May 15, 2025 • 48 mins
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Calm Down with Erin and Corisa is a production of iHeartRadio.
All Right, Sister, here we go. First question comes to
us from LMR Roads seventy nine. One thing you wish
your house had that it doesn't Oh, a roof that
didn't actually had money. I feel very lucky that I
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have a roof over my head, So let's just start
with the whole. I'm grateful got it, but as a homeowner,
and I feel grateful in my life to be a homeowner.
It also means you don't get to pick up the
phone and have the landlord or somebody else deal with it.
So it is up to us to deal with our
own troubles. Trouble, trouble. This roof leaks every time it rains.
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The house has a flat roof. Whoever designed the house
was like, hey, California, flat roof problem so even the
slightest drizzle. I sent you and Ryan a picture the
other day. There are pots all over the floor from
the various different apps and Daisy daysy with my dog
one after one of the fonts yesterday and started to
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like drink out it and I was like, we've got
a problem. Off this me is there's too much. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
But that's the area of concern right now. As for
a luxury item in my house, I wish I had.
I really wish I had a steam shower, and if
I was, you don't, Nope, I don't, And it was
it's something that like I would love to have. So
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I'm assuming the way you said that your shower has
but it never. We have one, but it never. When
you go to like touch the control panel, it starts blinking.
It doesn't properly like turn off or turn on. So
it's always a thing. And then it's like, why do
we have these things because these things don't work? But yeah,
the thing as bougie as it sounds, but I don't
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think there is a bougie meter on here. We're allowed to.
I wish we had an elevator. We have one in
our house in Montana, and from how many times I
track luggage up and down those stairs, it would just
make my life easier. And I wish we had one
next house. Steam shower and a roof that doesn't like
object better attitude, Oh oh god, anonymous, great, we love
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an audience crush on ex boyfriend's brother. What to do?
I think that's fine, ex boyfriend's brother. No, why you
want to get back into the mix of the family.
It's like the movie Family Stone have you seen it
by Sarah Jasica Parker, the throat clearing that just drives
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what's her name of Rachel McAdams, who we love absolutely bonkers. Yeah,
but I mean, I, okay, could you imagine having a
crush on any of your ex boyfriend's brother Let's just say,
for all intentsive purposes, they had a brother that you
could have a crush on. You want to get back
into the mix with that? Look at her face? You
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might have Well, I'm saying, like I was thinking in
my pretend world, say you were dating Liam Hemsworth and
you were like, you know, this didn't work out, But
then Chris Hemsworth was single and available. I got it,
was single and available. He's adorable, and we get it.
His wife's great and they've been together forever. But god,
he's a time thor, isn't he thor? Whatever he was?
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I heard a great story from somebody this past weekend
in Montana that there was like a breakdown somewhere on
the side of the road and somebody went to go
help and they said, outcomes thor from the car. How
can I come help you? Can you tell me you
got well? How long do we have you can help me?
In a lot of ways, I think it's off limits.
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It goes back to the question that we asked week
about having a crush on your sister brother's significant shore.
I just think there's eight billion people in the world, Like,
let's just move out of the family tree. Okay, we
don't need to have any slight run in, Probably because
I don't like any of my ex is. I'm just
not interested in going back into into cess school. But
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you know, to each its okay, bridge to Watts maybe?
Oh ea, would you ever write a book? You've been
through so much and inspire so many that's so sweet.
Would you ever write a book? So nice of you. No,
because I don't think you could be truthful and say
the things that you want to say, or you'd burn
a lot of bridges. But if I did write a book,
it'd be great. Oh my god, what would the title
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of your book be? Do you really like sports? Ah?
That's a good one, because these assholes that always ask
us questions like that, Yeah, adorable, yep, got it. That's
a good one. That's a really good one. I'm actually
in the process. I mean it's been in the process forever,
like anything in production of writing one with my d
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ask this question for me, but so, are you writing
a book with your dad? Yes, it's on here perfect.
Let me just make this about me. No, but it's
it's in a different iteration. It's gonna be like a
coffee table. But I love my dad has all of
these little sayings, like they're very like Lombardy esque quotes.
And my dad, in his next life should come back
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as a coach. I mean, I know he coached at
the high school level because he volunteered, and he's adorable,
but he would be the most incredible NFL coach or
collegiate coach. He inspires. He's like tough on people, but
like he always like even with my friends, like he's
always giving them advice. I don't know, I just my
dad has a lot of wisdom. I love, so it's
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kind of a version of that. But anyways, I just
listened and he I mean, I don't always retain the wisdom,
but here we are, but to write it down. Anonymous
God great. My friend got a boyfriend and is now
ignoring us. Do we confront her, yes, because she probably
doesn't realize it, and she's probably just in that stage
where it's like non stop making out, canoodling other things.
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It's so hot and heavy, so she doesn't know be
like hot. Did you mind write this? Jendreing this issue,
because here's what happens when I get a boyfriend. I do.
I don't abandon my friends. That's not true. I just
actually really liked my boyfriend for once, and so we
were talking about it yesterday. Actually, we were sitting on
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the couch and I looked at him and I was like,
you're my best friend. I was like, we if you
really like the person. And I don't think I've ever
had that truly that I want to spend all my time,
Like if I have a choice to go somewhere, I
want to make sure that I'm with him. Now, I
get it. We all need some alone time, for sure.
I was on the phone with you the other day
being like, I need some time alone. But she does believe, Yeah,
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that's like a person. He lives with you. He's not
going to leave. No, I'm kidding. Is that him texting
you right now? But the the other thing I remember
you said this to me about Jared. We were in
Montanage something. We were together and you were like, I
just want to get home because they really missed my husband.
And I was like, because I wasn't with Steven, And
I was like, what's that like? It is really cool
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to like actually be in a reallylationship or a marriage
where you want to spend time with your significant others. So,
going back to the original question, I don't think it's bad.
I just think that you have to prioritize, like what
where do those because those friendships will dissolve if you
don't make an effort. We've talked about it before on
this podcast, like you kind of like, without getting too
deep into the flower analogy, Miley Cyrus, we definitely find
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that out bit holy. I would say yo the class
to day being like, we need her abs, we need
her arms, we need her legs. But whatever you water
is going to grow. So if you care about that
friend enough to make an effort, okay, I'd be here
sixty eight. If each of you took a quality from
each other to apply to yourself, what would it be.
We talked about this on the phone the other day.
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We did very sweet, I will start since I already
know what your answer is because you told me I
would take your your organization. I'm not though at all. Okay, well,
it appears that you are very organized, because I will
miss I'm not. I know that I'm responsible because I
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have a lot of things going on in my life,
and I know that I'm responsible, but I'm not as
as I should be, and that you are, like you
never You're the first one to respond to emails that
I'm on with you. You're the first one to have
things in your calendar like well, okay, maybe you're not,
but you're faking it really well because it looks like
you have it all together and all organized. And I'll
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be like, I didn't get that email, and I don't
even have a child. I don't have half the responsibilities
that you have, and you are very put together. You're
also someone that doesn't. My other favorite thing about you
is that you know exactly what you want, Like you
don't waiver. There's a lot of like you're very intentional,
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like if you want something, you're like going on. I mean,
look at what you did to have a child, like
I ah, but you would do the same thing. No,
I wouldn't. I wouldn't. Maybe you've told me a million
times to go back and freeze more of my eggs,
and I have it like I'm a little less like
full on than you are. You are very determined. If
you want something, there is no getten in. But how
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you are full on is what I am. What's the wording?
Is it? What lives? Oh? Yeah, what are you wearing?
I mean a lot. I just looked in this thing.
I was like, Jesus, looks great. The quality I like,
there's two, Well, there's many, but the two that I
like is that you make everything a party. You made you.
We were talking about it, except I remember one instance
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we both were like, oh my god, we have to
get out of here. But we were like loving Kelly,
we love you so much. But you felt the same
way Kelly. She also hasn't text me back in four
days with this girl she's busy. That comes back is
that the anonymous is that the anonymous thing she I
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don't feel like it, says y'all, So it's not her, okay.
So you make everything a party, you become the life
of the party. Everyone like wants to be around you,
not the case with me. Second, of all you are
also to the point it's so much fun impulsive, where
like you don't think twice before jumping in. And I'm like, okay,
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let's examine this, let's figure it out. What medication do
I take before I do this? Like? Is there going
to be time off work? I love you now, pregame,
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pre game, pregame, post NFL season. I don't know. I mean,
it kind of gets exciting because there's not like football
centric questions. So this first one is a doozy off
the rails. Why don't you go for it? Okay, strangely enough,
I have sort of a story for this. Okay, Anonymous,
My boyfriend cheated on me with my sister. They are
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now together. Advice the f That is the show The
Christmas Family Stone with Sarah Jessica Parker. But wait a minute,
don't say you you said on the last time an
anonymous question was about this, like, oh, would you ever
date your brothers whatever? X? And You're like, yeah, I
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don't see a problem with that. I'm like, if it
was the Hem's worst, all of them, do you put
a bes on it? Pro plural? All of them? Liam
and Chris Hem's worth Well, they're worth the risk. But
this is not okay, absolutely not. I will not say.
I'll tell you right up with your sister immediately. This
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is bad. What are you going to do where sister
and your boyfriend are together? The anonymous questions all no, No,
I'm saying, like, what is she talking about? What is advice?
There is no advice. Just run, like, that's my advice.
Your sister she's blood. Absolutely, she's not that close to you.
Then if she's willing to date your boyfriend, that's a
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can you imagine Kendra or my sister like dating my ex,
although my sister followed my ex on social for years
after the fact, So I mean maybe maybe they're dating.
I don't know. I would literally try to get on
like Graaldo, Jerry Springer Rip, like any of those shows,
to like discuss Doctor Phil. I don't know, how's that
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working out for you? Well again, Paula Andrews in mind
one of our favorite lines from that show, how's that
working out for you? Great? You know a doctor Phil line?
That's one it was like think when like somebody would
say a crazy thing like yeah, I cheated on my
sister's boyfriend and now we're together. He'd be like, how's
that working out for you? Right? That's incredible. I love
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that you know a doctor Phil phrase. I mean, I've
thought we only had Lombardi up our slaves, but here
we've got doctor Phil. Okay, Anonymous, just break up with
your sister or tell your sister to fall your parents, well,
your parents was going. I can't wait for that holiday.
Keep us post it again. We've said this before, Anonymous.
We need more information and we need follow ups because
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one time we got that follow up and we loved it.
Next we need to know how Easter goes in your house. Aaron,
You're gonna love this one. Joy Renee. Worst gift from
a significant other? How about no gift? How about I
forgot and I called the flower shop at nine am?
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How about that? You know, I was thinking to the Kelsey's,
how the Kelseyes are getting all these ads? You know
Kylie and Jason, they are hilarious. She is hilarious. We
needs to have her on this show. I want to
hear about you know what. This is a plea social
media plea. Kylie. We want you on this show so bad.
I want to talk to her about her how she
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is so funny with her husband and her kids, all
the all of bit. How she will not wear anything
but eagles Like that is so loyal and so sweet. Yeah,
she's solely pleased. Not that you're not doing a million
things right now and taking care of your million but
like she's busy. But come on the podcast, we have questions.
But yeah, the story here. Aaron can get into it
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on the Big Show if she wants to. But until then,
ladies and gentlemen, the worst gift have ever gotten from
a significant other? No gift? Well, normally it's me buying
my own gifts in my past. You know, my bank
account was used for my own gifts losers, So I
think that would be the worst gift. And give me
my taperware back and the ring that I bought for myself,
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La la la to go to dinner tonight. Hey, I
was driving today, inside joke, inside joke between you and I.
I think this was you and I or I dreamt
it you and I. Tea what that's a unity? I
A Long Way Around came on by the Dixie Chicks,
and I was remembering the one time we were like
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the earl song, Yeah yeah right, yeah, yeah? Where was that?
Was a stage coach those black eyed peas. They taste
it all right to me. And now he's dead. Yeah,
I got I gotta remember how that goes, because that's
a good song for me right now, home home singing
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in Montana. I'll sing it to myself while you're a
busy skiing and I'm in the lodge, Roger Lodge. Okay,
here we go. We're not going to get through this
very easily, all right, Jill raz check and again we
mess these all up all the time. I'm so sorry.
Do you feel pressure, as women in a male sport
to always show that you know as much as them? Yeah?
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I think I still feel that way a little bit,
but not in an assertive Listen to me, I'm going
to ramble off all this information. I think that it's
we've talked about it before, but I think it's just
really important that we studied twice as hard and read
those extra articles or watch those extra shows, or do
certain things, or talk to the extra guys to figure
out if something comes up. Let's just say that since
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you know of for me, it's a rundown of things
we're supposed to talk about, just that you're well versed
in everything. So yeah, I always feel that a little bit,
and I feel that way as a host, especially because
it's my job to make sure that if the guys
want to go a different direction, that I can follow
them there and make sure that the conversation's cohesive. So yeah,
I feel that I always want to know more information,
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but not that I like the guys are testing me, like, oh,
let's see how much you know, like twenty years into
this thing. Like I would hope that they know that
I know something exactly, and our guys are our people, Like,
it's not like that for you or I in our
current situations. But I'm not going to lie to you.
After I do a sit down interview and I kind
of get some insight of what may or may not
be happening in a locker room, and then I come
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to the production meeting and I'm like, m I think
this team's gonna lose, and they everybody's like, Nah, you're crazy.
And then fourth quarter, I'm oh, interesting, are we in break?
We are great? Can everybody hear me? Hey, guess who
predicted this one right? Right? Because you can take the
temperature of the guys. I feel like that too. Yeah,
(17:05):
I think that that's definitely a great point where you
don't know because it's not been written about or whatever,
and you're like interesting. So yeah, yes and no is
the answer to that question. You're aut girl. Uh yeah,
this has happened to me from s Rogie question for
the Boss Babes. Have you ever cried at work? And
how do you keep it all together when you are
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just so overwhelmed and you want to jump into a
hole and hide. Before I was I was an intern. No,
I wasn't an intern. I was working kind of freelance
for an Orlando station and they wanted sound from the
Bucks locker room, and a particular player was so nasty
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to me he physically turned his back away from me
in the middle of his scrum. He also told me
to go back, rehearse my question and come back when
I was ready. I was more. I was nineteen twenty
years old. I had practiced. I did slip up a
little bit. I like stumbled. He knew it, he knew
I was young I and so he started having tears
(18:10):
come down my face, and two players in particular, Derek
Brooks and John Lynch, saw it, pulled me over and said,
what do you need? Oh my god. Aaron then royalty.
That's incredible. I've never heard you tell that story. Wow,
Karma is the guy on the Chiefs. Wow, that is
really he's the GM of the forty nine ers helping me.
(18:34):
That's really great. Wow. I love that story. Mine's usually.
I mean, I don't have a specific one like that,
but I love that and I love those guys for that.
I'm really as tough as I try to act. Sometimes
I'm very emotional if I feel like I've disappointed anybody. Yeah,
so my bosses exactly coworkers. My tears come from feeling
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like I've ever disappointed anyone that I respect. So I
try to keep it together so it's not in front
of them, but admittingly, I have cried a couple times
in front of bosses over the years, and it is
always met with support and understanding. There are times where
they give tough love, and I like that because that's
how I grew up and I appreciate that. But I
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think that that idea where it's like you have to
be so strong and don't show weakness, vulnerability, to me
has always been a strength I think in people that
I like. I like people that show vulnerability. Now, look,
we can't be crying all the time getting together. There's
no crying in baseball, Like there's a time and a
place and if it really if you're overcome with emotion,
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don't feel bad about it. But yeah, I think it's
just sort of a balance of the two. Like I
know people that are just always like crying and bitching
and you're like, what are we doing here? Lock it up?
And I think to add to that, we feel this
way about our bosses, which I've cried to them like
not like more than me twice, But it's because honestly,
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the environment that we have at Fox is very much
a family. It's not bullshit when we say that, and
when they have allowed us to feel that way. Christy
and I have been literally at a group function in
Vegas on the president of Fox Sports' cell phone doing
Spotify because his phone could like it's so old. It
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was awesome, And then a big boss called. We're like, whoa,
you may want to get this, but he like trusted
us enough, like we had such a great weekend and stuff.
So yeah, like when we kind of have to when
he pull us to pull us aside about something or
you know, kind of talk to us about something. Yeah,
you and I have called each other bawling because we
don't want to let him down because we care for
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our bosses and our coworkers so much. I got a
miscall yesterday from one of my bosses since I have
a few, and I was like, you that feeling from Amazon,
oh sweetheart. But I immediately started panicking and I was like,
oh God, what's wrong? Oh God, oh God. And then
you lose feeling in your completely. And then I almost
called you and I was like, oh my god, I misscall.
And then I called him back. He's like, what's up?
(21:05):
Just checking in? Everything going, and I'm like, go checking in? No, No,
I was like, I almost said to him. I was like,
don't scare me like that. But he was awesome. I mean,
but again, just we feel very lucky. This is a
long winded answer, but it's to say this. I think,
depending on your relationship with your employer, they will allow
you the runway to be vulnerable as long as they
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know that you care and you are hard working, and
you know, let's not keep making the same mistake seven
hundred times. And honestly, one more point and I'm sorry
we're going over to this, but if like, I know
you and I feel the same way about this too.
If it was something that involved a team or a player.
You and I are so emotional and invested in our
relationships with that we've talked about it. If there was
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ever a situation and we felt so bad, Like I
had a situation where a certain player was coming up
behind me and I didn't know he thought I was
going to interview him, and we had to get off air.
It ruined my day for three straight days. I call him,
yeah a week and I was just like, literally, I
need you to know you're like one of my favorite players.
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And I was doing that because we had to get
off air, not because they didn't want to talk to you.
But that's another time we would get emotional. But it's
because we love our job and we love what we
do so much. I could go on and on about this,
which we probably should on the Big Show because again
off season, but let's put let's put a wait for it,
put a pin in this. And I think it's a
good conversation with the idea of just in general workplace
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sort of what am I trying to say here, just
navigating uncomfortable situations because we've got some questions before with
people being like if there's a mean girl in the workplace,
stuff like that. Yeah, so all right, Last, but not least, Anonymous,
how to tell an out of town friend they cannot
stay at your house. You can't stay at my house.
It's too crazy here. I got a leak, I got
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a kid, I got a dog, I got a husband
who drives me nuts, and sometimes I have to send
him down to that guest room when he's coughing. Last night,
I stay here. For those that can't stay at Aaron's house,
you can come over to mine. I'm happy to host you. Okay, Anonymous, Yes,
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it's been a minute. My fiance and I decide I
like to read anonymous with this kind of like my
fiance and I decided to have a small private ceremony
with a larger reception after Now people are upset they
weren't invited to this ceremony. How do you respond? You
don't Who wants to go to a ceremony? And I'm sorry,
(23:37):
I want to go to yours, Chris, No one wants
to go into yours. And it was hysterical. It was
a vowed about the guests that were in the audience.
It was really funny. They're so ridiculous. You know what, Actually,
I think this is a as someone that's had two
ceremonimonies and no one was invited, I think this is
a great way to show why those people shouldn't have
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been at the ceremony to begin with. Like, if they're
going to get upset about that, then they're not good
enough friends. By the way, I would be thanking anyone
that was like, hey, yo, just show up for the party.
Let's get the promises this. I promise you. I will
not make you go to the nuptials, only the after party.
I see this with all due respect to all of
my friends and even yours. When I'm praying there's going
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to be a wedding for you, I want that, but
I would rather cut to I would rather go pregame
while you're getting married and then see you at the post.
You know, I don't. Hey, I got here's the only
nuptials I will be doing. I don't stop it. I'm
never getting married again. I will have a party, though
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we've talked about this. Yeah, we will have a party.
You pick the venue, tell me what day it is,
and I will show up. But I ain't doing any
of those other things. Third time is not the charm
ladies and gentlemen, you know, and I disagree. I'm going
to keep working on you and this, I promise you.
You and I have a better chance of getting married
before I get married again to Steve. God love it.
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It has nothing to do with Steve. All right. We've
got Dennis Kovechy by the way. This should be a
game us figuring out his names. How to deal with
jealous insecure women? Who who's dating your platonic guy friend?
How to deal with jealous insecure woman who's dating your
platonic guy friend? Oh? Like the new girlfriend's jealous of you? Yeah? Wow?
(25:29):
And you're like good relationship? I honestly, how come I'm
not getting it? What do you mean? Who's jealous? So
your best guy friend, okakay is dating platonic guy friend.
She's insecure and jealous of your friendship? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you got to ditch that chick. You know what I
(25:49):
started doing? Playing it up? Of course you do late
night sending, not even what's up? It's me thinking about you.
I don't know. I feel like I'm trying to think
if I had a situation. Yeah, I mean, I think
that if if you're not secure enough with your boyfriend
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to have girlfriends, that's a problem because I want Steve
to have girlfriends because I'm thinking to myself, Yeah, I'm
thinking myself, if you mean him late at night, seriously,
I'm jealous of you and you do. I think you
text Steve and call him more than me and you
don't answer me. I call him, where is she that son?
(26:31):
And I love that love. I think that that's a
fantastic relationship to have. Where your girlfriends? Actually, I'm going
to stay on track here because I could go on
a whole tangent about this, but as it pertains to this,
I want Steve to have girlfriends because if I don't
trust him to have a girlfriend, that he can't keep
his in the pants and like not want to just
jump every woman he sees, well, then we have a
(26:52):
bigger problem you should be able to have. Like if
I was, I don't go through his phone, but if
I ever wanted to, he would give it to me.
If I saw girls' names, my first thought is not like,
oh my god, he's having an affair. My first thought is, well,
I didn't know that Hillary worked for you, Like I wouldn't.
My first thought is not like I don't know, yeah,
to answer the question succincly, which is hard for me. Sometimes.
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I think that's a huge I think that's a massive
red flag. And if it's a brand new relationship, then
talk to her and be like, hey, if you're going
to have an issue with this, then this isn't going
to work out because I'm not getting rid of my
friends or getting rid of anything just because you don't
like it, Like my lifelong friend, I'm going to have
to leave because you're insecure. No, I think it's hard
saying the word succincly. I yeah, I feel like at
(27:39):
first I'd be difficult to deal with, and then I
would have a flat out conversation with him and be like, listen,
she's got an issue with this, Like we're not even together.
I think you should talk to her, maybe you take
her out, but I'm just worry you and then I
are also people on the other side of this. Think
about how many men we talk to in our lives.
(28:00):
I would say it's ninety percent men in our phones.
As for all the guys that we work with or
whatever it is in our lives that we have the
majority of men, and if we had insecure significant others,
that would be a massive problem. So conversely, I think
you gotta either you got to nip that in the
But I'm also one in the bud or butt bud yeah,
b u d succinctly. I'm also one that, if you know,
(28:24):
prime example, I like to be friends with everybody within
the family. So like I'm on so many texts with
Kevin and Rachel Burkhardt and I'll text them Kara and
Greg Olsen, so I'll text them together. You know, I
like to add Jarrett to it. Maybe you start a
text chain with the three of you guys, or that's
the idea, so to show to her she's not really
(28:46):
missing out the jokes. Aren't that funny? You know what
I mean? I think that's a good idea, good advice.
H oh okay, strath monster, can we please talk about
what age you have to stop worrying about? Stop worry
about and acne at the same time. I don't know
what that means, but I stopped reading after acne, and
(29:06):
the answer is forever, if you're us forever, I had
from right here. Good thing? Is that a mole? No,
it's not a wal Cindy Crawford, it is it. Although
my face has gotten a lot great better because guess what,
I'm not picking as much and I'm just gonna say it.
I'm just gonna say it. I'm not getting as many facials.
And I love a facial. I know. I think that
(29:28):
facial just brings it all out. So I mean, don't
get a magnifying glass around this face. But right now,
if I'm not in there digging and I'm not in
there extracting everything, everything's just laying dormant. Again. If we
did a scan on layer four, it might not look good.
But I don't know. I think I've for the most part,
grown out of it. But I get like, yeah, I
(29:48):
get this jawline stuff a little bit here. There spare lactil. No,
you know, I'm the biggest proponent of the nantibiotic. When
it comes out, it's great. That is something a dermatologist
in Nashville for any of you that have had chronic
acne your whole life. Me, I finally went to a
different dermatologist in Nashville and she prescribes spirolactone and it
changed my life. I don't take it every day anymore.
(30:09):
Because I don't want to be on an antibiotic all
the time. But when I see it flaring up, I
go back into the old bottle and start taking some.
It probably has expired at this point, but I just
go back two years. You know, you got two years
in my It's definitely expired. I haven't lived in Nashville
in four so doctor's license, my doctor. Uh, you know
training I've done. I am taking a pill for hair,
(30:33):
not like neutrafil I'll say it. Yeah, and because I
just like, you know, we're giving our hair a break
and not styling it obviously as much as I do.
During this season, I have more hair on my face
than I've ever had in my life. I'm growing everywhere,
like hair just on my face. I just sit here
and pet her. You're like, I'm petty Cowie. Oh my god.
(30:59):
And then I hate getting the derma flash out because
that brings me out. So I'm here. You know what
I do, and you know where I'm going After this
podcast during the Linz, she's taking that box cutter straight
to this face and straight to this Now. Hey, look,
when you're a rancher and you come home, that's what
you get. Got these hands look cold. I'm a worker.
You know we have here? What are you gonna do?
(31:22):
What do we got here? Okay, Robin Lane, you little cutie,
probably not even your name. Sports reporter in mid twenties.
How do I put myself out there dating wise when
this job is a lot? Well, first of all, congratulations
for living out all of our dreams. Who were working
for We'll tell you everything? Yeah, exactly, we got all
the gossip offline anonymous. How do I put myself out
(31:45):
there with data? So I'll tell you this. Here's my
advice on this one. Don't be in a rush, because
I thought that being in a relationship really early on
professionally was going to be great for me because then
I wasn't distracted, and I had this you know, constant
at home. And I married the wrong person. Then later
in life I married the wrong person again. But I
think that give yours for me. If I had to
(32:08):
go back and do it again, I would not feel
like I just had to be with someone just to
be with someone. I would let it happen naturally and
date when it worked around my schedule because I was
making and continued to make at times my job more
of a priority. I'm trying to do a better job
of that now. I think we both are, but it
took at least until my late thirties to realize that.
(32:32):
And obviously, if you want a date and you want
to still have a personal life, I would just say,
make sure that you pick someone that is very secure,
going back to our previous conversation, and understands that your
job is really important because especially in your twenties. I mean,
think about what we were doing in our twenties with
our job, and they have to be open to traveling
and being able to leave on a whim and all
(32:53):
these kinds of things. So find a guy that is
open minded and secure and also be in a rush
in your twenties, right, but enjoy it too. I would
just date. I mean, I'll be honest and say I
didn't do a lot of it because I was doing
three hoops games a week, two football games a week,
two baseball games. I had a good time when I
(33:13):
did it, but I wish I had done it more.
I was literally married to the job in my twenties
because I had this thought process that if I did
as much as I could, then I wouldn't have to
work a lot in my forties. Okay, so yeah, you
brought up a good point. They have to be secure
in themselves with all the traveling you may have to
(33:34):
do for your job. You'll figure it out really quick
if they are or aren't, and just go have fun. Yeah,
it's not that serious. I would if I could do
it over. I was too. Yeah, I give off a
lot of bad signals. Apparently, did you do they come
back around and talk about them a round away girl? Yes? Somehow. Yeah.
Some have told me yep, yeah, bamboo era and I
(33:57):
was like, why did you? That's not what I was
saying or doing. Wow. But though I don't think those
people are very smart either, I also think that we've
tried to be too cool in so many situations. This
just in I am so far from being cool. It's wow.
The lighting were it right now? On you? Is fantastic?
Oh god, those people can either have a date on
(34:19):
my rut. But I'm trying to be nicer to myself
as you and I had this discussion with somebody at
a dinner and I was thinking a lot about it.
But anyways, we'll give an update on the rut. I'm
okay for everyone, aroon is I do think my hormones
played a lot into it as well, but work also
affected that. Whoa any who anonymous, What would you do
(34:43):
if your boyfriend's husband, Steve came anto you because they
aren't having bedroom time and he's not dead? Oh oh
my god, Jared, is this for me? I'm kidding, joking, joking,
that's not We're on his next chain. I would see
(35:04):
him saying that to you. Oh that is awkward. Okay,
we need to go back to this that. There's a
lot of things that you can share with your girlfriend's
boyfriend or whatever, but like this to come on, not that.
And it's also a violation of like your friendship where
it's like, why are we talking about that? No, No,
(35:28):
I don't need, no, we need you need to go
to her. That's just that's red flag. Yeah, because imagine
if it comes back and she's like, I can't do
the math today. Whoever it is confessed, it's like, oh,
so and so told me that, you know, we should
be having sex more or whatever. It's like, well, why
are you having those conversations with my boyfriend? Ew? Yeah, no,
(35:49):
that's weird that this husband husband that too, I mean, yeah,
best friend's husband you took a vow or you gave
a vow. What is it? He ow? You're not going
to that ceremony either, now you're not. Actually you're going
to the divorce proceedings as the witness, and you need
to be a witness protection program. After she finds out
that you've been talking to him that way. Enough is
(36:11):
enough enough. I gotta tell you, the freaking questions have
been great, guys. Keep them coming because as you know,
for those of you longtime listeners first time callers, it
really induces a lot of conversation. And this first one
(36:34):
is again our favorite anonymous. My sister named her friend
guardian over my nephew in an emergency. How do I
get over this? Well, this is similar to when my
sister didn't make me her maid of honor in her
first wedding, and then she made me made of honor
in her second wedding because the first wedding had to
(36:54):
fallout with the maid of honor. Let's just say she
was made of dishonor. He he And so my sister
and her second wedding was like, oh, you could be
my maid of honor. Now I'm like, oh, by default?
Why because the last one was a disaster. No thanks,
I almost didn't want to go to the wedding. I
was like, you should have seen me. I was she
listened to this podcast. Hi Jen, if you're listening, she knows.
(37:17):
I'll tell you what she was listening for. Was my
reception speech. You thought this wedding was good, you should
have seen her first one. At that point, my mom
went like this to me, that's enough. How long was
the speech in my head? It was thirty seconds. Apparently
it went on for three minutes. This is after I
fell on my way up to make the speech and
grabbed the microphone and said score from the Russian judge
(37:39):
ten It was there's there's a common theme with you
at weddings. You also ate shit at my wedding too.
My dad said, he was just one of the most
unbelievable moments ever. On the dance wedding goes there's Chrissa
coming around, white soup. You were busy changing into your
(38:02):
seventh jumper, which was amazing. I was looking for a
blanket for Larry and all I wanted to do was dance. Okay,
I missed the shot skis and I was upset. So anyways,
Anonymous back to your original question. Sorry, my sister named
her friend guardian over my nephew in an emergency. How
do I get over this? I don't know. I mean
imagine Kendra, I don't know. I don't know how you
(38:24):
would handle that. You have a child, so I've heard. Yeah,
I that's hard because even with the will situation, and
maybe this is something for the big show, it's kind
of like we have multiple options, like for right now,
if we die, who gets him? If we die later
down the road, like it's like a whole like a conversation. Yeah,
(38:46):
you get wasted safe from the show. Okay, I don't know.
Am I falling between the sixth and twenty four months
or my twenty four months to I don't know. And
by the way, why would you twenty four months? Just
say two years? What We've got to stop the month's
thing after one year? Don't tell me the kids eighteen
(39:07):
months now, I'm like twelve. I was busy. Oh I
can't even doe math for my football games. I can't
do that. I don't worry. I wont be able to
do that. Wait, they kick to field gold. That's okay, okay,
all right, Ali bo seven Ali Bones I don't know
(39:27):
if this is sexual or what it is. EA, are
you getting any other tats or staying with just this?
For those of who that don't know, Aaron has one
tattoo and it says this, I still don't know what
it's about. I don't either, I in fact don't remember
getting it. You know what. I'm not in any hurry,
(39:48):
but I would like to bring something up that I
would like to do. You just get one that says
that this and that I want you to get that
one with me. Put it right in here. I imagine tattoos.
What's that this? And that? I would like to bring
something up, something I would like to get done. Next.
(40:10):
I'm gonna talk about something on the Big Show. This
is a tease. I did something to my face and
you're gonna be like, you're so stupid. It's not that
big of a deal. But anything, I'm such a square
that anything I do is kind of like WHOA for me.
I get nervous. So the next thing, and we'll talk
about that on the Big Show. But the next thing
I would like to do where I feel a little dangerous,
(40:31):
to get a second hole in my ear where I
feel a little dangerous. This girl has had let's see,
we're gonna be. I'm not even gonna say our age.
We're gonna be and you're not double pierced your ears never.
(40:51):
I mean, do you want to go to Claire's. I'll
drive back. And you didn't go to Claire's with you?
Right now, I want of these fun earrings that Jillian
has the hanging down on. Yeah, so low only have
one hole. Yeah, you're next hole in my head? Oh shit,
we're next. Sorry I got sidetracked there. Lisa van Derveer
(41:13):
ever laughed during a massage or feel awkward? Yeah, I
also strike up a conversation with the massuse. I'm like, so,
how's your day going? And then they're like, oh good,
You're like my third massage, like don't your hands get tired?
And they're like yeah, And I'm like, well, what was
your last massage? And so now I'm having a full
on conversation with this person. I had one massage therapist.
(41:35):
I don't really feel like we need to say massage therapists,
but whatever, messus have a coughing fit and you would
have hated this. You would have walked out in two seconds.
You would have said, whoa my god, are you. I
was like, I felt so bad. You know, when the
cough is coming on, and it's like there was like
the tickle and the throat. So she's like and then
(41:58):
I'm like, I'm like, oh, here we go. She's like,
now she's trying to suppress it. Well, this isn't good.
So now she's almost like choking herself because she's trying
not to cough. I finally go, don't even worry about it.
She's like, thanks. She walks out of the room. Poor
woman walks back in. She's like, I am so sorry.
I'm just getting over bronchitis. Well, I don't know if
(42:19):
we should be back at work. Okay, I don't know
if this is the time you got a mask back
that you got to like log the hours and the
whole thing. What I wanted to say was I'm just
going to give you the tip and skidada out of here.
But then I fell bad because I know she felt bad,
so I just stayed there. So to answer your question, Lisa,
I haven't ever laughed in a massage, but I get
really invested in the individual that's giving me the massage,
(42:40):
and the therapist has had an episode. But I would
definitely not ask for the scout massage after that part.
But I was gonna say, you know how back in
the day, whoa, the light's better when we were all
flying during COVID, And when's the best time to take
a plane ride? When's it not? You know you or
they just say, you know, sometimes the plane is cleaner
(43:01):
in the morning versus like mid afternoon a plane gets dingier.
When do you think the best time is to book
a massage therapist? Because, like you said, that could have
been her fourth of the day. I can speak and
her fingers are tired, right, I think you want to
be second. I think you wanted to warm up mormage
one and then you want to get in on the
second one. Have you owned Jared ever had couples massages?
(43:22):
Like in the same room. We've talked about this. I
think they're so stupid. Oh yeah, I can't remember if
we talked about it. I think I'm not into it either, No,
because it's like, are the massage therapists thinking you want
to have a sensuous experience together? Like I don't want
to be talking to him during it. I want time
to known out, you know, you know what I don't need.
I don't need the bathtub in the couple's massage area.
(43:46):
Who are the people I need to know? Who are
the people, like, hey, let's just hop in there together, Like, no,
we're not taking a bath? And who are the people
that dig baths in hotel rooms? I was just going
to ask you this. No, I know I can't fit
any of them anyways, I'm too Gode. I just need
to know who are you? And like are we cleaning
(44:07):
it before? Like you get in and like, is that
the only time you can take a bath? So you
have to take it at the hotel? Why you're gonna
use all your clorox wipes from the plane to clean
the bathtub? No? Oh, I don't want to see the
film on there, all right, Dario Gonzalez, What should I
do if I give more than I receive in a relationship?
(44:29):
Tell them be honest, say I'm giving too much of myself.
What are you doing for me? In what way? Do
you mean? Yeah? Well, I think I mean, I don't know.
I'm all about communication. I did this the other day.
I told you about this, Steve. I don't normally do
Steve's laundry, and you're an adult man, like you can
(44:49):
do your own laundry. It's not like we have children,
so like I'm busy doing like you could just just
do your own laundry. Like there's some plenty of things
that I'll do around the house for you, but like
laundry isn't one of them. I also feel like it's
like I don't want to see your laundry. You need
to see mine, Like just separation there sure, church and state,
church and state. Yeah, but here at the ranch, like
(45:10):
I don't know, for whatever reason, I feel more domesticated.
So I'm roughing it. I'm roughing it. Yeah, I'll do
your laundry when I'm here. I had done his laundry
for I'm not getting like weeks at a time. This
fool never said thank you, not one time, every time
I like put the clothes away whatever. So I was
like okay, and I had had enough, and I was like,
no acknowledgment of doing the laundry just and kept calling it, Oh,
(45:31):
look at clean. He'd called it clean clothes mountain clean
clothes mountains getting bigger and bigger, and I'm like still
with no thank you or no gratitude of like, oh,
the clothes are just stacking up, but like you're not
recognizing that, like you because I washed a lot of
clothes here, Like there's no like go out and then
wear those clothes tomorrow, like you're washing them immediately. So
(45:52):
I said, fuck it. I took all of his dirty
clothes one day. I threw him all over the bathroom
floor upstairs. We were leaving the next day, and so
I go back upstairs. I see all the clothes still
on the floor. I go, you didn't want to pick
those up? He goes, Oh, I didn't know if you
were doing something with those Oh, you didn't know if
I was doing something with your dirty clothes. No, I
was trying to make a statement that I've washed your
clothes for the last three weeks and you have not
(46:12):
said thank you one time. And he's like, oh, so, Dario,
to answer your question. If you this seems to be
the theme today. If you are feeling like you're not
getting the recognition for what it is that you're doing,
make a statement like that and see if they notice.
Did he ever thank you? Yeah? He goes, oh, I'm
so sorry, Yeah, thank you. But I'm like, well, what
the hell took so long? Exactly sevena what did you
(46:36):
You're just your shit's all over the floor and you're
just gonna leave it so you know what that you
know what that brings up for the big show? The
old leave it on the stairs and do you bring
it up? Have we talked about that? We yet? In
in my b andrews uh huh yea yeah, we're going
to talk about it on the big show. I have
a whole thing with that wing. You had to walk
over the item to go up the stairs and you
(46:57):
couldn't just pick it up. Is that it to be
nail them all? Oh? No? Anonymous separate checking account Okay,
after married, I need my own spending money. Girl. God
whoever the answer is, I believe in separate checking accounts
when married, because they're going to try to take it anyways. No,
I'm yes, I see. I'm a big believer in separate
(47:21):
checking accounts for a couple different reasons. If I want
to buy you a birthday present, I don't want it
to come out of the joint checking. And then you're like,
oh my god, why did you spend all that money?
Which I agree going to because I'm a very generous
gift giver. No, I wanted to come. I want it
to be my own money that comes, and I don't
want you to question what I'm spending money on. I agree.
I don't want to see what that bell Air membership
costs now. I don't want to see what it costs
(47:42):
to play there on a day with the fellas. I
don't want to know. And I don't want you to
see what my day was like, you know with the gals.
Were those gals? I don't know, but I don't want
you to see it. You don't want to see the
tattoo parlor. No, nothing, not even no letters for it.
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All Right, Sister, here we go. First question comes to
us from LMR Roads seventy nine. One thing you wish
your house had that it doesn't Oh, a roof that
didn't actually had money. I feel very lucky that I
(00:23):
have a roof over my head, So let's just start
with the whole. I'm grateful got it, but as a homeowner,
and I feel grateful in my life to be a homeowner.
It also means you don't get to pick up the
phone and have the landlord or somebody else deal with it.
So it is up to us to deal with our
own troubles. Trouble, trouble. This roof leaks every time it rains.
(00:46):
The house has a flat roof. Whoever designed the house
was like, hey, California, flat roof problem so even the
slightest drizzle. I sent you and Ryan a picture the
other day. There are pots all over the floor from
the various different apps and Daisy daysy with my dog
one after one of the fonts yesterday and started to
(01:07):
like drink out it and I was like, we've got
a problem. Off this me is there's too much. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
But that's the area of concern right now. As for
a luxury item in my house, I wish I had.
I really wish I had a steam shower, and if
I was, you don't, Nope, I don't, And it was
it's something that like I would love to have. So
(01:30):
I'm assuming the way you said that your shower has
but it never. We have one, but it never. When
you go to like touch the control panel, it starts blinking.
It doesn't properly like turn off or turn on. So
it's always a thing. And then it's like, why do
we have these things because these things don't work? But yeah,
the thing as bougie as it sounds, but I don't
(01:51):
think there is a bougie meter on here. We're allowed to.
I wish we had an elevator. We have one in
our house in Montana, and from how many times I
track luggage up and down those stairs, it would just
make my life easier. And I wish we had one
next house. Steam shower and a roof that doesn't like
object better attitude, Oh oh god, anonymous, great, we love
(02:17):
an audience crush on ex boyfriend's brother. What to do?
I think that's fine, ex boyfriend's brother. No, why you
want to get back into the mix of the family.
It's like the movie Family Stone have you seen it
by Sarah Jasica Parker, the throat clearing that just drives
(02:38):
what's her name of Rachel McAdams, who we love absolutely bonkers. Yeah,
but I mean, I, okay, could you imagine having a
crush on any of your ex boyfriend's brother Let's just say,
for all intentsive purposes, they had a brother that you
could have a crush on. You want to get back
into the mix with that? Look at her face? You
(02:59):
might have Well, I'm saying, like I was thinking in
my pretend world, say you were dating Liam Hemsworth and
you were like, you know, this didn't work out, But
then Chris Hemsworth was single and available. I got it,
was single and available. He's adorable, and we get it.
His wife's great and they've been together forever. But god,
he's a time thor, isn't he thor? Whatever he was?
(03:22):
I heard a great story from somebody this past weekend
in Montana that there was like a breakdown somewhere on
the side of the road and somebody went to go
help and they said, outcomes thor from the car. How
can I come help you? Can you tell me you
got well? How long do we have you can help me?
In a lot of ways, I think it's off limits.
(03:43):
It goes back to the question that we asked week
about having a crush on your sister brother's significant shore.
I just think there's eight billion people in the world, Like,
let's just move out of the family tree. Okay, we
don't need to have any slight run in, Probably because
I don't like any of my ex is. I'm just
not interested in going back into into cess school. But
(04:04):
you know, to each its okay, bridge to Watts maybe?
Oh ea, would you ever write a book? You've been
through so much and inspire so many that's so sweet.
Would you ever write a book? So nice of you. No,
because I don't think you could be truthful and say
the things that you want to say, or you'd burn
a lot of bridges. But if I did write a book,
it'd be great. Oh my god, what would the title
(04:28):
of your book be? Do you really like sports? Ah?
That's a good one, because these assholes that always ask
us questions like that, Yeah, adorable, yep, got it. That's
a good one. That's a really good one. I'm actually
in the process. I mean it's been in the process forever,
like anything in production of writing one with my d
(04:49):
ask this question for me, but so, are you writing
a book with your dad? Yes, it's on here perfect.
Let me just make this about me. No, but it's
it's in a different iteration. It's gonna be like a
coffee table. But I love my dad has all of
these little sayings, like they're very like Lombardy esque quotes.
And my dad, in his next life should come back
(05:10):
as a coach. I mean, I know he coached at
the high school level because he volunteered, and he's adorable,
but he would be the most incredible NFL coach or
collegiate coach. He inspires. He's like tough on people, but
like he always like even with my friends, like he's
always giving them advice. I don't know, I just my
dad has a lot of wisdom. I love, so it's
(05:31):
kind of a version of that. But anyways, I just
listened and he I mean, I don't always retain the wisdom,
but here we are, but to write it down. Anonymous
God great. My friend got a boyfriend and is now
ignoring us. Do we confront her, yes, because she probably
doesn't realize it, and she's probably just in that stage
where it's like non stop making out, canoodling other things.
(05:52):
It's so hot and heavy, so she doesn't know be
like hot. Did you mind write this? Jendreing this issue,
because here's what happens when I get a boyfriend. I do.
I don't abandon my friends. That's not true. I just
actually really liked my boyfriend for once, and so we
were talking about it yesterday. Actually, we were sitting on
(06:14):
the couch and I looked at him and I was like,
you're my best friend. I was like, we if you
really like the person. And I don't think I've ever
had that truly that I want to spend all my time,
Like if I have a choice to go somewhere, I
want to make sure that I'm with him. Now, I
get it. We all need some alone time, for sure.
I was on the phone with you the other day
being like, I need some time alone. But she does believe, Yeah,
(06:36):
that's like a person. He lives with you. He's not
going to leave. No, I'm kidding. Is that him texting
you right now? But the the other thing I remember
you said this to me about Jared. We were in
Montanage something. We were together and you were like, I
just want to get home because they really missed my husband.
And I was like, because I wasn't with Steven, And
I was like, what's that like? It is really cool
(06:58):
to like actually be in a reallylationship or a marriage
where you want to spend time with your significant others. So,
going back to the original question, I don't think it's bad.
I just think that you have to prioritize, like what
where do those because those friendships will dissolve if you
don't make an effort. We've talked about it before on
this podcast, like you kind of like, without getting too
deep into the flower analogy, Miley Cyrus, we definitely find
(07:21):
that out bit holy. I would say yo the class
to day being like, we need her abs, we need
her arms, we need her legs. But whatever you water
is going to grow. So if you care about that
friend enough to make an effort, okay, I'd be here
sixty eight. If each of you took a quality from
each other to apply to yourself, what would it be.
We talked about this on the phone the other day.
(07:42):
We did very sweet, I will start since I already
know what your answer is because you told me I
would take your your organization. I'm not though at all. Okay, well,
it appears that you are very organized, because I will
miss I'm not. I know that I'm responsible because I
(08:05):
have a lot of things going on in my life,
and I know that I'm responsible, but I'm not as
as I should be, and that you are, like you
never You're the first one to respond to emails that
I'm on with you. You're the first one to have
things in your calendar like well, okay, maybe you're not,
but you're faking it really well because it looks like
you have it all together and all organized. And I'll
(08:25):
be like, I didn't get that email, and I don't
even have a child. I don't have half the responsibilities
that you have, and you are very put together. You're
also someone that doesn't. My other favorite thing about you
is that you know exactly what you want, Like you
don't waiver. There's a lot of like you're very intentional,
(08:46):
like if you want something, you're like going on. I mean,
look at what you did to have a child, like
I ah, but you would do the same thing. No,
I wouldn't. I wouldn't. Maybe you've told me a million
times to go back and freeze more of my eggs,
and I have it like I'm a little less like
full on than you are. You are very determined. If
you want something, there is no getten in. But how
(09:09):
you are full on is what I am. What's the wording?
Is it? What lives? Oh? Yeah, what are you wearing?
I mean a lot. I just looked in this thing.
I was like, Jesus, looks great. The quality I like,
there's two, Well, there's many, but the two that I
like is that you make everything a party. You made you.
We were talking about it, except I remember one instance
(09:31):
we both were like, oh my god, we have to
get out of here. But we were like loving Kelly,
we love you so much. But you felt the same
way Kelly. She also hasn't text me back in four
days with this girl she's busy. That comes back is
that the anonymous is that the anonymous thing she I
(09:52):
don't feel like it, says y'all, So it's not her, okay.
So you make everything a party, you become the life
of the party. Everyone like wants to be around you,
not the case with me. Second, of all you are
also to the point it's so much fun impulsive, where
like you don't think twice before jumping in. And I'm like, okay,
(10:12):
let's examine this, let's figure it out. What medication do
I take before I do this? Like? Is there going
to be time off work? I love you now, pregame,
(10:33):
pre game, pregame, post NFL season. I don't know. I mean,
it kind of gets exciting because there's not like football
centric questions. So this first one is a doozy off
the rails. Why don't you go for it? Okay, strangely enough,
I have sort of a story for this. Okay, Anonymous,
My boyfriend cheated on me with my sister. They are
(10:55):
now together. Advice the f That is the show The
Christmas Family Stone with Sarah Jessica Parker. But wait a minute,
don't say you you said on the last time an
anonymous question was about this, like, oh, would you ever
date your brothers whatever? X? And You're like, yeah, I
(11:15):
don't see a problem with that. I'm like, if it
was the Hem's worst, all of them, do you put
a bes on it? Pro plural? All of them? Liam
and Chris Hem's worth Well, they're worth the risk. But
this is not okay, absolutely not. I will not say.
I'll tell you right up with your sister immediately. This
(11:38):
is bad. What are you going to do where sister
and your boyfriend are together? The anonymous questions all no, No,
I'm saying, like, what is she talking about? What is advice?
There is no advice. Just run, like, that's my advice.
Your sister she's blood. Absolutely, she's not that close to you.
Then if she's willing to date your boyfriend, that's a
(11:59):
can you imagine Kendra or my sister like dating my ex,
although my sister followed my ex on social for years
after the fact, So I mean maybe maybe they're dating.
I don't know. I would literally try to get on
like Graaldo, Jerry Springer Rip, like any of those shows,
to like discuss Doctor Phil. I don't know, how's that
(12:20):
working out for you? Well again, Paula Andrews in mind
one of our favorite lines from that show, how's that
working out for you? Great? You know a doctor Phil line?
That's one it was like think when like somebody would
say a crazy thing like yeah, I cheated on my
sister's boyfriend and now we're together. He'd be like, how's
that working out for you? Right? That's incredible. I love
(12:44):
that you know a doctor Phil phrase. I mean, I've
thought we only had Lombardi up our slaves, but here
we've got doctor Phil. Okay, Anonymous, just break up with
your sister or tell your sister to fall your parents, well,
your parents was going. I can't wait for that holiday.
Keep us post it again. We've said this before, Anonymous.
We need more information and we need follow ups because
(13:05):
one time we got that follow up and we loved it.
Next we need to know how Easter goes in your house. Aaron,
You're gonna love this one. Joy Renee. Worst gift from
a significant other? How about no gift? How about I
forgot and I called the flower shop at nine am?
(13:27):
How about that? You know, I was thinking to the Kelsey's,
how the Kelseyes are getting all these ads? You know
Kylie and Jason, they are hilarious. She is hilarious. We
needs to have her on this show. I want to
hear about you know what. This is a plea social
media plea. Kylie. We want you on this show so bad.
I want to talk to her about her how she
(13:47):
is so funny with her husband and her kids, all
the all of bit. How she will not wear anything
but eagles Like that is so loyal and so sweet. Yeah,
she's solely pleased. Not that you're not doing a million
things right now and taking care of your million but
like she's busy. But come on the podcast, we have questions.
But yeah, the story here. Aaron can get into it
(14:08):
on the Big Show if she wants to. But until then,
ladies and gentlemen, the worst gift have ever gotten from
a significant other? No gift? Well, normally it's me buying
my own gifts in my past. You know, my bank
account was used for my own gifts losers, So I
think that would be the worst gift. And give me
my taperware back and the ring that I bought for myself,
(14:32):
La la la to go to dinner tonight. Hey, I
was driving today, inside joke, inside joke between you and I.
I think this was you and I or I dreamt
it you and I. Tea what that's a unity? I
A Long Way Around came on by the Dixie Chicks,
and I was remembering the one time we were like
(14:53):
the earl song, Yeah yeah right, yeah, yeah? Where was that?
Was a stage coach those black eyed peas. They taste
it all right to me. And now he's dead. Yeah,
I got I gotta remember how that goes, because that's
a good song for me right now, home home singing
(15:15):
in Montana. I'll sing it to myself while you're a
busy skiing and I'm in the lodge, Roger Lodge. Okay,
here we go. We're not going to get through this
very easily, all right, Jill raz check and again we
mess these all up all the time. I'm so sorry.
Do you feel pressure, as women in a male sport
to always show that you know as much as them? Yeah?
(15:36):
I think I still feel that way a little bit,
but not in an assertive Listen to me, I'm going
to ramble off all this information. I think that it's
we've talked about it before, but I think it's just
really important that we studied twice as hard and read
those extra articles or watch those extra shows, or do
certain things, or talk to the extra guys to figure
out if something comes up. Let's just say that since
(16:00):
you know of for me, it's a rundown of things
we're supposed to talk about, just that you're well versed
in everything. So yeah, I always feel that a little bit,
and I feel that way as a host, especially because
it's my job to make sure that if the guys
want to go a different direction, that I can follow
them there and make sure that the conversation's cohesive. So yeah,
I feel that I always want to know more information,
(16:22):
but not that I like the guys are testing me, like, oh,
let's see how much you know, like twenty years into
this thing. Like I would hope that they know that
I know something exactly, and our guys are our people, Like,
it's not like that for you or I in our
current situations. But I'm not going to lie to you.
After I do a sit down interview and I kind
of get some insight of what may or may not
be happening in a locker room, and then I come
(16:45):
to the production meeting and I'm like, m I think
this team's gonna lose, and they everybody's like, Nah, you're crazy.
And then fourth quarter, I'm oh, interesting, are we in break?
We are great? Can everybody hear me? Hey, guess who
predicted this one right? Right? Because you can take the
temperature of the guys. I feel like that too. Yeah,
(17:05):
I think that that's definitely a great point where you
don't know because it's not been written about or whatever,
and you're like interesting. So yeah, yes and no is
the answer to that question. You're aut girl. Uh yeah,
this has happened to me from s Rogie question for
the Boss Babes. Have you ever cried at work? And
how do you keep it all together when you are
(17:26):
just so overwhelmed and you want to jump into a
hole and hide. Before I was I was an intern. No,
I wasn't an intern. I was working kind of freelance
for an Orlando station and they wanted sound from the
Bucks locker room, and a particular player was so nasty
(17:48):
to me he physically turned his back away from me
in the middle of his scrum. He also told me
to go back, rehearse my question and come back when
I was ready. I was more. I was nineteen twenty
years old. I had practiced. I did slip up a
little bit. I like stumbled. He knew it, he knew
I was young I and so he started having tears
(18:10):
come down my face, and two players in particular, Derek
Brooks and John Lynch, saw it, pulled me over and said,
what do you need? Oh my god. Aaron then royalty.
That's incredible. I've never heard you tell that story. Wow,
Karma is the guy on the Chiefs. Wow, that is
really he's the GM of the forty nine ers helping me.
(18:34):
That's really great. Wow. I love that story. Mine's usually.
I mean, I don't have a specific one like that,
but I love that and I love those guys for that.
I'm really as tough as I try to act. Sometimes
I'm very emotional if I feel like I've disappointed anybody. Yeah,
so my bosses exactly coworkers. My tears come from feeling
(18:57):
like I've ever disappointed anyone that I respect. So I
try to keep it together so it's not in front
of them, but admittingly, I have cried a couple times
in front of bosses over the years, and it is
always met with support and understanding. There are times where
they give tough love, and I like that because that's
how I grew up and I appreciate that. But I
(19:19):
think that that idea where it's like you have to
be so strong and don't show weakness, vulnerability, to me
has always been a strength I think in people that
I like. I like people that show vulnerability. Now, look,
we can't be crying all the time getting together. There's
no crying in baseball, Like there's a time and a
place and if it really if you're overcome with emotion,
(19:41):
don't feel bad about it. But yeah, I think it's
just sort of a balance of the two. Like I
know people that are just always like crying and bitching
and you're like, what are we doing here? Lock it up?
And I think to add to that, we feel this
way about our bosses, which I've cried to them like
not like more than me twice, But it's because honestly,
(20:02):
the environment that we have at Fox is very much
a family. It's not bullshit when we say that, and
when they have allowed us to feel that way. Christy
and I have been literally at a group function in
Vegas on the president of Fox Sports' cell phone doing
Spotify because his phone could like it's so old. It
(20:23):
was awesome, And then a big boss called. We're like, whoa,
you may want to get this, but he like trusted
us enough, like we had such a great weekend and stuff.
So yeah, like when we kind of have to when
he pull us to pull us aside about something or
you know, kind of talk to us about something. Yeah,
you and I have called each other bawling because we
don't want to let him down because we care for
(20:44):
our bosses and our coworkers so much. I got a
miscall yesterday from one of my bosses since I have
a few, and I was like, you that feeling from Amazon,
oh sweetheart. But I immediately started panicking and I was like,
oh God, what's wrong? Oh God, oh God. And then
you lose feeling in your completely. And then I almost
called you and I was like, oh my god, I misscall.
And then I called him back. He's like, what's up?
(21:05):
Just checking in? Everything going, and I'm like, go checking in? No, No,
I was like, I almost said to him. I was like,
don't scare me like that. But he was awesome. I mean,
but again, just we feel very lucky. This is a
long winded answer, but it's to say this. I think,
depending on your relationship with your employer, they will allow
you the runway to be vulnerable as long as they
(21:26):
know that you care and you are hard working, and
you know, let's not keep making the same mistake seven
hundred times. And honestly, one more point and I'm sorry
we're going over to this, but if like, I know
you and I feel the same way about this too.
If it was something that involved a team or a player.
You and I are so emotional and invested in our
relationships with that we've talked about it. If there was
(21:47):
ever a situation and we felt so bad, Like I
had a situation where a certain player was coming up
behind me and I didn't know he thought I was
going to interview him, and we had to get off air.
It ruined my day for three straight days. I call him,
yeah a week and I was just like, literally, I
need you to know you're like one of my favorite players.
(22:08):
And I was doing that because we had to get
off air, not because they didn't want to talk to you.
But that's another time we would get emotional. But it's
because we love our job and we love what we
do so much. I could go on and on about this,
which we probably should on the Big Show because again
off season, but let's put let's put a wait for it,
put a pin in this. And I think it's a
good conversation with the idea of just in general workplace
(22:31):
sort of what am I trying to say here, just
navigating uncomfortable situations because we've got some questions before with
people being like if there's a mean girl in the workplace,
stuff like that. Yeah, so all right, Last, but not least, Anonymous,
how to tell an out of town friend they cannot
stay at your house. You can't stay at my house.
It's too crazy here. I got a leak, I got
(22:53):
a kid, I got a dog, I got a husband
who drives me nuts, and sometimes I have to send
him down to that guest room when he's coughing. Last night,
I stay here. For those that can't stay at Aaron's house,
you can come over to mine. I'm happy to host you. Okay, Anonymous, Yes,
(23:17):
it's been a minute. My fiance and I decide I
like to read anonymous with this kind of like my
fiance and I decided to have a small private ceremony
with a larger reception after Now people are upset they
weren't invited to this ceremony. How do you respond? You
don't Who wants to go to a ceremony? And I'm sorry,
(23:37):
I want to go to yours, Chris, No one wants
to go into yours. And it was hysterical. It was
a vowed about the guests that were in the audience.
It was really funny. They're so ridiculous. You know what, Actually,
I think this is a as someone that's had two
ceremonimonies and no one was invited, I think this is
a great way to show why those people shouldn't have
(24:00):
been at the ceremony to begin with. Like, if they're
going to get upset about that, then they're not good
enough friends. By the way, I would be thanking anyone
that was like, hey, yo, just show up for the party.
Let's get the promises this. I promise you. I will
not make you go to the nuptials, only the after party.
I see this with all due respect to all of
my friends and even yours. When I'm praying there's going
(24:22):
to be a wedding for you, I want that, but
I would rather cut to I would rather go pregame
while you're getting married and then see you at the post.
You know, I don't. Hey, I got here's the only
nuptials I will be doing. I don't stop it. I'm
never getting married again. I will have a party, though
(24:43):
we've talked about this. Yeah, we will have a party.
You pick the venue, tell me what day it is,
and I will show up. But I ain't doing any
of those other things. Third time is not the charm
ladies and gentlemen, you know, and I disagree. I'm going
to keep working on you and this, I promise you.
You and I have a better chance of getting married
before I get married again to Steve. God love it.
(25:05):
It has nothing to do with Steve. All right. We've
got Dennis Kovechy by the way. This should be a
game us figuring out his names. How to deal with
jealous insecure women? Who who's dating your platonic guy friend?
How to deal with jealous insecure woman who's dating your
platonic guy friend? Oh? Like the new girlfriend's jealous of you? Yeah? Wow?
(25:29):
And you're like good relationship? I honestly, how come I'm
not getting it? What do you mean? Who's jealous? So
your best guy friend, okakay is dating platonic guy friend.
She's insecure and jealous of your friendship? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you got to ditch that chick. You know what I
(25:49):
started doing? Playing it up? Of course you do late
night sending, not even what's up? It's me thinking about you.
I don't know. I feel like I'm trying to think
if I had a situation. Yeah, I mean, I think
that if if you're not secure enough with your boyfriend
(26:09):
to have girlfriends, that's a problem because I want Steve
to have girlfriends because I'm thinking to myself, Yeah, I'm
thinking myself, if you mean him late at night, seriously,
I'm jealous of you and you do. I think you
text Steve and call him more than me and you
don't answer me. I call him, where is she that son?
(26:31):
And I love that love. I think that that's a
fantastic relationship to have. Where your girlfriends? Actually, I'm going
to stay on track here because I could go on
a whole tangent about this, but as it pertains to this,
I want Steve to have girlfriends because if I don't
trust him to have a girlfriend, that he can't keep
his in the pants and like not want to just
jump every woman he sees, well, then we have a
(26:52):
bigger problem you should be able to have. Like if
I was, I don't go through his phone, but if
I ever wanted to, he would give it to me.
If I saw girls' names, my first thought is not like,
oh my god, he's having an affair. My first thought is, well,
I didn't know that Hillary worked for you, Like I wouldn't.
My first thought is not like I don't know, yeah,
to answer the question succincly, which is hard for me. Sometimes.
(27:14):
I think that's a huge I think that's a massive
red flag. And if it's a brand new relationship, then
talk to her and be like, hey, if you're going
to have an issue with this, then this isn't going
to work out because I'm not getting rid of my
friends or getting rid of anything just because you don't
like it, Like my lifelong friend, I'm going to have
to leave because you're insecure. No, I think it's hard
saying the word succincly. I yeah, I feel like at
(27:39):
first I'd be difficult to deal with, and then I
would have a flat out conversation with him and be like, listen,
she's got an issue with this, Like we're not even together.
I think you should talk to her, maybe you take
her out, but I'm just worry you and then I
are also people on the other side of this. Think
about how many men we talk to in our lives.
(28:00):
I would say it's ninety percent men in our phones.
As for all the guys that we work with or
whatever it is in our lives that we have the
majority of men, and if we had insecure significant others,
that would be a massive problem. So conversely, I think
you gotta either you got to nip that in the
But I'm also one in the bud or butt bud yeah,
b u d succinctly. I'm also one that, if you know,
(28:24):
prime example, I like to be friends with everybody within
the family. So like I'm on so many texts with
Kevin and Rachel Burkhardt and I'll text them Kara and
Greg Olsen, so I'll text them together. You know, I
like to add Jarrett to it. Maybe you start a
text chain with the three of you guys, or that's
the idea, so to show to her she's not really
(28:46):
missing out the jokes. Aren't that funny? You know what
I mean? I think that's a good idea, good advice.
H oh okay, strath monster, can we please talk about
what age you have to stop worrying about? Stop worry
about and acne at the same time. I don't know
what that means, but I stopped reading after acne, and
(29:06):
the answer is forever, if you're us forever, I had
from right here. Good thing? Is that a mole? No,
it's not a wal Cindy Crawford, it is it. Although
my face has gotten a lot great better because guess what,
I'm not picking as much and I'm just gonna say it.
I'm just gonna say it. I'm not getting as many facials.
And I love a facial. I know. I think that
(29:28):
facial just brings it all out. So I mean, don't
get a magnifying glass around this face. But right now,
if I'm not in there digging and I'm not in
there extracting everything, everything's just laying dormant. Again. If we
did a scan on layer four, it might not look good.
But I don't know. I think I've for the most part,
grown out of it. But I get like, yeah, I
(29:48):
get this jawline stuff a little bit here. There spare lactil. No,
you know, I'm the biggest proponent of the nantibiotic. When
it comes out, it's great. That is something a dermatologist
in Nashville for any of you that have had chronic
acne your whole life. Me, I finally went to a
different dermatologist in Nashville and she prescribes spirolactone and it
changed my life. I don't take it every day anymore.
(30:09):
Because I don't want to be on an antibiotic all
the time. But when I see it flaring up, I
go back into the old bottle and start taking some.
It probably has expired at this point, but I just
go back two years. You know, you got two years
in my It's definitely expired. I haven't lived in Nashville
in four so doctor's license, my doctor. Uh, you know
training I've done. I am taking a pill for hair,
(30:33):
not like neutrafil I'll say it. Yeah, and because I
just like, you know, we're giving our hair a break
and not styling it obviously as much as I do.
During this season, I have more hair on my face
than I've ever had in my life. I'm growing everywhere,
like hair just on my face. I just sit here
and pet her. You're like, I'm petty Cowie. Oh my god.
(30:59):
And then I hate getting the derma flash out because
that brings me out. So I'm here. You know what
I do, and you know where I'm going After this
podcast during the Linz, she's taking that box cutter straight
to this face and straight to this Now. Hey, look,
when you're a rancher and you come home, that's what
you get. Got these hands look cold. I'm a worker.
You know we have here? What are you gonna do?
(31:22):
What do we got here? Okay, Robin Lane, you little cutie,
probably not even your name. Sports reporter in mid twenties.
How do I put myself out there dating wise when
this job is a lot? Well, first of all, congratulations
for living out all of our dreams. Who were working
for We'll tell you everything? Yeah, exactly, we got all
the gossip offline anonymous. How do I put myself out
(31:45):
there with data? So I'll tell you this. Here's my
advice on this one. Don't be in a rush, because
I thought that being in a relationship really early on
professionally was going to be great for me because then
I wasn't distracted, and I had this you know, constant
at home. And I married the wrong person. Then later
in life I married the wrong person again. But I
think that give yours for me. If I had to
(32:08):
go back and do it again, I would not feel
like I just had to be with someone just to
be with someone. I would let it happen naturally and
date when it worked around my schedule because I was
making and continued to make at times my job more
of a priority. I'm trying to do a better job
of that now. I think we both are, but it
took at least until my late thirties to realize that.
(32:32):
And obviously, if you want a date and you want
to still have a personal life, I would just say,
make sure that you pick someone that is very secure,
going back to our previous conversation, and understands that your
job is really important because especially in your twenties. I mean,
think about what we were doing in our twenties with
our job, and they have to be open to traveling
and being able to leave on a whim and all
(32:53):
these kinds of things. So find a guy that is
open minded and secure and also be in a rush
in your twenties, right, but enjoy it too. I would
just date. I mean, I'll be honest and say I
didn't do a lot of it because I was doing
three hoops games a week, two football games a week,
two baseball games. I had a good time when I
(33:13):
did it, but I wish I had done it more.
I was literally married to the job in my twenties
because I had this thought process that if I did
as much as I could, then I wouldn't have to
work a lot in my forties. Okay, so yeah, you
brought up a good point. They have to be secure
in themselves with all the traveling you may have to
(33:34):
do for your job. You'll figure it out really quick
if they are or aren't, and just go have fun. Yeah,
it's not that serious. I would if I could do
it over. I was too. Yeah, I give off a
lot of bad signals. Apparently, did you do they come
back around and talk about them a round away girl? Yes? Somehow. Yeah.
Some have told me yep, yeah, bamboo era and I
(33:57):
was like, why did you? That's not what I was
saying or doing. Wow. But though I don't think those
people are very smart either, I also think that we've
tried to be too cool in so many situations. This
just in I am so far from being cool. It's wow.
The lighting were it right now? On you? Is fantastic?
Oh god, those people can either have a date on
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my rut. But I'm trying to be nicer to myself
as you and I had this discussion with somebody at
a dinner and I was thinking a lot about it.
But anyways, we'll give an update on the rut. I'm
okay for everyone, aroon is I do think my hormones
played a lot into it as well, but work also
affected that. Whoa any who anonymous, What would you do
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if your boyfriend's husband, Steve came anto you because they
aren't having bedroom time and he's not dead? Oh oh
my god, Jared, is this for me? I'm kidding, joking, joking,
that's not We're on his next chain. I would see
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him saying that to you. Oh that is awkward. Okay,
we need to go back to this that. There's a
lot of things that you can share with your girlfriend's
boyfriend or whatever, but like this to come on, not that.
And it's also a violation of like your friendship where
it's like, why are we talking about that? No, No,
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I don't need, no, we need you need to go
to her. That's just that's red flag. Yeah, because imagine
if it comes back and she's like, I can't do
the math today. Whoever it is confessed, it's like, oh,
so and so told me that, you know, we should
be having sex more or whatever. It's like, well, why
are you having those conversations with my boyfriend? Ew? Yeah, no,
(35:49):
that's weird that this husband husband that too, I mean, yeah,
best friend's husband you took a vow or you gave
a vow. What is it? He ow? You're not going
to that ceremony either, now you're not. Actually you're going
to the divorce proceedings as the witness, and you need
to be a witness protection program. After she finds out
that you've been talking to him that way. Enough is
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enough enough. I gotta tell you, the freaking questions have
been great, guys. Keep them coming because as you know,
for those of you longtime listeners first time callers, it
really induces a lot of conversation. And this first one
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is again our favorite anonymous. My sister named her friend
guardian over my nephew in an emergency. How do I
get over this? Well, this is similar to when my
sister didn't make me her maid of honor in her
first wedding, and then she made me made of honor
in her second wedding because the first wedding had to
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fallout with the maid of honor. Let's just say she
was made of dishonor. He he And so my sister
and her second wedding was like, oh, you could be
my maid of honor. Now I'm like, oh, by default?
Why because the last one was a disaster. No thanks,
I almost didn't want to go to the wedding. I
was like, you should have seen me. I was she
listened to this podcast. Hi Jen, if you're listening, she knows.
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I'll tell you what she was listening for. Was my
reception speech. You thought this wedding was good, you should
have seen her first one. At that point, my mom
went like this to me, that's enough. How long was
the speech in my head? It was thirty seconds. Apparently
it went on for three minutes. This is after I
fell on my way up to make the speech and
grabbed the microphone and said score from the Russian judge
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ten It was there's there's a common theme with you
at weddings. You also ate shit at my wedding too.
My dad said, he was just one of the most
unbelievable moments ever. On the dance wedding goes there's Chrissa
coming around, white soup. You were busy changing into your
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seventh jumper, which was amazing. I was looking for a
blanket for Larry and all I wanted to do was dance. Okay,
I missed the shot skis and I was upset. So anyways,
Anonymous back to your original question. Sorry, my sister named
her friend guardian over my nephew in an emergency. How
do I get over this? I don't know. I mean
imagine Kendra, I don't know. I don't know how you
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would handle that. You have a child, so I've heard. Yeah,
I that's hard because even with the will situation, and
maybe this is something for the big show, it's kind
of like we have multiple options, like for right now,
if we die, who gets him? If we die later
down the road, like it's like a whole like a conversation. Yeah,
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you get wasted safe from the show. Okay, I don't know.
Am I falling between the sixth and twenty four months
or my twenty four months to I don't know. And
by the way, why would you twenty four months? Just
say two years? What We've got to stop the month's
thing after one year? Don't tell me the kids eighteen
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months now, I'm like twelve. I was busy. Oh I
can't even doe math for my football games. I can't
do that. I don't worry. I wont be able to
do that. Wait, they kick to field gold. That's okay, okay,
all right, Ali bo seven Ali Bones I don't know
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if this is sexual or what it is. EA, are
you getting any other tats or staying with just this?
For those of who that don't know, Aaron has one
tattoo and it says this, I still don't know what
it's about. I don't either, I in fact don't remember
getting it. You know what. I'm not in any hurry,
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but I would like to bring something up that I
would like to do. You just get one that says
that this and that I want you to get that
one with me. Put it right in here. I imagine tattoos.
What's that this? And that? I would like to bring
something up, something I would like to get done. Next.
(40:10):
I'm gonna talk about something on the Big Show. This
is a tease. I did something to my face and
you're gonna be like, you're so stupid. It's not that
big of a deal. But anything, I'm such a square
that anything I do is kind of like WHOA for me.
I get nervous. So the next thing, and we'll talk
about that on the Big Show. But the next thing
I would like to do where I feel a little dangerous,
(40:31):
to get a second hole in my ear where I
feel a little dangerous. This girl has had let's see,
we're gonna be. I'm not even gonna say our age.
We're gonna be and you're not double pierced your ears never.
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I mean, do you want to go to Claire's. I'll
drive back. And you didn't go to Claire's with you?
Right now, I want of these fun earrings that Jillian
has the hanging down on. Yeah, so low only have
one hole. Yeah, you're next hole in my head? Oh shit,
we're next. Sorry I got sidetracked there. Lisa van Derveer
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ever laughed during a massage or feel awkward? Yeah, I
also strike up a conversation with the massuse. I'm like, so,
how's your day going? And then they're like, oh good,
You're like my third massage, like don't your hands get tired?
And they're like yeah, And I'm like, well, what was
your last massage? And so now I'm having a full
on conversation with this person. I had one massage therapist.
(41:35):
I don't really feel like we need to say massage therapists,
but whatever, messus have a coughing fit and you would
have hated this. You would have walked out in two seconds.
You would have said, whoa my god, are you. I
was like, I felt so bad. You know, when the
cough is coming on, and it's like there was like
the tickle and the throat. So she's like and then
(41:58):
I'm like, I'm like, oh, here we go. She's like,
now she's trying to suppress it. Well, this isn't good.
So now she's almost like choking herself because she's trying
not to cough. I finally go, don't even worry about it.
She's like, thanks. She walks out of the room. Poor
woman walks back in. She's like, I am so sorry.
I'm just getting over bronchitis. Well, I don't know if
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we should be back at work. Okay, I don't know
if this is the time you got a mask back
that you got to like log the hours and the
whole thing. What I wanted to say was I'm just
going to give you the tip and skidada out of here.
But then I fell bad because I know she felt bad,
so I just stayed there. So to answer your question, Lisa,
I haven't ever laughed in a massage, but I get
really invested in the individual that's giving me the massage,
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and the therapist has had an episode. But I would
definitely not ask for the scout massage after that part.
But I was gonna say, you know how back in
the day, whoa, the light's better when we were all
flying during COVID, And when's the best time to take
a plane ride? When's it not? You know you or
they just say, you know, sometimes the plane is cleaner
(43:01):
in the morning versus like mid afternoon a plane gets dingier.
When do you think the best time is to book
a massage therapist? Because, like you said, that could have
been her fourth of the day. I can speak and
her fingers are tired, right, I think you want to
be second. I think you wanted to warm up mormage
one and then you want to get in on the
second one. Have you owned Jared ever had couples massages?
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Like in the same room. We've talked about this. I
think they're so stupid. Oh yeah, I can't remember if
we talked about it. I think I'm not into it either, No,
because it's like, are the massage therapists thinking you want
to have a sensuous experience together? Like I don't want
to be talking to him during it. I want time
to known out, you know, you know what I don't need.
I don't need the bathtub in the couple's massage area.
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Who are the people I need to know? Who are
the people, like, hey, let's just hop in there together, Like, no,
we're not taking a bath? And who are the people
that dig baths in hotel rooms? I was just going
to ask you this. No, I know I can't fit
any of them anyways, I'm too Gode. I just need
to know who are you? And like are we cleaning
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it before? Like you get in and like, is that
the only time you can take a bath? So you
have to take it at the hotel? Why you're gonna
use all your clorox wipes from the plane to clean
the bathtub? No? Oh, I don't want to see the
film on there, all right, Dario Gonzalez, What should I
do if I give more than I receive in a relationship?
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Tell them be honest, say I'm giving too much of myself.
What are you doing for me? In what way? Do
you mean? Yeah? Well, I think I mean, I don't know.
I'm all about communication. I did this the other day.
I told you about this, Steve. I don't normally do
Steve's laundry, and you're an adult man, like you can
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do your own laundry. It's not like we have children,
so like I'm busy doing like you could just just
do your own laundry. Like there's some plenty of things
that I'll do around the house for you, but like
laundry isn't one of them. I also feel like it's
like I don't want to see your laundry. You need
to see mine, Like just separation there sure, church and state,
church and state. Yeah, but here at the ranch, like
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I don't know, for whatever reason, I feel more domesticated.
So I'm roughing it. I'm roughing it. Yeah, I'll do
your laundry when I'm here. I had done his laundry
for I'm not getting like weeks at a time. This
fool never said thank you, not one time, every time
I like put the clothes away whatever. So I was
like okay, and I had had enough, and I was like,
no acknowledgment of doing the laundry just and kept calling it, Oh,
(45:31):
look at clean. He'd called it clean clothes mountain clean
clothes mountains getting bigger and bigger, and I'm like still
with no thank you or no gratitude of like, oh,
the clothes are just stacking up, but like you're not
recognizing that, like you because I washed a lot of
clothes here, Like there's no like go out and then
wear those clothes tomorrow, like you're washing them immediately. So
(45:52):
I said, fuck it. I took all of his dirty
clothes one day. I threw him all over the bathroom
floor upstairs. We were leaving the next day, and so
I go back upstairs. I see all the clothes still
on the floor. I go, you didn't want to pick
those up? He goes, Oh, I didn't know if you
were doing something with those Oh, you didn't know if
I was doing something with your dirty clothes. No, I
was trying to make a statement that I've washed your
clothes for the last three weeks and you have not
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said thank you one time. And he's like, oh, so, Dario,
to answer your question. If you this seems to be
the theme today. If you are feeling like you're not
getting the recognition for what it is that you're doing,
make a statement like that and see if they notice.
Did he ever thank you? Yeah? He goes, oh, I'm
so sorry, Yeah, thank you. But I'm like, well, what
the hell took so long? Exactly sevena what did you
(46:36):
You're just your shit's all over the floor and you're
just gonna leave it so you know what that you
know what that brings up for the big show? The
old leave it on the stairs and do you bring
it up? Have we talked about that? We yet? In
in my b andrews uh huh yea yeah, we're going
to talk about it on the big show. I have
a whole thing with that wing. You had to walk
over the item to go up the stairs and you
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couldn't just pick it up. Is that it to be
nail them all? Oh? No? Anonymous separate checking account Okay,
after married, I need my own spending money. Girl. God
whoever the answer is, I believe in separate checking accounts
when married, because they're going to try to take it anyways. No,
I'm yes, I see. I'm a big believer in separate
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checking accounts for a couple different reasons. If I want
to buy you a birthday present, I don't want it
to come out of the joint checking. And then you're like,
oh my god, why did you spend all that money?
Which I agree going to because I'm a very generous
gift giver. No, I wanted to come. I want it
to be my own money that comes, and I don't
want you to question what I'm spending money on. I agree.
I don't want to see what that bell Air membership
costs now. I don't want to see what it costs
(47:42):
to play there on a day with the fellas. I
don't want to know. And I don't want you to
see what my day was like, you know with the gals.
Were those gals? I don't know, but I don't want
you to see it. You don't want to see the
tattoo parlor. No, nothing, not even no letters for it.
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