Sharelle & Alexis are joined by W.A.G.S star Porsha Berto react react Barstool President Dave Portnoy allowing his ex-wife access to his bank account, and we also answer some Humble Baddies fan questions, and much more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Get in my way, never out of my name's been
like you one and the more one.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So is gonna be all right, Yeah, it's time to
get into segment three. Oh this is gonna be a
good one and it's gonna raise a lot of questions
that they can account is still open. So oh yeah, yeah,
all right, I sent it's about.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
None other than Dave how do you say? Port No?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Port No, the bar stewart and the founder of SO
Shanny Sharp did a interview with him recently and it
just it went crazy. His comment in regards to he
still allows exit allows his x X to have access
(00:50):
to his account.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
People was going in on him. Yeah, they were.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
And I even put my two cents in it up
with like over seventeen thousand comments wits I saw it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
That's a good man, Toma, that's a good man.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I was like, and that's why he's blessed. You know,
let's be real. He's the owner of barstil, the founder
of Barstool Sports, and you know, this is also a
stigma in our community too. I feel like because it
was the men were the ones that was like chiming
in on what I said and what I said by
he is The reason why he's blessed is because you know,
(01:31):
I don't know if they have children or not, but
he's protecting and providing still like she was there.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
He said it.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
He was like, I believe its loyalty and I couldn't
afford a Hamburger, and here she is right there supporting me.
And you know what did Drake say started from the
bottom that we hear, and he said they broke up
by the time he really made it, and he wanted
her to enjoy that.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You know, like it's no fun on a yacht alone.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You know what I'm saying, Bring your people around, and
if they do have children, why wouldn't you want her
to be protected and in her mind to be free
and care free and your children, if they don't have children,
it's the next people around you, your friends, you know,
like I.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Made a job so y'all don't have to suffer, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
So I looked at it like even from a spiritual
perspective of the fact that he's still like being generous
and he's giving to her, like you know, they didn't
work out, so he's not bitter. He's healed, she's healed.
They can be friends. And I want my friends to
be up there with me. You know, you got your
rolely on. I got my role on we hearing this together.
(02:36):
It's no fun shopping and spiping, and it's a lot
of money.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Like, what's that going to do? It's a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I mean, I don't know if the viewers did they
research or don't know who they're he's talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
This is wealth.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
And again, if you have generational wealth and you don't
have children, again I don't I don't know anything, but
your friends employ them and make them up there with you.
You know, it's a big deal. And you know she's
even dating someone else. We're so caught upon the next
getting it after us or I work so hard so
(03:10):
you can't have it. We want to hoard it. We
want to you know, keep it for ourselves. And you
know it's too much bitterness. And he's clearly not bitter.
You can tell he still loves her. It's a respect
thing at the end of the day. And so that's
what I said, what I said about the fact that
that's why he's blessed because he's gonna keep getting more,
which he is. He's gonna keep giving it away, which
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whether it's philanthropy friends or you know, his ex or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
It's a bank account. And honestly, I'm sure he has
more than one bank account. But that's enough for her.
But if she wanted who she can rob him. That
means she has access to everything. And he trusts her fully,
and that's what we have to do at the end
of the day. That's who she is, that's her character,
and he trusts that. He's trusted her then back in
the day, and he trusts her now. And I'd rather
(03:56):
have people I trust that have access to my bank account.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
You know, maybe we don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
She's good with numbers and has been helping them pay
bills and keeping them oran we don't know need to do, Stuffy,
it sounds all that what you said. Now put your
on the opposite side, and you're that new woman coming
in he probably about five years now, and you find
out that his act still have access to his funds.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
It's coming from a hill place.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Because I'm now his new situation, and because I'm with
this man and we have this connection and he's honest
with me, then it is what it is. I'm not
harboring that energy into this new relationship. I would That's
not about tracking to a man that's generous and has
that choice and that loyalty and not have that energy
of like hatred from the ex and that heaviness. Don't
(04:45):
bring that shit into my new relationship. It's not about hatred.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I feel like generous and loyal and that's a lot
like we're not talking about just like looking out if
you did what we talk about. We're talking about like
maarital access married anymore. I'm almost wondering why y'all got
divorced in the first place. Exactly, there should be boundary
access you're married anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
I understand that if I had it like that, in
whatever the case, she can have that access to that
account fully and for foremost.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
And I'm sure he has another account. So no, it
would not bother me. I ain't going I ain't going
for it about.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Me that we are women, we are territorial. Like, Okay,
now that you're in this situation, I understand y'all had something,
but baby, let's let's respect our relationship because what happens
is now she still has access.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
It's gonna it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
May not cause confusion right then and there, but it
eventually it's gonna cause confusion. A woman who's not with
you anymore, I still have financial access over all of
what we have coming in because now because we're together,
this is wealth, not you know, rich. It doesn't matter
her legs. It's just bound I get. I get the
(06:03):
boundaries one hundred and I get that. But again, there's
more than one account, Guys, like if if she has
access to now, I don't mind having a family phone.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Girl. You you.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
There's many accounts, guys, I'm looking like that. There's many accounts.
There's many accounts in the family account. It does of
the account he said. He didn't say it's many accounts.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
He said, if we don't know, he's said this side
his mouth.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
If she wanted to, she can rob him, she can
take She hasn't, so she hasn't full of new she hasn't.
But what we're talking about is he's in a new relationship,
married and she's still that wouldn't bother you. Nope, Oh
my goodness, this comes from a hill place. Sure, I'm
(06:56):
just saying again again again, this is we're talking about,
like you know, if you like look at Mackenzie Bezos
and you know all these these they have, it's a
lot of money out.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
We're talking about a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
We're not talking about, you know, a regular situation like
you know the masses.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
This is I'm just going off for what he said.
He was like, I could not afford a Hamburger. We
broke up before I made it to this level. And
that's we're not saying not but to have full access
of all financials when you're in a new relationship, that's
that's not common, and that's not normal, and that's not acceptable.
It's not common, and it's not normal. Ei there is
(07:41):
this situation that's not that's common. I'm not saying it's common.
But if there's open dialogue, it's the open book, and
this is what you do, and this is what y'all
been doing. No, it's not going to bother me, especially
if it's not hindering nothing that we got going on.
That means you're being fully open and honestly matched. All
the people who have bank accounts that people don't know
(08:02):
about and y'all married, and y'all together, and they're hiding
all this stuff behind your back, and that's.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
True, and that's not that's I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Just trying to say, I understand, and I'm just being honest,
slex I. Just I don't think anybody would agree with
another woman, especially an ex or another man, having a
perfel over your whole financial statements and have access to it.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's just what happened with the Rock.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
The Rock his ex wife is his manager. She gets
him all his deals. He's he's very much married and
has children, a whole nother family, and she still is different.
She's his manager just like people and take money. She's
not a manager. She just He's basically saying when they're
basically what's mine is yours?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
It's not a manager. Is he remarried or remarried with children?
Speaker 3 (09:05):
No, I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
No, I don't think so. But I don't know, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
It's just again to the point where even the ex
is married is actually dating. He said she's dating someone
and it's not again right now? You know, so what
you weed? Yeah, well it comes with the territory, you
know what I mean, Just like the one's benefiting off
of my last name or something, or you guys is
(09:34):
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
It's just it's just another way of saying, Look, I
just want to open an honest relationship. Again, we don't
know what people what work wives are doing at these
men's jobs. We don't know how if they over there
helping paying the bills and they got access to the
AMEX and and spiping on themselves and making reservations.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
So it's different levels that gonna have access to one.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Of the car right, But I don't know. That's all I'm
just trying to say. I rather be honest, like, look,
this is my this is my ex wife. She was
there when I had nothing. She has access to this account,
and this is what it is. It's worked for us.
This is what I'd rather. That's than me finding out
and the other way.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
So if that was me and the man was open
and honest and he told me that, I would look
him right in his eyes say go get your woman. Please,
you love that and it's okay, you love that lady.
Go get that lady because you love her. That's your
soul make or get your lady because it.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Can't. I would hope.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I would hope that he does love her, but he
doesn't have to be with her. That's not a respect,
you know, That's that's a lot of.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Make a lot good not understand it.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
It sounds good, but in reality, no matter what how
I say, it's gonna eventually call some type of controversy,
no matter how okay, yes, you know when we end
that that loves saying okay, babe, but just naturally it's
your whole finance, like over everything. She can pull whenever
she wants to, and.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
It's in the beginning.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
You may you may love him in the beginning, but
eventually it will call some type of controversy. And I
love the fact that you know he you can tell
he's that kind of guy. Was like, whatever she wants,
let her have it. That's a different kind of confidence.
Whatever she wants, she because she deserves it. She she
(11:35):
was there for me. You don't know, you don't know
what she's been through. So I'm kudos to him for that.
I actually glad that he said it. I haven't heard
this before where a man has been that confident to
be like I trust her or or you know, I'm
loyal to my people. That's actually I will work for
this man.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I will ask.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Him I would like I would like him to I'm
glad he said what he's said. And kudos for you know,
shout out to Shannon Shark for that, because I don't
think I've ever heard this before where a man is
sitting there with this access and he is barstool sports
by the way, very mad and very macho, and.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He's saying, you know what, which a man's weakest.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Point is their wallet, right, you know that that's just
start to hurt them the most. And that lets me
know that he's running his business in a great way.
He's running his household in a great way because he
is confident, you know, He's like, it's.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Not what's that? What's that?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I got it here? She was here when I hadn't.
He Yes, he's rich, that's what it is. Sobody said
what he said because we needed.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
To hear that. And unless you know who's him and
who's not, want to beat her. Not gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
She's sounds pleasant a woman, she really does. I kind
of want to meet her because she left such an
impression on him. Her layd what she was to him,
she left such an impression on his heart in his life.
He's like, my life's work, my life's work, my fortune.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I believe it right.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Them not because some women get carried away.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
And you can say definitely take care of her. Some
woman get carried figure and will take any and everything
you how someone is after a breakup.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Correct, Honestly, I'm really just sad they divorced. I'm sorry.
I'm just sadday divorced.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Tose people may people and they can't trust each other.
They can't as far as they can throw You and
he are apart, and that is that.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Is then they become to somebody different.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
You have them get get to what they need to be,
and it's like you forget everything that they have done.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
It's a lot of those people there.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I just think of it like I just look at
it like this because I was in this life for
years on a very high level of seeing that. You know,
we got the posse and it's all of us in
the club and you pop in bottles that spending twenty
K and taking the homies shopping because they came up
with you from back in the day, right, you know
(14:15):
what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
And you get a car and they everyone gets a chain.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
When I get a chain, it's that same mentality, you know,
you know what I mean? And his friend is a female,
it's his ex wife, and I think it's dope.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Again. We should have this energy.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
But a lot of us are bitter, a lot of
us are holding generational heaviness.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
I feel like it doesn't have to be bitter at
Garson that.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
I feel like that is extreme to a certain point,
especially once a new relationship isn't involved. But you can
still take care of somebody correct, make sure that they're good.
What that means you really cared about this, Well, that
means he really trusts her. Yeah, he really trusts her,
and he really cared about her enough to be like, look,
I'm handing this over to you, and do you know
(15:00):
you go ahead, go go go. You know again, when
when sexy Lexi yach come pulls up, I can't. I
don't want to be on there by myself. Y'all, y'all
have to come like you know, we just got to ride,
got to ride out.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Okay, Yeah, yeah, he's still that Does this give he's
still emotionally connected energy or could it just be convenienced interest?
Speaker 2 (15:28):
I think it's a combination of both. Yeah, think, yes,
he's he's connected and he should be. He's it's respectful.
That's like his family, this extended family and now he's
a multi millionaire or whatever, and she was there when
I had nothing, just as even if she was a man.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Same thing. What do you think, Portia, I think it's everything.
I think that there is. I'm sure he still loves her.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
I'm not gonna say he loves her romantically, but he's
still he definitely appreciates her, because that it seems like
a kind of appreciation. And also I think that it
couldn't he just he probably knows her wealth or not.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
She might not even be a big spinner.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
She might go out and really try to blow her
load and by everything she's ever wanted, and it still
wouldn't mean much to him. It still wouldn't She couldn't
really just be one of them girls just like no
simple in that way of you know, nothing too extravagant.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
She doesn't over consume like he knows her, so it.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
You know, it feels it sounds odd because they're divorced.
If I had found somebody, you know, as a man,
and you know, I didn't have anything, and then I
have all of this and I could still trust her
with my fortune, and and she's with somebody else, and
he's like, yeah, she could take a half a billion
(16:50):
to pay for her own wedding and she can do that.
If I really had that type of trust and affinity
for somebody, I don't even think I'd be able to
let them go because I just feel like that's it's
so rare, it's.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
So yeah, I mean yeah, I think he loved that
lady and he lay and it would be hard.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
For another woman to come in and accept that.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
I don't care how secure you are, but to be
able to fill some shoes like that, and it will
call some type I don't care what people say, it
will call some type of insecurity if you don't have any.
It's just it's natural. It's a natural feeling. So people
can say, oh, you know this that and the third No,
it's a natural feeling. It's we're human beings.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Because I don't know, are a lot.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Of divorced men who still take care of their wives
in a way that like you know, they're still there
for them, or if they have a lot of money,
they sill and not like on some corpl but like
you know, I still want to make sure she's okay.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
This is taking it a step and a few notches. Yes,
it is. It's very rare. Yeah, this is this is
just turned up a bit like a lot. Actually it's
a lot.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
That's why. That's why it's like views and so many
comments and all that energy, because he has to be
able to take on some ship like that unless you
know what, unless you know you got your blind holds on.
I don't care about I want, I want you know
I am. I am projecting and very much like putting
(18:23):
out there a healed man, a generous man, a man
that is very much I want to love me and
put me on a pedestal and be honest, and it
coming from a hill place.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
So like you know, talk to me, Let's talk about it.
What works for you.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Naturally, there's nothing wrong with them, That's not what I'm saying.
Like I would love to be with someone like that.
What I'm saying is, naturally, it's still gonna call some
type of insecurities or something because we're naturally, we're human beings.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
No matter how healed you.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Are, no matter how it's gonna something is gonna question,
wow he really trust this or while she really trust
this person?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (19:03):
It's just look, it may not even be.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
A lot, but it's still gonna raise some some antenna
why is this person? Why does this person still have
full access? Even even if he explained why, but full
access while we're together, I'm gonna be I think, what's
gonna end up happening If he does, like say, hey
I found someone, we're together, we're serious, then there's gonna
(19:28):
be some some differences. It's gonna be a different bank account.
I'm sure, but I mean we're speculating.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
I don't know. We don't get.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Money because like all the women are like yes, yes, yes, king, yes.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, and all the mental life was on the other side.
That's just coming in. They won't be saying yes king,
yeat king.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
They're gonna be like, okay, baby, let's full up. Yes,
no more, Okay, it's enough. I know she was there
riding with you, but now you have, you know, a new.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Ship up in town. Let's lay out some boundaries and
that's fine.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Did they say if I'm not saying, I'm not saying,
don't take care of her or stop taking care of
her boundaries?
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Now it's us. We're in a relationship for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Want somebody on the outside to see what we're investing
in or what we're spending.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
In, like creating you. We want boundaries for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
For sure, I'm not saying you not to have boundaries,
you know at all. You definitely want to speak up
and say what makes you feel any kind of way.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
You know, that's his pocket account. That's how I feel.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Like, that's what I'm saying, like if you really know,
baby exactly, Like it's okay, guys, it's okay. There's more
where that came from. Like I look at again Mackenzie
Scott who was married to Jeff Bezos, Like she can't.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
It's just too much money. She just got to keep giving.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
It away, you know, like come on, he's like she
was there with me in the garage, want of you know,
like it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
She has sharers. I mean, she was there and I
wish more. I wish more of us, but she ain't got.
She ain't got. She got her own, She got her
own access, is what it is. Yeah, he took care
of her, you know, whatever she wants. With the situation,
I just can't.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
I can't be with somebody who allows enough their ex
to have full access.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
It's just saying, it's a lot more people that we
just don't know. I don't mind him taking care of like.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
We don't figure it out together. Google, I'll stay with you.
We won't navigate it.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
We gotta figure this.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Just think of everyone who you know that Again, they
don't know about even secret account.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
So he's putting it out there like, look, she got
access to this one, so so be it. Okay. That'd
rather that rather that with the X than a secret
bank account where he's over here doing other stuff. So
that's that. Yeah, I ain't how he put it out.
He said, baby girl got excess the ear thing. I
want to meet her.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
She sounds like interesting. Nothing against the old lady, nothing
against you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (22:13):
She said, got one? Yeah, here's okay, Ladies, be honest.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Have you ever kept taps on an ex bank account, emails,
or social socials after the breakup?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
No, I ain't keep taps. The only thing that I
did with my ex is making sure that the bills.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
But it's good that I want experience in that department,
So yeah, making sure that's great. Make sure this is spay,
make sure I have taps of it. Just remind her
friendly remonder, Hey this, yeah, it's over. So wish you well,
Alexis I get to see that that a Gary you
(22:59):
had Obviously it looks.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Amicable, but you had like your divorce, was it easy, pasy? Hell?
Speaker 2 (23:07):
No, true, no, because you're essentially giving paying someone to
two different parties who don't know anything about you. They
don't know your history, they don't know your pillow talk,
they don't know how you feel like you're gonna raise.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Your kids, they don't know anything that you want to
do together.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
As co parenting is on an umbrella of what your family,
which you have for your family, your travel, you're this,
your that.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
So they go by regulations of a board or a
metric of metrics.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
You know this this rubric scale of slide this number
in here, slide this number in here. This is what
we've done because this is the law. So I was
in a different position obviously because you know they're just
because right we all.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
We all know that.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
So it was it was not It was a lot
of because I met Mario when we were night team,
so it's been a lot of build up of his
wealth and our wealth together. We started off very young
at this again, so like I look at it, like,
you know, he could have gone to the left, but
his career, or he could have gone to the right,
(24:14):
but in the court.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
In the courts, they don't care if you're a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
They don't care if you've been put in some work
and some blood sweating hours and all that. If you
don't have that piece of paper with your last name
on there that says this was my wife or my husband,
it don't count. You don't get benefits from the NBA,
you don't get benefits from anything else.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
You gotta get your own medical you gotta get your
own this. You're still separate.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
So like, you know, you could be with someone for
so many years and get no benefits from it on paper,
you know what I'm saying. So like it was not amico.
But because the people you come in from a hurt
space too. You also it's very instant. You're coming from embarrassment,
You're coming from a place of like trying to figure
out the future. Because at the end of the day,
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a divorce is like death. You know, you go through
these different moods. So one day you could be mad
at that person. The next day, you can be sad,
the next day, you can have remorse the next day.
You have just all these different issues. So whatever that
lawyer is putting in front of you that day and
you're making that decision, you're thinking about the lifelong dream
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now becoming a reality in real time because this now
is over. You know, you plan to go on trips
a year ahead, you plan on saving these things, and
your children going to this school, and this, this and this.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
That all is financial awareness and planning.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
So when it's now stripped and now being able to split,
you're splitting banks, counts, you're splitting investments, you're splitting portfolios.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
You're spitting all these assets.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
That would a collaborative like you know when you're collaborating
with a net worth, Now you're splitting it. It's horrible,
it's horrifying, and it's splitting up the generational wealth. But
at the end of the day, the beautiful blessing is
because we do have a family. We do have four
children bested properly, and we also make sure our children
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are good. Because at the end of the day, that's
the focus. People start getting individual. Well, he's not gonna
be in my house or the house that I put
my money in. It shouldn't be about that. Are the
kids safe?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Is this where they go to school? Are their friends
in the neighborhood?
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Is this the kind of car.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
They should be driving me because it's safer rather than
you know, X, Y and Z. So I look at
it like this.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
You have to be careful who you lay with at
the end of the day because you never Okay, you
have to be careful who you lay with at the
end of the day because a child is forever, you
know what I mean. So that's who are my first
Our priority is are the children? What's best for them exactly?
Speaker 3 (26:42):
So I know what you mean by like when the
attorneys come through and they're just like, you know, they
don't know you personally, don't know everything that you put
it in. They don't know what the dynamics of the relationship.
They're just going by the metric system. You have to
have a separate conversation be like, Okay, your lawyer don't
know me. He ain't fair, he's finna get hit, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
What I mean? Did you get on their job? And
so is mine.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
So they'll put in stuff in your ear like oh
you should do this, or in the opposing again, it's
a battle and it's the finale, you know what I mean.
That's it. Once there is do you sign on that
dotted line, it's over, you know, and you can't go
back and be like, oh, I made a mistake or
I was just playing, you know what I mean. No,
it's setting standard because it has to be. It's a legal,
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binding contract and you have to adhere.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
To it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
So it's just it's a tough it's a tough thing.
That's why I don't recommend divorce to anybody. You know,
you're splitting and it's it's heartbreaking, but it has to happen.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Would you would you.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Would have tried to read kandle looking at it now
and made it work instead of after going through that divorce?
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Would you have tried to fight a little harder to
make it work?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Do y'all see this skin? It looked life bothered to me. Okay, bet,
I'm let me just be real, like with with any breakup. Okay,
I'm glowing up. I'm glowing up. And this was all
God's plan and I am following my dreams. I would
have been more distracted because I'm very much a hands
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on wife and so it's and I was behind this,
this this god of a man on earth that everyone worships.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
And that's a lot of work.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Okay, that's a lot of work behind the scenes, behind
these doors.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
And we have kids, and we have y'all in comments,
and we have.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Everyone in our business, and we got family we gotta
take care of, and we got uk all these things.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
So that's a full time job.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
So now it's different because I am learning my financial
awareness from my household.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
I am grocery shopping for myself and my kids.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
I am planning and time managing my mental time and
my doctor's appointments, and I'm looking out for a Lexus
and I'm happy. So this was all God's plan for
me to not be in that situation because I am
in love with Alexis.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
And now whoever gets all of this is getting a
complete just who maybe you need to say it again,
tell the people you a real wife, and you a
good wife, no regrets to get get all these blessings.
Like you said, when you're a good wife.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
You were clocked in that shree baby, Come on, a
good wife, that pretty bird woman.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Okay, yeah, these babies are graduating.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
These babies are clean, these babies are fed, they sleep
good at night, they're in a beautiful we say, oh baby,
were good.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Over here.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Let me let me just interject because I was having
this conversation with somebody earlier today.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
They were talking about Cardi B and Stepha what's his name, Stephan?
Oh yeah, well somebody it was.
Speaker 3 (29:55):
It was a comment or something, and I had a
conversation with somebody about the comment like, oh, you know,
she left her husband just to go beyond like somebody's
roster type thing.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
And I said, wait, wait a minute, wait anything is
it will look like that. It will look like.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
Because she was a wife, and a lot of people
feel like that is surprised, and it is a prize,
it is an honor. But it's also like, if your
husband has a roster, why wouldn't you be in a
better position if you just stop being a wife and
you got with somebody else.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
And yes, you're on his roster, but you're not a
wife because being a wife is so much. It's a lot.
You have a lot. You have so much obligation, so
much sacrifice, so much energy.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
I prompt you, I like, if Andre wasn't here, do
you think I was so freely just become somebody else's
wife again.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Get that over. Absolutely, I'm not ever going to love
another person ever. This month, the way that I have
given my it is so serious and if you're a
mut wife and your wife and if you really you know,
take honor in that title exhausting.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
So I'm sitting like, Okay, she's with this man, and
she might be on a roster or he could be
on hers, but being a wife is exhausting. And if
you're going to do all that, like you don't want
to be doing all that for your husband who got
a roster.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
It gets tiring.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
And they've been famously known to like have already been
like trying to be like put the divorce papers out there, right,
so she a topic, that was a topic. Drink, be happy,
don't worry, be happy.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Move on, he's happy.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
We only have one time at this life, y'all one time,
and that's it. I'm not gonna be miserable. I'm not
gonna be trying to make something one side and trying
to make you're draining. You're doing all the rank duties
and you get a whole ross thing right, that's lopsided,
that's not equally yours.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
But but you know, I'm very much for marriage, and
i'd be looking at you in the min thank you,
you know what I mean. I'd be like, thank you.
I wish they could. Well, we have mott pass. We
put in, we put in, we put in half of
two decades. We put in half. And guess what he
got me?
Speaker 2 (32:39):
Fresh your time. You got me forever with these grand babies,
because I'm gonna be there. You got me every graduation,
we graduating.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Yeah, but you know.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Somebody else here and get all this this goodness and
this blessing baby, because I don't go back.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Look this is this is the diamond and the rough
over here, you know, yes, and ready to me. Do
you see that stain? It's glowing. Lenks know how to cook,
she knows how to clean, She know how to be
a fool. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
She kind of filled us up a little bit lately.
I'm thinking she might might already have a little something,
a little something yeah you yeah, possibly she got she
got some. She got three and impossible. Listen, I'm here,
I'm here for lex.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
You just say, I'm happy.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
I'm good like we we I'm I'm happy, I travel three,
I'm everything is moving in my direction right now.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
I'm God's favor right now like I'm yeah, I'm I'm
where I need to be.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
Like emotionally physically, spiritually, financially, Like you know, it's a
hard time from the bottom. But you know, if I
would have known what I am feeling right now, then
we of course we would feel like, okay, I can
get over it whatever.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
But this is working progress. This is this is time.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
You held through it and I'm still healing. I'm still
going through it. You know, it's always something.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
You're right. It takes time. Look, thank you, I feel
great glowing. I need you to send me that routine
that you're doing for that skin to keep on blowing
away glow. It don't matter. She got up.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
We got to hear what the secret is today glowing
skin over there, you know, drinking plenty of water and
minding my business period.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
That's all right, you guys. We got to we gotta
wrap it up. What we got next? And then lost
my notes. It was getting good shoesy, Yeah, we just them.
Do you think you got? Were loving it when we
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have humble bodies? Mal what we got? Yes, we are
into the last. No, we have questions. The fans.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Don't say I'm the humble baby porture. You want to
say that you got to it's the fun.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
No, No, I don't have it.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
I can do it.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
I don't have it, I got it, I'm ill. Okay,
So we'll wrap it up with this this last segment.
So here are questions from the Humble Baddies fans. If
you had to leave the US, what are your taxing
places you have moved to?
Speaker 1 (35:47):
Ladies?
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Mm hmmm, yes, you're going to You're gonna answer why not.
I'm gonna say Italy. Yes, I love Italy to go
to in the Caribbean because I love beaches and I
love sun and I love saying but Italy is It's
kind of my vibe.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
I love that. I love that.
Speaker 2 (36:11):
I love Italy and I would also since we lived
at Israel, I would actually live back in Israel. I
loved it over there, and it's a give access points
to other cities and countries too, so nice Italy for
the food. Probably would move to Paris, oh Pari, yes,
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and one other place.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Would move to Legos. Okay, I love that. Now there
we go.
Speaker 2 (36:50):
You get one redo in life. What moments are you
going back to fits or we leave? And you can't
say I wouldn't change any thing, Oh but I was.
Letn't No wonder are you going to back to fix
or relive, yeah, okay, or we live. Oh, man, I
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would relive a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, I relive a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Probably go back and relive not getting married at an
early age and experience my youth.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
I probably would relive, you know, having no because I'm blessed,
no baby, actually you know, getting married at an early
age and and just living and experiencing you.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Mm hmm. Okay, So you are we asking this question.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
With like, Okay, we could change anything, but we would
end up right back here anyway.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
I wouldn't get married. I wouldn't get married so early
I got married at Tony because that would change my answer.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
If I knew that I would have all of this
right now and I'd be who I was and everything
would be what it would be, then yeah, I would
change something.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
If I knew, I'd still be here.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
Yeah, I'll still be where I'm at today if I
even if I didn't get married.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Relive a movement, Oh, trying to think.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
I want to say, mine, Pia, this is uncut and unfiltered.
We don't kill it, and we don't think.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I say all the time that.
Speaker 3 (38:33):
If I could have skipped a lot of the a
lot of the growing pains in my relationship in my twenty.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
That I absolutely would have, Like when he was working
my nerves.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
If I could have just told him to go and
buy his business but I knew that we would eventually
come back together and do what we're doing now, that
would be perfect. But lord, if if I just could
have told you getting on my nerves, you know what
I mean, if you need to go away from me
with that and then come back twenty eight, you know
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what I mean, twenty seven, twenty eight and then because
let me tell you, my twenties was so tumultuous and
so dramatic for no reason, for no reason at all,
just figuring just us figuring out that we loved each
other was exhausting.
Speaker 1 (39:32):
It was exhausting. I would say that I think of that,
I'm being exhausted.
Speaker 3 (39:37):
But if I know, like if we would just end
up right back here with our kids and we're married
and everything is is easier, then yeah, I would change that.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I think for me, if I were to relive a
moment would probably be right before I had kids. I
think I would have just waited longer. But then at
the same time, while you haven't kindergarten graduation.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
I have two drivers and they're too graduated. So like,
I guess I.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Would just relive that moment of like that freedom before
children and just like you know what, where would I
have lived or traveled to or whatever. But it's kind
of worked out because it's like, you know, I'm living
it right now. So I feel like it goes both
ways with everyone, you know.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
At the same time, I'm like, I would have told
him to going by this business, but then she used
the reason why my twenties was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
I know right about it, I feel that was still
some good with the bad. Yeah, and that's for everything
he hired. But no, we are more good. This is
definitely more good.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
We gotta wrap it up. Yes, all right, we gotta
wrap it up. So we gotta do one more question
number four. Number four, would you day someone who doesn't
believe in birthdays, holidays, or gifts giving?
Speaker 1 (41:08):
Oh, it's a hard note for me.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
My love.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
And receiving do them all?
Speaker 2 (41:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (41:21):
No, I like I like celebrations, I like memory. Yes,
I need a lot of holidays.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
And I want to Like No, I force myself with
you because it's kind of conse confusions.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
No, baby, I love a festive partner.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
I want someone that's like pulling out the decorations before
I can, or just looking forward to something, you know
what I mean, like let's let's turn up, let's have
a good time, let's have people over, let's let's enjoy life.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
Yeah, get their released.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
I don't need you to be as enthusiastic as I am,
but I need you to not contest me when I
say I want to throw something on the grill.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
I want these people to come.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Don't.
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Don't.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Don't roll your eyes when I say I want to
be you want her hot dollars? She want to be paid? Yeah?
And the little jump juices at the boil on top. Yes,
I need that. All right, you guys, that's enough of
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batty tonight. We enjoyed the guy.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
Thank you for your storys lex Uh. You know you
are amazing. You're always given great advice. Is money as hell.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
Y'all make sure.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Y'all follow y'all tell them what they can follow you guys.
I'm sure resulted unscore on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
I'm a Lexus underscore stidamre on Instagram and I'm at
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Speaker 2 (42:52):
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subscribe to Humble Batty's podcast on YouTube and tell all
your people to subscribe.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
Until next time we go, see y'all on Wednesday,
Get in my way, never out of my name's been
like you one and the more one.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So is gonna be all right, Yeah, it's time to
get into segment three. Oh this is gonna be a
good one and it's gonna raise a lot of questions
that they can account is still open. So oh yeah, yeah,
all right, I sent it's about.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
None other than Dave how do you say? Port No?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Port No, the bar stewart and the founder of SO
Shanny Sharp did a interview with him recently and it
just it went crazy. His comment in regards to he
still allows exit allows his x X to have access
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to his account.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
People was going in on him. Yeah, they were.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
And I even put my two cents in it up
with like over seventeen thousand comments wits I saw it.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
That's a good man, Toma, that's a good man.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I was like, and that's why he's blessed. You know,
let's be real. He's the owner of barstil, the founder
of Barstool Sports, and you know, this is also a
stigma in our community too. I feel like because it
was the men were the ones that was like chiming
in on what I said and what I said by
he is The reason why he's blessed is because you know,
(01:31):
I don't know if they have children or not, but
he's protecting and providing still like she was there.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
He said it.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
He was like, I believe its loyalty and I couldn't
afford a Hamburger, and here she is right there supporting me.
And you know what did Drake say started from the
bottom that we hear, and he said they broke up
by the time he really made it, and he wanted
her to enjoy that.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
You know, like it's no fun on a yacht alone.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You know what I'm saying, Bring your people around, and
if they do have children, why wouldn't you want her
to be protected and in her mind to be free
and care free and your children, if they don't have children,
it's the next people around you, your friends, you know,
like I.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Made a job so y'all don't have to suffer, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
So I looked at it like even from a spiritual
perspective of the fact that he's still like being generous
and he's giving to her, like you know, they didn't
work out, so he's not bitter. He's healed, she's healed.
They can be friends. And I want my friends to
be up there with me. You know, you got your
rolely on. I got my role on we hearing this together.
(02:36):
It's no fun shopping and spiping, and it's a lot
of money.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Like, what's that going to do? It's a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
I mean, I don't know if the viewers did they
research or don't know who they're he's talking about.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
This is wealth.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
And again, if you have generational wealth and you don't
have children, again I don't I don't know anything, but
your friends employ them and make them up there with you.
You know, it's a big deal. And you know she's
even dating someone else. We're so caught upon the next
getting it after us or I work so hard so
(03:10):
you can't have it. We want to hoard it. We
want to you know, keep it for ourselves. And you
know it's too much bitterness. And he's clearly not bitter.
You can tell he still loves her. It's a respect
thing at the end of the day. And so that's
what I said, what I said about the fact that
that's why he's blessed because he's gonna keep getting more,
which he is. He's gonna keep giving it away, which
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whether it's philanthropy friends or you know, his ex or whatever.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I mean.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
It's a bank account. And honestly, I'm sure he has
more than one bank account. But that's enough for her.
But if she wanted who she can rob him. That
means she has access to everything. And he trusts her fully,
and that's what we have to do at the end
of the day. That's who she is, that's her character,
and he trusts that. He's trusted her then back in
the day, and he trusts her now. And I'd rather
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have people I trust that have access to my bank account.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
You know, maybe we don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
She's good with numbers and has been helping them pay
bills and keeping them oran we don't know need to do, Stuffy,
it sounds all that what you said. Now put your
on the opposite side, and you're that new woman coming
in he probably about five years now, and you find
out that his act still have access to his funds.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
It's coming from a hill place.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Because I'm now his new situation, and because I'm with
this man and we have this connection and he's honest
with me, then it is what it is. I'm not
harboring that energy into this new relationship. I would That's
not about tracking to a man that's generous and has
that choice and that loyalty and not have that energy
of like hatred from the ex and that heaviness. Don't
(04:45):
bring that shit into my new relationship. It's not about hatred.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
I feel like generous and loyal and that's a lot
like we're not talking about just like looking out if
you did what we talk about. We're talking about like
maarital access married anymore. I'm almost wondering why y'all got
divorced in the first place. Exactly, there should be boundary
access you're married anymore.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
I understand that if I had it like that, in
whatever the case, she can have that access to that
account fully and for foremost.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
And I'm sure he has another account. So no, it
would not bother me. I ain't going I ain't going
for it about.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Me that we are women, we are territorial. Like, Okay,
now that you're in this situation, I understand y'all had something,
but baby, let's let's respect our relationship because what happens
is now she still has access.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
It's gonna it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
May not cause confusion right then and there, but it
eventually it's gonna cause confusion. A woman who's not with
you anymore, I still have financial access over all of
what we have coming in because now because we're together,
this is wealth, not you know, rich. It doesn't matter
her legs. It's just bound I get. I get the
(06:03):
boundaries one hundred and I get that. But again, there's
more than one account, Guys, like if if she has
access to now, I don't mind having a family phone.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Girl. You you.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
There's many accounts, guys, I'm looking like that. There's many accounts.
There's many accounts in the family account. It does of
the account he said. He didn't say it's many accounts.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
He said, if we don't know, he's said this side
his mouth.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
If she wanted to, she can rob him, she can
take She hasn't, so she hasn't full of new she hasn't.
But what we're talking about is he's in a new relationship,
married and she's still that wouldn't bother you. Nope, Oh
my goodness, this comes from a hill place. Sure, I'm
(06:56):
just saying again again again, this is we're talking about,
like you know, if you like look at Mackenzie Bezos
and you know all these these they have, it's a
lot of money out.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
We're talking about a lot of money.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
We're not talking about, you know, a regular situation like
you know the masses.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
This is I'm just going off for what he said.
He was like, I could not afford a Hamburger. We
broke up before I made it to this level. And
that's we're not saying not but to have full access
of all financials when you're in a new relationship, that's
that's not common, and that's not normal, and that's not acceptable.
It's not common, and it's not normal. Ei there is
(07:41):
this situation that's not that's common. I'm not saying it's common.
But if there's open dialogue, it's the open book, and
this is what you do, and this is what y'all
been doing. No, it's not going to bother me, especially
if it's not hindering nothing that we got going on.
That means you're being fully open and honestly matched. All
the people who have bank accounts that people don't know
(08:02):
about and y'all married, and y'all together, and they're hiding
all this stuff behind your back, and that's.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
True, and that's not that's I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Just trying to say, I understand, and I'm just being honest,
slex I. Just I don't think anybody would agree with
another woman, especially an ex or another man, having a
perfel over your whole financial statements and have access to it.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
That's just what happened with the Rock.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
The Rock his ex wife is his manager. She gets
him all his deals. He's he's very much married and
has children, a whole nother family, and she still is different.
She's his manager just like people and take money. She's
not a manager. She just He's basically saying when they're
basically what's mine is yours?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
It's not a manager. Is he remarried or remarried with children?
Speaker 3 (09:05):
No, I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
No, I don't think so. But I don't know, I
don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
It's just again to the point where even the ex
is married is actually dating. He said she's dating someone
and it's not again right now? You know, so what
you weed? Yeah, well it comes with the territory, you
know what I mean, Just like the one's benefiting off
of my last name or something, or you guys is
(09:34):
or whatever.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
It's just it's just another way of saying, Look, I
just want to open an honest relationship. Again, we don't
know what people what work wives are doing at these
men's jobs. We don't know how if they over there
helping paying the bills and they got access to the
AMEX and and spiping on themselves and making reservations.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
So it's different levels that gonna have access to one.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Of the car right, But I don't know. That's all I'm
just trying to say. I rather be honest, like, look,
this is my this is my ex wife. She was
there when I had nothing. She has access to this account,
and this is what it is. It's worked for us.
This is what I'd rather. That's than me finding out
and the other way.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
So if that was me and the man was open
and honest and he told me that, I would look
him right in his eyes say go get your woman. Please,
you love that and it's okay, you love that lady.
Go get that lady because you love her. That's your
soul make or get your lady because it.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Can't. I would hope.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
I would hope that he does love her, but he
doesn't have to be with her. That's not a respect,
you know, That's that's a lot of.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
Make a lot good not understand it.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
It sounds good, but in reality, no matter what how
I say, it's gonna eventually call some type of controversy,
no matter how okay, yes, you know when we end
that that loves saying okay, babe, but just naturally it's
your whole finance, like over everything. She can pull whenever
she wants to, and.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
It's in the beginning.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
You may you may love him in the beginning, but
eventually it will call some type of controversy. And I
love the fact that you know he you can tell
he's that kind of guy. Was like, whatever she wants,
let her have it. That's a different kind of confidence.
Whatever she wants, she because she deserves it. She she
(11:35):
was there for me. You don't know, you don't know
what she's been through. So I'm kudos to him for that.
I actually glad that he said it. I haven't heard
this before where a man has been that confident to
be like I trust her or or you know, I'm
loyal to my people. That's actually I will work for
this man.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
I will ask.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Him I would like I would like him to I'm
glad he said what he's said. And kudos for you know,
shout out to Shannon Shark for that, because I don't
think I've ever heard this before where a man is
sitting there with this access and he is barstool sports
by the way, very mad and very macho, and.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He's saying, you know what, which a man's weakest.
Speaker 2 (12:15):
Point is their wallet, right, you know that that's just
start to hurt them the most. And that lets me
know that he's running his business in a great way.
He's running his household in a great way because he
is confident, you know, He's like, it's.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Not what's that? What's that?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I got it here? She was here when I hadn't.
He Yes, he's rich, that's what it is. Sobody said
what he said because we needed.
Speaker 1 (12:39):
To hear that. And unless you know who's him and
who's not, want to beat her. Not gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (12:46):
She's sounds pleasant a woman, she really does. I kind
of want to meet her because she left such an
impression on him. Her layd what she was to him,
she left such an impression on his heart in his life.
He's like, my life's work, my life's work, my fortune.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I believe it right.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Them not because some women get carried away.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
And you can say definitely take care of her. Some
woman get carried figure and will take any and everything
you how someone is after a breakup.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
Correct, Honestly, I'm really just sad they divorced. I'm sorry.
I'm just sadday divorced.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Tose people may people and they can't trust each other.
They can't as far as they can throw You and
he are apart, and that is that.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
Is then they become to somebody different.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
You have them get get to what they need to be,
and it's like you forget everything that they have done.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
It's a lot of those people there.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
I just think of it like I just look at
it like this because I was in this life for
years on a very high level of seeing that. You know,
we got the posse and it's all of us in
the club and you pop in bottles that spending twenty
K and taking the homies shopping because they came up
with you from back in the day, right, you know
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what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
And you get a car and they everyone gets a chain.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
When I get a chain, it's that same mentality, you know,
you know what I mean? And his friend is a female,
it's his ex wife, and I think it's dope.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Again. We should have this energy.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
But a lot of us are bitter, a lot of
us are holding generational heaviness.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
I feel like it doesn't have to be bitter at
Garson that.
Speaker 2 (14:36):
I feel like that is extreme to a certain point,
especially once a new relationship isn't involved. But you can
still take care of somebody correct, make sure that they're good.
What that means you really cared about this, Well, that
means he really trusts her. Yeah, he really trusts her,
and he really cared about her enough to be like, look,
I'm handing this over to you, and do you know
(15:00):
you go ahead, go go go. You know again, when
when sexy Lexi yach come pulls up, I can't. I
don't want to be on there by myself. Y'all, y'all
have to come like you know, we just got to ride,
got to ride out.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
Okay, Yeah, yeah, he's still that Does this give he's
still emotionally connected energy or could it just be convenienced interest?
Speaker 2 (15:28):
I think it's a combination of both. Yeah, think, yes,
he's he's connected and he should be. He's it's respectful.
That's like his family, this extended family and now he's
a multi millionaire or whatever, and she was there when
I had nothing, just as even if she was a man.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Same thing. What do you think, Portia, I think it's everything.
I think that there is. I'm sure he still loves her.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
I'm not gonna say he loves her romantically, but he's
still he definitely appreciates her, because that it seems like
a kind of appreciation. And also I think that it
couldn't he just he probably knows her wealth or not.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
She might not even be a big spinner.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
She might go out and really try to blow her
load and by everything she's ever wanted, and it still
wouldn't mean much to him. It still wouldn't She couldn't
really just be one of them girls just like no
simple in that way of you know, nothing too extravagant.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
She doesn't over consume like he knows her, so it.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
You know, it feels it sounds odd because they're divorced.
If I had found somebody, you know, as a man,
and you know, I didn't have anything, and then I
have all of this and I could still trust her
with my fortune, and and she's with somebody else, and
he's like, yeah, she could take a half a billion
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to pay for her own wedding and she can do that.
If I really had that type of trust and affinity
for somebody, I don't even think I'd be able to
let them go because I just feel like that's it's
so rare, it's.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (17:04):
So yeah, I mean yeah, I think he loved that
lady and he lay and it would be hard.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
For another woman to come in and accept that.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
I don't care how secure you are, but to be
able to fill some shoes like that, and it will
call some type I don't care what people say, it
will call some type of insecurity if you don't have any.
It's just it's natural. It's a natural feeling. So people
can say, oh, you know this that and the third No,
it's a natural feeling. It's we're human beings.
Speaker 1 (17:36):
Because I don't know, are a lot.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Of divorced men who still take care of their wives
in a way that like you know, they're still there
for them, or if they have a lot of money,
they sill and not like on some corpl but like
you know, I still want to make sure she's okay.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
This is taking it a step and a few notches. Yes,
it is. It's very rare. Yeah, this is this is
just turned up a bit like a lot. Actually it's
a lot.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
That's why. That's why it's like views and so many
comments and all that energy, because he has to be
able to take on some ship like that unless you
know what, unless you know you got your blind holds on.
I don't care about I want, I want you know
I am. I am projecting and very much like putting
(18:23):
out there a healed man, a generous man, a man
that is very much I want to love me and
put me on a pedestal and be honest, and it
coming from a hill place.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
So like you know, talk to me, Let's talk about it.
What works for you.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Naturally, there's nothing wrong with them, That's not what I'm saying.
Like I would love to be with someone like that.
What I'm saying is, naturally, it's still gonna call some
type of insecurities or something because we're naturally, we're human beings.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
No matter how healed you.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Are, no matter how it's gonna something is gonna question,
wow he really trust this or while she really trust
this person?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (19:03):
It's just look, it may not even be.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
A lot, but it's still gonna raise some some antenna
why is this person? Why does this person still have
full access? Even even if he explained why, but full
access while we're together, I'm gonna be I think, what's
gonna end up happening If he does, like say, hey
I found someone, we're together, we're serious, then there's gonna
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be some some differences. It's gonna be a different bank account.
I'm sure, but I mean we're speculating.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
I don't know. We don't get.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Money because like all the women are like yes, yes, yes, king, yes.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yeah, and all the mental life was on the other side.
That's just coming in. They won't be saying yes king,
yeat king.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
They're gonna be like, okay, baby, let's full up. Yes,
no more, Okay, it's enough. I know she was there
riding with you, but now you have, you know, a new.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Ship up in town. Let's lay out some boundaries and
that's fine.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Did they say if I'm not saying, I'm not saying,
don't take care of her or stop taking care of
her boundaries?
Speaker 1 (20:13):
Now it's us. We're in a relationship for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Want somebody on the outside to see what we're investing
in or what we're spending.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
In, like creating you. We want boundaries for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:23):
For sure, I'm not saying you not to have boundaries,
you know at all. You definitely want to speak up
and say what makes you feel any kind of way.
Speaker 1 (20:32):
You know, that's his pocket account. That's how I feel.
Speaker 2 (20:37):
Like, that's what I'm saying, like if you really know,
baby exactly, Like it's okay, guys, it's okay. There's more
where that came from. Like I look at again Mackenzie
Scott who was married to Jeff Bezos, Like she can't.
Speaker 1 (20:52):
It's just too much money. She just got to keep giving.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
It away, you know, like come on, he's like she
was there with me in the garage, want of you know,
like it is what it is.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
She has sharers. I mean, she was there and I
wish more. I wish more of us, but she ain't got.
She ain't got. She got her own, She got her
own access, is what it is. Yeah, he took care
of her, you know, whatever she wants. With the situation,
I just can't.
Speaker 2 (21:22):
I can't be with somebody who allows enough their ex
to have full access.
Speaker 1 (21:27):
It's just saying, it's a lot more people that we
just don't know. I don't mind him taking care of like.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
We don't figure it out together. Google, I'll stay with you.
We won't navigate it.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
We gotta figure this.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Just think of everyone who you know that Again, they
don't know about even secret account.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
So he's putting it out there like, look, she got
access to this one, so so be it. Okay. That'd
rather that rather that with the X than a secret
bank account where he's over here doing other stuff. So
that's that. Yeah, I ain't how he put it out.
He said, baby girl got excess the ear thing. I
want to meet her.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
She sounds like interesting. Nothing against the old lady, nothing
against you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (22:13):
She said, got one? Yeah, here's okay, Ladies, be honest.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Have you ever kept taps on an ex bank account, emails,
or social socials after the breakup?
Speaker 1 (22:27):
No, I ain't keep taps. The only thing that I
did with my ex is making sure that the bills.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
But it's good that I want experience in that department,
So yeah, making sure that's great. Make sure this is spay,
make sure I have taps of it. Just remind her
friendly remonder, Hey this, yeah, it's over. So wish you well,
Alexis I get to see that that a Gary you
(22:59):
had Obviously it looks.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Amicable, but you had like your divorce, was it easy, pasy? Hell?
Speaker 2 (23:07):
No, true, no, because you're essentially giving paying someone to
two different parties who don't know anything about you. They
don't know your history, they don't know your pillow talk,
they don't know how you feel like you're gonna raise.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Your kids, they don't know anything that you want to
do together.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
As co parenting is on an umbrella of what your family,
which you have for your family, your travel, you're this,
your that.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
So they go by regulations of a board or a
metric of metrics.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
You know this this rubric scale of slide this number
in here, slide this number in here. This is what
we've done because this is the law. So I was
in a different position obviously because you know they're just
because right we all.
Speaker 1 (23:52):
We all know that.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
So it was it was not It was a lot
of because I met Mario when we were night team,
so it's been a lot of build up of his
wealth and our wealth together. We started off very young
at this again, so like I look at it, like,
you know, he could have gone to the left, but
his career, or he could have gone to the right,
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but in the court.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
In the courts, they don't care if you're a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
They don't care if you've been put in some work
and some blood sweating hours and all that. If you
don't have that piece of paper with your last name
on there that says this was my wife or my husband,
it don't count. You don't get benefits from the NBA,
you don't get benefits from anything else.
Speaker 1 (24:33):
You gotta get your own medical you gotta get your
own this. You're still separate.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
So like, you know, you could be with someone for
so many years and get no benefits from it on paper,
you know what I'm saying. So like it was not amico.
But because the people you come in from a hurt
space too. You also it's very instant. You're coming from embarrassment,
You're coming from a place of like trying to figure
out the future. Because at the end of the day,
(24:57):
a divorce is like death. You know, you go through
these different moods. So one day you could be mad
at that person. The next day, you can be sad,
the next day, you can have remorse the next day.
You have just all these different issues. So whatever that
lawyer is putting in front of you that day and
you're making that decision, you're thinking about the lifelong dream
(25:17):
now becoming a reality in real time because this now
is over. You know, you plan to go on trips
a year ahead, you plan on saving these things, and
your children going to this school, and this, this and this.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
That all is financial awareness and planning.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
So when it's now stripped and now being able to split,
you're splitting banks, counts, you're splitting investments, you're splitting portfolios.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
You're spitting all these assets.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
That would a collaborative like you know when you're collaborating
with a net worth, Now you're splitting it. It's horrible,
it's horrifying, and it's splitting up the generational wealth. But
at the end of the day, the beautiful blessing is
because we do have a family. We do have four
children bested properly, and we also make sure our children
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are good. Because at the end of the day, that's
the focus. People start getting individual. Well, he's not gonna
be in my house or the house that I put
my money in. It shouldn't be about that. Are the
kids safe?
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Is this where they go to school? Are their friends
in the neighborhood?
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Is this the kind of car.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
They should be driving me because it's safer rather than
you know, X, Y and Z. So I look at
it like this.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
You have to be careful who you lay with at
the end of the day because you never Okay, you
have to be careful who you lay with at the
end of the day because a child is forever, you
know what I mean. So that's who are my first
Our priority is are the children? What's best for them exactly?
Speaker 3 (26:42):
So I know what you mean by like when the
attorneys come through and they're just like, you know, they
don't know you personally, don't know everything that you put
it in. They don't know what the dynamics of the relationship.
They're just going by the metric system. You have to
have a separate conversation be like, Okay, your lawyer don't
know me. He ain't fair, he's finna get hit, you know.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
What I mean? Did you get on their job? And
so is mine.
Speaker 2 (27:03):
So they'll put in stuff in your ear like oh
you should do this, or in the opposing again, it's
a battle and it's the finale, you know what I mean.
That's it. Once there is do you sign on that
dotted line, it's over, you know, and you can't go
back and be like, oh, I made a mistake or
I was just playing, you know what I mean. No,
it's setting standard because it has to be. It's a legal,
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binding contract and you have to adhere.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
To it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (27:30):
So it's just it's a tough it's a tough thing.
That's why I don't recommend divorce to anybody. You know,
you're splitting and it's it's heartbreaking, but it has to happen.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
Would you would you.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Would have tried to read kandle looking at it now
and made it work instead of after going through that divorce?
Speaker 1 (27:49):
Would you have tried to fight a little harder to
make it work?
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Do y'all see this skin? It looked life bothered to me. Okay, bet,
I'm let me just be real, like with with any breakup. Okay,
I'm glowing up. I'm glowing up. And this was all
God's plan and I am following my dreams. I would
have been more distracted because I'm very much a hands
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on wife and so it's and I was behind this,
this this god of a man on earth that everyone worships.
Speaker 1 (28:23):
And that's a lot of work.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Okay, that's a lot of work behind the scenes, behind
these doors.
Speaker 1 (28:28):
And we have kids, and we have y'all in comments,
and we have.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Everyone in our business, and we got family we gotta
take care of, and we got uk all these things.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
So that's a full time job.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
So now it's different because I am learning my financial
awareness from my household.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
I am grocery shopping for myself and my kids.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
I am planning and time managing my mental time and
my doctor's appointments, and I'm looking out for a Lexus
and I'm happy. So this was all God's plan for
me to not be in that situation because I am
in love with Alexis.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
And now whoever gets all of this is getting a
complete just who maybe you need to say it again,
tell the people you a real wife, and you a
good wife, no regrets to get get all these blessings.
Like you said, when you're a good wife.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
You were clocked in that shree baby, Come on, a
good wife, that pretty bird woman.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Okay, yeah, these babies are graduating.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
These babies are clean, these babies are fed, they sleep
good at night, they're in a beautiful we say, oh baby,
were good.
Speaker 1 (29:43):
Over here.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Let me let me just interject because I was having
this conversation with somebody earlier today.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
They were talking about Cardi B and Stepha what's his name, Stephan?
Oh yeah, well somebody it was.
Speaker 3 (29:55):
It was a comment or something, and I had a
conversation with somebody about the comment like, oh, you know,
she left her husband just to go beyond like somebody's
roster type thing.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
And I said, wait, wait a minute, wait anything is
it will look like that. It will look like.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
Because she was a wife, and a lot of people
feel like that is surprised, and it is a prize,
it is an honor. But it's also like, if your
husband has a roster, why wouldn't you be in a
better position if you just stop being a wife and
you got with somebody else.
Speaker 1 (30:35):
And yes, you're on his roster, but you're not a
wife because being a wife is so much. It's a lot.
You have a lot. You have so much obligation, so
much sacrifice, so much energy.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
I prompt you, I like, if Andre wasn't here, do
you think I was so freely just become somebody else's
wife again.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Get that over. Absolutely, I'm not ever going to love
another person ever. This month, the way that I have
given my it is so serious and if you're a
mut wife and your wife and if you really you know,
take honor in that title exhausting.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
So I'm sitting like, Okay, she's with this man, and
she might be on a roster or he could be
on hers, but being a wife is exhausting. And if
you're going to do all that, like you don't want
to be doing all that for your husband who got
a roster.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
It gets tiring.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
And they've been famously known to like have already been
like trying to be like put the divorce papers out there, right,
so she a topic, that was a topic. Drink, be happy,
don't worry, be happy.
Speaker 1 (31:53):
Move on, he's happy.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
We only have one time at this life, y'all one time,
and that's it. I'm not gonna be miserable. I'm not
gonna be trying to make something one side and trying
to make you're draining. You're doing all the rank duties
and you get a whole ross thing right, that's lopsided,
that's not equally yours.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
But but you know, I'm very much for marriage, and
i'd be looking at you in the min thank you,
you know what I mean. I'd be like, thank you.
I wish they could. Well, we have mott pass. We
put in, we put in, we put in half of
two decades. We put in half. And guess what he
got me?
Speaker 2 (32:39):
Fresh your time. You got me forever with these grand babies,
because I'm gonna be there. You got me every graduation,
we graduating.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Yeah, but you know.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
Somebody else here and get all this this goodness and
this blessing baby, because I don't go back.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
Look this is this is the diamond and the rough
over here, you know, yes, and ready to me. Do
you see that stain? It's glowing. Lenks know how to cook,
she knows how to clean, She know how to be
a fool. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
She kind of filled us up a little bit lately.
I'm thinking she might might already have a little something,
a little something yeah you yeah, possibly she got she
got some. She got three and impossible. Listen, I'm here,
I'm here for lex.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
You just say, I'm happy.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
I'm good like we we I'm I'm happy, I travel three,
I'm everything is moving in my direction right now.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
I'm God's favor right now like I'm yeah, I'm I'm
where I need to be.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
Like emotionally physically, spiritually, financially, Like you know, it's a
hard time from the bottom. But you know, if I
would have known what I am feeling right now, then
we of course we would feel like, okay, I can
get over it whatever.
Speaker 1 (34:05):
But this is working progress. This is this is time.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
You held through it and I'm still healing. I'm still
going through it. You know, it's always something.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
You're right. It takes time. Look, thank you, I feel
great glowing. I need you to send me that routine
that you're doing for that skin to keep on blowing
away glow. It don't matter. She got up.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
We got to hear what the secret is today glowing
skin over there, you know, drinking plenty of water and
minding my business period.
Speaker 1 (34:47):
That's all right, you guys. We got to we gotta
wrap it up. What we got next? And then lost
my notes. It was getting good shoesy, Yeah, we just them.
Do you think you got? Were loving it when we
(35:08):
have humble bodies? Mal what we got? Yes, we are
into the last. No, we have questions. The fans.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Don't say I'm the humble baby porture. You want to
say that you got to it's the fun.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
No, No, I don't have it.
Speaker 2 (35:29):
I can do it.
Speaker 1 (35:30):
I'm ready.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
I don't have it, I got it, I'm ill. Okay,
So we'll wrap it up with this this last segment.
So here are questions from the Humble Baddies fans. If
you had to leave the US, what are your taxing
places you have moved to?
Speaker 1 (35:47):
Ladies?
Speaker 3 (35:49):
Mm hmmm, yes, you're going to You're gonna answer why not.
I'm gonna say Italy. Yes, I love Italy to go
to in the Caribbean because I love beaches and I
love sun and I love saying but Italy is It's
kind of my vibe.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
I love that. I love that.
Speaker 2 (36:11):
I love Italy and I would also since we lived
at Israel, I would actually live back in Israel. I
loved it over there, and it's a give access points
to other cities and countries too, so nice Italy for
the food. Probably would move to Paris, oh Pari, yes,
(36:35):
and one other place.
Speaker 1 (36:40):
Would move to Legos. Okay, I love that. Now there
we go.
Speaker 2 (36:50):
You get one redo in life. What moments are you
going back to fits or we leave? And you can't
say I wouldn't change any thing, Oh but I was.
Letn't No wonder are you going to back to fix
or relive, yeah, okay, or we live. Oh, man, I
(37:12):
would relive a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Yeah, I relive a lot of stuff.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Probably go back and relive not getting married at an
early age and experience my youth.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
I probably would relive, you know, having no because I'm blessed,
no baby, actually you know, getting married at an early
age and and just living and experiencing you.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Mm hmm. Okay, So you are we asking this question.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
With like, Okay, we could change anything, but we would
end up right back here anyway.
Speaker 1 (37:52):
I wouldn't get married. I wouldn't get married so early
I got married at Tony because that would change my answer.
Speaker 3 (37:59):
If I knew that I would have all of this
right now and I'd be who I was and everything
would be what it would be, then yeah, I would
change something.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
If I knew, I'd still be here.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
Yeah, I'll still be where I'm at today if I
even if I didn't get married.
Speaker 1 (38:14):
Relive a movement, Oh, trying to think.
Speaker 2 (38:19):
I want to say, mine, Pia, this is uncut and unfiltered.
We don't kill it, and we don't think.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
I say all the time that.
Speaker 3 (38:33):
If I could have skipped a lot of the a
lot of the growing pains in my relationship in my twenty.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
That I absolutely would have, Like when he was working
my nerves.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
If I could have just told him to go and
buy his business but I knew that we would eventually
come back together and do what we're doing now, that
would be perfect. But lord, if if I just could
have told you getting on my nerves, you know what
I mean, if you need to go away from me
with that and then come back twenty eight, you know
(39:10):
what I mean, twenty seven, twenty eight and then because
let me tell you, my twenties was so tumultuous and
so dramatic for no reason, for no reason at all,
just figuring just us figuring out that we loved each
other was exhausting.
Speaker 1 (39:32):
It was exhausting. I would say that I think of that,
I'm being exhausted.
Speaker 3 (39:37):
But if I know, like if we would just end
up right back here with our kids and we're married
and everything is is easier, then yeah, I would change that.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I think for me, if I were to relive a
moment would probably be right before I had kids. I
think I would have just waited longer. But then at
the same time, while you haven't kindergarten graduation.
Speaker 1 (40:04):
I have two drivers and they're too graduated. So like,
I guess I.
Speaker 2 (40:08):
Would just relive that moment of like that freedom before
children and just like you know what, where would I
have lived or traveled to or whatever. But it's kind
of worked out because it's like, you know, I'm living
it right now. So I feel like it goes both
ways with everyone, you know.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
At the same time, I'm like, I would have told
him to going by this business, but then she used
the reason why my twenties was so much fun.
Speaker 1 (40:36):
I know right about it, I feel that was still
some good with the bad. Yeah, and that's for everything
he hired. But no, we are more good. This is
definitely more good.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
We gotta wrap it up. Yes, all right, we gotta
wrap it up. So we gotta do one more question
number four. Number four, would you day someone who doesn't
believe in birthdays, holidays, or gifts giving?
Speaker 1 (41:08):
Oh, it's a hard note for me.
Speaker 2 (41:15):
My love.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
And receiving do them all?
Speaker 2 (41:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (41:21):
No, I like I like celebrations, I like memory. Yes,
I need a lot of holidays.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
And I want to Like No, I force myself with
you because it's kind of conse confusions.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
No, baby, I love a festive partner.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
I want someone that's like pulling out the decorations before
I can, or just looking forward to something, you know
what I mean, like let's let's turn up, let's have
a good time, let's have people over, let's let's enjoy life.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
Yeah, get their released.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
I don't need you to be as enthusiastic as I am,
but I need you to not contest me when I
say I want to throw something on the grill.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
I want these people to come.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Don't.
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Don't.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Don't roll your eyes when I say I want to
be you want her hot dollars? She want to be paid? Yeah?
And the little jump juices at the boil on top. Yes,
I need that. All right, you guys, that's enough of
(42:28):
batty tonight. We enjoyed the guy.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
Thank you for your storys lex Uh. You know you
are amazing. You're always given great advice. Is money as hell.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
Y'all make sure.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
Y'all follow y'all tell them what they can follow you guys.
I'm sure resulted unscore on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (42:45):
I'm a Lexus underscore stidamre on Instagram and I'm at
or on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
Yeah, also follow Humble Batties podcast and make sure you
subscribe to Humble Batty's podcast on YouTube and tell all
your people to subscribe.
Speaker 1 (43:00):
Until next time we go, see y'all on Wednesday,
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