September 11, 2024 • 20 mins
Relationships can be quite bumpy. In this episode our comedian guest, Eva Evans, discovers a major bump in her relationship on Facebook. What’s the bump? Listen to find out.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So I went on Facebook to tell my family, like, hey,
somebody asked me to marry them.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm like, you know, heads up.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
And then that's when I seeing the message and it
was such like a disgusting message, like it was so
like it was really mean.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I mean, I was just so traumed. I just loved
the little website Facebook.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
No wonder you don't answer my messages?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, girl, I don't go on face with that.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Hey guys, I'm Shoddy Das and I'm Kate Robard and
today we have an amazing guess I'm so excited. One
of my good friends, one of our good friends, New
York City stand up comedian the Flash Chicken, the game.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
One of the funny is like, yeah, I love every
other day.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yes, the best jokes, thank you, fire jokes.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Eva Evans.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Hey, y'all, yes, I'm here.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
Where is your puppy dog at home?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
She's too bad to girl vid. Yeah, we don't work,
she's embarrassing to travel with.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
She's not her best behavior. Talking about bad behavior.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Yeah oh yes, yes.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Right, so today you have a cheating story, right, but
I want you to take us back to the lovey
dovey part, the person that you were like, damn, this
dude is the wine.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
This is the good days.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
No recolect remember the beforefas.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Right when, right when you were like in the light
pain work and I loved him, Yeah, I in love
with him.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
It's the hardest part of.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
This because I know it's so hard to remember, you know,
because it's the part that makes fine.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
He was fine.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Describe the hell uh tatted, long locks, dimples, he had
the body, YadA yaddy like, I don't know, he was
just he was fine as hell. So it was a
physical attraction at first for sure. And then he was
very sweet, well pretending to be sweet, and he was sweet.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
He was sweet because he whisperings sweet nothings to you.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Yes, Like what would he say to you?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It was just like always on me, like give me
no space. And I thought that was cute. I'm like, oh,
he oh, you know, you don't want to sleep at home.
You want to brush your teeth over here? That's cute, Like, no,
go brush your teeth and wash your ass at home,
Like there's.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
No boundaries in meeting. Yeah, he wanted like he was
about you and you were about him. Yes, yes, And
so did y'all.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Y'all didn't even have to establish the relationship. You're just together.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Oh no, no, you got to. We're black man. You
got to make sure you hear a girlfriend. Mm hmmm,
because you.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Will be in a situation ship for fifteen years. You
will have grandkids and don't know what the going on. So, yes,
we're black men, you need to hear you're my girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yes, you establish that. Yes. Oh well, I went to
a party.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
In Harlem and i'd dance with somebody and he got
upset and I was like, well, I want to dance
with somebody, and he's like, well, you're my girls. I'm like,
all right, you need to say that. You ain't say
I was your girl, So now I'm not going to
be dance on abody. So that's how it was a party.
If I didn't go to that party, probably would have
never known.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Did you baiting him to try to get him.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
To like also be my man?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Yeah? Do you think? Or no? It wasn't even I
mean I guess.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Like deep down I wanted him to be like, nah,
you're my girl. So I was like, I'm single. I
could have been like I want to dance. I could
dance like I could have said anything, but I threw
the single out there because I want to say him
like no not and he did.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I was like, okay, so he would like want to
tign you.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yes, yes, and had me around his family.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
The family did they like, did you like me? And
his mother was very close. Well, me and his mother
was very close, very close. But you know, she when
the relationship, like she knew what her son wasn't shit
Like no, I think, yeah, but this is not clean
rock of course.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
No.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I actdot that said ship like seven times.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
But when his mother like I could, I could. I
felt the shift and like his mother's energy and I'm like,
something's done right.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
And then that's when I found out he was cheating.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
I'm like, oh my gosh, so she knew, she knew
before see, And that's the thing is like for women
to know, like she's giving you her own signs without saying.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Right, because I'm sure I was like, you know, uh,
weird space for her to be in because she's like, damn,
I like this young lady, but you know it's my son.
I'm not going to snitch on my son. So like
we would, she was like canceled plans.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I mean I had.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
I'm like she was that's a red side.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, I'm like she was looking forward to that.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
What other things were like signs?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Well, me and him had went to we had one
to somebody's baby shower and.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
You're like, really a couple at this point a couple year?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah, we were together for two years like that, and
we went to a baby shower together and this girl
was like, hi, Hi, like said his name. I don't
want say his name because I don't want cave cloud,
but she said hi, so and so all, and he
was so nervous, like he was like sweating and breathing all.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I'm like, you're good.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
He's like, yeah, lets.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Hurry up and just get my gift and get out
of here.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I'm like, but it turned out to be the cousin
of the girl that he had gotten pregnant my back
yet Oh I didn't even Oh yeah, I didn't even
tell you that. Okay, So not only did he cheat,
but he got to shorty pregnant. So that's that's that's
the game.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
How did you find all this out?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Facebook?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Shout out to Facebook.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Facebook. I ain't been on Facebook since somebody left the
mess I was in two thousand and fourteen.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
You haven't been on it since. Oh my gosh. She
was like, you see a picture of a sonogram?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
What is it? No?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I have?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Well, okay, So he had asked me to marry him.
He's like, oh, I want to get married. I'm like
he he was like, all that's going down to city Hall.
So I'm like, no, I want to go to Jamaica.
My family gonna be there. And the man that I
wanted to work we down the aisle, and my father
figure he can't come to America.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
So I was like, I really want to go to Jamaica.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
So I went on Facebook to tell my family, like, hey,
somebody asked me to marry them. I'm like, you know,
head up. And then that's when I seeing the message,
and it was such like a disgusting message, Like it
was so like it.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Was really mean. It wasn't even from the girl. It's
from her cousin, the.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Girl that you met the baby.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
The baby show up?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
What does she say? Do you still have the message?
I don't even know my Facebook past. I mean, I
was just so challenged. I just loved your website.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Facebook is no wonder you don't answer my messages?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yeah, girl, I don't go on Facebook all A.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Lot of time.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
You went to tell your family I'm about to marry
this man. But that is the biggest plot twist.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
And I sent him a screenshot and I'm like, yo,
like why And I'm like I'm thinking he's gonna be like, oh,
this is crazy, like they'll say anything. I'm like, why
girls in DM my inboes playing? And then he read
it and didn't say nothing back. I'm like, again, why
are bitches in my dms? Like why they playing in
my dms?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Because you did not?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Yeah, I'm thinking that he was gonna be like, oh,
you know, he's like she's dead us.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I'm like, oh he said it like that she's dead
at Yeah, she's like she's whatever. Yeah, whatever you like
to say is it's dead ass.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Yeah. And this was over the phone, yeah, and in
person and even in person. Did you ever get to
speak to him in person about it?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Or years later?
Speaker 3 (07:18):
So after that you were like, was done?
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, he had to come to my camera and get
some things.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Were they in one piece? We know people have destroyed property.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And this is how I know I'm not crazy. I
know I'm not crazy because like people would say, like oh,
because every time they see a single woman who's attractive,
they assume, oh, she must be nuts. And I know
for a fact I'm not crazy because when we when
I found out that he got the girl pregnant, he
had some firearms in my house.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Because that's the type of guys that I used to
talk to.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
It like, I'm from Texas, so that's right, bro, goir.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
This is in New York, so it's very different. I
have firearms in New York. So he has some firearms
at my crib, like you know, hidden across different places
in the apartment. And I like, I gave him his stuff.
I didn't shoot at him, and I know he was
so he was so nervous. No, because girls people people
(08:09):
be like, oh, women should have guns because they're fucking crazy.
You know, I could have classed when I did not.
I was very classy.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I was gonna class.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Isn't not classes to not shoot him?
Speaker 5 (08:18):
I oh, classy, of you didn't thank you happ in
his ass.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
I thought you were going to make I know I
wasn't crazy because I was like, listen, this really hurt me.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
But I didn't his own strapped that is that took
all the will power bich.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I know.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's how I know I'm not man't call the police
and yeah girls, let me say, some girls will due
with some wild ship get him locked up. He wanted
to be getting bit pregnant. Well raise the kid from jail,
you know what I'm saying. Yeah, some girls would have
called the cops on him and got him locked or
they would have shot him with his.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Own statute of limitations.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Oh ship, I should have whatever on him.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I didn't say no, but yeah, so that's how I
know I'm I'm I'm a good woman because I didn't
no revenge.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I'm just like, boy, how did you keep your calm
and your own internal resolve? Because I've definitely let a
man take me to that level where I've done things
that I'm embarrassed you.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Is shooting people.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
I plead the fife.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
We always get guns when we're really young. It's very
different there. But like, how do you maintain calm? How
did you maintain that integrity that personally?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Well, I was just thinking, I'm like the math got
a math. I'm like, he cheated, he was a whole
Why do I go to jail? M Hm?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
That math on math up, that's very mature.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
I gotta go to jail. Could he all that don't
make no sense. I'm just gonna level up now. He
a fan?
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Of course?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Not he a fan?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
He follows you on Accomplished.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I don't even know his page, Like I don't even
know what his thing looked like. But yeah, he a
fan now, so that's all it is. That's that's how
you get revenge.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Level up on his.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Hos yep, And did you keep up with that story
at all?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Or you just no? I know he had a daughter
because they always got daughters. Look at that, they always
have a daughter.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Full circle.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
Let me just say I feel like the more successful
someone is, the better they are at being able to
like shut down the drama and just focus on because
look where you are.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
And that's that's the thing too, because it's like I
give thanks to that little girl too, because she really
pushed me to do, like I was so heartbroken, but
what her father did to me that I just went
into comedy.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
So like that little girl was heaven sent, like for real,
for real.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Yeah, I hope, like, you know, if she ever learns
how she came about, I hope she doesn't feel like
bad about you know what I'm saying or anything like that,
because she is a blessing.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
It's also that belief that everything happens for a reasons,
that's all to our greatest good.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
And if I would have known where I would be
today back then, I.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Would have threw him a baby shower.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Want have been so happy or created like a little
Carol his guns and stuff.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Right, that's also very Texas. Hey, that's a good idea,
like a baby, what is it? A mobile? A mobile
based off of the dude's gun, Like would have been
the gift. You know, you would have did the rights
and crafts.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Crazy Now that's for Texas babies.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
I also think it's crazy like that you caught and
knew something was a myth.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah, because we were supposed to go to the movies
with his mom one Sunday, because Sundays was our day
to spend with his mother and stuff like that. And
his mother like for the past like three or four
Sundays was curving me.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I'm like, hell m, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
What's happening? For like a month then she was four.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Months a long.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
When I found out it was four months long, they
already knew they were going to have.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
A daughter, and so he's is he on the side
like having baby showers with them?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
How and you're had a baby shower.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
It was his baby shower.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
I was imagine that it wasn't his baby shower. That
would have been crazy. That wasn't his baby shower.
Speaker 6 (12:08):
You have to wonder though, it's like is he doing
because actually found out an ex who was trying to
holler at me and he wasn't like.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
He was trying to.
Speaker 6 (12:18):
I google him because I'm like, let's and I saw
a baby registry and I was like, oh, congratulations.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
I was like I love looking at.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Baby registers, just the cute stuff. But like, baby, how
dare you? How dare I try to have a full other?
And just how you're gonna leave.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Out a child?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
Like you could have a cat. You can't hide a kid.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
That's wow.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
And now with it with social media for you, it
was Facebook like that happened to me, you know, like
last year where some I didn't like this guy, but
he hit me up a few times like Hey, can
I take you out to dinner or whatever.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I was like, oh, I'll let you know. And then a.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
Future friend of ours posted him with her with their friends.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
At a baby shower. It was his kids, this kid.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
And I was like, wait, I'm sorry, is this dude
whatever whatever? Sheels like Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
I was like, yo, crazy, it's a wild maybe embarrassing you.
I'd be Oh, man, I had tell a guy all
congratulations on like getting married or having a kid, and oh,
it should.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Have been you.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Yes, it's disgusting. That is really and they think it's
a compliments.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And I feel so bad for Shorty because she has
no idea and it makes you POWERNOI because you're like,
xam what my man saying to people about you know
what I'm saying. She like that, maybe want to stay
by myself. I've been singing love since really Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Yeah, like they will embarrass you out here and then
woman love embarrassing other woman.
Speaker 6 (13:47):
That's a new pond. That's a new that's the ocean
you're hitting the way ways.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I feel like a definitely preparing me for my husband
because baby, it's been a long time.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Yeah, and serve it. You deserve it. I mean, I
just I just know you personally.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
How dope you are, and you know, I don't know man,
Like that's what I wish for you, like and I'm
gonna happen. I'm happy you're in this space right now
because whatever is next for you, it's.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Going to be an alignment where you are right like
you're popping.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
You've always been, but it's like now you are seeing
it yourself.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
So I know that's going to attract someone just as dope.
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Asy and then I'm excited you could turn your attention
to love. Yeah, that's the magnet. You know it's coming.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I'm trying not to be like, Okay, I'm thirty three.
I'm like, you know, two more years, don't have a kid.
I'm trying not to like be like, you know, too
much on the clock type ship.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
And I was like, all, let me just let it.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Right, just embrace this moment because right now, this is
your moment.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Like you know, things change when you when you get
married and you have kids. But I think you're in
a good place right now. I just love to feel
like you're glowing.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
I'm gonna make up on today either.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
I felt like I.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Last it because I don't like you look mad good,
no makeup, just lashes and look laws than.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
Who Maybe your future love will be listening to this
episode hopefully if you know someone who could be a contender.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Right, thank you.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
She's not on.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Face and I hate Instagram.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
You know I'm on it, but you've got to be.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Because you go to the auditors and her agencies book.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
Right, that's a fact that.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, do you want to with this Dand.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
No, she's saying where they could find like'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Find me at this end, we'll cut that. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Yeah, I was like, I'm like, where where can they find?
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Everywhere? But let me stop, let me stop. No, you
can find me. I'm all around the country right now.
I'm going the road with Dray.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
So I haven't been really.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Doing the local shows like that, but when I come
back to the crab be at Brooklyn Comedy Well, Williamsburg
Comedy Club, Grizzly Pia, local shows, independent shows, independent shows,
y'all gonna for more insights?
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Wait, really quick.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
I'm just curious for myself, Like, I think manifestation is
so powerful. What type of man are you looking for?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Put it out there?
Speaker 5 (16:12):
What do you that was what you used to be
looking for? What do you write for now?
Speaker 2 (16:15):
Whatever?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Since I went viral, I gotta I gotta say this.
I do want a man who was born with his penis.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I do want to say that.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
That's a preference.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
Yeah, and you have to watch this joke, can we.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
This is such a great clip. Let's play it now now.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
I did have an interesting experience with online date and
I went on a date with my first trans man.
That was Yeah, it was fun. I didn't know he
was trans from his profile, but you know, in person,
I figured it out. But I didn't give a fuck.
I'm too poor to have a phobia. Okay, as long
as you identify as a man who's paying this check
(16:56):
at the end of this motherfucking me, because that's all
I care about. As long as your pronouns are xelling
cash app, I don't give a.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Fuck up what else you got going on?
Speaker 3 (17:07):
And it was a good day, you know.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Conversation was good, the vibe was good. It went south
when the bill came and his car.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Declined, right. I was like, oh, and he's.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Liked, Oh, don't worry, one of my six roomates are
gonna send me some money.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
I was like, what the fuck you look at jail, nigga?
Speaker 6 (17:22):
What a buck?
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Six roommates?
Speaker 1 (17:26):
So long story short, he pays the bill. He says, Eva,
I had a great time. I would love to take
you out again. I said, absolutely the fuck not. He
got offended. He's like, I thought we had a great time.
Don't tell me you're transphobic. I said, no, baby, I
don't date the poor.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
I'm poor. What the fuck were gonna do together? What's
up on the star? I got you?
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I need you to help, I said, First of all,
that's poor planning on your on your end. Why didn't
you transition into a rich man right so your transactions
can go through. I'm open a day in anybody, but
(18:11):
I do my husband. He's gonna be one with his penis.
But that's something I know.
Speaker 6 (18:14):
If the clip is is so everything, So hopefully we
can run that clip.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yes, yes, and then I want somebody who's not poor
because I'm poor.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
So yeah, some qualities that you know.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
I'm five to seven, Yes, I'm five seven berfoot, I'm
almost six feet in heels, so I'm gonna need you
to be a little tall.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
I'm not picking my.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Man up, and he's gonna be kind. He's kind, not religious,
but believe in God for real. I don't do the
religion thing, but you have to have gania hard. Please
don't be vegan. Don't come over here with that because
you want to eat curry goat whether you like it
or not, sir.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
And she's a great cook.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I'm a great cook and I'm a Jamaican. So my
curry go my brown sewed chicken all that, so don't
play with me.
Speaker 4 (18:59):
I took it to Ah thanks O the friends giving
and they, oh, yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Jer chicken was offensive. It was not Jamaican enough for me.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Well, she was like, what is that?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
I was like a thing that's church chicken was from
Jamaica queens, so they not Jamaica.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
They must have high standards for church chicken.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Yes, please don't come over here with I'm vegan. I'm
all of that. Not what else? Oh?
Speaker 1 (19:22):
No kids, please I can't. And no baby showers, no
baby showers. Please don't bring me to showers until it's
your baby, until it's hours.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I love that. I think that's beautiful. I see all
of this happening for you, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
And more and I hope you get surprised.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Thank you. I will be.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I'll be shocked when I get a man, girl, I
really will.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I don't know, you won't be here.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
No, No, I'll be shocked because it's like, oh, wow,
finally happened, and not not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
But I'm not. Then I won't be shocked and you
deserve it.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
Yeah, right, as long as you say that, and you're
gonna have a really great guy.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
I'm really excited.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
Oh, thank you for being here. And hopefully we'll have
you soon. Yeah, when you're not busy.
Speaker 5 (19:58):
Right, we want to.
Speaker 6 (19:59):
We know you have other stories of backstabers.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Oh for sure, you get me back.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Everyone. This is Eva Evans.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 5 (20:08):
All.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
This is cool.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
I'm Kate Robarts, I'm shotting Dias and this is cheaters
and backstabers
So I went on Facebook to tell my family, like, hey,
somebody asked me to marry them.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm like, you know, heads up.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
And then that's when I seeing the message and it
was such like a disgusting message, like it was so
like it was really mean.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I mean, I was just so traumed. I just loved
the little website Facebook.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
No wonder you don't answer my messages?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah, girl, I don't go on face with that.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Hey guys, I'm Shoddy Das and I'm Kate Robard and
today we have an amazing guess I'm so excited. One
of my good friends, one of our good friends, New
York City stand up comedian the Flash Chicken, the game.
Speaker 5 (00:40):
One of the funny is like, yeah, I love every
other day.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yes, the best jokes, thank you, fire jokes.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Eva Evans.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Hey, y'all, yes, I'm here.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
Where is your puppy dog at home?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
She's too bad to girl vid. Yeah, we don't work,
she's embarrassing to travel with.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
She's not her best behavior. Talking about bad behavior.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Yeah oh yes, yes.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Right, so today you have a cheating story, right, but
I want you to take us back to the lovey
dovey part, the person that you were like, damn, this
dude is the wine.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
This is the good days.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
No recolect remember the beforefas.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
Right when, right when you were like in the light
pain work and I loved him, Yeah, I in love
with him.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
It's the hardest part of.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
This because I know it's so hard to remember, you know,
because it's the part that makes fine.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
He was fine.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Describe the hell uh tatted, long locks, dimples, he had
the body, YadA yaddy like, I don't know, he was
just he was fine as hell. So it was a
physical attraction at first for sure. And then he was
very sweet, well pretending to be sweet, and he was sweet.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
He was sweet because he whisperings sweet nothings to you.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Yes, Like what would he say to you?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It was just like always on me, like give me
no space. And I thought that was cute. I'm like, oh,
he oh, you know, you don't want to sleep at home.
You want to brush your teeth over here? That's cute, Like, no,
go brush your teeth and wash your ass at home,
Like there's.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
No boundaries in meeting. Yeah, he wanted like he was
about you and you were about him. Yes, yes, And
so did y'all.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
Y'all didn't even have to establish the relationship. You're just together.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Oh no, no, you got to. We're black man. You
got to make sure you hear a girlfriend. Mm hmmm,
because you.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Will be in a situation ship for fifteen years. You
will have grandkids and don't know what the going on. So, yes,
we're black men, you need to hear you're my girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Yes, you establish that. Yes. Oh well, I went to
a party.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
In Harlem and i'd dance with somebody and he got
upset and I was like, well, I want to dance
with somebody, and he's like, well, you're my girls. I'm like,
all right, you need to say that. You ain't say
I was your girl, So now I'm not going to
be dance on abody. So that's how it was a party.
If I didn't go to that party, probably would have
never known.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Did you baiting him to try to get him.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
To like also be my man?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Yeah? Do you think? Or no? It wasn't even I
mean I guess.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Like deep down I wanted him to be like, nah,
you're my girl. So I was like, I'm single. I
could have been like I want to dance. I could
dance like I could have said anything, but I threw
the single out there because I want to say him
like no not and he did.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
I was like, okay, so he would like want to
tign you.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Yes, yes, and had me around his family.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
The family did they like, did you like me? And
his mother was very close. Well, me and his mother
was very close, very close. But you know, she when
the relationship, like she knew what her son wasn't shit
Like no, I think, yeah, but this is not clean
rock of course.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
No.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, okay, yeah, I actdot that said ship like seven times.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
But when his mother like I could, I could. I
felt the shift and like his mother's energy and I'm like,
something's done right.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
And then that's when I found out he was cheating.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
I'm like, oh my gosh, so she knew, she knew
before see, And that's the thing is like for women
to know, like she's giving you her own signs without saying.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Right, because I'm sure I was like, you know, uh,
weird space for her to be in because she's like, damn,
I like this young lady, but you know it's my son.
I'm not going to snitch on my son. So like
we would, she was like canceled plans.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
I mean I had.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
I'm like she was that's a red side.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, I'm like she was looking forward to that.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
What other things were like signs?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Well, me and him had went to we had one
to somebody's baby shower and.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
You're like, really a couple at this point a couple year?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah, we were together for two years like that, and
we went to a baby shower together and this girl
was like, hi, Hi, like said his name. I don't
want say his name because I don't want cave cloud,
but she said hi, so and so all, and he
was so nervous, like he was like sweating and breathing all.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I'm like, you're good.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
He's like, yeah, lets.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Hurry up and just get my gift and get out
of here.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I'm like, but it turned out to be the cousin
of the girl that he had gotten pregnant my back
yet Oh I didn't even Oh yeah, I didn't even
tell you that. Okay, So not only did he cheat,
but he got to shorty pregnant. So that's that's that's
the game.
Speaker 5 (05:19):
How did you find all this out?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Facebook?
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Shout out to Facebook.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Facebook. I ain't been on Facebook since somebody left the
mess I was in two thousand and fourteen.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
You haven't been on it since. Oh my gosh. She
was like, you see a picture of a sonogram?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
What is it? No?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I have?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Well, okay, So he had asked me to marry him.
He's like, oh, I want to get married. I'm like
he he was like, all that's going down to city Hall.
So I'm like, no, I want to go to Jamaica.
My family gonna be there. And the man that I
wanted to work we down the aisle, and my father
figure he can't come to America.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
So I was like, I really want to go to Jamaica.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
So I went on Facebook to tell my family, like, hey,
somebody asked me to marry them. I'm like, you know,
head up. And then that's when I seeing the message,
and it was such like a disgusting message, Like it
was so like it.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Was really mean. It wasn't even from the girl. It's
from her cousin, the.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Girl that you met the baby.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
The baby show up?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
What does she say? Do you still have the message?
I don't even know my Facebook past. I mean, I
was just so challenged. I just loved your website.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Facebook is no wonder you don't answer my messages?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yeah, girl, I don't go on Facebook all A.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Lot of time.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
You went to tell your family I'm about to marry
this man. But that is the biggest plot twist.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
And I sent him a screenshot and I'm like, yo,
like why And I'm like I'm thinking he's gonna be like, oh,
this is crazy, like they'll say anything. I'm like, why
girls in DM my inboes playing? And then he read
it and didn't say nothing back. I'm like, again, why
are bitches in my dms? Like why they playing in
my dms?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Because you did not?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Yeah, I'm thinking that he was gonna be like, oh,
you know, he's like she's dead us.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I'm like, oh he said it like that she's dead
at Yeah, she's like she's whatever. Yeah, whatever you like
to say is it's dead ass.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
Yeah. And this was over the phone, yeah, and in
person and even in person. Did you ever get to
speak to him in person about it?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Or years later?
Speaker 3 (07:18):
So after that you were like, was done?
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, he had to come to my camera and get
some things.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Were they in one piece? We know people have destroyed property.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
And this is how I know I'm not crazy. I
know I'm not crazy because like people would say, like oh,
because every time they see a single woman who's attractive,
they assume, oh, she must be nuts. And I know
for a fact I'm not crazy because when we when
I found out that he got the girl pregnant, he
had some firearms in my house.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Because that's the type of guys that I used to
talk to.
Speaker 5 (07:46):
It like, I'm from Texas, so that's right, bro, goir.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
This is in New York, so it's very different. I
have firearms in New York. So he has some firearms
at my crib, like you know, hidden across different places
in the apartment. And I like, I gave him his stuff.
I didn't shoot at him, and I know he was
so he was so nervous. No, because girls people people
(08:09):
be like, oh, women should have guns because they're fucking crazy.
You know, I could have classed when I did not.
I was very classy.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I was gonna class.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Isn't not classes to not shoot him?
Speaker 5 (08:18):
I oh, classy, of you didn't thank you happ in
his ass.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
I thought you were going to make I know I
wasn't crazy because I was like, listen, this really hurt me.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
But I didn't his own strapped that is that took
all the will power bich.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
I know.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's how I know I'm not man't call the police
and yeah girls, let me say, some girls will due
with some wild ship get him locked up. He wanted
to be getting bit pregnant. Well raise the kid from jail,
you know what I'm saying. Yeah, some girls would have
called the cops on him and got him locked or
they would have shot him with his.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Own statute of limitations.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Oh ship, I should have whatever on him.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
I didn't say no, but yeah, so that's how I
know I'm I'm I'm a good woman because I didn't
no revenge.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I'm just like, boy, how did you keep your calm
and your own internal resolve? Because I've definitely let a
man take me to that level where I've done things
that I'm embarrassed you.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Is shooting people.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
I plead the fife.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
We always get guns when we're really young. It's very
different there. But like, how do you maintain calm? How
did you maintain that integrity that personally?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Well, I was just thinking, I'm like the math got
a math. I'm like, he cheated, he was a whole
Why do I go to jail? M Hm?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
That math on math up, that's very mature.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
I gotta go to jail. Could he all that don't
make no sense. I'm just gonna level up now. He
a fan?
Speaker 4 (09:40):
Of course?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Not he a fan?
Speaker 3 (09:42):
He follows you on Accomplished.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I don't even know his page, Like I don't even
know what his thing looked like. But yeah, he a
fan now, so that's all it is. That's that's how
you get revenge.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Level up on his.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
Hos yep, And did you keep up with that story
at all?
Speaker 2 (09:58):
Or you just no? I know he had a daughter
because they always got daughters. Look at that, they always
have a daughter.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Full circle.
Speaker 6 (10:05):
Let me just say I feel like the more successful
someone is, the better they are at being able to
like shut down the drama and just focus on because
look where you are.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
And that's that's the thing too, because it's like I
give thanks to that little girl too, because she really
pushed me to do, like I was so heartbroken, but
what her father did to me that I just went
into comedy.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
So like that little girl was heaven sent, like for real,
for real.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Yeah, I hope, like, you know, if she ever learns
how she came about, I hope she doesn't feel like
bad about you know what I'm saying or anything like that,
because she is a blessing.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
It's also that belief that everything happens for a reasons,
that's all to our greatest good.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
And if I would have known where I would be
today back then, I.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
Would have threw him a baby shower.
Speaker 4 (11:00):
Want have been so happy or created like a little
Carol his guns and stuff.
Speaker 5 (11:11):
Right, that's also very Texas. Hey, that's a good idea,
like a baby, what is it? A mobile? A mobile
based off of the dude's gun, Like would have been
the gift. You know, you would have did the rights
and crafts.
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Crazy Now that's for Texas babies.
Speaker 6 (11:28):
I also think it's crazy like that you caught and
knew something was a myth.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Yeah, because we were supposed to go to the movies
with his mom one Sunday, because Sundays was our day
to spend with his mother and stuff like that. And
his mother like for the past like three or four
Sundays was curving me.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I'm like, hell m, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
What's happening? For like a month then she was four.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Months a long.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
When I found out it was four months long, they
already knew they were going to have.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
A daughter, and so he's is he on the side
like having baby showers with them?
Speaker 5 (11:58):
How and you're had a baby shower.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
It was his baby shower.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
I was imagine that it wasn't his baby shower. That
would have been crazy. That wasn't his baby shower.
Speaker 6 (12:08):
You have to wonder though, it's like is he doing
because actually found out an ex who was trying to
holler at me and he wasn't like.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
He was trying to.
Speaker 6 (12:18):
I google him because I'm like, let's and I saw
a baby registry and I was like, oh, congratulations.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
I was like I love looking at.
Speaker 6 (12:26):
Baby registers, just the cute stuff. But like, baby, how
dare you? How dare I try to have a full other?
And just how you're gonna leave.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Out a child?
Speaker 5 (12:37):
Like you could have a cat. You can't hide a kid.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
That's wow.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
And now with it with social media for you, it
was Facebook like that happened to me, you know, like
last year where some I didn't like this guy, but
he hit me up a few times like Hey, can
I take you out to dinner or whatever.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
I was like, oh, I'll let you know. And then a.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
Future friend of ours posted him with her with their friends.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
At a baby shower. It was his kids, this kid.
Speaker 4 (13:10):
And I was like, wait, I'm sorry, is this dude
whatever whatever? Sheels like Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
I was like, yo, crazy, it's a wild maybe embarrassing you.
I'd be Oh, man, I had tell a guy all
congratulations on like getting married or having a kid, and oh,
it should.
Speaker 2 (13:22):
Have been you.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
Yes, it's disgusting. That is really and they think it's
a compliments.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
And I feel so bad for Shorty because she has
no idea and it makes you POWERNOI because you're like,
xam what my man saying to people about you know
what I'm saying. She like that, maybe want to stay
by myself. I've been singing love since really Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Embarrassed.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Yeah, like they will embarrass you out here and then
woman love embarrassing other woman.
Speaker 6 (13:47):
That's a new pond. That's a new that's the ocean
you're hitting the way ways.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I feel like a definitely preparing me for my husband
because baby, it's been a long time.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Yeah, and serve it. You deserve it. I mean, I
just I just know you personally.
Speaker 4 (14:01):
How dope you are, and you know, I don't know man,
Like that's what I wish for you, like and I'm
gonna happen. I'm happy you're in this space right now
because whatever is next for you, it's.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
Going to be an alignment where you are right like
you're popping.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
You've always been, but it's like now you are seeing
it yourself.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
So I know that's going to attract someone just as dope.
Speaker 5 (14:22):
Asy and then I'm excited you could turn your attention
to love. Yeah, that's the magnet. You know it's coming.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
I'm trying not to be like, Okay, I'm thirty three.
I'm like, you know, two more years, don't have a kid.
I'm trying not to like be like, you know, too
much on the clock type ship.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
And I was like, all, let me just let it.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
Right, just embrace this moment because right now, this is
your moment.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
Like you know, things change when you when you get
married and you have kids. But I think you're in
a good place right now. I just love to feel
like you're glowing.
Speaker 2 (14:50):
I'm gonna make up on today either.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
I felt like I.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
Last it because I don't like you look mad good,
no makeup, just lashes and look laws than.
Speaker 6 (14:59):
Who Maybe your future love will be listening to this
episode hopefully if you know someone who could be a contender.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Right, thank you.
Speaker 3 (15:07):
She's not on.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Face and I hate Instagram.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
You know I'm on it, but you've got to be.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Because you go to the auditors and her agencies book.
Speaker 3 (15:17):
Right, that's a fact that.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yeah, do you want to with this Dand.
Speaker 3 (15:23):
No, she's saying where they could find like'm not gonna.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Find me at this end, we'll cut that. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Yeah, I was like, I'm like, where where can they find?
Speaker 3 (15:38):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Everywhere? But let me stop, let me stop. No, you
can find me. I'm all around the country right now.
I'm going the road with Dray.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
So I haven't been really.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Doing the local shows like that, but when I come
back to the crab be at Brooklyn Comedy Well, Williamsburg
Comedy Club, Grizzly Pia, local shows, independent shows, independent shows,
y'all gonna for more insights?
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Wait, really quick.
Speaker 6 (16:05):
I'm just curious for myself, Like, I think manifestation is
so powerful. What type of man are you looking for?
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Put it out there?
Speaker 5 (16:12):
What do you that was what you used to be
looking for? What do you write for now?
Speaker 2 (16:15):
Whatever?
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Since I went viral, I gotta I gotta say this.
I do want a man who was born with his penis.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
I do want to say that.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
That's a preference.
Speaker 5 (16:25):
Yeah, and you have to watch this joke, can we.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
This is such a great clip. Let's play it now now.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
I did have an interesting experience with online date and
I went on a date with my first trans man.
That was Yeah, it was fun. I didn't know he
was trans from his profile, but you know, in person,
I figured it out. But I didn't give a fuck.
I'm too poor to have a phobia. Okay, as long
as you identify as a man who's paying this check
(16:56):
at the end of this motherfucking me, because that's all
I care about. As long as your pronouns are xelling
cash app, I don't give a.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Fuck up what else you got going on?
Speaker 3 (17:07):
And it was a good day, you know.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
Conversation was good, the vibe was good. It went south
when the bill came and his car.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Declined, right. I was like, oh, and he's.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Liked, Oh, don't worry, one of my six roomates are
gonna send me some money.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
I was like, what the fuck you look at jail, nigga?
Speaker 6 (17:22):
What a buck?
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Six roommates?
Speaker 1 (17:26):
So long story short, he pays the bill. He says, Eva,
I had a great time. I would love to take
you out again. I said, absolutely the fuck not. He
got offended. He's like, I thought we had a great time.
Don't tell me you're transphobic. I said, no, baby, I
don't date the poor.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
I'm poor. What the fuck were gonna do together? What's
up on the star? I got you?
Speaker 1 (17:50):
I need you to help, I said, First of all,
that's poor planning on your on your end. Why didn't
you transition into a rich man right so your transactions
can go through. I'm open a day in anybody, but
(18:11):
I do my husband. He's gonna be one with his penis.
But that's something I know.
Speaker 6 (18:14):
If the clip is is so everything, So hopefully we
can run that clip.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yes, yes, and then I want somebody who's not poor
because I'm poor.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
So yeah, some qualities that you know.
Speaker 1 (18:28):
I'm five to seven, Yes, I'm five seven berfoot, I'm
almost six feet in heels, so I'm gonna need you
to be a little tall.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
I'm not picking my.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
Man up, and he's gonna be kind. He's kind, not religious,
but believe in God for real. I don't do the
religion thing, but you have to have gania hard. Please
don't be vegan. Don't come over here with that because
you want to eat curry goat whether you like it
or not, sir.
Speaker 3 (18:51):
And she's a great cook.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I'm a great cook and I'm a Jamaican. So my
curry go my brown sewed chicken all that, so don't
play with me.
Speaker 4 (18:59):
I took it to Ah thanks O the friends giving
and they, oh, yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Jer chicken was offensive. It was not Jamaican enough for me.
Speaker 3 (19:07):
Well, she was like, what is that?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
I was like a thing that's church chicken was from
Jamaica queens, so they not Jamaica.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
They must have high standards for church chicken.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Yes, please don't come over here with I'm vegan. I'm
all of that. Not what else? Oh?
Speaker 1 (19:22):
No kids, please I can't. And no baby showers, no
baby showers. Please don't bring me to showers until it's
your baby, until it's hours.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
I love that. I think that's beautiful. I see all
of this happening for you, Thank you.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
And more and I hope you get surprised.
Speaker 2 (19:35):
Thank you. I will be.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I'll be shocked when I get a man, girl, I
really will.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
I don't know, you won't be here.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
No, No, I'll be shocked because it's like, oh, wow,
finally happened, and not not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
But I'm not. Then I won't be shocked and you
deserve it.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
Yeah, right, as long as you say that, and you're
gonna have a really great guy.
Speaker 2 (19:52):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
I'm really excited.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 4 (19:54):
Oh, thank you for being here. And hopefully we'll have
you soon. Yeah, when you're not busy.
Speaker 5 (19:58):
Right, we want to.
Speaker 6 (19:59):
We know you have other stories of backstabers.
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Oh for sure, you get me back.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Everyone. This is Eva Evans.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
Thank you for having me.
Speaker 5 (20:08):
All.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
This is cool.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
I'm Kate Robarts, I'm shotting Dias and this is cheaters
and backstabers
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Shari Diaz
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