October 10, 2023 • 34 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Checking In with Michelle Williams, a production of
iHeartRadio and The Black Effect. There are some people that
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I admire from Afar, and I'm so glad that you know,
when I get a chance to spend time with them,
that they are that same person that I admire from Afar.
That's who they are up close. This woman has a
lot of balance. She does so much, but yet maintains
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an amazing light about her and she does not compromise
the light within her at all. She's warm hearted, she's
so positive, and she gonna make you feel alright. I'm
so excited for y'all to tap in, lock in to
see who I get to talk to next on this
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episode of Checking In. Hey, everybody, good morning, good afternoon,
good evening, wherever you are. I'm so excited about this episode.
I say it every episode because every episode that I
have a guest, it's always somebody that I look forward
to talking to. So I'm always excited about talking to
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my guest. This next guest is one of the most
respected artists I feel like in gospel, I feel like
in every genre, I feel like people love them some
Erica Campbell, the Grammy Award winning Stellar Award winning Double
Award winning artists Erica Campbell, one half of the duo
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Mary Mary. Listen, y'all, wait a minute, passes, Why are
you called pastor yet?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
How'd that go?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Just past his?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Why wasn't okay?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Listen? First lady of California Worship Center and guess what. Yes,
national syndicated radio host of Get Up in the Morning,
Get Up Mornings with Erica Campbell, and I am excited
I have done. I could go on and on and
on about Erica Campbell, but y'all, she is here. She
has an amazing new album that is out right now.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Give it up.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Everybody, and welcome Erica Campbell to checking in.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Thank you. I'm glad to be here. I was so
excited when I saw this on my goternerary.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yes, well, I love your album. It was so soothing.
I listened to it on the plane I think I
was traveling back from Dallas to Atlanta, and I love it.
The title of it is I Love You, Yes. And
I loved the integration of the music that we love
the Hawkins, which I know. If y'all know Erica Campbell,
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y'all know she loved Hawkins. She loves the Hawkins and
so for you to integrate that and then your guest
p J Mooreton, Stevie Wonder, your sister Tina Campbell, your
chair and producing, Warren like, now, I don't know what
y'all thinking, but it can't be no Erica Campbell album without.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Absolutely not, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So I just wanted to tell you that, like I
loved how you integrated the old. I wouldn't say, well, the.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
It is old. It is, it is old the Foundation Foundation.
I like that. That's good. That's good.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
The Foundation's that planned.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
This record literally kind of evolved. So when we did
the I Love You song, I remember singing dear Jesus,
I Love You in tribute to Walter Hawkins when he passed,
and I fell in love with the rendition that we had.
And so when we did that song, Warren said, let's
put that with that because we were going to do
it the whole song. But it was a perfect marriage
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of that song with with the I Love You song
that I did was So it just is that the
one smoke is on thank You Yes, and the did
Jesus I Love You is what Stevie Wonder. The record
is still new. The record is still new. It's still new, yes,
but having Stevie Wonder and you know on a Hawking
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song was I thought, really really cool. I just I
like this record.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I know sometimes you do. I have done records and
been so critical. I really didn't listen to them very
much because I wish I would have done something different,
I wrote a different lyric. But this I love this record.
I am proud of this record. It is my I
Love You record because I love me, I love God,
I love people, and being able to share this with people.
Far too many people have put love within the confines
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of their breakup or family issue, or even their lack
of self love, so they don't even believe in it.
And I'm praying that this record gives me the opportunity
to articulate God's love and self love with him at
the center. Because our world is very mean. Center Jesus
is my center. I'm all right, Okay's okay, We'll put
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Jesus at the center. Then I become something special. So
that's the whole purpose of this I Love You movement,
the songs, all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Well, I first of all, I'm so shocked to hear
you say that on previous records when you listen to him, like, man,
I wish I would have done this. I wish I
would have Maybe I'm like, like, y'all have won awards
because of your writing. Yeah, shocked that you were like, Yeah,
I wish I would have. I don't want to I
don't want to put you on the spot, but I'm like,
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is there something.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
That it's a part of a verse and can't give
up now that I always wanted to sing over Oly.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Look at me? Now I want to go and look
it up.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'm gonna have people looking for stuff, but.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
I gotta be present for the interview. But I'm a
Google Queen Tide, Like, wait a minute, let me go
what Yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
We were recording that song, Me and Tina were both
in the booth at the same time, and apparently we
weren't giving Warren what he was looking for, and so
he's very He's a lot of things in the studio.
But I understand in order to get to a level
of things that are special, because I don't want to
say perfection, it's not that it's perfect what it's supposed
to be. You can't be obsessed with perfection, you have
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to allow heart and feeling, which means maybe a note
or a run may not be perfectly executed, but it
may be passionate. Okay, you know what I mean. And
he would always say, well, sure, if you want to
sacrifice passion for perfection, go ahead. People like passion, perfection
doesn't always get attention, and so even some of the
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best records that we love by some of our greatest artists,
maybe the drums weren't what they needed to be, or
sonically it was different, but there was something that had
heart in it. And that's always what I'm after. So
it's okay that my obsession with making sure it's all
as supposed to be, I can. I can let it ride. Okay,
that passion, Eric, We're just gonna call that bed no
passion passion.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Oh so, I guess when we have to, maybe when
we're in the audience and maybe someone is up singing
or performing, you could be like, that was passion's perfection.
So crazy, that was passion. That's the new Let the
Lord use your baby. That's all right, Amen, take your time.
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We're gonna say that that was passion.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Amen, Amen, ad I've had those moments if I.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Had twenty fingers, I probably could be like, yeah, yeah,
I totally understand. I've had passionate moments.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
But you know what, learning to overcome them, learning that
they are part of your story, the moments when you
weren't one hundred percent. Learning to accept that, I think
has been so liberating for me. I was talking to
someone about my mom earlier and saying how she's always
said you can live anything. Now, live anything down. Knowing
that I can anything down keeps me from running from
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what has been, you know what I mean, keeps me
from living in shame. Knowing that everybody has made a mistake.
The Scripture says it like this, for all have sinned
and followen short of the glory of God. When I
allow myself that, then I don't have to make excuses
or apologize overly apologize for something that kind of comes
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with life. Some people are so held hostage to their mistakes,
which I get it. Depending on how you were raised.
That could mean like my success or my failure because
I made a mistake. But I think it's people in
the world have made mistakes and they got up and
kept going.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
And I think, like you said, we can't make our
identity based on our failures or mistakes, you know, because
that's that's when it's like, Okay, you are just a
walking advertisement of shame or regret or hurt or pain.
And so I totally get that. And I will say
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that there are some artists who openly show compassion and
love and grace for some of everybody. You are one
of them. Why do you do that? And I don't
mean that, like why, I like, there's no shame that
if somebody's in the news for something crazy, I like you,
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Tasha Cobbs. Are so many people are like, no, I'm
standing with my brother, I'm standing with my sister.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Yeah, because I'm not a real friend. If I'm only
a friend when you're doing good, that's not a real friend.
I'm not a real friend or a supporter. I'm not
even in my opinion, that's not You're not a good person.
If you throw people away because they made a mistake,
you know what I'm saying. That's very self centered. And
a lot of people's friendship is I'm friends with you
because I look good being friends with you. Let me
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stand in close proximity to you because you're something. And
now they're going to think I'm something, Well, if you fail,
if you have an issue, let me get away from you,
because I don't want to look bad. I'm not that
kind of friend I've had, you know, for when I
have my sisters right, and so we're all different, have
gone through, gone through different things, and I'm always gonna
rock with my sisters. But I also have a core
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group of friends that I call the G's that I've
known since childhood and we've been through everything together, divorces, breakups, successes, failures, misunderstandings,
and allowing us to grow. So one of my friends,
as I was becoming myself, being okay with being myself,
I begin to speak up more.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
They were used to the Eraka that didn't speak up
very much. They were used to me being the quiet Eerica.
They were used to me saying, oh, whatever y'all want
to do, wherever y'all go. Well I learned to say, well, no,
I don't like that, well let's go here. And at
first they were like, uh uh, she changing because she's this,
And I said, this don't have nothing to do with
light's camera action and everything with me owning my voice
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and liking it and knowing that it's okay, and not
having this private self conversation or what if they don't agree,
what if they don't think it's funny. Well, I won't
say that and I won't do that, just tear myself down.
Once I got comfortable with me, I love, love, love
that my friends allowed me to grow. I said, y'all,
I'm growing up and I don't want to lose my
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friends because I'm growing up. Y'all grow with me, Allow
me to grow, allow me to speak my piece, allow
me to throw my opinion and it be okay, because
sometimes you have your opinionated friends, the quiet friends, this, that,
and then we started and when I said that, then
all of us started speaking up. Don't call me late, friend.
I know I'm late, but I don't want to be
and y'all laugh at it. And it's something that I'm
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trying to change, you know what I mean? Or don't
call me the friend. Don't say I'm dumb all the time,
because I actually kind of low key struggle with that.
And so when people are surrounded by people they love,
you can be the best honest version of yourself. I'm
so blessed that I have friends while I can go
and take the wig off. I can cry, I can
talk about the industry and what I don't and what's confusing,
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and what's hurt and what's hard. The fact that I mean,
you know, you can get on a red carpet and
be having a good moment, They're going to remind you
of the worst moment in your career.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
If you're not strong enough, if you don't have a
good center and good people around you, it could make
some people crumble by some people who don't like interviews.
But because I have people who love me, and I
know I can live anything down and I know I
can still be kind. I don't have to be mean
and nasty. It's so good.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Something you said about owning your voice and being okay
with Instead of being the passive Erica, you are now
the bold, confident Erica who is obviously maybe has set
some boundaries and you stand on those boundaries. It made
me think of something doctor Henry Cloud said, when you
are quiet about your boundaries in an effort to seem
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more likable or to avoid conflict, you will become more resentful.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yes, yes, though, that's what made me think of that.
You get angry really really do. And I remember being that.
I remember being nice because it's not nice to say, well,
I don't I don't really rock with them very well,
Oh that's not nice. And so then I allow people
in my space that don't mean me, well, that don't
mean my family well, because I don't want to be mean.
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But I know what I felt in my spirit when
they walked in the room.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
And so I've learned that it's okay to say I'm sorry,
would you give us a moment?
Speaker 1 (13:24):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
I don't have to say your spirit off, I don't
like your energy. I don't have to say that. I
just like, hey, can you give us a moment? Or
if I'm having a certain conversation and you see people,
it's just you have to be aware of you and
okay with being you. Yes, I like it's coming from
a good place. If it's coming from a good place,
I should be able to say it. If I'm speaking
it in love, I believe people will receive it. Sometimes
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they won't, and I have to be okay with that too,
because I don't believe going I should have said I
should have I shouldn't have went along with that, I
shouldn't have agreed to it. It's not what I wanted
to do, it's not how I felt.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
True, And I think that's the key to even reducing
the anxiety. And some of our anxiety is self induced
because we won't say it even afraid, you know, so
I totally, I totally totally get that. Thank you for
sharing that while I was trying to stay focused on
I love you your album, but I love all the
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life moments and the gems that you give. Is congratulations
for your single Positive that was Grammy nominated and you
actually want to NAACP Image Award for that song Positive,
and y'all, the song Positive is the truth and you
can see it in Erica's face and her countenance, in
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her the fruit of her life actually speaks to that.
So congratulations to that. How you have fun, you have
your choices. I love with just there you got some
freedom and I think I'm just I think I keep
maybe if this interview keeps going back to the freedom
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and being bold and courageous for a reason, can you
share with us on that even like I said, the
big hair, the colorful hair, the makeup, everybody in the video,
what's having fun.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yes, I think freedom is infectious, you know what I mean?
When I am free, then I give other people license
to be free. You know, growing up churchy and growing
up Church of God in Christ, you can live your
life with this tagline of I don't want them to
be mad. I don't want them to understand, not understand,
you know what I mean. Every creative, God given, beautiful,
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amazing idea is followed up by who but are they
gonna get mad? And I just think that you do
the creativity a disservice by putting it in a box
of people's misunderstanding. So I choose not to do it.
You know, I just choose to be free. And in
that song I say it all over and over again,
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I choose to be I know who I am, and
I know I know the difference between the two. I
know who's on the throne, on the throne of my life.
He tells me all the wrong left and when to
go right. He's the King, he's the God, he's the biggest,
he's the truth, he's the life, he's the realest. When
he tells me he loves me, I feel it. Ay,
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you know those lyrics have become true for me. And
I lived them before I sang them, so now that
I'm singing them, I can share them with such passion.
And that's why I knew this record had to be
called I Love You. And it's not just an album,
It is a movement. People are afraid of love. They're
scared of love. They don't understand it. But I say,
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go back to the source. Go back to the fact
that God is love, you know what I mean. Go
back to the fact that we say love is patient,
Love is kind, for God so loved the world that
he gaves gives, you know.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
What I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Love takes its time, Love keeps no record of wrong right.
Love doesn't want around with his fists up. Don't you
hurt me? I love, you can't hurt me.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
That's so good with this album. Did you feel pressure?
You've been in the game a long time. Are you
still feeling pressure?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
What did I feel? I feel like I always have
to pay attention to what has been done, but also
prepare for what is next. One of my prayers that
will pray pretty regularly, especially at my church, is Lord,
prepare me for what you have prepared for.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
No, I just you said, Lord, prepare me, So I
was ready.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
When no, prepare me for what you have prepared for me?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Got it?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Ye finished?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I can walk into this next season freely. I did.
If I can be honest, I will say I spent
a lot of time with my vocal coach and some
time in therapy because when I first started doing the
solo career, I was still doing Mary Mary, I was
doing the reality show. I had just had a baby,
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I had just started the church and just started the
radio show. So I was overwhelmed and my body was stretched.
I was like a rubber band about to pop. And
most of the times when I got up to sing,
I was just hoping my voice showed up, and a
lot of times it did not, partially because I was
way too nervous, partially because I wasn't resting enough. I
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knew I was supposed to keep going, but I probably
should have taken some time to just rest and settle myself.
But you know, when you're doing a reality show, they
push you. So that was that which I'm not mad
at because I said yes, So I can't be mad
at them if I said yes to But during this
process of getting ready for this record, and you know,
the pandemic, which gave me time and space. Yes, I
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was able to really grow. I feel so much more
comfortable with my voice. I feel like I've been in
the best voice that I've been in my life. I'm
like I said, this is the first time I've listened
and not cringed a little bit or not, you know,
like a lot. Wow.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
That okay. So I am excited to go back and
continue to listen and listen with this information, with this
knowledge that you're giving us from the standpoint, you feel
more confident and like you said, just assured. And this
is my voice and this is this is what it is.
People don't you were trained in classical music? Did you trained?
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I did?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
I did so. I went to college for about three
four years before I left to do music and study classical.
But when I first you know, when you're singing in church,
you don't use that part of your voice. Started marry Mary.
I didn't use that part of my voice, and so
I felt a little intimidated because everybody else was. And
I was like, really, my strong suit, you know, I
do it, but there's another side of me that I
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would love to share. But you know, gospel art are
if you come out soft and beautiful. They waiting for
the holler. They don't stand up until you holler. They
don't stand up until you do. Seventy five million runs.
So you feel this bit of and yes, even where
I am learning to be comfortable, that's what I was
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dealing with. That's where my mind was, not where I
am now. But I'm aware that the enemy is always
trying to tear you down. He's always trying to get
you off course. And part of getting back on course
is feeling comfortable in my own skin, embracing who I
am and when I started when I didn't start there
during the pandemic, but I went during the pandemic because
I was like, nothing is wrong, but some ain't right.
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And I believe that God was preparing me to pay
attention to me differently so I could guess, I love
you record you know.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
That's so good.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I feel really good.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
We know of Erica Campbell as I stayed at one
half of the duo Mary Mary and Mary Mary was
able to cross over into what people will call secular right.
And then you, as a solo artist, you have been
able to do the same thing to someone out here
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who feels like by the way, y'all, they didn't purposely
do it. I don't think y'all purposely was like, Okay,
we're gonna put it, make a track beat so we
could make sure we're on R and B. The reason
why I say that feel all right? You know you
spit number one, you know, on the Billboard Gospel charts.
But then there's possibilities with other songs on the record.
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It can be an R and B and let's keep
it real. There's been some criticism of folks that live
on the R and B charts and the gospel charts.
I get to say, I think it's hater talk to
me me.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I just think they don't understand a lot of wrong teaching.
A little bit of jealousy mixed in there as well,
but mostly wrong teaching on where our light below? You
know what I mean. If we turn all the lights
out in this room, it just takes one light to
dispel the darkness we belong in those spaces we are
supposed to go there. I wasn't mad when they told
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me they were playing blaming on an alcohol and play
God in me. That didn't bother me because somebody heard
God and me it didn't minimize the God in me,
because what if somebody said before or after? And we've
got to remember, if we're trying to share this light
with people that don't know, we've got to go in
spacess and be aware that there may be somebody that
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won't understand it. They didn't all love Jesus. It was
the Christians that said crucifying. So it's okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
What's great too? I can imagine if you're walking in
the airport. You know, y'all, we also get the chance
to hear Erica every morning on Get up Erica a
listenership of seven million viewers.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
So what I'm.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Getting to is, when you're walking in the airport, because
of who we know you to be as the artist,
and now who people will get to hear you also be.
Every day, you're gonna have people from all walks of
life walking up to you. Right, And I'm like, and
then people, oh my gosh, your music touched me in
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such an amazing way. But you have a way. I
think that's amazing. It speaks to who you are. Because
she got that site. She's from Inglewood, so she's got
what you might think, but don't stereotype Inglewood. It's not
all that, it's not all the it's not none of that.
It's not that either. But I just want to speak
to Remember I said, your music lives on so many genres.
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You know, how is that when the people walk up
to you and you're like, Okay, you definitely on R
and B side. You're in the gossip.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
You know what it feels like love to me? You
write songs and you create songs, and you hope and
prade that it touches and reaches people.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I'm talking to them early in the morning, hoping that
I'm saying something that they believe.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Leave.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I always ask is this music usable? Can they use
it in their life? What I'm saying, can they use it?
Can they apply it to a situation or a circumstance
or even a problem. And so when they come up
and say that, then I feel like, yeah, Erica, you
did your job. So I give them a hug or
talk to them or take a picture because I appreciate
the fact that I have the opportunity to share with
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the world.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
There was a time when I wanted to when I
was you know, sitting on a bunk bed holding a
faultless spray starch can, hoping for the opportunity to sing
for the world. And so now that I actually get
to do it, I never forget that time. I never
forget the apartment. I never forget that time when you
know Raggedy Toyota Turseell, waiting for opportunity. I never forget
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when my lunch was a boiled egg. You know what
I'm saying, Well, I'm doing here hoping for my chance.
I never forget listening to stand in my car going gosh,
I thought I was doing everything right. Why is it
taking so long? I started singing at five, my first
ho to come out till I was twenty eight. So
that's a lot of time, you know. But if you
are patient with God's time, and you remember that when
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I see people, I go, you waited for this, You
pray for this. So I'm tired sometimes I'm overwhelmed sometimes
and you know it's not always easy, but I'm going
you pray, pray for this opportunity. Okay. Then my prayer
becomes God, give me strength to do this, to know
when to set boundaries. And my team knows if they
hear me go all right. That means I know I'm empty.
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I don't stay beyond my capacity. I understand my capacity.
So sometimes I can say yes, sometimes I cannot. You know,
my church at Kelly Worship, at the end of service,
I go to the back and I shake hands. Well,
some days I go I don't have enough today. I
don't want to respond wrong. I don't want them to
see I don't have enough of that today. So husby
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or worship leader, you handle it because we got to,
you know, say goodbye and thank you for coming. But
I'm very aware of Like I said, I know who
I am, and i know I'm not.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Wearing many hats, wife, mother, sister, friend, cousin. Okay, artist,
radio host and first lady of Cali Worship. And you
just named something. I wondered, could you just be there
and just be first Lady or do people be like, Okay,
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that's the artist. You know you be in that assignment,
in that role of first I.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Need less to have conversations with CC Winings, who does
it well, and with Haard Clark Shared, who does it well.
It is not easy, but I've got a great, great
staff at the church.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
She won't be singing every Sunday because you got a record.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
But you know, I do alter call and which means
you're gonna exort and sing or you know, or if
I do our faith declaration before offering time and sometimes
the power and presence moves or is that a ta
end of what the worship team was singing? So they
started singing this song called you did more than I
ever expected. That song took me down. Yeah, it took
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me down. So yes, sometimes not the artist, but just Erica,
who loves to sing for Jesus, just comes out. But
it's never planned. It was never like, oh, lady Erica
Campbell is doing dot dot dot. I think the first
time we're doing that is for this album. We were
trying to decide where the release was going to be
and what are we going to do with at a
venue on My husband was like, do it at the church.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
I was like, oh, go on, I love that, and
y'all she is on tour as we speak.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Yes, so I've done New York at Sony Hall, which
was phenomenal, and then we did DC Atlanta, Chicago or
do La Sacramento. You know, the whole thing. You know
how it goes, just follow me on social media, you'll see,
well a.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Lot do you feel like it's the last album? Do
you ever feel that way? Like, Okay, I just want
to be home, y'all, y'all, this is this is it?
Speaker 2 (28:05):
Okay, I love that, I love what I do. I
absolutely love it.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Well.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
As we say in church, I won't belabor the time,
but I'm warning because it's helping me just for balance.
With everything that you do, it has to take an
understanding spouse to cover you, push you, and be like
I got you, because he like, I know she's coming
back home anyway, you know, and as a pastor's wife,
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how has that been?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
So he is very, very understanding, so supportive of all
that I do. And if ever I'm going too long,
he just hops on a plane. When we were in Atlanta,
christ just turned nineteen, so he came and you know,
we had brunch with her and hung out and went
to an event together smack dab in the middle of
this promo schedule. So we make our moments. He was like,
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I'm the boss, and you're the boss. When we need
to stop and see each other, that's what we'll do.
And so using wisdom of when we need to take
that time, you know, to reconnect, to make sure that
that we strengthen each other, because that's how I see it.
I see us as strengthening each other and then you know,
we go out and conquer the world. He always says,
make it count. He was like, just don't leave for nothing.
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And sometimes when it's hard, you know, and we don't
want to leave each other, or there's something going on
because now Zaiah's performing, she's dancing, my son is producing,
he's in the YOLO, which is Youth Orchestra of Los Angeles. Uh,
you know, he says, when you leave, just make it count.
So sometimes even if there's a little sadness in my heart,
I'll just go all right, baby, Yes, I'll make it
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count because you have to. You know, when you commit
to something, sometimes you say yes when you don't realize
I'm gonna be tired by the time this gig comes.
And I honor my commitments and uh, yeah, we just
make it.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Erica, thank you so much for checking in.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
The foundation of checking in is about mental health. And
so if you feel like someone could be tuning in
today who's just been maybe having or feeling like they've
been have some debilitating anxiety or just depression that is
making them stuck feeling stuck. Can you speak into them?
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Yes, I would say that life and death lie in
the power of the tongue, but I'll take it even further.
It can lie in your thoughts life and death. And
you can decide to keep your mind stayed on him
and he'll keep you in perfect peace, and you can
renew your mind and also go to therapy. But you
can make some different choices of what you're watching, what
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you're seeing, and what you are saying about yourself. What
you say to yourself about yourself is so important. I
speak life, health and healing. I speak the love of
God over your life, whatever it is that's plaguing you,
the thoughts that won't go away, that keep you up
in night. I pray the peace of God so that
you rest. His word says he wants his beloved to
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have rest. We are beloved of God. You are fearfully
and wonderfully made. Rest in that trust that say that
to yourself. Shut out the voices you know. Whatever you
need to do, therapy, your prayer circle, your village, just
don't try to do it by yourself. You don't have
to do this by yourself. You know, know that there
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are people praying for you and wishing you well. And
I hope you shine. I hope you thrive. I hope
you overcome. I hope you walk in your wealthy place
and your divine purpose and look cute doing it.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
Come on, y'ah, listen. I feel like I'm going to
sleep good tonight. I don't think I snore, but I
think I might even get a little snoring. I mean
happy best. I'm almost I don't know if I snore
or not. Whoever is listening to and if that prayer
was for you and her speaking life into you and
over you. I pray that you're leap. Tonight is some
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of the best sleep you have ever had, y'all. Please
make sure you check out her new album, I Love You,
her Fall Tour. Feel alright, y'all, make.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Sure if you can.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
If you can check her out, go ahead and hang out. Okay,
you could be ratchet.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
It's fine, it's fine. You're good.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
You're good, You good, you good.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Thank you for checking in a pleasure.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
I love you, I love you. I'll see you soon.
See there, I told y'all, listen, Erica Campbell, just that's
just what she is. She's such a gift, and she
just has a way about herself that just makes you
feel better better, and she lives what she sings about.
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And that's why when you're around her, if you're sad,
you'll become happy, You'll be strengthened, you'll be inspired. And
so I am just so praying that this episode does
for you what the conversation with her has done for me. Yeah,
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there are moments where I have guests where I get
a lot out of the conversation too, all right, So
just know that I love y'all so much, and thank
y'all so much for supporting checking in and downloading the episodes.
I cannot wait for twenty twenty four. I'm already anticipating
twenty twenty four and the good things that we've got
in store. So be patient with me as I make
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some pivots and all that stuff. We're working, We're working,
We're working, all right.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
I love you.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
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I admire from Afar, and I'm so glad that you know,
when I get a chance to spend time with them,
that they are that same person that I admire from Afar.
That's who they are up close. This woman has a
lot of balance. She does so much, but yet maintains
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an amazing light about her and she does not compromise
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see who I get to talk to next on this
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episode of Checking In. Hey, everybody, good morning, good afternoon,
good evening, wherever you are. I'm so excited about this episode.
I say it every episode because every episode that I
have a guest, it's always somebody that I look forward
to talking to. So I'm always excited about talking to
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my guest. This next guest is one of the most
respected artists I feel like in gospel, I feel like
in every genre, I feel like people love them some
Erica Campbell, the Grammy Award winning Stellar Award winning Double
Award winning artists Erica Campbell, one half of the duo
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Mary Mary. Listen, y'all, wait a minute, passes, Why are
you called pastor yet?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
How'd that go?
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Just past his?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Why wasn't okay?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Listen? First lady of California Worship Center and guess what. Yes,
national syndicated radio host of Get Up in the Morning,
Get Up Mornings with Erica Campbell, and I am excited
I have done. I could go on and on and
on about Erica Campbell, but y'all, she is here. She
has an amazing new album that is out right now.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Give it up.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Everybody, and welcome Erica Campbell to checking in.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Thank you. I'm glad to be here. I was so
excited when I saw this on my goternerary.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yes, well, I love your album. It was so soothing.
I listened to it on the plane I think I
was traveling back from Dallas to Atlanta, and I love it.
The title of it is I Love You, Yes. And
I loved the integration of the music that we love
the Hawkins, which I know. If y'all know Erica Campbell,
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y'all know she loved Hawkins. She loves the Hawkins and
so for you to integrate that and then your guest
p J Mooreton, Stevie Wonder, your sister Tina Campbell, your
chair and producing, Warren like, now, I don't know what
y'all thinking, but it can't be no Erica Campbell album without.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Absolutely not, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
So I just wanted to tell you that, like I
loved how you integrated the old. I wouldn't say, well, the.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
It is old. It is, it is old the Foundation Foundation.
I like that. That's good. That's good.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
The Foundation's that planned.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
This record literally kind of evolved. So when we did
the I Love You song, I remember singing dear Jesus,
I Love You in tribute to Walter Hawkins when he passed,
and I fell in love with the rendition that we had.
And so when we did that song, Warren said, let's
put that with that because we were going to do
it the whole song. But it was a perfect marriage
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of that song with with the I Love You song
that I did was So it just is that the
one smoke is on thank You Yes, and the did
Jesus I Love You is what Stevie Wonder. The record
is still new. The record is still new. It's still new, yes,
but having Stevie Wonder and you know on a Hawking
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song was I thought, really really cool. I just I
like this record.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I know sometimes you do. I have done records and
been so critical. I really didn't listen to them very
much because I wish I would have done something different,
I wrote a different lyric. But this I love this record.
I am proud of this record. It is my I
Love You record because I love me, I love God,
I love people, and being able to share this with people.
Far too many people have put love within the confines
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of their breakup or family issue, or even their lack
of self love, so they don't even believe in it.
And I'm praying that this record gives me the opportunity
to articulate God's love and self love with him at
the center. Because our world is very mean. Center Jesus
is my center. I'm all right, Okay's okay, We'll put
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Jesus at the center. Then I become something special. So
that's the whole purpose of this I Love You movement,
the songs, all of it.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Well, I first of all, I'm so shocked to hear
you say that on previous records when you listen to him, like, man,
I wish I would have done this. I wish I
would have Maybe I'm like, like, y'all have won awards
because of your writing. Yeah, shocked that you were like, Yeah,
I wish I would have. I don't want to I
don't want to put you on the spot, but I'm like,
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is there something.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
That it's a part of a verse and can't give
up now that I always wanted to sing over Oly.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Look at me? Now I want to go and look
it up.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
I'm gonna have people looking for stuff, but.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
I gotta be present for the interview. But I'm a
Google Queen Tide, Like, wait a minute, let me go
what Yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
We were recording that song, Me and Tina were both
in the booth at the same time, and apparently we
weren't giving Warren what he was looking for, and so
he's very He's a lot of things in the studio.
But I understand in order to get to a level
of things that are special, because I don't want to
say perfection, it's not that it's perfect what it's supposed
to be. You can't be obsessed with perfection, you have
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to allow heart and feeling, which means maybe a note
or a run may not be perfectly executed, but it
may be passionate. Okay, you know what I mean. And
he would always say, well, sure, if you want to
sacrifice passion for perfection, go ahead. People like passion, perfection
doesn't always get attention, and so even some of the
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best records that we love by some of our greatest artists,
maybe the drums weren't what they needed to be, or
sonically it was different, but there was something that had
heart in it. And that's always what I'm after. So
it's okay that my obsession with making sure it's all
as supposed to be, I can. I can let it ride. Okay,
that passion, Eric, We're just gonna call that bed no
passion passion.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Oh so, I guess when we have to, maybe when
we're in the audience and maybe someone is up singing
or performing, you could be like, that was passion's perfection.
So crazy, that was passion. That's the new Let the
Lord use your baby. That's all right, Amen, take your time.
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We're gonna say that that was passion.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Amen, Amen, ad I've had those moments if I.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Had twenty fingers, I probably could be like, yeah, yeah,
I totally understand. I've had passionate moments.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
But you know what, learning to overcome them, learning that
they are part of your story, the moments when you
weren't one hundred percent. Learning to accept that, I think
has been so liberating for me. I was talking to
someone about my mom earlier and saying how she's always
said you can live anything. Now, live anything down. Knowing
that I can anything down keeps me from running from
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what has been, you know what I mean, keeps me
from living in shame. Knowing that everybody has made a mistake.
The Scripture says it like this, for all have sinned
and followen short of the glory of God. When I
allow myself that, then I don't have to make excuses
or apologize overly apologize for something that kind of comes
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with life. Some people are so held hostage to their mistakes,
which I get it. Depending on how you were raised.
That could mean like my success or my failure because
I made a mistake. But I think it's people in
the world have made mistakes and they got up and
kept going.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
And I think, like you said, we can't make our
identity based on our failures or mistakes, you know, because
that's that's when it's like, Okay, you are just a
walking advertisement of shame or regret or hurt or pain.
And so I totally get that. And I will say
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that there are some artists who openly show compassion and
love and grace for some of everybody. You are one
of them. Why do you do that? And I don't
mean that, like why, I like, there's no shame that
if somebody's in the news for something crazy, I like you,
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Tasha Cobbs. Are so many people are like, no, I'm
standing with my brother, I'm standing with my sister.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Yeah, because I'm not a real friend. If I'm only
a friend when you're doing good, that's not a real friend.
I'm not a real friend or a supporter. I'm not
even in my opinion, that's not You're not a good person.
If you throw people away because they made a mistake,
you know what I'm saying. That's very self centered. And
a lot of people's friendship is I'm friends with you
because I look good being friends with you. Let me
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stand in close proximity to you because you're something. And
now they're going to think I'm something, Well, if you fail,
if you have an issue, let me get away from you,
because I don't want to look bad. I'm not that
kind of friend I've had, you know, for when I
have my sisters right, and so we're all different, have
gone through, gone through different things, and I'm always gonna
rock with my sisters. But I also have a core
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group of friends that I call the G's that I've
known since childhood and we've been through everything together, divorces, breakups, successes, failures, misunderstandings,
and allowing us to grow. So one of my friends,
as I was becoming myself, being okay with being myself,
I begin to speak up more.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Well.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
They were used to the Eraka that didn't speak up
very much. They were used to me being the quiet Eerica.
They were used to me saying, oh, whatever y'all want
to do, wherever y'all go. Well I learned to say, well, no,
I don't like that, well let's go here. And at
first they were like, uh uh, she changing because she's this,
And I said, this don't have nothing to do with
light's camera action and everything with me owning my voice
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and liking it and knowing that it's okay, and not
having this private self conversation or what if they don't agree,
what if they don't think it's funny. Well, I won't
say that and I won't do that, just tear myself down.
Once I got comfortable with me, I love, love, love
that my friends allowed me to grow. I said, y'all,
I'm growing up and I don't want to lose my
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friends because I'm growing up. Y'all grow with me, Allow
me to grow, allow me to speak my piece, allow
me to throw my opinion and it be okay, because
sometimes you have your opinionated friends, the quiet friends, this, that,
and then we started and when I said that, then
all of us started speaking up. Don't call me late, friend.
I know I'm late, but I don't want to be
and y'all laugh at it. And it's something that I'm
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trying to change, you know what I mean? Or don't
call me the friend. Don't say I'm dumb all the time,
because I actually kind of low key struggle with that.
And so when people are surrounded by people they love,
you can be the best honest version of yourself. I'm
so blessed that I have friends while I can go
and take the wig off. I can cry, I can
talk about the industry and what I don't and what's confusing,
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and what's hurt and what's hard. The fact that I mean,
you know, you can get on a red carpet and
be having a good moment, They're going to remind you
of the worst moment in your career.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
If you're not strong enough, if you don't have a
good center and good people around you, it could make
some people crumble by some people who don't like interviews.
But because I have people who love me, and I
know I can live anything down and I know I
can still be kind. I don't have to be mean
and nasty. It's so good.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Something you said about owning your voice and being okay
with Instead of being the passive Erica, you are now
the bold, confident Erica who is obviously maybe has set
some boundaries and you stand on those boundaries. It made
me think of something doctor Henry Cloud said, when you
are quiet about your boundaries in an effort to seem
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more likable or to avoid conflict, you will become more resentful.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yes, yes, though, that's what made me think of that.
You get angry really really do. And I remember being that.
I remember being nice because it's not nice to say, well,
I don't I don't really rock with them very well,
Oh that's not nice. And so then I allow people
in my space that don't mean me, well, that don't
mean my family well, because I don't want to be mean.
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But I know what I felt in my spirit when
they walked in the room.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
And so I've learned that it's okay to say I'm sorry,
would you give us a moment?
Speaker 1 (13:24):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
I don't have to say your spirit off, I don't
like your energy. I don't have to say that. I
just like, hey, can you give us a moment? Or
if I'm having a certain conversation and you see people,
it's just you have to be aware of you and
okay with being you. Yes, I like it's coming from
a good place. If it's coming from a good place,
I should be able to say it. If I'm speaking
it in love, I believe people will receive it. Sometimes
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they won't, and I have to be okay with that too,
because I don't believe going I should have said I
should have I shouldn't have went along with that, I
shouldn't have agreed to it. It's not what I wanted
to do, it's not how I felt.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
True, And I think that's the key to even reducing
the anxiety. And some of our anxiety is self induced
because we won't say it even afraid, you know, so
I totally, I totally totally get that. Thank you for
sharing that while I was trying to stay focused on
I love you your album, but I love all the
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life moments and the gems that you give. Is congratulations
for your single Positive that was Grammy nominated and you
actually want to NAACP Image Award for that song Positive,
and y'all, the song Positive is the truth and you
can see it in Erica's face and her countenance, in
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her the fruit of her life actually speaks to that.
So congratulations to that. How you have fun, you have
your choices. I love with just there you got some
freedom and I think I'm just I think I keep
maybe if this interview keeps going back to the freedom
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and being bold and courageous for a reason, can you
share with us on that even like I said, the
big hair, the colorful hair, the makeup, everybody in the video,
what's having fun.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yes, I think freedom is infectious, you know what I mean?
When I am free, then I give other people license
to be free. You know, growing up churchy and growing
up Church of God in Christ, you can live your
life with this tagline of I don't want them to
be mad. I don't want them to understand, not understand,
you know what I mean. Every creative, God given, beautiful,
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amazing idea is followed up by who but are they
gonna get mad? And I just think that you do
the creativity a disservice by putting it in a box
of people's misunderstanding. So I choose not to do it.
You know, I just choose to be free. And in
that song I say it all over and over again,
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I choose to be I know who I am, and
I know I know the difference between the two. I
know who's on the throne, on the throne of my life.
He tells me all the wrong left and when to
go right. He's the King, he's the God, he's the biggest,
he's the truth, he's the life, he's the realest. When
he tells me he loves me, I feel it. Ay,
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you know those lyrics have become true for me. And
I lived them before I sang them, so now that
I'm singing them, I can share them with such passion.
And that's why I knew this record had to be
called I Love You. And it's not just an album,
It is a movement. People are afraid of love. They're
scared of love. They don't understand it. But I say,
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go back to the source. Go back to the fact
that God is love, you know what I mean. Go
back to the fact that we say love is patient,
Love is kind, for God so loved the world that
he gaves gives, you know.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
What I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Love takes its time, Love keeps no record of wrong right.
Love doesn't want around with his fists up. Don't you
hurt me? I love, you can't hurt me.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
That's so good with this album. Did you feel pressure?
You've been in the game a long time. Are you
still feeling pressure?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
What did I feel? I feel like I always have
to pay attention to what has been done, but also
prepare for what is next. One of my prayers that
will pray pretty regularly, especially at my church, is Lord,
prepare me for what you have prepared for.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
No, I just you said, Lord, prepare me, So I
was ready.
Speaker 2 (17:41):
When no, prepare me for what you have prepared for me?
Speaker 3 (17:46):
Got it?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Ye finished?
Speaker 2 (17:50):
I can walk into this next season freely. I did.
If I can be honest, I will say I spent
a lot of time with my vocal coach and some
time in therapy because when I first started doing the
solo career, I was still doing Mary Mary, I was
doing the reality show. I had just had a baby,
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I had just started the church and just started the
radio show. So I was overwhelmed and my body was stretched.
I was like a rubber band about to pop. And
most of the times when I got up to sing,
I was just hoping my voice showed up, and a
lot of times it did not, partially because I was
way too nervous, partially because I wasn't resting enough. I
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knew I was supposed to keep going, but I probably
should have taken some time to just rest and settle myself.
But you know, when you're doing a reality show, they
push you. So that was that which I'm not mad
at because I said yes, So I can't be mad
at them if I said yes to But during this
process of getting ready for this record, and you know,
the pandemic, which gave me time and space. Yes, I
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was able to really grow. I feel so much more
comfortable with my voice. I feel like I've been in
the best voice that I've been in my life. I'm
like I said, this is the first time I've listened
and not cringed a little bit or not, you know,
like a lot. Wow.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
That okay. So I am excited to go back and
continue to listen and listen with this information, with this
knowledge that you're giving us from the standpoint, you feel
more confident and like you said, just assured. And this
is my voice and this is this is what it is.
People don't you were trained in classical music? Did you trained?
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I did?
Speaker 2 (19:35):
I did so. I went to college for about three
four years before I left to do music and study classical.
But when I first you know, when you're singing in church,
you don't use that part of your voice. Started marry Mary.
I didn't use that part of my voice, and so
I felt a little intimidated because everybody else was. And
I was like, really, my strong suit, you know, I
do it, but there's another side of me that I
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would love to share. But you know, gospel art are
if you come out soft and beautiful. They waiting for
the holler. They don't stand up until you holler. They
don't stand up until you do. Seventy five million runs.
So you feel this bit of and yes, even where
I am learning to be comfortable, that's what I was
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dealing with. That's where my mind was, not where I
am now. But I'm aware that the enemy is always
trying to tear you down. He's always trying to get
you off course. And part of getting back on course
is feeling comfortable in my own skin, embracing who I
am and when I started when I didn't start there
during the pandemic, but I went during the pandemic because
I was like, nothing is wrong, but some ain't right.
(20:39):
And I believe that God was preparing me to pay
attention to me differently so I could guess, I love
you record you know.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
That's so good.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
I feel really good.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
We know of Erica Campbell as I stayed at one
half of the duo Mary Mary and Mary Mary was
able to cross over into what people will call secular right.
And then you, as a solo artist, you have been
able to do the same thing to someone out here
(21:10):
who feels like by the way, y'all, they didn't purposely
do it. I don't think y'all purposely was like, Okay,
we're gonna put it, make a track beat so we
could make sure we're on R and B. The reason
why I say that feel all right? You know you
spit number one, you know, on the Billboard Gospel charts.
But then there's possibilities with other songs on the record.
(21:30):
It can be an R and B and let's keep
it real. There's been some criticism of folks that live
on the R and B charts and the gospel charts.
I get to say, I think it's hater talk to
me me.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I just think they don't understand a lot of wrong teaching.
A little bit of jealousy mixed in there as well,
but mostly wrong teaching on where our light below? You
know what I mean. If we turn all the lights
out in this room, it just takes one light to
dispel the darkness we belong in those spaces we are
supposed to go there. I wasn't mad when they told
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me they were playing blaming on an alcohol and play
God in me. That didn't bother me because somebody heard
God and me it didn't minimize the God in me,
because what if somebody said before or after? And we've
got to remember, if we're trying to share this light
with people that don't know, we've got to go in
spacess and be aware that there may be somebody that
(22:32):
won't understand it. They didn't all love Jesus. It was
the Christians that said crucifying. So it's okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
What's great too? I can imagine if you're walking in
the airport. You know, y'all, we also get the chance
to hear Erica every morning on Get up Erica a
listenership of seven million viewers.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
So what I'm.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Getting to is, when you're walking in the airport, because
of who we know you to be as the artist,
and now who people will get to hear you also be.
Every day, you're gonna have people from all walks of
life walking up to you. Right, And I'm like, and
then people, oh my gosh, your music touched me in
(23:13):
such an amazing way. But you have a way. I
think that's amazing. It speaks to who you are. Because
she got that site. She's from Inglewood, so she's got
what you might think, but don't stereotype Inglewood. It's not
all that, it's not all the it's not none of that.
It's not that either. But I just want to speak
to Remember I said, your music lives on so many genres.
(23:38):
You know, how is that when the people walk up
to you and you're like, Okay, you definitely on R
and B side. You're in the gossip.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
You know what it feels like love to me? You
write songs and you create songs, and you hope and
prade that it touches and reaches people.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I'm talking to them early in the morning, hoping that
I'm saying something that they believe.
Speaker 3 (24:00):
Leave.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
I always ask is this music usable? Can they use
it in their life? What I'm saying, can they use it?
Can they apply it to a situation or a circumstance
or even a problem. And so when they come up
and say that, then I feel like, yeah, Erica, you
did your job. So I give them a hug or
talk to them or take a picture because I appreciate
the fact that I have the opportunity to share with
(24:22):
the world.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
There was a time when I wanted to when I
was you know, sitting on a bunk bed holding a
faultless spray starch can, hoping for the opportunity to sing
for the world. And so now that I actually get
to do it, I never forget that time. I never
forget the apartment. I never forget that time when you
know Raggedy Toyota Turseell, waiting for opportunity. I never forget
(24:45):
when my lunch was a boiled egg. You know what
I'm saying, Well, I'm doing here hoping for my chance.
I never forget listening to stand in my car going gosh,
I thought I was doing everything right. Why is it
taking so long? I started singing at five, my first
ho to come out till I was twenty eight. So
that's a lot of time, you know. But if you
are patient with God's time, and you remember that when
(25:07):
I see people, I go, you waited for this, You
pray for this. So I'm tired sometimes I'm overwhelmed sometimes
and you know it's not always easy, but I'm going
you pray, pray for this opportunity. Okay. Then my prayer
becomes God, give me strength to do this, to know
when to set boundaries. And my team knows if they
hear me go all right. That means I know I'm empty.
(25:29):
I don't stay beyond my capacity. I understand my capacity.
So sometimes I can say yes, sometimes I cannot. You know,
my church at Kelly Worship, at the end of service,
I go to the back and I shake hands. Well,
some days I go I don't have enough today. I
don't want to respond wrong. I don't want them to
see I don't have enough of that today. So husby
(25:51):
or worship leader, you handle it because we got to,
you know, say goodbye and thank you for coming. But
I'm very aware of Like I said, I know who
I am, and i know I'm not.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
Wearing many hats, wife, mother, sister, friend, cousin. Okay, artist,
radio host and first lady of Cali Worship. And you
just named something. I wondered, could you just be there
and just be first Lady or do people be like, Okay,
(26:26):
that's the artist. You know you be in that assignment,
in that role of first I.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Need less to have conversations with CC Winings, who does
it well, and with Haard Clark Shared, who does it well.
It is not easy, but I've got a great, great
staff at the church.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
She won't be singing every Sunday because you got a record.
Speaker 2 (26:49):
But you know, I do alter call and which means
you're gonna exort and sing or you know, or if
I do our faith declaration before offering time and sometimes
the power and presence moves or is that a ta
end of what the worship team was singing? So they
started singing this song called you did more than I
ever expected. That song took me down. Yeah, it took
(27:12):
me down. So yes, sometimes not the artist, but just Erica,
who loves to sing for Jesus, just comes out. But
it's never planned. It was never like, oh, lady Erica
Campbell is doing dot dot dot. I think the first
time we're doing that is for this album. We were
trying to decide where the release was going to be
and what are we going to do with at a
venue on My husband was like, do it at the church.
Speaker 1 (27:34):
I was like, oh, go on, I love that, and
y'all she is on tour as we speak.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Yes, so I've done New York at Sony Hall, which
was phenomenal, and then we did DC Atlanta, Chicago or
do La Sacramento. You know, the whole thing. You know
how it goes, just follow me on social media, you'll see,
well a.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Lot do you feel like it's the last album? Do
you ever feel that way? Like, Okay, I just want
to be home, y'all, y'all, this is this is it?
Speaker 2 (28:05):
Okay, I love that, I love what I do. I
absolutely love it.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Well.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
As we say in church, I won't belabor the time,
but I'm warning because it's helping me just for balance.
With everything that you do, it has to take an
understanding spouse to cover you, push you, and be like
I got you, because he like, I know she's coming
back home anyway, you know, and as a pastor's wife,
(28:32):
how has that been?
Speaker 2 (28:35):
So he is very, very understanding, so supportive of all
that I do. And if ever I'm going too long,
he just hops on a plane. When we were in Atlanta,
christ just turned nineteen, so he came and you know,
we had brunch with her and hung out and went
to an event together smack dab in the middle of
this promo schedule. So we make our moments. He was like,
(28:55):
I'm the boss, and you're the boss. When we need
to stop and see each other, that's what we'll do.
And so using wisdom of when we need to take
that time, you know, to reconnect, to make sure that
that we strengthen each other, because that's how I see it.
I see us as strengthening each other and then you know,
we go out and conquer the world. He always says,
make it count. He was like, just don't leave for nothing.
(29:18):
And sometimes when it's hard, you know, and we don't
want to leave each other, or there's something going on
because now Zaiah's performing, she's dancing, my son is producing,
he's in the YOLO, which is Youth Orchestra of Los Angeles. Uh,
you know, he says, when you leave, just make it count.
So sometimes even if there's a little sadness in my heart,
I'll just go all right, baby, Yes, I'll make it
(29:40):
count because you have to. You know, when you commit
to something, sometimes you say yes when you don't realize
I'm gonna be tired by the time this gig comes.
And I honor my commitments and uh, yeah, we just
make it.
Speaker 1 (29:52):
Erica, thank you so much for checking in.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
The foundation of checking in is about mental health. And
so if you feel like someone could be tuning in
today who's just been maybe having or feeling like they've
been have some debilitating anxiety or just depression that is
making them stuck feeling stuck. Can you speak into them?
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Yes, I would say that life and death lie in
the power of the tongue, but I'll take it even further.
It can lie in your thoughts life and death. And
you can decide to keep your mind stayed on him
and he'll keep you in perfect peace, and you can
renew your mind and also go to therapy. But you
can make some different choices of what you're watching, what
(30:43):
you're seeing, and what you are saying about yourself. What
you say to yourself about yourself is so important. I
speak life, health and healing. I speak the love of
God over your life, whatever it is that's plaguing you,
the thoughts that won't go away, that keep you up
in night. I pray the peace of God so that
you rest. His word says he wants his beloved to
(31:06):
have rest. We are beloved of God. You are fearfully
and wonderfully made. Rest in that trust that say that
to yourself. Shut out the voices you know. Whatever you
need to do, therapy, your prayer circle, your village, just
don't try to do it by yourself. You don't have
to do this by yourself. You know, know that there
(31:27):
are people praying for you and wishing you well. And
I hope you shine. I hope you thrive. I hope
you overcome. I hope you walk in your wealthy place
and your divine purpose and look cute doing it.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
Come on, y'ah, listen. I feel like I'm going to
sleep good tonight. I don't think I snore, but I
think I might even get a little snoring. I mean
happy best. I'm almost I don't know if I snore
or not. Whoever is listening to and if that prayer
was for you and her speaking life into you and
over you. I pray that you're leap. Tonight is some
(32:00):
of the best sleep you have ever had, y'all. Please
make sure you check out her new album, I Love You,
her Fall Tour. Feel alright, y'all, make.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Sure if you can.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
If you can check her out, go ahead and hang out. Okay,
you could be ratchet.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
It's fine, it's fine. You're good.
Speaker 1 (32:20):
You're good, You good, you good.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Thank you for checking in a pleasure.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
I love you, I love you. I'll see you soon.
See there, I told y'all, listen, Erica Campbell, just that's
just what she is. She's such a gift, and she
just has a way about herself that just makes you
feel better better, and she lives what she sings about.
(32:47):
And that's why when you're around her, if you're sad,
you'll become happy, You'll be strengthened, you'll be inspired. And
so I am just so praying that this episode does
for you what the conversation with her has done for me. Yeah,
(33:07):
there are moments where I have guests where I get
a lot out of the conversation too, all right, So
just know that I love y'all so much, and thank
y'all so much for supporting checking in and downloading the episodes.
I cannot wait for twenty twenty four. I'm already anticipating
twenty twenty four and the good things that we've got
in store. So be patient with me as I make
(33:30):
some pivots and all that stuff. We're working, We're working,
We're working, all right.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
I love you.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
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