February 19, 2024 • 37 mins
Hola, hola! This week’s episode features a longtime friend and familiar voice: RaqC! Many of you will remember her from our reality show, Chiquis and RaqC – the self-proclaimed queen of Spanglish media herself! We talk about our friendship, working in reality TV together and more! Plus, I share why I’m so thankful for her.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We gotta set the story straight because we have to people.
I don't know what's up. That's I don't know. People
think we're like rival enemy.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
And yes, I made we made thirteen thousand dollars for
the entire season. I was like ballin, y'all, Yeah, we're falling.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How would that be? Like do you ever sit there
and think about like, yeah, when I be who I
am with? My mom was not here, Like would she
support my career?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, my beautiful people, and welcome to another episode of
Cheeky's and Chill, your absolute favorite podcast one world.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
And today is going to be an amazing episode.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
So get ready and you're gonna want to sit down
for this one because we're gonna set the story straight today. Okay,
I have a special guest, some one that I'm known
for a very long time. She is a self proclaimed
queen of Spanish media entrepreneur. She is also a podcast
host and a brand.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
New mama and a mama. See that her name is Roxy?
I like that.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Be it? Yeah, honestly I okay, So we got to
said the story straight because we have to people.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I don't know what's up. That's I don't know. People
think we're like rival enemy. Yeah, was it the it
was the.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Last episode of Chicks and Roxy or what. Yeah, that's
what it was. Okay, that's what it was. People think
I left you hanging. People think I did thirty because
I had to go handle some business when I was
on traditional radio and it just, you know, production just
kind of did what it did, and it was like what, Yeah,
we really kind of didn't have a lot of sake
(01:30):
so in that show, like we thought we did, but
we kind of did it.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Yes, you know, we were both new to the reality show.
I was definitely not an executive producer. Then.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I was just a girl that was coming out of
her mama's house. Still lived in my mama's house. Yeah,
and it was like girls. So so basically, for those
of you that don't know, I started my career off
in reality. So it was Cheese and Roxy presented by
Jenny rivera Chicks and Roxy, okay, and Roxy was very
well known Roxy. She you were a radio I started
by radio career fresh out of high school. Yeah, and
(01:59):
then I onto a station back in the day's called
Latino ninety six three and two thousand and five, interviewed
your mom's a few times, got a pretty buzz with
her one time, like on air, she would never not
come to the studio with the bottle of thing.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
That's not all of them. Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Then when they presented this opportunity to work with Jenny's daughter,
which was you, we literally I think. I don't think
a lot of people understand that we kind of were
getting to know each other on the show as we were.
People thought, and we're going to be straight up because
so many years ago, people thought we were friends before
we had met before.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yes, for the show though, They're.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Like, let's get to latinas they're doing their things so
that they can inspire other latinas.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I was like, I want to be behind the cameras.
I'm too shy, Like I was not.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Nowhere near like I felt ready, you know what I mean,
And you were You were more marinated more like you
knew what you were doing. And that's why I was like,
I want out, first of all, set the story straight,
set the record straight, and then also let people know
how and where everything started with me, because it had
a lot to do with you girl. A lot of
people don't know that because I was very shy, I
(03:03):
was there. You were super behind the scene, you were
your mother's net. Like without you, I don't know if
your mom would have been able to build the empire
that she built, you know, and like, yeah, she was
the senior of the performer, but as you know, as
I know that, it takes the team to become absolutely
who you are and to build the empire, and so yeah,
(03:24):
I got to see you be that for your mom.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
So many times, and it was like wow, you know,
like what'd your mom be who she was without you?
I know a lot of times that she wouldn't be
able to do what she did if it wasn't for me.
And I'm not changing my own born, but I actually
saw you do it that I don't know, you were.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So so bad in the scenes. But if people wonder,
like why she gets to be successful in her own
businesses out because you kind of formulated all that for
your mom, her gene.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Line, her skincare line, all the way, well.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Because I remember you doing it all these Yeah, all
the things that were coming up for her and were
oh my god, so much, so much war would have
came right unless if that strategy would not happened. But
I don't know if people really give you the credit
to how essential.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You were in your mom's life.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
And I was very happy in being there, being behind,
you know, the cameras and be behind the seats.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I loved it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I loved being her right hand, her right arm, and
I love being with my siblings. So when this opportunity
came and my mom's manager at the time, we were
not going to necessarily name right now because.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
You know, a lot of things happened there.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
But he brought up this opportunity for both house we
knew him, and then we met and we did this,
and I was not ready when we started okay filming,
I was like, okay, Roxy's cool. Cool, Like we had
a friendship in front of cameras, and then it really
developed into a real friendship. Yeah, but a lot of
things happened, and of course producers had a lot to
do with it, so a lot of things were.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Reality but cut in a way that made.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
It seem worse than it really was. Because let me
tell you, guys, let's keep it real, let's keep it
a butt. Yeah, we got paid.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Thirty ten thousand dollars you guys for the entire entire
out of the show. And I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I remember that because people were like, almost god, it
made a lot of but no, her bread and butter
was radio. Yeah, and that's why she was like, Okay,
I gotta be there, But I told you guys, I
have this gig, so I'm not.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
She didn't keep she didn't leave me. Hang me. What
happens was she had a prior commitment. Yeah, I had
to do a live broadcast in the Dominican Republic. I
had told him.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I said, hey, I could do this show, but you
have to remember that my radio gig is my my
main priority here. But of course I could, you know,
work around it and fit in a reality show tapeing,
you know, but work with me.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Oh yeah, we're gonna work with you.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
And then it just seemed like as the show was developing,
it was like, no, we need to shoot on this
dand and I was like, I told you I had
a live appearance this day.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I told you how to be on air this day.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I told you how it's true, this is true, And
it just seemed like I was being put like obstacle
after obstacle. And so that last episode, which I know
y'all remember, we were supposed to be at a club
and I don't know what we were celebrating, but we were.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
We were filming at a club in Hollywood, yes, And
it made it seem like you were waiting for me
and waiting for me, and I never showed up because
I wasn't even in town. I was the figure got
mad at her and everything was like, wait, that's not yeah,
and she.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Gets knew where I was at fet like I hated
her or I left her out, would never like I
am not that person, but I am a person that
has integrity when it comes to my work.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
And I communicated that to production shit and they when
they had it still shot that episode without me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And I knew too, by the way, Yeah, I know
all of this too because I think, oh, Jenny was
ight at her and that's not the truth, is Jen,
I'm mad. I've never super cool and I knew. But again,
I was young. I didn't have a backbone. I was scared.
I was like, okay, well, this is my first time.
That is what I got to do. Is there telling
me what to do? And that's just the truth of it. Like, yeah,
now if I can go back and be like, well
(06:49):
wait a second, that's now, you can't do that to me. Now,
I'm like, yeah, you know, I vocal, and I gotta say, like,
to see your evolution fifteen years ago to now, it's
so beautiful see it because you really didn't have a backbone.
I did it like you really even though you were
like the backbone of the whole operation.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You never sim it. Yeah, they are like you were
more you did what you were told.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Now you're just like I was seeking people's approval. I
didn't want to disappoint anyone.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I didn't want to ruffle any feathers.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I first so long in my life, I carried myself
that way until I woke up one day I was like,
hold the fuck up.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
On the phone.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I can't do this, especially when my mom passed. After
my mom passed, I was like I got to put
all my big girl pantings like I think. That's when
I was like, wait a second, Like things have to
change because my mom was like protector. She has a
person that protected me and I always just need on her.
So it was kind of like God saying, girl, you
need to step it up now. But back then, I'll
say it straight up, No, I didn't have a backbone.
I was just doing what the producer told me, and
(07:45):
it was a reality show. But let me tell you,
guys that there were a lot of things that we
had to re enact or that we had to say.
It's just the truth. That's how it worked. I mean,
I'm sorry to disappoint you guys, but reality shows are
not what these seems to be, Okay, And that's all
reality yeah shows. And I'm grateful, trust me, I'm grateful
because that opened up the doors for me. And yes,
I made we made thirteen thousand.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Dollars for the entire season. I was like balling, y'all. Yeah,
we were falling.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
And I remember, I'm telling you, I remember the amount
because I bought a boyfriend of mine that needed a
car back there, the six thousand dollars car. And then
I bought myself, yes, a temper repeated temperpeedic right, yeah,
temper pedic mattress.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I sure did. And that that's where all my moneyway,
I'll never forget.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
And I was like, because I wanted to forget temper
Peeda four thousand dollars freaking I don't know what I
was saying, but anyways, people like, oh it we became
rich and famous, Like no, it was a great opportunity.
He really was what he was and I loved working
with you and I had I had a great time
and I learned a lot and we had we experienced
a lot because of the show, so that I'm grateful for.
But yeah, going on red carpet, I remember us going
(08:47):
to red carpet and I would hide, I would ride
behind Rocks.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
I was like no, She's like you you better stop,
and she said you better answer that question. She'd pushed me.
She's like, you're answering it and I'm like, oh, because
the thing is this. It was Jennity that represents is
a roxy right, Jenny's daughter.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
So the media, we already know how they are when
it comes to the Rivetta family. They're nosy, they prow
they so we were both the stars of the show,
but they wanted to like ask you, like how was
it your mom and how is it? So when we
would be on red carpets, yes, they would talk to
both of us, but they wanted to go to you first,
which is understandable.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
But then she wouldn't talk. So I was like the
voice for both of us, and I'm like, you know,
this is just learn how to and then you would
just you hated it.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
That wasn't your thing because your mom was always the
one that would She was always a mouth piece.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
And then it just got to a point where I
was like, they want to talk to you, like I'm
just gonna be quiet, and you just got it.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
And then you just kind of you just realized like, Okay,
I was pushing you in my own kind strong way
because like, yeah, when I met her people, I'm a
I'm a I'm a tough mentor because I feel like
that's just the way you learn. Then then you like
that's how you learn sink or swim. You're the do
(09:57):
it or you don't, you know, And that's how you
started learning. You started learning your voice, and you ran
the show behind the scenes. Do you remember the concert
that we went to your mom when your mom had
a concert in Vegas and we all you probably don't
let her about her line. So we were filming a show.
Your mom had a concert in Vegas, and you were
doing everything. You were making sure like the merchant money
(10:19):
had been collected, and you were making sure your mom
boughted aid. That night you were feeding Johnny. He was
like in the green room a sleep. I think he
was like eight years old. And then that night we
were planning on going to the club in Hollywood, I
mean in Hollywood in a Vegas and we had set
it up and then I was in the room waiting
for you and You're like, rock So I'm not going
to be able to go, man, Like, I have to
(10:41):
take care. I think your mom was a little tipsy
coming off of the stage.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
And Jennie would get tipsy at the concert if you
ever saw her at concert, see and enjoyed her thanking.
And but yeah, you were just you were the one
that was putting out fires all the time, you know,
So that's why. But it sounds like me, yeah, that's why.
When I when when all this happened, and I would
hear the stuff you were getting accused.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Of, I was like, I know, I was like an
older sister that wanted to come to your defense, but
there was so much going on that I couldn't. I
didn't want to talk to you at that point. It's
just how do you how do you even approach someone.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
That their mom passes? Yea, what do you? You know what
I mean? So it was a crazy time. It was
a crazy time. A lot of it is a blur.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
A lot of twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen is a blur,
and I have SI left the memory because I'm just like, now,
my wait a side, kid, Like a lot of traumatic
things I just kind of put to the side. I'm like, okay,
order for me to make it through this life through
the next. I don't know how many years I got
to just put that to the side, you know what
I mean. But I mean that's crazy because that's the
thing was. It was, I don't know, like we went
(11:46):
to dinner the other night and I told her, I
said rock like, thank you so much. Like I just
I felt like we never stopped talking and it wasn't
that we stopped talking for any particular reason. It's just
life happened. Yeah, And I think also I wouldn't even
be upset with you if you were upset with like, dude,
you guys left me hanging like in reality, you guys
left me hanging.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
You guys made less me looking bad on the reality show.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
And maybe I again that it have the voice to
defend you or to say, wait, guys, it wasn't like that,
which I don't really care to people think of me. Yeah,
that's what I love about y'all can pay me in
whatever whatever you want to think of me in your head.
I'm really not in the business of its splaning myself.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
What happened happened or let.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Me tell you what happened to see me and Jeanne
like you could think what you want, because I think
people sometimes because they're your follower or your family.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
To an explanation like get into it and speak on
my tholo. And it's just like, and I learned that
that I don't have to If I want to tell
you about certain things, great, but I don't have to, yeah,
you know.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And it took me a while to learn that as well,
because at first I was like, no, well with everything
that happened. But before we get into everything that happened,
I do want to say that I'm grateful, you know
what I mean, And I don't want to get emotional,
but I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful that you taught
me the ropes, that you were patient with me, that
you you're like this is how you do, and you
taught me and you were never you always celebrating, you
(13:04):
celebrate women.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
It's not just this is what I'm saying and what
I portray on social media like she really walks the talk.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, and I never felt that you were jealous or
that you felt like, oh, that's Jenny's daughter. They're giving
your a priority. Like you were just like, I'm I
am who I am. I feel good And if I
had questions.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
You were there. Yeah. You never like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
And that's something that I was, like, I need people
to know that you play a huge part in who
I am today because I learned a lot from you.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I learned a lot from you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
So I wanted to like put that out there, you guys,
because I'm grateful and I can't say that I learned it.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
All myself or no. I have people like roxy. Of course,
people like my mom. Yeah, but I just I felt
they need to say that. You know.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
So your your mom was so special too, man, like
you want to work with her and work with you.
But I remember on our way to the premiere that
was at like the place in Hollywood. Oh yes, yes,
our show was premiering, and it was like we were Yeah,
your mom would get when your mom would get into storytelling,
(14:02):
she was like, you know, rocks there.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I remember this one in.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
The house you're performing in Mexico and she would just
tell me these stories and she was she was another
that another person that literally was one of one.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
And you're just like so.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Honored and faithful that that I worked with her and
that I got to share space with her and stories
and really see like she was.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
A diva, you know, she was at her own way.
But like certain people I feel can get away with
being das because they're that dope. Yeah you're like, you
know what, look out yet get out gaa.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
And and to know that she spreakled that in you
and that yeah, you might've been behind the scenes most
of the time, but yeah, you're not anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
And honestly, sometimes I think about it.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I'm like, I wonder if Chekis would be who she
was if her mom was still here, you know, like
she protected you a lot.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
From the business she did, and it's just like, you know.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
How would that be, Like do you ever sit there
and think about, like, yeah, when I be who I
am with my mom was not here, Like would she
support my career because we don't, you don't know, you
know what, I'm gonna keep it real, I don't think
so I feel like it's all God's divine plan it is.
You know, do I wish my mother was here? Absolutely,
I wish she was here to see everything that I'm doing.
But also I do feel that my mom protected me
(15:15):
so much that even if I wanted to sing or whatever,
because she's like.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Okay, I'll support you if you want to sing, but
that's not the career I want for you. If you
want to maybe be an actress, but a singer. This
shit is hard. This ship is very hard for.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Women, and I don't want you to go through that,
you know. And I think she would have just been like,
I don't know. I think about it, and I think
about it too, you know what I mean. I don't know,
what do you think?
Speaker 1 (15:39):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
I don't know if she would have supported your seeing career.
I don't know if you would have been like, okay,
like am I cool? My daughter weigh in line. Grammy's like,
is she gonna, like, am I gonna support that dream?
Or is she gonna, you know, way become my competition?
Speaker 1 (15:54):
You know?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
You just yeah, because the thing is, and this goes
for a lot of women that their mom had them
at a young age. My mom and my sister, we
talk about this all the time of the podcast. My
mom had my sister at seventeen, your mom had you
at fifteen. Yes, So that relationship.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
When a mom has their first born.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
At such a young age, it's rocky. And it's not
just it's not just Jenny and Cheez y'all, it's my
sister and my mom. It's a lot of women that
may be watching this podcast that are like, uh, yeah,
that's me, and you know, I pray that.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Y'all healed that relationship.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Unfortunately, that wasn't the case in with you and your
mom because she got you were you know, but my sister,
my mom had definitely healed and talked it out.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
But that age gap, it's like you're you're growing up
with your mom. You're growing up. That's tough, my mom.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
What I always say, it didn't come with the manual,
like I don't know what to do with you. And
we were so close, we were sisters, we were everything
to one another. So it's like for a long time,
I mean, I did find myself career resentment towards my mom.
But when you know she left, you know, of course,
because of how everything is left, I was like I want.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Yeah, I'm just like, what am I? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:03):
And thank goodness, you know, I look back and I'm like, damn,
we've made it this far and just I mean, and
I'm not talking about success. I'm talking about just emotionally,
how we were able to get here, you know, all
of my siblings and I and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I mean, but the way the.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Way the media reigned like rained down on you, the
hatred and the theist I mean, if you are not
raised by a strong woman like your mom and God
by your side, and that could have destroyed anybody as
the way people came down on you. And I want
to deceible comments on social media. I'm not sometimes I'm
on your social media and looking at your comments and
(17:38):
not I'm like that big sister that wants to come
to the rescue hear you, and like sometimes hop or not.
Sometimes maybe in my head I typed some people that is.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Illading because that all goes, you know, because that all get.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
People coming after me, which is okay, y'all can come
after me. I block everybody anyways, yeah bye.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But the way people were.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
Come at for you, I'm just like, Wow, if y'all
only knew how boyle of the daughter you were to
your mom and.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
I don't know because their own conclusions.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
There was this real were going around that I slept
with my stepdad with my golf's husband, which is absolutely
not true, and it just it was crazy, you guys,
Thank goodness, that is freaking in twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Yeah, we left it there. But at the end of
the day, it's a part of.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
My guess, my story, Yes, you know it is. Whether
I want to admit it, whether it sounds cute or not.
I mean, the truth is, it's part of my story.
And how you know, I had to just the adversity
and all the freaking hate. I really thought, I swear
to you, Roxy, I thought that I was gonna go
to the just the grocery store, and so I was
just gonna come and stepp, I swear to you.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
There were some I was like, you were that feutiful.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Yeah, they're gonna come and steppy because these people are
probably believing what is being said. That's why I went
out of my way. I did interviews, I wrote books.
I was like, I'm not going to allow the beautiful
relationship that my mom and I had to be.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Destroyed in that way with such a horrible life, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm not saying that I'm perfect at this, no, no,
but that's one thing I never, oh never got done.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I was, first of all, I too scared of my mother,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:06):
And not only yeah, like I respect women, I really
like there's I was so happy for my mom, Like
I just don't now I'm starting to see certain things
and maybe one day I'll talk about that. I'm like, Okay,
this person was definitely behind it.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
You know.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
And it's like they you know, like that would definitely
be me in my head, Like who mats that nasty
seed in like mom's head?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And sometimes it's people that you expect that would stir
the pot and you're just like expect what wow that
you think?
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Love you?
Speaker 2 (19:33):
It's are supposed to keep the family together, and in reality,
they're planting little seeds just so that they can have
the position you had. A lot of people were jealous
of what my mom and I had. It was my
mom and I like this for everything. Well you remember
that that that cover you guys? It was it a
cover for it was like.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Your mom and you like bosses and yes, oh my god,
I have that I have my glam room.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
But that was one of the first things that was
in twenty eleven, and people wanted that position in person,
wanted that position that MM and I had.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
So it's like, you know what, at the end of
the day, I know that God is gonna, little by
little put everything in its place, and I'm not worried
about it. And yeah, her chooses to believe that.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Honestly, I'm at a point where before I was like,
I want to show you guys, I'm not this person.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
I'm like, I was cool, this sick. Sorry, I know
who I am.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Think what you want to think, Like, I know who
I am, and God would have brought me, brought me
this far. And my mom because I know she's you know,
my mom's moving huzzles and doing her thing up there if.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
If that was true, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (20:31):
I love I love seeing how in control of your
life you aren't out and how certain these are like
the private.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Yeah, you're not out there explaining yourself. You're allowing people.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Like you see it, you sense it, you feel it
more importantly, And I love that because you're not out
there explaining yourself to everybody. It's and you know what, you.
You radiate the happiness. I love that you're happy in
your relationship. Like you keep that private, you know, like
one day you just need to pop up, Pop up Mary.
Nobody needs to know your ceremony that only the real
(21:02):
ones pull up. Mind you, I do feel there are
certain things that I share because I feel like that's
part of my mission and the world is through the
things that I've been through. I want to help people
grow and stuff like that. But there are certain things
that now I'm like, I want to keep to myself.
I'm I'm a human being too. I don't necessarily have
(21:22):
to share everything with everyone. And I felt like I
was obligated, like and it was. It was an obligation
because I'm an artists, because I'm on TV, because I
have a podcast, I have to share everything. There's certain
things that I'm like, no, I'm gonna keep this to
myself and it's later on I want to talk about it. Okay,
there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone is entitled to their
privacy and so nice.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Even if I am, you know, a public figure, which
there are ladies.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
I swear to you and I don't know if this
happened to you, but they'll come up to me and
you know I'm eating.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
I'm in the middle of me. Literally. No.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
First of all, that is so rude whenever you see
a celebrity eating it, especially if it see baccol to
serve me and ask me for picture and they get
so excited that they will. And see I've never said no.
I don't one time I.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Said no to a picture and I said eating, I'm
gonna say no. Yeah, I know because I see all
the road. That's my moment. My mom was like, come on,
and but they'll tell me straight up and I'm just
saying I ste like who does that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:28):
And before I was like, okay, well now I'm like okay,
well see woman deta. You know. Now I'll say it.
I'm polite about it.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
But but you know what now like no, no, I'm
also I'm a human being too, And so there's something
beautiful about being mysterious.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
There's something beautiful about it. There's where like like, not
everybody knows everything. That's what I look about the media. Actually,
my partner he's not all like that social media.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
He posts once and I tell him, baby, you gotta
post more for your like photography, and he's always busy.
But I'm like, you'd be a lot busy here. He's like,
I'm good with as busy as I am. I was like, well,
post on your work all people to see how talented
you are. But he's chill, and I love.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Tell us selfies. I can't. Oh, I can't. Man that
post selfies that they park at their lips. Listen.
Speaker 2 (23:14):
I don't know about that, girl, I don't know business
man that's about his business that they posting on social media.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I love a man that isn't half social. Me too,
because I'm sure that your fans and news channels they
all but look at his pain and oh yeah, and
they'll send him little things there. People are mean. People
are mean.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
They'll send him like oh, she used to call her
exdus or shes or and before I used to bother him.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Now and he's like, oh he knows, he knows. Yeah, yeah,
that's what he's like. You know, But he's chill, he's true.
I like that. Yeah like that. I love that. And
being a mama, girl, I love being a mom.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Let me say, my daughter is a manifestation of my dreams.
I prayed about her. I visualized, girl, Remember what we
used to do vision board.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
Yeah. I was like, oh, he's a vision board man.
Remember we were absolutely at the.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
House making vision boards and like me, I think we
did an entire episode on vision.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
You wanted to do conferences. Yeah. So when I tell
you that the way my daughter looks, I brought my daughter, y'all,
so she felt so good. I swear to you it's
that I'm not even that, it's that PIFC. Literally, she's
so beautiful. Her head is like perfectly wound round, she's
(24:28):
smells delicious.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Her little hand she's talking, she's just like once, she's
just so cute, not like saying words, but she's like.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
She's babbled, she's babbling.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, and listen, I'm so happy that I had a
baby for you because now whenever you wanted to say
be your coach and like, hell, you know what. My
mom was actually telling me that that she had a
dream the other day that I should help women that
feel helpless because this is the the doctors. Okay, a
lot of women at pcos and suffer from like infertility,
(24:56):
and it's it's not as easy as it was getting pregnant,
they d as it was back in the absolutely women
back then balas.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Right, women these days they struggle. Yeah, so they're doing
like I, yes, and and a surrogate a different things.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Right, So my mom goes, I feel that you should
give because I prepared my body chees to get pregnant
two years prior to getting pregnant. I legit prepared my body.
It's like laying the foundation to like a house. I
knew there were certain things that I had to do.
I had to I had cysts on my ovaries, got
rid of those naturally with herbs, and then I started
(25:32):
seeing up for herbologists.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I started getting Yony scenes.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Remember I was slunging you the other day a Yoni scenes.
If you don't know bout Yoni scenes, listen, you need
to start getting Yoni and steam all in the vagina. Okay,
goshold me about this.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
I was I need girl and and like it regulates
your p H and if immediately eats you up, now
he's gonna.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
Eat you up even Okay, it's not going to be
able to rest chapters.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Okay, so like sex hotng with that. This is how
we were all created.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Hell yeah, but so yeah, then I started taking a
fertility tea. I'm all about like I met a She
pot my uterus back in a place. So when I
tell you, my daughter is a manifestation in my dreams,
she is.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
I prayed for her. The way she looks now is
I'm like, this is how I knew she was gonna
look like this. It's crazy. I believe in that she's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
And so I will say sometimes I say I wish
I would I had kids younger, right like in my twenties,
in my early thirties.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
But I'm thankful that I had her when I had
her because I'm patient.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yes, like I think a lot of times when young
moms have kids at a young age, to the suspend,
I'm like, ah, And I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
Like, I'm not in your rush to I try. I've
traveled a lot and I'm gonna still travel. Yeah, we're
going to assall lot next month with her. Nice. I
think I had a daughter to leave her behind. Yeah,
everyone's like that, Yeah, because I don't can see I
didn't have a daughter to leave her with. The mandis yeah,
I know, God, Yeah, you're in a different place.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
You're in a different place, you're more patient, you know
the knowledge that I'm going to be You would have
printed this little girl, and I'm like, I get to
be your coach.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
I get to be your biggest in this little life.
Everyone's like, you didn't, you didn't. But she had a boy.
I'm like, nope, how can I teach a boy how
to be amazing?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (27:13):
I see, No, you're a total And when I have
another one, I want another's gonna be Oh my god.
I can already see you're you're a great mom. I
can already see. Like it's just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I see you on social media, like everything you speak
and again, you don't just say ship like you you're
about it, about You're about it and in every way.
So I needs to imagine. I said, I'm so honored
that she picked me and that I and that I
picked her. But they say children pick their parents, yes,
you know, Like so that's like that's just like your stuff.
(27:46):
And I'm like, my guys movies, I will. I know
they're all on milk ste that's that's admirable.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
And breastfeed her, so like its breastfeeding just it checks you.
You can't dream too much.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Alcohol, you shouldn't be you know, alcohol. She don't really
smoke cannabis.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Everybody else. I'm a cannabis enthusiast. You know that I
was gonna asked the other day, I can't because that
bread speed. But you know the prymney, you know what
I mean? Like our parents were hippies and they were
doing it too. It This is my thing I all
get into.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
The whole endo cannabinoids is that you don't want me
to get started with that, But everybody has an endoc
cannabinoids in their body, and in reality, it.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Helps your immune system when you consume the flower the
right way, the right way like c med. The cantabinoids
are actually super beneficial for the body. But people don't.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
They only want to see the cannabis that get too high. Right,
And there's different and it's not just that it's we
need a.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Whole episode on that, because a lot, especially.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
In our community's educated, especially the older generation, that cannabis
is is way better than drinking a Thailand.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Let me tell you, guys.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I always say, oh my god, people goes down, Oh
my god that I spoke with right now, I'm gonna
clean that a very deep cleansed. But when they found
out that I smoked cannabis, it was just like, oh
my god, how could you go like, wait a second, No,
I have more babies, Yes you do.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
I want one more. I just want you know what,
I can't imagine my life. I can't imagine my life
without my siblings. Yeah, can you know? So I'm like
I because and when you put it that way, yeah, no,
And a lot of women these days.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Are like one and done, and I'm like, I get
it because you know it, it ain't easy. It's definitely
worth it. But I cannot imagine my life without my
sister and my brother because we're tight, you know what
I mean. They're so fateful that we're tight. And I
love that your mom instilled that in you too. Is
that No, Like your siblings are forever people and you
know what I mean. So I love that you're close
(29:42):
to your siblings.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So when I see my closest or my siblings, I'm like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
I want to get on it.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I know, I know, girl it okay? Would you you
don't mind if it's a boy or girl. At this point,
it's like whatever, I mean, I feel like God's gonna
give me what's meant for me. But I definitely want another.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Little Oh my God, yes, because like we're so really yeah,
like sure, dressing them up.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
And I mean I could teach a woman how to
be great? Can I teach you?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
No?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Yeah? You know that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:12):
See and see I have always in my life watered
a boy, and I think I always like, I want
to be I want to have a boy.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
But I've learned through therapy and through healing that the
reason I waited so long to have kids was because,
of course I'm taking care of my siblings, but also
it is that I have been a mockery. Yeah, I've been.
I went out all of it, especially with Johnny and Jenica.
Oh yeah, those are your freaking mother a parent conferences.
(30:41):
I did it all. I did the homework. I it
was I did it all.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I mean, so john was more mine, I feel than
even my mom did. Sometimes you know, I should, It's understandable.
But also I think I waited and I didn't want
to grow because I was afraid of my mom and
I had such a beautiful relationship, but it was it
was hard, you know that I was like, oh what,
I don't what if I have a girl, and then
we repeat things that I don't know. I thought so
(31:05):
many negative things and in reality, I'm like, wait a second,
but if I do have a little girl, and I
can mend and help that relationship. But hew that relationship
because times didn't allow.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
It, you know. So now I'm like, God, whatever you
want me to have, I'm gonna accept it. Yes.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
Yeah, but I could see you having a little girl
and doing things completely different with your little girl.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Because you know better. I'm older. You know what boundaries are.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Now, I'm so patty that you know how to set
boundaries and based with certain people. Yeah, but boundaries are
superper important and you understand that. So like, when you
know how to do it another way, you're gonna do
it a different way so that we you know, Because
believe it or not, girl, there's a lot of broken
people raising broken humans. They're emotionally broken. And I love
(31:50):
that about you that you encourage therapy. Every human watching
this needs to go to thera down. I have a
love the therapist since I was nineteen. My parents got
divorced fifteen and it affected me. So when when you
talk about therapy, when anybody talks about therapy.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
I'm like, is that local?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
At this point you need to address all the issues
and listen, we all got issues, yeah, all of us,
all of us. It doesn't have to be Oh I was,
you know, because I was sexually abused, like it could
be anything and everything, and a lot of people, especially
man in our culture, where people think, well, see what
you know, if I go to counseling, it's because something's
wrong with me, and no, it's that we all need
(32:30):
to bounce ideas, let our feelings out with someone that's
not gonna that we're gonna feel good to criticize it
or we're shy.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It's someone that's just completely separated from your family. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Yeah, I love that you encourage your followers of therapy
because I do. Do do it, but your pride to
the side and deal with it because otherwise that haunts
you for the rest of your life and your neighbor.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
You're never able to have all of your relationships a.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Quality, that relationship with your siblings, with your parents because
you're just holy hot to old shit.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Yes, and it's like they get to see mm hm,
oh my god exactly. I always tell you guys that you.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Guys have to release we have to release the baggage
and not there's there's no way that we're gonna be
able to be our best selves if we're carrying old
ship literally old shit.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Well, Ron, thank you so much. She thinks it's so
it's so intimate in here. I love it. You think
have done a good job.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
I wanted something very warm, and I wanted something like
apple Hillo. That's gonna give you, like you know, nice point,
You're gonna give you a little hugs. So I'm glad
to do that here. I'm grateful that you're here.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
And I gotta go on your podcast. So tell us
about your podcast. So where can people find you? Yeah?
So our podcast mine and my sisters called straight Up Sisters.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
The podcast, it's my older sister and me and so
the older sister and baby is the.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Dynamic is real.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Susie is six years older than me, and she thinks
she's always right right because she's got mer life experiences.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
We have a lot of opposing views on different things,
but it's all love at the end of the day.
Like I'm not like I hate you. I mean we
we get into disagreements on the podcast. I'm like, no,
like that. What makes a strong relationship? Yeah, and so
that's what it is.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
It's the older sister and a baby sister having a
conversation on a set every day and we talk our shit.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
We talk our shit but a lot of two and
Susie is right, you know what I mean. I'm like,
damn yeah, she's like seventy thirty percent of the time.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
Right.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Do you ever tell your siblings that no, I don't,
but I should. Shit be good. I told you so. Yeah,
because a lot, you know, you guys have more life experience.
You get the baby. Yeah yeah, like you good guy, Jennica,
because she's the baby, right. So it's it's fun.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
We have such a good time and we're on all
digital platforms straight up. Sisters of the podcast, Susie, I
love you. I missed you girl.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
I know she loves you too. She was so happy
that I was coming to day. She's like, tell her
she's just gonna be on the podcast and she's like,
you know what, I know, I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I'm gonna go there with her because she's the oldest,
and you know, I'm gonna. I'm gonna ask herself that
maybe people are free to ask her.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
And I'm like, and I'm sure she'll have to make sure.
I will. Yeah will, So Susie, bring it on, baby
girl and her mom two said to my mom that
she made. She gave me my first call on. Yeah,
most she did. Did your mom gave me my first
colonate way back in the day? Girl? Really is okay?
Can you tell that people like kalonics are not painful?
Colonies are not people. They're a little uncomfortably it could
be a little comfortable, but they're not painful. They're that
(35:12):
painful and they're great for you.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
So it was because of her mom that I started
like getting into it. So thanks, you know, shout out
to your mom. Yeah, do you want to share your socials?
Speaker 1 (35:22):
Yeah? My social is at roxyes World.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
So the cool thing about Roxy's World and the way
I spell my name is it's our a Q capital C. Yes,
so nobody else has that name on.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
I love that. One of a kind, one of one. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
So it's the rocky r a Q capital seed roxyes
World up everything and every weege Snapchat.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
You got sapchat please? Yeah? I love Snapchat. Yeah, I
love it. You're really good at it. You're really good.
Like I'm like, I sit there and I watch it.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
I'm like I buy the stuff that she posts to
I say stree shots and I'm like, oh, girl, I
gotta remember her by this, so yeah, I follow her.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
So bros As that's a greed backbone. Now, thank you,
thank god. It's like you had no the choice. I
had no the choice.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
I had to put on my big girl panties. I
was like, all right, cool, my mama, here, I gotta
I gotta be the one to protect my siblings.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And I so yeah, you do good?
Speaker 2 (36:09):
You do?
Speaker 1 (36:10):
You so good at that brette. That's what older sisters do.
Y'all got our bats forever. Thank you so much, Thank you,
Roxy Lovett. I know, thank you. Never again, don't never
let go my gardes. I know. Thank you guys so much.
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We gotta set the story straight because we have to people.
I don't know what's up. That's I don't know. People
think we're like rival enemy.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
And yes, I made we made thirteen thousand dollars for
the entire season. I was like ballin, y'all, Yeah, we're falling.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
How would that be? Like do you ever sit there
and think about like, yeah, when I be who I
am with? My mom was not here, Like would she
support my career?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Hello, my beautiful people, and welcome to another episode of
Cheeky's and Chill, your absolute favorite podcast one world.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
And today is going to be an amazing episode.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
So get ready and you're gonna want to sit down
for this one because we're gonna set the story straight today. Okay,
I have a special guest, some one that I'm known
for a very long time. She is a self proclaimed
queen of Spanish media entrepreneur. She is also a podcast
host and a brand.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
New mama and a mama. See that her name is Roxy?
I like that.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Be it? Yeah, honestly I okay, So we got to
said the story straight because we have to people.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
I don't know what's up. That's I don't know. People
think we're like rival enemy. Yeah, was it the it
was the.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Last episode of Chicks and Roxy or what. Yeah, that's
what it was. Okay, that's what it was. People think
I left you hanging. People think I did thirty because
I had to go handle some business when I was
on traditional radio and it just, you know, production just
kind of did what it did, and it was like what, Yeah,
we really kind of didn't have a lot of sake
(01:30):
so in that show, like we thought we did, but
we kind of did it.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Yes, you know, we were both new to the reality show.
I was definitely not an executive producer. Then.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I was just a girl that was coming out of
her mama's house. Still lived in my mama's house. Yeah,
and it was like girls. So so basically, for those
of you that don't know, I started my career off
in reality. So it was Cheese and Roxy presented by
Jenny rivera Chicks and Roxy, okay, and Roxy was very
well known Roxy. She you were a radio I started
by radio career fresh out of high school. Yeah, and
(01:59):
then I onto a station back in the day's called
Latino ninety six three and two thousand and five, interviewed
your mom's a few times, got a pretty buzz with
her one time, like on air, she would never not
come to the studio with the bottle of thing.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
That's not all of them. Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Then when they presented this opportunity to work with Jenny's daughter,
which was you, we literally I think. I don't think
a lot of people understand that we kind of were
getting to know each other on the show as we were.
People thought, and we're going to be straight up because
so many years ago, people thought we were friends before
we had met before.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yes, for the show though, They're.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Like, let's get to latinas they're doing their things so
that they can inspire other latinas.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I was like, I want to be behind the cameras.
I'm too shy, Like I was not.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Nowhere near like I felt ready, you know what I mean,
And you were You were more marinated more like you
knew what you were doing. And that's why I was like,
I want out, first of all, set the story straight,
set the record straight, and then also let people know
how and where everything started with me, because it had
a lot to do with you girl. A lot of
people don't know that because I was very shy, I
(03:03):
was there. You were super behind the scene, you were
your mother's net. Like without you, I don't know if
your mom would have been able to build the empire
that she built, you know, and like, yeah, she was
the senior of the performer, but as you know, as
I know that, it takes the team to become absolutely
who you are and to build the empire, and so yeah,
(03:24):
I got to see you be that for your mom.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
So many times, and it was like wow, you know,
like what'd your mom be who she was without you?
I know a lot of times that she wouldn't be
able to do what she did if it wasn't for me.
And I'm not changing my own born, but I actually
saw you do it that I don't know, you were.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So so bad in the scenes. But if people wonder,
like why she gets to be successful in her own
businesses out because you kind of formulated all that for
your mom, her gene.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Line, her skincare line, all the way, well.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Because I remember you doing it all these Yeah, all
the things that were coming up for her and were
oh my god, so much, so much war would have
came right unless if that strategy would not happened. But
I don't know if people really give you the credit
to how essential.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You were in your mom's life.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
And I was very happy in being there, being behind,
you know, the cameras and be behind the seats.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I loved it.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I loved being her right hand, her right arm, and
I love being with my siblings. So when this opportunity
came and my mom's manager at the time, we were
not going to necessarily name right now because.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
You know, a lot of things happened there.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
But he brought up this opportunity for both house we
knew him, and then we met and we did this,
and I was not ready when we started okay filming,
I was like, okay, Roxy's cool. Cool, Like we had
a friendship in front of cameras, and then it really
developed into a real friendship. Yeah, but a lot of
things happened, and of course producers had a lot to
do with it, so a lot of things were.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Reality but cut in a way that made.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
It seem worse than it really was. Because let me
tell you, guys, let's keep it real, let's keep it
a butt. Yeah, we got paid.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Thirty ten thousand dollars you guys for the entire entire
out of the show. And I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
I remember that because people were like, almost god, it
made a lot of but no, her bread and butter
was radio. Yeah, and that's why she was like, Okay,
I gotta be there, But I told you guys, I
have this gig, so I'm not.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
She didn't keep she didn't leave me. Hang me. What
happens was she had a prior commitment. Yeah, I had
to do a live broadcast in the Dominican Republic. I
had told him.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I said, hey, I could do this show, but you
have to remember that my radio gig is my my
main priority here. But of course I could, you know,
work around it and fit in a reality show tapeing,
you know, but work with me.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Oh yeah, we're gonna work with you.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
And then it just seemed like as the show was developing,
it was like, no, we need to shoot on this
dand and I was like, I told you I had
a live appearance this day.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I told you how to be on air this day.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I told you how it's true, this is true, And
it just seemed like I was being put like obstacle
after obstacle. And so that last episode, which I know
y'all remember, we were supposed to be at a club
and I don't know what we were celebrating, but we were.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
We were filming at a club in Hollywood, yes, And
it made it seem like you were waiting for me
and waiting for me, and I never showed up because
I wasn't even in town. I was the figure got
mad at her and everything was like, wait, that's not yeah,
and she.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Gets knew where I was at fet like I hated
her or I left her out, would never like I
am not that person, but I am a person that
has integrity when it comes to my work.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
And I communicated that to production shit and they when
they had it still shot that episode without me. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
And I knew too, by the way, Yeah, I know
all of this too because I think, oh, Jenny was
ight at her and that's not the truth, is Jen,
I'm mad. I've never super cool and I knew. But again,
I was young. I didn't have a backbone. I was scared.
I was like, okay, well, this is my first time.
That is what I got to do. Is there telling
me what to do? And that's just the truth of it. Like, yeah,
now if I can go back and be like, well
(06:49):
wait a second, that's now, you can't do that to me. Now,
I'm like, yeah, you know, I vocal, and I gotta say, like,
to see your evolution fifteen years ago to now, it's
so beautiful see it because you really didn't have a backbone.
I did it like you really even though you were
like the backbone of the whole operation.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You never sim it. Yeah, they are like you were
more you did what you were told.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Now you're just like I was seeking people's approval. I
didn't want to disappoint anyone.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
I didn't want to ruffle any feathers.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I first so long in my life, I carried myself
that way until I woke up one day I was like,
hold the fuck up.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
On the phone.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I can't do this, especially when my mom passed. After
my mom passed, I was like I got to put
all my big girl pantings like I think. That's when
I was like, wait a second, Like things have to
change because my mom was like protector. She has a
person that protected me and I always just need on her.
So it was kind of like God saying, girl, you
need to step it up now. But back then, I'll
say it straight up, No, I didn't have a backbone.
I was just doing what the producer told me, and
(07:45):
it was a reality show. But let me tell you,
guys that there were a lot of things that we
had to re enact or that we had to say.
It's just the truth. That's how it worked. I mean,
I'm sorry to disappoint you guys, but reality shows are
not what these seems to be, Okay, And that's all
reality yeah shows. And I'm grateful, trust me, I'm grateful
because that opened up the doors for me. And yes,
I made we made thirteen thousand.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Dollars for the entire season. I was like balling, y'all. Yeah,
we were falling.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
And I remember, I'm telling you, I remember the amount
because I bought a boyfriend of mine that needed a
car back there, the six thousand dollars car. And then
I bought myself, yes, a temper repeated temperpeedic right, yeah,
temper pedic mattress.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
I sure did. And that that's where all my moneyway,
I'll never forget.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
And I was like, because I wanted to forget temper
Peeda four thousand dollars freaking I don't know what I
was saying, but anyways, people like, oh it we became
rich and famous, Like no, it was a great opportunity.
He really was what he was and I loved working
with you and I had I had a great time
and I learned a lot and we had we experienced
a lot because of the show, so that I'm grateful for.
But yeah, going on red carpet, I remember us going
(08:47):
to red carpet and I would hide, I would ride
behind Rocks.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
I was like no, She's like you you better stop,
and she said you better answer that question. She'd pushed me.
She's like, you're answering it and I'm like, oh, because
the thing is this. It was Jennity that represents is
a roxy right, Jenny's daughter.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
So the media, we already know how they are when
it comes to the Rivetta family. They're nosy, they prow
they so we were both the stars of the show,
but they wanted to like ask you, like how was
it your mom and how is it? So when we
would be on red carpets, yes, they would talk to
both of us, but they wanted to go to you first,
which is understandable.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
But then she wouldn't talk. So I was like the
voice for both of us, and I'm like, you know,
this is just learn how to and then you would
just you hated it.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
That wasn't your thing because your mom was always the
one that would She was always a mouth piece.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
And then it just got to a point where I
was like, they want to talk to you, like I'm
just gonna be quiet, and you just got it.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
And then you just kind of you just realized like, Okay,
I was pushing you in my own kind strong way
because like, yeah, when I met her people, I'm a
I'm a I'm a tough mentor because I feel like
that's just the way you learn. Then then you like
that's how you learn sink or swim. You're the do
(09:57):
it or you don't, you know, And that's how you
started learning. You started learning your voice, and you ran
the show behind the scenes. Do you remember the concert
that we went to your mom when your mom had
a concert in Vegas and we all you probably don't
let her about her line. So we were filming a show.
Your mom had a concert in Vegas, and you were
doing everything. You were making sure like the merchant money
(10:19):
had been collected, and you were making sure your mom
boughted aid. That night you were feeding Johnny. He was
like in the green room a sleep. I think he
was like eight years old. And then that night we
were planning on going to the club in Hollywood, I
mean in Hollywood in a Vegas and we had set
it up and then I was in the room waiting
for you and You're like, rock So I'm not going
to be able to go, man, Like, I have to
(10:41):
take care. I think your mom was a little tipsy
coming off of the stage.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
And Jennie would get tipsy at the concert if you
ever saw her at concert, see and enjoyed her thanking.
And but yeah, you were just you were the one
that was putting out fires all the time, you know,
So that's why. But it sounds like me, yeah, that's why.
When I when when all this happened, and I would
hear the stuff you were getting accused.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Of, I was like, I know, I was like an
older sister that wanted to come to your defense, but
there was so much going on that I couldn't. I
didn't want to talk to you at that point. It's
just how do you how do you even approach someone.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
That their mom passes? Yea, what do you? You know what
I mean? So it was a crazy time. It was
a crazy time. A lot of it is a blur.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
A lot of twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen is a blur,
and I have SI left the memory because I'm just like, now,
my wait a side, kid, Like a lot of traumatic
things I just kind of put to the side. I'm like, okay,
order for me to make it through this life through
the next. I don't know how many years I got
to just put that to the side, you know what
I mean. But I mean that's crazy because that's the
thing was. It was, I don't know, like we went
(11:46):
to dinner the other night and I told her, I
said rock like, thank you so much. Like I just
I felt like we never stopped talking and it wasn't
that we stopped talking for any particular reason. It's just
life happened. Yeah, And I think also I wouldn't even
be upset with you if you were upset with like, dude,
you guys left me hanging like in reality, you guys
left me hanging.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
You guys made less me looking bad on the reality show.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
And maybe I again that it have the voice to
defend you or to say, wait, guys, it wasn't like that,
which I don't really care to people think of me. Yeah,
that's what I love about y'all can pay me in
whatever whatever you want to think of me in your head.
I'm really not in the business of its splaning myself.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
What happened happened or let.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
Me tell you what happened to see me and Jeanne
like you could think what you want, because I think
people sometimes because they're your follower or your family.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
To an explanation like get into it and speak on
my tholo. And it's just like, and I learned that
that I don't have to If I want to tell
you about certain things, great, but I don't have to, yeah,
you know.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
And it took me a while to learn that as well,
because at first I was like, no, well with everything
that happened. But before we get into everything that happened,
I do want to say that I'm grateful, you know
what I mean, And I don't want to get emotional,
but I'm grateful for you. I'm grateful that you taught
me the ropes, that you were patient with me, that
you you're like this is how you do, and you
taught me and you were never you always celebrating, you
(13:04):
celebrate women.
Speaker 1 (13:05):
It's not just this is what I'm saying and what
I portray on social media like she really walks the talk.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
Yeah, and I never felt that you were jealous or
that you felt like, oh, that's Jenny's daughter. They're giving
your a priority. Like you were just like, I'm I
am who I am. I feel good And if I
had questions.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
You were there. Yeah. You never like I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
And that's something that I was, like, I need people
to know that you play a huge part in who
I am today because I learned a lot from you.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
I learned a lot from you.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
So I wanted to like put that out there, you guys,
because I'm grateful and I can't say that I learned it.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
All myself or no. I have people like roxy. Of course,
people like my mom. Yeah, but I just I felt
they need to say that. You know.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
So your your mom was so special too, man, like
you want to work with her and work with you.
But I remember on our way to the premiere that
was at like the place in Hollywood. Oh yes, yes,
our show was premiering, and it was like we were Yeah,
your mom would get when your mom would get into storytelling,
(14:02):
she was like, you know, rocks there.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I remember this one in.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
The house you're performing in Mexico and she would just
tell me these stories and she was she was another
that another person that literally was one of one.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
And you're just like so.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
Honored and faithful that that I worked with her and
that I got to share space with her and stories
and really see like she was.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
A diva, you know, she was at her own way.
But like certain people I feel can get away with
being das because they're that dope. Yeah you're like, you
know what, look out yet get out gaa.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
And and to know that she spreakled that in you
and that yeah, you might've been behind the scenes most
of the time, but yeah, you're not anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
And honestly, sometimes I think about it.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
I'm like, I wonder if Chekis would be who she
was if her mom was still here, you know, like
she protected you a lot.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
From the business she did, and it's just like, you know.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
How would that be, Like do you ever sit there
and think about, like, yeah, when I be who I
am with my mom was not here, Like would she
support my career because we don't, you don't know, you
know what, I'm gonna keep it real, I don't think
so I feel like it's all God's divine plan it is.
You know, do I wish my mother was here? Absolutely,
I wish she was here to see everything that I'm doing.
But also I do feel that my mom protected me
(15:15):
so much that even if I wanted to sing or whatever,
because she's like.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
Okay, I'll support you if you want to sing, but
that's not the career I want for you. If you
want to maybe be an actress, but a singer. This
shit is hard. This ship is very hard for.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
Women, and I don't want you to go through that,
you know. And I think she would have just been like,
I don't know. I think about it, and I think
about it too, you know what I mean. I don't know,
what do you think?
Speaker 1 (15:39):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
I don't know if she would have supported your seeing career.
I don't know if you would have been like, okay,
like am I cool? My daughter weigh in line. Grammy's like,
is she gonna, like, am I gonna support that dream?
Or is she gonna, you know, way become my competition?
Speaker 1 (15:54):
You know?
Speaker 2 (15:55):
You just yeah, because the thing is, and this goes
for a lot of women that their mom had them
at a young age. My mom and my sister, we
talk about this all the time of the podcast. My
mom had my sister at seventeen, your mom had you
at fifteen. Yes, So that relationship.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
When a mom has their first born.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
At such a young age, it's rocky. And it's not
just it's not just Jenny and Cheez y'all, it's my
sister and my mom. It's a lot of women that
may be watching this podcast that are like, uh, yeah,
that's me, and you know, I pray that.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Y'all healed that relationship.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Unfortunately, that wasn't the case in with you and your
mom because she got you were you know, but my sister,
my mom had definitely healed and talked it out.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
But that age gap, it's like you're you're growing up
with your mom. You're growing up. That's tough, my mom.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
What I always say, it didn't come with the manual,
like I don't know what to do with you. And
we were so close, we were sisters, we were everything
to one another. So it's like for a long time,
I mean, I did find myself career resentment towards my mom.
But when you know she left, you know, of course,
because of how everything is left, I was like I want.
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Yeah, I'm just like, what am I? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (17:03):
And thank goodness, you know, I look back and I'm like, damn,
we've made it this far and just I mean, and
I'm not talking about success. I'm talking about just emotionally,
how we were able to get here, you know, all
of my siblings and I and I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I mean, but the way the.
Speaker 2 (17:17):
Way the media reigned like rained down on you, the
hatred and the theist I mean, if you are not
raised by a strong woman like your mom and God
by your side, and that could have destroyed anybody as
the way people came down on you. And I want
to deceible comments on social media. I'm not sometimes I'm
on your social media and looking at your comments and
(17:38):
not I'm like that big sister that wants to come
to the rescue hear you, and like sometimes hop or not.
Sometimes maybe in my head I typed some people that is.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Illading because that all goes, you know, because that all get.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
People coming after me, which is okay, y'all can come
after me. I block everybody anyways, yeah bye.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
But the way people were.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
Come at for you, I'm just like, Wow, if y'all
only knew how boyle of the daughter you were to
your mom and.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
I don't know because their own conclusions.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
There was this real were going around that I slept
with my stepdad with my golf's husband, which is absolutely
not true, and it just it was crazy, you guys,
Thank goodness, that is freaking in twenty twelve.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
Yeah, we left it there. But at the end of
the day, it's a part of.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
My guess, my story, Yes, you know it is. Whether
I want to admit it, whether it sounds cute or not.
I mean, the truth is, it's part of my story.
And how you know, I had to just the adversity
and all the freaking hate. I really thought, I swear
to you, Roxy, I thought that I was gonna go
to the just the grocery store, and so I was
just gonna come and stepp, I swear to you.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
There were some I was like, you were that feutiful.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Yeah, they're gonna come and steppy because these people are
probably believing what is being said. That's why I went
out of my way. I did interviews, I wrote books.
I was like, I'm not going to allow the beautiful
relationship that my mom and I had to be.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Destroyed in that way with such a horrible life, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (18:58):
I'm not saying that I'm perfect at this, no, no,
but that's one thing I never, oh never got done.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
I was, first of all, I too scared of my mother,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (19:06):
And not only yeah, like I respect women, I really
like there's I was so happy for my mom, Like
I just don't now I'm starting to see certain things
and maybe one day I'll talk about that. I'm like, Okay,
this person was definitely behind it.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
You know.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
And it's like they you know, like that would definitely
be me in my head, Like who mats that nasty
seed in like mom's head?
Speaker 1 (19:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
And sometimes it's people that you expect that would stir
the pot and you're just like expect what wow that
you think?
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Love you?
Speaker 2 (19:33):
It's are supposed to keep the family together, and in reality,
they're planting little seeds just so that they can have
the position you had. A lot of people were jealous
of what my mom and I had. It was my
mom and I like this for everything. Well you remember
that that that cover you guys? It was it a
cover for it was like.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Your mom and you like bosses and yes, oh my god,
I have that I have my glam room.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
But that was one of the first things that was
in twenty eleven, and people wanted that position in person,
wanted that position that MM and I had.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
So it's like, you know what, at the end of
the day, I know that God is gonna, little by
little put everything in its place, and I'm not worried
about it. And yeah, her chooses to believe that.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
Honestly, I'm at a point where before I was like,
I want to show you guys, I'm not this person.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
I'm like, I was cool, this sick. Sorry, I know
who I am.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Think what you want to think, Like, I know who
I am, and God would have brought me, brought me
this far. And my mom because I know she's you know,
my mom's moving huzzles and doing her thing up there if.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
If that was true, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (20:31):
I love I love seeing how in control of your
life you aren't out and how certain these are like
the private.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Yeah, you're not out there explaining yourself. You're allowing people.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Like you see it, you sense it, you feel it
more importantly, And I love that because you're not out
there explaining yourself to everybody. It's and you know what, you.
You radiate the happiness. I love that you're happy in
your relationship. Like you keep that private, you know, like
one day you just need to pop up, Pop up Mary.
Nobody needs to know your ceremony that only the real
(21:02):
ones pull up. Mind you, I do feel there are
certain things that I share because I feel like that's
part of my mission and the world is through the
things that I've been through. I want to help people
grow and stuff like that. But there are certain things
that now I'm like, I want to keep to myself.
I'm I'm a human being too. I don't necessarily have
(21:22):
to share everything with everyone. And I felt like I
was obligated, like and it was. It was an obligation
because I'm an artists, because I'm on TV, because I
have a podcast, I have to share everything. There's certain
things that I'm like, no, I'm gonna keep this to
myself and it's later on I want to talk about it. Okay,
there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone is entitled to their
privacy and so nice.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Even if I am, you know, a public figure, which
there are ladies.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
I swear to you and I don't know if this
happened to you, but they'll come up to me and
you know I'm eating.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
I'm in the middle of me. Literally. No.
Speaker 2 (21:51):
First of all, that is so rude whenever you see
a celebrity eating it, especially if it see baccol to
serve me and ask me for picture and they get
so excited that they will. And see I've never said no.
I don't one time I.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Said no to a picture and I said eating, I'm
gonna say no. Yeah, I know because I see all
the road. That's my moment. My mom was like, come on,
and but they'll tell me straight up and I'm just
saying I ste like who does that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (22:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:28):
And before I was like, okay, well now I'm like okay,
well see woman deta. You know. Now I'll say it.
I'm polite about it.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
But but you know what now like no, no, I'm
also I'm a human being too, And so there's something
beautiful about being mysterious.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
There's something beautiful about it. There's where like like, not
everybody knows everything. That's what I look about the media. Actually,
my partner he's not all like that social media.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
He posts once and I tell him, baby, you gotta
post more for your like photography, and he's always busy.
But I'm like, you'd be a lot busy here. He's like,
I'm good with as busy as I am. I was like, well,
post on your work all people to see how talented
you are. But he's chill, and I love.
Speaker 1 (23:08):
Tell us selfies. I can't. Oh, I can't. Man that
post selfies that they park at their lips. Listen.
Speaker 2 (23:14):
I don't know about that, girl, I don't know business
man that's about his business that they posting on social media.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
I love a man that isn't half social. Me too,
because I'm sure that your fans and news channels they
all but look at his pain and oh yeah, and
they'll send him little things there. People are mean. People
are mean.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
They'll send him like oh, she used to call her
exdus or shes or and before I used to bother him.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Now and he's like, oh he knows, he knows. Yeah, yeah,
that's what he's like. You know, But he's chill, he's true.
I like that. Yeah like that. I love that. And
being a mama, girl, I love being a mom.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
Let me say, my daughter is a manifestation of my dreams.
I prayed about her. I visualized, girl, Remember what we
used to do vision board.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
Yeah. I was like, oh, he's a vision board man.
Remember we were absolutely at the.
Speaker 2 (24:01):
House making vision boards and like me, I think we
did an entire episode on vision.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
You wanted to do conferences. Yeah. So when I tell
you that the way my daughter looks, I brought my daughter, y'all,
so she felt so good. I swear to you it's
that I'm not even that, it's that PIFC. Literally, she's
so beautiful. Her head is like perfectly wound round, she's
(24:28):
smells delicious.
Speaker 2 (24:29):
Her little hand she's talking, she's just like once, she's
just so cute, not like saying words, but she's like.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
She's babbled, she's babbling.
Speaker 2 (24:36):
Yeah, and listen, I'm so happy that I had a
baby for you because now whenever you wanted to say
be your coach and like, hell, you know what. My
mom was actually telling me that that she had a
dream the other day that I should help women that
feel helpless because this is the the doctors. Okay, a
lot of women at pcos and suffer from like infertility,
(24:56):
and it's it's not as easy as it was getting pregnant,
they d as it was back in the absolutely women
back then balas.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Right, women these days they struggle. Yeah, so they're doing
like I, yes, and and a surrogate a different things.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Right, So my mom goes, I feel that you should
give because I prepared my body chees to get pregnant
two years prior to getting pregnant. I legit prepared my body.
It's like laying the foundation to like a house. I
knew there were certain things that I had to do.
I had to I had cysts on my ovaries, got
rid of those naturally with herbs, and then I started
(25:32):
seeing up for herbologists.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
I started getting Yony scenes.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Remember I was slunging you the other day a Yoni scenes.
If you don't know bout Yoni scenes, listen, you need
to start getting Yoni and steam all in the vagina. Okay,
goshold me about this.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
I was I need girl and and like it regulates
your p H and if immediately eats you up, now
he's gonna.
Speaker 2 (25:49):
Eat you up even Okay, it's not going to be
able to rest chapters.
Speaker 1 (25:54):
Okay, so like sex hotng with that. This is how
we were all created.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Hell yeah, but so yeah, then I started taking a
fertility tea. I'm all about like I met a She
pot my uterus back in a place. So when I
tell you, my daughter is a manifestation in my dreams,
she is.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
I prayed for her. The way she looks now is
I'm like, this is how I knew she was gonna
look like this. It's crazy. I believe in that she's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (26:22):
And so I will say sometimes I say I wish
I would I had kids younger, right like in my twenties,
in my early thirties.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
But I'm thankful that I had her when I had
her because I'm patient.
Speaker 2 (26:34):
Yes, like I think a lot of times when young
moms have kids at a young age, to the suspend,
I'm like, ah, And I'm.
Speaker 1 (26:40):
Like, I'm not in your rush to I try. I've
traveled a lot and I'm gonna still travel. Yeah, we're
going to assall lot next month with her. Nice. I
think I had a daughter to leave her behind. Yeah,
everyone's like that, Yeah, because I don't can see I
didn't have a daughter to leave her with. The mandis yeah,
I know, God, Yeah, you're in a different place.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
You're in a different place, you're more patient, you know
the knowledge that I'm going to be You would have
printed this little girl, and I'm like, I get to
be your coach.
Speaker 1 (27:04):
I get to be your biggest in this little life.
Everyone's like, you didn't, you didn't. But she had a boy.
I'm like, nope, how can I teach a boy how
to be amazing?
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (27:13):
I see, No, you're a total And when I have
another one, I want another's gonna be Oh my god.
I can already see you're you're a great mom. I
can already see. Like it's just I don't know.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
I see you on social media, like everything you speak
and again, you don't just say ship like you you're
about it, about You're about it and in every way.
So I needs to imagine. I said, I'm so honored
that she picked me and that I and that I
picked her. But they say children pick their parents, yes,
you know, Like so that's like that's just like your stuff.
(27:46):
And I'm like, my guys movies, I will. I know
they're all on milk ste that's that's admirable.
Speaker 1 (27:54):
And breastfeed her, so like its breastfeeding just it checks you.
You can't dream too much.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
Alcohol, you shouldn't be you know, alcohol. She don't really
smoke cannabis.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Everybody else. I'm a cannabis enthusiast. You know that I
was gonna asked the other day, I can't because that
bread speed. But you know the prymney, you know what
I mean? Like our parents were hippies and they were
doing it too. It This is my thing I all
get into.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
The whole endo cannabinoids is that you don't want me
to get started with that, But everybody has an endoc
cannabinoids in their body, and in reality, it.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
Helps your immune system when you consume the flower the
right way, the right way like c med. The cantabinoids
are actually super beneficial for the body. But people don't.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
They only want to see the cannabis that get too high. Right,
And there's different and it's not just that it's we
need a.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Whole episode on that, because a lot, especially.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
In our community's educated, especially the older generation, that cannabis
is is way better than drinking a Thailand.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Let me tell you, guys.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
I always say, oh my god, people goes down, Oh
my god that I spoke with right now, I'm gonna
clean that a very deep cleansed. But when they found
out that I smoked cannabis, it was just like, oh
my god, how could you go like, wait a second, No,
I have more babies, Yes you do.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
I want one more. I just want you know what,
I can't imagine my life. I can't imagine my life
without my siblings. Yeah, can you know? So I'm like
I because and when you put it that way, yeah, no,
And a lot of women these days.
Speaker 2 (29:20):
Are like one and done, and I'm like, I get
it because you know it, it ain't easy. It's definitely
worth it. But I cannot imagine my life without my
sister and my brother because we're tight, you know what
I mean. They're so fateful that we're tight. And I
love that your mom instilled that in you too. Is
that No, Like your siblings are forever people and you
know what I mean. So I love that you're close
(29:42):
to your siblings.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
So when I see my closest or my siblings, I'm like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
I want to get on it.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I know, I know, girl it okay? Would you you
don't mind if it's a boy or girl. At this point,
it's like whatever, I mean, I feel like God's gonna
give me what's meant for me. But I definitely want another.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
Little Oh my God, yes, because like we're so really yeah,
like sure, dressing them up.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
And I mean I could teach a woman how to
be great? Can I teach you?
Speaker 2 (30:10):
No?
Speaker 1 (30:10):
Yeah? You know that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:12):
See and see I have always in my life watered
a boy, and I think I always like, I want
to be I want to have a boy.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
But I've learned through therapy and through healing that the
reason I waited so long to have kids was because,
of course I'm taking care of my siblings, but also
it is that I have been a mockery. Yeah, I've been.
I went out all of it, especially with Johnny and Jenica.
Oh yeah, those are your freaking mother a parent conferences.
(30:41):
I did it all. I did the homework. I it
was I did it all.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
I mean, so john was more mine, I feel than
even my mom did. Sometimes you know, I should, It's understandable.
But also I think I waited and I didn't want
to grow because I was afraid of my mom and
I had such a beautiful relationship, but it was it
was hard, you know that I was like, oh what,
I don't what if I have a girl, and then
we repeat things that I don't know. I thought so
(31:05):
many negative things and in reality, I'm like, wait a second,
but if I do have a little girl, and I
can mend and help that relationship. But hew that relationship
because times didn't allow.
Speaker 1 (31:15):
It, you know. So now I'm like, God, whatever you
want me to have, I'm gonna accept it. Yes.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
Yeah, but I could see you having a little girl
and doing things completely different with your little girl.
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Because you know better. I'm older. You know what boundaries are.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
Now, I'm so patty that you know how to set
boundaries and based with certain people. Yeah, but boundaries are
superper important and you understand that. So like, when you
know how to do it another way, you're gonna do
it a different way so that we you know, Because
believe it or not, girl, there's a lot of broken
people raising broken humans. They're emotionally broken. And I love
(31:50):
that about you that you encourage therapy. Every human watching
this needs to go to thera down. I have a
love the therapist since I was nineteen. My parents got
divorced fifteen and it affected me. So when when you
talk about therapy, when anybody talks about therapy.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
I'm like, is that local?
Speaker 2 (32:09):
At this point you need to address all the issues
and listen, we all got issues, yeah, all of us,
all of us. It doesn't have to be Oh I was,
you know, because I was sexually abused, like it could
be anything and everything, and a lot of people, especially
man in our culture, where people think, well, see what
you know, if I go to counseling, it's because something's
wrong with me, and no, it's that we all need
(32:30):
to bounce ideas, let our feelings out with someone that's
not gonna that we're gonna feel good to criticize it
or we're shy.
Speaker 1 (32:37):
It's someone that's just completely separated from your family. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Yeah, I love that you encourage your followers of therapy
because I do. Do do it, but your pride to
the side and deal with it because otherwise that haunts
you for the rest of your life and your neighbor.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
You're never able to have all of your relationships a.
Speaker 2 (32:53):
Quality, that relationship with your siblings, with your parents because
you're just holy hot to old shit.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Yes, and it's like they get to see mm hm,
oh my god exactly. I always tell you guys that you.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Guys have to release we have to release the baggage
and not there's there's no way that we're gonna be
able to be our best selves if we're carrying old
ship literally old shit.
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Well, Ron, thank you so much. She thinks it's so
it's so intimate in here. I love it. You think
have done a good job.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
I wanted something very warm, and I wanted something like
apple Hillo. That's gonna give you, like you know, nice point,
You're gonna give you a little hugs. So I'm glad
to do that here. I'm grateful that you're here.
Speaker 1 (33:30):
And I gotta go on your podcast. So tell us
about your podcast. So where can people find you? Yeah?
So our podcast mine and my sisters called straight Up Sisters.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
The podcast, it's my older sister and me and so
the older sister and baby is the.
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Dynamic is real.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Susie is six years older than me, and she thinks
she's always right right because she's got mer life experiences.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
We have a lot of opposing views on different things,
but it's all love at the end of the day.
Like I'm not like I hate you. I mean we
we get into disagreements on the podcast. I'm like, no,
like that. What makes a strong relationship? Yeah, and so
that's what it is.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
It's the older sister and a baby sister having a
conversation on a set every day and we talk our shit.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
We talk our shit but a lot of two and
Susie is right, you know what I mean. I'm like,
damn yeah, she's like seventy thirty percent of the time.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
Right.
Speaker 1 (34:20):
Do you ever tell your siblings that no, I don't,
but I should. Shit be good. I told you so. Yeah,
because a lot, you know, you guys have more life experience.
You get the baby. Yeah yeah, like you good guy, Jennica,
because she's the baby, right. So it's it's fun.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
We have such a good time and we're on all
digital platforms straight up. Sisters of the podcast, Susie, I
love you. I missed you girl.
Speaker 1 (34:39):
I know she loves you too. She was so happy
that I was coming to day. She's like, tell her
she's just gonna be on the podcast and she's like,
you know what, I know, I'm gonna.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
I'm gonna go there with her because she's the oldest,
and you know, I'm gonna. I'm gonna ask herself that
maybe people are free to ask her.
Speaker 1 (34:52):
And I'm like, and I'm sure she'll have to make sure.
I will. Yeah will, So Susie, bring it on, baby
girl and her mom two said to my mom that
she made. She gave me my first call on. Yeah,
most she did. Did your mom gave me my first
colonate way back in the day? Girl? Really is okay?
Can you tell that people like kalonics are not painful?
Colonies are not people. They're a little uncomfortably it could
be a little comfortable, but they're not painful. They're that
(35:12):
painful and they're great for you.
Speaker 2 (35:15):
So it was because of her mom that I started
like getting into it. So thanks, you know, shout out
to your mom. Yeah, do you want to share your socials?
Speaker 1 (35:22):
Yeah? My social is at roxyes World.
Speaker 2 (35:24):
So the cool thing about Roxy's World and the way
I spell my name is it's our a Q capital C. Yes,
so nobody else has that name on.
Speaker 1 (35:33):
I love that. One of a kind, one of one. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
So it's the rocky r a Q capital seed roxyes
World up everything and every weege Snapchat.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
You got sapchat please? Yeah? I love Snapchat. Yeah, I
love it. You're really good at it. You're really good.
Like I'm like, I sit there and I watch it.
Speaker 2 (35:49):
I'm like I buy the stuff that she posts to
I say stree shots and I'm like, oh, girl, I
gotta remember her by this, so yeah, I follow her.
Speaker 1 (35:55):
So bros As that's a greed backbone. Now, thank you,
thank god. It's like you had no the choice. I
had no the choice.
Speaker 2 (36:02):
I had to put on my big girl panties. I
was like, all right, cool, my mama, here, I gotta
I gotta be the one to protect my siblings.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
And I so yeah, you do good?
Speaker 2 (36:09):
You do?
Speaker 1 (36:10):
You so good at that brette. That's what older sisters do.
Y'all got our bats forever. Thank you so much, Thank you,
Roxy Lovett. I know, thank you. Never again, don't never
let go my gardes. I know. Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
Guy. If you enjoyed this conversation and I will catch
you on the next episode of Cheeky Isn't Chill? Do
you need advice on love, relationships, health EMUs. I'm so
excited to share with you that my Cheekies and Chill
podcast will have an extra episode drop each week. I'll
be answering all your questions. Just leave me a voice message.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
That minday.
Speaker 2 (36:54):
All you have to do is go to speak pipe
dot com slash Cheeky's and Chill podcast and record your questions.
Speaker 1 (37:00):
I can't wait to hear from you.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
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