Brittany Renner

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I've got sex with thirty five guys. Okay, who oh lord? Impressive?
Is it the word? So if I'm judge, if I'm
judge for having great taste, we are in the bar,

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so help yourself.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
We got this for the next hour.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
All my life, grinding, all my life, sacrifice, hustle, bad
the price, Want a slice?

Speaker 4 (00:34):
Got the brother of Dice, the swap all my life.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
I've been grinding all my life, all my life, the grinning,
all my life, sacrifice, hustle, bag, the price, one slice,
got the brother of Dice, the.

Speaker 1 (00:46):
Squad all my life.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
I've been grinding all my life.

Speaker 5 (00:52):
Hello, welcome to another edition of Club Shaha. I am
your host. I'm also the proprietor Club Shah And the
young lady that's stopping by for a conversation and a
drink today is a former college soccer star. She's unapologetically
a social media influencer, reality TV star personality, popular fitness model, model, actress, mother, author, businesswoman, entrepreneur.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
Britney Nicole Renner.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Oh my gosh, what.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Did I leave anything? Is there something you'd like to add?

Speaker 5 (01:22):
No, that was amazing, So how are you?

Speaker 1 (01:26):
I'm kind of nervous?

Speaker 2 (01:27):
Why are you nervous You've done so many of these interviews.

Speaker 1 (01:30):
Well, I feel like you're easily one of the most
influential people I've sat down with, and there's a lot
of clowns with mikes and I respect that you have
going on close. I'm a fan, thank you. So yeah,
I'm just really nervous. I know you're gonna ask you
some great questions.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
I'm gonna ask you some unbelievable questions. But before we
get started, I'd like to have a toaest. This is
my very own kanyak. I'm gonna send you home with
a bottle while I have a bottle sent to you,
sent to you because you can't take a word on
the plane. What would you like to toast to love? Uh?
Congratulations on all your success moving forward. Hopefully everything that

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you prayed for, you wish for come true in the
very very near future.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
To all the best. Brittany.

Speaker 1 (02:13):
That's like a good little money.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
That's good you that type of woman. I was thank you.

Speaker 5 (02:29):
We you know, were like periodically we you know told
you, you know, have a little swig. I didn't know you
were gonna take it all the way to the dawn, Like.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
Okay, welcome to Club.

Speaker 5 (02:41):
Thank you. I mean this was a large undertaking to
actually get you here, because when I reached out originally,
I didn't think you was gonna be open or receptive
to an opportunity to player appearing on Club Shit.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
Why not?

Speaker 5 (02:55):
Well, I mean I've seen, I've seen. I don't really
listen because I try not to listen. If it's someone
that I would like to have on my show, I
try not to listen to what they say because I
don't want them to try to sway me in the
questions that I'm gonna ask or the direction that we're
gonna take the interview in. So but I've seen you
on a lot of different podcasts, and none none of
them are quite similar to what kind of would I do?

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Yeah, And I would say that I'm really different depending
on the platform and the people, the energy version of
people getting me. It's just roll the disks. You never know.
I'm like a box of chocolates. You never know what
chan okay.

Speaker 5 (03:29):
Written and Nicole Renter born in miss born in Mississippi,
born in Ohio, Born in Ohio.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Moved to Mississippi at a very.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Young name Ocean Spring, Mississippi.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Ocean Spring, so where's that close to Jackson? But Hayley, it's.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
About three hours from Jackson, about an hour from New Orleans.

Speaker 5 (03:44):
Right, oh okay, so you're you're on the border. Okay,
So what what was I mean? Your your siblings, brothers, sisters?

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, I have two brothers and one sister.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
And when you fall, we're at in the in this mix.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
Well I know you're the oldest. Yeah, oh okay, So
what was what was Britney Renner's childhood?

Speaker 4 (04:02):
Like an okay dive and right, yeah, because I.

Speaker 5 (04:07):
Would because I want to I want to sit this
up because I want to see how were you like
this to there. I want to know the transformation that
you went through, the metamorphosis that you went through in
order to become what we see sitting here today.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
All right, Well, I was raised with my grandparents from
about nine years old up. Okay, there was a lot
of family history that was very peculiar, I guess I
can say, for lack of better words, So I was
raised by my grandparents. I'm biracial, half black, Mama white,
daddy black. So yeah, yeah, so I was raised by Mississippi.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
That happened. That happened in Ohio, Okay, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah. So so I originally lived in Ohio, we moved
down Mississippi. I lived with my grandparents. My grandparents white
on my mom's side, grew up very whitewashed, very sheltered.
Soccer was my life from fourth grade up. And I
would say that I was just always been very sensitive

(05:06):
to things. I've always wondered, like why am I wired
this way? Why do I look at the world the
way that I do? I wish I could turn off
the feeling aspects. I've always been a very deep feeler,
a deep thinker, even as a young person. So I
would just say, like sheltered, whitewashed, very strict, dinner a
five thirty, you can have a snack at eight o'clock,

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bed nine, very strict.

Speaker 5 (05:30):
When you say you was read by your grandparents, what
transpired that you you know, you were with.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Your mom and dad.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
So my dad, he was an alcoholic. He's been sober
for twelve years now, so shout out to him. So
he was going through that part of you know, during
that time my mom there were things I didn't know,
like growing up when I was going through that, but
my mom, basically, my grandma was like you're not stable,
I'm gonna just go ahead and raise them. So she

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just kind of took us. My mom, Yes, so she
just took so yeah, well and she yeah, so that's
what she did. So it wasn't really fair to my mom,
but it was probably what was I mean, it was
best for us, that's what happened. So, you know, they
gave us that stability and that structure that we really
needed as kids.

Speaker 5 (06:16):
Okay, so the relationship. Was there any resentment that your
grandmother took you from? I mean, I don't want to
sound harsh, but it was that resentment growing up that
you're with your grandmother and your mom is over here
and you're not with her. With the any resentment on
either side your mom let this happen or your grandma
made this happen.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
Well, I didn't have this awareness as a child. When
I was about twenty six years old, I kind of
got the whole story as to how everything transpired and
why things were the way that they were, and some
of our family secrets as well. But no, I think
there was always that long gig to you know that
I caught it, the burden of unconditional love where I
yearned from my mom, just like I yearned from my dad.

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When my dad was in jail, I used to write
in letters. There was always that longing for my actual parents.
And it was hard connecting with my grandparents at times
because they were so old school. They didn't really understand
a lot of things, and they had such a tight
leash on us.

Speaker 5 (07:10):
You know, is that why you rebelled. It's because it
was such a tight leash.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
I mean I didn't really do anything. Well, it sounds
crazy now. It was just you know, eighth grade drinking, hymnoutic,
you know, sneaking out, tepeeing houses and I just normal stuff.
But yeah, I just wanted to I was very curious.
I'm a very curious person. So yeah, I just wanted
a little bit of room to breathe. And we weren't
really given that.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Did you understand that you were different because you were biracial?
Because I'm assuming there's not a whole lot of biracial
kids in Mississippi.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
No, there's definitely. At the SQUA I went to Ocean Springs,
there were not even a lot of just black people
in general at our school. It was like a little
huddle of us.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
And so who did you click up with.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
I mean I played soccer, right, So yeah, I mean
that I will say that. You know, I linked with
the tokens, you know, all the tokens we linked up
together on soccer team and stuff. But mainly white girls's
who I played with, you know. But yeah, my best
friends are black, so right?

Speaker 5 (08:12):
So yeah, so what was Britain in middle school?

Speaker 2 (08:15):
In high school? What with Britney Renter?

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Like?

Speaker 5 (08:18):
Were you?

Speaker 2 (08:19):
Were you like that it?

Speaker 1 (08:20):
Girl?

Speaker 5 (08:21):
Like, I ain't got time for you? Were you like, Okay,
I'm cool. Yeah I'm popular, but I'm cool. I'm down
to earth. Did you pick on people? What was what
were you? What were you like?

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Well? I had a bully in middle school. I'll never
forget her and how she made me feel. I went
to the guidance councilor about her multiple times. So I
had a bully. So that's why I hate bullies now,
and I bully bullies because I cannot stand people who
pick on others. Because I went through that, I felt
very overlooked. I don't really feel like that I was
that beautiful when I was in middle school. I've always
had like struggled with my skin with acne hyper pigmentation.

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So I felt very looked over, and it wasn't really
until I got to high school where I kind of
got like a little shape. It's like attention for the
wrong reason. So so you.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Grew into this body.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
Yes, but it's still even in high school. Still wasn't
like a superfocal point. Wasn't probably until more college, you know.
But I felt very invisible. So I think that's why
for me, I've never I've actually developed personality and social
skills because I haven't been beautiful my entire life. So
that's why, you know, I consider myself the people starling

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because I know how to talk to people. I can
talk to anyone, and that's what I did growing up.

Speaker 5 (09:32):
So when did boys become prevalent or when did you
become interested in boys? With this a high school a
high school thing or was it when you got to college?

Speaker 1 (09:43):
I guess in what way, like dating.

Speaker 5 (09:44):
Or just or were you like I got it, Guys
are really interested in me. Guys will buy me candy flowers,
take me out on dates, take me to you.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
I don't feel like I ever had my pick of
the litter, though not in high school. Again, I so
there were other girls and again I feel like too,
being like one of more of the minorities is like
you're just looked over a lot. And again, I don't
feel like I grew into my looks until a little
bit more so college, you know, so more of a
late bloomer. But I mean I remember practicing making out

(10:16):
with the mirror when I was in middle school. You know,
I think I had my first kiss at I don't know,
maybe seventh or eighth grade, right, yeah, you know, so
he like I like this, Yeah, yeah, I was just like,
you know, I don't know, but yeah, so I don't know,
I feel like guys even in high school still, it

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still wasn't that much of a thing, I think. I mean,
I had maybe one or two boyfriends, but that was
kind of it.

Speaker 5 (10:46):
Anything serious or anything like, okay, you wearing his jacket?

Speaker 1 (10:50):
You were I wish I could have done that, like
where they.

Speaker 5 (10:56):
You know, you wore a jacket, wore class ring.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
That wasn't a thing.

Speaker 5 (11:00):
No.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
The guy that I my first boyfriend, he went to
a different school.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Oh okay, so.

Speaker 1 (11:05):
God knows even what he was doing that. He's only
a year older than me. But that was actually in
high school. The first and last time I ever cheated
on anyone was when I was sixteen years old. The
guy that my first boyfriend, he went away on a
camping trip. I was feeling emotionally neglected, and so I
invited him. He was He's gone for a couple of

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days on a camping trip with his family, and I
was feeling neglected. You know, it wasn't texting wasn't don't.
I don't think it was super big back then, But
so I invited a guy over and I kissed someone else.
Three days later, son, he comes back from the trip.
He has this spray painted shirt for me that had
a soccer ball in my name. He made me this

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bracelet that said be runner, and I was like, oh
my god, I'm so like. I felt so guilty, six
to my stomach. So three days later I told him
the truth.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
He told him, absolutely, take that to your grade. Everything
ain't meant to be told.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Why not if it can be destroyed by the truth,
that it should be destroyed by the truth. No, that
is not a way to live.

Speaker 5 (12:06):
A lie, is okay if it will spare someone great
harm or embarrassment.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
You're a cheater.

Speaker 5 (12:12):
Huh God, how did you deduce that because I'm trying
to spare his feeling.

Speaker 4 (12:18):
Because prosper.

Speaker 5 (12:21):
You didn't lie. You told him the truth. But if
had you not told him. A lie is not told
unless it's spoken.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
You can lie by a mission. Oh, that's laving the
truth out. That's still a lie.

Speaker 2 (12:33):
Did he ask you?

Speaker 1 (12:34):
No, he had no idea.

Speaker 5 (12:35):
There you go.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Woops.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
No, you tell the truth. If it can be destroyed
by the truth, it should be destroyed by the truth.
Like if my truth take something away from me, I
wasn't meant to have it to begin with.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Well, you know he's emotionally scarred for life.

Speaker 5 (12:50):
Probably, Yeah, are you?

Speaker 2 (12:52):
Are you so you want that on your resume?

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Yeah, I'd rather wear the truth. Yes, I want people
to see me for what I am. Whatever that looks like.
I want everything. Don't you raise anything off my resume.

Speaker 2 (13:03):
It is okay to also be seen for what you're not.

Speaker 5 (13:08):
Okay. I feel like before you no, no, no, you
you could have just you didn't have to tell him.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
He went back.

Speaker 1 (13:16):
You deserve to know the truth. I would want to
know the truth. If you kiss somebody else, you better
fucking tell me.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
He don't win and got you.

Speaker 5 (13:21):
He don't spend his heart on money, got you a
T shirt, brought you a little bracelet, and you broke
his heart.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
Because telling the truth is an act of love. So
when you really care about something, you tell them the truth.
When you care about yourself, you tell the truth. And anything, you.

Speaker 5 (13:39):
Loved him so much that you cheat him. But anyway,
we're gonna we're gonna move on. We're gonna move on. Don't, don't,
We're gonna.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
Move sixteen sixteen.

Speaker 5 (13:47):
Obviously you're good at soccer. You get your greatest greatest soccer. Please,
you get a scholarship to Jackson State.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Jack Jackson State University.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
Okay, what was that experience?

Speaker 5 (13:58):
Like?

Speaker 2 (13:58):
Okay, you go to college.

Speaker 5 (13:59):
Obviously, now you're around you know, you were clicked up
with the mother half the other.

Speaker 2 (14:04):
Half, and so now you at a place it's all you.

Speaker 1 (14:08):
It was a culture shock. I found out about Little
Boosie how to mosweg people you know, hang out on
the plaza, and I really saw the camaraderie amongst black
people that I was just like, there ain't nothing like this.

Speaker 5 (14:23):
I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
We be looking out for each other and classes and stuff.
So there was nothing like Jackson State, you know, But
I like, so, I played soccer, so I was busy
a lot. Didn't get to go to the homecoming and
do a lot of different events because of the season.
But it was a culture shock.

Speaker 5 (14:37):
Did you know about HBCUs prior to you go into one?

Speaker 1 (14:40):
No? And honestly, like, my grades really weren't the best.
Why I hate school but I love to learn. Well,
that's what I am an oxy more, I am a
juicy contradiction. I love Halloween, but I don't like scaries.

Speaker 5 (15:03):
Okay, so you go to Jackson State. It's a culture shop.
All of a sudden, now you have to click up
with the other half, the half that you weren't really
necessarily not because you didn't want to, because you.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
Just probably wasn't exposed to it.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, you felt more comfortable.

Speaker 5 (15:17):
And so now, how did the girls treat Britney because
you're different? I mean you you know you got paper
bag skin? You brown?

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Are you sure you can't have one more shot?

Speaker 5 (15:29):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (15:30):
Jesus hell, just a baby one. But wow, I've never
had anyone ask me that question.

Speaker 4 (15:39):
Dude.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
I honestly felt I felt accepted.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
You felt accepted.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
I did. Yeah, And what I'll tell you because I
know this is like A, it's a it's a popular topic.
It's a it's a it's a really interesting question. We
were out on that field playing against those because they
there were a lot of HBCUs that had predominantly white players.
Right when those players were on the field of calling
us inward right, it wasn't half of me was en

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raised or or that the other hand, that don't apply
to me.

Speaker 4 (16:14):
You know, I'm only half right.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
We're all fighting, right, So that's why for me, it's like,
whatever color my skin is, baby, let's go, let's start up.
Let's go, because you're not going to talk to us
like that. So half or not?

Speaker 2 (16:27):
How was it soccer side?

Speaker 5 (16:29):
You're not on the soccer field, you walk in the class,
you're in the student center, or you in the yard.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
I mean what, so what.

Speaker 5 (16:36):
Would how did the women how would the women at
Jackson State treat Britney?

Speaker 1 (16:41):
I felt very much accepted. I feel like black people
are the most accepting people on this planet. And if
they don't accept you because something's fucking off with you.
That's why I learned, Hey, I'm both so I could
say that, right, I've seen both sides, and I feel
like they're the most understanding, the most compassionate, the most accepting,
the most open.

Speaker 5 (17:02):
I read that you led Jackson State to the first
ever SWACK Soccer championship in twenty ten. You won tournament
MVP and Freshman of the Year and Freshman of the Year.
Did you ever think about pursuing soccer professionally?

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah? Have a love has always been.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Like, oh man, you met a guy.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
The quarterback, and guess what, he was white?

Speaker 5 (17:28):
All time? About time out?

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Let me get a twenty second time about.

Speaker 5 (17:33):
You go to HBCU from at high school, you clicked
up with white. You go with to and HBCU where
they're like a black and you and you date the
quarterback who's white. How the hell did that?

Speaker 1 (17:49):
Oh? No, more pink meat from me.

Speaker 2 (17:59):
Oh lord, that brother? See ja show hope we got
to show after this?

Speaker 1 (18:06):
You're funny?

Speaker 4 (18:07):
Oh god, how did it happen?

Speaker 2 (18:10):
Faate what bait?

Speaker 1 (18:11):
It was fake because it was literally kind of like
in passing. We saw one another and I was just like,
oh my gosh, she's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
And that was kind of At the punch there was
a basketball player. He had green eyes, was cute, but
he wasn't he was. He was like one of the
other j sets. You know what I'm saying. It was.

(18:33):
It was a lot going on, right, So you you up,
you up the basketball player.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
You in the quarterback, y'all date how long?

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Well? I do have to disclose that I was. I
was history chick for ten months while we were at
school because he had a girl friend back at home.
I had zero respect for myself back then, so we
dated for about I think, So.

Speaker 5 (18:56):
How did you find out he had that? You would holdo?
Hold up? So he tells you that.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
I mean very the beginning. He gave me the option
again telling the truth. It is an active bluff, and
you was like, okay, I was just like at the time,
so how you feel.

Speaker 5 (19:11):
So obviously you didn't feel about yourself then the way
you feel about yourself absolutely.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
Because I would never accept bread combs, But then I
was just anything I can get, like crumbs off the whatever.

Speaker 5 (19:22):
You know.

Speaker 1 (19:23):
That's how it was.

Speaker 2 (19:24):
Was that because.

Speaker 5 (19:26):
The yearning for affection from your dad or something. Did
you were you missing something that you was willing to
accept that over nothing?

Speaker 1 (19:37):
I would say, I mean, you know, looking back, of course,
you know, I would say that's where it started. And
I have a great relationship with my father. Now I
have very healthy male relationships in my life. And because
I have that now, I do view men as a
whole very differently. I move even with dating very differently
because I have these healthy bonds with men, you know,

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these platonic relationships with men, these family bonds with men.
So yeah, I think then I was just searching for that,
and I thought the answer was outside of me. I
thought it was going to be solved with a man.
So that's how I got myself in a bit of
a pickle. But that's why I left Jackson State. I
was in love.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
So you left when he left?

Speaker 1 (20:22):
Or yeah? Because he I know, he's just like a girl,
don't talk about me.

Speaker 2 (20:27):
But well he didn't tell his name, so but I'm
assuming most people know who he is.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Yeah, well, yeah, who gets fu fuck him? But if
fifty fifty with me, I'm like, I don't want to
fuck him. Yeah, yeah, I had. I played two seasons
at Jackson State and I left after that because he left,
he was going to go into to the draft, and
I was like, well, I love you and I don't
want to be without you. So I'm leaving school.

Speaker 5 (20:51):
So you gave up your potentially your career in order
to be with him while he pursued his career. Yeah,
so how after he left? After he left school, you
dropped out of Jackson State? How long were you together
with him after that?

Speaker 1 (21:07):
What I left in was at the end of twenty eleven.
We broke up. Uh, the summer of twenty fourteen, that's
when I moved.

Speaker 5 (21:16):
To La m So y'all together for a minute.

Speaker 1 (21:19):
Yeah, He's the reason I got into fitness, got my
body together. He taught me everything I know about fitness.
I can go into a gym and I know how
to navigate and do what I need to do to to
to get it done. So he taught me a lot
about business fitness and we made a lot of money together,
right you know. So that's why he was still a
very important piece in that puzzle.

Speaker 5 (21:38):
Y did you once you guys, did you think it
was too late for you to pursue pretension with soccer
again after you had left and been away from it.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Well, there was a new coach that came in and
he was like, Hey, I I really want you to
come back on the team. Maybe you could just come back.
You could read sir, red shirt and then play. You know,
the last year I told him I wasn't interested in that.
I had an opportunity to at least finish out right,
but I didn't want to.

Speaker 2 (22:03):
I was do you usually love?

Speaker 1 (22:09):
And I haven't changed.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
You love hard.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
That's why to be careful.

Speaker 5 (22:12):
So let me ask you this to your childhood, how
difficult your grandmother is very strict? How difficult was it
to try to unlearn some of the things that he
tried to instill.

Speaker 2 (22:23):
Because I still.

Speaker 5 (22:24):
Carry a lot of the things that my grandmother and
my grandparents instilled in me.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Being from the South and they were very.

Speaker 5 (22:29):
Strict, I still carry some of that because I look
at it as a form of discipline. And at the time,
I like yourself, like, man, why is it like this?

Speaker 2 (22:38):
Why do you have why we can't do the X,
Y and Z.

Speaker 5 (22:40):
But as I've gotten older, I realized what they were
trying to do. They were trying to put up guardrails
and safeguards to prevent me from doing things or prevent
things from happening in my life that I didn't see
at the time.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Okay, so you're asking me, what what's it? I have
to unlearn or how hard was it?

Speaker 2 (22:57):
How hard was it?

Speaker 1 (22:58):
I mean, I think it's just any per any type
of programming, it's gonna take. If it took years to learn,
it may take years to unlearn. So there were just
things Again, even as a biracial person. I remember I
read a book that it was is It I think
it's called it Is It Me?

Speaker 5 (23:13):
Is it you?

Speaker 1 (23:13):
Or is it my skin color? Or something? But it
explained a lot of the history between white and black women.
So I think there's just certain things that you just
have to educate yourself on and that just takes some research.

Speaker 5 (23:24):
Well, I've just been reading this quote and I've seen
it like fifty thousand times.

Speaker 2 (23:28):
They say you only become.

Speaker 5 (23:30):
Learn who you are once you've unlearned, once you've unlearned
what you've been told.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
That's a bar.

Speaker 5 (23:36):
So being biracial. Did were they any stereotypes? Were they
any like blacks or this, or whites or that? Knowing
that half of use this and half of use that,
So you have to be a certain way around this
racial people and a certain way around that racial people.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
And although like.

Speaker 5 (23:58):
You can I mean, I mean, I don't know if
you could, you could you could get away with saying
the N word or you black mo oh, well, you
know things of that nature. So how hard was it
for you to like? Because you have to like Okay,
I'm over here with you guys. Okay, no, I'm back
over here with you guys.

Speaker 1 (24:15):
I mean there's a lot of stereotypes. Okay, like.

Speaker 5 (24:22):
You know, hold on, my audience, my audience had never.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
Seen you before.

Speaker 4 (24:30):
Give you that quote.

Speaker 5 (24:31):
I'm gonna get tell you now, I see what you're
trying to do.

Speaker 2 (24:34):
No, let's let's let's happen.

Speaker 5 (24:36):
Let's happen.

Speaker 1 (24:37):
Let's happen to you.

Speaker 5 (24:42):
You kept with damn every time?

Speaker 2 (24:47):
Are you really looking for love?

Speaker 1 (24:49):
I'm not looking for love. I'm prepared for love. Ok
clink clink, Brittany finding love, love finding Brittany.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
Okay, hmmm, how was the sit at that time?

Speaker 5 (25:04):
It's good Mississi Mississippi. I don't when I think of Mississippi,
I'm from rural South Georgia, not too much I am.

Speaker 2 (25:15):
I am like a corn cobbet.

Speaker 5 (25:16):
I don't see any similarities between rural South Georgia Mississippi
and La.

Speaker 2 (25:23):
So how hard was it for you?

Speaker 3 (25:25):
Like?

Speaker 1 (25:26):
La, Mississippi ain't nothing, nothing, dirty, disrespectful. I mean there
was another again, another culture shock, especially when you're in
the South too, everybody speaks to one another.

Speaker 5 (25:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
Yeah, that was like the biggest thing. I was like,
why is everyone so rude or everyone's you know, everyone's
going nowhere fast in these cars and honking and beeping.
I think getting on the freeway was one of the
scariest things when I moved to LA I was just like,
you know, but yeah, it was. It was really hard
because I didn't realize how much it was like a
doggy dog like people looking out for themselves. That was
very new to me.

Speaker 5 (25:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
Actually, after years being on travel teams, the college team,
having that type of sisterhood and camaraderie to where like
every person is for themselves, that was weird. That was
really weird and it's still weird to this day and
I'm thirty one.

Speaker 5 (26:13):
So when you say, like, because I agree, it was
always yes sir, no, sir, yes, ma'am, no, ma'am. You
hold the door for someone, You're like, hey, how you
doing today, And now people look at you like and
so now I'm kind of like desensitized that, hey, get
the door yourself. Yeah, I mean, I mean, you know,
when after you after for so long, people looking at

(26:34):
you like you're crazy.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
Not obviously people speak to me because they.

Speaker 5 (26:37):
They recognize, oh hey, because I think sometimes a lot
of people will recognize who I am. But for the
most part, if people don't recognize you are, they're just
not saying him low just to a total stranger.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
No, no, no, they're definitely not. Definitely just don't exist
or entitle that you held the door.

Speaker 5 (26:54):
Did you know you was always gonna move to la
or did you always want to leave Mississippi.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
I didn't always know that. I just followed my heart
brought me to Michigan. That's where I lived for a
little bit. I lived in Wyoming, Michigan, and I actually
had a cover shoot for this magazine. We won't say
I had a cover shoot then, and I came out here,
went to like a house party, just really did it up.
When I came out here and my first boyfriend and
I we broke up. There was just a lot of insecurities,

(27:22):
a lot of a lot of you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (27:24):
But no, I don't know what you're saying, and you
didn't say anything.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
Okay, is this that.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
I know what you're saying.

Speaker 5 (27:34):
I would know what you were saying if you had
said something, but since you didn't say anything.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
I feel like in that in my first relationship, I
thought that the only thing a guy could do is
you know, that was unhealthy or you know, one of
the only problems that you could have in a relationship
is getting cheated on. So I was very open to
opening up the relationship if you will. I know. No,
that was before too much loven hip hop. We were

(28:01):
watching Joe Budden and Caitlin Garcia at the time. Yeah,
and I was just like, maybe ill, only he ain't
gonna have to worry about other girls and let them go.
Oh my god, naive, poor thing.

Speaker 5 (28:14):
But that didn't go. That wasn't going on kids. I
bought thirty years too early. I missed the gold is
about to go over there. I missed that.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
What I'm saying is is that I ended up breaking
up with that guy, and I didn't go back to
get any of my stuff in Michigan and moved to
La Literally, it was like two other Instagram girls I
won't say their name, but two other Instagram girls who
lived with this photographer in a studio in downtown LA. Right,
we had like bunk beds.

Speaker 5 (28:43):
I would I don't know what I would have thought,
like Mississippi, like you'd wit like kind of like South
and little North Atlanta.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
Yeah, no, no, I don't like it like that.

Speaker 4 (28:55):
Whoa?

Speaker 2 (28:55):
How you not like the aid?

Speaker 5 (28:58):
Much going on?

Speaker 1 (28:59):
And it's is he as hell?

Speaker 5 (29:00):
Yes right, yeah, but it's really nice. So so what
were your plans when you came to l A? What
did you want to be? What was I mean you
had dropped out of school, so obviously, so when you
were at Jackson State, what were you studying to be?

Speaker 2 (29:19):
What was your what's gonna be your major?

Speaker 1 (29:21):
I don't even know, pre dental, it could have been
something stupid, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (29:24):
So you classes so I could play soccer, So you
made it in eligibility. So basically I just want to
stay on the side. Yes, So when you get to LA,
so what did you Okay? Because you say your your
your ex he he taught you fitness, he taught you following, Okay,
so that's what you were gonna be.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
I didn't have a plan. I just came out here
like I am beautiful, I'm young, I got all these followers.

Speaker 4 (29:51):
There's two other girls, then bunk punk bands that were
all here.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
I don't know what we're chasing, but we're here, right.
Brand deals like that how I was getting money. It
was brand deals, so it's like you couldn't. I mean,
I was twenty two when I moved here, so I
was moving around spending money, being able to do what
I wanted to do because I was getting money from brandals.
So that's how I was making my way.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
When did you realize you was like that?

Speaker 1 (30:15):
When I was like that, Oh boy, I don't even
know what was like that aha moment because I feel
like I had a lot of access at a very
young age to people that I never thought would know
my name right, So it was kind of like living

(30:36):
in Disneyland. I'm like, oh my god, like I couldn't
get enough. So I don't know. Probably when I moved
out to LA just being twenty two or twenty.

Speaker 5 (30:42):
Three, and because Coach Prime, you know, Coach Prime was
the former coach at Jackson State. He had you speaking
to his guys and you said that I've got more
checks in my DM than Nike. So is that how
it started? That's when you knew, like, damn man, look

(31:04):
at my inbox, my inbox running over.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
I mean I think that was definitely a part of it.
I think just being able to literally and figuratively skip
the line and get paid to like stand in front
of a movie poster and post it on your page.
It was it was quick money, like I don't know,
it was the access, it was the money, It was
the man. I mean again, people like to judge, well, yeah,

(31:31):
I mean I like what I like.

Speaker 5 (31:34):
My love man, definite, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
Yeah, I mean I'm getting paid for my husband. I
mean I'm sitting here and tell them my thumbs. Look
in the beginning, just waiting on a real man, you.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
Know, a real man.

Speaker 5 (31:50):
Give me Britney Ryner's idea of a if if if
someone says, okay, draw your real man and then give
me the attributes in which you want him to possess.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
Okay, let me pull up the punishment.

Speaker 5 (32:02):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
So first things first, honest. Okay, he's honest. He's adventurous,
he's affectionate, so that's something not a lot of people
are naturally. He is respectful, he is curious about the
life around him, and he's committed to himself. I would
say those are probably the core values that I'm thinking

(32:25):
of someone who is that believes in true love.

Speaker 5 (32:32):
True love, that's what you're looking for, Storybook wrote, I mean,
is true love? Is it something that you've read or
if it's something that you've experienced and you know what
it's like.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
I can't say that I've ever experienced it necessarily just
because I feel that I would be with that person.
But it's always something that's been on my heart, and
if it was put on my heart, it was for
a reason. It's because it exists, just like you're able
to manifest the way that you are because it's put
on there for you too materialize. Same here. I think
a lot of people think that it's not going to
happen for me because of the way that I carry

(33:06):
myself or different versions of me that they're stuck on.
But it's all my heart for a reason. That's why
I've had to experience the flip side of the coin,
the darker side of the coin, where I've had a
lot of heartbreak and disappointments, because how else would I
appreciate true love when it comes to me Because I've
had everything come to me so easy, even with soccer,
I didn't have to practice. I was good. I'm good, good, great.

(33:26):
I mean that's just what it was. I didn't have
to That's what it was. So it's like when you
don't know the value of anything because things come to
you so naturally, because you're beautiful, because your body, the followers,
the social media, the notoriety. You don't value shit, right,
So that's why I think for me, so.

Speaker 5 (33:39):
You didn't have an appreciation of anything, No, because I
could give whatever I want.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
So going through some of the stuff I went through
the last couple of years, I've really got to see
what I've made of.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
Were you were at Jackson State? Were you in a sorority?

Speaker 1 (33:51):
No, my grades weren't good enough.

Speaker 5 (33:54):
I'm rich. I mean, so you you would just think
you were just at college kick.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
I mean I wouldn't even say, well, I was shocked up.
I was playing like like house. You were shocking in
college in the palasaides people at Jackson over there where
that is houseas playing house. Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
Your grandmother would be so disappointed.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
I mean, she was alive on the heaven and what
was she gonna do?

Speaker 5 (34:18):
Nothing? But I'm saying that's what I'm said, He's gonna
be disappointed because she's gonna say, Brittany, I raise you
better than that, or at least I thought i'd be honestly, no, no, no, no,
Honesty honestly is the key.

Speaker 2 (34:30):
Honestly the best.

Speaker 1 (34:31):
I don't really my grandma said she never saw, so
I'm not even really experience life.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
You're gonna put granny out there like.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
That truth is truth, So I'm not really, wasn't it her?

Speaker 5 (34:49):
So when Dion asked you to come back and speak
to the kids, to the to his team, the young
man at Jackson State, did you prepare to like, Okay,
I'm gonna touch you on this, this and this, or
you just went up there and let it blow from
the heart.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Well, originally I just wanted tickets to the game. I
think it was a homecoming game or something, and he's like, no,
I want you to speak to my team. So in
my mind, I was just like, Okay, I don't really
know what. I don't know what about I guess he
said the game of life. And I'm curious because I
know that you asked him about it. Did he ever
get into detail about what we discussed? And you've never

(35:28):
seen the footage, right.

Speaker 2 (35:29):
I saw some of the footage.

Speaker 5 (35:30):
But like I said, I don't like because I was like, Okay,
one day, I would like potentially for her to be
on my podcast. Now, obviously that was happening a couple
of years ago, so I was gonna let some time
passed by before I asked for.

Speaker 2 (35:43):
You to come on my on my show. So but
I didn't want I didn't want to.

Speaker 5 (35:50):
Sway any of the questions that I could potentially ask,
and hopefully I'm trying to ask questions I got because
I've kind of seen and my researcher and my producer CJ.
I think does a great job of making sure that
we don't we try not to touch on a whole
lot of things that you've already spoken about. So that's
why I wanted to start back from the beginning. I
wanted to be britten in the cold renner I want. Ay,

(36:11):
I'm taking it back.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
Yeah, I mean, I think what I didn't like about
speaking at Jackson State is because the way that it
was marketed was that I was a cautionary tale. Oh
that's not what if you were to play back the
whole footage, what am I warning you guys about? Because
if I was a gold digger. I would be easily

(36:34):
the dumbest one. I'd be the least successful one, Like
I am not in a position to tell young men
about gold diggers or what women do or because the
friends that I have they're not not in this business.
They are call center nurses work out a freaking enterprise.
So when I didn't like that, it made it seem

(36:57):
like I'm coming in there and I'm telling you guys, hey,
don't get that's not what happened.

Speaker 5 (37:02):
So well, Jeff, give us a brief some nopsis. Okay,
you get called here and he said, guys, I'm bringing
someone to in front of you today to speak to you.
That's gonna give you some some some some light, gonna
give you some game. That's the way he likes you, like,
I'm gonna give you game. And this person, although the
package is nicely bundled in a nice, neat presentable package,

(37:27):
you need to hear the message that she's going to say.

Speaker 2 (37:30):
So you walk up there and everybody like.

Speaker 5 (37:35):
Exactly she liked, or she's like, you got five So
now you know what's going on.

Speaker 2 (37:43):
Hey, I mean, I can just imagine.

Speaker 5 (37:45):
Hell, if I'm an eighteen nineteen year old someone like
yourself walks in.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
I'm thinking the same thing. He's probably a young man thinking.

Speaker 5 (37:51):
So now I've gotta set lustful thoughts asign and hear
what you have to say.

Speaker 1 (37:58):
I think we did, doya, and I did a great
job kind of spitballing and he would, you know, help
set up the questions and different things you wanted me
to answer. But what I shared was my experience and
to not waste women's time, because you know, hell, hath
no fury like a woman's scoring. So really, but don't
try to correlate.

Speaker 5 (38:18):
I just I don't. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
I'm not a woman.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
So you're asking me just the way you know why
you said what you mean? Why?

Speaker 2 (38:24):
Why?

Speaker 5 (38:25):
How did I say it? We don no, No, Brittany, No.

Speaker 4 (38:30):
You're like, oh really so you're familiar.

Speaker 5 (38:33):
No, I mean I'm asking you this is new information?

Speaker 1 (38:38):
Is that what warrens? Is that response?

Speaker 5 (38:39):
Britney, You're asking me as a man to speak to
a situation that I would know nothing about, considering that
I'm not a woman. So I don't know what's gone
because me, sure things have happened, but I have to
move it alone. I don't get the luxury of being
able to be scornful and to lash out or to

(39:00):
retaliate if someone says, don't call me again. I don't
have the luxury of calling you again, because that is harassment.
Seanna Sharp called me harassment. I'm gonna be in the paper.
I'm gonna lose my job. So you can understand that
I'm speaking to things that I don't have the luxury
of being able to do.

Speaker 1 (39:18):
Yes. But you also, because I've listened to a few
of your videos more recently getting up to this day,
where you are very big about whatever your dating life
is in private and that you don't want it to
be public. It's just like you said, if you if
you date in private, you can break up in private.

Speaker 4 (39:34):
So even let.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Me finish my thought, the reality is is that you
know what I'm talking about. That's why you are you
move the way that you move in dating because you
can't just be out here all willy nilly and whatever
you're doing, especially publicly, because if you do some publicly,
you're gonna have to answer to it publicly. But I'm
saying in general, a lot of men with stout, I mean,

(40:00):
who are who are they supposed to date? They're gonna
go after women who typically have less than them, and
even women who may have greater than are equal to
Still hell, hath no fury like a woman's scorn.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
Well, Oprah's taken Beyonce is taken?

Speaker 1 (40:13):
You a date, Oprah.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
No, I'm just saying, canceled.

Speaker 5 (40:17):
You talk. You know, I'm saying when you talk about
men of high value and and and look we're gonna
talk about.

Speaker 1 (40:23):
It, we got to differentiate that's spoken.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
So let's just say men half a million million own up.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Mm hm.

Speaker 2 (40:33):
The pool of dating the equivalent is not the same.
You know that.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
Well yeah, waters what.

Speaker 2 (40:40):
So that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (40:41):
So when you say, oh, men that have they're gonna
date women less day, water's wet.

Speaker 1 (40:46):
But that's what Okay, So I'm going back to a
lot of people, male or female, don't have a lot
to lose. So when there are these breakups, or if
there was somebody who was maybe dating with ill intentions,
when that stuff happens, it can get right right, it
can get messy, especially when you don't have that much
going for yourself because you're like, oh, this person was
my way out, so now I'm going to out them

(41:08):
or post screenshots, like, there's been so much stuff in
the news that I've been seeing with basketball players and
certain things, and you know what I'm talking about. While
I was saying any names, but.

Speaker 5 (41:16):
But that type of stuff right when you.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
I remember when I'm trying to think.

Speaker 5 (41:25):
I don't know if you said it on a radio
show or TV show about.

Speaker 2 (41:31):
Your dating problems.

Speaker 5 (41:32):
You was with one man, two man, three men, four
men over the course of a twenty four hour forty
eight hour span. Did you think about the ramifications of
how people men, women, everybody would look at you because.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
Or does that not bother you? Or you learn to
tune that out.

Speaker 1 (41:54):
So you're referring to one insular I can actually recall
a pinpoint are perfect for you. There's a video that
I did in my car where I was talking about
how I had sex with was it three men and
a day and then I ended up getting a yeast
in Yeah, that was I came out pretty unscathed for
just the east infection. It's considering what I could have gotten.
It wasn't that, you know, man.

Speaker 5 (42:17):
I hope I was.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
I was on birth control for ten years before I
had my son. I got off of it because there
was a conversation with my child's father. So I again
the whole trapping thing. Can't trap the wedding, babe. And
on top of that, I never wanted to have a fit.
I looked at kids.

Speaker 5 (42:34):
You never wanted a baby daddy. You wanted to be
a mom. You didn't want to be a baby mom,
but you wanted to be a.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
That's why I waited so long. I had my baby
when I was twenty nine. I thought I was doing
it right. I thought that was my guy. And I
never really liked kids. I always thought I referred to
them as crotch goblins to be honest, you know, but
as I got older, I wanted one.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
But you, But did you think?

Speaker 1 (42:50):
Do you think about the ramifications of telling people that
I had sex with multiple men? Yes, I don't care,
it's the truth. If you don't, if you don't see
me as a potential dating person, great one less heart
to break, leave me alone, and I'm gonna continue to live.

Speaker 5 (43:04):
But you do understand, Brittany, that's hard for Look, like
you said, public versus private. Now, if you and I
having a conversation and we're you're sitting in here, we
have a conversation and you said with Shanna, I slept
with this many men. Okay, that's one thing that's between
you and I. But to have that conversation and then everybody, Sam,
John and everybody else knows it, that's a whole different

(43:26):
that's a whole different that's a whole different ball game, Britney.

Speaker 1 (43:30):
That's fine with me. I mean I feel that that's.

Speaker 5 (43:33):
Selfish because all you're thinking about is Hugh. What about him?

Speaker 1 (43:37):
He's got to be with you, He has got to
be with me. He has the privilege to be Okay,
cause you know how many women you slept with, Brient.

Speaker 6 (43:46):
Do you know how many women you slept with? How
many women?

Speaker 2 (43:52):
You say?

Speaker 5 (43:52):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (43:53):
Double digits, triple digits. There we go send back in
this position, double triple Brittany.

Speaker 2 (43:59):
I'm interviewer. Are you at the interviewer?

Speaker 4 (44:01):
I can't ask any questions.

Speaker 5 (44:02):
You can ask questions. But when you have your podcast,
invite me on it. You and I have this conversation. Okay,
now back to our really normal scheduled program. You do
understand that a man pride is woman to know. Look,
I don't have any I don't have any problem. You know,

(44:24):
three bodies, four bodies, five bodies, ten bodies that that
what you did before me long as you I mean,
you know, I'm pretty I'm pretty lenient because I've kind
of you know, lawyers, doctors, exotic answers.

Speaker 2 (44:38):
Yeah, so you you love what you know, you love
what you love.

Speaker 5 (44:44):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (44:45):
But but it's a it's a it's.

Speaker 5 (44:49):
A it's a high bar to hurdle if she makes
things that she's done public.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
I think you understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (44:59):
I believe that the average person is below average, So
the average man is most likely not going to but.

Speaker 5 (45:05):
You're not gonna be interested in no average man. You
like what you like.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
They cannot stop me, and I never I never argued
with you on that. You didn't let me finish my thoughts. Okay,
and then and then we write Okay. What I'm saying
is is that the average guy would tell you that
I'm not wife material. That's fine, because I don't want
to be with the average man. The man that I
want is someone who is understanding of that. And if

(45:30):
that's asking for too much from the male species, then
I must be better off alone. Then I don't think
I'm asking for the impossible. You literally just said that
exotic dancers, lawyers, whoever you love, who you love, who
you're drawn to, is who you're drawn to. The average
person is not gonna want to make that make that jump,
And that's okay because I'm not talking to them. I

(45:52):
don't need anybody average. I'm not average. There's nothing about
my mentality that's average.

Speaker 4 (45:56):
I don't care myself as average.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
I don't look average.

Speaker 6 (45:58):
I'm not lounkedane and forget. Just like.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
I stand for something. I get so much flak because
there's this little box and people want me to just
like suck and shut up, make a only fans let
me finish though. They want me to go over here
and just admit that I'm a gold digger, that I
trap guys, and that I only care about money. But
because I go so hard about true love, it's another problem.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
But you can understand that.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
You say it because I like sex, like you whoa,
because I like sex because I'm curious, baked.

Speaker 2 (46:31):
Up and we got boomed.

Speaker 5 (46:34):
I don't care say. You can understand why people will
find that hard about true love because they're looking at it.
True love is not what you're looking but what you're saying.
What you're selling doesn't.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
Say what am I selling?

Speaker 5 (46:47):
Well, I mean when you go on and you in
your car and you say, well, I had sex with
three men I was.

Speaker 6 (46:51):
Back in twenty eighteen, by the way, go ahead, sorry.

Speaker 5 (46:55):
I mean era, No man, no woman can outrun their
past because all it does is makes you tired when
it catches up with you. So what you did in
twenty eighteen, people still know about it, be in twenty
twenty three. So this notion that you said when it
happened five years ago, it happened ten years ago. People
have what they call the Internet, people have what they

(47:16):
call memory.

Speaker 4 (47:20):
Good don't haven't forget it? Just know when you tried this.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
Yeah, it ain't even about that. No, honestly though, I
don't want people to forget. I don't want my I
don't believe you can deleet your wholeness. I don't want to.
I don't I wouldn't treat like I would not want
a clean slate today, because you know why, this whole
journey for me has been learning. Yes, So if I'm

(47:46):
judged for the way that I learned, then so be it.
I don't need you, guys to forget anything. I don't
want each you quite frankly, keep bringing it up, keep
talking about it, because there's so many people that are
so curious about.

Speaker 6 (47:58):
Me in private, they don't have the balls to try
it in public.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
And that's fine. You're not for me. I don't need
a guy that's gonna keep my record of wrongs.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
I thought that's what the Bible said, that's it.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
I don't. I'm just saying, I don't judge.

Speaker 1 (48:13):
I'm not here, don't keep no record or wrong. No.

Speaker 2 (48:15):
But I'm saying, look, don't fault.

Speaker 6 (48:17):
Me for doing the best I could with the awareness
I had.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
So if a man doesn't understand that, because you just
said a few minutes ago, yes, a man can make
that jump, will he? Most likely? Probably not? But guess what,
Who's for me? Let me finish? Okay, who's for me?

Speaker 5 (48:35):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (48:36):
Who? God, creators, source, universe, whatever you want to call it.
Who God designed for me? None of that it matters.
So I don't care about all these people yapping about
what I'm not gonna get because if I wasn't gonna
get it, it wouldn't be on my heart. If I wasn't
gonna get it, I would not have been I would
not be experiencing the dark side of this coin, and

(48:56):
that's why the world will bear witness to true love,
and they will become my footsol and they will have
to see this woman. This is my this is my
whole mission statement. Okay, I'm gonna tell the truth and
still get everything I want, and they're gonna watch me.

(49:18):
And I don't have to play by your guys's rules.
I do it my way.

Speaker 2 (49:24):
You do things your way and that, and.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
Honestly, it varies hour to hour. I don't know who
I was gonna be when I came into this area.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
Are you okay with the way it's played out thus far?

Speaker 1 (49:36):
Absolutely? I'm at peace with it. There's nothing I could
have done differently.

Speaker 5 (49:40):
Oh, there have a lot you could have done differently.
Stop saying that there's nothing you could have done differently.
Stop it.

Speaker 1 (49:43):
This is the way I was meant to do it.
I don't question fake, I don't question I accept my fate.
I accept my destiny. So if that means that it
takes me ten years for my mister Wonderful to come,
then that's fine. I'm patient.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Nothing. You wouldn't change a thing about the way it's transpired.

Speaker 1 (50:02):
For what Because if here's the thing, about regret. If
I regret things that happened, and that means I have
to erase the awareness that I gained, and I would
not trade this awareness. I would not trade going back
to when I was twenty eighteen years old. I would
not trade a clean slate for the wisdom that I have.
I have a well of wisdom. That's why when I
speak people are captivated. Why I've been called to so

(50:24):
many different platforms. Who's the last couple of guests you've
had on here?

Speaker 5 (50:28):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (50:29):
Stephen A. D Wade, Tabletha Brown?

Speaker 5 (50:34):
Who else?

Speaker 1 (50:35):
We have?

Speaker 2 (50:35):
CJ. S, Chris Brown, we had Ricky Smiley.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Okay, what's one thing you think they all have in common?
They're great at what they do.

Speaker 5 (50:48):
Yes, where do I fit at?

Speaker 1 (50:51):
I'm just supposed to be some Instagram thopping.

Speaker 4 (50:53):
Here I am talking to shock.

Speaker 5 (50:55):
So you.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
So you grated what you do?

Speaker 1 (50:59):
I certainly am because there's a lot of beautiful women.
There's a lot of beautiful women that have better bodies
than me, prettier faces, whatever type of features you think
are attractive. But then you have little Petito me who
just can't shut up. And here I am on Club
Shack Shape, Club Sha Shape, Clip sack shape.

Speaker 5 (51:21):
Dion said, well, I don't know, like I said, but
it was reported he said that there are women out
there that do their homework on guys. I mean because
now the salaries and you know, you can just google
and you can. Oh, he makes this and he has
the endorsement over there, and he does this.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
And that, especially with no too right. Huh.

Speaker 5 (51:40):
You know what, man, it's public public record.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Hut public knowledge? Because yeah, because I mean, these college
athletes are getting money, why are they driving maybacks?

Speaker 5 (51:50):
An?

Speaker 4 (51:50):
I l maybe come on now, not dumb?

Speaker 5 (51:53):
Could you could you date a normal can you? Could
you date a guy that's not a professional athlete or
that's not an.

Speaker 1 (51:59):
Athletics I don't even see myself dating an athlete again?

Speaker 5 (52:03):
Really?

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Why because something you said earlier?

Speaker 2 (52:11):
I don't know what I said earlier.

Speaker 5 (52:12):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
I don't have a recall like you that can remember
everything that happened.

Speaker 5 (52:16):
In day life.

Speaker 1 (52:17):
Because there's a lot of men who are not willing
to make that jump. And when there are things that
are public, a public figure has to take into account
what is the risk versus reward with dating this girl
and having her on my arm, having her at the
SP's there's a lot of men that would not sign
up for that, and I feel the type of men
that maybe there's a good chance. It's like kind of

(52:39):
opposite things. It's like either someone's super young that's new
and doesn't care, or someone who's already established doesn't give
a do what they want to do, and I just
either one. It's just it's just kind of like I
really don't see myself with another athlete. I'm not gonna
say never, you know, never say never, because I don't
want the love of my life to be a freaking athlete.
I gotta eat these words. But I just don't see it.

(52:59):
I don't see a man having the courage to not
only take a you know, a risk with me, because
that's what love is.

Speaker 2 (53:07):
Risk.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
Well, in love, it's a fifty to fifty risk. It's
it's it's every person across the board. But I think
that I am very vocal, but I also have not
met any men that number one see my value. And
if they see it, they don't understand it. So that's
why I don't really see.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
In other words, when a man can't look outside of
what he sees right here, well, this is gonna.

Speaker 1 (53:28):
Fade, So what else? So what what what makes me
different than the girl that is the building down the
who's willing to do whatever and she lets you cheat
in private or if I'm sorry, yeah, in privately, let
you cheat a private and do whatever. Like beauty is fleeting.
That's why there has to be more going on. That's
why I open my mouth and I speak and I
stand for something because this is again, I'm always gonna

(53:52):
beautiful because I'm beautiful in here. But yeah, we all
get older and I don't want to bank on my looks.
Why would anybody want? Right?

Speaker 5 (54:01):
But I think now if someone it's hard for me
to imagine a scenario, and I do hope you find
I think everybody deserves that if they're wanting of that.
And it seems to me as I sit here and
talk to you, that you are someone that's very passionate
about finding love.

Speaker 2 (54:16):
And I think the thing is is that that person
knows who you are. They know some of the things
that you've done.

Speaker 5 (54:23):
So that person that wants to be with Britney Renner,
they're gonna know who what she's done and be okay
with that.

Speaker 2 (54:31):
Do you think it's hard for that?

Speaker 5 (54:32):
Is it hard for an athlete because athletes are very prideful,
and they and and don't take this the wrong way,
but they kind of like, that's mine. And to know
that that package has been unwrapped by somebody else on
multiple occasions, it doesn't sit well. I'm just I'm not

(54:54):
gonna keep it one You say keep it onehund I'm
gonna keep it one up with you.

Speaker 1 (54:57):
But then you have to go back to when there
was the dear g your diamond. That's what my track
records like. But Derek Jeter gets a segment on ESPN
where they have his dating history in the let me
finish though it because my dating pool is I mean impressive, expansive.

(55:22):
I've got sex with thirty five guys. Okay, oh lord,
impressive isn't the word. So if I'm judged, if I'm
judge for having great taste, we are in the bar.

Speaker 2 (55:44):
So help yourself. We got this with the next nobel.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
If I'm judge for having great taste, Although there's someone
like Derek Jeter, for example, without his dating diamond.

Speaker 5 (55:56):
Why would you feel a need that you you could
be honest to yourself. I know how many men I
slept with that ain't for everybody else. But why did
you feel you need Why did you feel that needs
to be for public consumption? That's what that's that's I mean,
the crux of this, that's what you better.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
If I sit to the edge of my scene, you
don't got to ask your permission?

Speaker 5 (56:15):
Why did you Why would you feel the need to
share that information with the public. Some things are left
best unseeing m That's what I hear. MMM.

Speaker 1 (56:29):
Probably the same reason that I wrote a book because
I feel called to share. There are some things that
maybe moving forward, I would keep to myself. But I mean,
I just told you I had sex with thirty five guards.
That's an updated number for people who have been following
the number for years now.

Speaker 5 (56:43):
So uh now, I mean, obviously guys slide in your
DM trying to holler, do you slide in guys DM?

Speaker 1 (56:53):
Not anymore?

Speaker 5 (56:54):
You used to?

Speaker 6 (56:55):
Why?

Speaker 1 (56:56):
Probably there are probably two or three guys the over
the span of being like twenty two to now, probably
about three guys.

Speaker 2 (57:04):
Did they respond?

Speaker 1 (57:06):
Of course they did. Well, there are some that didn't.

Speaker 5 (57:08):
Respond, but that was there are some guys left red.

Speaker 1 (57:12):
But it was like right after my breakup with my
child's father and I was kind of getting facetious.

Speaker 2 (57:16):
Yeah that was a nice you try.

Speaker 5 (57:17):
To see why you do that? But anyways, why any ways?
I want to know why why would you do?

Speaker 1 (57:24):
Like was she ready to move on? No? Honestly, I didn't.
I didn't understand the magnitude of what I was about
to go through. And I'm like, oh, I'm single. You
know he's moved on, Like why is it different for
both of us? You know what I'm saying, Like we
have we share a young child. Why is me having
a young child or whatever? But that whole situation being

(57:47):
completely demonized. I had no idea what I was doing
when I was trying to like hear and there just
like telling guys they were just fine. That was just
kind of it. It wasn't like, yeah we should whatever.
It was just like I've always wanted to tell you this.

Speaker 5 (57:58):
But you know, like like basketball players are off limits, right,
NBA players, any NBA players off limits? No, no, no, no,
you can't do that. You try the whole sport, the
whole NBA. You gotta go to Europe. You gotta go
to Europe. Chinese buddies, hell on, you know that's gonna man,

(58:19):
how do you know what that's gonna do.

Speaker 1 (58:22):
What do you mean because a whole sport.

Speaker 2 (58:26):
Yes, And besides you say you said you're done with athletes.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
Anyway, I mean, I trust me losing any sleep over.

Speaker 5 (58:34):
Him, because no, you got to stay away from them
because it's gonna it's gonna be because people will suit
and that this might not even be the case. You
might sincerely love him, he might sincerely love you, but
you know how it's gonna be portrayed. Oh, he trying
to get back at it, and he probably will take it.
And if you try to get at.

Speaker 1 (58:53):
Me, what I've had to take accountability for is that
I had to shrink myself to fit into a world
of his that I was never meant to fit in.
And you have to understand this goes back to the
pattern of when I was at Jackson State, I abandoned everything,
left my whole life, moved across the country, you know,

(59:13):
back to going back to Michigan. I lived in Woodland Hills,
have my condo, had my bens, left California, moved to
Charlotte to be with him, the same pattern ten years later.
Because again here I am thinking that a man is
gonna fix this is gonna fix it's this is the
missing piece to my puzzle. So despite what people think

(59:35):
about the complete buffoonery that has gone on between him
and I, that is never anything I wanted. I had
to stand up for myself after months of being lied on,
that I was faking it all along and all these
different things. This is such a popular topic years later
because the lie ran around the world. So did it

(59:56):
hurt initially when the guy that I thought was my
guy proposed to the next person. Absolutely, That's happened to
me a couple times. So it's one of those triggering
things where full transparency, you're like, well, what's wrong with me?
Why wasn't I enough? And then we start to internalize

(01:00:19):
why it didn't work out. I've sat down with his fiance,
We've had a four hour conversation out for brunch, and
I think they're a perfect match for each other, quite frankly,
So why would I be jealous or envious of a
life that I walked away from. But the other side

(01:00:41):
of that coin is understanding that was never my guy.
We were meant to have our incredible son together, that
he's literally changed my life in every way. I grew
deeper empathy after having a son, but for men. But
that's why I can't get upset. I get upset at
how I'm treated, are you're portrayed. You lied on me.

(01:01:05):
That's what bothers me is that you lied on me.
You try to make it seem like something it wasn't.
That was hurtful. But other than that, like, I'm happy
for you, blessings on your journey.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
I heard you just say that what he said about
you bothered you.

Speaker 5 (01:01:25):
The portrayal of you bothers you Have you thought about
when your son is of age and he can hear
some of the things that you said about some of
the things that you've done in your past, do you do?

Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
Have you thought about how that's gonna impact him?

Speaker 1 (01:01:41):
Of course I've thought about it. But as much as
I love my son, I love myself. I can't saturate
myself from my child. I have to still be true
to myself because outside of being his mother, I'm Brittany Runner. Alright,
was Brittany Runner before he got here, and I'm gonna
be and you Runner no matter what. My son could

(01:02:03):
grow up and oh my mom, all these terrible things.
She's the worst person ever. So I have to be
at peace with the things that I've done and let
my son make his own choice, his own decisions. But
I'm not going to not live my life the way
that again, because to question how I am, it's the
question God. And people may not like the way that,

(01:02:25):
like how my expression is, the way I carry myself,
the things that I say, and how I say it,
But you're still questioning God.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
What has social media done.

Speaker 5 (01:02:38):
To the relationship just in general?

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
I mean, I think it's just a lot of different factors,
you know, where they're like, oh, things were so different
when our parents were growing up. Well, they were never
aware of what options they really had. They didn't have
access to people all the way across the country. And
I think one of the.

Speaker 2 (01:02:55):
Annoying things is access isn't always good though.

Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
Well, I think the question you have to ask yourself
is if you gave the average person access, who would
they become?

Speaker 2 (01:03:06):
We're seeing it there you go.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
Some people rise above some people, you know, play into it.

Speaker 5 (01:03:17):
So let's just say, for the sake of argument, someone
tried to get at you in the DM. Later you
find out they've been saying some crazy you know, ah, man,
I wouldn't talk to that you know what, and she
alled about this to here.

Speaker 2 (01:03:31):
But they've been at you in the DM.

Speaker 5 (01:03:33):
You screen shot in any of those dms and putting
nobody there for public consumption, or you just said, okay,
I'm just gonna bue this with.

Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
I know what you've tried to do. I know you
tried to get at me. He was trying to get
these skins and I said no, And now you got
this negative stuff to say about me.

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
I think there was one rapper that tried me, and
I definitely screenshot where he tried to send me a DM.
Because what you're not gonna do is lie. What you're
not gonna do is gonna sit up here and pretend.
But there haven't been any men that I've been involved
with I've gotten flip the mouth other than my child's father.
That's the only person that's try to lie on me.
It never addressed me by name, But no, I don't

(01:04:07):
people who have ever been involved with me. We know
the truth right and all my buttons work, so it
would be in their best interest to keep my name
out of their mouth because I'm giving them that same respect.
I'm not over here sitting up here black and black
and blabin about. There are certain things that it ain't
up for discussion. But when we're talking about public things

(01:04:29):
that have transpired, like with my child's fathers, it's been
a hot topic since we've broken up, right, we have
to discuss it. I'm gonna tell you the whole truth.

Speaker 5 (01:04:36):
Can you.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
When are you guys going to make peace for the
sake of your child?

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
That's not up to me. I've done everything in my power.
I've exhausted all options. I told you, I've sat.

Speaker 5 (01:04:53):
Down with her before because that excuse me. I think
that's a great thing to do, because if they're going
to be the game, she's going to be in your
son's life, and no matter what he might think of you,
the relationship, the dynamic of who you are will never change.

Speaker 2 (01:05:10):
You'll always be the mother of his child.

Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
Yeah, I And honestly, for me, I would much rather
my son has a stable woman over there and seeing
him having a bunch of girls now. So she has
never been my enemy.

Speaker 4 (01:05:27):
It's it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
But what it's going to take is for him to
accept what is. We're still going through the core system
now for child' spport, custody stuff, So it's nasty, it's
just nasty. I have tried everything. There's nothing more I
can do.

Speaker 2 (01:05:51):
You don't mind me asking if his two personals say
that's none of your business. And I'm white.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
I told you I'm an open book. Shannon, you have
the child.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
The child is with you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:00):
So we live in a fair state. North Carolina is
a fair state that we both have joint customers.

Speaker 5 (01:06:03):
Right, So it's not like you could just bring you
live in California, you can just bring the child with you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
Why I would never do that. I grew up without
my dad. I would never want my son to be
without his father. He needs his dad. He has Pj's name,
Paul Jamaine Washington the third. Why would I want to
take that away? Right? But see, that's another misconception people
have about me, that I'm just super spiteful and that
I would take our son and that he doesn't see him. No,

(01:06:28):
just another lie.

Speaker 2 (01:06:29):
So when this the aesthetics of this, what is Britney
gonna do? What does Britney want to do?

Speaker 5 (01:06:38):
Cause, like you said, you're not gonna always have this figure,
You're not gonna have always have this face. You're not
gonna always be I don't know, you're thirty one thirty
two years of age. You're not gonna always be this? Then?

Speaker 1 (01:06:48):
What the easiest way to maybe answer that is use
my voice? Called to so many different platforms yours, basketball wives,
and there is one commonality, which is the usage of

(01:07:10):
my voice and sharing the well of wisdom that I've acquired.
So I can only hope that my future looks like
my own show, my own podcasts owns something right, because
I know that I'm meant to be heard.

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
How hard is it easy to make money on the internet.

Speaker 1 (01:07:28):
I would say that companies have smartened up a lot,
so they're not as naive with the brand deals. I
think it's gotten a lot more competitive because there are
people who will accept free clothes from a clothing company
who have hundreds of thousands of followers, so it still
it hurts the influencer who has the millions who are
wanting compensation. When there's one hundred girls they can just

(01:07:49):
get free clothes too, So it's gotten a lot more competitive,
more oversaturated. Yeah, you have to really I don't even know,
you have to really be I feel like kind of
buzzing or have brand deals? What is uh?

Speaker 5 (01:08:02):
Obviously you you you you very very popular on the internet.
And as you mentioned, you're a major influencer. What's one
of the things that you purchased that you wish you hadn't, Like,
I didn't really need that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
I could have done without that.

Speaker 5 (01:08:17):
I could have kept that fifty thousand hard one thousand,
two hundred, I could have kept that in my pocket.

Speaker 2 (01:08:22):
And just like because I.

Speaker 1 (01:08:22):
Really didn't need this, I'm not really a big spender
in that way. I think the most foolish thing at
one time that I did was just spending like eight
thousand dollars on shoes. Like one day, I just went
and got all these shoes.

Speaker 2 (01:08:36):
And when I look at that, sneakers, because you don't
strike me as a sneaker chick.

Speaker 1 (01:08:41):
I was.

Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
I don't mean to say that. I don't mean. I
don't mean that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:44):
Yeah, I know I did buy some sneakers, which I
was not I was still figuring myself out. But it
was some eels and some sneakers. You're just a waste
of money. I wouldn't do that.

Speaker 5 (01:08:53):
Now, you want to do the fitness thing, like you
want to do leggings or workout clothes. Is that kind
of the direction you're trying to hit it in that well,
I love.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
Athletic where that's really what I wear all the time.
I do have an asymmetrical legging that was inspired by
flow Joy, so I have It's the one leg and
the short on the side Rebel by Britney Renner. But
that still is something that's very new my business. You know,
I started it. It was the last October, So yeah,
I would I think ideally definitely designing some athletical would
be cool.

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
What's been the coolest thing about motherhood?

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
Let's see.

Speaker 2 (01:09:29):
And is it what you thought it would be.

Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
It's much different than I thought it would be.

Speaker 4 (01:09:36):
I don't know then videos and pictures.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
And what's one of the ways it's different. Well, I
would say when I first had my baby, I think
there's this idea that the baby just comes out like
loving you.

Speaker 4 (01:09:52):
You are the greatest thing, unconditional, boring into you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:56):
And I learned that although with breast there is that exchange,
yet the connection still pouring in, still showing up. Well,
my son comes and hands me a book, no matter
what is on, no matter what we're doing, I'm stopping
and I'm reading the book because I care about building
the bond. So I think people underestimate the effort that
still requires, that still goes into your baby. Just because

(01:10:20):
they're your kid doesn't mean that they're just gonna love you.
I would say my favorite thing though, is watching him
just navigate the world. I think he is very curious
when he sees a plane in the sky, sees the butterfly.
We have bird feeders. I love feeding the birds. So
just seeing him interact with the world around him and
what he likes to talk about, it's really cool to me.

Speaker 5 (01:10:41):
Yeah, we got bird. You try to be a step
with why you try to be like moving the.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
Suburbs, But I try to tell you that more than
meets the eye. So I love birds, and I think
my favorite thing about birds are that they can go
anywhere in the world. So if they visit your backyard,
that's very safe, and I love that. No matter what
time in the day in the morning, if it's four o'clock,
doesn't matter, if it sounds off pitch, if it's too early,

(01:11:09):
they have a song. So that's why I really love birds,
and it's an honor to feed them. I wouldn't know
that about me.

Speaker 2 (01:11:16):
How difficult has it been or is it dating? It's
a single mom.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
I think one of my complaints is that I've attracted
more men without kids as a mom, and I'm just like,
oh God, is it a deal, braver? If I don't
want to have anymore, you know I love my baby.

Speaker 2 (01:11:36):
You don't want more kids.

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
I had a really tough time. I gained fifty pounds
and I've been in the gym for the last we
my boobs, my stomach like stretch mark. It was a lot,
the abdominal separation. I would say, I'm just now starting
to feel comfortable in crops, like actually show him a

(01:12:02):
whole stomach or a bikini. And obviously I have no
nothing done to my body. I'm natural. But it was
very hard on me and I just even if we
were to get married, like why do we.

Speaker 5 (01:12:16):
Why you would deny him? He wants his lineage, he
wants his one, his seat, he want a namesake. I'm
not saying it's gonna be Darryl Williams the third or
Daryl Williams Junior, but he's gonna want his What if
he wants his namesake, would you deny him back?

Speaker 1 (01:12:36):
I think that's something I'm navigating. I'm not gonna say
if I met my mister wonderful. I wouldn't want to give.

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
Him a child, but what if he wanted more than one?

Speaker 1 (01:12:48):
You know what's really difficult is because I'm thirty one.

Speaker 5 (01:12:52):
Yeah I have a baby, Yeah I have you good
it till you fifty. I mean, women now in today's time,
they having babies all well to fit it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
But and it's may be a belief, this may be
my own belief. That's that's hindering me. So I'm not
saying that this couldn't just be my own belief. But
this is my prime time, this is my You need
to make your next move your best move, right, there

(01:13:21):
are no hiccups, that's just kind of how more.

Speaker 5 (01:13:25):
So, I'm moving with So you're dating with a purpose. Now,
ain't no more just dating to date. I'm dating to
get married. You ain't trying to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:13:32):
Get to get the stamping, Yes, get to stamp.

Speaker 1 (01:13:35):
And I think a lot of I've seen a lot
of people say, well, now, all of a sudden, you
want to do that, and it's just okay, Well I
told you to hit my head on down the steps
a bunch of times and listen. And the thing is,
I'm a logical person. It ain't working you know so,
and having a deeper understanding of myself and really understanding

(01:13:59):
my value and craving more than just okay, I just
want someone. I just want someone who is this type
of status. I just want to want on my arm
who look, you know, really craving that substance and meaning
even more than I always have. It's just like, I'm
not so much shallow dating anymore.

Speaker 2 (01:14:17):
I don't think you're just shallow dating.

Speaker 5 (01:14:19):
But it's just hard for me to as I sit
here and look across at you, I just don't see
you with a nine to five guy.

Speaker 1 (01:14:27):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:14:29):
I mean, and you know and you know who, and
you know what's attracted to you see the mob. He
already knows what's gonna happen to the flame, but he
can't help it. The attraction is too great. He's going
to that flame even though he knows how it's going
to end.

Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
You can't help what you attracted to bread.

Speaker 1 (01:14:50):
There has to be some accountabil There has to be
accountability where it's like you can like certain things, but
are we compatible, yes or no? Because if you're not
going to the only flex is devotion. So, just like
you said, you made the comment about athletes. I can

(01:15:13):
be as open minded as I want to be across
the board, whether it's nine to five or dating. Which
man is going to be devoted to me? And there
is a greater percentage that an athlete's going to be
unfaithful to me. So that's why for me, I have
to take the blinders off. I'm not saying he can't
still be, you know, high stepping in his.

Speaker 5 (01:15:32):
Own right, But Britt, what you are attracted to, you
can't help it. You've been there. I'm not saying just
basketball player. I'm saying baseball. I'm saying football. It might
be soccer, it might be something, but that's what you
are attracted to, and you cannot help it. You can
fight it, but you cannot deny it.

Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
Okay, I hear you loud and clear. A lot of
the regular guys that I've attracted still have an athletic background.

Speaker 2 (01:16:06):
I hadn't talk about high school. I han't help about college.

Speaker 1 (01:16:08):
You know what I'm talking about Guys who I've played
in college, they may still have an athletic background.

Speaker 5 (01:16:12):
So it's like I'm talking about pre pre profession MLB, NFL,
n B A, m l S, the PREB R NASCAR
stop at brand. We grown up in him. You know
what you attracted to?

Speaker 1 (01:16:32):
They know what I'm gonna I cannot tell. Lie. I've
had a very magical time with a trainer in Austin,
Texas and we had a great time, held hands, got
tacos and it was one of the most fun moments.
That well, I was learning with someone on Twitter publicly

(01:16:52):
and it changed things.

Speaker 2 (01:16:54):
Why would you do You're not my man.

Speaker 5 (01:16:58):
That he was trying to be You ruined it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
No, he wasn't my guy anyways, but.

Speaker 2 (01:17:02):
I don't know he was trying to be your guy.

Speaker 5 (01:17:06):
You ruined it.

Speaker 2 (01:17:07):
You said you want true love.

Speaker 1 (01:17:10):
But okay, hold on you.

Speaker 5 (01:17:12):
Self sabotage, No, don't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
I was in therapy for six years. No self sabotage.

Speaker 5 (01:17:17):
That you had a guy, he's holding your hand, he's
taking you to get taco you getting a limon drop,
you getting locker readers, and then you flirt publicly? Is
that not self sabotage?

Speaker 1 (01:17:27):
It's not self sabotage. This was what was the timeline.
It was about a year after my spoke my child's father.
I was like, you know what, I've never just dated,
so how I would do. Was I'm gonna talk to
one guy at the time. Aside from the video where
I told you all the different guys, them all just recycled.
But anyways, I would talk to one guy at a time, okay,

(01:17:47):
and it wasn't effective. It didn't work. So I was like, Okay,
I'm pouring on my eggs into one person out of time,
not getting my desired outcome.

Speaker 2 (01:17:53):
That's what you're supposed to do. What one basket out
of time?

Speaker 1 (01:17:59):
Okay from one perspective, but when you are talking about
modern dating, most men are not dating one woman at
a time. So where does that?

Speaker 2 (01:18:09):
I ain't got nothing to do with you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:11):
Well, it's my if it's a particular you say, But you.

Speaker 5 (01:18:15):
Said you believe in true love. So what somebody else
is doing? You said that guy was taking you to
get tacos? So was he dating more than one.

Speaker 4 (01:18:27):
Tacos?

Speaker 5 (01:18:28):
Was he d Let's forget what else they're doing. I'm
talking about him specifically. What was he dating more than one? Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:18:37):
Okay, Well I ain't got no Well you did what
you did.

Speaker 1 (01:18:40):
I mean, what am I supposed to do? It's like
I'm being faithful to an idea and he's doing what
he wants to do, and that's why you're taking you know,
you're taking.

Speaker 2 (01:18:46):
Your time, So that's why you that's why you was flirting.

Speaker 1 (01:18:49):
Now, this was a person that I've always loved and
I cared about, and I just was like, from my understanding,
I thought I was dating wrong. I'm like, why am
I just talking to one guy at a time. Clearly
there are women out here who are going on dates,
not having sex with all the guys they're dating, going
on different dates, trying different things out, going to dinner
and going wherever. I'm not doing something right. So that's
when I was like, you know what, let me try

(01:19:09):
something new, and I don't have to have sex with
all the guys i'm speaking with, Like I can go
on dates and go get tacos.

Speaker 5 (01:19:16):
That didn't.

Speaker 1 (01:19:18):
There are different rules where you're in the limelight, you
know what I mean. And I know after that, I'm like, well, damn,
like I would have felt some type of way I
people do that to me. So that's when I took
from that situation of Okay, I tried the multiple guy.

Speaker 4 (01:19:33):
Thing, didn't work for me, not gonna listen la la
la la la, to what.

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
Modern dating is about in on tiktoks or podcasts. I'm
not listening to that. If I'm talking to a guy,
it's gonna be him, And that vetting process is very
short lived most of the time because they are not
the guys.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
They just turn off.

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
I'd say inconsistency because lying is like that's so typical,
that's obviously number one.

Speaker 5 (01:20:05):
But so you want to do the call, you want
to doll you want to do to call you every
day a couple of times the day, check in, hey Brett,
how you do it?

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
It doesn't have to be a couple of times, but
I would like at least yeah, Like I mean, send
me the morning text and then like let's recap maybe
later in the day. I would prefer to talk on
the phone. I'm not I feel like younger people love
like FaceTime and stuff, but I like, just I have
my headphones in. We can just talk on the phone
or put you on speaker on doing my makeup or something.
But yeah, it's just kind of like limited to text messages.

(01:20:32):
That's just been my experience, right, Yeah, Like there's not
a lot of like old soul what is your what.

Speaker 2 (01:20:38):
Is your take on first date? Six? You good?

Speaker 1 (01:20:43):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:20:44):
Maybe it depends.

Speaker 5 (01:20:47):
Who No, no, you what it told me? Say, Hey,
we will have open and honest conversation.

Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
If the energy is there, I'm all for it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:00):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:21:02):
But some of my friends to the left here, you know,
they they have been a bit more successful with holding out.
But I'm just like, well, you're not gonna respect me anymore.
You either respect me or you don't. I'm either someone

(01:21:23):
that you can see yourself with or not. It's not
gonna take three months for you to be You wonder
if she could be my girl, like you already know
when you're speaking with me, like she's a hookup, she's
a wife or everything else in between, like wife, everything
else in between.

Speaker 2 (01:21:38):
So can you.

Speaker 1 (01:21:41):
I don't clean let me? Well, that actually doesn't not
why it doesn't apply to me because I don't have
a ring. But uh no, but I'm very passionate about Felicia.
Does that matter? I don't think that has a chore, babe.

Speaker 5 (01:21:54):
Oh look, I just asked him be the dude. He
go walk a couple home my list and say he's
nine to five instructions.

Speaker 1 (01:22:00):
Huh, I can follow instructions. No, I honestly I believe
cooking is beneath me.

Speaker 2 (01:22:05):
Huh, don't.

Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
I don't belong in the kitchen.

Speaker 5 (01:22:12):
You're making it difficult. I'm really trying to help you here.
I mean, you know a millions of people going to
see this, and I'm really trying.

Speaker 1 (01:22:17):
They got to drag me. I love it. I'm into that.

Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
Would you let your friends sit you up on a
blind date?

Speaker 4 (01:22:24):
I would?

Speaker 1 (01:22:25):
I did. I've gone on to blind date recently.

Speaker 5 (01:22:28):
I wasn't.

Speaker 1 (01:22:29):
We went zip blinding.

Speaker 2 (01:22:30):
It was fun, you adventurous, huh.

Speaker 1 (01:22:34):
Yes, But I feel like I have to work a lot.
I'm in a very masculine role in my household, so
I don't feel like I have a lot of time
to have fun and go out and do stuff like that.
But yeah, I did go zip blinding. It was fun.
He's just he was twenty three. He was like, you're
telling me everything I want to hear and not what
I need to hear. And although he was very open
about like the kids stuff and like, oh I don't

(01:22:55):
care about that, but you know this is what I want.
I'm just like, I don't. It's very hard to imagine
a younger man having the courage, be an understanding seeing
my value. So it's just hard to see that I've
been open.

Speaker 5 (01:23:10):
But do you want the man to Okay, Brittany, I'm
picking you up at I'm picking you up at seven
thirty eight o'clock. We're going here. You want him to
plan to date or are you going to plan or
help plan?

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
Yeah? Women don't like questions. Don't ask me if I
want to go to dinner, tell me.

Speaker 5 (01:23:27):
You know, like, hey, this is what what can they can?

Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
They ask Brittany, what's your favorite for? What do you like?

Speaker 1 (01:23:32):
That's fine? But plan it? Yeah, I don't. I have
no desire to be a man in a relationship with
a man?

Speaker 2 (01:23:39):
What happened to y.

Speaker 1 (01:23:42):
Who said that? That's what Dwayne said on the last.

Speaker 2 (01:23:45):
Yeah, fifty fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:23:50):
That's getting friends platonic fifty to fifty. I mean, no, dude,
Well there was a guy that I went on a
date with O and what happened We we went out
on a little zate, we went bowling and when we
got there, oh, I mean I don't have a long now.

(01:24:12):
I'm a very isary classic ball like this when you.

Speaker 5 (01:24:15):
Put things what didn't you like to know? I'm just
trying to ask the question that you go with the blue.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
Jab anyways, and we got out.

Speaker 5 (01:24:28):
Okay, okay, I've got something this time.

Speaker 1 (01:24:34):
But this is so good. It is I usually don't
like dark. Maybe I gotta try it.

Speaker 2 (01:24:38):
Maybe I have to you know, maybe maybe I have
to have you in a bathroom.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
I would have loved that. So back to Jacob. We
get to the date. He pays for a bowling. I'm like, okay, cool.
And he gets there and he's like, honestly, I shouldn't
be here right now, and he kind of alluded to
his sister giving him money the date, and so I
paid for like our drinks and what Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:25:04):
He said that.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
He said that he oh god, I can't lie. It's
like a curse with a blessing. But yeah, so anyways,
he was like, yeah, I can't really, I can't really
afford it that. This is what happened. I was playing overseas,
I got robbed all these different things, and I was like,
you know what, it doesn't even matter because all that
girls true love.

Speaker 5 (01:25:22):
So I paid for our drinks and you told him
to scodaddle school.

Speaker 1 (01:25:28):
No, let me tell you why I told him to scoodattle.
So we're leaving and the parking was like thirty five.

Speaker 5 (01:25:36):
He ain't have no money in the ballot.

Speaker 2 (01:25:38):
Yeah, he got to go.

Speaker 1 (01:25:41):
So I paid for parking thirty five dollars each and
mind you whatever, I was like, let me just give
him a little little kiss. So we made out. No
passion there. I already kind of knew this was a now.
So we were in the parking, people like you.

Speaker 5 (01:25:54):
Put your toe, did you president the ball the dudes
show up, you got to pay for the drink.

Speaker 4 (01:26:03):
I still had to give it my all. I had
to see him.

Speaker 1 (01:26:05):
He got going, Okay, I saw I put it, put
my tongue, got his throat.

Speaker 2 (01:26:10):
Did you have on lipstick out the game with napkin?
And you go take that with you?

Speaker 5 (01:26:15):
That's all he'd got. God, that's all he That's all
he frow to the table.

Speaker 1 (01:26:19):
It's a little charity. Okay. So we were in there
for about you know, we're talking and whatever. He's like,
you know, let's continue to date. I'm like, no, I'm good.
So we're going through the parking, going through the parking meter,
and it was like an additional ten dollars what because
we were it was like I don't know, I don't
I don't know how long we were there we were
making out that dam't lie. So whatever, I paid the

(01:26:40):
ten dollars, I go through under the parking meter and
I hear.

Speaker 5 (01:26:48):
What happened. Oh, he tried to raise through the Joey
Wage closed down on it. Oh. I was like, oh
my god, because I was like, someone's about to hit
my car so we didn't have to pay for the parking.

Speaker 7 (01:27:05):
And I was like, I'm never calling him again. This
is exactly why people are like, you can't date the regular. God,
you're right, because I tried and mister all you know, he.

Speaker 1 (01:27:18):
Was cute, but yeah, when he raced through that, yeah,
I was like, oh you canna offer me is some
hard dicking bubble gum babe. And I was just like
that ain't gonna work, I thought, But yeah, that's the
first time I've shared this the republic. Very embarrassing. Ooh
we and I just got stood up recently.

Speaker 2 (01:27:37):
To him, well, hold on, did your friend you got
step up by a blind date or this was something.

Speaker 1 (01:27:42):
That no, it was just it was it was, yeah,
it didn't work.

Speaker 2 (01:27:47):
What happened?

Speaker 1 (01:27:50):
He told me the reason he couldn't go to the
date was because his friend's grandma died and that his
friend wanted him to come console him.

Speaker 2 (01:28:01):
Dudes doing that, well, and you believed it. I know
you didn't believe it, Britt, I blocked him.

Speaker 1 (01:28:09):
But yeah, so I have really really funny stories.

Speaker 2 (01:28:13):
You What is it with you and these guys you've
been you've been, You've been meeting.

Speaker 5 (01:28:16):
Some some real tell us clowns.

Speaker 1 (01:28:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:28:21):
Yeah, But do you get.

Speaker 5 (01:28:23):
Guys that try to impress you that come out like,
oh they like big ballers, or they show up with
somebody else a rental car or bent let or rolls
or the homeboy.

Speaker 1 (01:28:32):
Well, I mean that's not really that impressive just because
it's I guess it's just been so familiarized for me,
like you know, uh, that's not really that now. But
now I I I mean I did have a good
date a couple of months ago, I mean the whole
shebang dinner and went out and stuff. It was a
good time. But he's a dud.

Speaker 5 (01:28:57):
What is it?

Speaker 1 (01:28:58):
It's it's just like it it's I guess the energy. Okay,
this is this is actually a really important distinction we
have to make because there's high value men, yes, but
high value does not mean high quality because yes, because
mufassa high value high quality scar, high value, low quality, So.

Speaker 5 (01:29:21):
That's where for a lot of scars. Huh.

Speaker 1 (01:29:25):
I wouldn't even say that, or you know, high value
because almost broke the freaking parking meter skating behind me,
you know. So, I mean I've just been very open minded.

Speaker 5 (01:29:37):
Why did you just get up the moment he said
that my sister is basically paying for this part of
the date. That would that should have been your key
to exit stage left?

Speaker 2 (01:29:48):
Well because how long? So how long did it take
to put this date together? Was it like quickly? Was
it like two weeks? Was it like three weeks? Because
they could have Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:29:57):
I met him. I met him at a party and
and you know, if i'd me on Instagram, and I
already kind of felt like it was a red flag
because I like in person encounters. So when you saw
me in person, you say anything you should have Well, no,
he introduced himself, but he didn't get my number right.
So there's like certain things that I'm just kind of
more old fashioned about. So why would you go to
the digital route when you have me right in front

(01:30:18):
of you and you could have made more lasting impression?
That was like my first already like kind of weird
but how long did it take? What? What was the question? Again?

Speaker 5 (01:30:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:30:27):
How long did it take you? Like, like I said,
I'm saying to set this date up?

Speaker 1 (01:30:31):
Oh no, yeah, it was just maybe like a few days.
I mean it was pretty quick. But I told you,
I told myself, Well, I told myself that, Well, Brittany,
if it's not about the money, yeah, but no, no, no, no,
no no no, I just wanted to try again.

Speaker 2 (01:30:45):
I like to try Brittany.

Speaker 5 (01:30:49):
Having enough money for a common date. I'm not saying
the guy got to be worth thirty mil. But a
dude got to be able to have enough money for
a common date. And I come on, now, I don't
think you're I don't think any woman is asking now.
I'm not saying we can go to mask Rolls, or
we can go to Catcher some place like that, but
for the go bowling and the paper parking. I don't

(01:31:09):
think that's a stretch. I don't think that's asking too much.

Speaker 1 (01:31:13):
No, it's not. But that's where because what I don't
want people to take away from this is that I'm
blaming men. Because what I do is any experience I have,
and it's unfavorable. I don't like it. I go inward
and figure out what part of me, what part of
my belief system aligns with skating through the parking meter,

(01:31:34):
what part of me alignce to someone who would ghost
me on a date. So I go back inward and
do the work to understand. So I no longer have
these below average experiences with men. So it's still a
reflection of parts of me that needs to be addressed.
So yeah, I'm still learning the dating stuff is. It's

(01:31:54):
very challenging to navigate, especially having such a heavy presence online, right,
good batter and different. It's it's very difficult because a
lot of guys will look at you as trophy. Other
guys will look at you as just like a good time.
What a hundred million or one hundred dollars? You know.
It's it's hard because I do social media is my life,
has been my life, and especially we've being on Basketball Wives.

(01:32:17):
Now I'm very curious to see who comes out of
the woodwork and what's really genuine. I still have to
filter through all these things that the average person has to.
But now you're adding all these factors that what a
billion dollar question?

Speaker 5 (01:32:31):
Why do you think it's so hard? Why why do
you think relationships are so hard for either one. I
don't want to say men are more faithful or mean
more unfaithful women are more unfaithful.

Speaker 2 (01:32:40):
But why do you think it's so hard to remain
faithful in a relationship?

Speaker 1 (01:32:44):
Remain faithful? Yeah, I don't think it's hard. I think
it's a lifestyle choice, just like a lot of people are. Like,
if he wants to, he will, just like you know,
if you know you actually went to the gym like
you said you would on January first. Yeah, if you
wanted to, you would. It's just a lifestyle choice. And
I you don't know what it's like to be a man.
I would love to be a man for a day
and see these biological things that are maybe even me

(01:33:05):
want to just stick my dick and everything. I would
love to see if that stands true. But I really
think it's aligning with someone who has the same beliefs
as you. I don't understand how people are unfaithful because
the only thing that can quench lust is love. So
how why people are out moving around and having casual
sex with people is really beyond me, especially when you

(01:33:27):
have someone who gives a damn about you. I will
never understand that I told you first on the last
time I cheated was when I was sixteen years old.
I can't relate. I think loyalty is actually the easiest part.

Speaker 5 (01:33:37):
You know, people find that very hard to believe because
the number of men that you said you've slept with, and.

Speaker 2 (01:33:46):
I guess just they look at you and who you
are to like a man. She full of it.

Speaker 5 (01:33:50):
But I mean, I have no reason to believe that
you're lying to me. But I'm saying you can understand
that people look at you. I mean, you know, perception
is people's truth, although it's not reality a person, perception
is their reality.

Speaker 2 (01:34:04):
You agree, right?

Speaker 1 (01:34:05):
No? Why would I agree that perception is reality?

Speaker 2 (01:34:08):
No, perception is their reality some people's realty.

Speaker 1 (01:34:10):
Yes, yes, yes, no, I that's fine. I'm not to
think that I would be po no, because that's that's
typical answer. Telling the truth is way more wild than lying.
And for me to lie to you, that means I
have to fear you. I don't fear anything, right when
it comes to death. Whatever today is a good day

(01:34:31):
is ever?

Speaker 5 (01:34:32):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (01:34:33):
So why would I lie? I don't live my life
like that.

Speaker 2 (01:34:36):
Would you ever date publicly? Again?

Speaker 1 (01:34:38):
Of course? I don't know what that what the vetting
process looks. Say, I don't know what that guy is like.
I don't know. That's why it's like I consider and
I'll never do this. I'll never do that.

Speaker 2 (01:34:50):
It's not even that that's that guy is gonna be
an athlete.

Speaker 1 (01:34:53):
Why would you wish that on me?

Speaker 2 (01:34:54):
I ain't wish it, because that's what you can't you
the mob, he's the flame.

Speaker 5 (01:34:59):
You it can't help. You can't help. You can't help it. Okay,
he's the mall, you're the plane. It doesn't matter.

Speaker 2 (01:35:08):
It does it does.

Speaker 1 (01:35:11):
That moth is every time.

Speaker 4 (01:35:14):
But I wouldn't do that.

Speaker 5 (01:35:15):
Yeah you would, Yeah you would. You said, I know
how it feels to be desired by men but not
value by one. No longer am I drinking of the way,
eating of a way, sleeping in a way, iffing of
a way. I'm sitting in my own issue when you
say it, I know what it's like to be desired
but not to be valued.

Speaker 1 (01:35:37):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (01:35:38):
They want this, but they don't value that.

Speaker 1 (01:35:44):
They don't value what's outside of the vagina. That's what
they don't value. They don't care because they don't see
me in a wife category. It's wife everything else. That's
not my responsibility to try to control how I'm perceived
or how people see me, because at the end of
the day, I could paint you a pretty picture, but

(01:36:04):
what's the reality? Who am I? Behind closed doors? There
are plenty of girls that were getting slutted out when
they were at Kentucky. You know you're sucking all types
of the steps. I know that because I've been told stories.
But it's like that's just not public. But that's more
considered more of a wife because it's not public. So
I don't know. I just feel you gotta find someone's
truth that you accept.

Speaker 5 (01:36:29):
You just.

Speaker 2 (01:36:31):
Are you going to Are you willing to sign a prenup?

Speaker 1 (01:36:33):
Absolutely? What you won't do? Do for love? Absolutely?

Speaker 4 (01:36:43):
Sign of maybe whatever whatever that makes me feel better.

Speaker 1 (01:36:47):
I'm ready for my husband, not my cousin.

Speaker 5 (01:36:50):
Is it? Did you think Kevin Samuel?

Speaker 1 (01:36:52):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:36:53):
Yeah, were just cool.

Speaker 1 (01:36:54):
Yeah, we were cool. We just did content together. I
did an interview. But you know, he may God.

Speaker 2 (01:36:59):
Blessed, God rested soul. He made some good points.

Speaker 1 (01:37:01):
Though I had a great time here. We had a
really he was somebody that when I would have conversations
with him, it was really hard to talk to him sometimes.
Even the last conversation we had it was it's like
a little jagged pill.

Speaker 2 (01:37:13):
When did you write that book?

Speaker 1 (01:37:14):
Twenty eighteen October twenty eighteen.

Speaker 5 (01:37:16):
Twenty eighteens, Because at the time they said you slept
with twenty four men, eleven athletes, five entertainers, eight regular guys.

Speaker 2 (01:37:23):
Now you're up to thirty five.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
I keep it listening my phone. Why is that a lot?
It was a whistle whistle?

Speaker 2 (01:37:35):
I mean you said athletes don't use condoms?

Speaker 1 (01:37:37):
So ten guys? Was that nine guys?

Speaker 2 (01:37:40):
Eleven?

Speaker 1 (01:37:41):
Eleven guys in five years?

Speaker 5 (01:37:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:37:45):
I mean is there another You're trying to get half
a HUNDI I mean.

Speaker 5 (01:37:49):
You, what do you go on for?

Speaker 1 (01:37:50):
How are you gonna ask me if I'm trying to
get half a hundred when I've been sitting here talking
to you from was two goddamn hours.

Speaker 2 (01:37:55):
You got so thirty six? So thirty six and that's it?
Or are you looking to go back?

Speaker 5 (01:38:00):
Would you be willing to go back and get one
of those thirty six and make it thirty five?

Speaker 4 (01:38:04):
Don't hey, don't add a buddy, Okay, let you trying
to out a buddy?

Speaker 2 (01:38:09):
So thirty six.

Speaker 5 (01:38:11):
Don't worry about listen, listen, worry about it. You worried
about it with any of those guys that you previously
have slept with, would you be willing to would you
husband them? Mmm?

Speaker 1 (01:38:26):
I've given some second chances, and it just reiterates why
I don't give second chances. I don't don't think that
I've I don't believe that I've had a.

Speaker 2 (01:38:38):
Not my guy. You don't believe you, Maddy.

Speaker 1 (01:38:41):
I thought I did a couple of times.

Speaker 2 (01:38:43):
Are you willing to date outside your race?

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
I can't do paint me child, It's just guard me.

Speaker 5 (01:38:55):
Eh.

Speaker 1 (01:38:55):
This is gonna sound kind of fucked up, but I
just don't see myself respecting anyone that's not black. Why
the man who's supposed to lead me is black?

Speaker 2 (01:39:05):
I know that leading is the easy part. Following is
what's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:39:10):
The man that is meant to cherish me and love
me and be there for me, and that it was
designed for me it energetically at this moment, again, it
could change, cause never was never black.

Speaker 5 (01:39:23):
Let's talk about okay basketball. Why you're on another another
season of that?

Speaker 1 (01:39:27):
Well, this is my first season, it's my first time.
I don't get to say that often.

Speaker 2 (01:39:34):
Brandy, I'm sorry, this is not the life I really
chose for myself. But hey, here we are, Granny.

Speaker 4 (01:39:42):
What about basketball wives, basketballs?

Speaker 1 (01:39:43):
Sason eleven?

Speaker 5 (01:39:44):
Yes, what can we expect? Shut?

Speaker 1 (01:39:50):
It was the most ooh, come on Chuesday, I just
hoop wisely, what's a positive one? It was an experience,
right that I will never forget.

Speaker 3 (01:40:00):
You like it?

Speaker 2 (01:40:03):
Like like season twelve, you down.

Speaker 1 (01:40:15):
A lot of things have to change for me, but
I'm gonna keep it open. Mind a lot of things
have changed.

Speaker 5 (01:40:20):
But you do realize that anytime someone see you with
someone publicly, they automatically jump to the conclusion. You know that, right,
So like me and you that I do an interview,
not shaq, I'm saying people saw you out she was
shack or if I can assure you if someone would

(01:40:43):
have if we let's just say we're out at some restaurant, me,
you and I. What you think even if were talking
to this, even if we just having a conversation. You're somewhere,
I'm with my boys and they see man, shall you
know it's gonna be a thing.

Speaker 2 (01:41:00):
So you know what comes along with Britney Renner.

Speaker 5 (01:41:02):
You know that anybody that you talk to, there's going
to be accusation in you windows, conjecture about what's happening.

Speaker 2 (01:41:13):
Okay, you don't I mean, I mean you okay with that.

Speaker 1 (01:41:20):
I mean people are entitled to their opinions. If I
want to grow out for dinner, I'm gonna go.

Speaker 2 (01:41:24):
Out for the zo I'm just say.

Speaker 5 (01:41:25):
But don't you wanna just like be able to go
somewhere and people not automatically assume.

Speaker 1 (01:41:31):
Hell no, I wouldn't trade this light for nothing, cause
I get to skip the line figuratively and literally. So
you have to accept the good with the bad. You
can't say ahead, I want all these brand deals. I
wanna be famous, I wanna be on TV. But don't
take a picture of me even I'm leaving, don't take
a picture of meaning I'm not eating grow up. It's
hot up under these lights. Okay. Not everybody can handle it,

(01:41:52):
but for me, I mean, I love. I love being
in front of the camera. I love. I really had
a great time filming for Ask About Wives. It just
felt so natural. But this is just a part of me.
This is what I like to do, so I'm built
for it. I don't I don't look at that as whatever.
They're allowed to think what they want. People are already
gonna assume that. I mean, I don't really believe in
like male female friendships anyways. I'm not a bit.

Speaker 2 (01:42:15):
I don't have a man, can't be a friend, can't
have a girl.

Speaker 1 (01:42:21):
I'm just saying, I personally do not have male friends.
The only male friend that I have, his name is Jerry,
and he's a family friend of ours. Like his baby
mama is my mom's baby, daddy's sister. Like it's family,
you know what I mean. So that's the only male
friend that I have, Right, that's family. I know.

Speaker 5 (01:42:37):
I don't male.

Speaker 2 (01:42:38):
Friends are male friends replacement?

Speaker 1 (01:42:42):
No, I just think that there's always uh for me
my experience, there's just always that lingering undertone, and that's
how everything starts his friendship. So it's like it ain't
much to just do a hop, skip it a jump,
and then now, you know, fill in the busy life, y'all, don't.
I don't have no friends.

Speaker 5 (01:43:01):
I'm good. So, but the person that's never seen Britney Renner,
God heard Britney Renner's story, person sitting right down here
for the very first time, in one minute, explain him.

Speaker 2 (01:43:16):
It's best that you can't explain to them, male or female.

Speaker 1 (01:43:20):
About myself, about Brittany Renner. It's it's a lot shorter
than a minute.

Speaker 2 (01:43:24):
Give me thirty seconds.

Speaker 5 (01:43:26):
Then.

Speaker 1 (01:43:26):
I am extremely unpredictable. Every minute, every second, every hour.
I wake up. Sometimes I change my wig. I want
to be somebody different. You don't know what you're gonna
get with me. I am like a box of chocolates.
You don't know what you're gonna get, right, What.

Speaker 2 (01:43:43):
If people don't like chocolates? Can I get a bi
of some Can I give something else?

Speaker 1 (01:43:46):
Nobody? Motherfucking ass. Stop making it so personalized chocolate. I'm
just saying I'm talking to I'm not talking.

Speaker 5 (01:43:55):
I'm talking to this guy.

Speaker 2 (01:43:56):
Okay, whatever his name is for her break one.

Speaker 1 (01:43:59):
They pronounce anyways. I'm just very unpredictable. Sometimes I don't
even know what I'm gonna do, right. I follow my heart.
That is what I stand by, and I believe that
I'm going to tell the truth and get all the
things that my heart desires, and the world is going
to have to bear a witness and eat their words.

Speaker 2 (01:44:18):
None of that is that is that what it's about?

Speaker 5 (01:44:21):
Because it because so many people are saying she's never
gonna find someone to marry her with her track record,
with her.

Speaker 2 (01:44:28):
Background, You really will?

Speaker 5 (01:44:31):
That is that I mean? I mean honestly, as I
sit here, and you know, we've had a great conversation.
But I do believe that as we sit here, you
truly want to find love, but true love, or to
say I have no because that's just childish for me.

Speaker 1 (01:44:48):
It's the real thing or nothing at all. It's not
what looks good on paper. It's not because we take
pretty pictures together. It's the real thing or nothing at all.
The only flex is devotion. I don't care what you
have me up in. You got all your rich on
the side. The only flex is devotion. What do I
look like being on the arm of a man who

(01:45:09):
is still entertaining bitches when you are supposed to be
my hus what.

Speaker 5 (01:45:14):
He already heard you say you've done a threesome. So
it ain't a far stretched to say you cool with it.

Speaker 1 (01:45:18):
That's fine. He's allowed to think whenever he wants. But
where I'm at today, then where you were then and
where I was then, I haven't munched on the.

Speaker 2 (01:45:29):
Jesus J Sorry, mad you have to have to beat, but.

Speaker 1 (01:45:34):
Hey, I ain't munched on it since twenty fifteen. So
if you think you're getting a threesome out of me
in twenty twenty three, King of Worshel thinking, you know,
that's fine. But I really cannot control what people are
gonna think and what they think they're gonna do, and
how they are think they're gonna treat me. I can
only stand in my power and show you what it is,
because I can show you rather tell you. So yeah,

(01:45:55):
I'm not here to sway all these people. And please
understand me, Please get me. If you don't get it,
you ain't meant to move along.

Speaker 5 (01:46:07):
Thank you for coming on clotiation and as you said,
living in your issue, sharing your story. Continue success, Britney
Nicole Absolutely clubs, lazy gentlemen.

Speaker 2 (01:46:24):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (01:46:26):
All my life, grinding all my life, sacrifice, hustle the price,
want a slice, got to brother Dia all my life.
I've been grinding all my life, all my life, been
grinding all my life, Sacrifice, hustle, bat the price, one slice,
nott to brother the dice swap all my life.

Speaker 5 (01:46:45):
I've been grinding all my life

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