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October 19, 2023 58 mins

Dr. Sadie created GoLove CBD Naturals in 2019 and introduced the first water-based, sexual health CBD intimate serum designed to ease discomfort and relax the body while heightening arousal and pleasure. Dosing 2mg of therapeutic CBD per pump, GoLove is the most potent and effective serum. Golovecbd.com & www.ticklekitty.com get 20% off with code "CANNABISTALK101" 

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zero two. Now today on the show, you guys, this
is great. First off, I've never seen this many dudes
watch one of our shows. Yeah, I'd right, So, I
mean we have a bunch of dudes watching because today

(01:40):
on the show, we have the brilliant mind behind an
entity that is helping couples nationwide get their freak one
with the central magic of cannabis.

Speaker 3 (01:49):
You guys.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Joining us now is doctor Sadie Ellison, the founder and
CEO of Go Love CBD Naturals, a company that produces
a water based body safe CBDCM that heightens pleasure and
satisfaction while reducing sexual anxiety and discomfort. In the bedroom
are the back seat if you're like Daniel and Erica

(02:10):
in our building who like to get.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
Franky in the back seat over there.

Speaker 4 (02:13):
But as a leading authority, you guys on human sexuality
for over two decades, Doctor Sadie Allison's mission is to
empower people and to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their
sexuality through education, inspiration and honest straight talk advice. I've
known doctor Sadie for a couple of decades, Folks. She's
a straight shooter and is a sexual wellness entrepreneur, sexual educator,

(02:38):
and best selling author, also known as America's Pleasure Coach,
which I like. In two thousand and one, she founded
Tickle Kitty Press, the self published six award winning sex
technique books, including Tickle His Pickle, which I like. The
titles listen to this next one, Blue Right Them, Cowgirl.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
Olla, Yeah, Tickle Your.

Speaker 4 (03:00):
Fancy which is always nice, Tickle My Tush and Toy
Gasms Now, and the Mystery of Undercover Clitterists, each one
a coveted Ippy Best Selling Book award and together sold
over two million copies. She is also the creator of

(03:20):
the popular Slippery Kitty pleasure lube and runs the luxury
sex toy boutique Ticklekitty dot Com, which if you haven't
seen Ticklekitty dot Com right here, Blue, I mean, look
at these toys that they have on there. There are
so many things. And we have boxes to give out
for you and I as you'll see after the show,

(03:41):
and we have some displayed here and we'll talk about
all that as well as Doctor Sadie's no newest venture
was founded the Go Love CBD Naturals. She started this
in twenty nineteen and introduced the first water based sexual
health CBD intimate serum designed to ease discomfort and relax
body while heightening arousal and pleasure. Do seeing two milligrams

(04:05):
of therapeutic CBD per pump, Go Love is the most
potent and effective serum out there on the market, folks.
Doctor Sadie is a frequent TV and radio guest. She
is quoted regularly in Cosmopolitan, Women's Health, huff posts, and Healthline,
and has given powerful TEDx talks, you guys, so you

(04:26):
know you can find her on the biggest platforms. She
holds a degree in French Bonjo and a doctorate and
Human sexuality and as a member of the American Association
of Sex Educators, She's a counselor with aa SECT and
an International Pelvic Pain Society IPPs. Make sure you check

(04:47):
out her website, you guys, glove go excuse me, go
LOVECBD dot com or follow them online on ig at
go Love CBD for more information. Of course, you can
also see her personal stuff at doctor Sadie Ellison and
the Tickle Kitty sites as well. Without further ado, that
intro was well deserved, by the way, let's give.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
It up my home real dogs.

Speaker 5 (05:12):
Thank you so much. That was so sweet.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
You didn't even say she was hot as hell too.

Speaker 4 (05:16):
I mean I did not have to say that, because,
like I say, we go so far back. I just
want to show blew the picture real quick and everybody
listening how far back I really go with this young
lady right here, We go back for a the doghouse
when she was there, but I was at least three
plus bills when she was still the same, tiny, little
Sadie doing her thing with us, with me and Big

(05:39):
Boy and Fuzzy in that picture at Power one o six.
But I mean, it's such a fun thing and to
think we want to think, what is it?

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Will Max who hooked us up right now?

Speaker 5 (05:48):
Nick Mick, Nick McKnight, Mick.

Speaker 4 (05:50):
McKnight, Mick McKnight and I used to party so hard
back in the day at the Sound Factory and the
End Up and all these San Francisco clubs. And He's like,
Joe's doing this cannabis show. Doctor Sadie, you gotta get on.
And we started talking a while back, and I'm so
happy we did, because what you're doing now, doctor Sanday,
and what you're doing that is is just wow.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Look at that.

Speaker 4 (06:11):
I mean, little babies, we were so young.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
That was like two thousand and three probably wow, long
time ago. Yeah, that's twenty years ago.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Jo, it was like forty fifty then. I mean at
least but there in that picture, amazing. Imagine imagine what
a little bit of weight we'll do. And as funny as.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
I look at that picture, I go that that was
a big, strong, tough guy. And now I'm like, oh god,
I feel so wimpy.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
So good.

Speaker 5 (06:35):
You got better with age, honey, baby, Yeah, I have
two young lady as we both have exactly maybe we're
going to hang out later.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
I'll tell you right now.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
And I got to give it up too for doctor
Sadie's assistant today, Sianna is I'll just call you you
the assistant assistant or do you want to tell her
who she is?

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Sienna Alexandra is my daughter. I'm so proud of. Yeah,
and she is my official roadie now and helps me
out and she's my sounding board, and she is an
up and coming singer and she can she can belt
some songs and she even has a Spotify station. Go ahead,

(07:16):
am Sienna.

Speaker 6 (07:17):
And I actually recently sang the national anthem at the
Giants Oracle Stadium for a high school game. That was
really exciting and fun. And I also bust on the
streets of San Francisco and make a lot of tips.
And I'm also actually verified artist on Spotify and all

(07:38):
streaming platforms. I have one cover and one original song,
so check it out at Siena Alexandra.

Speaker 5 (07:51):
So proud of her.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
A little bit. She had the San Francisco coldness going down.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
I already tried to prep her. We're gonna have to
have her comeast next time she comes back when it's
good to have you here.

Speaker 3 (08:05):
So, I mean, you've been doing this though for such a.

Speaker 4 (08:08):
Long time, Dr Alis, and I really want to start
with like what got you into this? I mean, you've
been in this sex health game since we first met
in the doghouse days in San Francisco, then coming to
Los Angeles and there, what literally led you to get
involved in this field?

Speaker 5 (08:24):
Yeah. So when I was in high school, I used
to give sex advice to friends, the guys and girls.
I was that outspoken girl that would talk about sex
out loud and had no shame around it. And I
learned that my girlfriends weren't having orgasms. And I was
at the time. I grew up in the seventies in
San Francisco, so sex was was not frowned upon in

(08:45):
my home. So I was open. I was having fun,
I was having a good time. And when I learned
that my girlfriends weren't having orgasms, I was like, oh
my gosh, you've been dating this guy for years and
you haven't had one yet. Well let me tell you how,
I said, Do you master me? You can give yourself
an orgasm right, And most of them said no, They've
never had an orgasm. So I so wanted to share
the gift of pleasure that I taught hundreds thousands of

(09:08):
women throughout the last twenty three years how to have
an orgasm. I was even nicknamed little Doctor Ruth in
high school way back then. So fast forward, I had
taught so many people how to have an orgasm just
by telling them about their glitteris about lubrication, different ways
to experiment and touch yourself. That I said, Wow, if
I can reach more women, I know people need this information,

(09:32):
I should write a pamphlet or something and I can
give it away for fun. So that idea evolved. I
ended up writing a book about female self pleasure called
Tickle Your Fancy. It's my very first one. It's right
up here, gotcha. And then it went from there and
I ended up writing six books. One of the ones
that men thank me for all the time is called
Tickle his Pickle. Because where do you ever really learn

(09:53):
how to have good sex? I don't teach you that
in school, and you can learn a few things important,
but that's not the best teacher. Well, I've took it
upon myself to become a sex educator, and I thought
that I was giving the best gift by teaching people
how to have pleasure, how to give and receive it.
But really the gift of giving came back to me
where I felt so fulfilled by teaching people how to

(10:17):
have this pleasure that they didn't have before. It just
feeled me and kept me going. So it's been twenty
three years now, two million books later as a self publisher.

Speaker 3 (10:26):
And congratulations on that. That's a lot of books.

Speaker 5 (10:29):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (10:30):
That's a lot of books.

Speaker 5 (10:31):
How you hear that, it's a lot of orgasms.

Speaker 4 (10:36):
And it's crazy because sex is one of those things
that should be easily talked about, like what color shoes
do you wear? Well, that's a pretty dress you're wearing
in my opinion as well, but a lot of people
don't feel that way.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
And even as we've had.

Speaker 4 (10:51):
You on before and we've always made the side jokes
and this and that when you come on the shows,
but it's always something that we've enjoyed being able to do.
And I love when I have you on and been
on with you because it's something that men and women
should be able to speak to with one another, especially
if you're intimate with one another, but it's kind of
been taboo and frowned upon.

Speaker 5 (11:10):
That's right. I mean, it's such an important part of life.
You know, you've got you've got health, you have exercise, music,
things like that, but sexuality and the connection you have
with your partner is absolutely one of the top tiers.
And you absolutely have to communicate about it because how
else are you going to know? And it's sad because
so many people were raised with shame. So whether that's

(11:31):
from your parents' influence, society, religious religion, your own personal
hang ups. So people, young kids grow up with that
and then they become adults and they have those hang ups.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
I want to say something too, because I think you know,
it's it's very similar to cannabis, right, very I mean
it's yet it's medicinal, right. And two is I think
that especially for women, you know, because it's like a
trophy for a man having sex, but for women sometimes
it's talked about as.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
Oh this or she's that.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Yeah, there's there's so I could fully relate to that
as an adult.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
As a kid, maybe you don't know. So who's gonna
teach you? Right?

Speaker 4 (12:09):
Doctor saying thank you and now, who's gonna even teach
us men too? I mean there's that too. We just think, oh,
I know, yeah, I know what to do.

Speaker 3 (12:18):
I mean, it's always good. That's why I've loved since.

Speaker 4 (12:22):
And for me too, it was more like, you know,
I had experiences younger, but then as I got into radio,
I got the chance to speak to people like you
and get a really admiration for learning about the clatorus
and the clitters.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
Aware that and.

Speaker 4 (12:34):
How you touch it, how you pull up and is
it well it's right here, like if you're coming in,
you pull up inside and up.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
There and it's like it's right under the cit.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Yeah, please touch it right for you.

Speaker 4 (12:47):
So and then doctor said, he what made you create
this go Love CBD Intimate Serum.

Speaker 5 (12:52):
So I was in the sex sex education, sexual health
and wellness and selling sex toys and pleasure and right
around when cannabis became legalized in California and then CBD
started to pop a lot pop the twenty eighteen something.
Around there, I was speaking with so many women about
the pain they have during sex. And actually three and

(13:13):
four women will have sexual pain at some point in
their lives, and that's from conditions like endometriosis, vaginismus, postpartum
pelvic spasms. There's a lot of conditions women have and
it's just not talked about. So in speaking with these
women and then learning about CBD and the therapeutic benefits
of anti inflammatory and anti anxiety, I was like, Wow,

(13:34):
this could really help women if there were products for
sex for women with sexual pain. So then I started researching.
I showed up in some cannabis trade shows and I
was like, gosh, there needs to be a water based,
high quality with body safe ingredients, lubricant or serum for
women with CBD to address this issue. And I said

(13:55):
someone needs to make that. I don't see it out here,
like that needs to happen sure. At the same time,
I was thinking about what was next for me as
doctor Sadie, because I'd done the books and helping with
pleasure for so long. I said, what can I do
next that builds on top of my platform and that
I can continue to help people. And that's when the
idea to make a CBD intimate serum came about. And

(14:17):
I worked with a PhD formulation scientists for two years
to put it all together.

Speaker 4 (14:22):
And what did that come with? I mean, what did
you guys look at? What did he look at?

Speaker 3 (14:26):
How did my gosh?

Speaker 5 (14:27):
We went through several iterations. We scrutinized every ingredient because
so many women have sensitivities in their volvas. I wanted
to make sure that I had the least amount of
ingredients ingredients possible and the most body safe for women
who have sensitivity. So we looked at all the different ingredients,
made sure that there was no coloring or flavoring or

(14:51):
no glycol, no blistering, no paramount, all the things that
have been known to irritate a lot of women. And
so I made sure that the face of water was
super clean with high grade CBD is of it.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
You know?

Speaker 3 (15:02):
Did I sit right there too? You know?

Speaker 5 (15:04):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (15:04):
You know, doctor you you had mentioned three things, I
think two or three things that women the reason why
they have vain pain. U can you let us know
what those three things are because you said them in
your language, but we would never know what they were.
After this break, it's Canada Talk one on one.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
We'll be right back.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
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Speaker 3 (15:55):
Saying us that book man, Thank you so much. That
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Speaker 4 (16:01):
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over there half baked or baked?

Speaker 3 (16:06):
What's it cloth again? Half? What's the parts on bank?
Parts of baked? Thank you very much? There we go,
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Of baked brand.

Speaker 2 (16:18):
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Speaker 3 (16:24):
You can go ahead and dow that.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
And you need to call somebody and discreetly discuss any
of your mental health with shoes.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
That's fact for you guys. Doctor Sadie Allison is in
the building, the founder and CEO of Go Love CBD Naturals,
also tickle Kiddy dot com, so if you want to
order some love products and everything else, you can go
check that out. But before we went to break blue,
mention something that you share that three and four women
will experience sexual pain that's caused during sex or just

(16:54):
in general. And you mentioned those pain problems. What are
those and elaborate on those for us men who have
no clue what those are.

Speaker 5 (17:03):
First of all, women of middle age, when they hit
perimenopause or become menopausal, our estrogen drops. We have mormonal changes,
and that affects how much natural lubrication our body produces.
So many many women become dry, and it's called vaginal
dryness that hurts when you when you have sex or
prevents women even from having sex. So there's that, and

(17:26):
every woman approach gets into this. I'm in my fifties,
so I can tell you don't look.

Speaker 4 (17:34):
I mean, I'm hitting on you all day every day.

Speaker 5 (17:40):
So so that's so that's a very very common issue.
I mentioned the endometriosis, so that's a physical condition that
a lot of women get. One in ten women have
this as well as something called vaginismus, where you have
pelvic floor muscle spasms. So basically, there's many different medical

(18:01):
conditions women have that cause pain and makes it so
they can't even have sex sometimes or even put a
tampon inside.

Speaker 3 (18:08):
Oh wow.

Speaker 5 (18:08):
Yeah. So what happens when you have some of these
pain conditions is it causes inflammation in your body. So
just like you might hurt your knee and you have
an inflame knee, you have your pelvic floor muscle, which
is your orgasm muscle in your growin area. Men and
women have this and it becomes inflamed with pain. So
by putting the CBD into my Go Love serum, women

(18:28):
can apply it. It helps reduce the pain, it helps
reduce the inflammation, and even lowers anxiety, so they're often
able to have sex again with their husbands.

Speaker 4 (18:37):
Is this something that women should be using just you know,
wake up in the morning, go to the restroom, go
to work, put a little bit.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
Onolutely masturbation works well, and some women are using it
just as a daily moisturizer.

Speaker 3 (18:48):
That's just put it in there.

Speaker 5 (18:50):
I suggest use it three times a day in the morning.
Just like you put lotion on your body, or you
put lotion on your face, put lotion on your vaginal
skin too. Especially if you have discomfort during the day.

Speaker 4 (18:59):
I'm not trying to be silly right now, but would
this be good too for anybody for the asks as well,
like for the rectum and just keeping it moist and
keeping it you know, being cbdd up.

Speaker 5 (19:09):
Absolutely right.

Speaker 4 (19:10):
I mean, you don't have to have sex in your butt,
but just to just loosen it up. Like sometimes people
get a rash or something else, and it could be
good for that.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
I'm amazining.

Speaker 5 (19:17):
Yeah, any rash is good for CBD, just like you
have it in balms or lotions. This for any of
your your personal private parts. You can use it for
the anti inflammatory purposes.

Speaker 4 (19:27):
And let's feel this because if I'm not mistaken, Blue,
you ready for this? She says, this feels like the
inside of a pussy.

Speaker 5 (19:36):
Those weren't my exact words, but that's.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
How I mean. That's well, no, she.

Speaker 5 (19:43):
Said, I that's not That's not how I usually say it,
but he did paraphrase me perfectly. Okay, I'm sorry, we're friends.

Speaker 4 (19:55):
I know, like, allright, feel that blue, And and it's
lickable too, so you know you can lick it for real.

Speaker 3 (20:03):
So as you're sitting there, have.

Speaker 5 (20:05):
You put it on your on your fingertips.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
Oh my goodness, I don't even think I could last
with that.

Speaker 5 (20:11):
Oh, here we go.

Speaker 4 (20:12):
It's so nice and warmy and good like, yeah, let's
rub each other.

Speaker 3 (20:19):
That's nice.

Speaker 5 (20:20):
Gosh, he's masturbating his fingers.

Speaker 3 (20:30):
That was such a good rub. You know what's funny
is that as again, so many people let me share.

Speaker 5 (20:35):
Fix your Gary? Where's my Gary? He was so sweet
helping me set all this up.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
You know, it's such a good you know, I'll tell
you that, you know, it's it's it's interesting because so
many people are afraid to talk about sex and and
there you know, and I and I I want to
think like men are afraid to talk about health because
if they're sick, instead of just saying, hey, I'm sick
and then you goes doctor, what I feel this way
that they just want to hold it in and go
I'm gonna get better, you know, you know, and I

(20:59):
think menner are very afraid to talk about sex because
you know, how many times do people actually sit with
their spouse and just go, hey, like, how can I
have a better sex life with you?

Speaker 3 (21:09):
Right? And maybe we should look into this?

Speaker 2 (21:11):
And so I have a question, you know what would
you suggest for you know, teenage boys in eighteen nineteen
and you know, somewhere like that tip for them? Because
I got some eighteen and twenty year olds that I
would like to you know, educate them so that they
can experience you know, better sex lives and and and
I think also have a more responsible sex life, right,

(21:32):
you know, because something that we don't really talk about.
I mean, you know, I'll always strap it before you
tap it. Yeah, no, I mean we talk about it.
That we've talked about it, but it's you know, it's
probably more in a joking like manner, like you know,
you haven't obviously you're having sex, you know, but there's
no real conversation. And I think it's just been lost. Right,
So is there a way that we can help?

Speaker 3 (21:53):
How do you recommend that? Juniorrself that you brought that up?
Men and women?

Speaker 5 (21:57):
I was just speaking about this with someone and you're
right on poem. And I also because of what I do,
I speak, I speak to guys and I help them
kind of come away from because when guys talk about sex,
it's a little chatty, little cocky, it's a little like egos. Yeah, yeah,
really it's about hey, do you give your woman orgasms?
Do you know what she likes? Do you know what

(22:18):
arouses her best, and what gets her turned on mentally,
which creates which creates the natural lubrication flow.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
Because I think men think it's all about poundtown pound yeah,
you know, and it's not you know, And and I
think you only have to have sex with enough people
to find that out, right, because there takes a lot
of time.

Speaker 3 (22:36):
I think.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
Again, it's just one of.

Speaker 5 (22:39):
The first things I always recommend is don't let porn
be your teacher. Yeah, everybody's watching porn. It has its place,
it's fine. But when guys watch porn so much, young
young men, and then they take that to the bedroom
and they think that's how you're supposed to have sex. Yeah,
then the girls aren't enjoying themselves and they leave the
room saying, gosh, well that's what sex is. Like I

(22:59):
guess I don't like sex. Yeah, And so it's just
like it's the spiral that gets bigger and bigger. So
I encourage young men to take a step back and go, wow,
you know, I want to be a good lover, because
when you're a good lover, you get it back tenfold, right,
so guys want sex, they want more sex. They're always
asking like how do I get my wife to have
more sex with me? Or how do I get this girl?
It's like, well, well, what are you doing for her

(23:20):
that makes her want to have sex with you? Sure,
So it's a real simple equation. Learn how to please
your woman. Access that. There's so many materials out There's
online courses, there's videos, there's books like mine. That knowledge
is out there now, social media, on TikTok, you can
get it anywhere. So take the initiative to be what
I call is a generous lover eating a generous lover.

Speaker 3 (23:41):
I thank you for that.

Speaker 2 (23:42):
I think one of the things that you know it
confuses men though, is because you know, one out of
three girls that you might sleep with will tell you
slap my hass, pull my hair, you know, So they
do want that. Some of them really enjoy that. And
then you might choke me, choke me, you know, and
then and.

Speaker 4 (24:03):
Then then it's like you can't go chook the next.

Speaker 3 (24:09):
Don't ever do that again. And you're like, well the
last one loved that, you know.

Speaker 5 (24:13):
Well that's a good point. Every lower, every lever you
have is different. So what one in the past, like
or what please her? It is going to be completely
different for the next You got to start from square one,
and that's where communication comes in.

Speaker 4 (24:25):
Well, and and might as well smoke a joint and
then use some CBD to you know, relax.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
Yeah, I think too is again. And sometimes you know,
you're too soft on a woman. And and then they
they they don't like.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
It because they're like, oh, this guy's just too They
don't want to say it to you. He's too cute,
he's sweet. You know, it's not it's not so you.

Speaker 4 (24:47):
Know, I want him to go harder. Yeah, and then
then they say behind your back and they don't tell you.

Speaker 3 (24:52):
Maybe sure, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (24:53):
It depends on the woman. You'd be surprised how many
women I talked to this saying, Wow, this guy actually
took his time with me. He didn't even put it
inside until I had two orgasms. I was so aroused.
We went all night long and he asked me what
I liked. He tried different things.

Speaker 3 (25:08):
That communication is. Yes, communication is care.

Speaker 4 (25:11):
So sometimes it's so hard to do that because people
are just so nervous. The anxiety. And something that's great
about this, This helps lower the anxiety in the bedroom
as well, Right, that's.

Speaker 5 (25:20):
Right for men and women. So when it comes to
performance anxiety, women and men have it. So women get
insecure about Gosh, am I gonna have an orgasm this time?
Or oh, I'm gonna give him a blowjob, but I
don't know if I'm that good? And is he gonna
like it? And what's he gonna say? Things like that.
Men also have a lot of anxiety in the bedroom,
whether it be thinking about his penis size or am

(25:42):
I gonna be able to make her come this time?

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Sure?

Speaker 5 (25:44):
Or what does she think about me?

Speaker 3 (25:45):
Or I'm gonna come too fast?

Speaker 5 (25:47):
Yeah, premature ejaculation?

Speaker 3 (25:48):
Did you come? You know?

Speaker 6 (25:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (25:50):
I don't know. Is she faking it? So that's why
seeing CBD in an intimate serum and it's applied, localized
right where you need it, it actually helps people calm down.
You know. I read a study that said one in
seven women like to have a drink before they have
sex because it helps them to relax to be able
to do it. One in ten women say they can't

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even have sex with their significant others unless they drink.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
So a lot of people it's no surprise that people
are switching over to CBD because it's a natural plant
medicine that can help you in the same way to relax,
become present and in the moment, so you can actually
enjoy your sex life again.

Speaker 4 (26:28):
Right, And you just said serum. What's the difference between
the serum and the lube?

Speaker 5 (26:33):
Okay, So a serum is typically more potent. So the
active ingredient in a product, which is CBD in this case,
is more potent. And that's why in my product is
a serum used for intimacy because I wanted it to
be effective. There's other products that have such little CBD.
It's more for the novelty of saying they're CBD, but
not enough to really experience the therapeutic benefits. So what

(26:57):
I did when I created Go Love is I wanted
to have another CBD in each pump, so we reverse
we reversed backwards so that you know you're getting two
milligrams of CBD per pump so you can dose it. Yeah,
And that's why I chose the packaging of the glass
bottle with the dosing pump, so you can actually know
how much you're getting, unlike other products that are sprays

(27:17):
or in tubes. You don't know how much. You can't
dose it.

Speaker 3 (27:20):
So by the way, it looks really really quality and
and and to tell you the truth, it felt really
really just natural. Well no, I mean, how did you
choose this great packaging like this?

Speaker 4 (27:31):
Because you're right, not only does it look great, it
feels phenomenal. And the best part about this, as you
could you will test to when I say this, there's
no sticky feelings. It's fine, like there's a there's a
little texture on my like but like lotion, it's not
like just like I used to use other stuff off Like.

Speaker 3 (27:48):
Guy, I want to wipe my hand the whole.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
Area, rub it.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
Yeah it stinks. Yeah, there's no smell.

Speaker 5 (27:55):
Yeah, it's natural.

Speaker 3 (27:57):
No, I I I've already I tasted it.

Speaker 5 (27:59):
That was all part of the man of the development process.

Speaker 3 (28:09):
Butterfinger.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
Yeah, so you know, I I honestly like I think again,
it's it's good to have open relationships. And one of
the things that I always talk about, you know, from
in my home it was cannabis with my kids. And
the reason I did that was because I didn't want
little Johnny on the block teaching my kid how to
smoke weed.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
You know, or or or what drugs were or what
alcohol was.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
Right, I thought, if I, you know, if I don't
tell them, Johnny on the Block will And I think that's.

Speaker 3 (28:40):
The same with sex.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
I mean, if if you don't teach your child about sex,
they're going to learn themselves.

Speaker 5 (28:45):
Right or from their friends or porn, and it could
be a lot of misinformation. And I love that you
said that. And same same with masturbation, Like I'm looking
over my daughter so people. Someone asked me on a
different interview recently, like when I learned how to masturbate
and have an orgasm, and that was about seven years old. Wow,
And it's not that I knew it was sexual, because

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kids don't know what they're doing as sexual. A lot
of girls and boys learned that young because they end
up touching themselves.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
Or they're lighting or they're.

Speaker 5 (29:15):
Blanky or Teddy Bear or something, and all of a
sudden it's like, oh, reverse, what was that? And so
kids will just start touching it because it feels good,
but they have no idea that that's a sexual thing. Right,
So even if you find your daughter, for example, in
the living room watching cartoons masturbating, the conversation should be Hey, honey,
I see that you're doing something that feels good, and

(29:37):
I want you to know that's okay. Mommy has that
area too, and I do it too. I know it
feels really good. But I wanted to share with you
that that's called masturbation, and it's something you should do
in privacy in your bedroom always, never at your friend's
house or anywhere else, because it's a private thing. So
it's totally cool. But I just wanted to share that.
So you want to educate your kids. At times when

(29:58):
you see things coming up, that's the right time to
talk about things. And I also took the opportunity when
I've spoken with my daughter to explain that if any
men talk to you about this topic or want to
touch you there, or you think they're their friends and
they start that, you need to tell Mommy immediately and
don't talk to that person because you want to protect
your daughters too, because you know, it's sad. There's boys

(30:21):
absolutely all we realize. Yeah, yeah, And and.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
You know that's such a touchy subject because so many people.

Speaker 2 (30:28):
Have been through that path and not even realize the
damage is done for them in a sexual level.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
And and me as one of those people. It's Cannabis
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Love CBD Naturals, and of course she has different ventures

(31:30):
that she's done in the past, like Ticklekitty dot com
for all your sexual needs. And we've been talking so
much about the Go Love products, which we love the
way they feel, the way they look, and all these
different packaging. But what else do you have on the table?
Here doctor Sadie.

Speaker 5 (31:43):
Okay, we I'm glad you asked, Thank you, so I brought.
I also have a lubricant line called Slippery Kitty. Who
doesn't want a slippery kitty?

Speaker 3 (31:53):
Hell?

Speaker 5 (31:55):
And this is also a water based lobe with with
with no CBD. It's good for everybody. And this also
has a nice long lasting Here, I'll show it.

Speaker 3 (32:03):
To you, am. I supposed to put it on my hand.

Speaker 5 (32:06):
Or a pleasure a little bit on your finger TOI.

Speaker 4 (32:09):
This is good for guys masturbation as well.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
Correct.

Speaker 5 (32:14):
Because it's water based and it naturally absorbs into the skin,
you can use it for any sexual activity.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
That's nice. This one's a little different than the other one.

Speaker 5 (32:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Yeah, And what's the difference between the two.

Speaker 5 (32:27):
So one is just plain water based, lickable. So if
you're enjoying oral pleasures and that's involved, it's just fine. Yeah.
And it's great for women who have sensitive skin.

Speaker 2 (32:38):
So is it what tastes that I have? That's me?
So we're quick at slick like that. So no, So,
so the difference is great. One of this one's more
lotion like style.

Speaker 5 (32:58):
Right, this cream and it mimics the natural moisture of
a woman.

Speaker 3 (33:02):
Oh got you? Yeah, and then and then this one is.

Speaker 5 (33:04):
Got the CD more slippery. It's a different texture.

Speaker 2 (33:09):
Doesn't it's okay, do you take this on the road
and go to that the what is it not vivid?

Speaker 3 (33:18):
What's the point.

Speaker 5 (33:21):
Av Yeah?

Speaker 3 (33:22):
Yeah, I've been there so many years too. It's been
a couple of years.

Speaker 5 (33:25):
Yeah, that's a wild show. Yeah, I've exhibited there.

Speaker 4 (33:28):
Oh, I'm sure they all love you there, like, oh,
doctor Teddy please?

Speaker 3 (33:32):
And what else do you have there?

Speaker 5 (33:34):
So I have a few different sex toys I brought
to just give you an idea of the range that's
out there. So for women. This product is called the
Womanizer Premium two And what it does is it's an
air suction technology. It actually revolutionized the sex toy vibrator
industry maybe about ten years ago. There was nothing different

(33:55):
for the longest time. And then when this came about, Uh,
bring it on right now.

Speaker 4 (34:02):
Shaking your shaking a eurettes.

Speaker 5 (34:07):
I'll hold it down here. What's going on? Okay, it's
not even try not. I think Solar was messing with
my toys.

Speaker 3 (34:14):
Sounds like what he was doing.

Speaker 5 (34:15):
I told him, don't mess with me.

Speaker 3 (34:17):
Jump into the other one.

Speaker 4 (34:18):
And then okay, that's what it's supposed to do.

Speaker 5 (34:23):
Well, this hasn't. This has an air suction technology. So
this circle, it's a silicone tip. Did you I did
invent it? You didn't, No, I did not. Don't make
sex toys. I write books and I make lubes.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
Yeah, and you try to play with the sex toys.

Speaker 5 (34:38):
Absolutely, that's what tickle kiddy dot com is. It's all
this curated sex toys that I've picked out the people.

Speaker 3 (34:43):
It's my boutique.

Speaker 5 (34:44):
So this circle here fits right over your clearess and
then it has a gentle air suction, so it feels
like oral sex for women.

Speaker 3 (34:53):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (34:54):
And when this product was invented, they had a test
group and over fifty percent of the women that tried
it had an orgasm in less than sixty seconds. No way, Yes, Yeah,
and it's a it's a great jump star, especially for
women who've never had one. So when I said, okay,
let me try this and see if that's real. So
I tried it and for me fifteen seconds, I know

(35:16):
my I know, my body really will as you can imagine. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:21):
So this they called Erica in here.

Speaker 4 (35:24):
I hope she didn't come out eric I just kidding.

Speaker 3 (35:27):
Get out of here. You don't listen to this. You're
too young. You're just kidding.

Speaker 4 (35:31):
And so when that for you, you literally had an
orgasm within fifteen seconds.

Speaker 5 (35:36):
Yes, because you've got direct clitteral stimulation and it vibrates
around the edge and you've got that air suction. So
if you can imagine like the best bija you've ever had,
no more, it's kind of like that. That's how it sounds. Yeah,
here we go.

Speaker 3 (35:53):
Is it working now? Demonstrating? I mean I've got fifteen
watch show.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
Yeah, I want you to touch this since let me
see if you know how to touch used?

Speaker 3 (36:11):
Are you sure it is it?

Speaker 5 (36:13):
So put your Yeah, so put your fingers bad right
over the hole. You can feel this section.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
Oh my god, Wow, you gonna want to hear it.
I can hear it. She's like, she just told me
it has been used.

Speaker 5 (36:23):
Now it's been used.

Speaker 3 (36:26):
That's amazing.

Speaker 5 (36:28):
Wow. So if you cover up the whole, cover up
the whole, and you can.

Speaker 3 (36:30):
Put it on the Wow. Great to fill with the
finger because.

Speaker 5 (36:34):
Exactly clitarists has eight thousand, man's penises on the head
has four thousand. That's a that's right right where you
need it.

Speaker 3 (36:45):
Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (36:46):
Guys can just get it to get you going a
little bit too, like just rubbing it around.

Speaker 5 (36:50):
It's all I'm watching his technique. It's frisky.

Speaker 3 (36:55):
Well you know you can take it down to the taints.

Speaker 4 (36:59):
Well, so it's just oh, this is wanderful.

Speaker 5 (37:02):
Yeah, it's it's amazing.

Speaker 3 (37:04):
It is nice. I mean, what's just called again, that's called.

Speaker 5 (37:06):
The Womanizer Premium too. It's on GOLOVECBD dot com or
tickle Kitty.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
It also has Yeah thanks guys.

Speaker 5 (37:16):
It makes like like, if there's any achieving orgasm issues
in the bedroom, I highly recommend women grab one of these,
or guys bring one home.

Speaker 3 (37:26):
Turn off. Yeah, this I got it a little greasy
from my are.

Speaker 5 (37:31):
We got we got fun stuff, all kinds of stuff.

Speaker 3 (37:33):
Yeah, what's this other purple people eater?

Speaker 5 (37:37):
So this is called the Wave And this is a
vibrating penis ring. And so this is a wearable sex
toy and it's for couples. So this ring is stretchy
the man. You put some lubricant on him, whether whether
it's Go Love or Slippery Kitty, you slide it down
to the base of the penis and then you make
love and you have intercourse, and this vibrates on her

(37:58):
glitteris while you're making love. You know, eighty percent of
women require clitteral stimulation to have an orgasics.

Speaker 3 (38:05):
So it goes on the man. That the way it's
the way it now?

Speaker 5 (38:09):
Yeah, so then it leans on a woman underneath. Yeah,
this is rubbing on her glitterus and vibrating while you're inside.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
Wow, that's yeah. Can we try that later?

Speaker 5 (38:19):
You got.

Speaker 3 (38:23):
Who is she?

Speaker 1 (38:26):
Can?

Speaker 3 (38:26):
I see? She's like, I'm not letting you guys touch
any of my toys anymore. Oh wow? For dog style?

Speaker 5 (38:34):
No, if you're doing a dog and you could slide
it downward and flip.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
It around right point and then this way it would
be machinery or yeah right or or.

Speaker 3 (38:44):
On the writing.

Speaker 4 (38:46):
Would that kind of choke your penis though, and like
make it feel like yes.

Speaker 5 (38:50):
And that's the whole purpose of penis? Yes, So so
what penis.

Speaker 3 (38:54):
Rings really vibrates?

Speaker 5 (38:55):
That that's on low?

Speaker 3 (38:57):
That's low.

Speaker 5 (38:58):
If you if you push the button, you've got like
different speeds.

Speaker 6 (39:04):
Mm.

Speaker 5 (39:07):
Wow, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (39:10):
That's impressed.

Speaker 5 (39:11):
Hicle my kid, because so many women because we require
my pocket.

Speaker 3 (39:18):
It feels great. So many women require go ahead, you direct.

Speaker 5 (39:24):
Hould the button down for several seconds.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Game changer. Yeah, it's got the polls too.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
I think we have some of those in the but
you sent me some of these, right yeah, oh yeah, yeah,
there's one.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
We're gonna share it. I'll take them Tuesdays. You get
it on Thursdays. It sounds wash it on Wednesdays, going
to wash.

Speaker 4 (39:41):
Yeah, Chris fran you know the weekend.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
Toothbrush, tooth brushp we'll just have them clean. I was
like a princess, just cleaning with the toothbrush. So, yeah,
he doesn't have my hands.

Speaker 3 (39:56):
What else? What else?

Speaker 5 (39:59):
Okay, so I brought men's toy So there's a million vibrators,
rabbit toys, well, all kinds of toys for women. Nowadays
there's thousands of toys just for men, whether it be
masturbators or strokers, which I'm going to show you one,
but plugs, prostate vibrators, because the prostate, which is located
the man's inside but in the anus, is another orgasm

(40:24):
trigger for men. So if you can get past any
taboos you feel about anal play, it's a whole other
way to Orgasmah Connor.

Speaker 3 (40:32):
And Iron.

Speaker 5 (40:34):
Women have the G spot. Men have a prostate, similar places,
similar way to stimulate, but one's located through the anus,
and for women, the g spots located by going inside.

Speaker 3 (40:45):
It's always terrible.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
When I learned that, I was like, oh my god.
You know, even when I go get animals, I get
like my whole fig.

Speaker 3 (40:51):
This is supposed to feel good. I can't realize and
make it go.

Speaker 4 (40:55):
We could ever get there and then all of a
sudden and then a ship just comes out of me. Sorry,
I'm just talking about when I get done whatever. You
always got to clean yourself out.

Speaker 3 (41:06):
But what is this to work?

Speaker 5 (41:08):
So this is called the voy v o y and
it's got two caps, so when you're done with it,
and wash it and keep it clean. So this I'm
gonna have it looks like a coffee mug or a
little alexa, so it's inconspicuous. But this is a men's
masturbation toy. I'm gonna let you take a look and
you can.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
Put the lube inside of it. Just go to town.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
Yes, And what I want to show you is you
see that there's a little strip on the outside and
you twist it.

Speaker 4 (41:34):
Can you make it the vagina tighter? The thing tighter
like this.

Speaker 5 (41:39):
Yeah, now look inside the hole when you do that,
and see you're can adjust it to how tight you want.

Speaker 3 (41:44):
Wow, let me get some of that.

Speaker 5 (41:48):
I think you get to take that one home. You
get to take the boy home.

Speaker 3 (41:52):
To No, he doesn't need you. I do. I'm putting
myself on last. Yeah, I got all kinds of you
know what's funny?

Speaker 4 (42:01):
This sady and and out there listening. It's like, oh,
my women have forever had sex toys, right, and like
leaving a sex toy and a joors No.

Speaker 3 (42:10):
Oh, that inside feels unbelievable, isn't it nice?

Speaker 5 (42:13):
It's high silicones.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
Goodness.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
It's like the inside of a real like the inside
really nice.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
Tell us what it feels like. It feels it feels
like the inside. I encourage everybody. You guys gotta feel
this seriously. I'm got to come up here right now.

Speaker 4 (42:30):
So it's it feels like the inside of a vagina
a woman. That's literally what it's like. A tight woman
and a drive one right now. But you gotta blub
it up. But like I swear to you, I swear.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
Chris is on his way. It might feel better. You
might not feel the inside.

Speaker 4 (42:50):
Just look, don't feel come down here here, do it
here doing on a man?

Speaker 3 (42:59):
It does right, It feels like a but it's actually
a pretty good close feel.

Speaker 4 (43:03):
Yeah, you thought we were lying on You thought we
were bush like describe it, Joe, it was like, no,
probably not.

Speaker 3 (43:11):
He's like a tuna can. He's gonna go the other way.
Can't blow it out? Two inches long, four inches wide, Joe,
spin it? Oh yeah, oh yeah, you guys.

Speaker 4 (43:24):
These toys are so My point to this, though, Doctor Sadie,
is this. Women have had sex toys forever. Guys getting
things like this, it's almost been taboo. It's like, why
can't a guy have a little ass doll that you
see now online and like movies where it's like oh
that's bad, wait wait, but cheating on your wife because
it's his face when you've been married twelve years like myself,

(43:44):
and it's like hard to like feel like, oh what
are you doing?

Speaker 3 (43:46):
What are you getting? Nothing?

Speaker 4 (43:48):
But it's like, well, let me have a sex toy.
And it's like if you have a little ass that's
sits in your closet, it's like, oh, you're.

Speaker 3 (43:54):
Such a weirdo.

Speaker 4 (43:56):
Oh you cheating on my fucking did you get the
I want.

Speaker 5 (43:59):
To get one? I got it. I got you covered, babe.
Oh yeah, I can send you anything you want. You
wanted the full ass, with the with the vagina and ass.
Well what about a mouth, because they got ones that
are mouth they do not. Yes, I didn't.

Speaker 4 (44:16):
Realize see that.

Speaker 2 (44:17):
I mean.

Speaker 5 (44:19):
I could come back and do it. We'll do a
sex dooran body one. They have the full bodies, they
got the whole woman customizable.

Speaker 3 (44:27):
About your size. My daughter, it's cool. I told her,
we go back like four flats. We want each other
before she was born.

Speaker 5 (44:41):
That's right.

Speaker 3 (44:42):
You know your mama for a long time. Girl.

Speaker 4 (44:43):
Welcome to the family, walking her exactly. But I just
think it's cool now, honestly, that guys have these opportunities
because also, in my opinion, it's better for stress relieve
if you can't masturbate and feel better, or you're just
this gentleman who has a hard time picking up on
a chick and you can't get any ass and you're singles.

(45:06):
Are you married like myself and you don't get any
ass either one of those scenarios, right, So it's a
good reliever for men because, let's just face it. So
many problems happen in life when the raiders lose and men.

Speaker 3 (45:19):
Don't have sex, you know what I mean. It's like
and the Cowboys too. Okay, they just lost last week.

Speaker 4 (45:25):
But my point is it's a great stress reliever for
men and women, for everyone exactly.

Speaker 5 (45:30):
And that's why they're called bedroom accessories. They're not there
to replace anybody. They're there to enhance your sex life
that you can use once in a while together or
on your own as much as you want, especially when
your schedules don't match, or your desire levels are different
in your relationship, or one person wants sex more than
the other. Let them have some toys.

Speaker 4 (45:48):
How do you deal with the fact or would you
recommend dealing with the fact where the man has his
little ass thing, the mouth thing, this little cup thing,
and before you know it, then he's more into that
than his spouse.

Speaker 5 (46:00):
Nothing's ever going to take the place of the real
warm vagina.

Speaker 3 (46:04):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. You know, I'm a
big believer and this is that Keith Yaki terms. You know,
it's a merry game.

Speaker 2 (46:13):
Is monogamy plus, you know, I think if people can
get past the fact that we all don't lust, and
because we all lust, like, we all see things and
we're like, oh, man, look at that. She's an attractive
woman or or or he's an attractive dude, whatever that.

Speaker 3 (46:26):
Is for you. I really believe.

Speaker 2 (46:28):
That, you know, the conversation needs to be had with
the person you love. But so many people can have
those conversations because you know, they they expect, you know,
to you can't do that or you know, and and
it creates so much tension that either one of two
things happen. One you're doing it behind their back or
two you guys break and just don't help each other

(46:50):
get to those levels, right, you know. I mean there's
many times where I've came home and my ex I
would want to have sex and she's like, ah, you know, okay,
and then there's signs that she would be wanting my God.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
And part of those reasons were probably because you know,
we weren't aligned.

Speaker 2 (47:04):
You know when we were we started, we were aligned,
we were just wham, it was all the time, and
it was, you know, like that for eight years and
then it was like ehhh, and then it was just
like it doesn't matter anymore. And then and then you know,
so I think the communication is key, and again it's
that monogamy plus.

Speaker 3 (47:21):
I think it'll help a lot of a lot of people.
What do you think about that, doctor.

Speaker 5 (47:25):
I totally agree and I love the points you're bringing up.
But just like you were saying, people's arousal levels, what
stimulates them. And as we get older, our bodies change.
I mean we were talking about menopause, are like, my
body changed completely where I have to relearn what feels
good to me. Would I like how to express myself
to a partner. And so we have to understand that

(47:47):
through all ages and stages of life, whether that's personal
and your body's changing or your relationships, you have to
keep on top of it and evolve with it and
be okay with it and know that that just happens.
And you know, men, you know, and they're threes and
forties start to produce less testosterone and that's the hormone
that the hormone that helps with erections. So it's common
for middle aged men to have a little erection issue sometimes,

(48:10):
just like women have dryness and it's okay, there's toys.

Speaker 4 (48:14):
I'm getting to that point in my life sometimes like
I feel like, wow, it's hard for me to get
an erections sometimes sometimes Yeah, I think I'll be honest
about it. I'm not afraid to admit it because it's
a real thing like me. I'm not like alone. It's
not like, oh, you're lying. There's medication. There's a fucking
commercial on it right now somewhere about it. It's like yo,
and it's hitting me too.

Speaker 3 (48:32):
Well.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
And another thing too, is I think that it's probably
testos levels for you.

Speaker 3 (48:37):
You know, if you just took well.

Speaker 4 (48:38):
If you rub me better, maybe it wouldn't be I'm
just saying there's that too. Don't put it all on
me when you could help me, ask, ask more often. Well,
I got to communicate better.

Speaker 3 (48:46):
If you want, sorry, thank you. That was my way
of communicating. Can you go higher next time? On the note,
I will thank you.

Speaker 5 (48:52):
See, I love it community.

Speaker 3 (48:54):
We're communicating. Thank you for wiping your mouth. I appreciate that.
That turned me on sea. That was great thing.

Speaker 6 (49:01):
Help.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
Okay, So you know, no, I think that it's an
interesting topic and it's something again that I appreciate you
and your work because as you get older, I think
as a youngster we think we know it all and
that you know the people around us don't know anything.
And I watch now my kids, you know, trying to
pretend they know everything, and I'm just looking.

Speaker 3 (49:21):
I'm like, you guys don't know shit.

Speaker 6 (49:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (49:23):
And the best way that I explained the best.

Speaker 2 (49:25):
Way that I explained that to my kids, you know,
and and other people for that matter, is and I'll
do it in the you know age group. Say you
know someone that is twenty and someone that is thirty.
You know, when you're trying to tell when you're thirty
or thirty five for that matter, and you're trying to
tell someone that's twenty, the twenty year old thinks they
know it all. But the twenty year old is sitting

(49:47):
there going, I know everything. And then what I often
say is, well, twenty years ago, right, you know, if
I was thirty, if I'm sorry, if I'm thirty, we're
ten years apart.

Speaker 3 (49:57):
So take ten years apart, right, and you were ten
years old? Were you thinking the same way?

Speaker 2 (50:01):
Absolutely not, you know, and so and you know, you
start to identify that on such a simple form.

Speaker 3 (50:06):
And I'll say that again because I kind of hacked
it a little bit.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
If I'm twenty and you're thirty, and I tell you
we're ten years apart, and I take ten years off
of you. Were you thinking the same way at ten
years old? And the answer is no. And anybody that says, oh,
well yeah, they're just never going to get it until
they get.

Speaker 4 (50:22):
It, Well, it's hard for everybody, right like, because we
always a lot of us went through those phases in life,
Like you went through like oh I know this at
that point and you think you know something. Why because
I got a stable the chicks and I got this
or the girl this the girl and vice versa. The
girls too were like, oh, I don't need to take
doctor Sadie's advice and learn how to tickle the pickle.
Why if some girl doesn't need to learn that, I

(50:42):
don't need to read how to give oral sex.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
I know how to give a little job.

Speaker 2 (50:45):
My tickle gets pickled and my pickle gets tickled exactly.

Speaker 4 (50:49):
But it's just great that we have and I like
having these type of open conversations as well. One thing
that I'm just curious about, Doctor Sadie, you being this
sex therapist for us long as you have been as
beautiful as you are too, do you find it hard
for yourself for men to be so intimidated by you.

Speaker 5 (51:07):
You know, that's an interesting question.

Speaker 6 (51:08):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (51:08):
And now that I'm single again, it's interesting being back
out on the market and in today's world with social
media and everything going on, just seeing how it is.
But I've often gotten the guys that are either intimidated
and they're like thinking, Wow, how am I ever going
to please her? Or I meet the guys that are
kind of jockey cocky, they're like, oh, yo, you do that?
Come with me. I'll show you. It's a thing or two.

(51:29):
So I get. I get the gamut. But what I
do when I date someone, and even when I meet
someone at first, I don't I often don't say what
I do for a living because I don't want him
to have any preconceived notions or intimidations or any of
that stuff. And I want them to just get to
know me.

Speaker 3 (51:43):
For me, you just run, you're a baker.

Speaker 5 (51:48):
And then and then I lay it on them at
some point and they're like wow, you know. But I
wait for the right time, when it's the right time,
you know, getting to know somebody. And when I move forward,
I don't bring all my knowledge to the bedroom. I
explore from brown zero like anybody else would as a
new couple.

Speaker 4 (52:04):
Yeah, And I think it's great because I just want
to work on my communication with you later as we
get to going forward in our relationship, because I'm not
going to be cocky. I'm gonna be like exploring my
what could help you and me together? So I look
forward to this, Doctor Sanerris Lover.

Speaker 3 (52:17):
Yes, I'd like to do the high five with everybody
that comes in here.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
We're gonna ask you five simple questions and learn a
little bit about you and your past history. Question number one,
Doctor Sadie Ellison, the founder and CEO of Go Love,
CBD Naturals and of course Ticklekitty dot Com. Folks, Go
get yourself some sex toys and enjoy yourself in the
bedroom and smoke a joint. How old are you the
first time he smoked cannabis and where'd you get it from?

Speaker 5 (52:41):
Well? I was about eight years old in the Golden
Gate Park in San Francisco. My older brother who's two
years older. We would go play in the park and
it was back in the seventies where it was much
more free. The kids were off doing whatever wherever. So
we went to the Golden Gate Park and we were
hiding behind a bush and I took my first toke.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Nice Question number two, what is your go to What
is your favorite way to use or smoke cannabis.

Speaker 5 (53:05):
I'm an old school so I like smoking joints, like
I like rolling. I like the whole process. I do not
that often.

Speaker 3 (53:14):
I don't smoke it off I do.

Speaker 5 (53:16):
I'm taking a break right now, which is interesting.

Speaker 3 (53:18):
Really.

Speaker 5 (53:18):
Yeah, yeah, I like it, but I will again. I've
got some goals I put in place, and I'm going
to use that as my reward when I achieve my goals.

Speaker 4 (53:26):
Should Yeah, well, I got some weed waiting for us.
Question Nember three of the High five craziest place you
ever used or smoked cannabis.

Speaker 5 (53:34):
I don't know if this was crazy, but it was
really breathtaking. I was in Zurich, Switzerland, and I don't
know if you've been to that city, but there's green
and parks and trees everywhere. It's just like big landscapes
in the middle of the city. When you walk around,
it's huge and beautiful. And I brought a joint out
there and I was just really enjoying the scenery in
Europe and Zurich and just really loving that moment sounds beautiful.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Thank you for taking me there.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
Great Question number four of the High five, what is
your go to and she after you get high?

Speaker 5 (54:02):
Well, I'd have to say that I'm a veteran at
this point, so I actually don't get munchies.

Speaker 3 (54:07):
Nice.

Speaker 5 (54:07):
However, when I did Ben and Jerry's toffee coffee crunch, Ooh,
that's a good one. I still love that.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
I love that you just didn't say ice cream and
you went straight to the specific.

Speaker 5 (54:19):
Oh yeah, coffee toffee crunch.

Speaker 4 (54:22):
That's a good one because it's that got those good
pieces in there too, that toffee.

Speaker 5 (54:25):
Or chocolate fudge brownie.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
That's another good one I could, Sadie, You're turning me
on in more ways than one. Question number five of
the High five, Doctor Sadie Ellison, Go grab her books,
go grab her lube, just don't grab her, folks, and
check her out and check out the website, doctor Sadie.
If you could smoke cannabis with anyone dead or alive,

(54:47):
who would it be And why?

Speaker 5 (54:48):
I would smoke with Prince Oh, because he is my
all time favorite musician, performer, singer. I love that man
and I miss him terribly, So if I could even
just be with him, and this was the conduit be
able to be with him.

Speaker 4 (55:01):
Then that's where were you when we had him at
the sound factory.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
We did we did so many things with him in
San Francisco.

Speaker 4 (55:07):
You didn't come to those events that we had with him,
Me and JV, Like we introduced him on stage and
we did the the whatever DV dev eight.

Speaker 5 (55:17):
I tried to get into a couple parties and didn't.

Speaker 3 (55:19):
Oh he was so cool to kick it with.

Speaker 4 (55:21):
And now I was so loaded around him, Like I
remember being just so twisted, Like he's watching me.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
He's like, oh, your hair is different. I'm like, oh, yeah,
you know what I mean. Just wonder who did that?

Speaker 4 (55:32):
Oh that's Prince Later like just no big deal. But
he's one of the best.

Speaker 3 (55:36):
Like I knew.

Speaker 4 (55:37):
He was listening to one of his songs the other
day with the kids and they're like, Dad, you're embarrassing
me because I can geek out. I can geek out
to Prince. In the car, I'm the car singer dancer,
playing the piano, fucking playing the guitar, you know, little
red Corvette. I think I'm driving and I'm fucking moving
so fast and it just a raspberry beret and touching
my hair, I mean purple rain. I'm sitting with my

(55:59):
hands in the year like I just go nuts, you
know what I mean. Like Prince is one of them.
He's literally one of my wife at the time. Is
one of his last performances in la for my birthday.

Speaker 3 (56:09):
She got us.

Speaker 4 (56:10):
Six rows back at the Nokia Theater and it was
one of his last performances.

Speaker 3 (56:15):
And it was so unbelievable.

Speaker 5 (56:17):
Was that the one where he just paid played the piano?

Speaker 3 (56:19):
No, no, no, he got down, he did the whole thing. Yeah,
so dope.

Speaker 5 (56:22):
I went to one of his last concerts, last concert
tour I went to when it was just him and
the piano. He had no dancers, no band, it was
just him a cappella. And I'm so glad that I
did end up going because that was the last time
I've been to like sixteen concerts. Well really, oh yeah,
Princess man.

Speaker 4 (56:38):
My first time was in London in nineteen eighty eight,
and then I seen him at a small I seen
him at the big, big venture. I went out there
for this youth leadership conference.

Speaker 3 (56:49):
I go to the.

Speaker 4 (56:49):
Concert with this chick that oh Americans coming to town
because I'm staying with his family. She dubs her boyfriend
takes me. I'm like fucking drinking bounce of beers, having
the best of the time that She's like, we're going
to Pickadilly Square after he's performing at this after party.
I'm like, let's go, and then boom, we're there too,
and I'm sitting there right by. I'm like, well. And
then years later I get to meet him. I told
him the story and it was like.

Speaker 3 (57:09):
Oh, yeah, I remember that's concert and those shows. Good time,
Doctor Sadie.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
Is there anything that we forgot before we let you
get on onto here that you'd like to see?

Speaker 5 (57:16):
Gosh, I think you guys covered so much. I'm so
grateful that you had me on your show, and you
guys are such great hosts, and thank you for listening
and bringing up such good topics to talk about. And
I think you're going to really help a lot of
your listeners with this episode. I'm really proud.

Speaker 4 (57:31):
So I think we are because those toys that you
have for women and men are unbelievable. These lose you guys,
hear me now, believe me. Later, go check out the
website because these are so amazing. Go LOVECBD dot com
also Ticklekitty dot com.

Speaker 5 (57:45):
And one thing I was going to offer for your
listeners is a twenty percent discount at either website if
you just use a coupon code Cannabis Talk one on one.
Nice there like anything you saw today?

Speaker 2 (57:56):
Well there, we appreciate you so much and thank you
for we love listeners.

Speaker 3 (58:01):
Appreciate today. So good to have you back on the
show too.

Speaker 5 (58:06):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (58:07):
Well there it is, guys, is Cannabis Talk one on one.
And remember this, if no one else loves you, what.

Speaker 1 (58:11):
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