July 3, 2025 • 30 mins
Sharelle, Ashley & Porsha react to P. Diddy being found guilty of lesser chargers in RICO case, rumors that Relle and Jeezy are involved after attending his concert, Nelly and Ashanti's reality show, and much more!
Humble Baddies - Part 2: She Ain’t a Girls’ Girl + A Mailbag To Remember
Sharelle, Ashley & Porsha react the WILDEST Humble Baddies Mailbag yet, that sparks a debate about cheating! Later, they debate the definition of "a girls’ girl" and much more!PT1
00:00 - Intro
07:00 - W.A.G.s to Riches
07:30 - Diddy verdict reaction
17:00 - Internet is MESSY
39:24 - Nelly & Ashanti reality show
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
We need to redo a video and a portion in
it because I'm not liking this without our your oppressure.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Pee, Yeah, an official Humble Baddy. At this point, I.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Wasn't gonna say nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
I ain't want to be uptious, but I was.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
I ain't here.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
I want to turn up with the girlies in the intro.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
We gonna do.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We're gonna do a We gonna redo a video. Pee,
we got you, We got you? What's up?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Lady? Hey girl, Hey friends, how have y'all been?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Say?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Hi, guys?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You a portion?
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Are we twins?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah? Beautiful girl?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
But how y'all being.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
I'm good? I'm good. These kids running me? You ain't
gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Still sign them up for every sport there is.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
And I'm still recovering from the other night.
Speaker 6 (01:09):
Y'all know I'm washed for real, for real, in real life.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You said, yes, we had a time.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Time it was.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
It was a good time. It was a good time.
I was like a kid in the candy store.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Man, JEZI is definitely you're one of your number one rappers.
I enjoyed it, even though I don't be knowing all
the words.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
I say that as at know all the words. But
every video that I got, my girl is hopping up
and down like.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
She in good time.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, But it was it was the fact that she said,
I don't know these words, but I'm still gonna ube.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
I was right there with you, ash, you know what
I mean, like p Charelle and Andre and they.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Little hood bogger antics.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
I was just over there, like I only know a few.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
It needs y'all know, somebody try.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I mean when I was like, y'all, y'all know because
y'all close to me, y'all know. G Z is like
one of my top ropers. I know every lyric. Somebody
was like, I bet you she don't even know a
whole lot of the lyrics.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
That you know every word of everything.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I grew. I grew up off g Z and Gucci Man.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like high school, oh five six, I was jamming to
g Z and Gucci Man.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Those was my tooth. Then we stopped playing. We can tell.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Everybody looked so good in their texas and they're like
it was given black excellence.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
It was except when we was outside.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I mean, it's just entertaining, so I'm not even mad
at it.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
That's part we could have did without We was like, oh,
this is nice. And next thing you know, we started
hearing some rubb and I said, oh this love.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
It is Jezz. He brought him out.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
They was dressed up, j Z bringing the hood out
now and I was part of the hood.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I came out, my ego came out.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
We had a great time. It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
It was it was very cute.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
It was good. What y'all got played this weekend Essence Festival.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I'm going to Essence.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Are you going?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I'm taking my mom and then I'm speaking on a
piano about reality TV. So that's gonna be good. But
what we're gonna be talking about? But I know it's
gonna be a good time. That's my first time going
to Essence. I've never been too Essence Festival, and neither
has my mom. So we planned.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
They said the tickets dropped this year. I wonder why
what's going on with Essex?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
I want to go.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Pariffs the President don't lost his mind? Shoot, I want
to know.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
I used to call it Auntie Fest because it's a
little anti fest.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
I kind of want to go because I think, you.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Know, we turned it into the unty. We the upties.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
Next Auntie Jason, like I we next to.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
It because like I think there's a concert every night.
I think we're gonna go probably Saturday night and it's
like Erica, But I do and Jay.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Now what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You know?
Speaker 6 (04:23):
I want them to stream it so I can see
what you say about reality TV, friend, And that's really
what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Real.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I'm gonna keep it all the way. What do you do?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
I gonna let y'all know what you're gonna say. She's
finna get up there. They're gonna say, so what about
Is she finna say fuck that show? I'm kidding?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Oh sorry, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
No, I'm gonna keep it real. I hope they asked
me some real last questions so I can give them
some real ask answers. And I feel like we need
to speak on you know, how reality stars don't get
what they deserve. You know, I feel like we're still
fighting for you know, we do a lot of work,
like reality TV isn't easy, and I feel like the
pay is not equivalent to the work.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
That we're definitely not equivalent.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I make sure you know, I'm gonna have my points right.
The months and.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Months of exploiting your life exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
If I can go back and change the hands sometimes,
I probably wouldn't have done the last show.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah me either, if I had her known it was
going to be like that ship.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I feel I missed out on a lot of business
trying to be a team player, Ashley.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Listen, we felt the same time.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I'm sitting down on the sofa talking about black love
and black excellence and business and wealth and sisterhood, just
for us to end up talking about too vaginas that
we just don't care about, right.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
All the things that they could have shown, And it's
just like that's the jost.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Let's take. Let's let's carry on. Let's not relive.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
We're in a better space, curious, let's not relival. Let's
get into the show tonight. What we're talking about, y'all
see it? The internet is going crazy Diddy with my
boy Diddy?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Well, I ain't gonna say he my boy, but with
the boy? Did he.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Do you let him out yet?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Though?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
No, his bell got denied.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Oh damn.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
But so I guess he has to wait, have to
wait till October. So he's going back to prison until
his sentencing in October. But he's clear, but still questioned
the Diddy dilemma, So y'all did he wasn't found guilty
of the big charges. It was the rico and the
sex trafficking, but he was guilty of some lesser charges
(06:45):
like transporting people for prostitution. Now that the desk is
starting to settle, fans are either defending him hard or distancing.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
They're themselves in silence.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Now, when I was watching, I said, the fans outside
with a whole bunch of baby oil.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Did y'all see that?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
People got to.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Like in protests?
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Like were they so after Diddy was found not guilty
on the big charges?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Uh? They read everything out.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
They the fans started celebrating and people had baby oils.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
With their shirts off, celebrating with baby. Okay, I wasn't sure.
I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I need to go buy some stops in Johnson and
Johnson at this point.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
Something people have way too much time income, Like what
are you doing go home.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
With baby? Well? Like who Mama and daddy? Are you? Like?
Speaker 3 (07:45):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But for real, because you know, they wasn't kids. These
are people. These are grown adults, grown.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Men, These men with their shirts soft, rubbing baby oil
all over them.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
One man had on.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
The seat a whole Steve Harvey soup, rubbing the baby all,
all of.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
It, suit honey.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Every day further and further from the Lord's grace. I'm
telling I'm telling you, this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
But I'm confused because just a couple of weeks ago,
everybody was against did he? Now they y'all happy, but
he he got to quit it. I'm like, so what happened?
Everybody just kind of flip flopped.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Like some people are silently making subliminal posts. I know
they tried to say that Krisha did the Justin Bieber.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What what does this means?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I think it came out so they're trying to say
she's basically replying to.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Diddy's outcome.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
But then some people were trying to come at her
and say, oh, you wasn't there to support him. So
while you trying to speak now, of course you know fifty,
he's gonna be petty and I think and troll and
I forgot what he called him. He said something. It
was something there, but he was trolling.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
You had.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Little boots he come out and little boot Bootsy come
out and say something Bootsy he came out and said something.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I mean, people aren't talking.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
You're gonna have more people come out now who didn't
say anything, and I feel like they just should have
just they just need to shut up and be quiet,
because it either you're going to support him and support him,
support him loud like crazy Kanye, or you just gonna
be quiet and.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
They carry on.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, everybody was real quiet except for Kanye during the
whole trial. Nobody want to have nothing to do it
Diddy no more. And now all of a sudden, everybody's like, oh,
pank god. Amen.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Yeah, but I mean that also for the people who
who were not supporting Diddy, that doesn't really change the outcome.
Doesn't really change how they feel about him.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
What these twelve people.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Think about what he did and what somebody else thinks
about what he did. It don't matter if he in
jail or not. If they think that he's a monster.
They just think that he's a monster, right, say what
I'm saying. So it's really no like, I don't know
the people who were quietly, they were quiet about it
because they low key supported him. There's no sense in
coming out about it now because you ain't gonna change
nobody mind. No, it is, and it doesn't affect us
(10:14):
either way. Honestly, I agree with you. I feel like
the people who were quietly supporting him, they should they
should just stay quiet because you weren't confident enough to
say it before.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
So why are you all? I told you so?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Now I feel like people are mad that they didn't
let him. Well, I don't feel like I'm saying reading
that people are mad that they didn't let him out
on bun Like, what's the point if he didn't get charged,
found guilty on the big.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Charges, why y'all holding him in Because.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
There's still other charges I guess something, So they have to.
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Figure out what they're going to do about that. And
then also that man got money, he can flee because.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
If I was diddy, you let me out.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I mean, what, what what's the maximum charge of transportation
of prostitute?
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Ten years?
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Oh yeah, they said years.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
They're trying to give him the max. It's like ten
years for each of those lesser charges. They trying to
give him the max.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
But it's hard to give somebody the max who don't
have any criminal charges, who has never had any criminal charges.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
It is hard, but they're going to try.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
That's why I ain't giving him bail. They're like, well,
we'll keep him while we can.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
They're going to keep him for whatever they can.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
But it's just crazy because it's almost like like I
understand what all of this was for, but I kind
of don't understand what it was all for. I feel
like it just seemed like just some horrible humiliation ritual
or something, because it's like y'all came out and said
all of that, y'all told all of that man business
talk about racketeering, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Like witnesses and all their story.
Speaker 6 (11:55):
All we got was just scandalous soul details about his
sex life life.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
It's like, oh my god, take me.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
At the chat please.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
I don't need to look.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
At Diddy the same.
Speaker 6 (12:09):
How I looked at him in the first place. I
just feel like those stories about him, but.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
I didn't have no, no bad look. But now it's
just like.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
It's it was just like, okay, you you were great,
you know, But now the skeletons that came out, it.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
Is like it's just a little nasty. Yeah nasty, and
he beat he beat people.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Yeah. Let me ask you a question, would y'all go
to a Diddy party now?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Now, No, no, that's not up my speed. I'm too
old for that type of miss can.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I tell you? Now, I'm at his house like it's
the all white, big Diddy party like he has, like
you know, not the same party.
Speaker 6 (12:52):
They be normal parties though, like I've been to didgy parties,
they be normal parties and a certain time in the room,
they really be normal parties. And so everybody's like, oh,
Diddy parties, Diddy parties. First of all, did he throws
spectacular parties?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Right?
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Okay, push a pee. I'm just saying one too.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
And it was fun, but they were normal parties.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Drinking. You were drinking out the punch bowls.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
I don't know what I was drinking.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I don't know what I was drinking.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
People are gonna forgive him and forget and things are
gonna slowly give back to how they were.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
But do you think he gonna start back throwing parties.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
I think he needs to go to Thailand.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
I don't think I'm there with Russell Simmons Brussel exactly that.
But I think now I feel like he's gonna have
a point to prove, and I feel like he's gonna
just be like extra because you know, he was trying
to change his whole for signa with the whole love thing.
So I feel like it's gonna go extra hard with
(14:00):
that and try to prove a point and more love parties.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
That man is in his fifties. He needs to go
enjoy his wealth, baby in his life.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
He needs to stay our great kids.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
No.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
Oh, the way these people ate him.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
I would want to come back here and talk to
none of these people. The whole world ate his ass
up for the better part of an entire year. I
would take my little coins, much like what casts he
needs to do, girl, take your coins.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
And move away, go away from his stuff and these people.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Just not though he seems like a person who needs
that attention, he still needs to be like point person.
He needs to be diddy. He gonna come out with
a new name. He probably gonna be.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Like he gonna change his last name from love to.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
What He's gonna come out with a new name.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Child.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
I don't know, And yeah, I just don't see him
like powering out and like hiding away anywhere that happening.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
We'll see, Well, only time will tell you.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
First we got to see in October what they gonna
sendence him.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
With, Honey, the Internet is insane.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
It's too much.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Like I'm honestly so glad that this is over because
I was tired of like debating people about it. I
was tired of seeing on my timeline. I was it
was just too much for me. The Internet is just yeah,
it's a lot, it's not. And it's also just like
with the news that was coming out, like all these
rumors and stuff.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Like the internet is that, ain't it.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
You can't really believe all the stuff that you hear
and what you see, and it's fake news everywhere and
it was trash.
Speaker 5 (15:41):
Honestly speaking of fake news.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Speaking of fake news, man, listen, speaking of fake news,
miss ma'am.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Fake news.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
This Internet is not a real place, but it's running
real lives.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
So not ruing in real life.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
That's what you know.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
That's what the type of it's not running my life.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
But speaking of fake news.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
So y'all know, we was at the JEZ because right
having agreed, I post one picture up and people just
went on a whole shabam crazy thing like, oh y'all together,
this that, and I'm like, what.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Saying that you know, like Jeez and Cherrell is a
new like people just the.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
People said.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
And then she went on to live the next day
or like three days.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Later, people still talking about it.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Her live talking about it was a couple.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Oh are y'all gonna First of all, that's not my type.
Second of all, I respect you know j Z as
a great rapper, and that's it. Don't try to put
somebody on me.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
It's crazy. But that ain't even that ain't even all
of it.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
That's why I say that it's crazy. So we we
did our videos, were posting our videos during the show
or whatever. When you send up front row, you don't
you don't look behind you. First of all, you ain't
checking behind you. I get messages like overload, people sending me,
(17:19):
people calling me. They're like, girl, you on this, this page,
this that, and the third you trying to expose something.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I said, I spoke. Who is these people? I don't
know these people.
Speaker 7 (17:30):
It's it's so crazy how people just take They will
do the FBI, CIA, look in your picture, your video,
trying to see and create their own narrative and.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Roll with it.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Who was in the background.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
I don't to this day, I still don't know these people.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
What did they say about.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Basically saying I was exposing them because apparently they were
not supposed.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
To be a couple. But there was a couple.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I don't know child, but I was like, I can't oh,
she being messy.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
They was all in Martini messages in her DM.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
So it was the people behind you or behind us
there was they were a couple.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
I guess. So they were a couple. I don't know.
They were to get something, huh something. I don't even
know the man. I still don't know. The man ain't
to this day. I just I don't know. I just
know one person and I don't want to say their
name on the podcast.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Okay, so the person that you know was affiliated with
that person behind you, Yes, But what they got to
do with me not a damn thing.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
Because I ain't like this?
Speaker 3 (18:44):
Who liked this? Let me look behind me and see
who behind.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
You before you pick up your phone and do your
video or who who.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Recording theyselves and then looking in the back of the
video to see who behind them and who in their background.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
To me, because I need to know who this is.
I'm going to figure it out in the back of
my bodyo too.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
And the people who they talking about is in everybody
who sat in our section. But they singled me out
saying that I'm the one that's being missing.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
Because you know the person who know the person.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Yes, but I don't know them people.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
So you know, you know, you know somebody who wasn't
at the concert who is affiliated with one of the people,
the couple.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
That was selling like five rolls behind us, not five and.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Contact me when they was like, girl, no.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
It was blocked.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
It hit the blogs, it hit the local blocks in Miami,
and people just started messaging me and calling me like
somebody died.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
I'm like, what's going on? Girl, Girl, I don't lie.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
That's why I like the inner net, because let FI
go outside and try to do somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I don't find out.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Girl, they gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
They're gonna be ready to.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Tell you every time.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Every time, they're gonna be ready to tell you.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
He's that public. Oh thank you, thank you for letting
me know. Thank you. I ain't got to check up
on him no more. It's the internet is doing it
for me, thank you. So I mean, I'm here. I'm
here for the people you know, paying attention, and you know,
but what other job do you have?
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Though? Well, wait, since all that happened, have you.
Speaker 6 (20:33):
Let's just let's just say the person's name is Nephertity.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I don't know have you talked to Nephertiti.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
About because that's not my problem because I don't know.
I don't talk to Nephertiti on a day to day basis. Okay,
it's not like it's a close friend of mine.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I still don't know who. If I call, I'm be like,
I don't even know the guy name. I don't know
the female. I heard of her before, but I don't
know her. But what I'm gonna say, Hey girl, such
and such was in my my video and it hit
the block.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
What I know?
Speaker 1 (21:11):
Maybe I should have looked around and checked my surroundings
before I posted.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Yeah, no, no to be messy though, like, get.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
The fuck out of here?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Who who is sitting front row in front row seats
looking behind them?
Speaker 3 (21:25):
Let me check my surroundings before I post. That concert
caused you all types of hell.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
One too.
Speaker 5 (21:34):
Now you got a new man, you got deef people
you don't know?
Speaker 3 (21:37):
You messy? That's crazy, girl, Let's tell it.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
I said, God, they when I tell you the people
was the voted and to trying. They was reaching out
to my best friends we on vacation girls.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
She is messy, don't you?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Was like, hold up, first of all, too.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
Much they send in paragraphs paragraphs.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
It's crazy whur people care so much? Because it's one
thing to like be like, but then to like dig
into it and be contacting people and writing on blogs
and doing all kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
Creating the whole fate page just to speak your peace.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
And then creating whole narratives.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
And that's what we're gonna get into. Why are we
so quick to believe viral narratives.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Without the facts.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I don't know. They want juicy, selatious drama. You know.
They just are bored, I think, and just need something
to be entertained by it, and especially if it's negative.
Speaker 6 (22:47):
You know, did y'all see that girl that was in
the blogs because some blog had posted Nelly and As
because of the new show, and the girl commented talking
about how she was just sleeping him last week or something.
I see that going in and I was like, like, why.
Speaker 5 (23:03):
Does everyone believe it?
Speaker 6 (23:06):
Like all she did it was just a random comment,
and it was like why did they pick that comment.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Out of all the ridiculous comments?
Speaker 5 (23:14):
And they just know for fat like they're not really
like a thing.
Speaker 6 (23:17):
And I'm like, damn, literally, anybody could just go in
there be like yep, I was just woulda shine te
last week?
Speaker 3 (23:22):
That baby my baby and they but this is even worse.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
So we were in Paris for Beyonce concert. Chad was
in south of France. Now how all of a sudden
we together?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
We together? They was running with narratives like people.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
Now that narrative isn't it's not.
Speaker 6 (23:46):
It's only far fetched because I know you and because
I know the situation. But if I did not know
you and I did not know the situation, I'd be like,
what the hell they both doing in France?
Speaker 5 (23:55):
But don't France every day?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
But then you know how far the two locations are.
These people don't know what the hell is going on.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
That's why I said these people feil geography, because I mean,
how you gonna get the south of France? Were he
at and I'm up here in Paris. Over here in Paris,
like what it don't even make sense?
Speaker 6 (24:17):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (24:17):
They together? She running behind him, she trying to stay
close to him. I mean, I do have a child
by him, and his kids.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
His daughters are their sisters. So if they want to
come around me, they can. Like people just create and
their what I'm.
Speaker 3 (24:31):
Supposed to just cut off all ties. Let her stop
talking to her.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Sisters, you can.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I'm just about to delete everything, Like, Dane, can we
be like Becky and John and have a great co
parenting relationship? And John people they always have good coaches.
They people don't have these problems. It's always us like
(25:05):
we always have to it's always something. Oh she still
won't him because she communicating with him? Well, damn, it
was my fiancee. We do got a child together.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
Why can't we communicate. Why can't we have a great
co parents and relationship?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
Those people to be miserable, that's why. And they want
to make a story out of it, you know, they
just for they don't have enough going on in their lives.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah, that's so it's crazy, Like, let's we should practice. Okay,
they broke up, it's okay. They should be happy, Dane.
They still get along. They're still good. They have a
great co parents. But no, it's always negative things. We
got to get better. We have to practice showing positivity
(25:49):
and it's okay to co.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Parents beef with each other. I saw this post earlier today.
I want to read it. It says The Shape as
a toxic success pool that has done more damage to
black community than traditional media ever could. It has tied
a whole generation to normalize disrespect, misogyny, and public humiliation
(26:14):
and then repackaged it as entertainment and news for traffic,
clicks and views. And I think that is true. It's like,
you know, in the beginning, it was like, oh, you
made the shave room, You're in the shave room. It
was like, yeah, everybody wanted to be on the shave room,
like it was a thing. But now I'm like terrified.
I don't ever want to be on the Shape. I
(26:35):
want to listen ever, because it's always going to even
if you're on there for something positive, there's always going
to be some group of people that are going in
on you. You know, they're gonna nitpick at it, they're
gonna lie, they're gonna just find something wrong with you
or whatever you're doing, and just make a whole narrative,
create a whole narrative. And then you've got people commenting
(26:56):
on that and commenting on that and it just turns
into this whole like neg So, you know, these blogs,
I really feel like they should do a better job.
They hold so much weight, they have more responsibility now
and their platform is so huge. I really feel like
they need to do better, you know, the content that
(27:17):
they put out, because it's really changed the way that
I feel like black people communicate with each other on
social media.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
So, like a year ago, I unfollowed every blog, like
every blog, and not for any real reason. I just
kind of woke up one day it was just like,
you know, that's trash, which is why I don't never
know what you'd.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Be talking about, always trying to figure out what you're
talking about.
Speaker 6 (27:43):
I unfollowed every blog, and you know what I realized
is that, like, as an adult woman, I didn't know
what the hell was going on in the world, and
I was fully getting my news from blogs.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
And I was a shame.
Speaker 5 (27:58):
I was like, oh, girl, like, how do you not
know anything that's happening?
Speaker 6 (28:02):
And not just in like entertainment or culture, but you
don't know anything any because you unfollowed TMZ, because you
unfollowed the Shade Room, because you've and I really just
don't followed it because it was like it was more
it was more negativity than anything. And even if it
was positive, it was like nice nasty, And it wasn't
even the post that got me.
Speaker 5 (28:22):
It was the comments.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
It would just be like.
Speaker 6 (28:25):
The overwhelming negativity towards every little thing, you know what
I mean, Like on Peacock and I saw Nelly and
a Shanty's show came out right and it just it
looked like a cute show. And then I was on
Threads and everybody's talking about it, and most people are
talking about how cute it is. By go on Instagram,
(28:47):
the only thing that people are talking about is.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
How he's a crap dad and he don't.
Speaker 6 (28:51):
Help or change diapers. Depending on the platform you go on.
They look like they're having fun. They look like they're laughing,
like it's you know, like, oh my god, they're so cute.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
That's great.
Speaker 6 (29:02):
But uh, you know, the blogs are like you know,
just Instagram, just people just in general, it's just.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
Like womanly negative.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
If you have to shake people's opinions on people's whole lives.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
Yeah, people jump on bandwagons.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
They see one thing and they run with it and
now everybody is repeating what that one person said, who
that that comment may have went viral. Now they're going
to other blogs to try to make the same comment viral.
It's just it's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (29:33):
On TikTok, there's it's a whole synopsis on this one scene.
I keep saying this one scene over and over and
over again. Everybody has these weighted opinions about him, saying, Oh,
I had this conversation with you, you know, before we got married,
before we had the baby, that I don't do that
type of stuff, you know what I mean. And everybody's
going in about this one thing, and I'm like, bro,
(29:54):
I know they.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Filmed for months, right right, Why is this the hot take?
Speaker 6 (30:00):
Because it's probably the most negative take, m fine from
the entire show.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Yeah, it's crazy, it's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Do y'all think it's social media making people lazy thinkers?
Speaker 5 (30:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (30:17):
Yeah, for sure. Everybody's, like you said, jumping on the bandwagon.
They're not they're not looking for facts. They're not critical thinking,
critical thinking anymore. They're just they'll read an opinion and
they're like, oh, well that sounds good, I'm gonna go
over here, or that sounds good, I'm gonna be able
to hear today. You know, nobody's like putting facts together,
nobody's researching anything. Even when it comes to like the
(30:40):
most basic things. People are just like, whatever she's doing,
I like her, I'm gonna do that. Like it's very
much just copy and paste, you know. So yeah, I
do think people are it's making people lazy.
We need to redo a video and a portion in
it because I'm not liking this without our your oppressure.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Pee, Yeah, an official Humble Baddy. At this point, I.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Wasn't gonna say nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
I ain't want to be uptious, but I was.
Speaker 5 (00:20):
I ain't here.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
I want to turn up with the girlies in the intro.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
We gonna do.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
We're gonna do a We gonna redo a video. Pee,
we got you, We got you? What's up?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Lady? Hey girl, Hey friends, how have y'all been?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Say?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Hi, guys?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You a portion?
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Are we twins?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah? Beautiful girl?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
But how y'all being.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
I'm good? I'm good. These kids running me? You ain't
gonna lie.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Still sign them up for every sport there is.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
And I'm still recovering from the other night.
Speaker 6 (01:09):
Y'all know I'm washed for real, for real, in real life.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
You said, yes, we had a time.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Time it was.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
It was a good time. It was a good time.
I was like a kid in the candy store.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Man, JEZI is definitely you're one of your number one rappers.
I enjoyed it, even though I don't be knowing all
the words.
Speaker 6 (01:33):
I say that as at know all the words. But
every video that I got, my girl is hopping up
and down like.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
She in good time.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Okay, But it was it was the fact that she said,
I don't know these words, but I'm still gonna ube.
Speaker 6 (01:48):
I was right there with you, ash, you know what
I mean, like p Charelle and Andre and they.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Little hood bogger antics.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
I was just over there, like I only know a few.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
It needs y'all know, somebody try.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
I mean when I was like, y'all, y'all know because
y'all close to me, y'all know. G Z is like
one of my top ropers. I know every lyric. Somebody
was like, I bet you she don't even know a
whole lot of the lyrics.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
That you know every word of everything.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
I grew. I grew up off g Z and Gucci Man.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Like high school, oh five six, I was jamming to
g Z and Gucci Man.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Those was my tooth. Then we stopped playing. We can tell.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Everybody looked so good in their texas and they're like
it was given black excellence.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
It was except when we was outside.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I mean, it's just entertaining, so I'm not even mad
at it.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
That's part we could have did without We was like, oh,
this is nice. And next thing you know, we started
hearing some rubb and I said, oh this love.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
It is Jezz. He brought him out.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
They was dressed up, j Z bringing the hood out
now and I was part of the hood.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
I came out, my ego came out.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
We had a great time. It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 4 (03:14):
It was it was very cute.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
It was good. What y'all got played this weekend Essence Festival.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I'm going to Essence.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Are you going?
Speaker 5 (03:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I'm taking my mom and then I'm speaking on a
piano about reality TV. So that's gonna be good. But
what we're gonna be talking about? But I know it's
gonna be a good time. That's my first time going
to Essence. I've never been too Essence Festival, and neither
has my mom. So we planned.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
They said the tickets dropped this year. I wonder why
what's going on with Essex?
Speaker 5 (03:47):
I want to go.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Pariffs the President don't lost his mind? Shoot, I want
to know.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
I used to call it Auntie Fest because it's a
little anti fest.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
I kind of want to go because I think, you.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Know, we turned it into the unty. We the upties.
Speaker 6 (04:03):
Next Auntie Jason, like I we next to.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
It because like I think there's a concert every night.
I think we're gonna go probably Saturday night and it's
like Erica, But I do and Jay.
Speaker 3 (04:18):
Now what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (04:22):
You know?
Speaker 6 (04:23):
I want them to stream it so I can see
what you say about reality TV, friend, And that's really
what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Real.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I'm gonna keep it all the way. What do you do?
Speaker 6 (04:34):
I gonna let y'all know what you're gonna say. She's
finna get up there. They're gonna say, so what about
Is she finna say fuck that show? I'm kidding?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Oh sorry, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
No, I'm gonna keep it real. I hope they asked
me some real last questions so I can give them
some real ask answers. And I feel like we need
to speak on you know, how reality stars don't get
what they deserve. You know, I feel like we're still
fighting for you know, we do a lot of work,
like reality TV isn't easy, and I feel like the
pay is not equivalent to the work.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
That we're definitely not equivalent.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I make sure you know, I'm gonna have my points right.
The months and.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Months of exploiting your life exactly.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
If I can go back and change the hands sometimes,
I probably wouldn't have done the last show.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah me either, if I had her known it was
going to be like that ship.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
I feel I missed out on a lot of business
trying to be a team player, Ashley.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Listen, we felt the same time.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I'm sitting down on the sofa talking about black love
and black excellence and business and wealth and sisterhood, just
for us to end up talking about too vaginas that
we just don't care about, right.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
All the things that they could have shown, And it's
just like that's the jost.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Let's take. Let's let's carry on. Let's not relive.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
We're in a better space, curious, let's not relival. Let's
get into the show tonight. What we're talking about, y'all
see it? The internet is going crazy Diddy with my
boy Diddy?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Well, I ain't gonna say he my boy, but with
the boy? Did he.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Do you let him out yet?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
Though?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
No, his bell got denied.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Oh damn.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
But so I guess he has to wait, have to
wait till October. So he's going back to prison until
his sentencing in October. But he's clear, but still questioned
the Diddy dilemma, So y'all did he wasn't found guilty
of the big charges. It was the rico and the
sex trafficking, but he was guilty of some lesser charges
(06:45):
like transporting people for prostitution. Now that the desk is
starting to settle, fans are either defending him hard or distancing.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
They're themselves in silence.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Now, when I was watching, I said, the fans outside
with a whole bunch of baby oil.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Did y'all see that?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
People got to.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Like in protests?
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Like were they so after Diddy was found not guilty
on the big charges?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Uh? They read everything out.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
They the fans started celebrating and people had baby oils.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
With their shirts off, celebrating with baby. Okay, I wasn't sure.
I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I need to go buy some stops in Johnson and
Johnson at this point.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
Something people have way too much time income, Like what
are you doing go home.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
With baby? Well? Like who Mama and daddy? Are you? Like?
Speaker 3 (07:45):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
But for real, because you know, they wasn't kids. These
are people. These are grown adults, grown.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Men, These men with their shirts soft, rubbing baby oil
all over them.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
One man had on.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
The seat a whole Steve Harvey soup, rubbing the baby all,
all of.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
It, suit honey.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Every day further and further from the Lord's grace. I'm
telling I'm telling you, this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
But I'm confused because just a couple of weeks ago,
everybody was against did he? Now they y'all happy, but
he he got to quit it. I'm like, so what happened?
Everybody just kind of flip flopped.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Like some people are silently making subliminal posts. I know
they tried to say that Krisha did the Justin Bieber.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What what does this means?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
I think it came out so they're trying to say
she's basically replying to.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Diddy's outcome.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
But then some people were trying to come at her
and say, oh, you wasn't there to support him. So
while you trying to speak now, of course you know fifty,
he's gonna be petty and I think and troll and
I forgot what he called him. He said something. It
was something there, but he was trolling.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
You had.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Little boots he come out and little boot Bootsy come
out and say something Bootsy he came out and said something.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
I mean, people aren't talking.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
You're gonna have more people come out now who didn't
say anything, and I feel like they just should have
just they just need to shut up and be quiet,
because it either you're going to support him and support him,
support him loud like crazy Kanye, or you just gonna
be quiet and.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
They carry on.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Yeah, everybody was real quiet except for Kanye during the
whole trial. Nobody want to have nothing to do it
Diddy no more. And now all of a sudden, everybody's like, oh,
pank god. Amen.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Yeah, but I mean that also for the people who
who were not supporting Diddy, that doesn't really change the outcome.
Doesn't really change how they feel about him.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
What these twelve people.
Speaker 6 (09:52):
Think about what he did and what somebody else thinks
about what he did. It don't matter if he in
jail or not. If they think that he's a monster.
They just think that he's a monster, right, say what
I'm saying. So it's really no like, I don't know
the people who were quietly, they were quiet about it
because they low key supported him. There's no sense in
coming out about it now because you ain't gonna change
nobody mind. No, it is, and it doesn't affect us
(10:14):
either way. Honestly, I agree with you. I feel like
the people who were quietly supporting him, they should they
should just stay quiet because you weren't confident enough to
say it before.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
So why are you all? I told you so?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Now I feel like people are mad that they didn't
let him. Well, I don't feel like I'm saying reading
that people are mad that they didn't let him out
on bun Like, what's the point if he didn't get charged,
found guilty on the big.
Speaker 3 (10:45):
Charges, why y'all holding him in Because.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
There's still other charges I guess something, So they have to.
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Figure out what they're going to do about that. And
then also that man got money, he can flee because.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
If I was diddy, you let me out.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
I mean, what, what what's the maximum charge of transportation
of prostitute?
Speaker 5 (11:06):
Ten years?
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Oh yeah, they said years.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
They're trying to give him the max. It's like ten
years for each of those lesser charges. They trying to
give him the max.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
But it's hard to give somebody the max who don't
have any criminal charges, who has never had any criminal charges.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
It is hard, but they're going to try.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
That's why I ain't giving him bail. They're like, well,
we'll keep him while we can.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
They're going to keep him for whatever they can.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
But it's just crazy because it's almost like like I
understand what all of this was for, but I kind
of don't understand what it was all for. I feel
like it just seemed like just some horrible humiliation ritual
or something, because it's like y'all came out and said
all of that, y'all told all of that man business
talk about racketeering, and it's.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Like witnesses and all their story.
Speaker 6 (11:55):
All we got was just scandalous soul details about his
sex life life.
Speaker 5 (12:00):
It's like, oh my god, take me.
Speaker 3 (12:02):
At the chat please.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
I don't need to look.
Speaker 3 (12:05):
At Diddy the same.
Speaker 6 (12:09):
How I looked at him in the first place. I
just feel like those stories about him, but.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
I didn't have no, no bad look. But now it's
just like.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
It's it was just like, okay, you you were great,
you know, But now the skeletons that came out, it.
Speaker 5 (12:22):
Is like it's just a little nasty. Yeah nasty, and
he beat he beat people.
Speaker 2 (12:28):
Yeah. Let me ask you a question, would y'all go
to a Diddy party now?
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Now, No, no, that's not up my speed. I'm too
old for that type of miss can.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I tell you? Now, I'm at his house like it's
the all white, big Diddy party like he has, like
you know, not the same party.
Speaker 6 (12:52):
They be normal parties though, like I've been to didgy parties,
they be normal parties and a certain time in the room,
they really be normal parties. And so everybody's like, oh,
Diddy parties, Diddy parties. First of all, did he throws
spectacular parties?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Right?
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Okay, push a pee. I'm just saying one too.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
And it was fun, but they were normal parties.
Speaker 3 (13:13):
Drinking. You were drinking out the punch bowls.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
I don't know what I was drinking.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
I don't know what I was drinking.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
People are gonna forgive him and forget and things are
gonna slowly give back to how they were.
Speaker 3 (13:33):
But do you think he gonna start back throwing parties.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
I think he needs to go to Thailand.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
I don't think I'm there with Russell Simmons Brussel exactly that.
But I think now I feel like he's gonna have
a point to prove, and I feel like he's gonna
just be like extra because you know, he was trying
to change his whole for signa with the whole love thing.
So I feel like it's gonna go extra hard with
(14:00):
that and try to prove a point and more love parties.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
That man is in his fifties. He needs to go
enjoy his wealth, baby in his life.
Speaker 5 (14:10):
He needs to stay our great kids.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
No.
Speaker 5 (14:14):
Oh, the way these people ate him.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
I would want to come back here and talk to
none of these people. The whole world ate his ass
up for the better part of an entire year. I
would take my little coins, much like what casts he
needs to do, girl, take your coins.
Speaker 3 (14:29):
And move away, go away from his stuff and these people.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
Just not though he seems like a person who needs
that attention, he still needs to be like point person.
He needs to be diddy. He gonna come out with
a new name. He probably gonna be.
Speaker 3 (14:44):
Like he gonna change his last name from love to.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
What He's gonna come out with a new name.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Child.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
I don't know, And yeah, I just don't see him
like powering out and like hiding away anywhere that happening.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
We'll see, Well, only time will tell you.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
First we got to see in October what they gonna
sendence him.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
With, Honey, the Internet is insane.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
It's too much.
Speaker 6 (15:13):
Like I'm honestly so glad that this is over because
I was tired of like debating people about it. I
was tired of seeing on my timeline. I was it
was just too much for me. The Internet is just yeah,
it's a lot, it's not. And it's also just like
with the news that was coming out, like all these
rumors and stuff.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Like the internet is that, ain't it.
Speaker 6 (15:34):
You can't really believe all the stuff that you hear
and what you see, and it's fake news everywhere and
it was trash.
Speaker 5 (15:41):
Honestly speaking of fake news.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Speaking of fake news, man, listen, speaking of fake news,
miss ma'am.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Fake news.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
This Internet is not a real place, but it's running
real lives.
Speaker 4 (15:55):
So not ruing in real life.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
That's what you know.
Speaker 1 (16:00):
That's what the type of it's not running my life.
Speaker 3 (16:03):
But speaking of fake news.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
So y'all know, we was at the JEZ because right
having agreed, I post one picture up and people just
went on a whole shabam crazy thing like, oh y'all together,
this that, and I'm like, what.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Saying that you know, like Jeez and Cherrell is a
new like people just the.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
People said.
Speaker 3 (16:31):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (16:32):
And then she went on to live the next day
or like three days.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Later, people still talking about it.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Her live talking about it was a couple.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Oh are y'all gonna First of all, that's not my type.
Second of all, I respect you know j Z as
a great rapper, and that's it. Don't try to put
somebody on me.
Speaker 3 (16:56):
It's crazy. But that ain't even that ain't even all
of it.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
That's why I say that it's crazy. So we we
did our videos, were posting our videos during the show
or whatever. When you send up front row, you don't
you don't look behind you. First of all, you ain't
checking behind you. I get messages like overload, people sending me,
(17:19):
people calling me. They're like, girl, you on this, this page,
this that, and the third you trying to expose something.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
I said, I spoke. Who is these people? I don't
know these people.
Speaker 7 (17:30):
It's it's so crazy how people just take They will
do the FBI, CIA, look in your picture, your video,
trying to see and create their own narrative and.
Speaker 3 (17:43):
Roll with it.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
Who was in the background.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
I don't to this day, I still don't know these people.
Speaker 2 (17:48):
What did they say about.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Basically saying I was exposing them because apparently they were
not supposed.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
To be a couple. But there was a couple.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
I don't know child, but I was like, I can't oh,
she being messy.
Speaker 3 (18:05):
They was all in Martini messages in her DM.
Speaker 6 (18:09):
So it was the people behind you or behind us
there was they were a couple.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
I guess. So they were a couple. I don't know.
They were to get something, huh something. I don't even
know the man. I still don't know. The man ain't
to this day. I just I don't know. I just
know one person and I don't want to say their
name on the podcast.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Okay, so the person that you know was affiliated with
that person behind you, Yes, But what they got to
do with me not a damn thing.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
Because I ain't like this?
Speaker 3 (18:44):
Who liked this? Let me look behind me and see
who behind.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
You before you pick up your phone and do your
video or who who.
Speaker 1 (18:52):
Recording theyselves and then looking in the back of the
video to see who behind them and who in their background.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
To me, because I need to know who this is.
I'm going to figure it out in the back of
my bodyo too.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
And the people who they talking about is in everybody
who sat in our section. But they singled me out
saying that I'm the one that's being missing.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
Because you know the person who know the person.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Yes, but I don't know them people.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
So you know, you know, you know somebody who wasn't
at the concert who is affiliated with one of the people,
the couple.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
That was selling like five rolls behind us, not five and.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Contact me when they was like, girl, no.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
It was blocked.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
It hit the blogs, it hit the local blocks in Miami,
and people just started messaging me and calling me like
somebody died.
Speaker 3 (19:50):
I'm like, what's going on? Girl, Girl, I don't lie.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
That's why I like the inner net, because let FI
go outside and try to do somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
I don't find out.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
Girl, they gonna tell you.
Speaker 3 (20:06):
They're gonna be ready to.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Tell you every time.
Speaker 3 (20:09):
Every time, they're gonna be ready to tell you.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
He's that public. Oh thank you, thank you for letting
me know. Thank you. I ain't got to check up
on him no more. It's the internet is doing it
for me, thank you. So I mean, I'm here. I'm
here for the people you know, paying attention, and you know,
but what other job do you have?
Speaker 3 (20:29):
Though? Well, wait, since all that happened, have you.
Speaker 6 (20:33):
Let's just let's just say the person's name is Nephertity.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
I don't know have you talked to Nephertiti.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
About because that's not my problem because I don't know.
I don't talk to Nephertiti on a day to day basis. Okay,
it's not like it's a close friend of mine.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
I don't.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I still don't know who. If I call, I'm be like,
I don't even know the guy name. I don't know
the female. I heard of her before, but I don't
know her. But what I'm gonna say, Hey girl, such
and such was in my my video and it hit
the block.
Speaker 3 (21:09):
What I know?
Speaker 1 (21:11):
Maybe I should have looked around and checked my surroundings
before I posted.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
Yeah, no, no to be messy though, like, get.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
The fuck out of here?
Speaker 1 (21:21):
Who who is sitting front row in front row seats
looking behind them?
Speaker 3 (21:25):
Let me check my surroundings before I post. That concert
caused you all types of hell.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
One too.
Speaker 5 (21:34):
Now you got a new man, you got deef people
you don't know?
Speaker 3 (21:37):
You messy? That's crazy, girl, Let's tell it.
Speaker 1 (21:45):
I said, God, they when I tell you the people
was the voted and to trying. They was reaching out
to my best friends we on vacation girls.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
She is messy, don't you?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Was like, hold up, first of all, too.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
Much they send in paragraphs paragraphs.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
It's crazy whur people care so much? Because it's one
thing to like be like, but then to like dig
into it and be contacting people and writing on blogs
and doing all kind of stuff.
Speaker 3 (22:19):
Creating the whole fate page just to speak your peace.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
And then creating whole narratives.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
And that's what we're gonna get into. Why are we
so quick to believe viral narratives.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Without the facts.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I don't know. They want juicy, selatious drama. You know.
They just are bored, I think, and just need something
to be entertained by it, and especially if it's negative.
Speaker 6 (22:47):
You know, did y'all see that girl that was in
the blogs because some blog had posted Nelly and As
because of the new show, and the girl commented talking
about how she was just sleeping him last week or something.
I see that going in and I was like, like, why.
Speaker 5 (23:03):
Does everyone believe it?
Speaker 6 (23:06):
Like all she did it was just a random comment,
and it was like why did they pick that comment.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
Out of all the ridiculous comments?
Speaker 5 (23:14):
And they just know for fat like they're not really
like a thing.
Speaker 6 (23:17):
And I'm like, damn, literally, anybody could just go in
there be like yep, I was just woulda shine te
last week?
Speaker 3 (23:22):
That baby my baby and they but this is even worse.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
So we were in Paris for Beyonce concert. Chad was
in south of France. Now how all of a sudden
we together?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
We together? They was running with narratives like people.
Speaker 5 (23:43):
Now that narrative isn't it's not.
Speaker 6 (23:46):
It's only far fetched because I know you and because
I know the situation. But if I did not know
you and I did not know the situation, I'd be like,
what the hell they both doing in France?
Speaker 5 (23:55):
But don't France every day?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
But then you know how far the two locations are.
These people don't know what the hell is going on.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
That's why I said these people feil geography, because I mean,
how you gonna get the south of France? Were he
at and I'm up here in Paris. Over here in Paris,
like what it don't even make sense?
Speaker 6 (24:17):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (24:17):
They together? She running behind him, she trying to stay
close to him. I mean, I do have a child
by him, and his kids.
Speaker 1 (24:25):
His daughters are their sisters. So if they want to
come around me, they can. Like people just create and
their what I'm.
Speaker 3 (24:31):
Supposed to just cut off all ties. Let her stop
talking to her.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Sisters, you can.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I'm just about to delete everything, Like, Dane, can we
be like Becky and John and have a great co
parenting relationship? And John people they always have good coaches.
They people don't have these problems. It's always us like
(25:05):
we always have to it's always something. Oh she still
won't him because she communicating with him? Well, damn, it
was my fiancee. We do got a child together.
Speaker 3 (25:13):
Why can't we communicate. Why can't we have a great
co parents and relationship?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
Those people to be miserable, that's why. And they want
to make a story out of it, you know, they
just for they don't have enough going on in their lives.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah, that's so it's crazy, Like, let's we should practice. Okay,
they broke up, it's okay. They should be happy, Dane.
They still get along. They're still good. They have a
great co parents. But no, it's always negative things. We
got to get better. We have to practice showing positivity
(25:49):
and it's okay to co.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Parents beef with each other. I saw this post earlier today.
I want to read it. It says The Shape as
a toxic success pool that has done more damage to
black community than traditional media ever could. It has tied
a whole generation to normalize disrespect, misogyny, and public humiliation
(26:14):
and then repackaged it as entertainment and news for traffic,
clicks and views. And I think that is true. It's like,
you know, in the beginning, it was like, oh, you
made the shave room, You're in the shave room. It
was like, yeah, everybody wanted to be on the shave room,
like it was a thing. But now I'm like terrified.
I don't ever want to be on the Shape. I
(26:35):
want to listen ever, because it's always going to even
if you're on there for something positive, there's always going
to be some group of people that are going in
on you. You know, they're gonna nitpick at it, they're
gonna lie, they're gonna just find something wrong with you
or whatever you're doing, and just make a whole narrative,
create a whole narrative. And then you've got people commenting
(26:56):
on that and commenting on that and it just turns
into this whole like neg So, you know, these blogs,
I really feel like they should do a better job.
They hold so much weight, they have more responsibility now
and their platform is so huge. I really feel like
they need to do better, you know, the content that
(27:17):
they put out, because it's really changed the way that
I feel like black people communicate with each other on
social media.
Speaker 6 (27:26):
So, like a year ago, I unfollowed every blog, like
every blog, and not for any real reason. I just
kind of woke up one day it was just like,
you know, that's trash, which is why I don't never
know what you'd.
Speaker 4 (27:39):
Be talking about, always trying to figure out what you're
talking about.
Speaker 6 (27:43):
I unfollowed every blog, and you know what I realized
is that, like, as an adult woman, I didn't know
what the hell was going on in the world, and
I was fully getting my news from blogs.
Speaker 3 (27:57):
And I was a shame.
Speaker 5 (27:58):
I was like, oh, girl, like, how do you not
know anything that's happening?
Speaker 6 (28:02):
And not just in like entertainment or culture, but you
don't know anything any because you unfollowed TMZ, because you
unfollowed the Shade Room, because you've and I really just
don't followed it because it was like it was more
it was more negativity than anything. And even if it
was positive, it was like nice nasty, And it wasn't
even the post that got me.
Speaker 5 (28:22):
It was the comments.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
It would just be like.
Speaker 6 (28:25):
The overwhelming negativity towards every little thing, you know what
I mean, Like on Peacock and I saw Nelly and
a Shanty's show came out right and it just it
looked like a cute show. And then I was on
Threads and everybody's talking about it, and most people are
talking about how cute it is. By go on Instagram,
(28:47):
the only thing that people are talking about is.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
How he's a crap dad and he don't.
Speaker 6 (28:51):
Help or change diapers. Depending on the platform you go on.
They look like they're having fun. They look like they're laughing,
like it's you know, like, oh my god, they're so cute.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
That's great.
Speaker 6 (29:02):
But uh, you know, the blogs are like you know,
just Instagram, just people just in general, it's just.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
Like womanly negative.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
If you have to shake people's opinions on people's whole lives.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
Yeah, people jump on bandwagons.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
They see one thing and they run with it and
now everybody is repeating what that one person said, who
that that comment may have went viral. Now they're going
to other blogs to try to make the same comment viral.
It's just it's ridiculous.
Speaker 6 (29:33):
On TikTok, there's it's a whole synopsis on this one scene.
I keep saying this one scene over and over and
over again. Everybody has these weighted opinions about him, saying, Oh,
I had this conversation with you, you know, before we got married,
before we had the baby, that I don't do that
type of stuff, you know what I mean. And everybody's
going in about this one thing, and I'm like, bro,
(29:54):
I know they.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
Filmed for months, right right, Why is this the hot take?
Speaker 6 (30:00):
Because it's probably the most negative take, m fine from
the entire show.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Yeah, it's crazy, it's so crazy.
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Do y'all think it's social media making people lazy thinkers?
Speaker 5 (30:16):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (30:17):
Yeah, for sure. Everybody's, like you said, jumping on the bandwagon.
They're not they're not looking for facts. They're not critical thinking,
critical thinking anymore. They're just they'll read an opinion and
they're like, oh, well that sounds good, I'm gonna go
over here, or that sounds good, I'm gonna be able
to hear today. You know, nobody's like putting facts together,
nobody's researching anything. Even when it comes to like the
(30:40):
most basic things. People are just like, whatever she's doing,
I like her, I'm gonna do that. Like it's very
much just copy and paste, you know. So yeah, I
do think people are it's making people lazy.
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