April 8, 2025 • 47 mins
Sharelle, Ashley, and Alexis react to beef on The Real Housewives of Atlanta as Kenya Moore officially exited the series after a heated feud with new castmate Brittany Eady, why women should never propose to a man, and much more!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah in my way, never out of my name's been
like you.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
One and the more one is going to be squad.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yes, okay, we gotta we got we gotta talk about
it other because it's been a blog what reality TV
for real life trauma? Has reality gone too far? For ratings?
What was in the what was in the blocks? In
regards to on Bravo The Real Housewives Real house sives. Yes,
(00:34):
so I actually know Brittany Edie and Kenya Moore because
you know girl, So yeah, okay, yeah, And I was
so happy to see eat that Brittany got cast it
on this season because I'm a big fan of Real
Housewives of.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Atlanta and I love all the ladies.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I love the show and I but I did think
like they needed like some new girl. So I was
really excited to see Brittany on there. She's like newly married,
she's a beautiful girl. She's been on like music videos,
but she also owns her own insurance company, and so
(01:17):
you know, I thought she was like a great addition
to the show. And then while they were filming, it
came out that they had this scene where Kenya made
these poster boards and had pictures of Brittany doing some
you know, sexual acts, you know, and this was I
(01:39):
guess to get back at her for whatever shade that
Brittany had thrown at her previously. They said that Brittany
had allegedly Britney had threatened Kinga to shoot Kenya or something. Yeah. Yeah,
she said she had a gun on her. So I
haven't seen the episode yet. I need to go catch yep.
(02:00):
I don't think that.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Her part was shown, but Kenya a few pictures. I
did see a clip.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
They showed a clip of Brittany saying something about a gun,
like she said something about a gun. But so the
next episode, I guess is when Kenya like addresses it,
and I guess, you know, it's trying to like embarrass
her and you know, basically you know, shame.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Her or whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
But this is like Brittany is trying to apologize and
Kenya is inhabitant, and she just shows all these pictures and.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The rest of the cast doesn't it revenge born?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yes, So the rest of the cast immediately is like, no,
this is too far, I don't even want to be
here filming anymore, and that they.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Leave the event.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
The event was actually for Kenya Kenya was. It was
like her opening of her hair salon and literally she
used this moment, you know, she was talking about how
she's been, you know, working on Kenya more haircare for
all this time, and then she actually starts talking about Brittany,
and everybody just like, why would you use this moment?
(03:06):
Why would you ruin your own moment by showing horn
on porn or whatever. So the rest of the Calf
was just very upset that Kenya chose to go this route.
They felt like this was beneath here, you know, because
she's a og. Kenya has been on for I don't know,
(03:26):
like she is. She is one of the stars of
the show the longest. No, yes, I just I just
feel like it's a time and a place where everything
it should have been dead.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
And this is the thing with reality TV.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
You know, we did reality TV when the whole because
it happened on Hours somebody mentioned it done when when
we were failing, y'all remember that, right, We put a
thought to it, we reported it.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
We you know, we said we needed to say.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But I felt like they should have production should stepped
in before it even got to that point to allow
someone because once.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You once things like that happened.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
And you say something or you threaten someone, someone else
can go to the furthest extinct because they are, you know,
emotionally hurt, they're they're pissed, they're mad, so they want
to retaliate. So I feel like, you know, with production,
it should have been dead in the beginning. You mean
Brittany said what she said, they should have they should
(04:29):
have been like me, they should I feel like there
should have been if it was any type of threat.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Gun violence is just as bad. It's not so after Kenya.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I just want to measure after Kenya the revenge porn,
Bravo stopped filming with her, like they decided to like
basically take her off the show. And so there's a
lot of uproar right now, Yeah, because you know they
took her off the show, but you knowing the contract
talking about having a gun, and so they're like, yeah, not,
(05:03):
you know, take her off the show or stop filming
with her when she's the one who made those threats.
So Cherrelle, you were saying that they should have stopped
filming when Britney first said what she said.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I feel like something should have been done on that.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
That and too, because it's like this is I mean,
gun violence is this is as bad as revenge Born.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
They're both bad things.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So it's like, either you're gonna you're gonna you need
to penalize us both, yeah, or or y'all should have
put Ustock in the beginnings.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
It's not right.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, it's not right no matter what, especially for two beautiful,
successful black women. But when you're gonna penalize someone, I
feel like both should have had some type of accountability
when it came to to the punishment.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I agree. I don't like how production.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean when they step in, you know, like you said, Schuel,
I think it has to be the same across the board.
I also think it's their fault the way that the
cast feels like they have to say certain things or
do certain things to make a viral moment. You know.
(06:17):
You know, Brittany is obviously new on the show, so
maybe she felt like she needed to do the most,
you know what I mean, maybe you know, she got
she was angry and just said something. Whatever the case is.
But I do think that these shows and production, and
then I can speak because I've been on a reality show,
I do think there's pressure to perform.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I do think there's pressure.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
To make me, you know what I mean, And so
I think the messed up like situation to be in.
I think production needs to set the tone across the board,
like this is the show that we want, you know,
this is what's allowed, this is what's not, this is
what we'll tolerate, this is what we won't. And that way,
(07:02):
it's even an even skilled across the across the board,
you know what I mean, as far as what the
punishment will be if you do X, Y and Z,
like everybody knows, and then everybody gets treated the same
as well, and also nobody gets hurt because.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
The pressure that they put.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
On us to perform, it's a lot, and you want
to do well. You want the show to do well,
so like you damned if you do, you're damned if
you don't. Yeah, And that's a mess up position to feel,
you know, to being it sucks, Yeah, it sucks. They
had to go this far that far. You know, they
all played a great role on the show. I like
(07:41):
Kenya because it's very Exedra on the show it's doing.
She's beautiful on there. I just you know, it sucks
that it had to come to, but Kenya is also
her with her being the og is kind of like, Bro,
you didn't have to do all it.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
You know what I'm saying, You ain't have to do that,
like you were still.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Gonna be or regardless you are the old say that
for the newbies.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Say let the nebies do the most, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
It's like you should know at this point in your
career on this show. You know what I'm saying, what
you need to do, you don't have to do that,
like be the og. I agree saying let the new be.
And this is her even Yah said this is her
finally her opening. I feel like her storyline has been
Kenya Moore, haircare, the the you know a lot of
(08:28):
that you know of just like really like this is
I finally made it, I finally had my place, my
beauty salon whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And she's shone out. I don't know, no, I don't know.
That was not the time or the place for that.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Yeah, I know I'm the person, but I feel like
she just was retaliating to what happened that the threats
and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
It's a sad situation, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
When the cameras are rolling, Yeah, people want wow, they want,
you know, to be heard and seen and want to shot.
On said, Well, I think it's the like we face
situations where we know what happens behind cameras and what's
going on, and you're frustrated, you're furious, you're not thinking straight,
you know, you're angry. So sometimes you all human beings,
(09:13):
we say and do things that we eventually later regret.
But I just feel like, you know, the punishment should
have been equal across the board. Well, the people are
saying in the chat that the picts are already online,
but I still don't think that makes it any better,
you know, I still think that Kenya shouldn't have done that.
(09:38):
And I and you know what, and I want to
give Brittany you know, the benefit of the doubt too,
because you know, you get on camera and like and
when you get upset, everything just feels heightened, you know
what I mean. So she probably was just talking, you
know what I mean, She was just angry, and it
just that's what she said, I'm sure. And the clip,
(10:00):
the little clip that I saw, she didn't look afraid
or threatened or whatever, you know what I mean. It
didn't seem like an environment where Kenya thought she was
about to get shot, you know what I mean. You
could tell it was just they were arguing or talking shit,
you know what I'm saying. So I feel like Kenya
could have even if she didn't want to accept Britney's apology,
(10:24):
but taking her moment, her own event to get back
at Brittany, who was a newbie like that was really
honestly like beneath you.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
You know what I'm saying. You didn't have to do that.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yeah, that's not a good thing, the threat, So I
don't know, it's just still not good, especially with dyl
saying you have a weapon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
It said she hired her own.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, bet so maybe it's Kenya who felt threatened, you know,
because to do all that, to hire a private investigator,
to gore.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
A private investigtion yin.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Yeah, she hired a private investigator to dig up information
about Brittany and to finally.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Got that serious.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Now I'm laughing at I'm not about to have no
probably investigated.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
That's what King did.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But that's what I'm saying, King, you the o G girl,
Why are you doing all that?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
They don't have to do all the you don't have
to You do not have to do all of this. Yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I just wanted to hurt her for sure, But I'm
just saying not in my space. I'm not I'm not
going to highlight somebody else that my event. I'm not
doing it now, risking not being on the show. No
one wants to film with you and all that too,
So there you go. But but Bravo got to do better.
(11:46):
I think at some judgment, you know, just well, not
just Bravo, just these reality shows and their productions in general.
I think they need to do better at holding everybody
accountable and having a standard and not putting pressure on
the cast to do the most because it could get
(12:08):
unsafe for real, like something really, But I feel like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
They knew it was wrong.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
It's pre aired, you know, Bravo fired like you know,
apparently King is not working working on I mean, being
on Housewives anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
If it was, if it was that bad, which it was,
why still air?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Like y'all are just so when do we hold them accountable?
The network accountable because basically your public publicly humiliating her
still because you aired it, but you you still fired
the person who did it.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
So why Eric? Because they gonna get what they need
to get out of it regardless.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Correct, they don't care. They don't care about us for real.
They just don't want to get sued any further.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So they're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
A little something, you know what I'm saying, and make
it seem like, ohly things under control over here.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
We don't tolerate that, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
And maybe because Kenya been on for a long time,
you know, maybe they're like, well, if we gotta pick one, yeah,
I don't know how they work it out, but yeah,
like they're gonna get what they need to get out
of it. They're gonna do just enough to get by
so they don't get sued and look that crazy. You know.
They just covering themselves, that's it. But they don't care
(13:25):
about the cast. These these production companies, these shows, they
don't care about the cast show.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
You know, the job, Yeah, it's their job.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
They're gonna find another girl, and just it is what
it is. Someone said they didn't show the picks. It's
not about showing the picks. It's the whole thing. So
now you're basically it's like they know what happened. Everybody
can go in and see see the picks now and
now google it, go look it up and figure it out.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
It was bad and it was then issue. Why air
next scene? Why not just delete that whole scene. Yeah,
we're talking about it now and it has everyone in
the uproar. So maybe they'll bring Kenya back. That's what
it is. They bring Kenya back. They need to bring
(14:20):
Ninni back. Nanni is Nanni is the queen of reality.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Baby. Yeah, they should bring Nini back. They should have
Kenya back.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
I wouldn't even mind seeing Kim back. Kim zosia's the
time with.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
All her wigs. It's the weed. Kim bout Big thirty
for the party. Yeah, and Big Papa.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Oh yeah, what happened to Big? It's Croy, I think
by I think crowd. But they'd be going through it.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
They done.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
They're getting a divorce. They don't have the longest bust child.
They just be fighting on the internet and stuff that
house every every other day. And and the police, they
just be sitting there talking to the police, and the
police just be sitting there like, Okay, we'll get your stuff,
get your It's a lot her choice. He used to
(15:12):
be Kroy used to be Phil's ex teammates when they
have got the on the Falcons.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Child feels so bad it's sane the whole time.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
He ate.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Stressed, stressed out. Okay, then I had all them kids?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Did he give a because she had a few already,
she had two girls, and then they had.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
And some others. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Our reality starts being pushed too far by producers in
the name of big TV. Well, yeah, I think so.
There's definitely a huge influence. They're definitely feeding a certain tibens,
especially the black women's shows. They be pitting us against
each other. They always want somebody arguing and fighting. We
(16:07):
can't never just have no cute kumbay y'all moments. It
always gotta be something, some drama. No y'all don't agree. No,
I'm like, I'm just I agree with you. I'm just
I'm over here shaking my head.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Yeah. I think it's always they always pushing, you.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Know, a narrative, that narrative, Yeah, yeah, putting it. We
do have when we do have good positive shows, it's like, oh,
they boring, they ain't doing nothing.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
They enough to.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
It's always gonna be something. It's it's it's space for
all of it out there. The people who are saying
it's boring is born. It's some people out there who
like it, they just ain't writing it.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
It's always the haters who got the most to say
yeah that's right, very very loud. But the people who
actually wrong, they like it, just ain't on here, Like
I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
They be devoted into these oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
So yeah, look, so put some man on Twitter and
you being you try to take a million dollars blop block.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I'm like, do you really think goose press state? Dude? Like,
do you really this? They do things? Yes, they do things.
I was like, this is crazy, you wan't funny? You
want that? Do you really think? Like me? For real?
Speaker 1 (17:46):
I feel like reality TV has just definitely put people
on this invisible pedestal and then we see and then
we're influenced by it. So whatever it is, like, I mean,
look at Kim Kardashian, the Kardashians and in general, they've
been doing this for what twenty years or something, I
don't even know anymore. So it's like a long, long,
(18:07):
long long time of like, Okay, it's reality TV, y'all
want to tune in, and from tuning in, there are
other platforms that are you know, that can happen. So
people are just doing whatever now so they can stay
relevant unfortunately and not thinking of long term consequences. Yeah,
(18:28):
but I do think there's a space for shows where
we can show black women doing positive things, for sure.
But they got to give us a chance to show it,
you know what I mean. I was hoped they could
show it. Well, you never know, we have some hidden
scenes that you need to pop back out, you know,
(18:51):
never know, you never know what, never know.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Real Yeah, never know, never know, y'all. Oh, yes, I'm
over here. Just what.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
So do you think shows like this are having a
harm in Black women's reputation in the media?
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Wait? What, I think it's harming?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
It is it harming or you said harming or helping? Right?
Helping or harming Black women's representation in the media. I
think people are sick of seeing the same thing over
and over. Like I think people are like the angry
black women women can't get along. It's always some drama,
(19:42):
you know. I think that that is entertaining, you know
what I mean, There is a lane for that, like Zeus,
you know, that whole network it's working for them, Like
it isn't You're right, So I think, you know, there
is a space for that, But I think people want
something else they want to see, like the positive they
want to see it. So I don't think that it's
(20:04):
like harming because I just think they need to make
space for us to show that part, you know what
I mean? And I hope people realize, like even from
watching our own show, Like I hope y'all don't think,
like every day like that's just what we out here doing,
because like y'all see us on our social media, y'all
(20:24):
see us being mothers, y'all see us being wived, y'all
get being business women. You know, y'all see us doing
real life. So don't think that just what you saw
on these little episodes, you know, is our whole that
represents our whole.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Entire life right right right, doesn't you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (20:41):
It's just this is what they chose to show because
obviously this is what's selling right now. And I think
that people who think that that's our life that can
seem like it's harming our reputation or whatever. But in
real life, you know, we got a lot going on.
We got to a lot of layers to us, A lot,
(21:02):
a lot going on. Yeah, okay, y'all. Now we have
a new segment where we take questions from our fans
on social media. We've opened our dms for all of
you to send us questions and message us. So we're
pulling three out and answering them live. So Ashley's gonna
(21:26):
take over this one, all right, shall ready for the
first one?
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Sure? Okay?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
The first one is you're dating someone with no social media?
Is that a red flag or a green flag? No
social media? Green flag? Lex I would say a green
flag because they don't have social media. He said, what
(21:55):
I would prefer to date someone who doesn't have social media? Okay,
why because I.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Feel like it creates less drama.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
People are not in your business as much, especially being
that you know a public figure.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
It's like they don't have nothing to dig up because most.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
People go to social media to entertain or pool try
to pool drama out of you. So yeah, yeah, with
not being incognito on not on social media, it's just.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
It's amazing. Yeah. I like that too. I agree with you, Cherrelle.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
I don't mind if someone's like running your social media
or something you have to do it for marketing for
fans or whatever the case may be. But I prefer
someone that is not on there like that, And I
honestly like my next situation it will not be on blasts.
You know, it's very much that, and I don't I
wouldn't want them to do it either. I feel like
(22:59):
it would be very very much private, just so we
can keep it wholesome in our own way. So I
just think it can be a double ledged sword with
social media in general. So if that's something that you know,
it's starting to affect the relationship, then I don't want it.
So I think it's a green flag if they don't
have social media. But we're very social y'all on social media,
(23:20):
you know what I mean. First time y'all gave some
green flags, I really think. So okay, yeah, m all right,
next yeah, yeah, because it can be discribed. Yeah, okay,
next question. You catch your partner texting their ex, but
they say it was just closure. What's your next moves?
(23:48):
We should have had that closure in this relationship. That's
a ran flag. We could talk about it's brand.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
You said, a red flag. Yeah, yeah, the.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Closure should have been closed before you came into this relationship. Yeah,
why jump into a newer with the expers closure exactly
which I have. Yeah, unless y'all have kids, talking about
y'all kids.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
That's why I said these baby, these people be jumping
in before y'all we've grown.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
This is not you know what they want to quote,
They want agree, they.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
They want to make sure them legs one closed. This
ain't this ain't no soap operas.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I mean, I just feel like if we all talk
about it, and what do you need to like? You
need like what is closure? Like you're saying, well, it
was nice knowing you, and it was nice being with.
Speaker 2 (24:55):
What when you? I believe in and power is and
silence myself.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So if you gotta feel if I caught you, yeah,
I mean, if I caught you, I think it's again
we're very grown. But if I caught you text in
your ex what are we talking about? Let me see
and if you feel some kind of way about that,
then now we have an issue.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
So it's a red flag. Yeah, I don't like your
red flag. Okay, Next we sneaky. What's each of your
love languages? All of them? You know they're really trying
to get to know y'all all of them, two of
them all. I love it. Love languages are physical touch, yeah,
(25:40):
I like that. I like that, acts of kindness I
like that too. I like that too, and words of affirmation, mation.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
My other love languages are like see me, talk to me,
very much, like let observe me. You know, look, yeah,
quality time, time spent. I feel like time is so
precious and the most valuable things. So if you're spending
time and you understand, like, oh, she likes to go,
we like to go eat together or something, what is
(26:12):
my favorite meal?
Speaker 2 (26:12):
If you know what gets me excited?
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Or like museums, just being observant and really tapping into
who I am.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
That's my love language.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Those Okay, okay, I would say I'm all a little
bit of everything and sometimes some things more than others.
You know, it just depends on how you feeling that day,
exact right, right.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
Because mine has changed.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Mine's changed, like it wasn't necessarily affection. Now it is
like I want to be touched. I want to be
you know, rubbed on, I want to be kissed on.
So before it used to not be like that, So
mine have changed over time too. Yeah, Okay, Well hopefully
(26:58):
then the people is paying attention because that's a very.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Personal. It was personal. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Okay, last, but not least, well, this is the last
in the least. I don't know anyway, what's the biggest
dick someone can give on a first date.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
M hm yeah, that's that. To me, it would be
name dropping. Oh yeah, that's to call that too.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I don't like that, you know, like you you talking
too much. I'm like, oh yeah, man, that's the impressed
me and bragging or you know, yeah, we were just
at such and such as such as house.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I'm like, so you got it.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
You know, you don't know how to be in the moment,
you know what I mean. So I don't know if
I can bring you around some of my people either.
So it's name dropped for me. Yeah, that's true. That's
a good Yeah, good, both of those those are Yeah.
I would say the bragging too, that would be a
big ache for me. Yeah. Yeah, that's okay. Well, thank
(28:14):
y'all so much for sending in those questions. Y'all d
ms with more questions.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
And we would love to answer them. Well, we got next, we.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Got we got get off your knees this or should
you huh?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Okay, we will talk. We're going to talk about it.
Get off your knees this or should you? Because social
media is in shambles right now.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
We're seeing more and more women dropping down on one knee,
break in hand, ready to wipe. Okay, I want to
I want to right the person runing out the butter.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
But it's looking le is always in the gott listen.
The ladies are on their knee proposing.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Some of these proposals are looking at like fairy tales, roses,
fire works and the whole name.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
But we got to ask the real question.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Is it giving empower women or is it given desperate
and tired of waiting? Yeah, the last one, I don't
like it. I'm yeah, being strong and doing what men do?
You know what I'm saying, I'm here for that. But
(29:35):
men are men for a reason and women are went
for a reason. Like and you know, I just feel like, no, no,
why that's embarrassing. There's no like if you, if you're man,
want to be married and he don't propose to you,
(29:56):
don't you don't want to be married, you don't want
to marry you. The last one I saw, the man
was crying and the woman was on her knees. Yeah, no,
I'm not doing that. We're gonna we're gonna have a
definitely having a conversation.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Did he do this? Did we definitely have a conversation.
I'm not that's crazy. That's what I seen.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
The eventuals is to see it's not it's not even right.
It's not even right, y'all. Oh my god, I don't know.
That's horrible.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
He was like, said, you're taking too long. Let me
go ahead. He might meet now even on the knees
is crazy too. Yeah, I don't know, y'all, it's not
for me. You know who started it? Christy lambkin Ain't
that her names from Loving hip Hop?
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Oh oh?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
She jo bidden Chris Christy, Chris what's her name?
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Who was it? Chrissie Christy, pretty Christy? She did it
on Love and hip Hop did that on the show.
I feel like that's what got the girls going.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
They was like, Okay, no, that ain't that's that's embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I'm traditional. I want to look down for him. He
was a writer, like she loved that man.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
You know what I mean? Yeah, I don't care how
much I'll love you.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
I'm not getting down on one knee and proposing to
you and your big ass standing up there with your
like this crying somebody.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
I will be like babing it up. Yeah, gut me,
yeah I can't.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
You know. I just feel like if here a man
don't propose to you, he don't want you, he don't
want to marry you, he don't want to be married.
If he don't do it, it's not that deep. Like
if you want to be with a lady, y'all both
want to be married, why would you not do it?
Why would you want her to do it? That don't
even make no sense.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, that's yeah. Yeah, and one brush somebody into something
they're not ready for.
Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah, I wouldn't want to rush my mate. Either you
want something or that record, I want it. And then
you got a big crowd out there. You got a
big crowd surrounding you. You know this man ain't going
to say no in front of this whole Like that's
just it's just embarrassing all around.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
And why the crowd, I don't know abow to get
hot ass. So like the woman asked the the man
daddy for his hand in marriage, do they do that?
Speaker 1 (32:28):
I was thinking that too, because because I feel like
that's even changed you over time.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
People don't do that no more. I mean, I don't know.
Daddy on TV, actually my dad, he's he had a
better but what had never happened? Period? But that's what
I was supposed to be.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Like, there's traditions and stuff for I don't want to
and you don't want to rush it like things are
supposed to Traditions.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Are there for a reason.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
So when we started changing stuff around, it really throws
stuff out of whack. Like a lady is not supposed
to be on her knee asking a man to marry
like that.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Don't make no sense. It's given. What's on Friday? What's
her name? Felicia?
Speaker 1 (33:20):
No, not.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
What's the next Friday?
Speaker 1 (33:23):
They becausin Nayday was staying the girl and the girl cousin,
the big heavy set girl.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
She run the car with Day. They she remember that scene,
not off the top of my head. Heavy was it
big d or heavy heavy? I don't know, No, I
don't know. That's what it's given. She's like, I'm gonna
(33:53):
go get this man, lock him down. I don't want it.
I feel like that energy of just starting off a
marriage is a little painted, you know.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
I feel like, what's that old saying, what's that saying
you rather have a single man that wants to be
married than I'm a married man that wants to be
single something like that, So why rush if they're not
ready for that? You know, it should be a conversation.
It should be very much like, Okay, we're gonna do this,
like let's do it, and then when it happens, it happens,
you know. I But I feel like, you know, it's
(34:24):
to my patience too, like we're getting the patience. So
the ladies are dropping down to their knees, and that's crazy.
The visuals out outrageous for me because just even the
man shouldn't want to even look down want to be
the ladies.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
The ladies want to be the man, like for changing.
I don't like that person.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
I don't like I'm very traditional when it comes to
stuff like this. Yeah, I definitely I don't believe in that.
I don't think it should happen like a woman should
be a woman and wait for that man.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Yeah, yeah, I agree. I'm I'm not saying wait for
get your grown behind up. The visual is is really
throwing me off right now because I have it I'm just.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
Because he's probably like I said, yes, yeah, it's not
like just not giving Yeah, oh my goodness. Well hopefully
people slow down on that.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
I don't know well and look.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
And they happen in and if your homegirl pa posts
her man, are you cheering her own? Or texting the
group check chat? Like sis, no group chat?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I actually texting her. I'm gonna pull up. Don't do that.
I'm sing in the middle of the whatever proposal there is,
and stop it. Yeah, don't do that, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
It's don't let us sure, Yeah, it's not a good.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
It's it's not a good. I will try to talk
about the leger and like, nah, let's not do it.
Let's let's not do it, and the group chat will
definitely be lit because we're like, y y'all need the process, Yes,
we gotta. That's what I'm saying. What y'all mama said
about this, what your daddy said, Well, how did you
(36:28):
get to this?
Speaker 1 (36:29):
But you know, like, what is the thought I would
love to talk to the lady who proposed to her
husband because what was the thought process to lead you?
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Like I think that it was okay to even the
thought of it yeah, I think of this. I think
it's more of an impatient thing like he just taken
too of let me do it now.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
No, now that's that I'm were rather pressing you, baby,
Are we getting going on? That's different pressure you. Then
me take my behind to a stoor, go get a
ring and drop down on one day and my big
behind proposal to your big behind. No, I would just
skipped the proposal and just wearing my own little ring
and be like we engage. That's different, like the conversation,
(37:25):
Like look the prof circumstance we engage, we did real band,
go to the courthouse, not this out real quick.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
That's what y'all do.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Tell us, what would y'all do if if we want
to hear from the humble humble Daddyes, would y'all We're
gonna be written from from y'all. Woman, if if she
dropped down on one day and proposed for the whole ceremony,
we need to hear from the guys.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
Yeah, I want to know. I'm curious.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
I'm better be vocal like y'all vocal about everything else
we'll be talking about on this hymn. I'm hearing from
the guys, and I want to hear if anybody in
the chat a female has proposed and how did that?
Will humble baddies ain't none that our humble batties and
this chat proposed they got they got common sense over here.
(38:21):
I know that's right, all right, y'all? Until then, what
we got today? We got some humble baddy's mail? We
do I have the humble baddy's mail, y'all?
Speaker 2 (38:34):
All right? You ready? Yeah? Okay? This is from Amber
and Loisville, Kentucky.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Okay, Amber, Hey, Amber, Okay, baddies buckle up.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
Ah man, you know when it starts like that, so
buncle up.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
Yeah, this must be because this situation is wild capital
w I l D.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
All right, he's being married.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
Oh, she's been married, so maybe she's talking about somebody else.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Okay, she's been.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Married for three years, and like any modern couple, she
and her husband agreed to go fifty to fifty on everything,
including rent.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
For years, she's been faithfully handling over half of over.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Her half of their three thousand dollars of rent each
mount so fifteen hundred straight to him, assuming he was
sending into the landlord.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
But here's where it gets messy. While chatting with the neighbor.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
She casually found something, found out something that made her
stomach drop. The apartment she's been living in is owned
by her husband's mother, yep, his mom. Turns out the husband.
Speaker 2 (39:45):
Had been living there before they got married and his
mom was the landlord.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
So for three years, our girls, fifteen hundred dollars has
been going directly to her husband and his mama without
her knowledge. That's fifty four thousand dollars knowingly paid them,
And now she's left questioning everything. Is this financial manipulation
a betrayal of trust? Was she scammed by her own
husband or was this just a shady omission. She moved
(40:13):
out and hasn't spoken to him in two weeks. But
here's her question to the batties. What would you do
if you found out your husband has been secretly pocketing
your rent money for.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
Years with his mom in on it.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Would you call it a rap, demand the money back,
try to talk it out, or is this a major
betrayal that can't be undone?
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Ladies, what do y'all think it?
Speaker 1 (40:39):
Was?
Speaker 2 (40:39):
Getting scammed? God leam Sam, My own husband is crazy?
That is crazy.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Yeah, I won't even think I would have allowed myself
to get in that situation because I'm very I felt
like a detective FBI. I would have known something was up,
pulling some records something. M hm, oh that's a tough situation.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
Yeah, I'm like, m it's like, dam.
Speaker 1 (41:10):
Well, yeah. I think first she probably went wrong by
not knowing who owned the house that you're living in
show Hus but she was trusting him to pay the rent,
and the rent been put all this time, so she's like,
here's my holan where you live.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
And you don't know who owned the house. I don't
know who named the house because something A lot of
times I do.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
I'll go on public search records and see what's around,
see who own what around, and of course it shows
the names of everything, so that's it's not hard to
find out this information first of all.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
So that was the first part where she went wrong.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
So I mean, but now we're in it, so right, Okay,
this would be some trust issues for me. We would
have to go to counseling. Like I'm not saying like
leave him. I think this is something we would definitely
have to go to therapy about. I think we would
have to really like lay out all our finances. I
(42:12):
want to know where are all the money at?
Speaker 2 (42:14):
You know, where's everything?
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Got to be shown exactly exact what he said. The
mom own it, but but they've both been popunent. The
mom owned the house.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
The mom owned the house. Well, maybe maybe it is.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
Maybe he has to pay the mom the full amount
of money and they're splentding fifty to fifty.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
Either way, she don't know about it. She didn't know.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Yeah, his financial abuse is real, and so is financial manipulation.
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Yeah, but whatever this situation is, we got to go
to therapy. I don't trust you no more? Right, how
something else exactly definitely a notion? Yeah, he what else?
Are you hot? In correct?
Speaker 1 (42:59):
And that's a nice chunk too, And hey, you know
this is my mom's house. We displated fifty to fifty? Yeah,
finding it so it's like why are you and we're married? Yeah,
but then I'm gonna I wouldn't follow it a rap.
I would try to get to the bottom of it
(43:21):
with help. And if I felt like it was a
salvageable situation where we could work through it, I would
definitely do that.
Speaker 2 (43:31):
But that's crazy. But we have to be smart and
also know like resources, Yeah, you got to communicate that
for sure.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Now that's heartbreaking to here and to really to like
come to grips of like you like here, I'm giving this,
see you and then he like your mama handle this.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
But it has to be conversation.
Speaker 1 (43:53):
I agree with you, Ashley, definitely going to therapy and
really hashing everything out, you know, just like, look, what
else is going on? We need to have this conversation
because it's definitely she didn't know and that's a lot
of money. That's a lot of money that she did
not know about that she's assuming is taking care of
the household. That they're laying their heads down next to
(44:14):
each other and you know, in the bed, So what
else is going on?
Speaker 2 (44:20):
So Amber, lets your friend though you know this is
not good. But we we say, don't we say Savage
the marriage?
Speaker 1 (44:28):
Right?
Speaker 2 (44:29):
We agree on that.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
Yeah, Savage and Mary, Yeah, always try.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (44:34):
I feel like you can give up because of maybe
it's something that he's embarrassed, he was embarrassed to speak
on but talk about it and yeah that's not a
good I like therapy. Leased to go see and if
you can't get packed to my money to be in
on the therapy too though.
Speaker 2 (44:51):
Because no, the moment, the MoMA ain't got nothing to
do with it. Now, the MoMA ain't got nothing to
do with it, but the mama. No, the mama is
a business I ain't in y'all marriage. I ain't married
this woman and name married to you. This is my house.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
I need y'all to pay me because at the end
of the day I still have to pay taxes every
other The mama is a business woman.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
So alone does she even know? We don't know if
she they had this conversation.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
Y'all figure it out, y'all have my money money before
the snip are just no, oh no. Every time I
see her now and now that husband he his maham.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Whoop now why yeah, because he's definitely not letting them
be known.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
He could have one hundred percent Yo, my mama cutting
us a deal whatever whatever we got to pay it back.
I don't know whatever the case, man be. It should
definitely have been a conversation with your whole husband.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
Yep they splitting everything else? Yeah, yep, yep. Okay, Well, ldies,
that was our humble batty's mail. If y'all have any
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Speaker 2 (46:28):
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Speaker 2 (46:51):
Yes an amazing lady. Good night and now y'all
Yeah in my way, never out of my name's been
like you.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
One and the more one is going to be squad.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Yes, okay, we gotta we got we gotta talk about
it other because it's been a blog what reality TV
for real life trauma? Has reality gone too far? For ratings?
What was in the what was in the blocks? In
regards to on Bravo The Real Housewives Real house sives. Yes,
(00:34):
so I actually know Brittany Edie and Kenya Moore because
you know girl, So yeah, okay, yeah, And I was
so happy to see eat that Brittany got cast it
on this season because I'm a big fan of Real
Housewives of.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Atlanta and I love all the ladies.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I love the show and I but I did think
like they needed like some new girl. So I was
really excited to see Brittany on there. She's like newly married,
she's a beautiful girl. She's been on like music videos,
but she also owns her own insurance company, and so
(01:17):
you know, I thought she was like a great addition
to the show. And then while they were filming, it
came out that they had this scene where Kenya made
these poster boards and had pictures of Brittany doing some
you know, sexual acts, you know, and this was I
(01:39):
guess to get back at her for whatever shade that
Brittany had thrown at her previously. They said that Brittany
had allegedly Britney had threatened Kinga to shoot Kenya or something. Yeah. Yeah,
she said she had a gun on her. So I
haven't seen the episode yet. I need to go catch yep.
(02:00):
I don't think that.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Her part was shown, but Kenya a few pictures. I
did see a clip.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
They showed a clip of Brittany saying something about a gun,
like she said something about a gun. But so the
next episode, I guess is when Kenya like addresses it,
and I guess, you know, it's trying to like embarrass
her and you know, basically you know, shame.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Her or whatever.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
But this is like Brittany is trying to apologize and
Kenya is inhabitant, and she just shows all these pictures and.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
The rest of the cast doesn't it revenge born?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yes, So the rest of the cast immediately is like, no,
this is too far, I don't even want to be
here filming anymore, and that they.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Leave the event.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
The event was actually for Kenya Kenya was. It was
like her opening of her hair salon and literally she
used this moment, you know, she was talking about how
she's been, you know, working on Kenya more haircare for
all this time, and then she actually starts talking about Brittany,
and everybody just like, why would you use this moment?
(03:06):
Why would you ruin your own moment by showing horn
on porn or whatever. So the rest of the Calf
was just very upset that Kenya chose to go this route.
They felt like this was beneath here, you know, because
she's a og. Kenya has been on for I don't know,
(03:26):
like she is. She is one of the stars of
the show the longest. No, yes, I just I just
feel like it's a time and a place where everything
it should have been dead.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
And this is the thing with reality TV.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
You know, we did reality TV when the whole because
it happened on Hours somebody mentioned it done when when
we were failing, y'all remember that, right, We put a
thought to it, we reported it.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
We you know, we said we needed to say.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But I felt like they should have production should stepped
in before it even got to that point to allow
someone because once.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
You once things like that happened.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
And you say something or you threaten someone, someone else
can go to the furthest extinct because they are, you know,
emotionally hurt, they're they're pissed, they're mad, so they want
to retaliate. So I feel like, you know, with production,
it should have been dead in the beginning. You mean
Brittany said what she said, they should have they should
(04:29):
have been like me, they should I feel like there
should have been if it was any type of threat.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Gun violence is just as bad. It's not so after Kenya.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I just want to measure after Kenya the revenge porn,
Bravo stopped filming with her, like they decided to like
basically take her off the show. And so there's a
lot of uproar right now, Yeah, because you know they
took her off the show, but you knowing the contract
talking about having a gun, and so they're like, yeah, not,
(05:03):
you know, take her off the show or stop filming
with her when she's the one who made those threats.
So Cherrelle, you were saying that they should have stopped
filming when Britney first said what she said.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
I feel like something should have been done on that.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
That and too, because it's like this is I mean,
gun violence is this is as bad as revenge Born.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
They're both bad things.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
So it's like, either you're gonna you're gonna you need
to penalize us both, yeah, or or y'all should have
put Ustock in the beginnings.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
It's not right.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Yeah, it's not right no matter what, especially for two beautiful,
successful black women. But when you're gonna penalize someone, I
feel like both should have had some type of accountability
when it came to to the punishment.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I agree. I don't like how production.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean when they step in, you know, like you said, Schuel,
I think it has to be the same across the board.
I also think it's their fault the way that the
cast feels like they have to say certain things or
do certain things to make a viral moment. You know.
(06:17):
You know, Brittany is obviously new on the show, so
maybe she felt like she needed to do the most,
you know what I mean, maybe you know, she got
she was angry and just said something. Whatever the case is.
But I do think that these shows and production, and
then I can speak because I've been on a reality show,
I do think there's pressure to perform.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I do think there's pressure.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
To make me, you know what I mean, And so
I think the messed up like situation to be in.
I think production needs to set the tone across the board,
like this is the show that we want, you know,
this is what's allowed, this is what's not, this is
what we'll tolerate, this is what we won't. And that way,
(07:02):
it's even an even skilled across the across the board,
you know what I mean, as far as what the
punishment will be if you do X, Y and Z,
like everybody knows, and then everybody gets treated the same
as well, and also nobody gets hurt because.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
The pressure that they put.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
On us to perform, it's a lot, and you want
to do well. You want the show to do well,
so like you damned if you do, you're damned if
you don't. Yeah, And that's a mess up position to feel,
you know, to being it sucks, Yeah, it sucks. They
had to go this far that far. You know, they
all played a great role on the show. I like
(07:41):
Kenya because it's very Exedra on the show it's doing.
She's beautiful on there. I just you know, it sucks
that it had to come to, but Kenya is also
her with her being the og is kind of like, Bro,
you didn't have to do all it.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
You know what I'm saying, You ain't have to do that,
like you were still.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Gonna be or regardless you are the old say that
for the newbies.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Say let the nebies do the most, you know what
I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
It's like you should know at this point in your
career on this show. You know what I'm saying, what
you need to do, you don't have to do that,
like be the og. I agree saying let the new be.
And this is her even Yah said this is her
finally her opening. I feel like her storyline has been
Kenya Moore, haircare, the the you know a lot of
(08:28):
that you know of just like really like this is
I finally made it, I finally had my place, my
beauty salon whatever.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
And she's shone out. I don't know, no, I don't know.
That was not the time or the place for that.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Yeah, I know I'm the person, but I feel like
she just was retaliating to what happened that the threats
and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
It's a sad situation, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
When the cameras are rolling, Yeah, people want wow, they want,
you know, to be heard and seen and want to shot.
On said, Well, I think it's the like we face
situations where we know what happens behind cameras and what's
going on, and you're frustrated, you're furious, you're not thinking straight,
you know, you're angry. So sometimes you all human beings,
(09:13):
we say and do things that we eventually later regret.
But I just feel like, you know, the punishment should
have been equal across the board. Well, the people are
saying in the chat that the picts are already online,
but I still don't think that makes it any better,
you know, I still think that Kenya shouldn't have done that.
(09:38):
And I and you know what, and I want to
give Brittany you know, the benefit of the doubt too,
because you know, you get on camera and like and
when you get upset, everything just feels heightened, you know
what I mean. So she probably was just talking, you
know what I mean, She was just angry, and it
just that's what she said, I'm sure. And the clip,
(10:00):
the little clip that I saw, she didn't look afraid
or threatened or whatever, you know what I mean. It
didn't seem like an environment where Kenya thought she was
about to get shot, you know what I mean. You
could tell it was just they were arguing or talking shit,
you know what I'm saying. So I feel like Kenya
could have even if she didn't want to accept Britney's apology,
(10:24):
but taking her moment, her own event to get back
at Brittany, who was a newbie like that was really
honestly like beneath you.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
You know what I'm saying. You didn't have to do that.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yeah, that's not a good thing, the threat, So I
don't know, it's just still not good, especially with dyl
saying you have a weapon.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
It said she hired her own.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Yeah, bet so maybe it's Kenya who felt threatened, you know,
because to do all that, to hire a private investigator,
to gore.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
A private investigtion yin.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Yeah, she hired a private investigator to dig up information
about Brittany and to finally.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Got that serious.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Now I'm laughing at I'm not about to have no
probably investigated.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
That's what King did.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
But that's what I'm saying, King, you the o G girl,
Why are you doing all that?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
They don't have to do all the you don't have
to You do not have to do all of this. Yeah,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
I just wanted to hurt her for sure, But I'm
just saying not in my space. I'm not I'm not
going to highlight somebody else that my event. I'm not
doing it now, risking not being on the show. No
one wants to film with you and all that too,
So there you go. But but Bravo got to do better.
(11:46):
I think at some judgment, you know, just well, not
just Bravo, just these reality shows and their productions in general.
I think they need to do better at holding everybody
accountable and having a standard and not putting pressure on
the cast to do the most because it could get
(12:08):
unsafe for real, like something really, But I feel like, Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
They knew it was wrong.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
It's pre aired, you know, Bravo fired like you know,
apparently King is not working working on I mean, being
on Housewives anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
If it was, if it was that bad, which it was,
why still air?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Like y'all are just so when do we hold them accountable?
The network accountable because basically your public publicly humiliating her
still because you aired it, but you you still fired
the person who did it.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
So why Eric? Because they gonna get what they need
to get out of it regardless.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Correct, they don't care. They don't care about us for real.
They just don't want to get sued any further.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
So they're gonna do.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
A little something, you know what I'm saying, and make
it seem like, ohly things under control over here.
Speaker 2 (13:01):
We don't tolerate that, you know.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
And maybe because Kenya been on for a long time,
you know, maybe they're like, well, if we gotta pick one, yeah,
I don't know how they work it out, but yeah,
like they're gonna get what they need to get out
of it. They're gonna do just enough to get by
so they don't get sued and look that crazy. You know.
They just covering themselves, that's it. But they don't care
(13:25):
about the cast. These these production companies, these shows, they
don't care about the cast show.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
You know, the job, Yeah, it's their job.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
They're gonna find another girl, and just it is what
it is. Someone said they didn't show the picks. It's
not about showing the picks. It's the whole thing. So
now you're basically it's like they know what happened. Everybody
can go in and see see the picks now and
now google it, go look it up and figure it out.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
It was bad and it was then issue. Why air
next scene? Why not just delete that whole scene. Yeah,
we're talking about it now and it has everyone in
the uproar. So maybe they'll bring Kenya back. That's what
it is. They bring Kenya back. They need to bring
(14:20):
Ninni back. Nanni is Nanni is the queen of reality.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Baby. Yeah, they should bring Nini back. They should have
Kenya back.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
I wouldn't even mind seeing Kim back. Kim zosia's the
time with.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
All her wigs. It's the weed. Kim bout Big thirty
for the party. Yeah, and Big Papa.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
Oh yeah, what happened to Big? It's Croy, I think
by I think crowd. But they'd be going through it.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
They done.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
They're getting a divorce. They don't have the longest bust child.
They just be fighting on the internet and stuff that
house every every other day. And and the police, they
just be sitting there talking to the police, and the
police just be sitting there like, Okay, we'll get your stuff,
get your It's a lot her choice. He used to
(15:12):
be Kroy used to be Phil's ex teammates when they
have got the on the Falcons.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Child feels so bad it's sane the whole time.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
He ate.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Stressed, stressed out. Okay, then I had all them kids?
Speaker 1 (15:31):
Did he give a because she had a few already,
she had two girls, and then they had.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
And some others. I don't know, but.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Our reality starts being pushed too far by producers in
the name of big TV. Well, yeah, I think so.
There's definitely a huge influence. They're definitely feeding a certain tibens,
especially the black women's shows. They be pitting us against
each other. They always want somebody arguing and fighting. We
(16:07):
can't never just have no cute kumbay y'all moments. It
always gotta be something, some drama. No y'all don't agree. No,
I'm like, I'm just I agree with you. I'm just
I'm over here shaking my head.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Yeah. I think it's always they always pushing, you.
Speaker 1 (16:33):
Know, a narrative, that narrative, Yeah, yeah, putting it. We
do have when we do have good positive shows, it's like, oh,
they boring, they ain't doing nothing.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
They enough to.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
It's always gonna be something. It's it's it's space for
all of it out there. The people who are saying
it's boring is born. It's some people out there who
like it, they just ain't writing it.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
You know.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
It's always the haters who got the most to say
yeah that's right, very very loud. But the people who
actually wrong, they like it, just ain't on here, Like
I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
They be devoted into these oh my goodness.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
So yeah, look, so put some man on Twitter and
you being you try to take a million dollars blop block.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I'm like, do you really think goose press state? Dude? Like,
do you really this? They do things? Yes, they do things.
I was like, this is crazy, you wan't funny? You
want that? Do you really think? Like me? For real?
Speaker 1 (17:46):
I feel like reality TV has just definitely put people
on this invisible pedestal and then we see and then
we're influenced by it. So whatever it is, like, I mean,
look at Kim Kardashian, the Kardashians and in general, they've
been doing this for what twenty years or something, I
don't even know anymore. So it's like a long, long,
(18:07):
long long time of like, Okay, it's reality TV, y'all
want to tune in, and from tuning in, there are
other platforms that are you know, that can happen. So
people are just doing whatever now so they can stay
relevant unfortunately and not thinking of long term consequences. Yeah,
(18:28):
but I do think there's a space for shows where
we can show black women doing positive things, for sure.
But they got to give us a chance to show it,
you know what I mean. I was hoped they could
show it. Well, you never know, we have some hidden
scenes that you need to pop back out, you know,
(18:51):
never know, you never know what, never know.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Real Yeah, never know, never know, y'all. Oh, yes, I'm
over here. Just what.
Speaker 1 (19:08):
So do you think shows like this are having a
harm in Black women's reputation in the media?
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Wait? What, I think it's harming?
Speaker 1 (19:18):
It is it harming or you said harming or helping? Right?
Helping or harming Black women's representation in the media. I
think people are sick of seeing the same thing over
and over. Like I think people are like the angry
black women women can't get along. It's always some drama,
(19:42):
you know. I think that that is entertaining, you know
what I mean, There is a lane for that, like Zeus,
you know, that whole network it's working for them, Like
it isn't You're right, So I think, you know, there
is a space for that, But I think people want
something else they want to see, like the positive they
want to see it. So I don't think that it's
(20:04):
like harming because I just think they need to make
space for us to show that part, you know what
I mean? And I hope people realize, like even from
watching our own show, Like I hope y'all don't think,
like every day like that's just what we out here doing,
because like y'all see us on our social media, y'all
(20:24):
see us being mothers, y'all see us being wived, y'all
get being business women. You know, y'all see us doing
real life. So don't think that just what you saw
on these little episodes, you know, is our whole that
represents our whole.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Entire life right right right, doesn't you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (20:41):
It's just this is what they chose to show because
obviously this is what's selling right now. And I think
that people who think that that's our life that can
seem like it's harming our reputation or whatever. But in
real life, you know, we got a lot going on.
We got to a lot of layers to us, A lot,
(21:02):
a lot going on. Yeah, okay, y'all. Now we have
a new segment where we take questions from our fans
on social media. We've opened our dms for all of
you to send us questions and message us. So we're
pulling three out and answering them live. So Ashley's gonna
(21:26):
take over this one, all right, shall ready for the
first one?
Speaker 2 (21:30):
Sure? Okay?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
The first one is you're dating someone with no social media?
Is that a red flag or a green flag? No
social media? Green flag? Lex I would say a green
flag because they don't have social media. He said, what
(21:55):
I would prefer to date someone who doesn't have social media? Okay,
why because I.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Feel like it creates less drama.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
People are not in your business as much, especially being
that you know a public figure.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
It's like they don't have nothing to dig up because most.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
People go to social media to entertain or pool try
to pool drama out of you. So yeah, yeah, with
not being incognito on not on social media, it's just.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
It's amazing. Yeah. I like that too. I agree with you, Cherrelle.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
I don't mind if someone's like running your social media
or something you have to do it for marketing for
fans or whatever the case may be. But I prefer
someone that is not on there like that, And I
honestly like my next situation it will not be on blasts.
You know, it's very much that, and I don't I
wouldn't want them to do it either. I feel like
(22:59):
it would be very very much private, just so we
can keep it wholesome in our own way. So I
just think it can be a double ledged sword with
social media in general. So if that's something that you know,
it's starting to affect the relationship, then I don't want it.
So I think it's a green flag if they don't
have social media. But we're very social y'all on social media,
(23:20):
you know what I mean. First time y'all gave some
green flags, I really think. So okay, yeah, m all right,
next yeah, yeah, because it can be discribed. Yeah, okay,
next question. You catch your partner texting their ex, but
they say it was just closure. What's your next moves?
(23:48):
We should have had that closure in this relationship. That's
a ran flag. We could talk about it's brand.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
You said, a red flag. Yeah, yeah, the.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
Closure should have been closed before you came into this relationship. Yeah,
why jump into a newer with the expers closure exactly
which I have. Yeah, unless y'all have kids, talking about
y'all kids.
Speaker 2 (24:19):
That's why I said these baby, these people be jumping
in before y'all we've grown.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
This is not you know what they want to quote,
They want agree, they.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
They want to make sure them legs one closed. This
ain't this ain't no soap operas.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
I mean, I just feel like if we all talk
about it, and what do you need to like? You
need like what is closure? Like you're saying, well, it
was nice knowing you, and it was nice being with.
Speaker 2 (24:55):
What when you? I believe in and power is and
silence myself.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
So if you gotta feel if I caught you, yeah,
I mean, if I caught you, I think it's again
we're very grown. But if I caught you text in
your ex what are we talking about? Let me see
and if you feel some kind of way about that,
then now we have an issue.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
So it's a red flag. Yeah, I don't like your
red flag. Okay, Next we sneaky. What's each of your
love languages? All of them? You know they're really trying
to get to know y'all all of them, two of
them all. I love it. Love languages are physical touch, yeah,
(25:40):
I like that. I like that, acts of kindness I
like that too. I like that too, and words of affirmation, mation.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
My other love languages are like see me, talk to me,
very much, like let observe me. You know, look, yeah,
quality time, time spent. I feel like time is so
precious and the most valuable things. So if you're spending
time and you understand, like, oh, she likes to go,
we like to go eat together or something, what is
(26:12):
my favorite meal?
Speaker 2 (26:12):
If you know what gets me excited?
Speaker 1 (26:14):
Or like museums, just being observant and really tapping into
who I am.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
That's my love language.
Speaker 1 (26:21):
Those Okay, okay, I would say I'm all a little
bit of everything and sometimes some things more than others.
You know, it just depends on how you feeling that day,
exact right, right.
Speaker 2 (26:35):
Because mine has changed.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Mine's changed, like it wasn't necessarily affection. Now it is
like I want to be touched. I want to be
you know, rubbed on, I want to be kissed on.
So before it used to not be like that, So
mine have changed over time too. Yeah, Okay, Well hopefully
(26:58):
then the people is paying attention because that's a very.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
Personal. It was personal. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (27:08):
Okay, last, but not least, well, this is the last
in the least. I don't know anyway, what's the biggest
dick someone can give on a first date.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
M hm yeah, that's that. To me, it would be
name dropping. Oh yeah, that's to call that too.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
I don't like that, you know, like you you talking
too much. I'm like, oh yeah, man, that's the impressed
me and bragging or you know, yeah, we were just
at such and such as such as house.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I'm like, so you got it.
Speaker 1 (27:50):
You know, you don't know how to be in the moment,
you know what I mean. So I don't know if
I can bring you around some of my people either.
So it's name dropped for me. Yeah, that's true. That's
a good Yeah, good, both of those those are Yeah.
I would say the bragging too, that would be a
big ache for me. Yeah. Yeah, that's okay. Well, thank
(28:14):
y'all so much for sending in those questions. Y'all d
ms with more questions.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
And we would love to answer them. Well, we got next, we.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Got we got get off your knees this or should
you huh?
Speaker 2 (28:32):
Okay, we will talk. We're going to talk about it.
Get off your knees this or should you? Because social
media is in shambles right now.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
We're seeing more and more women dropping down on one knee,
break in hand, ready to wipe. Okay, I want to
I want to right the person runing out the butter.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
But it's looking le is always in the gott listen.
The ladies are on their knee proposing.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Some of these proposals are looking at like fairy tales, roses,
fire works and the whole name.
Speaker 2 (29:12):
But we got to ask the real question.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Is it giving empower women or is it given desperate
and tired of waiting? Yeah, the last one, I don't
like it. I'm yeah, being strong and doing what men do?
You know what I'm saying, I'm here for that. But
(29:35):
men are men for a reason and women are went
for a reason. Like and you know, I just feel like, no, no,
why that's embarrassing. There's no like if you, if you're man,
want to be married and he don't propose to you,
(29:56):
don't you don't want to be married, you don't want
to marry you. The last one I saw, the man
was crying and the woman was on her knees. Yeah, no,
I'm not doing that. We're gonna we're gonna have a
definitely having a conversation.
Speaker 2 (30:13):
Did he do this? Did we definitely have a conversation.
I'm not that's crazy. That's what I seen.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
The eventuals is to see it's not it's not even right.
It's not even right, y'all. Oh my god, I don't know.
That's horrible.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
He was like, said, you're taking too long. Let me
go ahead. He might meet now even on the knees
is crazy too. Yeah, I don't know, y'all, it's not
for me. You know who started it? Christy lambkin Ain't
that her names from Loving hip Hop?
Speaker 1 (30:49):
Oh oh?
Speaker 2 (30:50):
She jo bidden Chris Christy, Chris what's her name?
Speaker 1 (30:56):
Who was it? Chrissie Christy, pretty Christy? She did it
on Love and hip Hop did that on the show.
I feel like that's what got the girls going.
Speaker 2 (31:07):
They was like, Okay, no, that ain't that's that's embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
I'm traditional. I want to look down for him. He
was a writer, like she loved that man.
Speaker 2 (31:21):
You know what I mean? Yeah, I don't care how
much I'll love you.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
I'm not getting down on one knee and proposing to
you and your big ass standing up there with your
like this crying somebody.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
I will be like babing it up. Yeah, gut me,
yeah I can't.
Speaker 1 (31:39):
You know. I just feel like if here a man
don't propose to you, he don't want you, he don't
want to marry you, he don't want to be married.
If he don't do it, it's not that deep. Like
if you want to be with a lady, y'all both
want to be married, why would you not do it?
Why would you want her to do it? That don't
even make no sense.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, that's yeah. Yeah, and one brush somebody into something
they're not ready for.
Speaker 1 (32:01):
Yeah, I wouldn't want to rush my mate. Either you
want something or that record, I want it. And then
you got a big crowd out there. You got a
big crowd surrounding you. You know this man ain't going
to say no in front of this whole Like that's
just it's just embarrassing all around.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
And why the crowd, I don't know abow to get
hot ass. So like the woman asked the the man
daddy for his hand in marriage, do they do that?
Speaker 1 (32:28):
I was thinking that too, because because I feel like
that's even changed you over time.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
People don't do that no more. I mean, I don't know.
Daddy on TV, actually my dad, he's he had a
better but what had never happened? Period? But that's what
I was supposed to be.
Speaker 1 (32:50):
Like, there's traditions and stuff for I don't want to
and you don't want to rush it like things are
supposed to Traditions.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
Are there for a reason.
Speaker 1 (33:02):
So when we started changing stuff around, it really throws
stuff out of whack. Like a lady is not supposed
to be on her knee asking a man to marry
like that.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
Don't make no sense. It's given. What's on Friday? What's
her name? Felicia?
Speaker 1 (33:20):
No, not.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
What's the next Friday?
Speaker 1 (33:23):
They becausin Nayday was staying the girl and the girl cousin,
the big heavy set girl.
Speaker 2 (33:30):
She run the car with Day. They she remember that scene,
not off the top of my head. Heavy was it
big d or heavy heavy? I don't know, No, I
don't know. That's what it's given. She's like, I'm gonna
(33:53):
go get this man, lock him down. I don't want it.
I feel like that energy of just starting off a
marriage is a little painted, you know.
Speaker 1 (34:01):
I feel like, what's that old saying, what's that saying
you rather have a single man that wants to be
married than I'm a married man that wants to be
single something like that, So why rush if they're not
ready for that? You know, it should be a conversation.
It should be very much like, Okay, we're gonna do this,
like let's do it, and then when it happens, it happens,
you know. I But I feel like, you know, it's
(34:24):
to my patience too, like we're getting the patience. So
the ladies are dropping down to their knees, and that's crazy.
The visuals out outrageous for me because just even the
man shouldn't want to even look down want to be
the ladies.
Speaker 2 (34:40):
The ladies want to be the man, like for changing.
I don't like that person.
Speaker 1 (34:46):
I don't like I'm very traditional when it comes to
stuff like this. Yeah, I definitely I don't believe in that.
I don't think it should happen like a woman should
be a woman and wait for that man.
Speaker 2 (34:59):
Yeah, yeah, I agree. I'm I'm not saying wait for
get your grown behind up. The visual is is really
throwing me off right now because I have it I'm just.
Speaker 1 (35:17):
Because he's probably like I said, yes, yeah, it's not
like just not giving Yeah, oh my goodness. Well hopefully
people slow down on that.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
I don't know well and look.
Speaker 1 (35:35):
And they happen in and if your homegirl pa posts
her man, are you cheering her own? Or texting the
group check chat? Like sis, no group chat?
Speaker 2 (35:46):
I actually texting her. I'm gonna pull up. Don't do that.
I'm sing in the middle of the whatever proposal there is,
and stop it. Yeah, don't do that, don't do that.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
It's don't let us sure, Yeah, it's not a good.
Speaker 2 (36:06):
It's it's not a good. I will try to talk
about the leger and like, nah, let's not do it.
Let's let's not do it, and the group chat will
definitely be lit because we're like, y y'all need the process, Yes,
we gotta. That's what I'm saying. What y'all mama said
about this, what your daddy said, Well, how did you
(36:28):
get to this?
Speaker 1 (36:29):
But you know, like, what is the thought I would
love to talk to the lady who proposed to her
husband because what was the thought process to lead you?
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Like I think that it was okay to even the
thought of it yeah, I think of this. I think
it's more of an impatient thing like he just taken
too of let me do it now.
Speaker 1 (36:58):
No, now that's that I'm were rather pressing you, baby,
Are we getting going on? That's different pressure you. Then
me take my behind to a stoor, go get a
ring and drop down on one day and my big
behind proposal to your big behind. No, I would just
skipped the proposal and just wearing my own little ring
and be like we engage. That's different, like the conversation,
(37:25):
Like look the prof circumstance we engage, we did real band,
go to the courthouse, not this out real quick.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
That's what y'all do.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
Tell us, what would y'all do if if we want
to hear from the humble humble Daddyes, would y'all We're
gonna be written from from y'all. Woman, if if she
dropped down on one day and proposed for the whole ceremony,
we need to hear from the guys.
Speaker 2 (37:58):
Yeah, I want to know. I'm curious.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
I'm better be vocal like y'all vocal about everything else
we'll be talking about on this hymn. I'm hearing from
the guys, and I want to hear if anybody in
the chat a female has proposed and how did that?
Will humble baddies ain't none that our humble batties and
this chat proposed they got they got common sense over here.
(38:21):
I know that's right, all right, y'all? Until then, what
we got today? We got some humble baddy's mail? We
do I have the humble baddy's mail, y'all?
Speaker 2 (38:34):
All right? You ready? Yeah? Okay? This is from Amber
and Loisville, Kentucky.
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Okay, Amber, Hey, Amber, Okay, baddies buckle up.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
Ah man, you know when it starts like that, so
buncle up.
Speaker 1 (38:50):
Yeah, this must be because this situation is wild capital
w I l D.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
All right, he's being married.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
Oh, she's been married, so maybe she's talking about somebody else.
Speaker 2 (39:03):
Okay, she's been.
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Married for three years, and like any modern couple, she
and her husband agreed to go fifty to fifty on everything,
including rent.
Speaker 2 (39:13):
For years, she's been faithfully handling over half of over.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Her half of their three thousand dollars of rent each
mount so fifteen hundred straight to him, assuming he was
sending into the landlord.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
But here's where it gets messy. While chatting with the neighbor.
Speaker 1 (39:31):
She casually found something, found out something that made her
stomach drop. The apartment she's been living in is owned
by her husband's mother, yep, his mom. Turns out the husband.
Speaker 2 (39:45):
Had been living there before they got married and his
mom was the landlord.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
So for three years, our girls, fifteen hundred dollars has
been going directly to her husband and his mama without
her knowledge. That's fifty four thousand dollars knowingly paid them,
And now she's left questioning everything. Is this financial manipulation
a betrayal of trust? Was she scammed by her own
husband or was this just a shady omission. She moved
(40:13):
out and hasn't spoken to him in two weeks. But
here's her question to the batties. What would you do
if you found out your husband has been secretly pocketing
your rent money for.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
Years with his mom in on it.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
Would you call it a rap, demand the money back,
try to talk it out, or is this a major
betrayal that can't be undone?
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Ladies, what do y'all think it?
Speaker 1 (40:39):
Was?
Speaker 2 (40:39):
Getting scammed? God leam Sam, My own husband is crazy?
That is crazy.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
Yeah, I won't even think I would have allowed myself
to get in that situation because I'm very I felt
like a detective FBI. I would have known something was up,
pulling some records something. M hm, oh that's a tough situation.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
Yeah, I'm like, m it's like, dam.
Speaker 1 (41:10):
Well, yeah. I think first she probably went wrong by
not knowing who owned the house that you're living in
show Hus but she was trusting him to pay the rent,
and the rent been put all this time, so she's like,
here's my holan where you live.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
And you don't know who owned the house. I don't
know who named the house because something A lot of
times I do.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
I'll go on public search records and see what's around,
see who own what around, and of course it shows
the names of everything, so that's it's not hard to
find out this information first of all.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
So that was the first part where she went wrong.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
So I mean, but now we're in it, so right, Okay,
this would be some trust issues for me. We would
have to go to counseling. Like I'm not saying like
leave him. I think this is something we would definitely
have to go to therapy about. I think we would
have to really like lay out all our finances. I
(42:12):
want to know where are all the money at?
Speaker 2 (42:14):
You know, where's everything?
Speaker 1 (42:15):
Got to be shown exactly exact what he said. The
mom own it, but but they've both been popunent. The
mom owned the house.
Speaker 2 (42:24):
The mom owned the house. Well, maybe maybe it is.
Speaker 1 (42:27):
Maybe he has to pay the mom the full amount
of money and they're splentding fifty to fifty.
Speaker 2 (42:34):
Either way, she don't know about it. She didn't know.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Yeah, his financial abuse is real, and so is financial manipulation.
Speaker 2 (42:42):
Yeah, but whatever this situation is, we got to go
to therapy. I don't trust you no more? Right, how
something else exactly definitely a notion? Yeah, he what else?
Are you hot? In correct?
Speaker 1 (42:59):
And that's a nice chunk too, And hey, you know
this is my mom's house. We displated fifty to fifty? Yeah,
finding it so it's like why are you and we're married? Yeah,
but then I'm gonna I wouldn't follow it a rap.
I would try to get to the bottom of it
(43:21):
with help. And if I felt like it was a
salvageable situation where we could work through it, I would
definitely do that.
Speaker 2 (43:31):
But that's crazy. But we have to be smart and
also know like resources, Yeah, you got to communicate that
for sure.
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Now that's heartbreaking to here and to really to like
come to grips of like you like here, I'm giving this,
see you and then he like your mama handle this.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
But it has to be conversation.
Speaker 1 (43:53):
I agree with you, Ashley, definitely going to therapy and
really hashing everything out, you know, just like, look, what
else is going on? We need to have this conversation
because it's definitely she didn't know and that's a lot
of money. That's a lot of money that she did
not know about that she's assuming is taking care of
the household. That they're laying their heads down next to
(44:14):
each other and you know, in the bed, So what
else is going on?
Speaker 2 (44:20):
So Amber, lets your friend though you know this is
not good. But we we say, don't we say Savage
the marriage?
Speaker 1 (44:28):
Right?
Speaker 2 (44:29):
We agree on that.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
Yeah, Savage and Mary, Yeah, always try.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (44:34):
I feel like you can give up because of maybe
it's something that he's embarrassed, he was embarrassed to speak
on but talk about it and yeah that's not a
good I like therapy. Leased to go see and if
you can't get packed to my money to be in
on the therapy too though.
Speaker 2 (44:51):
Because no, the moment, the MoMA ain't got nothing to
do with it. Now, the MoMA ain't got nothing to
do with it, but the mama. No, the mama is
a business I ain't in y'all marriage. I ain't married
this woman and name married to you. This is my house.
Speaker 1 (45:09):
I need y'all to pay me because at the end
of the day I still have to pay taxes every
other The mama is a business woman.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
So alone does she even know? We don't know if
she they had this conversation.
Speaker 1 (45:19):
Y'all figure it out, y'all have my money money before
the snip are just no, oh no. Every time I
see her now and now that husband he his maham.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
Whoop now why yeah, because he's definitely not letting them
be known.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
He could have one hundred percent Yo, my mama cutting
us a deal whatever whatever we got to pay it back.
I don't know whatever the case, man be. It should
definitely have been a conversation with your whole husband.
Speaker 2 (45:51):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
Yep they splitting everything else? Yeah, yep, yep. Okay, Well, ldies,
that was our humble batty's mail. If y'all have any
more questions, We thank y'all for submitting. Y'all have anything
y'all want to submit to us. Y'all want the real down,
dirty truth. Y'all email us at contact at Humblebatties dot
(46:15):
com and we may feature you're subficion And til next time,
we will see y'all Wednesday. Wednesday, it'll be Ashley will
be traveling in the air, so it'll be Alexis and
I online.
Speaker 2 (46:28):
We'll be holding it down for you as y'all.
Speaker 1 (46:32):
Y'all next week. Thank you guys fortunity. They make sure
you follow and subscribe to us at Humble Batties Podcast.
To your cousin, tell your auntie, tell you side, check
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Speaker 2 (46:51):
Yes an amazing lady. Good night and now y'all
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