July 14, 2025 • 40 mins
Sharelle and Ashley react to the Love Island finale and if the right couple was picked, Kash Doll talks about how her man loves her natural look, and is Trump quietly moves MLK statue and much more!
Timeline:
00:00 - Introduction
03:22 - Love Island
09:12 - Kash Doll, Natural Era
22:41 - Trump removes MLK Statue
27:27- Teddy Bridgewater suspended
34:14 - Humble Baddies Mail
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Like get in my weight, never out of my lane.
It's been like you.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
One in the morn on was so what is gonna be?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Baby squad to God? With you running on us? That
what you need? Maybe won't you keep me company?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Give me something to jube and I get on. I
just someone for you when we get home.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
If you let me back.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Hey, girl, miss you?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I know I miss you too.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Man.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
This summer is flying by.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I feel like I mean, Paris wasn't that long ago,
but I feel like I'm forever.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
It's been crazy. It seemed like the kids just got
out of school and now I'm school shopping, getting ready
to send one off the college and the other one.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Girl, you got all age groups?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You got? You got any don't don't you can rebod me.
I don't even know why I started over. Oh my goodness,
but it's fun. It's fun. I can't complain. I'm excited.
The weekend was amazing. I actually was in I missed
the last show because I was in Texas. I started
(01:17):
a new team that there you know, and they are
killing it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
We got together, we had a great event, We networked,
we uh. I got to meet all my Texas agents.
I stopped by my favorite restaurant, Taste in Houston. So anybody,
if you ever want some good soul food, some good brunch,
make sure you check out Taste in Houston. The food
was amazing. But other than that, I've been, you know,
(01:43):
doing what I do, keeping busy.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
That's good, that's well. Congratulations from the new office. Lord
is taken over. I'm so proud of you, like you
really killing it. So many women, so many relators in general,
they really looked up to you, and I know this
is only the beginning anyway, so look forward to everything
(02:05):
that you bring to the real estate industry. Girl, you're
killing it.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Thank you, bood, thank you. I try, I try. How
you being. What's been going on with you? Girl?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I've just been here with these cheering and my husband.
This weekend was probably one of our slowest weekends that
we've had a long time. So we were just really
relaxing at the house, you know, relaxing me still keeping
these kids busy, but you know, just slow, just being
able to hang out at home by the pool, you know,
(02:39):
just have to drink, you know, put some food on
the grill. I really be needing that sometimes because we
just be moving, you know, so fast, doing so much,
and sometimes we really just need a second to like
chill at the house.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I really needed that, all right, Yeah, I feel you
on that. I'm ready for it. Like every time I
feel like I have a minute to relax, I don't
because it's something else coming, a project coming, agents calling,
I got an event, or I want to spend some
time and you know, go on vacation, take my little
weekend trip. But yeah, hey, I'll rest one day.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
We need the rest. Rest is need it. You got
to schedule that.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So my question, have you been watching Love Island?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Well, no, I don't watch that. It's not for me, okay,
Like I know it's taken over the world right now.
I know everybody is watching Love Island and it come
on like every night, right y'all. They're literally tuning in
every night to watch this.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
It's done. Last night was the season finale and they
packed them and.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
The world no more about No, damn, Love Island too old.
It's like, I don't know. I just I literally didn't
watch one episode. Nothing about it just made me want
watch it.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
But go ahead, let me.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Hear I was.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I felt the same way. But of course I have
Arianna in the house and her friends come over and
I just get sucked right into it. So I didn't
catch it. I tried to. Yesterday was a relaxation day
for me, so I was like, let me start from
episode one.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I got through it, and I did develop some favorites.
What's my girl name from Alabama? They know who I'm
talking about, the one from Alabama. She's she's my favorite
and I was hoping that she would win.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Her and Nick. So what is the show? So it's
like a daidy showing that gets down to one couple.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, it was down to four couples. So couples come
in and out, they mix and mingle. You have to
vote each.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Week, so it's like Survivors.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
But love.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, you got to prove your real love. And if
you are, if you become a you know, a fan,
sometimes you get guilty by association. So if one of
the girls start dating a guy who the fans don't like,
then they don't like that girl. It's crazy how it is.
But shout out to the winners. I forgot her name
(05:21):
that the people who the love, the people who watch
the show know who it is. Shout out to them.
I actually actually did like them too. They were Dominican,
but they won. They won one hundred thousand, and you
have I think what my daughter stated, she said, you
whoever get the envelope, they decide if they want to
(05:42):
keep it or share it, split it. But I think
they decided to donate to a charity with their money
much money they win one hundred thousand. But the crazy
thing is they make so much money off of sponsorship deals. Yeah,
it's crazy. I was like, I wish we had that
back when we were coming up in our early twenties. Oh.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I also heard they also was passing around STDs. All
of them had herpees bumps on their lips and all
these challenges.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
No, no, okay, so that's not true. So my step daughter,
we shoot auditioned for love Alum. So before you even
get even during the stage of them interview on you,
you have to go through an extensive background check, a
mental health check, extensive STD check, all of that all
(06:36):
the way up. So they do it extensive. You have
to go through so many go through medicals.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Most people have hurt And there they was showing the
herpey bumps and outbreaks and they was all kissing each
other and the challenges.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
This is what I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I couldn't do that though. I couldn't do that because
I'm very germophobic. And if you kiss one person and
you're coming to kissing that song, I would have passed.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I said, just put these new kids. I can't do that.
I can't get I'm gonna be the whole time watching like.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
That's what I was like. I was like, how can
y'all do this? Like you go from kissing this one
to kissing this one, y'all just share?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yeah? Would you do a show like that though if
it was like maybe a little bit more mature or like, yeah,
more mature, Yeah, if.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
It was if it was a more mature show, I would,
But if it came down to kissing, I wouldn't. Yeah,
I'll be like, just kiss me right here on the cheek.
I do not like kissing. And I have to really
love you to kiss you. And even when I love you,
if you're high, gene ain't right, or if your breath
saying you ain't kissing me, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Okay, well y'all.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Yeah, I couldn't get into the Love Island no matter
what nobody said to me, and everybody was talking about it.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I was just like, I don't only have like.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
This much time to watch TV, and it's not gonna
be watching me.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
But it was Actually, you can get sucked into it
for sure. Definitely you can get sucked into love Alan.
But it wasn't bad. I enjoyed it. I fell in
love with some of the couples. I even, you know,
teared up a little. But yes, it was so cute. Nick, Nick,
(08:20):
and Olandra was the names. Those were my favorites. I
was reading the fan mail. It was so cute.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Nice.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Now over these children, they.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Are so cute together. I hope that they find.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Love off the village.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
They should have won in my opinion. Okay, so y'all
tell me who y'all think should have won. I'm team
Nick and Aluandra, Alandra and Nick. She had been my girl.
Now enough of love Alan, because actually can't get into it.
I mean I'm barely getting into it because I just
jumped on the bandwagon. But I am a team of
(09:04):
Love Island, so definitely will be keeping up with the
next season that comes out. Okay, let's get into a
cash doll natural Era and why it's a big deal.
So you've been noticing Cash Doll have been wearing naturally.
She's been going around bare face, no weed, no makeup,
(09:25):
and she is looking good. Cash Doll just let the
world know that her man loves her more when she's natural.
And she's been confidently showing up with fresh skin, no
makeup and embracing her glow. But in a world obsessed
with perfection, it's natural beauty finally back in style. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
I mean, I think first of all, most men love
when their women don't wear, you know, makeup and all
the hair extensions and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
I mean, I know Phil always used to.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Say that to me, like, you know, when you you
don't have any makeup on and blah blah blah. But
I think most men do prefer like when they're women
are you know, in their natural state, and for some reason,
like when you go out looking raggedy to the gas
station to Walmart real quick, that's when most guys are
trying to howl. So it's something about just being in
(10:21):
your most bare own naturality state that really turns me
on because I feel like it's like, oh, well, if
you look this good when you're a bear, then you know,
when you get all done up.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
You must really be fine.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I don't know in my head that's what I'm thinking,
But I think everything is, you know, it comes their waves,
like I think, you know, makeup trends, hair trends, all
of these trends, they come and go.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Necessarily that there being there went out of style ever.
I just think that people just stop doing it because
of social media, and because social media is so present.
At any moment, there's a camera, somebody's taking pictures of you.
You know, everybody wanted to make sure they look good.
So I think that's why that look kind of might
(11:11):
seem like it went away.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
But I don't think their face and.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Natural you know, makeup and stuff like that and hair
was ever out of side.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
All right. I feel like, in my opinion, I like both.
Like at first, I felt like I needed to go
around and wear makeup everywhere I had to go. I
needed to put on makeup. But like you said, when
I was in relationships, they liked the frontles, they liked
for this to show, they liked the natural face everything.
(11:43):
Now I'm starting to embrace the natural look more I
got except I gotta have my lashes. But I'm starting
to embrace the natural look more because when I put
on makeup, I get hit with oh she look old,
and said of the therap'd be like, oh, don't put
on at the makeup, don't do this. I don't like
it because it's hard for makeup artists to even do
(12:06):
my makeup and to blend, and it makes it worse
that I have freckles. So to try to keep the
frecklesh on, to try to make sure it's blended, it's
a lot of work and I have to go through
a test and trial every time. If I'm going to
trying on a new makeup artist, sure the.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Make it's a blue are are a rare rarity, so
don't cover the freckles up.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
I don't so now I started. I don't have on
anything right now. But what I've started doing now is
getting mineral, like a little blow to put on my
face and just going out like that. Unless I really need.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
To beat, yes, I.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Lean towards wearing makeup.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
I love to beat my face down.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I have like best friends who are makeup artists, so
they kind of taught me how to beat my face.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So if you be killing my face, I'm gonna be
my face but I have gotten my.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Skincare down to perfection to where now I like, right
now I don't have anything, just flip blocks and lashes.
But but yeah, so now I'm like, I'm more into
the skincare side of things so that I can go
and feel confident in my own skin without makeup, which
I think is refreshing because you know when your skin
(13:30):
is bad, and even when it or like your skin
was bad, and you just see like the remnants of
when your skin was bad, like you do just want
to cover it up, are less confident. So I think
it's just great too that we are seeing more women
step out and be more natural, especially somebody like cash Doll,
because she's like a super confident, like bad bitch personality,
(13:55):
and she's like showing women like we can still be bad,
vicious and be natural in their face. And she used
to have her whoever used to be doing her lamb down,
oh my god, like the way they used to layer
her hair like perfection. So see her out here like, yeah,
my man likes me like this, like I love it.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
I love it too. Have you ever felt like your
natural look wasn't enough? I know I have like it
took me a minute. Especially in my younger days, I
used to always spend so much money just to go
look good, and I felt like me looking good was
having on a full face of makeup, yeah, and just
walking around natural. I just felt like it wasn't enough
(14:41):
for me. I felt like in order to impress my man,
I needed to have my face done up. I needed
to do all this, I needed to look glam It was.
It was a lot. But as I started to embrace
my natural look, my freckles, you know, my little tiny eyes,
my little lips, I started to love my natural look more.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Yeah. I think we all go through that. I think
all women have, you know, gone through times where we
just feel like we need to do something to make ourselves.
And I think just with you know, growing up and
being more confident in yourself, it kind of you kind
of find what works for you too, you know. I
(15:22):
think that because I've been in a relationship for so long,
like I never really felt pressed to go out and
look a certain way to you know, find a man
or nothing like that.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
So I never really had that pressure.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
But I feel like the pressure for me more so
is to look good amongst other women. You know what
I mean, Like other women put more pressure on you
to like do the most. Like if you're you ain't
got all the inches down your back and you don't
got your lashes done, you don't got you know, the
best makeup artists, you don't have the best close Like
I feel like trying to keep up with other women
(15:58):
will make you feel like you got to do you know.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, and you know what what else put pressure on me.
I was in the military for thirteen years. You was
in the military, and you know how strict they were
on us. No makeup, no lashes, no nails, no this.
And another reason why I felt like I needed makeup
because it was so much pressure on looking like a
little boy all the time with your hair pulled back
(16:23):
and you couldn't wear nothing, you couldn't get glambed up.
It was hard to get glambed up, and you were
so tired. You had the weekend, but you were so tired.
So now that I'm out, I went I did go
through a stage where I just wanted to put on makeup.
I couldn't be going nowhere. I just wanted makeup on
my face. Yeah, So I blamed the military too.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
From women just crying.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Like that balance of what makes you feel comfortable and
confident without overdoing it.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
You know that's true.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
What's one insecurity you had to unlearn about yourself one insecurity?
Speaker 3 (17:00):
You know what I hated the most.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Growing up was being skinny? Say yeah, because you know everybody,
you know, I went to predominantly black high school and
like a lot of Hispanics, so the girls was filled out.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Okay, they have bodies early and I did not.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I started my.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Period later than most of the girl so I was very.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Much just straight up and down.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
And you know, people used to pick on me and
you know, call me all kinds of names because I
was skinny, and so I feel like that was like
probably my biggest insecurity. And then I started modeling and
I got signed with all the biggest agencies in the country.
I got signed with Ford, I signed with Click, and
(17:49):
then I started making money and then those insecurities started.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Went away, Like what, I'm glad, I'm this us. Yes,
you know, we used to always get picked on growing
up in hot middle school, high school, skinny, pancake, booty, this,
that and the third but and the women who did
have the shapes. Now I hate to say it, but baby,
I was like, I thank god I was skinny, I
(18:16):
was athletic. You know, I'm still working out. Because the
ones that y'all wanted in high school, y'all don't even
look they wait no more. They are huge, yeah some
of them.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Yeah I do. Thank God for genetics then for being
a late bloomer, because yeah, I mean late bloomers. Thank
God for being a late bloomer.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
And it was the ones that was stick that used
to pick on the skinny ones, the females to y'all
know who y'all was picking on their skinny girls in
high school, in middle school. But that's what and that's
what I tell my daughter. I was like, she's going
through this stage where you got a drink in short.
I'm like, no, I said, just stay your side because
(18:58):
when you get older like that, wait, gonna slowly start
creeping up. So just just be happy how you are
right now. Don't don't force it, don't force the weight
upon you.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Now insecurity, what's that?
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Oh? Yeah, you do? Them things are don't feed me barking.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
They don't because I keep a clean no, you clean.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Mother on them.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
They're not the cute.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Your feet look like fingers.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
You know what I'm saying, that's still an insecurity that
I had. I don't think it's going anywhere any something
cool like I have less me, But.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
You got your husband. That's all that mattered. And your
husband loved you. Do Actually, you'd be like, no, don't
look at my feet. Don't look at my feet.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
You know God can give us everything is all right, yes,
but he blessed you with a beautiful face, beautiful body.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
You you good girl. I rather have I rather have
a feet with muscles on them, you know, a jacked
up face period. Okay, this long, it's fine, yes, But
in regards to overall makeup, I feel like the real
(20:35):
flex is when you're confident. Confident either way. Yeah, and
more and if more women started celebrating, whether you know
it's natural beauty or you know, full glam, not just
online but also in real life, will be unstoppable period.
So so definitely, you know, embrace it, Embrace your natural beauty,
(20:56):
embrace blam whichever. But don't allow a man. Do not
allow a man. You shouldn't allow a man to force
you or to to you know, make you, force you
into the natural.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Beauty because she said she did it because that's what
her man like. And it's like, yeah, but is that
what you like? You know what I mean? Like, let's
make sure that we're not just totally changing our whole
personality and who we are and what we like or
a man, you know what?
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Right?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
So that's true, because then things, because then what's next?
What if he's like, well, I don't like you hanging
out with her or I don't like you going there.
It's like, you know, once you start especially, this man
is not your husband, once you start conforming to things
because that's what your man like like, he's you.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Start living for him and not yourself, and then that's
for the unhappiness and everything else.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Another at leads to another child.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
And I've been in relationships for my previous relationship, you know,
they embraced everything. But I've been in a relationship before
where it was like I want you like this, I
want you to dress like this, and eventually you get
tired and wore out and you're like, I'm living for
I need to be living for myself. Why am I
doing everything that you want? But then you go out
(22:18):
and sleep with this that and the third the opposite
of what you want from me.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Yeah, yeah, going down that road of doing it because
that's what my man right, So.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
You definitely do so do it because you want to
do it, not because you know, I mean, you take
your man advice, but also do it because you want.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
To do it.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Let's get into it. You heard about what your president
doesn't quietly do.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Then oh my gosh, why.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
He quietly removed Emma eml Martin Luther King's statue And
why is it so solid? So I set it on
a few blocks. But that's something that should have like
really hit the headlines. Right. There's been very little media coverage,
but it's been reported that Donald Trump quietly removed the
Martin Luther King Jr. Statue from its long time display
(23:13):
at the White House, and people are barely talking about it.
Why is that?
Speaker 3 (23:19):
I don't know, that's really crazy.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time,
so it's not surprising, you know what I mean? This
is something I mean, Martin Luther King. Even if you
are not into civil rights and you don't know nothing
about nothing, you know who Martin Luther King Jr. Is
and you know his importance in our country's history. So yeah,
(23:46):
it's crazy that this isn't making waves like it should be.
But it's also not surprising that it's not, because you know,
it's one of our heroes, you know what I mean?
And I don't know Trump. It just doesn't surprise me
at this point. Honestly, nothing does this President. Yeah, looks
like it's been going off of whatever. We only what.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
I feel like, you know, the fact that it happened
and it barely made the headlines tell you everything about
how the country treat black history.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Yeah, and the leaders.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Because I mean it's like you're silently and slowly erasing
African American history, right, they stopped talking about it in
the schools. They slowly stopped talking about it in the schools.
They're you know, taking yeah memories away.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I just I really
don't understand what was his point in moving it? Did
it like, did he say anything or did he just
moved it?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Nothing?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Now?
Speaker 3 (24:52):
Nothing else with it.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
Nothing else with it. It was just removed from it
where it was displayed, a it was placed somewhere else.
I got to read into it, but it's just it's sad,
like why are you coming in here making all these changes,
especially for people who fought and risk their lives. You know,
(25:15):
they did something great for America because I guarantee you
if it was somebody else, if let's if a black
president came in and moved somebody you.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Don't move George Washington.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Exactly, it would have been a World War three. Crazy.
It's it's crazy how how it is. How you know,
we're silently how they're silently just you know, erasing African
American history. And it's not right.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
It is.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
That's why it's important for us as parents, because they're
they're taking it out of the schools to continue to teach,
to teach what, you know, what was, what our what
ef we fought for, what our ancestor is fault for it.
It's very important to teach that because eventually, the way
that they're carrying on, Yeah, the history is going to
(26:08):
be race.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
No, you're right.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
You know, I was just talking to somebody.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Like other parts of the world, like in Africa too,
they're not teaching about you know, black history, the slave trade,
all of that stuff. They're not teaching it. It's not
just in America, which is I have no idea, so
we really do have to be smart about it. We
have to be intentional about teaching our children and keeping
history alive, and you know, make it a point that
(26:37):
we don't let things like this just go by. We
can't just let the media let this slip by like that.
We can't just not say anything, like, we really have
to put our foot down and you know, say something, because,
like you said, if we just keep letting things go, soon,
it's not going to be nothing left.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
And I read something where they were trying to take
the first African American pilots out of UH military, out
of the military history.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
It's so much that the.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yes, the Tuskegee Airmen, they're trying to take that out. Well,
I don't know if it's if it's implemented, but it's
just it's so much that's slowly being a race and
no one's talking about it or even trying to fight
for it.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Thanks.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Yeah, we got to get better. You guys got to
sit together and get better. All right, some good news.
So it's a bittersweet the fact that you know, Teddy
Bridgewater apparent allegedly he got fired for doing what school
the school wouldn't do. So the story ted Teddy Bridgewater,
(27:43):
former NFL quarterback, has been removed as head coach at
Miami Northwestern High after he admitted in a Facebook post
that he paid out of pocket to support his players,
including meals, transportations, and recovery needs. Instead of being praised,
the school suspended him. Teddy clapback, saying, you can't fire
someone who doesn't work for you, and he also stated
(28:05):
that he was still going to support even if he
have to support in the bleachers.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
Well, somebody needs to be awarding this man, like and.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Mind you, they had just won I think the championship,
so I feel like it's more than that. Like when
I was growing up, my coach, because my mom was
a single mom. You know, she was working and I
ran track. My coach went out his way to make
sure his top players, make sure his players, you know,
were where they needed to be. Where there's track, going
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to track, practice, going home, late practices, involved in different things.
You need more people like that in your life.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Everybody knows it takes the village first of all. And
and you know our black neighborhoods, our black schools, like
we need our black.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Men stepping up in this way.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
So that's just crazy to me that somebody would want
to suspend him and keep him from being such, you know,
a great part of the community.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
And they said that he doesn't even really work there.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
So what I feel like, it's more personal. It reading
it really got a funder my skin because I came
from a place where I didn't have all the help,
like I said before, So it's it. I feel like
it's it's more personal than.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Then.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
You know, whatever they're doing is a personal bendeta something.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Yeah, they want, so obviously whatever he's doing is helping.
So I'm not understanding the whoever is against him, I'm
not understanding, you know, what foot they have to stand on,
because clearly whatever he's doing is working, it's helping, he said,
sounds like an amazing person in these children's lives. And yeah,
(30:00):
I just we all know how much it takes, how
much of a village it takes to help raise these kids,
to help get them to their practices, how much things cost.
And he's paying for things out of his own pocket.
He's not doing anything illegal, Like.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
It's not like he's benefiting from I'm not finding financially.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Where it went wrong here for him, And I hope
they make it up to him.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Man.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
I hope somebody comes to their senses and calls them
out on this, because you know what, if this deterres
other people, other men from helping and wanting to stuff
up and you know, help out in the community like that,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
The fact that he said he'll sit in the bleachers
and still support and help. It shows that he's a
great leader and he loves his community. It's like it's
rare to find black strong leaders like that in the
first place. And now y'all want to come in and
tear this man down. And he's all he's doing is
supporting the community, right is all he is doing is
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helping these kids who parents probably growing up some of
them probably growing up in single you know, households, some
of them. Here we go with this bullshit again. Some
of them are growing up in single households. Some of
them the parents need the help. And you want to
come down and and mess things up.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
It's not right now, it's not. I wonder what the
parents are saying. I wonder if you know, was there
a meeting that said that there is no investigation. But
he doesn't work for the school, so how could there
really be an investigation, like I wonder what the ends
and outside I wonder what the conversation. I wonder what
the students are saying, what the parents are saying. I
(31:43):
just kind of want to know, because it's outside looking
in this sounds crazy as hell. Honestly, it really doesn't.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
It definitely does. It sound like something some personal situations.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
So we hope it works out in that Petty Bridgewater
can get back to doing what he was doing, because
you can tell that this is probably like a passion
of his to you know, go out of his way
and do what he's been doing. So hopefully they figure
it out and they bring down whoever was trying to
bring him down.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Yes, we got to get better. We got to continue
to support our community. Do you feel like support why
supporting our own communities? Communities often punished instead of praise.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
You know, maybe it's like that cribing a barrel type
of thing, or somebody wants to get the praise, you know.
I don't know. I just feel like, I don't know.
I think people just get wrapped up in the wrong
things and they forget the reason why. You know, we
do charity work and while we are help, like what's
(32:55):
the reason. What are we here for? What's the purpose?
You know, people get up in their own person, you know,
wants and needs. Things can get political, Things can just
like I said, have nothing to do with the reasons
that we're even there.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
It's unfortunate, but it happens. And that's why you.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Have to make sure you have the right people in
place that can keep a balance and checking balance and everything.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Yeah, that's true, That's definitely true. You have to keep
that checking balance. Like I said, we didn't have those
issues growing up. You know, my coach would go in
and go out the way for us to make sure
we were good. I mean, it was a small town.
Most of us grew up in single parent households, so
we needed that supporting, that help. And I feel like,
(33:45):
you know, people trying to tear another man who's trying
to help down a black man who's trying to help
is not right. Like we're supposed to be supporting each
other and just support him. Like all he's doing, all
he is doing is just helping the community. Let's get
into it. So make sure y'all support y'all go over
there and support our boy Teddy down in Miami. Gates said,
(34:10):
he sent you the Humble Batty's mail, Ashley, Do you
got it?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
Yeah? I do have it? Is this time for having
humble Bady's mail.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Already, it's already tired.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
Alrighty, I'm under.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
The weather right now. I don't know what's going on.
Smell sound like a I got this car, sound like
a smoker's car.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
It real.
Speaker 1 (34:31):
I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Yeah, okay, Well, our Humble Batty's mail is from Brandon
in West Texas.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Okay, Brandon from West Texas? All right? He said, I
love Texas. I think I was thinking about I A'm
gonna cut you off. I was thinking about relocating to Dallas.
Mm hmm okay, I love it there.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
I don't know. I've only been in Texas a couple
of times and and it's been okay. But nothing about
it that I was like, except for like, you could
buy a big ass house there.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
Yes, and the land. I missed my country living.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
That's the only thing I was like. But other than that,
I was like, no, I can.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
See myself living there.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
I know. They say, like Houston is like the similar
to Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
Girl, You've seen them, them them STDs, the the numbers
on Houston in Texas.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Sure, well you better wrap it up.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Oh I said, we doing all that now?
Speaker 2 (35:40):
No, I'm just saying, okay, what's up, Charrelle. I'm not
to put myself out there like this, but I had
to shoot my shot because real recognized real.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
Okay popline.
Speaker 1 (35:58):
Now, okay, this is not the humble batty hot line.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
Right, Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:04):
I've been following you for a minute, and truthfully, it's
not just your beauty that caught me. It's the way
you you lead with purpose, handle your business with grace,
and still manage to light up every room. That's rare.
I work in the oil fields out in West Texas,
long day, real grime, but I built a solid people
(36:25):
like no drama, no cloud chasing, just growth, loyalty and vibes.
And from what I see, you match that energy so respectfully,
if you're open to it, I like to take you
out sometimes, good food, good combo, no games, just something
real with a man who truly sees you.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Let me show you different. I'll be waiting, Brandon.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Brandon, first, I don't even know who you are and
how you look. See y'all, y'all play too much y'all
play too much. Well, first of all, thank you Brandon
for that sweet message, but I'm currently off the market, officially.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Officially, bringa bel I need bail.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
I didn't say I'm not dating anyone right now, so
you're you're just not dating, but you're not off the market.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
I'm just trying to cul this up for Brandy.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Brandon, thank you so much for the sweet messages. Is
that clear enough?
Speaker 2 (37:39):
I mean, I guess so. I mean, Brandon, you might
have to do a little more than sending a humble batty.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
The first of all, we don't even know how Brandon look.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
I mean, he must be confident. We know that the
right such a nice letter to you for us to
read on humble baddies. I mean, he's probably plea decent
looking if you're that confident.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
I need pictures, Okay, Well, well I really don't need
I just want to be curious to see who you are.
But yeah, I just want to be curious to see
who you are, So send a picture, Brandon, if you're
watching this.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Okay, well, thank you, Brandon. If you guys want to
write to Cherrell or no mail, I need to send
pictures than bank statements.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Then no, I did not say all that.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
I have as much information as possible. Okay, So thank
you guys for writing into humble Batties. Please write again
if you have questions, If you need advice, write to
what is the contact a humblebatties dot com. Yeah, we
will love to read you know your meal?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
No no more, no more. We thank you guys for
another episode of We're Gonna let Ashley go because she
has to go tend to her son's basketball game. We
love y'all until Wednesday, We will see y'all. Make sure
y'all follow us at Humble Baddies podcast, follow us on Instagram,
shwer a Risotto, underscore, Ashley, where can they find you?
Speaker 2 (39:16):
Find me a Nicole and ash through underscore to call on?
What's the snapchat?
Speaker 1 (39:27):
You look like you're going to referee the game with
that black and white yelling? Are you missing?
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Is your will yelling? You know?
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Fhiel the coach? So the parents?
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Oh lord?
Speaker 2 (39:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (39:40):
All right, by all right, love y'all.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Bye SA
Like get in my weight, never out of my lane.
It's been like you.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
One in the morn on was so what is gonna be?
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Baby squad to God? With you running on us? That
what you need? Maybe won't you keep me company?
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Give me something to jube and I get on. I
just someone for you when we get home.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
If you let me back.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Hey, girl, miss you?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I know I miss you too.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Man.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
This summer is flying by.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
I feel like I mean, Paris wasn't that long ago,
but I feel like I'm forever.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
It's been crazy. It seemed like the kids just got
out of school and now I'm school shopping, getting ready
to send one off the college and the other one.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Girl, you got all age groups?
Speaker 1 (00:53):
You got? You got any don't don't you can rebod me.
I don't even know why I started over. Oh my goodness,
but it's fun. It's fun. I can't complain. I'm excited.
The weekend was amazing. I actually was in I missed
the last show because I was in Texas. I started
(01:17):
a new team that there you know, and they are
killing it.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
We got together, we had a great event, We networked,
we uh. I got to meet all my Texas agents.
I stopped by my favorite restaurant, Taste in Houston. So anybody,
if you ever want some good soul food, some good brunch,
make sure you check out Taste in Houston. The food
was amazing. But other than that, I've been, you know,
(01:43):
doing what I do, keeping busy.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
That's good, that's well. Congratulations from the new office. Lord
is taken over. I'm so proud of you, like you
really killing it. So many women, so many relators in general,
they really looked up to you, and I know this
is only the beginning anyway, so look forward to everything
(02:05):
that you bring to the real estate industry. Girl, you're
killing it.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Thank you, bood, thank you. I try, I try. How
you being. What's been going on with you? Girl?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I've just been here with these cheering and my husband.
This weekend was probably one of our slowest weekends that
we've had a long time. So we were just really
relaxing at the house, you know, relaxing me still keeping
these kids busy, but you know, just slow, just being
able to hang out at home by the pool, you know,
(02:39):
just have to drink, you know, put some food on
the grill. I really be needing that sometimes because we
just be moving, you know, so fast, doing so much,
and sometimes we really just need a second to like
chill at the house.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I really needed that, all right, Yeah, I feel you
on that. I'm ready for it. Like every time I
feel like I have a minute to relax, I don't
because it's something else coming, a project coming, agents calling,
I got an event, or I want to spend some
time and you know, go on vacation, take my little
weekend trip. But yeah, hey, I'll rest one day.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
We need the rest. Rest is need it. You got
to schedule that.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So my question, have you been watching Love Island?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Well, no, I don't watch that. It's not for me, okay,
Like I know it's taken over the world right now.
I know everybody is watching Love Island and it come
on like every night, right y'all. They're literally tuning in
every night to watch this.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
It's done. Last night was the season finale and they
packed them and.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
The world no more about No, damn, Love Island too old.
It's like, I don't know. I just I literally didn't
watch one episode. Nothing about it just made me want
watch it.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
But go ahead, let me.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Hear I was.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I felt the same way. But of course I have
Arianna in the house and her friends come over and
I just get sucked right into it. So I didn't
catch it. I tried to. Yesterday was a relaxation day
for me, so I was like, let me start from
episode one.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I got through it, and I did develop some favorites.
What's my girl name from Alabama? They know who I'm
talking about, the one from Alabama. She's she's my favorite
and I was hoping that she would win.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Her and Nick. So what is the show? So it's
like a daidy showing that gets down to one couple.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Well, it was down to four couples. So couples come
in and out, they mix and mingle. You have to
vote each.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Week, so it's like Survivors.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
But love.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Yes, you got to prove your real love. And if
you are, if you become a you know, a fan,
sometimes you get guilty by association. So if one of
the girls start dating a guy who the fans don't like,
then they don't like that girl. It's crazy how it is.
But shout out to the winners. I forgot her name
(05:21):
that the people who the love, the people who watch
the show know who it is. Shout out to them.
I actually actually did like them too. They were Dominican,
but they won. They won one hundred thousand, and you
have I think what my daughter stated, she said, you
whoever get the envelope, they decide if they want to
(05:42):
keep it or share it, split it. But I think
they decided to donate to a charity with their money
much money they win one hundred thousand. But the crazy
thing is they make so much money off of sponsorship deals. Yeah,
it's crazy. I was like, I wish we had that
back when we were coming up in our early twenties. Oh.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I also heard they also was passing around STDs. All
of them had herpees bumps on their lips and all
these challenges.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
No, no, okay, so that's not true. So my step daughter,
we shoot auditioned for love Alum. So before you even
get even during the stage of them interview on you,
you have to go through an extensive background check, a
mental health check, extensive STD check, all of that all
(06:36):
the way up. So they do it extensive. You have
to go through so many go through medicals.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Most people have hurt And there they was showing the
herpey bumps and outbreaks and they was all kissing each
other and the challenges.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
This is what I couldn't.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I couldn't do that though. I couldn't do that because
I'm very germophobic. And if you kiss one person and
you're coming to kissing that song, I would have passed.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I said, just put these new kids. I can't do that.
I can't get I'm gonna be the whole time watching like.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
That's what I was like. I was like, how can
y'all do this? Like you go from kissing this one
to kissing this one, y'all just share?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yeah? Would you do a show like that though if
it was like maybe a little bit more mature or like, yeah,
more mature, Yeah, if.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
It was if it was a more mature show, I would,
But if it came down to kissing, I wouldn't. Yeah,
I'll be like, just kiss me right here on the cheek.
I do not like kissing. And I have to really
love you to kiss you. And even when I love you,
if you're high, gene ain't right, or if your breath
saying you ain't kissing me, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Okay, well y'all.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Yeah, I couldn't get into the Love Island no matter
what nobody said to me, and everybody was talking about it.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I was just like, I don't only have like.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
This much time to watch TV, and it's not gonna
be watching me.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
But it was Actually, you can get sucked into it
for sure. Definitely you can get sucked into love Alan.
But it wasn't bad. I enjoyed it. I fell in
love with some of the couples. I even, you know,
teared up a little. But yes, it was so cute. Nick, Nick,
(08:20):
and Olandra was the names. Those were my favorites. I
was reading the fan mail. It was so cute.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Nice.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Now over these children, they.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Are so cute together. I hope that they find.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Love off the village.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
They should have won in my opinion. Okay, so y'all
tell me who y'all think should have won. I'm team
Nick and Aluandra, Alandra and Nick. She had been my girl.
Now enough of love Alan, because actually can't get into it.
I mean I'm barely getting into it because I just
jumped on the bandwagon. But I am a team of
(09:04):
Love Island, so definitely will be keeping up with the
next season that comes out. Okay, let's get into a
cash doll natural Era and why it's a big deal.
So you've been noticing Cash Doll have been wearing naturally.
She's been going around bare face, no weed, no makeup,
(09:25):
and she is looking good. Cash Doll just let the
world know that her man loves her more when she's natural.
And she's been confidently showing up with fresh skin, no
makeup and embracing her glow. But in a world obsessed
with perfection, it's natural beauty finally back in style. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
I mean, I think first of all, most men love
when their women don't wear, you know, makeup and all
the hair extensions and stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
I mean, I know Phil always used to.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Say that to me, like, you know, when you you
don't have any makeup on and blah blah blah. But
I think most men do prefer like when they're women
are you know, in their natural state, and for some reason,
like when you go out looking raggedy to the gas
station to Walmart real quick, that's when most guys are
trying to howl. So it's something about just being in
(10:21):
your most bare own naturality state that really turns me
on because I feel like it's like, oh, well, if
you look this good when you're a bear, then you know,
when you get all done up.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
You must really be fine.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I don't know in my head that's what I'm thinking,
But I think everything is, you know, it comes their waves,
like I think, you know, makeup trends, hair trends, all
of these trends, they come and go.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Necessarily that there being there went out of style ever.
I just think that people just stop doing it because
of social media, and because social media is so present.
At any moment, there's a camera, somebody's taking pictures of you.
You know, everybody wanted to make sure they look good.
So I think that's why that look kind of might
(11:11):
seem like it went away.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
But I don't think their face and.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Natural you know, makeup and stuff like that and hair
was ever out of side.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
All right. I feel like, in my opinion, I like both.
Like at first, I felt like I needed to go
around and wear makeup everywhere I had to go. I
needed to put on makeup. But like you said, when
I was in relationships, they liked the frontles, they liked
for this to show, they liked the natural face everything.
(11:43):
Now I'm starting to embrace the natural look more I
got except I gotta have my lashes. But I'm starting
to embrace the natural look more because when I put
on makeup, I get hit with oh she look old,
and said of the therap'd be like, oh, don't put
on at the makeup, don't do this. I don't like
it because it's hard for makeup artists to even do
(12:06):
my makeup and to blend, and it makes it worse
that I have freckles. So to try to keep the
frecklesh on, to try to make sure it's blended, it's
a lot of work and I have to go through
a test and trial every time. If I'm going to
trying on a new makeup artist, sure the.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Make it's a blue are are a rare rarity, so
don't cover the freckles up.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
I don't so now I started. I don't have on
anything right now. But what I've started doing now is
getting mineral, like a little blow to put on my
face and just going out like that. Unless I really need.
Speaker 3 (12:43):
To beat, yes, I.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
Lean towards wearing makeup.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
I love to beat my face down.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I have like best friends who are makeup artists, so
they kind of taught me how to beat my face.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
So if you be killing my face, I'm gonna be
my face but I have gotten my.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Skincare down to perfection to where now I like, right
now I don't have anything, just flip blocks and lashes.
But but yeah, so now I'm like, I'm more into
the skincare side of things so that I can go
and feel confident in my own skin without makeup, which
I think is refreshing because you know when your skin
(13:30):
is bad, and even when it or like your skin
was bad, and you just see like the remnants of
when your skin was bad, like you do just want
to cover it up, are less confident. So I think
it's just great too that we are seeing more women
step out and be more natural, especially somebody like cash Doll,
because she's like a super confident, like bad bitch personality,
(13:55):
and she's like showing women like we can still be bad,
vicious and be natural in their face. And she used
to have her whoever used to be doing her lamb down,
oh my god, like the way they used to layer
her hair like perfection. So see her out here like, yeah,
my man likes me like this, like I love it.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
I'm here for it.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
I love it too. Have you ever felt like your
natural look wasn't enough? I know I have like it
took me a minute. Especially in my younger days, I
used to always spend so much money just to go
look good, and I felt like me looking good was
having on a full face of makeup, yeah, and just
walking around natural. I just felt like it wasn't enough
(14:41):
for me. I felt like in order to impress my man,
I needed to have my face done up. I needed
to do all this, I needed to look glam It was.
It was a lot. But as I started to embrace
my natural look, my freckles, you know, my little tiny eyes,
my little lips, I started to love my natural look more.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Yeah. I think we all go through that. I think
all women have, you know, gone through times where we
just feel like we need to do something to make ourselves.
And I think just with you know, growing up and
being more confident in yourself, it kind of you kind
of find what works for you too, you know. I
(15:22):
think that because I've been in a relationship for so long,
like I never really felt pressed to go out and
look a certain way to you know, find a man
or nothing like that.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
So I never really had that pressure.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
But I feel like the pressure for me more so
is to look good amongst other women. You know what
I mean, Like other women put more pressure on you
to like do the most. Like if you're you ain't
got all the inches down your back and you don't
got your lashes done, you don't got you know, the
best makeup artists, you don't have the best close Like
I feel like trying to keep up with other women
(15:58):
will make you feel like you got to do you know.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Yeah, and you know what what else put pressure on me.
I was in the military for thirteen years. You was
in the military, and you know how strict they were
on us. No makeup, no lashes, no nails, no this.
And another reason why I felt like I needed makeup
because it was so much pressure on looking like a
little boy all the time with your hair pulled back
(16:23):
and you couldn't wear nothing, you couldn't get glambed up.
It was hard to get glambed up, and you were
so tired. You had the weekend, but you were so tired.
So now that I'm out, I went I did go
through a stage where I just wanted to put on makeup.
I couldn't be going nowhere. I just wanted makeup on
my face. Yeah, So I blamed the military too.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
From women just crying.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Like that balance of what makes you feel comfortable and
confident without overdoing it.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
You know that's true.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
What's one insecurity you had to unlearn about yourself one insecurity?
Speaker 3 (17:00):
You know what I hated the most.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Growing up was being skinny? Say yeah, because you know everybody,
you know, I went to predominantly black high school and
like a lot of Hispanics, so the girls was filled out.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Okay, they have bodies early and I did not.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I started my.
Speaker 2 (17:23):
Period later than most of the girl so I was very.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
Much just straight up and down.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
And you know, people used to pick on me and
you know, call me all kinds of names because I
was skinny, and so I feel like that was like
probably my biggest insecurity. And then I started modeling and
I got signed with all the biggest agencies in the country.
I got signed with Ford, I signed with Click, and
(17:49):
then I started making money and then those insecurities started.
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Went away, Like what, I'm glad, I'm this us. Yes,
you know, we used to always get picked on growing
up in hot middle school, high school, skinny, pancake, booty, this,
that and the third but and the women who did
have the shapes. Now I hate to say it, but baby,
I was like, I thank god I was skinny, I
(18:16):
was athletic. You know, I'm still working out. Because the
ones that y'all wanted in high school, y'all don't even
look they wait no more. They are huge, yeah some
of them.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
Yeah I do. Thank God for genetics then for being
a late bloomer, because yeah, I mean late bloomers. Thank
God for being a late bloomer.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
And it was the ones that was stick that used
to pick on the skinny ones, the females to y'all
know who y'all was picking on their skinny girls in
high school, in middle school. But that's what and that's
what I tell my daughter. I was like, she's going
through this stage where you got a drink in short.
I'm like, no, I said, just stay your side because
(18:58):
when you get older like that, wait, gonna slowly start
creeping up. So just just be happy how you are
right now. Don't don't force it, don't force the weight
upon you.
Speaker 3 (19:11):
Now insecurity, what's that?
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Oh? Yeah, you do? Them things are don't feed me barking.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
They don't because I keep a clean no, you clean.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
Mother on them.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
They're not the cute.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Your feet look like fingers.
Speaker 2 (19:46):
You know what I'm saying, that's still an insecurity that
I had. I don't think it's going anywhere any something
cool like I have less me, But.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
You got your husband. That's all that mattered. And your
husband loved you. Do Actually, you'd be like, no, don't
look at my feet. Don't look at my feet.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
You know God can give us everything is all right, yes,
but he blessed you with a beautiful face, beautiful body.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
You you good girl. I rather have I rather have
a feet with muscles on them, you know, a jacked
up face period. Okay, this long, it's fine, yes, But
in regards to overall makeup, I feel like the real
(20:35):
flex is when you're confident. Confident either way. Yeah, and
more and if more women started celebrating, whether you know
it's natural beauty or you know, full glam, not just
online but also in real life, will be unstoppable period.
So so definitely, you know, embrace it, Embrace your natural beauty,
(20:56):
embrace blam whichever. But don't allow a man. Do not
allow a man. You shouldn't allow a man to force
you or to to you know, make you, force you
into the natural.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Beauty because she said she did it because that's what
her man like. And it's like, yeah, but is that
what you like? You know what I mean? Like, let's
make sure that we're not just totally changing our whole
personality and who we are and what we like or
a man, you know what?
Speaker 1 (21:27):
Right?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
So that's true, because then things, because then what's next?
What if he's like, well, I don't like you hanging
out with her or I don't like you going there.
It's like, you know, once you start especially, this man
is not your husband, once you start conforming to things
because that's what your man like like, he's you.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Start living for him and not yourself, and then that's
for the unhappiness and everything else.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Another at leads to another child.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
And I've been in relationships for my previous relationship, you know,
they embraced everything. But I've been in a relationship before
where it was like I want you like this, I
want you to dress like this, and eventually you get
tired and wore out and you're like, I'm living for
I need to be living for myself. Why am I
doing everything that you want? But then you go out
(22:18):
and sleep with this that and the third the opposite
of what you want from me.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Yeah, yeah, going down that road of doing it because
that's what my man right, So.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
You definitely do so do it because you want to
do it, not because you know, I mean, you take
your man advice, but also do it because you want.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
To do it.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
Let's get into it. You heard about what your president
doesn't quietly do.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Then oh my gosh, why.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
He quietly removed Emma eml Martin Luther King's statue And
why is it so solid? So I set it on
a few blocks. But that's something that should have like
really hit the headlines. Right. There's been very little media coverage,
but it's been reported that Donald Trump quietly removed the
Martin Luther King Jr. Statue from its long time display
(23:13):
at the White House, and people are barely talking about it.
Why is that?
Speaker 3 (23:19):
I don't know, that's really crazy.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
I mean, I feel like he's doing something all the time,
so it's not surprising, you know what I mean? This
is something I mean, Martin Luther King. Even if you
are not into civil rights and you don't know nothing
about nothing, you know who Martin Luther King Jr. Is
and you know his importance in our country's history. So yeah,
(23:46):
it's crazy that this isn't making waves like it should be.
But it's also not surprising that it's not, because you know,
it's one of our heroes, you know what I mean?
And I don't know Trump. It just doesn't surprise me
at this point. Honestly, nothing does this President. Yeah, looks
like it's been going off of whatever. We only what.
Speaker 1 (24:12):
I feel like, you know, the fact that it happened
and it barely made the headlines tell you everything about
how the country treat black history.
Speaker 2 (24:21):
Yeah, and the leaders.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Because I mean it's like you're silently and slowly erasing
African American history, right, they stopped talking about it in
the schools. They slowly stopped talking about it in the schools.
They're you know, taking yeah memories away.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I just I really
don't understand what was his point in moving it? Did
it like, did he say anything or did he just
moved it?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Nothing?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Now?
Speaker 3 (24:52):
Nothing else with it.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
Nothing else with it. It was just removed from it
where it was displayed, a it was placed somewhere else.
I got to read into it, but it's just it's sad,
like why are you coming in here making all these changes,
especially for people who fought and risk their lives. You know,
(25:15):
they did something great for America because I guarantee you
if it was somebody else, if let's if a black
president came in and moved somebody you.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Don't move George Washington.
Speaker 1 (25:29):
Exactly, it would have been a World War three. Crazy.
It's it's crazy how how it is. How you know,
we're silently how they're silently just you know, erasing African
American history. And it's not right.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
It is.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
That's why it's important for us as parents, because they're
they're taking it out of the schools to continue to teach,
to teach what, you know, what was, what our what
ef we fought for, what our ancestor is fault for it.
It's very important to teach that because eventually, the way
that they're carrying on, Yeah, the history is going to
(26:08):
be race.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
No, you're right.
Speaker 3 (26:11):
You know, I was just talking to somebody.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
Like other parts of the world, like in Africa too,
they're not teaching about you know, black history, the slave trade,
all of that stuff. They're not teaching it. It's not
just in America, which is I have no idea, so
we really do have to be smart about it. We
have to be intentional about teaching our children and keeping
history alive, and you know, make it a point that
(26:37):
we don't let things like this just go by. We
can't just let the media let this slip by like that.
We can't just not say anything, like, we really have
to put our foot down and you know, say something, because,
like you said, if we just keep letting things go, soon,
it's not going to be nothing left.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
And I read something where they were trying to take
the first African American pilots out of UH military, out
of the military history.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
It's so much that the.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Yes, the Tuskegee Airmen, they're trying to take that out. Well,
I don't know if it's if it's implemented, but it's
just it's so much that's slowly being a race and
no one's talking about it or even trying to fight
for it.
Speaker 3 (27:20):
Thanks.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
Yeah, we got to get better. You guys got to
sit together and get better. All right, some good news.
So it's a bittersweet the fact that you know, Teddy
Bridgewater apparent allegedly he got fired for doing what school
the school wouldn't do. So the story ted Teddy Bridgewater,
(27:43):
former NFL quarterback, has been removed as head coach at
Miami Northwestern High after he admitted in a Facebook post
that he paid out of pocket to support his players,
including meals, transportations, and recovery needs. Instead of being praised,
the school suspended him. Teddy clapback, saying, you can't fire
someone who doesn't work for you, and he also stated
(28:05):
that he was still going to support even if he
have to support in the bleachers.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
Well, somebody needs to be awarding this man, like and.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Mind you, they had just won I think the championship,
so I feel like it's more than that. Like when
I was growing up, my coach, because my mom was
a single mom. You know, she was working and I
ran track. My coach went out his way to make
sure his top players, make sure his players, you know,
were where they needed to be. Where there's track, going
(28:37):
to track, practice, going home, late practices, involved in different things.
You need more people like that in your life.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Everybody knows it takes the village first of all. And
and you know our black neighborhoods, our black schools, like
we need our black.
Speaker 3 (28:52):
Men stepping up in this way.
Speaker 2 (28:53):
So that's just crazy to me that somebody would want
to suspend him and keep him from being such, you know,
a great part of the community.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
And they said that he doesn't even really work there.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
So what I feel like, it's more personal. It reading
it really got a funder my skin because I came
from a place where I didn't have all the help,
like I said before, So it's it. I feel like
it's it's more personal than.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Then.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
You know, whatever they're doing is a personal bendeta something.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Yeah, they want, so obviously whatever he's doing is helping.
So I'm not understanding the whoever is against him, I'm
not understanding, you know, what foot they have to stand on,
because clearly whatever he's doing is working, it's helping, he said,
sounds like an amazing person in these children's lives. And yeah,
(30:00):
I just we all know how much it takes, how
much of a village it takes to help raise these kids,
to help get them to their practices, how much things cost.
And he's paying for things out of his own pocket.
He's not doing anything illegal, Like.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
It's not like he's benefiting from I'm not finding financially.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Where it went wrong here for him, And I hope
they make it up to him.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Man.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
I hope somebody comes to their senses and calls them
out on this, because you know what, if this deterres
other people, other men from helping and wanting to stuff
up and you know, help out in the community like that,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
The fact that he said he'll sit in the bleachers
and still support and help. It shows that he's a
great leader and he loves his community. It's like it's
rare to find black strong leaders like that in the
first place. And now y'all want to come in and
tear this man down. And he's all he's doing is
supporting the community, right is all he is doing is
(31:01):
helping these kids who parents probably growing up some of
them probably growing up in single you know, households, some
of them. Here we go with this bullshit again. Some
of them are growing up in single households. Some of
them the parents need the help. And you want to
come down and and mess things up.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
It's not right now, it's not. I wonder what the
parents are saying. I wonder if you know, was there
a meeting that said that there is no investigation. But
he doesn't work for the school, so how could there
really be an investigation, like I wonder what the ends
and outside I wonder what the conversation. I wonder what
the students are saying, what the parents are saying. I
(31:43):
just kind of want to know, because it's outside looking
in this sounds crazy as hell. Honestly, it really doesn't.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
It definitely does. It sound like something some personal situations.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
So we hope it works out in that Petty Bridgewater
can get back to doing what he was doing, because
you can tell that this is probably like a passion
of his to you know, go out of his way
and do what he's been doing. So hopefully they figure
it out and they bring down whoever was trying to
bring him down.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Yes, we got to get better. We got to continue
to support our community. Do you feel like support why
supporting our own communities? Communities often punished instead of praise.
Speaker 2 (32:32):
You know, maybe it's like that cribing a barrel type
of thing, or somebody wants to get the praise, you know.
I don't know. I just feel like, I don't know.
I think people just get wrapped up in the wrong
things and they forget the reason why. You know, we
do charity work and while we are help, like what's
(32:55):
the reason. What are we here for? What's the purpose?
You know, people get up in their own person, you know,
wants and needs. Things can get political, Things can just
like I said, have nothing to do with the reasons
that we're even there.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
So I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
It's unfortunate, but it happens. And that's why you.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Have to make sure you have the right people in
place that can keep a balance and checking balance and everything.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
Yeah, that's true, That's definitely true. You have to keep
that checking balance. Like I said, we didn't have those
issues growing up. You know, my coach would go in
and go out the way for us to make sure
we were good. I mean, it was a small town.
Most of us grew up in single parent households, so
we needed that supporting, that help. And I feel like,
(33:45):
you know, people trying to tear another man who's trying
to help down a black man who's trying to help
is not right. Like we're supposed to be supporting each
other and just support him. Like all he's doing, all
he is doing is just helping the community. Let's get
into it. So make sure y'all support y'all go over
there and support our boy Teddy down in Miami. Gates said,
(34:10):
he sent you the Humble Batty's mail, Ashley, Do you
got it?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
Yeah? I do have it? Is this time for having
humble Bady's mail.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Already, it's already tired.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
Alrighty, I'm under.
Speaker 1 (34:22):
The weather right now. I don't know what's going on.
Smell sound like a I got this car, sound like
a smoker's car.
Speaker 2 (34:29):
It real.
Speaker 1 (34:31):
I don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
Yeah, okay, Well, our Humble Batty's mail is from Brandon
in West Texas.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Okay, Brandon from West Texas? All right? He said, I
love Texas. I think I was thinking about I A'm
gonna cut you off. I was thinking about relocating to Dallas.
Mm hmm okay, I love it there.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
I don't know. I've only been in Texas a couple
of times and and it's been okay. But nothing about
it that I was like, except for like, you could
buy a big ass house there.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
Yes, and the land. I missed my country living.
Speaker 3 (35:10):
That's the only thing I was like. But other than that,
I was like, no, I can.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
See myself living there.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
I know. They say, like Houston is like the similar
to Atlanta.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
Girl, You've seen them, them them STDs, the the numbers
on Houston in Texas.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Sure, well you better wrap it up.
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Oh I said, we doing all that now?
Speaker 2 (35:40):
No, I'm just saying, okay, what's up, Charrelle. I'm not
to put myself out there like this, but I had
to shoot my shot because real recognized real.
Speaker 3 (35:54):
Okay popline.
Speaker 1 (35:58):
Now, okay, this is not the humble batty hot line.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
Right, Okay.
Speaker 2 (36:04):
I've been following you for a minute, and truthfully, it's
not just your beauty that caught me. It's the way
you you lead with purpose, handle your business with grace,
and still manage to light up every room. That's rare.
I work in the oil fields out in West Texas,
long day, real grime, but I built a solid people
(36:25):
like no drama, no cloud chasing, just growth, loyalty and vibes.
And from what I see, you match that energy so respectfully,
if you're open to it, I like to take you
out sometimes, good food, good combo, no games, just something
real with a man who truly sees you.
Speaker 3 (36:43):
Let me show you different. I'll be waiting, Brandon.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Brandon, first, I don't even know who you are and
how you look. See y'all, y'all play too much y'all
play too much. Well, first of all, thank you Brandon
for that sweet message, but I'm currently off the market, officially.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
Officially, bringa bel I need bail.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
I didn't say I'm not dating anyone right now, so
you're you're just not dating, but you're not off the market.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
I'm just trying to cul this up for Brandy.
Speaker 1 (37:31):
Brandon, thank you so much for the sweet messages. Is
that clear enough?
Speaker 2 (37:39):
I mean, I guess so. I mean, Brandon, you might
have to do a little more than sending a humble batty.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
The first of all, we don't even know how Brandon look.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
I mean, he must be confident. We know that the
right such a nice letter to you for us to
read on humble baddies. I mean, he's probably plea decent
looking if you're that confident.
Speaker 1 (38:07):
I need pictures, Okay, Well, well I really don't need
I just want to be curious to see who you are.
But yeah, I just want to be curious to see
who you are, So send a picture, Brandon, if you're
watching this.
Speaker 2 (38:21):
Okay, well, thank you, Brandon. If you guys want to
write to Cherrell or no mail, I need to send
pictures than bank statements.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Then no, I did not say all that.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
I have as much information as possible. Okay, So thank
you guys for writing into humble Batties. Please write again
if you have questions, If you need advice, write to
what is the contact a humblebatties dot com. Yeah, we
will love to read you know your meal?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
No no more, no more. We thank you guys for
another episode of We're Gonna let Ashley go because she
has to go tend to her son's basketball game. We
love y'all until Wednesday, We will see y'all. Make sure
y'all follow us at Humble Baddies podcast, follow us on Instagram,
shwer a Risotto, underscore, Ashley, where can they find you?
Speaker 2 (39:16):
Find me a Nicole and ash through underscore to call on?
What's the snapchat?
Speaker 1 (39:27):
You look like you're going to referee the game with
that black and white yelling? Are you missing?
Speaker 2 (39:33):
Is your will yelling? You know?
Speaker 3 (39:36):
Fhiel the coach? So the parents?
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Oh lord?
Speaker 2 (39:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (39:40):
All right, by all right, love y'all.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Bye SA
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