August 19, 2024 • 15 mins
Is it wrong I like being alone? How do you shut out the noise? Best ways to make gameday fun for your significant other? Erin and Charissa tackle these questions and more in the latest Pregame!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I don't want to die in the house and like
then I'm eaten by the animals though, so then that
creates a whole other situation. Just come and check on me. Okay,
Oh my god? What Calm Down?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
With Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Oh a little pregame action for those of you new.
Welcome you guys ask questions and we answer them to
the best of our ability. We also love an anonymous question.
We have three anonymous in this. Afore anonymous in this.
Oh my god, this is exciting. First up, C M. Craiger.
I'm sixty and people ask why I never remarried all
the time. Is it wrong that I like being alone? No,
(00:41):
it is not wrong at all. Girlfriend. It's somebody who
get asked, gets asked all the time when I'm going
to marry Steve. I have been very vocal, especially on
this podcast, about my my desire not to marry again,
not because I don't love Steve, not because I so
what was that? It's all the episodes that's somewhere there's
(01:03):
a mention about not wanting to get married again. I
would say this, it's whatever makes you happy. So if
you are sixty and alone.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
If I hadn't met Steve, it was actually gonna be
a problem because I like being I would.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Be with you, I would I like being alone so much,
like I can get so much done. I have a
full conversation with myself. I'm never going to be in
a bad mood because I'm always gonna, like you know,
I'm not arguing with anyone, not argue with myself. I
could be totally fine alone. So good for you for
knowing what works for your life. Now, I will say this,
if you're trying to convince yourself that you like being
(01:38):
alone just because you don't want to put yourself out
there and go meet someone, well that's different. But if
you are saying that you are very honestly okay with
being alone, then more power to you. Get some animals.
Those are good companions. I don't think that you should
be alone in a house because I always think about this,
like if I fell and I was alone in the house,
like I'd want a dog to like bark or something,
(01:58):
so somebody new something that's wrong. I don't want to
die in the law. I don't want to die in
the house. And like then I'm eaten by the animals though,
so then that creates a whole other situation.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Just come and check on me. Okay, Oh my god?
What this is what happens when you watch too much
frigging date mind.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
You stop it? No, it's not you have mac. Mac
is going to check on you when you don't have kids.
I'm going to dialogue. Doesn't know my name. Stop it.
He's not going to check on me. He thinks his
nanny's his mom. You're crazy?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Okay, Anonymous, a coworker you're friends with loses their shiit
on you. Now they are giving you the cold shoulder?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
What should I do? Talk to God? What happened? It
seems like someone I know, uh, give them the cold shoulder?
What should you do? Well? I need more information. The
coworker you're friends with, now they are I have lunch
this week by the way, Oh good luck, And now
(02:57):
they're giving you the cold shoulder. Well, let's let's dissect
this for a second. Do you know why they lost
your shit on you? Or was it just like they
were having a bad day and like took all their
shit out on you, Like is their merit to the tantrum?
Because if there's merit to the tantrum. Then you guys
need to have like a constructive conversation. If this is
someone that you actually like, it says you're friends with them. Again,
(03:22):
my new motto, I go right to it. I go
right to the source, because you know what I don't
want to do. I don't want to be talking shit.
I'm gonna talk shit behind your back. If I don't
like you, I'll fucking talk shit all day, all night
afternoon if I don't like you. But if I like you,
I'm not gonna talk shit behind your back because that
means that I'm not a good friend. A good friend
is going to go directly to your face and say something.
So if this person went directly to your the face
(03:45):
and now they're giving you a cold shoulder, you need
to do the same thing they did. Go right to
them and be like, what's the problem? Be adu on them,
work that shit behind it, be adults. You said, lose
your shit on them. Just work it out. You get
out into that yard and just fucking punch each other
and work it out. No, I'm kidding, don't. Violence is
never the answer. But you know what I mean, is
(04:06):
this Pico Boulevard next?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I can't figure out who you're talking about. Yeah, I
really can't.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Okay, Oh, Ging Vericano? What Gina gi Verican?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Oh Gina, Hey girl, how do you shut out the
noise people say, the RUDEUS crap?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
How do you rise above?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Girl?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Gina? Step into our office. I stopped looking at comments
a long time ago. I mean, there's a few here
and there. I'll see. I'm like, at this point in
my life, I know what all the comments are. I
write it down.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
They are.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
My nose is too big, I have a terrible voice.
Make up another, get get another, divorce? Uh yeah, yeah,
I'm boring, is a loser, I'm a puck bunny all
of the things. So to answer, I don't know, give
a ship the only opinions that mat to me or
of those of my friends, family and employers. Outside of that,
(05:05):
I'm good. And I also feel sad for you that
if this is where you're at, Like, I don't know,
I'm bored. I always look at their avatar on Twitter
or Man, you're a whole and you're like, oh really,
what would God think about that? Of you? Four girls? Yeah,
you're a slut. Okay, would you want someone to talk
(05:27):
to your daughters? Like that, got it, but yeah, go
get them Jim from Iowa. We're so on FaZe you
can tell exactly. Oh really, oh really, no, we actually are,
though I would say there's zero conversations that we have
about Rando's and their comments towards us unless it has
(05:48):
to do with your outfit. You've got real rattled about
that soccer mom outfit that was so mean. Okay, well
you got rattled about that, so I don't know it
because you had your own stuff going on, and you
were worried because you had spoke a few weeks before
that about wanting to change up your outfits, and maybe
it just like struck a chord with what was really
but had nothing to do with the guy. You are
not really changed, but it's like you, You and I
(06:14):
are not bothered by those kinds of comments. The comments
I'm bothered by are the people that I thought I
have respect from and then go out and publicly say something,
which in that case, no problem. You gone, hey, here's something.
Oh our our seminar we went to, we had a
great conversation. I forgot who was there, but it was
maybe it was Jewels Charles and Michael Vikvic and.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I was saying, one of my big favorite things, like
to say lately is like loser Michael Vicko's clown. These
last two events the Stanley Copper Union I went to,
or this wedding I went to.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Clown clown is such losers, like a little bit like
like more like you just like mean. But clown is
so funny. By the way, I will be using that
so funny regularly throughout the year because it's just like clown.
It's just perfectly clown. God, it's good. Sometimes it's just
(07:16):
that simple. Bus is like when someone's like getting all crazy,
like you know you do this. I love you, Okay,
you're saying, okay, I would be you. And I've only
gotten too some knockout dragon fights a couple of times,
but I am terrified of a fight with you because
you are so calm, cool and collected. When we've had
these fights and I'm like crying and you're like, shut up,
(07:39):
you okay, it's like the one that like and it's
just real like you good, oh so gnarly. Don't want
to get in a fight with her anonymous clown clown
casually seeing someone who is just out of a marriage,
as I am He mentioned he can only take it
one day at a time and does know when he
(08:00):
will be ready to get serious. He plans dates, makes
an effort. I feel like he's been generous with his time,
and I'm going I'm good with slow. But is this
a dead end? Oh? This is such a great comfort.
I wish we okay, we're going to make full episodes
out of some of these pregames because I really want
to be mindful in my responses, because this is so
awesome and honest of you, whoever you are, anonymous, take
(08:24):
it slow. He's actually doing you a favor because I
have a tendency just in life. I'll speak for my
own experience. I have a tendency in life to be like, well,
what is this? Because if I don't know what is
to waste my time, like I could be moving on
to something else, and I have found a lot of
comfort in the unknown. So if this is just to
get you to that next thing, fine, don't try to
(08:46):
define it. And also give him the benefit of the doubt,
like he's going to move at his own pace. And
nowhere in the history of men have they ever liked
except what Aaron gave shared an ultimatum. Have they liked
to be pushed and prod it to like hurry up
with defining? No man likes to hear, So what are
we so just? I would say in your own mind,
(09:07):
like if it goes whatever that time limit is, if
it's like a year, or if it's two years, and
you're like, hey, I want to have kids or I
want to whatever, like there's going to be a time
and a place to have that conversation. I would just say,
give him a minute and give yourself a minute too,
to have this be like the holding pattern, right, Maybe
it'll be what you need, maybe it'll be what you don't.
I love that. I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
We had a lot of conversations this weekend about ghosting
and somebody that a lot of us are friends with
that ghosts a lot anonymous. Do I reach out after
being ghosted to call it out or just let it go.
I'm the person that feels like shocker in the ballroom
always has to have the final words. So I'll make
a comment about you ghosting. But then after that, just
(09:49):
leave it alone because like you just taken from me,
look like an asshole if you keep no but.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
And then one more thing, but you know what.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
I know you're reading this, like just leave it alone
because you're gonna look like a d bag.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Just don't do it. Let me tell you something, folks,
I have done this one time in my life and
it is the greatest power that I and it is
something I am so proud of. You know exactly what
this was, You have a dad. I never responded back
to somebody hundreds of emails, hundreds of text mess I mean,
(10:21):
I blocked them eventually, but like it went to the
junk email and I never said it. I mean, and
they were vile with the things that they were saying
and accusatory and all this stuff. Do you know how
much power I still to this day have in saying nothing?
Because who's crazy? The person that argues with crazy or crazy?
Say nothing. When the person ghosts you, it will kill
(10:43):
them to know that you've never Now they're going to
be now it's like reverse psychology, like wait a minute,
I ghosted you and now you're not saying anything? Yeah, no,
say nothing. It is the greatest thing in the world.
Because this, they expect you to lose your shit. They
expect you to write back and be like, how dare
you do that? And then this is you never want
ladies or men. If your side of the phone is
(11:03):
all blue, we got a fucking problem. You're a nutschop. Okay,
if you ain't seen any gray and it's all blue,
uh uh, you gotta pump the fucking brakes, and you
gotta have a friend put your phone in the freezer
because you are going to be blue in the face
and you will not get a response and you look
like a moron. So you're so right? Is more mo?
(11:23):
I love it. It's a great point. It's a real good
tim timmy tim I twelve by.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Gotta make game day fun at home for significant other,
want it to be fun for us?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Tuo, I don't know. I'm never home for them, I
would say, tim I twelve eighty eight. I would say,
whatever your significant other likes. If they aren't necessarily into
football or into baseball or basketball, whatever you're watching, but
they are very competitive, then do like a gambling kind
of vibe and be like, all right, we bet five
dollars on whoever scores more points in the first quarter
(12:02):
or at halftime or whatever. Like kind of make it
interactive and competitive. If that person, your significant other, is competitive,
make a game out of it. You could also do
themes they like Margarita's We're gonna have a Margarita Monday
night football thing, like make it something where cater to
whatever they like. Because if they're conceding and watching this
game because you like that, then do something they like.
(12:24):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You could also do like kind of like themes with Drass, say,
like you know, tell your significant other obviously the.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Colors where my Arion Andrews has really cute stuff. You
could buy them a gift and then they wearing a
new outfit. And anytime you get a new outfit, you're
more apt to want to do things mag Arrol or
another thing.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And I know Chris and I do a lot of this,
Like right before Super Bowl we'll talk to like either
you know, magazines or newspaper articles about easy things for
people who may not know a lot about sports, things
they could look out for. Maybe make a cheat sheet,
maybe some storylines about some players like this, you know,
this player has a kid that like I always think
(13:03):
about with Greg and what his.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Family went to, you you know, and his charity and.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
His foundation, and Christian McCaffrey's dad played with John Lynch,
who's also the general man, you know, things like that.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
So a fun storyline like that, I love all of that. Yeah,
make it interesting. Or if they're like the entertainment type
and they like that, you could find the significant others
that the players are married to and be like into it.
Obviously the most notable being Taylor Swift, but then there's
some other ones. Okay, anonymous, go.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
For it, soon to be ex husband dating your high
school friend, small town with three kids, thoughts seemed to be.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay, close. I would say, good riddance. It's your ex
husband for a reason, so don't be bitter, be better,
and just wish them the best of luck, because if
it comes back that like you're being sass about it,
then it seems like you care. He's ex husband for
(14:00):
a reason, and more power to them. Let him be
happy and let him just go live his life. And
you you know, I get it to a small town
and you have three kids, But I think there's so
much to be said, and I don't do it all
the time, but I'm really trying to be. I don't
do it because sometimes people don't deserve to have my kindness.
But I would say just I don't know, be classy
(14:25):
in this situation. If it's a small town and you've
got and there's kids involved, like just go high when
they go I see this With all due respect, don't
you think that would probably happen a lot in a
small town. Yeah, Like everybody kind of knows everybody's business.
Oh everyone knows everyone's business. Yeah for sure. Yeah, which
is why, Which is why you want it. Like, the
(14:46):
best revenge for me is always success, And success doesn't
have to be a monetary thing or a job or
success is happiness. Like it kills people to see other
people happy that they've once been with and it's like, oh,
they're just faking that. But if you're genuinely happy and
you've moved on with your life, then it's okay to
like wish that person the beast and you could still
hate him, but good luck. Just take the high road.
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I don't want to die in the house and like
then I'm eaten by the animals though, so then that
creates a whole other situation. Just come and check on me. Okay,
Oh my god? What Calm Down?
Speaker 2 (00:10):
With Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Oh a little pregame action for those of you new.
Welcome you guys ask questions and we answer them to
the best of our ability. We also love an anonymous question.
We have three anonymous in this. Afore anonymous in this.
Oh my god, this is exciting. First up, C M. Craiger.
I'm sixty and people ask why I never remarried all
the time. Is it wrong that I like being alone? No,
(00:41):
it is not wrong at all. Girlfriend. It's somebody who
get asked, gets asked all the time when I'm going
to marry Steve. I have been very vocal, especially on
this podcast, about my my desire not to marry again,
not because I don't love Steve, not because I so
what was that? It's all the episodes that's somewhere there's
(01:03):
a mention about not wanting to get married again. I
would say this, it's whatever makes you happy. So if
you are sixty and alone.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
If I hadn't met Steve, it was actually gonna be
a problem because I like being I would.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Be with you, I would I like being alone so much,
like I can get so much done. I have a
full conversation with myself. I'm never going to be in
a bad mood because I'm always gonna, like you know,
I'm not arguing with anyone, not argue with myself. I
could be totally fine alone. So good for you for
knowing what works for your life. Now, I will say this,
if you're trying to convince yourself that you like being
(01:38):
alone just because you don't want to put yourself out
there and go meet someone, well that's different. But if
you are saying that you are very honestly okay with
being alone, then more power to you. Get some animals.
Those are good companions. I don't think that you should
be alone in a house because I always think about this,
like if I fell and I was alone in the house,
like I'd want a dog to like bark or something,
(01:58):
so somebody new something that's wrong. I don't want to
die in the law. I don't want to die in
the house. And like then I'm eaten by the animals though,
so then that creates a whole other situation.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Just come and check on me. Okay, Oh my god?
What this is what happens when you watch too much
frigging date mind.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
You stop it? No, it's not you have mac. Mac
is going to check on you when you don't have kids.
I'm going to dialogue. Doesn't know my name. Stop it.
He's not going to check on me. He thinks his
nanny's his mom. You're crazy?
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Okay, Anonymous, a coworker you're friends with loses their shiit
on you. Now they are giving you the cold shoulder?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
What should I do? Talk to God? What happened? It
seems like someone I know, uh, give them the cold shoulder?
What should you do? Well? I need more information. The
coworker you're friends with, now they are I have lunch
this week by the way, Oh good luck, And now
(02:57):
they're giving you the cold shoulder. Well, let's let's dissect
this for a second. Do you know why they lost
your shit on you? Or was it just like they
were having a bad day and like took all their
shit out on you, Like is their merit to the tantrum?
Because if there's merit to the tantrum. Then you guys
need to have like a constructive conversation. If this is
someone that you actually like, it says you're friends with them. Again,
(03:22):
my new motto, I go right to it. I go
right to the source, because you know what I don't
want to do. I don't want to be talking shit.
I'm gonna talk shit behind your back. If I don't
like you, I'll fucking talk shit all day, all night
afternoon if I don't like you. But if I like you,
I'm not gonna talk shit behind your back because that
means that I'm not a good friend. A good friend
is going to go directly to your face and say something.
So if this person went directly to your the face
(03:45):
and now they're giving you a cold shoulder, you need
to do the same thing they did. Go right to
them and be like, what's the problem? Be adu on them,
work that shit behind it, be adults. You said, lose
your shit on them. Just work it out. You get
out into that yard and just fucking punch each other
and work it out. No, I'm kidding, don't. Violence is
never the answer. But you know what I mean, is
(04:06):
this Pico Boulevard next?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I can't figure out who you're talking about. Yeah, I
really can't.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Okay, Oh, Ging Vericano? What Gina gi Verican?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Oh Gina, Hey girl, how do you shut out the
noise people say, the RUDEUS crap?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
How do you rise above?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Girl?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Gina? Step into our office. I stopped looking at comments
a long time ago. I mean, there's a few here
and there. I'll see. I'm like, at this point in
my life, I know what all the comments are. I
write it down.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
They are.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
My nose is too big, I have a terrible voice.
Make up another, get get another, divorce? Uh yeah, yeah,
I'm boring, is a loser, I'm a puck bunny all
of the things. So to answer, I don't know, give
a ship the only opinions that mat to me or
of those of my friends, family and employers. Outside of that,
(05:05):
I'm good. And I also feel sad for you that
if this is where you're at, Like, I don't know,
I'm bored. I always look at their avatar on Twitter
or Man, you're a whole and you're like, oh really,
what would God think about that? Of you? Four girls? Yeah,
you're a slut. Okay, would you want someone to talk
(05:27):
to your daughters? Like that, got it, but yeah, go
get them Jim from Iowa. We're so on FaZe you
can tell exactly. Oh really, oh really, no, we actually are,
though I would say there's zero conversations that we have
about Rando's and their comments towards us unless it has
(05:48):
to do with your outfit. You've got real rattled about
that soccer mom outfit that was so mean. Okay, well
you got rattled about that, so I don't know it
because you had your own stuff going on, and you
were worried because you had spoke a few weeks before
that about wanting to change up your outfits, and maybe
it just like struck a chord with what was really
but had nothing to do with the guy. You are
not really changed, but it's like you, You and I
(06:14):
are not bothered by those kinds of comments. The comments
I'm bothered by are the people that I thought I
have respect from and then go out and publicly say something,
which in that case, no problem. You gone, hey, here's something.
Oh our our seminar we went to, we had a
great conversation. I forgot who was there, but it was
maybe it was Jewels Charles and Michael Vikvic and.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I was saying, one of my big favorite things, like
to say lately is like loser Michael Vicko's clown. These
last two events the Stanley Copper Union I went to,
or this wedding I went to.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Clown clown is such losers, like a little bit like
like more like you just like mean. But clown is
so funny. By the way, I will be using that
so funny regularly throughout the year because it's just like clown.
It's just perfectly clown. God, it's good. Sometimes it's just
(07:16):
that simple. Bus is like when someone's like getting all crazy,
like you know you do this. I love you, Okay,
you're saying, okay, I would be you. And I've only
gotten too some knockout dragon fights a couple of times,
but I am terrified of a fight with you because
you are so calm, cool and collected. When we've had
these fights and I'm like crying and you're like, shut up,
(07:39):
you okay, it's like the one that like and it's
just real like you good, oh so gnarly. Don't want
to get in a fight with her anonymous clown clown
casually seeing someone who is just out of a marriage,
as I am He mentioned he can only take it
one day at a time and does know when he
(08:00):
will be ready to get serious. He plans dates, makes
an effort. I feel like he's been generous with his time,
and I'm going I'm good with slow. But is this
a dead end? Oh? This is such a great comfort.
I wish we okay, we're going to make full episodes
out of some of these pregames because I really want
to be mindful in my responses, because this is so
awesome and honest of you, whoever you are, anonymous, take
(08:24):
it slow. He's actually doing you a favor because I
have a tendency just in life. I'll speak for my
own experience. I have a tendency in life to be like, well,
what is this? Because if I don't know what is
to waste my time, like I could be moving on
to something else, and I have found a lot of
comfort in the unknown. So if this is just to
get you to that next thing, fine, don't try to
(08:46):
define it. And also give him the benefit of the doubt,
like he's going to move at his own pace. And
nowhere in the history of men have they ever liked
except what Aaron gave shared an ultimatum. Have they liked
to be pushed and prod it to like hurry up
with defining? No man likes to hear, So what are
we so just? I would say in your own mind,
(09:07):
like if it goes whatever that time limit is, if
it's like a year, or if it's two years, and
you're like, hey, I want to have kids or I
want to whatever, like there's going to be a time
and a place to have that conversation. I would just say,
give him a minute and give yourself a minute too,
to have this be like the holding pattern, right, Maybe
it'll be what you need, maybe it'll be what you don't.
I love that. I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
We had a lot of conversations this weekend about ghosting
and somebody that a lot of us are friends with
that ghosts a lot anonymous. Do I reach out after
being ghosted to call it out or just let it go.
I'm the person that feels like shocker in the ballroom
always has to have the final words. So I'll make
a comment about you ghosting. But then after that, just
(09:49):
leave it alone because like you just taken from me,
look like an asshole if you keep no but.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
And then one more thing, but you know what.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
I know you're reading this, like just leave it alone
because you're gonna look like a d bag.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Just don't do it. Let me tell you something, folks,
I have done this one time in my life and
it is the greatest power that I and it is
something I am so proud of. You know exactly what
this was, You have a dad. I never responded back
to somebody hundreds of emails, hundreds of text mess I mean,
(10:21):
I blocked them eventually, but like it went to the
junk email and I never said it. I mean, and
they were vile with the things that they were saying
and accusatory and all this stuff. Do you know how
much power I still to this day have in saying nothing?
Because who's crazy? The person that argues with crazy or crazy?
Say nothing. When the person ghosts you, it will kill
(10:43):
them to know that you've never Now they're going to
be now it's like reverse psychology, like wait a minute,
I ghosted you and now you're not saying anything? Yeah, no,
say nothing. It is the greatest thing in the world.
Because this, they expect you to lose your shit. They
expect you to write back and be like, how dare
you do that? And then this is you never want
ladies or men. If your side of the phone is
(11:03):
all blue, we got a fucking problem. You're a nutschop. Okay,
if you ain't seen any gray and it's all blue,
uh uh, you gotta pump the fucking brakes, and you
gotta have a friend put your phone in the freezer
because you are going to be blue in the face
and you will not get a response and you look
like a moron. So you're so right? Is more mo?
(11:23):
I love it. It's a great point. It's a real good
tim timmy tim I twelve by.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Gotta make game day fun at home for significant other,
want it to be fun for us?
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Tuo, I don't know. I'm never home for them, I
would say, tim I twelve eighty eight. I would say,
whatever your significant other likes. If they aren't necessarily into
football or into baseball or basketball, whatever you're watching, but
they are very competitive, then do like a gambling kind
of vibe and be like, all right, we bet five
dollars on whoever scores more points in the first quarter
(12:02):
or at halftime or whatever. Like kind of make it
interactive and competitive. If that person, your significant other, is competitive,
make a game out of it. You could also do
themes they like Margarita's We're gonna have a Margarita Monday
night football thing, like make it something where cater to
whatever they like. Because if they're conceding and watching this
game because you like that, then do something they like.
(12:24):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
You could also do like kind of like themes with Drass, say,
like you know, tell your significant other obviously the.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Colors where my Arion Andrews has really cute stuff. You
could buy them a gift and then they wearing a
new outfit. And anytime you get a new outfit, you're
more apt to want to do things mag Arrol or
another thing.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And I know Chris and I do a lot of this,
Like right before Super Bowl we'll talk to like either
you know, magazines or newspaper articles about easy things for
people who may not know a lot about sports, things
they could look out for. Maybe make a cheat sheet,
maybe some storylines about some players like this, you know,
this player has a kid that like I always think
(13:03):
about with Greg and what his.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
Family went to, you you know, and his charity and.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
His foundation, and Christian McCaffrey's dad played with John Lynch,
who's also the general man, you know, things like that.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
So a fun storyline like that, I love all of that. Yeah,
make it interesting. Or if they're like the entertainment type
and they like that, you could find the significant others
that the players are married to and be like into it.
Obviously the most notable being Taylor Swift, but then there's
some other ones. Okay, anonymous, go.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
For it, soon to be ex husband dating your high
school friend, small town with three kids, thoughts seemed to be.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Okay, close. I would say, good riddance. It's your ex
husband for a reason, so don't be bitter, be better,
and just wish them the best of luck, because if
it comes back that like you're being sass about it,
then it seems like you care. He's ex husband for
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a reason, and more power to them. Let him be
happy and let him just go live his life. And
you you know, I get it to a small town
and you have three kids, But I think there's so
much to be said, and I don't do it all
the time, but I'm really trying to be. I don't
do it because sometimes people don't deserve to have my kindness.
But I would say just I don't know, be classy
(14:25):
in this situation. If it's a small town and you've
got and there's kids involved, like just go high when
they go I see this With all due respect, don't
you think that would probably happen a lot in a
small town. Yeah, Like everybody kind of knows everybody's business.
Oh everyone knows everyone's business. Yeah for sure. Yeah, which
is why, Which is why you want it. Like, the
(14:46):
best revenge for me is always success, And success doesn't
have to be a monetary thing or a job or
success is happiness. Like it kills people to see other
people happy that they've once been with and it's like, oh,
they're just faking that. But if you're genuinely happy and
you've moved on with your life, then it's okay to
like wish that person the beast and you could still
hate him, but good luck. Just take the high road.
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