Drea Nicole & Lex P Discuss Marriage, Getting Cheated On, & ATL Strip Clubs

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
And I'm just not an already jealous person like I
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First of all, it just be fine. They're looking good. Yes,
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Speaker 3 (00:16):
That's cool.

Speaker 4 (00:17):
Little Yeah, No, that's too much.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Do y'all?

Speaker 1 (00:31):
Would y'all bring a third into your thing, into your relationship,
like just for a night or something.

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I don't like Cookee.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
You might be open to it and maybe like a
little girlfriend when I get older.

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Speaker 1 (04:00):
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These are two ladies not to be played with. Please
welcome Lex P and Drena call poor mind.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
We always be like we.

Speaker 4 (04:31):
Need I love it.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Thank you guys for joining. I really love y'all.

Speaker 1 (04:44):
You have such a genuine cool spirit, like your chemistry
together is just dope, Like, I really love your content
and people really rock with y'all, so you know that's incredible.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
Of course, how did y'all meet? We met?

Speaker 1 (05:00):
We love this story. So we met in Houston at
the Strip Club. We're both working at the Strip Club.
We were bartenders, not dancers. It was bartenders. It was
like my first real bartending job. I had never really
bartended before, so you know, I was just making like
the typical he and cold cran Barry vodka.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Keep a glass of champagne you come to me for.

Speaker 1 (05:29):
She had been bartending for a minute, so she was
a little more experienced.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
Yeah, I'm holding them up.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
And we had been working together for a few months
and we, I don't.

Speaker 1 (05:39):
Know, we would speak like we high to each other,
but we never really had like a conversation until one night.
I had a customer who was just asking me for
like the craziest ship like Bob Marley's and stuff.

Speaker 5 (05:51):
I'm like, we know how to make that, but he
was just trying to talk to trying to.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
Talk to me.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
He was hollered at me, and he was tipping really well,
but he was asking for a lot of stuff that
I'm like, girl, I remember a Manhattan.

Speaker 4 (06:03):
He did a Manhattan in the strip.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Club, and so I'm like, like, hey, girl, if you
like help me make these drinks, we could bust this
money down because he.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Was giving me so much money.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
He was taving her like one hundred dollars every drink that.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
She gave me, like two thousand dollars that night, and
then me and her I was like, okay, we can
bust this.

Speaker 2 (06:26):
Now we can sleep. And I was making them strong too.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
I was like yeah, and we just stayed for after that,
like we remained cool. I ended up moving to Atlanta
a year after we met. The whole year I was there,
me and her will still communicate all the time. And
then I convinced her to move to Atlanta.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
And then how'd y'all decide to do the podcast?

Speaker 4 (06:50):
I think we wouldn't.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
It sounds so common because everybody's like, oh my gosh,
we're so funny, we need to start a podcast.

Speaker 4 (06:57):
But honestly, it was like people.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
Every time we would go to a bar be having
a conversation, people around us would just start listening to
our conversation, yeah, chiming in And like my ex at
the guy was dating at the time, he was like, man,
y'all need to record this. This is funny because we
had started a YouTube channel. We used to be on
there doing muck bangs, beauty content, all type of stuff,
and he was like, no, this is what y'all need

(07:19):
to record. So we recorded the episode and like it
got like one hundred views, which was good for us
because everything else is getting like.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
Yeah, I'm.

Speaker 5 (07:33):
So Honestly, after doing that, it just stuck. And then
my friends she had a popular podcast at the time.
She was like, hey, do y'all know about podcasting? Turn
into a podcast? And honestly, we've had so much help
along the way of people just being like this is
a good product. Y'all need to keep doing this, and
helping us brand it because it was wind down Wednesday,
which is so generic, but we were like, okay, let's

(07:53):
brand it as poor minds.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Yeah that's dope, and not everyone, like there's so many podcasts,
but not everyone could just they think anyone get on
a mic, but it's hard as that that the interesting
conversation that just captures people, and y'all really do have that,
like you're hilarious and funny, like it's just a vibe
and you don't have to guess, you could just be y'all. Yeah, yeah,

(08:16):
and that's big because some people are guests driven. That's
so we started off doing that, like for the first
we actually just really started having gaged within the past
two three years. For a long time, it was just
her and I just recorded by ourselves.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
I love that.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
That's kind of been like what our model is because
we're like, you want people to fall in love with y'all, right,
because because when you guess driven, you can run out,
like when they fall in love with you, the guess
is a bonus, right, you know what I'm saying, And
that's how we feel. Uh, But like, yeah, I think
you guys have been doing fabulous in this space. I've

(08:56):
seen clips have come up a lot of y'all are
not just having crack.

Speaker 2 (09:02):
He was like, they're so funny. He was like, yeah, yeah.
I was like, no, I love that.

Speaker 3 (09:10):
Relationships.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
I'm not currently I was for like two and a
half years.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
Okay, I saw you say that on Joe Budden that
you were so now you're not.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
I'm single, but yeah, I mean somebody my ex he's
still be he was texting me earlier, but so but
y'all been on and off, so or y'all were we
were on, but then as of I would say, this year,

(09:41):
we've been on and off.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Okay, So do you think that this is off permanently
or you're going back on?

Speaker 1 (09:47):
You know, I don't even want to lie. I'm not sure,
just because him and I have to be in close
proximity to like a lot of the time we work
together and stuff.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
Okay, I don't know. I don't know. We might get
back together.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
Yeah, Okay, it's hard out here.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
What about you?

Speaker 4 (10:09):
Yeah, I'm in a relationship. You know, we're figuring out.

Speaker 5 (10:12):
I always say, but I'm not married, Like I'm thirty six,
So I think it's so weirdy to be like, oh yeah,
I have a boyfriend. So it's like, technically I am single.
I'm not married, So what are we doing? You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
So you feel like if I'm in a relationship but
we're not married, you're single.

Speaker 5 (10:30):
Well, I mean I say single because like with like paperwork,
that's what I put.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
You can't put you got a boyfriend. Yeah, But I
mean as.

Speaker 5 (10:38):
Far as like I'm not going out with other men,
he's not going out with other women as far as
I know, nigga, uh, because.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
Don't play with me.

Speaker 5 (10:49):
But yeah, I think like at this age, it's kind
of like, you know, I am with somebody, but it's
kind of like you know, I'm I'm too.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
Old to be like boyfriend girlfriend?

Speaker 2 (10:57):
So how long have y'all been together?

Speaker 4 (10:58):
Two years?

Speaker 1 (10:59):
What do you think think the timing is? And does
it change on age for y'all? What do you think
the timing is for you to be like hello, like
are you gonna propose?

Speaker 2 (11:10):
And if not, I'm moving on? Like what what do
you think are we at that time?

Speaker 3 (11:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (11:14):
Because of the age? Is that what it is?

Speaker 1 (11:17):
Well? No, to be honest, I think I've always felt
that way. Okay, I feel like men no, at least
that's my opinion. You feel like they know, like it
don't take ten fifteen years for you to figure out if.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
You want to marry somebody. So what is it? What
is the year? To me?

Speaker 1 (11:33):
When you start to get close to that three year mark? Nigga,
what the fuck are you trying to do?

Speaker 4 (11:37):
Right?

Speaker 2 (11:38):
I agree that what I feel like, what are you
trying to do?

Speaker 1 (11:41):
Because when we get to five first, if we're still
not you said, well.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
You have a rule of life.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
I got to live.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
Until I'm married. We don't have that rule. I don't
have that. I don't have that rule. I live nobody.
I need to know I need to live with you.

Speaker 5 (11:57):
I'm not mad at that, but I feel like it
needs to be a plan, like because I feel like
sometimes if you move in with the guy, because I've
lived with somebody I've dated before, and I feel like
if you live together, it's kind of like they get comfortable, like.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
Babe, man, we don't need to go to that COLLELP. Yeah,
I know you what that got to get the white
people involved? Why we need to pay?

Speaker 5 (12:16):
Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. Because they get comfortable.
They feel like, why do I have to do this?
We're good, We're in the same house. What more do
you want from me?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Common alaw marea Yeah they do.

Speaker 5 (12:27):
So I feel like I think it needs to be
like everything needs to be aligned, like is there a
proposal that's about to happen.

Speaker 4 (12:32):
At least we need to be engaged in living together.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
You feel like there should be a plan, like, hey,
I want to move in. This is the time we
should start living together because I think that we're getting
to that point. Once we live together, we should now
be getting engaged, like that should be a conversation.

Speaker 4 (12:46):
I feel like, yes, I think I don't mean no roommate.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
Yeah, I don't even want to plan. You would. A
man would a plan and loves us to be volcab.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
Well.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
I noticed with men, though, they do a lot.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
Of their own inner thinking and they don't really express
their plan. Yeah they don't, you know, like they can
have a plan like oh, I'm gonna let's move, let's
do this, but they don't always sit down and communicate
it and be like, hey, this is what we're doing.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Because men don't operate like that.

Speaker 4 (13:09):
I feel better, let me know, because Thomas Chicken.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
Like like this is the thing, like you all like
for men. I'm gonna speak for the men because we
just we kind of live in the moment. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying. It's not like I'm a comba
here and I got the plan laid out for you.
Here we go. After two years, we're gonna get engaged.
After three years, I'm married, and the four years were
gonna have the kids. We don't got the paper. We
don't got the paper for that. In the moment, we
just we don't even know we even love with you.

(13:35):
It's just we get slapped over the head. Damn I
love her, Damn how did that happen? You know what
I'm saying. It's just like you know, but I truly
feel like you don't Why is marriage even important? It
is marriage important? Is that important? Is that something you're saying,
that's what I want to do?

Speaker 1 (13:52):
Yeah, age, Yeah, I think when I was younger, I
definitely didn't care as much about marriage. As I get older,
I do because I also look at mirrors like it's
a diasneys.

Speaker 4 (14:02):
On it is.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
It should be about love, but also you need to
be with somebody where it makes sense on paper.

Speaker 5 (14:11):
And I say, I look at it like this because
my parents were married and my dad passed away, And
when my dad passed away, my mom was taking care
of because he had everything in order. And I think about, like,
if they wouldn't have been married, he could have had
cousins and everybody else that's coming from the woodworks fighting
her for what was hers.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
But they don't recognize.

Speaker 5 (14:30):
That unless that piece of paper says, hey, everything belongs
to her. So you see that a lot of times
somebody passes away and it's like, oh he survived by
and they be like, oh, this whole little friend, or.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Like, you know, you have this intimant relationship with a
man that you've been building for all these years and
then he dies and you like, no one is even
taking you serious. You're like, wait a minute, he's the person.
He talked to me about everything, he wanted to do,
everything he needed.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Me to put together.

Speaker 1 (15:02):
But then you get cut out completely and you get
and sometimes they have people that just want to take advantage.

Speaker 2 (15:07):
Damn, I really want to help and make.

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Sure this is straight, your kids are straight, these people
and I can't even do that. Yes, now, it's like,
no one's taken me serious, you know. So I think
that that's for That's how I look at it, and
if something was happening to me vice versa, because is
the most intimate person that knows you the most no
matter what, because you're with him every day, you tell
him everything. So I would want vice versas. Sometimes you

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should be able to be like, I know this is
what she would.

Speaker 4 (15:31):
Want, and I saw that.

Speaker 5 (15:32):
I think it's a union before God, It's a beautiful thing,
you know what I'm saying, Like it's something that you know,
a lot of people, some traditionally do it in a
church like this is a beautiful moment, and it's like,
I don't look at marriage as something scary or a
bad thing. I look at it like another step in
life that's, you know, a progressive Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:51):
I agree.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
I just feel like, if it's something that you want,
you just need to stand teen toes on it. Because
also I think a lot of women their biggest fear
is wasting all of that time. Like you're with the
man for five years, and y'all, don't you trying to
keep it cute and you're trying to play coy, so
you're not really bringing up the fact that you want
to get break it up. You're letting him do it

(16:13):
on his own time.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
I'm hoping that he will. And then now, y'all five
years and.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
Six years in seven years, and why he's still haven't
married you you tapping your foot like what's going on?
Then say, y'all end up breaking up. That's seven years
you spent with that person, and you really wanted marriage
or you really wanted kids, and it never happened.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
This is what I'll tell you. This and I started
to breaking. But like, I feel like after thirty three
he get one year.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
M I ain't at it.

Speaker 3 (16:39):
Living with each other though I live with each other
one year. You gotta make a decision, I feel. I
think that's I think that's what it should be.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
But do you think men respond well to ultimatum?

Speaker 3 (16:49):
So that's kind of like I gotta do something else.
Mm hm because like you just said, what five years
go by?

Speaker 2 (16:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (16:56):
Well six years go by. But check this out now,
say like you together three four or five years? Why
I jump because this this we we we were good
right now?

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Right?

Speaker 3 (17:07):
We're good? Is everything good?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
No, it's not. I mean everything. I want to be
married and I'm not even hell it's gonna be you.
It's good.

Speaker 1 (17:16):
But the woman's in her head every day, like am
I not worthy enough? Why does he want to marry?

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Can I have this?

Speaker 3 (17:22):
Like?

Speaker 1 (17:23):
God forbid? A man's been married before? Then you really like,
oh wait, hold on, wheah, yeah, he really ain't gonna
be in no exactly, So then a woman starts to
get in her head, so it's not good for a woman.
You Like my best friend her fiance. They met and
in the year he proposed to her on his birthday.

Speaker 2 (17:38):
I like that getting married in February.

Speaker 1 (17:40):
In Jamaica like that. I feel like when you're older,
a man just knows if he's rocking with you or not.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
But then she said this it's a business, right, So
say he treated like a business too, So say like,
all right, I'm gonna get us this house and put
it in your name. Boom, all right, I'm gonna do
some couple of things in your name. Is is there
a rush now? Is there still a rush when he's
starting to do stuff? Okay, my will your name? Like

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now what you can keep back a little bit because
you can kind of like, okay, you know what I
got to get. They did a couple of couple of
things that like if something happened, then I'm good. No,
it's a business.

Speaker 1 (18:19):
Though, because to be honest, I'm not putting that. I'm
not putting our house in my name for us, and
we're not married. Me I'm nervous, and now.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
We're broken up, and now I have the mortgage And.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Why do I have to do it like it's given?
It's giving you illegitimate? Yeah, got your ship together?

Speaker 2 (18:41):
Because why you got a whole of the family. Yeah,
because why I need to be.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
In my name because I just want to make sure
if something happened.

Speaker 2 (18:47):
Baby, you know, red flags will go up.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
That would be like both of our names could be
on the house if we decided to buy a home,
live together or something.

Speaker 5 (19:01):
Like a smart businessman is gonna make sure his name
is on the house.

Speaker 4 (19:07):
So if you're doing that, it's.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
Like what you up to If you just want it
to be in my name and you don't want to
have no parts legally, I'm gonna be questioning the fun
out of this issue, right, Good luck if you But
do you think, but do you think that the woman

(19:28):
the idea of like a man like proposing to you
and wanting to marry you and do this in front
of all these people, is that something to like.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
More than it just being a business. Do you feel like, damn,
I feel special like this? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (19:40):
You know, like I feel like women want that moment
because you want to feel like, wow, you really thought
about this.

Speaker 2 (19:45):
You got on your knee.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Isn't want to I think women also they love that,
like you know, that's something I think just like the
ideal of marriage, I mean, and I think men will
only go to those type of lenks when they really
love you and are choosing you. I think it's about
I feel like you love me enough that you're choosing
me out of all of these other options. Yeah, yeah,
and it's not I think a lot of women do

(20:06):
love the idea of just being like, I got.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
Thring, I'm married.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
A lot of women do love that idea. But then
there's some woman who really just love that man, and
you're like, I want this man to choose me and
want to do that, and I don't want to be
in a space where I'm like, are you going to
propose to me?

Speaker 2 (20:22):
I'm not doing that for me that with a man.

Speaker 1 (20:24):
I'm not doing Yeah, that's gonna blow me and it's
god not gonna feel authentic. Sce you to marry me
now you resent me later on. I'm not doing that,
Like if you don't want to do it.

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Speaker 2 (22:24):
So we're gonna talk about intimacy.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
Okay, I want you to rank these in order from
best to worst. Okay, morning sex, daytime sex, or night
time sex.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
Ooh so oh man, that's a good one. I think
I'm gonna rank morning number one.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
Morning. I agree with that. Why is morning number one?

Speaker 5 (22:51):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (22:51):
Because that's the start of your day. And you know,
I just feel like when you wake up and you
have that intimacy in the morning, it's just rolls throughout
your day. You feel good. You know, you just gotta positive,
you smiling, you just everything feel like it's just you're
gonna have a great day. Okay, So sets the tone

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for the day. You're like, all right, you know, we
got it in. It was cool, man. I'm feeling good,
getting the shower, get ready, I'm ready to take on
the day.

Speaker 4 (23:21):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
That's that that morning time be hidden and then so
like second is probably gonna be that that night because
it's a little you could be a little more romantic
at night. Nighttime is a vibe and right, you know,
and you just say you you you just got you
might throw some rosies or bath candles. Nighttime give you

(23:45):
all that type of feel. You know what I'm saying.
You can do so much at night, movie, dinner, wine, drinks,
lay down, back, massage, all of that. It just hits
at night, so I said. And you know, during the day,
it's just like I feel like a daytime hit is
like a quickie type situation, right, just like a quick one. Yeah,

(24:07):
you know what I'm saying. So that's how I'm a
rank up from one to three.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
Okay, I think I'm gonna do the same. Nothing is
better than like a morning sex.

Speaker 2 (24:15):
Rollover, Like ooh, roll over.

Speaker 1 (24:18):
Hit it, hit it, hit it, move man, ma'am. Then
you're cracking for the day, you know what I mean.
I love a morning sex and I love a wake
me up sex. Like I'm waking up to it is
a vibe like I'm waking up.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
Like oh okay, okay, cracking okay.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
And then for sure at nighttime, I'm gonna say a
nighttime like you said, it's like more sexy vibe. And
then yeah, daytime sex is like all right, let's get.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
It in real quick.

Speaker 1 (24:42):
But it could be cool if you just you know,
all right, like we both feeling it, let's get in.

Speaker 4 (24:47):
So okay.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
Another ranking shower sex, beach sex, car sex.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
Or bathroom sex.

Speaker 3 (25:02):
You're making this up.

Speaker 6 (25:03):
I'm making this up right now, break these which one
sex in the shower, sex in the on the beach,
sex in the bathroom real quick like boom, babies go
to the bathroom, you know, or sex in the car.

Speaker 3 (25:18):
I'm gonna say sex in the bathroom one.

Speaker 2 (25:21):
That's one.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (25:23):
Why is that one?

Speaker 3 (25:24):
Well? I feel like that's a situation where you got
the mirror right there. You know what I'm saying. If
ain't nobody around, say it's in your crib or your
apartment or wherever there's not a public bathroom, not on
how that that's not a public bathroom? Talking about like
in the crib or some that where you could just
like that mirror hit.

Speaker 2 (25:42):
Okay, so you can see the see.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Reactions from each other right there. Hands might be on
the window. You're like, oh, okay, okay, so that's one
for me for sure. And then you said shower will
be second. It's just something about the shower, you know,
that's just you know, you like that sud to get
the SuDS going. Watch your partner, y'all get it cracking.

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So I'll say the showers number two. And then you
said what the beach and what was the car? I'm
gonna say the beach or third? Uh I don't even
know if I've ever done that on the beach. Wait, yes, yes, yes, Uh,
I don't know. Maybe I can't remember if so. But

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like then I think, uh, I ain't damn cars.

Speaker 1 (26:30):
The cars uncomfort cars, cars, cars uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
I agree with that car like that for me.

Speaker 3 (26:38):
Because I'm tall, it's just too uncomfortable for me.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
I would say, probably a car is going to be
last for me.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
Shower is cool, but shower can get tricky, like shower
is to me overrated because y'all are trying to.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Get the position.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
And then if you're with someone that's like super taar
and you're not the same highlight.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
It'd be a.

Speaker 1 (27:04):
You be uncomfortable and then you can't even focus on
getting me cracking, like the shower is tough to get Yeah,
slippery is this is that you fall in you trying.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
To get it?

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Like I like it, but I think that it's just
like overrated sometimes because you know, like I'll still get
it cracking in the shower, but I need like it's
not my first one. I don't think I would probably
say bathroom was gonna be one, but like you said,
not a public because that mirror.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Okay, cool, that hits.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
And then maybe I don't feel like these are good options.
I'm gonna say, like beach if you're on a vacation
hitting and it's warm.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
Yeah, yeah, the moon out you warm out there. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. So that then shower than car,
That's what I'm going for. Period. I think that's the
cool one.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
I should have gave better options.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
You gotta be likezi, Okay, you give it options.

Speaker 4 (27:57):
That's the option.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
Yeah, I just came up with them. You give three, all.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Right, So let me see if you can rank feets. Okay, Uh,
bring these in the.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
Order, Okay, props like toys okay.

Speaker 7 (28:16):
Uh, a video okay, like making a movie okay, or
like bondage.

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Okay, you went all the way. I think you're gonna
be like.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
Like, okay, okay, so you said bondage is like what
like someone's tying you up and this and that? Right, yes, yes, okay,
I can get with that.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
I'm gonna say.

Speaker 1 (28:46):
Toys, bondage, and then what was the last one?

Speaker 2 (28:52):
Sex tape, sex tape. I'm gonna go to those three.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
Sex tape is third.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Sex tape is third, because sex tape is cool, but
sex tape has to be like you trust this person,
you love this person, and you know, guys know y'all
not ever going to be on some really going to
do it. Yeah you someone you love it?

Speaker 2 (29:09):
I think yeah, stuff like that. Yeah for sure. So
I mean sex tape is cool.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
I'm totally with that, Like you can watch your back
when you're not with the person.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
Like that's cool, you know.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
But I also feel like, okay, maybe yeah, maybe that's
my order.

Speaker 2 (29:26):
Sex toys you know those are cool? What is your order?

Speaker 3 (29:32):
Well, probably like toys and stuff, you know, you know,
like stuff that's like like you know, you get.

Speaker 8 (29:45):
The cream or the yeah or the feather feather stuff
like that that. I like that, And then I'll say
sex tape is too, And then I go to bondage
where it's it's like, oh.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
I got you up to the yeah, tied up to
the thing something like that.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
Bondage gets intense.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
It's not just tied up, it's given whips and chains.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know if I done that.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
I never did that before. I'm willing to try things,
but that's intense. But yeah, okay, those were cool. I
thought you were gonna have us with.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
Like Jacuzzie, uh in the movie theater. Have you ever
had sex in a movie theater?

Speaker 3 (30:29):
I don't think so, that's a lot. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
Okay, where's the craziest place you ever had sex?

Speaker 3 (30:39):
Yeah? I don't know. The plane all right? The plane,
I feel like that's normal.

Speaker 2 (30:47):
I never had text on the blame before. That's not normal.

Speaker 3 (30:50):
I mean you do like when you do like private jets.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
Yeah, then that makes a difference. You're talking about a
public plane in that.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
Back that would that would be crazy.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
That's blowing me. So I'm not doing it like.

Speaker 3 (31:04):
Place so used like damn what maybe like I don't know,
I don't know the plane.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
Okay, the plane is cool.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
I'm not man of that all right though, Yeah, okay, okay,
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Speaker 5 (31:41):
But to a point that what he made like, we
had this conversation with a Mary Coople that came on
our show before and he was like, do you want
to be a bride or do you want to be
a wife?

Speaker 1 (31:49):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (31:49):
Oh, because it's a big it's a lot of responsibility
to be a husband and to be a wife.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
That's a lot, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
They always say gets with someone who doesn't just want
a husband, but they want to be a wife, and
vice versa. Get was someone who doesn't just want a
wife and he also wants to be a husband, because
a lot of people just want the idea of like,
oh I'm a wife now, ring now, and they don't
even be happy, right, or they don't want all that
comes with you because she ain't always gonna be sweet.
But that's what you're signing up for when you decide

(32:19):
to marry somebody.

Speaker 2 (32:22):
Exactly of the poor. But once you marry me, honey,
I'm not divorcing. We're doing we will take a walk,
take a back, come back, and we're gonna talk about it.
We're gonna be all right.

Speaker 1 (32:35):
Like I'm not doing no divorce, not at this age
and not at this stage.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
If I like, I'm not doing that, like we're gonna be.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
That's the life you we were dying together, we dying,
you die.

Speaker 2 (32:49):
I'm going the next day like we were done for real.
I'm not playing that.

Speaker 8 (32:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
So what's the worst Probably several relationships, several I'm hearing
her talk and I'm hearing y'all you know, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah, never leaving the next man in marriage and
everything because you know y'all getting older and everything. So

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what's the worst way you found your man? Cheating? Or
has a man ever cheated on you?

Speaker 2 (33:21):
Now you know damn well right, no, cheated.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
You haven't even got to day the worst way once?
How did you find up? How did you inspect.

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Her gadget relationship. The thing is with my he has
a type. First of all, he has a type like me.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
Let me tell you say that I always know exactly.

Speaker 5 (33:44):
Who because he has the type of me. His baby mama,
the girl all look alike.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
They do have a similar yes, like.

Speaker 5 (33:54):
So, he didn't follow a lot of people at the time,
and this was so crazy. He actually left to be
at his house because he was because I came in
town last minute, and I used to always stay with
him when I would go home, and so he was like, hey, babe,
already had something playing. I gotta go do something, blah blah.

Speaker 4 (34:09):
Boss.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
I was like, okay, cool, I'll just be at the
house whatever.

Speaker 5 (34:12):
So I don't know what made me just like something
in my spirit that into which I was like, what
is he doing? Because if I'm in town, why you
didn't just push your back move something around, you know,
like you couldn't change your schedule whatever. So I went
to the people he was following and I was just
scrolling and I seen a brown.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
Skin, big body bitch that's sir.

Speaker 5 (34:37):
Was I mean, I didn't even have to click. I
clicked on her page. I went and looked at her story.

Speaker 4 (34:42):
Y'all.

Speaker 9 (34:43):
They was at the Dallas Mavericks game having a ball.

Speaker 2 (34:46):
He's the camera Like, then no afford him his nuts?

Speaker 4 (34:51):
Yes, she was like, because oh my.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
You a sloppy.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
But you know, isn't there something about going through a
following list and you just know which one always know?

Speaker 2 (35:03):
As a woman, I've seen memes about this.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
As a woman, you could just look and be like,
I feel like, I know, you just know certain things
or you know a certain vibe, like you know, and
men don't realize that we know what kind of girls
you like from like.

Speaker 9 (35:18):
We know it, Like my man, I know his type,
you know this never I know, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
I feel like for me, it was my friend telling
me because the guy that I was dating, he was
like in the same vicinity with somebody who knew the girl.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
I was cool.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
We and he called her and told her that he
was up there with a girl. But not to be
like on no, missy. She just like kind of letting
her know who was up yeah, like she was just
she was basically just like, oh yeah, he told me
so and so was up there, and so and so
was up there, and he was up there with this
per in that person and this is my friend, but

(36:02):
we wasn't really friends like that.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
She didn't know that was my man yet basically, and
she told me.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
Just on you know, who was up there at the place.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
And so I'm just like, what the fuck he's up.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
There with who?

Speaker 2 (36:18):
And I'm trying to keep it real cute because like
I said, she didn't know that. Yeah, So I'm like,
what the fuck? So I called him, not asked him
about it, and then he.

Speaker 1 (36:25):
Was like, oh no, that's crazy people be lying. I
wasn't up there with her.

Speaker 2 (36:29):
The fuck you were?

Speaker 4 (36:30):
My god, I went look at the.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
Girl's story if she was indeed in the same place
as him. Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, no, Now okay,
have y'all ever seen somebody you know, Like, let's say
you have a homegirl, she ain't your best friend, but
you like know her man and he's out on a
day with someone else.

Speaker 2 (36:47):
What are you doing? That's a situation because I just
feel like stuff like that just.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
Get real touch and they start to blame. They start
to blame you, and a like, hold on, girl, you
was lying. That's why it's hard. But what if it's
your best friend, what you're doing? No if it's my
best friend, I'm telling you that I've seen your.

Speaker 4 (37:12):
Zoom.

Speaker 2 (37:13):
Yeah, I want to know that. I would walk up
to the table. Hey yeah, yeah, you're like, hey, what
you're doing there is this time.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
Like, well, that's a best that's only the best, the
best friend certain women.

Speaker 2 (37:33):
My man, he can't do no Wronger, you don't even
know what we got going on. I was like, yeah,
I don't be getting involved.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
If I see something, you can't look from afar and
go tell because you don't know what that is.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
Yeah. I will say that though, because I was going
to say my mom told me this story about how
when her and my dad first started dating. My mom
had four brothers. So one of her brothers, he was
in the navy, and like when he would go away,
she would drive his car, and so one day she
ended up picking him up from the airport when he
got back.

Speaker 2 (38:06):
And I guess somebody that was cool with my dad seeing.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Her picking from the airport and then called my dad
and was like, oh, yeah, I seen your girl at
the airport picking up this men and they got hugging
and X, Y and Z, and then coming to find
out it was my uncle. But my dad trusts my mom,
so he believes.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
You have to trust because people will put things.

Speaker 3 (38:27):
In your ear. You have to know exactly what it
really is.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
I don't care what it is.

Speaker 9 (38:34):
I'm just letting you know context.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
When it's my best friend, I'm just letting you know.
This is who he's with. Okay, that's his sister.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
Cool.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Yeah, it's not gonna be no beef.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
That's why you only do that with your best.

Speaker 3 (38:50):
No matter if it's like, yeah, that's your best friend,
but like your best friend could be he over here,
arm around this girl walking through her. He lived, but
this is his cousin. But the family his family.

Speaker 5 (39:01):
But also if that's his if that's your best friend
and that's her, man, she'll already know, Oh he outside
with such and such, Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (39:09):
You don't know if I tell her.

Speaker 4 (39:11):
Like, hey, girl, I seen your dude. He was outside.
Oh he was with X y Z. Because you know
where he was at.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
That's why y'all gotta stop lying exactly.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
And your best friend's not gonna be mad at you
because it's your best friend.

Speaker 2 (39:22):
Canna, Yeah he's out. Actually he's out with his cousin.

Speaker 3 (39:25):
That's man like I said, like a man, we're not
gonna tell you every step of the way. We ain't
gonna tell you I'm out with x y z's x
y z zz like five of us. We're gonna say,
we're gonna go a little bit. Yeah up. But it's
like you in a section. It's like a couple of girls,

(39:47):
like this is where y'all. This is why y'all get y'all,
y'all rolling with this. Say your man he out with
his boys. It's three of the boys. They got a
section at the club, and it's like four girls in
a section.

Speaker 2 (40:01):
Without me at the crib while he out with a.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
Bunch of He not with the girls, his boys.

Speaker 4 (40:11):
His boys. I'm not gonna lie. Stuff like that doesn't
bother me.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
Like I get it, it doesn't bother me.

Speaker 4 (40:17):
I mean, think about it.

Speaker 5 (40:17):
If your man is outside, they don't want to be
in the sexual with a bunch of niggas. It's like,
it's it's it's if it's innocent, like women are around
y'all drinking having fun, that's cool. But as long as
it stops right there nothing. I don't want a woman
to ever feel like oh yeah, because a lot of
times it ain't even about him.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
It's about how I was with right a man last night.
He was all in my face because you.

Speaker 1 (40:42):
And the men don't realize that women are calculated, and
they do that they purpose, they know, and they'll literally
go and and then that's how you get caught up
because the next day they were like girl, And even
if you weren't doing anything like as a man, you
can never be too friendly.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
You can't because a woman's gonna flip back.

Speaker 1 (41:04):
He was on me, he was trying to flirt with me,
and then everyone else is gonna interpret it as that.
So now she going around talking about your man is flirting.
And even if it's not the truth and she forgives you,
it still just feels it. Don't feel a woman like
I'm not feeling you know what I'm saying, Like you
ain't What is your example of a man I'm being
too friendly?

Speaker 2 (41:22):
Like where's you cross the line? I don't know, because
you know, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
I'm a little relax when he comes to that, Like
I'm a little relax when he comes because I feel
like my ex he was real flirty. Yeah, but people
also tell me I'm really flirty too. And I think
people will think that I'm flirting with them and I'm
not even trying.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
To just because of my Yeah, it's just because of
my energy and stuff.

Speaker 1 (41:47):
So and he he knows that and he giddy, and
it's the same with me. You So I feel like
it doesn't really bother me sometimes, whereas other women that
I'm friends with they would shut that shit down when
they feel like man is being too flirty or too friendly.
I don't really mind it because I feel like it
goes with knowing your men. You know, the man I
was with, that's where it stopped.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
He gonna be friendly.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
But yeah, it just depends on the circumstance in my opinion,
and who's around and what's like, don't you can't just
be making me look and feel That's where I drop
the live. But like I also agree where it's like
you're gonna say stuff, you're gonna do stuff, you're gonna live. Yeah,
like that's just a part of life, you know, Like

(42:31):
you can't be too uptight with a man. I agree,
And I'm just not an already jealous person, like I
think that first of all, it's just be fine. They're
looking good, so yes, you know, what I mean, So
I don't expect my man to not look I saw
something online the other day and this lady was basically

(42:54):
saying like she don't want her man looking at anybody.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
She don't want him looking at other women looking at that.

Speaker 1 (43:00):
Crazy because I heard a girl tell me. She was like,
my man can't be around like pretty girls. I don't
allow him crazy. First of all, girl, you can't control
a man. He's gonna see pretty women.

Speaker 2 (43:11):
You're not the most beautiful woman in the world.

Speaker 4 (43:12):
Sorry, none of us are.

Speaker 1 (43:13):
There's always gonna be someone prettier, better body, this and that,
just like there's gonna be a.

Speaker 2 (43:19):
Finer man of everything.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
So you have to be secur into your own ship
like I can't. I don't like to control and micro
manage that. Miserable I'm gonna be stressed out.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
I can't control that. You be around a matter of fact,
be around the baddest bitches in the world and still
choose me, be the baddest bitches and be able to
be like I'm cool, Like that's what I want. You
know what I'm saying, Like, be around that and then
still choose me. Then I'm cracking, like you hit the

(43:53):
best version of your partner when you let people be
I have to let that nigga disrespect you. What I mean,
he should be trying to holler at no women or
inappropriate while you're around and slipping you seeing it and
you're just being cool with it.

Speaker 2 (44:06):
But if he if he like looking, I don't know.
I just don't care about that.

Speaker 3 (44:10):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (44:12):
I don't want nobody breaking the neck to look at
nobody that's gonna.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Blow like yeah, but it's a man, Like I'm with
a man. He's like, oh, you know, a pretty girl
like you. I don't care. I'm like whatever, But if
you then I'm like, this is crazy.

Speaker 1 (44:29):
Now could be much Yeah, now trying to get cuto.

Speaker 5 (44:32):
Between somebody being flirty and somebody being thirsty.

Speaker 4 (44:35):
I don't want no thirsty.

Speaker 3 (44:38):
So y'all walking that's cool?

Speaker 4 (44:47):
Yeah, yeah, no, that's too much like this. The second time,
he was like.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
We know how to do it though, because a dude
a dude, we'd be like.

Speaker 4 (45:11):
Now we in Atlanta too, So it's a lot of that.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
I'm like, god, damn, look at women all the time.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
And I was like, okay, she's hit and got a
little like I'm very friendly. I love people be chopping
like so I get it, and I'll even be like, oh,
look look at that, look at it. Do stuff like that,
but don't break no neck. Yeah, because now you're taking
it too far.

Speaker 2 (45:35):
And now she's already thinking like her. Because you know
what I hate.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
As a woman when I'm out and I see a
girl in her man and he's staring me down, so
embarrassing for the girl, and it's like, wow, I would
never want.

Speaker 2 (45:48):
My man to do.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
I want to feel crazy because I'm looking at him
looking at me.

Speaker 2 (45:53):
No, you feel someone.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
You feel, you feel, you feel it's very uncomb and
then you see it and it's like you with a
whole woman and you just staring down, and then you
feel stupid for her like a bear's like damn, I
get seconded barrels from.

Speaker 2 (46:07):
The girl and I hate that and I don't want that.
Don't we women like that?

Speaker 3 (46:12):
One up?

Speaker 1 (46:14):
He was, but why are you staring crazy? Acknowledging that
she fine, but stary?

Speaker 4 (46:24):
You know what's crazy.

Speaker 5 (46:25):
My friend, one of my closest friends, told me a story.
She was on vacation with the man she was dating
at the time. They went to like Mexico or something.
They're at a resort. They're like hugged up in the
pool kissing, and I think he had eventually got up
went to the bathroom or something. A girl was like, Hey,
I just don't to let you know your man is
winking at me, and like she was like she had

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to tell her.

Speaker 4 (46:48):
She was like, they ruined the trip? What are you doing?

Speaker 5 (46:51):
Literally, while they're hugging, he was looking at another girl
and winking at house, staring at Yes, I swear to god,
that is crazy, That's what I'm saying. So it's just like, yeah,
you gotta draw that line somewhere, like the line, because
it's like, yeah, a look is a look. But sometimes
when you know, when when somebody's staring you down.

Speaker 4 (47:13):
Show looking at.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
You know, a break neck things, it's like you're doing
too much?

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Do y'all?

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Would y'all bring a third into your thing, into your relationship.

Speaker 2 (47:22):
Like just for a night or something.

Speaker 4 (47:24):
I don't like.

Speaker 1 (47:27):
And so see, when I was younger, I used to
like I had a girlfriend before.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Okay, So I don't know, I've.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
Been saying once I get married, and me and my
ex have like talked about this before, Like I don't know,
you might be open to it, maybe like a little
girlfriend when I get older. I don't know, Like so
when an extra girlfriend for both of y'all, Yeah, okay,
yeah yeah, because.

Speaker 3 (47:51):
It's clear that you still have something.

Speaker 2 (47:53):
Oh wow. Look, look, I think I.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
Feel like we just or not in alignment with the
things that we wanted currently.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
Which is what? Which is? Like where the fuck is
the ring nigga?

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Okay, That's just how I feel at this point when
it comes to me and him, and I feel like,
you know, he is marriage minded, he wants to get
married all of those things, but I think he has
been like JD, like most men, in a.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
Lot of previous relationships and stuff.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
So I just think he's apprehensive and he's really big too.
On he already has a kid, so he doesn't want
to have another kid without being married first because he's
he like, I don't want to be no two time
baby daddy. So I'm like, okay, I respect it. So
we're the ring men because I'm also ready to hop
babies old period.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
So we just you know, not in a line.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
So when you give him an ultimatum like we're gonna
be getting married and we're not gonna be together.

Speaker 2 (48:53):
Oh well, I don't feel like I gave him anutimatum.

Speaker 1 (48:55):
But that's why we're broken up because we're just not
on the same page. And I feel like you knows
where we're staying with it.

Speaker 3 (49:03):
So I feel like, for you, she built something right here.
And when you build something with somebody and you have
a history and it's like you're comfortable, and it's like, damn,
I don't want to tear it all down and start
all the way over, and then that's a whole nother process.
That's a whole another five years for something else, and

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it's like you want it to work. It's just like
but you're just not sure. But then it's like, damn
if I start something new and start building somewhere else,
damn to start the rebuild is a process.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
But but do you really feel like you should stay
for that reason? Because then you do have situations too
where women get out of long term relationships and they
end up meeting the love of their life and get
engaged in like a year, like she has a whole
baby daddy, he's this that that she left him. It
was like, I'm not dating whatever went on one day

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engaged because get that.

Speaker 3 (50:00):
The thing is when you when you break up with somebody,
you have that initial of like I need to be
with somebody. When you with somebody like you make a mistake,
you can make a quick mistake. Yeah you know what
I'm saying. Because you resented that person now and now
you're looking for something quick. Then I'm oh, I got
I found somebody quick.

Speaker 2 (50:16):
Yeah, but that's not always.

Speaker 3 (50:21):
A lot of people do that, but no, a lot
of people that.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
But people she like took a break for like a
year in general, and then she literally was like, I'm
so comfortable alone. I don't even want to date, Like
I don't want to I don't even care to be
with nobody. And then boom it hit her in the
face type thing, you know, because you do hear those
stories about women and then boom they're with the next man.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
It's like, Wow, you're doing all of this, you're ready
to marry, you're not playing games with me or whatever.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (50:46):
I don't know with men, and I don't know how
much time you let a man slide with stuff. If
you want something he's not willing to give it to you,
then do you let it go?

Speaker 2 (50:56):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (50:57):
And I think that's where in life if you never
really know if you're making the right decision. Yeah, you know,
And I think that's sometimes the scary part about life.
You never really know, like, Okay, is this the right
decision that I'm making. I hope it is, because then
you also, on the other side, have women who leave
relationships and then they don't never find nobody else.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Yeah, that's true. I doubt that's gonna be your situation.
I thank you.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I feel like women feel that way, and I'm like
me and my homegirl say that.

Speaker 2 (51:25):
I'm like, look at your track record. How long have
you ever been single? In life?

Speaker 4 (51:29):
You long?

Speaker 2 (51:31):
Like you you are gonna get a new man outside
of that.

Speaker 4 (51:35):
Single is not scary. No, it's not like a bad thing.

Speaker 5 (51:38):
Like I really enjoy, you know, the freedom that I
have of like living alone, living alone sometimes, and so
it's like being alone is not scary and it's not like,
oh my gosh, the most horrible thing ever either. So
I feel like it's a win win either way. If
I find my husband and we have kids and live
happily ever after, that's cool. But if I'm by myself,
I'm cool with that too, you know.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
Be okay with that.

Speaker 2 (52:01):
Yeah, I don't know that I will be okay with it.

Speaker 4 (52:04):
I think it's because I have a community.

Speaker 2 (52:06):
Like life is not meant to be lived alone.

Speaker 5 (52:08):
But I'm not alone though, like for me, like I
have such a strong community, Like me and my sister
are like extremely close.

Speaker 4 (52:14):
I have my nephews, I have my friends. Alone, yeah,
I have, you know.

Speaker 2 (52:19):
But it's nothing.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
It's different than having one person and knowing like you
have that one person you call on.

Speaker 2 (52:26):
But I agree with you.

Speaker 4 (52:27):
Community is important.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
People always make me feeling like being alone is such
like a They make it like a sickness, like, oh,
you're single, Yeah, what's wrong with her?

Speaker 2 (52:39):
They always say that. It's like, what's wrong with y'all?
It's the real question. That's why we don't want to
deal with y'all like that. Because it's easy.

Speaker 1 (52:46):
People think, oh, it's so hard to get a man.
You can get a man.

Speaker 2 (52:49):
I just don't want to be alone. You can get
a man, and.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
This is the easiest thing to get. It's getting a
quality man. Yeah, yeah, getting a good man.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
It's they're a statistic that says.

Speaker 1 (53:02):
Women want women are more attracted to men who are
taken and men are less attracted to women who are taken,
so like when a woman is knowingly taken less men,
which I actually can feel that, Like if you're knowingly
public or you know whatever, less men get at you.

Speaker 2 (53:19):
I need to shut up there, I'm saying, hut up.
They say that, but.

Speaker 1 (53:30):
Less men honestly, Like even Cardi b said that when
she was married, yeah, no, men were getting they were cool, like,
oh hi, she wasn't getting men at her like that.
But when men are married or men are taking, women
want them more because they're like, oh, you can be
a husband, you can be a boyfriend. I might be
cutter than her, I might be able to take her. Man,

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why he be my boyfriend. He has the ability to
be a husband and a boyfriend and a relationship person.
So it makes them to a lot of women more attracted.

Speaker 5 (53:59):
I think there's a lot of truth of that too,
because I think it's so interesting all the time when
a woman has a child with the man they were together,
then they break up, and then she ended up being
the side bitch to her baby daddy.

Speaker 2 (54:09):
Oh yes, because yeah, why you go from being the
main to the side girl.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
Yeah, women go from being the main to the side all.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
The time, So the baby mama becomes the side.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
Yeah, wanted to get a new girl or whatever, and
then yeah, you was once the girlfriend. Do you feel
like if your man cheated on you with his baby mom?
Is that like, would you get back with him for that? No,
that's the cheat. You can't do because I feel like
you still have feelings.

Speaker 2 (54:38):
Yeah, yeah, y'all have a kidding.

Speaker 1 (54:39):
This is someone you're gonna have to deal with forever,
So you can't just be like, I'm gonna cut her.

Speaker 2 (54:43):
Off, baby, I'm never gonna talk to her again. No,
I don't deal with that.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
That's the one line where it's like, now, would you
take a man back if he cheated?

Speaker 4 (54:51):
No? Not now? Yeah. I used to like kind of
not care, but I.

Speaker 3 (54:55):
Think to cheat.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
So the game said that there's levels that she okay,
so let's talk about it. So, you know, some people
say they're cheating to them. Is anything that you do
that you can't tell your partner? Okay, I'd be more
self than like he's physical.

Speaker 5 (55:12):
Yeah, for me, emotional to me, cheating is actually worse.

Speaker 2 (55:18):
It's worse.

Speaker 1 (55:19):
But usually if it's an emotional connection, they fucking yeah,
what if? What if It's like your man is sending
somebody money and helping them with.

Speaker 2 (55:28):
Stuff and yeah, yeah they hit worse.

Speaker 1 (55:34):
That's worse than you paying this bitch bill if you
like her or you or what if a girl hit
him up like, hey, I really need help my car
something something, Can you send me some money?

Speaker 4 (55:45):
I'm cool?

Speaker 3 (55:46):
And they have sex, but they never had nothing sexual.

Speaker 2 (55:48):
No, but you're about to have sex time you definitely warm.

Speaker 1 (55:57):
Even if y'all have sex once or twice, she's hitting
you up. What if your man has a home girl
that he's that he sends money.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
He is that okay, a homegirl that he's sending money
to and they're not Where is her? Yeah, where's her job?

Speaker 3 (56:13):
Sticks economy?

Speaker 1 (56:15):
If you only have one time cool, I'm not appolsed
to like my man helping one of his friends once
but sending her money consistently.

Speaker 2 (56:23):
That a man sending a woman money is blowing me.

Speaker 1 (56:28):
And if you know, unless it's your family members like that,
what like sitting here having.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
Sex with you and doing this and doing that?

Speaker 1 (56:37):
What but like a cat thing? Like what if she
needs two hundred dollars? Still pay there saying like is
there a cat? There a cat be hitting a man
who's single and available to be giving you money and
not someone else's man. That's like, who's building a life
in an empire? Like it's not his responsibility to take
care of another woman. Like if it's the mother of
his children, that's different. Yes, definitely, Like, yeah, that's different.

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You just send your baby my money and for stuff.
I don't think that that's a problem. But just like
a home girl.

Speaker 5 (57:09):
Yeah, and I realized what cheating too. I used to
be like, oh, I can get over it. You don't
like for me personally, like I used to be like
in relationships and like he would cheat or something and
do something. I'm like, oh my gosh, I forgive him.
We're gonna move on from this. And even if that
we did move on and he becomes the perfect guy
and he changes, it's still in the back of my

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head and I'm just like, you know what, I don't
think I can forgive this. I think this is actually
a deal breaker for me.

Speaker 1 (57:34):
Are you a person that bring it up though, Like
you can't get over it, and then you bring it
up like when y'all having other arguments.

Speaker 5 (57:41):
Yeah, like in my last situation, Yeah, that it happened
because I realized I'm not over this, Like I can't
get over it and I won't get over it, you
know what I'm saying. Now, I've had situations like with
somebody I'm dealing with, like we're on and off, and
like we were off and they were like maybe dealing
with somebody and stuff like that is different. Like if
we had an off period and you were dealing with

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somebody else, like it's gonna hurt my feelings that make
me mad, but you didn't cheat on me, because cheating
is just different.

Speaker 4 (58:08):
I don't know, it just hits me different.

Speaker 2 (58:10):
Do you have levels of cheating though? Like what is it?

Speaker 3 (58:12):
Like?

Speaker 1 (58:12):
What is like if a man is like, oh, you know,
he went out, let's say his homegirls in town.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
He went to go get drinks with her, but he
didn't tell you.

Speaker 5 (58:20):
Like if that's your homegirl, why are you not telling
me anything that you do behind my back? I wouldn't
necessarily categorize it as cheating, but you're being You're being dishonest.
There's no trust there, you know what I'm saying. You
don't trust me not to not trip. I don't trust
you to be honest. So it's like, what are we
doing here, So anything that you do behind my back,

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that you're being sneaky about it is dishonesty.

Speaker 4 (58:43):
So I just I can't do this cheating.

Speaker 3 (58:46):
Like he go to the club with his boys, he
gets drinks, so he just me the girl. You pull
up to the club and you walk in. There you
see and it's a girl on his lap as soon
as you soon as he sees you, he pushed her off.

Speaker 4 (59:02):
Yeah, what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (59:06):
Club club?

Speaker 2 (59:08):
Not a stripper?

Speaker 3 (59:11):
This happen though, he just met the girl. I've seen
this happening.

Speaker 1 (59:14):
You friendly talking about earlier she walked, but she walked
in he thought, he exactly.

Speaker 2 (59:25):
If he pushed her. Now I'm really suspant. She's why
are you pushing up? But let me tell you something
five minutes ago he saw you. If he didn't push her,
is that cheating a woman? It's cheated.

Speaker 5 (59:38):
Yeah, because you yeah, you know why you feel like
friendly as hell?

Speaker 3 (59:43):
Because guess what now you have a conversation like, no,
we just met she right there, she's like.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
Walked even more reason why she's sitting on your legs?

Speaker 2 (59:52):
We just mad.

Speaker 3 (59:52):
We was just vibe. There was no other seats, but
never another seat.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
If I never walked in the club.

Speaker 5 (59:58):
Was you gonna come home and tell me happened? Like, Man,
I was at the club and this girl sat on
my lap.

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
We're not gonna tell you that exactly. But why would
we need to tell her? Why we want to start
an argument?

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
Because I like to fight. You want to?

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
Okay, let's answer this question. If you walk in the
club and your girl has a man and she's I mean,
she's sitting on a man's lap.

Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
If I walk in and my girl is sitting on
the dude lap, I'm good.

Speaker 1 (01:00:24):
But I can't that about that man smiling in the
girl's slaves flirted. Moment a man even comes talk to
you for two seconds, they be like, but what'll talk about?

Speaker 2 (01:00:38):
Yeah, but you could be key ken.

Speaker 4 (01:00:40):
Like man.

Speaker 3 (01:00:42):
Girl sitting on somebody lap?

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
You finished out?

Speaker 3 (01:00:45):
No, no, no, look, if I see it, I'm not
even gonna approach her. I'm gonna look and be like,
oh that's what she All right, I'm gonna go play
it up all over here, and I might go start
talking to something else, like all right, now I'm gonna
start flirting right here. Now, all right, I'm about do
it right here. I want to walk over here, I'm like,
come come here real quick, Hey, how you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:01:09):
Like the end of the relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
But get what he had every excuse for when the
girl was on his head. But this is the thing, right,
is what I saw saying. Let me ask you this,
are you leaving a man?

Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
You see that?

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
So let's say you come in to the club, the
girl is sitting I was like rubbing his head.

Speaker 5 (01:01:27):
And it's not about the actions, about how it makes
me feel and what every time.

Speaker 4 (01:01:31):
Now every time you step out.

Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
On his head Now you're thinking every topic every time.

Speaker 5 (01:01:37):
That is miserable. I don't want to every time you
step out the house. I don't want to be like, damn,
I wonder what he's doing. That's not fun. So the
actual action of it is the bigger picture, and it's
the after effects of what what you did?

Speaker 2 (01:01:50):

Speaker 3 (01:01:51):
But you can get over No I can't. Now here's
another scenario. Scenario. So that's not cool. But it's cool.
If you walk into the strip club and she's working
on them.

Speaker 2 (01:02:04):
Yeah, it's working. We all love the strip. They do
not want that niggas in there. They do not.

Speaker 1 (01:02:11):
Sometimes they actually do. But I feel like this is
appropriate setting to do that in the club and also
to know, like you know, I'm thinking, like this is
a strip club. You come here to do that. You
know what to expect. And I like, my man going
to the strip club and nobody.

Speaker 3 (01:02:32):
Right there getting all rock right there getting.

Speaker 4 (01:02:37):
I just feel like dancing, you're going happy.

Speaker 3 (01:02:44):
That's gonna happen. Yeah, that's not look in the back room,
in the back back room.

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
You just get the probably not necessarily get out there
to many people.

Speaker 4 (01:03:05):
Private dance is crazy to horny.

Speaker 3 (01:03:10):
Head.

Speaker 2 (01:03:11):
Why that won me from the back you want me
it's crazy because I just came to the realization.

Speaker 1 (01:03:18):
There was a viral mean like guy and he was
like when guys tell me to go to strip club,
They're like, oh, you want to go get hard in
the club together.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
And I realized, like that you don't walk up to
the mar like water wings. Just let me get that
lemon pepper. No, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
I was so young to not realize, like because I'm
not getting like turned off, but I'm not you know whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
But I'm like thinking, like, y'all are just hard, all
all standing around together, just.

Speaker 3 (01:03:49):
Coming here for.

Speaker 1 (01:03:53):
Y'all live in Atlanta, right, So I used to live
in Atlanta, honey, and my homegirls worked at Onyx, and
she was cracking. Okay, that's ten years ago. But them
strip clubs is no joking Atlanta. Seen them eating everything. Boys,
I'm like, oh, y'all are having a porno.

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
Shoot, you're scary but naked. They just be having it
if walking around hitting it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Yeah, But I mean if you go to strip of Atlanta,
is what's more cracking Atlanta Houston for the strip.

Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
I've never been in Houston strip.

Speaker 5 (01:04:24):
To me, I'm biased because I worked at one of
the really popular strip clubs for a very long time
and now we go back.

Speaker 4 (01:04:31):
We always go to Area twenty nine. We always from Area.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
We love Area twenty nine. It's a good time. But
to me, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 1 (01:04:37):
Atlanta strip clubs be more popping because the girls out
there be really dancing. Yeah, professionals, They be climbing the polls,
be doing the tricks. The Houston girls they just fine
and they fine, they know they fine. They're gonna do
a little shake.

Speaker 2 (01:04:59):
Okay. So before we wrap up, ya, Paul has some
viral clips and I want to know what y'all think.
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 5 (01:05:06):
I was very scared to come here today. I was
because I was like, oh my god, he's gonna say
something crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:05:14):
Who comes. It's always like you're so nice and you're
so cool talking crazy?

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
Yeah, crazy scared other people.

Speaker 2 (01:05:24):
He don't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:25):
So he'd said cheat to see if you love your
you have to cheat on the woman to see if
she loves you.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
What do y'all think of this?

Speaker 3 (01:05:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:05:33):
Why is that to go to?

Speaker 9 (01:05:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
I don't have to struggle for love, I think, And
I think that's a big misconception.

Speaker 1 (01:05:40):
People think that they have to go through a lot
with the men or a lot with the woman for
y'all to be compatible or to make sure that y'all
supposed to be able to make it work.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
Like I feel like, why can't he just be smooth
seling from day one?

Speaker 5 (01:05:53):
But I'll say this to the point because I think
sometimes you do have to go through things to make
it work, right, Yeah, but have to be cheating like
I have. Like I had a situation where like his
grandmother died and it's like, you know, do you how
do you suffer? You got to see how somebody goes
through something, you know, maybe something that's happened with you

(01:06:14):
financially and you're going through a season, or maybe I'm
going through a season, Like we can go through things.

Speaker 4 (01:06:18):
You ain't gotta go fuck another bitch, you see it?

Speaker 2 (01:06:20):
Let me see how exactly.

Speaker 4 (01:06:23):
No, there's a lot of.

Speaker 5 (01:06:23):
Things that can happen in life that can test our
relationship outside of cheating to see if we can weather
the storm.

Speaker 3 (01:06:30):
I'm not saying like initially like hey, all right, you
know what, I'm gonna go see let her catch me
and let's see let me test her wheel. I ain't
initially saying that, But I know, guys, that's found out
because like I'm talking about like people in my position,
motherfuckers got a hell of money. That's meaning, that's that's
already known. Say like shit, he'd already got a hundred million. Now,

(01:06:52):
I mean you how I know that? You know you
ain't like the rest of right, you know what I'm saying,
you chasing checks here or something. So what I gotta
do to know this?

Speaker 2 (01:07:02):
Well?

Speaker 5 (01:07:02):
How do you?

Speaker 3 (01:07:03):
How do I find out? And what I'm I'm dumb.
I'm dumb as hell because I'm just I'm just like
girls whatever, I'm just like, oh she fine, damn, she
got a good personality. Okay, let's let's be my girl. Yeah,
I'm dumb motherfuckers out here, So how do I know
for show that she ain't about to just try to

(01:07:23):
get me for my ship?

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
I don't think you really know. I think you have
to give it time and really get to know the
person in bent them properly. I think a lot of
the time men and women just fall ahead over heels
really early, and you don't really know this person.

Speaker 2 (01:07:36):
You know the representatives. You have to give it time.
Time tells all.

Speaker 1 (01:07:41):
People can only keep up a facade for so long, right,
first few months?

Speaker 2 (01:07:45):
Yeah, a year in you won't see the real them.

Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
Yeah, they say, my six months theresentative for two like
and like you've said before, they actually do be knowing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:57):
They just decide, like I'm gonna say, because she could
with sex schools, You're ready, I can take they be
knowing for real.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
After a while they're like, yeah, she ain't, but you
already interviewed that you can deal with it. You know
she's not gonna really be with you, rolling with you,
you die. She's gonna be taking that money and smiling
and laughing to the bank. But you know when a
woman is genuine, who she hangs around, how she operates,
the real friends she got, the people she talked to
like you know, you know, because and then it's like yeah,

(01:08:26):
women going yeah that truly do believe and.

Speaker 4 (01:08:29):
Gives you a lot of times.

Speaker 5 (01:08:30):
These man gets you a woman that got something to lose,
They got her own business, they got her own things
going on outside of you.

Speaker 4 (01:08:37):

Speaker 5 (01:08:37):
When you have a woman who has something to lose
and things going on, it's just like, yeah, it's cool
that you have money, it's a plus, but it's not
why she's here. Because she got her own going on.

Speaker 1 (01:08:48):
She knows how to run a business. She knows how
to talk to you, but she knows how to do things.
She's adding value to your life exactly wants to you
know what I mean. She's not just like, oh, spend
this money. Also someone will be like no, don't spend
that baby. If this do this like you peep that yo,
she really rock with you, Like no, don't don't get
it twisted.

Speaker 2 (01:09:05):
Like there's other ways. Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:09:14):
So Paul also says that he feels like women overseas
are better to be in a relationship with.

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
He didn't say what I'm semming it up to be
in a relationship with.

Speaker 1 (01:09:23):
They're just more submissive. They want a family, they want
to do like the Passport.

Speaker 2 (01:09:27):
So I was going to say, you support the passport.

Speaker 3 (01:09:29):
I never I don't even know who the Passport boys are.
She brought that up, and that's my first time ever
hearing it. Really. I said that the women overseas have
more traditional family values than.

Speaker 5 (01:09:42):
Americanoen okay, and you know what, I'm not going to say,
you're wrong. But also on the other side of that,
the men are more traditional as well. So they're doing
that because they're raised in the householder. It's like I'm
taking care of the household. I'm being a man, I'm
being a leader. We were forced to be independent, so yeah,
there's no men in the house, so yeah, I have

(01:10:04):
to pay the bills. I have to be strong, I
have to be I'm gonna be a more militant and
a little more argumentative because this is how I run
my house.

Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Because ain't no man in here. Y'all be gonna get
some milk, y'all never come back.

Speaker 5 (01:10:13):
So it's like the society and the culture is a
lot different here. Because we were forced to be the
man of the house, an independent. So yeah, those women
are going to able to be more submissive and listen
more because they whole family in the house. Literally, they
raised their family, the grandmother in the house, the grandfather,
everybody in the house together.

Speaker 2 (01:10:34):
They got help.

Speaker 1 (01:10:35):
And the men are running the bills and this and that,
and the women they have a billy and they already
see that that's what it is.

Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Oh, this is what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:10:43):
Okay, And guess what. The men don't wait three years
to marry you. For you, they're gonna be like, we're
having a family.

Speaker 2 (01:10:48):
We're getting.

Speaker 1 (01:10:51):
Exactly exactly. But when them oversees women come over here,
they got an agenda. Baby, that's the difference, because.

Speaker 2 (01:10:58):
I've seen that they come over here. Baby, they're doing
the same thing everybody else. And that's all you take me.
Oh you this, Oh yeah, they coming over here for
a reason.

Speaker 3 (01:11:11):
Period.

Speaker 4 (01:11:12):
Milania did it too good?

Speaker 2 (01:11:14):
She said, I mean to be the first lady. That
pussy guy some trouble how to speak English. Okay, this
has been fun. This is so fun. We're gonna wrap

(01:11:34):
up with a little segment.

Speaker 1 (01:11:35):
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(01:11:56):
men knew about women? Like what do you and what
do you wish they did less?

Speaker 2 (01:12:01):
Like I want them to know more of them?

Speaker 3 (01:12:04):
Like for me, she asked me this, what do I
want more from one?

Speaker 1 (01:12:07):
What?

Speaker 3 (01:12:08):
Like let's stop talking some god.

Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
Damn much, I know, And that's a tough one for us.

Speaker 5 (01:12:18):
I tweeted one time and then went viral because like
I was at dinner with my man. I was trying
to be like romance and I was like, babe, like
what's your fantasy?

Speaker 4 (01:12:26):
Like what do you want me to do?

Speaker 3 (01:12:27):
He was like.

Speaker 2 (01:12:32):
Me personality?

Speaker 9 (01:12:37):
We laughing.

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
To be quiet, but it's like sometimes what do you
just supposed to sit there you all day?

Speaker 3 (01:12:46):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 4 (01:12:47):
You know, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:12:48):
I think that sometimes we think that we're coming up
with a solution or we think we're helping, and then
they be looking at it like you being combative, but
we're not trying to be combat if we really think
we're helping the situation.

Speaker 2 (01:12:59):
That's what it's like.

Speaker 1 (01:13:01):
You always has to question it, but it's like I'm
not questioning, I'm just thinking, like can I also come
up with a different solution or bring this to your
attention because sometimes you don't remember this, like and then
they're like you just always questioned me and you don't
follow your compatity.

Speaker 2 (01:13:14):
But it's like I'm just trying to help.

Speaker 1 (01:13:19):
He told me, he said it's okay because I'm not
always looking for an answer, Like sometimes I'm just talking
to you. I don't necessarily want you to come up
with a solution or to help me. With us as women,
we just can't help.

Speaker 2 (01:13:34):
We can't help it. We be like, well didn't you
say you didn't like that? Girl? I just said I'm
going here.

Speaker 3 (01:13:41):
But I.

Speaker 5 (01:13:43):
Think for me, like what I would like more is
just like a balance because he's like a workaholic and stuff,
and so it's like I be having to make him
take a break, Like literally, I'll be having to make
him sleep and go.

Speaker 4 (01:13:56):
Get a facial, go relax today.

Speaker 5 (01:13:58):
So I wish, like they would, men would find more
of that work life balance of like relaxing sometimes.

Speaker 4 (01:14:05):
But I get it, like you know when you just
are in hustle, hustle, I understand that.

Speaker 5 (01:14:10):
But I think life is all about balance because you
don't want to look up and you're like sixty seven,
you're like, damn, all I did was work.

Speaker 2 (01:14:18):
All I did was work and then travel or do
nice things for yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
Yes, yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah, I think that's something
that I mean, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:14:26):
What about anything less from a man? Like they want
us to be quiet less talking? Oh liss, what could
they do?

Speaker 3 (01:14:37):
List?

Speaker 1 (01:14:37):
I think I said, I would like a man to
be like less, Like I don't know how to put
this into like the right term, but like stop holding
it in so much, you know what I'm saying, because
they'll let shit build up and know and it could
be small, like it could you could be annoyed by
the smallest thing I do, like hey, can you go
do this or turn off the light and it's just

(01:14:59):
like I hate when you ask me that, just like
little stuff and then they get all mad and it
just boils up.

Speaker 2 (01:15:04):
And they're irritated.

Speaker 1 (01:15:05):
It's like just tell me sometimes like communication, communication, more communication.

Speaker 2 (01:15:10):
But you know what, I've.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
Realized, I think men don't like doing it though, because
then when they talk too much, that'd be a turn
off for some women, like that'd be like, oh, he nagging,
he's sassy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:20):
Yeah, I'm plaining.

Speaker 5 (01:15:22):
But I think that's so crazy because like if this
is your man and somebody you're dealing with, like I
be wanting you to tell me.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
What I want to hear every time everything? What else?
What were you gonna say? Say it?

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
I want to hear everything a man gotta say, but
men have said it, Like even my past relationships, a
man has told me like, yeah, you actally like women
actually want to hear your problems, but once.

Speaker 2 (01:15:44):
You start giving the problems, they start respecting you less.

Speaker 4 (01:15:46):
And I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:15:47):
I don't find that to be true because the more
I know, the more I can anticipate your needs and
help you and help us grow, you know, like I'll.

Speaker 2 (01:15:55):
Say this, I definitely want you to tell me.

Speaker 1 (01:15:59):
But then I think it gets to a point and
this is just people across the board like yeah, how
many times are you gonna bring it up though, the
same thing.

Speaker 2 (01:16:07):
Yeah, that's over and over and.

Speaker 4 (01:16:09):
Over because we don't come to a solution.

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
Yeah, then it gets to a point where it's like, okay,
damn yeah, like what we gonna do about women were
naturally that way? This is cool, but what are we
gonna do about it? Like, I understand how you feel,
but let's come up with a solution.

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