Sincerely, Janney: I’d Rather Be Alone Than Feel Lonely

Hi, beautiful listeners! Today, I’m sharing some relationship advice with you. If you’re feeling impatient or anxious because you haven’t found your soulmate yet – trust in God’s plan.

Sincerely, Janney

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:04):
Hello, my beautiful listener. I hope you're having an amazing day,
an amazing night. I am having a great morning. I
woke up early, I got my workout in. I feel great,
I feel strong. I'm once again in the car driving
home from the gym, and I was thinking about relationships

(00:26):
and how a certain someone and I won't say names
because it's not necessary, but is not desperate. I wouldn't
say desperate, but is I guess ready readier I don't
know if that's a word, but readier er than they
ever were to be in a relationship and they feel

(00:47):
they've done the work and they're waiting. They're like, where
is my person? When am I going to be in love?
When am I going to be loved? And it got
me thinks because I would much rather now Because for
a long time I was afraid to be alone. I

(01:08):
didn't know how to be alone. But when I finally
sat in my loneliness and felt all the feels and
did the healing, I realized that I would much rather
feel the feeling of loneliness and being sad because I'm alone,
then being with someone and feeling alone. Some people stay

(01:30):
in relationships or find whatever person to be with, just
to not be alone, settling to settle, and in my opinion,
there's nothing worse than kind of wasting your time, especially
if this person isn't making you happy, doesn't love you
the way you deserve, but you think, well, at least

(01:52):
I have someone. No, I would much rather fall asleep
crying and hugging my pillow because I'm alone and there's
no one next to me, then feeling what I felt
for so long, crying on my pillow and having the
person that I loved next to me, and I did
not feel loved. I felt so alone, it felt so

(02:12):
ugly not to be wanted to be rejected in that way.
So if you're that person that is ready to be
in a relationship and you haven't yet found someone, wait
on God, have faith in God's plan for your life.

(02:33):
Don't rush things, don't force things, don't pressure anything, Sit
and wait and be patient, because when we just do
something to do it, or we force it, it's very
rare for it to work out the way you want.
I try to tell this person that and hopefully they understand,

(02:57):
because I'm like, you know what you've done, the healing,
you've done, the work I feel like you are your
best self right now in this moment, and the universe
and God they know this, and they're also preparing your
special person because you've done the work and it's not
just going to be anybody. So think about it that way.

(03:20):
I'm preparing myself while God is preparing my person, that
special someone for me that I deserve because it is
our God given right to be loved, It is our
God given right to be respected, to be happy. But
we have to want that pure love, not just love,

(03:42):
and not even love lust that's the word, not just lust.
We want true pure love. So just be patient, be patient,
be wise, be still. It always pays off at the end.
I love you, and I hope that this episode of

(04:02):
Sincerely Jennette helped you. And I'll catch you on the
next one. Sincerely Janney,