February 13, 2025 • 22 mins
Jess and Camilla discuss the best and worst gifts to celebrate the holiday of love from the Call It Crew.
Camilla shares a hilarious story of being recognized from "Grey's" while she was buying lingerie.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,
an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Well hello, hello, Hello, hello everyone, and welcome to another
episode of Call It Short and Sweet.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Call It Short and Sweet, And this time it's maybe
even sweeter. It is a little sweeter, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I was like, gonna add on to it, but I
was like the Valentine's Day episode.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Oh, it's so sweet delicious of Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Do you I'm surprised because there's something I thought that
you were gonna be like maybe a little bit of
a me. Yeah, like it's a consumer you know, one
of those consumer you know.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
No, I'm into it. I well, okay, hold on, now
I'm reflecting.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I'm not into it for what.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I imagine it probably was created for on the consumer
consumption level, which is, yeah, you're right, I don't. I'm
not like, oh, gooey gooey romance love, Valentine's Day is
so amazing, and let's get a heart.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Shaped box of chocolates or red roses. No, you're right,
I'm not into it for that.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I I don't think I ever minded it before.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Kids.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I didn't find it particularly romantic, and it was always
when it was like a little it's like New Year's
where it's like there's pressure to get a table somewhere
nice or get something or whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But then when you.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Have kids, Yeah, that's when I think it gets sweet.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Wait, wait, I do want to let's talk.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
About like boyfriends back in the day, like high school.
I do remember Valentine's Day in high school, and it
was like it was a show for sure of if
you had a boyfriend at the time, it's when's he
going to bring the flowers?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Whether bigger than Susie's. You know, there was a little
bit of that going on, right, There's a little competitiveness
when you're like in early dating days. You know it's like.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Well Bob, oh, God, Bob came over and you know,
got me the massage and cookwat there.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I do think that there's a stage in your life
where there is it's more high school, to be honest,
but there was like that little competitiveness.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, yeah, or at least comparison like who else got something?
What did they get get? Yeah? Kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But you're right now, it's more I agree, because you know,
I don't remember the last time I've made a reservation
or anything.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Seriously, I honestly forget it's even the day. I think
I probably was annoying in my earlier life. I think
I'm well, actually i'm not. I don't think I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Oh, Jessica Capshaw, yeah, registry.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
There must have been oh yeah, yeah, I need Yeah,
I wanted some jewelry or something like that on February fourteenth.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I'm sure. I mean, I say no to some jewelry?
Why would you say no? That would just be like
you don't like yourself. I guess say, yes, you've loved yourself.
Don't you love yourself? Don't you love yourself enough to
have someone else buy you something for Hollide's Day.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Jessica did send me, I don't know if you mind
me saying this, did send me attacks of a necklace
today that looked like the necklace in Titanic.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I did, and she was like, this looks good.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And I was like, yeah, that's that's probably in a museum,
but sure, I got I.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Pulled the picture from Instagram. It's a real life.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Designer Smithsonian necklace that is on is part of your
registery list, probably for your next birthday, and that's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
It's only guarded by missionn impossible grade technology. Yeah, for sure,
we can get you that. Well, we'll pull the money.
It was I was dropping the hint, how much do
you love me? Yeah, just you know.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Diamond nine months in advance, eight months in advance, some
months in advance.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
It's good.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
No so inh so Okay, So I don't even know
where we're going with all this, but I would say
that in high school, I probably yeah, I probably liked
a little attention, but like I was fine, I wasn't
super I wasn't birthday level registery aggressive, and then later
on I would have taken some jewelry on that day
that's sweet, maybe a couple, you know, dinners out, and
then I think I probably got sick of it.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
I agree that it's about kids now, it's also I
don't know if you have this. It's also that you
got to get it for the classroom. There's the classroom
Valentine's Day. It's you've got the kid.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
And you don't have to. But there's like you can't.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Say, I'm gonna I'm gonna just I'm going to blow
in the face of convention here and what you would
expect me to say, which is I'm going to say
that I'm not bringing Valentine's Day gifts for everyone, and
I have.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I've done it.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I've filled up tiny little individual cellophane bags.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
With all the cute stuff and blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
And I look back on that former self and that
former behavior, and I think, I'm I'm I'm happy to
report that it's done.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You don't feel the way anymore. I'm not a I'm
not a I'm not filling up.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
The love hearts in a baggie or anything. I'm just
ordering the bulk Amazon. You know, slime, you put it
in a bag, you got to pick it out.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's it. You're welcome, move along. I'm there.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's my version seeing I'm at you get nothing.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
You get a living, you know, I kid because life
gets hard.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Yeah, no slime for you this year.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
A slime for you, No candy for you, because life's hard.
So get used to it. What do you do for
your kiddos? One on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Okay, so about three or four years ago, I got
a red wig. I know it's kind of crazy, and
I have a like a bucket that I put all
my Valentine's Day things in it, and I replenish every year.
But I get heart shaped paper plates and those like
paper straws that have little hearts on them, and then
(06:07):
like little bubble wands with little heart shaped bubbles. And
I just get a box of heart shaped shit. And
then I put on a red wig. And when I
wake up the kids in the morning, I've got my
red wig because it's Valentine's Day, and I've decorated the
kitchen where they sit in eat breakfast with just all
sorts of Valentine's Day shit.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
That is so adorable. That is so oot. Oh my god. Okay,
well we got a post on Instagram. You in the
red wig this year?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Oh absolutely, I've gotten. I'll have I'll have many years
past as well.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I've ever seen a picture of this?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Yes? Wow? Does she have a name?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
This like lady this Valentine's Day, Lady Valentine's Day Vivian.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't know when we can name her if you
want to, we can, I mean just red, maybe it's
just red red shows up.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, that's adorable.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I don't do that, Matt and I just do like
we present a little bouquet of flowers to each kid,
and then they each get their own little heart. They
do get the old fashioned heart chocolate in the box.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Oh yeah, and then that's what they get. And then
you know, then the slimee comes out and goes to
school with them, and that's sad.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
The gift that they get is a pair of pajamas
that's really cute, like a Valentine's Da themed kind of pair,
or just like a cute like a pair of pajamas
with or like you know when you're I I found
a oh you know those fleece onesies that zip up
the front but from the gap, and it was white
and it had like little red hearts all of it
for Josie. And then I got her monogram.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well that's cute. Wow wow, Red goes all out.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
But now the girls, the teenagers now, well the teenager
and the almost teenager, they're like and they see it
coming from a mile away because it was like three
days ago where all of a sudden they get they
get real sweet and they sit right next to me.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
And they're like, hey, Mom, can I show you something?
And I'm like, yeah, what are you looking at it?
What do you want? To look at.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
They're like, can I shee your phone for a second? Surely,
what do we see next thing? You know, wham bam,
thank you, ma'am. I'm on the skims dot com and
I'm looking at hearts hard by the way, Risks gay
this year's skims and by the way, they're already all
sold out of them.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Yeah, little like brawlts where is the heart cut out
in the front. There's a T shirt with a heart
cut out in the little shoulder.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
And then oh, this was a big debate between my
daughters because one of them was like, ew and the
other one was like, I think it's kind of cute.
Was underwear where there's a heart shape cut out in
the front, you know what.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And we talked about this, that's what you could bring
that into the waxer and you could be like.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Just it's almost like a stencil. One of them was like,
well what if you know? One of them brought up
the things that could happen.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Well, yeah, I do remember going one Valentine's Day with Matt.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I was like, you know what, let's do something sexy
and we went to Victorious and this so chic. I mean,
this is this is a way back a little bit.
This is a little while. Okay, now he's lucky if
you know, he's not. I'm in a onesie.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
So we went there and I was like, yeah, no,
there's no holes in that, just on like the sleeves
and the legs, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
There's like no access. So we go into that.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
We go in there and I'm like, oh my god,
I'm like trying to be all hot, and I'm like,
let's go over here to like the broads where like
you know, the nipples just cut out, like I don't
even know why, Like it's confusing to me, but I
that's what I was hooking up. And this chick comes
over to me that works out there at Victoria's Secret.
(10:08):
It was so obvious that like what we were in
there for, do you know what I mean? Like, I'm
not wearing that to drop off like we're supposed it's
supposed to be a sexy thing.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
I did.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I do?
Speaker 3 (10:19):
And I remember putting on the bra.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I'm just gonna say, I remember thinking of the bra
and the nipples were like the cutout nipples.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
And just being like this doesn't even look good. Of
course it doesn't, like why I don't even know if
Matt I thought it was cute. I think he was like,
I think.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
That they took a horribly wrong turn when they started
cutting things out of our lingerie. I mean, but what
I'm trying to say is that I do actually think
that lingerie can be very sexy, and I think there's
a lot of play that can be involved in different
lingerie situations. And I like a little push up, I
like a little corset, I like a little.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
That kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Great, But whose idea was it to start cutting hold
in it?
Speaker 3 (10:59):
That doesn't I don't know. It's not sexy.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
That's not I mean, obviously it is to somebody, I guess,
but I don't get it. I don't want a nipple
coming out of the middle of my.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I don't know, but listen, that's what I bought that day,
and that day it was not.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
My favorite day to get recognized from the show. That's
all I'm saying. At least she knew you still had
it exactly you know what it did got mis Yeah,
I was like, this is just a regular day. I
don't want No. It was like probably on the fourteenth,
like just so tragic. You and I have actually been
in the lingerie section together. M we have, We've walked
(11:37):
through it. We walked through a beautiful displays. We were
in Paris displays of gorgeous you know bra cutouts. They
were not the cutout. Do you remember what you said
to me?
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Well, we got on the subject of sex, and I
said to you, because we're, you know, so close, I said, listen,
I've got some moves.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
And that insulting.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Reaction that you just gave now is exactly what happened
on the day. I don't understand why you can't picture
that I have moves, because what is it about me
that screams that I don't?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Why do you think my laughter insinuates that you that
I'm questioning the moves?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I'm just laughing at.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Because I feel like if Angelina Joe Lee was walking
through the laundry section and she said I have moves,
she'd be like, yeah, you do, Angie, but.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
With me, you like literally peed your pants in the middle.
And I was like, what's so funny?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Definitely pants, good thing, my underwid And.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Well then but then you were like quizzing me, You're like,
what moves? I was like, don't worry about what they are.
You don't have MEAs.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
I was like, don't worry.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm not I'm not doing them to you. Don't worry
about it. But they're there, and they happened. Hold On,
let me explain my laughter. My laughture was not about
whether or not I questioned that you had the moves.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It was more that you called them moves, and then
I did actually imagine that they were moves, that it
was a pop quiz. I got stressed. I was like
sweating when you started asking me about it.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
But I was envisioning them being like like like like
figure skinning moves, like you do a triple sal cow
or something in bed well.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
I don't know how else I would describe it. I
was like a double axle with a rotating let's have
done that. Cough.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Listen on Valentine's Day, a double axel might come out.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
You never know. That's the joy of the day. I yes. Anyway,
Jess loves telling this up. She's like, you've got moves,
She's got moves people.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Okay, let's go to the crew, let's go to these submissions. Yeah,
this is a best and worst Valentine's Day gifts. Lily
wrote in and she said the best putting thought into it,
the worst, grabbing whatever is easiest.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
I have had to do a quick grab at CBS
from that.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Yeah, everyone's been there. We've all been there. Donna said,
a wee can get away? Are you kidding? Yes, that's
the best. Yeah, I love that and experience that an experience.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Emily or Emily who knows said, my now ex boyfriend
got me a gym membership for Valentine's Day straight up
told me, quote, you need it.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Wow guys by guys.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Wow, Gosh, I bet I'm gonna bet that guy's still alone.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Yeah, yeah, hopefully.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Mister Charming I think is flying solo on pretty much
every Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
A Rose wrote, the.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Worst gift is just flowers and chocolate because they didn't
even try.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
It's basic. Oh man, I'm a little basic.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
I don't mind a little classical flower chocolate.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Mm hmmm, I don't mind it.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
You have thoughts, oh, I know a little bit, like
I mean, yeah, yeah, you're thinking about a Titanic necklace.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
I'm thinking of the Titanic necklace. I'm like, how did
I give this chocolate and flowers?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:29):
Of course, also like I love flowers. Anyone who knows me,
and those are how much I love flowers.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
But I think that the price inflation on Valentine's Day
and all the other things, like give it to me
next week, Give me some flowers next week.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I don't need you to pay it. Okay, yeah, that's true,
that's true.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Sharon wrote in and said best is definitely a handwritten card.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I love a letter.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
What's my love language? Words of affirmation and tell me
how the ways you love me?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Oh? A letter? A letter, She's a handwritten carca. It's
a handwritten card. I am scoping out the room for
where the Okay, I'm doing a scope.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Well, I mean if it's a card that says like
love Bob, then that would be yeah Bob was hopefully
Bob has a gift.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
To back up the car. Yeah, or a poem. I
would love a poem. Gosh, I used to get poems,
did you? Yeah that much more high school? In college? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Yeah, yeahs says worse. My ex gave me a handful
of seeds once he said he was allergic to flowers,
so I could grow my own. They weren't even in
a bag or anything.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
He took them out of his pocket. What that's like
out of a movie.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I mean, Juliana said, best is a spa day or
a massage for one? She was one?
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yeah, yeah, not a couples you know I respect that.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah, Alexandre said, worse the cliche engagement on Valentine's Day.
Let's talk about it, Okay, how do I I gotta
think about this.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
If I had been proposed to on Valentine's Day, I
wouldn't hate it. You're being proposed to you, I don't.
I don't know, I don't I what do you think
we're thinking? I kind of don't.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
I'm like, I'm really drawn a blank with this one.
Like potato potato at February fourteenth, February fifteen. Yeah, I
mean you certainly wouldn't forget your engagement day.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Would you rather be proposed to on Valentine's Day or
not be proposed to? Exactly? Well? Do I want to be?
Speaker 1 (17:34):
If I want to be proposed to, I don't mind
if it's again. If I want to be proposed to,
I don't mind if it's February thirteen, fourteenth or fifteen.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
I also got proposed to on a holiday that probably
other people would find cliche, which is new Year's Eve,
but I also had, like, you know, a one and
a half year old at the time, so it wasn't
super shocking.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
We were sort of ready in it.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Do I reel?
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Like?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Okay, I feel like I can't fully I can't really
hate on.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Valentine's yet what? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Okay, Gretchen best flowers worst, the little candy hearts that
had the words on them.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
I kind of like those.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Yeah, I don't like the American ones, but we have
Sweethearts in England.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
I think they taste better.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Karen said one time, my boyfriend decorated my room in
Gray's theme and had a romantic table.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
That's sweet. That's that's that's a partner who knows who
knows you? I love that. Actually, that's really cute. I
like that too.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yeah, lou worst take into a football game. I don't
like football.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Yep, that would be bad. That's not a gift. That's
just you're along full of ride.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Mary has written in something very controversial. Mary, I don't
know you, but I'm not sure we have the same philosophy.
Mary says no gift is a bad gift. There are
bad gifts, or is she saying the lack.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Of a gift is a bad gift.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Oh well, then I'm in completely and I'm completely in
step with it.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Let's let's do it like the lack of a gift. Yeah,
that sucks. Yeah, if you don't get a gift, that's
a very bad gift.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Let's also take it as there can't be a bad gift,
which I don't think she's saying, because clearly there can.
You know, best, Mariel said, best a little locker for
the fridge. So my favorite food can't be eaten by
my always hungry husband, so he bought you a lock.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
So we want to eat your food. Oh, we need
to get onto the next one.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Okay, okay, Felicia best. One year, I did a thong
exchange with my friends. So like Secretsana with panties, secret panties.
I've never heard of secret panties. But okay, great love
that Lily.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, but I received
a big box of chocolates. It came with no notes,
so I spent all day trying to think of who
would send them to me. It turned out it was
my aunt best worst gift ever. I think that's just
a great gift. I think there's no worst gift.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
It's cute. You got chocolates.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Alexa wrote in and said, no, I got a waste
trainer for my guy. He was immediately sent out my door. Alexa, No,
I hate that, ew whatever. My page best is anything
handmade that's I love that.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
That's really sweet cute.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Louise says, I got a chocolate chip cookie and what
a dick pic.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Hang on, I have a question. I just lise logistics
behind this.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Like did he hand you the cookie? And then he
was like, by the way, check your phone.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
I mean like, I'm just wondering because there might be
the order of this here.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Yeah, by the way, yeah, okay, anyway, Jenny, worst any
household appliance. There's some household appliances I would like, best
quality time without the kids. Yeah, I agree with that,
but I would like, you know, there's some those fancy
schmancy mixers.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I don't mind that, like a KitchenAid mixer. Yeah, yeah,
then all the different colors, Yeah those are cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
My Eve is so good at working them. I like
the attachments, the things.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
I get a little confused. Oh yeah, I don't know
if I'd use it, but like just to have it
so good. Who knows it's also heavy, very heavy. I
love that though that screams for the appliance you're not
going to use. Well, it's just screams quality to me. Oh,
it's heaviness. It feels fancy. If something's heavy, feels fancy. Okay,
(21:38):
looks pretty well. I've learned a lot. I've learned a
lot in this episode. And you know, it wasn't so short.
It was sweet, but it wasn't so short. Yeah, there
were parts that were not so sweet too. I die again.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
I'm just happy that the world now knows that, along
with me, that you have moves as they should know.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
They probably assume.
Speaker 4 (22:02):
Yeah, of course they did.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Well.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I we are wishing you guys, however, you spend Valentine's
Day with someone solo.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
We hope you have a great We hope you have
a great Valentine's Day. And just remember the most important thing.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Is to love yourself. That's very true. I know it
is very true, Balie, but yeah, I know it's true.
And treat yourself. You can always treat yourself. Ye sure can.
And you know exactly what you want. Yeah, you do,
all right? Thank you call it crewe. Let's call it
the end of the episode,
Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,
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Speaker 2 (00:17):
Well hello, hello, Hello, hello everyone, and welcome to another
episode of Call It Short and Sweet.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Call It Short and Sweet, And this time it's maybe
even sweeter. It is a little sweeter, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I was like, gonna add on to it, but I
was like the Valentine's Day episode.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Oh, it's so sweet delicious of Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Do you I'm surprised because there's something I thought that
you were gonna be like maybe a little bit of
a me. Yeah, like it's a consumer you know, one
of those consumer you know.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
No, I'm into it. I well, okay, hold on, now
I'm reflecting.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I'm not into it for what.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I imagine it probably was created for on the consumer
consumption level, which is, yeah, you're right, I don't. I'm
not like, oh, gooey gooey romance love, Valentine's Day is
so amazing, and let's get a heart.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Shaped box of chocolates or red roses. No, you're right,
I'm not into it for that.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I I don't think I ever minded it before.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Kids.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
I didn't find it particularly romantic, and it was always
when it was like a little it's like New Year's
where it's like there's pressure to get a table somewhere
nice or get something or whatever.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
But then when you.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Have kids, Yeah, that's when I think it gets sweet.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Wait, wait, I do want to let's talk.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
About like boyfriends back in the day, like high school.
I do remember Valentine's Day in high school, and it
was like it was a show for sure of if
you had a boyfriend at the time, it's when's he
going to bring the flowers?
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Whether bigger than Susie's. You know, there was a little
bit of that going on, right, There's a little competitiveness
when you're like in early dating days. You know it's like.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Well Bob, oh, God, Bob came over and you know,
got me the massage and cookwat there.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
I do think that there's a stage in your life
where there is it's more high school, to be honest,
but there was like that little competitiveness.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Yeah, yeah, or at least comparison like who else got something?
What did they get get? Yeah? Kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
But you're right now, it's more I agree, because you know,
I don't remember the last time I've made a reservation
or anything.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Seriously, I honestly forget it's even the day. I think
I probably was annoying in my earlier life. I think
I'm well, actually i'm not. I don't think I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Oh, Jessica Capshaw, yeah, registry.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
There must have been oh yeah, yeah, I need Yeah,
I wanted some jewelry or something like that on February fourteenth.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I'm sure. I mean, I say no to some jewelry?
Why would you say no? That would just be like
you don't like yourself. I guess say, yes, you've loved yourself.
Don't you love yourself? Don't you love yourself enough to
have someone else buy you something for Hollide's Day.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Jessica did send me, I don't know if you mind
me saying this, did send me attacks of a necklace
today that looked like the necklace in Titanic.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I did, and she was like, this looks good.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And I was like, yeah, that's that's probably in a museum,
but sure, I got I.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Pulled the picture from Instagram. It's a real life.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Designer Smithsonian necklace that is on is part of your
registery list, probably for your next birthday, and that's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
It's only guarded by missionn impossible grade technology. Yeah, for sure,
we can get you that. Well, we'll pull the money.
It was I was dropping the hint, how much do
you love me? Yeah, just you know.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Diamond nine months in advance, eight months in advance, some
months in advance.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
It's good.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
No so inh so Okay, So I don't even know
where we're going with all this, but I would say
that in high school, I probably yeah, I probably liked
a little attention, but like I was fine, I wasn't
super I wasn't birthday level registery aggressive, and then later
on I would have taken some jewelry on that day
that's sweet, maybe a couple, you know, dinners out, and
then I think I probably got sick of it.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
I agree that it's about kids now, it's also I
don't know if you have this. It's also that you
got to get it for the classroom. There's the classroom
Valentine's Day. It's you've got the kid.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
And you don't have to. But there's like you can't.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Say, I'm gonna I'm gonna just I'm going to blow
in the face of convention here and what you would
expect me to say, which is I'm going to say
that I'm not bringing Valentine's Day gifts for everyone, and
I have.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I've done it.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
I've filled up tiny little individual cellophane bags.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
With all the cute stuff and blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
And I look back on that former self and that
former behavior, and I think, I'm I'm I'm happy to
report that it's done.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You don't feel the way anymore. I'm not a I'm
not a I'm not filling up.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
The love hearts in a baggie or anything. I'm just
ordering the bulk Amazon. You know, slime, you put it
in a bag, you got to pick it out.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's it. You're welcome, move along. I'm there.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's my version seeing I'm at you get nothing.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
You get a living, you know, I kid because life
gets hard.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Yeah, no slime for you this year.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
A slime for you, No candy for you, because life's hard.
So get used to it. What do you do for
your kiddos? One on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Okay, so about three or four years ago, I got
a red wig. I know it's kind of crazy, and
I have a like a bucket that I put all
my Valentine's Day things in it, and I replenish every year.
But I get heart shaped paper plates and those like
paper straws that have little hearts on them, and then
(06:07):
like little bubble wands with little heart shaped bubbles. And
I just get a box of heart shaped shit. And
then I put on a red wig. And when I
wake up the kids in the morning, I've got my
red wig because it's Valentine's Day, and I've decorated the
kitchen where they sit in eat breakfast with just all
sorts of Valentine's Day shit.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
That is so adorable. That is so oot. Oh my god. Okay,
well we got a post on Instagram. You in the
red wig this year?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Oh absolutely, I've gotten. I'll have I'll have many years
past as well.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I've ever seen a picture of this?
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Yes? Wow? Does she have a name?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
This like lady this Valentine's Day, Lady Valentine's Day Vivian.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
I don't know when we can name her if you
want to, we can, I mean just red, maybe it's
just red red shows up.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah, that's adorable.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
I don't do that, Matt and I just do like
we present a little bouquet of flowers to each kid,
and then they each get their own little heart. They
do get the old fashioned heart chocolate in the box.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Oh yeah, and then that's what they get. And then
you know, then the slimee comes out and goes to
school with them, and that's sad.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
The gift that they get is a pair of pajamas
that's really cute, like a Valentine's Da themed kind of pair,
or just like a cute like a pair of pajamas
with or like you know when you're I I found
a oh you know those fleece onesies that zip up
the front but from the gap, and it was white
and it had like little red hearts all of it
for Josie. And then I got her monogram.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Well that's cute. Wow wow, Red goes all out.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
But now the girls, the teenagers now, well the teenager
and the almost teenager, they're like and they see it
coming from a mile away because it was like three
days ago where all of a sudden they get they
get real sweet and they sit right next to me.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
And they're like, hey, Mom, can I show you something?
And I'm like, yeah, what are you looking at it?
What do you want? To look at.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
They're like, can I shee your phone for a second? Surely,
what do we see next thing? You know, wham bam,
thank you, ma'am. I'm on the skims dot com and
I'm looking at hearts hard by the way, Risks gay
this year's skims and by the way, they're already all
sold out of them.
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Yeah, little like brawlts where is the heart cut out
in the front. There's a T shirt with a heart
cut out in the little shoulder.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
And then oh, this was a big debate between my
daughters because one of them was like, ew and the
other one was like, I think it's kind of cute.
Was underwear where there's a heart shape cut out in
the front, you know what.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
And we talked about this, that's what you could bring
that into the waxer and you could be like.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Just it's almost like a stencil. One of them was like,
well what if you know? One of them brought up
the things that could happen.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Well, yeah, I do remember going one Valentine's Day with Matt.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I was like, you know what, let's do something sexy
and we went to Victorious and this so chic. I mean,
this is this is a way back a little bit.
This is a little while. Okay, now he's lucky if
you know, he's not. I'm in a onesie.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
So we went there and I was like, yeah, no,
there's no holes in that, just on like the sleeves
and the legs, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (09:41):
There's like no access. So we go into that.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
We go in there and I'm like, oh my god,
I'm like trying to be all hot, and I'm like,
let's go over here to like the broads where like
you know, the nipples just cut out, like I don't
even know why, Like it's confusing to me, but I
that's what I was hooking up. And this chick comes
over to me that works out there at Victoria's Secret.
(10:08):
It was so obvious that like what we were in
there for, do you know what I mean? Like, I'm
not wearing that to drop off like we're supposed it's
supposed to be a sexy thing.
Speaker 3 (10:18):
I did.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I do?
Speaker 3 (10:19):
And I remember putting on the bra.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
I'm just gonna say, I remember thinking of the bra
and the nipples were like the cutout nipples.
Speaker 3 (10:24):
And just being like this doesn't even look good. Of
course it doesn't, like why I don't even know if
Matt I thought it was cute. I think he was like,
I think.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
That they took a horribly wrong turn when they started
cutting things out of our lingerie. I mean, but what
I'm trying to say is that I do actually think
that lingerie can be very sexy, and I think there's
a lot of play that can be involved in different
lingerie situations. And I like a little push up, I
like a little corset, I like a little.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
That kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Great, But whose idea was it to start cutting hold
in it?
Speaker 3 (10:59):
That doesn't I don't know. It's not sexy.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
That's not I mean, obviously it is to somebody, I guess,
but I don't get it. I don't want a nipple
coming out of the middle of my.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
I don't know, but listen, that's what I bought that day,
and that day it was not.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
My favorite day to get recognized from the show. That's
all I'm saying. At least she knew you still had
it exactly you know what it did got mis Yeah,
I was like, this is just a regular day. I
don't want No. It was like probably on the fourteenth,
like just so tragic. You and I have actually been
in the lingerie section together. M we have, We've walked
(11:37):
through it. We walked through a beautiful displays. We were
in Paris displays of gorgeous you know bra cutouts. They
were not the cutout. Do you remember what you said
to me?
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Well, we got on the subject of sex, and I
said to you, because we're, you know, so close, I said, listen,
I've got some moves.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
And that insulting.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Reaction that you just gave now is exactly what happened
on the day. I don't understand why you can't picture
that I have moves, because what is it about me
that screams that I don't?
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Why do you think my laughter insinuates that you that
I'm questioning the moves?
Speaker 3 (12:21):
I'm just laughing at.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Because I feel like if Angelina Joe Lee was walking
through the laundry section and she said I have moves,
she'd be like, yeah, you do, Angie, but.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
With me, you like literally peed your pants in the middle.
And I was like, what's so funny?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
Definitely pants, good thing, my underwid And.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Well then but then you were like quizzing me, You're like,
what moves? I was like, don't worry about what they are.
You don't have MEAs.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
I was like, don't worry.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I'm not I'm not doing them to you. Don't worry
about it. But they're there, and they happened. Hold On,
let me explain my laughter. My laughture was not about
whether or not I questioned that you had the moves.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
It was more that you called them moves, and then
I did actually imagine that they were moves, that it
was a pop quiz. I got stressed. I was like
sweating when you started asking me about it.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
But I was envisioning them being like like like like
figure skinning moves, like you do a triple sal cow
or something in bed well.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
I don't know how else I would describe it. I
was like a double axle with a rotating let's have
done that. Cough.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Listen on Valentine's Day, a double axel might come out.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
You never know. That's the joy of the day. I yes. Anyway,
Jess loves telling this up. She's like, you've got moves,
She's got moves people.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
Okay, let's go to the crew, let's go to these submissions. Yeah,
this is a best and worst Valentine's Day gifts. Lily
wrote in and she said the best putting thought into it,
the worst, grabbing whatever is easiest.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
I have had to do a quick grab at CBS
from that.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Yeah, everyone's been there. We've all been there. Donna said,
a wee can get away? Are you kidding? Yes, that's
the best. Yeah, I love that and experience that an experience.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
Emily or Emily who knows said, my now ex boyfriend
got me a gym membership for Valentine's Day straight up
told me, quote, you need it.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Wow guys by guys.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
Wow, Gosh, I bet I'm gonna bet that guy's still alone.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Yeah, yeah, hopefully.
Speaker 1 (14:57):
Mister Charming I think is flying solo on pretty much
every Valentine's Day.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
A Rose wrote, the.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Worst gift is just flowers and chocolate because they didn't
even try.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
It's basic. Oh man, I'm a little basic.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
I don't mind a little classical flower chocolate.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Mm hmmm, I don't mind it.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
You have thoughts, oh, I know a little bit, like
I mean, yeah, yeah, you're thinking about a Titanic necklace.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
I'm thinking of the Titanic necklace. I'm like, how did
I give this chocolate and flowers?
Speaker 4 (15:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:29):
Of course, also like I love flowers. Anyone who knows me,
and those are how much I love flowers.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
But I think that the price inflation on Valentine's Day
and all the other things, like give it to me
next week, Give me some flowers next week.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I don't need you to pay it. Okay, yeah, that's true,
that's true.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
Sharon wrote in and said best is definitely a handwritten card.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
I love a letter.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
What's my love language? Words of affirmation and tell me
how the ways you love me?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Oh? A letter? A letter, She's a handwritten carca. It's
a handwritten card. I am scoping out the room for
where the Okay, I'm doing a scope.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Well, I mean if it's a card that says like
love Bob, then that would be yeah Bob was hopefully
Bob has a gift.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
To back up the car. Yeah, or a poem. I
would love a poem. Gosh, I used to get poems,
did you? Yeah that much more high school? In college? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Yeah, yeahs says worse. My ex gave me a handful
of seeds once he said he was allergic to flowers,
so I could grow my own. They weren't even in
a bag or anything.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
He took them out of his pocket. What that's like
out of a movie.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
I mean, Juliana said, best is a spa day or
a massage for one? She was one?
Speaker 3 (16:48):
Yeah, yeah, not a couples you know I respect that.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah, Alexandre said, worse the cliche engagement on Valentine's Day.
Let's talk about it, Okay, how do I I gotta
think about this.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
If I had been proposed to on Valentine's Day, I
wouldn't hate it. You're being proposed to you, I don't.
I don't know, I don't I what do you think
we're thinking? I kind of don't.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
I'm like, I'm really drawn a blank with this one.
Like potato potato at February fourteenth, February fifteen. Yeah, I
mean you certainly wouldn't forget your engagement day.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
Would you rather be proposed to on Valentine's Day or
not be proposed to? Exactly? Well? Do I want to be?
Speaker 1 (17:34):
If I want to be proposed to, I don't mind
if it's again. If I want to be proposed to,
I don't mind if it's February thirteen, fourteenth or fifteen.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
I also got proposed to on a holiday that probably
other people would find cliche, which is new Year's Eve,
but I also had, like, you know, a one and
a half year old at the time, so it wasn't
super shocking.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
We were sort of ready in it.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
Do I reel?
Speaker 3 (17:59):
Like?
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Okay, I feel like I can't fully I can't really
hate on.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Valentine's yet what? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Okay, Gretchen best flowers worst, the little candy hearts that
had the words on them.
Speaker 3 (18:12):
I kind of like those.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Yeah, I don't like the American ones, but we have
Sweethearts in England.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
I think they taste better.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Karen said one time, my boyfriend decorated my room in
Gray's theme and had a romantic table.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
That's sweet. That's that's that's a partner who knows who
knows you? I love that. Actually, that's really cute. I
like that too.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yeah, lou worst take into a football game. I don't
like football.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
Yep, that would be bad. That's not a gift. That's
just you're along full of ride.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Mary has written in something very controversial. Mary, I don't
know you, but I'm not sure we have the same philosophy.
Mary says no gift is a bad gift. There are
bad gifts, or is she saying the lack.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Of a gift is a bad gift.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Oh well, then I'm in completely and I'm completely in
step with it.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Let's let's do it like the lack of a gift. Yeah,
that sucks. Yeah, if you don't get a gift, that's
a very bad gift.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Let's also take it as there can't be a bad gift,
which I don't think she's saying, because clearly there can.
You know, best, Mariel said, best a little locker for
the fridge. So my favorite food can't be eaten by
my always hungry husband, so he bought you a lock.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
So we want to eat your food. Oh, we need
to get onto the next one.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
Okay, okay, Felicia best. One year, I did a thong
exchange with my friends. So like Secretsana with panties, secret panties.
I've never heard of secret panties. But okay, great love
that Lily.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, but I received
a big box of chocolates. It came with no notes,
so I spent all day trying to think of who
would send them to me. It turned out it was
my aunt best worst gift ever. I think that's just
a great gift. I think there's no worst gift.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
It's cute. You got chocolates.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
Alexa wrote in and said, no, I got a waste
trainer for my guy. He was immediately sent out my door. Alexa, No,
I hate that, ew whatever. My page best is anything
handmade that's I love that.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
That's really sweet cute.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
Louise says, I got a chocolate chip cookie and what
a dick pic.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Hang on, I have a question. I just lise logistics
behind this.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Like did he hand you the cookie? And then he
was like, by the way, check your phone.
Speaker 3 (20:42):
I mean like, I'm just wondering because there might be
the order of this here.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Yeah, by the way, yeah, okay, anyway, Jenny, worst any
household appliance. There's some household appliances I would like, best
quality time without the kids. Yeah, I agree with that,
but I would like, you know, there's some those fancy
schmancy mixers.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
I don't mind that, like a KitchenAid mixer. Yeah, yeah,
then all the different colors, Yeah those are cool. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
My Eve is so good at working them. I like
the attachments, the things.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
I get a little confused. Oh yeah, I don't know
if I'd use it, but like just to have it
so good. Who knows it's also heavy, very heavy. I
love that though that screams for the appliance you're not
going to use. Well, it's just screams quality to me. Oh,
it's heaviness. It feels fancy. If something's heavy, feels fancy. Okay,
(21:38):
looks pretty well. I've learned a lot. I've learned a
lot in this episode. And you know, it wasn't so short.
It was sweet, but it wasn't so short. Yeah, there
were parts that were not so sweet too. I die again.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
I'm just happy that the world now knows that, along
with me, that you have moves as they should know.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
They probably assume.
Speaker 4 (22:02):
Yeah, of course they did.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
Well.
Speaker 2 (22:04):
I we are wishing you guys, however, you spend Valentine's
Day with someone solo.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
We hope you have a great We hope you have
a great Valentine's Day. And just remember the most important thing.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
Is to love yourself. That's very true. I know it
is very true, Balie, but yeah, I know it's true.
And treat yourself. You can always treat yourself. Ye sure can.
And you know exactly what you want. Yeah, you do,
all right? Thank you call it crewe. Let's call it
the end of the episode,
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