July 7, 2025 • 55 mins
Sharelle & Porsha react to the reports that Cardi B and Stefon Diggs have broken up, Carnival Cruise's new policy seemingly targeted at black passengers, and much more!
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00:00 - Intro
03:45 - Cardi B & Stefon Diggs Breakup?
30:38 - Carnival Cruise Anti-Black Policies
42:22 – Humble Baddies Mail
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I get in my weight, never out of my lane.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Been like you one in.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
The more one. So what is gonna be?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Baby?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Squad ween the god? You running on us? I want
you need baby? Won't you keep me company?
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Give me felling the jube and I get one.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I just going for you when we get home, if
you let me put it down.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Hey Porsha pee, Hey, hey, hey friend, how'd your four?
It was good? Have me a little drinking, drake a
little er? You know it was pretty good. How was
your You look at the ten? You see the ten?
(00:46):
I did see that. I saw the tan, and I
saw the close friends. I love song, soft, love song, salt.
It was good. It was good, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I took the girl, took the kids. We went on vacation,
had a good time, eate a lot, and now I'm
stuck at the airport in the lounge.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Lounge version, she's a lounge, very with with the lounge.
Where's you going? What did you doing? We're heading back home?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
I had it I could miss the podcast, so I brought.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
I mean, I thought I was just sitting an all
away somewhere new destination.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I mean, I'm coming back now. It's time for a
little bit R and R. I gotta, you know, focus
on work, knock out things. And then I got a
fly to Houston on Wednesday to meet my agents out there.
We gotta be event Okay, I'm busy, but when you you.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Open up the lines for me because I got I
got real estate drama and I need you to.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I got you you you to help me because but.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
The good thing about it is you're in a great situation.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Not too many people.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You know, everybody want to be in your situation right
now when you have bigging wars on when air.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But you know, you know, I don't like no static.
Big wars just sound like a lot of static. You
know what I mean? That they gonna think I'm playing
with them, like I'm not playing with you. I promise
you this offer just came through five minutes ago. I'm
not playing like I got another offer. What you want
me to do? And that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
That's when people have to understand whether, okay, do I
believe her and I keep my price where it's at
or let me just bump it up a couple. I
wouldn't even play them games if I didn't have no offer,
because I don't want to lose my offer. People who
play them games, them strong people, those strong soldiers, and
I ain't got it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Ain't for a lot of you. I need my money.
I know that's right, But you going that. I'm proud
of my girl.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
We're gonna have to go celebrate on you.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
We're going on a little trip, trip, little triple, little commission. Check.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Listen, it's been so much going on, y'all. We're back
with another episode of Humble Baddies. We got my girl
Porsche of Pee in the building and myself, of course,
Alexis could not make it, and Ashley is traveling from
the Essence Festival.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
She actually spoke on a panel, so my girl is
flying back.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Then, y'all fining us tonight. None listen, it's saying hi
over the weekend.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
A few weeks ago, we did speak on Cardi B
and Stephan Diggs and everybody was in support of their relationship.
There was like, oh, Cardi B outside, you know, she's
having fun hot girls summer and I was all okay
with that. My was okay, Cardial, you're moving a little
bit too fast. Don't post them on your main page,
(04:10):
because you know how things.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Ain't no ring on my finger, you ain't going on
the ground, and she doubled back. She doubled back. She said,
oh he got that thing. He going on the ground?
What what what is step Fun doing to these lines?
I have not a clue. Okay, let's get it.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Let's get into it. Cardibi is step Fun?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Did Cardi just unfollowed him, deleted all their photos together
and suddenly off set It's back on Instagram live grinned
like he just wanted.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Listen.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
He had his tign right now. So what's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Did she post too soon?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
And why do exits always seem to be lurking white
when they knew boot phones. We're talking and petty timing
and while posting your man in twenty twenty five might
be a bigger risk than ever. So get comfortable, call
y'all a little some sum because we're gonna get into
it a little some. So it was all over the
(05:14):
blogs as we stayed it before Cardi b unfollowed Stefun
digs wiped her Instagram clean. Any trace of their situationship
is gone. There's no spot of it. It's Carti's photo
perche the right thing to do? Or is it too extra?
Because you know the libras don't play Cardia.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Leberker, No, we know. This is what I'm going to say.
I think good for her because after you've been married,
and you've had a tumultuous marriage, a very problematic situation,
a liability, as she called it, you don't necessarily want
(05:55):
to be attached to somebody like that. And maybe she
just woke up and just decided that she was tired
of seeing him on her gram, whether they was still
messing around or not. Maybe she just doesn't want that
representation anymore. Maybe she just wants to enjoy her situation
in peace, because ironically, it's like, if you don't post it,
it's like it's not happening for most of us. If
(06:16):
they don't see it, it's not happening. And even if
it is, they have less to talk about. So now
they can speculate if they still together or whatever. But
it's not like it doesn't matter how impressive a woman is,
it doesn't matter how successful she is, it doesn't matter
what she has going on. The minute she's attached to
a man, that's all they can talk about, and it
(06:37):
could be a small part of her life. They could
not even see each other as often as they want
to see each other. It could not even be that serious.
But just to shear fact that he's on her Instagram
at all, it makes it look like a very very
serious situation. And maybe she just wants her Instagram to
reflect her life and not this very small part of
her life broke up. Maybe she kicked his ass to
(07:01):
the card.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Who knows it ain't nothing wrong with that, I mean
with I mean I was like that too. I ain't
gonna lie like I was posting my man happy, this,
that and the third. When I got in my feelings
when we went through our little stage, I would temperate
to break up. I'll delete everything I don't want to
think as on my page by unfollowed block. Do what
(07:26):
I gotta do to get gone. But I feel like
that's a leap of trade. But the thing about it is,
I feel like now I'm at a stage where I
just won't post. You won't get all that you're gonna
say on a story if I just put you on
the story and that's it, because it's too much going
back and forth, and.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
I feel like it just calls more people.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You already have a high profile when it comes to
your fans and everything, it just caused more people to
continuously be in your decents.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, I wouldn't. I wouldn't suggest that, And I feel
like somebody with that much star power, like I can
understand though, because I'm a hopeless romantic. So when i'm somebody,
I'm so into them. But y'all want to tell everybody okay,
I want to shout it from the treetops. It's I
love and I'm okay. So I understand that. But at
(08:17):
the same time, when you're a star of that caliber,
like your piece is just so important and it has
nothing to do with him being outside, because I do
think he'd be outside, but you know what I mean, Like,
just let your situation just be your situation, and I
feel like she'll be happier for it, whether they together
or not. Take that man off your Instagram, because it's
(08:40):
not the same as like when men get a woman,
like their whole entire existence is not wrapped up in
this woman that they sleeping with. It's not the same thing.
If we post a man, it's just like Cardi B
and her new boyfriend or or if I'm his new girlfriend,
and you can't say, like she got plenty going on.
We don't. But now she's somebody, these girlfriends, somebody something,
(09:01):
and it's like, give it a rest, Let that lady
have an identity.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I feel like this too, because you know, it was
a recent breakup and her and offset was still having
their beef. Like I don't think she fully was recovered.
And sometimes we do things, both men and women do
things out of emotions. They may can be over and
done with the situation, but they feel like just you know,
(09:29):
moving too fast, doing things just to feel like they're
getting to get back. And I feel like sometimes we
do those things and we post so quickly to try
to get a reaction.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Out of her. It definitely did come off like a
little bit petty, but then also it could have just
been I don't know. I'm a big, big advocate for
people doing whatever they need to do to heal. I
do think that some stuff is toxic, but you know,
in moderation, like you never know. It's just like if
you're in a relationship in your you're void of affection
(10:02):
or someone being sweet to you, or someone being considerate.
If you need a hug, bitch, go get a hug.
And it could be as simple as that doesn't have
to be a life ruiner. Doesn't have to be. It
doesn't have to be all of this like, it could
just be she maybe just hasn't had fun in a
long time, and I bet you he's fun. She probably
was doing more arguing than laughing. I bet you that
(10:24):
he made her laugh.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
But you know how it is when you get into
something new, it's just the excitement, the butterflies. Every time
when you get in something new, everything is just perfect,
you having fun. That person is amazing. You look past
all their flaws, and then after the time has spent,
the butterflies that are going to wait, now you're truck
starting to see the true traits. That's why it's you
(10:51):
have to be cautious of who you take serious and
put publicly out there, because you don't know if you're
really meant for this person, because right now it's just
it's fun. It's all fun and games until you see
all four seasons of that person. So now I feel
like party is starting to see if they did break up,
the real true colors of what I don't think.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
That she ever met for I don't know if she
ever meant for that to be a serious situation. You
want my cookies my sunshine. Still my cookies. These are Mike, Okay,
you can have a cookie. Okay, bout taking my cookies.
I have nothing now cookie. You welcome, baby. He's like
(11:33):
he's my cookies. Okay, baby, Okay, now they all go.
You see what we'll get your brother go to crazy.
Tell yourself. Don't believe me, no cookies. You see my life.
They on my trail. They said, first of all, she
was going for fifteen damn it, minutes where.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Gone.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
I can't even talk about CARDI an't even have me
a little chit check anyways, girl, what would you say.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
We were talking about in regards to Carti and shit?
I think out how she's moving back.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You can have my kids tripped you up too, damn
I they say, I'm finna comfor everything this lady got today. No,
I think that. I think she just meant to have fun.
I don't know if it was. I don't know you
a liber girl. I'll be falling in love and stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
So we do be falling in love because we are
a hopeless romantic like when we love we love heart
until it's like, okay, I don't have enough, I don't
put it. And we're very quiet we can take in
so much until we can't take in anymore. So I
fit with me as a person, like I'm gonna love you,
(12:53):
I'm gonna love you heart, I'm gonna hold you down.
I'm gonna even take the bullshit that you brain until
I can't take it no more than I had enough.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
Then I explode. And that's that's how I am.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
That's a leap.
Speaker 5 (13:04):
I feel like a lot of leavers are like that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
But with Carti, Carti always expressed and she always from
from when I follow her, she always like she's she's
not secretive when she talks to her like she and
that's what I respect about her, Like she ain't hid
and nothing. She gonna let you know what it is,
what she got going on, This is what it is.
(13:28):
And that's why, like there's no nothing, you see everything
up front. What it is, what she she show you is,
it is what it is. So that's why it's.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Like it's so believable. Like from his standpoint, he's just
with Cardi, he's just having a good time. It's it's
it's nothing, it's not it's whatever. It's not that serious.
He's having a good time. Let him have a good time.
With her. It's like she can't possibly be having a
good time. She just got up with somebody who doing
the same thing Offset is doing, and he out here
playing around on her, and she's some w're heartbroken, and
somebody go check on CARDI. I don't think CARDI give
(14:00):
a damn. Honestly, I really feel like that lady is
probably somewhere like he think he getting his I'm getting
mine too, I really do feel that way. I don't
even think that she would put herself in a position
to to to be bound up in control to look
in some type of way. She just went through enough.
(14:23):
I think that lady Lot was having a good old
time and and that's it, I hope.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
But we got to get out of having a good
time and and act like you know, posting like giving
them they already have a spotlight, like even giving them
more spotlight of your life.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Yeah, that's true. I agree with you. I feel like
people need to heal, but you know, we need limits,
We need what they be saying, sometimes you gotta get
get somebody. Yeah, I feel like that does work, but
you gotta be careful because then you know, it starts
giving slave, you know, so you gotta you can be careful.
(15:01):
You got to get.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
A little slutty.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Slutty to call you a war unfortunately, you know what
I mean, you get under too many that's a problem.
It's a very big girls. She's trying to heal that hurt.
She's trying to laugh again, I'll say her, and it's stressed.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Get your life, you know what I mean, the best,
the best thing. And I see people promote her and saying,
oh she outside, let her do her. But it's not
healthy at all, it really is. And that's it's it's
speaking from experience. Like you know, you go outside, you
hang out, you may find somebody, they get your little
off or whatever. But you still have to come back
(15:44):
to that moment when toxic.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Never said it was. It's plenty of toxic. It's very toxic.
It's not healthy at all. But hey, whatever gets you through.
Sometimes you got to get to the other side. I
can't I imagine that divorce feels like death.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So break up just to break up someone that that
you have to think that you were gonna spend the
rest of your life with that you built the family
with that is hurtful.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I rebuke it in the name in the time. We
rebuke that, Yes, it's the one. Change it, change it up.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
But I'll say and I'll said, as.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Like you need to say yo, say your little whole song.
He was about to crash out. He feel if it
is something, if it is like some crazy dramatic breakup,
that man's gonna have his popcorn, he gonna be on
the internet like this, he's gonna be doing his He's
gonna be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
But but do you feel like it shows like they're
not over each other when you still focused on your
eggs and what they are going on and you're not
completely healed and over that person.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
That's how I feel. Definitely not, I think so. I
also just think it's been too soon for anybody to
be over anybody, you know what I mean, People.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
Getting more, people involved in y'all.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Talk and stuff like just heal yeah, and then a
new person.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Come into the relationship thinking they got a trophy. Meanwhile,
you laid up this person and this person still thinking
about say that, say that, listen, are you are a
lot of the situations out there.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
Before I got married and we broke up and we
got back together. I remember I just I had to
say a prayer, and I said, Lord, I'm so sorry
to them people. Sorry to the people, both of them.
I'm so sorry to the people who got in the
way love because we ain't had no business, you know,
(17:55):
I'm so sorry to the Sorry to them people, Sorry
to that lady, sorry to all of.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
Them, that we just did not have it together, that
we was really outside playing like that's not that's crazy,
and then just plumb just got back together quick like
ain't nothing happened, Like all right, I.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Ran off, got married craziness.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
And didn't feel bad at all when you had Oh no,
not no.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
I feel okay. After the fact, I felt, you know,
because I do have a conscience. After the fact, I
did feel bad. Uh how abrupt it was because there
was like there was no weaning, there was no oh
I'm kind of it was like, hey, y'all, this ain't
gonna happen no more. Like it was very much. And
(18:43):
I and I went off, started a family. I went
and lived my life, and he did the same. So
I did feel bad after the fact because there wasn't
nothing wrong with none of them people, you know what
I mean, It's just they just wasn't the right people.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
It was wrong timing and you wasn't ready to move on,
neither one of y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Watch why y'all like here playing these dangerous while y'all were.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Out here playing the people. That's all I can say.
That's it. Thank God, y'all have a beautiful, blessed family.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
And praise God.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
But sorry to the people. So that's it.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Then said, when you post to your dating, I mean
you can post sue your dating. Y'all are married, Do
you own the come up or set yourself up for
the breakdown? I feel like I feel like it's a setup,
but it also depends on the timing and the situation,
because some people can post and be happy, especially if
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you know the spotlight is not on them, and it's good,
you're good. But I feel like with celebrities.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
It's a setup.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
You already like you already, like I said before, you're
already in the spotlight, and people are looking.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Especially to people who don't like it.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
They looking for the moment when they had come in
and talk shit, Oh it didn't happen, you know, they
didn't stay together.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I wonder what happened. Trying to dig and find I
think it's a setup for anybody, just celebrity or not.
I think it's a setup for anybody. I love this
new trend on TikTok where it's like they're asking the
question do happily married people Are they gate keeping their marriage?
And most of them are like yes. They get on
there real quick they're like, yes, I'm happy. No, I
don't want to talk about it and put the phone down,
(20:30):
because it is true. It's like anytime you get on
the internet and you're happy about your love, or you
get on there talking about your man and how he
would never that man starts never in like he's never before.
The minute you get on there talking about this and
all he's so this and we're so this. It's just
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you just destined for embarrassment. And I really hate to
be that person because I don't want to say I
believe in the drinks, because I believe in the Lord.
But if there was a jinx, it would be that
it would be let me get on the internet and
be loud about this love because the people.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Somebody gonna come and look to prove you wrongs, find
a way to prove you absolutely.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
The amount of women in my married man's d MS
acting like they never seen me before. Is is I
don't understand it is crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Portia, Portia, I doesn't seen women come up in my
face the scene that's together and still like these people are.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Very sect They'll be in your.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Face one day talking about put them on or can
they join? How you get into this at gym whatever?
At the next minute, trying to get in your.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Mans throat punched.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
All times of happens. You need to be throat punched.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
But it's I don't know why when you do show
you know.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
You're you're happy and you're exposed.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Why some people feel like, oh let me they want
what you have, or they feel like they can get
a chance, or oh this person ain't gonna be watched this.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
I don't know why people have that now. It's a
perversion what you need? It's a perversion, says that bad
or to not even really want it but just want
to see if you can mess with it. Yeah, that's crazy,
you know, keeping people off the internet. You know what
I'm saying. You and a watch and all you're gonna see.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
How you're gonna see is the little risk thing to watch?
Which watch you wear today? You keep it up and
beating pizza together. They're gonna find that man.
Speaker 5 (23:07):
They'll never find them, they would never.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Hope. You're right. Don't post no if you don't post
no one of one, one of ten, don't post no
no exotic watches. You post some regular well, I mean
they don't do regular. You get found out. Okay, they
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get found out.
Speaker 6 (23:40):
I seen it, and you and him, you gonna get
found out.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
You keep playing around, Okay, got too much dip on
your chip? Sure, Elle, you're great. I miss you.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
If you gotta come home fresh.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Way home when we can do lunch tomorrow, we'll do
lunch tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
But listen, I feel like some people, you know, my
favorite person, who always have a quiet departure when they
have a breakup, and they haven't they've been in a
long term relationship recently, but they're still in a great relationship. Rihanna,
you never like when she break up, it's so quiet
(24:27):
her departure, her relationship departure was the blueprint.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Do you feel like I feel like she probably the
way she exit it probably be so embarrassing. Don't nobody
really want to talk about it? I feel like she
really be when she about it, it probably hurt real
bad and they don't want to talk about it. Who
want to talk about that?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
You get so, but she do when she do exit
a relationship, she do get quiet, like you don't hear
there's a press conference, the relationships period, you know what
I mean. But I love it for her now though
she healed, she heal, and and you know, and is
(25:13):
she going her little zone or whatever?
Speaker 3 (25:15):
And now look at baby factory. I love it. I'm
not gonna lie to you. If I had a billion,
i'd have ten more kids. If I had a billy,
i'd lay up and I make babies all the time.
Oh no, ma'am, Yeah, no, no, I would. I'm not
gonna lie. I would. I love having them. And if
(25:36):
I had a billy, I would do nothing but makeer.
Y'all still making them nine and asked me to stay off.
And we need more money. If he's gonna persist all
of these children, we need more.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh, you're gonna have a whole, a whole burdo.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
But I think we're done right now now for now.
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, yeah, don't be trying.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
I don't know where they come from. I don't know
where they come from. You know, how to because your
ass jump on top or he jumped on But you
want to know what's crazy is the way that we're
doing it now. We've done it the same way before.
There was like no preventative measures, just nothing but prayer,
you know what I mean. And for a very long
(26:26):
time we did not pro create and it wasn't nothing wrong.
It won no scares, it want no nothing nothing. Now
it's like they won't stop. I don't know. I don't
know what happened. What your ass get the itch? And
then you don't will my what get to? What? When
(26:51):
your ass get the itch? You jumping on top of it?
Speaker 5 (26:54):
You need to sit your hardy behind down.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
For you, you gotta put it on me.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Because it was your fault this last time I think
it was. That was and I told you for sure,
do not get pregnant.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Pregnant. I don't even know why you said that. Why
would you say that to me and I was pregnant.
That's crazy, that is crazy. I can't believe I did that.
But he was perfect, came so like you here. Oh
he's the most perfect child. I just love him. I
(27:35):
can't wait to go out there and get him.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Listen, are we too quick to judge when women are
shifting from boyfriends to single.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
In real time. Yes, yes we do. We do.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Every single situation or relationship. People judge even with I'm
gonna say my with Chad. I'm happy for Chad. Chad
is in the relationship, don't you know? Like that man
can't live at peace. I can't live at peace because
people is fighting for either team Shrill and Chad or
you know, he.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
And his feelings.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Oh I'm glad, Like, just let the people live while
y'all didn't give the people no damn closure.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
You feel like we was in a relationship too. The
people wanted to know what the hell I'm just telling you.
The people was like, well what happened?
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Now?
Speaker 3 (28:27):
Well, now what happened? Why we can't reconcile? What about
French Fry? We like y'all together, The people just like
y'all together. Yes, hey, y'all ain't give nobody no closure. Now,
had y'all got on the internet and spewed all your business,
maybe we wouldn't be itching for a reunion. But why
(28:47):
why do you have to get the closure? Was there?
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Or why do you have to go into detail to
give a clothes?
Speaker 3 (28:53):
I don't know friend, My marriage is not on the blogs,
and I don't wish for it. I'm just telling you
for y'all, for the few of y'all that end up
in people's all of y'all business. So y'all is on
the blogs. You belong to everyone. Now you're like a
public servant. Okay, we own you. Okay, tell us what happens. No,
(29:16):
you're not gonna get no peaks. I want to know
what happened.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
It's like they listen, I'll be having prayers in my DMS,
long prayers.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
I'm like, are y'all y'all prayers? They be praying.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Portion long long prayer scriptures and everything. I mean, you know,
I take the scriptures and I'm like, these people are
really devoted into.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
It, Honey, I don't know about that. See, I've also
just never been that event. You know. I don't care
about nothing. I'm not invested in other people's lives like that,
not like that. I'm all about families and hell, I
ain't even give you all of that. And I'm your
friend in real life. I said, well, girl, if it's
the Lord as will, but you want me to say
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I'm here for you, but not. No, it wasn't a lot.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
And that's why that that is why I chose, like
any time for any other relationship that I ever, you know,
got into, I will not put it out there and
you know in the media because.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
It's a lot. I mean sometimes you read the messages,
you being like, see how long that lasts? You know
you a love a girl I am, but you know
I am a good.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
The number one ghetto Cruise is showing out The topic
is don't hit the sing at one time that I
forgot you gotta say it three times.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
That that bitch. The way they be, they be popping,
I'll be like, they gonna pops. Why I should have
went to antifest this weekend.
Speaker 6 (31:13):
It took my fan, Mule Brown, that's my jail, and
I learned to dance.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
Girl, I still don't you know, I got two little feet.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
You got your friends. But what they did to the fans,
Now what happened.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
The Ghetto is Cruise of the crew of the cruise Lons.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
Carnival Cruise New Rules.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Carnival has rolled out tough new policies for passengers, especially
on how demand routes. Here's everything that that's been announced
with Carnival Cruise you know Carnival cruise.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
We took over Carnival cruises like Soul Plane or Stay Airlines.
Do you I have been on plenty plenty cars. My
daddy used to go every year, and he took me
on the first one. I was fifteen and I took
my best friend with me. Was that my first cruise?
I don't even know. I might have been twelve. But
(32:18):
Carnival is fun. It's fun, but I'm gonna take you.
Carnival is like.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I used to go on Carnival a lot back in
the day, but you won't catch me on cable no more. Honestly,
I don't cruises. I haven't did a cruise in so long.
My daddy they love going on cruises. My daddy's a
big fan of Carnival. But I just can't do cruises anymore.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
It's like, okay, So part of this feels a bit
like a microaggression, Like okay, so, bitch, what is you
trying to say? Why I can't hand no fan? Who
is you trying to target over here? Because you know
who got the fans? That's right, and it ain't It
ain't back Keith. But I'm gonna out.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Let's get into it, so I'm gonna I'm gonna go
over some of the new the new policies that they
have laid out, and then you tell me your thoughts.
No personal bluetooth or portable speakers. Ear Bud's only ban
on none battery fans, memory of books on the ground,
(33:31):
so you can't have the none battery fans. Fans clacking
on deck led to safety concerns. Hip hop slash rap
void no official band, but DJs are reportedly stearing clear
of these this type of music. New age and minor policies.
Solo travelers must be twenty one and up and under
(33:56):
twenty one needs, say twenty five plus you know Ali
Team curfew. Under seventeen must have must leave public spaces
by one am. No pool chair hogging. Forty minute limit
before staff relocate your stuff.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
Strict drink packages rules.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Every adult in the cabin must buy the Cheers package.
If one does, price jump to eighty two.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Dollars a day. Alcohol run aboard, hard.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
Liquor beer, glass bottles band limited, Non alcoholic beverages allowed,
No candles, incense, no search protectors, no homemade steamers. Mobility
device restrictions. Scooters must fit in cabins, cabins no dopin
at sea. Throwing things overboard can trigger fine. Is it
(34:44):
two extra or necessary? Are these crews drill policies keeping
everyone safe or just policing black and young passengers.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Both, because let's be real, people get out of control.
That's why too some of them is necessary. You don't
need to be throwing stuff overboard. You really don't need
a bluetooth speaker. There's music all over the ship, and
it also sounds like it's really the hy ns is
(35:19):
causing all the problems. The team got what it is,
but do not carry the fans. I don't know what
the fan thing is, so I really don't know what
that's about. I don't know. It's giving, it's giving microaggressions.
(35:40):
It's giving like, okay, black people, enough is enough. That's
what it's given, which is crazy because hello, Carnival, we
have been keeping y'all afloat quite literally for years, years
and years. So I mean, I don't I don't know
like I like it, and I don't like it because
I don't like to. Now you can't bring wine. I
(36:01):
thought you could bring wine like they give you like
a little corkage fee. You can bring your own wine.
I also thought that if you had two adults in
the cabin and one person gets a drink package, then
the other person had to I thought that was always
the case.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
I thought I went on a cruise, I thought we
could check in our can.
Speaker 3 (36:20):
I mean, like I've been on a cruise with like
they'll let you bring wine, like a bottle of wine
or two bottles of wine. That celebrity cruise I went
on with my family, they let me bring you.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Listen, all this is gonna make them do when they
start getting strict on that alcohol listinge bottles. You go Amazon,
you buy fake these fake listenine bottles, fake shampoo bottles,
and that's all they gonna do is.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
Put I'm gonna tell you what the problem is, and
it could solve your problem real quick. If Carnival Wild
stop sending everybody emails about two hundred and eighty three
dollars seven day cruises, they would avoid all of this
because if they want so damn cheap, you stop.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
Hello now, the WANs is not.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Paying thousands of dollars for these cruises. The Wayans is
on your boat for three hundred dollars and tearing it
to hell for seven whole days. Why did you see them?
Speaker 5 (37:16):
Videos?
Speaker 3 (37:17):
Listen them video lord buyer role. Okay, so this I
don't know. For the people in the chat, the cruise goers,
if you go a lot, they'll send you deals. If
you go in the casino like my mama, and you
spend money in the casino, hoy, they gonna send you
(37:39):
a free cruise. They gonna send you on a fourteen
day cruise for two hundred dollars and give you a
five hundred dollars on board credit. I'm trying to tell
you my mother has a cruise booked every month for
the rest of the year because she played them lit
them little nickel slots Carnival. If you up the price
(38:01):
and you stop giving these cruises away for pennies, then
you might be able to shake something. You might be
able to shake something, because then you don't just get
rid of just the unruly black people that you think
you're getting rid of. You getting rid of everybody who
going there and act the damn fool. But don't try
to make it seem like it's just us who popping off.
(38:22):
Don't do that. Don't do that, because ghetto comes off
shades now ghetto comes in off. Yes, I don't like that, true.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
I don't like it's not setting song but the music,
because you you need a little bit of everything.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
First of all, you know, on a cruises all they
play is that your old pop from ten years ago. Gir,
you go on the cruise right now. The hip hop
they're giving you is floor rider, a little yo. You're
finna get meta batore, that's what you're gonna get. You
might get Bodak yell. I was like, oh, ship, they
(39:01):
playing guarney like, let's be like, they're not. They're not
over there giving you a young thug like and if
they are again, I have not been on the Carnival
cruise in a very long time, but I know they
(39:22):
emailing people one hundred dollars cruises and that is your problem.
That's fine. You gotta they doing a little bit too much.
What do you call it?
Speaker 5 (39:37):
I forgot what it's called.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
I can't think of the term right now.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
But they definitely need to stop because they'll be like,
you can get a cruise for now, don't dollars, and
then every passage of that don't.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Make it so everybody can cruise and then get mad
with everybody, cruise everybody.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
When I come on cardival, y'all to get a little better, y'all,
try to change it up a little something something. Y'all
gotta get a better don't try to stereotype it and
change it thinking that you're gonna you know, it's us
who causing the problems. You gotta fix it up and
make it, you know, change for everybody.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
I ain't gonna lie. Sometimes stereotypes be stereotypes and may
be a little true stereotype stereotypes because it's a little truth,
you know what I mean saying Black people coming on
the ship and they got the fans and they're acting up.
I don't know, friend, Sometimes we'll be on the ship
with our fans acting up, are getting out a little bit,
(40:40):
you know, people showing up when they yeah, it's all
in good fun. They probably scared as haling them boats
and the fans. First of all, the fans are loud, girl,
and they come and them fans go off. You feel
like you hear a semi automatical weapon of people probably
on ships scared just hell. Somebody start flapping that fast,
(41:08):
and if it's a crowd, frop frap, girl, you just
don't them people probably be ducking for cover boots on
the ground. Listen, I'm with some of the rules, all
of them. Yeah, the no hip hop thing, good luck, okay,
good luck that y'all got. They want to all the
(41:31):
black as, they's gonna pay dry that's what They're gonna
have a dry ass cruise.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
The Setarrian Loud is about to kick my behind out
talking about some of y'all. Got ten minutes to get
them out of here. They about and pop me up
out of here. So we're gonna continue on carnival.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
Y'all got to get better with respect, y'all. We love y'all.
Speaker 5 (41:53):
We got aunties and uncles said, target, don't do it
of portion? Do you got not?
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Sorry? I just read about target.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
Target trying to target, trying to get they get their
seals back up?
Speaker 3 (42:10):
Can they support back up with what they got to do?
They got to do something. They got to do something.
Kissed us off real bad. Yeah, they they really did.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
Do you got umble Baddy's mail?
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Do it? I want me to read it and you end. Oh,
I'm gonna read it as soon as I find it.
Boom found it? All right? Okay, So this is from Julia. Hey,
Julia girl, Julia from Los Angeles, California. All right, here
we go, Hey, ladies. So I've been dating this guy
(42:45):
for about six months now, and honestly, it's been going
really well. He's handsome, successful and super romantic. Like he
even flew me out to a Ruba a couple of
months ago, and it was one of the best trips
I've ever had, not a rubber. We've had a lot
of fun together and up until recently, I had no
real complaints, but now I'm not so sure. He told
(43:07):
me he had to travel to Chicago for work last weekend.
No big deal. I didn't press it, but I randomly
glanced at his shared Apple card account.
Speaker 4 (43:15):
Okay, okay, because yes, his account info is on my
phone from the Aruba tripp and he never took it off.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
She never dig it off, and I noticed a hotel
charge in Houston for two nights before he even got
to Chicago. I haven't said anything to him yet because
I want to gather my thoughts first, but I can't lie.
It doesn't sit right with me. The crazy part is
a few of my friends warn me about him from
the junk. They said he's known for dating multiple women
at once, that he's a smooth talker and a master manipulator.
(43:47):
But I wanted to see for myself that was your
first mistake. Now I feel stuck between trust and my
gut and not wanting to blow up something that might
be innocent. So tell me, ladies, am I overreacting or
is my man definitely moving shady? And more importantly, would
y'all confront him or play it cool and watch how
it unfolds? Help a girl out before I pull up
(44:08):
to Houston myself.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yeah, now pull up to Hugh myself, Julia, Baby, I
gotta be honest. He's definitely giving shady detour energy. The
man was love bumming you, telling you things you want
to hear, giving you things, flying you out.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
He ain't.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
If it's there, it's there.
Speaker 2 (44:35):
But if you want to talk about it, I wouldn't
hold it in. I definitely would say something to him.
It doesn't have to be an argument, but communicate, but
don't hold it in because he's going to continue to
do more things and more things, and it's just going.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
To build up. So what I'm trying to figure out, Okay,
So I don't like to I don't like to blow
situations up until I know for sure that that you're lying,
You know what I mean. So it could just be
as simple as not like did you go to Houston,
but you know, how was your flight? When did you
(45:09):
get in? You just got to ask him questions. If
that fool just smoothed gloss over the fact that he
spent two days in a different state, then good, Yeah,
you know what I mean, because because what was he doing,
you just didn't know what he was y'all, ain't FaceTime.
You seem in a hotel like, I don't know how this.
(45:31):
I don't know. I'm the investigating type. I'm nosy. I
don't checking. I don't care if there's nothing going on,
I'm checking. I want to see. I just got to stay,
keep me on my toes. I got to see what's
going on. That's just me. I don't know. I think
(45:51):
your first mistake is people warned you about him. Why
would they be warning you about him? He's a smooth talker.
This he's that he's probably raggedy, and you just want
to see for yourself because you hard headed girl. Plus
one and two, he's lying. If he's lies about where
(46:13):
he was for two days, he was hunting and that's it,
and that's all. Know what they said. My girl just
posted what was going on in Houston the people in
the diseases?
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Was that a thing?
Speaker 5 (46:28):
A STDs and Hi get and lion.
Speaker 3 (46:36):
M m oh, but that's the thing, the whole Okay, See,
now this seemed like something you would do because you
don't carry Wallace and you only ever use Apple banet.
His shared Apple card account is still on your phone.
Speaker 6 (46:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (46:54):
He doesn't seem too smart.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
At all.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
But you know, men don't to cheat. Well, then why
did they do it so much? I don't like, you
know what I mean, men don't think like that.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Once they think, once they happened, that it's done. They
don't know how to delete, you know, the all the
evidence that was there.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
It's like, I feel like she just needs to just
ask questions surrounding that, you know, not like were you
in Houston? But just ask him, how was this? How
was that? Would you do this weekend? Blah blah blah.
If he doesn't mention it, then he's he just told
you a blatant lie. I don't know what could be
innocent about it. If he says he wasn't there, then
(47:43):
what did he just used? I don't there's no way
around it, So just ask him what he was doing?
How was his weekend? You know, how was his flag?
What time did he get in and what did he eat?
You do anything fun this weekend? If you don't say, yeah, bitch,
I was in Houston, then he's a liar and then
you can do with that whatever you want. But sometimes
(48:04):
if you're just gonna make excuses for him, wants he
lied to you, don't even say nothing. Just let that
man live his life, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (48:13):
That's what are you asking us?
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Like girls that wait on, but you don't continue to
just make up lines and build that the.
Speaker 3 (48:25):
Whole notion of oh it could be something innocent. What
could it possibly be if he purposely kept it from you?
Was he shopping? Did he go buy you an engagement ring? Whatever?
Blow the whole secret up?
Speaker 1 (48:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (48:39):
Right now, it looks like you're cheating exactly what you're
gonna do port Oh, I'm gonna ask. I'm feeling I'm
a corner. I'm gonna make you lie to me. So
I know what you can do. I ain't gonna outright
just ask you see I'm looking because if you did that,
I'm looking at the whole transaction and I'm doing everything. Oh,
(49:01):
I'm looking at your Uber receipts. That's the only thing
you say for I'm doing the whole ship. And then
she said, pull up to Houston, bitch, is he still there?
Call that man, FaceTime him. Show me something that looked
like Chicago real quick.
Speaker 2 (49:16):
Oh and and and then you lay in bed. Turn
the camera around because they slip away and they're laying
there while you're.
Speaker 3 (49:23):
Talking to I want to see everything, show me everything.
Speaker 5 (49:28):
Going to the bathroom, I need to see everything.
Speaker 3 (49:30):
Show me. I want to go sights you how many
luggages in the closet? That's that? That's that? Tell you
how you know a man? Man cheat? And when he
always call you, if he in the car, if he
call you, when he on.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
The way home.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
Outside of the hotel, on the way home from the club,
and not in the bed at the club. Man like,
you need to call me as soon as you your
head hit the pillow, face timed me, show me the
and I'm gonna do another surprise call on about forty
five minutes. I'll blow you up. And if you don't
pick up. Listen. I've experienced all types of things in
(50:11):
my life to my twenties. It's a good one that
they do.
Speaker 2 (50:15):
They outside acting like they about to walk in home. Baby,
I'm so tired, I'm about to hit the bed before
they get in their room. Okay, no, but I was
uncause I gotta go. I gotta go over these things
with you. So keep on walking until you get up
in that room. Crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (50:33):
Just listening to this just makes me realize how wild
my twenties were, because this is just this is just
a regular Tuesday night in my twenties. He would let
me see what he doing, let me see what he ats.
I'm playing games, right, I'm playing games on the phone. Me.
(50:53):
Hey up, let's be back. This don't sound right. You
don't never go to bed time. You are real quick.
Speaker 2 (51:00):
Why are you sleeping? What's the room number to the hotel?
Because guess what if your phone dead?
Speaker 3 (51:08):
Excuse me? Can you bring me up to such? This
is every detail. I'm gonna ask every detail. So who
was you with what you did? Sometimes it'd be so funny,
shy They try to tell you about the night, and
it be like, yeah, me and my folks Okay, you said, folks,
that sounded like there was some bitches over there, because
if you was with day Kwan and Robert, you would
(51:32):
and Robert and you talking about yeah, and my folks
that had to go meet up with some of them
some bitches in there. That's and you can't tell me otherwise,
My folks, my people's people's skipping. Why you got Why
you got glit on your shirt? Why glit on your.
Speaker 1 (51:54):
Right here?
Speaker 3 (51:55):
Why do you smell like love Spell and bathroom body
Works and love and love bomb?
Speaker 1 (52:01):
Why do you smell.
Speaker 6 (52:04):
Why do you smell like baby powder and ship?
Speaker 3 (52:07):
Like? What yo ask? Look your ass usually be as
you show this, it'd be one spec of glitter right here,
right here that you can only see if you turn
a certain way and be like your answers to the strip.
Speaker 5 (52:31):
You were delusional, crazy, so tired.
Speaker 3 (52:36):
You couldn't pay me to be twenty nothing again, you
hear me, You couldn't pay me to go care what
you got? It was toxic ship.
Speaker 5 (52:48):
I was still like that in my dad n ship.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
Shut up. Oh wait, she's trying to give us the closure.
We need to go ahead and tell us girl, it
was the closure to give us let me almost got
got listen. We love y'all. Julia.
Speaker 2 (53:15):
You gotta do what you gotta do, but you need
to talk to that person. You can't be playing these games.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
Let him keep it real with you. But time.
Speaker 2 (53:25):
Look the people are looking at the door like, ma'am,
you gotta get up out it, get up until that
was another that's the five pors My summit her from always.
Speaker 3 (53:39):
I love your Listen.
Speaker 2 (53:41):
We're gonna have We're gonna have lunch. I'm headed back home.
I can't miss my flag.
Speaker 3 (53:44):
I gotta go tracking down stairs.
Speaker 1 (53:46):
I love y'all.
Speaker 3 (53:48):
I'm on my way.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
Okay, until next, y'all follow us Porsche bitch Mom.
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(54:16):
to your friends. I'll send it to your house. I
love you, but you know I'm still gonna support you.
Speaker 5 (54:22):
Every time port you say I'm gonna send it to you,
I still gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (54:24):
Yeah, She's cripp.
Speaker 2 (54:27):
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Speaker 3 (54:40):
Until next time, we'll see y'all Wednesday. Bye,
I get in my weight, never out of my lane.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Been like you one in.
Speaker 3 (00:04):
The more one. So what is gonna be?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Baby?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Squad ween the god? You running on us? I want
you need baby? Won't you keep me company?
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Give me felling the jube and I get one.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I just going for you when we get home, if
you let me put it down.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Hey Porsha pee, Hey, hey, hey friend, how'd your four?
It was good? Have me a little drinking, drake a
little er? You know it was pretty good. How was
your You look at the ten? You see the ten?
(00:46):
I did see that. I saw the tan, and I
saw the close friends. I love song, soft, love song, salt.
It was good. It was good, you know.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I took the girl, took the kids. We went on vacation,
had a good time, eate a lot, and now I'm
stuck at the airport in the lounge.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
Lounge version, she's a lounge, very with with the lounge.
Where's you going? What did you doing? We're heading back home?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
I had it I could miss the podcast, so I brought.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
I mean, I thought I was just sitting an all
away somewhere new destination.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
I mean, I'm coming back now. It's time for a
little bit R and R. I gotta, you know, focus
on work, knock out things. And then I got a
fly to Houston on Wednesday to meet my agents out there.
We gotta be event Okay, I'm busy, but when you you.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Open up the lines for me because I got I
got real estate drama and I need you to.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I got you you you to help me because but.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
The good thing about it is you're in a great situation.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Not too many people.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
You know, everybody want to be in your situation right
now when you have bigging wars on when air.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But you know, you know, I don't like no static.
Big wars just sound like a lot of static. You
know what I mean? That they gonna think I'm playing
with them, like I'm not playing with you. I promise
you this offer just came through five minutes ago. I'm
not playing like I got another offer. What you want
me to do? And that's the thing.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
That's when people have to understand whether, okay, do I
believe her and I keep my price where it's at
or let me just bump it up a couple. I
wouldn't even play them games if I didn't have no offer,
because I don't want to lose my offer. People who
play them games, them strong people, those strong soldiers, and
I ain't got it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Ain't for a lot of you. I need my money.
I know that's right, But you going that. I'm proud
of my girl.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
We're gonna have to go celebrate on you.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
We're going on a little trip, trip, little triple, little commission. Check.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Listen, it's been so much going on, y'all. We're back
with another episode of Humble Baddies. We got my girl
Porsche of Pee in the building and myself, of course,
Alexis could not make it, and Ashley is traveling from
the Essence Festival.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
She actually spoke on a panel, so my girl is
flying back.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Then, y'all fining us tonight. None listen, it's saying hi
over the weekend.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
A few weeks ago, we did speak on Cardi B
and Stephan Diggs and everybody was in support of their relationship.
There was like, oh, Cardi B outside, you know, she's
having fun hot girls summer and I was all okay
with that. My was okay, Cardial, you're moving a little
bit too fast. Don't post them on your main page,
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because you know how things.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Ain't no ring on my finger, you ain't going on
the ground, and she doubled back. She doubled back. She said,
oh he got that thing. He going on the ground?
What what what is step Fun doing to these lines?
I have not a clue. Okay, let's get it.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Let's get into it. Cardibi is step Fun?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Did Cardi just unfollowed him, deleted all their photos together
and suddenly off set It's back on Instagram live grinned
like he just wanted.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Listen.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
He had his tign right now. So what's going on?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Did she post too soon?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
And why do exits always seem to be lurking white
when they knew boot phones. We're talking and petty timing
and while posting your man in twenty twenty five might
be a bigger risk than ever. So get comfortable, call
y'all a little some sum because we're gonna get into
it a little some. So it was all over the
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blogs as we stayed it before Cardi b unfollowed Stefun
digs wiped her Instagram clean. Any trace of their situationship
is gone. There's no spot of it. It's Carti's photo
perche the right thing to do? Or is it too extra?
Because you know the libras don't play Cardia.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Leberker, No, we know. This is what I'm going to say.
I think good for her because after you've been married,
and you've had a tumultuous marriage, a very problematic situation,
a liability, as she called it, you don't necessarily want
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to be attached to somebody like that. And maybe she
just woke up and just decided that she was tired
of seeing him on her gram, whether they was still
messing around or not. Maybe she just doesn't want that
representation anymore. Maybe she just wants to enjoy her situation
in peace, because ironically, it's like, if you don't post it,
it's like it's not happening for most of us. If
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they don't see it, it's not happening. And even if
it is, they have less to talk about. So now
they can speculate if they still together or whatever. But
it's not like it doesn't matter how impressive a woman is,
it doesn't matter how successful she is, it doesn't matter
what she has going on. The minute she's attached to
a man, that's all they can talk about, and it
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could be a small part of her life. They could
not even see each other as often as they want
to see each other. It could not even be that serious.
But just to shear fact that he's on her Instagram
at all, it makes it look like a very very
serious situation. And maybe she just wants her Instagram to
reflect her life and not this very small part of
her life broke up. Maybe she kicked his ass to
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the card.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Who knows it ain't nothing wrong with that, I mean
with I mean I was like that too. I ain't
gonna lie like I was posting my man happy, this,
that and the third. When I got in my feelings
when we went through our little stage, I would temperate
to break up. I'll delete everything I don't want to
think as on my page by unfollowed block. Do what
(07:26):
I gotta do to get gone. But I feel like
that's a leap of trade. But the thing about it is,
I feel like now I'm at a stage where I
just won't post. You won't get all that you're gonna
say on a story if I just put you on
the story and that's it, because it's too much going
back and forth, and.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
I feel like it just calls more people.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
You already have a high profile when it comes to
your fans and everything, it just caused more people to
continuously be in your decents.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Yeah, I wouldn't. I wouldn't suggest that, And I feel
like somebody with that much star power, like I can
understand though, because I'm a hopeless romantic. So when i'm somebody,
I'm so into them. But y'all want to tell everybody okay,
I want to shout it from the treetops. It's I
love and I'm okay. So I understand that. But at
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the same time, when you're a star of that caliber,
like your piece is just so important and it has
nothing to do with him being outside, because I do
think he'd be outside, but you know what I mean, Like,
just let your situation just be your situation, and I
feel like she'll be happier for it, whether they together
or not. Take that man off your Instagram, because it's
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not the same as like when men get a woman,
like their whole entire existence is not wrapped up in
this woman that they sleeping with. It's not the same thing.
If we post a man, it's just like Cardi B
and her new boyfriend or or if I'm his new girlfriend,
and you can't say, like she got plenty going on.
We don't. But now she's somebody, these girlfriends, somebody something,
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and it's like, give it a rest, Let that lady
have an identity.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I feel like this too, because you know, it was
a recent breakup and her and offset was still having
their beef. Like I don't think she fully was recovered.
And sometimes we do things, both men and women do
things out of emotions. They may can be over and
done with the situation, but they feel like just you know,
(09:29):
moving too fast, doing things just to feel like they're
getting to get back. And I feel like sometimes we
do those things and we post so quickly to try
to get a reaction.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Out of her. It definitely did come off like a
little bit petty, but then also it could have just
been I don't know. I'm a big, big advocate for
people doing whatever they need to do to heal. I
do think that some stuff is toxic, but you know,
in moderation, like you never know. It's just like if
you're in a relationship in your you're void of affection
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or someone being sweet to you, or someone being considerate.
If you need a hug, bitch, go get a hug.
And it could be as simple as that doesn't have
to be a life ruiner. Doesn't have to be. It
doesn't have to be all of this like, it could
just be she maybe just hasn't had fun in a
long time, and I bet you he's fun. She probably
was doing more arguing than laughing. I bet you that
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he made her laugh.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
But you know how it is when you get into
something new, it's just the excitement, the butterflies. Every time
when you get in something new, everything is just perfect,
you having fun. That person is amazing. You look past
all their flaws, and then after the time has spent,
the butterflies that are going to wait, now you're truck
starting to see the true traits. That's why it's you
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have to be cautious of who you take serious and
put publicly out there, because you don't know if you're
really meant for this person, because right now it's just
it's fun. It's all fun and games until you see
all four seasons of that person. So now I feel
like party is starting to see if they did break up,
the real true colors of what I don't think.
Speaker 3 (11:13):
That she ever met for I don't know if she
ever meant for that to be a serious situation. You
want my cookies my sunshine. Still my cookies. These are Mike, Okay,
you can have a cookie. Okay, bout taking my cookies.
I have nothing now cookie. You welcome, baby. He's like
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he's my cookies. Okay, baby, Okay, now they all go.
You see what we'll get your brother go to crazy.
Tell yourself. Don't believe me, no cookies. You see my life.
They on my trail. They said, first of all, she
was going for fifteen damn it, minutes where.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Gone.
Speaker 3 (12:00):
I can't even talk about CARDI an't even have me
a little chit check anyways, girl, what would you say.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
We were talking about in regards to Carti and shit?
I think out how she's moving back.
Speaker 3 (12:18):
You can have my kids tripped you up too, damn
I they say, I'm finna comfor everything this lady got today. No,
I think that. I think she just meant to have fun.
I don't know if it was. I don't know you
a liber girl. I'll be falling in love and stuff.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
So we do be falling in love because we are
a hopeless romantic like when we love we love heart
until it's like, okay, I don't have enough, I don't
put it. And we're very quiet we can take in
so much until we can't take in anymore. So I
fit with me as a person, like I'm gonna love you,
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I'm gonna love you heart, I'm gonna hold you down.
I'm gonna even take the bullshit that you brain until
I can't take it no more than I had enough.
Speaker 5 (13:00):
Then I explode. And that's that's how I am.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
That's a leap.
Speaker 5 (13:04):
I feel like a lot of leavers are like that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
But with Carti, Carti always expressed and she always from
from when I follow her, she always like she's she's
not secretive when she talks to her like she and
that's what I respect about her, Like she ain't hid
and nothing. She gonna let you know what it is,
what she got going on, This is what it is.
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And that's why, like there's no nothing, you see everything
up front. What it is, what she she show you is,
it is what it is. So that's why it's.
Speaker 3 (13:38):
Like it's so believable. Like from his standpoint, he's just
with Cardi, he's just having a good time. It's it's
it's nothing, it's not it's whatever. It's not that serious.
He's having a good time. Let him have a good time.
With her. It's like she can't possibly be having a
good time. She just got up with somebody who doing
the same thing Offset is doing, and he out here
playing around on her, and she's some w're heartbroken, and
somebody go check on CARDI. I don't think CARDI give
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a damn. Honestly, I really feel like that lady is
probably somewhere like he think he getting his I'm getting
mine too, I really do feel that way. I don't
even think that she would put herself in a position
to to to be bound up in control to look
in some type of way. She just went through enough.
(14:23):
I think that lady Lot was having a good old
time and and that's it, I hope.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
But we got to get out of having a good
time and and act like you know, posting like giving
them they already have a spotlight, like even giving them
more spotlight of your life.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Yeah, that's true. I agree with you. I feel like
people need to heal, but you know, we need limits,
We need what they be saying, sometimes you gotta get
get somebody. Yeah, I feel like that does work, but
you gotta be careful because then you know, it starts
giving slave, you know, so you gotta you can be careful.
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You got to get.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
A little slutty.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
Slutty to call you a war unfortunately, you know what
I mean, you get under too many that's a problem.
It's a very big girls. She's trying to heal that hurt.
She's trying to laugh again, I'll say her, and it's stressed.
Speaker 2 (15:22):
Get your life, you know what I mean, the best,
the best thing. And I see people promote her and saying,
oh she outside, let her do her. But it's not
healthy at all, it really is. And that's it's it's
speaking from experience. Like you know, you go outside, you
hang out, you may find somebody, they get your little
off or whatever. But you still have to come back
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to that moment when toxic.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
Never said it was. It's plenty of toxic. It's very toxic.
It's not healthy at all. But hey, whatever gets you through.
Sometimes you got to get to the other side. I
can't I imagine that divorce feels like death.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So break up just to break up someone that that
you have to think that you were gonna spend the
rest of your life with that you built the family
with that is hurtful.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
I rebuke it in the name in the time. We
rebuke that, Yes, it's the one. Change it, change it up.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
But I'll say and I'll said, as.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Like you need to say yo, say your little whole song.
He was about to crash out. He feel if it
is something, if it is like some crazy dramatic breakup,
that man's gonna have his popcorn, he gonna be on
the internet like this, he's gonna be doing his He's
gonna be Yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
But but do you feel like it shows like they're
not over each other when you still focused on your
eggs and what they are going on and you're not
completely healed and over that person.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
That's how I feel. Definitely not, I think so. I
also just think it's been too soon for anybody to
be over anybody, you know what I mean, People.
Speaker 5 (17:08):
Getting more, people involved in y'all.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Talk and stuff like just heal yeah, and then a
new person.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Come into the relationship thinking they got a trophy. Meanwhile,
you laid up this person and this person still thinking
about say that, say that, listen, are you are a
lot of the situations out there.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
Before I got married and we broke up and we
got back together. I remember I just I had to
say a prayer, and I said, Lord, I'm so sorry
to them people. Sorry to the people, both of them.
I'm so sorry to the people who got in the
way love because we ain't had no business, you know,
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I'm so sorry to the Sorry to them people, Sorry
to that lady, sorry to all of.
Speaker 4 (17:59):
Them, that we just did not have it together, that
we was really outside playing like that's not that's crazy,
and then just plumb just got back together quick like
ain't nothing happened, Like all right, I.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Ran off, got married craziness.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
And didn't feel bad at all when you had Oh no,
not no.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
I feel okay. After the fact, I felt, you know,
because I do have a conscience. After the fact, I
did feel bad. Uh how abrupt it was because there
was like there was no weaning, there was no oh
I'm kind of it was like, hey, y'all, this ain't
gonna happen no more. Like it was very much. And
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I and I went off, started a family. I went
and lived my life, and he did the same. So
I did feel bad after the fact because there wasn't
nothing wrong with none of them people, you know what
I mean, It's just they just wasn't the right people.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
It was wrong timing and you wasn't ready to move on,
neither one of y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Watch why y'all like here playing these dangerous while y'all were.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Out here playing the people. That's all I can say.
That's it. Thank God, y'all have a beautiful, blessed family.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
And praise God.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
But sorry to the people. So that's it.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Then said, when you post to your dating, I mean
you can post sue your dating. Y'all are married, Do
you own the come up or set yourself up for
the breakdown? I feel like I feel like it's a setup,
but it also depends on the timing and the situation,
because some people can post and be happy, especially if
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you know the spotlight is not on them, and it's good,
you're good. But I feel like with celebrities.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
It's a setup.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
You already like you already, like I said before, you're
already in the spotlight, and people are looking.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
Especially to people who don't like it.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
They looking for the moment when they had come in
and talk shit, Oh it didn't happen, you know, they
didn't stay together.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
I wonder what happened. Trying to dig and find I
think it's a setup for anybody, just celebrity or not.
I think it's a setup for anybody. I love this
new trend on TikTok where it's like they're asking the
question do happily married people Are they gate keeping their marriage?
And most of them are like yes. They get on
there real quick they're like, yes, I'm happy. No, I
don't want to talk about it and put the phone down,
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because it is true. It's like anytime you get on
the internet and you're happy about your love, or you
get on there talking about your man and how he
would never that man starts never in like he's never before.
The minute you get on there talking about this and
all he's so this and we're so this. It's just
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you just destined for embarrassment. And I really hate to
be that person because I don't want to say I
believe in the drinks, because I believe in the Lord.
But if there was a jinx, it would be that
it would be let me get on the internet and
be loud about this love because the people.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Somebody gonna come and look to prove you wrongs, find
a way to prove you absolutely.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
The amount of women in my married man's d MS
acting like they never seen me before. Is is I
don't understand it is crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:32):
Portia, Portia, I doesn't seen women come up in my
face the scene that's together and still like these people are.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Very sect They'll be in your.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Face one day talking about put them on or can
they join? How you get into this at gym whatever?
At the next minute, trying to get in your.
Speaker 1 (21:55):
Mans throat punched.
Speaker 3 (22:09):
All times of happens. You need to be throat punched.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
But it's I don't know why when you do show
you know.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
You're you're happy and you're exposed.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Why some people feel like, oh let me they want
what you have, or they feel like they can get
a chance, or oh this person ain't gonna be watched this.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
I don't know why people have that now. It's a
perversion what you need? It's a perversion, says that bad
or to not even really want it but just want
to see if you can mess with it. Yeah, that's crazy,
you know, keeping people off the internet. You know what
I'm saying. You and a watch and all you're gonna see.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
How you're gonna see is the little risk thing to watch?
Which watch you wear today? You keep it up and
beating pizza together. They're gonna find that man.
Speaker 5 (23:07):
They'll never find them, they would never.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
Hope. You're right. Don't post no if you don't post
no one of one, one of ten, don't post no
no exotic watches. You post some regular well, I mean
they don't do regular. You get found out. Okay, they
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get found out.
Speaker 6 (23:40):
I seen it, and you and him, you gonna get
found out.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
You keep playing around, Okay, got too much dip on
your chip? Sure, Elle, you're great. I miss you.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
If you gotta come home fresh.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Way home when we can do lunch tomorrow, we'll do
lunch tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
But listen, I feel like some people, you know, my
favorite person, who always have a quiet departure when they
have a breakup, and they haven't they've been in a
long term relationship recently, but they're still in a great relationship. Rihanna,
you never like when she break up, it's so quiet
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her departure, her relationship departure was the blueprint.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Do you feel like I feel like she probably the
way she exit it probably be so embarrassing. Don't nobody
really want to talk about it? I feel like she
really be when she about it, it probably hurt real
bad and they don't want to talk about it. Who
want to talk about that?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
You get so, but she do when she do exit
a relationship, she do get quiet, like you don't hear
there's a press conference, the relationships period, you know what
I mean. But I love it for her now though
she healed, she heal, and and you know, and is
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she going her little zone or whatever?
Speaker 3 (25:15):
And now look at baby factory. I love it. I'm
not gonna lie to you. If I had a billion,
i'd have ten more kids. If I had a billy,
i'd lay up and I make babies all the time.
Oh no, ma'am, Yeah, no, no, I would. I'm not
gonna lie. I would. I love having them. And if
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I had a billy, I would do nothing but makeer.
Y'all still making them nine and asked me to stay off.
And we need more money. If he's gonna persist all
of these children, we need more.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Oh, you're gonna have a whole, a whole burdo.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
But I think we're done right now now for now.
We don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, yeah, don't be trying.
Speaker 3 (26:06):
I don't know where they come from. I don't know
where they come from. You know, how to because your
ass jump on top or he jumped on But you
want to know what's crazy is the way that we're
doing it now. We've done it the same way before.
There was like no preventative measures, just nothing but prayer,
you know what I mean. And for a very long
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time we did not pro create and it wasn't nothing wrong.
It won no scares, it want no nothing nothing. Now
it's like they won't stop. I don't know. I don't
know what happened. What your ass get the itch? And
then you don't will my what get to? What? When
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your ass get the itch? You jumping on top of it?
Speaker 5 (26:54):
You need to sit your hardy behind down.
Speaker 3 (26:55):
For you, you gotta put it on me.
Speaker 2 (27:01):
Because it was your fault this last time I think
it was. That was and I told you for sure,
do not get pregnant.
Speaker 3 (27:14):
Pregnant. I don't even know why you said that. Why
would you say that to me and I was pregnant.
That's crazy, that is crazy. I can't believe I did that.
But he was perfect, came so like you here. Oh
he's the most perfect child. I just love him. I
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can't wait to go out there and get him.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Listen, are we too quick to judge when women are
shifting from boyfriends to single.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
In real time. Yes, yes we do. We do.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Every single situation or relationship. People judge even with I'm
gonna say my with Chad. I'm happy for Chad. Chad
is in the relationship, don't you know? Like that man
can't live at peace. I can't live at peace because
people is fighting for either team Shrill and Chad or
you know, he.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
And his feelings.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Oh I'm glad, Like, just let the people live while
y'all didn't give the people no damn closure.
Speaker 3 (28:20):
You feel like we was in a relationship too. The
people wanted to know what the hell I'm just telling you.
The people was like, well what happened?
Speaker 1 (28:26):
Now?
Speaker 3 (28:27):
Well, now what happened? Why we can't reconcile? What about
French Fry? We like y'all together, The people just like
y'all together. Yes, hey, y'all ain't give nobody no closure. Now,
had y'all got on the internet and spewed all your business,
maybe we wouldn't be itching for a reunion. But why
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why do you have to get the closure? Was there?
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Or why do you have to go into detail to
give a clothes?
Speaker 3 (28:53):
I don't know friend, My marriage is not on the blogs,
and I don't wish for it. I'm just telling you
for y'all, for the few of y'all that end up
in people's all of y'all business. So y'all is on
the blogs. You belong to everyone. Now you're like a
public servant. Okay, we own you. Okay, tell us what happens. No,
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you're not gonna get no peaks. I want to know
what happened.
Speaker 2 (29:21):
It's like they listen, I'll be having prayers in my DMS,
long prayers.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
I'm like, are y'all y'all prayers? They be praying.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Portion long long prayer scriptures and everything. I mean, you know,
I take the scriptures and I'm like, these people are
really devoted into.
Speaker 3 (29:39):
It, Honey, I don't know about that. See, I've also
just never been that event. You know. I don't care
about nothing. I'm not invested in other people's lives like that,
not like that. I'm all about families and hell, I
ain't even give you all of that. And I'm your
friend in real life. I said, well, girl, if it's
the Lord as will, but you want me to say
(30:02):
I'm here for you, but not. No, it wasn't a lot.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
And that's why that that is why I chose, like
any time for any other relationship that I ever, you know,
got into, I will not put it out there and
you know in the media because.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
It's a lot. I mean sometimes you read the messages,
you being like, see how long that lasts? You know
you a love a girl I am, but you know
I am a good.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
The number one ghetto Cruise is showing out The topic
is don't hit the sing at one time that I
forgot you gotta say it three times.
Speaker 3 (31:00):
That that bitch. The way they be, they be popping,
I'll be like, they gonna pops. Why I should have
went to antifest this weekend.
Speaker 6 (31:13):
It took my fan, Mule Brown, that's my jail, and
I learned to dance.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
Girl, I still don't you know, I got two little feet.
Speaker 3 (31:31):
You got your friends. But what they did to the fans,
Now what happened.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
The Ghetto is Cruise of the crew of the cruise Lons.
Speaker 3 (31:41):
Carnival Cruise New Rules.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
Carnival has rolled out tough new policies for passengers, especially
on how demand routes. Here's everything that that's been announced
with Carnival Cruise you know Carnival cruise.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
We took over Carnival cruises like Soul Plane or Stay Airlines.
Do you I have been on plenty plenty cars. My
daddy used to go every year, and he took me
on the first one. I was fifteen and I took
my best friend with me. Was that my first cruise?
I don't even know. I might have been twelve. But
(32:18):
Carnival is fun. It's fun, but I'm gonna take you.
Carnival is like.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I used to go on Carnival a lot back in
the day, but you won't catch me on cable no more. Honestly,
I don't cruises. I haven't did a cruise in so long.
My daddy they love going on cruises. My daddy's a
big fan of Carnival. But I just can't do cruises anymore.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
It's like, okay, So part of this feels a bit
like a microaggression, Like okay, so, bitch, what is you
trying to say? Why I can't hand no fan? Who
is you trying to target over here? Because you know
who got the fans? That's right, and it ain't It
ain't back Keith. But I'm gonna out.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Let's get into it, so I'm gonna I'm gonna go
over some of the new the new policies that they
have laid out, and then you tell me your thoughts.
No personal bluetooth or portable speakers. Ear Bud's only ban
on none battery fans, memory of books on the ground,
(33:31):
so you can't have the none battery fans. Fans clacking
on deck led to safety concerns. Hip hop slash rap
void no official band, but DJs are reportedly stearing clear
of these this type of music. New age and minor policies.
Solo travelers must be twenty one and up and under
(33:56):
twenty one needs, say twenty five plus you know Ali
Team curfew. Under seventeen must have must leave public spaces
by one am. No pool chair hogging. Forty minute limit
before staff relocate your stuff.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
Strict drink packages rules.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
Every adult in the cabin must buy the Cheers package.
If one does, price jump to eighty two.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Dollars a day. Alcohol run aboard, hard.
Speaker 2 (34:24):
Liquor beer, glass bottles band limited, Non alcoholic beverages allowed,
No candles, incense, no search protectors, no homemade steamers. Mobility
device restrictions. Scooters must fit in cabins, cabins no dopin
at sea. Throwing things overboard can trigger fine. Is it
(34:44):
two extra or necessary? Are these crews drill policies keeping
everyone safe or just policing black and young passengers.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
Both, because let's be real, people get out of control.
That's why too some of them is necessary. You don't
need to be throwing stuff overboard. You really don't need
a bluetooth speaker. There's music all over the ship, and
it also sounds like it's really the hy ns is
(35:19):
causing all the problems. The team got what it is,
but do not carry the fans. I don't know what
the fan thing is, so I really don't know what
that's about. I don't know. It's giving, it's giving microaggressions.
(35:40):
It's giving like, okay, black people, enough is enough. That's
what it's given, which is crazy because hello, Carnival, we
have been keeping y'all afloat quite literally for years, years
and years. So I mean, I don't I don't know
like I like it, and I don't like it because
I don't like to. Now you can't bring wine. I
(36:01):
thought you could bring wine like they give you like
a little corkage fee. You can bring your own wine.
I also thought that if you had two adults in
the cabin and one person gets a drink package, then
the other person had to I thought that was always
the case.
Speaker 2 (36:16):
I thought I went on a cruise, I thought we
could check in our can.
Speaker 3 (36:20):
I mean, like I've been on a cruise with like
they'll let you bring wine, like a bottle of wine
or two bottles of wine. That celebrity cruise I went
on with my family, they let me bring you.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Listen, all this is gonna make them do when they
start getting strict on that alcohol listinge bottles. You go Amazon,
you buy fake these fake listenine bottles, fake shampoo bottles,
and that's all they gonna do is.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
Put I'm gonna tell you what the problem is, and
it could solve your problem real quick. If Carnival Wild
stop sending everybody emails about two hundred and eighty three
dollars seven day cruises, they would avoid all of this
because if they want so damn cheap, you stop.
Speaker 1 (37:02):
Hello now, the WANs is not.
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Paying thousands of dollars for these cruises. The Wayans is
on your boat for three hundred dollars and tearing it
to hell for seven whole days. Why did you see them?
Speaker 5 (37:16):
Videos?
Speaker 3 (37:17):
Listen them video lord buyer role. Okay, so this I
don't know. For the people in the chat, the cruise goers,
if you go a lot, they'll send you deals. If
you go in the casino like my mama, and you
spend money in the casino, hoy, they gonna send you
(37:39):
a free cruise. They gonna send you on a fourteen
day cruise for two hundred dollars and give you a
five hundred dollars on board credit. I'm trying to tell
you my mother has a cruise booked every month for
the rest of the year because she played them lit
them little nickel slots Carnival. If you up the price
(38:01):
and you stop giving these cruises away for pennies, then
you might be able to shake something. You might be
able to shake something, because then you don't just get
rid of just the unruly black people that you think
you're getting rid of. You getting rid of everybody who
going there and act the damn fool. But don't try
to make it seem like it's just us who popping off.
(38:22):
Don't do that. Don't do that, because ghetto comes off
shades now ghetto comes in off. Yes, I don't like that, true.
Speaker 2 (38:32):
I don't like it's not setting song but the music,
because you you need a little bit of everything.
Speaker 3 (38:39):
First of all, you know, on a cruises all they
play is that your old pop from ten years ago. Gir,
you go on the cruise right now. The hip hop
they're giving you is floor rider, a little yo. You're
finna get meta batore, that's what you're gonna get. You
might get Bodak yell. I was like, oh, ship, they
(39:01):
playing guarney like, let's be like, they're not. They're not
over there giving you a young thug like and if
they are again, I have not been on the Carnival
cruise in a very long time, but I know they
(39:22):
emailing people one hundred dollars cruises and that is your problem.
That's fine. You gotta they doing a little bit too much.
What do you call it?
Speaker 5 (39:37):
I forgot what it's called.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
I can't think of the term right now.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
But they definitely need to stop because they'll be like,
you can get a cruise for now, don't dollars, and
then every passage of that don't.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Make it so everybody can cruise and then get mad
with everybody, cruise everybody.
Speaker 2 (39:55):
When I come on cardival, y'all to get a little better, y'all,
try to change it up a little something something. Y'all
gotta get a better don't try to stereotype it and
change it thinking that you're gonna you know, it's us
who causing the problems. You gotta fix it up and
make it, you know, change for everybody.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
I ain't gonna lie. Sometimes stereotypes be stereotypes and may
be a little true stereotype stereotypes because it's a little truth,
you know what I mean saying Black people coming on
the ship and they got the fans and they're acting up.
I don't know, friend, Sometimes we'll be on the ship
with our fans acting up, are getting out a little bit,
(40:40):
you know, people showing up when they yeah, it's all
in good fun. They probably scared as haling them boats
and the fans. First of all, the fans are loud, girl,
and they come and them fans go off. You feel
like you hear a semi automatical weapon of people probably
on ships scared just hell. Somebody start flapping that fast,
(41:08):
and if it's a crowd, frop frap, girl, you just
don't them people probably be ducking for cover boots on
the ground. Listen, I'm with some of the rules, all
of them. Yeah, the no hip hop thing, good luck, okay,
good luck that y'all got. They want to all the
(41:31):
black as, they's gonna pay dry that's what They're gonna
have a dry ass cruise.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
The Setarrian Loud is about to kick my behind out
talking about some of y'all. Got ten minutes to get
them out of here. They about and pop me up
out of here. So we're gonna continue on carnival.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
Y'all got to get better with respect, y'all. We love y'all.
Speaker 5 (41:53):
We got aunties and uncles said, target, don't do it
of portion? Do you got not?
Speaker 3 (42:03):
Sorry? I just read about target.
Speaker 2 (42:06):
Target trying to target, trying to get they get their
seals back up?
Speaker 3 (42:10):
Can they support back up with what they got to do?
They got to do something. They got to do something.
Kissed us off real bad. Yeah, they they really did.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
Do you got umble Baddy's mail?
Speaker 3 (42:23):
Do it? I want me to read it and you end. Oh,
I'm gonna read it as soon as I find it.
Boom found it? All right? Okay, So this is from Julia. Hey,
Julia girl, Julia from Los Angeles, California. All right, here
we go, Hey, ladies. So I've been dating this guy
(42:45):
for about six months now, and honestly, it's been going
really well. He's handsome, successful and super romantic. Like he
even flew me out to a Ruba a couple of
months ago, and it was one of the best trips
I've ever had, not a rubber. We've had a lot
of fun together and up until recently, I had no
real complaints, but now I'm not so sure. He told
(43:07):
me he had to travel to Chicago for work last weekend.
No big deal. I didn't press it, but I randomly
glanced at his shared Apple card account.
Speaker 4 (43:15):
Okay, okay, because yes, his account info is on my
phone from the Aruba tripp and he never took it off.
Speaker 3 (43:24):
She never dig it off, and I noticed a hotel
charge in Houston for two nights before he even got
to Chicago. I haven't said anything to him yet because
I want to gather my thoughts first, but I can't lie.
It doesn't sit right with me. The crazy part is
a few of my friends warn me about him from
the junk. They said he's known for dating multiple women
at once, that he's a smooth talker and a master manipulator.
(43:47):
But I wanted to see for myself that was your
first mistake. Now I feel stuck between trust and my
gut and not wanting to blow up something that might
be innocent. So tell me, ladies, am I overreacting or
is my man definitely moving shady? And more importantly, would
y'all confront him or play it cool and watch how
it unfolds? Help a girl out before I pull up
(44:08):
to Houston myself.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yeah, now pull up to Hugh myself, Julia, Baby, I
gotta be honest. He's definitely giving shady detour energy. The
man was love bumming you, telling you things you want
to hear, giving you things, flying you out.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
He ain't.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
If it's there, it's there.
Speaker 2 (44:35):
But if you want to talk about it, I wouldn't
hold it in. I definitely would say something to him.
It doesn't have to be an argument, but communicate, but
don't hold it in because he's going to continue to
do more things and more things, and it's just going.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
To build up. So what I'm trying to figure out, Okay,
So I don't like to I don't like to blow
situations up until I know for sure that that you're lying,
You know what I mean. So it could just be
as simple as not like did you go to Houston,
but you know, how was your flight? When did you
(45:09):
get in? You just got to ask him questions. If
that fool just smoothed gloss over the fact that he
spent two days in a different state, then good, Yeah,
you know what I mean, because because what was he doing,
you just didn't know what he was y'all, ain't FaceTime.
You seem in a hotel like, I don't know how this.
(45:31):
I don't know. I'm the investigating type. I'm nosy. I
don't checking. I don't care if there's nothing going on,
I'm checking. I want to see. I just got to stay,
keep me on my toes. I got to see what's
going on. That's just me. I don't know. I think
(45:51):
your first mistake is people warned you about him. Why
would they be warning you about him? He's a smooth talker.
This he's that he's probably raggedy, and you just want
to see for yourself because you hard headed girl. Plus
one and two, he's lying. If he's lies about where
(46:13):
he was for two days, he was hunting and that's it,
and that's all. Know what they said. My girl just
posted what was going on in Houston the people in
the diseases?
Speaker 1 (46:26):
Was that a thing?
Speaker 5 (46:28):
A STDs and Hi get and lion.
Speaker 3 (46:36):
M m oh, but that's the thing, the whole Okay, See,
now this seemed like something you would do because you
don't carry Wallace and you only ever use Apple banet.
His shared Apple card account is still on your phone.
Speaker 6 (46:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (46:54):
He doesn't seem too smart.
Speaker 1 (46:59):
At all.
Speaker 3 (47:00):
But you know, men don't to cheat. Well, then why
did they do it so much? I don't like, you
know what I mean, men don't think like that.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Once they think, once they happened, that it's done. They
don't know how to delete, you know, the all the
evidence that was there.
Speaker 3 (47:22):
It's like, I feel like she just needs to just
ask questions surrounding that, you know, not like were you
in Houston? But just ask him, how was this? How
was that? Would you do this weekend? Blah blah blah.
If he doesn't mention it, then he's he just told
you a blatant lie. I don't know what could be
innocent about it. If he says he wasn't there, then
(47:43):
what did he just used? I don't there's no way
around it, So just ask him what he was doing?
How was his weekend? You know, how was his flag?
What time did he get in and what did he eat?
You do anything fun this weekend? If you don't say, yeah, bitch,
I was in Houston, then he's a liar and then
you can do with that whatever you want. But sometimes
(48:04):
if you're just gonna make excuses for him, wants he
lied to you, don't even say nothing. Just let that
man live his life, you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (48:13):
That's what are you asking us?
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Like girls that wait on, but you don't continue to
just make up lines and build that the.
Speaker 3 (48:25):
Whole notion of oh it could be something innocent. What
could it possibly be if he purposely kept it from you?
Was he shopping? Did he go buy you an engagement ring? Whatever?
Blow the whole secret up?
Speaker 1 (48:38):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (48:39):
Right now, it looks like you're cheating exactly what you're
gonna do port Oh, I'm gonna ask. I'm feeling I'm
a corner. I'm gonna make you lie to me. So
I know what you can do. I ain't gonna outright
just ask you see I'm looking because if you did that,
I'm looking at the whole transaction and I'm doing everything. Oh,
(49:01):
I'm looking at your Uber receipts. That's the only thing
you say for I'm doing the whole ship. And then
she said, pull up to Houston, bitch, is he still there?
Call that man, FaceTime him. Show me something that looked
like Chicago real quick.
Speaker 2 (49:16):
Oh and and and then you lay in bed. Turn
the camera around because they slip away and they're laying
there while you're.
Speaker 3 (49:23):
Talking to I want to see everything, show me everything.
Speaker 5 (49:28):
Going to the bathroom, I need to see everything.
Speaker 3 (49:30):
Show me. I want to go sights you how many
luggages in the closet? That's that? That's that? Tell you
how you know a man? Man cheat? And when he
always call you, if he in the car, if he
call you, when he on.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
The way home.
Speaker 3 (49:47):
Outside of the hotel, on the way home from the club,
and not in the bed at the club. Man like,
you need to call me as soon as you your
head hit the pillow, face timed me, show me the
and I'm gonna do another surprise call on about forty
five minutes. I'll blow you up. And if you don't
pick up. Listen. I've experienced all types of things in
(50:11):
my life to my twenties. It's a good one that
they do.
Speaker 2 (50:15):
They outside acting like they about to walk in home. Baby,
I'm so tired, I'm about to hit the bed before
they get in their room. Okay, no, but I was
uncause I gotta go. I gotta go over these things
with you. So keep on walking until you get up
in that room. Crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 3 (50:33):
Just listening to this just makes me realize how wild
my twenties were, because this is just this is just
a regular Tuesday night in my twenties. He would let
me see what he doing, let me see what he ats.
I'm playing games, right, I'm playing games on the phone. Me.
(50:53):
Hey up, let's be back. This don't sound right. You
don't never go to bed time. You are real quick.
Speaker 2 (51:00):
Why are you sleeping? What's the room number to the hotel?
Because guess what if your phone dead?
Speaker 3 (51:08):
Excuse me? Can you bring me up to such? This
is every detail. I'm gonna ask every detail. So who
was you with what you did? Sometimes it'd be so funny,
shy They try to tell you about the night, and
it be like, yeah, me and my folks Okay, you said, folks,
that sounded like there was some bitches over there, because
if you was with day Kwan and Robert, you would
(51:32):
and Robert and you talking about yeah, and my folks
that had to go meet up with some of them
some bitches in there. That's and you can't tell me otherwise,
My folks, my people's people's skipping. Why you got Why
you got glit on your shirt? Why glit on your.
Speaker 1 (51:54):
Right here?
Speaker 3 (51:55):
Why do you smell like love Spell and bathroom body
Works and love and love bomb?
Speaker 1 (52:01):
Why do you smell.
Speaker 6 (52:04):
Why do you smell like baby powder and ship?
Speaker 3 (52:07):
Like? What yo ask? Look your ass usually be as
you show this, it'd be one spec of glitter right here,
right here that you can only see if you turn
a certain way and be like your answers to the strip.
Speaker 5 (52:31):
You were delusional, crazy, so tired.
Speaker 3 (52:36):
You couldn't pay me to be twenty nothing again, you
hear me, You couldn't pay me to go care what
you got? It was toxic ship.
Speaker 5 (52:48):
I was still like that in my dad n ship.
Speaker 3 (52:53):
Shut up. Oh wait, she's trying to give us the closure.
We need to go ahead and tell us girl, it
was the closure to give us let me almost got
got listen. We love y'all. Julia.
Speaker 2 (53:15):
You gotta do what you gotta do, but you need
to talk to that person. You can't be playing these games.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
Let him keep it real with you. But time.
Speaker 2 (53:25):
Look the people are looking at the door like, ma'am,
you gotta get up out it, get up until that
was another that's the five pors My summit her from always.
Speaker 3 (53:39):
I love your Listen.
Speaker 2 (53:41):
We're gonna have We're gonna have lunch. I'm headed back home.
I can't miss my flag.
Speaker 3 (53:44):
I gotta go tracking down stairs.
Speaker 1 (53:46):
I love y'all.
Speaker 3 (53:48):
I'm on my way.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
Okay, until next, y'all follow us Porsche bitch Mom.
Speaker 3 (53:56):
Tell them where they can follow on Instagram, Porscha Berto,
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some merch twenty percent off if you use the Humble
Batty's code. And yeah, I'm everywhere see by me. I
need some more merch too. I gotta. I'll send it
(54:16):
to your friends. I'll send it to your house. I
love you, but you know I'm still gonna support you.
Speaker 5 (54:22):
Every time port you say I'm gonna send it to you,
I still gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (54:24):
Yeah, She's cripp.
Speaker 2 (54:27):
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Speaker 3 (54:40):
Until next time, we'll see y'all Wednesday. Bye,
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