November 12, 2025 • 10 mins
This week on Dear Chiquis: An anonymous listener asks if my husband listens to my podcast and whether I tell him ahead of time if I’m going to talk about our relationship; Isby has a question about how I go about choosing what businesses I get into and launch; and a tiny listener has a very cute message for me.
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Speaker 1 (00:18):
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here
to give you a device on anything and everything you
need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or
having issues with your family, or maybe you have a
question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I
want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts
(00:39):
in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious
issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beab.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Hey, Cheeky. So, I was just wondering listen to some
recent episodes, right, does Emelio listen to your podcast? Or
do you discuss beforehand that you're going to talk out
certain things in your relationship or does he want us
to know these things?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
I was just wondering, Hi, I recognize your voice. I
wish you left your name, girl, But it's okay. I
understand you know what. I don't tell Emilio what I'm
going to talk about, Like he'll ask me the day of,
like after each podcast, like how was it or whatnot?
(01:25):
And We always like have our nighttime discussions, our pillow talk.
But I don't necessarily ask for permission. If that's kind
of like what you're insinuated a little bit. I am
who I am and he knows that, and he knows
I'm an open book. He's not. He's more reserved. I
know certain things that are off limits and he doesn't
(01:46):
even have to tell me. I have common sense, you know,
But this is my life and this is who he married,
and I am not going to change that unless I
want to change that, and he knows that. But if
there is something that makes him feel uncomfortable, which he
has never told me that, to be honest, I would
definitely correct it and say, okay, I apologize, especially apologize,
(02:07):
and I'm not trying to make him feel uncomfortable or
talk about something that he doesn't like. But yeah, I
mean no, I we're pretty good. When it comes to
my podcast, he loves it. He loves my podcast. I
don't think he listens to it though, but I know
some of his family members do, so I don't know
how they feel about it. And again, it's never meant
(02:28):
to be disrespectful ever, But there are things that I've
been through and things that a lot of people wouldn't
be comfortable talking about. And I am and he knows
how much I love him, so you know I take
care of him, if you know what I mean. But
thank you for your question. Looking forward to hearing from
you again. Okay, guys, we have a question from Easby.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Hi cheeky is my question for you? Is como they
see this? Oh com elihs and k negosio in Berti
Como and besas poets differentes Negrossios ands Como, escorches and
(03:12):
Kate and King Bertie Casey is sel salone, Louego he
lo la stajas los protos colato. It will be flowerless
como as Si Lesion. They are Momir mossima.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
A your seqi naities is Be. Oh my goodness is
Bee at York memour. I love youre esperame on no
s prograss So let me explain English real quick. Sobe
(03:56):
is one of my boss bees. She's been one of
my boss bees for like the beginning of my career
for I don't know how many years now. She would
travel everywhere to go see me. Her and her daughter,
my mini boss by. And they're from New York. Anyway,
she's asking how I decide what business to start because
I've had so many different businesses. I have skincare, hair
(04:17):
faj has so many different businesses, and she just wants
to know how it is that I decide what I'm
going to to do or start, you know, which I
think is a great question. Mirmosa, Joe so super a
(04:38):
ciomente and mistaen I baso algo no producto in no
(05:06):
legos you see no no connectamos como no no I
muvian economicament is importante non producto and to felis a
cien dolo t q av lari iven there no globos
(05:36):
important to in nomosiste pensando and tennis k berte you
need to visualize yourself a cien doloelo do you know?
So that's what I do, that's my personal like, that's
what I do. And anyway, guys, I'm gonna do this
(05:57):
really quick. It was a very long answer, but I
was just telling her that everything I've done, every product
that I've come out with, I need to feel very connected.
I need to use I'm a person that likes to
take care of herself physically, emotionally, spiritually, health wise, which
is why I started a nutrition line. I take collagen
every day, and every product that I come out with
is a product that I need to stand behind and
(06:17):
I need to believe in. Also, when we had the Fajas,
the Shapeware that I had to close down, not because
it wasn't working or because I didn't love it. It
was just the business side of it as far as
who my partner wasn't working out for me. But I
don't like to think of is this going to make
(06:38):
me money? I hope it makes me money. Of course
I want it to make me money, But first and
foremost it has to be is this your passion? Are
you going to enjoy doing this? And you have to
visualize yourself doing it? And are you going to be
happy doing it? Of course you're gonna have hard moments
and it's not always going to be easy. You have
to know that first and foremost, because starting a business,
(06:58):
it takes time for it to get on its feet
and it takes a lot of hard work. But you
have to visualize and ask yourself, am I gonna be happy?
Is this something I love? Am I doing it for
the right reasons or just for the money? And that's
what I ask myself all the time. So you know
that was a long answer, but there you have it,
which said most at the amo at the mean Minnie Presby. Okay, guys,
(07:26):
we have a last question from an anonymous listener.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Hi, I'm because a daughter, Amma Floward, and I just
wanted to say, how are you so pretty? Because because
you because you look actually teeth, And I just wanted
to say thank you for helping out my mom. She's
(07:50):
really happy and she's a big fan of you and
your mom. I help my my mom's mom and your
mom are laughing together. Bye bye.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Oh my goodness, you are so cute. You just made
me so happy. Thank you so much for leaving me
this voicemail. Wow, I don't know how I'm pretty. Thank
you for thinking I'm pretty. It's trotbally your eyes that
see me pretty. So thank you. But I always say
my mommy made me with a lot of love. I
think anything you do with a lot of love comes
(08:22):
out beautiful, So thank you. I'm glad that you think that.
And I'm trying to think who your mommy is because
I know a lot of Erica's. But I'm glad that
I've been able to help her and that she listens
to the podcast and that you're here listening. That makes
me so happy. You just made my day. Thank you,
thank you, thank you. Sending you and your mommy a
big hug, Mama, Sita. Okay, God bless you you guys. Oh.
(08:47):
I love your questions. Thank you so much. Thank you
listeners for being here, for coming back each and every
week to listen. You know that Dear Cheeky's is a
place where you all can learn from one another because
we are answering questions from listeners. And again, I like
to just say it, I don't listen to these questions beforehand.
(09:09):
I like to be surprised. I love that feeling of
being surprised, and I want each question to be genuine
and not that out too much. So sometimes on the
fly I don't have all the right answers, but trust
me and please believe that it all always comes from
the deepest, most sincerest part of my heart. So thank you,
and if you have a question, please leave it at
(09:30):
speakpipe dot com, slash Cheekys and Chill Podcasts.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
I would love to hear from you.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Catch you on the next one. This is a production
of iHeartRadio and the Micudura podcast Network. Follow us on
Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's
c hi Qui S. For more podcasts from iHeart, visit
the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to
(09:57):
your favorite podcast
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here
to give you a device on anything and everything you
need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or
having issues with your family, or maybe you have a
question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I
want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts
(00:39):
in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious
issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beab.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Hey, Cheeky. So, I was just wondering listen to some
recent episodes, right, does Emelio listen to your podcast? Or
do you discuss beforehand that you're going to talk out
certain things in your relationship or does he want us
to know these things?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
I was just wondering, Hi, I recognize your voice. I
wish you left your name, girl, But it's okay. I
understand you know what. I don't tell Emilio what I'm
going to talk about, Like he'll ask me the day of,
like after each podcast, like how was it or whatnot?
(01:25):
And We always like have our nighttime discussions, our pillow talk.
But I don't necessarily ask for permission. If that's kind
of like what you're insinuated a little bit. I am
who I am and he knows that, and he knows
I'm an open book. He's not. He's more reserved. I
know certain things that are off limits and he doesn't
(01:46):
even have to tell me. I have common sense, you know,
But this is my life and this is who he married,
and I am not going to change that unless I
want to change that, and he knows that. But if
there is something that makes him feel uncomfortable, which he
has never told me that, to be honest, I would
definitely correct it and say, okay, I apologize, especially apologize,
(02:07):
and I'm not trying to make him feel uncomfortable or
talk about something that he doesn't like. But yeah, I
mean no, I we're pretty good. When it comes to
my podcast, he loves it. He loves my podcast. I
don't think he listens to it though, but I know
some of his family members do, so I don't know
how they feel about it. And again, it's never meant
(02:28):
to be disrespectful ever, But there are things that I've
been through and things that a lot of people wouldn't
be comfortable talking about. And I am and he knows
how much I love him, so you know I take
care of him, if you know what I mean. But
thank you for your question. Looking forward to hearing from
you again. Okay, guys, we have a question from Easby.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Hi cheeky is my question for you? Is como they
see this? Oh com elihs and k negosio in Berti
Como and besas poets differentes Negrossios ands Como, escorches and
(03:12):
Kate and King Bertie Casey is sel salone, Louego he
lo la stajas los protos colato. It will be flowerless
como as Si Lesion. They are Momir mossima.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
A your seqi naities is Be. Oh my goodness is
Bee at York memour. I love youre esperame on no
s prograss So let me explain English real quick. Sobe
(03:56):
is one of my boss bees. She's been one of
my boss bees for like the beginning of my career
for I don't know how many years now. She would
travel everywhere to go see me. Her and her daughter,
my mini boss by. And they're from New York. Anyway,
she's asking how I decide what business to start because
I've had so many different businesses. I have skincare, hair
(04:17):
faj has so many different businesses, and she just wants
to know how it is that I decide what I'm
going to to do or start, you know, which I
think is a great question. Mirmosa, Joe so super a
(04:38):
ciomente and mistaen I baso algo no producto in no
(05:06):
legos you see no no connectamos como no no I
muvian economicament is importante non producto and to felis a
cien dolo t q av lari iven there no globos
(05:36):
important to in nomosiste pensando and tennis k berte you
need to visualize yourself a cien doloelo do you know?
So that's what I do, that's my personal like, that's
what I do. And anyway, guys, I'm gonna do this
(05:57):
really quick. It was a very long answer, but I
was just telling her that everything I've done, every product
that I've come out with, I need to feel very connected.
I need to use I'm a person that likes to
take care of herself physically, emotionally, spiritually, health wise, which
is why I started a nutrition line. I take collagen
every day, and every product that I come out with
is a product that I need to stand behind and
(06:17):
I need to believe in. Also, when we had the Fajas,
the Shapeware that I had to close down, not because
it wasn't working or because I didn't love it. It
was just the business side of it as far as
who my partner wasn't working out for me. But I
don't like to think of is this going to make
(06:38):
me money? I hope it makes me money. Of course
I want it to make me money, But first and
foremost it has to be is this your passion? Are
you going to enjoy doing this? And you have to
visualize yourself doing it? And are you going to be
happy doing it? Of course you're gonna have hard moments
and it's not always going to be easy. You have
to know that first and foremost, because starting a business,
(06:58):
it takes time for it to get on its feet
and it takes a lot of hard work. But you
have to visualize and ask yourself, am I gonna be happy?
Is this something I love? Am I doing it for
the right reasons or just for the money? And that's
what I ask myself all the time. So you know
that was a long answer, but there you have it,
which said most at the amo at the mean Minnie Presby. Okay, guys,
(07:26):
we have a last question from an anonymous listener.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Hi, I'm because a daughter, Amma Floward, and I just
wanted to say, how are you so pretty? Because because
you because you look actually teeth, And I just wanted
to say thank you for helping out my mom. She's
(07:50):
really happy and she's a big fan of you and
your mom. I help my my mom's mom and your
mom are laughing together. Bye bye.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Oh my goodness, you are so cute. You just made
me so happy. Thank you so much for leaving me
this voicemail. Wow, I don't know how I'm pretty. Thank
you for thinking I'm pretty. It's trotbally your eyes that
see me pretty. So thank you. But I always say
my mommy made me with a lot of love. I
think anything you do with a lot of love comes
(08:22):
out beautiful, So thank you. I'm glad that you think that.
And I'm trying to think who your mommy is because
I know a lot of Erica's. But I'm glad that
I've been able to help her and that she listens
to the podcast and that you're here listening. That makes
me so happy. You just made my day. Thank you,
thank you, thank you. Sending you and your mommy a
big hug, Mama, Sita. Okay, God bless you you guys. Oh.
(08:47):
I love your questions. Thank you so much. Thank you
listeners for being here, for coming back each and every
week to listen. You know that Dear Cheeky's is a
place where you all can learn from one another because
we are answering questions from listeners. And again, I like
to just say it, I don't listen to these questions beforehand.
(09:09):
I like to be surprised. I love that feeling of
being surprised, and I want each question to be genuine
and not that out too much. So sometimes on the
fly I don't have all the right answers, but trust
me and please believe that it all always comes from
the deepest, most sincerest part of my heart. So thank you,
and if you have a question, please leave it at
(09:30):
speakpipe dot com, slash Cheekys and Chill Podcasts.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
I would love to hear from you.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Catch you on the next one. This is a production
of iHeartRadio and the Micudura podcast Network. Follow us on
Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's
c hi Qui S. For more podcasts from iHeart, visit
the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to
(09:57):
your favorite podcast
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