August 14, 2024 • 14 mins
Ever heard of "Your Cheating Heart"? How about Dickmatized? Or what about "Jolined"? You’re about to find out what these three phrases mean.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Our next guest is a songwriter singer and turns all
of her heart brings into hits. I guess you can
call the Puerto Rican Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
She's so inspiring because when she had her heart broken
by her cheating boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Guess what, she wrote a song about it.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
I told you tell me and Sam again, but still
it goes your I try to be your piece, but
still you in and hat your cake. And Noria waver Ma,
you have be LA's ash and case, I tell them
is precious. You're infecting all my mon dance Dacey.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I'm really excited about this episode because we have a
really good friend of ours and artists singer actress beautiful Silverine.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Hie.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Thank you so much for coming. You'll be high fing
me out.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I know I have to.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
This is my ground right here, Like she, I met
her at a party and and it was it was
a front of ours, it was their birthday party, and
she sang so beautifully. My name is Shaddy Dia, I'm
Kate Robarts, and this is cheaters and backstabbers. And we
have a songbird here today and a little Birdie told
(01:18):
us you might have a good cheating and backstabbing story.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
For Oh.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
And you know what, you guys have the exclusive because
I have not been public with why I though the
people in this story I still love in the drawer.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Oh okay, good, make sure I put that as the
disclaimer on the bottom.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
Yeah, So where do I start. I'm gonna do the
cheating First.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
I was with someone that I knew all my life
and we worked together at this place I won't name
the place, and he was doing a female there.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
What do you mean he was doing his penis?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Oh, he was having the flat person. Yeah, he was.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Y'all were together, Yes, we were together, very much together public.
So we do want to Okay, so we want to
do I want to.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Hear like the happy days, those like happy times of
the relationship when everything was good, and then like the
red flags, and then we want to hear when things
hit the ceiling, and then like where you are now.
Speaker 6 (02:19):
We used to go driving a lot and listen to
music and talking and just we did music together also,
so that was like the happy place.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, that happy place sounded really nice, but I'm sure
there was an expiration day to that.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
You won't believe what happens next.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
And then it went to that to him turning his
phone to the left when we're driving, and I'm like, hmmm,
why is he turning it this way? Or if he
was using the GPS, he would have it in his
hand and not on the dash.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
How long was it really good with him?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Three to four months?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
It was like perfect?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, And how did he establish that? Like y'all were
a real item?
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Y'all were because like, listen, the moment we kiss or
we do anything, you're my gang because I'm not. I
can't if I'm putting these lips on you.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Do you know how lucky?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Do you know how lucky you are?
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Like you you are?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
I love that? Are you the same way?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Ok?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Is like that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
So she got like eight boyfriends or not kidding, way,
I'm kidding.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I'm kidding. I'm kidding and a.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Couple of girls.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
But they don't know who opportunity. But you know, I
think that's why we get hurt a lot. Though we
can't do that. We have to stop doing that. We
can't just okay, claimed I'm working on it, like you
gotta give us some time to get to know this person.
That's what I've been told.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, So what were some of the things that got
you like, what are the things that made you feel like, oh, Dann,
like I really like this guy, or this is my
man other than him just giving you a kiss?
Speaker 5 (03:49):
Is this Pg. Thirteen? No oh girl.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Once it's inserted and it feels amazing, I feel like, Okay,
that's it.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
We're getting married. This is my forever person. It was
just that's what what brought me and kept me. So
you would the.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Static vocabulary.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
We always like to work on a vocabulary word digmatize.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
Oh so snatched?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Oh wow, that was all snatched?
Speaker 5 (04:18):
So he had you? Would he buy you? Gives? Would
he take you?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (04:22):
He would want to jign you?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Were you guys like singing to each other while you're
making love?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
We did a recording.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
We did an audio recording while having sexy, not singing
while you were having She was like.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No.
Speaker 6 (04:38):
On talks' side, there was an audio we did because
we were writing and then that happened.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
It just happened. It happened in an udio.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
No I wish, but it didn't some avant garde art stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
So he was a singer too? Or was he like
a rapper?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Like a rapper? Yeah, that's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Though, and whenever you find that, like you've got these
happy months, you're making love, making art. You know, you're
working together, right, So you're working together this other person
that were red flags?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Did you think? Were you suspicious?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh? Okay?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
So we were.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
We were together one night and I remember I woke
up my son had an accident and my phone was dead,
and I remember his phone lit up and it said
the girl's name, but it was two o'clock am. So
I feel like, if if a female is texting someone
at two am, it's definitely something going on, because out
(05:35):
of respect, I'm a woman, I would never text another
person's man at two o'clock a kay.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
So that was the first sign. And I did bring
it up to him and he.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Was like, we're too good boat, that's just go worker.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I said, okay, okay, I'm keeping score on those red flags.
And that was just red flag number two, but red
flag number three, Oh, that was the darkest of reds.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Flag.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
It's literally like if you took a flag, a red
flag and slapped her in the face with.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
It, because I'm gonna trust until it's like slapped in
my face. And then a few weeks later we were
on FaceTime. This is when COVID happened. And I remember
I caught COVID and I was in pain and I
just wanted to see his face.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
He forgot I was on FaceTime again.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
This is the first time I'm talking about it publicly,
so the emotions is coming. But he forgot.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I was on FaceTime and he was telling a friend
of his how he fucked.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
He shout out this person and had a blast and
they went to a hotel and I'm on the phone
and I'm like just.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Listening, yeah, and You're already feeling terrible and sick.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Thought I was dying, so I said, this is how
I'm dying. I was frozen.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I was like, and you literally can't even leave to go,
like we had some person on here talking about hitting
this guy.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I was like, you can't. You can't even exactly.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Even lauchi Olio saw and just go through the phone
and just go to him and just knock him.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I would have, but I was in bed dying.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I couldn't breathe. And then I think he went to
go show his friend the picture of her and he
saw me on Oh, I love that, my fock. Did
you see him see you. Yeah, and you didn't say that,
you were just looking at him.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
No, I just I was stuck. Yeah, and I hung up.
And did he try calling you back?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Non stop calling me back. And then I remember I
had to go to work a few I think maybe
a week or so later.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
And I had to see him.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
So I was like, oh, so yeah I worked worked.
Oh yeah, and it was a girl who worked with you. Yes,
so she knew, she did. She says she didn't know,
but she knew.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
That's what's in her. Yeah, because I'm like women empowerment.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Right, right, we don't want to hate other women.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Well, I love men.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I'm like she jolined you. You know that song, Joline, Yeah,
can you give us a little more, more little?
Speaker 5 (08:17):
That's all I know. That's so good.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Yeah, it's so good. But it's like, please don't take
him just because you can. Jolie and Joliane. That's the
whole point of the song, is Joline me but I
I you know, and you respected it.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
No, but they're married now and.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
They have kids.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Wow, you did that. Now, if I was one of
those females where I'm like, oh no, well he could pick.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Me like ego, your ego is trying to compete and
it's about ego and not really caring for him.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
He loves story. Yeah, see that's dope.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
That's dope just as a woman, because I feel like
doing that now you're opening up for yourself, you know,
because he wasn't for you.
Speaker 5 (08:48):
That was for her, and you gifted her. I did
that love story. Shout out to Tom Yeah, my gosh, and.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
And shout out to you for like acknowledging that so graceful.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Let him go gracefully.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Always say what's for me is always for me.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
That part I agree with that, and nobody could take
that away, not even Joline.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Not.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
So when that's done, are you like, okay?
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Now, once I get killed from COVID, I got to
quit my job and I can never see them again.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Or like I unfortunately could not because you know the
money right that thing?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Ah, yes, no one walks when money talks. So even
though he cheated on you, what did you think about
doing next?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
So I sucked it out. I ended up trying to
make it work with him, and I.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Was like me and a little bit of a dumb dumb.
Speaker 6 (09:43):
Yeah, was like, oh he loves me, he just made
a mistake. No, because then it happened a second time,
and I was like, oh with a different Now this
is a different person that you knew.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
This one was not someone that I knew. Yeah, probably
didn't know about you. Yeah, nope.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
So now this is just his character.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Yeah yeah, yeah. It definitely stems from his childhood, and
I hope he heals from it. But I was like, okay, yeah,
this is how you are. So I eventually had to
let it go. Let it go, yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
So my question is.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Where are you now?
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like in your life? What are you looking for? Are
you in a relationship?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Are you this is also a matchmaking shows.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
That's part two.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
I don't know. You never know.
Speaker 5 (10:34):
I would have done my make gorgeous and you didn't
even dig it dry? You know, he didn't make up.
This is lip gloss. Honey, look oh fellas? Okay, Well,
where broke up like that? She woke up like this?
I woke up like this? She wrote that song.
Speaker 8 (10:49):
Actually, Beyonce, don't come for us, don't come be high.
I mess with them Where I am now. I'm definitely healing.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Mm hmm. How long ago was this?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Like during Coles So what three years ago? Maybe like
two and a half ish, So you've been single since then.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
She's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Yeah, it's for single people.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
But I actually healing, healing, and I did my little
dibble dabble, but I knew that I didn't want to
take anyone serious because I'm hurting and I'm you know,
if you're if you're not one hundred percent healed, then
you try to jump into something else. You take what
you had in that relationship to the next one. And
I found myself like, oh, he didn't pick up.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Okay, he's fucking somebody.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yeah, I don't think that's fair, or like, can we
stay on FaceTime whole week?
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Yeah, right right, he never hang up.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
I would like he gives the cameras in an uber
where it's like or like a ring the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah, all of those things I would put.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I would yeah, have those little cameras everywhere, just to
twenty four to seven monitor.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
This is sharing location.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
This is why girls go coo coo.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
And you don't want to be like that.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
You want to like trust is such a delicate thing
and once that trust is broken.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
It's hard.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
It's hard to rebuild that because now you have to
you know, rebuild, retool, just that is hard, so I
can I can only imagine you going on to like
the next thing.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
You don't necessarily heal one hundred.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
You know.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
There's a song though about it though, Oh did you?
I love that you give a time again it goes
your way. I try to be a piece, but still
you went and had your cake and.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
I realize you will never mad Ready it was bela
ash and kke.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
That's how I heal from that. That's what I'm talking
to you.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
He's using the pain to make art. It's like when
we when we go through shape, we make jokes about it.
You know, that's how we heal.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
You have what is it? It's like laugh healing through
your pain because it don't be funny.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Sometimes take your broken heart and make it art.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
Why look at you should be a rapper?
Speaker 3 (13:22):
My name is Loka.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
No, it's a one, not the middle one.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Okay, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
So when you need me to do my wrap track
and lay it down, I will spit bars I love.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Okay, Well, we want to tell our listeners how they
can find you, where they can listen to.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
The full song. Oh yes, Preston Lee, Yes it's Silver Rain.
That's S.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I l v A.
Speaker 5 (13:51):
I always do a shimmy. It's not silver, it's S.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
I love that, R E I g N.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
And it's everywhere Apple Music. Solve that good awesome.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, go go listen and support. You have shows too,
you got to take get out to some shows to support.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I just performed at the Puerto Rican Day Parade.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
I just south congratulations.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
Yeah, that was in Texas well.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
When we have our Cheaters and Backstabbers Festival, we would
love to.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
We're notating you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
That would be amazing and.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Have it on repeat because we might not be able
to afford more artists.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
But I got She'll be the most. We'll have the
sixty million by then.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Trus me at this point. Yeah, I got y'all.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
No, I appreciate it, and congratulations on your healing journey
as well and your music. And I do wish you
the best of the best. And that's been our episode.
Thank you so much for being here so right, thank.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
You for having me.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I'm Shoddy Dias and I'm Kate Roberts, and this is
Cheaters and Backstoppers
Our next guest is a songwriter singer and turns all
of her heart brings into hits. I guess you can
call the Puerto Rican Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
She's so inspiring because when she had her heart broken
by her cheating boyfriend.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Guess what, she wrote a song about it.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
I told you tell me and Sam again, but still
it goes your I try to be your piece, but
still you in and hat your cake. And Noria waver Ma,
you have be LA's ash and case, I tell them
is precious. You're infecting all my mon dance Dacey.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
I'm really excited about this episode because we have a
really good friend of ours and artists singer actress beautiful Silverine.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Hie.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Thank you so much for coming. You'll be high fing
me out.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I know I have to.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
This is my ground right here, Like she, I met
her at a party and and it was it was
a front of ours, it was their birthday party, and
she sang so beautifully. My name is Shaddy Dia, I'm
Kate Robarts, and this is cheaters and backstabbers. And we
have a songbird here today and a little Birdie told
(01:18):
us you might have a good cheating and backstabbing story.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
For Oh.
Speaker 6 (01:24):
And you know what, you guys have the exclusive because
I have not been public with why I though the
people in this story I still love in the drawer.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Oh okay, good, make sure I put that as the
disclaimer on the bottom.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
Yeah, So where do I start. I'm gonna do the
cheating First.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
I was with someone that I knew all my life
and we worked together at this place I won't name
the place, and he was doing a female there.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
What do you mean he was doing his penis?
Speaker 5 (02:00):
Oh, he was having the flat person. Yeah, he was.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Y'all were together, Yes, we were together, very much together public.
So we do want to Okay, so we want to
do I want to.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Hear like the happy days, those like happy times of
the relationship when everything was good, and then like the
red flags, and then we want to hear when things
hit the ceiling, and then like where you are now.
Speaker 6 (02:19):
We used to go driving a lot and listen to
music and talking and just we did music together also,
so that was like the happy place.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Okay, that happy place sounded really nice, but I'm sure
there was an expiration day to that.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
You won't believe what happens next.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
And then it went to that to him turning his
phone to the left when we're driving, and I'm like, hmmm,
why is he turning it this way? Or if he
was using the GPS, he would have it in his
hand and not on the dash.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
How long was it really good with him?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Three to four months?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
It was like perfect?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Yeah, And how did he establish that? Like y'all were
a real item?
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Y'all were because like, listen, the moment we kiss or
we do anything, you're my gang because I'm not. I
can't if I'm putting these lips on you.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Do you know how lucky?
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Do you know how lucky you are?
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Like you you are?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
I love that? Are you the same way?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Ok?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Is like that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
So she got like eight boyfriends or not kidding, way,
I'm kidding.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I'm kidding. I'm kidding and a.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
Couple of girls.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
But they don't know who opportunity. But you know, I
think that's why we get hurt a lot. Though we
can't do that. We have to stop doing that. We
can't just okay, claimed I'm working on it, like you
gotta give us some time to get to know this person.
That's what I've been told.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, So what were some of the things that got
you like, what are the things that made you feel like, oh, Dann,
like I really like this guy, or this is my
man other than him just giving you a kiss?
Speaker 5 (03:49):
Is this Pg. Thirteen? No oh girl.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Once it's inserted and it feels amazing, I feel like, Okay,
that's it.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
We're getting married. This is my forever person. It was
just that's what what brought me and kept me. So
you would the.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Static vocabulary.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
We always like to work on a vocabulary word digmatize.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
Oh so snatched?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Oh wow, that was all snatched?
Speaker 5 (04:18):
So he had you? Would he buy you? Gives? Would
he take you?
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (04:22):
He would want to jign you?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Were you guys like singing to each other while you're
making love?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
We did a recording.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
We did an audio recording while having sexy, not singing
while you were having She was like.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
No.
Speaker 6 (04:38):
On talks' side, there was an audio we did because
we were writing and then that happened.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
It just happened. It happened in an udio.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
No I wish, but it didn't some avant garde art stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:52):
So he was a singer too? Or was he like
a rapper?
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Like a rapper? Yeah, that's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Though, and whenever you find that, like you've got these
happy months, you're making love, making art. You know, you're
working together, right, So you're working together this other person
that were red flags?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Did you think? Were you suspicious?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Did you?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Oh? Okay?
Speaker 3 (05:13):
So we were.
Speaker 6 (05:14):
We were together one night and I remember I woke
up my son had an accident and my phone was dead,
and I remember his phone lit up and it said
the girl's name, but it was two o'clock am. So
I feel like, if if a female is texting someone
at two am, it's definitely something going on, because out
(05:35):
of respect, I'm a woman, I would never text another
person's man at two o'clock a kay.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
So that was the first sign. And I did bring
it up to him and he.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Was like, we're too good boat, that's just go worker.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
I said, okay, okay, I'm keeping score on those red flags.
And that was just red flag number two, but red
flag number three, Oh, that was the darkest of reds.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Flag.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
It's literally like if you took a flag, a red
flag and slapped her in the face with.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
It, because I'm gonna trust until it's like slapped in
my face. And then a few weeks later we were
on FaceTime. This is when COVID happened. And I remember
I caught COVID and I was in pain and I
just wanted to see his face.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
He forgot I was on FaceTime again.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
This is the first time I'm talking about it publicly,
so the emotions is coming. But he forgot.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I was on FaceTime and he was telling a friend
of his how he fucked.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
He shout out this person and had a blast and
they went to a hotel and I'm on the phone
and I'm like just.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Listening, yeah, and You're already feeling terrible and sick.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Thought I was dying, so I said, this is how
I'm dying. I was frozen.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I was like, and you literally can't even leave to go,
like we had some person on here talking about hitting
this guy.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
I was like, you can't. You can't even exactly.
Speaker 6 (07:08):
Even lauchi Olio saw and just go through the phone
and just go to him and just knock him.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I would have, but I was in bed dying.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I couldn't breathe. And then I think he went to
go show his friend the picture of her and he
saw me on Oh, I love that, my fock. Did
you see him see you. Yeah, and you didn't say that,
you were just looking at him.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
No, I just I was stuck. Yeah, and I hung up.
And did he try calling you back?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Non stop calling me back. And then I remember I
had to go to work a few I think maybe
a week or so later.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
And I had to see him.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
So I was like, oh, so yeah I worked worked.
Oh yeah, and it was a girl who worked with you. Yes,
so she knew, she did. She says she didn't know,
but she knew.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
That's what's in her. Yeah, because I'm like women empowerment.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Right, right, we don't want to hate other women.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Well, I love men.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I'm like she jolined you. You know that song, Joline, Yeah,
can you give us a little more, more little?
Speaker 5 (08:17):
That's all I know. That's so good.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Yeah, it's so good. But it's like, please don't take
him just because you can. Jolie and Joliane. That's the
whole point of the song, is Joline me but I
I you know, and you respected it.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
No, but they're married now and.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
They have kids.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Wow, you did that. Now, if I was one of
those females where I'm like, oh no, well he could pick.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Me like ego, your ego is trying to compete and
it's about ego and not really caring for him.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
He loves story. Yeah, see that's dope.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
That's dope just as a woman, because I feel like
doing that now you're opening up for yourself, you know,
because he wasn't for you.
Speaker 5 (08:48):
That was for her, and you gifted her. I did
that love story. Shout out to Tom Yeah, my gosh, and.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
And shout out to you for like acknowledging that so graceful.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
Let him go gracefully.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Always say what's for me is always for me.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
That part I agree with that, and nobody could take
that away, not even Joline.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Not.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
So when that's done, are you like, okay?
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Now, once I get killed from COVID, I got to
quit my job and I can never see them again.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
Or like I unfortunately could not because you know the
money right that thing?
Speaker 1 (09:24):
Ah, yes, no one walks when money talks. So even
though he cheated on you, what did you think about
doing next?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
So I sucked it out. I ended up trying to
make it work with him, and I.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Was like me and a little bit of a dumb dumb.
Speaker 6 (09:43):
Yeah, was like, oh he loves me, he just made
a mistake. No, because then it happened a second time,
and I was like, oh with a different Now this
is a different person that you knew.
Speaker 5 (09:57):
This one was not someone that I knew. Yeah, probably
didn't know about you. Yeah, nope.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
So now this is just his character.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Yeah yeah, yeah. It definitely stems from his childhood, and
I hope he heals from it. But I was like, okay, yeah,
this is how you are. So I eventually had to
let it go. Let it go, yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
So my question is.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Where are you now?
Speaker 3 (10:24):
Like in your life? What are you looking for? Are
you in a relationship?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Are you this is also a matchmaking shows.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
That's part two.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
I don't know. You never know.
Speaker 5 (10:34):
I would have done my make gorgeous and you didn't
even dig it dry? You know, he didn't make up.
This is lip gloss. Honey, look oh fellas? Okay, Well,
where broke up like that? She woke up like this?
I woke up like this? She wrote that song.
Speaker 8 (10:49):
Actually, Beyonce, don't come for us, don't come be high.
I mess with them Where I am now. I'm definitely healing.
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Mm hmm. How long ago was this?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Like during Coles So what three years ago? Maybe like
two and a half ish, So you've been single since then.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
She's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Yeah, it's for single people.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
But I actually healing, healing, and I did my little
dibble dabble, but I knew that I didn't want to
take anyone serious because I'm hurting and I'm you know,
if you're if you're not one hundred percent healed, then
you try to jump into something else. You take what
you had in that relationship to the next one. And
I found myself like, oh, he didn't pick up.
Speaker 5 (11:36):
Okay, he's fucking somebody.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
Yeah, I don't think that's fair, or like, can we
stay on FaceTime whole week?
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (11:41):
Yeah, right right, he never hang up.
Speaker 2 (11:44):
I would like he gives the cameras in an uber
where it's like or like a ring the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (11:50):
Yeah, all of those things I would put.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I would yeah, have those little cameras everywhere, just to
twenty four to seven monitor.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
This is sharing location.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
This is why girls go coo coo.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
And you don't want to be like that.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
You want to like trust is such a delicate thing
and once that trust is broken.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
It's hard.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
It's hard to rebuild that because now you have to
you know, rebuild, retool, just that is hard, so I
can I can only imagine you going on to like
the next thing.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
You don't necessarily heal one hundred.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
You know.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
There's a song though about it though, Oh did you?
I love that you give a time again it goes
your way. I try to be a piece, but still
you went and had your cake and.
Speaker 6 (12:40):
I realize you will never mad Ready it was bela
ash and kke.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
That's how I heal from that. That's what I'm talking
to you.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
He's using the pain to make art. It's like when
we when we go through shape, we make jokes about it.
You know, that's how we heal.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
You have what is it? It's like laugh healing through
your pain because it don't be funny.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
Sometimes take your broken heart and make it art.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
Why look at you should be a rapper?
Speaker 3 (13:22):
My name is Loka.
Speaker 5 (13:27):
No, it's a one, not the middle one.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
Okay, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:32):
So when you need me to do my wrap track
and lay it down, I will spit bars I love.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
Okay, Well, we want to tell our listeners how they
can find you, where they can listen to.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
The full song. Oh yes, Preston Lee, Yes it's Silver Rain.
That's S.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
I l v A.
Speaker 5 (13:51):
I always do a shimmy. It's not silver, it's S.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
I love that, R E I g N.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
And it's everywhere Apple Music. Solve that good awesome.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, go go listen and support. You have shows too,
you got to take get out to some shows to support.
Speaker 5 (14:07):
I just performed at the Puerto Rican Day Parade.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
I just south congratulations.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
Yeah, that was in Texas well.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
When we have our Cheaters and Backstabbers Festival, we would
love to.
Speaker 5 (14:18):
We're notating you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
That would be amazing and.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Have it on repeat because we might not be able
to afford more artists.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
But I got She'll be the most. We'll have the
sixty million by then.
Speaker 5 (14:29):
Trus me at this point. Yeah, I got y'all.
Speaker 1 (14:32):
No, I appreciate it, and congratulations on your healing journey
as well and your music. And I do wish you
the best of the best. And that's been our episode.
Thank you so much for being here so right, thank.
Speaker 5 (14:45):
You for having me.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
I'm Shoddy Dias and I'm Kate Roberts, and this is
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