. You were the first one and
I got your number and I was so happy and
I'm sorry, that's cute.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
I feel like I feel like some red flags are
popping up on.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
My radar here, like what you feel like Rob's a player?
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Like that wasn't sincere?
Speaker 4 (14:11):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
At first, you think, Okay, this guy's buying me a
drink and seems nice and seems cool, and then you
find out that it's just some dumb guy on YouTube
or TikTok or instant whatever, being like this is how
you pick up jukes.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
That was a really good impression. And I've never even
seen the video.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
I want you to do the videos. I do follow
that guy though, he's pretty good.
Speaker 4 (14:34):
I did see you across the bar, though, and like
I chose you. I thought you were so cute for
a distance and when I got up to you, like
if you were a vegetable, you'd be a cucumber or something.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Wait did you Oh.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Yeah, no, no, no, that that was funny like that.
That's way more you than then the lemon drop. Wait,
that's how you sh That's how you should have come
up to me.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
It seems like you dropped something just now because oh wait,
it's your standard.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
Where was this guy, Rob?
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Where was this guy?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
This is definitely him?
Speaker 4 (15:19):
Wow, I guess I'm just a thief because I'm here
to steal your heart.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
Oh okay, wait, wait a minute, you might be taking
it too far.
Speaker 3 (15:28):
I don't think any of us can take any more
of this conversation. I think we just need to offer
to send you guys out on another date that we
would pay for. If you don't do it, I'm going
to marry this man.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
You can have just become like the cutest couple we've
ever had on the.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
Show, A cucumber couple.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
God, that's my that's I'm I'm I'm pattening that.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
By the way, that's all right. We would like to
send you out on another date with Rob or I guess,
on your first official date with Rob.
Speaker 5 (16:00):
If you're up for it, you promise not to just
try to buy me a Womon drop and be all mysterious.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I can't promise that I won't say some more cheesy lines,
but I will. I won't get you a lemon drop.
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Okay, he'll be himself. That's so sweet.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
Perfect I am. I am not lactose and tolerant. I
want to all the cheese.
Speaker 6 (16:19):
You love it?
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I love that.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
God, Yeah it was Guda.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Okay. I can't get off the phone with you fast enough.
We're so happy for it. Congratulations. Please keep us updated,
but only through email.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Please freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
Oh my god, how weird was that? I thought it
was so cute.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
You thought it was weird?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
Well, just that it works?
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Oh my god. I just thought like it was just
proof that he should have just been himself in the
beginning and it all would have been so much better.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
But the hardest part about the call is like we
couldn't say anything to blow his oh about.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
The one like that he just came up with that
one line on the side.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
Because in part one he said that those are the
cheesy lines about the cucumber. Those used to be his
go to before he tried.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
I mean, why would we call him out on that?
Speaker 3 (17:13):
Well, yeah, there was just no way to bring.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
It in harmless exactly.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
Like we were going to blow up his spot. But
it's just crazy that the old stuff worked on this
new girl.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Before the next day, I can tell you right now
he is ferociously googling new pickup lines to come.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Up with as cheesy as they can go because she
loved it. Maybe the key is he was doing them
over text and d MS and those types of things
only work in person.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Okay maybe, And I think I'm going to go back
to just be yourself, but sure, yea yeah.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
And I'm like, don't steal other people's jokes, try and
be as original as you can. I think that's the
lesson that we learned. And another lesson that you learned
is you can always email us for help with your
dating life. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
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Brooke Fox
Jeffrey "Young Jeffrey" Dubow
Jose Bolanos
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