November 5, 2025 • 11 mins
This week on Dear Chiquis: An anonymous listener wants to know what place in the world makes me feel the most at peace; Mary asks me if I have any thoughts on my tío Lupillo’s new autobiography; and Carola wonders if I have any past regrets and why.
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Speaker 1 (00:18):
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here
to give you advice on anything and everything you need
help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having
issues with your family, or maybe you have a question
about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want
to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts in
(00:39):
my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue
or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I know you've done a lot of healing and you're
doing the process of it. I'd love to hear your podcasts.
They're very lean oriented, very peaceful, very relaxing. I love it.
But I also want to hear what place of the
world have you traveled too that you have felt the
(01:12):
most peaceful, or where you felt like you healed the
most and you actually felt like you came back and
it helped. I hear a lot of people saying that
how wise like the chakra of love. So I don't
know if I just I want to hear from you
that you've traveled and gone and see what do you recommend?
(01:33):
What helped you?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Hello, my wonderful anonymous listener, Thank you for listening to
the podcast. It means a lot to me. And yes,
definitely still healing. Healing is I think a lifetime journey.
So I'm starting to realize that and accepting that because
I feel like I'm healing certain things and then other
things come up. But that's okay, it's life. It's a journey.
(01:59):
We got this. But talking about healing and places I've been,
you know, Egypt was awesome. I feel like I felt
very connected because that's like the motherland, that's where everything
started in Africa, So I felt connected in a different
way and I would love to go back for sure.
(02:20):
But I think when it comes to like let me
close my eyes and really think about the places I've
been that God has given me and granted me the
privilege of visiting, I would probably have to say Hawaii,
And not just because you mentioned it, but because if
I think of a happy place that I just go
and I can be a kid and I could be free.
(02:41):
For sure, Hawaii there's something special, like my soul is
connected there also, like Paris, I loved for different reasons,
and I think because people were just more present. I
loved that. But as I close my eyes, I'm like, oh,
Hawaii is just that play for me where I'm like,
oh that and Zion. I love those two places. But
(03:05):
I love the water so much, so I would have
to say, Hawaii. That was such a good question. Thank
you so much, Like you really made me think I
love that. But yeah, it's just it's healing, and I
feel like I just love tropical and I love the
weather and even if it rains, it's still beautiful. So yeah,
Hawaii is my answer. Thank you for asking me that.
(03:27):
I appreciate it. Let's now hear from Mary or Maddy.
Let's see all that cheek is seen the locket, live
it all, Hi, Maddy, Hi Mary, I knew it. I
promise you. I think I manifested this. I knew someone
(03:48):
was gonna ask me about my uncle's book Loupe okay,
especially though she's asking me in Spanish. Guys, my uncle,
my mom's brother, just came out with a book, his autobiography,
and he speaks about a lot of things. However, Marie
Como Tego and Malatristsa Leneta mala tristesa, por came, santo
(04:18):
came maybe la cara peerloke mass manatricetesa, So has a
son souses possos o, Yes, must be in pasa pormucco,
beer lokesta pasando pur came elra buscado, el pracilo, this
(04:49):
decadrasonn prendida perm and soil jose loke. So you still
(05:14):
it was Kaki. So I just told Mari that it
has been a little daunting. I felt a little fooled,
and I won't get into too much details as to
why I feel fooled in some way, but it makes
(05:34):
me feel more than anything, sadness, Not sadness for me,
sadness for him, for his daughters, for his wives that
I know and that I know went through a lot,
and it hurts me to see what they're going through
because he's always been the type of person to look
for power versus love, and that's always been the case
(05:57):
since I could remember. And it's just sad, you know.
But I'm not surprised, unfortunately, and I don't feel like
I need to clear anything up. I wrote my books,
I left it there and I know what I've done,
what I haven't done and what he's saying is not true.
And the people that know me know that, and I'm
okay with that, you know. And I have no desire
(06:20):
at all to have any type of relationship with him,
especially after this. Wishing him well. I hope he makes
a lot of money with this book. It just makes
me a little sad because I feel like he's going
to be very alone, and it makes me sad. I
don't want him to be alone, but it's like he's
pushing everyone away. It's just it's really sad. Anyway, Mariota,
(07:08):
all right, guys, let's move on to Corolla. Oh I
like that name.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Hello, Ermosa. I was wondering if there is something the
Keeterpian this, what is it? And why Apentillo remas.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Ah Corolla. So Corolla is asking me if there's anything
that I regret in my life, regret doing, And you
know what, Damn, that's hard because I don't really regret
a lot. I feel like everything that has happened in
my life, even the most difficult things, even getting tattoos.
(07:48):
I think someone asked me this before, and I was like,
if I had to think of something, it'd be like
starting to get tattoos, because once you get, when you
want more. And I think my first one was one
that I don't absolutely love, but not even that I
don't know. I that's a very good question. Las cosas
cara cosas alexios algo capren there the perna cosa anto
(08:19):
had reno men canto and joy and use care cosa
no perroeso.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Hm hmm.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Let me think the momentito sperame when our alasara bend
primer casa ceme com pre senner say son casa and
silmar ren and aura a pro rent and no paratas
(08:59):
if we momentodi personaliento osa ni the theersonas aprendi algo yes.
(09:29):
So it's mt. It's so. I was just telling Carola
guys that I sold my first house in Silmar, and
I went the other day for ra and it was
held there because the person that bought it, we know them,
and the property is big, so they they rent out
(09:50):
for fiestas for parties and my god daughter's party was there. Anyway,
I was there, and I was starting to feel a
little like, oh my gosh, I wish I wouldn't have
sold that. That's one thing that weighs on me a
lot because I'm like, it's my first house. It's like
a huge property. I could have rented it out, made
business out of it, but it just wasn't the time
and I needed to cut ties. But I'm thinking Corolla
wants to know more things, like about my personal life,
(10:11):
if there's anything that I regret there. But to be honest,
I told her, I'm like, I really don't regret much
or anything because everything has had a lesson not marrying
someone or being in a relationship with someone, or stop
talking to certain friends or whatnot. Like I feel like
everything happens really for a reason, as cliche as it sounds,
and I've learned from every situation, mistakes and everything, so
(10:35):
I can't really say I regret anything, not at this
point in my life. To be honest, that one caught
me off guard. But thank you guys so much for
your questions. I really appreciate it. You guys always make
me think. I love the variation of questions, so keep
them coming, and if you have a question, please leave
it at speakpipe dot com, slash Cheeky's and Chill podcast.
It could be about your life, my life, or anything
(10:55):
else around the world. Okay, I'll catch you on the
next episode of Dear Cheeky. This is a production of
iHeartRadio and the Microdura podcast Network. Follow us on Instagram
at Michael Doura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's c
h i q u i s. For more podcasts from iHeart,
(11:16):
visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen
to your favorite podcast.
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here
to give you advice on anything and everything you need
help with, whether you're going through a breakup or having
issues with your family, or maybe you have a question
about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I want
to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts in
(00:39):
my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious issue
or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I know you've done a lot of healing and you're
doing the process of it. I'd love to hear your podcasts.
They're very lean oriented, very peaceful, very relaxing. I love it.
But I also want to hear what place of the
world have you traveled too that you have felt the
(01:12):
most peaceful, or where you felt like you healed the
most and you actually felt like you came back and
it helped. I hear a lot of people saying that
how wise like the chakra of love. So I don't
know if I just I want to hear from you
that you've traveled and gone and see what do you recommend?
(01:33):
What helped you?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Hello, my wonderful anonymous listener, Thank you for listening to
the podcast. It means a lot to me. And yes,
definitely still healing. Healing is I think a lifetime journey.
So I'm starting to realize that and accepting that because
I feel like I'm healing certain things and then other
things come up. But that's okay, it's life. It's a journey.
(01:59):
We got this. But talking about healing and places I've been,
you know, Egypt was awesome. I feel like I felt
very connected because that's like the motherland, that's where everything
started in Africa, So I felt connected in a different
way and I would love to go back for sure.
(02:20):
But I think when it comes to like let me
close my eyes and really think about the places I've
been that God has given me and granted me the
privilege of visiting, I would probably have to say Hawaii,
And not just because you mentioned it, but because if
I think of a happy place that I just go
and I can be a kid and I could be free.
(02:41):
For sure, Hawaii there's something special, like my soul is
connected there also, like Paris, I loved for different reasons,
and I think because people were just more present. I
loved that. But as I close my eyes, I'm like, oh,
Hawaii is just that play for me where I'm like,
oh that and Zion. I love those two places. But
(03:05):
I love the water so much, so I would have
to say, Hawaii. That was such a good question. Thank
you so much, Like you really made me think I
love that. But yeah, it's just it's healing, and I
feel like I just love tropical and I love the
weather and even if it rains, it's still beautiful. So yeah,
Hawaii is my answer. Thank you for asking me that.
(03:27):
I appreciate it. Let's now hear from Mary or Maddy.
Let's see all that cheek is seen the locket, live
it all, Hi, Maddy, Hi Mary, I knew it. I
promise you. I think I manifested this. I knew someone
(03:48):
was gonna ask me about my uncle's book Loupe okay,
especially though she's asking me in Spanish. Guys, my uncle,
my mom's brother, just came out with a book, his autobiography,
and he speaks about a lot of things. However, Marie
Como Tego and Malatristsa Leneta mala tristesa, por came, santo
(04:18):
came maybe la cara peerloke mass manatricetesa, So has a
son souses possos o, Yes, must be in pasa pormucco,
beer lokesta pasando pur came elra buscado, el pracilo, this
(04:49):
decadrasonn prendida perm and soil jose loke. So you still
(05:14):
it was Kaki. So I just told Mari that it
has been a little daunting. I felt a little fooled,
and I won't get into too much details as to
why I feel fooled in some way, but it makes
(05:34):
me feel more than anything, sadness, Not sadness for me,
sadness for him, for his daughters, for his wives that
I know and that I know went through a lot,
and it hurts me to see what they're going through
because he's always been the type of person to look
for power versus love, and that's always been the case
(05:57):
since I could remember. And it's just sad, you know.
But I'm not surprised, unfortunately, and I don't feel like
I need to clear anything up. I wrote my books,
I left it there and I know what I've done,
what I haven't done and what he's saying is not true.
And the people that know me know that, and I'm
okay with that, you know. And I have no desire
(06:20):
at all to have any type of relationship with him,
especially after this. Wishing him well. I hope he makes
a lot of money with this book. It just makes
me a little sad because I feel like he's going
to be very alone, and it makes me sad. I
don't want him to be alone, but it's like he's
pushing everyone away. It's just it's really sad. Anyway, Mariota,
(07:08):
all right, guys, let's move on to Corolla. Oh I
like that name.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Hello, Ermosa. I was wondering if there is something the
Keeterpian this, what is it? And why Apentillo remas.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
Ah Corolla. So Corolla is asking me if there's anything
that I regret in my life, regret doing, And you
know what, Damn, that's hard because I don't really regret
a lot. I feel like everything that has happened in
my life, even the most difficult things, even getting tattoos.
(07:48):
I think someone asked me this before, and I was like,
if I had to think of something, it'd be like
starting to get tattoos, because once you get, when you
want more. And I think my first one was one
that I don't absolutely love, but not even that I
don't know. I that's a very good question. Las cosas
cara cosas alexios algo capren there the perna cosa anto
(08:19):
had reno men canto and joy and use care cosa
no perroeso.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Hm hmm.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Let me think the momentito sperame when our alasara bend
primer casa ceme com pre senner say son casa and
silmar ren and aura a pro rent and no paratas
(08:59):
if we momentodi personaliento osa ni the theersonas aprendi algo yes.
(09:29):
So it's mt. It's so. I was just telling Carola
guys that I sold my first house in Silmar, and
I went the other day for ra and it was
held there because the person that bought it, we know them,
and the property is big, so they they rent out
(09:50):
for fiestas for parties and my god daughter's party was there. Anyway,
I was there, and I was starting to feel a
little like, oh my gosh, I wish I wouldn't have
sold that. That's one thing that weighs on me a
lot because I'm like, it's my first house. It's like
a huge property. I could have rented it out, made
business out of it, but it just wasn't the time
and I needed to cut ties. But I'm thinking Corolla
wants to know more things, like about my personal life,
(10:11):
if there's anything that I regret there. But to be honest,
I told her, I'm like, I really don't regret much
or anything because everything has had a lesson not marrying
someone or being in a relationship with someone, or stop
talking to certain friends or whatnot. Like I feel like
everything happens really for a reason, as cliche as it sounds,
and I've learned from every situation, mistakes and everything, so
(10:35):
I can't really say I regret anything, not at this
point in my life. To be honest, that one caught
me off guard. But thank you guys so much for
your questions. I really appreciate it. You guys always make
me think. I love the variation of questions, so keep
them coming, and if you have a question, please leave
it at speakpipe dot com, slash Cheeky's and Chill podcast.
It could be about your life, my life, or anything
(10:55):
else around the world. Okay, I'll catch you on the
next episode of Dear Cheeky. This is a production of
iHeartRadio and the Microdura podcast Network. Follow us on Instagram
at Michael Doura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's c
h i q u i s. For more podcasts from iHeart,
(11:16):
visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen
to your favorite podcast.
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