August 6, 2025 • 20 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can'tfully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and
the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
On the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to yet another Canfully Reckless episode with your
girl just larious. If y'all would have heard the ship
were talking about before, y'all were like, they're fucking canceled.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
This is fucking crazy. All right, I'm just.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Gonna tell him a little bit, and y'all all right,
So we're basically talking about our men. So my husband,
chrisy is Mexican and black, but when I met him,
he just looked like a.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Light skin, like a fair skinned African American dude. Tailor
over your mind about how fucking I'm not talking about.
Oh yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Just thought he was regular black too, Like he was
just like skinn. She shows me a picture, baby, he's
definitely giving much.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
He definitely looked like he bout the sing bank pank
pank pank.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
No he doesn't, girl, he I swear she showed me
somebody different a couple of months ago, y'all, a little picture?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Did I show you? It was? It was bright another angle.
But I swear I'm gonna go back like our first pictures.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Let me say, you showed me another picture. I swear
he looked more black in that picture. And I'm not
trying to get your trouble. It's probably the same fucking guy.
But he just didn't look he didn't look Spanish.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, I'm not like you.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I swear I'm not, because she didn't even terror when
I was like, I don't know who showed me.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I yo, I'm not. I swear that little baby gonna
look so mixed and cute. You look like me? Yeah,
still good, but nonetheless mixed. Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
His father looked like his last name is like Rivera
like up, but his last name was Jay. No, it
can't be. Ain't fucking way you can not look at
me be like you let me Jason. No, he likes
he was adopted.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
He is, he said, Look, he looks Spanish clearly here see.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Like he looked different than every fucking picture. He definitely
gets more Spanish right there.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
This is the thing at the picture I gave you, Yo,
he still looks Spanish.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
He did looks Spanish, yes, like, like, just admit it,
it's okay.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I know he looks. It's not all of them up,
But I'm just saying. When I first like went up
to him. I didn't think he will.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I thought you just like, yeah, right, But that's the thing,
that's what I was saying. I see the mix is
in my husband now too. At first, I literally just like, no,
you just look like a light skin, like a light
skinning stable for real, Like you just look at like
a fair skin African American.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
And then I met his mother.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I was like, oh, ship her, and she is Mexican style.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
But his mom her mom.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
His mom looks black though his mother, Yeah, so what
does his father looked like? He so his father looks
like well, and he is though his father is mixed
with black and Italian.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh why so he's not fucking black?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I told you this mom's black, and then he's mostly black.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And by timing to fucking mostly, he's fucking black. And
I got a full blown nigga bred. No, no, he's
not a full brand niggas. He's not blown. Yes, what
the fuck is mostly full blown?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Because like his dad I got, he's like a little
bit and not like and his dad is black and
his dad is black in town and his mom's fully black.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
It's fifty or sixty percent more black. What school does
your go to?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, okay, yeah, let's get into fixing the mask, because
I might have to fix your mask. My fucking as
don't know. That's gonna be an Italian baby, you squeezing out, and.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
The baby might have like Marley has because his dad
has like green blue eyes.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Oh bitch, yes, you able to get any fucking job.
I know that's right exactly. Oh my gosh, this woman
still that song will be black all right? Come on,
he gonna be boring just like Heavy.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Lord.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I hope he don't do radio because they jesus, Yeah,
little pat baby, that's that's.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Jests. I've been dating this guy for a few months.
I've been hearing things about him. Hmm. Every time I
go out, I hear some ship about him. I really
don't care. What do you mean here? I know I
really didn't care. I ain't no.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Listen, PDA, I did not read this ship before this episode.
So y'all hearing it the same time I'm hearing it. Okay,
I really didn't care until this particular situation came about.
So me and my good girlfriends sitting at the bar
in Atlanta. Oh bitch, har to see what's going bit
you say in.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Atlanta and the.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And the bartender ends up telling me some shit about
my boyfriend. M Can you believe after this man begged
me to move in his eighth bedroom, four story mansion
with a parking pad in Atlanta? Okay, you better flax
like she said her nigga with a parking pad in Atlanta,
all the way from Charlotte, where I'm from. I hear
(05:34):
how he makes his money from an OnlyFans account where
he has sex with men. Jessica, when I tell you
my heart not Jessica, when I tell you my heart
tanked into my ass? What the fuck should I do
before I kill him? I have not talked to him yet.
I just found out about this shit Wednesday. It is
(05:55):
now for well, bitch, I see his Friday. Well, she
she sent this ship Friday.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
But we're just getting to it, so.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
She felt when she wrote me she found the shoutout
two days before. How the fuck did you?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
That's my thing?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
How the fuck do y'all be keeping this type of
information away from the person where you find out like,
ain't no way I could sit on this for five
more minutes after the bartender told this, And so obviously
the boss tender is a nigga obviously, because he's on
the only fans unless it's a woman who has a
fetish of wat.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I mean maybe, but that's the thing.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
That's probably a place where they go all the time
or whatever. I have no idea, but she moved from
Charlotte to be with this nigga. She said he backed her.
I didn't know who he is, a bedroom, four story
mansion with a parking bed way, and so obviously he's somebody.
Because my wheels are turning down. I already knew it
(06:49):
was some shit when she said Atlanta were sitting at
the bar in Atlanta. Some nor its happening at a
fucking bar in Atlanta. Somebody always find out some shit
about somebody being gay at.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
A bar in Atlanta. I didn't feel like that. It's
very on brand for the city. I just think that
there's hints before. Wow, obviously it was hints. She said, Jess,
I've been dating this guy for a.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Few months, bitch, a few and you already you see
we're gonna get to her red flags in a minute,
because she's a red flag all alone. But I've been hearing, yeah,
she said, I've been hearing things about him every time
I go out, I hear some shit about him. I
really didn't care until this particular situation came about. Hold up,
(07:32):
hold up, I noticed shit getting good. But listen to
just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
you'll listen.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
So you was already hearing that.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
This nigga was gay or may have been gay or
bisexual or whatever you heard, but you didn't give a
fuck until you were sitting at a particular bar in
Atlanta and a bartender came up to you and said
some shit. The bartender probably showed her, Oh that's your man.
That's your man right here. Pull it up the oldly fans.
(07:59):
That's probably somebody that he watched on it all the time. Yike.
Let's get to her red flags though, because you were
living in Charlotte. You're dating this guy for a few months.
I need to know how y'all met. Let me know
how to fuck you. You're dating this okay, so that's
just the same thing met online. You let this man
(08:21):
talk you into moving because I don't believe in nobody
begging you to fuck No, I don't believe you giving
it now. You let him talk you into it because
you can still say no to a nigga begging you.
He talks you into moving because that's something you wanted
to do. Wasn't a gun to your head? You seeing
the money, You seen the fucking house. Obviously you probably
went to his house before he asks you to move in,
I mean to move in. You was smitten by all
(08:43):
the money and the fucking glitz and the GLAMs and
whatever he does.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
And then you started hearing this nigga's gay. You ignore it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You ignore it until a bartender showed you some shit. Bitch,
You already know what's up. You knew what was up,
but it didn't take the bartender to convince you that
he had sex with men, or he's attracted to men
in some type of way.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
You already knew that, but you were willing to look
past it. You are a fucking red flag. She's she's
was fined being his beard. But I don't know why
she's so mad.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
She's so mad because she was sitting with her homegirl
when a bartender clearly showed her her niggas embarrassed, probably
doing the bending or getting bended the fuck?
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Yikes?
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Would you your man to be at least if my
I wouldouldn't my man to at least be like the top.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Yeah, I'll just saying I don't want any of it
because I wouldn't even eat it. I'm just saying, if
I had a choice, yeah, unfortunately, that would never be
a choice that somebody would give you. But this is
the thing. I feel like she knew.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
She been new y'all, but she was like, all right,
you know what, fuck it, I'm getting what I want.
I probably got because this nigga work. If he got
a house like.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
That parking pad means that's that she had it, and
she was she left that he had no She.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Said, after this nigga begged me to come move in
this bedroom story house in Atlanta with a parking pad.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I mean, I won't show ass right down that fucking road.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
From Charlotte because he probably took you from a fucking
apartment or a dorm or whatever the fuck, because.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I don't know how old you. I don't know what
you do, I don't know whatever. I know what you
needed it. I know she should have been dead, but
you was willing to look past that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I mean, that's what you want, that's your perrogative. You
like by men cool because obviously he's not. Kay, he's bisexual.
You're his fucking girlfriend, right man? What he does on
the side or what he does, how he is able
to furnish this lifestyle and keep up with this lifestyle
and put you keep you, you know, dripped and draped
(10:57):
down and whatever the fuck he's been giving you for
the past few months is the way he make money.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
He fucks niggas on only fans. Okay, you're gonna be
okay with that, the fuck you not. But she doesn't
even confront him, though she absolutely need to confront me.
I would confront him more so on why the fuck
you didn't tell me I've been hearing shit? Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Cool, but obviously I never said anything to you about
it until now somebody showed me like I somebody showed
me an OnlyFans account where you're like popping ass.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Well maybe he's not popping ass.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Where you're like you're swinging dingling like only in other niggas,
and it's like, why the fuck you didn't tell me this?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You know what I mean? Yeah, So she's asking him
what she do like to She said before I kill
his ass? What do I do?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Well? Why you've been hearing ship you didn't care, and
but you're in Atlanta, the five.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I hate that sigma in Atlanta. Guys, no, not all guys,
but I knew where the fuck it was going.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
You can't stay here, like you know where the fuck
it was going. As we was eating a story, Yeah, girl,
have you ever known anybody? And and.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That was dealing with somebody who was bisexual or on
a Do.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
I know a person that thought that her man was
like she never caught him though, So I don't know,
I know that, like.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yeah, I know, like yeah, but I know.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
A person that uh, I don't know them, but I
know of the person that you know was definitely on
the down load had a girlfriend, but the girlfriend didn't
know like that.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Type of that ship is like repeat that with the funk.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
So my friend that's gay, he was dealing with a
download download guy and he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Oh so your friend was the one who was out.
He was dealing with who was he wasn't out yet
and he fucking had a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
The d nigga had a girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
And then but then it was like at a point though,
like where they were just like friends though he wasn't
like trying to do that whatever but it's just like
and he's cool with a girlfriend though, and he's like he.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Just her gay friend was cool with the nigga's girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yeah, And it's so funny though, because like he'll just
he'll just try to act straight and like even with
like if I'm on the phone with him, he'll try
to like in a sense, flirt with me, and he
like just s don't say nothing till like because I
was definitely.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Like nigga game. Oh wait wait wait wait, yes, I
say I'm cheating with everybody. I don't care. I just
see people I don't like because they try to like, Yeah,
he was just trying to make like make it seem.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Like he was wasn't gay, I mean, you know, bisexual.
But obviously that's so the girlfriend ever find out? Come on,
because now I don't know that you know what, because
they're not friends. Nor if you love me, you'll listen
to this commercial and then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
How fuck you? Not that nosy? I don't know what happened.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
No, I mean they were still together, but I just
don't know the girl stayed with the nigga.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yeah she never probably never found out that, but they're
not friends. No, more so, I don't know, So your
friend stopped sucking with that nigga. Yeah, obviously, okay, damn yo.
That is stupid. That's scary. Yeah, that's nasty.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I feel like it's nasty because you're not giving the
actor is nasty, not the fact that you know niggas
is gay, whatever nigga's been gay, not talking about that, like,
it's nasty that you like that you would even do
that without giving somebody a choice, Like because that girl.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Over there, meanwhile, I don't know a thing, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Or say, if she do know you cheating, she probably
nine times out of ten think it's with another bit, right,
and you're cheating on her with a nigga something that
she can't even compare you now, something she can't she
can't be him, she can't, you know what I mean?
So that shit hurts. That's a different type of hurt.
That shit is like nastiest foul. Yeah, that's shit crazy.
That's why I do respect, you know, someone like Adoci.
(15:25):
Doci's like, look, I'm letting you know, I'm okay, we're
fucking with a bye guy or a bye woman because
I'm by.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I can't I just want to know.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
I respect that She's like, I want to know, but
a lot of motherfuckers sit with themselves and be like,
what the fuck you need to know for?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Because if I'm fucking you, I need to know what
you into without you into I know by name. I
don't even know any faces. I just need to know.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yo, I fuck niggas too, all right. So no, I
have a choice whether I want to continue fucking with.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
You or we can just be friends or nah, I don't.
I don't do that. I don't do that. You're not
about to dibb and dabby.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
That's cross contamination supposedly though, that's like, in my opinion, that's.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
What it is. I heard though, like in this newer generation,
like bisexuality is like.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
So common, so common, and it's so it's like it's,
you know, not that I'm looking forward to be frowned upon,
but it's just so people are just so comfortable with
fucking whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Fucking you can be a woman or man, and it's
different now, it's just different sexual Like it's.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Oh my god, it's so many different sexual labels, isn't it.
It's so many different sexual preferences. It's so many different
lifestyles now that has been created just under the scope
of LGBT.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
They're they're even more specific than LGBT. How much more
specific can I get other than just being a lesbian? No,
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
I'm masculine presenting. What the fuck does that mean? That's
the new word for stud really?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Yes, masculine show somebody said that we got because hold on,
who's making these announcements?
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Because that's why I don't know the Committee of Gay
I don't know, like if there's like an HR or
somebody reach out to you. The LGBT headquarters we have
on the new Like it's because the headquarters are where.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I know where, like where the announcements are, because how
do you know? Yeah? Like who? Yeah, exactly?
Speaker 1 (17:23):
No, Like I was joking about the headquarters, But is
there really a fucking headquarters where people like make these rules?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Like who is regulating this ship? Right? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
There's like all these new fucking holidays. What the fuck
is a National Woman's birthday holiday? Like literally birthday but
not a holiday.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
If you go if you go on like holidays dot
com or something like that, whatever, that's a holiday of
every day.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Like we're pink on Wednesdays. We're pink Wednesdays. Yeah, like
something like I know, I know, it's still like yo.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Last month it was some shit like, oh it's National
Cheeseburger Day. What white bitch made that up? Like I swear,
it's like some white person for everything crazy.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Is a Taylor holiday?
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Okay, So moving on, So before she killed us, Nick,
because you gotta wrap this ship up. I ain't never
heard no motherfucking tailor holiday nothing. It's May sixteenth, cute
your birthday and clown.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
So what what the funck should she do before she
kill him?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Something?
Speaker 2 (18:36):
But listen to this and realize that you are already
hearing other people. Yeah, this is something that you jumped in, bitchy.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
And like I said, she was only embarrassed because she
was with her homegirl at that bar when the bartender
told her that ship. I don't think she would have
She probably would have still not gave a fuck if
she was sitting at the bar by herself, But that
was that's like key to embarrassment.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Oh, bit, you fucking with a nigga would be fucking
niggas perk. Go back to your apartment. Go back to
your fucking apartment and sucking down the road, or.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
Let him be great and just live in their house
and do your think because you was doing it anyway.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Baby, You're doing it anyway.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
You just want to be that hidden girlfriend. You don't
want nobody to know that your nigga's out here doing that.
But it is what it is, Blue And just like that,
we've come to the end of yet another.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Carefully reckless episode with your girl. That's hilarious. What I'll
be doing, I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
So y'all stay by the tailor, Tailor's stay by to
the people, and catch us next week. Peace Can't Fully
(20:40):
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Speaker 2 (00:16):
On the air.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Welcome back to yet another Canfully Reckless episode with your
girl just larious. If y'all would have heard the ship
were talking about before, y'all were like, they're fucking canceled.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
This is fucking crazy. All right, I'm just.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Gonna tell him a little bit, and y'all all right,
So we're basically talking about our men. So my husband,
chrisy is Mexican and black, but when I met him,
he just looked like a.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Light skin, like a fair skinned African American dude. Tailor
over your mind about how fucking I'm not talking about.
Oh yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Just thought he was regular black too, Like he was
just like skinn. She shows me a picture, baby, he's
definitely giving much.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
He definitely looked like he bout the sing bank pank
pank pank.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
No he doesn't, girl, he I swear she showed me
somebody different a couple of months ago, y'all, a little picture?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Did I show you? It was? It was bright another angle.
But I swear I'm gonna go back like our first pictures.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Let me say, you showed me another picture. I swear
he looked more black in that picture. And I'm not
trying to get your trouble. It's probably the same fucking guy.
But he just didn't look he didn't look Spanish.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, I'm not like you.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
I swear I'm not, because she didn't even terror when
I was like, I don't know who showed me.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I yo, I'm not. I swear that little baby gonna
look so mixed and cute. You look like me? Yeah,
still good, but nonetheless mixed. Absolutely.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
His father looked like his last name is like Rivera
like up, but his last name was Jay. No, it
can't be. Ain't fucking way you can not look at
me be like you let me Jason. No, he likes
he was adopted.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
He is, he said, Look, he looks Spanish clearly here see.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Like he looked different than every fucking picture. He definitely
gets more Spanish right there.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
This is the thing at the picture I gave you, Yo,
he still looks Spanish.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
He did looks Spanish, yes, like, like, just admit it,
it's okay.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
I know he looks. It's not all of them up,
But I'm just saying. When I first like went up
to him. I didn't think he will.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I thought you just like, yeah, right, But that's the thing,
that's what I was saying. I see the mix is
in my husband now too. At first, I literally just like, no,
you just look like a light skin, like a light
skinning stable for real, Like you just look at like
a fair skin African American.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
And then I met his mother.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I was like, oh, ship her, and she is Mexican style.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
But his mom her mom.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
His mom looks black though his mother, Yeah, so what
does his father looked like? He so his father looks
like well, and he is though his father is mixed
with black and Italian.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh why so he's not fucking black?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I told you this mom's black, and then he's mostly black.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And by timing to fucking mostly, he's fucking black. And
I got a full blown nigga bred. No, no, he's
not a full brand niggas. He's not blown. Yes, what
the fuck is mostly full blown?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Because like his dad I got, he's like a little
bit and not like and his dad is black and
his dad is black in town and his mom's fully black.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
It's fifty or sixty percent more black. What school does
your go to?
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, okay, yeah, let's get into fixing the mask, because
I might have to fix your mask. My fucking as
don't know. That's gonna be an Italian baby, you squeezing out, and.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
The baby might have like Marley has because his dad
has like green blue eyes.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Oh bitch, yes, you able to get any fucking job.
I know that's right exactly. Oh my gosh, this woman
still that song will be black all right? Come on,
he gonna be boring just like Heavy.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Lord.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I hope he don't do radio because they jesus, Yeah,
little pat baby, that's that's.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Jests. I've been dating this guy for a few months.
I've been hearing things about him. Hmm. Every time I
go out, I hear some ship about him. I really
don't care. What do you mean here? I know I
really didn't care. I ain't no.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Listen, PDA, I did not read this ship before this episode.
So y'all hearing it the same time I'm hearing it. Okay,
I really didn't care until this particular situation came about.
So me and my good girlfriends sitting at the bar
in Atlanta. Oh bitch, har to see what's going bit
you say in.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Atlanta and the.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
And the bartender ends up telling me some shit about
my boyfriend. M Can you believe after this man begged
me to move in his eighth bedroom, four story mansion
with a parking pad in Atlanta? Okay, you better flax
like she said her nigga with a parking pad in Atlanta,
all the way from Charlotte, where I'm from. I hear
(05:34):
how he makes his money from an OnlyFans account where
he has sex with men. Jessica, when I tell you
my heart not Jessica, when I tell you my heart
tanked into my ass? What the fuck should I do
before I kill him? I have not talked to him yet.
I just found out about this shit Wednesday. It is
(05:55):
now for well, bitch, I see his Friday. Well, she
she sent this ship Friday.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
But we're just getting to it, so.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
She felt when she wrote me she found the shoutout
two days before. How the fuck did you?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
That's my thing?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
How the fuck do y'all be keeping this type of
information away from the person where you find out like,
ain't no way I could sit on this for five
more minutes after the bartender told this, And so obviously
the boss tender is a nigga obviously, because he's on
the only fans unless it's a woman who has a
fetish of wat.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I mean maybe, but that's the thing.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
That's probably a place where they go all the time
or whatever. I have no idea, but she moved from
Charlotte to be with this nigga. She said he backed her.
I didn't know who he is, a bedroom, four story
mansion with a parking bed way, and so obviously he's somebody.
Because my wheels are turning down. I already knew it
(06:49):
was some shit when she said Atlanta were sitting at
the bar in Atlanta. Some nor its happening at a
fucking bar in Atlanta. Somebody always find out some shit
about somebody being gay at.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
A bar in Atlanta. I didn't feel like that. It's
very on brand for the city. I just think that
there's hints before. Wow, obviously it was hints. She said, Jess,
I've been dating this guy for a.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
Few months, bitch, a few and you already you see
we're gonna get to her red flags in a minute,
because she's a red flag all alone. But I've been hearing, yeah,
she said, I've been hearing things about him every time
I go out, I hear some shit about him. I
really didn't care until this particular situation came about. Hold up,
(07:32):
hold up, I noticed shit getting good. But listen to
just a couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
you'll listen.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
So you was already hearing that.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
This nigga was gay or may have been gay or
bisexual or whatever you heard, but you didn't give a
fuck until you were sitting at a particular bar in
Atlanta and a bartender came up to you and said
some shit. The bartender probably showed her, Oh that's your man.
That's your man right here. Pull it up the oldly fans.
(07:59):
That's probably somebody that he watched on it all the time. Yike.
Let's get to her red flags though, because you were
living in Charlotte. You're dating this guy for a few months.
I need to know how y'all met. Let me know
how to fuck you. You're dating this okay, so that's
just the same thing met online. You let this man
(08:21):
talk you into moving because I don't believe in nobody
begging you to fuck No, I don't believe you giving
it now. You let him talk you into it because
you can still say no to a nigga begging you.
He talks you into moving because that's something you wanted
to do. Wasn't a gun to your head? You seeing
the money, You seen the fucking house. Obviously you probably
went to his house before he asks you to move in,
I mean to move in. You was smitten by all
(08:43):
the money and the fucking glitz and the GLAMs and
whatever he does.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
And then you started hearing this nigga's gay. You ignore it.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
You ignore it until a bartender showed you some shit. Bitch,
You already know what's up. You knew what was up,
but it didn't take the bartender to convince you that
he had sex with men, or he's attracted to men
in some type of way.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
You already knew that, but you were willing to look
past it. You are a fucking red flag. She's she's
was fined being his beard. But I don't know why
she's so mad.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
She's so mad because she was sitting with her homegirl
when a bartender clearly showed her her niggas embarrassed, probably
doing the bending or getting bended the fuck?
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Yikes?
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Would you your man to be at least if my
I wouldouldn't my man to at least be like the top.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Yeah, I'll just saying I don't want any of it
because I wouldn't even eat it. I'm just saying, if
I had a choice, yeah, unfortunately, that would never be
a choice that somebody would give you. But this is
the thing. I feel like she knew.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
She been new y'all, but she was like, all right,
you know what, fuck it, I'm getting what I want.
I probably got because this nigga work. If he got
a house like.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
That parking pad means that's that she had it, and
she was she left that he had no She.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Said, after this nigga begged me to come move in
this bedroom story house in Atlanta with a parking pad.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
I mean, I won't show ass right down that fucking road.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
From Charlotte because he probably took you from a fucking
apartment or a dorm or whatever the fuck, because.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I don't know how old you. I don't know what
you do, I don't know whatever. I know what you
needed it. I know she should have been dead, but
you was willing to look past that.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
I mean, that's what you want, that's your perrogative. You
like by men cool because obviously he's not. Kay, he's bisexual.
You're his fucking girlfriend, right man? What he does on
the side or what he does, how he is able
to furnish this lifestyle and keep up with this lifestyle
and put you keep you, you know, dripped and draped
(10:57):
down and whatever the fuck he's been giving you for
the past few months is the way he make money.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
He fucks niggas on only fans. Okay, you're gonna be
okay with that, the fuck you not. But she doesn't
even confront him, though she absolutely need to confront me.
I would confront him more so on why the fuck
you didn't tell me I've been hearing shit? Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Cool, but obviously I never said anything to you about
it until now somebody showed me like I somebody showed
me an OnlyFans account where you're like popping ass.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Well maybe he's not popping ass.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Where you're like you're swinging dingling like only in other niggas,
and it's like, why the fuck you didn't tell me this?
Speaker 2 (11:35):
You know what I mean? Yeah, So she's asking him
what she do like to She said before I kill
his ass? What do I do?
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Well? Why you've been hearing ship you didn't care, and
but you're in Atlanta, the five.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I hate that sigma in Atlanta. Guys, no, not all guys,
but I knew where the fuck it was going.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
You can't stay here, like you know where the fuck
it was going. As we was eating a story, Yeah, girl,
have you ever known anybody? And and.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That was dealing with somebody who was bisexual or on
a Do.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
I know a person that thought that her man was
like she never caught him though, So I don't know,
I know that, like.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Yeah, I know, like yeah, but I know.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
A person that uh, I don't know them, but I
know of the person that you know was definitely on
the down load had a girlfriend, but the girlfriend didn't
know like that.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Type of that ship is like repeat that with the funk.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
So my friend that's gay, he was dealing with a
download download guy and he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Oh so your friend was the one who was out.
He was dealing with who was he wasn't out yet
and he fucking had a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
The d nigga had a girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
And then but then it was like at a point though,
like where they were just like friends though he wasn't
like trying to do that whatever but it's just like
and he's cool with a girlfriend though, and he's like he.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Just her gay friend was cool with the nigga's girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yeah, And it's so funny though, because like he'll just
he'll just try to act straight and like even with
like if I'm on the phone with him, he'll try
to like in a sense, flirt with me, and he
like just s don't say nothing till like because I
was definitely.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
Like nigga game. Oh wait wait wait wait, yes, I
say I'm cheating with everybody. I don't care. I just
see people I don't like because they try to like, Yeah,
he was just trying to make like make it seem.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Like he was wasn't gay, I mean, you know, bisexual.
But obviously that's so the girlfriend ever find out? Come on,
because now I don't know that you know what, because
they're not friends. Nor if you love me, you'll listen
to this commercial and then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
How fuck you? Not that nosy? I don't know what happened.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
No, I mean they were still together, but I just
don't know the girl stayed with the nigga.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
Yeah she never probably never found out that, but they're
not friends. No, more so, I don't know, So your
friend stopped sucking with that nigga. Yeah, obviously, okay, damn yo.
That is stupid. That's scary. Yeah, that's nasty.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I feel like it's nasty because you're not giving the
actor is nasty, not the fact that you know niggas
is gay, whatever nigga's been gay, not talking about that, like,
it's nasty that you like that you would even do
that without giving somebody a choice, Like because that girl.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
Over there, meanwhile, I don't know a thing, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Or say, if she do know you cheating, she probably
nine times out of ten think it's with another bit, right,
and you're cheating on her with a nigga something that
she can't even compare you now, something she can't she
can't be him, she can't, you know what I mean?
So that shit hurts. That's a different type of hurt.
That shit is like nastiest foul. Yeah, that's shit crazy.
That's why I do respect, you know, someone like Adoci.
(15:25):
Doci's like, look, I'm letting you know, I'm okay, we're
fucking with a bye guy or a bye woman because
I'm by.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
I can't I just want to know.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
I respect that She's like, I want to know, but
a lot of motherfuckers sit with themselves and be like,
what the fuck you need to know for?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Because if I'm fucking you, I need to know what
you into without you into I know by name. I
don't even know any faces. I just need to know.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yo, I fuck niggas too, all right. So no, I
have a choice whether I want to continue fucking with.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
You or we can just be friends or nah, I don't.
I don't do that. I don't do that. You're not
about to dibb and dabby.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
That's cross contamination supposedly though, that's like, in my opinion, that's.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
What it is. I heard though, like in this newer generation,
like bisexuality is like.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
So common, so common, and it's so it's like it's,
you know, not that I'm looking forward to be frowned upon,
but it's just so people are just so comfortable with
fucking whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
Fucking you can be a woman or man, and it's
different now, it's just different sexual Like it's.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Oh my god, it's so many different sexual labels, isn't it.
It's so many different sexual preferences. It's so many different
lifestyles now that has been created just under the scope
of LGBT.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
They're they're even more specific than LGBT. How much more
specific can I get other than just being a lesbian? No,
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
I'm masculine presenting. What the fuck does that mean? That's
the new word for stud really?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Yes, masculine show somebody said that we got because hold on,
who's making these announcements?
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Because that's why I don't know the Committee of Gay
I don't know, like if there's like an HR or
somebody reach out to you. The LGBT headquarters we have
on the new Like it's because the headquarters are where.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I know where, like where the announcements are, because how
do you know? Yeah? Like who? Yeah, exactly?
Speaker 1 (17:23):
No, Like I was joking about the headquarters, But is
there really a fucking headquarters where people like make these rules?
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Like who is regulating this ship? Right? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
There's like all these new fucking holidays. What the fuck
is a National Woman's birthday holiday? Like literally birthday but
not a holiday.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
If you go if you go on like holidays dot
com or something like that, whatever, that's a holiday of
every day.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Like we're pink on Wednesdays. We're pink Wednesdays. Yeah, like
something like I know, I know, it's still like yo.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Last month it was some shit like, oh it's National
Cheeseburger Day. What white bitch made that up? Like I swear,
it's like some white person for everything crazy.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Is a Taylor holiday?
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Okay, So moving on, So before she killed us, Nick,
because you gotta wrap this ship up. I ain't never
heard no motherfucking tailor holiday nothing. It's May sixteenth, cute
your birthday and clown.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
So what what the funck should she do before she
kill him?
Speaker 3 (18:35):
Something?
Speaker 2 (18:36):
But listen to this and realize that you are already
hearing other people. Yeah, this is something that you jumped in, bitchy.
Speaker 1 (18:42):
And like I said, she was only embarrassed because she
was with her homegirl at that bar when the bartender
told her that ship. I don't think she would have
She probably would have still not gave a fuck if
she was sitting at the bar by herself, But that
was that's like key to embarrassment.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Oh, bit, you fucking with a nigga would be fucking
niggas perk. Go back to your apartment. Go back to
your fucking apartment and sucking down the road, or.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
Let him be great and just live in their house
and do your think because you was doing it anyway.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Baby, You're doing it anyway.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
You just want to be that hidden girlfriend. You don't
want nobody to know that your nigga's out here doing that.
But it is what it is, Blue And just like that,
we've come to the end of yet another.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Carefully reckless episode with your girl. That's hilarious. What I'll
be doing, I'll be fixing mess.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
So y'all stay by the tailor, Tailor's stay by to
the people, and catch us next week. Peace Can't Fully
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