August 20, 2025 • 14 mins
I got some very interesting questions for this episode of Dear Chiquis. First up, Paty asks me about my reaction to the time my mom dedicated the song “Paloma Negra” to me at her last concert and whether there’s a backstory to that particular song; then, Maya wants to know what my usual taco order is; and lastly, Yesenia is struggling with forgiving her mom after she refused to believe that she was inappropriately touched by her uncle.
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Speaker 1 (00:18):
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheekyes Podcast. I'm
here to give you advice on anything and everything you
need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or
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(00:39):
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All right, Now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Pilch corft por primeravez la deco and concerto signific I
mean backstory there likes cancion porsmo porque il significant canciones
(01:32):
if Elissa versa called much as bend.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I particularly in Yes.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Okay, guys, So Patty is asking me, there's a song
that my mom sang to me at her last concert
called Paloma Negra, which is black Dove, and it's basically
about missing someone and my mom and I were strange.
We weren't speaking when she past. So she's asking me
how I felt when I heard that my mom sang
(02:04):
that song to me and dedicated to me at her
last concert. So I'm gonna go ahead and respond and
then I'll come back to you, Okay, B definitia, momento
porceesa como su manrandoen laesur la primeraes came selicoo, mikey
(02:39):
sefue book camp, messasco lego, mandarlo pero, Yeah, loke madre paraque,
suijo nos to and quo maas mass pass and micrasson.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I I.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Tranquila perrone especial. So, guys, I was just telling Patty that, yes,
I felt amazing when my mom, you know, saying me
that song at her last concert, because right after that
concert is when she passed, and we hadn't been talking
(03:47):
for about two months, as some of you may know,
and if you don't know, well that's what happened. So
listening to that song and what it says, it's basically
saying that you miss someone, but as much as it hurts,
you don't want them to come back. But for me,
even if it says that, it still was an indication
and it still is an indication that she missed me,
that we were on the verge of speaking, but you know,
(04:09):
time did what it had to do, and or destiny,
I don't know. It's still something that confuses me sometimes,
but I have a lot of peace because she sang
me that song and dedicated to me publicly actually on
both her last concerts, and I think it was her
way of calling out and maybe for me to reach
out again. I don't know, but it's definitely a special
(04:32):
song for me and my siblings. She also dedicated to
my brother years before when he was sent to boot
camp because he was being a bad boy and she
missed him very much, and she dedicated him that song
and would cry every time she heard it, and I,
of course, if I'm drinking, I'll for sure cry as
well when I'm listening to that song. It's so special
to us, to my family so much as it I says, Pat,
(04:57):
thank you so much. We're gonna go with yeah yah.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Now hey, Cheeky's So, my question is how often do
you eat tacos? What is your favorite kind of taco?
And then what sasas do you love.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Using when you eat tacos, if you like salsa, and then,
because I'm extra nosy, I even want to know what
you drink.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I want to know, does Jane.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Drink alcoca haritos or like an awa fleska? I don't know.
I feel like everyone is asking you the same question
in a different font, and honestly, I want to.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Know what like your taco order is. Anyway, Thank you,
I love you, and bye. Oh my gosh, I love
this question. Anything that has to do with food. Oh
my god. Yeah, yeah, love it. This is why I
love your cheekies. Guys.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
We get to learn about each other and grow together.
And then you, guys, ask me whatever you want. And
of course I'm an open book, so yes, my favorite tacos.
My taco order is usually asada. I sometimes like the
onion and cilantro. Sometimes I like to, you know, put
some lime on them. Sometimes I'll do chicken. But usually
(06:07):
if I'm ana have tacos, they are gonna be a salad.
And I like one tortilla. You know how some places
to two tortillas. I always ask for one, just because
I like to have more meat, more protein, and also
less carbs, but also because I love the taste of
just one, and I like the smaller tortillas. I'm very particular. Actually,
I'm glad you're asking me this, but that's how I
(06:27):
like my tacos, one single tortilla. And I love green salsa.
Oh my gosh, I'm a green salsa girl because it's
a little tangy, a little like sour e citrusy, and
sometimes I'll put a little bit of the red. But
I'm definitely a green salsad type of girl. And I
like auas frescas. If they have ajualapina, I'll take it
(06:50):
all day. Love aualapina a coca cola, especially if I'm
in Mexico eating tacos. Oh, you just have to have
a coke, you know. But if they don't have a
my second go to Isa Marindo, then Hamaka, then Chata
another girl, Emilio. So yeah, oh my gosh, I love
(07:11):
this question. This is fun and we're starting off so great. Yeah,
thank you girl. If you have any more questions like that,
bring them on. Okay, guys, last question comes from you.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
O lets is the Bible? Who's to.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Mira context? And quatus is a kid you record and
this text records mascos quadrupus on the meals the met
(08:01):
in David, you know sentiments and its sentiment India.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Squat. You know, Marc is the.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Is the jo Lances puntaq so so medi mahinando menando.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
For Susa. Yeah, permitia ke kundo is gonna be hamas.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
When Corto p the star is the Jose. And before
I answer you send you guys, I just want to
kind of give you what it is that she's asking.
So she is asking if she should forgive her mother.
She was touched by one of her uncles I'm assuming
(09:07):
her mother's brother when she was around three or four,
and she asked her uncle one day, why did you
do this to me? And he said, you're imagining it.
The mom, I guess stayed with that idea on her
head and then started saying that, you know, she it
was her fault, that it was her fault for basically
(09:28):
sleeping with them, and then that's when it cut off.
So look, you guys, I'm huge on forgiveness and forgiving
is it is very healing and important for us, not
for the other person. It's a gift for ourselves. So
let me answer her and I'll get back to you.
See is algol mente guandros barres olas persona.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
No no no scren Lerich himos a j Jose to madre.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Rosy to my man todavilla ses to coulpa and to
my man yourrocesi is important an a grand differenzia entreper
donar albi there a persona and tubida Jose to ma
man respect pres definite amene pero s to my man,
(10:36):
not estando respect to com um comosu to luar como
joke you know who's gas proper mano familiar le perou
tou s liste superbo param and the opinion to ma
master madelon parti as av larry to no magusta te
(11:09):
perdono and normelo piras pero meelnto. No, your croner desto
form lisner is no star lore or convivi com persons
cantano posto. It was josefici diferent dieselo en umbireo into
(11:38):
telephono to telefhano and una carta perot it's important ya
to telets l pork y poet la decision the card boy. Yeah, no,
d less respecto lo crocsi is important paraticile pero no, but.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Espiritoo the well guys.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
I'll try to be quick because I went on a
bit of a tangent, but I did tell her that
I think forgiving is very important. We talk about it
on the podcast all the time. Forgiving is for yourself,
not necessarily for the other person. If they ask for forgiveness, great,
you know, I think it's important to forgive. I do
think that there's a big difference between forgiving, forgetting, and
(12:57):
having that person sell in your life. That is a choice,
Especially if her mom is not having her back and
is causing more pain. I think that it is okay
for her and only fair for Ya Senya to create
some space. But tell her mom, Look, Mom, I'm gonna
forgive you, but I also need to stay away from
you because I need to heal from this and you're
not allowing me to. I love you, but I'm gonna
(13:18):
love you from Afar and hopefully once she tells her
mom that something sparks in her heart and in her
mind and says, you know what, I need to have
my daughter's back, no matter what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
This is her daughter.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Her daughter came out this out of her body. You know,
I understand her brother or her family member, like she
has love for that person, but this is her child.
Her god given child. So I don't agree with the
mother at all. So that's what I told you, Sanna.
So hopefully Yesenya give us an update and no good
to see this gip us all. It's the equoswuento you guys.
(13:49):
Thank you so much for listening. Thank you guys for
your questions. I love to help you guys. I love
to talk to you guys. I love to tell you
a little bit about what I like. Thank you for
asking and being interested. And if you have any personal
questions about me, about yourself, your life, please leave your
question at speakpipe dot com. Slash Chickens and Chill Podcast.
(14:09):
Have a great week, guys, los am. This is a
production of iHeartRadio and the Microldura podcast Network. Follow us
on Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's
That's c h.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I q U i s.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite podcast.
Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached
my personal voice mailbox for the Dear Cheekyes Podcast. I'm
here to give you advice on anything and everything you
need help with, whether you're going through a breakup or
having issues with your family, or maybe you have a
question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I
want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts
(00:39):
in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious
issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.
All right, Now, go ahead and leave your message at
the sound of the beeB.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Pilch corft por primeravez la deco and concerto signific I
mean backstory there likes cancion porsmo porque il significant canciones
(01:32):
if Elissa versa called much as bend.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
I particularly in Yes.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Okay, guys, So Patty is asking me, there's a song
that my mom sang to me at her last concert
called Paloma Negra, which is black Dove, and it's basically
about missing someone and my mom and I were strange.
We weren't speaking when she past. So she's asking me
how I felt when I heard that my mom sang
(02:04):
that song to me and dedicated to me at her
last concert. So I'm gonna go ahead and respond and
then I'll come back to you, Okay, B definitia, momento
porceesa como su manrandoen laesur la primeraes came selicoo, mikey
(02:39):
sefue book camp, messasco lego, mandarlo pero, Yeah, loke madre paraque,
suijo nos to and quo maas mass pass and micrasson.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I I.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Tranquila perrone especial. So, guys, I was just telling Patty that, yes,
I felt amazing when my mom, you know, saying me
that song at her last concert, because right after that
concert is when she passed, and we hadn't been talking
(03:47):
for about two months, as some of you may know,
and if you don't know, well that's what happened. So
listening to that song and what it says, it's basically
saying that you miss someone, but as much as it hurts,
you don't want them to come back. But for me,
even if it says that, it still was an indication
and it still is an indication that she missed me,
that we were on the verge of speaking, but you know,
(04:09):
time did what it had to do, and or destiny,
I don't know. It's still something that confuses me sometimes,
but I have a lot of peace because she sang
me that song and dedicated to me publicly actually on
both her last concerts, and I think it was her
way of calling out and maybe for me to reach
out again. I don't know, but it's definitely a special
(04:32):
song for me and my siblings. She also dedicated to
my brother years before when he was sent to boot
camp because he was being a bad boy and she
missed him very much, and she dedicated him that song
and would cry every time she heard it, and I,
of course, if I'm drinking, I'll for sure cry as
well when I'm listening to that song. It's so special
to us, to my family so much as it I says, Pat,
(04:57):
thank you so much. We're gonna go with yeah yah.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Now hey, Cheeky's So, my question is how often do
you eat tacos? What is your favorite kind of taco?
And then what sasas do you love.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Using when you eat tacos, if you like salsa, and then,
because I'm extra nosy, I even want to know what
you drink.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I want to know, does Jane.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Drink alcoca haritos or like an awa fleska? I don't know.
I feel like everyone is asking you the same question
in a different font, and honestly, I want to.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Know what like your taco order is. Anyway, Thank you,
I love you, and bye. Oh my gosh, I love
this question. Anything that has to do with food. Oh
my god. Yeah, yeah, love it. This is why I
love your cheekies. Guys.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
We get to learn about each other and grow together.
And then you, guys, ask me whatever you want. And
of course I'm an open book, so yes, my favorite tacos.
My taco order is usually asada. I sometimes like the
onion and cilantro. Sometimes I like to, you know, put
some lime on them. Sometimes I'll do chicken. But usually
(06:07):
if I'm ana have tacos, they are gonna be a salad.
And I like one tortilla. You know how some places
to two tortillas. I always ask for one, just because
I like to have more meat, more protein, and also
less carbs, but also because I love the taste of
just one, and I like the smaller tortillas. I'm very particular. Actually,
I'm glad you're asking me this, but that's how I
(06:27):
like my tacos, one single tortilla. And I love green salsa.
Oh my gosh, I'm a green salsa girl because it's
a little tangy, a little like sour e citrusy, and
sometimes I'll put a little bit of the red. But
I'm definitely a green salsad type of girl. And I
like auas frescas. If they have ajualapina, I'll take it
(06:50):
all day. Love aualapina a coca cola, especially if I'm
in Mexico eating tacos. Oh, you just have to have
a coke, you know. But if they don't have a
my second go to Isa Marindo, then Hamaka, then Chata
another girl, Emilio. So yeah, oh my gosh, I love
(07:11):
this question. This is fun and we're starting off so great. Yeah,
thank you girl. If you have any more questions like that,
bring them on. Okay, guys, last question comes from you.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
O lets is the Bible? Who's to.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Mira context? And quatus is a kid you record and
this text records mascos quadrupus on the meals the met
(08:01):
in David, you know sentiments and its sentiment India.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Squat. You know, Marc is the.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Is the jo Lances puntaq so so medi mahinando menando.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
For Susa. Yeah, permitia ke kundo is gonna be hamas.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
When Corto p the star is the Jose. And before
I answer you send you guys, I just want to
kind of give you what it is that she's asking.
So she is asking if she should forgive her mother.
She was touched by one of her uncles I'm assuming
(09:07):
her mother's brother when she was around three or four,
and she asked her uncle one day, why did you
do this to me? And he said, you're imagining it.
The mom, I guess stayed with that idea on her
head and then started saying that, you know, she it
was her fault, that it was her fault for basically
(09:28):
sleeping with them, and then that's when it cut off.
So look, you guys, I'm huge on forgiveness and forgiving
is it is very healing and important for us, not
for the other person. It's a gift for ourselves. So
let me answer her and I'll get back to you.
See is algol mente guandros barres olas persona.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
No no no scren Lerich himos a j Jose to madre.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
Rosy to my man todavilla ses to coulpa and to
my man yourrocesi is important an a grand differenzia entreper
donar albi there a persona and tubida Jose to ma
man respect pres definite amene pero s to my man,
(10:36):
not estando respect to com um comosu to luar como
joke you know who's gas proper mano familiar le perou
tou s liste superbo param and the opinion to ma
master madelon parti as av larry to no magusta te
(11:09):
perdono and normelo piras pero meelnto. No, your croner desto
form lisner is no star lore or convivi com persons
cantano posto. It was josefici diferent dieselo en umbireo into
(11:38):
telephono to telefhano and una carta perot it's important ya
to telets l pork y poet la decision the card boy. Yeah, no,
d less respecto lo crocsi is important paraticile pero no, but.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Espiritoo the well guys.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
I'll try to be quick because I went on a
bit of a tangent, but I did tell her that
I think forgiving is very important. We talk about it
on the podcast all the time. Forgiving is for yourself,
not necessarily for the other person. If they ask for forgiveness, great,
you know, I think it's important to forgive. I do
think that there's a big difference between forgiving, forgetting, and
(12:57):
having that person sell in your life. That is a choice,
Especially if her mom is not having her back and
is causing more pain. I think that it is okay
for her and only fair for Ya Senya to create
some space. But tell her mom, Look, Mom, I'm gonna
forgive you, but I also need to stay away from
you because I need to heal from this and you're
not allowing me to. I love you, but I'm gonna
(13:18):
love you from Afar and hopefully once she tells her
mom that something sparks in her heart and in her
mind and says, you know what, I need to have
my daughter's back, no matter what I mean.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
This is her daughter.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Her daughter came out this out of her body. You know,
I understand her brother or her family member, like she
has love for that person, but this is her child.
Her god given child. So I don't agree with the
mother at all. So that's what I told you, Sanna.
So hopefully Yesenya give us an update and no good
to see this gip us all. It's the equoswuento you guys.
(13:49):
Thank you so much for listening. Thank you guys for
your questions. I love to help you guys. I love
to talk to you guys. I love to tell you
a little bit about what I like. Thank you for
asking and being interested. And if you have any personal
questions about me, about yourself, your life, please leave your
question at speakpipe dot com. Slash Chickens and Chill Podcast.
(14:09):
Have a great week, guys, los am. This is a
production of iHeartRadio and the Microldura podcast Network. Follow us
on Instagram at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's
That's c h.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
I q U i s.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
For more podcasts from iHeart, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite podcast.
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