April 22, 2025 • 18 mins
On this Pregame episode of the Calm Down podcast, Erin and Charissa give shopping advice, movie advice, and relationship advice. Erin and Charissa tell some sweaty stories and reveal their feelings about their driving abilities. And to cap it all off, a juicy anonymous question is discussed.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, because if it's anything like me when I blew
out the bathroom after my colonoscopy with the guy in class, well,
then you just leave the school. That's what I did.
I totally left the school. I say, gros small community college.
I'm gross. I'm out of here.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm going to besa.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Oh my god, calm down with Erin and Carissa is
a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You look real pretty.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
You're so sweet. I shouldn't look really pretty. I should
look one hundred years old, but thank you. That's very
sweet of you. I've already been up and at him
this morning, fed all the animals. I'm doing full on laundry,
stripping all the beds. I mean, like Betty Homemaker here
at the ranch. Because the family has exited stage left.
We will get into that on the Big Show. I
hosted my family this week weekend. It was so much fun,
(00:47):
and now I'm here cleaning up the mess in the
best possible way.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
But you've got a boys' weekend, correct as I want
to bring this up. This segment is brought to you
by Macy's. Macy's with all the things helping you host
with the families stripping the bed sheets we got the
laundry that Macy's can help you with hosting boys weekends,
all of it.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Thank you, Macy.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Steve is bringing. We're going in shifts. I had the
family here this weekend. Then I'm leaving on Wednesday and
joining you for a fun event we will talk about
at some point. Then Steve's here because it's the rodeo here.
I'm always going to miss the roadio because we end
up going and do it.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
But it's fine, It's totally fine.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So he uses it as a boy's weekend, which, by
the way, why is jar own Jared playoff hockey?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Of course he can't be here for go Kings, Go
look at my dal Wings go and don't forget.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I will do a shameless plug any of your playoff
NHL apparel team apparel for your wife, your girlfriend, your sister,
your mom, your aunt, where by Aaron Andrews. You can
find it on Fanatics or where by EA. I was excited,
so we'll talk more about it on the Big Show.
I need to get you to a playoff game. The
vibe is different, it's a fun atmosphere. It's loud, Will
(01:56):
Ferrell banging on the glass. The Mommy's walking around old
dog now not really part of the team, but part
of the team.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
It's fun.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I only knew that that playoff hockey because I've been
in my own little world up here, and I was
catching up with Al if I don't talk to Al Michaels,
my sweet love him and I probably talked like three,
oh that's dramatic, twice a week minimum. And so he
was telling me he's like, playoff hockey tonight, this and that,
and I was like, Al, thank you for keeping me
(02:25):
up there. You so we should definitely all go together anyways,
be fine, so much fun. Okay, so lots of things
to discuss, but I'm putting sorry all of this. I
don't have my computer with me, so Aaron's going to
read off all the questions from you guys for pre game.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Ea, go bear with me. Why I have my glasses on?
And I go, okay, first one Jen R and more.
What's your best shopping advice? Go with the trends, keep
it classic, vintage, love your styles, hit it because you
have the best style.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Oh, you're very sweet.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
It depends. I think it's all I like to dress
for wherever I am. Obviously at the ranch it's closed
that I don't care if they get dirty. So it's
all about anything cheap and disposable. But I also still
like to you know, you like want to be cute
to some extent. So yeah, so it's dressed for where
I am. I like mixing old with new as well.
Like if you have like a cool vintage e jacket
(03:14):
you had text me actually the other day you were like,
I love your jacket. That was an old I found
that jacket. It was an old way for it Chanelle
jacket at a vintage store on Melrose, like ten years ago.
And now I'm playing like a thousand dollars for it,
and I was like, this is so expensive, but like
I love it and it's just random. So like mixing
old with new. Also, like when it comes to work stuff,
(03:36):
I've definitely changed my style. I used to wear dresses
on Sunday as if I was coming straight from the club.
Now I'm coming from church. I'm a little bit more
conservative as I've ticked up in age, because no one
needs to be wondering if I'm wearing my niece's dress.
So yeah, dressing for the occasion is kind of my vibe,
you know, what I was thinking about as I was
because I'm not prepared at all for our fun thing
(03:59):
I'm about to go do this weekend.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
You're red. We were aarin.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
We went on a vacation and like a group saying,
Aaron was wearing this red bathing suit, cover up this
red baby ship. She had red slides, the whole thing.
I was thinking about that. I was like, I love that.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
My ass was out. Yeah, stop, it was not It
looked so uicy. Yeah, that was my pretty woman moment.
I was like, you know what, let's just go for it.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Let's do it. Let's go for it.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
My style, let's be honest, I don't have much of one.
It's very much tomboy. It's very it's blazer, it's T shirt,
it's jeans, it's oversized blazers pants. I, Chris and I
are obsessed with Rosie. We love her style, we got
her hair, we love her style, we love her look.
(04:47):
CHRISA will always send me little pictures of her from
Instagram where she's doing the black on black, the neutral
and neutral, the white on white. She just Huntington and
I always forget is it Whitley or Whitely?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I still know.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yeah, she's rosy. To me, she's classic gorgeous. I love
her style. I wish I could afford half of it,
but that's kind of my vibe. And then Daniella Romero
dresses me. And honestly, at this point, I'm wearing stuff
now that I didn't wear on the sidelines.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
If I have to dress up, so there's that.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Hey, I haven't because I haven't talked to you at
lengths You're easter. I only saw it because, as you know,
I'm not really on Instagram anymore. But I was doing
something for Ruby Branch and Kendra had posted some video.
I so cute, come on with the Jackson Latte Junior, Jackson.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
He was so Jackson Lattery Junior. I can't. Jane and
Jack sent my.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Kid that outfit and we were at the bel Air
Country Club.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
It was so cute.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
And yeah, he was walking around in his little Peter
Rabbit sweatshirt.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We did the collar out like I just did it up.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
We did linen pants, we did loafers like come on,
Mac play the part, and he didn't handle it.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I started laughing.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I was like, look at Jackson Lattery out there doing
his things, his girls.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Oh my god, what a guy.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
All right, Hattersville, What was the When was the last
time y'all went to the movies?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
And what did you see? I don't even remember.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
It has to be pre COVID. I honestly have not
been to the movies since before COVID. I rented Wicked
from a hotel room Jay, because I was not the
other day. Actually I know exactly what it was. We
were in Seattle and it was we're just left you
guys and see what I were like what we didn't
want to like go out? We retired after our you know,
(06:30):
extravagant and break right spring break.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
So I rented that.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Off the I think that's like the only place I
watched new movies is in hotel rooms.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
But yeah, I haven't been to the movie theater. I
would like to go though.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I do enjoy a good movie theater experience, get the popcorn,
the whole thing. But yet, no, I haven't been in
what since twenty it is COVID was five years ago.
My nieces and I were talking about this because of
half the crap that they had to go through or
not get. My my niece never had a graduation, never
had prom all that stuff, so sad when you think
about it. Yeah, movies haven't done it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I haven't either. We just know we didn't finish the bear.
We need to finish the bear. We finished something I
don't even remember what it was, and I want to
get going on Handmaid's tail. We're not doing and now
we've got hockey playoffs here. It's not at home, so
it's not happening. Okay, Anonymous going to a wedding next month.
Bridal party is wearing blue? Do I avoid wearing blue?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Okay, yes, it's like a light blue and you do
a navy sure, okay, that's fair. Have different, like a variant,
different variant, my color chart, no cocclusion. I just my
thesis statement is I just wouldn't want it to feel
like if you know the colors of the bridesmaids dress, like, well,
then why are you wearing that? Like did you want
(07:46):
to be a bridesmaid and you could get to be one? Yeah,
so just songs it's not the same color, then that's fine.
But yeah, no, if I wouldn't wear navy, if the
dresses are navy, yeah, oh you're a bridesmaid, And then
you go around like no, I'm not No.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I agree I'm kind of aware black girl anyways, because
what if you get a stain on it or dance
too hard and there's a perspiration situation.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
So I that happened to me. I'll never this the
Golden Globes. Whatever year it was. Working at Extra, I
had a I thought I was so cute, like turtleneck dress,
long sleeves, big open back. It was like super form fitting.
I don't know who I thought I was. I was sweating,
it was kind of it was a little bit lighter
(08:26):
than this. I was in a real phase of my
life where I was sweating through everything, So why I
decided to wear this dress?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
And it was like a hundred degrees on the.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Red carpet to this day every picture because I also
thought the hand on the hip move was cute. Ooh,
sweat stain, the whole thing classy. I had some real
red carpet moments.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Let me tell you. I was. We should go through them.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
That should be a podcast segment and go through your
red carpet and mine too.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
That's funny.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Somebody did that recently. It was the girl from White Lotus.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
She did that. It was funny. We need to do
it because I also have Q.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Lisa Grigorich Dempsey, my old boss at Extra who now
is like a second mother to me.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
She made a low light.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Reel of one of my whatever it was, was it
Sagawars or something.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
I was overserved on the red carpet. My fault. It
happened in the.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Sun and I was a disaster. I'm shocked sheet en firement.
So there's some real beauties from that day too. But yeah,
we should go through the looks. That would be funny.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I was just gonna say, you mentioned and we could
talk about it in the big show or mention it now.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Why not.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I went through a phase where it was like I
almost thought about wearing like, wait.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
For it, a Maxi pad.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
But yeah, on my armpits. That's a weird phase. And
I feel like a lot of girls, maybe like in
their twenties. I remember I was dancing a lot, like
either at UF or in high school, and it was
just like I couldn't even put a shirt on with
a bank as Jared said, pitt it out.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
You know.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I also I at one point because it got so
bad because depending on the material, and I'm not like normal,
I mean, like when I'm in a yoga clause it
I'll sweat, but like in life, I'm not as sweat.
But the second that a certain like silk material or
something went on, I'm sweating just thinking about it. I
boatox underneath my armpits because someone told me that that
like seals of the oil glands, which of course is
(10:17):
not healthy. It worked, but then I was like, I
have to stop doing that. I don't know what the
adverse effects of putting botox in my armpits are, but
very sweat.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
No one needs to be worried about sweating.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Like if you're I know you've done this because we
have done this long enough where you're about to start
the interview and you're like, feel like you're sweating, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Like, am I sweating?
Speaker 1 (10:36):
And it's it's there, and then you're going like this
the whole time.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
It's all over my face.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I feel like when I did a Josh Allen interview
this year, and I don't think I talked about this.
I was wearing, speaking of it, like a white like
tight dress, so there was a lot of undergarments underneath
keeping things tight and you.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Know, locked up. Oh yeah, and so.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
On this side that I was sitting, you could kind
of see the back of my armpit over my shapewear. Sure,
and I didn't love the look, so I was like, shapewear,
Sure did. And the bus had just pulled up, so
I'm trying like hell not to And you guys have
to understand. When the bus pulls up to the hotel,
(11:21):
Josh is off that bus and in that freaking girl like.
He doesn't even go up to his room because he
wants to get this over with, see his family, do
his thing. So I am like dressed over my head,
but not really because the makeup's already on and I
don't want to get it on there. And then I'm
in a public restroom at this team hotel trying to
pull the shapewear off, pull some back on, get it
(11:44):
back on, and like so I'm sweating. I'm sweating. The
hair extensions ran in.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
He was walking in. I'm like, I gotta get there.
He also would not care. He's so nice, he's so right.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
And also because I know who is we all know
who is significant other is. I'm not I'm not saying
she needs shapewear, but I'm sure he's well versed in
a woman trying to put themselves in a dress. We
see you, Haley in that fire dress the other day.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Hot. Her face is gorgeous. By the way that lip
I can't take it.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
I know, I have questions and like, what's the lip color?
What's the whole job? She's great, She's not like the
girl that wakes up in the morning you're like, yeah,
when you really hair.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
So anyways, he walked in and I go, I gotta
tell yeah, this shape where I'm sure Haley has problems.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
And he's like, huh. Anyways, that Josh Allen, what a guys?
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Okay, Anonymous, I think we're going to need more information
on this. I blew it with a guy in my class.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
What do I do now? It's so awkward? How'd you
blow it? And what's awkward? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Well, because if it's anything like me when I blew
out the bathroom after my plenoscopy with the guy in class,
well then you just leave the school.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
That's what I did. I totally left the school. Gross
small community college. I'm gross.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
I'm out of here. I'm going to visa Oh my god.
So it depends on the situation. Mine was obviously extreme.
If you blew it with a guy.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I think if it's something where you still you're like, oh,
maybe you had a bad moment, maybe you were I
don't know. I'm making up stories here as far as
like what happened. But if it's something that you can
apologize for, or if you like him enough to have
some humility be like, hey, my bad on that, I
suck whatever, then just keep it moving. I think there's
also something to be said about confidence, even if you
(13:31):
falter where you're like, hey, I wasn't by my best moment,
but maybe he'll respect that. Or if it's so bad,
then yeah, just transfer schools. You gotta leave.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Yeah, you're out, you're out, pulled the tuition. Scottie dot
M eighty nine. Who's a better driver? This would have
been a good question for the plus wines. I'm not
a great driver. I'm a terrible driver. Oh my god,
I'm a terrible driver. And I actually do that now
on purpose because I hate driving. If I was really rich,
if I had so much money, I would have a driver.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
It stresses me out. And it's not even just me
being a bad driver. Everybody else is a bad driver.
And then you've got the bud. Then you've got the
dog running, and then you've got the kid in the
street and the ball's bouncing. Like I feel like I'm
playing Frogger. Every time I drive in Los Angeles. It's
like dodging things at all times. So no hate driving.
Self proclaimed terrible driver. I want somebody to drive driving
(14:21):
this daisy at all times.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Same. I got so much to do. I feel like
it's a great time to do your emails, your appointments,
all the thing. Maybe a sprinter van for yeah, where's
the WiFi?
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Exactly? Okay, this is a good one. La la underscore.
I think I say that Rhea. If you are SVP
no to a bridle shower, do you still send a gift?
Ooh depends who that person is in your life. I
gotta be honest. I'm really bad with the I'm bad
with this. I'm bad with it even for weddings too.
(14:56):
Like if I go to the wedding, I don't even
think I bought you a gift for your wedding.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I'm bad at that. You did. I know what my
gift was? What I don't. Yeah, you got me in.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Like a gift certificate to shutters to stay there.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Oh I did?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
That's kind of like, actually, that's kind of nice, isn't it.
It's not, it's great.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, yeah, but you know, I know you you never
even use that in that gift, that gift card somewhere
I think I did.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But anyways, I know I don't even remember sending it.
So I don't know you take this one because I'm
bad with this. I think you just send a gift.
And obviously your gift depends on your relationship with the person. Right,
there's your standard wedding gifts, there's your amazing ones, YadA, YadA, YadA.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You get it.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
You have to get a gift, though, if it's a
destination wedding, I don't think so, because you're already noting.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
So either you're spending money, yeah, I like you're chartering
with Larry David Larry.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Okay, So Anonymous, this is good.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Just found out my brother's wife of ten years has
been living a double life with another guy in our town.
Said she is going on a girls trip but sneaking.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Off with a lover.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
My brother is forgiving her and wants to make it work.
I can't move on and refuse to forgive her. I
was also sent pictures recently of her at a bar
with a new guy. Cereal, Do I call her out?
Do I tell my brother? I want her gone? But
he's so in love?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
What do you do?
Speaker 3 (16:23):
The brother doesn't know about the new lover, about the
new guy.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, that's what I'm wondering, is like the brother was
privated like that.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
She had some indiscretions before, and he's forgiven her, But
now the sister.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
You gotta tell him. You gotta tell him. Are you
kidding me? Yeah? No, no, no, no no, but you
gotta update us as soon as you tell your brother.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Also, are you going to tell your parents or anybody
else in the family, because yes, I would tell my
family first.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Oh my god, Okay, yes you have to tell your
brother because he's what I always have. I always think
about it this way. Somebody knew something about my especially
family member or a really good friend. If somebody knew
something and I find out later, I'd be like, why
did you guys not tell me like I would? I
would want to know because I want all the information.
(17:12):
And then if I just then if I decide to stay,
that's my decision. But I need all the I need
all the facts before I can determine the outcome of
this case. And right now you are guilty of being
a little tramp.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Serial cheater.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
As Anonymous said, Anonymous, fill us in when this all
goes down.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I have a feeling this is going to be a
whole situation. Well it already is. All right, we'll talk
more about everything on the Big show. Oh yeah, wait,
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Well, because if it's anything like me when I blew
out the bathroom after my colonoscopy with the guy in class, well,
then you just leave the school. That's what I did.
I totally left the school. I say, gros small community college.
I'm gross. I'm out of here.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm going to besa.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Oh my god, calm down with Erin and Carissa is
a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You look real pretty.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
You're so sweet. I shouldn't look really pretty. I should
look one hundred years old, but thank you. That's very
sweet of you. I've already been up and at him
this morning, fed all the animals. I'm doing full on laundry,
stripping all the beds. I mean, like Betty Homemaker here
at the ranch. Because the family has exited stage left.
We will get into that on the Big Show. I
hosted my family this week weekend. It was so much fun,
(00:47):
and now I'm here cleaning up the mess in the
best possible way.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
But you've got a boys' weekend, correct as I want
to bring this up. This segment is brought to you
by Macy's. Macy's with all the things helping you host
with the families stripping the bed sheets we got the
laundry that Macy's can help you with hosting boys weekends,
all of it.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Thank you, Macy.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Steve is bringing. We're going in shifts. I had the
family here this weekend. Then I'm leaving on Wednesday and
joining you for a fun event we will talk about
at some point. Then Steve's here because it's the rodeo here.
I'm always going to miss the roadio because we end
up going and do it.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
But it's fine, It's totally fine.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
So he uses it as a boy's weekend, which, by
the way, why is jar own Jared playoff hockey?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Of course he can't be here for go Kings, Go
look at my dal Wings go and don't forget.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I will do a shameless plug any of your playoff
NHL apparel team apparel for your wife, your girlfriend, your sister,
your mom, your aunt, where by Aaron Andrews. You can
find it on Fanatics or where by EA. I was excited,
so we'll talk more about it on the Big Show.
I need to get you to a playoff game. The
vibe is different, it's a fun atmosphere. It's loud, Will
(01:56):
Ferrell banging on the glass. The Mommy's walking around old
dog now not really part of the team, but part
of the team.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
It's fun.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I only knew that that playoff hockey because I've been
in my own little world up here, and I was
catching up with Al if I don't talk to Al Michaels,
my sweet love him and I probably talked like three,
oh that's dramatic, twice a week minimum. And so he
was telling me he's like, playoff hockey tonight, this and that,
and I was like, Al, thank you for keeping me
(02:25):
up there. You so we should definitely all go together anyways,
be fine, so much fun. Okay, so lots of things
to discuss, but I'm putting sorry all of this. I
don't have my computer with me, so Aaron's going to
read off all the questions from you guys for pre game.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Let's do it.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Ea, go bear with me. Why I have my glasses on?
And I go, okay, first one Jen R and more.
What's your best shopping advice? Go with the trends, keep
it classic, vintage, love your styles, hit it because you
have the best style.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Oh, you're very sweet.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
It depends. I think it's all I like to dress
for wherever I am. Obviously at the ranch it's closed
that I don't care if they get dirty. So it's
all about anything cheap and disposable. But I also still
like to you know, you like want to be cute
to some extent. So yeah, so it's dressed for where
I am. I like mixing old with new as well.
Like if you have like a cool vintage e jacket
(03:14):
you had text me actually the other day you were like,
I love your jacket. That was an old I found
that jacket. It was an old way for it Chanelle
jacket at a vintage store on Melrose, like ten years ago.
And now I'm playing like a thousand dollars for it,
and I was like, this is so expensive, but like
I love it and it's just random. So like mixing
old with new. Also, like when it comes to work stuff,
(03:36):
I've definitely changed my style. I used to wear dresses
on Sunday as if I was coming straight from the club.
Now I'm coming from church. I'm a little bit more
conservative as I've ticked up in age, because no one
needs to be wondering if I'm wearing my niece's dress.
So yeah, dressing for the occasion is kind of my vibe,
you know, what I was thinking about as I was
because I'm not prepared at all for our fun thing
(03:59):
I'm about to go do this weekend.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
You're red. We were aarin.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
We went on a vacation and like a group saying,
Aaron was wearing this red bathing suit, cover up this
red baby ship. She had red slides, the whole thing.
I was thinking about that. I was like, I love that.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
My ass was out. Yeah, stop, it was not It
looked so uicy. Yeah, that was my pretty woman moment.
I was like, you know what, let's just go for it.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Let's do it. Let's go for it.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
My style, let's be honest, I don't have much of one.
It's very much tomboy. It's very it's blazer, it's T shirt,
it's jeans, it's oversized blazers pants. I, Chris and I
are obsessed with Rosie. We love her style, we got
her hair, we love her style, we love her look.
(04:47):
CHRISA will always send me little pictures of her from
Instagram where she's doing the black on black, the neutral
and neutral, the white on white. She just Huntington and
I always forget is it Whitley or Whitely?
Speaker 2 (04:58):
I still know.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yeah, she's rosy. To me, she's classic gorgeous. I love
her style. I wish I could afford half of it,
but that's kind of my vibe. And then Daniella Romero
dresses me. And honestly, at this point, I'm wearing stuff
now that I didn't wear on the sidelines.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
If I have to dress up, so there's that.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Hey, I haven't because I haven't talked to you at
lengths You're easter. I only saw it because, as you know,
I'm not really on Instagram anymore. But I was doing
something for Ruby Branch and Kendra had posted some video.
I so cute, come on with the Jackson Latte Junior, Jackson.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
He was so Jackson Lattery Junior. I can't. Jane and
Jack sent my.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Kid that outfit and we were at the bel Air
Country Club.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
It was so cute.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
And yeah, he was walking around in his little Peter
Rabbit sweatshirt.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We did the collar out like I just did it up.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
We did linen pants, we did loafers like come on,
Mac play the part, and he didn't handle it.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I started laughing.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I was like, look at Jackson Lattery out there doing
his things, his girls.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Oh my god, what a guy.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
All right, Hattersville, What was the When was the last
time y'all went to the movies?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
And what did you see? I don't even remember.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
It has to be pre COVID. I honestly have not
been to the movies since before COVID. I rented Wicked
from a hotel room Jay, because I was not the
other day. Actually I know exactly what it was. We
were in Seattle and it was we're just left you
guys and see what I were like what we didn't
want to like go out? We retired after our you know,
(06:30):
extravagant and break right spring break.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
So I rented that.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
Off the I think that's like the only place I
watched new movies is in hotel rooms.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
But yeah, I haven't been to the movie theater. I
would like to go though.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I do enjoy a good movie theater experience, get the popcorn,
the whole thing. But yet, no, I haven't been in
what since twenty it is COVID was five years ago.
My nieces and I were talking about this because of
half the crap that they had to go through or
not get. My my niece never had a graduation, never
had prom all that stuff, so sad when you think
about it. Yeah, movies haven't done it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I haven't either. We just know we didn't finish the bear.
We need to finish the bear. We finished something I
don't even remember what it was, and I want to
get going on Handmaid's tail. We're not doing and now
we've got hockey playoffs here. It's not at home, so
it's not happening. Okay, Anonymous going to a wedding next month.
Bridal party is wearing blue? Do I avoid wearing blue?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Okay, yes, it's like a light blue and you do
a navy sure, okay, that's fair. Have different, like a variant,
different variant, my color chart, no cocclusion. I just my
thesis statement is I just wouldn't want it to feel
like if you know the colors of the bridesmaids dress, like, well,
then why are you wearing that? Like did you want
(07:46):
to be a bridesmaid and you could get to be one? Yeah,
so just songs it's not the same color, then that's fine.
But yeah, no, if I wouldn't wear navy, if the
dresses are navy, yeah, oh you're a bridesmaid, And then
you go around like no, I'm not No.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I agree I'm kind of aware black girl anyways, because
what if you get a stain on it or dance
too hard and there's a perspiration situation.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
So I that happened to me. I'll never this the
Golden Globes. Whatever year it was. Working at Extra, I
had a I thought I was so cute, like turtleneck dress,
long sleeves, big open back. It was like super form fitting.
I don't know who I thought I was. I was sweating,
it was kind of it was a little bit lighter
(08:26):
than this. I was in a real phase of my
life where I was sweating through everything, So why I
decided to wear this dress?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
And it was like a hundred degrees on the.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Red carpet to this day every picture because I also
thought the hand on the hip move was cute. Ooh,
sweat stain, the whole thing classy. I had some real
red carpet moments.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Let me tell you. I was. We should go through them.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
That should be a podcast segment and go through your
red carpet and mine too.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
That's funny.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
Somebody did that recently. It was the girl from White Lotus.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
She did that. It was funny. We need to do
it because I also have Q.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Lisa Grigorich Dempsey, my old boss at Extra who now
is like a second mother to me.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
She made a low light.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Reel of one of my whatever it was, was it
Sagawars or something.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
I was overserved on the red carpet. My fault. It
happened in the.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Sun and I was a disaster. I'm shocked sheet en firement.
So there's some real beauties from that day too. But yeah,
we should go through the looks. That would be funny.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I was just gonna say, you mentioned and we could
talk about it in the big show or mention it now.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Why not.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I went through a phase where it was like I
almost thought about wearing like, wait.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
For it, a Maxi pad.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
But yeah, on my armpits. That's a weird phase. And
I feel like a lot of girls, maybe like in
their twenties. I remember I was dancing a lot, like
either at UF or in high school, and it was
just like I couldn't even put a shirt on with
a bank as Jared said, pitt it out.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
You know.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I also I at one point because it got so
bad because depending on the material, and I'm not like normal,
I mean, like when I'm in a yoga clause it
I'll sweat, but like in life, I'm not as sweat.
But the second that a certain like silk material or
something went on, I'm sweating just thinking about it. I
boatox underneath my armpits because someone told me that that
like seals of the oil glands, which of course is
(10:17):
not healthy. It worked, but then I was like, I
have to stop doing that. I don't know what the
adverse effects of putting botox in my armpits are, but
very sweat.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
No one needs to be worried about sweating.
Speaker 1 (10:27):
Like if you're I know you've done this because we
have done this long enough where you're about to start
the interview and you're like, feel like you're sweating, and I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Like, am I sweating?
Speaker 1 (10:36):
And it's it's there, and then you're going like this
the whole time.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
It's all over my face.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I feel like when I did a Josh Allen interview
this year, and I don't think I talked about this.
I was wearing, speaking of it, like a white like
tight dress, so there was a lot of undergarments underneath
keeping things tight and you.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
Know, locked up. Oh yeah, and so.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
On this side that I was sitting, you could kind
of see the back of my armpit over my shapewear. Sure,
and I didn't love the look, so I was like, shapewear,
Sure did. And the bus had just pulled up, so
I'm trying like hell not to And you guys have
to understand. When the bus pulls up to the hotel,
(11:21):
Josh is off that bus and in that freaking girl like.
He doesn't even go up to his room because he
wants to get this over with, see his family, do
his thing. So I am like dressed over my head,
but not really because the makeup's already on and I
don't want to get it on there. And then I'm
in a public restroom at this team hotel trying to
pull the shapewear off, pull some back on, get it
(11:44):
back on, and like so I'm sweating. I'm sweating. The
hair extensions ran in.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
He was walking in. I'm like, I gotta get there.
He also would not care. He's so nice, he's so right.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
And also because I know who is we all know
who is significant other is. I'm not I'm not saying
she needs shapewear, but I'm sure he's well versed in
a woman trying to put themselves in a dress. We
see you, Haley in that fire dress the other day.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Hot. Her face is gorgeous. By the way that lip
I can't take it.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
I know, I have questions and like, what's the lip color?
What's the whole job? She's great, She's not like the
girl that wakes up in the morning you're like, yeah,
when you really hair.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
So anyways, he walked in and I go, I gotta
tell yeah, this shape where I'm sure Haley has problems.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
And he's like, huh. Anyways, that Josh Allen, what a guys?
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Okay, Anonymous, I think we're going to need more information
on this. I blew it with a guy in my class.
Speaker 2 (12:45):
What do I do now? It's so awkward? How'd you
blow it? And what's awkward? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Well, because if it's anything like me when I blew
out the bathroom after my plenoscopy with the guy in class,
well then you just leave the school.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
That's what I did. I totally left the school. Gross
small community college. I'm gross.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
I'm out of here. I'm going to visa Oh my god.
So it depends on the situation. Mine was obviously extreme.
If you blew it with a guy.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
I think if it's something where you still you're like, oh,
maybe you had a bad moment, maybe you were I
don't know. I'm making up stories here as far as
like what happened. But if it's something that you can
apologize for, or if you like him enough to have
some humility be like, hey, my bad on that, I
suck whatever, then just keep it moving. I think there's
also something to be said about confidence, even if you
(13:31):
falter where you're like, hey, I wasn't by my best moment,
but maybe he'll respect that. Or if it's so bad,
then yeah, just transfer schools. You gotta leave.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
Yeah, you're out, you're out, pulled the tuition. Scottie dot
M eighty nine. Who's a better driver? This would have
been a good question for the plus wines. I'm not
a great driver. I'm a terrible driver. Oh my god,
I'm a terrible driver. And I actually do that now
on purpose because I hate driving. If I was really rich,
if I had so much money, I would have a driver.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
It stresses me out. And it's not even just me
being a bad driver. Everybody else is a bad driver.
And then you've got the bud. Then you've got the
dog running, and then you've got the kid in the
street and the ball's bouncing. Like I feel like I'm
playing Frogger. Every time I drive in Los Angeles. It's
like dodging things at all times. So no hate driving.
Self proclaimed terrible driver. I want somebody to drive driving
(14:21):
this daisy at all times.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Same. I got so much to do. I feel like
it's a great time to do your emails, your appointments,
all the thing. Maybe a sprinter van for yeah, where's
the WiFi?
Speaker 3 (14:32):
Exactly? Okay, this is a good one. La la underscore.
I think I say that Rhea. If you are SVP
no to a bridle shower, do you still send a gift?
Ooh depends who that person is in your life. I
gotta be honest. I'm really bad with the I'm bad
with this. I'm bad with it even for weddings too.
(14:56):
Like if I go to the wedding, I don't even
think I bought you a gift for your wedding.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I'm bad at that. You did. I know what my
gift was? What I don't. Yeah, you got me in.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Like a gift certificate to shutters to stay there.
Speaker 2 (15:08):
Oh I did?
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (15:09):
That's kind of like, actually, that's kind of nice, isn't it.
It's not, it's great.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay, yeah, but you know, I know you you never
even use that in that gift, that gift card somewhere
I think I did.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
But anyways, I know I don't even remember sending it.
So I don't know you take this one because I'm
bad with this. I think you just send a gift.
And obviously your gift depends on your relationship with the person. Right,
there's your standard wedding gifts, there's your amazing ones, YadA, YadA, YadA.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You get it.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
You have to get a gift, though, if it's a
destination wedding, I don't think so, because you're already noting.
Speaker 3 (15:42):
So either you're spending money, yeah, I like you're chartering
with Larry David Larry.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
Okay, So Anonymous, this is good.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Just found out my brother's wife of ten years has
been living a double life with another guy in our town.
Said she is going on a girls trip but sneaking.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
Off with a lover.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
My brother is forgiving her and wants to make it work.
I can't move on and refuse to forgive her. I
was also sent pictures recently of her at a bar
with a new guy. Cereal, Do I call her out?
Do I tell my brother? I want her gone? But
he's so in love?
Speaker 2 (16:21):
What do you do?
Speaker 3 (16:23):
The brother doesn't know about the new lover, about the
new guy.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Well, that's what I'm wondering, is like the brother was
privated like that.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
She had some indiscretions before, and he's forgiven her, But
now the sister.
Speaker 2 (16:36):
You gotta tell him. You gotta tell him. Are you
kidding me? Yeah? No, no, no, no no, but you
gotta update us as soon as you tell your brother.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Also, are you going to tell your parents or anybody
else in the family, because yes, I would tell my
family first.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Oh my god, Okay, yes you have to tell your
brother because he's what I always have. I always think
about it this way. Somebody knew something about my especially
family member or a really good friend. If somebody knew
something and I find out later, I'd be like, why
did you guys not tell me like I would? I
would want to know because I want all the information.
(17:12):
And then if I just then if I decide to stay,
that's my decision. But I need all the I need
all the facts before I can determine the outcome of
this case. And right now you are guilty of being
a little tramp.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Serial cheater.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
As Anonymous said, Anonymous, fill us in when this all
goes down.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I have a feeling this is going to be a
whole situation. Well it already is. All right, we'll talk
more about everything on the Big show. Oh yeah, wait,
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